1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 1: milling bus things. And it's true. Steve listening to going 4 00:00:26,440 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: together for stum, I don't joy. You gotta turn you, 5 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn got to 6 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: turn them out, to turn the water the water. Come 7 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: come on your baby, uh huh, I sure will A 8 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, come on, 9 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: dig me now wanted only Steve Harvey got a radio show. 10 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: Man o, man o, man, I just I have to 11 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: tell you this. How good is the God I served? 12 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: How amazing is he? That's that's all you know. And 13 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: you know, really, man, when I try to explain, um, 14 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: how I feel about what he does for me, really, 15 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: the words that I come up with that they just 16 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: they inadequate. Man, they don't they don't cut it. They 17 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: really don't. You know. I could say amazing. At one time. 18 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: I even just got there. I tried something real ignorant. 19 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: One time, I just said, you know, God is just 20 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: super casual, fragilistic as be allidocious. I just tried that 21 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: to see how that felt. That's that's all the change 22 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: he is with me. I just try to because see 23 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: how that felt. But then I ain't feel right saying that, 24 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: the fact that he's amazing and awesome and he's an 25 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: awesome god. You hear people say that as it's bigger 26 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: than that too, man. So you know, as as hard 27 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: as I try, no matter what I do every day, 28 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come up short with trying to explain to 29 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: you exactly how he works and how he is for me. 30 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: So I just thank him every day every chance I 31 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: get here. It is it is your determination and your effort. 32 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: Listen to me carefully. It is your determination and your effort. 33 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: I think that the average person, and I'm not knocking you, 34 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: I just want you to hear me out. I think 35 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: what stops the average person from becoming successful is that 36 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: we don't realize the effort that it takes. That's just truth. 37 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: I found that to be so true in my life 38 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: and my talking to people, in meeting people and people 39 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: aren't asking me questions about it and me trying to 40 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: figure out the way myself. I don't think that you 41 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: really can comprehend the effort that it takes to become successful. 42 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: This is the thing that you have to wrap your 43 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: mind around very quickly. If you want to be successful 44 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: on any level in any area. The dream is the beginning. 45 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: Good Lord, let me tell you something. The determination and 46 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: effort is massive. You cannot be overly concerned with sleep. 47 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: If you are a person who is always concerned about sleep, 48 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: get success out your mind. A fit to happen partner 49 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: is not fit to happen. You cannot be that concerned 50 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: about sleep. Now listen to me. You have to get 51 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: your rest. But this was my philosophy. I'm just sharing 52 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: you with what how I did it. My philosophy was 53 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: I stopped being concerned about sleep. I got my rest, 54 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: but I got just enough to get back to it, 55 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: and I got back on the grind to hop into hustle. 56 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 1: I got just enough rest so I could go and 57 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 1: put forth some more effort. But listen to me. You 58 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: cannot sleep a third of your life away and expect 59 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: to become successful if you're not already successful. If you 60 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: are asleep for eight hours, that is a third of 61 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: your day. You cannot be asleep a third of your 62 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: life and expect to get successful. Not after you get successful. 63 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: You know, you learn as you go to work smarter, 64 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: not harder. So as you get successful, you may have 65 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: eight hours available to you. But on the way up there, 66 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: I don't see how you can do it, I promise you. 67 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: I don't. Now I don't. Maybe somebody can come forward 68 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: I did it. I ain't. Yeah, probably lying. But okay, 69 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: tell your story, because everybody I know that's successful that 70 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: I've sat down a head real talks with, they wasn't 71 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: concerned with sleeping. You cannot be concerned with sleeping if 72 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 1: you want to be successful. How how can this happen 73 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: for you? Listen to me. The effort that it requires 74 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: is massive. It's an all out of salt on your dream. 75 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: Now you got to make an assault. It's requires and 76 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 1: all out of salt on it. And you can't be 77 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: sleeping fight at the same time. You can't fight when 78 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: you sleep. Man. I wish I could get y'all understand 79 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: this right. Ill understand that the effort that is required 80 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: to be successful will take everything you have, and when 81 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: you think you've given your all, it's gonna require some more. 82 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: The quality of your chill is amazing. See that's said. Okay, listening, 83 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: What is sitting around having a bill day fault? What 84 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,799 Speaker 1: what what I'm sitting around smoking weed for every day? Fault? 85 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: Come on, man, for real, But if you took that beer, 86 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: drinking weed smoking chill time and apply it to progressing 87 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: yourself towards your dream. When you do carve out a vacation, 88 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: guess where you be able to go. Guess what part 89 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: of the world you can go see. Guess how you 90 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: can chill Now Now I'm instead of you just driving 91 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: every year your family to the family union, sit at 92 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: the same picnic table. Everybody pull their money in. Two 93 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: ten families don't never pull they money in. They down 94 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: there eating like y'all eating. You got attitude because the 95 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: day or they side don't ever chip in, and no 96 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: they down they eating the extra potatoes that making place. 97 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: You're not not arguing about this every year for real? Man, 98 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: they ain't got the T shirt money. You know they 99 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: got to say T shirt don't. They ain't put in 100 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: that really, man, so so so so so you want 101 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: that to be it every year? Or do you want 102 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: this year I'm taking my family to New Orleans, or 103 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm taking my family see the Grand Canyon. I'm taking 104 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: my family down to the beach this year and me 105 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: and my family gonna go sight See, we're gonna go 106 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: ride Coup the River on Chicago. Me and my family 107 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: gonna go skiing this year, and me and my family 108 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: going out to La Man, we're gonna we're gonna go 109 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: out there for a weekend. You know, you know it 110 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: can happen like that. But if you ain't working, listen 111 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: to me. Average effort gets average results. That's that's all 112 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: it is to it. See, ordinary effort gets ordinary results. 113 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: But if you put forth an extra effort. See, the 114 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: only difference between extraordinary and ordinary is one word, that's extra. 115 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: If you do extra, you can take ordinary right on 116 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 1: over to extraordinary. Do you understand you have to have 117 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: a massive assault on your dreams? Quit sitting up in here, man, 118 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: trying to chill all the time. I'm sorry, man, I 119 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: wish I could tell you another way, but it ain't one. 120 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: Here's what I did. I wasn't concerned about how much 121 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: sleep I got. I just had to get my rest. 122 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 1: And once I got enough rest to get up and 123 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: get the task done, I got up. Somebody sent me 124 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: a tweet the other day, a partner of mine. He's 125 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 1: someone to see if I can pull it up. While 126 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 1: I'm talking to you, but he just sent me a 127 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: little sign. Just wasn't nothing, just a little something to say. 128 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: Hey man, I ran across this, I thought about you, 129 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: and I sent it to you. It said no alarm 130 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: clock needed, My passion wakes me. It's in block print. 131 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: He said, no alarm clock needed, my passion wakes me. 132 00:09:56,520 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: That's what you got to be about. You're da ladies 133 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, boys and girls, let me have it. What 134 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: about asking for your undivided attention? Why because it's about 135 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: to go down? What Steve Hard Morning Show? When right now? 136 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. This is real simple. It's 137 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: what we do every morning. We try to bring you information, motivation, stimulation, 138 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: education and laugh asition. All that these is the laugh 139 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: I Asian. I love that one. That's laughing with information 140 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: combined laugh laugh action. Yeah, yeah, I just thought of 141 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: that just now. Just now. Ain't nothing new, you know, 142 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: just just sitting up in here. I was telling the 143 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: crew right before I started, I said, I just didn't 144 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: get my gratitude in so I just want to say 145 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,559 Speaker 1: it out loud this morning. Thank you my father for 146 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,719 Speaker 1: waking me up to day, for keeping me strong, for 147 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: providing for providing me with my measure of health. I 148 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: feel like today and every day, I'm getting better and better. 149 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: In Jesus name, I'm walking strong man. I ain't the 150 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: way you can't when you comfort me, you ain't coming 151 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: from me because I ain't by myself. Now I'm fair warning. 152 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: I have issued just wanted to enemies before. It is 153 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: my enemies versus my God. Score one billion to zero. 154 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: Come on, Lord Jesus, undefeated, undefeated man. Even when it 155 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: looked like I was losing, I ended up with it. Boys, 156 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: So I praised God for everything every moment of my 157 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: life that I've had to endure, overcome, been overwhelmed by 158 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: and survived, which is all of them. Steve harfmarnin Show, 159 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: Charley Strawberry Carlin for real, Mouth to the South Junior 160 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 1: and the legend that he is nephew Tommy Junior. Anything 161 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: on your mind today, Yeah, there's just funny that you 162 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: would start to show that way on because I had 163 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: a question. We would talk about something, but everybody's going 164 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: through it and how to handle when you losing your faith? 