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Speaker 1: Bridezilla ruins her own wedding, demands bridal party. Hey, her

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Speaker 1: canceled wedding. This is okop home with the crazy stories

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Speaker 1: on Earth. I'm Sam John Sophia. What do you think

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Speaker 1: is it okay for your for the bridal person to

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Speaker 1: request the bridal party money for the canceled wedding? No,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'll say, not as bad as the

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Speaker 1: first story. Not as bad, yeah, not as bad.

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Speaker 2: But the money's not even going anywhere at that time,

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Speaker 2: going to So not only am I not getting an

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Speaker 2: ice swan, not only is my ex friend not getting

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Speaker 2: her boobs done, there is no wedding.

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Speaker 3: I don't even get to go to a fun party.

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Speaker 1: I would rather go nowhere then yeah, then boom, then

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Speaker 1: the boob job. Yeah me too, me too, No, well

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Speaker 1: I guess nowhere. It means she's going into her pockets,

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Speaker 1: going somewhere.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's going to her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It comes from l R. Hunt. So this is

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Speaker 1: actually fairly reacarting. January sixteenth, twenty twenty four. So that

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Speaker 1: is recent starting the year strong, I swear. So my

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Speaker 1: friend Dana f Female twenty nine was supposed to be

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Speaker 1: getting married this past Sunday four teen, the wedding got

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Speaker 1: canceled and things have gotten very crazy. Dana was getting

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Speaker 1: married to Josh Mail thirty two. She's still in college

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Speaker 1: with me and asked a few friends from college myself

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Speaker 1: included be her bridal party. Now, from the start, this

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Speaker 1: wedding has been a disaster. Ooh, I'm going to just

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Speaker 1: point out a few of the crazy things we had

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Speaker 1: to deal with. What she refused to invite my best friend,

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Speaker 1: who she's supposed to be good friends with, because she

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Speaker 1: thinks we're a lesbian lovers were not.

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Speaker 4: What wait, ouch, she's not inviting one of her friends

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Speaker 4: because she thinks that they're gay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow, since she's homophobic. And Ron two, he had.

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Speaker 1: Us go to the dress fitting and then demanded each

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Speaker 1: of us each of us paid two thousand dollars each

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Speaker 1: for our dresses. Excuse me, two thousand dollars. Excuse me.

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Speaker 1: That's wedding crazy. This is two thousand dollars each a parent.

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Speaker 1: She had a specific style she wanted, I could afford it. Damn,

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Speaker 1: obi Obie's got it like that all right, But I

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Speaker 1: won't buy a two K dress for one event. Some

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Speaker 1: of the girls in the rattle party don't have the

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Speaker 1: flexibility with money. Yeah, two thousand dollars for Can you

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Speaker 1: give me two thousand dollars for this footstool? Yeah, I can.

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Speaker 1: I need it for to use it once and then

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw it away. Okay. You want me to

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Speaker 1: give you two thousand dollars for you to also have

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Speaker 1: the footstool, Yeah, and I'm gonna throw it away after

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm never gonna use it again the one time.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a great deal, Thanks John. Three. Apparently Josh

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Speaker 1: could invite any single females that were not blood relatives

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Speaker 1: of him, So if he had any female friends, they

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Speaker 1: were asked, wow, well why were you not verycent? Comment

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Speaker 1: that we just got big protein. I want your little

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Speaker 1: protein Wednesday, mama, misspit. Oh my goodness, Wednesday, mama, my mama, Misspits.

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Speaker 3: All right, Okaya?

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Speaker 1: What was there? Three was the he was not allowed

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Speaker 1: to females.

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Speaker 3: Okay, no friends of his.

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Speaker 1: No single female. I couldn't know. Josh couldn't invite any

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Speaker 1: single female. Yeah we're not. Yeah, yeah, I mean well

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Speaker 1: even if they weren't expense there's no single female. More.

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Speaker 1: One of the girls in the bridal party doesn't drink

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Speaker 1: because of her religion. Data accused her of being pregnant

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Speaker 1: out of the house. She was not pregnant, and she

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Speaker 1: dropped from the bridal party. She was a class act though,

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Speaker 1: and never bad talk. Dana just said she couldn't make it.

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Speaker 1: We found out about it pretty much on the day

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Speaker 1: of the wedding. Everyone just don't show up to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: That's the solution. What dude, there is just like chaos

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Speaker 1: following this wedding. This woman is insane. Her parents, Yes,

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Speaker 1: in front of the parents. I guess what. There is

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Speaker 1: still one more. Five. She tried to make us cancel

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Speaker 1: our holidays with our families to instead go with her

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Speaker 1: Most of the bride'smaids said similar, and she dropped it.

