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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision Decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you want to say together Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to another episode of Decisions Decisions. It's your girl,

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Speaker 2: man dB aka Peg the Stallion aka Mandy Lapute aka

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Speaker 2: Mandy Dirt aka Mandy Baskins aka That Beach.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody. My name is Weezy and oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we've never been on here before, so we haven't for y'all,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I think I told Alex

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Speaker 1: I liked it.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna copy the set that we're gonna record

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Speaker 2: in Atlanta at my studio. I'm gonna make it like

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Speaker 2: this color scheme and all.

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Speaker 1: What I'm gonna get that's gun character next thing. Uh

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Speaker 1: uh No, you not. You would never. I would never

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Speaker 1: do a twenty seven piece, bitch. I've done a twenty

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Speaker 1: seven people from Flora Le.

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Speaker 2: Do no goddamn twenty seven piece. But y'all know you

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Speaker 2: since you was fifteen.

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Speaker 1: I've done a little like the Little bob Ones. They

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Speaker 1: didn't look like that, though I didn't do the short one.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have.

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Speaker 2: Twenty seven pieces are short? You did a quick weave,

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Speaker 2: but not at twenty seven. This is twenty seven pieces.

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Speaker 1: How do you know it's exactly twenty seven? That's what

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Speaker 1: the box said, Oh, numbers, don't lie? What you want

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Speaker 1: me to say? What do you want me to say?

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Speaker 1: Got it? Well? I wouldn't remember that because I'm fucking washed.

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Speaker 1: Let's have a catch up about how I don't want

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Speaker 1: to do anything. No, what, You're not depressed, are you? Oh? No? Oh,

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Speaker 1: you just really are washed. Okay, but you're not even

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Speaker 1: thirty five yet. I got three more months. And let

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Speaker 1: me tell your son. I literally, so this is how

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Speaker 1: I know I'm washed. And tell me if anybody else

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Speaker 1: can relate, and if we are together, washer and dry yours.

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Speaker 1: So here's what happened. All right. I go out last weekend, okay,

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Speaker 1: And before I went out, all I was talking about

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Speaker 1: that whole week was, oh my god, I can't wait

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Speaker 1: until we go out Saturday. I'm gonna get so fucked up.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get fucked up. I was talking about it

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Speaker 1: for two weeks. Oh my god, we're gonna do this.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sprinkle a little molly in my drink. It's

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Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Then we're gonna go to this

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Speaker 1: new afties in New York. It's called Refuse. Stays open

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Speaker 1: till two pm. I'm out all night, you do. Bitch

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Speaker 1: went to dinner right around dinner, right when, and I

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Speaker 1: did late in little nine thirty. You know that's the

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Speaker 1: party girl dinner time that is. That's a late dinner

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Speaker 1: when I'm at one of our favorites and soho you are,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I'm getting that duck breast and you

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Speaker 1: know what that little I'm like, it's a living forty

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Speaker 1: five and trying to get tired. So now I'm looking

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Speaker 1: like around the table, I'm like, let's just do the

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Speaker 1: drugs here, and they're like, damn, bitch, we needn't get

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Speaker 1: to spot. But I'm like, I need something to pip

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Speaker 1: you up. So yeah, I do drugs at dinner. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like, should get it, by the way, not drugs,

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Speaker 1: drugs shroops. She's still drugs. Ah honey, and you take

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Speaker 1: I got you a little my niggas. Oh, I just

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Speaker 1: want to chime in and talks shit. Yeah, drove back

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Speaker 1: to the point where they be like they hate dart

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Speaker 1: because I put it. I take them in chocolate. That's

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Speaker 1: still drugs, but it's in chalc it's cookal Mine was water,

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Speaker 1: it was molly. Oh. So anyway, I'm thinking, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: getting tired, but I'm wanna be a party pooper. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like starting to play this. How I done gets tired.

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Speaker 1: I start playing music at the table, wat to check

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Speaker 1: come in. I was like, ooh, rehythm, let's wake back up.

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Speaker 1: And everybody else is like, which, we've been up? So

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Speaker 1: we get to the spot. My friend Andre was DJing

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Speaker 1: at this like Brooklyn warehouse, he thing, and it was

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Speaker 1: a pive and so I'm like, what time you get on.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna play one to three thirty and

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Speaker 1: I was like, god, damn, that's late. But it's all right.

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Speaker 1: So now what I do. I don't know if anybody

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Speaker 1: else has it. I go and yap mode. I just

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Speaker 1: start yapping everybody because that's how it keeps me up

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Speaker 1: because I like to learn lives. I start talking to

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Speaker 1: a Horrorhive member. She's like, oh my god, you need

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Speaker 1: me both, like I'm a piano other than this. And

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Speaker 1: we talked for thirty minutes. Boom, thirty minutes I know

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Speaker 1: because I was high, and she says she needed the

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Speaker 1: time to pass. Okay, So three o'clock, come right, somebod

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Speaker 1: Nica looks at me. He's like, well already here, you

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Speaker 1: already out. Bitch is snowed the night before. We already out.

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Speaker 1: So then I say to Andre, like, damn, you got

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Speaker 1: another show tomorrow in Atlanta. Damn you need some rest.

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Speaker 1: He's like, no, I ain't seen you in a minute.

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Speaker 1: We're good. I'm like, oh, you was trying to go home. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we get to the athletes, this new spot in

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Speaker 1: New York.

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Speaker 2: How are you saying you're washed? But you made it

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Speaker 2: all the way to the affies. This is not a

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Speaker 2: washed story.

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Speaker 1: It's like you, okay, hold on, you wanting to leave,

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Speaker 1: but still being out doesn't make you wash. Bro, Like,

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Speaker 1: this is not a story of you being washed.

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Speaker 2: You've been watched it have been Like, instead of going out,

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Speaker 2: I went home and binge the Beast in Meat on

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Speaker 2: Netflix had popcorn and a glass of wine that is washed.

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Speaker 1: But you made it to the Aftes at three o'clock

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Okay. So once I get to the

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Speaker 1: Aftes right now, it's about eight of us, but I

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Speaker 1: ain't have my ID, so I'm like, I'm definitely not

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Speaker 1: gonna get in. It's okay, guys. No. So everybody's like no,

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Speaker 1: we're all together, like we're not going only weezy and

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Speaker 1: I'm like okay. So then we go to the front.

