1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god. This merry Christmas. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: Maybe Christmas someone's in a rush, but I'm not. This 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: is the difference between personalities here. You know what I'm 4 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: saying that we're really tight. 5 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 3: Hey, we're supposed to be here over an hour, so 6 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 3: that's that's all part of me. 7 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: You're so black, that's not racist, Jesse. He scares me. 8 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 2: Rom. There's nothing but blackness all around because of the studio, 9 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: and Rom will creep in. 10 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: Know. So it didn't work on me this time. It's 11 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: just in it. 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,279 Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty five, y'all, Gang Gang, Gang Gang, and 13 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 2: this is our very first podcast of the year. How 14 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 2: do you feel about that? Like New Year, knew me? Wow, 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: you and a million other people we're not. 16 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: What an opportunity to start fresh and to start with 17 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: the right perspective, And that's what we're here for. 18 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: We're not talking about new Year, New me though, No, 19 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: we're not. 20 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: No, we're talking about, first of all, look at how 21 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 2: big I am? 22 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: Like, what do you mean, like I've gained so much weight? 23 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, welcome to the club. But the thing is, 24 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 2: like I keep looking and I've been lefting, I've been doing, 25 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: I've been I've been I've been doing this thing. 26 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: Oh right, I'm sorry. This one like deadlifts or what 27 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: is that? 28 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: That's not called that's called a huh. 29 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,279 Speaker 1: No with the bar. It's a squad It's a squad 30 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: no with the bar, with the bar, and then squat. 31 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: Oh it was just a squat. 32 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 33 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was something special, but I guess it's 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: just a squat. 35 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: With a with a weighted bar. How much weight do 36 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 2: you have on that ninety? 37 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: That's a lie. 38 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: On? 39 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: So the bar is how on dogs you do? 40 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 2: So? 41 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: Thirty thirty on the bar? 42 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 4: Uh? 43 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: Is it thirty on that bar? Thirty? Is the bar 44 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: is thirty? Thank you? The bar? Yes? 45 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: Okay? And then thirty and thirty. I will show you 46 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 2: when I get to the gym today. 47 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 1: And I thought I was going to pass out. Wow, yeah, 48 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: I was seeing stars. I was like this, So I'm 49 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: bulking up. You know what I'm saying. Okay, I don't 50 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: know I'm gonna lose all this. You are, I, yes, 51 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: you are. 52 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 2: And if we should probably talk about pray in fasting. Yes, 53 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: that's that's I wanted to talk about toxic relationships and 54 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 2: how to just sever them completely out of your life. 55 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: I mean that's what gets it. 56 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 2: That's a good that's a good start for twenty twenty five. 57 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 3: That's that brings the right because what I'm gonna say, 58 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: we need right perspective. 59 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 4: We do. 60 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 1: We need new eyes for a new year. 61 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 2: Yes, But and then for the rest of the month, 62 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 2: Olivia had this beautiful idea about going in every day 63 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 2: Olivia every day to the Women's Mentorship Instagram and just encouraging. 64 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: The people as they fast. We'll do devotions together. 65 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 2: I'll give you little tips and I'll just help you 66 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: along the way in the twenty one days of and Fasting, Mags, 67 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: you are going to be a part of that, So 68 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 2: register at rtcregister dot com in order to be a 69 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: part of that. Right great, So we'll get more detailed 70 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 2: about that, and I'll just encourage you along the way 71 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: when it comes to prayer and fasting and the benefits 72 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: of fasting and the benefits of prayer and the one 73 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: to punch, you'll have to start the year off on 74 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: the right foot. It is everything to start the year right. 75 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: I always say this, First things have to be first. 76 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: First things have to be your priority. If you if 77 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 2: you get that out of whack, it's all just not 78 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 2: gonna really work out. It's just gonna be frustrating. So 79 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: don't frustrate your year and start it off right. Keep 80 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: first things first, and and let's do it together. 