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Speaker 4: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 4: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man
Speaker 4: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
Speaker 4: She was both obeed, hint and soft by nature. She
Speaker 4: was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 1: That shit, we're Good Mom's Bad Choices.
Speaker 3: Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all
Speaker 3: their bad choices and.
Speaker 1: Sound out they were so bad after all.
Speaker 3: We're experts. Over and your new besties, sit back.
Speaker 1: And enjoy the ride.
Speaker 3: Can welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica
Speaker 3: and I'm Jimmy La. Happy for twenty, bitches.
Speaker 1: Happy motherfucking for twenty.
Speaker 3: By the time you guys get this, it might not
Speaker 3: be four twenty yet depending on when you're listening, but.
Speaker 1: You should start celebrating now.
Speaker 3: You should light that blunt that joint, hit that pipe,
Speaker 3: not that kind of pipe, and ha ha ha ha.
Speaker 1: We need to make our own song. I was gonna
Speaker 1: go to school, Okay.
Speaker 3: I just if you drop an album, it should just
Speaker 3: be like Weed. It should be like a feminine snoop album.
Speaker 1: A feminine snoop snoopa snoop. We're going for what do
Speaker 1: you sing?
Speaker 3: We sing feminine feminine cannabis music.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that people are really waiting for
Speaker 2: this album drop on top of the West Coast Affirmations.
Speaker 3: I know, maybe could like a sweat and Suit like Nelly,
Speaker 3: Like it could be a two sided album. It's like
Speaker 3: the West Coast is the West Coast Sweat and Suit.
Speaker 1: Remember that sweatsuit it was. It was Nelly's.
Speaker 3: Countryside and his rap side. So we could do like
Speaker 3: a West Coast Affirmations and also a feminine cannabis album.
Speaker 1: I think more.
Speaker 2: I'm going for more like love below and what's the
Speaker 2: the one speaker box?
Speaker 1: Yeah? What was that? Nelly's Nelly's canceled. Its kidding. We
Speaker 1: don't cancel our people, right, I think we're can he
Speaker 1: can come back.
Speaker 3: Nelly has already lost me a long time ago. I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna lie he lost me a while back.
Speaker 1: I loved Nelly.
Speaker 3: I did too, and that's why I disappointing he was.
Speaker 3: I cut out people's pictures and put his face in
Speaker 3: my room too. I was definitely early in life masturbrading
Speaker 3: to him.
Speaker 1: My dad actually made it happen.
Speaker 2: He made not not the master, not the mastimation part,
Speaker 2: but he got me to He like hooked me up
Speaker 2: to meet Nelly one time because he was during an
Speaker 2: event and Nelly was there and he knew how much
Speaker 2: I love Nelly, and it was this is Nelly When
Speaker 2: he had like the band aid on his face, which
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've ever confirmed, was he hiding
Speaker 2: something or was just a look. Everyone always said he
Speaker 2: had acting or he was hiding a pimple.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was a stunt eye. It was
Speaker 1: ahead of his time, you know, And now everyone's putting
Speaker 1: those sticker stars all over the face. By the way,
Speaker 1: I fucking hate those. I thought I thought they're for pimple.
Speaker 2: Hate when I see people walking around in public with
Speaker 2: stars on their unless you're under ten, unless it's for
Speaker 2: aesthetic and not because you have a pimple.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if they're all for pimple. I
Speaker 1: saw girls she served, she was she served, she was
Speaker 1: a server, and she had fucking stars all over.
Speaker 3: Her face, and I was like, they let you show
Speaker 3: up like this all. I mean, it's like, I guess
Speaker 3: it's new, you know what. I was just thinking when
Speaker 3: you said that thing about your dad, even though you
Speaker 3: clarified he didn't do those things.
Speaker 1: But I just thought about I'm not even high yet. Hi.
Speaker 3: I thought, you know how men like men normalize their
Speaker 3: sons like oh yeah, I get some pussy Like oh yeah,
Speaker 3: you could like hooking their son up with pussy atters
Speaker 3: moms you start pushing their dolls. Moms did that, Like okay,
Speaker 3: he's I mean, I know there's probably some moms that
Speaker 3: do weird shit like this, but like, oh yeah, he's
Speaker 3: kid hooked you up. I know a mom like this,
Speaker 3: I know, but I'm just like, what if that was
Speaker 3: the culture. The fact that that's the culture is so strange.
Speaker 1: That is very weird.
Speaker 3: My dad once suggested he should get Mazzie, my little
Speaker 3: brother with Down syndrome, prostitute. He actually took him to
Speaker 3: the Las Vegas Strip club.
Speaker 1: What's he okay? You know into that? He's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're stimulated. Oh my god, poor baby.
Speaker 3: I've also been to the Ship Club with my dad.
Speaker 3: He wasn't pushing anyone. He was pushing someone on me, but.
Speaker 1: Not sexually, like tell her about your podcast. I was like, Dad,
Speaker 1: I love your dad. Why are the ship club together?
Speaker 1: And why are you telling you what willfully I did?
Speaker 3: I know I'm too close to my parents because last
Speaker 3: week when I went to a sex party, I told
Speaker 3: my parents. I said, what are you doing? I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: we're getting tested. So we go this this play party
Speaker 3: on Saturday. They're like, a playparty is like a sex party.
Speaker 3: Here goes my mom.
Speaker 1: You better help. You don't see your dad there.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm hanging up because we already know
Speaker 2: that story. Okay, okay, well you already shared it on
Speaker 2: the podcast. It was many moons ago, but I never
Speaker 2: forgot it.
Speaker 3: We once had an episode. I think it's like our
Speaker 3: first five episodes called our most embarrassing Moment?
Speaker 1: Yeah, was that one?
Speaker 3: Have you had any embarrassing moment since then?
Speaker 1: Of course we have.
Speaker 3: And there's a very traumatizing there's two traumatizing stories with
Speaker 3: me and my dad, which I don't know how the
Speaker 3: fuck I have two traumatizing stories.
Speaker 2: But yeah, if you haven't listened, clearly, you and your
Speaker 2: dad are very much cut from the same cloth. Could
Speaker 2: you'd be in the same spaces and places?
Speaker 1: Not really, No, I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go ahead and say Smiles and Jamila match
Speaker 2: made in Heaven.
Speaker 1: No appled on far far from the sex party tree.
Speaker 1: No God.
Speaker 3: One time when I was dating this porn start, he
Speaker 3: was telling me, He's like.
Speaker 1: I think I seen your parents out. Yeah, you just
Speaker 1: like your parents. I was like, shut the face. Your
Speaker 1: parents are lit. I've lived a wild life. You know,
Speaker 1: my parents are actually like goody fucking two shoes.
Speaker 3: Well we know that's not true because Rick James introduced them.
Speaker 3: They were definitely doing some some eighties drugs and doing
Speaker 3: some weird now.