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Speaker 1: My man's like, give your phone. So he pulls out

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Speaker 1: my ID. He's like, this is my girl, blah blah

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no problem. Then the manager comes out and

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Speaker 1: he's like, looking at me, that has really pissed me off.

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Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, she's fine, she's good. So I wo all,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's twenty one, bruh. I don't think you

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Speaker 1: look over twenty one. Well yeah, you look over twenty one,

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Speaker 1: mind you you should be happy and and you don't

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Speaker 1: even know. Well we was young with fake id's this

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Speaker 1: this ain't cute.

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Speaker 2: Good truck, like she got good hard she got her

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Speaker 2: fake id crumpled in half, and he said, I know

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Speaker 2: you got school in the morning, go on home now

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Speaker 2: and ruin my night. Bitch, I couldn't be out mind you,

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Speaker 2: out of fake id of But bitch, it was five nine.

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Speaker 2: Where the fuck am I five nine?

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Speaker 1: Anywhere? Mine did look like mine?

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Speaker 1: Yours did not a little too brown, Yours did not brown,

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Speaker 1: and I'm a little too white, but mine said I

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Speaker 1: was five nine. Okay, same facial, but you should be

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Speaker 1: happy that you're now able to just get in. So boom,

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Speaker 1: I get into this crackhead afteres on tight and just

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Speaker 1: how I know I'm mad. The acting is actually really good,

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Speaker 1: but I was mad because I was so tired. So

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Speaker 1: you know how like you could be doing the same

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Speaker 1: ship as other people, but you're just gonna be talking

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Speaker 1: about them, because like I could be doing some whole ship,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, she fucked a bunch of niggas. I

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Speaker 1: could have fucked a bunch of niggas. That's the ship

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Speaker 1: I was on. I was in there afters and I

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Speaker 1: was like, movies, people are sucking right access well, while

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Speaker 1: she was drinking molly water. The hypocrisy. So then this

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Speaker 1: girl sitting there with a lobby pop and she's like,

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Speaker 1: coming on, ma so much funny, you have me so

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Speaker 1: much fun I'm like, I was just so mad because

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Speaker 1: I can't be in it. It used to be me.

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Speaker 1: I was young, water fright, so anyway, but you are

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Speaker 1: still free. We both yeah, I washed as did. I

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Speaker 1: was like damn getting kinds hired and was like, nigga,

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Speaker 1: you the one who was talking about this shit. I

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Speaker 1: she going on. You don't got to record horrible. Even

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Speaker 1: though it was a week later. I was just starting,

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Speaker 1: you know, so now you had to get vocal wrist

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Speaker 1: a week before. I put an alarm on my phone

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Speaker 1: for five am because I was like, that's too much,

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Speaker 1: that's too far. So my man and him say, I

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Speaker 1: go home, y'all. I get home to read my kindle.

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Speaker 1: I was tucked in the bed in the sheets, reading

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Speaker 2: So she's watched because after an afties she went home

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Speaker 2: and looked at her kindle.

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Speaker 1: But it's only because she couldn't go to sleep because

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Speaker 1: she was on Bodley. Hey, what are we talking? About

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm reading like I

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Speaker 1: was reading. I was so high. I was reading the

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Speaker 1: back of the book published by Simon the Shoots for

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Speaker 1: two thousand and six. Yeah, you are alert, very alert

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Speaker 1: and aware. By the way, the most unwashed washed story

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Speaker 1: I think I've ever heard on the pods. But it's washed.

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Speaker 1: If you know, you can't hang. And I also think

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Speaker 1: this is the biggest wash factor about it. I was

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Speaker 1: ready for this party for three weeks. Oh, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: a music festival. It was just a Brooklyn little night out,

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Speaker 1: like and I am like hyped about it. I made

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Speaker 1: the dinner plans three weeks before. I picked my outfit

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Speaker 1: then literally to the point where that Sunday the party

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Speaker 1: shouldn't never drink tonight. We're gonna drink on Saturday. Who

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Speaker 1: if I think that's crazy, thank you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I do that, Like on Sundays in Atlanta,

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Speaker 2: I'll be ready to do my little my little run,

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Speaker 2: and my little run is a little it's a run to.

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Speaker 1: Where I have to take a nap. So my nap

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Speaker 1: is normally at like six thirty. Ooh, I wake up

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Speaker 1: about sam thirty s four to five, didn't get ready,

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Speaker 1: Then I'll head out to eat. That's so I go

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Speaker 1: to eat like eight thirty because they don't leave it

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Speaker 1: like nine thirty. I like to be a whiskey mistress.

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Speaker 2: That's the one we've talked about on Patreon where it's

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Speaker 2: like Nike text suits and Fedoras, but it's like the

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Speaker 2: older crowd of niggas that like just still ain't giving

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Speaker 1: But I like going there because I go there and

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Speaker 1: it's just free drink.

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Speaker 2: Scalore Okay, So I go there from it closes it twelve,

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Speaker 2: So I go there from like ten ten thirty to

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Speaker 2: like a LAMB forty five. Then next door is the

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Speaker 2: mc cat, so I go there and keep drinking. But

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Speaker 2: that's normally like every Sunday, three spots as long as

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Speaker 2: I'm in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: And now I'm telling the whole world where I be,

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Speaker 1: bitch I be, I've been there. Yeah, do you know

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Speaker 1: what it used to be my repertoire? This was Meyer girl.

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Speaker 1: I was okay, this me five years ago, Me and

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Speaker 1: I be lit by this. It's like the drug dealing.

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Speaker 2: I'm on shrooms, I'm lit. Why are we at two

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Speaker 2: He wants to believe that I'm gonna change my mind.

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Speaker 2: That's how I was like, because they were so confused,

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Speaker 1: Bro? Both of them damn near set the same carry

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Speaker 1: last name. And I was like, yeah, yeah, we too.

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Speaker 2: And it's crazy that men could be like, well, I

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Speaker 2: But they don't like really have the idea of how

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Speaker 1: I actually had a guy ask me why I wanted

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Speaker 1: it was first day conversation. I don't even really remember

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Speaker 1: But there's absolutely something missing because a lot of bitches

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Speaker 1: If you know it's something you've wanted forever, right the

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a woman's answer where a man's

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Speaker 1: you should be a mom? And how and why? Yeah?