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Speaker 1: That's just five things of countless drama. This wedding was

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Speaker 1: before the day. Oh my god. Okay, so we're going

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Speaker 1: into it. But like I have a question for you

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Speaker 1: you not want to go to the wedding. Of course, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, we're not friends anymore.

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Speaker 1: And also like, wouldn't it wouldn't it be? I feel

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Speaker 1: like it's also just like, were there not red flags

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Speaker 1: don't know, like is the Bridezilla thing like really Like,

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Speaker 1: I know people get worse around weddings potentially, but is

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine. I can't imagine. So there has to

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Speaker 1: red flags before. Come on, there has to be red

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Speaker 1: flags before. And Katie Page said, I totally tell her

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Speaker 1: where she could stick it. Uh, probably a good move,

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Speaker 1: Probably a good move. And then the Raven says, weddings

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Speaker 1: change people, but there are precursors. I totally agree. So

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Speaker 1: now the meat of the story comes on the wedding day,

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Speaker 1: So I guess p decided to still go to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: The day started beautifully wrong. The day started horrible. Of of course,

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Speaker 1: Dana was having a meltdown because apparently the flower girl

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Speaker 1: had to cancel because she has chicken pox. She was

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Speaker 1: threatening to sue the mother unless she brought this sick

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Speaker 3: How would you what's the lass.

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Speaker 1: That she didn't show up? She ruined my wedding. I'm

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Speaker 1: suing the baby, baby, how do you please? She was

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Speaker 1: threatening to sue the mother unless she brought the sick

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Speaker 1: to call her down from the starter outburst as we

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Speaker 1: began preparations. The whole day she had constant outbursts. She

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Speaker 1: made people cry, wedding staff and bride'smaids. The maid of

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Speaker 1: honor deserves a medal for the amount of diplomacy and

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Speaker 1: bullshit control she had to do. I, for the most part,

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Speaker 1: Eventually I had my makeup and hair done, then the

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Speaker 1: to decompress from the stress. We didn't even find it.

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Speaker 1: You could see a group of women run away faster.

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Speaker 1: would be fine alone for a little bit, right, like,

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Speaker 1: to decompress it. Sto what's going to happen? I spent

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Speaker 1: those thirty minutes just sitting in the chapel with my phone.

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Speaker 1: It had to be about five minutes before the start

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Speaker 1: of the wedding when the maid of honor came to

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Speaker 1: tell me that no, no wedding. What's canceled five minutes before?

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Speaker 1: Five minutes before that is the coldest. Why why'd you

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Speaker 1: make us all go here? For what? I know?

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Speaker 3: They better keep that that party going high.

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Speaker 1: I OpEd him. I mean, when you cancel a wedding

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Speaker 1: like five minutes before, I have to keep the reception.

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Speaker 1: I'm partying in the chapel. I'm still partying. I'm taking

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Speaker 1: shots on the drinking the wine off the off the priest.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'll get to that church, wie man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there we go. Also, Pope Francis said wine is a

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Speaker 1: gift from God. So we're chugging that ship like no tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: I thought he said the masturbation was a no, sex

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Speaker 3: was a gift from good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think a gift from God. Hope have

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Speaker 1: sex all this. Let's go, sir. What happened? Made of honor?

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Speaker 1: Dana was having it. Oh, we don't know the ts

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Speaker 1: Oh my God, made of honor? Okay, So Dana Dana,

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Speaker 1: Dana is the bride. Dana was having a quickie with Josh,

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Speaker 1: which is the husband. His uncle what doctor's uncle in

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Speaker 1: the room and Josh caught that I bettes before.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: We usually joke about the insane, ridiculous thing that happened,

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Speaker 5: but this is just this is just unimaginable.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, I feel like she's doing this on purpose.

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Speaker 1: She's trying to savage like she's Josh to find her,

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Speaker 1: she wants her room to find her. I think she's

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Speaker 1: getting cold feet, and the only like she's like, I'm

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Speaker 5: The wedding instead of like going and being like hey,

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Speaker 5: I'm like so just up and panic attack blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: No I have to I have to f your uncle,

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Speaker 1: oh Josh, Yeah, why also like terrible uncle uncle? Do

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Speaker 1: you think you're worried. All right, right, conspiracy theory. Can

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Speaker 1: we can we pause right here? Pause right here? All right,

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Speaker 1: let's pause theory. Okay, okay, I think I think she's

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Speaker 1: been hooking up with the uncle this whole time. I

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Speaker 1: perfect right, What do you guys think? It's rings? Don't

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Speaker 1: want holes? Yeah, they make a nice little hole. Four

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Speaker 1: things to go. Yeah, she's on the hinge.