Speaker 1: My mom even the other day was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I just never got into cocaine. She's done it before. Then, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think everyone has in the eighties for sure, live
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2: She's like, it just wasn't for me. I didn't like, wait,
Speaker 2: make you feel and I was like, I'm cut for
Speaker 2: cup in the same cloth.
Speaker 1: The others had a short cocaine stint and.
Speaker 3: Unless you called me last week like, I'm so fun,
Speaker 3: guess what I did, Like, you know, every now and then,
Speaker 3: I'm so fun, guess about Dazzle.
Speaker 1: I'm so fun. I'm doing so much.
Speaker 3: Fun shit out here.
Speaker 1: I was like, who are you calling back?
Speaker 2: Good mom's bad choices? I had to make sure I
Speaker 2: still had it. I was in New York and I
Speaker 2: was like, let me go out on the streets and
Speaker 2: make sure I can stay out past one am still
Speaker 2: and I.
Speaker 1: Was out till four talking to AKA one am in
Speaker 1: LA the same So I was like, yes, this fucking
Speaker 1: time switch is working in my favor.
Speaker 3: You know, getting older is interesting, I think specifically for
Speaker 3: a woman, because first of all, if you're new to
Speaker 3: the show, you need to go back and listen to
Speaker 3: our many millions of episodes about us acting crazy and
Speaker 3: being wild, because we have so many stories acting crazy.
Speaker 1: We've had very we were.
Speaker 3: Having very juicy lives, very juicy robust lives. There's just
Speaker 3: a date, a dick, suck, a travel, a fucking why
Speaker 3: am I here? A moment Like every five minutes, I
Speaker 3: feel like our first two years and now I just
Speaker 3: feel so like because we're not in the streets, I
Speaker 3: just feel so unmotivated to go out, like like outside.
Speaker 3: I mean, I want to go and stuff, but it
Speaker 3: has to be really I want to go to Cleos
Speaker 3: on a triple date and bring one in my purse.
Speaker 3: Eric has smuggled one.
Speaker 2: Well, there's nothing like having a partner in crime. I
Speaker 2: think that that's like was the beauty of how our
Speaker 2: show started was that like we were in very similar
Speaker 2: places at the same time in like like what we're
Speaker 2: talking about the other day, like a collective yes, we
Speaker 2: were like yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, we're gonna say
Speaker 2: yes to everything. And so, you know, like when you're out,
Speaker 2: when you're like if you're like defer, if you're alone
Speaker 2: being single, then it's kind of like it sucks. You
Speaker 2: gotta find a co pilot.
Speaker 1: You do need to, so you need a fucking co pilot.
Speaker 2: Speaking of co pilots, if you are a single mom,
Speaker 2: that just maybe just became single, or you're just you
Speaker 2: don't have a co pilot. You can find one. We
Speaker 2: can help you. Join our discord, join Patreon. We have
Speaker 2: a lot of co pilots in there, and a lot
Speaker 2: of different cities that are waiting for.
Speaker 3: For their for their coport, for their for their co pilot. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I know. We did a lot of fun shit. And
Speaker 3: last night I asked Orlando. He was telling me that
Speaker 3: his homeboy was out in a foreign country fucking prostitutes
Speaker 3: or some shit, and I was like, do you desire
Speaker 3: to fuck prostitutes? And then he confused me, because niggas
Speaker 3: confused bitches.
Speaker 1: Let me get some Let me roll up while you
Speaker 1: tell me.
Speaker 3: Okay, well we have we have a joint here, we're
Speaker 3: gonna roll up. We're too far and it we haven't
Speaker 3: even rolled up there. It's for twenty o'clock. And guess
Speaker 3: what we're you know what we're doing.
Speaker 1: Put me some mom juice.
Speaker 3: Too, Okay, here, hold on, I'd like some Savion Blanc
Speaker 3: because we're day drinking and we're day smoking, because why
Speaker 3: the fuck not. It's for the week of four to
Speaker 3: twenty and life is a celebration and shout out to
Speaker 3: Mom Juice, I'm about to pick up my kid after this,
Speaker 3: or Orlando's driver.
Speaker 1: This is a Savion Blanc. It's a daytime line.
Speaker 3: This is I feel like Savian Blanc is the wine
Speaker 3: of the Moms.
Speaker 1: We're actually going to Charlotte on May second to be what.
Speaker 2: Are we called keynote speakers, keynotes speakers at that She
Speaker 2: Got the Juice event powered by mom Jews. So make
Speaker 2: sure if you're in Charlotte and you're listening to this,
Speaker 2: join us May second. We're gonna be on stage and
Speaker 2: then on the third we're gonna do a wellness activation.
Speaker 2: So if you've always wanted to know, like what the
Speaker 2: vibe is a little bit of that well good vibe
Speaker 2: retreat essence, then join us on May second and a third.
Speaker 1: Tickets are on the bio. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be fun and I'm really looking forward to
Speaker 3: linking up with our Charlotte girls and maybe we'll go out.
Speaker 1: Maybe we will. We have to.
Speaker 3: I heard Charlotte's pop it this. You know, a part
Speaker 3: of having a co pilot is like exploring new things together.
Speaker 3: And I think me and Erica have had the blessing
Speaker 3: of just exploring new countries and new scenes together, and
Speaker 3: we're both kind of like wide eyed and bushy tailed
Speaker 3: in the sense we were like we're adventurers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're nosy. Yeah, We're like we're outside. We're in
Speaker 1: a new place.
Speaker 3: We can go into the little nowhere place and we're
Speaker 3: gonna find something to do.
Speaker 2: I'm just like I realized that the other day, well
Speaker 2: like even the other day or not the other day,
Speaker 2: but we went into that weird store down the street
Speaker 2: and like went into the underworld. The other day, I
Speaker 2: was walking down in Sherman Oaks and there was this
Speaker 2: weird sign on this building. It was like the Alpha
Speaker 2: Man and it was just like the Alpha Man building.
Speaker 2: And I was like, what the fuck is the Alpha Man?
Speaker 2: And I was telling Shakama. I was like, I saw
Speaker 2: this sign and I was walking and then I went
Speaker 2: inside and it was like a weird office building. So
Speaker 2: when I went up the elevator and he's like, what
Speaker 2: the fuck are you talking about.
Speaker 1: You went in the elevator and you went looked around.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, like what that And he's like,
Speaker 2: you're very you're fucking Dora Explorer. I'm like, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: I want to see what's going on over there?
Speaker 1: I agree. I couldn't figure it out. I couldn't find
Speaker 1: I think it's a thing, might be a drug front.
Speaker 3: One time I reminded you of one time. Actually it
Speaker 3: was years ago, but it was in No Ho. I
Speaker 3: saw a billboard, like a small billboard, like a little
Speaker 3: bit shady, and it said, or maybe it was a Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was like, juice, where's the weed right there behind
Speaker 3: your cup?