427
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Speaker 1: But like, is that your true desire? And I think

428
00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 1: when it comes to creating and wanting family, the reason

429
00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,359
Speaker 1: I respect those who don't want children so much is

430
00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,200
Speaker 1: because I really believe too many people are parents and

431
00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 1: shouldn't be, and we are so critical of those who

432
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,440
Speaker 1: shouldn't be parents. I know some fuck niggas and women

433
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,920
Speaker 1: that are terrible moms, and I feel like, what is

434
00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:34,080
Speaker 1: the point just to say you did it. Or I'm

435
00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,159
Speaker 1: that age, like if you want to do something just

436
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,680
Speaker 1: to say you did it, jump out a plane and

437
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,440
Speaker 1: sky dies. I've heard a friend of mine say it

438
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 1: was some shark as an excuse to not wanting to

439
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 1: have an abortion. I mean, we're both in love, we're

440
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 1: mid thirties.

441
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:51,000
Speaker 2: Okay, bringing a baby because yeah, it's just interesting me.

442
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,680
Speaker 2: For this episode, I did want to talk about a

443
00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 2: few things. So I have a list for tops and bottoms.

444
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Speaker 2: Let's see, for people like me, you like this, sell

445
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,120
Speaker 2: y'all for top sip bottoms this week. I went through

446
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,119
Speaker 2: because this was a thing that like, really like, I

447
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 2: felt a way about it. So I went through and

448
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 2: found cities with the fewest children and the most adults

449
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 2: without kids.

450
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Speaker 1: Now, this could work both ways.

451
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 2: These could be cities where they don't have kids so

452
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,160
Speaker 2: they're maybe looking to have kids, or cities that don't

453
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Speaker 2: make you feel guilty for not having kids.

454
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Speaker 1: I'll say for not make you feel guilty. I'm looking

455
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 1: at this list so.

456
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Speaker 2: For me, and when we get to the bottom list,

457
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Speaker 2: I think that being in New York is like through

458
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 2: my twenties and my thirties, New York was not only

459
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 2: a former birth control but I never felt like I

460
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 2: was missing out by not having a family because so

461
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 2: many of our peers don't have kids.

462
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Speaker 1: Actually, one thing that my mom noticed when she was

463
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Speaker 1: in New York. So we brought my mom here for Christmas.

464
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Speaker 1: It was just the three of us all week. And

465
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Speaker 1: my mom has always talked about moving to New York,

466
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Speaker 1: moving back, moving back. She's like, yeah, I can't do it.

467
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm I'm actually too old to live here. It's a

468
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 1: little too hard to get around, the hard life. And

469
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,680
Speaker 1: she's like, just to go because my mom, we're making

470
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 1: Christmas dinner. Let's just go run and get I think

471
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 1: I want to get green peppers and blah blah blah.

472
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, well, hooleful, it's fifteen minute walk.

473
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 1: But I mean, I guess you can get in a

474
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 1: cap She's like, I'm not gonna get a cab for

475
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 1: I order. It's frames ain't gonna just be delayed, right,

476
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 1: So then my man's got to jump in the car.

477
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 1: But then once he jumps in the car to take her,

478
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: what you gotta do when he comes back? Fine, parky bitch,

479
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 1: And New York is not easy, and so She then

480
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,719
Speaker 1: said to me, what are you going to do when

481
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 1: you have the baby? Like, what are you going to do?

482
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 1: And I'm really mad that she raised that up, because

483
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: if y'all been listening to the show, you would know

484
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 1: my happy relationship only as one little issue, not bitches niggas.

485
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 1: It ain't money, it's where the fuck are we going

486
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: to live? Where are we going to live?

487
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Speaker 2: When I about to really live by coastal but talks

488
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Speaker 2: a bottom. Here is a list of these cities with

489
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 2: the fewest children or the most adults without kids.

490
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Speaker 1: Okay, let's see this list, all right.

491
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Speaker 2: We have number one San Francisco, California, which to me

492
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 2: makes sense.

493
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Speaker 1: Because all the gays. Oh what, all right? San Francisco

494
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: has one of the highest rents because it has such

495
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 1: an influx for startups. So then it's like, okay, man,

496
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: she said, the homeless, the gays, I mean science. Okay.

497
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: The second one is Seattle, Washington. I don't know that's somebody.

498
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 1: I like Seattle.

499
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I actually like Seattle. It's one of

500
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 2: my favorite cities in the US. I love it anyway,

501
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 2: So you would go there? I actually want to go

502
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 2: there to like, Yeah, I want to do a weekend

503
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 2: that's not work.

504
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: I love it. Me and Vinnie had a blast on

505
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: the Piero dub work. I don't love Seattle hours to

506
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Speaker 1: go home. I gotta tell you the second we went out,

507
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 1: I love it, like the time she was living in Boston,

508
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: living in New York going there, bitch, No, I like

509
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 1: the whorehive there that even they don't want to be there.

510
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: But see that's what listen. Okay.

511
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: Next city is Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, followed by Scottsdale, Arizona. I

512
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 2: don't know where daily City, California is either. The next

513
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,400
Speaker 2: one interesting but not surprising, Boston, Massachusetts.

514
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 1: Now, a few weeks ago, Boston.

515
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 2: Massachusetts was the city that was the easiest, one of

516
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 2: the cities where you can get laid the easiest.

517
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: But someone made a comment on that episode.

518
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,959
Speaker 2: It said it has the most colleges, so technically, if

519
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 2: all those people are in college, yeah, it makes sense

520
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 2: that they don't have kids, followed by uh. Following Boston

521
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: is Columbia, South Carolina. Then Madison, Wisconsin, maybe because don't

522
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 2: nobody live there, bitch, Wisconsin. Then Tallasey, Florida, also another

523
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 2: college town, and then San Diego California. Now City is

524
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 2: often cited by communities as friendly or popular for childless

525
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 2: adults include New York City, Atlanta, Georgia, Austin, Texas, and

526
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 2: Baltimore Mailand probably because Baltimore dangerous child people don't want

527
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 2: to add kids.

