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Speaker 2: Also programming up tomorrow Jail Cove and we'll be on

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Speaker 2: We have episodes to talk about. Episode twenty eight twenty

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Speaker 2: eight twenty six You're a mean one, mister print was

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Speaker 2: the name of this episode is shout out to all

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Speaker 2: y'all freaks that probably thought it was about Grace Weatpass

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Speaker 2: or something, but it's not that. Print Apia says, thank

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Speaker 2: you for providing a safe space for those with printing

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Speaker 2: I'm not alone and the printer does so much more

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Speaker 2: I have to stay with mister printer while he is

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Speaker 2: What a needy bitch When you try to use any

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Speaker 2: other ink to HP, he dramatically says, wanting I've detected

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Speaker 2: He sometimes prints a tests site for no reason, just

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Speaker 2: I didn't ask you to do this. It was never better.

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Speaker 2: Why why the printers hate people? Yeah, that's the thing. Like,

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Speaker 2: And also, I know they're ripping me off because they

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Speaker 2: now where you have to They it's like, oh, sign

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Speaker 2: I didn't ask for this. Office depot is up the

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Speaker 2: the ransom. We don't negotiate with with with terroriffs. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: or we're the terrorists. Actually, we don't negotiate with the hostages. Dude,

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Speaker 2: mo fucker, just give us our money. So I pay

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Speaker 2: the shit. I pay the shit every month like a

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Speaker 2: fucking sucker, because to them, you're the terrorists because you

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Speaker 2: won't pay. You won't pay the ransom. Son of a bitch.

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Speaker 2: Appier says, I didn't need uh the cholesterol vaccine last

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Speaker 2: because I already said so much. But I've read about

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Speaker 2: it for work. When you talked about it, and my

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Speaker 2: it because it goes against the pc SK nine and

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Speaker 2: even better. Good that I've changed from cardiology to neurology

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Speaker 2: this year in my company. Yep, I feel you, I

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Speaker 3: She is like in the future, because that's how she

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Speaker 2: I don't know she'd be in there hustle Noflow says,

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Speaker 2: one more thing about printers. I found out how to

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Speaker 2: clean print heads on YouTube, and one thing that they

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Speaker 2: mentioned is that printers need to print. It was recommended

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Speaker 2: Ibby says, great, So to avoid some bitchy printed behavior

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Speaker 2: Of course, that's so manipulative. Vomit emoji, not of you.

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Speaker 2: Mister Print is the manipulat the bitch. I agree. I agree. Also,

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Speaker 2: I don't believe them. It's just another way to keep

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Speaker 2: some shit, it's like, oh, we're gonna have to bill

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Speaker 2: should need some ink. Then they mailed me to ink

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Speaker 2: What yeah, I told you, I'm fucked. I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to get out of this cycle. I

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Speaker 2: understand office space now. Whenever motherfucker took that that printer

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Speaker 2: I get it, bro Green Eyed Bandit says, just catching

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Speaker 2: up on episodes, but I wanted to thank you for

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Speaker 2: your annual porn recap. As a bit of a connoisseur myself,

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Speaker 2: the trans and the rankings. Well, I like I came

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Speaker 2: And most of y'all probably don't have as big Like

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Speaker 2: send us cards. It's a fun feeling and open them

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Speaker 2: Episode twenty eight, twenty seven, the Gender Wars gold Medal.

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Speaker 2: We had nine comments on this one Apple says, great

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Speaker 2: tested again and it was positives can be. We left

426
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 2: a half hour later. Now I'm at home and have

427
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 2: to also move the first day with my new potential friend. Yay,

428
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 2: but I feel at least acceptable. Yeah, And I think

429
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,159
Speaker 2: she DM me later and says she actually is feeling

430
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: better and she's tested negative, so good for her. That's

431
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 2: good and glad you're doing okay. And at least you care,

432
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 2: because that's the thing.

433
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 3: At least you're like, I care enough to actually take precautions,

434
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 3: because you know, we at the point now where you're

435
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 3: not going to prevent anything. And one positive thing, particularly

436
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 3: if you're boosting and vaccinated. Yeah, you're gonna get sick,

437
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 3: but it ain't gonna take you jammed. And then like

438
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 3: you said you did the right thing by being like,

439
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 3: y'all know what we got to go, Like.

440
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: I test here, we needed to leave, like I tested

441
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 2: before going to see my parents and stuff like that.

442
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 2: You too, You still got all these tests in here.

443
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 2: So you know, if I'm going to like a family function,

444
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: I just want to be sure.

445
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 3: Test myself cause you don't never know who's gonna be

446
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 3: there and all that stuff. Like when I went to

447
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 3: go see my mama for Thanksgiving, it was her, she's

448
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 3: in her eighties. Some of other family members and friends

449
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 3: and you know, all them in their sixty seventies, eighties,

450
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 3: and nineties.

451
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't be walking up in there sick, right,

452
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 2: So I think, you know that's a big thing. And

453
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 2: we got all these free government tests out here. Take advantage,

454
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 2: and I think you can still get them. You can,

455
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: you can? You can? You could.

456
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 3: They restarted it and now you can.

457
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: I think you get it. Two times.

458
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 3: They did it one round and then they did the

459
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 3: second round. So if you haven't done it, order two

460
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 3: times and they'll be they'll ship it out.

461
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 2: I'll let y'all know when it's up again. She right,

462
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 2: and again, I think you are correct most white people

463
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 2: don't know about edges, at least I didn't, and it

464
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 2: just learned simone's hair looks for me pretty in every

465
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 2: picture Google offers me. I really can't see the problem

466
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 2: with it trigger a white person to talk about black hair.

467
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 2: I looked up edges, and while they can look pretty

468
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 2: and impressive, they seem like one more time or more

469
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 2: time and money required to do for Yeah, it feels

470
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 2: like one more thing that with more time and money

471
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: required to do for black women, especially when this woman

472
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 2: could be criticized for opting out of the edge game.

473
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 2: Can women just live? Sometimes? I agree?

474
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 4: I agree.

475
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 3: And also it's one of those things where edges some

476
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,120
Speaker 3: people call them quote unquote baby hairs. You know, it's

477
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 3: another phrase that you know, people kind of use for it.

478
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 3: And it's also, you know, one of those things, particularly

479
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 3: because of slavery, for a lot of you know, black

480
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 3: and brown people, they feel very conscious of it. And

481
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 3: you do have people who, if you were in a

482
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 3: fanio of with y'all, didn't really talk about edge this

483
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 3: is a shit like that.

484
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 2: You've been like, the fuck is the ad?

485
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: Like a lot of people got online, even black peoples,

486
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 3: like the fuck I d just I just brushing called

487
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 3: my hair, like, what are we doing? What are we

488
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 3: talking about? And then you realize this is huge thing

489
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 3: about it. But the thing is because of a lot

490
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 3: of traditions and the things we use. A lot of

491
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 3: even children, edges and things are messed up because braids

492
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: and twists and things like that, which is fine, but

493
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 3: a lot of times they're too tight. They put stress

494
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 3: on our hair. You know, a lot of the products

495
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 3: that are out there aren't actually designed for our hair

496
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 3: and actually dries it and breaks it and makes it

497
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 3: shed and things like that. And it takes a while

498
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 3: to find out what's the right product, particularly as somebody,

499
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 3: as a black woman with four sea hair, it takes

500
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 3: a while to particularly find products that are good and

501
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 3: healthy for your head that won't destroy it.

502
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, And I just think it's all You're right,

503
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 2: it's another one of those things black women have to do.

504
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: And it's sad because like a lot of it is

505
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: kind of self inflicted, meaning that the people that police

506
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 2: the edges, it's not white people. White people don't, like

507
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: you said, don't really even know about edges. And I

508
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: just thought that's a big part of the Samone Biles

509
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 2: Gabby Douglas discussion that gets erased in these gender wars

510
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: because once it's a gender war situation, once people are

511
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: online and they're being hyperbolic, they erase all the nuance

512
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: from the conversation. And a lot of the resentment that

513
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 2: she's gotten has not been something black men did to her.

514
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: It has not been something white people did to her.

515
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 2: A lot of that stuff about her parents has been

516
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 2: something that black women have done that has been very

517
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 2: unfair that that happened. They do to each other all

518
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 2: the time, which is just you know, you need to

519
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 2: always be put together all the time when we see

520
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 2: you in every single way, and women do it in general.

521
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: But I mean, I think you would hope there will

522
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 2: be a safe space among black women that will be

523
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 2: a lot more understanding. When Tager p Henson talked about

524
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,959
Speaker 2: how she can't just like be herself, she needs a

525
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: team for everything, meaning she can't do Instagram without hair, makeup,

526
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 2: lamb everything, because if you do, it becomes a huge distraction.

527
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,239
Speaker 2: I've seen it happen myself. I'm sure black women that

528
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: follow influencers and follow celebrities, y'all have seen it happen

529
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 2: a million times of just somebody starts saying some unkind

530
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 2: stuff about the way someone dresses, or their hair or

531
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: their makeup or something, and it doesn't matter if that

532
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 2: that woman could be crying, that woman could be just

533
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 2: keeping it real. Whatever. Here we go with the she

534
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 2: ain't always put together. I don't know what she was

535
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 2: doing without wearing that da da da da. And so yeah,

536
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 2: there's an extra pressure to it, and a lot of

537
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 2: people act like folks don't have hard feelings or residual

538
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 2: feelings coming out of that. But also, even if it

539
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: comes from a quote unquote good place, it still sets

540
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: the person up to be pitied, and that's not that

541
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 2: might not be a source of strength for that person.

542
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 2: I don't think someone bios find strength and delight. Everyone

543
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: pities you because your edges ain't right and because I

544
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 2: think it becomes a subliminal thing of and yet that

545
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: man can't possibly love you because we don't think you're

546
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,719
Speaker 2: to his standards, because you're not to our standards. The

547
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 2: only love you're gonna have is from the internet people

548
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: that are weird, those like me, And I think that

549
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: was a big part of this discussion that did not

550
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: go stated because that's too close to the truth for

551
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,360
Speaker 2: most of the people involved, and either they haven't done

552
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: a self examination of why they have that double standard

553
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: on her and why a lot of that has been

554
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 2: self inflicted and meaning from within the community and not

555
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 2: outside the community, right.

556
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 3: And it's also one of those things because a lot

557
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 3: of people when it comes to a lot of things,

558
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 3: and as a black woman who's had they hair relaxed

559
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: and who's been natural for a while now, you kind

560
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 3: of see it from both sides, and a lot of

561
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 3: it is the proximity, the whiteness, the paper bag test.

562
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: You know, if she can't use your cone, don't bring

563
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 3: a home. I'm talking about like the old school shit.

564
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 3: And you know, even the things when people used to

565
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: get depressing with the hot iron and shit like that.

566
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 2: A lot of that.

567
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 3: Stems from our hair, which naturally goes curly, trying to

568
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 3: make it as quote unquote straight as possible, and for

569
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 3: some people that works and for some people that doesn't.

570
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 3: And even in the hair community, you can see a riff.

571
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 3: It's just ridiculous, you see some people and I don't

572
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 3: agree with it.

573
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 2: However, you choose to whatever you choose to do with

574
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 2: your hair is your business. I don't got nothing to

575
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: do with that.

576
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 3: But you have a lot of people who get their

577
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 3: hair relaxed, sit on the natural community, and you have

578
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 3: a lot of people the natural community that shit on

579
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 3: people with processed hair.

580
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 2: And that's an internal.

581
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 3: Battle too, and a lot of that starts with you know,

582
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 3: people have these internal things, these things that they personally

583
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 3: hadn't worked out within themselves. And a lot of this

584
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: is projecting, you know, as children. You know your parents project,

585
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 3: which is understandable. A lot of the things that is

586
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 3: happening and going on in society onto you, quote unquote

587
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: trying to give you the best life, trying.

588
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: To make it where it's a less of a struggle

589
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: for you.

590
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 3: You know, we also live in a society too where children,

591
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 3: children are complex, and a lot of people think, particularly

592
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 3: Black community, if your children look a mess, it's a

593
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: reflection on you as a parent. And so for a

594
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: lot of parents that go overboard with that, like they'll

595
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: look like trash, but they gonna be sure their kids

596
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 3: is clean, They're gonna be sure their kids are presented,

597
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 3: and a lot of that, it's a lot of internal shit.

598
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: You know, your baby, you came your baby, your baby

599
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 3: go outside and play and get our frids and next thing,

600
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 3: you know, you have to deal with other people commenting

601
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 3: on your baby's hand when you be like, well, my

602
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 3: child is just a child, Like why can't my child

603
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 3: be a child? Why can't my child just be a

604
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 3: kid that don't give a fuck about hair and shit

605
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: like that. No, that can't happen, you know. And it's

606
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 3: a lot of pressure on parents. There's a lot of

607
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: pressure on children, you know. And it's a lot of

608
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 3: pressure in the community to always be perfect, always be

609
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: always be presented. But we can't be off. That's why

610
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 3: we do. That's why we we we're all crazy about

611
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 3: being clean and lotioning down and being sure you're presentable.

612
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: That's why you have some people they'll put on.

613
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 3: A fucking wig before they will go outside looking crazy,

614
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: quote unquote, because society has told them, and particularly within themselves,

615
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 3: within our community, if you don't have this thing, if

616
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,479
Speaker 3: you're not one hundred percent perfect all the time, what

617
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 3: is the point? And it is devastating to people's psyche.

618
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 3: It's fucking people up, you know, it's making people very

619
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 3: have these internal battles that they don't know how to

620
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 3: deal with, and then not gonna say you have this

621
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 3: when I get my hair straight. What's wrong with you

622
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 3: walking around here with your nappy ass head and you

623
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 3: got the people to get their hair.

624
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: There's natural going one. I don't know why you get

625
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: this problem.

626
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 3: You know you're killing yourself when at the end of

627
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 3: the day, it don't matter because.

628
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: It's your choice. Yeah, it's funny to think about how

629
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: how much of a pushback Monique got about talking about

630
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: bonnets and people in the airport, black women in the

631
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 2: airport not being presentable, when, like I said, you can

632
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 2: look at another Instagram comments of any of these athletes

633
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: and and and see that a lot of people are

634
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 2: on that Monique shit. You know, it's not that different.

635
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 2: And like I said, it was one thing well Asie,

636
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: as Reggie said, Simon was competing. The criticism unfair. But

637
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 2: here's the thing. The article I pulled up for this

638
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: was about her wedding photos. People were talking bad about

639
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: her hair in her fucking wedding photos. That's so like

640
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,239
Speaker 2: I said to me, I think there's something a lot

641
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: of people don't want to admit, which is that a

642
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: lot of them look down on her and they don't

643
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: think she couldn't pull this guy or like, their biggest

644
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 2: fear is that this guy's somehow so confident in himself

645
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 2: that he's too good for her, and eventually she's setting

646
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 2: herself up and shit, And who knows what the fuck

647
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: is going on in their relationship because we don't know them.

