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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Batch your Happy Hour. I'm Joe,

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Speaker 1: and today we are here with a very special guest,

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Speaker 1: a good friend of ours. She only lives probably fifteen

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Speaker 1: minutes away. Natasha Parker is here.

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Speaker 2: Hi Natasha, Hello, Joe and Serena Hello.

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Speaker 1: We want to talk about What do.

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Speaker 3: I want to talk about? I want to talk about?

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Speaker 1: Wow, well you know what we're going to talk about.

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Speaker 1: You know, I know what we're going to talk about

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Speaker 1: for a little bit, and that's you. You're definitely not

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Speaker 1: expecting this, but we have. What we've been doing on

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Speaker 1: this podcast is yeah, look at your face. It's actually funny.

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Speaker 1: I wish we had video. Maybe we do. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know. We've been recapping first nights of season, so

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Speaker 1: we did. We just did Ben Higgins season, but we

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Speaker 1: also we also did Peter Webbers.

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Speaker 4: So we've been watching.

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Speaker 5: The first episode of these seasons then interviewing the Bachelor.

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Speaker 5: So we watched like night one, did a recap of

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Speaker 5: Peter's and then we interviewed Peter, and we did the

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Speaker 5: same with Ben and both people. We didn't tell in

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Speaker 5: advance that we did that, and I guess. So you're

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Speaker 5: number three, so welcome welcome to the surprise.

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Speaker 1: But what's funny is I I didn't you know I've

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Speaker 1: known you for we've been friends now for I don't know,

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Speaker 1: five years, four or five years, Yeah, right around that time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I never saw your night on.

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Speaker 1: Oh so wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you guys were it looks srina and you were like,

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Speaker 3: what a glow up? What you do?

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Speaker 6: Look different?

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Speaker 5: You do look different though, but also after seeing you

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Speaker 5: with blue hair, like, nothing surprises me anymore of exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the looks changed, that's for sure. They hair was shorter,

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Speaker 2: that is for sure.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Night one, I remember it. I remember pretty much everything

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: So what we see, what we what we see it.

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Speaker 1: There's like a little few and were literally we're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about this for a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: So that stress up because I'm like, we could we

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Speaker 2: could get into it if you want, Tombert.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you if you want to. But what

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Speaker 1: we see, I feel like what we see from you

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Speaker 1: is basically like a little back and forth between you

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Speaker 1: and McKenna. Mm hmmm. Is that how you remember your

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Speaker 1: Night one?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, that's not what I remember the most about Night one.

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Speaker 2: I remember not knowing what the fuck was going on.

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Speaker 2: That's what I remember the most. But I do remember

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Speaker 2: that obviously with the airplane, and yeah, I do remember.

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Speaker 5: So for those that missed it, we recapped it in

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Speaker 5: a past episode. But basically, Mattie Pruet comes out with

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Speaker 5: this massive paper airplane, and there's a lot of airplane

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Speaker 5: themed things happening that night. Natasha talking to Pete pilot

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Speaker 5: Pete the bachelor at the time. McKenna starts throwing little

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Speaker 5: paper airplanes at Natasha and then Natasha interrupts them with

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Speaker 5: Maddie's massive paper airplane. You seem genuinely annoyed, which I

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Speaker 5: have to imagine you were.

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Speaker 2: I have to correct you, I hope, please do. She

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Speaker 2: was throwing those planes at Peter. She definitely wasn't thrown

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Speaker 2: them at me.

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Speaker 6: Okay, at Peter.

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Speaker 1: Now go ahead. How are you and McKenna? How are

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Speaker 1: you and McKenna after Night one? Did you guys like like,

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Speaker 1: was that like a thing or.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was a thing?

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Speaker 2: There were okay, yeah, there were two people specifically on

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Speaker 2: my season.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, I would say no, just one.

