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Speaker 1: Get your hairs together, and we're going to start to party.

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Speaker 2: In the start, I'm reading a party, the Elvis Duran

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Speaker 2: after Party.

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Speaker 3: Let's do a podcast. Wow, such excitement. Scotty V is here,

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Speaker 3: there's Gandhi, there's Danielle, there's Scotty, there's Straight eight, it's

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Speaker 3: Gary around. I don't know where we went. We just

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Speaker 3: we just started. Well I didn't no one knew we

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Speaker 3: were doing a podcast. It's it's like a top secret podcast.

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Speaker 3: It just snuck up on us podcast. Can I ask

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Speaker 3: a question church one of us? Do you think we'd

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Speaker 3: be best in an emergency situation?

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Speaker 4: Not scary?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I'm not sure.

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Speaker 3: I think Gandhi would be.

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Speaker 5: But Gandhi and Elvis, you, I've seen you in stressful situations.

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Speaker 5: You really kind of kind of calm down.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, Gandhi, Gandhi could use logic. No, I

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Speaker 3: just I to get through it. One of those things.

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Speaker 2: If I've learned anything, it's that panic never helps a situation.

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Speaker 2: There's never been a situation in the history of the

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Speaker 2: world where panicking made it better. So I just try

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Speaker 2: to stay calm, that's all.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 3: Totake my panic for me talking loudly and with conviction.

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Speaker 3: You pushed me into a.

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Speaker 4: Wall with your panic one day.

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Speaker 3: But it's calculated panic. It's not that that is.

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Speaker 1: I'm not smiling, I'm not spiraling out of control, but scary,

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Speaker 1: I'm scary, scary.

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Speaker 3: We're not stupid. Calculated you do panic. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've seen myself in situations where I was actually actually

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Speaker 3: kind of proud of how I handle them after the fact,

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Speaker 3: but I mean much worse than you've ever seen here.

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Speaker 3: So you know, we had a we had a day

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Speaker 3: several you're ago called nine to eleven, and we could

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Speaker 3: have easily panicked that day, and we held it together

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Speaker 3: really well that well that day scary. I don't even

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Speaker 3: know what happened. He just he left. There's uh.

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Speaker 5: Scream. In a certain show I'm watching, there is a

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Speaker 5: very panicky kind of moment. I'm trying to not get

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Speaker 5: spoilers here.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 5: I know it's the Pit, but there is there's a

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Speaker 5: lot of different characters, and there is one character that

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Speaker 5: in this panicky moment, he was annoyingly calm, right to

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Speaker 5: the point where on the message boards and all of

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Speaker 5: the comments online where there's always that one annoyingly calm

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Speaker 5: person at work. We're in a very stressful situation. You

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Speaker 5: want to look at it and say, how are you

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Speaker 5: so calm? What do you have it in you that

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Speaker 5: you're able to be calm at this particular moment.

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Speaker 3: Well, I see when I see people that exhibit that

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Speaker 3: level of calm, I sometimes think it's they're being rude.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't mean they're being more calm than usual just

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Speaker 3: to prove that they can be calm.

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Speaker 5: And I think because in this this particular character, you're

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Speaker 5: watching it like he's kind of a dick, but then

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Speaker 5: you realize in the comments from other people that there

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Speaker 5: are I guess it does come across that way.

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Speaker 1: So what you're saying is that the more panicky you are,

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Speaker 1: the more you care. I don't think that's what you think,

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Speaker 1: But the inverse has to be has to be true.

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Speaker 3: That's not how if you if you really care a lot,

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Speaker 3: then you will be calm because you want to keep

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Speaker 3: the people around you calm, And that's caring about others

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Speaker 3: and being empathetic.

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Speaker 2: And not pushing small women into walls.

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Speaker 4: Well, thank you for calling me small.

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Speaker 2: You are.

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Speaker 5: The equivalent is like, okay, You're in a crowded theater

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Speaker 5: and you shot fire right, and you're like, okay, everybody,

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Speaker 5: let's just calm and go to the exits fire children.

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Speaker 4: It is good to have one, at least one person

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Speaker 4: who can keep their head in a situation like yes,

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Speaker 4: you know, sure if everybody is like all over the

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Speaker 4: we're in trouble.

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Speaker 2: I want to say Nate would be pretty good because

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Speaker 2: he was an EMT, so he's got some knowledge. He

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Speaker 2: just wanted to be able to hear anything that was happening,

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Speaker 2: so he wouldn't know to panic because he's deaf.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's weird. I'm good.