Speaker 1: Bitch?
Speaker 3: You've lost this weed four times, even though it's bright
Speaker 3: orange and blue. There was a sign that said for juicers,
Speaker 3: call this number. And I called the number. No, I
Speaker 3: don't know. I didn't know what the fuck juicers were.
Speaker 3: So I called and then no one answered. And then
Speaker 3: someone called back and was like, are you looking for
Speaker 3: a juicer? And then I looked it up and it's
Speaker 3: people who like to get their blood sucked.
Speaker 1: Blood sucked? Oh, like Orlando. Yeah, I guess I got
Speaker 1: me my own juicer. I guess I was manifesting you
Speaker 1: free years.
Speaker 3: Actually, the first time we did our blood play, I
Speaker 3: actually sucked the blood from I guess we both did it.
Speaker 1: That's why we're stuck.
Speaker 3: If you ladies want to keep a man that spaghetti
Speaker 3: trick is true. Drink some blood. You don't have to
Speaker 3: drink like a whole pint or anything.
Speaker 2: But so today we're smoking the standard. This is a
Speaker 2: this is a great brand based in LA. They have
Speaker 2: a well, actually they're based in La, actually based North Hollywood,
Speaker 2: but they're all along from almost from they said, from
Speaker 2: Tijuana almost to Tijuana, like basically Tijuana all the way
Speaker 2: up as far as.
Speaker 1: You can go north Washington, north or of Californa, California.
Speaker 1: The standard. They dropped this off to us yesterday and
Speaker 1: it's like that.
Speaker 3: So this is the Sativa hybrid standard dropping off.
Speaker 2: This is a Srunts times no Runts French times, tangy
Speaker 2: dream smell.
Speaker 1: It's not so good.
Speaker 3: And it looks deep purple, but it smells like a sativa.
Speaker 1: It's beautiful.
Speaker 2: It's twenty three percent THHC, so not too crazy and
Speaker 2: so you know, once you.
Speaker 1: Get it's a crazy like thirty thirty. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you can see this up close, but it's beautiful.
Speaker 1: It has blues and all that stuff.
Speaker 3: I feel like mom should stay in the lower percentile
Speaker 3: so we can like we could be high but still function.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have I have other things to do today,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna be really stoned while I do them.
Speaker 3: And apparently the little wine tipsy. I feel like such
Speaker 3: a housewife when I drink white wine. Really, oh my god,
Speaker 3: it feels I feel like I'm in Real Housewives of
Speaker 3: Atlanta or maybe like Beverly Hills or whatever.
Speaker 2: I love a white wine. I love a Sancere, I
Speaker 2: love I.
Speaker 3: Love a Pino Grigio, but I really love a red.
Speaker 1: I have a Samian Blanc over Pino Gregio. This is really,
Speaker 1: this is pretty good. This is good. I don't like
Speaker 1: short today.
Speaker 3: Oh my prostitute story? Oh thanks, honey.
Speaker 1: You can't wait for his story to be told.
Speaker 3: So last night I said, do you desire prostitutes?
Speaker 1: And he said not to just sire, Hey, fiance, do
Speaker 1: you desire prostitute?
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know, because, you know, once I
Speaker 3: asked once, I asked him, are you supposed to fuck
Speaker 3: on your bachelor party? And I was I thought everybody did?
Speaker 3: And he said no, and I was like, oh right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: no one does that. And so yesterday I asked him
Speaker 3: again and he was like, I mean I could. He
Speaker 3: was very confusing because the nigga's confusing, but basically what
Speaker 3: he said is I don't need to because I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't have a desire in this stage in my
Speaker 3: life to fuck random people. I want to maybe dance
Speaker 3: on them, grind slow, grind them at the fucking dance
Speaker 3: hall party and you know, flirt a little bit and
Speaker 3: act like I'm going to do something, but go home
Speaker 3: alone because I don't have time for new dicks in
Speaker 3: my sensitive pussy. But he was like, I mean, it's
Speaker 3: just like, it's like if I went on vacation and
Speaker 3: wrote a jet ski.
Speaker 1: What. Yeah, it's like it's an activity.
Speaker 3: And I said, but there's no real reason I said,
Speaker 3: you could do without riding a jet ski. And he's like, well,
Speaker 3: I mean if your kid wanted to do something fun,
Speaker 3: you would say, here's a.
Speaker 1: Try bringing kids. Why the fuck he's a child. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, he literally the kids out here.
Speaker 3: He's like, it's a treat, because he said it's a
Speaker 3: treat like riding a jet ski, like if a kid
Speaker 3: wanted some candy. Some days, you give him candy. And
Speaker 3: I was like, are you comparing this to giving my
Speaker 3: kid a treat? And he was like, I'm just saying
Speaker 3: you're looking at it from your perspective, and my perspective
Speaker 3: is not all what you think. And I'm like, I
Speaker 3: can only look at it from my perspective because this
Speaker 3: is my opinion on it. I don't need to sit
Speaker 3: on random dick. I have dick at home. I'm I've
Speaker 3: fucked a lot of random dicks in my life. It
Speaker 3: is not high on my priority list. I just don't
Speaker 3: want to make I don't want to wake up next
Speaker 3: to someone or like have to tell them can you
Speaker 3: get the fuck out?
Speaker 1: And he was just like, well.
Speaker 3: You know, for me, it's different because it's just like
Speaker 3: riding a jet ski and it's a treat. And he's
Speaker 3: like the problem is you're not looking at it like
Speaker 3: this would make my man happy as a treat. You're
Speaker 3: looking at it as like you wouldn't do it. And
Speaker 3: I was just like, I just shut the fuck.
Speaker 1: How did we go from I don't from no to
Speaker 1: now that you're a selfish bitch? Exactly? How do we
Speaker 1: go from no to now? Do you even love me
Speaker 1: at all?
Speaker 3: Happy that we have this same thought process, because that's
Speaker 3: what I was like. First, there was like no pressure.
Speaker 3: He's like, I don't really need to do that and
Speaker 3: then he was like, I just want to have fun.
Speaker 3: You don't want me to have fun. And I was
Speaker 3: just like, I'm just gonna shut the fuck up because
Speaker 3: I'm not agreeing to this, and also, what the fuck
Speaker 3: are you talking about? And you know, and then I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm just asking you your desires, so if
Speaker 3: you can this is I was like, this is not.
Speaker 3: I'm not the uh authoritarian in our relationship. It's it's
Speaker 3: always a conversation. I'm never gonna tell you what to do.
Speaker 3: You're a grown ass man. If you think it's important
Speaker 3: for you to fuck prostitutes in a foreign country, you
Speaker 3: tell me that's important to you, and then we'll go
Speaker 3: from there. And he's like, I'm not saying it's important
Speaker 3: to me. I'm just saying it's fun. I was like,
Speaker 3: you're trying to confuse me.
