1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: This is Teddy Tea Pod with Teddy Mill and Cab Hi. Guys, 2 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: welcome to this week's Teddy Tea Pod. How fun is 3 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: it that we have a hotline now? I am obsessed. 4 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: I love talking to you guys in the moment. It's amazing. 5 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: This week joining us is Real Housewives of Beverly Hills 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: newbie Crystal, Come minkoff. She's going to be answering all 7 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: of our tough questions and we are so excited to 8 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: have her on. We're just gonna get right into it, guys. 9 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: So this is Crystal, and of course she gets on 10 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: and has to be like riding my ass already, Like 11 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: I can't believe. I can't believe you guys scheduled this 12 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: right now. Blah blah blah. Crystal and I are hosting 13 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: a baby shower later on today, and I took the 14 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: easy job. I was like, I'll be in charge of 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: booze and crystals, Like I'll be in charge of food. 16 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: But I didn't know she was going to be cooking forever. 17 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: Of course overche so literally Megan calls me because our 18 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: mutual bestie. Megan was like, because I'm in charge of 19 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: picking up the food and we're going to cook it 20 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: all for a lot of people. And she was like, okay, 21 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: So how the groceries going. I was like, oh, I 22 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: just I haven't done it yet. I'll make a list. 23 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: She goes one you're gonna get. I was like, I 24 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't know, I'll get the day 25 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: before and she's like, it's today. That was this morning. 26 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: I have no listen, Crystal, I almost fell off the 27 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: couch last night. And you're talking head When you said 28 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: I am so organized, I was like, lies, you're ja 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: b I am organized except sance. You put me into this. 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: It was like, and I honestly, one, Crystal is always 31 00:01:52,400 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: late coming to dance every week. Two well fashionally like it, 32 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: but it's proved to be on time. Well I I 33 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: actually don't because you know, one time I got that 34 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: spanking and I've never been late since. But you do 35 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: bring delicious cocktails real coco. Margarite is like, so it's okay. 36 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: She can be forgiven for being you know, five to 37 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: seven minutes late ever three time. So Crystal. The number 38 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: one question that came in for us was were you 39 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: guys actually friends? Before Crystal joined the show and did 40 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: Teddy refer you to the show No Lies again, the 41 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: Double Lies. Well we um, Yes, I pushed for Crystal 42 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: so hard because I was like, this would be so 43 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: exciting to be on with my friend Da da da 44 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: da da. And then we found mutual friends to pretend 45 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: to host baby showers together and it's it's all you know, 46 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: it's all orchestrated. But no, we met and mommy and 47 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: what was it, Mommy, and I met you at your 48 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: house when you were hosting a baby shower for meg. 49 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so we met. That means it was 50 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: eight years ago. Eight years ago we met, and you're 51 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: at the other house, but it was a long time ago. Yeah, 52 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: it was at the first house. I was the house 53 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: and Mount Olympus. Yeah, so we met there and immediately 54 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: I knew that I loved Crystal because she came in 55 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: and was like dancing and fun, in the life of 56 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: the party and likely late for sure, late and not organized, 57 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: but looked beautiful. Was so much fun. Um, And yeah, 58 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: that's how we met. So Crystal, what advice did I 59 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: give you going into filming? You are you keep things 60 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: close to the nest? You gave me a lot. I 61 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: might have said, no, Um, you. Oh God, what advice 62 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: do you give me? You said be yourself and you 63 00:03:55,760 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: were really sweet. You said people love you, and m 64 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: that is challenging. That looks verience talent. It's hard to 65 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: be yourself in this, you know, And I am because 66 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: like every reaction to have as real because it's it's 67 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 1: truly authentic, you know. But I've never been in front 68 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 1: of a camera, so that environment is brand new, and 69 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: if you've never been in front of it, you can't 70 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: help but feel it, and you do lose yourself at 71 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: some point, but not not fully for me, you know. 72 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: But so I really worked hard internally two make sure 73 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 1: that I was projecting who I you know, I'm saying 74 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: I didn't want to act like a certain way. I 75 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: was like, this is who I am, but I had 76 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: actively do that. But you'd be self, which is really 77 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: important because I think that's the only really way to 78 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: do it, you know. Yeah, I think being yourself. And 79 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: then I remember when I first started it was being 80 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: present because sometimes my mind would like wander and think 81 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: about like, oh no, what's gonna happen here? What does 82 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: this mean? Was that? And then I was like, shoot, 83 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: is everybody talking about I'm lost and so being president 84 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: was like a big thing for me at the beginning. 85 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't like this next one. What if 86 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: you are like shady to me? Uh? What was your 87 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 1: first impression of me? And did we click right away? Oh? 88 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: I like to you, I think you're very but you 89 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: could you could you tell that was not real? So 90 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: you paused? You pause like to read did when she 91 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: said I like you? You know what, you, Teddy are 92 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: a force And I don't know what people really know 93 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: that And when I say force, it's genuinely super positive. 94 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: And you're so you're such a good friend and you 95 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: have such a close group of friend that I love, 96 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: you know, like we are our best friends are mutual 97 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: and um, I think it's I don't think that everyone 98 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 1: gets to see that that you only see of a 99 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: small part of you. Um, but you you are the 100 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: life of the party. Um my god, why do you 101 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: have to be so now? I'm like what you can 102 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:07,799 Speaker 1: cry cry cry, No, I've done my share of crying. 