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Speaker 2: It was just McKenna, who I just feer cleared like

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Speaker 2: if she was in the kitchen, I would go in

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Speaker 2: the other room. I would, you know, it was no

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Speaker 2: like beef like per se in the sense of like,

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Speaker 2: I you know, like I don't hate anyone. I didn't

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's and it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't it wasn't. You know.

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Speaker 2: I think sometimes when you meet people, they say first

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Speaker 2: impression is an only impression. I don't think that's true.

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Speaker 2: I think a first impression is a lasting impression. And

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Speaker 2: I agree, right, like you're like, okay, but it's.

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Speaker 5: Not always like the most accurate representation of who that

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Speaker 2: Is, right, And I think McKinnon is great, but after

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Speaker 2: But also we had an age gap as well. I

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Speaker 2: can't remember exactly, but she was one of the younger.

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Speaker 2: They were like the house was kind of split between

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Speaker 2: kind of like we just and there's so many people.

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Speaker 2: We never had to really interact with each other. I

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Speaker 2: did steer clear, but I did think that it was

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Speaker 2: rude to throw things. Not gonna lie, Yeah, I would

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Speaker 2: never do that. I was like, what what, I'm not

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, she's not throwing at me, is she? Because girl,

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Speaker 3: I will ball this.

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Speaker 4: Up in point.

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Speaker 6: You know, would have turned out majorly differently.

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Speaker 3: So that was that was fun.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know if you got so you guys

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Speaker 2: watched the first the whole episode, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's it. We didn't like, we didn't like keep watching

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Speaker 1: the season. We're just watching.

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Speaker 3: We watched night.

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Speaker 5: One because Peter's first episode was like three parts. It

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Speaker 5: was like Night one and then week one of like

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Speaker 5: it like went into dates.

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Speaker 6: Oh right, oh right, three hour season premiere.

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Speaker 3: You watch like the the the the in the intros

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So there's one moment when I'm sitting by

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Speaker 2: the fire and Chris Harrison brings out the first Impression

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I remember I'm like, Natasha doesn't even know

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Speaker 5: what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Do you regret that? Because we've interviewed so many people,

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Speaker 1: and you and I have interviewed a lot of people

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Speaker 1: where we're kind of like, well, you should have watched exactly.

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Speaker 1: Do you regret not knowing so or not preparing?

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, so in hindsight, if I ever went

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Speaker 2: on another reality show, would I ever not watch? I

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Speaker 2: would watch absolutely, But in this case, there was like

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Speaker 2: pros and cons. I didn't know what was going on,

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Speaker 2: and I think if I would have watched, I probably

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Speaker 2: one hundred percent would have self eliminated because like not watching,

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Speaker 2: I really didn't think that that was an option, If

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Speaker 2: that makes sense.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it does make sense, right, Like I.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't not saying it's like one of those.

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Speaker 5: Things unless you take the liberty to be like I am,

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Speaker 5: I want to self eliminate. It's not an option that

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Speaker 5: they're like presenting to you on the table. It's like

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Speaker 5: you stay and you get sent home, Yeah, that's or

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Speaker 5: you stay and you end up with him. Like those

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Speaker 5: for discussion unless you like go out of your way

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Speaker 5: to say, like I want to go I can't do this, yes.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, and and that's you know, I talked about like

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Speaker 2: with my producer, I talked about going home. But it

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Speaker 2: many people, that's such an option obviously because you're like

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Speaker 2: and it wasn't Peter though. It was more so the

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Speaker 2: time that I felt like I didn't get with him

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Speaker 6: Like I think you like a really late one on one.

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Speaker 2: I got a late one on one, and Maddie and

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Speaker 2: Victoria both had two one on ones before I had one,

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Speaker 2: so I just really oh yeah, oh yeah. So I

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Speaker 2: I mean, Like, clearly this guy doesn't like me because

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Speaker 2: he doesn't want to take me on a date, you

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Speaker 2: was just kind of like, now what now?