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Speaker 3: Rock chick like holes in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, that's true. That's true. Yeah, that that

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Speaker 1: but yeah, it had to be before that. But we're

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Speaker 1: gonna keep going. I'm gonna keep going. Oh God, like

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Speaker 1: Josh's uncle did as he made eye contact with Joh,

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Speaker 1: I just stared at the Maid of Honor with my

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Speaker 1: mouth pretty much about to reach the floor. YOUX speaseless.

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Speaker 1: I would be speech to us, much like Dana again

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Speaker 1: with Josh's uncle. She told me to run, and she

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Speaker 1: She was trying to get as many people out before

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Speaker 1: things exploded. Yeah, I mean, just imagine how crazy this is.

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Speaker 1: Everyone starts brawling. Yeah, I mean, I can imagine, well,

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Speaker 1: I quickly got my purse, gathered the two bridesmaids that

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Speaker 1: not going in just like attacking everyone. Yeah, oh man,

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Speaker 1: thinking that noise hurts my throat much like Josh's.

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Speaker 3: You can't keep it.

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Speaker 1: I have to. I have to. Apparently, that night I

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Speaker 1: called the maid of honor to check what happened, and

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Speaker 1: the tea was bad.

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Speaker 3: Like, let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: Please, I'm so much tea for you. Please tell me

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Speaker 1: it doesn't get worse. Get those tea bags ready. I

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Speaker 1: much like uncle. I can't handle I can't hand bag.

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Speaker 1: I can't handle it, all right, I can't handle it eyes. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: and rightfully, Josh called off the wedding, called her a

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Speaker 1: few names, told off his uncle, and has since left

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Speaker 1: with his mates to hope have the biggest single man

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Speaker 1: party ever. I feel so bad for him. I feel

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Speaker 1: bad too. He's an absolute gem of a man. He

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Speaker 1: apparently also told Dana and her parents that she will

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Speaker 1: be paying the cancelation fees. Good smart, smart. I feel

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Speaker 1: like that's the rule. Like, if you get caught half

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Speaker 1: and your uncle, you have to pay for the wedding.

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Speaker 1: That's so true.

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Speaker 1: I see it. Yeah, I put, I see you in

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Speaker 1: According to the Maid of Honor, Dana's father told her

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Speaker 1: a million years. This is bad. No, never in a

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Speaker 1: This has been pretty much the reaction of all the

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Speaker 1: What I was told by the bride is nessito el

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Speaker 1: dinero para la bora, el eho de puta cancero email

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Speaker 1: She says, that's the son of a gun canceled. I

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Speaker 3: That was a relevant comment?

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Speaker 1: Oh was that that was a relevant comment? Oh? Okay,

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Speaker 1: a juicy update and a juicy update. Juicy, but all right,

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Speaker 1: so uh op is being made to pay this five

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Speaker 1: Do you pay the you w what? What would you do?

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Speaker 1: I want to know what you guys would do in

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Speaker 1: the chat, like be like when you go now contact?

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Speaker 1: Would you send a spicy message back? I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I would do anything in my power to make her

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Speaker 5: Can I do something like that?

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just your audacity is so high I

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Speaker 1: have to make your life worse. Yeah, you hear you think, yeah, TV,

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, yeah, I mean like you have to know

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Speaker 1: there are some repercussions for like hooking up with your

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Speaker 3: Not her uncle.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would be even Jackson. That would make

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Speaker 1: the story crazier. Oh my god. Oh yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: the big Yeggs star. All right, We're gonna read some

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Speaker 1: story and the update. But Arion Dooley says, have uncle

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Speaker 1: in the best way. That is how true dead can't

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Speaker 1: quant no contact for sure, the Raven I'm not paying

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Speaker 1: ship Meredith brooking Green laugh at her. We are all

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Speaker 1: oscar two Buddy says, hey, hell no Wednesday, Mama misfit

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Speaker 1: says Egg her house. That's right. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: anyone has watched the new Ted show, but the egg

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Speaker 3: Of fun to egg a child like eggod child, Sam,

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Speaker 3: just egg.

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Speaker 1: Someone tell me egg someone that deserves it.

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Speaker 3: As a child, I may would be egging you first, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know I would have been egged. But then like

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Speaker 1: egging egging No, no, but like egging with someone, like

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Speaker 1: a consensual egging. I want consensual egging. I think that

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Speaker 3: We should do the Did you see the movie Bottoms?

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Speaker 1: No, that sounds like a porno Sophia, Sophia, what side

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Speaker 1: of the internet are you not?

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it was.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, anyway, the film they go to like it's

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Speaker 4: it's like fight club, Like all these girls joined this

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Speaker 1: What are you watching, Zobia, all these girls joining fight club? Yes,

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Speaker 1: can it's called Bottoms Okay because.