103 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: But you won't see that. And that's the shame of it. 104 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: And so I'm saying it out loud that you really 105 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: are genuinely and um and that's how I really felt 106 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: about you, and you know we've been friends ever since. 107 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: So well, I always have so much fun for you 108 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: and you guys. Crystal is not only like the most 109 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,799 Speaker 1: amazing host. She always comes into every event having fun, 110 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: ready to like take action. Like every time she'll be 111 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: the bartender, she will get her hands dirty, which I love. Like, 112 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: I know you're seeing a side of Crystal that's like 113 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: very like proper, but she's also like the girl that's 114 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: like I got the ice bags and this and that, 115 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: Like you make stuff happen so huge, you know, huge 116 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: shape so much. Yeah, I think that's what's weird. And again, 117 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 1: it's only only two episodes in UM. And when you 118 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: really break it down, I think I've been on camera 119 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: for I don't know, seven minutes, so you know that 120 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,679 Speaker 1: you time it out. Was that like you know my calculations, 121 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: you know, and you know when people that people have 122 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: formed such strong opinions, And that's okay. I understand that 123 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: because when I watch any kind of show, that's so 124 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: that's the nature of it, and that's okay. There's no 125 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: blame in that. UM. But yeah, so it's definitely a 126 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: a real and very specific part of who I am. UM. 127 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, hopefully then people get to see me, you know, 128 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: slipping ice bags and well, do you realize that, even 129 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: though we've been friends for eight years, you never told 130 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: me that you worked at an escort service. Okay. I 131 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: saw the preview and I was like, oh my god, 132 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: I forgot. I'd say, yeah, you know, it's like not 133 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: eight nine months ago, so long ago. And I was 134 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: telling my friends where I was a tennis and I 135 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, they're going to use this 136 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: thing there like you worked where Okay, So I just 137 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: need to clarify because it's very very It's not the 138 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: editing that's a problem. It's just, you know, it's very 139 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: limited to what he said. So it was an advertising 140 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: company that was for escort. It was resting. Yeah, So 141 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: I like, how you trying to sugarcoat that there? Yeah. 142 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: So I did not send girls out. I received the 143 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: calls that I received were from the girls, and then 144 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: they pay us as an advertising company to put their 145 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: picture up and phone number. So I worked with the 146 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: girls actually, but escorts is like, you know, they're like 147 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: they got to dinner with you and stuff like like 148 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, try Okay, Yeah, they trips to they 149 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: have your hang out with you or there's like then 150 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: what how were you? How did they reach out to 151 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: to bring you on as a madam? That was not 152 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: part of that. Oh that was the lie. No no, no, 153 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: no, no no, that happened to separations. Yeah. The lie was 154 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 1: me um the law. It was me getting arrested because 155 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: it sounded such an easy like maybe she you know, 156 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: like ridiculous. I actually do have a I have a 157 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: warrant for my arrest and that's actually kind of that 158 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: would be great. Oh what did you do about Arizona? 159 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: And I talked to the judge and he's like, just 160 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: don't are you gonna come back here? I was like no, 161 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: and he's like, just don't come back. That's a whole 162 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: remind me not to bring you to Arizona. Well I can't. 163 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: I can't drive there or I'll get arrested. So it 164 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: is with the madam story. Rob was super super into 165 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: like when you know, like World Porka Tour was really 166 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: popular and that we just watched it endlessly, watched m XC, 167 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 1: which is like that Japanese game show and all all date, 168 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 1: all night, and so Rob got really to poker and 169 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: then we go to the commerce casino and there was 170 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: this woman there and very loud and you know, like 171 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: throwing money on the table and just and I'm just 172 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: like two years old sitting there and she's like looking 173 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: at me. She's like, come here, come here, and she 174 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: was I could tell she was Korean, and so I 175 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: feel like like it was like a mama to me, 176 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 1: you know. And I'm like okay. And then Rob's like 177 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: like she's asking to go with her, and like he's like, 178 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: are you okay. I'm like I'm okay. So Just we 179 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: walked through the casino out to these like double doors 180 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: and but their glass doors. It was like a pat 181 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: like a kind of a patio, so he could see me, 182 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: I could see him, and she's like what are you 183 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: doing here? I'm like my friend, and she's like, you know, 184 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: I can make you some money. And then out walks 185 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: a guy like Just and he just immediately like he 186 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: was ready. Yeah. It's just like standing there next to 187 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: her and I'm like uh and she's like I can 188 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: you know, make good money. I was like no, like 189 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm so scared, like no, thank you, you know, and 190 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: then she was okay, go go to him. She's like 191 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: get out of here. And she was okay, so I 192 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: see a lot of me and you, and then it 193 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: was okay, this girl's not going to do that. Maybe 194 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: I could be a little like a protege. So that 195 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: that was that's the story, you know what. I know, 196 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: I have a weird and by the way, it's like 197 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: I didn't ask for it just came to me, don't 198 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 1: you know what. You're just lucky that way. Commit opportunities 199 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: are always finding you. Crystall all right. Next back to 200 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: you know, housewives. They want to know you're new to 201 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: the group, who has been the most welcoming and who 202 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: has been the most standoffish. So this question is asked, 203 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: like people, really, I don't know. I feel like Jurie 204 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: was super welcoming. Um, And when I answer this question, 205 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: I immediately think about the very first time I met 206 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: the group as a whole. You know. That's that's sort 207 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: of how I can approach it, because everyone was actually 208 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: welcoming in different stages. So I think about that first Nigeria, 209 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: big arms open, and I didn't know what to expect. 