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Speaker 2: Charlie is on the phone today for a first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Mary,

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Speaker 2: and I'm sorry for you, Charlie. I think Charlie and

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Speaker 2: Mary is a cute name. It's also it sounds like

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Speaker 2: it could be a sitcom name too, Charlie and Mary,

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Speaker 2: Charlie and Mary Thursdays on NBC. Anyway, Charlie with some man,

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, thanks for having us, Thanks.

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Speaker 1: For coming on.

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Speaker 2: So, before we get into your date with Mary, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you talked to her.

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Speaker 3: It's probably been I'd say like a week at this point.

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Speaker 4: And how many times have you tried to reach out

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Speaker 4: to her.

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Speaker 5: Every day?

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Speaker 1: Once every day, multiple times every day then at least

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Speaker 1: twice a day. I'd say, Charlie, that feels like a lot. Man,

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Speaker 1: It probably is a lot.

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Speaker 3: But I think I probably started doing it more in

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Speaker 3: the last few days because it's like probably the opposite

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Speaker 3: of what I should have been doing.

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Speaker 4: Really, So, how did the date go?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I thought it weren't great.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we uh, we just went to like a bar,

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Speaker 3: and we had dinner and we were talking the whole time,

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Speaker 3: and really I got a really good vibe from her

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Speaker 3: that she loved it. And yeah, I mean it was

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Speaker 3: honestly one of the best dates I've ever been on.

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Speaker 5: So I'm really clueless as to what's going on here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll tell us about the date, all right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So well, first off, we you know, we met

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Speaker 3: on Tinder, who tender, and then we we chatted for

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Speaker 3: let's you know, let's let's do this. So I picked

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Speaker 5: It's usually a winner.

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Speaker 3: And then we had dinner and she told me she

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Speaker 3: that vibe, and honestly, like we we drank, oh well,

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Speaker 3: we pretty much closed the bar down. Is how the

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Speaker 3: And then even better was I walked her out to

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Speaker 6: But we did make out a little bit, and which

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Speaker 6: was again another home run, and then she said she

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Speaker 6: would text me when she got home, which she actually when.

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Speaker 5: She got home, she didn't text me. She called me.

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Speaker 3: She called me, and then we spent literally like two

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Speaker 3: a little over two hours just talking on the phone,

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Speaker 3: and it was honestly so much fun, which agreed is

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Speaker 3: just like a great, you know, nightcap to a date.

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Speaker 3: And then before she hung up, she said she'd call

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Speaker 3: me the next day and we decide like where to

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Speaker 3: go from there and the Yeah, that was a week ago.

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Speaker 4: It seems like she was into But you said you

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Speaker 4: closed the bar down, So like, on a scale of

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Speaker 4: one to ten, how wasted were you? Guys?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like eight and a half?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So is there anything in that eight and a

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Speaker 2: half part of the date that you can or something

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Speaker 3: I've been honestly trying to remember for like so many

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Speaker 3: hours of the day. I'm just like, what did I do?

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Speaker 3: But I can't really grasp anything. No, no, no, I

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Speaker 3: a fool myself, I don't think so, Yeah, I got nothing.

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Speaker 4: Is there anything from that phone call that could have

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Speaker 7: I definitely did get a little forward in the phone

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Speaker 7: like she's just you know, it's got on the rocker

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Speaker 3: Honestly, Yeah, I did get a little dirty in the

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Speaker 4: Have done me in.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, And you've heard nothing back from her and you've

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Speaker 2: texted her almost every day for a week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't heard anything back, no responses. And the

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Speaker 3: last thing I pretty much was staying with dirty talk, so.

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Speaker 5: You know that.

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Speaker 2: M Yeah, I mean you know, I've been there, I've

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Speaker 2: I was like that probably is what did it? And

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Speaker 2: I know I never got an answer. So I'm glad

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Speaker 2: just take your answer as mine. Now we'll play on

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Speaker 2: come back and then call her and see why she's

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Speaker 5: Okay, awesome, thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, man, we'll do it next. A little bit

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Speaker 2: of drunk dirty talk might be what did Charlie? And

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for your first day follow up,

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Speaker 2: Charlie is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted my

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Speaker 2: woman named Mary for about a week now, and he

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Speaker 2: doesn't know why. We're about to call her, get her

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Speaker 2: him another date if he still wants one. Charlie, Before

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Speaker 2: we give Mary a call, why do you refresh everybody's

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Speaker 2: memory about your date with Mary?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Sure?