165 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: How did you internally deal with that? When ask me 166 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: that again, I missed it. When you just feel like 167 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: you losing your faith when you're seeing you in a 168 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: situation internally, How did you handle losing getting it back 169 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 1: and getting back on the right track. Well, you know, 170 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: it happens to everybody that your face, yea, that your 171 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 1: trials and tribulations get a bit much at times and 172 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: causes you to second guess and wonder and have doubt 173 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: and all that. I mean, it happens to everybody. You know. 174 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 1: When I have moments like that, what I've learned to do, 175 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: and I haven't always known this, but what I've learned 176 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: to do when I get to those moments is I 177 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: go somewhere and I get real still. I get you. 178 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: Usually early in the morning. I get real still when 179 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm by myself and I focused on the gratitude of 180 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: what all has happened to me. In that gratitude, I 181 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: realized that I have overcome and gained so much in life. 182 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: And then it restrengthens me to deal with what's currently 183 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: going on, because once I think of the gratitude, it 184 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 1: exposes the track record that I have to success winning 185 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: overcoming victories. And I think of all the other times 186 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: that I had doubt that he ended up and he 187 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: came through what he got me. So that's a measure 188 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: I've learned to do. You got to thank God when 189 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: you're in the middle of it. Amen, coming up in 190 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, we're gonna hear from 191 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: the nephew. It's about to get ignorant. Now run that 192 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: frank back right after this you're listening to show. All right, 193 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: it's time now for the nephew to run that prank back. 194 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 1: What you got for his now, repass chicken, repass chicken. 195 00:13:55,640 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: Let's go, thank you for I need to make an order. Hey, yeah, 196 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: he prides up. Man, get them up for that birth man. Hello, 197 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: Hello yet, sir, I thank you for college. Hey hey, 198 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get an order. Man. We just got 199 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: to the funeral. I'm trying to take some chicken over 200 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: to the three pads where the family had. Man. All right, man, 201 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: well how much need Okay, I know I'm gonna need 202 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: probably like a hundred and forty five pieces of chicken. Doe. 203 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: I long that take the cook uh Man, we're not 204 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: read it right now. Man, they take the part of 205 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: the leaf like like thirty forty five minutes. Broda be okay, okay, 206 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: all right, I need one hundred and twenty five pieces. Man. 207 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: But listen, I'm what kind of um you know. I'm 208 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: trying to make sure we're gonna know, you know, how 209 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: to heal me. I'm like fads. So we're trying to 210 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: make sure we got enough food at the house. Man. Yeah, 211 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: So what kind of size you got, magga? I want 212 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: to try to get large family sizes. All y'all got 213 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: the tato salad? Yeah, we have French fries, to say, 214 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: the salad green and that groning and tea. You known't 215 00:14:58,120 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: almost I'm mut tu need to be to that. Let 216 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: me like two or all of them, you know what 217 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying, two of each that ought to be gonna 218 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: give me four of them greens up, but I know 219 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: they're gonna want them greens. You gotta bound little house. Yeah, 220 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: family sizes on everything, man, two of each, but give 221 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: me four greens all right? Okay, Now give me some rolls, man, 222 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: at least at least twenty rolls to go with that. 223 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: All right? You man, think he letchard got a big 224 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: thing of fries, man. You know the kids like them fries. 225 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: Let me get a big thing on fries. You order 226 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: all the food man. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna come 227 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: get it though. Thirty minutes. So you said, how long 228 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: are you for forty to be there? Uh? Finally thirty five? 229 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: You know, give up and give us about forty five 230 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: minutes before to be ready? All right, what's your name? 231 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: When they robbed Robert? All right, you got a phone 232 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: on ut to reach her? Forty on four? Uh eight? Okay, 233 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: I got this. Okay, so we got one hundred and 234 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: twenty five kids gonna be nixed, right, yeah, white and okay, 235 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: then we're gonna do on that. Did you want to 236 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: fright thing or mole or nick hundred? The one separated 237 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: man went up the miles and one boxes and then 238 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: you got the fighting another boxes, so you know, we'll 239 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: know so the kids won't get home to n Can 240 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: you take it over? I'm on the phone, take it over. 241 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: I got to what's my coat? Along that man? So 242 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 1: I got you know, because I ain't been pay for 243 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: all this by myself. I can got everybody picking in 244 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: on this. Uh, I'm gonna get to the restart cever. Uh, 245 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: it's gonna be two or eight seventy cards doubt, okay, 246 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: two d seventy five thirty minutes. I'm sorry coming there 247 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: with what's your name? Got? My name is Hawayne. Alright, Wayne, 248 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna answer for you, but i'll be there in 249 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: about forty minutes. Max. All right, uh yeah, I think 250 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: rock this right? Hey, what's up? Man? This Wayne is 251 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: chicken man. I was just called. Let you know, we 252 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: said this hunted early and your last back to ticket 253 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: you roped. Okay, oh oh oh oh man, I'm going 254 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: to call you a few minutes ago. Dog, Hey, listen, 255 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 1: uh you cook all yeah? Man, you wanted a hundred 256 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: and twenty five, he says me. Wife then and with 257 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 1: four large sides of east saying lard side of fries. Yeah, 258 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: I could tell it for you. Got it ready, Okay, 259 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: check us out, dive. I've been talking to everybody, man. 260 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 1: You know what, Man, I'm just gonna need by ten 261 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 1: pizzas do. I don't really need the rest of that, 262 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:05,239 Speaker 1: and I just need ten pizza. Dog. I called to everybody. Man. 263 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: Everybody went bous some day they wanted hamburger. So I'm 264 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: just gonna need a ten pizza of that chicken. Uh, 265 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: bro man, we already cooked dollars chicken. Man, I got 266 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: a hundred of twenty five pizzas rock you don't come 267 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: by it. I'm in trouble, man. I mean you're gonna 268 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: need ten pizzas. I didn't need ten pizza doll You 269 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: know I don't need all that. I don't want to 270 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: buy none. I don't need. I just need ten pizzas. Man, Bro, 271 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna come back to the chicken. Man, were just 272 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: sitting there. It's only kneed and want us to do them. 273 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: They were working out. Mean you're gonna go get this chicken. 274 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: And God, I'm not gonna buy no chicken. I don't want. Man, 275 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that, doubt. I mean, you know, 276 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing this for the breathing family, man. So you know, 277 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: like I say, yeah, I'm gonna take ten pizza body 278 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: and drop that off. Man. But I you know I 279 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: don't need that whole one hundred and twenty five or whatever. Robert, 280 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: y'all gonna be all the way to come get you 281 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: the chicken, or it's gonna be something I cook dollars 282 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: man to do. Man, My man, I'm getting okay. Now 283 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: you ain't got nobody else there's gonna buy some chicken 284 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: to day. Who the hell's gonna come up here in 285 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 1: a one hundred and twenty five chicken hell man called 286 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: back tobody, you know water hundred and twenty five. You 287 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: don't want to ten teams on manage you gonna see hello, 288 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 1: I just leave ten pieces, man, man, I took them 289 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: all the chicken for you or denized everything. Okay, God, 290 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: we'll listen to me. Won't you just send a little 291 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 1: boy little to date the selling a little boy little man? 292 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 1: There's nowhere hell man who don't want the compidence. I'm 293 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: about some back calling, sicking off and put it back 294 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: up a room. But it's gonna get the chicken on. 295 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: It's gonna be say that man. I don't give a man. 296 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 1: I will call every funeral hall around find out who guy, 297 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: and I will call Fine, Robert, you're gonna coach. Can't 298 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: get this chick man, I'm not gonna find no chicken. 299 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: I don't want, man, I want ten pieces, that's it. No, No, 300 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: you want some hundred and twenty five people of chicken, 301 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 1: because that's what the hell you called to tell me 302 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: that you want? And then who you think you're COMPI to. 303 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. I'm talking. It's like to come 304 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: up to Bob thinking hundred and twenty five pizzas up 305 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: tucking to bring out get swords or eight dollars and 306 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: fitness said he come by to come down. Man, he 307 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: need come to get this ship. Man. Man, you're gonna start. 308 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: He gonna go in and win. You're gonna get this 309 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: right now, you're gonna eat this ticket whatever, don't I 310 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. Fun about dear Robert. We'll 311 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 1: just thank you talking about woman. I'm talking to him. 312 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: I told y'all talking to us, that's gonna come up 313 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: here and get this sick. He's gonna bring two hundred 314 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: and eight dollars or you're gonna come up here and 315 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 1: get ten people of chick hits up to you. But 316 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: either way coming up here, what you want to do, 317 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna send somebody else up there to get the chicken? Man, Okay, Oh, 318 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna stand up here. Tommy coming to get the chicken? Tommy? Who? 319 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: What's the blame? Enough? I gotta get information. Can what's 320 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: the name Timmy man, nephew Timmy from the Steve Hardy 321 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: Morning Show. What's the here? You just say a week? Who? 322 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 1: I ain't the nephew coming from the sea. Harvey, morning, man, 323 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: this is some man you about to ask somebody? Yeah, 324 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 1: what bro something doing all the chicken though? You got 325 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: coming that Courtney? Uh that dirty hey way. This is 326 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: what I'm doing, man, I'm gonna give you my credit 327 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: card and we're gonna dominate kicking all day. Man, you 328 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: see some homeless people or whatever, you just pans out 329 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: to chick up and we've been getting paid for it. 330 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 1: Right now, Yeah, I can't trust that, y'all gotta be 331 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: paring on. I'm about right now. I'm saying, man, what's 332 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 333 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: the lame man the Steve Harvey more in the shout, 334 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: All right, nephew. Coming up next, it is asked the 335 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: Cello chief Love Officers, Steve Barbie in the building for 336 00:20:55,960 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: your love questions. Right after this, you're listening Steve Every 337 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 1: morning show coming up at the top of the hour. 338 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: And entertainment news, Oscar's nomination snubs. Okay, we'll talk about those. Plus. 339 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: Erica Badou addresses the controversy over the mother and daughter 340 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 1: booty pics that were on the Graham a couple of 341 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 1: days ago. Oh yeah, oh yeah. And then former GMA 342 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: three anchors t J. Holmes and Amy Roebok are Roebok 343 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: are in mediation meetings almost said meditation meetings, but mediation 344 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: meetings with a they're in those meetings with ABC. We'll 345 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: talk about all of these stories at the top of 346 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: the hour, but right now it is time to ask 347 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 1: the CLO, the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building, 348 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 1: Ronda and Philly says, I'm a single mother of a 349 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: fifteen year old son, and I have a question because 350 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: there's no male representation