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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the

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Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from

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Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, Now go ahead and leave

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Speaker 2: Hey girl, I was just curious how did you and

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Speaker 2: the medial approach the subject of a prenup. Granted I'm

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Speaker 2: not as well as you, at least not yet, but

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Speaker 2: my mind, like how do you bring that up? And

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Speaker 2: what do you do if the other person's not okay

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Speaker 2: with it. I may not have a lot yet, but

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Speaker 2: I'm hustling, like I want my bag. I want to

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Speaker 2: be safe and secure, and if for whatever reason it

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Speaker 2: that what I've worked hard for doesn't.

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Speaker 3: Get taken away from me.

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Speaker 2: So how did you guys do it? Like? Was it

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Speaker 2: something mutual? Did you talk about it? Did you agree

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Speaker 2: like upon it? Like? How does that work? I'm really curious.

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Speaker 2: I know that a lot of people like just don't

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Speaker 3: Or no?

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Speaker 2: And how scary is it?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, we're starting off to your cheeky today with personal questions.

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Speaker 1: That's a very personal question. But this is a very personal,

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Speaker 1: very intimate podcast, so I don't mind answering that question.

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Speaker 1: I love how you like automatically like knew that I

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Speaker 3: I didn't ever think I was going to talk about this.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully a media doesn't mind, but I don't think he

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Speaker 3: But yes, I did.

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Speaker 1: I did it both times, and I learned from the

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Speaker 1: first time that it was important. I learned from my

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Speaker 1: soon as I told the media, I said, hey, like

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Speaker 1: we're talking about getting married, Like, how do you feel

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Speaker 1: about signing a prenup? He says, I don't care, Like

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Speaker 1: it's like it's fine, Like I don't want you for

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Speaker 1: prenup obviously protects him as well because I'm a very

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Speaker 1: fair person. Anything we build together obviously, like anyways, I'm

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Speaker 1: It's just it's important. It's important, and you never, unfortunately

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Speaker 1: I just had a simple conversation. I was very straight

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Speaker 3: God forbid something happens.

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Speaker 1: And he said, babe, not a problem, Like you know,

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Speaker 1: I have no issue with it, And yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: Or there's also the option of post nups, so if

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Speaker 3: So with that being said, Leslie, thank you for asking

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 3: Starting off your cheeky's real good, but thank you. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: And yes, I love that you're being you know, you're

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Speaker 1: ambitious and you have these goals. Absolutely, that's you're manifesting

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Speaker 1: next question from Lizbeth All.

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Speaker 4: junta is commo identificas racial, mene q part tente Mexicana,

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Speaker 4: porno naci and Mexico como is the publico Mexicano Latino,

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Speaker 3: Saludos il is based the start.

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Speaker 1: Guys, She's just basically asking do I identify more or

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna answer the question I'll get back to

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Speaker 1: you right now, okay. So, Lizbeth mene mesento Mexican and

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Speaker 1: so so cien percento Mexicana, si percento Americana, glez menta Mexicos, aqui.

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Speaker 1: Venas pero yet perficile alnicio porke pla music cant Mexicana

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Speaker 1: Yeah, meco so you Mexicana, caving Lespanoli mas espanol perosifue

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Speaker 1: I was just telling her that I consider myself to

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Speaker 4: My question is, if you didn't pursue your music career,

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Speaker 1: a long time ago, when I was growing up, I

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Speaker 1: And then I wanted to go to the Air Force

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Speaker 1: for listening always, for submitting your questions, for taking the time.

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Speaker 1: on the next episode of Dear Cheeky's because this is it.

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Speaker 1: We're done with Maria, all right, guys, love you bye.

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