648
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 2: But I just think that assumption is based on a

649
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: lot of anti blackness and weirdness that people have inside,

650
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 2: and they're trying to act like it's everybody else's fault

651
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 2: because that dude says some shit about being confident in himself. Essentially,

652
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: and like I said, I get it. We live in

653
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: a world where there's fucking like Kevin Samuels exists. Anytime

654
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: a man starts saying shit like I believe I'm the prize.

655
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I always say men the prize, you immediately

656
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 2: go into twenty seven different versions of like what could

657
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 2: he mean and how bad could it be? But then,

658
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 2: like I said, I listened to the whole podcast, and I,

659
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: you know, and I really did not find what he

660
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: said to be this isolated moment of like that's the

661
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: real truth. Everything else was a lie, So you know.

662
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also, while I'm thinking about it, another thing,

663
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 3: not trying funny about edges and hair, particularly with black women.

664
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: A lot of times we have to deal with the

665
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 3: with the quote unquote double standard of always being compared

666
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 3: to men. And so for a lot of women that

667
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: were like, I have to do whatever I can to

668
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 3: keep my hair quote unquote as feminum as possible because

669
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to be quote unquote label a man.

670
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 3: Do you know, like like for a lot of women,

671
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 3: that's the last thing you.

672
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: Want, especially for black women. Yes, even with people exercising.

673
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: I even with just because I didn't understand, uh, when

674
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 3: people be like, hey, you're getting older, you need to

675
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 3: lift weights the first thing I said, and like I said,

676
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 3: I had to learn how to break this. I don't

677
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 3: want to be like a man. There's like that's not

678
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 3: the point. The point is to get you strong because

679
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 3: you actually need to muscle as you age, it reduces

680
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 3: like I still.

681
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 2: Not okay bringing that up. Not I'm just ask I'm

682
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 2: just asking questions.

683
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 3: You know, And and and lifting weights as far as

684
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 3: nothing heavy.

685
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: We got two little small weights. I've been doing that,

686
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: but I haven't been doing like no, no major weightlifting

687
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 2: because I don't know what the hell I'm doing. So

688
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 2: you know, well, it's okay. I mean we yeah, I

689
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: was just asking the questions. Since you use that as

690
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:42,720
Speaker 2: the example, that's all all right. Shoe Buoy says football

691
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: man did not know gymnastics woman despite her fame. He

692
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 2: was just in his lane. It's not the issue people

693
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: are making it. He was a hot asset on his own.

694
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 2: He thought he was a catch. Good for him. There

695
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 2: are plenty of sports people who are massively famous that

696
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 2: I have no clue about until they're brought up to me.

697
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 2: I don't know this guy, and I damned well didn't

698
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 2: know Travis Kelsey was a thing prior to Taylor Swift. Yeah,

699
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 2: I just that's it. Just I think it's the conspiratorial

700
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: part of it that's wow to me. It's like, why

701
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: does it have to be some version of a conspiracy

702
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 2: like that, you know, No, he really didn't know. He's

703
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 2: only saying that they're like that, y'all don't see how

704
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 2: that's being your hyper online And that's why it turned

705
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: into this must be some type of conspiracy. It can't

706
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: be anything but this, because to me, that's I don't know,

707
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 2: pretty obvious that you know, like people went and did

708
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,760
Speaker 2: research of like his past girlfriends and they're like, see

709
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 2: his other girlfriends don't look like her. I'm like, what

710
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: does that mean? Though? You know? And also like, what's

711
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 2: wrong if this is the thing she picked that man?

712
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 2: Is essentially what we learn from that interview. She wanted

713
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 2: him and she went and got him. He thinks he's

714
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 2: the problem guy. What's wrong with that? Right? Like? Really,

715
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: what is wrong with her being like, yeah, I think

716
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: he's the prize. I wanted him and I got him.

717
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 2: These other hoes wanted him, they didn't get them, And

718
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm some own bowels and I'm that bitch. If she

719
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 2: believed that, more power to them. I know, really not

720
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: up to me to decide. And I know one thousand

721
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 2: percent of the genders were reversed, we would be like,

722
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: yeas king. So let's just start with the bullshit. Shoe

723
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 2: Budy says, this made me laugh and send us a TikTok.

724
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 2: Hold on, let me see if I can put it

725
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 2: up TikTok and so get weird on the fucking desktop app.

726
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: Hopefully it works. Trying to make me logging, oh yeah,

727
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: I saw this. This This guy's pretty funny. If it'll play,

728
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 2: God damn it, now.

729
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: For real I don't even think that's what happened.

730
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 2: You here we go. That's respecting some own vials.

731
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,240
Speaker 4: Like, for real, I don't even think that's what happen.

732
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 1: You are married to four time Olympic gold medalists Simone Biles,

733
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: and you said that you are the catch. I mean, yeah,

734
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 1: that's what I said, trying to on ten thing his thing. Bitch,

735
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: she is a whole avenger, Okay, she is a national treasure.

736
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:22,720
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I don't even know who.

737
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 4: The fuck you are. Yeah, y'all want to hear something

738
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 4: funny right quick?

739
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: Like when we met her with I didn't even know

740
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: who she was like that for real, for real, Like

741
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 1: I ain't, I ain't. I don't really be messing with

742
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: gymnastics like that.

743
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: You know, you have to watch this on YouTube or

744
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 2: on our crowd cast, cause like the dude is superimposing

745
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: his mouth and eyes on the planet Earth and being

746
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 2: like like everyone on Earth knows who some own bowles

747
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: is and this nigga, don't you know?

748
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was? For real, I'm about

749
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: to smack the shit out of you. Hey, listen, Earth.

750
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: I guess I appreciate the enthusiasm, but me and my

751
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 1: man are happy.

752
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 4: We're we're doing good.

753
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: We good someone if you don't sit your beautiful, rich

754
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: goddess like ass down. This all seems very condescending, but okay,

755
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: take it back right now, say that you're not the catch,

756
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: do it?

757
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 2: Yeah?

758
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: I ain't doing that. I ain't scared of none of y'all.

759
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: I'll play for the Green Bay Packers. It could be whatever,

760
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: cud bitch, I will fuck you up on Simone's behalf.

761
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 4: That's how mad I am.

762
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, real quick, y'all. Notice that y'all always mad about something?

763
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 4: Huh y'all?

764
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: Notice huh, y'all Notice that y'all always mad about something?

765
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's never stuff that matters. Like, y'all don't

766
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 4: know shit about me. For real.

767
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: We got on a podcast and talked about our relationship,

768
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 1: and y'all areus.

769
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 4: Hey, you put y'all shit on the podcast. We have

770
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 4: a right to react to it. Yeah, you're right. You

771
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 4: also have a right to get a fucking life. Yeah,

772
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 4: y'all should think about doing that.

773
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: You'd probably be a lot happier, you know, like me

774
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: and my husband. EDG Girl, you want to go to

775
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: the cheesecake factory, Well, you know, I want to go

776
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: to cheesecake factory.

777
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 2: Let's go, bitch.

778
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: I know they did not just walk away from me. Hey,

779
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: you know what, earth, they're right, you fucking suck man.

780
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: Fuck you Carter, fuck you. Fuck you and your cat

781
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: dog shirt. You're thirty seven, bitch. Oh you're gonna make

782
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: fun of my shirt. I literally hoping asteroid hits you

783
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: and destroys you.

784
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 2: Oh that funny. That was very funny, get right hilarious.

785
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 2: I love the twist that halfway through. But yeah, that

786
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 2: encapsulates a lot of how I was feeling. Also, like

787
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: we were talking to a friend the other day and

788
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 2: she brought up something about it. That is so I

789
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 2: can't believe. I didn't even think of it. But people

790
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: are acting like they don't date men, right, men, the

791
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 2: average man. If you listen that whole interview, that man

792
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 2: is so open, honest, talks about there, We talks about

793
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 2: their they're like supporting each other, their love for each other,

794
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: all this shit you're telling me. If I sit with

795
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 2: you and your man for an hour and ask you

796
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 2: about your relationship, they all of them are gonna pass

797
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 2: the ball hooks womanism test. I don't think so. I

798
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 2: don't think so, and I'm not even like, I'm not

799
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: even saying I feel like he messed up, because I

800
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 2: truly do not feel like he messed up. I really

801
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 2: think if they're secure in their relationship and they're happy,

802
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 2: then then that's really all that fucking matters. Certain levels

803
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: of security, I would say people aren't ready to hear.

804
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: People aren't ready for the stuff me and Karen talk

805
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 2: about off the show. We don't talk about on the

806
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: show a lot of times because I know that you

807
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,959
Speaker 2: guys are essentially still strangers no matter how many hours

808
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 2: of this show we do, and at any point, even

809
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: when we talk about stuff we feel is fine, we've

810
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: had people right in here and say stuff where we're

811
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 2: like we didn't say that, or why would you take

812
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 2: something so negative out of what we said? So I

813
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 2: know that stuff like this is right for it. But yeah,

814
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 2: she brought that up. Our friend brought that up a

815
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 2: dinner and I was just like, yes, Like motherfuckers really

816
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,720
Speaker 2: get on the internet and act like brand new people

817
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 2: like no one's ever said anything and I still and

818
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: I was in a relationship with him. They always made

819
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 2: me sound the greatest of all at all times, like

820
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: get the fuck out of here. I've met your spouses,

821
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: I've met you, We've all. I've met men, I've met men,

822
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 2: I've been I am a man that men they're they're there.

823
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 2: They don't always get it right, and they don't always

824
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 2: understand the optics.

825
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: You know, they do not because they're not obligated to

826
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 3: and don't have to give a fuck about certain things.

827
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really think they wanted, honestly, they wanted him

828
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 2: to fake it if if I'm being honest, because that

829
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 2: is their story, that is how they met. He did

830
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 2: not lie. I don't think they wanted him to lie

831
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,760
Speaker 2: because they needed a certain image of her to maintain.

832
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 2: And I think, uh yeah, I think I think a

833
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 2: lot of people got lost in the South fighting about

834
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,280
Speaker 2: it and says, good take onto some mo bios situation.

835
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: It's a sweet story when you hear the whole thing

836
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: and not just the clip. I didn't like the prize

837
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 2: comment when I first saw a clickbait, but context is everything.

838
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 2: It sounded like a solid couple. Yeah, And I mean

839
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 2: people know what they doing and the pivot know what

840
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 2: they doing. They're the ones who skated in this shit.

841
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: They put that clip out like that shit wasn't discovered

842
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 2: they put that clip out and it was like he

843
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 2: didn't know. And then when everybody went crazy, they came

844
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: back like, I can't believe y'all would. Yes, you can,

845
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: cause I see your podcast and every week you put

846
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 2: a clip out knowing that people, knowing that it's gonna

847
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 2: go hopefully hoping that it goes viral. That's the whole point. Yeah,

848
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: So I mean you kind of set them up, in

849
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 2: my opinion, because there were plenty of clips you could

850
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 2: have put out about therapy, about how he supported her

851
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 2: through the twisties, about how she supported him when he was,

852
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: like I said, when he looked at that film and

853
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: was trying to get better and she already knew the shit.

854
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 2: There's plenty of stuff. How she taught him how to

855
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: deal with fame because he had never had that before

856
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 2: because he was just essentially a nobody trying to make

857
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: the NFL, and he learned graciousness from her, and how

858
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 2: he realized she was a super megafucking star the first

859
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 2: time they really went out in public together, and he's like,

860
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: oh my god. So yeah, they could have put out

861
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 2: a ton of other clips. They know what they were doing.

862
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 2: Of course, Gina says. Jenagate says, thanks for the clear

863
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 2: of you on the bio situation. I meant I was

864
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 2: wonder to how dare he camp? It's so hard not

865
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: to automatically defend black women. We so often don't feel

866
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 2: defended and are so used to heading ourselves hearing ourselves degraded. Honestly,

867
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 2: it never occurred to me that there might be a

868
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 2: different perspective. I'm not sure if that says more about

869
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: what I expect from black men in the media or

870
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 2: my own self image of a black woman. Great episode, Yeah.

871
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 3: Because and a lot of times you have to get

872
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 3: to the point where most people consume they've never been

873
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 3: on the production side. So when something gets presented to you,

874
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 3: most people don't take that extra step and go, Okay,

875
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 3: I see this clip, I know what you're trying to do.

876
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 3: Let me go back and let me see what's the context, Like,

877
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 3: what's behind this? The clip did what it was supposed

878
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 3: to do, tap on your insecurities. The clip did what

879
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: it was supposed to do, make you project. That's what

880
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 3: the clip was supposed to do. That's what costs of

881
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 3: the engagement, That's what costs of the debate. That's what

882
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 3: costed the go viral. It did what it was supposed

883
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 3: to do.

884
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: I'll go one further. It's not that people don't understand

885
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 2: being on the production side. Now everyone's on the production side.

886
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 2: They producing content, and part of their content is making

887
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 2: stripping things of context and being like stay mad at

888
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,399
Speaker 2: just this and if this, and they they it's it's

889
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 2: so fucking frustrating sometimes as a person that tries to

890
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: live in just reality, right, it's so fucking frustrating the

891
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 2: social media stuff, and it's honestly is why mostly don't

892
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:01,760
Speaker 2: talk to people on social media about these hot topics.

893
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 2: I love the podcast not just because you're here, but

894
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: because it's long form, because the chat room is listening

895
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 2: to us talk for hundreds of hours. People are not

896
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 2: here just to see if they can fight us or

897
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,439
Speaker 2: to frame the argument like lawyers, like people turn into

898
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 2: these like weird kind of lawyers, right, like I will

899
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: not allow this into evidence. And you're like, what the

900
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 2: fuck are you talking about? That happened. We're human, we

901
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 2: saw it. It's germane to the topic. Well, no, I

902
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: don't care. You know, I'm not gonna go listen to

903
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 2: the podcast. Okay, Well, good for you. On remaining ignorant.

904
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: I don't have to respect your opinion. You chose to

905
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: remain uninformed. Get the fuck off, get away from me,

906
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 2: right because I wouldn't deal with that as a human

907
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: being talking to another person if another person started yelling

908
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 2: at me and I went, well, I actually know more

909
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 2: information and maybe if you go get that information, we

910
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 2: can have a better discussion, and you went, I'm not

911
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 2: getting that information. I want to fight you. It's like

912
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 2: something's wrong with you and I don't know what it is,

913
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: but it's not my responsibility to fix or deal with.

914
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 2: And I think that's a huge part of the Internet,

915
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 2: is this culture of like the quote unquote conversation, which

916
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 2: is never really a conversation. It's just everyone kind of

917
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: piling on saying the same things over and over and

918
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 2: then fighting the other group that's piling on to saying

919
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 2: the same things over and over. And I think that's

920
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 2: a huge part of this quote unquote discussion that had

921
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 2: that it went so crazy online to where people are,

922
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: you know, trying to find like circumstantial evidence to build

923
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: a case against the guy. Oh, but he knew who

924
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 2: Gabby Douglass was when he was fifteen, and she was

925
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: trending on Twitter, and he said such and such. Now

926
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: he's never tweeted about gymnastics again the rest of his

927
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: entire life. But still he must know who's Simon Bowels.

