Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect, and just like that, welcome back
Speaker 1: to got another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl. Just
Speaker 1: hilarious to be on the air. We're gonna jump right in.
Speaker 1: We got a lot of voice notes, so listen y'all.
Speaker 1: Good morning Jazz. I know it's early as fun, but
Speaker 1: I've been meaning to send you this voice note because
Speaker 1: I need you to help me figure out my mess,
Speaker 1: like how I'll hit you with that one to not
Speaker 1: fix my mess, figure that ship out because my motherfucking
Speaker 1: confused over here. Sorry for the party mouth. I know
Speaker 1: it's early, but before I go into details, I must say, bitch,
Speaker 1: I love you like a motherfucker, like you're my inspiration,
Speaker 1: my motivation and I'm an upcoming influenca entertaining myself. Anyways,
Speaker 1: No free Pomo. I know you don't play that ship,
Speaker 1: but I tatd this girl in high schoo and she
Speaker 1: wasn't gay. You know, just most gay girls just feel
Speaker 1: like they can get any straight girl they want, no
Speaker 1: matter what, that they can turn the bitch out like
Speaker 1: girls staying your motherfucking lane and keep it pushing, like
Speaker 1: I learned my lesson. I respect my motherfucking caramel. So
Speaker 1: any who, everybody just knew I couldn't get her. But
Speaker 1: it's like I made that ship a motherfucking go I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get this bitch like we'll be making that ship goes.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get her. I'm gonna get her like knowing
Speaker 1: that bitch may not be that interested for real, but
Speaker 1: we're gonna make you that interested for it. We don't
Speaker 1: give an especially to me and motherfucking Sagittarius, I don't
Speaker 1: like anyways, that's the all me. We talked about it.
Speaker 1: Oh me now anyway, So I've grown a lot, and
Speaker 1: she played softball, so I became the softball manager just
Speaker 1: so I could get closer to her and her behold,
Speaker 1: believe it, her motherfucking not, they did, motherfucking words. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got I got her at softball practice. I would
Speaker 1: mess with her a lot, and then I was sitting
Speaker 1: next to her on the bus for the softball trips.
Speaker 1: I remember one time she was on the phone with
Speaker 1: her mom and I thought she was on the phone
Speaker 1: with her boyfriend. So I hung that ship up, hung
Speaker 1: up in the mama motherfucking face, and I did not
Speaker 1: give no fuss, even when I found out that was Mama,
Speaker 1: because bitch, I'm sitting in the seat talking to you.
Speaker 1: I want your undivided attention her mom. And that's another
Speaker 1: little issue I had, like when we're talking, give me
Speaker 1: your undivided attention. And this bitch would just get distracted
Speaker 1: anytime I talked to her and be on her phone,
Speaker 1: be doing this that in the third like, I want
Speaker 1: your undivided attention because I'm gonna give it to you you
Speaker 1: when you're talking. So I do others as I want done.
Speaker 1: Unto me, it's what people don't understand and the thing
Speaker 1: that we call life. So we're gonna move on, and
Speaker 1: um we grew closer as the days went on. Of
Speaker 1: course I kept messing with her. You know that little
Speaker 1: play fighting ship turns into um that fucking ship. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know you were doing that that girl. So one
Speaker 1: day I went over to her house for the first
Speaker 1: time to help her take her hair out. I ready
Speaker 1: to do what the fun was going to go to out? Bitch.
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to go take the motherfucking hair out.
Speaker 1: But that's the way. That's the coach. You get your
Speaker 1: foot and the motherfucking do. So that's what I did.
Speaker 1: Like the game has played, you already know Mama ain't
Speaker 1: gonna care about a bitch coming over. So Boom went
Speaker 1: over and helped her take her out. You know, we played,
Speaker 1: and the playing were led to other things and that
Speaker 1: was the night that baby was mine. After that, it
Speaker 1: was over. It was raps. Now, let me tell you
Speaker 1: where I sucked up. I expected her to be that
Speaker 1: gay girlfriend as soon as we got into the relationship.
Speaker 1: By me being gay, I expected her to pick up
Speaker 1: on the gay things that I did to her and
Speaker 1: expected her to do them back to me. That was
Speaker 1: the huge issue of the whole relationship that made us
Speaker 1: turn toxic. And I will admit that it was my
Speaker 1: fault and take my accountability on it. It's like, when
Speaker 1: she didn't do what I wanted and she wasn't giving
Speaker 1: me the pleasure that I wanted, I want to got
Speaker 1: that pleasure and things from outside parties and code for cheating.