210 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: I thought maybe I'd just get coldness, you know, and like, 211 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: who's the new ber I don't like her? And Durie 212 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, you have kids and Dada 213 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: and Teddy told me that, you know, and obviously you 214 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: and Deret her friends. So I think that there was 215 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: that connection. And I felt that from Garcela too, because 216 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: she was like, oh my god, your Rob's wife like 217 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: years ago. And so for me, that sort of experience 218 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 1: is like safety of like when you have one connection, 219 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: you feel you know, welcomed. And I would say Sutton 220 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: and she knows to hear all the time. Sutton was 221 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:21,319 Speaker 1: definitely less warm, but from the beginning, yeah, not super cool, 222 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: but just not as like bubbly as I would say. 223 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: The other people were alright, alright, well Rob, he's directed all, 224 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 1: you know, all of these things. He's so talented. I 225 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: personally love Rob. He is that person that like when 226 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: you're sitting at dinner, you're gonna be laughing, you're gonna 227 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: be learning. He's such a great guy. But um, how 228 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: did he feel about you joining the show? Um? You know, 229 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: like his first reaction and I said, oh, Teddy called me. 230 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: He's like nope, Um, you know, it took us a 231 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: long time and you know, you were on the journey 232 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 1: with me and you know, he just it's scary it's 233 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 1: a scary thing to put ourselves out there, you know. 234 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: And he's though he's never done reality or you know, 235 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: been an act or anything like that, you know, you 236 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 1: sort of know what might come with the territory. But 237 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: you know the biggest fear was when people say, oh, 238 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: people get divorced, and we would just be like, well, 239 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: that's that's our issue, Like we are solid. And I 240 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: think that was the reason why I said yes. If 241 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: we felt that that would not hurt our family, then 242 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: we could potentially say yes. So once we you know, 243 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: pass that threshold, then it was sort of diving deeper 244 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: into what you know would be positive and negative. And 245 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: you know, I did the charts, I did the pros 246 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: and con I wrote him now and we you know, 247 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: went through each one. Well, I've now, this reminds me 248 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: of another piece of advice that I gave you that 249 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 1: obviously you forgot, but I said, if you have any 250 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 1: dark secrets that you don't want to come forward, do 251 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: not do the show that that's the only reason other 252 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: than that do it. Like for me, that was the 253 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: same thing. I'm like, I know I'm in a good marriage. 254 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 1: I know that I have good you know, like my 255 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: family's good, life is good, business is good, Like there's 256 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: no reason and there's nothing I have to hide, right, 257 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: So I once like like that I felt comfortable with 258 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: and then when you dive deeper, it's so why do 259 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: you do it? You know, as opposed to like I don't. 260 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: I really don't understand why people do it if they 261 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: have that kind of stuff for fear of it, Like 262 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: I didn't have fear in that aspect. So then it 263 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: was the approach was why why yes and um, and 264 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: then that's why you know you dive deeper into what 265 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: it means for you and your family? Yeah, for sure. 266 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: And I was like the first thing you said, come on, 267 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 1: well now that you're a season in, like, are you 268 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: happy that I brought you in? Or are you like 269 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: you knows I'm gonna say, okay, we'll say this because 270 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: I always try to be a positive person. I'm camera 271 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: close it. I'm like, okay, ER's a right. No. I 272 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: have grown so much and it sounds so sappy. I 273 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: have grown so much as a person in the last 274 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: year then ten years combined in my life. I have 275 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: seen so much that I never thought I would see, 276 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: including working at you know, an advertising Govinie. That's you know, 277 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: it's it's so um it's it has made my life 278 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: so expansive and insular in a weird way. Um So, 279 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: But do I regret it? No, not, No, I don't 280 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: regret it. I want to see what it's going to 281 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: look like, to be honest, you know, I don't know 282 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: how that's going to play out, and and and then 283 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: I'll assess whether that's it's you know, to move forward. 284 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: But um, you know it's I've grown a lot, and 285 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: I think that's if I can take anything positive out 286 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: of it, is you know i'd say that. Yeah, And 287 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm just to put it in perspective for for the listeners, 288 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: Like people think that like we already know how the 289 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: show is gonna look like weeks or months in advance. No, 290 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: like Housewives get the episode the day before, that's it 291 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: and then and there's no changes, Like it's it is 292 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: what it is, and you just have to sit there 293 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: and live with it. You have what the night before 294 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: it actually airs, after you've seen it is the worst. 