around us. My son keeps his 351 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: hands in the front of his pants all the time 352 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: when he sleeps and walking aroun around the house. This 353 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: is so gross and disrespectful to me. Is it normal 354 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 1: or should I say something? Well, he's fifteen. Let me 355 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: tell you what's happening. It's very normal for him to 356 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,719 Speaker 1: do that when he sleep. I don't know if you've 357 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: been around me and before with a lot of grown 358 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: men do it holding on. It's jest, you know, so 359 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 1: it's a safe feeling it So yeah, you know you're 360 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 1: sleep and now that's grown men do it. Fifteen, he's 361 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: in that age where it is it reacts to just 362 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: about anything. It don't take much. He's just not thinking 363 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 1: it out. And now during the day and that's a 364 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: little odd. Sleeping when he buys yourself, watching TV, that's 365 00:22:55,880 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: very normal. Walking around all day, it is very adum. 366 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: You have to. But then what didn't happened is, see, Mama, 367 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: he didn got comfortable with you. So now it's just 368 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: just mama. Now if he's doing it at school and 369 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: walking down the street and waiting on buses and you know, 370 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: then then we have a problem. But I think it's 371 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,919 Speaker 1: just a moment. I he's gotten comfortable around you, and 372 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: I think you could ask him not to do that 373 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: in front of you, and then most boys should be 374 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: respectful of their mom. That cut it out. But at 375 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 1: night it ain't nothing you can do. But time daddy 376 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: was day in the daytime a little to dad attended. Boy, boy, Well, 377 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: I can't say it on the radio. You don't. You 378 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: can't boiling boy if you don't get your head off, 379 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 1: Jack Johnson, ain't no heavyweight fight. Didn't hear this moment? 380 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: Yea you know that? Yeah? That kind of all right. 381 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: Moving on to Dot in West Virginia. Dot says, I'm 382 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 1: sixty two years old, and I'm dating a sixty three 383 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: year old man that I met at church. We've been 384 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: together for five months and we've had sex a few times, 385 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 1: but it's not enough for me. He doesn't like it 386 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: if I initiate sex. And does this mean we're not 387 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: sexually compatible? YEA one word? I know, Yeah, dot, that's 388 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: what that means. Yeah. And West Virginia, you know, I 389 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: don't know if y'all met at the snake charmer church. 390 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 1: I don't know what church this is. I don't really 391 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: know what there's a lot of it going on away. 392 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm from West Virginia. So you say, yeah, anybody don't 393 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: like it, you can just get the email. No, I'm 394 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: just shocked. They still doing snakes down there and contest 395 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: parts of Tennessee. Now all Appellachians is doing it still, 396 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: some of them. It's not a widespread but it's still 397 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: out there shouting with snakes and stuff like that. That's 398 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: your bigger problem. Or maybe his snake is tired of 399 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: making appearances and his snake is tired of performing, and 400 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: so he got to pick and choose the time to 401 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: bring the snake out. FUS service man, see that high dude, right, good, Yeah, 402 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: it was radio friendly radio friends, all right. Moving on 403 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: to Ola in Tampa, Ola. Right, my aunt, yeah, Ola, rights, 404 00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: My aunt is staying with me temporarily, and she's always 405 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 1: flirty with my twenty eight year old boyfriend. She's forty eight, 406 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: but looks like she's seventy eight. Uh, my boyfriend may funny. 407 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 1: I know that's crazy, thirty years older than she really is. 408 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: My boyfriend thinks it's funny, and he flirts back to 409 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 1: make her feel special. Is it cool or should I 410 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 1: stop all of this flirty behavior? No, he just he 411 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,199 Speaker 1: tries to trying to ask the fun that's all. I 412 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,239 Speaker 1: don't know many men that wan't a forty eight year 413 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: old and look like a seventy eight year old. I've 414 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: yet to meet him. Yeah good, yeah, good' Look how 415 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: shriveled up she looked. I'm gonna looking real good. That 416 00:26:50,040 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: dog don't hunt. Don't you see them teeth in that glass? Yeah? Yeah, wow, yes, no, yeah, 417 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,439 Speaker 1: it's funny to him, he said that. Yeah. Well, if 418 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 1: she forty looks av me eight, there's some things that's 419 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: gone wrong. She had hard life. That's a shame. All right, Well, 420 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: moving on, Yeah, last one Briann in New Orleans. Brian writes, 421 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 1: my brother is coming to hang out for his birthday 422 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 1: and he asked me to book him two hotel rooms 423 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: on my credit card. I asked why he needs two rooms, 424 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: and he said the other room is for a female friend. 425 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: He just got married, So I'm not gonna help him cheat. 426 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 1: Should I do it for him? Or should I tell 427 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: him to ask someone else? No, they don't get involved 428 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 1: in then, because if something happens and then the wife 429 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 1: find out that you help, it's all going back for 430 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: I don't even know why he asking that. Don't when 431 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: the dude's gonna learn, keep your dirt to your damn self. Man, 432 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: the less people you bring in your mess, the less 433 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: people can tell about it. If you're gonna do some dirt, man, 434 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 1: do your dirt by your damn So what are you 435 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 1: dragging all these people? Yeah? Yeah, I can't ask my 436 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: sister a damn thing illegal or wrong? Which one? Either one? 437 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: What would Jesus do? W W j D the guilt 438 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: the exact opposite of what I just asked you to 439 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: help me? What would Jesus do? Okay, got your answer? Next? 440 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: All right? Brian? Nope, Closis stay out of it brother sloppy. Yeah, 441 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 1: with the truth, he shouldn't be able to trop The 442 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: rule should have been for Carl. What did you talk about? 443 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: Phoebe got married though? What anybody? Yeah? But why tell 444 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: the sisters? Tell the sister who was? The truth is crazy? 445 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: All right? Coming up at the top of the hour, 446 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Clo. We'll have some entertainment news for you 447 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: all right after this crazy you're listening to show still trending. 448 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: The Oscar nominations were announced on Tuesday, and we're so 449 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: happy for actress Angela Bassett's nomination for Best Supporting Actress 450 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: and her performance as Queen Ramanda in Black Panther Wakanda Forever. 451 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 1: We all know the Academy still owes Angela and Oscar 452 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 1: for her role as Tina Turner in the movie What's 453 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: Got What's Love Got to do with It? Of course? Yeah. Um. However, 454 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 1: we are disappointed that Viola day This was overlooked for 455 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: the Best Actress nomination for her role in the movie 456 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 1: The Woman King. Now, Steve, you saw The Woman King, right, 457 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: wasn't it amazing? Whoa? Yeah? Like Simon asked me, and 458 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: I gave it a little bit of thought, but you 459 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: know who I think the greatest female actor of all 460 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 1: time is as actress. I really think it's Viola Davis. Oh, 461 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: she's so just believable. But everything she does from the 462 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: White House, the Offences with Denza, I saw that. I 463 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: was right there with you. Yes, I mean this woman 464 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: is so I movie about the aide that the help, Yeah, 465 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: and how to get away with murder him in his chest. Amazing, man, 466 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: she should have gotten nominated for that. That movie can 467 00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: blow a snot bubble on Cue. You was cold, says 468 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: the fellow actor on Tommy. Who do you think it's 469 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: the top female actress? I think it was definitely in 470 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 1: the time. That's for definitely. She She's a bad girl. 471 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: She got she got every everything on point that she 472 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: don't miss a beat. Woman King was woman King was outstanding. 473 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: She delivered, she delivered. I just saw it. I just 474 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 1: saw it. Yeah, that's like one of my favorite movie 475 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: of last year, The Woman care no scene. I haven't 476 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 1: seen Black Panther two yet, an Well, I saw that 477 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 1: and I said, you know, as soon as I saw that, 478 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 1: I said, she should be nominated for an hour. Yes, yes, 479 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: she's a legend too, Yes, yes, yeah, that girl ain't 480 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 1: gonna get it. That's right. People think they just popped up. 481 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: You start looking at old TV shows and you start saying, 482 00:31:54,920 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, that's yes. Yeah, you know, it's been 483 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: very route and I'm gonna just be honest with you, 484 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 1: the route that black women have to take to get roles, 485 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: even in roles, I mean, man like, they will. They 486 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: will not put a black woman in a role simply 487 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: because she black. Yeah, yeah, black card. They don't want 488 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: to have to explain that all it's not the look 489 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: we're looking for. That's crazy, Or she won't be able 490 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 1: to bring in the audience that we want, or you know, 491 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 1: the box office dollars and all of that. Um well, anyway, yeah, 492 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: Viola King was over Viola Davis was overlooked for The 493 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: Woman King, and also Danielle Dadweiler was snubbed for her 494 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: role in the movie Till uh yeah, The Woman King, 495 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: Until are two movies with black women as lead. Steve, 496 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 1: you just talked about this and they had black directors 497 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: as well. Um. Academy Awards point, yeah, very much, so, 498 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,719 Speaker 1: very much so. Academy Award nominees received their votes from 499 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: member of the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts, Motion Picture, 500 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: Arts and Sciences. The organization of more than ten thousand 501 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 1: industry professionals has around ninety five hundred members who are 502 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: eligible to vote her vanity fair, according to MSN dot com. 503 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: Now the Oscars will be March twelfth, and it will 504 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: be hosted not by Chris Rock, It will be hosted 505 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 1: by Jimmy Kimmel. Okay, well, but you do something to 506 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: let me say this too. A lot of movies don't 507 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 1: get recognition like till because they don't give a damn 508 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: about that, right, Yeah, what happened to this whole movement? 509 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 1: Remember the whole diversity, diversity and inclusion and all that last. Yeah, 510 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: like the terms described it perfectly. That came and went, 511 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: just like all our movements come and go. Yeah, what 512 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: happened to Black Lives Matter? What happened to kneeling? What happened? 