81 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 4: Uh. 82 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: One of the things that I wanted to talk to 83 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: you about was making sure. 84 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: That you guard your heart, guard the relationships around your life. 85 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 1: Listen. I'm a believer, Mags, are you a believer? I am. 86 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 2: Indeed, we're both believers. And I am very meticulous about 87 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: the people that I keep around me in your circle, 88 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 2: my circle, your circle of influence. 89 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: Mida, I see Midah that he is me, but he's 90 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: small me. I like this. 91 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: This is how, this is how teeny tiny, ten tiny 92 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: my circle of influences. There's a lot of people that 93 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: I know and I love, and there's even a lot 94 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: more people that are connected with me, right, even blood relatives, 95 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: y'all listen, not even blood relatives. So most of that 96 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: falls into this landscape. Yeah, this big, big ass circle. 97 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: Right. 98 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: And then when it comes to the people that I 99 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: really want to like, pour into and love and admire, 100 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: is this, But the people that I keep really close 101 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 2: to me is like this. 102 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: Like this, and so why is that? 103 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 2: It's a calculated thing, because the people that can frustrate 104 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 2: you the most are relatives. 105 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? 106 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 2: And so I want you to know with certainty that 107 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 2: as a believer, you'd be an idiot to keep those 108 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: people around. If these people are harming you, if they're toxic, 109 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: if they're bringing you down, if they're making you feel depressed, 110 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 2: if they're making you feel insecure, if all they ever 111 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: talk to you about is something that has to deal 112 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: with problems and drama, you are okay to cut them 113 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 2: out of your life. And I mean that, I mean 114 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 2: really cut them out of your life. If you want 115 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: to grow in twenty twenty five, it is imperative that 116 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 2: you keep the people, the circle of people of influence 117 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 2: in your life very minimum. And those people have to 118 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: be worth it. They have to be people that are 119 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: going to encourage you. Here's a tell, all, when you've 120 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 2: got good news and something great happens to you, do 121 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: they celebrate with you? 122 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: Are they like, oh, really that happened? Wow, that's crazy? 123 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 2: Are they like salty? I wonder if that's gonna Are 124 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: you sure that happened? It's just like they're not really 125 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 2: even happy for you, and you're like Okay, who are 126 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: those people? Identify them, place a red flag or the 127 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 2: only time you hear them is because they need to 128 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: voice a complaint. 129 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: Or a concern. 130 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: They're like, why is it that every time you talk 131 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: to me, it's about a problem? Yeah, block easy, block 132 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: ditty block block block easy. And we are starting this 133 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: year off with a new perspective because a lot of 134 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: times I see the frustration. We counsel people all the time, 135 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 2: and a lot of the problems that you have in 136 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 2: your life are because of the company you keep. It's 137 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: because of the company you keep, it's because of these 138 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: people that you've placed in your inner circle. And inner 139 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: circle people are of great value. So whether they are 140 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 2: giving you terrible insight or great insight, they still have value. 141 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:49,119 Speaker 2: You place value on their opinion, which means they affect you. True. 142 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: So you have to train your mind, you have to 143 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 2: train your heart, you have to train your life to 144 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: cut those people out, the negative ones. Yes, the negative one, 145 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: of course, yes, because you cannot go and change levels 146 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five, keeping the same naysayers around, keeping 147 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 2: these same people that just want to bring you down 148 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 2: with their messes and their you know, diabolical tendencies. 149 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: It's not going to happen. It's not this year. Let 150 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: me read you. I just wanted them for dramatic impact. 151 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,719 Speaker 1: I want you to see something here with me. In 152 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: Titus three, verse ten and eleven. 153 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 2: Can you guys put that on the amplified Do we 154 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: have that privilege? I just want to read it and 155 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: the amplified before I read it in the New Living translation. 156 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 3: Well, this is really going to truly help people, because 157 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 3: you know what say, you know, there's a lot of 158 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 3: people that are thinking about their mom, their dad, their sister, 159 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 3: their brother and how much they love them. 160 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 1: And there is talking, guys. There is this they're probably. 