528
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: Baltimore, you know, looking at the ones that are childless adults. Austin,

529
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: Texas also is another startup, startup tech place, so it's

530
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: probably people that are going there to, like, I feel

531
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: like their careers. They're more career focused, not you like Austin. Oh,

532
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 1: I've never been. I've never been to Austin. I have

533
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: a lot of do you know how I feel about Austin. Okay,

534
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: it's the same Portland thing and it's a Seattle thing too. Okay,

535
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 1: it's the cities with white people. This like maybe that's

536
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 1: why I don't go. That give liberal, but it still

537
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 1: gives like where are the black people? Like Austin is

538
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: hella white? So I went to Austin for southwest south

539
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: southwest and afro Tech was afro Tech in Austin. Bitch,

540
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: I ain't go to eat the I don't know because

541
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 1: someone why the fuck was on Austin, Texas? No, No, no,

542
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: it was. It was two years ago. Was now they

543
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: do Houston, but it wasn't Houston now. Yeah. So I

544
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: remember the first time I went, I was like, oh

545
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: my gosh, all this is a vibe. Maybe then I

546
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: don't like city. I had to go another time for work,

547
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: and then by south By south By. So while there,

548
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: I noticed all the establishments had all those little Black

549
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: Lives Matter stickers and the rainbow stickers, like we're welcome,

550
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 1: we're friendly. But then I go to Soho House. Almost

551
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: everybody had a cowboy hat on Mandy, and it really

552
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: gave like we'll call you one if you weren't in

553
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: this room. Oh I'm not gonna lie.

554
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 2: That's why the sex club experience and the sex spaces

555
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: in Atlanta in the deep cell, Baby, dem Whites is

556
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: different than the ones here in New York. Baby, it

557
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 2: looks like they have Confederate flags on their pickup trucks.

558
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 2: Right outside. I saw him, Man, I don't want to

559
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 2: be around them. Time white regular just walk with a horse,

560
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: not walking the horse. Maybe he was taking the horse

561
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: out for a shit. Me and my boy MoMA, we

562
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: was walking down the street. He said, oh, baby, we

563
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 2: have to go back to New York.

564
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was. Let me tell you, I was

565
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: with my little blue last night. Who I don't worry

566
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: about it. Don't worry about what I'm saying. It's this

567
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: quarter zip, quarter zip? Okay, quarter zip? Happens? Hold zip? Hey?

568
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 3: What?

569
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 1: AnyWho? So?

570
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 2: Where outside? And you you saw the picture of him.

571
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 2: So we're in an elevator and he's tall, taw like,

572
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 2: handsome guy.

573
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: Bro.

574
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 2: We get in the elevator and it's white people, and Bro,

575
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: as soon as we get in, this white man starts

576
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 2: touching his shoulders and it's like, look at this big one. Oh, like, Bro,

577
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: you would think he wanted to auction my nigga off. Bro,

578
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,239
Speaker 2: I was, I was this close. I was this close, bro,

579
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 2: And where were you smiling? Going up the elevator in

580
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 2: my hotel and bruh, he's grabbing it. He's clearly drunk,

581
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 2: but he's like.

582
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: You a big one, You a big one, You a

583
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: big motherfucker, but like grabbing his arms and like like

584
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: touching on him, like if this was this out, he's like,

585
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: I would have bought you niggle, like that's what it

586
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: was given. And I was so mad and we couldn't

587
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: tell where he was from. He's clearly not a New Yorker.

588
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: So he goes, where are you from? Man? This is

589
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: the only thing that changed the subject. Are you ready

590
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: we're from Orlando? I said. I said me too.

591
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: So he's like, no, what part bitch the god bitch bitch.

592
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 2: He was like, oh, what par are you from? I said, Oh,

593
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: I grew up on Oak Ridge. That's out of town.

594
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, we're from a Popka.

595
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: What did it?

596
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: So we just started talking and it's the only thing

597
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: that got him from like looking like the way he

598
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: was talking to him, like he was just a beautiful

599
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 2: black specimen that he was like, you picked.

600
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: My cotton, boy? Like it was. I almost like.

601
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: So when we got off the elevator, I was like, bro,

602
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 2: if that nigga didn't say he was from Orlando, I

603
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: was this close to being like it was so uncomfortable

604
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: these white people.

605
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: It still didn't help it. You don't know what it is, bro,

606
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: I was just like.

607
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 2: So we ended up going back downstairs for some drinks

608
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 2: and he was down there again and I said that

609
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 2: he better not do that shit again, you know, but

610
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 2: he you ready weird a little even worse. I kept

611
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 2: walking he pounded him up and like introduced him to

612
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 2: his other white friend.

613
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: And I was just like the way they even like

614
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: pounded his chest, like he was like one of theirs.

615
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't like it. I don't like it.

616
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Almost our entire euro trip, especially

617
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: in Italy, maybe once a day someone took a picture

618
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: of my boyfriend. I don't like it. It's so and

619
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: they both have dreads. But I don't know. But and

620
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: mind you, he's he's like, also, hello, I'm here as well.

621
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: And I feel like he was out of town right

622
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: because it's like we've been to Thailand a lot Thai

623
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: people in different Asian countries have been fascinated by certain things.

624
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: Half of my Thailand trip behind my out and I

625
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: think a lot of people were like wanting to look

626
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: or interested or wanted to see her. Bro I'm sorry,

627
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: you're bringing it to a fucking Asian country. No, no, no,

628
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm bringing you in being somewhere out these white being

629
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: somewhere else. I feel like it's more tolerable. Nah, bitch,

630
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: that you got to teach them niggas are history. I

631
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: don't really know that you know what happened in the

632
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: us the Bay weird, But I learned about slavery in

633
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: other countries. No, and I don't think they give a

634
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: fuck do they edit don't they don't learn about slavery.

635
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: I mean, we learned about the Home pol We learned

636
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,239
Speaker 1: about it, but we learned about the Vietnamese War. Did

637
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: you see the clip of the black dude? We learned

638
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: by interviewing the woman who didn't know nigga was a

639
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,479
Speaker 1: bad word. And you don't know that she was kind

640
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: of sexy the little Arabic ground. She's like, yeah, what

641
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Speaker 1: am I saying? What do you mean? I hate it

642
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: and I love He was like it, bitch, it's a

643
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: very American thing, too low key, Like, don't be knowing

644
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: that I hate it?

645
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: Anyways, because you guys are probably looking for love in

646
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Speaker 2: the twenty twenty six.

647
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: In the twenty six twenty six, I want to.

648
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: Shout out our producer for this segment. So our reactionary

649
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 2: comes from Barry Oo and Tier. He sent me a

650
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: clip of a guy saying these are the questions that

651
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: will give you all the answers you.

652
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: Need on a date. And I want to know if

653
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: you agree with him.

654
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, he said these are the only five questions

655
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: if you really want to know what you want to

656
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 2: know about a nigga, like if you're married, if y'all

657
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: are compack, if you're married, you got you gotta ask,

658
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 2: bro at this what I ain't going?

659
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: No, you know what a question? Does any woman think

660
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: she's your girl? No? No, no, no, you got to

661
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: ask if these niggas married? Okay, okay, here we go

662
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: check number three.