Speaker 1: Nigga. Call me.
Speaker 3: If your nigga confused you, I'll translate it. I should
Speaker 3: have put this conversation in chat GPT. Anyway, what do
Speaker 3: you think about fucking pros?
Speaker 1: Hey?
Speaker 3: I just want to say, I haven't eaten today, so
Speaker 3: we're gonna go up.
Speaker 1: Okay, how do I feel about me fucking prostucts or
Speaker 1: my man fucking prostute both.
Speaker 2: Okay, I know my man is not gonnau press. Okay,
Speaker 2: let's say you have another man that.
Speaker 3: Likes that that prostitutes were similar to jet skis.
Speaker 1: I mean, I.
Speaker 2: You know, you know, I think we had this conversation
Speaker 2: before around like bachelorettes, and you were like so shocked
Speaker 2: that I was like, yeah, you fuck on New Bachelorette.
Speaker 3: Or like a lot of everyone said that you don't
Speaker 3: fuck your.
Speaker 2: Bachelor and I thought that everybody does. Oh no, I
Speaker 2: thought no, I said that they do.
Speaker 1: That's what too. Oh Okay, maybe is this this conversation
Speaker 1: with someone else. I just don't.
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm going to fuck out my bachelorette
Speaker 3: like a stripper with.
Speaker 1: Boots, like I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Rico's kind of fine anyway.
Speaker 2: I think that it's all about agreements.
Speaker 1: It's all about what is your agreement with your partner.
Speaker 1: It's a two person conversation. R Yeah, I mean, I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm not shaming the man who wants to do his
Speaker 2: thing as long as the wife is aware and it's not.
Speaker 2: I don't I think then, But I do think that
Speaker 2: like the whole bachelor thing is that it's supposed to
Speaker 2: be sneaky, like you're not like what happens in Vegas
Speaker 2: stays in.
Speaker 1: Vega, And that's what he said.
Speaker 3: Then he mentioned a bachelor party and said, it's like
Speaker 3: a special case.
Speaker 1: It's like your last secret with your friends. It's like
Speaker 1: that final secret that you have with your neighbors.
Speaker 2: That's what the fucking with the prostitute on the bachelor
Speaker 2: situation is. I personally, if I had that agreement with
Speaker 2: my man, I would prefer it not be a prostitute.
Speaker 1: But maybe, I mean maybe I would maybe like it's transactional.
Speaker 1: Maybe it is a prostitute as long as she's tested,
Speaker 1: and that she's.
Speaker 3: Not gonna be test they're gonna have to wear a condom.
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to see a world where in
Speaker 3: a foreign country and you're like, hey, let's go get
Speaker 3: an STI test. I mean, I'm just gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: I just am like, tallom, maybe can we just have
Speaker 1: a threesome with the prostitute or regular? I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: I wanted to know I had just gone.
Speaker 3: I coined a term last night actually, when I was
Speaker 3: on the phone with Goddess Jesse and Jesus Jones, I said,
Speaker 3: you're just making me out to be a monogamous monster,
Speaker 3: and I'm not. I'm pretty fluctual, Like I fluctuate, I
Speaker 3: flow for the most part, but.
Speaker 1: Not a monogamous monster. It's made it up. But I
Speaker 1: was just curious.
Speaker 3: I don't know. At first, I was like, I think
Speaker 3: everyone fucks at the bachelorette party. And now I'm just like,
Speaker 3: do you need to fox the week before?
Speaker 2: I don't think that everybody fucks up their bachelorette party
Speaker 2: because I think there's a lot of shame for women
Speaker 2: that they couldn't even they're already so happy that they've
Speaker 2: been that they're doing this, having this shared act with
Speaker 2: their partner, and that they're that this is happening. That
Speaker 2: I don't think a lot of women are taking advantage
Speaker 2: of this.
Speaker 1: I think that you should. I want to say, I
Speaker 1: think men are taking advantage of it. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: think that women are.
Speaker 2: I think that more women should, though, at least get
Speaker 2: a fucking happy ending.
Speaker 1: At least get a massage happy ending.
Speaker 3: You know what, maybe it would be more reasonable if
Speaker 3: I just meant a hot guy out and but.
Speaker 1: If you got a massage happy ending at your bachelorette.
Speaker 3: I think that's acceptable, right. I wouldn't trip on that.
Speaker 3: I don't think I would trip on.
Speaker 2: Any of it, because there's no guarantee that you're actually
Speaker 2: going to enjoy the sex, especially if you already have
Speaker 2: a really robust sex life with your partner and then
Speaker 2: you go fuck some person that you have no there's
Speaker 2: no credentials, there's no like, there's no check, there's no
Speaker 2: we don't know where you what you do, we don't
Speaker 2: know how you fuck.
Speaker 3: I would definitely in this, like if I had permission.
Speaker 2: Maybe they need a sense of video, I would say,
Speaker 2: pull it out, let me see it does because you
Speaker 2: pulled it out doesn't mean shit.
Speaker 3: Let me see it hard.
Speaker 1: I need I need to see some videos. What are
Speaker 1: you doing? What are you doing with that? I've had
Speaker 1: some big dicks with no coordination? What do you mean?
Speaker 1: It's just like a it's.
Speaker 2: Just like they don't even know, Like it's a waste
Speaker 2: of a big dick, like literally a waste. And you
Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about you, That's what I'm saying
Speaker 2: that don't just pull it out like I need video footages.
Speaker 1: I need to see it. Come, come, come, why because
Speaker 1: some dicks don't.
Speaker 2: Come, But that doesn't matter on your bachelortte, bitch, if
Speaker 2: he comes? What the fuck are you talking about? Okay,
Speaker 2: now you're gonna get cursed out.
Speaker 3: I'm just having a regular conversation.
Speaker 1: I'm just putting things out there. It's just a topic.
Speaker 1: I'm a research journalist anywhere. So you're gonna not.
Speaker 3: Fuck on your bachelor? Would you rather fuck a prostitute
Speaker 3: if there's a male prostitute option or just a regular
Speaker 3: guy that's fine and Italian and the South of Italy.
Speaker 1: That's kind of what I did, but it.
Speaker 3: Wasn't good because he had a small day in your
Speaker 3: butt and that.
Speaker 1: Was in Spain.
Speaker 2: I think I would prefer a fine man versus a prostitute. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it would at least give me like a little extra,
Speaker 2: like like one last what if it was our.
Speaker 1: Favorite s I don't want to have sex with him. No,
Speaker 1: he's not pretty. He's just not my.
Speaker 3: Tired No, I mean he's Yeah, you know, I think
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Speaker 3: weave like you could be fine and have a nice
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Speaker 3: Sorry anyway, I didn't mean to go on a deep
Speaker 3: dive on prostitution. I love sex workers. I just was,
Speaker 3: you know, curious. This was a last night. I'm pretty
Speaker 3: sure I just rolled over and went to bed because
Speaker 3: I was. I was exhausted from this confusing conversation. Because
Speaker 3: he wouldn't just straight up say I did. I would
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Speaker 1: I'm not.
