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Speaker 1: Are you leaving?

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Speaker 2: I you wanna way back home?

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Speaker 3: Either way, we want to be there.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't matter how much baggage you claim and give us

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Speaker 2: We want to send you off instile.

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Speaker 3: We wanna welcome you back home.

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Speaker 4: Tell us all about it.

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Speaker 5: We scared her? Was it fine? Malborn? Do you need

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Speaker 5: to ride? Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 3: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 5: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 3: Do you need to ride?

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Speaker 5: Do your need to ride?

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Speaker 2: Ride with Karen and Chris? Welcome to Do you need

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Speaker 2: to ride?

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Speaker 5: This is Chris Fairbanks and this is Karen Tilgaroff.

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Speaker 2: Hello, my friend Karen. I've not seen you in over

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Speaker 2: a month.

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Speaker 5: I know how are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm terrific. I am.

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Speaker 6: Like many episodes, I'd like to start this one with

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Speaker 6: a personal apology. I really dismissed. According to the audio

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Speaker 6: clip that was posted our Instagram, I very much dismissed

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Speaker 6: your call for help when you were smelling toasts.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to make jokes the whole time.

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Speaker 5: I would only expect you to do that.

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Speaker 6: But I immediately after hearing it the other day, I

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Speaker 6: did a little research, and indeed there are several things

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Speaker 6: that it could mean. But one of them is related

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Speaker 6: to a minor your body avoiding an epileptic feature.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't have to convince me that it's not

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Speaker 4: good news to smell toast randomly.

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Speaker 5: I did not have to convince you.

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Speaker 6: See it's funny because with the backstory, I immediately thought

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Speaker 6: it was like when the Oh if your hand smells

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Speaker 2: Hits your face. Oh, I thought you were about to

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Speaker 2: hit me in the face. I know when I'm being

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Speaker 6: But no, you were actually concerned about your health, and

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Speaker 6: I just started, you know, my defense mechanism.

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Speaker 5: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: The interaction expectation between you and I being stand up

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Speaker 4: comedians is not the same as the audience or even

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Speaker 4: just the general listener that you embody when you listen

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Speaker 4: to clips of our show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, wormchair, general listener, you know what I would have done.

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Speaker 6: I love everything live. I would love that everyone who's

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Speaker 6: listening right now. This is not a personal.

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Speaker 2: Attack, not in the least, but it is.

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Speaker 6: Yes, It's it's hard to understand how like if there

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Speaker 6: laughing Yeah, it's hard for you to relate to that.

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Speaker 6: When you're just listening. It seems like we're selfish or something.

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Speaker 4: Well, unless you have the same weird disease coping mechanisms

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Speaker 4: you don't have to be a stand up comedian to

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Speaker 6: I don't think absolutely no. I think it's more common

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Speaker 6: that that is your outlet. Now that I healthily have

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Speaker 6: I think I act more appropriately out in the streets.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 5: Good, I'm worried about you in the streets.

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Speaker 6: I have been in these streets, you know when I

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Speaker 6: saw the other day street You're actually this is a

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Speaker 5: Oh cold on. Is there an animal involved? Yes? Is

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Speaker 5: the animal hurt? No? Does it have cancer?

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Speaker 5: Then go tell me this story.

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Speaker 2: I do have some tragic news about the turtles.

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Speaker 5: See it?

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Speaker 2: No, it's the uh.

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Speaker 6: It's there is a cat in my neighborhood that I've

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Speaker 6: seen twice. Now, what color black with white areas as well.

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Speaker 2: Some call them spots.

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Speaker 6: Hangs out on the sidewalk and waits or or just

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Speaker 6: looks around until it finds a car with an open window, Yes,

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Speaker 6: will get climb into that car, any person's car, yep,

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Speaker 2: It's paying a little because why you're leaving your window down?

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Speaker 5: Why are you in a city like this?

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Speaker 6: I yes, and I'm a little worried that I'm just

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Speaker 6: I just hopefully that window isn't down because there's a

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Speaker 2: But that's just something I know.

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Speaker 4: You're looking for problems on that one hypothetical that almost

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Speaker 6: Yes, I cannot talk about animals without the possibility of

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Speaker 2: I went right back.

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Speaker 5: One opportunity to describe a hurt animal. You will jump on.

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Speaker 6: Now, this is a cat that feels empowered, great, and

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Speaker 6: it's finding shelter and it's also just having fun. It's

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Speaker 6: the best version of a cat prank I've ever seen.

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Speaker 4: One of my saddest. I'll do the sad cat think

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Speaker 5: That makes me think.

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Speaker 4: When I lived in Silver Like, I had this cat, Rudy,

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Speaker 4: the rag doll type, that's right. He just was weirdly like, yay,

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Speaker 4: someone's holding me. And when I lived in Silver Lake,

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Speaker 2: This is more tragic than any story I've ever told.

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Speaker 6: Please continued, do you see?

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Speaker 4: And so I like he was gone and I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: It was like he's just gone, and I have to

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Speaker 4: face that. But anytime I see a black and white

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Speaker 4: He was rip Rudy. You are a great one.

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Speaker 6: A message to you, Rudy, This truly is a message

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Speaker 6: to you, Rudy. Yes, if for those second wave SKA

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's first. Who knows. There were so many waves

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Speaker 5: I feel like that was second.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe they shouldn't have just announced every wave wave.

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Speaker 2: Same with feminism, yes exactly.

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Speaker 6: Wouldn't feminism just stay popular if people weren't skanking to

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Speaker 5: STA and feminism go hand in hand.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And on this podcast episode, we are going to

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Speaker 4: explain to you how.

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Speaker 2: Feminism pick it up, Pick it up, pick it up.

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Speaker 4: I'm racking my brain for like, I never listened to

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Speaker 2: I love skankin, love them, love them.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know it was a movement when it started again.

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Speaker 6: And I accidentally saw the most terribly named band ever

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Speaker 6: Cherry Puff and Daddy's And this is before.

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Speaker 6: But I just saw them at a show and I

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Speaker 6: This is amazing because it's like, Okay, here's a bunch

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Speaker 2: They got together with some punk rock guys. That's what

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Speaker 6: But then when I had a name and all this history,

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Speaker 6: I'm like, well, now I can't jump aboard some bandwagon

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Speaker 4: You just can't. Like, you can't in terms of you

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Speaker 4: don't want to be seen that way.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 6: I like to revolt against popularity or groups. Yes, I

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Speaker 6: thought it was my music. It was the only one

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Speaker 6: SKA song that just brings me back in a Brandy

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Speaker 6: Posey way.

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Speaker 4: I mean, Brandy's holding out for Scott's. She'll keep it alive,

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Speaker 4: and I'm positive that she's the one that can do it.

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Speaker 6: Brandy, our friend painted her car as a real big fish.

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Speaker 2: It said real big Fish on it.

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Speaker 5: Yep, she was a huge fan.

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Speaker 4: Yes, uh, you know Brandy Posey from the Great two

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Speaker 4: part episode where we go to the Krispy Kreme drive

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Speaker 4: through for the first time. Oh, we've done it since,

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Speaker 4: but we did it first with Brandy.

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Speaker 2: You're right, that was a ground breaking. What is I

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Speaker 4: I see, And now what if I just didn't answer

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Speaker 4: you when you said you smell toast? And then I'm

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Speaker 6: I do want to say that in this article it

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Speaker 6: everything that could ever possibly happen to where it's like, well,

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Speaker 6: I think now, it's just it takes away when it's

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Speaker 6: thirty nine things it could be.

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Speaker 2: So I think you're fine, but I do well.

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Speaker 6: Now if I did, maybe go to a doctor so

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Speaker 2: They'll laugh. They'll be like, oh, someone's been on the internet.

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Speaker 4: What if the last thing on that list of possible

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Speaker 4: problems is that you could get electrocuted by a toaster?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, that's great, stupid, it's well toasted.

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Speaker 2: It's probably just my friend alone, and tell it's me.

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Speaker 2: I'm murdering you.

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Speaker 5: I'm holding a toaster. How is Montana?

