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Speaker 2: Charlie is on the phone today for a first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Mary,
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry for you, Charlie. I think Charlie and
Speaker 2: Mary is a cute name. It's also it sounds like
Speaker 2: it could be a sitcom name too, Charlie and Mary,
Speaker 2: Charlie and Mary Thursdays on NBC. Anyway, Charlie with some man,
Speaker 2: Hey guys, thanks for having us, Thanks.
Speaker 1: For coming on.
Speaker 2: So, before we get into your date with Mary, how
Speaker 2: long has it been since you talked to her.
Speaker 3: It's probably been I'd say like a week at this point.
Speaker 4: And how many times have you tried to reach out
Speaker 4: to her.
Speaker 5: Every day?
Speaker 1: Once every day, multiple times every day then at least
Speaker 1: twice a day. I'd say, Charlie, that feels like a lot. Man,
Speaker 1: It probably is a lot.
Speaker 3: But I think I probably started doing it more in
Speaker 3: the last few days because it's like probably the opposite
Speaker 3: of what I should have been doing.
Speaker 4: Really, So, how did the date go?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I thought it weren't great.
Speaker 3: I mean, we uh, we just went to like a bar,
Speaker 3: and we had dinner and we were talking the whole time,
Speaker 3: and really I got a really good vibe from her
Speaker 3: that she loved it. And yeah, I mean it was
Speaker 3: honestly one of the best dates I've ever been on.
Speaker 5: So I'm really clueless as to what's going on here.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll tell us about the date, all right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So well, first off, we you know, we met
Speaker 3: on Tinder, who tender, and then we we chatted for
Speaker 3: a while and then we decided, uh, like we even
Speaker 3: talked on the phone a bit, and then we're like, yeah,
Speaker 3: let's you know, let's let's do this. So I picked
Speaker 3: this this bar that I really like.
Speaker 5: It's usually a winner.
Speaker 3: And then we had dinner and she told me she
Speaker 3: enjoyed all of it, which I could kind of get
Speaker 3: that vibe, and honestly, like we we drank, oh well,
Speaker 3: we pretty much closed the bar down. Is how the
Speaker 3: date went, which is already like usually a great sign.
Speaker 3: And then even better was I walked her out to
Speaker 3: her car, and I was, you know, keep myself contained
Speaker 3: the best of my ability to want to you know,
Speaker 3: make make too crazy of a move.
Speaker 6: But we did make out a little bit, and which
Speaker 6: was again another home run, and then she said she
Speaker 6: would text me when she got home, which she actually when.
Speaker 5: She got home, she didn't text me. She called me.
Speaker 3: She called me, and then we spent literally like two
Speaker 3: a little over two hours just talking on the phone,
Speaker 3: and it was honestly so much fun, which agreed is
Speaker 3: just like a great, you know, nightcap to a date.
Speaker 3: And then before she hung up, she said she'd call
Speaker 3: me the next day and we decide like where to
Speaker 3: go from there and the Yeah, that was a week ago.
Speaker 4: It seems like she was into But you said you
Speaker 4: closed the bar down, So like, on a scale of
Speaker 4: one to ten, how wasted were you? Guys?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like eight and a half?
Speaker 2: Okay, So is there anything in that eight and a
Speaker 2: half part of the date that you can or something
Speaker 2: happening that might have turned her off?
Speaker 3: I've been honestly trying to remember for like so many
Speaker 3: hours of the day. I'm just like, what did I do?
Speaker 3: But I can't really grasp anything. No, no, no, I
Speaker 3: really feel like it went well and I didn't make
Speaker 3: a fool myself, I don't think so, Yeah, I got nothing.
Speaker 4: Is there anything from that phone call that could have
Speaker 4: been a flag?
Speaker 7: I definitely did get a little forward in the phone
Speaker 7: call and like, you know, instead like oh like next time,
Speaker 7: like she's just you know, it's got on the rocker
Speaker 7: world or you know, something stupid, probably like that.
Speaker 3: Honestly, Yeah, I did get a little dirty in the
Speaker 3: call and that might that might.
Speaker 4: Have done me in.
Speaker 2: Maybe, And you've heard nothing back from her and you've
Speaker 2: texted her almost every day for a week.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't heard anything back, no responses. And the
Speaker 3: last thing I pretty much was staying with dirty talk, so.
Speaker 5: You know that.
Speaker 2: M Yeah, I mean you know, I've been there, I've
Speaker 2: been in your shoes and I felt the same way.
Speaker 2: I was like that probably is what did it? And
Speaker 2: I know I never got an answer. So I'm glad
Speaker 2: you're doing this so we can find out together. I'll
Speaker 2: just take your answer as mine. Now we'll play on
Speaker 2: come back and then call her and see why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you another date in your
Speaker 2: first day follow up.
Speaker 5: Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 2: All right, man, we'll do it next. A little bit
Speaker 2: of drunk dirty talk might be what did Charlie? And
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for your first day follow up,
Speaker 2: Charlie is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted my
Speaker 2: woman named Mary for about a week now, and he
Speaker 2: doesn't know why. We're about to call her, get her
Speaker 2: on the phone and ask her, and then maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date if he still wants one. Charlie, Before
Speaker 2: we give Mary a call, why do you refresh everybody's
Speaker 2: memory about your date with Mary?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Sure?
Speaker 3: So now on tender went to a bar, had a
Speaker 3: great time, closed down the bar, made out at her car,
Speaker 3: and then when she got home she called me. We
Speaker 3: dirty talked a little bit, and I haven't heard from
Speaker 3: her since. So that's pretty much where I'm at.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're going to dial her up right now.