513 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 1: What happened to the boycott? The expertise of the oppressor 514 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: is to just let some time go back. The first 515 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: week them picket signs as low crowded. Everybody got a 516 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: sign about a month in braids. Ain't half the people 517 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 1: out there marching? They ain't showing off nor more. And 518 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: in six Mores you ain't gotta word about it. So yeah, 519 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: sorry for those snubs, but Viola Davis, we're huge fans 520 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: of yours and other entertainment news. Erica Badou and her 521 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 1: family are responding to the backlash over a picture of 522 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: her daughter that was posted on the Gram earlier this week. 523 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 1: Her name is Puma Curry. Puma posted a picture standing 524 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 1: alongside her mom, Erica Badoud. They were both rocking tight 525 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 1: leggings and showing off their booties. I mean they were 526 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 1: showing off their curves. Some people on social media found 527 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,839 Speaker 1: this to be scandalous, leaving comments like quote, so y'all 528 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:05,959 Speaker 1: advertising ass objectifying and exploiting y'all bodies for personal gain, 529 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 1: then post for likes, views, and engagement for payment. This 530 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: is clearly commercial prostitution. You can do nothing. Then another 531 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 1: one wrote, um yeah, Then another one wrote anything for 532 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,040 Speaker 1: social media. Well. Eighteen year old Pulma addressed the situation 533 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: in writing she said, I posted a picture of me 534 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 1: and my mama Badu and some cute form fitting pants. 535 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm an adult, what's the real issue? Meanwhile, Erica has 536 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: been cracking jokes saying wait till you all see the 537 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: inside's heart mind and spirit. Next year, I'll show you 538 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,760 Speaker 1: all a sonogram X ray of my colon. The doctor says, 539 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: and I quote, is just the prettiest thing I've ever seen. Yes, 540 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it all right. Coming up, 541 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: coming up into twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 542 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. 543 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well. The 544 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: start of twenty twenty three has seen an alarming spike 545 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: and gun violence, with forty mass shootings so far this month. 546 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: We are still in January, Okay. The Gun Violence Archive, 547 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: which tracks shootings across the country and defines mass shooting 548 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: as an incident where at least four victims are injured 549 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 1: or killed, says seventy three people have so far been 550 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: killed this year. There were six mass shootings in January alone, 551 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: and only seven days this month which haven't seen a 552 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: mass shooting. The recent shooting this past Sunday in Monterey Park, California, 553 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: where twelve people were killed and nine others were injured. 554 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: Just two days later, eight people were killed in separate 555 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,800 Speaker 1: shootings in California's Bay Area. There was another shooting recently 556 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:59,280 Speaker 1: in North Carolina, and just yesterday another shooting in Washington State. 557 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 1: President Biden said in a statement, quote, we know the 558 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: scourge of gun violence across America requires stronger action. The 559 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: President spoke about bills introduced Monday by Senate Democrats, including 560 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: a federal assault weapons band and legislation that would raise 561 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,399 Speaker 1: the minimum purchase age for assault weapons to twenty one. 562 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: The President went on to say, I once again urge 563 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 1: both Chambers of Commerce to act quickly and deliver this 564 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: assault weapons band to my desk and take actions to 565 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: keep American communities, schools, workplaces, and home safe. So will 566 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: anything be done? I doubt it. Yeah, So Congress is 567 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 1: just going to keep saying thoughts and prayers, no action, nothing, nothing. 568 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:57,360 Speaker 1: They I mean, twenty one something donates too much money 569 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 1: to the Republican Party for the republic In candidates to 570 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: open their damn mouth, because if you open up your 571 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: mouth against the Second Amendment, they will take their money 572 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: and put it into the opposing candidate candidate and make 573 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:17,720 Speaker 1: sure they win. So this is more important than lives. 574 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 1: I mean, we saw it when we all know that 575 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: their main objective is power, money and control and money 576 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:31,840 Speaker 1: and nothing supersedes that, including human life until it comes 577 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,760 Speaker 1: down to your damn that's your life or your child. 578 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 1: Until that happens, man, it's business as usual. This is 579 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 1: this is sad, this is crazy the norm in this country. 580 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: I watched the lady interview the one of the ladies 581 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: for the thing that happened in Montery was in Monerate, 582 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: the last one in that Asian community. Oh yeah, Monterey 583 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: Parker point. She said, I know this is just the 584 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 1: normal mass shooting for you because it happened to you. 585 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 1: What this is what the reporter said, I know this 586 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 1: isn't just a regular mass shooting for you. This has 587 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 1: affected you personally because this is your community. What do 588 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: you mean a regular I went, wow, that's again, yeah, yeah, yeah, 589 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,759 Speaker 1: all right, coming, thank you. Coming up at thirty four 590 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. We're gonna check Steve's voicemail. Right 591 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:39,440 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 592 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 1: it is time to check your voicemail and listen. If 593 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,839 Speaker 1: you want to leave a message for Steve, call them 594 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty twenty nine eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, 595 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,800 Speaker 1: here we go. This caller Steve left a message about 596 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,759 Speaker 1: elevate you. Hey, Steve, this is John. I'm trying to 597 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: get your phone numbers. I go and order some of y'all. 598 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 1: Elevate yourself. You please give me a number. I appreciate it, 599 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: my brother. I'm a going okay, take a pin, Man, 600 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,760 Speaker 1: I gotta fell you. Come on, John, get your John. 601 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody said you John about no phone though these websites? Man, 602 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's a thing called www dot John. 603 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 1: Anybody said nothing to you about no phone. Numb job. 604 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: Listen to me and it'll probably stop you for you 605 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 1: get to you. But it ain't elevate yourself, elevate you, 606 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: So John, I appreciate you, man, but L and it 607 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: starts with the L, the letter L elevate elevate you 608 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: dot com. He ain't no damn number? You no number? Do? 609 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,479 Speaker 1: I can't get you no number? You don't get my number? 610 00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:01,120 Speaker 1: Call me about no elevator? So where upsite? John? Don't 611 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 1: nobody talking to nobody no more? You have tried to 612 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: call your bank. Everything automatic press one if you'd like 613 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 1: to just cut the press two. There everything automating now, John, 614 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: go to the website and do a chat. That's it, 615 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 1: Thank you, John, Come on, man, hanging there all right. 616 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody said a damn thing? All right, Steve. So 617 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 1: the other day Tommy talked about this daily run um 618 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 1: the distance and the times and all of that, and 619 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: a call from South Carolina has an issue with it. 620 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: Take a listen, hey, look, bit man, there's little call 621 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:41,640 Speaker 1: technic nephews term me is not running to leave miles 622 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 1: in ten minutes, No way possible. Tell him, I said 623 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: that you heard that wrong. I never said I'm running 624 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 1: three miles and ten minutes. I said I'm running ten 625 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:55,400 Speaker 1: minutes a ten minute mile pace, which is thirty minutes. 626 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: There's no way I can run three miles and ten minutes. 627 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: So if you if that's what you think you heard, No, 628 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,280 Speaker 1: I can't do that. That's impossible for me. I'm sorry. 629 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:07,120 Speaker 1: So right now I'm averaging nine nine minute fifteen second mile. 630 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing. Okay, So I even I ain't 631 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,919 Speaker 1: gonna lie about this. Yeah, timing you right now? What's 632 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 1: his name? Sherley? He didn't leave this. He didn't leave 633 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,759 Speaker 1: his name. Hey man, you know here awere he ain't 634 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 1: said he running No damn three miles in ten minutes. 635 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 1: Anybody doing nothing? Man, marathon, ain't doing that man that 636 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,839 Speaker 1: time ain't said no such thing. Man, quick calling here 637 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: with your hands listening, ass call stuffed that I ain't 638 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:43,319 Speaker 1: no way anytime Timmy didn't say that. Man. Ain't impossible 639 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,320 Speaker 1: for me, buddy, It's impossible for anybody. Yeah, ain't a 640 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,440 Speaker 1: human nowhere. I can run three miles in ten damn 641 00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: minutes if you did little every record. This food is 642 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 1: running through the Oh my god, go ahead, all right, 643 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,360 Speaker 1: This is another caller. This one's pretty serious, Steve. This 644 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 1: caller is from Philly and they're upset about the violence 645 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: with young black men. Good morning, is Steve. I'm from Philadelphia. 646 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,399 Speaker 1: My name is Vince. This country really needs your help 647 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: because these black young men are killing each other at 648 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 1: an alarming rate, and in the next ten to fifteen 649 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: years there will not be any forty to forty five 650 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: year old blackness. You really need your help on this one, Steve. 651 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,799 Speaker 1: You know, man, I'm willing to help. I really am. 652 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:42,919 Speaker 1: What's the starting point? How do we reach them? I mean, 653 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,880 Speaker 1: because we've got to get Hey, man, we've got to 654 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: reach these gangs ogez what they call ogs. They could 655 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 1: reach them to see and I hate that slogan that 656 00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 1: they have you can't tell the young ones nothing. Well, 657 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 1: you talked him into the game, you said everything you 658 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 1: needed to do to lure them in. Somebody has the 659 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,879 Speaker 1: answers to this. Um, I'm more than willing to help. 660 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 1: I really really am. But that's basically what my mentoring 661 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,840 Speaker 1: program is. Man. I try to head it off early 662 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 1: as as I can, but it's not enough. We need more, 663 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: We need more. Yeah, all right, Steve, thank you. Yeah. 664 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,800 Speaker 1: Coming up next, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 665 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey 666 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:37,479 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour, 667 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,279 Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for it 668 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 1: today and the subject is they want to see the 669 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,959 Speaker 1: place without me? All right, we'll get into that, find 670 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 1: out what that's all about. And just a few but 671 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:54,399 Speaker 1: right now, the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 672 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 1: But you got who are you're pranking? What you got? 673 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna lean on stupid for a minute. I'm gonna 674 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: lean on it. Ain't on a minute. Yeah, I'm gonna 675 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: lean on it and give y'all every bit of stupid 676 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 1: that I can give you, every bit of it, you know, 677 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ranch it like a like an old dish rag. 678 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,799 Speaker 1: Just ranch it. I'm gonna ranch it and get all 679 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:18,799 Speaker 1: the stupid out of it. Hidi, your wife gave me 680 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 1: a disease. Your wife gave me a disease. I got 681 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 1: the gone tell it now, I got the gone tell it. 682 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: I got to tell it. Tell us told Let's go 683 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 1: catch dog. Your wife gave me a disease. Run it 684 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 1: if you hood. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach out. 685 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Dante. Yeah, this is sound who 686 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:46,080 Speaker 1: this Hey? How you doing? Man? Just to be a 687 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,760 Speaker 1: certain you, Dante is married to Tammy, right, yeah, okay, cool? Cool? 688 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 1: So listen man. Uh so you've heard about me, you know, 689 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 1: maybe heard my name before because I used to day 690 00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 1: Sammy way before you guys got married. Uh you know 691 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 1: my name is, My name is Marcella. So I just 692 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 1: want to call and say how you doing? But I 693 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 1: need to say okay, yeah, I know she mentioned you 694 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: mentioned y'all used to be together before we Yeah, okay, 695 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,960 Speaker 1: I've heard about you. What's um? What's the phone call for? 696 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 1: I needed to talk to you, man, and I've been 697 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: holding this back at least four years. You know I 698 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,400 Speaker 1: haven't said anything, and you know I can't hold it 699 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 1: no more. Man, I'm going through so many issues right now. 700 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 1: I just gotta I gotta get this thing. I gotta 701 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: get this some grips on this thing that I'm going through. 702 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,319 Speaker 1: But you know, I wanted to come to you, man 703 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 1: to man, talk to you about this situation. You know. 704 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 1: I hate to bring it to you like this, but 705 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: when me and Cammy were together, I don't even to say, 706 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 1: when we were together, Tammy gave me a diceed man. 707 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 1: So you know I've been holding this, you know, and 708 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 1: I gotta say, all right, I wanted to hit you up. 709 00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 1: I thought about it two years ago. I wanted. But 710 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: you're like, what do you mean, like she gave you 711 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 1: a disease? She gave me a disease about four plus 712 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 1: years ago, this way before y'all got married. I'm from 713 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 1: understanding of y'all been married about three years right, Yeah, 714 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, okay, and you're calling me, you're 715 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,799 Speaker 1: calling me to give me the heads up. Oh man, 716 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 1: I'm calling because dude, these are the medical bills and 717 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:27,919 Speaker 1: all this that's just completely out of control. I can't 718 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,319 Speaker 1: even you know, I can't take care of myself no 719 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 1: more with this, you know, and I don't feel like 720 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: I have to because she the one that gave me 721 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,799 Speaker 1: the day of disease. Okay, So you're calling because you 722 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 1: want you want me to pay for you want you 723 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 1: want us to pay for your medical bills. Dude, I mean, damn, dude, 724 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,239 Speaker 1: I mean put yourself in my position. Mary, I mean 725 00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: what the brothers post with you? You know, I'm sitting 726 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: over here with a disease somebody gave me, and you 727 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,960 Speaker 1: know they're going on what they like. Boh yeah, but 728 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 1: this is so you're calling me, calling me my wife 729 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 1: gave you a disease. First of all, she would have 730 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 1: told me that. Secondly, now you're telling me like I 731 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 1: might have some. You gotta be kidding me, Well, what 732 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,839 Speaker 1: did she give you? What disease are you talking about? Man? 733 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 1: At this point, you know, I don't even want to 734 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,479 Speaker 1: discuss it. I just want to get on board. Let's 735 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: can we get some kind of understanding with the medical 736 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: fields that I can't inside of control. Man, I'm not paying, Okay, 737 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pay for your medical bills, especially when 738 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 1: I don't even know what those do you mean what 739 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 1: you mean she gave you a disease? Man, I'm over. 740 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:33,480 Speaker 1: You're freaking the out, dude, Dude, I understand, you know, Bro, 741 00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 1: I hope you're good. I really you know, But I'm 742 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: just saying, man, dude, I don't know what to do. No, mom, Man, 743 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,000 Speaker 1: I really don't, you know. Like I said, Oh hey, yo, Yo, 744 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: you need call me. All right? You talking in circles. 745 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,799 Speaker 1: You're telling me something you have do you caught four 746 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 1: or five years ago? Well? What is this? Some it's 747 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 1: son cheerable? What the disease are you talking about? Man, dude. 748 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm all I'm trying, dude, regardless of what it is, 749 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to handle the medical field. Flo it, man, 750 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,880 Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to do. Dude, boy, kind of 751 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,919 Speaker 1: metical bills? Could you have for some you caught four 752 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,400 Speaker 1: years ago? Like four years ago, you should have been 753 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,760 Speaker 1: able to six sessions? What is it? Dude? She gave 754 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 1: me the disease and now I need somebody to play 755 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,399 Speaker 1: these damn bills. That's all I'm saying to you. All Right, 756 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,839 Speaker 1: that's all I'm saying. It's Dante, Yo, I'm telling you 757 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 1: what I'm telling you. Marceello it's quit playing and tell 758 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,879 Speaker 1: me what the disease this is. It's March Cellus, man, 759 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: it's March Sellers. Okay, I'm telling your name this. I'm 760 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:38,480 Speaker 1: getting the ya. Yo, wife gave me diabetes? What the diabetes? 761 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:42,279 Speaker 1: Your wife gave me? John Beetes, Man, Man, you must 762 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: be come to hell. You can't. Can't somebody give you diabetes? 763 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: What you mean she gave you diabetes? Man? Your wife 764 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 1: cooking a It was cooking all them cakes and pies 765 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 1: and you know all that sugar, you know, and they 766 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: just Man, you came out, Bro had me thinking, my 767 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: wife gave you her pieces. Man. You just don't know 768 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,160 Speaker 1: how to work out, you know how to eat? That's 769 00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:07,920 Speaker 1: on you. Man. I'm paying no bills for that diabet. 770 00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: It's wrong with you. Man. Oh so na no, no, no, 771 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 1: it's funny. Yeah, you laughing. You're laughing at me, Dune Yes, 772 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 1: I'm laughing at you call my phone talking about my 773 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:26,839 Speaker 1: wife gave you diabetes? Bro? For real? Is little bit? Bro? 774 00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 1: Can I say something else? So dunchay, what what you 775 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 1: want to say? I want to say this, duntey, you 776 00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,320 Speaker 1: just got frank baby, this nephew till me from the 777 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 1: Sea Harby Morning, So your wife can me? Got me 778 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:50,840 Speaker 1: the frank folk? Oh damn yo, Oh stop, I got you, 779 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:57,320 Speaker 1: I got you? Wow. Okay, see she told me about 780 00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,239 Speaker 1: she told me about Marcello, but I never heard heard 781 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 1: his voice. Bro, I was on fire. Oh my god, 782 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:10,400 Speaker 1: uhool you you're good man. Oh my god. Oh you 783 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:14,359 Speaker 1: have me some scary dude talking about the disease, bro, 784 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:19,920 Speaker 1: especially a disease the four years lingering. It's like whoa 785 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,640 Speaker 1: ba Oh my god, man, I was you know when 786 00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: she got home. I was about to be so man. Bro, hey, man, 787 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: you gotta tell me this man. Come on, John Jake, 788 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest And I'm talking about 789 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:38,360 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the lane? Y'all. Funny dude, 790 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:47,279 Speaker 1: this is Steve Harvey Morning, Happy New Year? Happy you 791 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 1: Are you eating right? You ain't got no diabetes? Dude. 792 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 1: Now I'm worried. Bro, I catch him like that. Bron y'all. 793 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,399 Speaker 1: Don't think I need to be on the Hollywood Walk 794 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,399 Speaker 1: of Fame, but I think I do. I just do. 795 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 1: I think I deserve to be on the Hollywood on 796 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: the Hollywood Walker fad Wood, Yes, Hollywood Hawker Fame. All 797 00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:19,239 Speaker 1: to be on You hurt your microphone. You said that, 798 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,520 Speaker 1: but you think you should be on it and you 799 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:30,279 Speaker 1: can't say it hurt. Microphone is in What is you saying? Time? 800 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,919 Speaker 1: What did you deserve to be on the Hollywood Walk 801 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:42,640 Speaker 1: of Fame? I said, I just said what I said. 802 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,280 Speaker 1: I think I ought to be on the Hollywood Hawk 803 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 1: of Fame. I just do what's y'all thing? Yeah? Right, 804 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,399 Speaker 1: that wife, that that that that that that man wife 805 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 1: gave me diabetes. Now you know that's that's cooking all 806 00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: the cakes and desserts and can on all it shook 807 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:03,360 Speaker 1: up in here. Yeah, you didn't have to eat it. 808 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:04,840 Speaker 1: You can put you can get you a star on 809 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 1: that time and just put it outside your house. Ain't 810 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,279 Speaker 1: nobody gonna care right right on that drive, you know 811 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: what I thought? You know what, you know what. It 812 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 1: starts with you. You got to take care of you. 813 00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 1: And I think, all right, love yourself, baby, love lit 814 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,640 Speaker 1: right in my damn dry way. I'm gonna put it 815 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:24,400 Speaker 1: in there because they ain't. Ain't nobody gonna take care 816 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:30,200 Speaker 1: of me but me. That's right, that's right. What you're 817 00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 1: doing now. Won't be no visitors to it though, won't 818 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 1: be nobody's visiting. Oh oh, y'all gonna come over there 819 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 1: and be there at the ceremony. Now, y'a problem. I'm 820 00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:50,359 Speaker 1: flying in for that, all right, Thank you, nephew. Coming 821 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 1: up next Strawberry Letters. Subject they want to see the 822 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:57,279 Speaker 1: place without me, And we'll get into that right after this. 823 00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:03,160 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Morning Show. It is time now for 824 00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:08,920 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 825 00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,600 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 826 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:17,480 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 827 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 1: receiving your letter, and we could be reading your letter 828 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one 829 00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:27,040 Speaker 1: right here. You hear it. This could be yours. We read, 830 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: we read, received. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 831 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 1: got it before you here. It is Strawberry letter. We 832 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:38,400 Speaker 1: have to receive it before we can read its subjects. 833 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 1: No subject they went to the place without me. Dear 834 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,880 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, My husband claims he was trying to do 835 00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 1: something sweet and thoughtful, but it's backfired. It's backfired on him. 836 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 1: He decided we would go to an island for our 837 00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:00,360 Speaker 1: tenth anniversary, and he invited four couples to join us, 838 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 1: but they couldn't give me any details about the trip 839 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,960 Speaker 1: because my husband wanted to surprise me. Last weekend, my 840 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: husband and my husband informed me that he planned a 841 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 1: trip to go visit the hotel, check out boat rentals, 842 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 1: and plan some activities for our big weekend trip. He 843 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,759 Speaker 1: said it would be a quick trip and he was 844 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,920 Speaker 1: taking his buddy with him to help him plan everything. 845 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: He left on Friday and texted me when he landed. 