928
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: It's like, we don't know that. Well, I went and

929
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 2: found pictures of his ex girlfriends. His ex girlfriends don't

930
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: look like some own biles, so clearly he must think

931
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 2: he better than her. It's like, we don't know any

932
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 2: of that. What the fuck are you talking about? And

933
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 2: why are you so obsessed with this? This is not normal.

934
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: This is not rational, you know, it's so weird, especially

935
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: when two people are telling you we end this together,

936
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 2: we're happy, and the issues you're saying are not the

937
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 2: issues that we have in our relationship. Well, I'm sorry

938
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: they know better than you do from a two minute

939
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 2: clip that you refuse to look into context into I'm

940
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 2: sorry you'd rather go look up tweets to try to

941
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 2: build an argument to fight people online. Cool, but that's

942
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 2: weird to me. Yep.

943
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 3: And the thing is, like I said, for when you're

944
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 3: in that matrix, you think that shit is normal and

945
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 3: you think everybody else is weird for being rational and

946
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: being logical and being grounded.

947
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 2: You think something.

948
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is with them for actually saying that shit

949
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 3: y'all doing is goddamn insane.

950
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: It's become very normalized that these gender war fights and shit,

951
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: it's like just win at all costs.

952
00:47:58,760 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 5: Ms.

953
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 2: Barnes says, God bless Rod for giving us context. I

954
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 2: kept seeing the clip and I said to myself and

955
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 2: wait for Rider Kara to dissect this, and dissected you

956
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: both did. Thank you. I knew that there was more

957
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 2: to it than the clickbait that the Pivot put out there.

958
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 2: And speaking of throwing the rock behind their hands, I

959
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 2: see what the Pivot did. They knew that this hot

960
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 2: take was going to attract the clicks that it attracted. However,

961
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 2: when you read long form AK listen to the whole

962
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 2: podcast Samon's husband is great for the god that he

963
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,439
Speaker 2: has Simon and his wife. Yeah, it's like I said,

964
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: low key, I feel like the Pivot got off on

965
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: this because they kind of threw I think they threw

966
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 2: them to the wolves with that clip, and then it

967
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 2: was on some like listen, they seem happy. If you

968
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 2: listen to the whole show, it's like, yeah, but y'all

969
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: knew y'all put the most salacious part of that shit

970
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 2: out there without really any contexts, and then went old,

971
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 2: look at this America and like we come on. And

972
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: I don't think that's a and out. For the record,

973
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 2: I don't think that the Pivot podcast is a bad pot.

974
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 2: I don't really think that they're a very salacious podcasts.

975
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 2: I actually think they're a really good show, and they

976
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 2: have had some of the best conversations I've had heard,

977
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:17,479
Speaker 2: especially straight male athletes have period period. Now that says

978
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 2: a lot about how low the bar is for a

979
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 2: lot of these podcasts with black men. But that show

980
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 2: and what they're doing is really good work. But I

981
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 2: think the algorithm and going viral and all that stuff

982
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 2: is very strong, and it's washing and Sharp is putting

983
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: out clips of him and Chad O Cho Singo talk

984
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 2: about women farting in the bed and it's and it's

985
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 2: all the same beast, and you either feed it or

986
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,439
Speaker 2: you don't. If you don't feed it, I mean, sure

987
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 2: you have your integrity, but then you don't have the

988
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: top podcast. You know, we're not taking clips from our

989
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: show and trying to find the ones that make us

990
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 2: look to you know, it's like us taking like a

991
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 2: clip from guest to race and reading everyb these racist

992
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 2: answers and only putting that on Twitter and being like,

993
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,439
Speaker 2: why is everybody so upset? We I mean, we play

994
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 2: that game. If you listen to the whole show, everybody

995
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 2: would be like, but we don't. We're on Twitter and

996
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: it's very fucked up that you know, people were saying

997
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: racist jokes or whatever. That's right, that's what they That's

998
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 2: the equivalent of what they did to me. Evie says,

999
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: I kept hearing about someone about discorse on social media too.

1000
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 2: Was skeptical of her husband not knowing who she was

1001
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 2: because I think the app they met on you have

1002
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 2: to be famous, some high profile figure, or be in

1003
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 2: certain income bracket. Well, I don't want to put anybody's

1004
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 2: business out there, so I won't. But I have a

1005
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 2: good friend that is on Riah and that person is

1006
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 2: like not famous or rich. So it's more about you

1007
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 2: have to one get like an invite, but two it's

1008
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 2: more about confirming your identity. You don't necessarily have to

1009
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 2: be like a big time celebrity to be on that app,

1010
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 2: but you're now put things in the context and for

1011
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 2: the record, think about it. When he was on the app.

1012
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 2: This nigga was like trying to make the cardinals like

1013
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 2: he wasn't who he is now. Well, he hopped on

1014
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 2: that app like two or three years ago, and like

1015
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 2: I said, when they meant this, nigga didn't have a car, right,

1016
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 2: So it's not like Raya is not Once again, I

1017
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 2: saw this discourse online for people turning into lawyers, so

1018
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 2: in order they had to be like oh and another

1019
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 2: point for me, Raya is an app that ownly famous,

1020
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 2: rich celebrities can be on. It's like, that's actually not true.

1021
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: Raya would like you to believe that because it makes

1022
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: their app seem like a bigger deal than it is.

1023
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 2: But no, you can be a not megastar or what

1024
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 2: famous or rich and be on that fucking app if

1025
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 2: you're willing to let them see your license and all

1026
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 2: this shit. Yeah, they were like, is you a real person?

1027
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: And you are real? Okay? Yeah, So it was very anyway,

1028
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 2: but your announceers put things in context for me, especially

1029
00:51:58,120 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: hearing the part about how he matched with her on

1030
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 2: the app. One of the things that has been tossed

1031
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 2: around all week was that she's not his type and

1032
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: he is only with her to hype himself up and

1033
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 2: she's not the kind of woman someone who looks like

1034
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 2: him with day if she wasn't so accomplished, And that's

1035
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 2: kind of fucked up because that's way worse than anything

1036
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,439
Speaker 2: he ever said about her, right.

1037
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 3: And putting words in their mouths both parties.

1038
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: This is what I'm saying. A lot of this is internalized,

1039
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: and because these motherfuckers won't do their own therapy, they

1040
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: don't even see it's their projection of a huge amount

1041
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 2: of just like anti blackness onto her. You know, she's

1042
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 2: dark skinned, her hair ain't right, she don't got this

1043
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 2: type of shape. She don't do this, she don't do that.

1044
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you believe that about her?

1045
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 3: Right?

1046
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 2: We have never had a moment where some moan bows

1047
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 2: has even shown a little bit of believing the shit

1048
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 2: that y'all think she should think about herself. Period. She

1049
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: don't even she had to twisty. She wasn't even on

1050
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 2: some like woe is me shit? You know what I mean?

1051
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,720
Speaker 2: Like she built different to get them fucking gold metals.

1052
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: You gotta be built different. She just built different. And

1053
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 2: I think people can't relate to just somebody like her

1054
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: being like I pulled this nigga because I wanted him,

1055
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: And that's what the fuck I do. I want things.

1056
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 2: I'm some owan bows only competitions myself and I get

1057
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:24,919
Speaker 2: things and I go for the goal and he happen

1058
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 2: to be the goal. Yeah, and like yeah, okay, this

1059
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 2: is yeah. He didn't know that he needed me in

1060
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 2: his life. Bam, you know what I mean. So I

1061
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: don't think she was even looking at like the way

1062
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 2: people do. Plus, circling back to the type of app

1063
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 2: they mad on, everyone on the app is either rich,

1064
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 2: l famous. I'm certain there's all types of beautiful women

1065
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 2: on the app. In order to match on these apps,

1066
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 2: she had to swipe right on each other, so of

1067
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 2: course he must have found her attracted to match with

1068
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 2: her in the first place. Sounds like that, like what

1069
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 2: they had works for them. But some of these takes

1070
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 2: are just pure widow speculations. I saw the Urbrah Taji

1071
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: clip everyone was talking about and I didn't know what

1072
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 2: to make of it. But you know who was quick

1073
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: the chime in and her hating two cents Monique. If

1074
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 2: Oprah has one hater, it's Monique absolutely. If Oprah has

1075
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 2: no haters, that means Monique has died, but the fact

1076
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 2: that to Rodger had to speak up still wasn't enough

1077
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 2: for people to stop speculating. Some people just live for

1078
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 2: the drama. I know it's sad too, because I feel

1079
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 2: like with everything to Roger was going through, people kind

1080
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: of forced her hand into like having to then go

1081
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: and put out a fucking statement on Instagram because y'all

1082
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: won't let it go, Like that's crazy, Like you care

1083
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 2: about her so much, but you forced her into like

1084
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 2: a guys, Oprah has been very helpful and kind, Why

1085
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 2: are you, like, let's say it was true for a second.

1086
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 2: Why are y'all putting her in a position to deal

1087
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 2: with more conflict in the industry to be Oprah's number

1088
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: one enemy? Now, you're not helping her. If she it

1089
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 2: would be different if she wanted to say something like that,

1090
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 2: but she clearly didn't want to say that, and then

1091
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 2: she had to go even further out her way to

1092
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: be like and that's definitely not what I'm saying. Wow people, Wow.

1093
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,959
Speaker 2: On YouTube, we got one comment from Jay full who says,

1094
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 2: you completely changed how I viewed this situation. I had

1095
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 2: only heard the audio that short clip, didn't know she

1096
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,240
Speaker 2: was in the studio too. Thanks for the fresh perspective

1097
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 2: and so what we try to do here, you know,

1098
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: and I'm glad that, you know, glad some people were

1099
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 2: able to at least get another point of view. Once again,

1100
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,240
Speaker 2: we're not requiring everybody agree with us. We're not trying

1101
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: to change everybody's mind. We're just giving y'all what we feel.

1102
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 2: But you know, it does warm or heart when people

1103
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 2: are like yo, no one was talking about this in

1104
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 2: the way y'all talked about it. I and this, this

1105
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 2: feels more, This feels genuine or valid, you know.

1106
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: I like that.

1107
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 2: The poll do you celebrate Christmas? Ninety three percent of

1108
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 2: our audience does, seven and a half percent basically does not.

1109
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 2: On Spotify, eighty seven percent of the audience does and

1110
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 2: thirteen percent does not. The research versus research was the

1111
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: Q and a magnificent Breeze says, Marry Christmas, y'all. I

1112
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,479
Speaker 2: host my extended family for big X mess, Eve party,

1113
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 2: gifts exchange, and on Christmas, my household goes out and

1114
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 2: eats ethnic food because I'm not cooking. Twice this year

1115
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 2: was Korean barbecue.

1116
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1117
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 2: People go like, I did that shit for Thanksgiving? Us

1118
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 2: enough Steven says, listen to the banter on episode two

1119
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 2: eighth nine. I don't even know what episode that is. Roy,

1120
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 2: you gotta get on the McDonald's app. The points and

1121
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 2: deals are crazy, y'all. Y'all you'll say so much money.

1122
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 2: I did get on the McDonald's app, and I did

1123
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: get some free fries one time, like maybe a couple

1124
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 2: of weeks ago. But uh, sad to say, I haven't

1125
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 2: eaten McDonald since I've been trying to eat better the

1126
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 2: last so I got, I got it, and now just

1127
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 2: get a pop up like you want some McDonald's. I'm like, no,

1128
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 2: I get an email from chrispy Kreme every morning, like

1129
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 2: trying to stay off to chrispy Kreme player. Nice try.

1130
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 3: They be like like you forgot about us, right so,

1131
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 3: but now then you in a wild had big head.

1132
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,360
Speaker 3: Y'all know how them maps do if you if you

1133
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 3: don't click on the map for a while, they do

1134
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 3: the random reminder pop ups.

1135
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 2: That app is cracked though. That shit was like free,

1136
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:13,439
Speaker 2: you want some free shit, and I'm like, damn free shit.

1137
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 2: Raphael says, now my brother roding this. Sister Karen has

1138
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 2: a multiversonal versal catch myself. Thank you. See, people need

1139
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 2: to understand it's a hustle to get sexy meat in

1140
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 2: their beds. Happy qualms of my peeps, and says Taraji

1141
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 2: is not being appreciated for her work, she got screwed

1142
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 2: by the industry, and shout out to OPRA for trying

1143
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 2: to fix Hollywood's travesty to this black woman. Yeah, I man,

1144
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 2: being black in the fucking Hollywood industry, being black in

1145
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 2: America just fucking It's such a fucking trick bag man,

1146
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 2: It's so fucked up. I was thinking about this shit today,

1147
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 2: like how hard people can be on black art as

1148
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 2: black people because we try to make it carry the race.

1149
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 2: Shout out to the movie American Fiction. It's does a

1150
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 2: good job kind of depicting some of these things. And

1151
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 2: I'll think about some of the people are anecdotally who

1152
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 2: are on social media are the hardest on black people's art.

1153
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 2: But man, they love them white people shows, they love them.

1154
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 2: And I don't mean like dealing with race. I mean

1155
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 2: the ones that don't have no niggas in them. Basically,

1156
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 2: they love succession, and they love mad Men, and they

1157
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 2: love you know, Game of Throat. They love these fucking

1158
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 2: white people's shows, and they do not hold them to

1159
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 2: the same like anger level of like every fucking second

1160
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 2: needs to make you feel great about being the race

1161
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 2: you are without like and it's just such a trick

1162
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: bag because those people kind of skate on shit. And

1163
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: then you know, when it's award season or a review

1164
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 2: season or renewal season, the black shows have to face

1165
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 2: all the slings and arrows that they've gotten that weren't fair.