Speaker 2: Are you ready, Charlie, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 2: I may speak to Mary please.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is sure.
Speaker 1: He's calling Mary. How are you? My name is Jewbel,
Speaker 1: host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 4: Mary, my name is Nina. I'm on the show too.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 4: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5: Why are you guys calling me?
Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: Are you guys calling about Charlie?
Speaker 1: You're answering a question with a question, But I'll just
Speaker 1: go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh over at you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how did you know?
Speaker 5: I mean, why else would the radio show be calling
Speaker 5: me from like date day?
Speaker 4: You could have won a prize.
Speaker 5: I didn't apply for anything though.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes it is one of those.
Speaker 2: We do a segment called the First Day follow Up
Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with somebody
Speaker 2: and end up them, they can email us to get
Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 2: And Charlie emailed us about your date. He said he
Speaker 2: really liked you, but he doesn't know why you're not
Speaker 2: getting back to him.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, I like to think like the bar and
Speaker 5: the dinner was cool, and you know, I did really
Speaker 5: like talking to him. He's pretty sexy. He just like
Speaker 5: really hugged me off. Like later when we got home.
Speaker 5: When I got home, what happened, Well, so I was
Speaker 5: going to text him just to say I had a
Speaker 5: really great time after I got home, but I accidentally
Speaker 5: slipped with my hand and I actually hit call, so
Speaker 5: he picked up before I even realized what happened, and
Speaker 5: then he just started talking to me.
Speaker 4: That's usually what happened to Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean he just kept, you know, talking
Speaker 5: a lot, so I just kind of joined in a
Speaker 5: conversation like no harm, no foul, Like I did really
Speaker 5: like talking to him.
Speaker 4: So then what went wrong?
Speaker 5: This is where I got weird. I mean, he started
Speaker 5: like kind of getting into dirty territory. It was kind
Speaker 5: of just like a little bit abrupt, like I kept
Speaker 5: trying to deflect it, but he just kept pushing and
Speaker 5: pushing and pushing, and then he just wanted phone sex.
Speaker 2: It was just oh wow, So he was like he
Speaker 2: wasn't just like a little bit. Oh you didn't tell
Speaker 2: us that part.
Speaker 5: No, I mean, I know we both had a few drinks,
Speaker 5: but he just kept being very graphic and it really
Speaker 5: kind of freaked me out. Oh god, I do not
Speaker 5: remember being that bad.
Speaker 1: Mary. That was actually Charlie. He's actually on the line
Speaker 1: of this thing. He wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, wait, I'm really so that is I
Speaker 3: didn't know I was that.
Speaker 5: I knew.
Speaker 4: I was like it got bad, but not like that bad.
Speaker 5: Like again I was. I think it was way more
Speaker 5: drunk than you were, and you were just like, I'll
Speaker 5: be honest, your voice is really sick.
Speaker 3: You were just really hot and really sexy, and I
Speaker 3: was very drunk, and we'd already made it out, so
Speaker 3: it's feeling really really good. So I sincerely apologize. That's
Speaker 3: super embarrassing. I don't remember being that bad, but if
Speaker 3: I was, I'm very sorry.
Speaker 5: Charlie. You were asking for some weird stuff. Okay, we
Speaker 5: don't have to come into it.
Speaker 1: We don't have to do that, you know, we can
Speaker 1: just forget that.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I'll just apologize. I don't even remember what
Speaker 5: I asked for.
Speaker 4: Look, I was, I was just I was really drunk.
Speaker 5: I promise, I'm not into any of that weird stuff.
Speaker 5: I'm not a psycho.
Speaker 3: I just I was really hammered and you're really hot,
Speaker 3: and that.
Speaker 2: Was just hey, you know what, that's it. Yeah, Charlie,
Speaker 2: do you remember any of the things that you were saying.
Speaker 1: I think it might have involved peanut butter, what what?
Speaker 5: I don't know, Yeah, a few different condiments.
Speaker 4: Actually, Charlie, I want to get I was.
Speaker 5: I was drunk and hungry at the time, I guess,
Speaker 5: so I'm sorry. I mean, it was entertaining, but it
Speaker 5: just wasn't exciting to get that you know, close that
Speaker 5: that quickly hate?
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I wasn't either, so I I do again,
Speaker 3: I apologize. I was not in the right mental state
Speaker 3: at the time. And again, you're very attractive, and to
Speaker 3: be fair, I'm actually allergic to peanut butter, so I
Speaker 3: don't know why I was remote.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi, and hide sounds pretty bad. I don't want
Speaker 5: to have to pay you that you are.
Speaker 4: Yes, let's let's let's avoid that.
Speaker 5: So I promised that would ever happen. If you know
Speaker 5: you ever wanted to go out again.
Speaker 2: Mary, would you like to go with Charlie on another date?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it, no con dements.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if there's no condiments, I mean also, who has
Speaker 5: phone sex anymore? Absolutely? I was way too drunk. We
Speaker 5: made down the parking lot. You're hot. I was getting
Speaker 5: way animizable. Yeah, just texting? Can okay? All of that
Speaker 5: is that's old. I will okay, it's also exciting. Agreed. Agreed.
Speaker 3: Look, if you go out with me again, I promise
Speaker 3: you I will not phone sex, dirty talk, condiments, peanut butter,
Speaker 3: any of that.
Speaker 5: I'm hiding the cream, all right?
Speaker 1: So is that yes?
Speaker 5: Mary? Yeah? Yes?
Speaker 1: Congratulation Another date?
Speaker 5: Man, Oh my god, this is the first she was
Speaker 5: first date.
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