161 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 3: Looking the scripture up guys, but it's all right, we 162 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 3: don't need to see. 163 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: I don't have makeupuny. 164 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 3: There is this tendency to there's like this conflicting kind 165 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 3: of story in their minds that you know, I need 166 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 3: to honor my mom and my dad. I need to 167 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 3: their blood relatives. So therefore I have to or they're 168 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 3: not saved yet. So I have to be the voice. 169 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 3: I have to be the one. Even though you know 170 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 3: you've been a Christian for twenty years and nothing, you know, nothing. 171 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 2: Is you've got to be the punching bag. You've got 172 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 2: to be the caretaker. You've got to be this, You've 173 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 2: got to be that. It doesn't work like that. Here's 174 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 2: here's the thing. 175 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: We are to honor our mother and father, and honoring is. 176 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: Not about being in their lives twenty four hours, seven 177 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: days a week. 178 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: That's not what honoring means. 179 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 2: Especially if they are people that are bringing you down, 180 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: people that are causing you to have a headache, people 181 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: that are constantly you know, naysayers, whatever it might be, 182 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 2: especially if they're producing unwanted drama. 183 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: In your life. 184 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: I've heard some crazy stories about people's parents, and there's 185 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: this almost they become kind of like shy to sever 186 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 2: the relationship or set up necessary boundaries. 187 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm not saying don't ever talk to them. 188 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 2: I'm not saying, don't you know, wish them a happy birthday, 189 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: call them, send them gifts, honor them in those ways. 190 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: Continue to do that, because the Bible says honor your 191 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: father and mother period. It has nothing to do with 192 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: how they have treated you in the past. 193 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 1: Or anything like that. 194 00:10:55,240 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: However, if it starts to infringe up on your day 195 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 2: to day peace, your day to day joy, there are 196 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 2: certain things that you have to do as a believer 197 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 2: to put that wedge, and it's for your betterment and 198 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 2: it's for your protection. And this just isn't just about parents. 199 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: I've had to do that. I've had to put a 200 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 2: great wedge between certain people in my life because I 201 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: don't want to be around people that are going to 202 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 2: make me feel bad. I'm not going to be around 203 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: people that are going to get make me insecure. 204 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be around people that I've got 205 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: to read into the situation. Did he mean this? Did 206 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: she mean this? Did they mean that? I'm not going 207 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: to do that. 208 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: I've got to, above all else, protect my heart. So 209 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: if I have relationships where I'm prone to get angry, vengeful, bitter, 210 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 2: if that is on the plate, I'm gonna push that 211 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 2: plate away every single time. And it's not because I 212 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: hate the person. It's not because I'm not honoring the person. 213 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: I honor you. 214 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: My heart is right before the Lord. You got to 215 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: keep your heart right out of your heart flow every 216 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 2: issue of your life. So if you have hurt, if 217 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 2: you've got bitterness in your heart, if you've got sadness, 218 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 2: if you've got pain, that's what it's going to produce. 219 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: So our number one. 220 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 2: Task in twenty twenty five is to make sure that 221 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 2: our hearts are right before the Lord. Things happen. People 222 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 2: will continue to harm you. People are going to continue 223 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 2: to say things that are mean, that are derogatory. They'll 224 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: try to bring you down, they'll try to break you. 225 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: That. You can't help that. What you can help. 226 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: What you can control is your heart, is your attitude. 227 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 1: And for me, boundaries are that. 228 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 2: It's setting up that where I'm not going to. 229 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 1: Complain. I'm not going to be in a fight. 230 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be in a tizzy because I'm I'm 231 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: older now, my fuse for bull. 232 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: Crap is this big. 233 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 2: And I recognize that I'm I have the wisdom in 234 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 2: my brain enough to know that I can't engage in 235 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 2: certain conversations without just going all in. 236 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? So I won't. 237 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 2: So it's block didy block because I'm not I don't 238 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: have to defend myself. 