1166
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 2: You know, a black lady sketch show and shit, just

1167
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 2: catching hell from people that truly didn't even understand what

1168
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 2: the show was doing. Right, don't even like comedy? What

1169
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: the fuck you over here? Well not just don't like comedy,

1170
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: but they didn't even understand that the show was doing

1171
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: stuff that they said they had claimed the one a

1172
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 2: show that literally was fore and by and only about

1173
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 2: black women's experiences, that never had a white character on

1174
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: It didn't even have black people playing white characters. The

1175
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 2: whiteness was never in the room, not the writing room,

1176
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 2: any of the shit. And these motherfuckers were like, these

1177
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 2: women they are rich educating, and I'm like, I know

1178
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 2: some of the people that wrote for the show, know

1179
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 2: the fuck they aren't. They aren't the one you know

1180
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 2: that the one black chocolate chipping or see a white

1181
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 2: These aren't these people. They're black as you and me,

1182
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 2: But but we don't trust each other. Man, it hurts

1183
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 2: so much. And I think that happens with Beyonce, said

1184
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 2: Oprah Rihanna. All these celebrities, all these famous people that

1185
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 2: get money and try to help people, they never just

1186
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 2: get the credit of, Like, fucking man, you're trying to

1187
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 2: help and it's hard. And almost one hundred percent of

1188
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 2: the black people I'm talking about do not come from

1189
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 2: generational or systemic wealth. They built their shit in their

1190
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 2: lifetime by themselves, in that it wasn't passed down from

1191
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 2: a parent, it wasn't inherited, it wasn't some company going

1192
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 2: into their like oh you're the new CEO. All these

1193
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 2: motherfuckers worked their way up. Oprah got the same childhood

1194
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: as so many people that just never made it. Whether

1195
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 2: it's grace of God, talent, luck, all those things combined whatever,

1196
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 2: We now expect her to hold a place that is

1197
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 2: impossible to hold that no person on the earth is

1198
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 2: ever held before. Where you're also rich, but you're also

1199
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 2: perfect in every political stance, and you're also perfect in

1200
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: every social stance, and you're also extremely liberally progressive to

1201
01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: an extreme amount that that that even the people complaining

1202
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: that aren't at It's just it's unfathomable. And then at

1203
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 2: the same time, we're gonna blame you solely for Taraji

1204
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 2: p Henson not getting their raising her rate and a

1205
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,439
Speaker 2: black actress is being underpaid in the industry. We're gonna

1206
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 2: blame you for that. Tarag p he has been in

1207
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 2: seventy five fucking things. Your one thing is the problem,

1208
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 2: and you are the problem. It's fucking insane.

1209
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 3: Because it's an easy it's easier to target one topic

1210
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 3: than to try to target the system which needs to

1211
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: be changed because they have a cost of work. And

1212
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 3: what I've realized, most people are lazy. Most people they

1213
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 3: won't shit fixed, they won't shit done now, but they

1214
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 3: don't want to do what it takes the infrastructure, the time,

1215
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 3: the money, to effort their energy to actually get the

1216
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 3: changes done that they won't. Voting is a Voting is

1217
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 3: part of this too. But since we're talking about this

1218
01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 3: is very irritating that, like you said, shout out to

1219
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 3: white supremacy for some reason, when it comes to a

1220
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 3: lot of these black celebrities, mean you talked about this

1221
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, every dime that they spend has

1222
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 3: to be directly towards or helping minorities. We don't ask

1223
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 3: none of these white people, where's your money going? What

1224
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 3: are you doing for the black community? You know, how

1225
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 3: are you helping you know us quote unquote, because we

1226
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 3: don't have that same expectation of them, We don't have

1227
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 3: the same pressure of them. You know, when they get

1228
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 3: interviews and shit like this, nobody asking them. You know

1229
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 3: a lot of these white stars, what are you doing

1230
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 3: for the black women on the cast? Like what are

1231
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 3: you doing to be sure pay equality and things like that,

1232
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 3: you know across the board, like what are you doing?

1233
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 3: Some do and you hear about those stories. Most of

1234
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: them don't because most of them are not asked because

1235
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 3: most of them don't care. But also because of white supremacy,

1236
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 3: we're not in the room to ask those questions, you know,

1237
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 3: to actually put the fire up underneath them, to actually

1238
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 3: make the systemic changes that need to happen. Like you said,

1239
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 3: it's that macro and micro and a lot of people

1240
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 3: are fucked up on them and they blur them and

1241
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 3: they act like they're both the same all the time

1242
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:08,919
Speaker 3: when it's not right.

1243
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, like I said, it's frustrating. But we're so

1244
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 2: focused on celebrity and we confuse micro and macro all

1245
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 2: the time, and we strip the context side of things,

1246
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 2: and we need heroes and villains, and so we paint

1247
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 2: this story of just you know this person is. And also, honestly,

1248
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 2: I think on a subconscious level, all of us who

1249
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 2: don't have a lot of money really need for it

1250
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 2: to be a moral stance. We want it to be

1251
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 2: like I don't have money because I'm morally superior to

1252
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 2: rich people. And I'm not saying that's always wrong. I

1253
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 2: think it's right in a lot of cases, but I

1254
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 2: think also it's wrong in a lot of cases, like

1255
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 2: being broke or getting by check to check don't necessarily

1256
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 2: make anybody virtuous, And having a lot of money doesn't

1257
01:03:55,880 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 2: make anybody virtuous or evil to me either. And I

1258
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 2: think it's trying to push back against the programming of America,

1259
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 2: and which, like I said, I completely understand, because the

1260
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 2: programming of America says wealth equals virtue. People have money

1261
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 2: because they're better than you, and many celebrities and rich

1262
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 2: people seem to believe this about themselves. I worked harder

1263
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 2: than you Da da da dah, and so I get

1264
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 2: why we the rest of us, not the one percent,

1265
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: feel the need to push back. My thing is just

1266
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:29,920
Speaker 2: I don't think anything's black and white like that. And

1267
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 2: there's plenty of people that are rich that worked for it,

1268
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 2: that got lucky, that also give back and do a

1269
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: bunch of shit. And it'll never be enough for a

1270
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 2: lot of motherfuckers because they're just jealous, or they're just

1271
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 2: the envious, or they're or they're just angry. But honestly,

1272
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 2: some of these motherfuckers is doing the best they can,

1273
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 2: you know. And I'm fortunate in that I was not

1274
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 2: born or cultivated a jealous mind like that. So you know,

1275
01:04:56,280 --> 01:05:00,080
Speaker 2: when I'm working with game theory, Bomani got money, it

1276
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 2: never costs my mind of like this, nigga, none of

1277
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 2: that what you're doing with your money, Like, I don't care, right,

1278
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 2: don't you know my cousin played in the NBA. I've

1279
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 2: never hey man, they little cuz you know, like, hey man,

1280
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 2: it's your money. I'm happy for you, like you earn

1281
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 2: that every jump shot you fucking practice all that stuff.

1282
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 2: I didn't go this nigga evil he covered into things

1283
01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 2: and not to mention. Lastly, for a lot of this

1284
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 2: is very white adjuscent critique because and I think a

1285
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 2: lot of black people have glibed on to it in

1286
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: the age of social media and in the age of like,

1287
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 2: you know, politics, to try to show we're doing our

1288
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 2: part to the white people, which is even if somebody's

1289
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 2: black and they rich, I hate them because you know,

1290
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 2: I need to show y'all that I'm just I'm I'm

1291
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 2: as down for the cause, and I'm like, I'm not.

1292
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 2: I actually will do a double standard for Black people

1293
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 2: with money, absolutely fucking loly, because y'all been doing it

1294
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:01,160
Speaker 2: my whole goddamn life. So yeah, I got a double standard.

1295
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 2: If somebody black and they got some money somehow, if

1296
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 2: they ain't get the shit through like you know, abusing

1297
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 2: people or some shit, I'm cool with it. Y'all wanted

1298
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 2: to give money to Beyonce because she can sing her

1299
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,919
Speaker 2: ass off, fine by I mean, nigga, I don't care

1300
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 2: Rihanna soul makeup to dark skinned people when y'all wouldn't.

1301
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 2: I'm not vilifying that woman. I don't care if she

1302
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 2: gave us some money to Sean King, So did y'all

1303
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 2: who gives a fuck? Right like some of this shit,

1304
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 2: I'm just not We don't own the means of production.

1305
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 2: We do not have this generational wealth. We are not

1306
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 2: coming from hundreds of years of oppressing people to make

1307
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 2: our money. We have only been quote unquote free since

1308
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 2: the fucking Civil Rights era if that, And that's being kind.

1309
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 2: So no, I'm not counting our shit the same. And

1310
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 2: I do not look at these people the same. I

1311
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 2: get it. You're woke, you went to whatever school, you

1312
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 2: hang out with such and such people, you listen to

1313
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 2: Chapo trapouts. Good for you. Not the same to me.

1314
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 2: That's just the way I feel. And I'm never gonna

1315
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 2: be on the other side of that. And I'm okay

1316
01:06:57,760 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 2: being judged for that. Fuck it, I don't need to be,

1317
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 2: because that are the most whoite nigg in the world. Anyway,

1318
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 2: back to this, we celebrate Christmas sometimes, but it's the

1319
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 2: America America Coca Cola marketing X meist me search aka

1320
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 2: confirmation bias baffles me. Didn't we all learn how to

1321
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 2: write research papers in grade school? Some of us didn't.

1322
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 2: We forgot did not think it was the same day

1323
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 2: they tards civics. MS Barnes says Rod and Karen count

1324
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:26,040
Speaker 2: is my valid research. Listen. We tried, but even me

1325
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 2: I would be like, hey, do you look up some stuff?

1326
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 2: It's fun. I feel like the stuff I present can

1327
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 2: typically be confirmed by people looking up stuff. That's why

1328
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 2: I ain't scared of it. Like I feel like a

1329
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 2: lot of shows they had us very like, just only

1330
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: listen to me, and I'm like, cause, you know, the

1331
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 2: second I fucking go google something, you know it's doctor Umar,

1332
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:51,919
Speaker 2: saym Marvin Hagler died from the from the COVID shot

1333
01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 2: on The Joe Budden Show, and nobody challenged it because

1334
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 2: it was in the middle of another lie about Vanessa Bryant.

1335
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 3: Yes, just making up shitting. That is the coach shit

1336
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 3: the Prince were talking about before. That's the coach shit.

1337
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 2: Listen to me and only me and no one else. Yeah,

1338
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 2: And it gives the vibes of like, don't go look

1339
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 2: it up, go look it up. If you hear some

1340
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 2: shit on our show, go look it up. We may

1341
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 2: or may be right, maybe we might be wrong about

1342
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 2: some shit. Sometimes people right in all the time and

1343
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:21,240
Speaker 2: you know, politely okay, because we not mean nice, politely

1344
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 2: put tug our coat and no feelings. Yeah, it was

1345
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 2: so fair, Sophia La ris titties and I'm like, fuck

1346
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 2: you right, you know it's that easy to come off

1347
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 2: of it. It's not that hard for me, all right.

1348
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: That was gender War's gold medal. Let's get to the

1349
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 2: last episode of the week. Nine comments on this one too,

1350
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 2: nine nine to nine each episode right last week it

1351
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 2: was out nine. Well it was. We had five episodes

1352
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 2: the first three or nine, but yeah, okay, twenty eight

1353
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 2: twenty eight. Menu Anxiety was the episode. Sean says. I

1354
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 2: don't get menu anxiety because I ordered my son's second choice.

1355
01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 2: If he finds that his first choice is not what

1356
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,040
Speaker 2: he actually went on it, then I switched with him.

1357
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 2: That's nice of you.

1358
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:06,600
Speaker 3: Ah, you were like, we ain't going through this. You

1359
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 3: were like, I want a grilled cheese turn around, I'm

1360
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,000
Speaker 3: on chicken nuggets. Yeah, let me go ahead and get

1361
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 3: chicken nuggets, Like, we're not going through this bullshit.

1362
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 2: Well, hopefully his son is older than grilled cheese chicken

1363
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 2: nugget's age. But the other thing is it just means

1364
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 2: that Sean gives his child double menu anxiety, So that's

1365
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 2: bad parenting. Shoe Booty says, I won the what I'm

1366
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 2: just joking, Sean, I know that actually it's good parenting

1367
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 2: because you give your son the ability to have two

1368
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 2: choices instead of one. Therefore, if they get one wrong,

1369
01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 2: it's not the end of the world. You don't need

1370
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 2: to write in with twelve paragraphs. I know it was

1371
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 2: a joke, and I only made it because I trust

1372
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 2: and believe that you could take the joke. So don't

1373
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 2: prove me wrong. Don't prove me wrong. Let's just prove

1374
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 2: let's just be glue. Shoe Booty says, I wont the

1375
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 2: what to keep in your glove box list. I also

1376
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 2: keep a scratch from over cream, because you know how

1377
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 2: it is out there, girl, I do. I'm sure somebody

1378
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 2: scratched my car, and I have no fucking idea why,

1379
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 2: oh the.

1380
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 3: The stuff you put in there to kind of filling

1381
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 3: the gaps with Okay with you now.

1382
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,679
Speaker 2: But I'm sure I don't even know. I mean, because

1383
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 2: I don't care about cars that way. But I don't

1384
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 2: know if it was at the why I don't know

1385
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 2: if it was at the at the fucking apartment, But

1386
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:17,839
Speaker 2: I used to come out and there be a scratch

1387
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:20,640
Speaker 2: on my car and I'd be like, whoo, why. I

1388
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 2: don't do shit to nobody. I don't drive crazy, I

1389
01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 2: don't park crazy. Whatever. Your tune Day says. Moving pictures

1390
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 2: made me crackle so hard my brain was trying to

1391
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 2: process that. Carmen says, crying. I'm so glad he went

1392
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 2: with the old timey bit after that, you, Carmen says,

1393
01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 2: also menu anxiety more like menu depression. I get so

1394
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 2: sad when there aren't a lot of options that look

1395
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 2: delicious on the menu. Well, that's a totally different problem.

1396
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 2: Right on that note of asking the waystaff was good,

1397
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 2: My ex would ask the server what that favorite dish

1398
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,600
Speaker 2: was on the menu, and he would never order it.

1399
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 2: I think he thought it was entertaining for them. But nah,

1400
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 2: you just wasting that time and energy. Drove me batty.

1401
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I always ask for that special and most of

1402
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 3: the time I end up getting it.

1403
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be real, that's yeah. I mean it's your ex,

1404
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 2: so I guess I could say it sounds like a

1405
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,639
Speaker 2: real asshole. Hey what do you think You know what's

1406
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:18,680
Speaker 2: the favorite thing on the menu and never order it?

1407
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 2: Why What the fuck are you doing right, asshole? Just

1408
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 2: ordered the shit? You won't if you just gonna get

1409
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 2: the chicken nuggets, then get the nuggets and keep it trucking,

1410
01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 2: cause you know the way they gotta do all that bullshit.

1411
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 2: You know. Oh, it's in a vinegar reduction sauce.

1412
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 3: And now you just talking with them fancy words and

1413
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 3: you're wasting that goddamn time.

1414
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 2: That could have been a wit to another table. Aba says,

1415
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 2: I know that Karen tries to be old as fast

1416
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 2: as she can, but the moving picture's comment was still

1417
01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 2: a surprise. Is she's secretly a time traveler from around

1418
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 2: nineteen twenty, I hope, So never go back to your

1419
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: old timeline, Karen, we need you here.

1420
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 3: I would try my best not to, but my brain

1421
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 3: was just not computing that phrase.

1422
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 2: Now, waiting for mister print to attack me. But what

1423
01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 2: can he do. He has no claw. He could target

1424
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 2: me psychologically and gas like me, Wait a minute, it's

1425
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 2: already happening exactly. Genagate says, Even before I became visually

1426
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:11,600
Speaker 2: in paired, I would always be sure to look at

1427
01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 2: the menu online before visiting. I like knowing what I

1428
01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:17,040
Speaker 2: order and then asking the staff if there's any specials, etc.