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Speaker 1: Amen. Okay, let's see what questions do we have here?
Speaker 1: Do you have a lighter over there? You have matches?
Speaker 1: I have matches? Okay, so we ask We asked the tribe.
Speaker 2: An Instagram to ask us anything today and we got
Speaker 2: some questions. One in particular, this this is for And
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go ahead and say your Instagram, it's
Speaker 2: Matching Dexterity. Matching Dexterity is always in my DMS about
Speaker 2: my feet and our feet, and I'm here to tell
Speaker 2: you guys, it's coming. Our only fans with our feet
Speaker 2: are coming.
Speaker 1: You heard it here. First, Matching Dexterity wanted to know
Speaker 1: what shoe size you are.
Speaker 3: I'm a seven sometimes seven and a half and I
Speaker 3: can't wait to do huh, lesbian girl on girl footporn.
Speaker 3: Let me take our sandals off.
Speaker 1: Let us know.
Speaker 3: Do you guys like footporn with he on? Or would
Speaker 3: you like it with oils? Or would you just like
Speaker 3: get foot to foot? Because we we can get nasty
Speaker 3: with our feet crazy. And you know this is a
Speaker 3: big deal for Erica because she doesn't like feet, so
Speaker 3: she really likes me.
Speaker 1: I've actually healed. I'm almost healed. I'm almost I almost
Speaker 1: healed it. Okay, when you touch my feet, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: take my standal off and then we'll see if you
Speaker 1: got healed. You ready? This is okay?
Speaker 3: Orlando, insert some soft porn and sort some softporn music here.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think I need to hit the blunt first.
Speaker 2: Hit light the blind. No no, no, no, light it first.
Speaker 2: I mean I'll do it. Just let me smoke a
Speaker 2: little bit. Let me get my nervous system calm how best.
Speaker 2: I already feel myself a little bit getting a little hyperventilating.
Speaker 3: You said you're almost healed, and I'm your best friend
Speaker 3: in the whole wide world, right right, right, Erica, who's
Speaker 3: your best friend in the whole way world?
Speaker 1: You you irie and shout out to the real tribe
Speaker 1: akaur group chat. Okay, let me hit that. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: what's what's your shoe size?
Speaker 3: Oh seven and a half?
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so this is the wait what is the backward?
Speaker 1: We're smoking?
Speaker 3: We're smoking Banana Fosters, which is the Nola Edition. Can
Speaker 3: we go to Nola again?
Speaker 1: Let's do it the Banana Foster's limited edition Backward?
Speaker 3: Can we do dinner like small dinner shows where it's
Speaker 3: only thirty minutes and we don't have to do much?
Speaker 1: Do you have smoking tricks? Do you know how to
Speaker 1: do smoking tricks?
Speaker 2: I don't come on, in all these seven years of podcasting,
Speaker 2: you haven't.
Speaker 1: You gotta do this with your tongue. Gotta like go this, look,
Speaker 1: no baby, gott collect this. Maybe I can make a heart. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me try.
Speaker 2: Backwards are the best for trick because they really get
Speaker 2: that smoke. If you haven't already rolled up for this episode,
Speaker 2: I want to encourage you to right now smoke with
Speaker 2: us because we're about to take off.
Speaker 1: Why are you making that sound? Why the fuck are
Speaker 1: you making that sound? Shut upright from trauma, You're like,
Speaker 1: you don't have the shade, butter I said grease and
Speaker 1: that actually I can go grab it. You really don't
Speaker 1: have to do that. Why why do you want to
Speaker 1: have to up the fucking anti. I'm just gonna ask.
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna moisturize him for to launch our own
Speaker 3: is this our launch of our only We're gonna launch
Speaker 3: it in Jamaica. Rebrogica's are four twenty launch four OnlyFans launch.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what this is?
Speaker 3: Gonna do it?
Speaker 1: Okay to show you how to well, let me first
Speaker 1: show you how to do the oh's with the backwood.
Speaker 2: Get your fucking foot out of the frank bitch, chill out. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna rub your fucking foot.
Speaker 1: St be so thirsty.
Speaker 3: I'm just chesting you. It's not thirst it's it's a challenge.
Speaker 1: Don't be so scared. Oh yeah, it's kind of almost
Speaker 1: a fish. There's no sexy waited do ith goddamn Okay, Sorry, guys,
Speaker 1: when you're listening to this and you don't want to
Speaker 1: hear this, damn that shit.
Speaker 2: Okay, standard the standard. Thank you for this cannabis because
Speaker 2: it is strong. Okay, one more and then I'm ready.
Speaker 3: Okay, kind of nice and lotioned up free because you're healed.
Speaker 3: I know how to blow it out my nose. No,
Speaker 3: it's not trick, it's just feet. It's just an extension
Speaker 3: of the body.
Speaker 1: Give me the loation. I'm basically your wife. I need
Speaker 1: a barrier even.
Speaker 3: Basically we're energetically married through Jamerica entity.
Speaker 1: This is the good mom's first.
Speaker 2: Let me take another sip of this mom juice. Okay, So,
Speaker 2: if you don't know, my foot trauma started as a
Speaker 2: child and my mom used to put her feet on
Speaker 2: me in the night, usually rub her feet on me
Speaker 2: because she was like I thought she thought it was
Speaker 2: cute or something, and she would do it all the time,
Speaker 2: and I fucking hated it. But I didn't know how
Speaker 2: to tell her because it's my mom, and like I
Speaker 2: wanted to be close to her, but I also wanted
Speaker 2: to get the fuck off.
Speaker 1: Never you just move your feet? You never told her? Well, no,
Speaker 1: she knows now, and even actually the other day.
Speaker 3: You're creating trauma. Her creating trauma thinking she's being sweet.
Speaker 1: She thought she was being motherly, and actually she was
Speaker 1: causing her to true a wound.
Speaker 3: Okay, you ready, Okay? Five four three two one. It's
Speaker 3: just an extension in my hand. It's a funny.
Speaker 1: I kind of look that up. Is this gonna make
Speaker 1: as alliance of dollars?
Speaker 5: That?
Speaker 1: I love it?
Speaker 3: It's so great love, it's our only fans debut. I
Speaker 3: can put a toe ring on Thanklan. It's pretty nice.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I mean, I'm lower my foot
Speaker 3: of it.
Speaker 1: Nine. This is graice.
Speaker 3: I've never actually heard of pod as and podcasting foot
Speaker 3: rub with Orlando and love like this, but this is
Speaker 3: at a different level.
Speaker 1: I might this might be the next episode. This is
Speaker 1: what you do in Tanda.
Speaker 3: This is a good example of asking you get.