846 00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 1: It was a long flight, so he said he was 847 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,720 Speaker 1: going straight to his room and get in the bed. 848 00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,439 Speaker 1: I didn't hear from him until four pm the next day. 849 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,239 Speaker 1: I tried to FaceTime him and he declined it, but 850 00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 1: then he called me back on a regular call a 851 00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,359 Speaker 1: few minutes later, and it was loud wherever he was. 852 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,120 Speaker 1: Then one of my girlfriends texted me a picture of 853 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 1: a lady whose name was Amber, on a boat in Cancoon. 854 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: I don't like Amber because she has been friends with 855 00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,840 Speaker 1: my husband for fifteen years and she acts like she 856 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,560 Speaker 1: knows him a lot better than I do. I could 857 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: not help but think Amber was wherever my husband was. 858 00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 1: I called him back to back. He didn't answer, so 859 00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 1: I sent him at least ten text messages. He finally responded, yes, 860 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,879 Speaker 1: Amber is helping me plan your weekend getaway, and yes 861 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 1: she is here with me. He got home later that 862 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,320 Speaker 1: night and tried to plead his case. But I've ignored 863 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,600 Speaker 1: him for over a week. He must think I'm stupid. 864 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 1: How could this place ever be special to me? Now 865 00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,800 Speaker 1: that he's taken Amber there. I told him to cancel 866 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 1: the whole trip. He said, I'm overreacting. Why couldn't he 867 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 1: Why couldn't he say that he was going with Amber? Well, 868 00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:44,160 Speaker 1: he did tell you that he was going with a buddy, 869 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,880 Speaker 1: and Amber is a buddy, but you know, not the 870 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:51,160 Speaker 1: kind of buddy. Of course, you know that was that 871 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,960 Speaker 1: you thought he was talking about. And Amber is wrong 872 00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:58,399 Speaker 1: and he is wrong. Absolutely they're both wrong for doing this. 873 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,480 Speaker 1: He didn't mention it because he knew you would be 874 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,839 Speaker 1: mad and probably explode on him, and you would be right, 875 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:12,360 Speaker 1: absolutely right. Your husband, though, who your husband is thoughtful, 876 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,040 Speaker 1: I'll give him that, but he's not very smart. He's 877 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: not smart at all. It was great that he wanted 878 00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 1: to do something wonderful for your tenth anniversary, but to 879 00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 1: plan it with this Amber chick who he knows you 880 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 1: can't stand that beyond stupid on his part, how is 881 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: someone you don't like gonna care enough to plan a sexy, beautiful, awesome, 882 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 1: memorable celebration for you? And Amber is stupid too for 883 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,280 Speaker 1: going over there in the first place. And why wasn't 884 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,479 Speaker 1: he answering her phone while he was all over there 885 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,440 Speaker 1: with Amber? This had disaster written all over at the 886 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,960 Speaker 1: moment your husband included her. And I don't blame you 887 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,439 Speaker 1: for canceling the trip or being upset or anything. You're 888 00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:56,800 Speaker 1: not overreacting. You're acting as any wife would when their 889 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,000 Speaker 1: husband asks a woman you don't like to help plan 890 00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 1: something special for you. Get out of here with this. Uh, Steve, 891 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous, you know this letter, man, It's just 892 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 1: this is when men do stuff so stupid that I 893 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 1: can't help you. Dog, I can't help you at all. Bro, 894 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,280 Speaker 1: I can't even joke this one out. No. I could 895 00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,120 Speaker 1: tell you him funny stuff make you think, but it's 896 00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:37,800 Speaker 1: it's not believable. Now, let's just start at the bottom 897 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 1: of this letter. The subject is they went to see 898 00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 1: the place with album. Her last line in this letter says, 899 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:50,440 Speaker 1: he says, I'm overreacting. Why couldn't he say he was 900 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:56,919 Speaker 1: going with Amber because it is See, we know why 901 00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 1: because of this, he can't come out and tell you 902 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,160 Speaker 1: this thing, this trip is with Amble because all it 903 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: is the letter the reaction. He want this, so he 904 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 1: didn't mention Amble. Now does that make it right? This 905 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:22,560 Speaker 1: dude is so dumb on so many damn levels, you know, Bros. 906 00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,560 Speaker 1: I try to work with y'all sometimes get y'all benefit 907 00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:29,600 Speaker 1: of the doubt, and I will when I can. But Bro, 908 00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: when you do something so blatantly stupid, man, I can't 909 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 1: help you. Man what you want me to do? I 910 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,960 Speaker 1: got women that listen to this show and then actually 911 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,600 Speaker 1: care about Uncle Steve's advice. Now most of y'all know 912 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:45,920 Speaker 1: when I'm joking, y'all know what I'm saying. Well, he 913 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,920 Speaker 1: did this cause of that, and you know, you know, 914 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 1: I'm just because sometimes it's so obviously stupid. But this 915 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:58,480 Speaker 1: is beyond obviously stupid, because this had an element of 916 00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: cunning involved. And this is the part where I don't 917 01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 1: and I don't like it because it was a special occasion. 918 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:11,680 Speaker 1: This is where dudes get in the most. He decided 919 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: that y'all will go on to island for y'all's tenth anniversary. Okay, Green, 920 01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,320 Speaker 1: he invited folk keep people to join us. Now that's 921 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 1: called you know, he got split the costs of this 922 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,280 Speaker 1: island and all this hill maybe or maybe you know, 923 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 1: they just wanted some company, and now all that's cool too, 924 01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 1: But they couldn't give you any details about the trip 925 01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 1: because my husband wanted to surprise me. All right, so 926 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: we come back. I'm gonna show you how he tried 927 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:42,200 Speaker 1: to surprise you. All right, we'll have part two of 928 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:45,800 Speaker 1: Steve's response. Can't wait for this coming up in twenty 929 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject they 930 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: went to see the place without me. We'll get back 931 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:56,680 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the show, 932 01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,960 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter 933 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,760 Speaker 1: or the subject is they want to see the place 934 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 1: without me. I'm gonna apologize to women out there that's 935 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:11,000 Speaker 1: listening to this because I just can't even play around. 936 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,200 Speaker 1: I don't even know where we're going with this right here. 937 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 1: The question she posed at the end of the letter 938 01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,640 Speaker 1: was why couldn't he say he was going with Amber? 939 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 1: And because of this. This is why he didn't tell 940 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 1: you about Amber because of the reaction you have him 941 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,640 Speaker 1: right now in this letter. And the part I don't like, 942 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,320 Speaker 1: bro is he used a special occasion to pull it off. 943 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:35,160 Speaker 1: This is where the dog come in at and this 944 01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 1: is what I don't like. So he decided we go 945 01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: to an island for our tenth anniversary. He invited folk 946 01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 1: couples to join us, but they couldn't give us any 947 01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:50,440 Speaker 1: details about the trip because my husband wanted to surprise me. Okay, 948 01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 1: that sounds cool, But last weekend my husband informed me 949 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,240 Speaker 1: that he planned the trip to go visit the hotel, 950 01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,320 Speaker 1: check out both rentals, and playing some activities for our 951 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 1: big weekend. He said to be a quick trip and 952 01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: he was taking his buddy with him to help him 953 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 1: playing everything right here. Why would you say you taking 954 01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:20,120 Speaker 1: your buddy with you to help you playing everything just right? 955 01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:27,120 Speaker 1: The dog? He shouldn't have said it, but he shouldn't 956 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:31,040 Speaker 1: have did it, because this is for your tenth anniversary. Man, 957 01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:37,919 Speaker 1: you don't take special moments and include trickery. Yeah, that's 958 01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,200 Speaker 1: where the doggish part come in that man, And that's 959 01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:44,360 Speaker 1: what I'm a little ticked off with you about. He 960 01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 1: said to be a quick trip. He's taking his buddy 961 01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,000 Speaker 1: with him to help him playing everything. He left on Friday, 962 01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:54,280 Speaker 1: text me when he landed. Okay, it was a long flight, 963 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:56,400 Speaker 1: so he said he was going straight to his room 964 01:02:56,440 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 1: and get into bed. He did. I didn't hear from 965 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 1: him until folk him the next day. I tried to 966 01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:10,640 Speaker 1: FaceTime him and he declined it. See why declined it? 967 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:15,240 Speaker 1: Just Let listen to me though. Decline it means you 968 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:21,200 Speaker 1: saw it and hit the red button. Just let it ring. 969 01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 1: It's gold. Stop. Why are you declining it? You never 970 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:40,920 Speaker 1: saw it? Stupid, can't center in the man. He calls 971 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,479 Speaker 1: me back on a regular call a few minutes later, 972 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:45,920 Speaker 1: and it was loud wherever he was. He was at 973 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 1: the club. One of my girlfriends take me a picture 974 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,440 Speaker 1: of a lady named Amber on a boat in can Koon. 975 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,560 Speaker 1: I don't like Amba because she has been friends with 976 01:03:57,640 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 1: my husband for fifteen years and she acts like she 977 01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,280 Speaker 1: knows him a lot better than I do. Well she do. 978 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,960 Speaker 1: He took her on the trip. Now, let me tell 979 01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 1: you how you got to picture Amber on the boat 980 01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:14,040 Speaker 1: in can Koon. Because one of the folk couples that 981 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:20,120 Speaker 1: y'all went to one of the folk couples. Dude set 982 01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:25,000 Speaker 1: up here and took a picture, got a picture from 983 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:30,560 Speaker 1: his boy of Amber or Amber is friends with one 984 01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:34,439 Speaker 1: of the girls, and sent how the picture tell about 985 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 1: we down here playing in the trip, and the girls 986 01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:43,320 Speaker 1: sent a picture to you Amber is in the picture 987 01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:47,120 Speaker 1: and Amber either center picture or the dumb ass husband 988 01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 1: say yeah, man, me and me and Amber and his 989 01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:52,120 Speaker 1: boat we down here, and his wife saw it as 990 01:04:52,200 --> 01:05:01,480 Speaker 1: one of the other couples that you so stupid. Well 991 01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,240 Speaker 1: it didn't said that. Text me a picture of a 992 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:08,280 Speaker 1: lady named Amber boat the girlfriend I don't like Amba. 993 01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:11,000 Speaker 1: I cannot help but think that Amber was whoever. My 994 01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:16,560 Speaker 1: husband was absolutely right. I called him back to back 995 01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,520 Speaker 1: to back. He didn't answer, so I sent him at 996 01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:25,960 Speaker 1: least ten text messages. We've all been here. He finally responded, 997 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: And then this is what this fool said. Yes, Amber 998 01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:35,360 Speaker 1: is helping me playing your weekend getaway, and yes she 999 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:40,440 Speaker 1: is here with me. He knows he's wrong. Dog, What 1000 01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:45,880 Speaker 1: are you nuts? It's no way I could have admitted 1001 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,840 Speaker 1: that I would even dare what the pictures say? Well, 1002 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,280 Speaker 1: I was the picture you got the pictures. I don't care. Oh, 1003 01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:58,600 Speaker 1: I wasn't in a picture that is you. It's not me. 1004 01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:04,720 Speaker 1: That is your head in Mexico. You know how many 1005 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:09,040 Speaker 1: people in Mexico look like me? A lot? Done? They 1006 01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 1: found the one who did. How could his he ignored 1007 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 1: me for then? Okay, anyway, he got home later that 1008 01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,000 Speaker 1: night and tried to plead this case. I've ignored him 1009 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:24,880 Speaker 1: for over a week. He must think I'm stupid. How 1010 01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 1: could this place ever be special to me? Now that 1011 01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,120 Speaker 1: he's taking Amber there? I told him to cancel the 1012 01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 1: whole trip, and I could understand you doing that, he said, 1013 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,680 Speaker 1: I'm overreacting. Why couldn't he say he was going with amb? 1014 01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:42,480 Speaker 1: He can't tell you taking Amber? You face time? He 1015 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:46,760 Speaker 1: declined it he in a loud atmosphere. He calls you 1016 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: back later. I mean, come on, he should have never 1017 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 1: took amb. But this is stupid on so many levels. 