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Speaker 1: So she sent us an urgent email asking for help.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna hear why and your awkward Tuesday phone call? Next?

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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. You ever have someone from

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Speaker 1: a giant ZiT right before your wedding day? And now

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Speaker 1: you got a dilemma where it's like, do I just

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Speaker 3: On you you're not supposed to be probably are going

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Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners is dealing with that issue

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Speaker 1: where somebody from her past has suddenly resurfaced in her life,

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Speaker 2: Jose is the only one that likes that stuff.

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Speaker 1: The only analogy I could think of. But let's talk

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Speaker 1: to Amanda about it. Amanda, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thanks so much for having me. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Can't wait to hear who the pus filled person is.

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Speaker 1: We're like, yeah, we'll try to help you. Tell us

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Speaker 4: So I dated this guy a while back, but we've

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Speaker 1: She's asking if you're dating your ex boy friend now, she.

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Speaker 3: Said, if I had dated this guy, she's asking it

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Speaker 5: Okay, so maybe she's doing some research or something, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, right, which I mean it's weird, but I had

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Speaker 5: Is that the one sentence response she said, because that's awkward.

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Speaker 4: And that's kind of where I thought I would stop.

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Speaker 4: But she starts asking me all of these personal questions

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Speaker 5: Like, oh, like personal stuff, not like questions about you

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Speaker 4: Exactly, huh, Which I don't know that. I don't know

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Speaker 5: Maybe she's just a really bad stalker, like too upfront

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Speaker 2: Save me the time from scrolling and just tell me now.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to find out this information one way or

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Speaker 4: Well, she tells me that he still had my picture

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Speaker 1: Oh? God, he still has your photo? When did you

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Speaker 4: So I went down there. She's already sitting down having

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Speaker 1: Yes, So I'm curious what made you email the show

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Speaker 4: Well, at this point, I feel like I just need

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is so.

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Speaker 1: Awkward, extremely awkward. Oh, which makes me happy for the

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Speaker 5: She could possibly get her feelings hurt, and you don't

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Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call to your ex boyfriend's new girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: A premature on that, but tell her I don't want

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Speaker 1: Hold on. It's awkward. It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: It's one thing to have to tell your ex boyfriend, hey,

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Speaker 1: It's a whole nother situation to tell your ex boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: That's what brought our listener Amanda to the show today

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Speaker 6: So you don't sound so harsh like what we think

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Speaker 6: No one should be friends with the person dating their ex,

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Speaker 4: So you don't.

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Speaker 2: It could seem like she's not over the X.

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Speaker 1: Then well he's saying, like, don't do with the X

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you need to say that you've got a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's really rich.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he totally sucks what I'm dating on.

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Speaker 1: What do you think of that, Amanda?

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Speaker 1: Just because you're not trying to crush her with this message.

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Speaker 1: You're just trying to politely back away from any interaction

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Speaker 2: Men some boundaries.

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Speaker 1: Boundaries are a good word. Maybe you can throw that

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Speaker 1: in there. But I'm a to dial this other woman.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Courtney. You said, mm.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm, you're so nervous.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Yeah, We're gonna be waiting to jump in

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Speaker 1: But this is all you. Good luck, don't remember right

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey Courtney, this is Amanda, Amanda Sean's ex.

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Speaker 3: Oh hey girl, I was going to text you later.

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Speaker 3: That's so funny.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, what's up? What what's going on? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I think you're actually like really cool and like

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Speaker 4: You want what? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, like sometimes that night, like will

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Speaker 4: No, it's it's not that, And I don't want to

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: No, not at all.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying this.

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Speaker 3: You're still in love with him. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 3: I mean to be like, you want to keep being

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Speaker 1: Up with him?

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Speaker 2: Courtney? Hello?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Who is this hey?

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Speaker 1: Courtney? Uh, there's actually a whole bunch.

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Speaker 5: Of you who's this Okay, Hi, Courtney, hold on and

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Speaker 1: There's a whole radio show that's on this phone call

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Speaker 1: What why why boyfriend?

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Speaker 5: Nobody wants to date your boyfriend except for you, Courtney.

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Speaker 1: We were helping. We all support your relationship with Sean.

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Speaker 1: Amanda included this is something called an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: I don't an awkward What does that even mean?

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Speaker 1: If Amanda reached out to our show because she was

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Speaker 3: My god, why couldn't we know we're like friends? She

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Speaker 5: Well, I think, Courtney, I think there's some boundaries that

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Speaker 2: To listen to Amanda a little bit.

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Speaker 3: On the only boundaries being cross is from Amanda trying

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Speaker 1: Amanda talked to Courtney and explain the situation. Just just

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Speaker 4: Her, courtey.

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Speaker 7: I just it's been years since Shawn and I were together.

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Speaker 7: I just don't have any interest in revisiting this part

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Speaker 2: Whatever you say, are you not listening to her?

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Speaker 3: Court He's saying, She's it doesn't matter because it's not real.

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Speaker 4: What Look at this point, it's shocking to me that

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to be friends with you anymore,

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Speaker 3: so I'll tell you that right now, because I don't

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, Courtney, she's got your best interest in mind. Like

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Speaker 2: Ex girlfriend to you. If she wanted she could get them.

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Speaker 2: That is not healthy.

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Speaker 3: It's research.

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Speaker 2: No, No, do not become Courtney. Be yourself and whoever

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Speaker 1: You were saying to her earlier, Courtney that you think

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Speaker 1: But he must like you if he's dating you right now.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to change yourself.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about all this and what we should be

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Speaker 5: If we're going to go that route, Amanda, you stay

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Speaker 2: Talk to her. You you terrible woman. You know what?

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Speaker 4: That's fine with me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're willing to break off all communication with Sean

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Speaker 1: what you've already done, but you're gonna keep doing that. Yeah, okay, Courtney,

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Speaker 3: Stay away from him, but we can still.

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Speaker 5: Be friend No, Nony, there's no friendship between you and

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Speaker 5: Shawn's X.

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Speaker 1: It's just ye.

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Speaker 2: Cut the cord here.

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Speaker 3: You're not in charge of my friendship with Amanda. Are

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, just let people live. Girl, Amanda,

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Speaker 4: Triedok Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but there's some people

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some might call them crazy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Say that.

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Speaker 2: Some people know if.

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Speaker 1: You say some people Okay, I like it for Courtney

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I mean Alexis. This is some Love Islands

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it gets much crazier than this.

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Speaker 5: If anything, it sounds like Amanda's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're probably for each other.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe it got there, And I'm not trying

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Speaker 2: You are, aren't you?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 1: I knew it's snaky snakes listening to us not subscribing.

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Speaker 4: I hate you.

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Speaker 2: Whoa go that far.

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Speaker 1: Unless you unless you hit subscribe is calling people crazy.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't me, I said some people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some people aren't a fan of our listeners, just

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Speaker 1: some of us, just some people. Anyway, we do like you.

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