Speaker 1: Up the pressure to about a little bit harder. Thank you.
Speaker 3: This is how I used tangent speech.
Speaker 1: I get used to asking for what you want.
Speaker 3: And she asked me what I like and I respond,
Speaker 3: so we're not guessing, and I ask for more.
Speaker 1: Pressure or less of pressure. Yeahs at that. Man, what
Speaker 1: you just did which really nice with that plan and
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. Thank you.
Speaker 3: I was supposed to say, this is my best friendship.
Speaker 1: This is a distant best friend building. Thank you. Wow,
Speaker 1: Eric is healed. I hailed her. Okay, what do you.
Speaker 4: Do?
Speaker 1: You have foot trauma? No?
Speaker 2: Or is this for the only fans? I have to
Speaker 2: pay for that? We can't give him too much.
Speaker 1: This is the cheese. You know. There's more where that
Speaker 1: came from. There's so much more. We hailed her foot trauma.
Speaker 2: Only fans slash good moms. I don't know if that's
Speaker 2: it yet, but let's go check back in.
Speaker 1: What if someone else has our only fans? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: they don't have it. I'll sue you, bitch. Don't start now,
Speaker 1: it's too late. We already made it. By the time
Speaker 1: this steps comes out, it's up. We already have it.
Speaker 1: So nice. Okay, that was really important. So now I'm
Speaker 1: supposed touch the blunt with your feet on. You've touched
Speaker 1: lots of parts of me, like you've seen I already.
Speaker 1: I already have that.
Speaker 2: That's the thing too, Like I realize when I'm cooking
Speaker 2: that I have to wash my hands continuously throughout the process.
Speaker 2: I don't like things on, like mixing things. And now
Speaker 2: I have your foot juice on my fingers.
Speaker 1: I'm clean. I washed my feet every day.
Speaker 3: I didn't do nothing before I came here, straight here,
Speaker 3: and I barely wear these shoes. Light the blunt up.
Speaker 1: I just ray keep them. They're good.
Speaker 3: Okay, nice sanitize with reiki. Actually, you know, I just
Speaker 3: remember that we never Me and Orlando never massaged you
Speaker 3: like Sylvia.
Speaker 1: Told us too. You didn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a massage about my house too.
Speaker 1: Come on over.
Speaker 3: Our our Costa Rican healer told us that me and
Speaker 3: Orlando should massage Erica, and we just never got around
Speaker 3: to it because we're so busy. But and also we're like,
Speaker 3: this is gonna be our kids gonna think we're extra weird.
Speaker 2: Now, Like, I don't know what the fuck do Maybe
Speaker 2: they're not there when this is happening.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that weird.
Speaker 3: Pretty much, we're pretty much a colony, the good colony,
Speaker 3: the good colony.
Speaker 2: Okay, so back to the questions, sorry that people asked.
Speaker 2: So you are size seven seven and a half.
Speaker 1: Yes, what's your size? Size nine? Which doesn't work in
Speaker 1: friendship because I can never do we have the same
Speaker 1: shoe taste, I kind of and I like those shoes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, But I used be an eight and half.
Speaker 2: But then my foot grew half sized after I had
Speaker 2: my daughter.
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't gain enough weight to for my
Speaker 1: feet to spread.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sending a lot of women's feet get half
Speaker 3: the size.
Speaker 1: I just gained thirty five.
Speaker 3: I just never understood how when people get pregnant, their
Speaker 3: feet get a size bigger, but the feet don't go back.
Speaker 3: But I figured maybe it's more weight so it just
Speaker 3: flattens that one.
Speaker 1: Okay, whatever, I'm kidding.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of questions about our kids and integrating
Speaker 2: them with our partners. People really want to know how
Speaker 2: the fuck that happens. We're gonna make an e book.
Speaker 2: I'm really curious for you both, how you integrated your
Speaker 2: partner into your life with child.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Here's some more recent It was I think
Speaker 1: because I didn't really know me and chokem were. We
Speaker 1: weren't dating. He just wanted to take me to the beach.
Speaker 2: I had literally just broke up with my boyfriend like
Speaker 2: a week before, so, and I was I wasn't going
Speaker 2: with the intention of like date a date, Like that's
Speaker 2: not the.
Speaker 1: Vibe that I was even going with.
Speaker 2: And so anyway, at that date, I told him I
Speaker 2: was moving that I didn't know I was a date.
Speaker 2: I told him I was moving, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I can come over and help you, and bitch, who
Speaker 2: is going tony a nigga to help you move?
Speaker 1: Now? Knowing ever never never, and so I said, yes,
Speaker 1: please come and so he came over and helped me move.
Speaker 2: So that was the first time he met Iri, and
Speaker 2: then he kind of just kept coming over, and it
Speaker 2: took me like ten times to realize that we were
Speaker 2: like seeing each other.
Speaker 1: So by that time, Jesus, actually it was you. You asked me.
Speaker 1: You were like, are you guys dating? And I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. So I think that it was just
Speaker 1: like a natural progression.
Speaker 2: But in the past, I mean, I guess i'd waited,
Speaker 2: and like even in those in those situations, it started
Speaker 2: off as like this is my friend. It wasn't like
Speaker 2: this is mommy's boyfriend, or like this I'm mommy seeing
Speaker 2: this guy. You're about to meet him, Like no, it
Speaker 2: wasn't like that. It was just like we're going to
Speaker 2: the barbecue. Oh, this is whoever?
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: So I think when I first started, I think when
Speaker 2: I first began it became single. I had these weird
Speaker 2: rules that around the integration of Iri and me and
Speaker 2: my baby daddy's like potential partners.
Speaker 1: I wanted to meet her the partner, which was crazy,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, no, thank you, Like I was like,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna bring a bitch around my daughter, I
Speaker 1: need to meet her. That's usually most I feel like
Speaker 1: that's like the new mom phase one of like I
Speaker 1: just became a baby mama.
Speaker 3: No, true, because that's like what you're like, most of
Speaker 3: that's me, you know, like.
Speaker 2: You still need to like gate keep these things and
Speaker 2: have control and feel like you know, I mean, in
Speaker 2: the perfect world that would be nice, right, And it's
Speaker 2: just like okay, and if you meet them, then bitch, right,
Speaker 2: you can't.
Speaker 3: Like, don't spank my daughter, don't look at her wrong,
Speaker 3: not even her. It's just like I guess it's just
Speaker 3: about like, hey, I want to see your face or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I think it was. I think it's
Speaker 2: just like the more natural it is, the better. And
Speaker 2: I don't know, I think that's that's the best policy
Speaker 2: for me. And that's kind of been the journey for me.
Speaker 2: But I know people that, like I know men and
Speaker 2: women that are like, oh, yeah, he's actually someone you know,
Speaker 2: she's had a man for like ten years and he
Speaker 2: never met her kid really yes, And I was like,
Speaker 2: and I the last time I saw her, I was like,
Speaker 2: actually I need to call her and check in on
Speaker 2: her because.