239 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: I don't have to try to. 240 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 2: See make people see things the way that I do. 241 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 2: My fruit will speak for itself. What I can control 242 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 2: is me. What I can control is my heart. So 243 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 2: that's gonna be my number one priority. 244 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 3: And that's what you gotta protect, and you gotta protect 245 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 3: that about your house. 246 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, So look. 247 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 2: At what Titus says Titus three ten, and be amplified. 248 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: It says three ten and eleven. It says, after a 249 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: first and second warning, reject a divisive man who promotes 250 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 2: heresy and causes dissension, ban him from your fellowship, and 251 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 2: have nothing to do with him. Next, well aware that 252 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: such a person is twisted and is sinning. He is 253 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 2: convicted and self condemned, and is gratified by causing confusion 254 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 2: among the believer. 255 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: Here's what it says in the New Living translation. 256 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 2: If people are causing division among you, give a first 257 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: and second warning, and after that have nothing more to 258 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: do with them. For people like that have turned away 259 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 2: from the truth and their own sins to condemn them, 260 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: and their own sins condemned them. So this is a 261 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 2: little bit of an insight here. For this is just 262 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 2: a for the church in general, but this is for us. 263 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 2: We can put this in the micro and say, if 264 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 2: I've approached the situation, I don't like how you talk 265 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: to my children. I don't like that you smoke weed 266 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: in front of them. 267 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: One and two. 268 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: If they continue to do those things, I'm building up 269 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: a boundary that's okay. And also you do it in honor. 270 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 2: You don't be like you loser, you low life son. 271 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: You've always been a loser. And my kids aren't gonna 272 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: be like you. Approach them with that same honor. 273 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 274 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 2: It's a respect and also it's a reverence and respect 275 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 2: it right, it's a it's the Greek word is t 276 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 2: mao timau if He'sian sixty two. It's used in Matthew 277 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 2: fifteen four, John five twenty three one, Timothy five seventeen, 278 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 2: and each passage conveys a. 279 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: Sense of respect and reverence. 280 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 3: Now you know, and that is a hot again, it's 281 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 3: a heart condition. 282 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: So if you are, if. 283 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 3: You're looking eagerly wanting to disrespect your mom and dad, 284 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 3: that is a heart issue that you need to uproot. 285 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: You need to sort that out. So we're not saying 286 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: we're not. 287 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: Giving you a red light or a green light for 288 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 2: you know, causing any sort of disrespect to your family members. 289 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 2: That's not what we're saying here. What we are saying, however. 290 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 3: Is that you need to deal with those kinds of 291 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 3: situations head on and again, bringing the the Titus into 292 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 3: play and saying, hey, listen, these are my boundaries. 293 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: You can either respect them or I'm walking. Yeah, and 294 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 2: that's it. And and you know what, some people, even 295 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: blood relatives, they're not for you. That's okay, it's okay, 296 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 2: that's that's that's on them. I you know, this is 297 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: interesting to me. For me, I feel like, if if 298 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: I don't sow the right seed, I can't expect a 299 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: harvest other than. 300 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: What I've planted. Can't I won't. 301 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 2: And if I don't have a seed in the ground, 302 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: I also can't expect a harvest that it doesn't even 303 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 2: exist without a doubt. And so I feel like there's 304 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 2: a lot of this happening in people's lives. And they'll 305 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 2: they'll call it different things, but they'll say, oh, well, 306 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: she's not really in my life, and and and she 307 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 2: doesn't call me and she doesn't FaceTime me. But what 308 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 2: have you been doing? Have you been laying that good 309 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: seed to that you're not hard So to me, if 310 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: I'm not putting in that seed, I'm not expecting for 311 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 2: somebody to fulfill. 312 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: And it in my life that I've not planted a 313 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 1: seed for right? Do you feel me? Does that make sense? 314 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 2: Because I think a lot of times with relationships, you 315 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 2: want this person to be a certain way and they're not, 316 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 2: and it frustrates you when it saddens you, and there's 317 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 2: like friction. But if there's only friction because of you, 318 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: because if you wanted it a different way, then sow 319 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: a different seed, call FaceTime, visit, do whatever you do. 320 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: Neglect. 