663
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Speaker 3: Oh wait, let me on too heavy on some of

664
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Speaker 3: these first dates. Let me give you five light first

665
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 3: date questions and you can still find out what you

666
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: want to find out, just in a lightweight Number one.

667
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 3: What's a perfect weekend for you? That's a lifestyle check?

668
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 3: Number two, planner or go with the flow type person?

669
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 3: That's a compatibility check. Number three? What are you into

670
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 3: right now? That's an interest check? Number four? How do

671
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 3: you like to communicate?

672
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: That's asking?

673
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: Then finally, what's a green flag you look for? That's

674
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 3: a value checkat These are five light questions you can

675
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: ask on the first date.

676
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: What do you think is the most important? One? For me?

677
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: It's for me it is I like the how do

678
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: you like to communicate?

679
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,479
Speaker 2: Because when you first start meeting someone, I don't think

680
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 2: people realize how quickly you create a pattern and how

681
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 2: you're going to move forward talking.

682
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 3: So like.

683
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, like with actor Bay, our first way that we

684
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 2: started talking was FaceTime moving forward, that's how we communicated.

685
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: It was always on FaceTime, whether we were on the

686
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: phone for ten minutes or on the phone for three hours.

687
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 2: And then there's been other partners where we only.

688
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: Communicate via text to where they don't even feel like

689
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 1: they have to pick up a phone call because that's

690
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: not how you communicate.

691
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 2: So for me, I think how do you communicate is

692
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 2: a really important one. But also starting those out early.

693
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: So ladies, if you like to talk on the phone

694
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: with a man that you're in a relationship with, and

695
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 1: you really like a guy that you just met, you

696
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: probably immediately need to start the habits of him answering

697
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: your calls of y'all talking on those phone is actually

698
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: very toxic for me to say, but I actually don't

699
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: care how you like to communicate. No, I that's why

700
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: I but that's what I'm saying in it.

701
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: As a woman, if you like a man communicating with

702
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: you a certain way, it's important to a ask that question.

703
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 2: But started out the gate if you like to be

704
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: on the phone with your man, don't turn it into

705
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 2: multiple conversations via text, because a man is going to

706
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: get comfortable texting you.

707
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 1: So for me, out of those things, actually, point blank,

708
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: no matter how serious relationship could be, if it's only

709
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: in text, I actually find it to be a little

710
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: bit of an afterthought.

711
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: I think that, oh yeah, and if you good relationship

712
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: urgent like me, oh bitch, depending on what mood I'm

713
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: in at that very moment that you text me, not

714
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: even the tone. For me, I get in these things

715
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: where I'll see a message, and depending on how my

716
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 2: brain at the very moment is operating, I just won't respond.

717
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how much I even like them. I

718
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: get anxiety by certain text messages and things, and so

719
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 2: if I'm not in the mood to text, I won't

720
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: and I'll go back to my phone and then answer

721
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: like five or six at a time, but I go

722
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: I have sense where I don't want to communicate, so

723
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: to me, a phone call will get you an immediate

724
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 2: I even answer emails before texts.

725
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't do well with text messages that are a

726
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: little too open and did like, hey, what am I

727
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: gonna do? With this, like what they hid back? No, like,

728
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: what do you want? Start the hey? The thing to

729
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: say I need this. I think that's like a nudge.

730
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: Then do what you want need to do. But the

731
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: hey doesn't get responses from me. But you're also not

732
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: dating right now. I guess you have your partners, so

733
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: it's a little different. I mean, but you childly, you

734
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: thought the women that you want to eat they kuchi girl.

735
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that's been a twenty twenty

736
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 1: five thing that's continuing. I would say this is the

737
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: most I've ever kept a relationship private and the things

738
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: that I do. However, I believe my relationship is so

739
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: successful because whatever I share, I like go over for real,

740
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: and I've been able to leave situations and scenarios out.

741
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 2: Oh I told you that's what I would do, like

742
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: moving forward. That's why I like y'all here a little

743
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 2: bit over on the Patreot. But the way I'm navigating

744
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: my like, I am actually being way more considerate with

745
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 2: what I share on here, Like I have to ask first,

746
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 2: can I share, Like even ask my mama.

747
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: You see, I just asked my whole girl I could

748
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: share her tea on my fame like we listen and

749
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: we just it's actually been fun. What it's really been

750
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: fun for is like the Turks and Kkos thing a

751
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: few weeks ago. My friend isn't really When I got

752
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: industry friends, may hey, no, and then my other friends

753
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: were like, whatever, as long as they don't this isn't

754
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: real to them. No, as long as they don't know, Like,

755
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: but uh, what I was gonna say for mine would

756
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: be the perfect weekend I have five Okay. The largest

757
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: issue to me that I never clocked while falling in

758
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: love with somebody was hospital Dick. We were completely incompatible

759
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: in our leisure time and what we like to do,

760
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: the way that the rate I like to go out,

761
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: whether it be travel, how I like to spend time

762
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: when someone's a homebody. I never really got to learn

763
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: that because we were falling in love dating being out.

764
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: He worked in hospitality, so I was seeing him out

765
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: in that way a lot, but that wasn't necessarily something

766
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: he liked to do all the time, and so that,

767
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: however I asked that question in the last few years

768
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 1: of my dating life, hasn't made it successful for him.

769
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, for sure, Like that's what I like

770
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: about quarters, Like he he came here to New York

771
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 2: for Christmas, which is why I couldn't last minute get

772
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: his ass to join me in Curis Out. But then

773
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 2: also like, he'll like just go to Miami for a

774
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 2: weekend and he'd be pushing on his close friends and

775
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: he had the little thoughts dancing. I said, Oh, you

776
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: lit nigga, Like he does game nights, he does things

777
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 2: that I enjoy doing.

778
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: He travels, he gets out the fucking house. I also

779
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: like to know that you're doing shit that I like

780
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: to do before you met me. Like, I like that too,

781
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: introducing to somebody to things. It's cool, but like, eh,

782
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: I kind of liked now, don't get me wrong, I

783
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: don't want you to know all my moves. Like one

784
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: of my homegirls just posted on her close friends and

785
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: I laughed about it because I was like, yeah, bitch,

786
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: you're meeting them there. She's like, I just ran into

787
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: three dudes I dated. New York is too small, and

788
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, bitch, New York is too small. You

789
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: hit raise, you're hitting up the same shit, and you

790
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: bringing niggas to the same shit you like to do.