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Speaker 3: They're gay, Sam Jesus Okay.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, so they go there's this like one bully guy

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Speaker 1: Dude, that's even a better prenk. Wow, consential blowing up

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Speaker 1: your cars. Anyway, let's get back into the relevant comments

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Speaker 1: of this story. That is so insane, so relevant comments

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Speaker 1: some tea. I mean the sad part. She had her

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Speaker 1: compass in there. She used to be incredibly nice way

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Speaker 1: our last threat and someone asked what we were all wondering.

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Speaker 1: How long was she having a thing with the uncle?

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Speaker 1: How long with the uncle? No idea? I found out

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Speaker 1: during the wedding and don't have any info since, Poor Josh,

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Speaker 1: this is a comment, Poor Josh, I hope you find someone,

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Speaker 1: Opie responds, not gonna lie. Pretty sure half the bridal

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't know that well, but we've had drinks

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Speaker 1: In a snap, there we go. And then someone else

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Speaker 1: asks what happened to the two k dresses? That what

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Speaker 1: Some of the girls can't afford it. She had a

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Speaker 1: there is a fat, juicy update coming up, So just

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Speaker 1: you wigh to just keep seated. Well, how did one

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Speaker 1: bridesmaid's parents think she was pregnant when she doesn't drink

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Speaker 1: These please don't Apparently bride'smaid had been feeling sick a

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Speaker 1: Then when we went to prepare the bachelotte party and

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Speaker 1: Dana was just like throwing shit at yeah and saying, like,

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Speaker 1: you guys ready? Yeah? No, or read it anyways? This

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Speaker 1: thick update, this update. So, hey, guys, I know a

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Speaker 1: lot of people want to know what happened. After talking

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Speaker 1: he's okay, figuring things out and moving on. We're going

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Speaker 1: I can't share more about Josh's future plans, as he

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Speaker 1: The one detail I did get corrected on for those curious,

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Speaker 1: on data. Actually requested to change some of my classes

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Speaker 1: time and someone asked. Twenty nine and still in college,

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Speaker 1: first time for Dana, second time for me. A few

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Speaker 1: I can share, I was asked to keep a lot

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Speaker 1: GUACAMOLEI what a freakin' rye true, what a freaking ryde sane?

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Speaker 1: I feel like marriages kind of bring out the worst

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Speaker 1: in people. This is what I feel like weddings, especially yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah weddings.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 1: Two of the most insane back to back wedding stories.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared. I wasn't prepared, really wasn't. We ended

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Speaker 1: with a banger. We hope you enjoy it. I guess

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Speaker 1: to catch it the next one, Yes, sat see the

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Speaker 1: next one. If you love us, make sure to subscribe

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Speaker 1: We love you and see. This is an episode from

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Speaker 1: Deep within the Archives. Time for okop relam. My husband

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Speaker 1: got a paternity test because the baby came out with

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Speaker 1: darker skin than me. I hope he doesn't find out

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Speaker 1: my secret.

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Speaker 5: So there's you know, We read lots of crazy titles

444
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Speaker 5: on the show.

445
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Speaker 1: We have lots of crazy stories.

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Speaker 5: This one is one. I don't even know what to say.

447
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Speaker 5: I just have to hear the story.

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Speaker 1: This is. Babies are are like like Crayola colors. You know.

449
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Speaker 1: Sometimes you think you're buying one pack and you might

450
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Speaker 1: get a different set of Crayola colors.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be honest, I am completely lost in the

452
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Speaker 5: sauce of this bro Gens jeans jeans.

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Speaker 1: Could you know? Sometimes you think you're getting a baby

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Speaker 1: with two legs, Okay, it comes out with three. You

455
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Speaker 1: think your times you're getting, you know, one baby, you

456
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Speaker 1: get two.

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Speaker 5: You think you're getting magenta Crayola, and you're getting c

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Speaker 5: foam exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know. Never you know, life is like a box

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Speaker 1: of Crayola crayons. You know, you never know what you

461
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Speaker 1: get to get. All right, here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: My husband is thirty two. I am twenty seven. We

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Speaker 1: got married two years ago and have been together for

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Speaker 1: six years. One year ago, I felt pregnant. Is that

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Speaker 1: a thing that people say? Felt pregnant?

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Speaker 5: If a tripped fell, got popped in and just one

467
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Speaker 5: pop out, you know.

468
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Speaker 1: Just walking and then tripped it slipped in. He came

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Speaker 1: and now I here. We come to this place, and

470
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Speaker 1: we had a daughter a few months ago. Congrats, Opie. However,

471
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Speaker 1: he has been very weird during these months. One thing

472
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Speaker 1: to note is I am mixed. My dad is white

473
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Speaker 1: Spanish and my mom is dark skinned Latina. I am

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Speaker 1: more light skinned. However, many of my family members are

475
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Speaker 1: really dark, which is like a thing that happppens, right.