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 6: Actually I did a little uh sketch for one of

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Speaker 6: your rent. He's like, you can't sell my stuff. What

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Speaker 6: are you holding a toaster? And then I throw the

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Speaker 6: like Brooks.

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Speaker 2: Is being electrocuted.

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Speaker 6: And I was just gonna play that on stage and like,

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Speaker 6: here's a used watch. Hopefully there's no backstory with it,

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Speaker 6: nothing nefarious. I only paid five dollars. There's a crack

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Speaker 6: in it, and it'll just bottle of blood.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 6: I didn't work it out because even holding a microphone

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Speaker 2: Oh so it but it was a good idea.

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Speaker 5: Want did the audience get you?

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Speaker 2: We're all traumatized.

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Speaker 5: We're all traumatized.

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Speaker 5: Could you stop doing this?

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Speaker 6: Ooh this is let challenge someone to a dance off?

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Speaker 2: Much kind of alley.

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Speaker 5: We're then a ball tonight.

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Speaker 6: But I, uh, yes, it's uh, we're all going We're

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Speaker 5: Still going through it. Wait, will you resay what you said?

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Speaker 5: I see. But his joke was what Yes, I see.

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Speaker 6: It's that thing where you start telling someone's joke. And

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Speaker 1: How it goes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I set myself up for that.

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Speaker 2: It's just in the joke, he's looking out the window.

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't see anyone with masks on, Like in

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Speaker 2: But it's just regular not being popular.

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Speaker 5: Oh got it?

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Speaker 6: Okay, And I butchered it both times. I hope he

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Speaker 5: I can guarantee he does.

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Speaker 2: No, No, he's a fan of us both.

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Speaker 5: No. Yeah, I have heard of Nick Vadaroth for a

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Speaker 4: Let's see if I get in front of somebody and

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Speaker 5: But he was one of those people.

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Speaker 4: I always love it when there's somebody from a different

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Speaker 6: Yeah, especially when it was the actual word of mouth.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask them.

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Speaker 6: Dip scene and thank you. That was my nineteen twenties

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Speaker 7: All of it.

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Speaker 6: See but no, no, that's not how you do it. No,

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Speaker 5: Yeah? What if I wear a tank top and act casual?

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Speaker 5: And the new style of acting was born.

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Speaker 6: Yes, hopefully someone doesn't emulate it to a t in

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Speaker 2: He's very brandowly.

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Speaker 5: That's right, that's true.

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Speaker 6: I'm always picking Hollywood fights in this podcast.

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Speaker 4: Did you ever see the the FX series Taboo that

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Speaker 5: No, it's so good.

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Speaker 2: Really you want to.

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Speaker 5: I believe.

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Speaker 2: Let us watch it. We can see it.

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Speaker 6: Today's guest thinks of it because today's guest is a

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Speaker 2: I like to into very much.

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Speaker 6: Yes, podcast based on TV shows and also a lot

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Speaker 6: of articles for you know, old rags that I've heard

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Speaker 6: of I see Ashley cumming. Hopefully we didn't make her

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, Hi, just letting you know we aren't strangers.

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Speaker 2: Why there, come.

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Speaker 5: On, sorry, we made you walk.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're right now.

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Speaker 6: We're already mad recording, so I've just now you know

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Speaker 2: Put your ears together for Ashley Ray.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Yes, that I warned us about the curb?

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Speaker 5: Was that the curb?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we curbed up a little.

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Speaker 1: It is a tricky curb here, it is. Yes, it's

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Speaker 6: But it's oh they immediately flip a U turn when

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Speaker 2: If you lived here, you'd be home right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yes, and people just then they get mad

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Speaker 2: Oh do you live where we were just had? Of course?

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to make sure we didn't make you

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Speaker 5: Before in ninety five degree heat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I can handle it. I'm a strong girl, all right.

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Speaker 5: Good, Yeah, how's.

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Speaker 1: It going to Texas? Good?

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Speaker 5: How are you? You're from Texas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Dallas was born where my family is, so I'm

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Speaker 6: drive to Dallas to do the Addison improv and I

455
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Speaker 6: remember it being.

456
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Speaker 2: A special level of heat.

457
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, like Houston's more muggy and there's bugs in your sweaty.

458
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Dallas was like super hot.

459
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, just dry, can't breathe, like your car needs ac oh.

460
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Speaker 6: It's I can't believe the number of people I knew,

461
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 6: Like my friend Matt was a comic.

462
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 2: He had a Honda Dell Soul that with no roof.

463
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people.

464
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Speaker 6: Just more popularly call it a convertible, but it had

465
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 6: no air conditioning, and I didn't understand how he lived

466
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 6: his life that way.

467
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. My aunt has had a BMW in Dallas for

468
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: seven years with no ac oh, and she just thinks

469
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 1: it's so cool to have a BMW. She like won't

470
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: upgrade it or get it and she like, I guess

471
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: can't afford to get it fixed because it's a lot

472
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 1: for a BMW.

473
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Speaker 4: Yes, that's really funny, and that's I wonder if that's

474
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 4: building like some sort of a tenacity or like a

475
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 4: level where she can handle more stuff because she's like

476
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,199
Speaker 4: forcing herself to suffer.

477
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Speaker 1: I mean, it definitely seems like it's impacting her negatively

478
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: mental health bodies. I don't think it's good for her.

479
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not good to slowly cook your brain, although they.

480
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 5: Say saunas are really good for your true. Yeah, so

481
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 5: I don't know. Maybe she's killing two birds, yeah, very true.

482
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 2: It would be therapeutic.

483
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 6: If a Texas day was only fifteen minutes long, that's

484
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 6: would be perfect. And then you went right into a

485
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 6: cryo chamber. Did you start stand up in Dallas?

486
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: No? I started in Chicago. When I was a kid,

487
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: we moved to northern Illinois, so I mostly grew up

488
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,880
Speaker 1: in Rockford, Illinois in Chicago. After college, went back there

489
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: and that's when I was like, you know, spoken word

490
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: is embarrassing. I don't want to do this anymore. I

491
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: want to do something less embarrassing, so I'll try stand

492
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: up comedy.

493
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 2: Did you start in slam poetry?

494
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: It was I did. Yeah, it was huge. Okay, this

495
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,679
Speaker 1: was like two thousand and nine, right, like I in

496
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: high school was super into Auni DiFranco, and I would

497
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: like perform her songs like spoken word poems at like

498
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: our talent shows.

499
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 2: I think it's more perfect than that. I love it.

500
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 1: And like in college, I joined speak for our spoken

501
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: word team. I would like compete at the Bowery. I

502
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: was in like national Slam competitions and in Chicago, obviously

503
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: the scene is huge there, Like the Moth, That's what

504
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: I was doing, And like after every show, all these

505
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: white people would come up to me like, oh my gosh,

506
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: that was so moving. You're teaching us so much, and

507
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: I would just kind of be like, I just want

508
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: to make jokes. I just like the funny parts. I'm

509
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: not here to like teach you. Oh my gosh, that's.

510
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: The guy situation.

511
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,959
Speaker 6: Yeah, that person is a lunatic and that is going on'

512
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 6: such a normal haircut. It's always amazing to see a

513
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 6: perfectly normal looking face act like Ted Bundy of the Road.

514
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 4: They're literally listener weaving in and out of traffic, like

515
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 4: trying to catch each other and get in front of

516
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 4: each other and slam on the brakes.

517
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 6: Oh and now they're taking it into a residential well

518
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 6: enjoyed what short life you have?

519
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 5: Sorry, you were competing at a national.

520
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: Level, yeah, for spoken word in Chicago. I would like

521
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: compete in the moth and stuff. Oh my god. Now

522
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: he's given people the jerk a symbol, and.

523
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 4: That guy is getting giving maybe gang signs to say, yeah.

524
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 6: He was just showcasing his many finger taps. I do

525
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 6: think I got these, you know.

526
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 1: From I'm not Gonna Fight someone a far He's like, well,

527
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: this one is a little mustache on the side of

528
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: my finger. Actually very hip in two thousand.

529
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 2: They're all old poems he used to read. I always

530
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: bring it back.

531
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Speaker 4: So what was the moment where you were like, aside

532
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 4: from the embarrassment where you're like, I'm going to do comedy,

533
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 4: it was.