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Speaker 3: What now?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: What's next? What's next? What's next?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: I think with your background too, like you worked in

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Speaker 1: So you would also think something that worked in TV

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Speaker 2: But well, she here's the thing that's so interesting, and

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Speaker 2: these different places that I worked. I watch movies with

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Speaker 3: So it's such a different medium.

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Speaker 2: And it's like to say, like, you know, if you

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Speaker 2: although some people that's how they feel, you know what

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Speaker 3: But I just felt like.

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Speaker 2: Having a background in television, and also I was working

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Speaker 6: It's like, right, I had not mean you didn't go

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Speaker 2: You said, exactly, blind, exactly now commercials completely, Now, I

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Speaker 2: would have known I can work my way around a

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Speaker 2: have been a different thing, but I had. And also too,

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Speaker 2: you think about every every TV show, right, even they

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Speaker 2: a lot of people said that, like she should have known,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, hmm, not.

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Speaker 3: Really, I wish.

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Speaker 2: But it was fun going in blind, to be honest,

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Speaker 2: because I really focused on my relationship instead of like

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Speaker 2: all the beef and the drama. I was always drama

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Speaker 2: with the whole mckinneth thing, I really didn't have any drama.

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Speaker 2: But I saw it all and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Okay, so now how is it. I feel like, for

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Speaker 1: one advantage that men have coming off the show single

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Speaker 1: Not like guys are in how I preface.

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Speaker 2: I will say Hinge. I can't do Hinge. I was

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Speaker 3: But wouldn't you use an alias?

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Speaker 5: Okay, we're it's like we're all on here trying to

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Speaker 6: Married, I'm Mary. We're not trying to date. We're just

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Speaker 1: Sena, I love how people say I love when people

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Speaker 1: Let's get into Hidden Gems with Natasha, your your new

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Speaker 1: podcast before we do. What are you going? What are

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Speaker 2: No, I am going to Milan on Saturday for a

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's talk about Hidden Gems, your your new podcast.

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Speaker 1: I did it an episode. I thoroughly enjoyed myself, even

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Speaker 1: though you forced me to read a pornographic book.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't a pornographic it was an astrology book.

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Speaker 4: Did she x raate it with an x rayed mind?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Wait, Serena, what did you think when you heard that?

448
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Speaker 3: I was like, Serena's gonna be like, what the well?

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Speaker 5: I messaged you because Joe was like, I don't do

450
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Speaker 5: any of these things, like this is so not me.

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Speaker 5: But like most of it was very much.

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Speaker 1: Was listening to the power watching the podcast. You also

453
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Speaker 1: put your episodes on YouTube and simultaneously going this is

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Speaker 1: a lie, this is a lie. You're lying, not lying.

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Speaker 6: I don't throw temper tantrums.

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Speaker 5: I don't need to be in control and write I don't.

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Speaker 1: I told you already. I'm I'm channeling. I'm already growing

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Speaker 1: my beard. I'm channeling my inner Chris Press's.

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Speaker 6: No Chris Pine.

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Speaker 5: Have you seen that photo of Chris Pine where he's

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Speaker 5: got like long hair. Now he's like grown out of beard.

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Speaker 5: It's really giving, like I don't give a fuck about anything.

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Speaker 3: I'll tend you the photo.

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Speaker 6: It's giving cave Man.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's his whole thing, like he just.

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Speaker 6: Doesn't thing is like I just don't care anymore.

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Speaker 1: And that's how I that's me too.

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Speaker 3: Well, we're not.

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Speaker 6: Entering you're too you're too young to be entering that

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Speaker 6: era of your life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you got to care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's what I mean here, Natasha. You

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Speaker 1: talk about like life in general on your podcast, But

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Speaker 1: like I do think that's a healthy outlook what.

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Speaker 6: An extent about certain things?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I obviously I felt like I don't.

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Speaker 6: Be letting yourself go right now, there you go, there

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Speaker 6: you go.

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Speaker 4: Through to tell it, I went to the gym.

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Speaker 1: I've been to this some twice in the past twenty

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Speaker 1: four hours.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'm just saying this, like I don't care

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Speaker 6: about anything.