1429
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 2: At having an idea of what I'll spend. I thought

1430
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 2: this was a common thing, even among US older gen

1431
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 2: X folks too. I do think it's common. I mean,

1432
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,759
Speaker 2: that's the thing about this study that was very misleading.

1433
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 2: I brought it up when we read it. It said

1434
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,800
Speaker 2: millennials due, But then when you look at the percentages,

1435
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 2: the majority of every generation does it or has menu

1436
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 2: anxiety or whatever. So like, why are we singling out

1437
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 2: millennials If oh, they're at eighty percent, everyone else is

1438
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 2: at sixty eight percent. Nigga, that's twelve percent difference. That

1439
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 2: means we're all doing it.

1440
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 3: And maybe it's just me because of the pandemic and

1441
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:54,600
Speaker 3: you know, shortness of staff and things like that. What

1442
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:57,560
Speaker 3: I realized something a lot of restaurants have done me

1443
01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 3: and Rogers realized, is they have actually started shrinking their menu,

1444
01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 3: which is not that funny. Sometimes a good thing, because

1445
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 3: sometimes I think the menus are too big, y'all doing

1446
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 3: too much shit and then nothing's good. And so a

1447
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 3: lot of places are like reducing their menu, taking things

1448
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 3: off the option. I kind of like that because then

1449
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 3: it kind of streamlines kind of what you're gonna get

1450
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 3: and you're not wasting a lot of time going through

1451
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 3: five different pages.

1452
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 2: Even he says, Tasha Kay has some serious cloud addiction.

1453
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 2: Wasn't me and suit and losing a car to be enough?

1454
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a kink. I don't know. I can't imagine

1455
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 2: wanting cloud. That's bad to keep doing the same thing

1456
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 2: over and over to your financial detriment. I just don't

1457
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 2: understand it. If she keeps it up, one of these

1458
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 2: days she may message the wrong person who won't see

1459
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 2: her in corporate, we'll see her on the streets. Appa

1460
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 2: said she has the soul of a printer. Oh no, oh, no.

1461
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 2: I think that's the meanest thing you can say about

1462
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 2: a human being. That's worse than a racial slur. Now,

1463
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 2: the soul of a printer is an amazing insult. Ten

1464
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 2: out of ten. And yeah, man, I don't know because

1465
01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 2: I don't remember if this had happened when we did

1466
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 2: the show or it happened after we did the show.

1467
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 2: But Tasha k put out a video of herself crying

1468
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 2: for like ten fifteen seconds, crying, going I can't take

1469
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 2: this no more. And it's like, what do you mean

1470
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 2: you're kicking a hornet's nest getting stung, and then recording

1471
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:19,759
Speaker 2: a reaction like I can't take all these horned stings.

1472
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, didn't stop kicking hornets nests? Yeah, seem pretty

1473
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,760
Speaker 2: easy to me. But that's just it. Maybe that's just me,

1474
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: all right? Any comments on YouTube for this one? Yeah.

1475
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,719
Speaker 2: Alicia Nicol says grocery teachers will be a good game

1476
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 2: on the phone. Thanks, Rod, that would be fun. She

1477
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 2: also says, Hey, Karen, Yes, I just want to say

1478
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 2: I chime in every show and say the taser every

1479
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 2: damn time. Haha. I'm not alone, y'all. Y'all hear that

1480
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 2: pregnant piles. My brain is like, wait a minute, Wait

1481
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:53,840
Speaker 2: a minute, which one? Which one? I also say I

1482
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:55,559
Speaker 2: love you too at the end of the show, because

1483
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 2: I do also be careful. Even though the bag says

1484
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 2: zero shit, it has added other horrible chemicals that are

1485
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 2: probably banned in other countries to make it still taste good.

1486
01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 2: Oh god, what the fuck? What the fuck? I can't

1487
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 2: do shit. I guess I gotta throw those in the

1488
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:18,719
Speaker 2: trash now. Thanks. I'm just gonna go eat all broccoli

1489
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 2: out the garden and see what happens.

1490
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm gonna leave here anyway, so I'm gonna

1491
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 3: try my best with what I got and you know,

1492
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 3: everything from child, If y'all do it, everything a't gonna

1493
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 3: kill you. And you know what I'm not gonna do.

1494
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 3: I'm not guarding, I'm not raising my own cattle, none

1495
01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 3: of that.

1496
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,640
Speaker 2: So it is what it is for me. All I

1497
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:36,400
Speaker 2: want to know is is it better than the shit

1498
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,240
Speaker 2: I was eating? That's the gold really I'm talking. But

1499
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,920
Speaker 2: I haven't completely gone like I'm not trying to go

1500
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 2: to like this place where I feel like I'm suffering,

1501
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 2: you know, because you know, I cook most of our food,

1502
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to cook things that that are delicious

1503
01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:58,719
Speaker 2: but good for us and healthier than what than ordering

1504
01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 2: like door Dash or something like that. I haven't ordered

1505
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 2: door Dashing like two or three weeks now. Trust they're

1506
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 2: gonna start hanging you up soon too. No they do, Okay, don't.

1507
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:12,599
Speaker 2: I don't have to get it. But uh so I've

1508
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 2: been doing these things, these that that somewhat small things.

1509
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 2: But as long as it's better than what I was doing,

1510
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 2: I'm cool. But yeah, I guess let me know what

1511
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 2: the fuck you know? The thing is? But is it better,

1512
01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:28,600
Speaker 2: is the question, and I think it's I don't know.

1513
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:29,679
Speaker 2: I hope it's better.

1514
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also not funny. Particularly here in America, we

1515
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,280
Speaker 3: eat a lot of shit that's banned of the plositive world.

1516
01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 2: Like listen, I mean the vegetables. The vegetables are you know,

1517
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 2: the vegetables got chemicals in them. It's you know, it's

1518
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:41,719
Speaker 2: just it is what it is. Like, I'm never gonna

1519
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:45,800
Speaker 2: unless I was gonna go completely clean eating, which I

1520
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 2: know I won't because I would not stick to it.

1521
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 2: So I don't want to do something where it's like,

1522
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:55,719
Speaker 2: you know, you know, all I eat is carrots and water,

1523
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:58,960
Speaker 2: and then I'm like that lasted three minutes and then

1524
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: I was back on the General's chicken you know. Yeah, yeah,

1525
01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do that. I was back at the

1526
01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:06,560
Speaker 2: Colonel's house. Yes, you have to be realistic.

1527
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:09,719
Speaker 3: And I do understand, you know, people you know, having

1528
01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 3: desires for people you know, to eat better, clean and

1529
01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 3: things like that. But like I said, because I'm in America,

1530
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 3: there's only so much quote unquote clean as I can get.

1531
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, So anyway, but thank you, Uh, let's go to

1532
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 2: the polls. The polls are do you suffer from menu anxiety, yes,

1533
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:32,480
Speaker 2: forty two percent, no, fifty eight percent, and similarly on Spotify,

1534
01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 2: thirty seven percent and sixty two percent, So sixty two

1535
01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,200
Speaker 2: percent do not. So the majority of our audience does

1536
01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:39,679
Speaker 2: not have menu anxiety.

1537
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 6: Uh.

1538
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 2: Marvin says, Also keep oh I'm sorry, keep your global

1539
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 2: department stocked up was a Q and A Marmon says.

1540
01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 2: I also keep baby wipes in there in case I

1541
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 2: need more napkins. That's a good one. More if you

1542
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 2: need more than napkins baby wipes to get it done. Yeah,

1543
01:17:55,800 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 2: because it was some sticky Yeah, you spill some soda

1544
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 2: or something, and particularly people with ke is, that's a

1545
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 2: good way to get out that crap off of them.

1546
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:05,640
Speaker 2: Olusada says, I have like half of these items on

1547
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 2: the list. I have a pen, but if I ever

1548
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:09,600
Speaker 2: need to write anything down, I just write it on

1549
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:11,720
Speaker 2: the back of one of those oil changed receipts. I

1550
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:15,160
Speaker 2: keep in the glove part. Well, that counts his glod

1551
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:18,719
Speaker 2: pen and papers maybe that's see that or inspection papers.

1552
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:20,559
Speaker 2: I keep them in there forget about them too. Keep

1553
01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:24,639
Speaker 2: a little notebook. Cander coll says, I keep a rusty

1554
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 2: steak knife in mind. I always forget them stab baby,

1555
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,600
Speaker 2: I always forget to remove it when I get my

1556
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:33,639
Speaker 2: cabin filled to replace. At least they know I'm crazy

1557
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,160
Speaker 2: and not to try me. I stab you and make

1558
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 2: you get tetanus. It's no, we ain't even try to

1559
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 2: get up on the hull. Yeah, they try to up

1560
01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 2: charge you. They like take the knife out first, yeah,

1561
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:50,640
Speaker 2: Lee says. The only they give your key and your

1562
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 2: knife back to say Tom. Lee says. The only reason

1563
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 2: I don't suffer from men you anxiety is because I

1564
01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 2: read the menual check my account before I go, so

1565
01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 2: I guess I do. But at home, Carry says, I'm

1566
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,400
Speaker 2: ana try truck drivers. So I keep a lot of

1567
01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 2: these items in my work bag and I don't have

1568
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:05,519
Speaker 2: men you anxiety because I once I find the middle

1569
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:07,719
Speaker 2: of the restaurant, I pretty much stick with it. Okay,

1570
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 2: I'll see you player. Uh, nothing wrong with that. I

1571
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 2: have a few places where it's like I know what

1572
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get every time, you know, like they did

1573
01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 2: they big one with this because if my branch off

1574
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 2: and it ain't good, I have to disappon it, like listen,

1575
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 2: but lasagna porta finos, they know me. Okay, I'm not.

1576
01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 2: I'm not navigating off of ship with y'all, mate, right,

1577
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 2: Like God, I don't need to look at the menu.

1578
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 2: We both know wh I can. All right, let's get

1579
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 2: to some voice mails. Let me play a little music

1580
01:19:40,640 --> 01:20:15,320
Speaker 2: and then we'll do some voice mails. All right, that

1581
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:19,320
Speaker 2: was fired DJAU Literally that's the name of it. All right,

1582
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 2: voicemail time. We got one from Abony.

1583
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:29,600
Speaker 6: Hey, they're writing Karen Abone here, I am vacationing. I

1584
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 6: am in Spain, right, I get can't be coherent. I

1585
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 6: wanted to tell you that this recent episode on the

1586
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 6: Gender Wars with Simone and her husband Jason spot one

1587
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 6: spot on. The only part where I don't agree with

1588
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 6: y'all on is I do think that the people who

1589
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 6: are projecting are bitter and angry and upset. They have

1590
01:20:53,920 --> 01:21:00,120
Speaker 6: had some really shitty relationships in their past, and that

1591
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 6: they are I mean, I've seen some of the craziest stuff.

1592
01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 6: She should leave him and know they you know, this

1593
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 6: is the sign of divorce red flash red flags. And

1594
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 6: I'm like, folks have such a high standard for themselves

1595
01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:17,360
Speaker 6: and their relationships and who enters their lives and who doesn't.

1596
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 6: On the internet, but you see it in real life,

1597
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 6: maybe they'd be dealing with some bullshit and we all

1598
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 6: do because we are all humans. I'm like I, you know.

1599
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:30,719
Speaker 6: And again, there was somebody that I follow on Instagram

1600
01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 6: who general the commentary. She's a social or cultural commentary

1601
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:40,560
Speaker 6: or whatever. She didn't even read or listen to the

1602
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:45,839
Speaker 6: entire podcast, but was able to give like multiple posts

1603
01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:49,160
Speaker 6: and critiques about it in linked steedment and all this

1604
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,600
Speaker 6: other stuff and link the whole like hey, back in

1605
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 6: the day he used to tweet around gymnastics and whatever. Anyway,

1606
01:21:55,520 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 6: it was just one of those days where you just

1607
01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,400
Speaker 6: are so sick of the Internet. Like it's just like

1608
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:01,640
Speaker 6: you're so sick of it. It's like y'all will not

1609
01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 6: be satisfied until everybody is lonely and bitter and heartbroken

1610
01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:07,640
Speaker 6: the way that you are. But I am just so

1611
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 6: so glad that you all took the time and went

1612
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 6: into depth into into the situation. Thoughtful as always. Hope

1613
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,880
Speaker 6: you all are having a fantastic holiday and I'm going

1614
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 6: to get back to my Scotch take care now.

1615
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you for right for Colin. Thank you,

1616
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 2: and after you said that, don't sound like you really

1617
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 2: disagree with us. Well, I think she's saying because I've

1618
01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:35,559
Speaker 2: made it. I went out of my way to say

1619
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to call people bitter and be dismissive

1620
01:22:40,120 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 2: at them, and I still stick to that, by the way,

1621
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:46,360
Speaker 2: And it's not necessarily that none of those people are

1622
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:48,679
Speaker 2: bitter and stuff. I think obviously that's true about everything

1623
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 2: on the internet. Correct If there are human beings, there

1624
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:53,280
Speaker 2: are some people that will be bitter and hurt and

1625
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 2: all this stuff. But it's mostly that I didn't want

1626
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 2: to be dismissive of what I think are valid concerns

1627
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:03,479
Speaker 2: of Hey, we live in a world where blank blank

1628
01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 2: and blank happens, and so when I see certain things,

1629
01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 2: my antenna goes up and I'm like, this is what

1630
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:12,519
Speaker 2: this is, And I don't, like I said, I didn't

1631
01:23:12,560 --> 01:23:15,720
Speaker 2: want to be like, nah, you bit up bitches that

1632
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 2: you just ain't got no man, because I think that

1633
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:24,640
Speaker 2: doesn't necessarily help in a vast majority of these situations.

1634
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 2: So that's the reason for me personally not going and

1635
01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 2: engaging in that. But yeah, I mean, you're obviously right,

1636
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 2: many of the people involved do have some bitterness and

1637
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 2: some history and some miserableness and stuff. But that's just

1638
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 2: because we're on social media. It's that would be true

1639
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:45,280
Speaker 2: if they were talking about the weather, you know what

1640
01:23:45,360 --> 01:23:51,559
Speaker 2: I mean. It's just it's part of it. Yes, all right,

1641
01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:58,520
Speaker 2: let's get to the next voicemails from my girl in Mony.

1642
01:23:57,400 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 5: Caring good morning, getting in time before y'all give the show.

1643
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:08,680
Speaker 5: But I'm just going about the paprika and smost paprika

1644
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 5: thing because my theory is there are people who cannot

1645
01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:20,679
Speaker 5: taste paprika, whether it be regular patstrica or smoke, maybe

1646
01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:23,439
Speaker 5: just because they've had so many other types of sizy food,

1647
01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:28,080
Speaker 5: or it's just kind of like people who eat bilantro

1648
01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:30,640
Speaker 5: and it tastes like soap, or you will like me,

1649
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 5: I eat grapefruit and it tasts like earwax. To me,

1650
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 5: I hate it, but everyone else is like, oh, it's

1651
01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:37,679
Speaker 5: so sweet, and like, I don't know what you talk about.