Speaker 1: Once that started happening, I started going to outside parties.
Speaker 1: And that's really really when things started getting bad. And
Speaker 1: you know, I stay with her. I loved her, but
Speaker 1: I stay with her just because, first of all, when
Speaker 1: she first found out. She came back. And that's the
Speaker 1: problem that I feel like us as women have to
Speaker 1: stop doing so these men don't be so comfortable to
Speaker 1: do what they're do. We have too many women out
Speaker 1: here that settle and just accept because they feel like
Speaker 1: they won't find no one that will love them for them,
Speaker 1: or that they're not worth it, they're not enough. And
Speaker 1: when we do things like that, we or men or
Speaker 1: whoever the other motherfucker party is he she adien. When
Speaker 1: we do things like that, we don't realize that we
Speaker 1: bringing our partner self esteem down and making them feel like, well,
Speaker 1: what am I doing wrong? So she came back to
Speaker 1: me the first time and she stayed. It was like
Speaker 1: that was go for me, okay, ship, she ain't gonna leave,
Speaker 1: She's gonna just come back. So I kept doing it.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying it was the right thing to do.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying my motherfucking story because baby, I've grown,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I accept my karma were and take
Speaker 1: forward responsibility because baby, bitch, I'm motherfucking miserable. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So um, mind you has been three years. Oh I
Speaker 1: know you do that sound a fake to? Yeah? The
Speaker 1: relationship was just very toxic because throughout the relationship all
Speaker 1: I did was cheap get that pleasure from those outside parties,
Speaker 1: and she returned. Now, I'm not trying to make her
Speaker 1: seem like no weak bitch, but that's what love do
Speaker 1: to you. And sad to say, you know, we we
Speaker 1: can't control temptation and comfortability. Sometimes we can't, but when
Speaker 1: it's breaking point, this ship breaking point, and we did
Speaker 1: eventually get to that breaking point. Um. I also had
Speaker 1: a little temperate mother problem. I would get mad a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm angry up until this day. I'm angry a whole
Speaker 1: another story for another day. Um, dealing with family stuff
Speaker 1: like with my father, I'm angry. So it caused me
Speaker 1: to be angry and a lot of situations that didn't
Speaker 1: need it to be and I would feel attacked all
Speaker 1: the time when necessarily I wasn't always being attacked. So
Speaker 1: with all of that, and the way that she was
Speaker 1: raised and growing up and the things that she was
Speaker 1: going through, it just didn't work. We both were going
Speaker 1: through our own little separate situations and didn't realize that
Speaker 1: we just needed to be a part and figure out
Speaker 1: our situations instead of trying to do it together. It
Speaker 1: wasn't working because we were so comfortable. But like I said,
Speaker 1: we eventually did get to that breaking point and after
Speaker 1: actually four years of being together, we broke up, and
Speaker 1: that was about three years ago, and we both haven't
Speaker 1: found anyone. We're still single and we're still friends to
Speaker 1: this day. And it took us a while to get
Speaker 1: to the point where we could be just friends. Of course,
Speaker 1: because of everything that we've been through the history. It's hard,
Speaker 1: you know, for couples to be friends afterwards. But if
Speaker 1: you and that other party can agree to and come
Speaker 1: to common mature grounds, then it can work. It just
Speaker 1: depends on you and that other party. So it took
Speaker 1: us three years to this day to get that together
Speaker 1: because you know, I was the one that cheated, so
Speaker 1: I was the one that felt the guilt and was
Speaker 1: trying to get back with her while all alone. She
Speaker 1: had moved on from the relationship from the first time
Speaker 1: that I cheated. In reality, she was just there because
Speaker 1: of comfort and of course she loved me, but the
Speaker 1: relation ship was done the first time I cheated. All
Speaker 1: trust was gone. And that's what others don't realize either.
Speaker 1: So yes, just the mess that I need you to
Speaker 1: help me figure out is why am I still single?