321 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 3: A lot of people neglect their part that they play 322 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 3: in a lot. 323 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: Most people neglect that. But I'm fully aware. 324 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 4: I I want I want you to know that I'm 325 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 4: aware facts and I feel. 326 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 3: Like not many family members we have, like no, I 327 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 3: it was like ninety two first cousins, just ninety two 328 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 3: something like that. And then on top of that, all 329 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 3: of them have siblings or children's multiple children. So if 330 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 3: you think about that, I have second and third cousins 331 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 3: that I've never met, and they're probably of age at 332 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 3: this point twenties, in their early twenties or whatever. 333 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: Probably a lot of how can that be kids? 334 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 3: And it would be like me showing up and being like, hey, listen, 335 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 3: what's for dinner tonight? Just because you're a relative of mine, right, 336 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 3: I could. I could, honestly, if I went up to 337 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 3: somebody that I didn't know, like one of our second 338 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 3: or third cousins, you know what I'm saying, and showed 339 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 3: up like wanting a meal, I could expect a harvest 340 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 3: of handcuffs in jail time because I didn't sew for 341 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 3: a meal. 342 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 2: I didn't sow for that kind of relationship. 343 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: This is not complicated. It's not it's really not not. 344 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 2: I wish that more people would see just because you 345 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 2: you are of my bloodline, doesn't mean you have access 346 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 2: to me. 347 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that. 348 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 2: I'm okay with that people, but other people need. 349 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: To be okay with that as well. 350 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 3: Right because you can you can call me a sister, 351 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 3: a daughter, and that doesn't give you access. What kind 352 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 3: of seed have you laid down? And I know the 353 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 3: kind of seed that I laid down, and that's why 354 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 3: I have very fruitful relationships. 355 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: And that's not hard. So so I just hope. 356 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 3: That you can bring clarity to people, because I think 357 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 3: there's a lot of guilt that comes with that because 358 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 3: there's a lot of times where family members are or 359 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 3: or people in general. I'm sure a lot of the 360 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 3: women that are watching here. They're saying, why don't I 361 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 3: feel warmth. 362 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: When it comes to this family member, when it comes 363 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: to my dad, when it comes to my mom, and 364 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 2: they like they crucify themselves and they can't sleep at night, 365 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 2: and they're. 366 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: Just like, why why do I affect you? 367 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 3: And I try, and I try, and I try to 368 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 3: have a relationship with this person, and I try to 369 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 3: show love and I try and I try and I try, 370 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 3: and there's just nothing there. And it's because there's no 371 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 3: harvest there, right, you know. And I don't think that's difficult, 372 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 3: And I think that we should we need to stop 373 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 3: like stigmatizing that kind of stuff because it's like, just 374 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 3: because you're a family member doesn't mean Diddley squat. I 375 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 3: have friends that are are closer to me than any 376 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 3: family member. 377 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: I agree. 378 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 3: So and now I've got people that work with me 379 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 3: that I consider family without a doubt. 380 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 2: So it's just having the right perspective where there's no 381 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: condemnation in doing these things because a lot of people 382 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: suffer from like PTSD when it comes to these things, 383 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: and they feel bad and it's affecting you, whether you 384 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 2: know it or not. It affects what you do, and 385 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: so I am also taken too. And this again it's 386 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 2: outside of the realm of family as well. It's these 387 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 2: individuals in your lives that make you feel bad, make 388 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 2: you feel are saying things behind your back. Vet those 389 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 2: people out. You've got to do the vetting. There's a 390 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 2: vetting system. It has to do with you. And so 391 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: if you know this person is prone to backbiting, backstabbing, 392 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 2: getting in its dizzy, being angry for no good reason. 393 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: If there if they've done it once, they'll do it again. 394 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 2: And so just set up the proper necessary boundaries. It's 395 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 2: like Saul and David right first first Samuel eighteen ten 396 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 2: and eleven also strange. The next day, an evil spirit 397 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 2: from God came forcefully on Saul. He was prophesying in 398 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 2: his house while David was playing the lyre as he 399 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 2: usually did. Saul had a spear in his hand and 400 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: he hurled it, saying to himself, I'll pin David to 401 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 2: the wall. But David eluded him twice, so he escaped twice. 