476
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Speaker 1: Even my mom when she was like in Australia, she

477
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Speaker 1: looked completely different just based on like sun exposure. She

478
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Speaker 1: had like like really dark olive skin and now she's

479
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Speaker 1: way more pale.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I have my partner's family has family members that

481
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Speaker 5: are like, you know, close to my skin tone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a range of skin tones and any family.

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Speaker 1: We're setting this up because the ridiculous that ensues is ridiculous. Yes,

484
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Speaker 1: so our daughter was born and she is somewhat darker

485
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Speaker 1: than me and inherited our long black hair and sharp characteristics.

486
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Speaker 1: What does sharp mean?

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Speaker 5: Like maybe like maybe yeah, like like sharp like jawnline

488
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Speaker 5: nose teeth, they just come out with thangs.

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Speaker 1: My wife is having vampire it's very different. So you

490
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Speaker 1: cheated on you with a word.

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Speaker 5: I thought you were a team Jacob. Small small side note.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if have you seen the scene with

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Speaker 5: the like baby in that movie?

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Speaker 1: H No, I actually haven't watched. You don't need to

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Speaker 1: watch one. I think I watched Twilight. It's the baby

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Speaker 1: is it's not a baby?

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Speaker 5: I don't even know baby they had the first it

498
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Speaker 5: was animatronic and then they it was so bad that

499
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Speaker 5: they had to see GI over it. And the CGI

500
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Speaker 5: is still terrible. So why do they just get a

501
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Speaker 5: real baby? These are questions, maybe because.

502
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Speaker 1: It's it's a vampire baby, and those are.

503
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Speaker 5: Pretty pretty rare, pretty hard to come by, especially like

504
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Speaker 5: that's a hard casting imagine that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the shooting must from a vampire baby, but must

506
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Speaker 1: have teeth. But if you get the vampire baby, you

507
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Speaker 1: can only shoot nights like come on and then like

508
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Speaker 1: that's when everyone else is sleeping. It's like a.

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Speaker 5: Production assistant nightmare. She looks very much like my mom.

510
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Speaker 5: Sometimes it skips a generation.

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Speaker 1: You know exactly. My husband has not been very kosher

512
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Speaker 1: with this. He kept making jokes about infidelity and I

513
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Speaker 1: told him to stop. I'm just imagining him in like

514
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Speaker 1: like the delivery room, and it comes out like him,

515
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Speaker 1: making like a I don't even an off color joke.

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Speaker 5: Like ding babe, I won't even go there. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: you guys gonna imagine, Yeah you could.

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Speaker 1: You could imagine what this guy, this this piece of

519
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Speaker 1: poop would say. Then shit hit the fan when I

520
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Speaker 1: was on a zoom call a month ago. Hmmmm, you

521
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Speaker 1: never want a shit fan, Just know you don't. I

522
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Speaker 1: have a coworker who is Middle Eastern. He is the

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Speaker 1: only other person of color in our department. He and

524
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Speaker 1: I almost have no overlap. We don't work on a projectgether,

525
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Speaker 1: We don't talk personally. This woman does not know this

526
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Speaker 1: man in the slightest. Who are you? I don't know

527
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Speaker 1: who you are, but I gotta work with you. I

528
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Speaker 1: guess the only links we have is in this department

529
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Speaker 1: group chat and one message between us almost two years

530
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Speaker 1: ago with the concerned clients. Right, so basically they are

531
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Speaker 1: not connected. Right. But but but my husband saw him

532
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Speaker 1: on a zoom call. He saw how my coworker laughed

533
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Speaker 1: at one of my jokes. Also, I love this parentheses.

534
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Speaker 1: He wasn't the only one like that joke with how

535
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Speaker 1: all funny commedia? Yeah, it was, Actually it was the

536
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: writer's room for the office. Yeah, and he immediately accused

537
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Speaker 1: me of chatting. How dare you make another man laugh?

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Speaker 5: Damn, this guy is just screwing up his entire life

539
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 5: over this.

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Speaker 1: This is ridiculous, I know. Or like, you know, if

541
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Speaker 1: you were worried about your wife's infidelity, like at least

542
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Speaker 1: do some background research before like saying like you are

543
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Speaker 1: being infidels, Like look her up on Public Data check

544
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: and say like, okay, is she is she legit? Does

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Speaker 1: she have any skeletons in the closet exactly?

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Speaker 5: Like you can find people's real names or address relatives

547
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 5: and even criminal records.