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Speaker 3: So now on tender went to a bar, had a

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're going to dial her up right now.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready, Charlie, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 2: I may speak to Mary please.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is sure.

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Speaker 1: He's calling Mary. How are you? My name is Jewbel,

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Speaker 1: host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Mary, my name is Nina. I'm on the show too.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 4: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Why are you guys calling me?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 5: Are you guys calling about Charlie?

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Speaker 1: You're answering a question with a question, But I'll just

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Speaker 1: go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh over at you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how did you know?

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Speaker 5: I mean, why else would the radio show be calling

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Speaker 5: me from like date day?

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Speaker 4: You could have won a prize.

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Speaker 5: I didn't apply for anything though.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes it is one of those.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment called the First Day follow Up

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: And Charlie emailed us about your date. He said he

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I like to think like the bar and

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Speaker 5: the dinner was cool, and you know, I did really

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Speaker 5: When I got home, what happened, Well, so I was

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Speaker 4: That's usually what happened to Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean he just kept, you know, talking

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Speaker 4: So then what went wrong?

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Speaker 5: This is where I got weird. I mean, he started

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Speaker 2: It was just oh wow, So he was like he

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, I know we both had a few drinks,

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Speaker 1: Mary. That was actually Charlie. He's actually on the line

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, wait, I'm really so that is I

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Speaker 5: I knew.

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Speaker 4: I was like it got bad, but not like that bad.

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Speaker 5: Like again I was. I think it was way more

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Speaker 3: You were just really hot and really sexy, and I

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Speaker 3: it's feeling really really good. So I sincerely apologize. That's

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Speaker 5: Charlie. You were asking for some weird stuff. Okay, we

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Speaker 1: We don't have to do that, you know, we can

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I'll just apologize. I don't even remember what

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Speaker 4: Look, I was, I was just I was really drunk.

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Speaker 5: I promise, I'm not into any of that weird stuff.

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Speaker 5: I'm not a psycho.

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Speaker 3: I just I was really hammered and you're really hot,

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Speaker 2: Was just hey, you know what, that's it. Yeah, Charlie,

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Speaker 2: do you remember any of the things that you were saying.

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Speaker 1: I think it might have involved peanut butter, what what?

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Speaker 4: Actually, Charlie, I want to get I was.

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Speaker 5: I was drunk and hungry at the time, I guess,

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Speaker 5: so I'm sorry. I mean, it was entertaining, but it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I wasn't either, so I I do again,

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Speaker 3: I apologize. I was not in the right mental state

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Speaker 3: be fair, I'm actually allergic to peanut butter, so I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi, and hide sounds pretty bad. I don't want

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Speaker 5: to have to pay you that you are.

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Speaker 4: Yes, let's let's let's avoid that.

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Speaker 5: So I promised that would ever happen. If you know

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Speaker 5: you ever wanted to go out again.

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Speaker 2: Mary, would you like to go with Charlie on another date?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it, no con dements.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if there's no condiments, I mean also, who has

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Speaker 5: phone sex anymore? Absolutely? I was way too drunk. We

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Speaker 5: made down the parking lot. You're hot. I was getting

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Speaker 5: way animizable. Yeah, just texting? Can okay? All of that

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Speaker 5: is that's old. I will okay, it's also exciting. Agreed. Agreed.

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Speaker 3: Look, if you go out with me again, I promise

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Speaker 3: you I will not phone sex, dirty talk, condiments, peanut butter,

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Speaker 3: any of that.

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Speaker 5: I'm hiding the cream, all right?

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Speaker 1: So is that yes?

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Speaker 5: Mary? Yeah? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Congratulation Another date?

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Speaker 5: Man, Oh my god, this is the first she was

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Speaker 5: first date.

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Speaker 3: Follow up