534
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 1: Like, so I would do these like spoken word things

535
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: like short like you know, storytelling, and I always just

536
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: like telling the funny parts of the stories. I like

537
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: when people would laugh, and I hated when like these

538
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: like you know, well meaning liberals would come up to

539
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: me after like that was so moving. Thank you for

540
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: teaching us about the black female experience. Oh wow. And

541
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: I would just be like but just like.

542
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 5: Laugh though, right, we're trying to have fun.

543
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 1: Here, and I was in Chicago and Sarah Sherman, who's

544
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: now you know on SNL huge, and Beck O'Neill, who's

545
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: another comedian I love. They were hosting the Coles open Mic,

546
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: which is like the best, biggest open mic in Chicago,

547
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: and they were trying to just get more women to

548
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: do it. And they were like, look, you already do

549
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: spoken word, you may as well try stand up. It's

550
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: also embarrassing. Just come to this open mic. We'll put

551
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: you up and give it a shoy. And the first

552
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: time I did it, I fell in love. I was

553
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: just like, I love doing this. I think I did

554
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: five minutes on Gypsy Rose. Actually I'm very ahead of

555
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 1: my time. This was like twenty seventeen. That's right, Mommy,

556
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: Dad and DearS had just come out and I had

557
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: like a five minute set of jokes on her.

558
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 6: Nice So I noticed, though. There was a comedy scene

559
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 6: in Boise, Idaho. That's kind of changed since this woman,

560
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 6: Lisa Young, she used to run the Funny Bone there.

561
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 6: She was so passionate about the poetry scene. They had

562
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 6: like three nights and she was trying to get a

563
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 6: lot of them to do stand up. She had like

564
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 6: a master plan for all these comics, and in a

565
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 6: lot of comics were really good as originalt I think

566
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 6: it makes for a good stand.

567
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: Up, it does. You know, it's like spoken word storytelling.

568
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: You have to kind of be willing to like take

569
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 1: your sad thoughts in sad life and turn it into entertainment. Yeah.

570
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: So it's just one more step to be like, okay,

571
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: well let me make it funny.

572
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 2: Right right.

573
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 6: I think for me it would have helped because it's like, oh,

574
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 6: the actual words.

575
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: Don't just go up there and riff on a topic.

576
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 2: You should write because it took me a long time.

577
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 6: I skill don't necessarily write things out and then memorize

578
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 6: them and go out there.

579
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. The comics who are like, no, I write my

580
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: jokes down and I like, you know, write them again

581
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: and again. I'm like, that's crazy, So what are you doing?

582
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: You don't just like write a premise and get on

583
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: stage and an open mic and just kind of feel

584
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: it out. Okay.

585
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 4: It makes so much sense though, the like that pipeline

586
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 4: because you're up there and you are being so vulnerable

587
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 4: spoken word, it is like you you are gutting it

588
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 4: out in a way where it's like is comedy any harder.

589
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 4: I think it might be slightly here. Yeah, I mean

590
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 4: I wouldn't know. You have to tell me.

591
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess with spoken word it's you all.

592
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: You're trying to also get people to feel that emotional

593
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: pull or like you have to use that cadence, like

594
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is the most important thing that could

595
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: ever be said. Yeah. Right, And like my freshman year,

596
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: my biggest poem that like one in the like Northeast

597
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: Slam poetry contesting was called I Don't hook Up, I

598
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: Fuck And it was like this treaties against like hook

599
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: up culture. Yes, that was like I'm an adult, Okay,

600
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: I don't need hookup culture.

601
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 5: Did the people were they on their feet at the end, yes.

602
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: Oh oh, All these like seventeen and eighteen year olds

603
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: are just like, oh my gosh, this is revolutionary. And

604
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: I read it and like saw a clip of it

605
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: a few years ago. It's like, this is the most

606
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: embarrassing thing. Please, I can never have this on the internet.

607
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: Was it just because there wasn't enough jokes in it?

608
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: And you want I think the sad thing is that

609
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: I tried to get a lot of jokes in it, right,

610
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: And they were not good.

611
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I have a come from a similar just coming

612
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 6: from improv, and I'd always go for the joke and

613
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 6: disappoint everyone else on stage. And then I like heard

614
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 6: comics that tell joke like Mitch Hedburg and people that

615
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 6: told one liners, and I'm.

616
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I think I should do.

617
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 6: This because it's a lot less pressure, oh than going

618
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 6: through all these building scenes.

619
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: And then ruining other people's scenes.

620
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Mitch Heedburg definitely was someone who inspired

621
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: my stand up and just my desire to want to perform.

622
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: Like in high school, before I even knew I wanted

623
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: to be a comedian, I would dress up is Mitch

624
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: Heedburgh and do his jokes at like talent shows, and

625
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: I would just be like, yeah, I'm just doing a

626
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: Mitch Hedburg set as well.

627
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm glad that I brought him up.

628
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Speaker 1: Then, Yeah, that's amazing, very funny when you're like fourteen.

629
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 4: Sure, so absolutely, also so satisfying because they really it

630
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 4: is the all those little self contained moments where it's

631
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 4: like you with his material, you get to kill the

632
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 4: entire time.

633
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, like they're gonna laugh whether you say it.

634
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: Or oh yeah, And my English teacher came up, He's like,

635
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: did you write those? That was hilarious? And I straight

636
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: up was just like yeah I did. Yeah, that's all me,

637
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: that's all me. I knew he wasn't gonna watch Comedy Central.

638
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

639
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 6: There was a skateboarding shoe that came out one year

640
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 6: and it was called The Story And in the tread

641
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 6: the skater whose pro model shoe it was, had a

642
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 6: store and there was six or seven Hedburg jokes in it,

643
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 6: but it was before anyone outside of being a hardcore

644
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 6: fan of comedy would be able to pick them out.

645
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 6: And I was like so furious that it was on

646
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 6: a shoe and it didn't say Hedburg wrote.

647
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: This, you know.

648
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 4: So it almost was like if when I'm really I

649
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 4: eat rice when I'm hungry for three hundred and sixty

650
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 4: five thousand of something or whatever.

651
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 5: Ye like that written on a shoe with no credit within.

652
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 6: A story that this guy, but he was saying, this

653
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 6: is my story.

654
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: They steal from Mitch all the time. Yeah, especially on TikTok,

655
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: since that's just how the app works. I will see

656
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: so many people just like using it as like quotes

657
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: on there, you know, the thing where they put text

658
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: and then like I don't make sad faces in the

659
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: background like they do that now with all comedians. It's

660
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: just yes, and then people just go, no, it's a meme.

661
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: That's how it's supposed to be.

662
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, And it's literally I've I've seen it with

663
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 4: other people's tweets where it's like a person making a

664
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 4: face and it's the copy.

665
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 5: And then one day it was one of my tweets

666
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 5: and I was like, this isn't that good?

667
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm really I'm half embarrassed because I know

668
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 4: that's mine, and then I'm half like really proud, where

669
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh.

670
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 5: You wanted to steal it, that's great?

671
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like okay, I guess it resonated with people, and

672
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: then I'm like, in I don't know, it's like if

673
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Speaker 1: you try to be like, hey, that was mine, then

674
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: it's just like you look like a loser. People are

675
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: like this is TikTok.

676
00:32:58,640 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

677
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 4: In the beginning of Twitter, that's what I always said,

678
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 4: where I was like, why would people want to put

679
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 4: their notebook on the internet because anyone can say that

680
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 4: was my idea?

681
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, but it also is time stamping and showing that

682
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 6: when and where you thought of it first, So.

683
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen it go both ways. I mean there

684
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: was I think there's legit cases where you know, you've

685
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: had really big comics be like I tweeted this exact

686
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: like Zillo bit, and then Saturday Night Live made this

687
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: sketch like, you know, a year later. But then there

688
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: was also recently this woman who like tweeted a very

689
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: very common joke about Nancy Reagan, you know, like, oh,

690
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: stocks are solo, they're like Nancy Reagan on the MGM

691
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: but back lot, which classic old joke. Sure, and then

692
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: they made that same joke in an episode of the Boys,

693
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: and she went on Twitter demanding that the Boys give

694
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: her a writing credit, that this was her joke and

695
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: they stole it.