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00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you have family, friends, a significant other

549
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: and you want to see if they be truth in

550
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Speaker 1: or lion, go to public data check dot com or

551
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Speaker 1: check or Lincoln bio. Yep. Back to the story. So,

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Speaker 1: I was honestly floored. He demanded to see my phone,

553
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Speaker 1: demanded and he demanded a paternity test. Bro yo. See,

554
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Speaker 1: it's like the one thing to say, like let me

555
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Speaker 1: see your phone, which is like one level of I

556
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: don't trust you. Yeah, and then the paternity test another

557
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: level just because the baby came out darker than you were.

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Speaker 5: Expecting and and the guy and also the connection to

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Speaker 5: the guy on the zoom call.

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I think like like he was. I

561
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Speaker 1: think he was just already feeling super insecure and like

562
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Speaker 1: he was just looking for a so like for a reason.

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Speaker 5: The the like mental gymnastics of his insecurity is like, yeah,

564
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Speaker 5: mind made a guy last.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're obviously sleeping with him. Yeah okay wait, actually

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Speaker 1: I was saving this what I said. It was this

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Speaker 1: fact that I wanted to share with you. Yes, okay,

568
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Speaker 1: this is crazybsolutely crazy. So, uh, there's this podcast Andrew Huberman.

569
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Speaker 1: We were listening to it Ariana and I. Apparently fifty

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Speaker 1: percent of men cheating relationships and twenty five percent of

571
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Speaker 1: women cheating relationships.

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Speaker 5: Of all relationships, all relations fifty percent of men.

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Speaker 1: And twenty five percent of women. Wow, that is pretty

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Speaker 1: that is crazy insane. I'm just hoping it's like, like,

575
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Speaker 1: what my hope is. There's fifty fifty percent of marriages

576
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Speaker 1: and in divorce. So I'm just hoping all the people

577
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Speaker 1: that are cheating are getting divorced, right right, which is

578
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Speaker 1: probably not true. Here's what's blowing my mind. Put those together.

579
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Speaker 1: That's seventy five percent of relationships. Have cheating. No, no,

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Speaker 1: because you can guld have overlap. You could have twenty

581
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Speaker 1: five year you know, they could be cheating.

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Speaker 5: I mean a statician okay, reading silly stories.

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Speaker 1: We don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, but dude, insane, right, that's that is crazy?

585
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: Okay, But what's more insane is this freaking story? Right?

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Speaker 1: It is? So he demanded a paternity test and they

587
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Speaker 1: got in this huge fight and then he left, right,

588
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: this is op I tried calling his friend answered. He

589
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: said that my husband would only be willing to talk

590
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: one condition once I had put in the work to

591
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Speaker 1: build up trust and do a praternity test.

592
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 5: What about the trust of you not assuming one person

593
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 5: your wife makes a coworker laugh and they have a

594
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 5: child with your wife.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, bulous trust? Yeah, dude, you've do You

596
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: thrown trust out the window when one you went through

597
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: her phone and two you asked for a praternity test.

598
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Speaker 1: So don't you be talking about trust? How about you

599
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: just uh, you know, maybe don't trust your your sense

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Speaker 1: of either genetic knowledge, definitely don't trust that. Don't trust

601
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Speaker 1: your humor funny bone because uh clearly doesn't have does

602
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Speaker 1: have one, can't take a joke and also can't take

603
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: it if his wife's making a joke. The only thing

604
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: you should be laughing at is your sorry excuse for

605
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: a life, because your life is about to go downhill

606
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: fast because wait until you see what's next. Bear. This

607
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: friend right was talking about half of the husband. The

608
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: friend said he will only be available for questions regarding

609
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Speaker 1: the paternity test. It's like this friend is the lawyer, truly,

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Speaker 1: I that speaking on behalf of my clients, and he

611
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: will only talk to you when these records and measures

612
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Speaker 1: are taken into account.

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Speaker 5: And I would never like want to be that part,

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Speaker 5: Like who would want to be that perfect stop for that?

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Speaker 1: No? And also like how one thousand an hour pay

616
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Speaker 1: me the lawyer? Yeah, if I ever want you to

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Speaker 1: be my liaison, one thousand bucks an hour, you know,

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Speaker 1: but you a family discount?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, thanks, nine ninety nins.

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Speaker 1: Thanks. We got to make it.

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Speaker 5: No, you're you're you're you're my best friend, so I

622
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Speaker 5: had to you know, it's not really throwing, it's the.