1652
01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:40,560
Speaker 5: That's not what it tastes like me. But I do

1653
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:46,200
Speaker 5: love uh paprika. Chicken paprikash is a dish I used

1654
01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 5: to make all the time, but now it's just transferred

1655
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:59,040
Speaker 5: to other dishes. But but smoke paprika to me, it

1656
01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 5: only tastes good if you're adding it to like chili

1657
01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:06,640
Speaker 5: or maybe some type of the heat type thing that

1658
01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:10,080
Speaker 5: you're making, because to me, it's a very strong flavor.

1659
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 5: I just like regular paprika, Like I buy the big

1660
01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 5: thing of paprika from Pasco and I like it.

1661
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:19,600
Speaker 3: It.

1662
01:25:20,160 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 5: To me, I can taste it, but because it's just

1663
01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 5: round up chili.

1664
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:26,240
Speaker 2: But you know, it's okay.

1665
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:30,880
Speaker 5: But that's all that's all going in about. I'm here

1666
01:25:30,960 --> 01:25:35,120
Speaker 5: with my eldest is. You had to talk because she's

1667
01:25:35,280 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 5: like she wanted to listen to Tryptomaniacs and a heart.

1668
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:42,320
Speaker 5: I was hesitant. She's like, I know that I'm not

1669
01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:47,160
Speaker 5: supposed to say bad words. I'm like, you're right, you're smart. Like,

1670
01:25:47,240 --> 01:25:50,599
Speaker 5: all right, you can listen to it because she's listening

1671
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 5: to me with me in the car. All right, that's all,

1672
01:25:54,160 --> 01:25:54,679
Speaker 5: bye bye.

1673
01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:01,480
Speaker 2: Sweet. First of all, I've been looking with the smoke paprika.

1674
01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:06,160
Speaker 2: I'm still not sure I could taste it. Maybe it's

1675
01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 2: placeivo fit, I don't know. But I put it in

1676
01:26:08,240 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 2: some eggs and I was like, I think I taste something.

1677
01:26:10,960 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 2: I don't know it just paprika? Is it just you

1678
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 2: doing in the eggs?

1679
01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:17,640
Speaker 3: Oh?

1680
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 2: No, I mean salt pepper. You know. I mean, it's

1681
01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:23,120
Speaker 2: not just paprika, but I think I tasted it. I

1682
01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 2: don't know, y'all, I don't know. I'm trying. I don't

1683
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 2: want to be ignorant, but I do taste it more

1684
01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:35,720
Speaker 2: than paprika. Just regular paprika tastes like nothing red. But

1685
01:26:36,960 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 2: I was looking at a cooking video the other day

1686
01:26:38,720 --> 01:26:41,920
Speaker 2: and they had sweet paprika, and I'm like, man, what

1687
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: is that? You know? So I don't know. Maybe I

1688
01:26:44,600 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 2: gotta get in my paprika bag. But the other thing

1689
01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 2: I noticed about the smoke paprika, it didn't have like

1690
01:26:50,240 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 2: a shaking like a top where you shake it and

1691
01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:55,559
Speaker 2: a little bit comes out. You just open up the jar.

1692
01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:57,800
Speaker 2: You gotta like get a little spoon and get something out.

1693
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:01,639
Speaker 2: It's it's crazy, how y'all to smoking's get out of smoke. Yeah,

1694
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:04,439
Speaker 2: I probably just tasting smoke. They probably just mixed liquid

1695
01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 2: smoke with some I don't know, but I wouldn't know

1696
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:09,200
Speaker 2: the difference. And then the other thing was the Drapeto

1697
01:27:09,360 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 2: maniac stuff. Man, it always warns my heart to hear

1698
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 2: people talk about loving Drapeto maniacs. It really does, because

1699
01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:21,120
Speaker 2: y'all know how big I am on like black history

1700
01:27:21,600 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 2: and my my feelings are pretty extreme on the I

1701
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 2: don't agree with the no slavery movie people. I don't.

1702
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:35,880
Speaker 2: I don't feel any level of embarrassment. I don't. I

1703
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:42,919
Speaker 2: don't feel any level of like shame attached to anything

1704
01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:47,000
Speaker 2: about black struggle. I think they would be honest, the

1705
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:51,200
Speaker 2: movies have not actually reflected our journey enough. People over

1706
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:56,040
Speaker 2: emphasized the amount of material that is actually about civil

1707
01:27:56,160 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 2: rights and slavery is actually not that much, especially when

1708
01:27:59,439 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 2: you consider the scope of black history in America and

1709
01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:05,439
Speaker 2: uh in the in the attack on black history that

1710
01:28:05,640 --> 01:28:10,320
Speaker 2: is happening throughout our school systems and Republicans are doing so.

1711
01:28:11,479 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 2: But when I hear kids love it, when I hear people, uh,

1712
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 2: you know, sharing it with their children, when I you know,

1713
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:22,680
Speaker 2: I was listening to since we last spoke, and Nick

1714
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 2: jew and Bridget were on there and they talked about

1715
01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:28,320
Speaker 2: drape Tewmaniacs and how much they liked it. Honestly, man,

1716
01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 2: it warns my heart man and the team over there,

1717
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:35,599
Speaker 2: like everyone really worked super hard to make it happen,

1718
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:39,639
Speaker 2: you know, regardless of how you know, because you're talking

1719
01:28:39,640 --> 01:28:42,240
Speaker 2: about a lot people handling a lot of stuff, very

1720
01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:45,040
Speaker 2: sensitive stuff with a lot of creatives, with a lot

1721
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:47,400
Speaker 2: of different opinions, with a lot of different work approaches.

1722
01:28:47,840 --> 01:28:50,720
Speaker 2: None of us was in the same place, not like

1723
01:28:50,960 --> 01:28:56,600
Speaker 2: it was. It was so fucking hard to do and

1724
01:28:56,960 --> 01:29:00,200
Speaker 2: to know that it got done and that people, uh,

1725
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:04,040
Speaker 2: you know, appreciated it's honestly the most solace I can

1726
01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 2: take from it, because, uh, you know, in this in

1727
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:10,600
Speaker 2: the podcast game, it's not like we was getting a

1728
01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:14,759
Speaker 2: whole lot of money. We're not getting notoriety, We're not knowing's.

1729
01:29:14,920 --> 01:29:16,600
Speaker 2: You know, We're not no one's knocking on the door, like,

1730
01:29:16,840 --> 01:29:18,960
Speaker 2: here's let's do the next one. You know, Sony's not

1731
01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:21,960
Speaker 2: out here like Jerke Dominiac season two. Let's do it

1732
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:24,760
Speaker 2: even bigger, like you know, we did that ship during

1733
01:29:24,840 --> 01:29:28,040
Speaker 2: the pandemic, during the writers strike and the actors strike,

1734
01:29:28,160 --> 01:29:30,920
Speaker 2: like it. You know, it was hard as fuck and

1735
01:29:31,080 --> 01:29:33,679
Speaker 2: so the but the thing that refreshed my soul every

1736
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 2: week was listening to the episode we put out and

1737
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:39,840
Speaker 2: being like, this ship is so good. I'm just proud

1738
01:29:39,920 --> 01:29:43,840
Speaker 2: to be a part of it. So thank you. I agree.

1739
01:29:43,920 --> 01:29:48,200
Speaker 3: And also it's one of those things when you was

1740
01:29:48,240 --> 01:29:49,880
Speaker 3: talking about like the history and things like that, and

1741
01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 3: like the you know, the movies and how things are

1742
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 3: out there. When people get at this critique about too

1743
01:29:57,600 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 3: much blackness, did you know chrama, porn and all this stuff,

1744
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 3: I'm going in my mind not going. How many Holocaust

1745
01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 3: movies have we have? How many World War one? World

1746
01:30:09,160 --> 01:30:13,120
Speaker 3: War two movies have we have? Like every year, every

1747
01:30:13,320 --> 01:30:16,920
Speaker 3: year we get at least one to several of them,

1748
01:30:17,040 --> 01:30:22,240
Speaker 3: goddamn movies. And I don't hear nobody critique about the oversaturation.

1749
01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:25,599
Speaker 3: I don't hear nobody critique about how they're tired.

1750
01:30:26,640 --> 01:30:27,120
Speaker 2: I don't hear this.

1751
01:30:27,400 --> 01:30:29,679
Speaker 3: Nobody could trigue how many my movies are about fucking

1752
01:30:29,760 --> 01:30:34,120
Speaker 3: space exploration, going to the moon, right by the fucking crickets,

1753
01:30:34,600 --> 01:30:37,479
Speaker 3: goddamn crickets. But when it comes to our shit and

1754
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:40,280
Speaker 3: our people and shit that matters to us, and shit

1755
01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:42,960
Speaker 3: that actually happened to us, and stories and to be

1756
01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:45,280
Speaker 3: told not trying me fun, it gets my fucking nuts.

1757
01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:48,000
Speaker 3: We have to deal with people whining and crying and

1758
01:30:48,160 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 3: complaining about it instead of saying that's not for me,

1759
01:30:52,120 --> 01:30:53,760
Speaker 3: but it does not mean it does not have the

1760
01:30:53,840 --> 01:30:56,600
Speaker 3: right to exist. That's the problem I have. Like I

1761
01:30:56,760 --> 01:31:01,960
Speaker 3: understand the hurt and pain and not wanting to press

1762
01:31:02,160 --> 01:31:02,479
Speaker 3: through that.

1763
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:03,800
Speaker 2: I get that part.

1764
01:31:04,240 --> 01:31:06,879
Speaker 3: My part is you stating that it should not exist.

1765
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:10,280
Speaker 3: That's why I push back. Who are you to tell

1766
01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:11,840
Speaker 3: me something that happened to.

1767
01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:13,960
Speaker 2: My people too? Not just you as a black person,

1768
01:31:14,040 --> 01:31:14,639
Speaker 2: my people too.

1769
01:31:15,280 --> 01:31:18,599
Speaker 3: I can't have those stories because of your insecurities, because

1770
01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:21,639
Speaker 3: of how you feel, because you're scared, because you don't

1771
01:31:21,640 --> 01:31:23,439
Speaker 3: want to die, because you don't want to look.

1772
01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:26,400
Speaker 2: I can't get the stories now because of that. How

1773
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:27,439
Speaker 2: is that fair to me?

1774
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,439
Speaker 3: You don't represent out of blackness, and so you shouldn't

1775
01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 3: get the lot to say so in the room.

1776
01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:36,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, all right, trying to get into some voicemails,

1777
01:31:36,880 --> 01:31:41,160
Speaker 2: so I'll play another selection from the choir. Okay, uh,

1778
01:31:43,320 --> 01:31:46,000
Speaker 2: let's go with Uh, let's go one of the older ones.

1779
01:32:17,280 --> 01:32:20,599
Speaker 2: All right, got a couple emails, Linda says, hi Rod

1780
01:32:20,720 --> 01:32:23,479
Speaker 2: and Karen listening to your episode a few days ago

1781
01:32:23,520 --> 01:32:25,519
Speaker 2: about the porn recapp and you both seemed a bit

1782
01:32:25,680 --> 01:32:28,360
Speaker 2: confused by who may be looking at Fennboy's content. But

1783
01:32:28,479 --> 01:32:30,599
Speaker 2: let me clear it up for you. It was us

1784
01:32:31,120 --> 01:32:36,800
Speaker 2: the gaze TM. It was okay, that makes sense because

1785
01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:39,439
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know the TM is killing me.

1786
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:42,720
Speaker 2: I'm sure straights are into some to some extent, but

1787
01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:45,120
Speaker 2: it's a big thing that a lot of LGBT people

1788
01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:48,439
Speaker 2: are into because young bisexual and non binary trans people.

1789
01:32:48,800 --> 01:32:51,000
Speaker 2: To be honest, I was zero percent surprised when you

1790
01:32:51,080 --> 01:32:53,479
Speaker 2: said that it was trendy this year based on content

1791
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:59,320
Speaker 2: I see many of my LGBT peers share on social media.

1792
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:03,639
Speaker 2: As I understand, it's not really a regressive or masculating term.

1793
01:33:03,720 --> 01:33:05,920
Speaker 2: It's more of a recent term and it's often used

1794
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 2: to describe effeminine, non boundary aesthetics. So there you go.

1795
01:33:09,760 --> 01:33:12,000
Speaker 2: That's what's up with that trend. You're welcome. I think,

1796
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you. I did not. I didn't know either.

1797
01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:17,160
Speaker 2: I'll be over here minded my straight person business show

1798
01:33:17,360 --> 01:33:19,080
Speaker 2: do too. I was like, well, they say it is,

1799
01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:21,439
Speaker 2: but I don't know. I don't understand, but it's on

1800
01:33:21,560 --> 01:33:24,439
Speaker 2: the list. Yeah, you know, I'll be minding my straight

1801
01:33:24,520 --> 01:33:27,800
Speaker 2: person business. So sometimes I just don't be knowing. But

1802
01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:30,920
Speaker 2: I think, but I appreciate you telling me. I wanted

1803
01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:32,800
Speaker 2: to be up on it, and now I am so

1804
01:33:33,360 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 2: thank you. We got another one. This one is from

1805
01:33:43,280 --> 01:33:45,800
Speaker 2: j Foul. What's up? Roder Carroll just wanted to write

1806
01:33:45,800 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 2: in about Colorado or now main removing Trump from the

1807
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:50,919
Speaker 2: Republican primary ballance. As a black person, I'm a little conflicted.