696
00:33:55,680 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 6: I literally just saw it two days ago, but fit

697
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 6: in that Boy's scene. Yeah, it was like, let me

698
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 6: get the stoke out of my met Like even the

699
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 6: actor felt uncomfortable.

700
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just felt like pushing kind of like, oh,

701
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: that's a joke, and it was like, well, clearly they

702
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 1: didn't steal this from you. It's just a hack joke

703
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: and you should not feel proud that you also tweeted it.

704
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 5: Also, when I started stand up, I did a lot

705
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 5: of things.

706
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 4: Where I quote unquote wrote a joke, and what actually

707
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 4: happened is I remembered a joke from television from television,

708
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 4: and so that happened once where I had a joke

709
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 4: about like a girl that was being very territorial about

710
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 4: her boyfriend, and then I was like, why don't you

711
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 4: pee a circle around him? Which I thought was the

712
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 4: most amazing joke, and then like whatever, four years later

713
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 4: I saw it on friends and I was like, they

714
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 4: totally stole my joke. And I sent it to some

715
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 4: comic we know and they were like, I'm really sorry

716
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 4: to tell you this.

717
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 5: That is the oldest old and I was just.

718
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 8: Like, so funny.

719
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 6: Oh, that's what Billy Mayne Davis did to me when

720
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 6: my my dad would. I would use my dad's jokes

721
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,919
Speaker 6: when I first started, but a lot of them were

722
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 6: from Seinfeld. I did not know that the whole who's

723
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 6: getting all this blood tide gets blood stains and grass

724
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 6: staines out of your clothes. Are they marketing themselves towards murderers?

725
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 6: I don't know what it was.

726
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: Some version of that. And he told me that's a

727
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,439
Speaker 2: that tide bit is Seinfeld through and through?

728
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: Oh I did not know.

729
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 2: And I called and screamed it my dad.

730
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 6: One time I got a mug with a joke on

731
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 6: it that was the way too close.

732
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: Someone sent me a mug as a gift about what's

733
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 2: with all these owls graduating from something? Because owls always

734
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 2: have graduation tats.

735
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 6: The illustration told the joke, and I was like, where

736
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 6: I want to that's my joke. My friend made me

737
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 6: the mug and sent it to me. I didn't realize

738
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 6: it was a thoughtful gift.

739
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: Your friends actually listening to you, and you're like, I

740
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: can't believe.

741
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 5: You shit at you.

742
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 6: You know, it sucks because I had to assume my

743
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 6: friend and he was just doing a nice thing.

744
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 5: Well, he didn't have the rights to make that money.

745
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you gotta pay the usage, righteees.

746
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 4: I was in a situation at lunch today where I

747
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 4: couldn't actually eat the sandwich I had because I was

748
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 4: in a meeting and that people were watching me.

749
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: Oh that's it was my breakfast this morning?

750
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 5: Did it really?

751
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: Yeah? I like ordered my oatmeal and then these two

752
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: people I work with were like, can we hop on

753
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: a last minute call. By the time we're done, my

754
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: oatmeals cold? Because I didn't want to eat it with

755
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: them all looking and they in sipt on the skin

756
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: on top.

757
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well, so I was thinking, should we go

758
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 4: to Rick's drive through?

759
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: It's so good?

760
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 5: I mean I would love to eat something and drink something.

761
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: It's really good.

762
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: I'm all for it.

763
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 5: They just have beverages too, right, Oh yeah, yeah, fine,

764
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 5: they got milkshakes.

765
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: They got it. When I did, I did what's that

766
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: podcast where the people they eat food? You go to

767
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 1: restaurants The boy Do Boys?

768
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 2: Of course, that was the.

769
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: Restaurant I chose is Rix. It is my favorite neighborhood place.

770
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Speaker 5: Nice. Okay, well you can be our guide drive through.

771
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: Great, they got pie, they got milk, chicks, they got

772
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: everything there.

773
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 6: Wait does this place boast having something world famous?

774
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: They do?

775
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 6: I think that we are about to find out, like spaghetti.

776
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: Yes, their big thing is there spaghetti. Whenever it's gone,

777
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: they put like a big thing up that's like spaghetti

778
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: is gone, and it's like a big deal. And then

779
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: when spaghetti is back, it is like spaghetti is back

780
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: and it's truly lines out the doors.

781
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 4: Should we all get big bowls of spaghetti to eat

782
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 4: in the car?

783
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just in the Yeah, it's like the micrap

784
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: of that place. Very seasonal.

785
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it must be a real hit there. Yes, I

786
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 4: love the independent drive.

787
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 2: It does say world famous ricks. People know Rick Rick.

788
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: I think they have the best La hot dog. What

789
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: do I do?

790
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 5: I do it here?

791
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: Oah, you can turn it in this way and then

792
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: like go down.

793
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 5: Yeah perfect. I've never been here. It's so crazy.

794
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, they only for us to have this location and

795
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: want in Inglewood. Oh okay, some of the best like

796
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: chili fries. It's just it's a little hidden gem.

797
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 5: Okay, awesome, We're gonna have to take a look at.

798
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: This on the edge of ice. See what the I

799
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: don't know the status of spaghetti or not?

800
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 4: True?

801
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: True, it wasn't on the side, so we do not know.

802
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 2: Hungry, but I shouldn't eat.

803
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 5: You could have just like one taco.

804
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of want to tao.

805
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 5: Okay, is that what you want?

806
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 6: And iced coffee? Is that a terrible combination to most?

807
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 5: I mean it's your life.

808
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 1: I'll do the ice coffee tea.

809
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 5: And you know they have ice coffee a guarantee we all.

810
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 1: Actually do not I know they have regularly.

811
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 5: Can I ask you a question? Do you have ice coffee. Okay,

812
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 5: oh they have raspberry iced tea. They have like iced tea,

813
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 5: raspberry iced tea.

814
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 2: All of regular iced tea.

815
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 5: Can we get a regular iced tea? And what would

816
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 5: you like?

817
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: I'll get a tortata, uh is it flavored?

818
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 5: And a horchata.

819
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 4: Regular sized and h a raspberry iced tea regular sized

820
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 4: on a lease a raspberry and two raspberry iced teas?

821
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 4: And can we also get an asada taco and one

822
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 4: of your ground beef hardshell tacos?

823
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 5: Please? Actually anything to eat on aalise?

824
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Thank you?

825
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 5: Okay, that's gonna be it. Ok thank you? Can you

826
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 5: are you allowed to park?

827
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: That's what I wondered. And now I saw the lines.

828
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 6: In which he was parked, and then I started to

829
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 6: think we were wrong.

830
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 2: We're in the drive room. We belong here too.

831
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: But now that we're past the thing, I will say

832
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: the spaghetti not that good, okay, if you ask me,

833
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't think the spaghetti is that good.

834
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, you can really lower the bar when it's drived

835
00:39:58,560 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 6: through spaghetti.

836
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, No one's going to compare.

837
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 5: Oh no, yeah, then why.

838
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 2: Are they here? I don't know if it's.

839
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: Like, there's not a great pasta place in La. So

840
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: people go for.

841
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 5: This, but there's not a great drive through.

842
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 6: Possibly every time you tell me to simply grab your purse,

843
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 6: I turn into my mom's son and I stick my

844
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 6: fist in there and just start ruining around.

845
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 2: I've done it over and over trying to get served.

846
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 6: I just yees, oh, where's that Redson?

847
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 5: I think there should be more drive through everything in

848
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 5: this town.

849
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: Yes, we all drive, and I don't understanding.

850
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

851
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, let's just face the facts that we don't like

852
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 6: to get out of our cars. And no one it's

853
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 6: not just a catchy song, but no one walks in La.

854
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: Yes.

855
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: I had a friend from Chicago some visit. She walked

856
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: to the Whole Foods that's like around the corner for me,

857
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: and she was like, why were people staring at me?

858
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: Isn't that because you're crazy for doing that? Yeah?

859
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 5: People are worried about you as you walk home the street.