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Speaker 1: Best friends discount. You know, friends discount. That's nine nine

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Speaker 1: nine point fifty okay, yeah, yeah, I get another extra

625
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Speaker 1: fifty percent. I'm getting one hundred percent more than the

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Speaker 1: other people off exactly, you get thanks you, Jott. I

627
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Speaker 1: you know I'm generous obviously, what a bit of a

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00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: regular Rockefeller, I say, that's that's me. I was honestly

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Speaker 1: so mad, and what's done. I wanted nothing to do

630
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: with this fool anymore. M hm. Honestly at this point

631
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Speaker 1: I did the test mainly so we couldn't dispute the paternity,

632
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Speaker 1: because once again, I f thing knew this clown was

633
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Speaker 1: the father. Yeah, I get that. And John and John,

634
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Speaker 1: is this something we've said many a time, a million

635
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: times on this show, million times? What if we said, John, we.

636
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Speaker 5: Have said, if there's an issue, it has to have

637
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Speaker 5: happened earlier.

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Speaker 1: How do you get six years? Six freaking years like

639
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Speaker 1: a presidential cycle and a half. Right, yes, you don't

640
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: freaking know who your partner is and the skeletons in

641
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: their closet, and how they're just like like scumbags, Like,

642
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: how does this not come up earlier? I vote? You

643
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Speaker 1: get a new partner? Oh yeah, the elect it has

644
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Speaker 1: spoken the electric ring system.

645
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Speaker 5: I am addictator, jerry mandering all over his bitches, all

646
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 5: his ass.

647
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: The results came in and he's the father. The same day,

648
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: I told him I wanted to separate doing a one

649
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: two you're the dad and uh not the husband. He

650
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: started crying and begging, and not in the sexy way.

651
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: He apologized for how he went about it. I told

652
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: him I needed time, I needed space, I needed to

653
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: get away from the sack of ship. Actually he said

654
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: he would set up a session with a counselor. I

655
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: told him, okay, but like a counselor is going to

656
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: solve this? Yeah, for real?

657
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 5: I mean maybe, I guess that's what they're here for.

658
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 5: But there could be some resolution. But it's like it's

659
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 5: I don't know.

660
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: I feel like there's been enough trust breached at this

661
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:02,479
Speaker 1: point that she deserves an ap. Yes, now I'm sitting here,

662
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: I honestly don't think I can find it in my

663
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: heart to forgive him. It's one thing to ask for

664
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: a test, right, which is true? Asking for a test

665
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: one thing, Yes, it's another thing for him to treat

666
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: me like a lying scum. Fuck you, Stephan, And it's

667
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: a weird spelling of Stephan, So there's not that many.

668
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: It's s T E F F E n okop find

669
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: him stefan Hey and Steve. Is this you Stefan, Yeah

670
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: s t E F f e N.

671
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 5: We got a message for you around baby Stepan with

672
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 5: two fans, right, yeah, because he fucked around and he

673
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 5: found that out those.

674
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: Those baby But guess what, John, what there is an update.

675
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: I did end up going to several sessions with my X,

676
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: but honestly, his actions have killed the love I had

677
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: for him, especially because he was kind of sorry, but

678
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: he kept making excuses. He was like saying, a bunch

679
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: of bs at my alarm bells are soundy off. And

680
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: guess what did some digging did some sleuthon?

681
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 2: Uh?

682
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: Oh what do we find? She found on several forums

683
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: he was active on and he was being sexist, racist,

684
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: and homophobic. See the likely assessment of the apocalypse.

685
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 5: Like we said, there has to have been so this

686
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 5: doesn't just come out of nowhere.

687
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: I know, Like I can't imagine he hasn't made off

688
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: color jokes before this point. It's like it's off color

689
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: jokes don't start when the baby pops out, exactly right,

690
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: Like op I, you must have been ignoring Stone.

691
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 5: Rose, Rose Colored Rose. It's like, oh love this person.

692
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 5: It's like the same thing like in every episode of Catfish.

693
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 5: It's like, no, I've never seen them. But you know,

694
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 5: it's like you've been in Relaysia for three years and

695
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 5: never seen them.

696
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: You know, does that not look a little suspicious? Love

697
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: makes us too crazy things? I guess that it does

698
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: that it does. He had posted about our situation in

699
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: a forum that was very instantly very andrew taty. He

700
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: referred to me in derogatory terms, and people were telling

701
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: him that I had roast beef, which I didn't. I

702
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 1: don't know what is that, John? Roast beef is? Uh?

703
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: I think between the legs what a woman has? So

704
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: okay like, and he was just stability, but I was

705
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: looking for Chadcock. That's so insellly, so so bad. Oh

706
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 1: my god, this made me sick to my stomach. I

707
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: took screenshots and printed everything out. I got screen grabs too,

708
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 1: and she basically collected all imagining. It's like all collected

709
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: in a Manila folder.

710
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and she's like it's like top secret. She's

711
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 5: about to slap this on the desk.

712
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I called our counselor told them I was done.