1808
01:33:51,160 --> 01:33:53,200
Speaker 2: Trump hasn't yet been convicted of a crime, but we

1809
01:33:53,280 --> 01:33:55,840
Speaker 2: all saw that insurrection of HD even four k I

1810
01:33:55,960 --> 01:33:58,280
Speaker 2: worried that this kind of legal president can be used

1811
01:33:58,320 --> 01:34:00,519
Speaker 2: to keep black people off of ballot is now that

1812
01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:02,800
Speaker 2: so many states are passing laws they try to make

1813
01:34:02,880 --> 01:34:06,080
Speaker 2: Black lives matter protest crimes, Especially considering Jack Smith didn't

1814
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 2: actually charge Trump with insurrection crimes, I don't think they'll

1815
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:10,519
Speaker 2: be able to keep them off the ballot. From what

1816
01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:12,639
Speaker 2: I've read from various news sources, in the actual text

1817
01:34:12,680 --> 01:34:15,360
Speaker 2: of the amendment, the fourteenth Amendment doesn't explicitly mentioned the

1818
01:34:15,439 --> 01:34:17,960
Speaker 2: office of president. I think this Republican Supreme Court will

1819
01:34:18,040 --> 01:34:19,519
Speaker 2: use that to try to block the measures by the

1820
01:34:19,560 --> 01:34:22,600
Speaker 2: state legislatures. But in a non constitutional lawyer opinion, the

1821
01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:25,960
Speaker 2: language seems clear enough that his ass is ineligible. Yeah. Well,

1822
01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:29,479
Speaker 2: I mean it sounds like the problem kind of takes

1823
01:34:29,560 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 2: care of itself for you either way, right, Because if

1824
01:34:34,439 --> 01:34:39,360
Speaker 2: you're saying that, if you're if you're if what I

1825
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:42,599
Speaker 2: understand is what you're saying that you don't think it'll happen,

1826
01:34:43,040 --> 01:34:44,920
Speaker 2: then it won't be able to be used against black

1827
01:34:44,960 --> 01:34:49,840
Speaker 2: people because it can't happen. And if it does happen,

1828
01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 2: I feel like right now the standard is insurrection of

1829
01:34:55,479 --> 01:35:00,040
Speaker 2: the government. So I feel like a black lives a

1830
01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:03,080
Speaker 2: matter of protests. While I do understand slippery slope, I

1831
01:35:03,160 --> 01:35:06,560
Speaker 2: get it, I feel like we aren't there yet. And

1832
01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:11,280
Speaker 2: also I think Trump represents a much more existential threat

1833
01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 2: that it may be worth actually saying get him off

1834
01:35:19,560 --> 01:35:21,880
Speaker 2: the ballot and then and then we'll push back on

1835
01:35:22,120 --> 01:35:25,320
Speaker 2: them trying this to somebody else. But he says, here's

1836
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:27,240
Speaker 2: the text of the amendment. No person shall be a

1837
01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:29,479
Speaker 2: senator or a representative in Congress or elector or the

1838
01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:32,479
Speaker 2: President and vice president, or hold any office civil or

1839
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:35,679
Speaker 2: military under the United States or any other or under

1840
01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:38,080
Speaker 2: any State, who have previously taken an oath as a

1841
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:40,920
Speaker 2: member of Congress or officer of the United States, or

1842
01:35:40,960 --> 01:35:43,879
Speaker 2: as member of the state legislature, or as an executive

1843
01:35:43,920 --> 01:35:46,599
Speaker 2: or judicial officer of any state, to support the Constitution

1844
01:35:46,680 --> 01:35:49,080
Speaker 2: of the United States, shall have engaged in insurrection or

1845
01:35:49,120 --> 01:35:51,360
Speaker 2: rebellion against the same, or given aid or comfort to

1846
01:35:51,360 --> 01:35:54,479
Speaker 2: the enemies thereof, but Congress may be by a voter

1847
01:35:54,560 --> 01:35:57,640
Speaker 2: two thirds of each House remove such disability. We all

1848
01:35:57,720 --> 01:36:00,919
Speaker 2: saw Trump definitively give aid and comfort to the insurrection

1849
01:36:01,040 --> 01:36:03,479
Speaker 2: is by his tweets and inaction of January sixth, not

1850
01:36:03,600 --> 01:36:06,040
Speaker 2: to mention, isn't the President officer of the United States?

1851
01:36:06,479 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 2: Seems like he should be disqualified? To me, I do

1852
01:36:08,960 --> 01:36:11,040
Speaker 2: think it's interesting that Michigan decided to keep him off

1853
01:36:11,040 --> 01:36:13,000
Speaker 2: the ballot, but I would not be surprised if that's

1854
01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:15,639
Speaker 2: because of autum damn militias in Michigan. They did try

1855
01:36:15,640 --> 01:36:18,560
Speaker 2: to kidnap the governor over COVID. They probably try to

1856
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:22,160
Speaker 2: go full bogoloo over their beloved Trump. Lastly, I don't

1857
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:24,120
Speaker 2: know if it's just social media over application of what,

1858
01:36:24,320 --> 01:36:25,800
Speaker 2: but what the fuck are we gonna do about these

1859
01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:28,519
Speaker 2: black men defecting and claiming they're gonna vote for Trump. Yes,

1860
01:36:28,600 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 2: the majority of US vote Democrat, but what percentage is becoming?

1861
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,080
Speaker 2: That percentage is coming less and less with each passing election.

1862
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:37,519
Speaker 2: I'm very concerned. What frustrates me, though, is that they

1863
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,559
Speaker 2: don't have any good rationale. They just regurgitate Republican lives

1864
01:36:40,560 --> 01:36:42,560
Speaker 2: of propaganda and yes, Biden has pisseding me off with

1865
01:36:42,640 --> 01:36:44,639
Speaker 2: a stance on Israel, but there's no way in hell

1866
01:36:44,680 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 2: I think a Republican administration wouldn't just give Israel pocket

1867
01:36:47,600 --> 01:36:52,320
Speaker 2: news to wipe the Palaestans off the planet. Well, this

1868
01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:56,160
Speaker 2: is the thing. I do question why people are trying

1869
01:36:56,200 --> 01:37:01,200
Speaker 2: to turn this into a black man thing, specifically because

1870
01:37:01,840 --> 01:37:08,799
Speaker 2: I remember covering the post election polls. Trump made games

1871
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:15,800
Speaker 2: in every group that like black women, black men, Latino men,

1872
01:37:16,040 --> 01:37:20,519
Speaker 2: Latino women. It was I couldn't believe it. Like it

1873
01:37:20,600 --> 01:37:23,520
Speaker 2: was small percentage points. It's not like a huge percentage.

1874
01:37:23,880 --> 01:37:26,679
Speaker 2: But the fact that people went through four years of Trump,

1875
01:37:26,840 --> 01:37:30,720
Speaker 2: and especially marginalized people and came out and some of

1876
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:34,479
Speaker 2: them went not that bad. I do this again. I

1877
01:37:34,560 --> 01:37:36,280
Speaker 2: don't know what we do, and I think a lot

1878
01:37:36,320 --> 01:37:41,080
Speaker 2: of it is just misinformation, propaganda and stuff and social

1879
01:37:41,160 --> 01:37:44,160
Speaker 2: media influences. I think COVID is a huge part of

1880
01:37:44,240 --> 01:37:48,920
Speaker 2: it because it led people to conspiracy theories and conspiracy theorists. Yes,

1881
01:37:49,240 --> 01:37:53,840
Speaker 2: and everything became like a secret cabal. And you're on

1882
01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:56,519
Speaker 2: the other side of this. If you go against everybody,

1883
01:37:56,800 --> 01:37:58,760
Speaker 2: that makes you the real smart person. So I think

1884
01:37:58,800 --> 01:38:00,000
Speaker 2: a lot of that is what's happened.

1885
01:38:01,080 --> 01:38:03,960
Speaker 3: And it's also one of those things when you look

1886
01:38:04,000 --> 01:38:08,360
Speaker 3: at you leo, oh, is the possibility that is happening because,

1887
01:38:08,400 --> 01:38:10,400
Speaker 3: like you say, social media propaganda.

1888
01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 2: But I'm amazed, probably because I'm not fine, I'm not

1889
01:38:14,160 --> 01:38:14,599
Speaker 2: just stupid.

1890
01:38:15,479 --> 01:38:18,400
Speaker 3: How many people got that check from Trump and was like, well,

1891
01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 3: at last he gave us something, and you know, for them,

1892
01:38:21,800 --> 01:38:25,040
Speaker 3: that's how they voted. And like I said, it's probably

1893
01:38:25,080 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 3: a small percentage of people. But you know, I forgot

1894
01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:30,559
Speaker 3: the rapper or whoever came out and said that she's

1895
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:33,720
Speaker 3: representing somebody. She represents a lot of people who think

1896
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Speaker 3: that that is a quote unquote that argument.

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Speaker 2: It is not. It is very stupid, It is very dumb,

1898
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Speaker 2: but you know they are out there. Yeah. I also

1899
01:38:42,200 --> 01:38:46,000
Speaker 2: a lot of this stuff is about social media amplification because,

1900
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Speaker 2: especially in the gender Wars age, if you can find

1901
01:38:51,400 --> 01:38:55,360
Speaker 2: black men who say the opposite of what most black

1902
01:38:55,439 --> 01:39:00,040
Speaker 2: men say, that person gets the the bulk of the

1903
01:39:00,160 --> 01:39:03,120
Speaker 2: attention and the bulk of the backlash goes to all

1904
01:39:03,240 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 2: black men. The bulk of the black lash doesn't just

1905
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:08,439
Speaker 2: go to these coons. Like it's like it's always like

1906
01:39:08,600 --> 01:39:11,640
Speaker 2: this is the problem. The weakest link black men are

1907
01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:17,439
Speaker 2: still the strongest link of all men in America period period.

1908
01:39:17,640 --> 01:39:22,160
Speaker 2: Even if you overstated and go twenty percent of men

1909
01:39:22,360 --> 01:39:26,840
Speaker 2: black men support Republicans or Trump, eighty percent don't. So

1910
01:39:27,000 --> 01:39:30,280
Speaker 2: what the fuck are why are we getting this? You

1911
01:39:30,439 --> 01:39:34,000
Speaker 2: know who is the only group that supports Democrats more

1912
01:39:34,040 --> 01:39:37,320
Speaker 2: than black men? Black women? That's it. Not Latino women,

1913
01:39:37,439 --> 01:39:40,720
Speaker 2: not white women, not Asian women, just black women. So

1914
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:43,040
Speaker 2: why the fuck do we always catch the slings in

1915
01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:46,200
Speaker 2: the arrows? Okay, we live in a patriarchal society. It

1916
01:39:46,360 --> 01:39:49,680
Speaker 2: is fucked up. People do buy into that bullshit absolutely,

1917
01:39:49,960 --> 01:39:53,840
Speaker 2: but we literally, if you look at the votes, buy

1918
01:39:53,920 --> 01:39:57,000
Speaker 2: into it the least. Well, just as we're fucked up

1919
01:39:57,080 --> 01:40:00,559
Speaker 2: because we live in America, right, we live this world.

1920
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Speaker 2: So I'm not trying to make an argument of like

1921
01:40:02,720 --> 01:40:05,720
Speaker 2: black men are perfect, but my point is the way

1922
01:40:05,800 --> 01:40:09,800
Speaker 2: we get treated like we're the fucking real problem and

1923
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:13,600
Speaker 2: in a world where you know, white men run the

1924
01:40:13,680 --> 01:40:16,200
Speaker 2: fucking Republican Party and the planning and all this shit,

1925
01:40:16,880 --> 01:40:17,920
Speaker 2: we're the real problem.

1926
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Speaker 3: Is.

1927
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Speaker 2: I hate that shit, and I think that a large

1928
01:40:20,400 --> 01:40:22,760
Speaker 2: part of that is because of social media, we're the

1929
01:40:22,840 --> 01:40:25,200
Speaker 2: ones that are around each other the most, the affinity group.

1930
01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:28,160
Speaker 2: The niggas that push back because they feelings are hurt

1931
01:40:29,200 --> 01:40:32,160
Speaker 2: join in to the with the with the other hateful

1932
01:40:32,240 --> 01:40:35,720
Speaker 2: niggas instead of like just letting the ship slide. And

1933
01:40:35,880 --> 01:40:38,240
Speaker 2: so we just end up in these groups. But like

1934
01:40:38,360 --> 01:40:40,639
Speaker 2: I said, if you look it up, I'm not making

1935
01:40:40,680 --> 01:40:45,920
Speaker 2: this up. Trump made gains with every type of minority group.

1936
01:40:46,920 --> 01:40:49,640
Speaker 2: So this idea that it's just a black man thing

1937
01:40:49,840 --> 01:40:51,280
Speaker 2: is fucking weird, you know.

1938
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's also one of those things, particularly being

1939
01:40:56,439 --> 01:41:01,120
Speaker 3: online and seeing everything online online amplify a small group

1940
01:41:01,280 --> 01:41:04,400
Speaker 3: and makes the illusion that the group is actually bigger

1941
01:41:04,520 --> 01:41:08,080
Speaker 3: than it actually is. Yes, there are a percentage of men,

1942
01:41:08,200 --> 01:41:09,080
Speaker 3: but black men.

1943
01:41:09,160 --> 01:41:09,840
Speaker 2: Let's keep it real.

1944
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:13,840
Speaker 3: Most people talking most if you talk to black men,

1945
01:41:13,960 --> 01:41:17,400
Speaker 3: talk to black men, most of them are gonna vote Democrat.

1946
01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:18,000
Speaker 2: Most are.

1947
01:41:18,439 --> 01:41:20,120
Speaker 3: You might have a handful of even like okay, this

1948
01:41:20,200 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 3: is the coon, but most of them are like fuck

1949
01:41:23,320 --> 01:41:25,760
Speaker 3: Donald Trump, like, let's just keep it real. And I

1950
01:41:25,840 --> 01:41:29,240
Speaker 3: think a lot of times people get this illusion that

1951
01:41:29,439 --> 01:41:32,880
Speaker 3: the representation online represent the representation in the real world

1952
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:37,240
Speaker 3: sometimes and these things do not always connect, and then

1953
01:41:37,479 --> 01:41:39,200
Speaker 3: it puts them into place of fear, It puts them

1954
01:41:39,200 --> 01:41:41,360
Speaker 3: into places that I know because it's something I've been through.

1955
01:41:41,600 --> 01:41:43,280
Speaker 3: Puts you into place of fear, put you in the

1956
01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:46,719
Speaker 3: place of panic. It distorts your reality of what's actually

1957
01:41:46,800 --> 01:41:49,280
Speaker 3: happening and what's really going on. It's not to say

1958
01:41:49,320 --> 01:41:51,479
Speaker 3: these groups aren't growing. It's not to say this thing

1959
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:54,599
Speaker 3: is it's not real. All it's saying is a lot

1960
01:41:54,680 --> 01:41:57,479
Speaker 3: of times these online numbers and polls and statistics and

1961
01:41:57,600 --> 01:42:03,120
Speaker 3: things are showing you things and they small microscopic area,

1962
01:42:03,240 --> 01:42:07,160
Speaker 3: like really really small, and saying this small simple is

1963
01:42:07,200 --> 01:42:09,320
Speaker 3: a representation of the totality and that's.

1964
01:42:09,240 --> 01:42:12,400
Speaker 2: Not And also like it's the gender wars of it

1965
01:42:12,520 --> 01:42:16,000
Speaker 2: all because people try to turn it into like Ice

1966
01:42:16,120 --> 01:42:19,719
Speaker 2: Cubans representative of all black men when it's not true.

1967
01:42:19,920 --> 01:42:23,280
Speaker 2: It's not true, Like we have to live in truth

1968
01:42:24,160 --> 01:42:27,799
Speaker 2: even if it doesn't fit your like general agenda or narrative,

1969
01:42:27,880 --> 01:42:30,439
Speaker 2: then at least be honest about it that you just

1970
01:42:30,520 --> 01:42:32,679
Speaker 2: got an agenda and you just want to shit on niggas.