860
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

861
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 6: Everyone that visits it's like, oh, I figured we do this, this, this,

862
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 6: and okay, first of all, we're only going to be

863
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 6: able to do two things.

864
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and your idea of walking to all these things.

865
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: Not at all.

866
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 6: There's absolutely no no, no no way, no no, no yeah,

867
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 6: we'll just shoot over from Lax to Bourbank and then

868
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 6: back to you know, Long Beach.

869
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: We just walked from like weh to Santa Monica and

870
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: then we'll it's like, no, that's it was not what

871
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: we do.

872
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 6: I need you to zoom into whatever map you're looking

873
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 6: at and consult the key.

874
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: You will see a highway you can't walk on it.

875
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 5: What was the first neighborhood you moved to when you

876
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 5: moved to LA.

877
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: I was in Mid City, which was actually pretty nice.

878
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: It was, you know, mostly families. I was close to

879
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: the comedy store.

880
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: That's what mid City is kind of.

881
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: It's like that neighborhood that's like, what is it like

882
00:41:55,719 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 1: Wilshure just down to I guess it's kind of Adams, Okay,

883
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: I know exactly.

884
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 2: Yes, it's so funny.

885
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 6: I always when someone says mid City, I think Century

886
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 6: City because I feel like that.

887
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 4: To me, Raspberry Honally or Tota, thank you, thank you,

888
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 4: thank you. My friend used to live in mid City,

889
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 4: had a really beautiful house.

890
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: There's nice houses over there. Yeah, and like it probably

891
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: honestly the nicest apartment I've had. I love my apartment now,

892
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 1: but that one, it just had these huge windows, central

893
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: location parking, and I love the neighborhood because even though

894
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: there's not a lot of places to go out, it's

895
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: just quiet and good restaurants. But then I had the

896
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: world's worst roommate. I tried to like wait her out.

897
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: I tried to be like, she's gonna go, I'm gonna

898
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: get this apartment and I will stay here. And she

899
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: was so awful. It was like she just was doing

900
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: whatever she could to get me to leave.

901
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 5: Can you give examples maybe of how awful?

902
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: Oh my okay. Yes. She would shower in the dark,

903
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: the door open because she didn't want to clean the

904
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: bathroom and seeing the dirt made her uncomfortable, so she

905
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: would wash her plants in the bathroom, like she'd put

906
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: them on the bathtub, like let the plants get dirt everywhere.

907
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: And then she would shower and be like, I'm just

908
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: gonna shower with the door close, with the door open

909
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: and the lights off so I don't see the dirt.

910
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: And then I would be like in my room listening

911
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: to music in my headphones, and I would go into

912
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: the bathroom thinking, no one's in here. Oh my god,

913
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: in on her like four times and every time, she'd

914
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: act like I was the crazy person.

915
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 2: It's her dirt. It was her plant dirt.

916
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: Yes, her dirt. She would never clean the bathroom. I

917
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: cleaned it every single time I lived here.

918
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 6: I want there's that show. I think it's called The

919
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 6: Worst Roommate's Ever.

920
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: The second season just came out. I'm so good, And

921
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: what about that first lady? What are you thinking? She

922
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: tried to take your kid and you just stay so.

923
00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 6: She's what I yes, But also at the same time,

924
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 6: that's pretty convenient that she had a hard to raise

925
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 6: special needs kid in her roommate's like, no, it's my kid.

926
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, well, that's actually if if.

927
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: But then she's just just given her She was ordering

928
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: MRSA on the internet, yes.

929
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 2: And yeah, I've I've rewatched a few of them.

930
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 6: But I like the idea of some of the episodes

931
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 6: just being dirt shower, ignoring dirt in the shower, like actual, relatable, not.

932
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 4: Letter not murder, because it's on part in some ways

933
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 4: in terms of day to day life, where you're just like, hey,

934
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,439
Speaker 4: when I walk into the bathroom, there's just a bare

935
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 4: minimum of not dirt any because it's the bathroom.

936
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 5: Because it's the bathroom, not the garden.

937
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing.

938
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: She would use a Diva cup and if you're not familiar,

939
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: they can be kind of messy, but yeah, you're supposed

940
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: to kind of get it all in the bowl. But

941
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 1: she would get it on like the under part of

942
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 1: the toilet seat rim and refuse to clean it.

943
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

944
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: Like I didn't let that truly get to me until

945
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 1: one day she had like a guy friend over and

946
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: the guy friend I hear him like, go, like, okay,

947
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: I use the bathroom. He goes in there and I

948
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 1: just immediately hear him walk out and he just says,

949
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: I hear him go, there's blood all over the inside

950
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: of your toilet seat. And she blamed it on me.

951
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: Oh my, I have heard her through the door go

952
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: oh yeah, my roommate is such a mess. And I

953
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: was like, are you kidding me? Oh what?

954
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 5: God?

955
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: I was like, I have miss tampons over here, that

956
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: is all you.

957
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 6: Oh God, I wish you'd burst out and called her

958
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 6: on it right then.

959
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: I don't care what romance budding, what's happened.

960
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: I was so upset, And the worst part is that

961
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: instead I just went out there and very loudly cleaned

962
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: the toilet and then I went in the living room

963
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: was like, I cleaned the toilet for you, and she knew.

964
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: She I was like, you know the deal here, But

965
00:45:58,520 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: it's almost.

966
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 4: Like that level of passive aggression, not on your part

967
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 4: but on her part. And then you're like, okay, fine,

968
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 4: you want to do this like here, I just cleaned it,

969
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 4: and it's like you just played right into her hand.

970
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got what I wanted.

971
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 4: An ultimate manipulation where you're trying to get back at

972
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 4: her and then basically doing chores.

973
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 6: She just and she invites another guy over. Sorry, that's

974
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 6: my roommate's plant.

975
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: Oh, just like always, those are my roommate's dishes. She

976
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: was awful. And the last straw was I was on tour.

977
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: I was doing shows in Boston and I get a

978
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: text message from one of her friends that lives in

979
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: a different city, who I like kind of know but

980
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: not that well, and she's like, hey, just FYI, people

981
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: told me to tell you that you need to get

982
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: a new key for your apartment because your roommate changed

983
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: all the locks. What And I'm just like what, why

984
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 1: would she do that? And she's like, oh, well, I

985
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: guess she got locked out and you weren't there, and

986
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: instead of like asking the landlord for the extra key,

987
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,280
Speaker 1: she just had all the locks changed.

988
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 2: I am infury it.

989
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 6: Do you know where there's person that's right now, let's go,

990
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 6: let's drop by, Let's don't drop by.

991
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 1: She's no longer in the city of La. She totaled

992
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: five cars and got three DUIs and decided to go back.

993
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 5: She didn't like it.

994
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 4: She was trying to get someone to send her away.

995
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and plants weren't doing the trick.

996
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. And when I moved out, I because she like

997
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: had been pulling out our least agreement to try to

998
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: be like, you can't leave yet, blah blah blah, and

999
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: she like left it on the table and on the back.

1000
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: I got a sharpie and I just wrote, you really

1001
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: should leave La. I don't think this place is for you,

1002
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 1: and it's gonna destroy you. I don't know another human

1003
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: in the city who has totaled five cars and under

1004
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: a year. That under under a year, and every accident

1005
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: was her fault. One of them she hit a parked

1006
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: food car like a no food truck, and then the

1007
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: food truck got the ticket because when the cops came.

1008
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: She started like crying, and she's like this cute little

1009
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 1: white girl and she's like, oh my god, I didn't

1010
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 1: know what even happened, and the food truck got the ticket.

1011
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 5: That's fucked exactly.

1012
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 4: But I have to say, just in fairness, when I

1013
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,439
Speaker 4: lived in Sacramento, a place I did not want to live,

1014
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 4: I got in three car accidents in a year. And

1015
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 4: when I had to call and tell my parents about

1016
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 4: the third one, my mom goes, I'm coming up and

1017
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 4: getting you tomorrow. But I was just like okay, and

1018
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 4: I had to move home. Like my mother's like, we're

1019
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 4: not fucking doing this.

1020
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: Money like lead the law down, and instead her family

1021
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: would just be like, here's money for another car, babe.