Speaker 1: Why I feel like I've grown a whole heap of
Speaker 1: motherfucking lot from being in the relationship with her. I
Speaker 1: learned a lot. I learned what to do and what
Speaker 1: not to do in a relationship, and not just I
Speaker 1: honestly feel like and know for a fact that I
Speaker 1: wouldn't ever in my life cheat on another person again,
Speaker 1: like I really truly loved her, And of course you
Speaker 1: don't realize that until after the fact. And I would
Speaker 1: never ever want to see the person that I love
Speaker 1: hurt and cry and knowing that I was the pain
Speaker 1: and the reason. The after effects of all of that
Speaker 1: is terrible and it's draining, and it's stressful in this depression,
Speaker 1: and it's your mental health. You fucking wait. At that point,
Speaker 1: I loasked about thirty pounds went from two hundred to
Speaker 1: one sixty dealing with that after the fact of us
Speaker 1: being uh not together anymore. So it was definitely, um,
Speaker 1: it was a lot. And now I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: figure out why am I still single? Like I said,
Speaker 1: it's been three years and I still like I haven't
Speaker 1: found no wine. I feel like I've grown a lot.
Speaker 1: I've changed a lot. My whole life perspective has changed,
Speaker 1: just with experience and everything I've been through. I grew
Speaker 1: the funk up and it's like I've talked to females
Speaker 1: since I've been with her, but it's like all of
Speaker 1: it ends up not working out. Like the people I've tried.
Speaker 1: This craziest funck be tried. I tried to motherfucker that
Speaker 1: got shot, a motherfucker that's Bob Polar, motherfucker that motherfucker
Speaker 1: tell me I'm too aggressive. And I had like a
Speaker 1: nigga too much. And there were the ones that's really
Speaker 1: fucked up in the head. They had secret kids on
Speaker 1: the way and ship like I don't know. It's just confusing,
Speaker 1: like why can't I find find love? And I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe I have to find myself first
Speaker 1: before I find love or you know, figure out my
Speaker 1: life and who I am as influencer, actress, brand ambassador, model,
Speaker 1: public figure, motivational speaker, I do it all, most tolerant female,
Speaker 1: and I just feel like because I'm on maybe my
Speaker 1: little come up, then maybe that's the reason why I
Speaker 1: haven't found no one, because you know, it gets lonely
Speaker 1: when you're great and when you're meant to be successful
Speaker 1: or a star in life, it gets lonely. And I
Speaker 1: was listening to pretty v Well, just think about what
Speaker 1: she said the other day actually, um, when we were
Speaker 1: at the Revote summing in Atlanta, I know you were
Speaker 1: there for a while now to a girl I love
Speaker 1: like that, but yeah, she just mentioned that it gets
Speaker 1: lonely on this journey. But you know you're gonna have
Speaker 1: anxiety and you're gonna go through ship, but don't let
Speaker 1: that determine you or be your whole life. And it's
Speaker 1: just of course it's hard as ship, like as hard
Speaker 1: as funk. I really be lonely as fun. And I
Speaker 1: would go back and take certain people just because of
Speaker 1: how lonely I am. Like that's another thing about us
Speaker 1: as the human fucking population, Like we really would go
Speaker 1: back and put up with the motherfucker that maybe put
Speaker 1: our put their hands on us, cheated or made anything
Speaker 1: that did anything wrong and just deal with them just
Speaker 1: because of us being bored. And that that's another generational
Speaker 1: cycle or so sociality. I don't know, social thing that
Speaker 1: we have to break as a whole, Like it's not
Speaker 1: a good thing. So yes, like Jess, I just I
Speaker 1: just need help. I don't understand why I'm still singing
Speaker 1: my doing something wrong. Like I talked to these different
Speaker 1: girls and um, it's like it just never works out,
Speaker 1: like our personalities just like I expect. They made me
Speaker 1: feel like I'd be expecting too much, Like I'm not
Speaker 1: from the lower my standards bitch. No, like I don't
Speaker 1: be it, don't be too much. I just want undivided attention.
