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Speaker 3: He's followed me for a long time and he's kind

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Speaker 1: And a lot of people disagree. I'm as a single person,

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what we don't have airplanes and cars like,

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Speaker 3: First of all, I didn't even ask for this.

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Speaker 3: Part of this, but I like, for like an hour,

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Speaker 1: Because it's it's just easier than having to answer questions

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah that's fair. I mean this homewrecker, Fred.

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Speaker 1: Someone texted, No, I'm not the homewrecker because I don't

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Speaker 5: But have you ever willingly agreed to like be the

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Speaker 2: No, I've never had been involved with the fall and affair.

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Speaker 2: They wreck in style. You're not a homeworkor now.

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Speaker 1: So it makes me wonder if they were ever. But

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, I don't know, And why is

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'll find her, give me, give me his info. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't like. I think I'm just gonna respectfully like

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Speaker 1: I don't have the kind of person, Klin that would

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Speaker 2: Would you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm a girl's girl, Like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I don't care what your arrangement is.

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Speaker 2: You need the facts, Like, I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll take a little survey eight five five five

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Speaker 1: Is a single party respect like me? I'm single guy?

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Speaker 1: recall the rules there which anyway, yes, So can you

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Speaker 2: By the way, is okay when you're in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean so much wrong with that? You

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not actively doing it, but if I chose to, Lord,

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Speaker 1: I want people to be objective here, because of course,

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Speaker 1: Do you really expect the single person to be like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I want out of this. Not an instant thing. And

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Speaker 1: So a text eight five five, five nine one one

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Speaker 1: I'm guilty for being married and trying to flirt with Fred. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's fine, it's not on you to keep others in check.

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Speaker 2: But I do.

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Speaker 1: Let everybody know it's good. It is not our single

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Speaker 1: Big Tim is asking. That's asking.

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Speaker 5: I've been a relationship, but I am technically single. If

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Speaker 2: I would like to see that. I would love to

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Speaker 2: do that. You should see the DM. I'm like, put

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Speaker 2: some cloves on. She's like, you want to make a swirl?

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Speaker 5: Dad?

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Speaker 2: You want to keep your ships weird.

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Speaker 1: It's like the HR video. Yeah, she's like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: it on.

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Speaker 2: Like she's like, Frid, stop flirting. I'm in that relationship,

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Speaker 2: right right.

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Speaker 1: And then when I'm like all right, let's go, she's like,

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Speaker 1: but I have a boyfriend, childred. The single person does

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Speaker 1: not have to respect it, but they should. It's on

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Speaker 2: I don't want that house.

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Speaker 1: You got flies, you got slamming doors, old fridges. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I do believe it was because I believe in spirits.

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Speaker 3: Rates like economy, so they're squatting right, would bother me though,

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Speaker 1: And apparently drank a lot of Jim Beam and Jack

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Speaker 1: This is something that men will never understand, and I

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Speaker 4: of was more comfortable with the idea.

439
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:49,320
Speaker 2: My mom would not.

440
00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 3: Be seeing handwashing them like everyone else hand washing and

441
00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,040
Speaker 3: let him out to dry in my bedroom because you

442
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:55,560
Speaker 3: don't want to put them in the laundry and mom

443
00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:56,440
Speaker 3: did laundry.

444
00:18:56,520 --> 00:19:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she didn't see the clothesline in your bedroom.

445
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,000
Speaker 1: School project.

446
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:07,040
Speaker 4: But I actually warned them wet because I couldn't drive

447
00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:07,640
Speaker 4: them in time.

448
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,600
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

449
00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,639
Speaker 2: Yeah no, but I know a lot of girls do that.

450
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,280
Speaker 3: They would wa wash them privately because they would want

451
00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,080
Speaker 3: to go to Victoria's Secret and someway.

452
00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,720
Speaker 2: You would want like the bedazzled like super sexual one.

453
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,199
Speaker 3: Sometimes you don't want your mom to see, and so

454
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 3: you would hand wash.

455
00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,159
Speaker 1: Yes, Wait, so what did you I guess I wonder like,

456
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,760
Speaker 1: as a woman, what did you have to hide from

457
00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:27,200
Speaker 1: your mom?

458
00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,520
Speaker 2: What did you? I know, how old were you when

459
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,960
Speaker 2: your mom passed away? Nine? Okay, so you were not.

460
00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 5: My sister was my mom though, Okay, she still is

461
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:36,080
Speaker 5: my mom to this day.

462
00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,000
Speaker 1: So then what kind of conversation, like did she stop

463
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:40,159
Speaker 1: you from any of that kind of stuff?

464
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, I like them.

465
00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 5: I tried to go through the whole it's time to

466
00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 5: wear a thong face, and I went and bought me

467
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,720
Speaker 5: a thong, honey, and that thing was so big.

468
00:19:52,200 --> 00:20:02,160
Speaker 1: He had too big thong. We know we're supposed to.

469
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:09,320
Speaker 2: I got away with mine. It wasn't supposed to be

470
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:15,119
Speaker 2: a yeah, so there you have it.

471
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I got away with hiding because I think

472
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,160
Speaker 5: she thought it was like a top.

473
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 2: So you wouldn't get it, and you didn't know what

474
00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 2: size again.

475
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 5: Oh baby, no, I'm just I've always been fluffy, so

476
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,800
Speaker 5: my thongs didn't look as cute as like Kaylin's song.

477
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. So when I got it,

478
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 5: she didn't know if it was like a head wrap.

479
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I hidn't mind for a very long time,

480
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 2: but they were. It was so uncomfortable.

481
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 5: I was like, this is not sexy or cute, so

482
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 5: I'm gonna just put this back and I just stopped

483
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 5: wearing that thing.

484
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, and then at.

485
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 1: What point did you figure it out to get the

486
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 1: right size or never?

487
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:00,679
Speaker 2: I think what your missing friend? It was the right size.

488
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 2: It was just bigger, too big on you. Okay, got it.

489
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,719
Speaker 5: It was just yeah, big girl thongs look a little different,

490
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:09,640
Speaker 5: like you know what I'm saying.

491
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: You just you know, it's literally a sling shot. So

492
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 2: it's like not even that.

493
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 1: Sex multi purpose. Yeah, yeah, but I don't think we

494
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: have there's no equivalent. I can't remember hiding anything from

495
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, clothing wise, I can't remember hiding

496
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 1: anything from her. Really, I don't know. There was no

497
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 1: like ride of passage stuff. No, and I don't think

498
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: my sister did it either, but she was a dancer,

499
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,919
Speaker 1: so I think it was just that they had that anyway.

500
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean thongs for us, Shaving your legs was

501
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 3: like a thing that some people either did secretly or

502
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 3: had to talk to them ear piercing yours up bras.

503
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 2: Oh your eighebrow?

504
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 4: God, Yeah, I shave my eyebrow because I didn't know

505
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 4: how to use a plucker to like pluck my eyebrows.

506
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: Wouldn't teach you that well, I.

507
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 4: Was shy to ask, so for that I should have asked,

508
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 4: because she like did it anyway from me?

509
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 2: After that day, I shaved it.

510
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 4: We just sat down and had to fix some stuff

511
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 4: like shaving the legs. I didn't use water because I

512
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 4: didn't know I taught my same. Yes, Yeah, I was bad.

513
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 2: Wow, Oh my god, I can see. I guess.

514
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: I guess I can't see why a mom would argue

515
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 1: that a young women shouldn't wear one, like I guess

516
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 1: I get because I would think it would would be

517
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 1: men who would sexualize a thong like I could see

518
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: as a dad being like you're wearing Granny and whoe

519
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: over the rest of your life. Like I don't, I

520
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: don't care lines whatever, Fine, I don't. We don't because

521
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,360
Speaker 1: in my mind, I don't think of it the same

522
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: way you guys do. Now I do because I know

523
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 1: all of you and I have a sister, But like

524
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 1: I realize there are outfits that you know it only

525
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: works with, and I understand you don't want the lines,

526
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: and there are situations for it that have nothing to

527
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: do with being sexy. Yeah, but a mom, I guess

528
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that wouldn't be an open conversation.

529
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 2: With all moms.

530
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 3: I also remember that makeup was a really big deal

531
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 3: for my friends and I, like you, like there were

532
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 3: strong restrictions on like if you could wear a makeup

533
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 3: or not a strong lip color, and so girls would

534
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 3: like hide it in their little purse at school, you know,

535
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: because they weren't allowed to do it.

536
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

537
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 5: What the thong thing, though, I think the problem is,

538
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 5: I know I wanted to wear a thong because like

539
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 5: it was sexy and I was trying to be very grown.

540
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 5: I saw breaking spears and everybody had low cut jeans

541
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 5: see their So I'm like, I'm gonna go to school

542
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 5: and like let my little thong hang out. So I

543
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 5: think that's my moms are like, you shouldn't have this

544
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 5: because you're doing it for the wrong reasons. Like I

545
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 5: was not worried about panty liones, honey, I was trying

546
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 5: to show that thing.

547
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: I want to say, like I have thos. Did you

548
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 2: guys notice anything different? We have a thong on? Right,

549
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 2: I'm a whole different woman talk to me nice.

550
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:36,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but I'm sorry. I can't get out

551
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 1: of my head the idea of you putting the thong

552
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: on them over the shoulders and you're like, why you.

553
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: Went too backpacks to school? It was so lucy. I

554
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 2: don't know why. I don't know why. I was like, yeah,

555
00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: these are not for me, Like these are not enough

556
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 2: for me. It was so losing big. I was like,

557
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: it was it was just big. Yeah, and I'm big

558
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 2: and it's big. It just was a lot going on

559
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 2: that I didn't need. I mean, I need full coverage.

560
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 2: Love you so much, Let's come back.

561
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 1: We'll do the fun fac next, More Fresh Show next.