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Speaker 5: Mentality I feel like is good and like I don't care,

485
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Speaker 5: maybe like I don't care what other people think of me,

486
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Speaker 5: or I'm not gonna let other people's judgment or opinions.

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Speaker 6: Like influence my mood or emotions or choices.

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 5: But like you're you're you're an extremist, and I worry

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Speaker 5: about you taking this mentality to an extreme.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess you just gotta sit back and wait

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Speaker 4: and see what happened.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's been most of our relationship.

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Speaker 1: So let's talk a little bit about hidden jams. What's what?

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Speaker 1: What is it about?

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Speaker 2: Hidden Gems is about helping people get unstuck or people

497
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 2: who feel like they need to pivot in their life,

498
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: because we all have been in that position at some point.

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Speaker 2: I like to interview people about moments in their life

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Speaker 2: where they ever been stuck, where they have had to

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00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: pivot and to get to where they are now. And

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Speaker 2: I try to find like little synchronicities in people's lives

503
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Speaker 2: who I interview. So like you, Joe, you were on Serena,

504
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Speaker 2: have to have you on as well, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I just being the night one guy too married, you

506
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Speaker 2: know what I mean from the show is like, to me,

507
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 2: really awesome and like the mindset from going from one

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Speaker 2: thing to another thing to another thing.

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Speaker 3: And we talked about that on the episode.

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Speaker 2: And I really loved that episode too, the Soulmate conversation.

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Speaker 2: So many people message me about that and that clip

512
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Speaker 2: A lot of people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, a lot of people were soulmates. Yeah yeah, yeah,

514
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 3: So that was so yeah, So that was good.

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Speaker 2: And I every single episode there's something so beautiful that

516
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 2: someone says about their life and like what made them

517
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: get to where they are now or And I mean

518
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Speaker 2: I interviewed someone the other day and they were like,

519
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Speaker 2: you know, I'm stuck right now.

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Speaker 3: I'm stuck right now.

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Speaker 2: And that person is Rachel Lindsay that episode will probably

522
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Speaker 2: be out in a couple of weeks, and she you know,

523
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Speaker 2: you know, she's going through a divorce and things like that.

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Speaker 1: So she said she feels stuck in the current moment.

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Speaker 2: Right right right, yeah, because she's going through a pivot

526
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Speaker 2: and a change and a lot of things in her

527
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Speaker 2: life are changing right now.

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Speaker 5: So that is so interesting, like the concept of being

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Speaker 5: stuck during such a huge change, because I feel like

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Speaker 5: people associate change with like movement, and it's like I usually.

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Speaker 1: Feel when you are moving, that's usually the time you

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Speaker 1: don't feel stuck, right What do you mean? Like if

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Speaker 1: you and I were getting a divorce, Oh God, here

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Speaker 1: we go. What I'm saying is, if you and I

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Speaker 1: are getting a divorce, I don't know if I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I don't know if feeling stuck would be what I

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Speaker 1: would be feeling. I think it would. I would not

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Speaker 1: feel well.

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Speaker 3: Point, if Serena was trying to take all your fucking money,

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Speaker 3: you might if.

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Speaker 4: Sera was trying to think, yeah, listen, I'm not no no,

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Speaker 4: I think I think.

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Speaker 6: You're proving my point.

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Speaker 5: I think people associate change with movement, but a lot

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Speaker 5: of the time change, especially when it's like big changes,

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Speaker 5: there's other people involved.

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Speaker 6: You feel stuck.

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Speaker 1: Yes, mm hmm, yeah, well yeah, that's yeah, like you're.

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Speaker 6: Saying, I would think if we're getting divorced, I would feel.

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Speaker 1: I would feel sad, I would feel I would yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would feel sad, I would be I would feel

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Speaker 1: all all types of ways. But I don't think stock

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Speaker 1: would be one of them, because there is, it is

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Speaker 1: such a huge life change.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, but the thing is is if you it's like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so where do I move?