Speaker 1: I want the motherfucker to show me that care. I
Speaker 1: want the motherfucking rolls pedals in the hotel. I want
Speaker 1: fucking all the little cute ship of flowers. I've never
Speaker 1: received flowers like that's and that's a lot of things
Speaker 1: that I always did in my last relationship that wasn't
Speaker 1: necessarily always done to me as well, Like I don't
Speaker 1: feel like my last relationship really was at one emotionally
Speaker 1: affectionately wise like at all. And yeah, like I'm not
Speaker 1: lowering my standards. I just I need motherfucker's to to
Speaker 1: get right. But maybe I'm just happy to find my
Speaker 1: person yet I don't know. And I'm still young. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty three, so maybe that's another thing. I don't need
Speaker 1: to be worrying about this because another thing that I
Speaker 1: realized is when I stopped worrying about bitches, my life
Speaker 1: gets better and my blessings come better and all of
Speaker 1: that good stuff. So, yes, Jess, I really hope you
Speaker 1: listen to this. I can't wait. I love you, boo,
Speaker 1: and that's the end of my motherfucker's story period. Hold up,
Speaker 1: Hold up, I know the ship getting good, But listen
Speaker 1: to just a couple of seconds of a commercial with
Speaker 1: your love me. You'll listen, Okay, So I love you too.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you you have kept me entertained
Speaker 1: throughout this whole ordeal, this whole story, from beginning to end,
Speaker 1: and I do see a motherfucking future and stand up
Speaker 1: for you, because child, you know how to tell a
Speaker 1: story comical. Okay, all right, let's get down to some
Speaker 1: serious ship. It's a couple of things. First of all,
Speaker 1: you being twenty three, Yes, you are too young to
Speaker 1: be worried about this ship right now, especially when you
Speaker 1: want your come up. I wouldn't put little in front
Speaker 1: of it, because it ain't nothing little about to come up.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You're you're gonna be wait,
Speaker 1: further than you ever expected to be. You're very charismatic,
Speaker 1: so I definitely get how you charm girls, but you
Speaker 1: also are controlling. I hear it. You're you're very controlling, bitch.
Speaker 1: You wanted this girl to get off the phone with
Speaker 1: how my fucking mother to talk to you? How mother
Speaker 1: could have been drowning? How mother? I don't know why
Speaker 1: she would be on the phone if she was drowning,
Speaker 1: But you get what the funk I'm saying. Is that
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's a mother you thought she was
Speaker 1: talking to. If I'm remembering right, you said that you
Speaker 1: thought that she was talking to a guy at first,
Speaker 1: or a girl or whatever. She was talking to her mom,
Speaker 1: And you was like, I don't give a funk, even
Speaker 1: if when even when I found out it was her mother,
Speaker 1: I didn't give a fuck. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: How the funk would you feel if your mom was
Speaker 1: on the phone with you? And the bitch was like,
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about your mother, Get all
Speaker 1: that motherfucking phone and talk to me. Give me, first
Speaker 1: of all, you give me female Ike Turner, if if
Speaker 1: you asked me, you know what I mean? And it's
Speaker 1: a couple of control of things that you've got going on.
Speaker 1: But I also noticed that you also brought up your
Speaker 1: dad as well, so you're still upset. You've got a
Speaker 1: lot of animosity with a lot of family ship going on.
Speaker 1: That could be where you're controlling issues stem from. That
Speaker 1: could be where your anger issues stem from. Straight up,
Speaker 1: you already said it. You know what I mean. You
Speaker 1: may need therapy for a lot of things. You may, also,
Speaker 1: like you hinted towards, need to find yourself and figure
Speaker 1: out who you are and what exactly you require to
Speaker 1: even be loved. Because I think that attention, that undivided
Speaker 1: attention that you long for so much for one person.
Speaker 1: I think you wanted that from your father. I think
Speaker 1: you probably wanted that from like your parents growing up.
Speaker 1: You didn't really speak on your mom. But I think
Speaker 1: what we do as human beings we lack, we go
Speaker 1: without these basics, like these essentials for so long. Is
Speaker 1: now that we're adults and we grow up and we
Speaker 1: try to love and we try to be intimate and
Speaker 1: have these relationships that we don't realize that we lack
Speaker 1: until we are in love with somebody and we realize
Speaker 1: that we don't have something that we should have been
Speaker 1: had before we jumped in a relationship, so you try
Speaker 1: to blame it on other people. I don't think you
Speaker 1: should lower your standards, no, but I think you should
Speaker 1: find who you are. Your standards are not. The problem
Speaker 1: is what you require. You require too much from a female,
Speaker 1: you do, and then too fast. Girl. You became a
Speaker 1: softball coach to get close to this bitch and she
Speaker 1: wouldn't even get That was a lesson that you learned.