Speaker 1: I said, girl, is time. It's that's your nigga.
Speaker 2: You either make a choice or you need to like
Speaker 2: leave this nigga alone, or you need to say Okay,
Speaker 2: let's move forward with this. So and it sounds like
Speaker 2: you've already made a choice, So I just don't subscribe
Speaker 2: to that. I think that that is I don't know,
Speaker 2: like it's like that's such a big part of who
Speaker 2: you are. I get the protection, I understand the protection,
Speaker 2: But if you have to really question who you're dating
Speaker 2: for an excited amount of time, I'm not saying, like,
Speaker 2: do it like how I did, like where you know,
Speaker 2: she literally met she Ken like the second time I hung.
Speaker 1: Out with shi Ken. I agree, anyway, I agree.
Speaker 3: Compart to mentalizing parts of you is I don't know.
Speaker 3: I guess it depends also how old your kid is,
Speaker 3: if your kid is older and about to be out
Speaker 3: the house, But also like what are you hiding? What
Speaker 3: are you hiding? And if you love two people, I
Speaker 3: mean I think sharing that.
Speaker 2: I think there's no better litmus test than your kid. Yeah,
Speaker 2: to know if this person is actually compatible for the family,
Speaker 2: the family that you've that you've already created, and this
Speaker 2: person that your child is of you, like I I mean,
Speaker 2: and I've and Iri has been that for me, Like
Speaker 2: I've seen her not gravitate towards certain people and then
Speaker 2: I've seen, I've seen how she does, because generally she's
Speaker 2: been fucking right.
Speaker 3: It's difficult to naviget a relationship if they don't get
Speaker 3: along or whatever, or he's not he's not even used
Speaker 3: to being around kids. They don't get to see you
Speaker 3: as a mom. That's a whole different role. It's a
Speaker 3: whole different hat you're wearing, and you don't want to
Speaker 3: feel I guess torn to have to like solely give
Speaker 3: like energy here and solely here. I think being a
Speaker 3: single mom makes that easier, hopefully when you're like drop it,
Speaker 3: you know, taking time off with.
Speaker 1: The other parent. But yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't believe in like hiding people or keeping them
Speaker 3: separate for an extended amount of time just because yeah,
Speaker 3: it just it's a part of me. So I love
Speaker 3: my kid. I want you to know her too. And
Speaker 3: I always start as friends, because usually when you date someone,
Speaker 3: you start as friends anyway, you don't have a title,
Speaker 3: and then when it goes to that you can explain
Speaker 3: that too.
Speaker 1: Not always, I feel like I feel like that's I
Speaker 1: feel like people don't start as friends, that's the fucking problem.
Speaker 2: Oh well, I think she will start as fuck buddies
Speaker 2: and then they try to like, well, and you don't say,
Speaker 2: this is my house husband a nigga and housewife a bitch,
Speaker 2: and it's not.
Speaker 1: It's not ready. The house is broken from the beginning.
Speaker 1: Tell your kid that's my fuck buddy. You could just say, and.
Speaker 2: Then some people do like some people have like I do,
Speaker 2: believe there is like you should have discernment and you
Speaker 2: have boundaries that you shouldn't just like be everyone is
Speaker 2: Uncle Tommy and lollly gagging around who anyone, absolutely, anyone
Speaker 2: you bring. I think that includes the women that you
Speaker 2: bring around. I think that includes everyone that you bring around,
Speaker 2: because your child is a human sponge that's listening and
Speaker 2: watching you and whoever, and assuming that you've already done
Speaker 2: the test, you've already done the litmus test on this person,
Speaker 2: So they're probably someone that I.
Speaker 1: Don't advise you to fuck anybody that you wouldn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I've had fuck buddies that.
Speaker 1: I don't introduce to Luna, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because why would I do that?
Speaker 3: But the hope is that whoever you're giving your body to,
Speaker 3: there's some basis of friendship. But I think for me
Speaker 3: in Orlando is really easy because the first time I
Speaker 3: met Orlando in person, Luna was there briefly and she
Speaker 3: was like, why is he wearing that craft top?
Speaker 1: I don't know?
Speaker 3: Ask him also stop embarrassing me. And then and then
Speaker 3: even in our dating long distance, he would FaceTime. We
Speaker 3: would talk all together like it was it was he
Speaker 3: was my friend and I was sharing in that, sharing
Speaker 3: pictures of my trips and stuff like that. And I
Speaker 3: don't remember having like an official conversation with Luna about
Speaker 3: if he was moving in. I think that he left
Speaker 3: a big ass bag and I think I was like,
Speaker 3: he left his fucking bag here. I think he thinks
Speaker 3: he think he's staying. And because I talked to my
Speaker 3: kid like I talked to you know, Erica, and he's
Speaker 3: integrated really nicely into our into our life, and sometimes
Speaker 3: it is difficult, like when he reprimands her.
Speaker 1: Well, that's the next question.
Speaker 2: The next question is how do you set boundaries with them,
Speaker 2: like with any I think.
Speaker 3: It was more difficult in the beginning seeing someone else
Speaker 3: out set boundaries with my kid, even when he was right,
Speaker 3: you know. And I think a lot of it is
Speaker 3: I really I notice in you know, the evolution of
Speaker 3: their relationship. He is I'm the disciplinary because I'm more
Speaker 3: like straight at it, but he's stern. If he says something,
Speaker 3: you don't do it, then there's consequences. He'll take the
Speaker 3: things and I and I know she gets pissed and
Speaker 3: then she's like, it is my dad taking the ede
Speaker 3: to our I was like, nah, But I also really
Speaker 3: see how she respects it. I see when she doesn't
Speaker 3: push back. I see when she exceeds in like homemark, math,
Speaker 3: homework that he spends a lot of time with her on.
Speaker 3: I see when she gets more confident in it, and
Speaker 3: I see when she they grow closer because of the
Speaker 3: respect that she has for him, And I think sometimes
Speaker 3: we fear that. And I'm like, Orlando's not beating, spanking,
Speaker 3: you know, yelling at my child, at our child, because
Speaker 3: he does consider Luna his And we also go to
Speaker 3: parent conference, teacher things together and open houses, and like,
Speaker 3: he's integrated into our family because he's serious about it.