295 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: It's not a good episode for you. It's horrible. And 296 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: I have to say, like episode two, I was really 297 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: down in the docks about it and then I don't 298 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: know why. I think you're just so self critical and 299 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: so like, what if I had done this or how 300 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: I approached that? And then you know, the feedback is 301 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: so interesting, you know, and then you sort of seen 302 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: a different light. But yeah, it's you know, but I 303 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: know from what you and all the girls have said, 304 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: there will be great episodes and hard episodes for everyone, 305 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: and she's designed to do that. So what part what part? 306 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: In particular? How did you feeling that way after watching 307 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: the episode? Of course, I mean the ending, it's it's 308 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: really hard to watch, and it's you know, even though 309 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: I feel so strongly, I'm so convicted in my in 310 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: my how I feel about this topic about race and 311 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:20,919 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Um, I don't want to ever. I 312 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: don't ever want to become an argument or where someone 313 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 1: feels uncomfortable, and you know, and I and I look 314 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 1: at that, and it's that I don't like that. That's hard. 315 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys did have an intense conversation about race. 316 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,719 Speaker 1: How did it feel like when she said, I'm not 317 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: talking about racial stereotypes. I also have a stereotype, but 318 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to bring it up. How would you 319 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: have preferred that conversation about well, as you said, nothing's planned. 320 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 1: I mean that thing was that happened so organically and 321 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 1: at one in the morning, and you know, you know, 322 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: I know people are like, oh, like drinking and all 323 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: that stuff adds fuel to the fire. I was not. 324 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: I was holding a drink, but I really didn't drink 325 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: that whole trip. And um, you know, I mean, we 326 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: haven't seen the next episode. I have not seen the 327 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: exact I don't. I think it resolves by ending, you know, Um, 328 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: but you know, for me, it's like in any conversation 329 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 1: race or other. You know, you want it to be 330 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: open and honest and accepted on both sides. Do you 331 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: want to hear all sides? And I think, um, sadly, 332 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 1: a lot of what she wanted to say and what 333 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to say was not heard. And um, but 334 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: that's also again a growth experience amongst people. Just that 335 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: was the That was the second Dame at her wow 336 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: I think about. I know I met her at Dereats 337 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: for jin Are and that one when you went on 338 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: the trip and went on the trip and I hate 339 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: to do this, but we have to take a quick 340 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 1: break and then we'll come right back. Okay, guys, welcome back. 341 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: And to start off, we are going to open the 342 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: hotline for a couple of questions before I go into 343 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: the instant questions after that. So let's bring on Sarah. Hi. 344 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to talk to you guys. 345 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: Hi um, Yes, Sarah, hi um. So my question is 346 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: for Crystal Um. I would love to know more about 347 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: your brother. I you said he would a pop star 348 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: and he was living with you guys, Like was that 349 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 1: crazy growing up? Or like how long has he been 350 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: doing that? Oh my god, I'm so glad you asked 351 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: my brother brother so much. We're like, so Jeff and 352 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: I are nineteen months apart, he's older whatever he says. 353 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: By the way, I have to make this clear. If 354 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: you google me, I'm trying to spread this far and 355 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 1: wide right now, if you google me, it says I'm 356 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 1: born in five and I'm not. I was born eighty three. 357 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: And because there was I guess another Crystal Kong who's 358 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: an artist, and our profiles got merged. So people think 359 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 1: I'm younger than I am. And that would be great 360 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 1: if it didn't date me and Rob situate and making 361 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 1: a problem like no I do, but my honey, it's 362 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: like I don't know what to do, but I know 363 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 1: how old I am, and so I'm like, I just 364 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 1: want to say that for the record, I'm thirty eight 365 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 1: and born in eighty three. Okay, that's all so um 366 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: and Jeff was born eighty one. So Jeff actually went 367 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 1: to Michigan and he studied abroad in China like I did. 368 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: Our parents sent us for a year to Beijing. And 369 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: when he was there, he had Um called. I was 370 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 1: senior in college and and he or in high school 371 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: and he called and said, oh I did like a demo, 372 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: like it was a song. We're like, what the hell 373 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: is that? That was going to Michigan like international business, 374 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 1: like we're normal, you know, sort of classical Chinese things 375 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: that we're doing right, and and I almost like what? 376 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: And then he called us and it's like okay, they 377 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: want to record an album. And my mom was like 378 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: over my dead body. But then he said, okay, what 379 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 1: if I promise you'll finish college. So he finished like 380 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 1: literally that year. He just like flew back to Michigan, 381 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: got it done and came back. And then he was 382 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: twenty years old and he won Best New MTV Asia 383 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: Best New Artist and that was it. That was twenty 384 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 1: years ago and he had been since so um, which 385 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 1: is so weird, you know. But he was here in 386 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: l A with us while we were filming because he 387 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: had left China. Um and of February when things were 388 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 1: starting to get locked down there for COVID and we 389 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: didn't know what was happening here yet, and he called 390 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: us was like, you guys, this is like a serious thing, 391 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: and we were like, well, you have an American passport 392 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,959 Speaker 1: and maybe you won't be able to get out, so 393 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: maybe it's best to get out here. He thought maybe 394 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: four to six weeks. It wasn't four to six weeks. 395 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: So he was ended up in lockdown here in l 396 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 1: A with us, which ended up being great. Um. But 397 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 1: that's so that's what happened. So he doesn't normally live here. Um. 398 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: He's back in China now, um, but he's planning a 399 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: buying house in l A next year because we're born 400 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: and raised here. So that's about my brother and he's 401 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: like the best uncle. Do you think too? Do you 402 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: guys think together? I mean, I'm an incredible shower singer. 