1018 01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 1: It just ignorance, man, dog and Bro, you got to 1019 01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 1: with the bid, you the maid. You gotta lay in 1020 01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:03,920 Speaker 1: this one. Bro, I'm sorry, I don't know. I don't 1021 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:05,920 Speaker 1: know what to tell you. This is ignorant. All right, 1022 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:08,960 Speaker 1: You're so damned. Thank you? Steve. Post your comments on 1023 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,280 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram and face. 1024 01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:17,440 Speaker 1: Check out the Bwberry Letter podcast on demand coming up 1025 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:20,120 Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after in Sports Talk with Junior. 1026 01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:24,360 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1027 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,640 Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, Junior is here now with 1028 01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:31,920 Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got, Junior, please please just stop, 1029 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:37,640 Speaker 1: just ease up on the Cowboys. God, they let me 1030 01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 1: tell you, baby, you can't make this up. This is 1031 01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:44,000 Speaker 1: actually a true story. That was Cowboys quarterback Dak Prescott 1032 01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:49,840 Speaker 1: and his girlfriend for two years, how with their separate ways? Now, yeah, 1033 01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:53,040 Speaker 1: she left them because they say it. The Beans say 1034 01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 1: she left because she couldn't see no ring coming. God, 1035 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:08,240 Speaker 1: lead colo. He gave his bitch shot his girl. Okay, Junior, Yeah, 1036 01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 1: they say Dak got into the locker room and threw 1037 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:18,160 Speaker 1: his helmet and guess what. Somebody called it. Somebody accepted it. Dog, 1038 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 1: Just do it. That manure of his girlfrid, Oh yeah, 1039 01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:30,680 Speaker 1: the picture of mine. You know the other thing too, man, 1040 01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:32,880 Speaker 1: This is how serious. Man. Everybody's really mad at Dak 1041 01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:37,280 Speaker 1: Prescott because Michael Parson's linebacker for the Dallas Cowboys, says 1042 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,439 Speaker 1: that three out of the four quarterbacks in the in 1043 01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,280 Speaker 1: the Championship Games. Three out of four quarterbacks in the 1044 01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:47,040 Speaker 1: Champion Games have rookie contracts. He's talking about Brock Purdy, 1045 01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 1: Javid Hurts still his rookie deal, and Joe Burrow. Now 1046 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 1: that he's saying that wef we just get rid of 1047 01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:55,000 Speaker 1: dak Prescott, maybe we can get some more talent in 1048 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:59,559 Speaker 1: here at quarterback. And he just put that out there. Man, 1049 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,240 Speaker 1: that's not even really something you should be saying like 1050 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 1: that because they just said yes. Man, it is like 1051 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,720 Speaker 1: they are internal over in Dallas. Man, they don't like him. 1052 01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,640 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I don't want to see that go. 1053 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to see him go eat. 1054 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to see that. I really don't want 1055 01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,240 Speaker 1: to see him go. So is there a way to 1056 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 1: fix the Cowboys? Is Daktor Prescott the man in Dallas? 1057 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:25,920 Speaker 1: Should he stay? Should he get another season? You know, Junior, 1058 01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 1: you're asking if somebody who never gave damn by the Cowboys. 1059 01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,240 Speaker 1: Let me just give your brief history moment. When I 1060 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:36,120 Speaker 1: was a little boy, the Dallas Cowboys was in the 1061 01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:40,000 Speaker 1: North Division with the Cleveland Browns. I have grown up 1062 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:43,519 Speaker 1: since a boy hating the Dallas Cows the wrong person. 1063 01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:45,960 Speaker 1: I did. Now. When they broke up the AFC NFC 1064 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:47,920 Speaker 1: and the Cowboys went over to the NFC and the 1065 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 1: Browns stayed in the AFC, my hatred for them never ended. 1066 01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,400 Speaker 1: This is boyhood hate. I don't even know how to 1067 01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:03,840 Speaker 1: rid myself of that. My bad luck. I didn't know 1068 01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,519 Speaker 1: that far. I hated Mary Singleton as a boy to 1069 01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:14,599 Speaker 1: this day, sixty six years later. He lived on my street. 1070 01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:24,559 Speaker 1: Either another boy lived on my street. I just never 1071 01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:32,559 Speaker 1: forget it, all right, hang all right, rolled it off 1072 01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,439 Speaker 1: into the back of a Cohn bent my realm. I 1073 01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:37,720 Speaker 1: didn't have no money form, no new realm. Coming up. 1074 01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:42,960 Speaker 1: At the top of the fan, Steve, a woman needs 1075 01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:50,360 Speaker 1: your help. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. Well, Steve, 1076 01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,080 Speaker 1: this one's for you. This one's from Derek on Facebook. 1077 01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:56,599 Speaker 1: He writes, I finally started dating again after a divorce 1078 01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:59,640 Speaker 1: and two years off. These days, I share custody of 1079 01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 1: my with my wife, and I have my little girl, 1080 01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:06,760 Speaker 1: Kelsey over every other weekend. The downside is that I 1081 01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,799 Speaker 1: made the mistake of introducing the woman I've been seeing 1082 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:14,080 Speaker 1: to my daughter and have regretted it ever since. Even 1083 01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:16,760 Speaker 1: though she's not a parent and has only known my 1084 01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 1: daughter for less than a month. She somehow got the 1085 01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,800 Speaker 1: idea in her head that she has the right to 1086 01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,960 Speaker 1: punish and discipline Kelsey when she comes over. It's led 1087 01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,880 Speaker 1: to some uncomfortable moments and it needs to stop. Is 1088 01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,600 Speaker 1: this the relationship killer that I think it is? The 1089 01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:36,760 Speaker 1: relationship with my little girl is far more important, and 1090 01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,639 Speaker 1: there's a line that's going to be crossed if I 1091 01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 1: don't control it. So yeah, just a deal, break it. 1092 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:47,639 Speaker 1: It's better she don't understand it, you better, and if 1093 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 1: the mama fund right? Dude, Kelsey, Mama, Man, it's not 1094 01:11:56,120 --> 01:12:00,559 Speaker 1: good brocause I'm a little stunned anyway. What you finally 1095 01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:04,639 Speaker 1: started dating after your divorce and waited two years? Who 1096 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:09,800 Speaker 1: do that? Yeah? I'm not really sure that's the truth, bro, 1097 01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,240 Speaker 1: because me and we don't. We don't wait two years 1098 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,720 Speaker 1: to date. That's not who we are, even if you 1099 01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,519 Speaker 1: have a little girl to raise or whatever. Maybe he 1100 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: was concentrating on his baborite, that's cool. Yeah, no, no, no, 1101 01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 1: she got to go to sleep though. Somebody coming over here, 1102 01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 1: somebody coming over here when baby go bad? Right now, 1103 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,040 Speaker 1: two years we've been to move your bad time up 1104 01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:38,120 Speaker 1: you've been get on, boy've been a lock on your 1105 01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:49,640 Speaker 1: damn thought two years what you moved it up to? 1106 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 1: Bad time? Was that now? When you moving it up 1107 01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:59,240 Speaker 1: to six thirty? We ain't got them on TVs in't 1108 01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 1: here nothing, no paid off all the internet in this house. 1109 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:09,719 Speaker 1: Go off it. But daddy, I'm not sleeping. I didn't 1110 01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:13,400 Speaker 1: ask you when you sleep. I said go to bed. 1111 01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:16,439 Speaker 1: And I don't give a damn what you're doing now, Daddy, 1112 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,519 Speaker 1: I need some help with my homework. I don't know 1113 01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:24,240 Speaker 1: about that damn homework. I got somebody coming over here. 1114 01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:25,640 Speaker 1: We can get the elf. We can deal with the 1115 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:32,800 Speaker 1: l want to fail? Are you want me to fail? 1116 01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,839 Speaker 1: Are you helping Derek? He needs your help here, Steve? 1117 01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:43,479 Speaker 1: What what? What do you want? Shall? He wants to know? 1118 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:48,840 Speaker 1: Is this relationship killer that he thinks it is, because yeah, okay, 1119 01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:50,920 Speaker 1: so he should do she and it disciplined in his 1120 01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:54,519 Speaker 1: baby and dog. You got to get some permission. You've 1121 01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:57,599 Speaker 1: on't eve been around for one month and you're talking 1122 01:13:57,600 --> 01:13:59,559 Speaker 1: about she gonna cross the line. You already know what 1123 01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:10,200 Speaker 1: it's going bro. Bro all y'all going out jail cack out. 1124 01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 1: All right, here's another one, another relationship question from Tracy 1125 01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 1: Steve uh. This is from Steve Steve Harvey dot com. 1126 01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,400 Speaker 1: It's been over two years since I was in a relationship. 1127 01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:23,840 Speaker 1: I have a pretty active social life. I meet lots 1128 01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:25,680 Speaker 1: of new people, but I just don't never seem to 1129 01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:30,280 Speaker 1: meet anyone that I'm particularly attracted to. I'm afraid that 1130 01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:32,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to spend the rest of my life alone. 1131 01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:34,240 Speaker 1: Is there's something wrong with me? Should I be doing 1132 01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:37,439 Speaker 1: something different? Yeah? First of all, why don't you quit 1133 01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:43,559 Speaker 1: putting that into atmosphere that is something wrong with you? 1134 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:49,160 Speaker 1: Am I doing something wrong? I'm socially in app Why 1135 01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:51,639 Speaker 1: don't you stop saying that. It's been two years. If 1136 01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:56,120 Speaker 1: you saying that, and so you keep attracting the wrong people, 1137 01:14:56,800 --> 01:15:00,120 Speaker 1: and you keep claiming that you're socially in app so 1138 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:04,280 Speaker 1: you keep winding up in the same situation. Positive affirmation 1139 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:08,440 Speaker 1: is the first thing you need to do that every day, 1140 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:13,920 Speaker 1: in every way, I'm getting better and better. All right, 1141 01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,679 Speaker 1: Thank you? That was good. Coming up at twenty minutes 1142 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,120 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1143 01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:26,439 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening show, all right, 1144 01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:30,280 Speaker 1: So Steve our last break, we were talking trying to 1145 01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:33,880 Speaker 1: help Tracy, who said, you know, she's it's been two 1146 01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:36,160 Speaker 1: years since she's been in a relationship. She has a 1147 01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,639 Speaker 1: pretty active social life. She meets new people, but she 1148 01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:42,759 Speaker 1: doesn't ever meet anyone that she's interested in. And she's 1149 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: asking herself, is there something wrong with her? Should she 1150 01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:48,720 Speaker 1: be doing something different? And you said, don't put that 1151 01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:52,640 Speaker 1: out in the atmosphere first, what you know, like, is 1152 01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,680 Speaker 1: it something wrong with her? I think only she can 1153 01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:58,559 Speaker 1: answer that question. But now, what a lot to mistake 1154 01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:00,880 Speaker 1: a lot of women do is they listen to other 1155 01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:03,960 Speaker 1: people talking about girl, you too picky and all iss here. 1156 01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:07,600 Speaker 1: And there's no such thing as being too picky unless 1157 01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,880 Speaker 1: you're underqualified for the things that a man has to 1158 01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:15,120 Speaker 1: be qualified for. See, if you're looking for a man 1159 01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:18,040 Speaker 1: that's all that, then I hate to tell you these ladies, 1160 01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 1: but you need to be all that too, right, That's 1161 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 1: a huge part of it. And a lot of times 1162 01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:25,600 Speaker 1: you go in here and you dump all this on 1163 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 1: this man, but then the man wants something dumped on 1164 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:31,559 Speaker 1: him too. And if you're not gonna be what you're 1165 01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:34,920 Speaker 1: looking for, what do you think a man who has 1166 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,519 Speaker 1: all that is looking? Y'all think we're just out here 1167 01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:39,880 Speaker 1: because you got some lashes on. That's what you think. 