1022
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's bad.

1023
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: She had an old lady head one in a car

1024
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: in a card. She was making a left and just decided,

1025
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, I thought the lady would stop for me,

1026
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: even though she did not have an arrow or anything.

1027
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 4: Oh.

1028
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 6: I am so mad at this person. I'm madder than

1029
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 6: the murderers on the show we're talking about.

1030
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: I would rather be friends with a lady ordering MRSA

1031
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 1: online than live with that girl again.

1032
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 4: And soot lady's kind of trying to kiss your ass

1033
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,439
Speaker 4: a little bit and like make it all go well

1034
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 4: until she poisons you.

1035
00:48:58,280 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 5: It's not daily attacks.

1036
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: I bet she cleaned the bathtub when she was living

1037
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: with that lady.

1038
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 6: Oh, so many things are flashing back. I'm so I'm

1039
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 6: glad that I live alone right now? Are you alone?

1040
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: Now? I'm alone? Yes? After that, I truly was just

1041
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 1: like I could never have a roommate again. Got my

1042
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: own place, yeah, and now I'm in Silver Lake the best.

1043
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: I love it over here.

1044
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's really it's so good over here. And also

1045
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 5: it's so nice to live alone.

1046
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: It's yeah, I I you know that I was. It

1047
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: was my twenties. I tried, can never do it again.

1048
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 5: You did your best.

1049
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: I don't even know that I could live with someone

1050
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: I was dating at this point.

1051
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 2: Well.

1052
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 4: Also, I think put were you in a house by

1053
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 4: yourself during COVID?

1054
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, me.

1055
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 4: Too, And I think it like at the beginning, I

1056
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 4: was like, oh, I'm scared. I hope I don't have

1057
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 4: a nervous breakdown or because I'm alone as long. And

1058
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 4: at this point I'm like, oh, I got through all

1059
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 4: of the dark night of the soul of that, and

1060
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 4: now I'm like.

1061
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 5: This is what I prefer.

1062
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm I was starting to get worried about how comfortable,

1063
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 6: how much fun I could have by myself. I didn't

1064
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 6: anticipate that. Yeah, like this has been a party.

1065
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: I love it, and you don't have the guilt of

1066
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be places. That was the best part

1067
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: of koh Yo, but I was invited, I'm supposed to

1068
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: be there is none of that.

1069
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 6: I always say that nothing was expected of me, and

1070
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 6: all my gray hair went away.

1071
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 2: It was the best.

1072
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 6: Sure, Yes it sucks, nothing's going on career or whatever. Yeah,

1073
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 6: the happiness is pretty hard to ignore.

1074
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 1: And all those people who did that was horrible, very sad,

1075
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 1: and yes, yes, making line of like just the no fomo,

1076
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: just the guilt free. Yes, gotta stay in all.

1077
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 5: Weekend, gotta watch more TV.

1078
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, no one cares that I'm binging all of Sex

1079
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: in the City and my movies now that.

1080
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,919
Speaker 2: I haven't shaken. How many things from that time?

1081
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 4: Have you?

1082
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 6: Are you disappointed that you're still experiencing today?

1083
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 5: Like?

1084
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 6: Are are you still having trouble going to things and

1085
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 6: watching too much?

1086
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Yeah, I still cannot get into the rhythm of

1087
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: being social again. Like I used to be someone who

1088
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 1: is like go out to a bar, like after a show,

1089
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, everybody's probably just hanging out here.

1090
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: I'll just go stop by and end up like you know,

1091
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: hoppingto different shows, different bars all night. And now like

1092
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: I will be like, when exactly do I need to

1093
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: be at the show for me to walk on stage

1094
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: and immediately leave right after? Like if I get there

1095
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: at eight to fifteen in my I'll be like, what

1096
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 1: eight twenty and we're good.

1097
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 4: Like I feel like because it was so comfortable, even

1098
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 4: though it was scary as hell and very like obviously

1099
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 4: traumatizing to everybody, there's a comfort level that now everything

1100
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 4: seems really hard.

1101
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:49,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, like all those kinds of social this this social energy.

1102
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 4: Is something that like you need it to get it

1103
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,360
Speaker 4: like you have, it has to already be happening almost.

1104
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 4: It's like a momentum thing for me. So then I'm like, well,

1105
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 4: I can't cold go to this party, and I haven't

1106
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 4: gone to a party in four years, right, so I

1107
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 4: just keep not doing it where it's like because I

1108
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 4: don't like being uncomfortable ever at all, Because I was

1109
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,920
Speaker 4: so comfortable all through COVID, just being like, oh, I

1110
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 4: don't ever have to risk anything. I don't have to

1111
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 4: do anything that I don't like doing.

1112
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 6: Well, the good news is this podcast, what you're experiencing

1113
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 6: right now, has replaced parties, at least for me. At

1114
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 6: the end of the episode, you'll feel like you went

1115
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:30,280
Speaker 6: to a thing and even hung out by a pool ferment.

1116
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's all I really need now.

1117
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 2: I can't promise the swimming pool party. I just kind of.

1118
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 4: Said that, but if I start having parties again at

1119
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 4: my house, I will invite you, Ashley, and then you

1120
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 4: can do to.

1121
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 5: Put a big toe in see what happened.

1122
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: I'll do it leave whenever you'll give it a shot.

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00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: Like I used to throw a huge house parties, birthday parties,

1124
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: and I don't think I've thrown a party since before COVID.

1125
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: Like I just kind of was like, I don't want

1126
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: people in my space, right, Like I didn't just like, no,

1127
00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: this is just my thing.

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00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've been meaning to have a housewarming party for

1129
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 6: my place and I've been there four and a half years.

1130
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've been at my place like three and

1131
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,439
Speaker 1: a half years and I have not had a housewarming party.

1132
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I just want someone else's cast for all dishes. Yeah.

1133
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 1: And my friends are like, oh, you finally left that

1134
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: horrible roommate. You should celebrate, And I'm like, I'll get

1135
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: around to it. And celebrating just being alone here, that's

1136
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: the celebration. What also?

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00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,240
Speaker 4: I love though, and I think I always forget because

1138
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 4: when I'm like I have to go to a party.

1139
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,359
Speaker 5: In my mind, that means I.

1140
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 4: Have to walk and be like hello everyone, and then

1141
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 4: start doing some It's like you can walk into a

1142
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 4: party in silence. Yeah, talk to only the people you know,

1143
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 4: and leave twenty minutes later.

1144
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 5: No one gives a show with right, no one cares.

1145
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can just go in and listen to other

1146
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 2: people and leave. You have to say a word. But

1147
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 2: does that sound fun? I got to go in and

1148
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 2: do a dance.

1149
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's the old me.

1150
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1151
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 5: I think it's like what.

1152
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: It sounds like, say hi to me? No? No, no?

1153
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 6: What if I go in act like I'm going to

1154
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 6: do a dance, put a lampshade on my head, and

1155
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 6: then I just listened to people.

1156
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 2: It's the best.

1157
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 5: It's the best about It is quite a way.

1158
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 2: To party, Ashley read online. We do research. I don't

1159
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 2: did the research. The sweet On onlyase.

1160
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 6: Next Dude does the research, but it says you grew

1161
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 6: up in a house that had a daycare.

1162
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: Yes.

1163
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 6: Oh, I used to live next to a daycare and

1164
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 6: so I worked at the daycare for years and I

1165
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 6: loved it.

1166
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: Did what was your how much of your life was spent?

1167
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: All of it? Literally when my mom opened the daycare

1168
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: when I was like nine months old, because at the

1169
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 1: time she had a job in Chicago and we lived

1170
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: in Rockford. It's like a two hour drive between the cities,

1171
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: and she would like, drop me off at a daycare,

1172
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: go drive into the city, work, pick me up. And

1173
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: she was like, I hate this. I could just start

1174
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: a daycare and spend more time with my daughter, and

1175
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: so she did. We had a two story house and

1176
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 1: we basically lived upstairs. In the entire downstair was a daycare,

1177
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 1: like all just child's size seating, Like I like, friends

1178
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,320
Speaker 1: would come over and I would be like, oh, sorry,

1179
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 1: the only place we have for you to sit is

1180
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 1: like this little like kindergarten table.