402 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: Okay, and. 403 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 2: This happened twice, And then did David stay in the 404 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 2: palace with Saul. No, there was a healthy wedge. And 405 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 2: this is somebody that he respected. From Afar. In fact, 406 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,439 Speaker 2: he got rebuked for cutting off a little part of 407 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: his robe because he was like that, this is God's 408 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 2: chosen one, this is the anointed one of Israel, and 409 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 2: I repent before God for you know, taking a piece 410 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 2: of his robe. So like he had honor in his 411 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 2: heart for this man. He had reverence, he had fear, 412 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 2: he had love, and he did it. From Afar, he 413 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: was restrated his heck, I'm sure, because it's like, what 414 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 2: have I done? 415 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: What am I doing? 416 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 2: All I've ever done was honor you, And all of 417 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 2: a sudden, it's just you wake up and you're in 418 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 2: a tizzy. You're in a bad mood. He's doing what 419 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 2: it like he always did. David's planned that, liar, and 420 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 2: then he just manifests. 421 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: And just you can't catrol other people. But he'd be 422 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:52,120 Speaker 1: stupid to. 423 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 2: Stay in that palace while he's trying to kill him 424 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 2: and Chuck Chuck spears at him. You'd be an idiot 425 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 2: to stick around. And most of you, you will tolerate 426 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: this garbage behavior from your friends, from close relatives, from 427 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: people that you grew up with, and you don't understand 428 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 2: it's having great impact in your life, in the lives 429 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 2: of your children, and you're the one that's gonna be 430 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 2: held responsible for it. You've got to set up that 431 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: vetting system. If something is robbing you of your piece 432 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 2: and joy, get rid of it immediately. I don't care 433 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 2: how long you've known that person. I don't care. If 434 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: in this new year you're not going to change and 435 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 2: be better with me, then you're staying back with the asses. 436 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 2: I've got a mountain to climb. 437 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:45,360 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah, you know. 438 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 4: What. 439 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Like, I just wish more people would 440 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 2: be a little bit more serious about the vetting situation. 441 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: This isn't an open border. I'm not gonna have. 442 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 2: You have access to everything of me. I hail, No, 443 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 2: you're bringing you're bringing this nonsense. You're bringing this crazy 444 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 2: stuff from from you and your past, and you're crazy. 445 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 1: You know country up here. I don't want that. No, 446 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to wake up in heaven. I'm not. 447 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: I haven't. 448 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: No, that's contraband anything that robs my peace, my joy. 449 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 3: That that it takes the learn about the block button. 450 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: It ain't hard. 451 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: It's just your kids are watching. 452 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 2: Your kids are going to be a part of that 453 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 2: you've got that You're constantly feuding. 454 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: With your parents about this, and it's like they're watching. 455 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 2: You. 456 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,199 Speaker 1: Don't think that affects them. Of course it affects them. 457 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: Of course, vet that my stuff and knock it off 458 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 2: and knock it all the way off. Okay, because I'm 459 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: telling you it just happened to me. I got a 460 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 2: text message, what another thing about news block? 461 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: And I had this whole long, john out thing to say. 462 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: I sent it. 463 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 2: It was spiteful, it was beautiful. It was the work 464 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 2: of art cheek and I was like, what did I do? 465 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 2: What did I do? 466 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: You blocked it immediately, but I was like, why is this? 467 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 1: I never thought of one second? 468 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 3: And I literally didn't think about it again because I 469 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 3: know a messenger, that a demonic messenger. When I see it, 470 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 3: I know it, so I'm not going to get bothered. 471 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: And but I was in the more. You know what 472 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying. People need to be more alert. You know 473 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 474 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 2: It's like, listen, that's not the voice of God. It 475 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 2: ain't my voice. 476 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 3: There's only one other voice in operation yea, it is 477 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 3: a devil. 478 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 2: That's that's beautiful, because if it's not bringing me peace. 