1971
01:42:32,800 --> 01:42:36,320
Speaker 2: Don't turn it into nah man, see the problem is

1972
01:42:36,400 --> 01:42:40,000
Speaker 2: you black men. Because he's also making games with black women,

1973
01:42:40,120 --> 01:42:42,200
Speaker 2: and when we see a black woman acting like that,

1974
01:42:42,360 --> 01:42:45,439
Speaker 2: we do not go Candice Owens is the weak link

1975
01:42:45,520 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 2: and the representative of black women, because we know that's

1976
01:42:48,000 --> 01:42:50,560
Speaker 2: not true. Right, So if part of this is just

1977
01:42:50,720 --> 01:42:56,280
Speaker 2: the ongoing cycle of men fighting women online and intraracial fights,

1978
01:42:56,439 --> 01:43:00,840
Speaker 2: and that's why you end up with these extreme opinions

1979
01:43:00,920 --> 01:43:03,280
Speaker 2: that actually are not based in fact. Even in what

1980
01:43:03,360 --> 01:43:06,240
Speaker 2: that said, any percentage is too much to me. But

1981
01:43:06,360 --> 01:43:09,760
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna quibble over. I'm not gonna pretend that

1982
01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:12,720
Speaker 2: it is an existential threat because we also don't have

1983
01:43:12,920 --> 01:43:16,560
Speaker 2: the numbers. Even with the thirteen percent we represent of

1984
01:43:16,640 --> 01:43:19,920
Speaker 2: America as black people and even less so of black men,

1985
01:43:20,520 --> 01:43:22,639
Speaker 2: It's not like that is what is putting Trump over

1986
01:43:22,720 --> 01:43:25,760
Speaker 2: the top. So it's so, I mean, I don't fuck

1987
01:43:25,800 --> 01:43:28,240
Speaker 2: with those people. I don't follow those people. I don't

1988
01:43:28,320 --> 01:43:30,280
Speaker 2: have them on our show. Nope, we don't have them

1989
01:43:30,320 --> 01:43:33,280
Speaker 2: in our lives. But at the same time, I think

1990
01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:36,120
Speaker 2: the hyperbole and the always wanting to dunk on some

1991
01:43:36,720 --> 01:43:40,360
Speaker 2: some some crusty ass black dude has turned into a

1992
01:43:40,479 --> 01:43:43,080
Speaker 2: different reality online than what we experience in life.

1993
01:43:43,280 --> 01:43:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, and I do understand you

1994
01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:48,200
Speaker 3: know your concern, but actually if you actually look at it,

1995
01:43:48,760 --> 01:43:53,440
Speaker 3: it's it's a bump. Yes, So okay, that's that's it's

1996
01:43:53,520 --> 01:43:55,880
Speaker 3: to be looked at and to be concerning. But the

1997
01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:59,320
Speaker 3: reality is, is the number as big as it's causing

1998
01:43:59,640 --> 01:44:02,240
Speaker 3: the anxiety and all these other things that you're feeling.

1999
01:44:03,320 --> 01:44:05,880
Speaker 2: The last thing he said is anyway, I feel like

2000
01:44:05,880 --> 01:44:09,320
Speaker 2: I'm rambling this asat Rocky Whiskey, Mercer and Prince got

2001
01:44:09,400 --> 01:44:12,400
Speaker 2: me feeling real good. It's so smooth that you can

2002
01:44:12,760 --> 01:44:14,840
Speaker 2: fuck around and finish at the bottle for you know it.

2003
01:44:15,160 --> 01:44:16,920
Speaker 2: I look forward to hearing you guys opinion. I love

2004
01:44:16,960 --> 01:44:19,200
Speaker 2: when y'all talk about voting in elections early, but I'm

2005
01:44:19,240 --> 01:44:23,240
Speaker 2: getting scared we can't survive another Trump presidency. Yeah, I'm

2006
01:44:23,320 --> 01:44:26,760
Speaker 2: scared as well when it comes to what people are

2007
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:29,439
Speaker 2: gonna do. But it's also just the general anxiety of

2008
01:44:29,520 --> 01:44:33,400
Speaker 2: election year because it's America. It's as much as it's

2009
01:44:34,640 --> 01:44:36,720
Speaker 2: as much as I believe Joe Biden should win, I

2010
01:44:36,880 --> 01:44:40,200
Speaker 2: also believe it's America. So it's always fifty to fifty.

2011
01:44:41,200 --> 01:44:48,960
Speaker 2: And there's things piling up, such as Trump judges confirming

2012
01:44:49,600 --> 01:44:54,600
Speaker 2: redistricting that favors GOP maps and stuff like that, and

2013
01:44:54,800 --> 01:44:57,880
Speaker 2: so there's things that are happening constantly. I'm sure we'll

2014
01:44:57,920 --> 01:44:59,920
Speaker 2: be covering it on the show. We're not trying to

2015
01:45:00,080 --> 01:45:02,759
Speaker 2: be alarmists. I just want people to be aware of stuff.

2016
01:45:02,760 --> 01:45:05,280
Speaker 2: I don't want people to be blindsided by stuff. And

2017
01:45:06,360 --> 01:45:09,240
Speaker 2: as I say, every single time, when it's time to vote,

2018
01:45:09,760 --> 01:45:17,160
Speaker 2: we will get what we deserve. Meaning if and I

2019
01:45:17,240 --> 01:45:20,040
Speaker 2: don't blame the politicians, I blame us one hundred percent

2020
01:45:20,040 --> 01:45:22,920
Speaker 2: of the time, every single time. I never because at

2021
01:45:22,960 --> 01:45:27,639
Speaker 2: the end of the day, us, our refusal is routed

2022
01:45:27,800 --> 01:45:35,719
Speaker 2: in a level of entitlement and privilege and and denial

2023
01:45:36,320 --> 01:45:39,600
Speaker 2: when we go I'm too good to vote. When we

2024
01:45:39,760 --> 01:45:43,280
Speaker 2: do that, that's on us too. And so yeah, and

2025
01:45:43,640 --> 01:45:46,280
Speaker 2: that's not just the liberal people that there's a ton

2026
01:45:46,360 --> 01:45:48,920
Speaker 2: of people in America who do not vote, and they go,

2027
01:45:49,240 --> 01:45:51,040
Speaker 2: this ain't got nothing to do with me. And then

2028
01:45:51,080 --> 01:45:53,559
Speaker 2: when they watch our country run rough shot over somebody

2029
01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:57,000
Speaker 2: or whatever, when they watch a worse outcome than what

2030
01:45:57,080 --> 01:46:00,479
Speaker 2: would have happened, they act like they have no response disility.

2031
01:46:00,680 --> 01:46:02,360
Speaker 2: Like I said, I can't abid that.

2032
01:46:02,560 --> 01:46:05,000
Speaker 3: So right, And it's also one of those things where

2033
01:46:05,160 --> 01:46:08,080
Speaker 3: we always know the exceptions to the rules, you know,

2034
01:46:09,000 --> 01:46:11,800
Speaker 3: But for the most part, Yeah, as a populist, like

2035
01:46:11,880 --> 01:46:13,920
Speaker 3: I said before, we don't take voting as a civil

2036
01:46:14,160 --> 01:46:17,200
Speaker 3: civic duty as a citizen like they do in other

2037
01:46:17,280 --> 01:46:18,160
Speaker 3: parts of the world.

2038
01:46:19,120 --> 01:46:22,040
Speaker 2: All right, we got some stuff in the mail too. Yay,

2039
01:46:22,760 --> 01:46:25,679
Speaker 2: let's open these up. We got some cards. I believe

2040
01:46:26,520 --> 01:46:31,000
Speaker 2: this was a little cute card. It's very small. Uh.

2041
01:46:32,040 --> 01:46:34,600
Speaker 2: We open up this little tiny baby. It's got a

2042
01:46:34,920 --> 01:46:37,120
Speaker 2: rain there on the front, a cartoon rain there, if

2043
01:46:37,200 --> 01:46:37,800
Speaker 2: y'all can see that.

2044
01:46:40,680 --> 01:46:40,760
Speaker 3: Uh.

2045
01:46:41,000 --> 01:46:44,080
Speaker 2: And on the back, oh, I'm sorry. It opens up,

2046
01:46:44,840 --> 01:46:48,160
Speaker 2: and then on the inside it says m Gray from

2047
01:46:48,200 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 2: the Uh from the UK. He says, Happy Christmas, Mike

2048
01:46:51,520 --> 01:46:55,400
Speaker 2: and London. Oh yes, s sitt that ship across the pond.

2049
01:46:55,520 --> 01:46:55,800
Speaker 1: Mate.

2050
01:46:56,040 --> 01:47:00,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've been hanging around with us for a long time. Yeah,

2051
01:47:01,040 --> 01:47:03,200
Speaker 2: always chiming in from London. I think he was the

2052
01:47:03,240 --> 01:47:05,360
Speaker 2: one that told us about that game they play with

2053
01:47:05,439 --> 01:47:08,840
Speaker 2: the bar where they play for the drinks. We love

2054
01:47:08,920 --> 01:47:13,000
Speaker 2: to see it. We got this one. It's a very

2055
01:47:13,160 --> 01:47:16,360
Speaker 2: silvery one that says happy Holidays on the fast pretty

2056
01:47:16,760 --> 01:47:19,880
Speaker 2: on the inside it says, Hi, Rody camp. The card

2057
01:47:19,920 --> 01:47:22,400
Speaker 2: Princes has best of wishes to you and yours for

2058
01:47:22,560 --> 01:47:26,880
Speaker 2: our wonderful holiday season. And inside is from Tammory, Tampa,

2059
01:47:26,920 --> 01:47:30,040
Speaker 2: tamara Ak Tammy b who says wishing you a merry Christmas,

2060
01:47:30,080 --> 01:47:34,360
Speaker 2: a happy twenty twenty four, thank you. And the last

2061
01:47:35,439 --> 01:47:40,320
Speaker 2: envelope one the last card, and this a big red card.

2062
01:47:40,479 --> 01:47:43,680
Speaker 2: It says tis the season. And there's a bunch of

2063
01:47:43,800 --> 01:47:49,240
Speaker 2: like polar bears and and and rein deer and goose

2064
01:47:49,439 --> 01:47:53,200
Speaker 2: and Christmas trees. On the inside it says it's from

2065
01:47:53,240 --> 01:47:55,719
Speaker 2: Adam s It says, what makes the holidays so wonderful,

2066
01:47:55,760 --> 01:47:58,919
Speaker 2: sending wishes like these to special people like you. Merry Christmas,

2067
01:47:59,400 --> 01:48:03,320
Speaker 2: thank you, we appreciate y'all. And the last thing, we

2068
01:48:03,400 --> 01:48:06,000
Speaker 2: got a package in this. I don't know what's in it.

2069
01:48:06,080 --> 01:48:10,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna open it now. Shit, now, I like packages.

2070
01:48:10,680 --> 01:48:14,080
Speaker 2: Oh it's a book. Okay. You know Karen loves to

2071
01:48:14,120 --> 01:48:16,280
Speaker 2: put a book on the shelf. I do. I'm the

2072
01:48:16,400 --> 01:48:18,760
Speaker 2: queen of that. You know. I only read Kindle, so

2073
01:48:19,400 --> 01:48:22,400
Speaker 2: we just the bookshelf is mostly a flex in this house.

2074
01:48:25,880 --> 01:48:28,080
Speaker 2: I like to flex the books that I'm probably not

2075
01:48:28,160 --> 01:48:36,640
Speaker 2: gonna read. Oh my god, at this card. Yes, my

2076
01:48:36,840 --> 01:48:42,559
Speaker 2: hair out, my hero Academia card. Oh my god, I'm

2077
01:48:42,560 --> 01:48:45,439
Speaker 2: ready for the new season. Let's go. Yeah, we love

2078
01:48:45,520 --> 01:48:50,000
Speaker 2: to see it. Let's go with Daria yes, Ladoria is

2079
01:48:50,040 --> 01:48:54,880
Speaker 2: on here. It's oh many, Oh my god, this is

2080
01:48:54,920 --> 01:49:00,680
Speaker 2: so good. All right. We just had like a complete yes, yeah, yeah, nah,

2081
01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:04,479
Speaker 2: thank you for this, just for just let alone, just

2082
01:49:04,560 --> 01:49:07,600
Speaker 2: for the for the car let you know, before we

2083
01:49:07,720 --> 01:49:12,080
Speaker 2: even get into uh, you know, the actual the rest

2084
01:49:12,120 --> 01:49:18,439
Speaker 2: of this ship. But yeah, total Rokies on here. And

2085
01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:23,000
Speaker 2: what's the one with the glasses? I forget his name,

2086
01:49:23,080 --> 01:49:27,240
Speaker 2: but uh, he's on here too. All right. Sorry, good afternoon,

2087
01:49:27,360 --> 01:49:30,960
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I hope all is well, and I

2088
01:49:31,120 --> 01:49:33,920
Speaker 2: also hope that you both have wonderful holiday. I wanted

2089
01:49:34,000 --> 01:49:39,680
Speaker 2: to share with you a special passion project that my

2090
01:49:39,840 --> 01:49:43,880
Speaker 2: found sister completed over the summer. Jaha is the Essence

2091
01:49:43,960 --> 01:49:47,959
Speaker 2: of being Black in Southern and she has conducted interviews

2092
01:49:48,040 --> 01:49:51,160
Speaker 2: with black elders who lived during the Jim Cross South,

2093
01:49:51,439 --> 01:49:53,400
Speaker 2: a book of rich stories of being black in the

2094
01:49:53,520 --> 01:49:55,559
Speaker 2: United States. I know that this is not the type

2095
01:49:55,560 --> 01:49:59,800
Speaker 2: of electronic format you used to, but I wanted uh to.

2096
01:50:00,240 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 2: I wanted her personally to sign this book for you

2097
01:50:02,400 --> 01:50:05,759
Speaker 2: and care. Thank you for everything that you do for us. Listeners.

2098
01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:11,200
Speaker 2: Ms Barnes, listen. I will never not take a signed

2099
01:50:11,280 --> 01:50:15,519
Speaker 2: copy of a book I like sign copies. Okay, nothing's

2100
01:50:15,600 --> 01:50:18,599
Speaker 2: better than the flex. Okay, that's I like the books.

2101
01:50:18,680 --> 01:50:20,840
Speaker 2: They signed it. And the title of this book is

2102
01:50:20,880 --> 01:50:26,320
Speaker 2: to those who those who saw the Sun African American

2103
01:50:26,479 --> 01:50:28,920
Speaker 2: or histories from the Jim Crow South. And it's got

2104
01:50:29,000 --> 01:50:34,240
Speaker 2: that hardback. Oh shit, now, smell like sound like a

2105
01:50:34,280 --> 01:50:37,080
Speaker 2: piece of wood. Do it smell like oak? Smell like

2106
01:50:37,200 --> 01:50:41,760
Speaker 2: skellet bark libraries? Okay, smell like red wood. Okay. It

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Speaker 2: thank you. We appreciate everybody. Thank you. I'm glad we

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Speaker 2: have to do one next week. To h Jail Covan

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Speaker 2: tomorrow ten am. Have blackface coming out on your streaming platforms.

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Speaker 2: Until next time, I love you,