1181
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 2: They're on little tykes like little.

1182
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: Tax equipment, and like, I think my in high school.

1183
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: My mom finally got a couch down there because I

1184
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: was like, it would be cool to kind of have

1185
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: a real living room.

1186
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

1187
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 6: Everywhere there's your friends sit, there's just a wet cracker

1188
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 6: between the couch.

1189
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, so many wet goldfish.

1190
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1191
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: And she did a first, second, and third shift six

1192
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: months old yeah, no, six no, six weeks old to twelve.

1193
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 5: Wow.

1194
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: And because I lived there, like my brother and I

1195
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: had to be CPR certified. You had to have background checks.

1196
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 1: I like started getting fingerprinted when I was twelve years old. Wow,

1197
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, just to live in my house.

1198
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1199
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: Just to go downstairs truly, Yeah, Like it was like

1200
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: to go downstairs and lift he or you have to

1201
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: have a background check, like a thirteen year old girl.

1202
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 4: Does that mean that you're kind of like you have

1203
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 4: this rock solid portfolio now behind you where you're like

1204
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 4: from the time of twelve, I.

1205
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 5: Can prove that I've always been an upstanding citizen me.

1206
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. And like I did start working for

1207
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: my mom, Like I started working with the daycare kids

1208
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 1: and taking care of them, probably when I was eight

1209
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: years old. I started like changing diapers, carrying kids, like

1210
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: helping with field trips, and by the time I was thirteen,

1211
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: I could like wrangle a room of like fifteen children.

1212
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 2: That part I liked.

1213
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, the wrangling, yes, but I did it in the

1214
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 6: wrong way. I'm like, who wants to get sprayed with

1215
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 6: a hose? And then the parents had come and I

1216
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 6: just had them wet kids and sandy wet clothes, and

1217
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 6: they were like they loved me.

1218
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,760
Speaker 2: I had zero, there.

1219
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:52,280
Speaker 6: Was no I was just my my friend, my roommate's friend.

1220
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 6: That was all my credentials. I know that in Montana

1221
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 6: at the time, you could not a male child care

1222
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 6: worker couldn't change diapers, and I'm like, yeah, god, so

1223
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:07,959
Speaker 6: I would just call up Grandma, we got one, there's

1224
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 6: a live one, and then I just watch.

1225
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 1: That was a surprising rule. In also Illinois, they like

1226
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 1: mail daycare workers aren't allowed to change diapers, and I

1227
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: was I remember me, like, this is sexist.

1228
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 6: Actually yeah it was at the time, but it was

1229
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 6: also it also was like that was my biggest fear.

1230
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 2: Of having to do.

1231
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 6: Like when she asked me, do you want to work

1232
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 6: here occasionally since you're right next door, I was like,

1233
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 6: I have some diaper questions.

1234
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 2: And yeah, and.

1235
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 5: She's like, don't worry about the diaper's pervert.

1236
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: No, not your areas, Like I can't change a diaper

1237
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: one handed now. And I'll like talk to like new

1238
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: moms or parents and they're like, I've never even touched

1239
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: a diaper, and I'm just like how. Yeah, they're like, oh,

1240
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: because most people have normal childhoods where they didn't have

1241
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: to like wake up to screaming children at six in

1242
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: the morning.

1243
00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 4: But I bet those little kids loved a slightly older

1244
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 4: kid being around.

1245
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I was like the queen of the place. Yeah,

1246
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: not only because I lived there. Like, like when I

1247
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: was younger, there were kids my age, and when I

1248
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: had favorite daycare kid friends, I would be like, you're

1249
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: allowed to come up to my room and play with

1250
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 1: a good toy. And I'd bring up like my three

1251
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: favorite female friends up and we'd be like, I'm in,

1252
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: you can play with the good barbies that are up

1253
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: in my room. But that also and if there were

1254
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: kids I didn't like, I'd be like, yeah, you can

1255
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: go play on the outside playground. Actually that's right.

1256
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 5: But getting them used to this is the politics of childhood.

1257
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: You get used to it, you know, yeah, children, that's

1258
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: what I was doing, you know, and I loved it.

1259
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: Like a lot of the kids I'm still really close with,

1260
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: which it's wild to watch them grow up. And I'm like,

1261
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 1: what do you mean, you're like in college.

1262
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 6: Many of the kids that were in my daycare have

1263
00:58:55,880 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 6: their own kids now, and those kids are already riding bikes.

1264
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and driving cars.

1265
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: You have my mom babysitting their kids. And I'm just

1266
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: like this is so wild, Like.

1267
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: Oh, your mom still has the daycare.

1268
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she still has the daycare. She eventually moved it

1269
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: to Texas and she started doing like daycare and elderly care,

1270
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: so now she takes care of babies and old people.

1271
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 2: Wow, this is a.

1272
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 5: Very cross question. But does she fucking make bank?

1273
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: She does.

1274
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 4: We can cut that out if you want, but it's

1275
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 4: all I can think about where I'm like the idea

1276
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 4: that she quit her career and basically was like, oh no, no,

1277
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 4: I'm feeling this niche. It's such a need in this country, yeah,

1278
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 4: especially people who know what the fuck they're doing.

1279
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: And she's i mean she's been doing it for like

1280
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: just over thirty years. She started it, like, you know,

1281
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: just kind of independently in the house, but she went

1282
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: back to school to get her degree in early childhood education.

1283
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: So like after that you're allowed you can like charge

1284
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: higher rates and like taken like children whose rates are

1285
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: subsidized by the state. Oh that's like how you make

1286
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: so much money because it's you know, kind of like

1287
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: Section eight housing where the parents only have to pay

1288
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: a certain amount and then the state like pays all

1289
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: the rest of it, and like you get reimbursed for

1290
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: the money you spend on food and stuff. Which I

1291
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,439
Speaker 1: think is really the biggest thing about a daycare home

1292
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: is I was learning how to cook for twenty people

1293
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 1: by the time I was like ten.

1294
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

1295
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 6: And do the elderly folks hang out with the kids

1296
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 6: and they yeah, I love it.

1297
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: Yeah they do. It's honestly the shuest thing.

1298
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I love it.

1299
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: Like she has this one kid right now, this sacred

1300
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: kid who is obsessed with vacuuming because he like is

1301
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: in love with this one ninety eight year old woman

1302
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: my mom watches, who is like love it forces anyone

1303
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: to vacuum if they come into her house. She's like

1304
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 1: one of those strict old ladies that's like if you

1305
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 1: walk in my living room, you vacuum on the way out.

1306
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: And this little like six year old boy, as soon

1307
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 1: as like he sees Miss Irma, he's like, Miss Irma, vacuum, vacuum,

1308
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: Miss ermam down, can I vacuum? And he loves it.

1309
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like you are creating little as scolden girl children,

1310
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: and I love it.

1311
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 6: I had a cousin in Montana that, when he was

1312
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 6: six or seven, was obsessed with vacuum cleaners and wanted

1313
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 6: a vacuum.

1314
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 5: Sorry, will you let me go over there? I didn't

1315
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 5: I misread my map and I need to go over there?

1316
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 5: Will you let me go in front of you? Thank you? Sorry?

1317
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 2: I said, it's okay.

1318
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 1: No.

1319
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 6: That's part of the podcast we that happens all the time.

1320
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 6: Sometimes it's it's directions. Other times someone wielding a bike

1321
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 6: clock wants.

1322
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 2: To attack us.

1323
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 5: There's a lot of trauma.

1324
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 1: It's a mixed bag in LA. If you're going to

1325
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: get someone who's like I totally get it, or someone

1326
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: who's gonna pull a gun it.

1327
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Speaker 6: This kid, anyway, was obsessed with vacuums and would take

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Speaker 6: them apart and put them back together, and everyone was like, oh,

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Speaker 6: we're dealing with a genius here. Yeah was, and uh

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Speaker 6: was very good at it, and the vacuum would run

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Speaker 6: again a child And guess what he does now he

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Speaker 6: owns a vacuum repair shop.

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Speaker 4: Wo.