403 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: Why don't you show us a little bit, Crystal. I'd 404 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 1: love to hear you just you know, throw something out, 405 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: just something casual from Lyon King, because like, I don't 406 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 1: think anyone knows that we're all directable annoying, like why 407 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: do you talking about liking him? Because they told me 408 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: to keep talking about lying like I don't talk. How 409 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: do you think I feel John Mellencamp, like they've lost 410 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: those questions. I'm not sitting there like, hey, my dad's 411 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 1: the coube. You answer those questions and then you look 412 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: like such a douche after totally like oh, by the way, 413 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: did you know? But all these things that it's so 414 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 1: insane to me, like look at his awards, look at 415 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 1: up there, you know what do you know? So funny 416 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 1: because so Rob is um up north finishing his movie 417 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: and he's because it's so sad, like of course, like 418 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: all COVID you've been home and now like you're away 419 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 1: during the first week and he's like, oh wow a 420 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: little I'm like, shut up, you idiot. I was like 421 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm a big timer. Yeah. I was like, He's like, wow, 422 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know I was going to get so much 423 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: free press is so funny. Yes, I seen in the 424 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: shower but not professionally. Thank you so much, Sarah. Thank 425 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: you Bye Sarah. Now we're gonna bring on Alex. Hi 426 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,120 Speaker 1: you guys, Oh my gosh, how such a big fan 427 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: of the show. Christal. My question is for you. I'm 428 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: so curious who the bff on the show? Oh Um, Well, 429 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 1: my bff on the show is definitely Kathy. You know, 430 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 1: Kathy and I've been friends for fifteen years and people 431 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 1: always asked, how how did you guys know each other? 432 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: You know, what's the origin? So um, Rob's producing partner, 433 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 1: Kimberly was married to Kathy's brother, so they were sister 434 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: in laws. Um and so I. So Rob's partner has 435 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: been his partner forever. And when I first met Rob, 436 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: that's my first people I met, and so um they've 437 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: always been super close as sister in laws. Even though 438 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: Kimberly had divorced. So I had met Kathy so long ago. 439 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 1: So when you know she was seeking about doing the show, 440 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: it just made it another great opportunity to do it together. 441 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: And you know, having her, they're kind of helping me 442 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: now the gate, the whole experience was super, super helpful. Yeah, 443 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: Cathy is a trip, as you guys can all see, 444 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 1: she's so fun. The Three Truths last night, I was like, 445 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: so good. And all of her t shirts with the 446 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 1: words on it. I was like, Kathy, I'm not searing 447 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: a teacher with words. Okay wait, so like literally your 448 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 1: bestie Kyle every time she come downstairs, like who do 449 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 1: you come on? What are you wearing? I look great? 450 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 1: So don't change. So good and the fan all of it. Um. 451 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: Next up we have Bella, Bella what you got for us? Hey? Um, 452 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: I was wondering, um, for both of you guys, who 453 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 1: was each of your most cringing moment of the episode 454 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: so far? Well, watching you guys, what was my most 455 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 1: cringe part? I mean I think, you know, watching the 456 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,919 Speaker 1: scene between Crystal and Sutton, you know, when you know, 457 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 1: when she said the redneck like I think that. I 458 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: was like, no, you do say it? Like you know that? 459 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,199 Speaker 1: For me, I was like I could see where she 460 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: was starting to go and I was like, I really 461 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 1: just hope she doesn't say it. So, um, yeah, that 462 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 1: was my the cringeest part for me to watch. Yeah. Um, 463 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: it's so like I think I understand obviously, I understand 464 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:23,360 Speaker 1: that being not the two people in it. Um. Every 465 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: moment for me is a little cringe e like of 466 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: how I could approach things differently. And you know that's 467 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: the interesting part of the shows, Like it's already done, 468 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: so I can't analyze it and do it next time, 469 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: like it is what whatever has happened happened. That's authentic 470 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: and organic. Um. But yeah, it's you know, I mean 471 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 1: for me, it's like other than that, just like when 472 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: I talk about, oh, this and this is when you're bragging, 473 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: you know me, I don't do that. It's like I've 474 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 1: never seen a side like because you know, somebody even 475 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: asked her like it's Christ and I'm just saying it's 476 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 1: crystal stop. I'm like no, Like, I mean a snob 477 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: comment is so weird because I understand why people think 478 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: of It's not like I get it, you know, because 479 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: they say, so tell us about this. I'm like, I 480 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,919 Speaker 1: don't want to tell about this, okay, and then they 481 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 1: just use that like and I have this and I 482 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 1: have this and they're like, oh god, so like so 483 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I'm not like mad people thinking 484 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: of it's stop. There are worse things, but it is 485 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: so not my personality. But that's okay. I understand. I 486 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: don't believe me. She wears croc flip flops when she 487 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 1: comes over, I think, so I wrote, like, you know, 488 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: I hate this girl and her Walmart clothes. I want 489 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 1: to be like, what's wrong with Walmart? I don't know. Well, 490 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 1: you pretty much have a uniform except when you're on Housewives. 