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Speaker 3: Now? What do I do?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Where do I go? You know? Do I need to

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Speaker 3: switch jobs? You know?

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Speaker 2: Do I need to move into a different house because

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Speaker 2: maybe we were both paying for this house.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: So there's all these decisions that you have to make,

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Speaker 2: And I think that's one thing that gets people in

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Speaker 2: a stuck place is not knowing where to go. Sometimes

568
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Speaker 2: you have too many options of you know, which way

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Speaker 2: do I go or if some if life is you know,

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Speaker 2: not going well or whatever. There's also just like a

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Speaker 2: stagnant feeling that people will get like I need to change,

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Speaker 2: but I don't know how, who, what, where, or why

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Speaker 2: I should or can. Or if you're starting a new

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Speaker 2: business and you just lost a bunch of money, do

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Speaker 2: I quit this business?

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Speaker 4: Do I not?

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Speaker 3: Do I quit this relationship? Do I not?

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Speaker 2: Like you know, So there's so many things, and I

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Speaker 2: think in the decision making process some people just don't

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Speaker 2: do anything and that's like not the thing to do, right.

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Speaker 2: So that's where I like to talk to people about

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Speaker 2: how they got through those moments when they got stuck.

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Speaker 2: And the main thing that I see from pop from

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Speaker 2: successful people I would say who have found success in

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Speaker 2: some area in life is they don't stay stuck for long.

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Speaker 2: They try something else, or they have like multiple things happening,

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Speaker 2: especially in business where they're like, Okay, that's not working,

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Speaker 2: but now we can do this, or this isn't working

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Speaker 2: and that now we can do that. So that's what

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Speaker 2: I've you know, seen and things like that.

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Speaker 1: So do you have a do you have a dream

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Speaker 1: dream guest?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was the same guest on Clickbait. It would

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Speaker 2: be my my dream guest till she comes Rihanna period.

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Speaker 2: I feel like Rihanna would drop gyms all day, every

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Speaker 2: day about everything.

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Speaker 3: She also had a big pivot from music to being.

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Speaker 2: An entrepreneur and CEO, and I would love to talk

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Speaker 2: about the transition and where she was in.

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Speaker 3: Her life and she was like, you know, I'm not

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Speaker 3: going to do music for a while.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm going to do this, and then you know,

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Speaker 2: savage fine, and then her makeup and you know, oh,

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Speaker 2: I mean I.

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Speaker 3: Would just oh so many things. And now she's a

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Speaker 3: mom and she has two kids.

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Speaker 1: And if your listeners could take away one thing from

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Speaker 1: listening to you on your podcast, what would you want

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Speaker 1: that to be.

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Speaker 2: I want people to come to the podcast and feel

611
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 2: lighter and feel supported in this sense that like, you

612
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 2: don't have to have everything figured out. One of the

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Speaker 2: reasons why I started the podcast is because our suicide

614
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: rate is so high among young people, and Instagram and

615
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: social media is such a highlight reel and they look

616
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: at someone's life and they're like, oh, look at them,

617
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: They're so happy. But people don't understand what it took

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Speaker 2: to get there, and the moments of stuck and the

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Speaker 2: moments and all the pivots that they had to do

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Speaker 2: to get to that point. So I want people to

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Speaker 2: not feel as alone in their transitions when they're making

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Speaker 2: transitions and it's okay to let go of things and

623
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Speaker 2: it's okay to push forward and persevere through things.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: That's like the whole reason why I wanted to start

626
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Speaker 2: the podcast, because I know it can be lonely for

627
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Speaker 2: some people when they're like no one else is feeling this,

628
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: no one else is going through this, Like I'm in

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Speaker 2: so much debt, I'm in this, I'm in that.

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Speaker 3: But you're not the only one, boo, You're not the

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Speaker 3: only one.

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Speaker 6: Do you have a favorite episode that you've done so far?