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Speaker 6: I'm good at emergencies, but not in stressful situation.

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Speaker 2: Wait, if there was blood.

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Speaker 4: Way, if there was blood we could not count on

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Speaker 4: that's not true.

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Speaker 6: I can handle it if it depends on what like

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Speaker 6: my kids, no problem. Like I I pulled up on

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Speaker 6: a guy who flipped over his handlebars on the bicycle.

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Speaker 6: I was bleeding from his ear and I was able

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Speaker 6: to stay with him and call people. Oh, so I

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Speaker 6: think if the situation presents itself to me, I can

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Speaker 6: handle it, but not a stressful one, which is different

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Speaker 6: to me, like getting to the airport on time. Oh,

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Speaker 6: I go, I go bananas.

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Speaker 3: That's a big one.

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Speaker 6: It's the worst for me. Like I'm sweating thinking about that.

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Speaker 2: Does that happen to dad's as soon as they turn

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Speaker 2: forty five? Because I don't know a dad on the

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Speaker 2: planet who can calmly get to the airport in any way.

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Speaker 2: My dad has to be at the airport like five

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Speaker 2: hours before any Yeah, because you never know what's gonna

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Speaker 2: What do you mean you never know it's gonnappen? You play,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna suddenly leave early. What are you doing?

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Speaker 6: The security line could be massive five hours?

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, so I mean you are the Connie cautious

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Speaker 3: of the room.

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Speaker 6: Yeah you do?

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Speaker 5: You do?

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Speaker 3: Like, well, you can't go out and have it fun

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Speaker 3: tomorrow it may rain. There's a chance of rain if guy,

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Speaker 3: what if? Well that's no fun. No, it's not.

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Speaker 6: But just the way I live, Okay, this could happen.

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Speaker 3: So let's let's get back to Panicky's carry from what

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Speaker 3: I do remember that day that he shoved Dan yelling, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was my fault.

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Speaker 4: And it was because of like dead air or something.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't even like a major like nobody fainted. Nobody

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Speaker 4: was dying. It major here, I know, but it wasn't

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Speaker 4: like life or death.

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Speaker 2: It's not physical assault, right.

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Speaker 4: People worthy exactly.

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Speaker 3: Dead air is dead air, and it's physical assault.

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Speaker 2: Dead air is dead body.

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Speaker 1: It's fine, right, No, that's important, And we drilled into

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Speaker 1: my head from day one. I've been he had thirty

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Speaker 1: years and there's nothing worse, I know, going the air.

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Speaker 3: But going to fix the problem versus pushing someone out

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Speaker 3: of your way with no regard their bones or bruising possibility.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm a little I'm a little anxious right now

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, you know, Garrett's chair over here

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Speaker 1: is empty, and I was like the podcast Garrett, like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but that for whatever reason, that's that.

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Speaker 3: That's what goes through my head. My favorite, my favorite

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Speaker 3: thing to remember is in any situation, what is the

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Speaker 3: worst that can happen? Yes, what is the worst, the

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Speaker 3: very worst that can happen? I probably should think about that.

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Speaker 3: It's not here to do the podcast, Okay, Well he'll

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Speaker 3: be on the next one.

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Speaker 4: Well you can do his text him and say hey, Garrett,

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Speaker 4: we're starting, and that's it.

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Speaker 3: I should have done that too late, but you're right.

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Speaker 3: He just scary, just did it when there is in it.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't even say an emergency, a situation where something

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Speaker 5: needs to be attended to in a expeditious man.

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Speaker 3: He just listen ahead, darksome from left to right. But

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Speaker 3: his arms suddenly. For you, his arms never moved. It's

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Speaker 3: just his whole body. It's it's weird.

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Speaker 4: It's like Darren Chris on the Broadway shows a robot.

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Speaker 3: And there are other times where he just closes his

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Speaker 3: eyes and disappears. So I don't know for you, you

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Speaker 3: are a man of extremes that you are all right. Well, look,

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Speaker 3: I'm glad we could have this little uh get together,

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Speaker 3: a little time to hang out and talk about panicking

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Speaker 3: and being calm. Ye are we all calm? Now? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Everyone saying goodbye, calmly, say goodbye bye.

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Speaker 4: F The Elvis ter Ran after party