791
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: How many times can you go to dumballa with your homegirls,

792
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: meet a guy at Dumbala with your homegirls, and then

793
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 1: go to Dumbala looking for a new nigga. Oh, I

794
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold you.

795
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 2: That's how I felt the last time I went to

796
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 2: f C k W. Chall said, oh, not three niggas here.

797
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: I don't fuck uh bitch, gotta go, And I did.

798
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: I spoke to all of them. But what's crazy is

799
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: what's crazy is I was like, this is how I

800
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: know I'm shallow.

801
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 2: They were the only three niggas in the whole establishment

802
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 2: that I would have even talked to. Well, duh, they're

803
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 2: my type, but no one else was even my type.

804
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: So I was like, ain't nobody else?

805
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: You know, whenever I go out with my like lit

806
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: la homegirls and we go to a spine, like damn,

807
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: he looked good, She's like, you know I already got

808
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: that nigga. You like that?

809
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 2: Oh, I let my friends know you can have him now,

810
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 2: like especially like one of them I fucked when I

811
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 2: lived up here. He lives in Atlanta now and I'll

812
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 2: be seeing him out and I'd be like, I be

813
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 2: like my friends, olt girl, his.

814
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: Dick is biggest fuck. He just laying so I don't

815
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: like when he talked, like, just shut up. Okay, you

816
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: know what, just smile with your dimples.

817
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: And I.

818
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: Recently told my man about a friend of mine. He

819
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: was like, she did that. That's some weird ass hater shit. Okay,

820
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: it was weird hater shit. Okay. So one of my homegirls.

821
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: This is a very old story, but I brought it

822
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: up to him because it was relevant in our conversation

823
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 1: at the time. This when I lived in Hell's kitchen.

824
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: She was crashing out bottle Baby, and I didn't know

825
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: what he looked like. I think because they met at

826
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: a club or something. Yeah, I'd never seen him, but

827
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 1: she was just super upset about him. A year later,

828
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: I meet a nigga on Tinder. Because I was on

829
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: Tender back then, I get I don't talk to her

830
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: all the time. So by third or fourth date, her

831
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 1: and I link up for cocktails and I'm sharing with

832
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: her what he looks like and I have the tender profile. Okay.

833
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, that's one oak guy. I

834
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh shit. She's like, did you fuck him already?

835
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: And I'm like no, but did you No? I didn't, okay,

836
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: And she's like well, I don't care. His dick was

837
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: little anyway, it was like some gummy shit and like

838
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: he was just whatever. He was act confused, and I'm like, okay,

839
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: you sure you know my life. She's like no, so boom,

840
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: she knows I'm meeting up with him on Saturday, because

841
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 1: before this whole thing happens. I'm like, okay, well, let

842
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: me talk about new nigga. Sturday we linking out, We

843
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: got a hotel. A Saturday comes, she calls me at

844
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: like three pm with some huge issue. She really needs advice,

845
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: she really needs someone to talk to, and I'm just like,

846
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: she know I'm going out with this nigga, and we

847
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 1: have our whole hotel date plan. We're gonna be on

848
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: the Upper East Side doing our all day and staying

849
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: at a hotel by the park, obviously because he's ready

850
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: to fuck. So I'm like, yo, I know why she

851
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: doing this shit because you know I'm about to link

852
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: with this nigga and she's just trying to catch She's

853
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,800
Speaker 1: just trying to get some tea. So boom, Well, I

854
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: have sex with him and I don't mention her to him.

855
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: The next day we wake up, I'm like, yo, have

856
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: you ever met that you fucked him? And then asked

857
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: him if you fucked up because I didn't want it

858
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: to be like weird for him because she didn't give

859
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: a fuck. It was a year ago. He claims she

860
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: ain't give a fuck, but she she was a your

861
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: phone trying to deter the date people be live. I

862
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: didn't want to bring her up to him because it

863
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: felt to like my friend says da da da, And

864
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: I didn't know what kind of mess and she's a

865
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: little messy. Next day, I'm like, you know, He's like,

866
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: now she does have a people have her name. But

867
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, she does X, y Z,

868
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh yeah, she's a cool girl. I

869
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: was like, oh, did you guys date and he goes nope.

870
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, really, I told you it's the D word.

871
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: But dating is so different for different people. Bro, the

872
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: word date is crazy. We got to eliminate that word

873
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: twenty six way way because I know because I agree,

874
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: we have to clarify. And you and I have been

875
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: potted now and every time you say date, I'm like, bro,

876
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: it ain't dat. So I said to him, hate the

877
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: word date. Are you sure you didn't date. He's like, like,

878
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: we're doing I said, yes, like we're doing he said no, no, no,

879
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm like okay. He's like, I'm assuming you must have

880
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: talked to her about me. I said, well, I went

881
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: out with her, showed her a photo of you, and

882
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 1: I just realized and she said, Yo, Dick was gummy.

883
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 1: Were you honest with him? No, but I said, I said,

884
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: she told me that. She said, Yo, Dick is gummy.

885
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: That ain't even good. Wait this way me and my mom.

886
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 1: So I said yes, I shared with her, like your profile,

887
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: and I'm excited and he's like, oh yeah, she cool,

888
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, so she seemed really upset at the year.

889
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: I remember, like when y'all met. He was like, I

890
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: would see her in the club. I used to get

891
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,479
Speaker 1: tables all the time, back in the day when Apple

892
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: Spot was open. And maybe we slept together one time,

893
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: he said, can't even remember. Maybe we slept together, he said.

894
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: The reason he couldn't remember, He's like, we were really

895
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: was gummy. He said, we were really fucked up. And

896
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: there was other people there. He's like, I don't even

897
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 1: want to, you know, make you feel uncomfortable. But another

898
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: girl she knew was probably there too, and I'm like, oh,

899
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: he's like, so I don't remember if I fucked her

900
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: or a friend, bitch, mind you, here's why the ship

901
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: was tea. She said his dick was gummy and he

902
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: was lame. He was this bick ass dick, bitch, big, beautiful, veiny,

903
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: nice chocolity dick. To be fair, the dicks that we

904
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 1: get as women are not all created equal. Like the

905
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 1: dick that I get ain't gonna be the dick that

906
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: another bitch get.

907
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 2: If you feel me, like I told you my number

908
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 2: one day told me, I'll make his dick the hardest,

909
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 2: So like I can fuck somebody and think the dick

910
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: is amazing, and my homegirl, fuck it is.