713
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 1: Thank you for the service, but I am going to

714
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: get a divorce. I met up with him. He was

715
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: staying at a friend's place when I was home. I

716
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: got the information through his gaming PC. When we met

717
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: up at his parents' house, I threw that folder to

718
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: his feet and told him I'm effing dumb, babe. Ooh

719
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm done. You think I want your shit? And oh more?

720
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: No more, no more? Cue the crying and the begging

721
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 1: again not the sexy cans. I told him, no, this

722
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: makes me sick. He told me he was weak. You're

723
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: week to this day, sir, and i' want a piece of

724
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: that week ass, And I said that was true. Damn.

725
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: He didn't want to let me go, and my mother

726
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: in law had to intervene. Honest to god, that woman

727
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: never took much of a liking to me, but she

728
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: really did shine through in that moment. There we go.

729
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:30,760
Speaker 1: She screamed at him. He didn't say anything. She screamed

730
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: at him, and when she saw the folder, she told

731
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 1: him that this was not the behavior of a strong father.

732
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: She told him he was nothing but.

733
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 5: A coward bro dead to her stepmom going off, Yeah,

734
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 5: you see the stepmom are evil or not?

735
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: Sorry? Mother in law. Mother in law again, mother in

736
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: law going off over here, Yeah, dude. Usually the mother

737
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: in laws are crap, but like this one really really

738
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 1: showed up, at least for this, at least for this part. Yeah,

739
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: my ex just stood up and screamed. He didn't say anything,

740
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: just like a horror movie scream and you punched a

741
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: And he punched a drywall and broke a hole into

742
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: it and left the biggest like so mature, Like yeah,

743
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: like tell me you haven't matured past seven without telling me. Yeah,

744
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: like I'm just imagining to got banty scream Like.

745
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 5: No, nobody does that unless you're crazy like now, or

746
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 5: or like if you're andy in the office, you ever

747
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 5: see the whole punch.

748
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: But he needed anger management. He did see Yo, Ope,

749
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: you need some op's husband needs some anger arrangement. My

750
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 1: mother in law was consoling me. She told me she

751
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: was so sorry, and even though she personally does not

752
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: like me, she respects me and appreciates everything I have done.

753
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: I love all. Like the mother in law still has

754
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: to be the mother in law. Even when she's consoling

755
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: She's like, honey, you don't need this. I'm so sorry

756
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: you have to deal with this. I never fucking liked you.

757
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Don't like you does I mean

758
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: I want this to happen. Yeah, yeah, it doesn't be

759
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: exactly and kept it a buck. Oh. We hashed had

760
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: a plan my daughter to have her father in her life,

761
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: but with him being basically a bigot, we decided that

762
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: I would go for full custody. So mother in law

763
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: is helping hope you get full custody. It's crazy from

764
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: her own son. I know that's wild, and would allow

765
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: visitation rites if my mother in law was present and

766
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 1: only at her house so she still gets to see

767
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: the kid. That's part Like, honestly, a great, that's great.

768
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: It's a great outcome. It's a great outcome. But I

769
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: see where the mother in law's coming promised, Like, okay,

770
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: I still want to see my grandchild.

771
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, and only at my house, which is

772
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 5: which is fine honestly, Like I you know, she gets

773
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 5: what she wants and it's a better situation for exactly.

774
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 1: Right now, we're dealing with the divorce process that he

775
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: is contesting. Can you contest divorce? You can try, like

776
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: you can sue anybody, but does that mean you're gonna win. No.

777
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: What he is not contesting is custody. He seemingly does

778
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: not want it and has been not involved with our

779
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: daughter at all. He is texting me that if I

780
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: don't take him back, he would not want custody. My

781
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: mother in law has been an angel. She's been helping

782
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: out when my family can, and it actually helped the

783
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: legal proceedings by telling her son to not be ass

784
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: and giving testimonials. My ex has refused to pay any

785
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: child support, but my mother in law has actually taken

786
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: that over. Wow, it's been really difficult. I have no

787
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: social life and I'm very sleep deprived. But at least

788
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm happier than I was in my ship marriage.

789
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 5: My closing thought here is like I love how he's like, hey,

790
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 5: I want to I want to get back together, but

791
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 5: if we don't, then I don't.

792
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: I don't want that. I don't want the daughter.

793
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 5: It's like, bro, what's the what's the worst thing you

794
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:30,399
Speaker 5: can say to make her not want to get back

795
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 5: with you?

796
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: Maybe that's like there's probably something worse. I know, I

797
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: know shows that like he's even with the paternity test,

798
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: like yeah, he probably still doesn't believe the daughter is his,

799
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: which is like gymnastic levels of uh yeah, exactly. That's

800
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: what I was. That's what I got you thanks baby,