491 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: Do you have like your standard uniform? You come over, 492 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: it's a button down, it's shorty shorts with like a 493 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: draw string and you're crop. Do you have them on now? 494 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: Ida and your croc flip flops? Okay, so I buy 495 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: things in bulk. These shorts, ladies, the old navy, y'all, 496 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,439 Speaker 1: they're linen. I didn't even tie them for you. Okay, 497 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: they're linen. I think they're like twelve and they're my 498 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: favorite shorts. So what I do is I end up 499 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: buying like five and White and five and Peak. But 500 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: like I, it's just and she wears them, guys, she 501 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: wears them to the end. Any hating on my fashion, 502 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 1: I literally could care less. Could care less, So go 503 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: for it. It's my favorite. By the way, I learned 504 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: this the hard way. It's I got so much heat 505 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: for saying it on the show. It's couldn't care less? 506 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: I thought, could I got killed for that? I couldn't. 507 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: I could. Oh yeah, So if he's liked could less, 508 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: they make you care Yeah, and so I got killed 509 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 1: for that. And I also got killed for saying electronical. 510 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not electronically savvy. Electronicals, lady, you can't 511 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: say electronic call? What is the right word? What? What 512 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 1: are you trying to say? Like, I'm not savvy on 513 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: like like my phone technologically savvy. Oh well, okay, maybe 514 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: I want to text. Maybe I should have phoned a friend. Yeah, well, 515 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: or it could be a new word like choog e. 516 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh choogie is all the rage right now. So you 517 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: can just create a word technology technological, electronically, electronically Okay, 518 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: it's a good word. Okay, yeah, all right, Oh my gosh, Sam, 519 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: come on in hi. Um, I have a question. I 520 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: want to know, Crystal, where do you stand with Sutton 521 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: right now? So you will see that our friendship it's 522 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: an arc, as all friendships do, and it's a roller coaster, 523 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: not what all friendships do. Um, But I will say this, 524 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 1: I think that we have come to a better understanding 525 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: of each other. If I can say that, Okay, I 526 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: think should be all right, That's what I'll say. Well, 527 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: following up with that, how hard after that? You know, 528 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: I know we have a lot to stay tuned for, 529 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: but like, now that you kind of knew her mindset, 530 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: was it hard for you working with her going forward? 531 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: I mean after that, yeah, after after last night? What 532 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 1: what's coming? Yeah, it was hard and I and it 533 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 1: completely affects me to where I've never been affected for 534 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: my life actually, and so I'm not quite It's funny 535 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: watching it because I've been trying to analyze it this 536 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: morning of sort of what's coming and quickly comes and 537 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't. I'm just like I'm still processing it, 538 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, because it happened, but I was it was 539 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,479 Speaker 1: such a crazy fog. And then now I'm watching it 540 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 1: back and I'm like, so I just to know for 541 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: myself internally, like how did that affect me? And it did? Um, 542 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: and yeah, you're gonna see it. You're gonna see how 543 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: it affects me because I feel like I look cool 544 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: and whatever. And then it's I you know, I'm gonna 545 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: I can be emotional and I try to keep everything 546 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: cool at the time, and I think I just I 547 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: just couldn't you know, so well, we're humans and we 548 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: uh that's what happened. But I cannually have not. I've 549 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: not had a confrontation like that in my life. So 550 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 1: it's weird that it happened. And that's what I'm saying. 551 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: What's it's organic like it happened on camera two days 552 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 1: after meeting her, and I've literally I you'll say, I 553 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: say something like, I've never met anyone like you. So yeah, intense, 554 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: I can't even I mean, wow, Um, well, thank you 555 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: so much. Sam. We got to bring in tomorrow. Hi Betty, Hi, 556 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan. I'm so happy to be talking 557 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: to you. Thanks for having me on of course, Um 558 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: so of course I want to know, um what you 559 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: think of the new season so far? And then I 560 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: want to ask Crystal who she's bonded with the most. Okay, well, 561 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 1: how I think about the season so far? You know, 562 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: it's it's been, you know, a completely different experience. I 563 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: I didn't watch Housewives before I became a housewife, so 564 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: I didn't have like that knowledge going into it, and 565 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: now I can watch it as like a legitimate like 566 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: fan versus you know, like these are my girlfriends. These 567 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 1: are people I care about. So I can watch in 568 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: a completely different way without being self critical, without you know, 569 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: having anxiety, without beating myself up for every little thing 570 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: that I did wrong. So you know, there's pleasant like 571 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 1: that part's pleasant and I, you know, I enjoy it 572 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: as entertainment as what it is. But of course there 573 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: are moments where you like have like you know a 574 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: little bit of like satis fans. Wow, you know, I 575 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: miss I missed this camaraderie. I missed the trips like 576 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: are the plane rides are always the most fun? You know, 577 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: like those types of things. Um, but I you know, 578 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a great season. I'm so 579 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: excited for you know all the girls. Are you already 580 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: watching it wondering? Oh, I wouldn't have said that, or 581 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have done that, would the two episodes so far? No, 582 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm not watching it with a critical I versus them 583 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: like for me, like the way I like to watch 584 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: my shows, like a reality shows is like is this good? 585 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 1: Like am I enjoying the content? Am I learning? Am 586 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: I laughing? Am I? You know? Am I wanting to 587 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: purchase that thing? Whatever it is? Not like, oh, I 588 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: would never do that or that's so you know, those 589 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 1: types of things, because you know, I feel like I've 590 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: been on the other end of it and I don't 591 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 1: need to go there. Uh what about what? She had 592 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: a follow up question about who you bonded with? She 593 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: said earlier Kathy, but other than Kathy because we can't. Um, 594 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: Cathy is like an easy answer, I would say Dree, uh, 595 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,959 Speaker 1: Drey and I she was just always I could just 596 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: feel she was very honest and wanted to help me 597 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 1: through this experience. Um. You know, her husband reached out 598 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: to Rob a lot and checked in. They had dinner, 599 