911
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: She has a completely different experience because she's said gummy

912
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: and small. No.

913
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: But but if they were lit like he said, because

914
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 2: he doesn't remember, Bro, we talked about handy dick. We

915
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: talked about dicks that like sometimes the man doesn't get

916
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: hard over anxiety. There's performance anxiety. There's all these things

917
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: like dick that you get ain't gonna be the dick

918
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: that I get.

919
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: Okay, right first, I agree, But what I do think

920
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: when a girl says, where you just said, oh, you

921
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: can fuck to your homegirls. We have to start. If

922
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: you know it's really a problem, bitch, you need to

923
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: speak now or hold jo people. Well, no, it's to

924
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: be a problem. Take it up with your therapist, go

925
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 1: to the lady. Because the nigga that you didn't really

926
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: talk to very long, he didn't even say y'all de worded.

927
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: Then that means worded. Bro, we gotta do d word that.

928
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to say date in twenty twenty six.

929
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 2: But if it's a guy that ended up not being nothing,

930
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: you might want to appen it didn't work out for you.

931
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 2: We gotta also work on not not making our friends

932
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 2: miss out on their so many.

933
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: I also there, I completely agree with that, and I

934
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: also just really want to say I think that the

935
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: larger issue from it came because when me and my

936
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: man is digging into it, did you ever tell her that,

937
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: by the way, was good. The reason when I tell

938
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: her that Dick was big long time, I told her

939
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: shit because I was just like, oh, he was really hating.

940
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: The reason it came up is because she did some

941
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: other hater shit and I was like, baby, I gotta

942
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: tell you about some shit. The hell did a few

943
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 1: years ago. But you the first word like casual, Like

944
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 1: it's not like we're not dogs. But one of the

945
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: things that we clocked in that moment, he was like, oh,

946
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: you approached the conversation by saying the nice dates the

947
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: nigga took you on, how y'all were getting along? Mind you,

948
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: we maybe even on three or four dates. And one

949
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: of the conversations that was going on was where we

950
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: want to travel to and he's like, okay, let's do

951
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: a little mini vacation here in the city. He's like,

952
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: if this bitch couldn't get him to give her a

953
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: call back.

954
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 2: So this is so funny that you bring this up.

955
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 2: Let me tell you about a conversation that I literally

956
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: had last night. So mea corns that we're talking about, Like,

957
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: he was asking me a lot about my other boyfriends,

958
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,399
Speaker 2: and then I was asking him about the last person

959
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: that he was seeing.

960
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: So he shows me a picture. She cute.

961
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 2: She not me, but she's cute. But it was so

962
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: crazy because I was like, well, why did y'all stop talking?

963
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 2: And mind you, I had to tell him about himself.

964
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 2: So I said, well, why did y'all stop talking? And

965
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 2: he said, well, we met at a bar and she

966
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: lived nearby he lives. He lives out of Sandy Springs,

967
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: and so they were like seeing each other. I was like, okay,

968
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: and so what happened? He was like, she started getting

969
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 2: like an attitude with me. It really weird with me,

970
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 2: because she would.

971
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 1: Like want to link, like as I'm leaving her, she'd

972
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 1: want to be like, when am I seeing you again?

973
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 2: And he was like, bro, we were just kicking it,

974
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 2: like they weren't. They weren't going on dates, but they

975
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 2: were fucking.

976
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: And so she the last time he went to her house,

977
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: she got an attitude with him because she was like, well,

978
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: when can I see you again? I want to see

979
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: you this date. And he was like, I don't plan

980
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: for pleasure. He was like, I'll let you know. Hold on.

981
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: He was like, I'll let you know how I feel

982
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: that day if we could see each other. But like,

983
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to plan, Like that's weird. Like I

984
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: could wake up and not want to fuck. I could

985
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: wake up and not be in a good mood. And

986
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: he started having all these excuses. So I'm listening to

987
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 1: what he said to her, and I was like, how

988
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: old was she around my age? Bruh. I told him.

989
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: I said, you know, you want to know what's crazy.

990
00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,040
Speaker 2: We knew we were going to be together today. I

991
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 2: knew we were gonna be together the last time. We

992
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: kicked it because we made plans. You planned pleasure for

993
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 2: me because you fuck with me. And I said, a

994
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: woman my age knows when a nigga either likes them

995
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 2: or does it. And I said, I couldn't imagine right

996
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: now at my big age telling the man I want

997
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 2: to see him to give him pussy, and he's saying,

998
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna want it that day,

999
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: I'll let you know. I said, that's literally you telling

1000
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 2: her you not pressed to be around her. You not

1001
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 2: pressed the fuck her.

1002
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,879
Speaker 1: You're not even willing enough to pencil her into your

1003
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,799
Speaker 1: schedule because you're really not that interested because something else

1004
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: may come up, because.

1005
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 2: Someone else may come up, or you just really not

1006
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,959
Speaker 2: She's not a priority. And I said, when a woman

1007
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: gets that type of response, it's she's smart, because a

1008
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,919
Speaker 2: lot of you bitches be dumb. If a nigga says

1009
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna want to fuck you

1010
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 2: two days from now, I'll let you know.

1011
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: He's just not that interested.

1012
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 2: So the fact that in his mind he was like,

1013
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 2: I'm not the type of person that plans for pleasure,

1014
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 2: I said, oh, nigga, we both said we was excited

1015
00:46:58,400 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: about fucking right, Oh, we could go.

1016
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: And the other thing, too, is how women crash out

1017
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,439
Speaker 1: on realizing you can do those things for the women

1018
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: like no. And that's the thing I heard. If he

1019
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: wanted to, he would, and he normally will and does

1020
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: with other women. Just not you. Do you know what

1021
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: else a woman who's smart enough knows a nigga saying

1022
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: I don't plan for pleasure.

1023
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: Nigga, you telling me when them niggas go over to

1024
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: dr for the forty five dollar pussy, they not getting

1025
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 2: they standing already, so fuck them forty five dollars prostitutes.

1026
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 2: Like a man will go on a vacation and plan

1027
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 2: to have fun. A man will literally plan to fly

1028
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 2: a woman in or fly out to go see someone.

1029
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: Men plan and are excited about being around people that

1030
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 2: they're excited around being.

1031
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: And the problem is we accept these crumbs mainly because

1032
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 1: I did. Let's be very clear. When I was talking

1033
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: to him, I was like, ill you mean to tell me?