Speaker 1: You said it at the beginning. You can't turn every
Speaker 1: straight bitch all the way gay. You can't do that.
Speaker 1: I was in love with a female before, but I
Speaker 1: never touched or looked at another female after her. But
Speaker 1: that female couldn't make me gay. I just liked her.
Speaker 1: I knew I still wanted some day. I knew I
Speaker 1: still wanted to explore the dating pool of men. I
Speaker 1: just was obsessed with this one girl. I didn't want
Speaker 1: no more pussy after that, I didn't. I didn't even
Speaker 1: want her pussy. She wanted mine, and she got that
Speaker 1: mothercker too. But after that, it was no more of that.
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. So when you say I
Speaker 1: felt like my last relationship, I wasn't reciprocated. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: she wasn't gay. She wasn't able to give you what
Speaker 1: you gave her. You went in already knowing your sexuality.
Speaker 1: She didn't know. She was curious, bi, curious, a little
Speaker 1: bit gay, lot of gay whatever. She wasn't as far
Speaker 1: into it as you was. She didn't know where her
Speaker 1: sexual preference was. She was just trying to ship she
Speaker 1: and up liking it, but not liking it enough to
Speaker 1: be gay. That's why I think she didn't give you
Speaker 1: what you wanted her to give you. She didn't give
Speaker 1: you everything that you gave her, you know, in a
Speaker 1: sense of just being in a relationship with her. Now
Speaker 1: we got a commercial, and if you click off of
Speaker 1: this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen,
Speaker 1: why are you still single? You want me to tell
Speaker 1: you why you're still single? You're twenty three, You don't
Speaker 1: know who you are yet, you still got issues to
Speaker 1: resolve that are deeply rooted, and you can't hold nobody
Speaker 1: else accountable for what the funk you had going on.
Speaker 1: You don't even know what you got going on. You
Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying. I think you need to see
Speaker 1: a therapist. I think you have such a big personality
Speaker 1: and you're so passionate about this ship. You need to
Speaker 1: do it carefully. You're so passionate about being with someone.
Speaker 1: You need to be careful. You need to do it right.
Speaker 1: You said somebody told you that you back like a nigga.
Speaker 1: You do. That's not necessarily bad, but you do. I
Speaker 1: think you need to focus on yourself. You're twenty three,
Speaker 1: give yourself, realistically until seven to be in another relationship.
Speaker 1: I know you don't want to hear that ship that's
Speaker 1: four years away, you know, from now. But I think
Speaker 1: the greater good in all this is that you're on
Speaker 1: a come up and you don't have time for distractions.
Speaker 1: You just said it at the end of this message.
Speaker 1: You said, when I focus on bitches, I'm distracted or no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, verbatimly, you said, when I ain't focusing on bitches,
Speaker 1: when my mind ain't on bitches, I do so much
Speaker 1: better in life and all of that ship. Don't focus
Speaker 1: on bitches, as you would say, don't focus on women,
Speaker 1: don't focus on a relationship. But if you really really
Speaker 1: tired of being lonely and you don't want to just
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you don't. You don't date. You don't
Speaker 1: have to be in a relationship. Dating and being in
Speaker 1: a relationship is something totally different. But I feel like
Speaker 1: you attach yourself very quickly to a person too. Now
Speaker 1: that's your girlfriend. No, you don't have to jump in
Speaker 1: a re ationship with everybody you date. That's why it's
Speaker 1: called dating until you realize that you don't want to
Speaker 1: be without this person. But you can't feel like that
Speaker 1: until you know a person in and out. You got me,
Speaker 1: So I think you should focus on yourself and date.
Speaker 1: Go to new places. If you keep meeting people the
Speaker 1: same places, don't go to them places to meet people.
Speaker 1: You're attracting people. That's getting shot. Uh, that's hiding kids.
Speaker 1: You know, all that type of ship whatever, everybody's gonna
Speaker 1: have something with them. You got shipped with you. But
Speaker 1: that's why you need to work on that. Nobody is
Speaker 1: ever gonna be fully healed, Nobody is ever gonna be
Speaker 1: perfect or you know held. You know why, because life
Speaker 1: goes on every day is new ship that happens. You
Speaker 1: run into new trauma, new obstacles, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: New fights, all that type of ship. You run into
Speaker 1: that type of stuff. So we're constantly healing and evolving
Speaker 1: all the time. New traumas are gonna happen. And where
Speaker 1: you're going in the lane you're in this industry, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you're gonna run into some obstacles. So you're gonna be
Speaker 1: forever healing. You're gonna forever be a work in progress.