00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: So like, I appreciate that in a person a couple 600 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 1: to sort of actively do that with us. You know, 601 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 1: it's not especially guy. The guys don't just call each old. 602 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: Are It takes like the women to bond and you know, 603 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 1: and so for like they would have dinner alone and um, 604 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: and it was just a really they've shown a lot 605 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: of grace and um and friendship and welcoming to me. 606 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 1: So I appreciated that. Oh that's awesome. And p K 607 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: is hilarious. He's so fun. Yeah, life of the party. Um, well, 608 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: thank you for calling in. You guys, we gotta take 609 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: a little break and then we'll come back and finish 610 00:34:51,000 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: up your questions. All right, So now that we're back, 611 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna start a little a little heavier and then 612 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 1: good lighter as we finished. But with all the anti 613 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: Asian stuff and all these movements, like how how could 614 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 1: you give our listeners a better way to approach everything? 615 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: Good question? So for me, I think everyone has a 616 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 1: different Obviously, everyone approach to anything and people. This is 617 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:31,879 Speaker 1: a very heated topic, and I think that your approach 618 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: is going to be based on your history, right, whether 619 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: you've been attacked or it's a constant you know, you're 620 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: living in fear and stuff like that. For me, you know, 621 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: I and very obviously very much open to this conversation. 622 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: I like to talk about it. We talk about it 623 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,359 Speaker 1: with the kids all the time. It's like, is a 624 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: very important topic for me. So but I don't I 625 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 1: don't want to come from judgment, and so I really 626 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,280 Speaker 1: try to have empathy and understanding where the other persons 627 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,960 Speaker 1: coming from who I'm talking to. So if you it's 628 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: like one of our friends at Teddy you know, who 629 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: were hosting with us. It's like she said to me, 630 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: I've never where she grew up. I've never met an 631 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: Asian person, a black person, like a person like never 632 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: my life. And if I and she has said something 633 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,879 Speaker 1: that like offended us. When I met her and I said, 634 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 1: I called her out, I was like, you cannot say that, 635 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: like that's not okay, And she was like, I am 636 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 1: so sorry. I've I had no idea, and I give 637 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: grace to that. You know, it's it's taking ownership. And 638 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: but I didn't want to attack her. I just said, 639 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: this is not okay with me. It hurts me, it 640 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 1: hurts other people, and I want you to know that. 641 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: And I think there's a way to um talk to 642 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: people without judgment. You know, you have to be I 643 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: think there you can do it in a soft way. 644 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: I think the softer you are actually is when people 645 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 1: hear you more too hard, they close it off. It's 646 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 1: too scary. Uh So, I think it's about showing people 647 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: right your cultures and and you know, but if you 648 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 1: want to talk about it, it's trying to tread in 649 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: a softer way. That's to serve my approach. And if 650 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 1: somebody has questions, what are what's you know? I know, 651 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: you know personally sometimes I struggle with the right way 652 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: to ask questions, so how or even talking to my 653 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 1: kids certain way, like how would you say the best 654 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,879 Speaker 1: way to talk to your kids? And then like how 655 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,799 Speaker 1: to start bringing up those questions so that you can 656 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 1: have a more fluid conversation. Right, So I totally understand that. 657 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 1: So when I tell people I'm an open book, ask 658 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: me any question, that's what that's one person. So I 659 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: know that that's easier said than done, because you know, 660 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: if someone else is open, or they're going to think 661 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 1: that that's offensive or I know, it's like it's a 662 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,240 Speaker 1: hard time to ask these questions. So I think maybe 663 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 1: starting with your inner circle if you you know, or reading. 664 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,279 Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of books out there, and 665 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,799 Speaker 1: now it's out there, right if you don't have a 666 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 1: person of color, who's this friend, you know, then google it, 667 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 1: start researching what people are looking for, you know, um 668 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to your So for me, it's I'm 669 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 1: an open book, but I can see that if someone 670 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 1: is not and they get sort of push back, then 671 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: you're going to clam up, right, You're never gonna open 672 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: up again, and that's could be a scary thing. So 673 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 1: with kids, you know, I I don't. I don't feel 674 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 1: like they're in a situation, a situation meaning they're they're 675 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 1: half Chinese that have Jewish I don't want them to 676 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,799 Speaker 1: feel nervous about that. You know where I grew up 677 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 1: being taught to if someone attacks me, like verbally, to 678 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,839 Speaker 1: put my head down, like um, like, you can't change 679 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: the way you look, so just like, don't but they 680 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: don't like you, so just look down, you know. Where 681 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,760 Speaker 1: my kids, I want to sort of have them speak 682 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 1: out on who they are so people know who they 683 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 1: are before it comes back. And maybe that's a defense 684 00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 1: mecham I don't know, but I encourage them to acknowledge 685 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,919 Speaker 1: skin color and their friends like, oh where are you from? 686 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: You know, and like Lucier, you know Lucier family. Lucy 687 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 1: by the way, she she steals the shows. Literally, people like, 688 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,760 Speaker 1: we don't want Crystal, don't Lucy. I'm like, I get it, Lucy. 689 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 1: You guys don't even understand the Lucy situation. So Crystal 690 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: was out of town one Halloween. It's so Crystals like, 691 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna send Lucy with the kids to trigger treat 692 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 1: with you guys. I have never laughed so hard in 693 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: my entire life from that evening with her, because she one, 694 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 1: she's going to tell you exactly how it is and 695 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 1: she's gonna boss you, and she like, you guys are 696 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: the best dynamic. When she said that dress was ugly, 697 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 1: it's she's I mean, she's not wrong, Crystal, I haven't 698 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,719 Speaker 1: worn did don't let me your makeup. Girls are just 699 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,720 Speaker 1: like you see what he thinks. She's like, so ugly, 700 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 1: and it's Lucy hate me. I'm like, she says everyone, 701 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: it's not like personal. So with Lucy, she'll say it's 702 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: like Zoe like, look at my skin, and she'll have 703 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: her look at it, and so she's like, see how 704 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 1: brown I am compared to you? Like we really lean it, 705 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: we really talk about it. So it's not a taboo thing. 