479 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 2: If it's not bringing me joy, I recognize the source. 480 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 2: So come at it like that, is this person is 481 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 2: this individual giving me life? 482 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 1: Is he energizing me? Are they? Are they a cheerleader 483 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: of my dreams? Terry Sabell? 484 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: Do I have Terry Saveel in my life? I gotta 485 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 2: find one, you know what I'm saying. I need a 486 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 2: cheerleader of dreams. That's it. And when you find those people, 487 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 2: they are glorious. 488 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: They help you along the way, they lift you up. 489 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: It's like what is on your vision board. 490 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 2: They help you get you know, stuff from your vision, 491 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,400 Speaker 2: what you want done, They get behind it, they. 492 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 1: Lift you up, they carry you. It's the most beautiful 493 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:17,400 Speaker 1: thing in the whole wife worl. 494 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 2: I want that for you, But you got to find it, 495 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 2: and you've got to prioritize it because a lot of 496 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 2: the people that you're with now, those are the people 497 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: that are quite literally holding you back from having better relationships. 498 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 2: And until that relationship is severed, you aren't going to 499 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 2: be able to join forces with another person, another friend, 500 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 2: another group of people, because you're connected to that. 501 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: Weight. 502 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 3: Yes, and also you need to be very alert and 503 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 3: aware that you're not the person that we're talking about today, 504 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 3: that you're not the one that's constantly condemning your brothers 505 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 3: and sisters or your siblings. 506 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: Or whatever I mean. Or you're your. 507 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 2: Best friends and are in a bad mood all the 508 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 2: time we got to the most negative thing to talk about, 509 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 2: or people have to tiptoe around your personality and all 510 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 2: that kind of sewing seed, and so. 511 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: Are in a good seed. Let's refocus. That's all. 512 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five a year of refocusing, be better. 513 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 3: And uh, doing more for the Lord and keeping your 514 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 3: trauma the hell out of Get. 515 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 2: The hell get your trauma, get the hell out of 516 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 2: my house, and your trauma and your negativity. 517 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 1: Yes to heal, that's all. It is. Not here, not here, 518 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 1: close border. Where's ice passport? 519 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 3: Show me the passport, show me your credentials. Not here, 520 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 3: not a twenty twenty ft We built that wall. 521 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 1: I built it, No thanks to Trump. I did it myself. 522 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 1: Break my brick. This is me building brick, not knowing 523 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 1: how to build a brick. Ha ha, that's funnynyways. 524 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'm serious. I only want people that and 525 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 2: you know what, and let me just add to this. 526 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 2: In the minute two minutes that we have left. I 527 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 2: also want people to be real with me. I don't 528 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: want yes men in my life. 529 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 1: If I have a. 530 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 2: Spinach in my teeth, I want. I expect for you 531 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: to tell me I do one hundred percent of the time. 532 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 2: I do you know I'm your girl. If my hair 533 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 2: looks pooky dukes, I expect for you to tell me 534 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 2: that I did. 535 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: If my bread smells, I expect for you to give 536 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: me a ticktack. 537 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: I don't give her this, I said, you know what, 538 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 3: look I mean, this is how I look. 539 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm ready for the gym. Let's go. I expect real people. 540 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 2: I'm not just surrounding myself with people that are like 541 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 2: you look fabulous. 542 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 1: Yes, now they'd be. 543 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 2: Like, hey you preach today, it was okay. I'm looking 544 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 2: for that kind of a person in my life. I 545 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 2: don't need the you get awesome and I didn't. 546 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to find those people. It's healthy. You 547 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: need them. You need them. 548 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 2: They keep you sharp, they keep you level, they keep you, 549 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 2: they keep you grounded, they keep you in this real 550 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 2: life that would live best for you. That's the last 551 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 2: thing you want to do. 552 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: Is this. 553 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 2: Are you. 554 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm being Britney. I'm being Britney Spirits. Oh my gosh, 555 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: because that's what happens. 556 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 2: Can somebody get me a picture of Britney Spirits real quick? 557 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: Get a clip of Britney dancing. This is this is 558 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: what happened. 