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Speaker 2: Oh mmmm, well, I mean, I feel like I'm going

634
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Speaker 2: to get slapped if I don't say Joe's.

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Speaker 6: I don't have to say other than Jonse.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't my It wasn't one of my It wasn't

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Speaker 1: my favorite podcast to be on anyone.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Well why because you were in such a pissy mood

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Speaker 2: that day.

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Speaker 1: I actually really did enjoy it that podcast.

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00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:29,239
Speaker 2: I would say, so I do three guests and then

643
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 2: I do a solo episode I love.

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Speaker 3: I had an episode with a girl.

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Speaker 2: Her name's Jenny Mine, and she is a psychotherapist, and

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Speaker 2: I really loved that episode. We talked about the psychology

647
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: of love and things like that, and she talked about

648
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Speaker 2: the biggest difference between compatibility and chemistry.

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Speaker 3: I really loved that episode.

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Speaker 6: I think we listened to that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I also before I think so I think so yep, yep, yep.

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Speaker 2: I really love that episode. And then I also my

653
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 2: Manifesting episode. I get a lot of messages about that

654
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Speaker 2: one because I do think that we are the makers

655
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Speaker 2: of our universe and we can draw in anything. I

656
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 2: talk a lot about femininity. I can't say that those

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Speaker 2: are my favorite episodes. I just think it really resonates

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Speaker 2: with a lot of people, and I love doing those.

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Speaker 2: I love talking about femininity the most. So yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: that's But I love everyone. It's so hard to pick

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, I do everything. I find the guests,

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Speaker 2: I figure out I you know, research them, talk, you know,

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Speaker 2: and do everything. So it's hard to like pick because

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Speaker 2: I think everyone is so like amazing and interesting and

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Speaker 2: beautiful in their own way.

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 1: I think that's good ontility to have. I think you

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Speaker 1: should like all your all your episodes that you're producing

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Speaker 1: and putting out. Yeah, cool, all right, we're gonna play

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Speaker 1: you want to play a game with us. Yeah, Natasha,

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Speaker 1: you know how this works. Rapid fire. First thing that

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Speaker 1: comes to your mind? You ready? Okay?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Current favorite beauty product.

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Speaker 2: Make up foreverlipliner. I forgot the name of it. I

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Speaker 2: forgot the name of it, but it's a brown lipliner.

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Speaker 2: Literally lost it the other day. Had to go buy

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Speaker 2: two of them.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what this is?

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Speaker 6: I know what it is because I've seen Natasha post

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Speaker 6: about it.

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Speaker 2: Favorite aries, favorite sodiac sign?

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Speaker 6: Oh, favorite zodiac side? Interesting?

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Speaker 2: You mean besides my own? Because obviously aries we're the first.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just fad Well, no aries is your favorite periods?

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Speaker 6: And aries?

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Speaker 1: Go to go to drink at a bar?

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00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: Tequila soda line?

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Speaker 1: Nice gold jewelry or silver jewelry, gold? Dream music artists?

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Speaker 1: To see live? No, just just live right now? Would would?

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Speaker 5: Do you know what she means by dad or alive?

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Speaker 5: Like it could be someone that's already dead.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, well yeah no you can't. And my my

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Speaker 1: point is no they have to If they're dad, you

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Speaker 1: can't go see them live.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is hard, This is very hard. Why is

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Speaker 3: it so hard? I mean what, you know what?

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Speaker 2: And I will see them live hopefully in November. But

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Speaker 2: this composer, his name is Mateo. I always post his

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Speaker 2: songs on my on my podcast page. I want to

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Speaker 2: see him live so bad. He's a composer, piano so good.

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Speaker 2: His name's Mateo and he has like a lot of

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Speaker 2: consonants in his last name. And I don't want to

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Speaker 2: mess it up. But it's like Murday Rick or something

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Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, but I want to see him live

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Speaker 2: really bad.

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Speaker 1: Wow. That was not I would have never guessed that. Actually,

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Speaker 1: maybe I would have guessed.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've seen so many like popular people, I've

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Speaker 2: already seen them.