1034
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: You you the type of nigga that only want to

1035
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 1: give her dick when you want to give.

1036
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 2: Her tick, and she just got to accept that, and

1037
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 2: I was like, that was me, bitch. I used to

1038
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 2: only see a nigga when he flew.

1039
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:07,800
Speaker 1: Me out with star Like. I was like, ew, that

1040
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: was me, just literally.

1041
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 2: Nick when a nigga made himself available to give me dick,

1042
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, yuck.

1043
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 1: And as I was saying it out loud, I said, oh, bitch,

1044
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 1: I'm glad I grew. I'm glad I learned, because I

1045
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: don't know if you know in terms of what their

1046
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: relationship is, if it's strictly fucked buddy shit. Well I

1047
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: think he wanted that. But after fucking with somebody four

1048
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: or five times, most women, where are we going from here? Yeah,

1049
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: you gotta get him out of the house. Pebbie, where

1050
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: are we going from here? You ain't going nowhere?

1051
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: That even that, it was so interesting, Like it's funny

1052
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 2: because when I first backwards, Zip, I was like, we

1053
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:43,959
Speaker 2: need to meet at a bar. I'm not just pulling

1054
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 2: up to your house. And so I did my little

1055
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 2: espresso martini flight. And then the next time he cooked

1056
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 2: me that little shrimp off right on his cue.

1057
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: Dude, I give up a pissy first. Oh no, I'm

1058
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I was like, oh,

1059
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: not mind you. It was I didn't know it was

1060
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: a TikTok thing, but she made me to marry me

1061
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: Pas Shrimp and Paul. Oh my god. I was like,

1062
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: these fucking young niggas, bitch, I just married me chicken.

1063
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: I've married me he he I'm thinking he just we

1064
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: was married to the toilet. I said, I married me chicken.

1065
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna lie. He put a lot of seasons and that,

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00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 1: and I felt real old because I said, you know

1067
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: the reflux, bitch, I said, God damn know some casus

1068
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: seasons on they God damn shrimp. No, God, that was

1069
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: a wash thing. But I'm sitting here with bind you.

1070
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: But I told you what I did, like. I told

1071
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: you what I did like huh.

1072
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,919
Speaker 2: I stood up naked after we fucked, and he asked

1073
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 2: me if I had a BVL and I said, no, baby, this.

1074
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Speaker 1: Is this is grown woman body. Baby, there's a grown

1075
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: woman body. Okay, keep cooking that, marr. This is what

1076
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: happened when you deal with a bitch of a decade

1077
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: older than you. Okay, you know, I think young niggas

1078
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 1: they love a little thing. No, no, no, no. If

1079
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: they're dealing with a bitch, there's mid thirties they like

1080
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: are they Oh it's a whole new thing. But yellow untie.

1081
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: Oh no, I saw that. I saw ed. Did you

1082
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 1: see the internet saying that that that BBO. Now show

1083
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: what generation you're in, because it's like the thirty and

1084
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: forty year olds have the BBL. I feel like that

1085
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: makes sense because it was our era. We were too

1086
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: talking about starlets. When I was like saying that there

1087
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: was a guy that was always eating women at Starlets.

1088
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: Bro went to starlets. I'm gonna tell you right now,

1089
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: I knew from every BBL, every makeup style, everybody. It was.

1090
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: If they can't even do young, oh no, it already looked.

1091
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Speaker 2: Like that, it's thirty. I would say it's thirty three

1092
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Speaker 2: to forty three. Those are the bitches that literally all

1093
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 2: went to the same doctor.

1094
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Speaker 1: They was a yield. They d r done thirty and under.

1095
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Speaker 1: I know, I'd say, you like, there's also I say

1096
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Speaker 1: twenty eight. You know how there's like young fashioned niggas

1097
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: Like the Drew Ski video. He's like, yeah, this is

1098
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: come to girl, and this is like rick Like how

1099
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: they wear low ski mask. The bitches got that too,

1100
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: the ones that wear the fucking micro skirts with the thong.

1101
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, no, no, they dress. They dressed like

1102
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: Y two K Christina. There's a young horror and there's

1103
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:09,240
Speaker 1: an old horror.

1104
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 2: No there is then there's Oh when I go out

1105
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 2: when they when they all look like they're just like Tyler.

1106
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 2: They got the furry boots with the little mini skirts,

1107
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: with the little I'm like this, bitch twenty four. But

1108
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 2: I could tell the old holes because they're still bringing

1109
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 2: out the goddamn cruel summers. They got the giuseppies deep

1110
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 2: in their closets. Bitch, I could tell, Oh, ho are

1111
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: they out with the cruels? I've seeing them dnngs, girl,

1112
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 2: don't do that.

1113
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: Hold on. I like my dnng's home, Okay, I like

1114
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: a little dough chackabye, bitch, oh hoole shit, oh shit,

1115
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 1: don't take about it. Actually, o hos like Bendy like

1116
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: they like the label. They like the lame luxury house.

1117
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,800
Speaker 1: You get a young hole. Now she's into the me

1118
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: stuff like they want the non label. Fucking alayah ayah ship. Yeah,

1119
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: they like that we're fuck the young ho I'm riding

1120
00:51:53,680 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: because we fucking on the same niggas. Bitch. Anyway, Uh,

1121
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: let's go ahead and wrap this up. How we want

1122
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 1: to wrap this up. Let people know that we got

1123
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 1: mashed over on the Patreon. Oh, I'm like girl the

1124
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: way we always do it. Oh yeah, Hey, that much

1125
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: of a New Year, new mead, bitch, just because to

1126
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: me is new year, new hairstyle. Well, bitch, I'm still

1127
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: the same bitch o Okay it is.

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1138
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Speaker 1: Uh, you want to tell them all you think you're

1144
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: in New York City coming visit trap House. It's not

1145
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 1: just reformer pilates and lifting anymore. Now we got yo.

1146
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: She said she kicked that white man out from upstairs.

1147
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: She owned the building. I have to call the police

1148
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: on myself, bitch, because who turn it? Yeah, I bet

1149
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: I was in there the doom this morning. I was like,

1150
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: that's crazy if you just swore he was a racist. Mandy. Yeah,

1151
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 1: I know you have two Latina trainers. It's very trap

1152
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: costl bit. You better turn out on that bad bone.

1153
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Speaker 1: Listen anyway, come through. We have a bunch of new

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1157
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Speaker 2: our homeel segment, and again join us on Patriot.

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