1168 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:43,880 Speaker 1: If you watch the African Famous and Rich. You've seen 1169 01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:49,160 Speaker 1: that show. I don't know how they open their eyes 1170 01:16:49,360 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 1: with the shows. Man, touch your eyebrows. Coming up in 1171 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:05,320 Speaker 1: thirty three minutes, thank you. See thirty three minutes after 1172 01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:07,639 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll play a round off. Would you rather 1173 01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show, It is time 1174 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,720 Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you 1175 01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:22,639 Speaker 1: rather fight a tiger or a bear? Which one? Oh? 1176 01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm losing one, but you have to you gotta ask 1177 01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:34,160 Speaker 1: you a dad, I can't beat that. I can't out 1178 01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 1: run down one of them. I can't. That's that's that's 1179 01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:45,719 Speaker 1: we out. Let me get it overway, give me a tiger. Clo. Okay, 1180 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:49,240 Speaker 1: I get that tiger. He packed tiger? He did? Yeah, 1181 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:52,000 Speaker 1: all right? Would you rather play basketball with Michael Jordan 1182 01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:58,400 Speaker 1: or Lebron James against him? Yeah? With them, with them, 1183 01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:02,160 Speaker 1: just to play just to what what is that fall? 1184 01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:06,680 Speaker 1: But you would you rather be able to play with 1185 01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:10,960 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan or Lebron Jacks? It's just what you play 1186 01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 1: play basketball with. You should have said something else, like, 1187 01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:20,640 Speaker 1: you know, man, we gonna play golf. You don't want to. 1188 01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:24,599 Speaker 1: You don't want to play basketball? No, I don't want 1189 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:27,320 Speaker 1: to as well play against the band the Tiger. I mean, 1190 01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:32,880 Speaker 1: what is sixty six play on? It ain't even gonna 1191 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:38,479 Speaker 1: look like basketball. It's gonna really happen the Tiger. Yeah, 1192 01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:43,880 Speaker 1: we just playing the game, guys. Okay, all right, we're 1193 01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,040 Speaker 1: getting back to the animals. Now. Would you rather put 1194 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:48,559 Speaker 1: your head in a lion's mouth or would you rather 1195 01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:57,439 Speaker 1: water ski over a shark tank? Okay, okay, I don't know, Yeah, 1196 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:06,080 Speaker 1: answer the question. Question, that's all putting my head in 1197 01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:08,799 Speaker 1: no lines month. I showed them want the word skiing, 1198 01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:11,400 Speaker 1: no shark tank, but give me the shark tank. I 1199 01:19:11,560 --> 01:19:16,960 Speaker 1: can't say. Yeah, I mean I'm on skis, you know. 1200 01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:19,320 Speaker 1: That's all I can tell you. Well, Hello, you think 1201 01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:30,479 Speaker 1: you're gonna be on and you know I started screaming, Yeah, 1202 01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:38,120 Speaker 1: we're just gonna be standing here all damn. I'm not 1203 01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:40,719 Speaker 1: going in there. I'm not gonna put my head. I'm sorry. 1204 01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:45,920 Speaker 1: All right, what you do? We're moving on because you 1205 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,680 Speaker 1: guys suck? All right? Would you rather have hands that 1206 01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:51,880 Speaker 1: kept growing as you got older or feet that kept 1207 01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:57,000 Speaker 1: growing as you get older. What where you get these 1208 01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:05,400 Speaker 1: looks like? Yeah, yeah, you would look like the hobby. 1209 01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 1: Now I'm just sitting up in here bathfoot in where 1210 01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:17,160 Speaker 1: I go. Ye six your feet look at them? Eighteen? 1211 01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:25,040 Speaker 1: All right? All right? Coming up in forty nine minutes 1212 01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:27,240 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have our last break of the 1213 01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,519 Speaker 1: day and we'll get some closing remarks from the one 1214 01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:33,120 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to 1215 01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:37,280 Speaker 1: the Steve Morning Show. It is time now for today's 1216 01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:40,879 Speaker 1: closing remarks. But Steve, before we get to you, um, 1217 01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:43,920 Speaker 1: we have to say a prayer for the victims of 1218 01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:47,400 Speaker 1: an extra alarm fire that happened on yesterday in Chicago 1219 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:51,080 Speaker 1: and a Kinwood neighborhood. It was in a high rise building. 1220 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:54,800 Speaker 1: According to the Black Information Network, this fire burned through 1221 01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 1: several floors. According to city records, this building has been 1222 01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 1: sighted from multiple city code violations. Investigators are looking into 1223 01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:06,680 Speaker 1: the cause of the fire, and all we can say is, 1224 01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:10,240 Speaker 1: please keep listening to our homestation in Chicago. That would 1225 01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,960 Speaker 1: be B one oh three for more on this developing story, 1226 01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:18,760 Speaker 1: and definitely our prayers are going on. That's horrible. I 1227 01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:20,680 Speaker 1: saw the debris. I saw it on the news of 1228 01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:26,360 Speaker 1: debris flying from the building. Horrible, horrible, horrible, horrible, Praying 1229 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:28,960 Speaker 1: for the victims and their families. So sad. There's so 1230 01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:32,240 Speaker 1: much going on, many, so much going this world in 1231 01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:40,479 Speaker 1: which we live. You know, it's a lot, you know, 1232 01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:46,519 Speaker 1: we sometimes man, even myself, I just found myself at 1233 01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:53,280 Speaker 1: a loss with what happens on the news in this country. 1234 01:21:55,040 --> 01:21:58,519 Speaker 1: Because I've been very fortunate, and God has graced me 1235 01:21:58,560 --> 01:22:02,680 Speaker 1: to be able to travel to many, many different places. 1236 01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:06,240 Speaker 1: I think traveling has really opened up my eyes to 1237 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:10,559 Speaker 1: a lot of things. Because I was very very Americanized, 1238 01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:15,720 Speaker 1: I was very very Western, because that's why I grew up. Now, 1239 01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:19,479 Speaker 1: I had a disadvantage growing up because of who I was, 1240 01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 1: the color of my skin, that age, the period that 1241 01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:26,599 Speaker 1: I grew up in. But through God's grace, I got 1242 01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:30,519 Speaker 1: through and I'm here now and it affords me an 1243 01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:34,680 Speaker 1: incredible life that almost almost never really saw coming. To 1244 01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:37,639 Speaker 1: be honest with you, That's how I know its God's grace, 1245 01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:41,040 Speaker 1: because I didn't. I didn't plan it this way. You know. 1246 01:22:41,040 --> 01:22:43,120 Speaker 1: I had some hopes and dreams and some visions, but 1247 01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:46,240 Speaker 1: I certainly cannot tell you that I mapped this out. 1248 01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:50,760 Speaker 1: I just didn't, man. And the more I travel, the 1249 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:57,719 Speaker 1: more I've been awakened and understanding of just everything. Man, 1250 01:22:58,479 --> 01:23:04,479 Speaker 1: we have been fed so much misinformation about other parts 1251 01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:11,800 Speaker 1: of the world. It's alarming. It's alarming. And our country's 1252 01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:18,920 Speaker 1: attitude of superiority is well noted around the world. Now, 1253 01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:25,080 Speaker 1: is America admired in some places? Yes? Yes. Do people 1254 01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:30,519 Speaker 1: aspire to come there for opportunity, to come here for opportunity? Yes? Yes. 1255 01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:34,639 Speaker 1: Do they have any idea what all is over here? 1256 01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:38,920 Speaker 1: I promise you you don't. I promise you you don't. 1257 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:45,920 Speaker 1: I talk to Africans all the time about their strong 1258 01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:51,720 Speaker 1: desire to get to the state because they see, you know, opportunity. 1259 01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:57,120 Speaker 1: They see all these videos, they see these people who 1260 01:23:57,160 --> 01:24:02,599 Speaker 1: are thriving, surviving, They see all that. But you got 1261 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:06,599 Speaker 1: to pull the curtain back so you can see all 1262 01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:12,599 Speaker 1: of it. And it's it's really man. If we could 1263 01:24:12,600 --> 01:24:18,480 Speaker 1: tie the two nations together, if African Americans could understand 1264 01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:23,719 Speaker 1: the value of going to Africa and understanding what's actually there, 1265 01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:28,400 Speaker 1: if we could bridge that gap, that would be a 1266 01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:34,519 Speaker 1: solving of so many problems. And you know, you do 1267 01:24:34,600 --> 01:24:38,519 Speaker 1: you know that Africa is the only continent on Earth 1268 01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:42,519 Speaker 1: that does not have to import anything. They don't need 1269 01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:46,320 Speaker 1: your food. They have it there. They have the resources. 1270 01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:50,200 Speaker 1: Now they don't have the roads and the infrastructure to trade. 1271 01:24:50,920 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 1: But they got food over there. They got all the fruits, 1272 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:57,360 Speaker 1: they got all the animals, they have everything over there. 1273 01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:04,360 Speaker 1: They got all the minerals, they have everything. Africa doesn't 1274 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:10,240 Speaker 1: need to import anything. America has to import resources, Russia 1275 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:13,919 Speaker 1: has to import stuff. Everywhere I go has to import 1276 01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:17,639 Speaker 1: with the exception of Africa. But yet, and still that's 1277 01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:20,960 Speaker 1: such a cry to leave there to come here. Man, 1278 01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:25,240 Speaker 1: if we could go there and look at the opportunities 1279 01:25:25,280 --> 01:25:31,719 Speaker 1: that were available. Africa is the fastest growing continent on Earth. 1280 01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:36,320 Speaker 1: American business don't want you to know that because they 1281 01:25:36,479 --> 01:25:41,960 Speaker 1: over there taking They're not investing in Africa. They're stripping 1282 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:45,160 Speaker 1: it like they always have. They started by stripping it 1283 01:25:45,280 --> 01:25:49,520 Speaker 1: of their people. How do you think America got built? 1284 01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:51,639 Speaker 1: First they stripped it of the people. Then they went 1285 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:55,760 Speaker 1: over they went, whoa, they have all the resources. So 1286 01:25:55,840 --> 01:25:59,360 Speaker 1: then they began stripping the resources. So then the really 1287 01:25:59,400 --> 01:26:02,240 Speaker 1: slick part came about when they said, wow, if we 1288 01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:06,080 Speaker 1: don't help them and leave them in these remote areas 1289 01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:09,520 Speaker 1: where they don't have access to water and simple things. 1290 01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:14,120 Speaker 1: We come in dig a well in exchange for ownership 1291 01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:17,479 Speaker 1: of all this land and everything that's in it. So 1292 01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:21,960 Speaker 1: not just out of pure survival. Yes, dig us this well. 1293 01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:25,639 Speaker 1: Bring your technology to dig the well. Now we got 1294 01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:29,639 Speaker 1: water or now they've given up their resources. The stripping 1295 01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:34,400 Speaker 1: of Africa has been going on for hundreds of years. 1296 01:26:35,160 --> 01:26:39,920 Speaker 1: If African Americans would go to Africa and learn the 1297 01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:45,320 Speaker 1: opportunities and take your money and invest in infrastructure and housing, 1298 01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:49,880 Speaker 1: in agriculture, that's so much to do over that it 1299 01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:54,200 Speaker 1: would strengthen the continent. That's the longer conversation than I 1300 01:26:54,280 --> 01:26:58,920 Speaker 1: have time for to take. But just travel so you 1301 01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:00,960 Speaker 1: can see the world for what it is instead of 1302 01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:03,679 Speaker 1: what America has made you believe it to be. Those 1303 01:27:03,720 --> 01:27:06,800 Speaker 1: are my close remarks today. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God. 1304 01:27:06,840 --> 01:27:19,160 Speaker 1: He'd love to hear from you. Okay. For all Steve 1305 01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:22,920 Speaker 1: Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must 1306 01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:26,080 Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1307 01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:30,000 Speaker 1: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM 1308 01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:33,679 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show