559 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 2: This is what happens with years of people saying that 560 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 2: you're awesome and that nothing is the matter. That is 561 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 2: what happens. That is what happens. 562 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: You don't want to be Britney be You don't want to. 563 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 1: You don't want to. You don't trust and believe. If 564 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: you want. 565 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 2: A better twenty twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven until 566 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 2: the Coming of Christ, you need people that are gonna 567 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 2: be like you look fat. You need to hone it in. 568 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 2: You can't be doing that. No more I need And 569 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: if that offends you, then you're not willing to grow. 570 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 2: If constructive criticism pulls you into depression, you need to mature. 571 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 1: You need to do better. You should be looking for 572 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: a rebuke every now and again. It's healthy. What am 573 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 1: I doing? What could I do better? How can I 574 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: how can I make? 575 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 4: Oh? 576 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you you suck it at calling people. 577 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 2: You aren't great at returning text messages, you aren't great 578 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 2: at finishing things. We should start finishing things. I wish 579 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 2: more people would just be more willing to just receive 580 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 2: that construction of criticism and say, hey, you're right, I'm 581 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 2: gonna work on that, instead of just being like. 582 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: And it's you guys, show me, you guys. Let me 583 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: send to me, pam me. Okay, we go, okyes, come 584 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: to me. Refresh. This is what happens, sweetie, Look at me. 585 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: This is this is not okay. This is because someone said, hey, 586 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: you're awesome. Is this weird? No, that's cool. That could 587 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 1: be like you, No, it's not. 588 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 2: You need to raise your kids, you need to get 589 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: a job, You need to get out in the world 590 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 2: and communicate with people. See what what what what the 591 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 2: hurting hearts of America are dealing with. 592 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: This is not reality. 593 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 2: Most celebrities are living in this Lalla nine because they're 594 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 2: surrounded with people that are just like, ah, awesome, No, 595 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 2: we yeah, no, that's fine. 596 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it's not time to be Brittany. It's 597 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: time to be you. And maybe you are Brittany. Avoid it, 598 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean it. So if your name 599 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: is Brittany, I apologize. But we can't allow We can't 600 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: allow craziness in our lives. You know what I'm saying. 601 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 2: We got to get back to the basics. We got 602 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 2: to get a reality check. And sometimes truth hurts. Sometimes 603 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: you're looking at truth and it looks ugly, it's messy, 604 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 2: and that's okay. Deal with it. Deal with it, sunglasses, 605 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 2: deal with it, because that's the only way you're gonna 606 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 2: grow is if you deal with it properly. You can't 607 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,959 Speaker 2: run away from it, you can't avoid it, you can't 608 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 2: bypass it. 609 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: You just gotta attack it. If there's certain things in. 610 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 2: Your life that you want to get rid of, get 611 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 2: rid of it because if nothing changes, nothing is going 612 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: to change. 613 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: So change it. Change your twenty twenty five. 614 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 2: Start better habits, build better relationships, build better walls, build 615 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 2: a better vetting system for Pete's sake, and protect your heart. 616 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: Be better in twenty twenty five. No, you can. 617 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 2: I believe in you Father, in the name of Jesus. 618 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 2: I thank you for every person that's watching, and I 619 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 2: thank you that twenty twenty five will be a year 620 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 2: of unending blessing, blessing after blessing. 621 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: And it's almost like a mountaintop. 622 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 2: Right when we get to the peak of the mountain, 623 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 2: there'll be another peak, and then it's. 624 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: Just climbing higher and higher and higher. But Father, I 625 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: thank you that you. 626 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 2: Purify our hearts, purify everything that we do, relationships, and 627 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 2: all these other people and individuals and behaviors and patterns that. 628 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: Will pull us down. Father, clear us of those things. 629 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 2: In the mighty name of Jesus, Let your spirit of 630 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 2: wisdom and revelation come upon every person to decipher the 631 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 2: real from the fake, the truth from a lie, the 632 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 2: good from the bad. In the Mighty name of Jesus, 633 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 2: we love you, we honor you, and we thank you 634 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: for positioning us this year for greater, for more, for 635 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 2: unending success. And let us double in Jesus' name. And 636 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 2: all God's people said Amen, Amen, hallelujah. 637 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: Bye.