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Speaker 6: So who's one of the people you've seen live that's

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Speaker 6: been your favorite?

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Speaker 3: Shot A hands down?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you get a lot of concerts.

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Speaker 2: Hands down shot A best concert I've ever been to

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Speaker 2: in my whole entire life.

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Speaker 1: Wow, go to comfort movie?

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Speaker 3: Mmmm, the Sweetest Thing or Scarface.

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Speaker 1: Dream, vacation destination ooh, I mean.

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Speaker 3: Fiji.

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Speaker 1: One thing that you love about New York City the people,

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Speaker 1: favorite way to decompress meditating. Your favorite thing about you.

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Speaker 3: Hm, I'm gonna say my legs.

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Speaker 2: No, that's fine, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: The way that I can listen, like the fact that

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Speaker 2: I'm a listener have you been to Lake Como before.

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Speaker 3: I've never been to Lake Komo.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna love it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna have a long Where are you staying?

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Speaker 2: I'm not telling anyone on this podcast where I'm staying

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Speaker 2: because yeah, I'm a little scared, but.

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Speaker 3: I've never been there.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't think anyone's flying out the lake, Homo.

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Speaker 3: But but what if they're already there? I don't know. Listen,

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Speaker 3: this is not for anything.

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Speaker 1: If we have a listener and like Como, I would

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Speaker 1: be really.

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Speaker 2: Impressed with we we you probably do, but no, it's

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Speaker 2: not for you know, it's like it's not for like

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Speaker 2: women obviously, like we love our girlies.

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Speaker 3: It's for like creepy men, like I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know, but I just don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't see a creepy man living in Lake Como

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Speaker 1: listening in a Bachelor half hour with Joe and Serena.

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Speaker 3: But you never know exactly, you never know. I've had

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Speaker 3: Soccer's Joe.

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Speaker 1: If if you are currently living in Lake Como listening

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Speaker 1: to this podcast, please dm me who you are because

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Speaker 1: I want to know more of Natasha.

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Speaker 3: They're not going to DM you, Joe.

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Speaker 1: You never know.

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Speaker 5: It's not very creeper us to be like, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 5: I'm the one that you're talking about, the creeper Lake Como.

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Speaker 4: We don't know if he's a creeper.

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Speaker 1: We don't know if he's a creeper, though, you guys

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Speaker 1: are automatically labeling this guy a creeper.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, his name is George Clooney.

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00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: No, that'd be sick.

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00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 4: So cool, Natasha, that's all we have for today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time out and

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Speaker 1: coming on our podcast. Everybody, if you don't listen to

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Speaker 1: Hitting Gems with Natasha Parker, you should because it's a

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Speaker 1: really fun podcast. And if you're going to listen to

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Speaker 1: any episode, probably listening to one that I'm on.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and go follow on Instagram? Is it just at

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Speaker 6: head and gems?

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Speaker 2: No, it's Gems with Natasha Actually okay, all platforms.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Gems with Natasha on all platforms.

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Speaker 5: You can watch on YouTube and honestly follow on Instagram

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Speaker 5: because you honestly post so many clips and they're so great.

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Speaker 5: They're like just like very high reds and enjoyable and

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Speaker 5: I feel like I always feel like inspired by watching

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Speaker 5: all of your clips.

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Speaker 6: They always leave me in a good mood. Every time

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Speaker 6: I watch them.

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Speaker 5: So follow, Listen, enjoy, don't forget to subscribe to Boucher

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Speaker 5: Happy Hour as.

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Speaker 1: More importantly, More importantly, don't forget to subscribe to Thatch

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Speaker 1: your Happy Hour. Thank you guys so much for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: We really appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna have lots more exclusive interviews coming your way,

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Speaker 5: and we're slowly creeping towards Gen season where.

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Speaker 6: We will be doing more recaps and more interviews.

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Speaker 3: So thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye