WEBVTT - Was it the Drunk, Dirty Talk that is getting Charlie Ghosted?

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<v Speaker 1>First Day to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 1>Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Charlie is on the phone today for a first Day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Mary,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm sorry for you, Charlie. I think Charlie and

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<v Speaker 2>Mary is a cute name. It's also it sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>it could be a sitcom name too, Charlie and Mary,

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<v Speaker 2>Charlie and Mary Thursdays on NBC. Anyway, Charlie with some man,

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<v Speaker 2>Hey guys, thanks for having us, Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>For coming on.

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<v Speaker 2>So, before we get into your date with Mary, how

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<v Speaker 2>long has it been since you talked to her.

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<v Speaker 3>It's probably been I'd say like a week at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>And how many times have you tried to reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to her.

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<v Speaker 5>Every day?

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<v Speaker 1>Once every day, multiple times every day then at least

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<v Speaker 1>twice a day. I'd say, Charlie, that feels like a lot. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>It probably is a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I probably started doing it more in

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<v Speaker 3>the last few days because it's like probably the opposite

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<v Speaker 3>of what I should have been doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, So, how did the date go?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I thought it weren't great.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we uh, we just went to like a bar,

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<v Speaker 3>and we had dinner and we were talking the whole time,

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<v Speaker 3>and really I got a really good vibe from her

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<v Speaker 3>that she loved it. And yeah, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 3>honestly one of the best dates I've ever been on.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm really clueless as to what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we'll tell us about the date, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So well, first off, we you know, we met

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<v Speaker 3>on Tinder, who tender, and then we we chatted for

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<v Speaker 3>a while and then we decided, uh, like we even

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<v Speaker 3>talked on the phone a bit, and then we're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's you know, let's let's do this. So I picked

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<v Speaker 3>this this bar that I really like.

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<v Speaker 5>It's usually a winner.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we had dinner and she told me she

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<v Speaker 3>enjoyed all of it, which I could kind of get

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<v Speaker 3>that vibe, and honestly, like we we drank, oh well,

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<v Speaker 3>we pretty much closed the bar down. Is how the

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<v Speaker 3>date went, which is already like usually a great sign.

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<v Speaker 3>And then even better was I walked her out to

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<v Speaker 3>her car, and I was, you know, keep myself contained

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<v Speaker 3>the best of my ability to want to you know,

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<v Speaker 3>make make too crazy of a move.

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<v Speaker 6>But we did make out a little bit, and which

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<v Speaker 6>was again another home run, and then she said she

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<v Speaker 6>would text me when she got home, which she actually when.

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<v Speaker 5>She got home, she didn't text me. She called me.

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<v Speaker 3>She called me, and then we spent literally like two

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<v Speaker 3>a little over two hours just talking on the phone,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was honestly so much fun, which agreed is

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<v Speaker 3>just like a great, you know, nightcap to a date.

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<v Speaker 3>And then before she hung up, she said she'd call

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<v Speaker 3>me the next day and we decide like where to

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<v Speaker 3>go from there and the Yeah, that was a week ago.

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<v Speaker 4>It seems like she was into But you said you

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<v Speaker 4>closed the bar down, So like, on a scale of

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<v Speaker 4>one to ten, how wasted were you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like eight and a half?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So is there anything in that eight and a

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<v Speaker 2>half part of the date that you can or something

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<v Speaker 2>happening that might have turned her off?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been honestly trying to remember for like so many

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<v Speaker 3>hours of the day. I'm just like, what did I do?

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<v Speaker 3>But I can't really grasp anything. No, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 3>really feel like it went well and I didn't make

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<v Speaker 3>a fool myself, I don't think so, Yeah, I got nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there anything from that phone call that could have

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<v Speaker 4>been a flag?

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<v Speaker 7>I definitely did get a little forward in the phone

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<v Speaker 7>call and like, you know, instead like oh like next time,

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<v Speaker 7>like she's just you know, it's got on the rocker

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<v Speaker 7>world or you know, something stupid, probably like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, Yeah, I did get a little dirty in the

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<v Speaker 3>call and that might that might.

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<v Speaker 4>Have done me in.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, And you've heard nothing back from her and you've

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<v Speaker 2>texted her almost every day for a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I haven't heard anything back, no responses. And the

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<v Speaker 3>last thing I pretty much was staying with dirty talk, so.

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<v Speaker 5>You know that.

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<v Speaker 2>M Yeah, I mean you know, I've been there, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been in your shoes and I felt the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like that probably is what did it? And

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<v Speaker 2>I know I never got an answer. So I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing this so we can find out together. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>just take your answer as mine. Now we'll play on

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<v Speaker 2>come back and then call her and see why she's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting you and maybe get you another date in your

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<v Speaker 2>first day follow up.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, awesome, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, man, we'll do it next. A little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of drunk dirty talk might be what did Charlie? And

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us for your first day follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>Charlie is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted my

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<v Speaker 2>woman named Mary for about a week now, and he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't know why. We're about to call her, get her

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone and ask her, and then maybe get

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<v Speaker 2>him another date if he still wants one. Charlie, Before

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<v Speaker 2>we give Mary a call, why do you refresh everybody's

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<v Speaker 2>memory about your date with Mary?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>So now on tender went to a bar, had a

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<v Speaker 3>great time, closed down the bar, made out at her car,

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<v Speaker 3>and then when she got home she called me. We

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<v Speaker 3>dirty talked a little bit, and I haven't heard from

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<v Speaker 3>her since. So that's pretty much where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, we're going to dial her up right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you ready, Charlie, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 2>I may speak to Mary please.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is sure.

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<v Speaker 1>He's calling Mary. How are you? My name is Jewbel,

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<v Speaker 1>host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>Mary, my name is Nina. I'm on the show too.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm Victoria.

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you guys calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever listened to the show before?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you guys calling about Charlie?

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<v Speaker 1>You're answering a question with a question, But I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh over at you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how did you know?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, why else would the radio show be calling

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<v Speaker 5>me from like date day?

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<v Speaker 4>You could have won a prize.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't apply for anything though.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, yes it is one of those.

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<v Speaker 2>We do a segment called the First Day follow Up

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<v Speaker 2>where if you go out on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 2>and end up them, they can email us to get

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<v Speaker 2>you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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<v Speaker 2>And Charlie emailed us about your date. He said he

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<v Speaker 2>really liked you, but he doesn't know why you're not

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<v Speaker 2>getting back to him.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, I like to think like the bar and

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<v Speaker 5>the dinner was cool, and you know, I did really

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<v Speaker 5>like talking to him. He's pretty sexy. He just like

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<v Speaker 5>really hugged me off. Like later when we got home.

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<v Speaker 5>When I got home, what happened, Well, so I was

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<v Speaker 5>going to text him just to say I had a

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<v Speaker 5>really great time after I got home, but I accidentally

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<v Speaker 5>slipped with my hand and I actually hit call, so

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<v Speaker 5>he picked up before I even realized what happened, and

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<v Speaker 5>then he just started talking to me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's usually what happened to Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, I mean he just kept, you know, talking

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<v Speaker 5>a lot, so I just kind of joined in a

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<v Speaker 5>conversation like no harm, no foul, Like I did really

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<v Speaker 5>like talking to him.

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<v Speaker 4>So then what went wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>This is where I got weird. I mean, he started

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<v Speaker 5>like kind of getting into dirty territory. It was kind

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<v Speaker 5>of just like a little bit abrupt, like I kept

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<v Speaker 5>trying to deflect it, but he just kept pushing and

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<v Speaker 5>pushing and pushing, and then he just wanted phone sex.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just oh wow, So he was like he

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't just like a little bit. Oh you didn't tell

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<v Speaker 2>us that part.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean, I know we both had a few drinks,

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<v Speaker 5>but he just kept being very graphic and it really

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<v Speaker 5>kind of freaked me out. Oh god, I do not

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<v Speaker 5>remember being that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Mary. That was actually Charlie. He's actually on the line

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<v Speaker 1>of this thing. He wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, wait, I'm really so that is I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know I was that.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like it got bad, but not like that bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Like again I was. I think it was way more

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<v Speaker 5>drunk than you were, and you were just like, I'll

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<v Speaker 5>be honest, your voice is really sick.

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<v Speaker 3>You were just really hot and really sexy, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was very drunk, and we'd already made it out, so

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<v Speaker 3>it's feeling really really good. So I sincerely apologize. That's

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<v Speaker 3>super embarrassing. I don't remember being that bad, but if

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<v Speaker 3>I was, I'm very sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Charlie. You were asking for some weird stuff. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 5>don't have to come into it.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have to do that, you know, we can

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<v Speaker 1>just forget that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. I'll just apologize. I don't even remember what

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<v Speaker 5>I asked for.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I was, I was just I was really drunk.

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<v Speaker 5>I promise, I'm not into any of that weird stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not a psycho.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I was really hammered and you're really hot,

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<v Speaker 3>and that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just hey, you know what, that's it. Yeah, Charlie,

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<v Speaker 2>do you remember any of the things that you were saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it might have involved peanut butter, what what?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, Yeah, a few different condiments.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, Charlie, I want to get I was.

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<v Speaker 5>I was drunk and hungry at the time, I guess,

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<v Speaker 5>so I'm sorry. I mean, it was entertaining, but it

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<v Speaker 5>just wasn't exciting to get that you know, close that

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<v Speaker 5>that quickly hate?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I wasn't either, so I I do again,

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<v Speaker 3>I apologize. I was not in the right mental state

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<v Speaker 3>at the time. And again, you're very attractive, and to

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<v Speaker 3>be fair, I'm actually allergic to peanut butter, so I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know why I was remote.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Hi, and hide sounds pretty bad. I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to have to pay you that you are.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, let's let's let's avoid that.

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<v Speaker 5>So I promised that would ever happen. If you know

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<v Speaker 5>you ever wanted to go out again.

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<v Speaker 2>Mary, would you like to go with Charlie on another date?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pay for it, no con dements.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if there's no condiments, I mean also, who has

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<v Speaker 5>phone sex anymore? Absolutely? I was way too drunk. We

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<v Speaker 5>made down the parking lot. You're hot. I was getting

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<v Speaker 5>way animizable. Yeah, just texting? Can okay? All of that

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<v Speaker 5>is that's old. I will okay, it's also exciting. Agreed. Agreed.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, if you go out with me again, I promise

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<v Speaker 3>you I will not phone sex, dirty talk, condiments, peanut butter,

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<v Speaker 3>any of that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm hiding the cream, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So is that yes?

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<v Speaker 5>Mary? Yeah? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulation Another date?

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<v Speaker 5>Man, Oh my god, this is the first she was

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<v Speaker 5>first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Follow up