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Speaker 2: Like he just knew his passion early on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it just clicked.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it didn't have to become like oh that that

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Speaker 6: kid now designs rockets for Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I'm just like this.

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Speaker 4: I want to make people's vacuum cleaners work. That's so noble,

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Speaker 4: yes world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe this kid'll grow up to well, I guess,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, be a maid because he just likes

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Speaker 1: he just likes to use the vacuum.

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Speaker 5: But made service first.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to see how the vacuum worked at a

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Speaker 6: young age, all the electronics. I built one from scratch

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Speaker 6: with a three D printer. Now my passion is, uh,

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Speaker 6: this motel.

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Speaker 5: But it's kind of ironic too. Where you were forced

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Speaker 5: to share your house with thirty to.

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Speaker 4: Eighty children, so many children, yew, and so you probably

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Speaker 4: learned to actually be the best roommate anyone could be cooking,

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Speaker 4: cleaning all that shit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like I used to doing it for

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Speaker 1: like mass amounts of people, and like you know, with

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Speaker 1: a daycare home, it's like at the end of every day,

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Speaker 1: you don't just close with it being a mess. You

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Speaker 1: have to clean up and make sure it looks good.

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Speaker 1: And if new parents come and check out the daycare,

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Speaker 1: it has to all look nice. And you know, even

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Speaker 1: the upstairs has to look good because it's like this

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Speaker 1: one place we have to live. But I think mostly

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Speaker 1: it made me like, like I loved sharing my mom, Like

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Speaker 1: I was just like I have the world's best mom.

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Speaker 1: She's so amazing, and these.

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Speaker 2: Kids are so lucky that they get.

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Speaker 1: To have her in their lives.

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Speaker 5: Are you an only child?

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Speaker 1: Uh no, I have eight brothers and sisters only shit

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Speaker 1: hotly shit so, but we're like so broad in age.

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Speaker 1: Like my oldest sibling he was born in nineteen sixty nine,

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Speaker 1: and my youngest sibling was born and two thousand and three.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: So it's like such a broad range that like my

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Speaker 1: older siblings didn't really feel like siblings, they felt like

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Speaker 1: older cousins and aunts and uncles because they would babysit me.

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Speaker 1: So in the daycare was where it kind of felt like, oh,

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Speaker 1: these are like siblings, Like I have to share my

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Speaker 1: mom with them. I have to share attention and stuff

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Speaker 1: with them. Yeah, and like I now blame that on

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Speaker 1: why I'm polyamorous, and my mom hates it. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna blame me for that, and you being

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01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: all messed up, and I'm just like, but you like

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Speaker 1: raise me in this house where I was like, love

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Speaker 1: is for everyone, there's no limits on it. My mom

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Speaker 1: can love me and eighty children.

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Speaker 6: I will blame the house on you. Immediately claiming the

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Speaker 6: blood off of a toilet seat.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's just maybeing like I've had to clean children's

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01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:53,600
Speaker 1: peep poop my whole life. Let's just clean it up. Wow.

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Speaker 6: That's great that you still look on it as a

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01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 6: good experience, because I wondered if it was different from

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Speaker 6: my I think year and a half that I've worked.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess maybe there were moments at the

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Speaker 1: time when I.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to be alone.

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01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. When I went off to college, I had trouble

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01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 1: sleeping because I was so used to falling asleep to

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Speaker 1: the sound of children, waking up to children at like

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Speaker 1: four am. And I was just like, what is.

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01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 5: This like scary silence?

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01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, are the where's the crying white

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01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 1: is just crying sounds and diaper smell. Yeah, And it

1404
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: took forever for me to be like, oh, okay, yeah,

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01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: this is just how normal people live in sleep.

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Speaker 5: Do you want to have kids?

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01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: I did for a long time, and mostly because I

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01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: know I'd be an incredible parent. I would be an

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01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 1: amazing mom, like I have helped raise all my nieces

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01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: nephews great nieces nephews, Like I love kids, I'm so

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Speaker 1: good with them. And then I'm just like, oh, but

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01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: the world is so bad, and yeah, it's like I

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01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 1: can do the best job in the world and like

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01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: a tickto can ruin my kids, And that terrifies me.

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Speaker 5: It's so horrifying. It's so true. Oh, it's that's funny.

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Speaker 4: My grandma had my dad had eight brothers and sisters,

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01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 4: so my grandma had and raised nine kids, and then

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01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 4: she babysat the neighborhood kids. But it was much more

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01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 4: kind of casual, yeah, back in the forties and fifties

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01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 4: or whatever. But that always blew my mind where I

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01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 4: was like, she must fucking love kids because she already had.

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01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 4: You would think she would be like exhausted or angry

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01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 4: or something, and instead she's like, no, keep them coming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was always like with my mom.

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01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know why you raise all

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Speaker 1: those kids, and now you're just like, let me just

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01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: keep doing this.

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Speaker 6: Wow, But yeah, I bet she's really cool.

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01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 1: Oh wait, she's cool. Bit, she's cooler than me. All

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01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: my friends are always literally like, your mom's actually cooler

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01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: and funnier than her. You should like try to get

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01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: her into stand up. She's so great.

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01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 6: I was on a show, a Comedy Central show with

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01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 6: Donnelle Rollins, what's the Tomics? He's like, and he was

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01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 6: like always trying to be loud, and I don't know,

1436
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 6: he rubbed me the wrong way at first. I've since

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01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 6: become pals with him, but his mom they he grew

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01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:16,439
Speaker 6: up in a foster care house that like would take

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01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 6: on teenagers and twenty something year olds that were having trouble,

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01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 6: and he also had multiple siblings, and his mom was

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01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 6: the coolest woman I had ever met. My dad and

1442
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:34,080
Speaker 6: her like would just talk for everyone's parents. Had to

1443
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 6: be on this show for a little bit, and I'm like, oh, okay,

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01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 6: that makes for the coolest person ever, the most compassionate human.

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01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 6: That's willing to open their home to all these people.

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01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: It's just yeah and just I don't even when things

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01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 1: would like get tough and kids were annoying, her parents

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01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: weren't paying their bills, she just had no problem being

1449
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: funny about it and just always making sure all these

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01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 1: kids were happy.

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01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 6: Yeah and yeah, I think that's what struck me about

1452
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 6: this woman.

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01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 2: It's just riddled with nothing but compassion.

1454
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: Like that's the masks.

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01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 2: Where you're getting pulled over.

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01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like, I can't be inconvenience to go

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01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:19,759
Speaker 4: to a party that someone's trying to be nice to people.

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01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:25,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, please stop invading my privacy. Anything that you

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01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 4: want to plug or talk about before we wrap it up.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can listen to my comedy album, ice Cream Money.

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01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 1: It's out everywhere, Spotify, whatever you like to stream your

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01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:39,599
Speaker 1: music on. I have a special coming out this fall

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01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: oh wow that I don't even I think I'm gonna

1464
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 1: film it at the Comedy Store. I'm not sure yet actually,

1465
01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: And if you live in LA, you can head to

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Speaker 1: my social media to see what shows I have coming out,

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Speaker 1: followed me at the Ashley Ray Anywhere and your podcast, Yes,

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Speaker 1: and listen to my podcast TV I Say with Ashley Ray,

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Speaker 1: which is also wherever you stream stuff.

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Speaker 5: What's it about?

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Speaker 1: It's all Things TV I interview your favorite comedians actors

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I can't wait. That's awesome.

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Speaker 5: Is he a Chicago guy too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he started improv there and we like went to

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Speaker 1: Jason since he's not on the internet. So do you

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Speaker 4: Today I do want to know everything that means.

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Speaker 2: Not on the internet.

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Speaker 6: Does he watched all these things on VHA pretty much

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Speaker 6: learned that and more.

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Speaker 2: You've been the best.

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Speaker 5: Yes, thank you so much. Great to meet you too,

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: You're listening. You've been listening to Do you Need a Ride?

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Speaker 3: Produced by Analise Nelson.

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01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 8: Mixed by Edson Choi.

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01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 3: Our talent booker is Patrick Coottner.

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Speaker 8: Theme song by Karen Kilgarriff.

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Speaker 3: Artwork by Chris Fairbanks.

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