Speaker 1: But you've got a lot of fighting you. You're very passionate.
Speaker 1: I can tell when you love, you love hard. So
Speaker 1: don't waste that. Save it for the right person. But
Speaker 1: get yourself right, man, and check back in with me.
Speaker 1: I love you too. She didn't took up the whole
Speaker 1: goddamn episode. I'm gonna be her ass, But I really
Speaker 1: really do appreciate that story because these are the stories
Speaker 1: that that a lot of people feel like they're alone,
Speaker 1: and a lot of people have these issues where they
Speaker 1: feel lonely. They don't want to be alone, but they
Speaker 1: have so much traumatic stress and and they have depression,
Speaker 1: They suffer with anxiety and ship like that because they
Speaker 1: have deeply rooted issues that they haven't even that they
Speaker 1: haven't even accepted about themselves. Like you know, you see
Speaker 1: this girl, she has a habit of well, had a
Speaker 1: habit of blaming everybody else for her being single. No
Speaker 1: no no, or blaming everybody else for why they can't
Speaker 1: meet her requirements or her standards and and and her
Speaker 1: practices and ship like no, no, no, no, we can't
Speaker 1: have a list of demands. We can't have a list
Speaker 1: of demands. And we don't even know what the funk
Speaker 1: we want. We ain't even altogether, but we're not all together.
Speaker 1: My brother Daisy, who opens up for me, he's a comedian.
Speaker 1: He has a joke about that how both men and
Speaker 1: women when he when he's getting these relationships, they have
Speaker 1: these presentations like you know, you present this girl with
Speaker 1: a list, you present this guy with a list like fasting,
Speaker 1: something as small as, oh, this nigger gotta have a house,
Speaker 1: he gotta drive, he gotta have a bins, he gotta
Speaker 1: have a job, and a job he gotta be making
Speaker 1: more than twenty five hours an hour. He gotta be
Speaker 1: And then you're sitting home. You ain't got no mother
Speaker 1: fucking job. You're receiving government assistance. You got four kids
Speaker 1: with with three baby daddies, do none of them do
Speaker 1: nothing for your kids and ships, So you're just single mother,
Speaker 1: sitting home, living off of the system. And ship and
Speaker 1: you know you don't drive at all, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: ship like that. You ain't got yourself together, you don't
Speaker 1: even have a plan for your life. Ship like that,
Speaker 1: and vice versa. So these lists of the man's these
Speaker 1: people feel entitled and ship. That's why a relationship, especially
Speaker 1: these days, there's no fucking joke, ain't no jumping in
Speaker 1: and out. That's why I can't stand in a relationship
Speaker 1: because I was in the same place she was, the
Speaker 1: same way she was. You know what I'm saying, You
Speaker 1: gotta learn who you are. I'm just now stepping into
Speaker 1: who I am. I'm just now knowing getting to know
Speaker 1: myself in a way where it's like, oh, ship, that's
Speaker 1: why I couldn't keep this man. Oh that's why. This,
Speaker 1: that's why. Okay, that's why. That's why. That's why. And
Speaker 1: with every person you date, you learn something about yourself.
Speaker 1: You have to be open minded enough to learn about
Speaker 1: yourself because a lot of people still will date. You
Speaker 1: got old niggas, old women, old men up in their
Speaker 1: sixties and seventies, still wondering why they're single, going through
Speaker 1: life blaming everybody else accountability. Sometimes you have to turn
Speaker 1: mirror on yourself and you just have to be like
Speaker 1: yo funk. Dating for a minute is as hard as
Speaker 1: that is. Nobody wants to be by themselves. But you
Speaker 1: can date. You don't have to be in a relationship.
Speaker 1: You can literally have a person that you communicate with.
Speaker 1: If you can't find that person, ship, pray for it.
Speaker 1: If you ain't religious, motherfucker, go out and explore new
Speaker 1: places and new things. If you're hanging in the same places,
Speaker 1: you can get the same results. If you're doing the
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