562
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: And I'm a fan. They talk better than these are

563
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: the radio blogs on the Fresh Show.

564
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: Is it We're to be a fan of something but

565
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: then not want that person to do anything. Not in

566
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: this case, because I'm just worried, Yeah, about what might happen.

567
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't know if we should be supporting or

568
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 2: not face on our recent experience.

569
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, blogs like writing in our diaries. I'm going to

570
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: do one, dear blog. So my sister is can be

571
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: very evasive on the facetimes. I think she's a very

572
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: boundaried woman, maybe a little overly boundaried, but like, we

573
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: get access to Polly and to her when she on

574
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 1: sit like, I don't know. There's no one in my

575
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: life who won't answer the phone as much as Amanda,

576
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: and I think it's intentional. I think sometimes she just

577
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: puts the phone away and is like, we're not doing

578
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: this now, and that's fine. But the problem is you

579
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: have the christ Child, right, you gave birth to the

580
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: next generation, and we're all obsessed with her, which is

581
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: what you want. And you know you take you take

582
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: our gifts. You don't seem to have any problems signing

583
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: for those, you know. So then when I want access

584
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: to the child, give me access to the child. Nonetheless,

585
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: I did get a call yesterday, or call back, i

586
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: should say. And in the evenings, around six o'clock, they

587
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: take Polly's clothes off of her and it's about time

588
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 1: for bath, and she runs around and is naked girl,

589
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: and she likes being naked girl, and that's what she'll

590
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: say that like, so she'll like, I'll call and then

591
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 1: they'll turn the phone to her and she'll go, Bobby,

592
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: I'm naked girl, which is clear to me because she's naked.

593
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: But apparently, and I'm so glad she's not old enough

594
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: to know what I'm talking about, because someday I'm gonna

595
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:03,439
Speaker 1: have to stop.

596
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 2: But apparently she's.

597
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: Found her nether region and likes to sort of has

598
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: figured out that, I don't know to what extent, but

599
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: it has figured out that, you know, there's never a

600
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: bad time to.

601
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 2: You remember my story that fails good?

602
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

603
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably around the same age family.

604
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 2: It felt good.

605
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: So yesterday, ohya, tell the story. Tell the story.

606
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: Oh, just a story that my family will never let go.

607
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 3: Is that I came out after a bath in a

608
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 3: towel announced to my entire family extended family.

609
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: That it feels good. Oh wow, you know my hand places. Yeah,

610
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: they'll never let it go. Yeah.

611
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: So here's the thing, though, is that so my sister's

612
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 1: on the couch and I'm looking at my sister on

613
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: the FaceTime and then Polly come sits next to her,

614
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: spreads your legs and then starts kind of did a

615
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: little bit, and my sister and I start laughing because

616
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: I think it's hysterical, and my sister and my brother

617
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: in law's laughing, and my sister is trying so hard

618
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: not to laugh, and she goes, you can't laugh because

619
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: it encourages it because then Polly hears me laughing, and

620
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: then she thinks it's funny and then keeps doing it.

621
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, you just.

622
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: Hear this evil laugh from Pollie, Like, and I don't

623
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: know if we'll have to continue this conversation, maybe tomorrow,

624
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: but I just I wonder, like what did your kid

625
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: do or what sort of stage has your kid gone

626
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: through where it's like I can't I don't want to

627
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: dissuade this exploration because my sister, as a therapist calls

628
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 1: it she's exploring, But like I also like, how do

629
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: you want to laugh because it's funny, but you can't

630
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: laugh because that enables the behavior that you don't really want.

631
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: Other places? Have you found this with Ashland yet?

632
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 1: Oh?

633
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, he it he touches his drunk all the time. Yeah,

634
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 2: you gotta go to the bathroom. No, I'm like, all right, right.

635
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 3: He looks down and he goes, mom my pajamas just

636
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 3: got real tight, and she was like, oh my god.

637
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: Ja for your dad to come home. Like I don't know.

638
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like, my sister, don't laugh at that,

639
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 1: do not laugh, and I'm like, but it's so funny,

640
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,959
Speaker 1: and even my brother in law, you know, And then

641
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: she's laughing too because it is funny, and she gets

642
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: this little evil look on her face like, oh no.

643
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: But I just think like if my kid, kind, if

644
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: I ever had a kid, the things that would it

645
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: would hear he or she would hear and I'm sure

646
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: it would start repeating stuff like profane words and whatever

647
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: else would I don't. I mean, that would be hysterical

648
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: to me. But you can't laugh, of course, because then

649
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: they think it's okay to do it.

650
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. So anyway, that's that's her current stage.

651
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: And again I love telling you stories about her because

652
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: she's not old enough to really know I'm talking about her.

653
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: But there will come a time where she.

654
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: Is yep, and ask her at a certain point, oh

655
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 2: I do yeah, well she got to say no, Well

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Speaker 2: got to ask unless she lives in a different city, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean, until we get syndicated where she lives. That

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Speaker 2: should be good. Right, It's the French show