706 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 1: It's like it's embrace it, you know, and celebrate it. 707 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: And so we're like, well, I want to be more 708 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: dark and I want to get you know, like and 709 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:30,359 Speaker 1: it's that's you know, and those kinds of comments if 710 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 1: you are not open as an adult, can feel you 711 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: know whatever, but like nerve racking. But actually, from what 712 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm trying to instill in them is how great and 713 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,840 Speaker 1: positive saying something like that is so but anyways with Lucy, 714 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: like she deserves her own show and she's she's incredible. 715 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 1: You guys are so great, Like what is the full dynamic? 716 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are so busy. What's the full 717 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: dynamic of your house? Especially like once filming all that 718 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 1: kind of stuff, Like how does it? How does it? 719 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 1: Pre COVID, I'm very social, Like she's the most social 720 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: person ever. You guys like you've never she schedules two 721 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 1: dinners a night. Yeah, it's yeah, it's a problem and 722 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,600 Speaker 1: it's a problem. Um. So with COVID it was like 723 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: depression shut down and then filming, so that was weird. Um. 724 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 1: But you know, we are a very active family. Like 725 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm always on the like wet mom websites in l A, 726 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 1: what's going on? You know. So Rob will be in 727 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: the studio working until maybe three his movies um in Canada, 728 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: so he's dooming to Canada. So he's off at three. 729 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:47,719 Speaker 1: You know, I'm doing what I don't ask about it. 730 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 1: And then we're like we take organizing things organizing. I'm 731 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 1: just looking at my laundry basket like I can't wake 732 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 1: to put it away. And we'll go golfing and we 733 00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 1: do like whatever we do movie nights, Rob is up 734 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 1: tessed with the kids. If they watched TV, it's like 735 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: it has to be erected on a giant scrape, and 736 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:12,319 Speaker 1: so we do outdrecter so often. It's not normal. Um, 737 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: but I don't know what's their daily routine. We're just 738 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 1: like a normal I don't know we're normal. She's just 739 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 1: like everybody else. You guys, like you call me exercise 740 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 1: and I always find an excuse him as before that 741 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: I can't make it. She didn't make it to one though, 742 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: you made it to one. Even in COVID, we like 743 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: we're separated socially distance. She did a workout video with me. 744 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for that, and you coming here. Um, 745 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,920 Speaker 1: A couple of other people were curious, how do you 746 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 1: know Tiffany Moon from Dallas? Oh, so it's funny. She 747 00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 1: was face timing before this. So Tiffany and I met 748 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: because of this. Really yeah, yeah, we didn't know each other. 749 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: And she I noticed that she was like following me 750 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: and liking me. I think she you know, she found 751 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: out I was on it, and and you know, you 752 00:42:56,520 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: do have an automatic connection, you know. And and her 753 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 1: series was clearly very hig. This race issue was very heightened. Um, 754 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,760 Speaker 1: and we're both from northern China. We're just two years apart, 755 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 1: so we had a lot of connection. And you know, 756 00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 1: I was starting to be a doctor and so I 757 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,479 Speaker 1: felt like I understood what her life was and we 758 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,239 Speaker 1: just started texting calling. She had dinner here a couple 759 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: of weeks ago. She's been pressing here in l A. 760 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:26,719 Speaker 1: And Um, she's a great um person to talk to 761 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 1: with kind of exact experience six months prior. Yeah, like 762 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 1: telling what happened this, you know, like she does exactly 763 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 1: what I'm going through, but six monther earlier, so I 764 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,319 Speaker 1: had in real time. Yeah, she's a good girl, but 765 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,560 Speaker 1: she she had it really hard. I was unbelievably hard, 766 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 1: really hard. Yeah that's yeah. Yeah, that Twitter. You gotta 767 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: that Twitter. Believe me. I'm going I'm not on Twitter. 768 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 1: You know what. Instagram is a safe and safe and 769 00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: fuzzy place. So I really have to wrap. But if 770 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: you could change one thing about your first season, what 771 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: would it be? M I already know. I just ain't 772 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:17,880 Speaker 1: gonna give too much away. Is that we're worried about 773 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 1: it's coming up very soon, Okay, but it's related to 774 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:28,760 Speaker 1: my arc was sune, and I wish that I didn't 775 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:33,439 Speaker 1: take it on so hard. I'll say that I wish 776 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't that big of a deal to me, but 777 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: I was so emotional about it, and I just wish 778 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: I wasn't And not because I don't like crying on 779 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,440 Speaker 1: camera or whatever. It's like, it is what it is. 780 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: I just I'm a pro at that cry baby. That's me. 781 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:52,479 Speaker 1: I remember Judge some of crying and too. The whole 782 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: thing was too overwhelming and I wish I could have 783 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 1: stepped back from him and like, it's actually not a 784 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,359 Speaker 1: good deal, just handle it. And I felt sort of 785 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: mmm uh, blocked to do that properly. So well, thank 786 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,359 Speaker 1: you so much, Crystal. Make sure you guys tune into 787 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Wednesday nights at eight o'clock. 788 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: And then, guys, next week we're having to riak Kimsley on, 789 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:18,720 Speaker 1: so keep sending your questions into the hot line. Thanks 790 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: for listening. Subscribe to Teddy tea Pot on her radio 791 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to podcasts.