Speaker 3: And I think that's another thing too, Like if a
Speaker 3: man is showing you that they are serious about the
Speaker 3: integration of especially if you have smaller children that are
Speaker 3: not moving out anytime soon. I think that is also,
Speaker 3: you know, generally a green flag. I'm not suggesting by
Speaker 3: any means if you have any intuition that you shouldn't leave,
Speaker 3: Like I don't like leaving your kid at home if
Speaker 3: someone you just met, having someone you just met or
Speaker 3: have known lesson to your babysit your kid, Like that's
Speaker 3: absolutely insane. You know, I think you have have to
Speaker 3: watch kids. I mean, you have to watch adults, and
Speaker 3: you have to communicate with your kids so they can
Speaker 3: communicate with you if there is anything uncomfortable, because I
Speaker 3: think single moms get a really bad rep for like
Speaker 3: we're damned if we don't damned if we don't as
Speaker 3: if we don't have such high intuition as women, and
Speaker 3: you know you always do hear horror stories. But it's
Speaker 3: also like a stigma with like that moms are just
Speaker 3: careless with their kids, when in fact, I am fucking
Speaker 3: watching like a mother fucking hawk, the teacher, every single
Speaker 3: thing around this precious thing that I've built and that
Speaker 3: I've created, and I'm protecting it more than anyone, like
Speaker 3: a fucking eagles eye. And I think people disregard the intelligence,
Speaker 3: the emotion intelligence, the fucking intuitive intelligence of a mother
Speaker 3: and how mama bear. Shit can get real quick. And
Speaker 3: I think because of that, moms like I've read threads
Speaker 3: like I'm never That's why I don't bring no man
Speaker 3: around my kid. That's why I never dated after her daddy.
Speaker 3: That's like, that's not a flag to wear, that's not
Speaker 3: a bad like you know to be like, I haven't
Speaker 3: dated in twenty years because I'm not dating until little
Speaker 3: Johnny gets at the house, because I'm not a hope
Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck You've told yourself is that you
Speaker 3: deserve to be loved and your kid deserves to have
Speaker 3: a have that male influence and to see you be loved.
Speaker 3: But you just have to have discerned about who you're
Speaker 3: bring on your kid and and let them show you
Speaker 3: that they're ready and prepared, you know, with action and
Speaker 3: with words.
Speaker 1: Amen. Amen, Sorry, guys, I'm high now. I agree.
Speaker 3: And does have you experience shook him having to reprimand
Speaker 3: or be stern with Iri and how you feel about that.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's still I feel like there's still
Speaker 2: comfortability growing there. I've watched him definitely coarse correct I've
Speaker 2: you know, we've even I've even had real conversations with
Speaker 2: him about my parenting, you know what I mean, not
Speaker 2: him bringing it up and me asking him genuinely, what
Speaker 2: do you think about this?
Speaker 1: Like am I? Am I driven? Or am I?
Speaker 2: And you know, like, and he's told me the honest truth,
Speaker 2: and sometimes I haven't liked it about myself even do
Speaker 2: you know? So I appreciate and I And then I also,
Speaker 2: I mean I was gonna ask you that too, because
Speaker 2: there is a sensitivity there anyone telling you about like
Speaker 2: your parenting. And I wouldn't say he's told me about
Speaker 2: my parenting, but I've asked him do you think I'm
Speaker 2: too like do you think I'm like I follow through
Speaker 2: with you know, the the threat essentially to the extent
Speaker 2: where it's actually making change.
Speaker 1: Or does she now think that she can just get
Speaker 1: away with shit? And he was like, you could a
Speaker 1: better job, and I was.
Speaker 3: Like, I was like, fuck, I asked, It's right.
Speaker 1: I know I'm asking because I know that I yeah
Speaker 1: that I know that.
Speaker 2: And as you were speaking, I was thinking about as
Speaker 2: a single mom, I feel like, and this is just
Speaker 2: speaking for myself and my experience.
Speaker 1: I think that my intuition became even.
Speaker 2: More heightened when I became a single mom because I
Speaker 2: had more responsibility in the guidance of my child.
Speaker 1: And so I feel like single moms.
Speaker 2: I don't want to like this respect moms that are
Speaker 2: not single, but I feel like there is like a
Speaker 2: more of a survival that has to occur, especially in
Speaker 2: the beginning where you're like, oh shit, how are we
Speaker 2: managing this? Is this like I'm alone, I'm alonet.
Speaker 3: Have anyone who bounce ideas off of It's all on me. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I fuck it up.
Speaker 2: So you'll really have to listen to yourself, especially if
Speaker 2: you don't have that support from the other parent to
Speaker 2: like as far as like how we're collaborating on this
Speaker 2: fucking piece of work art that we've created, you know,
Speaker 2: and it's like it requires you to really be able
Speaker 2: to listen or and lean on the people that you
Speaker 2: are bringing around. Which is why I feel like our
Speaker 2: intuition is so important as a single parent, because we
Speaker 2: don't necessarily have another person that's like, eh, I don't
Speaker 2: really fuck with No, I don't want that man around
Speaker 2: my son. I don't want that woman, you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I just I think that single mothers
Speaker 2: have this like unique opportunity to really tap into their
Speaker 2: intuition and such a high level because of because you
Speaker 2: kind of have.
Speaker 3: To yeah, you do, you do, and it's so tightened
Speaker 3: you're right.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But then so on the other hand, though, I have
Speaker 2: experienced an ex reprimand irie and was so true, like
Speaker 2: I like I could feel everything inside of me, like
Speaker 2: wanting to punch him in the face, and it was
Speaker 2: And I've talked about this before, but maybe I should
Speaker 2: elaborate on it because during that situation, it was the
Speaker 2: first time I really had a boyfriend that IRI had met,
Speaker 2: and so I knew that I felt uncomfortability and I
Speaker 2: was really trying to reason with myself, like am I
Speaker 2: uncomfortable because this is the first time I've ever done this,
Speaker 2: Like this person really does want to be a part
Speaker 2: of her life. But then also realizing I was kind
Speaker 2: of dating like a sociopath a little bit, and he
Speaker 2: manipulative and has mommy issues, and I think that there
Speaker 2: were there there was probably a time or two that
Speaker 2: like he reprimanded her, and I didn't do what I
Speaker 2: should have done. You know, I didn't say like what
Speaker 2: the fuck, like chill because I was lit, I was
Speaker 2: I myself was processing well, I was shocked, and I
Speaker 2: was also like, is this what I need? Is this
Speaker 2: what I asked for? Like maybe like she is acting
Speaker 2: like a brat, but like why the fuck are you yelling?
Speaker 2: Like you don't need to yell, know, And so I
Speaker 2: think it is a journey. I think we need to
Speaker 2: give moms a lot of grace in that space too,
Speaker 2: because you're not going to get it right every fucking time,
Speaker 2: especially when you're just navigating it. And but we should
Speaker 2: put out a manual because I think there are some
Speaker 2: things to look out for.
Speaker 3: And I think we need to have conversations about like
Speaker 3: things to look out for. And I think it's also
Speaker 3: said like some women are in positions where they need
Speaker 3: help so bad that they overlook that, and that's never
Speaker 3: That's never the way. And I think there's also ways
Speaker 3: you can talk to your child. And I also me personally,
Speaker 3: and I like, I never believed in leaving my I
Speaker 3: never believed in leaving my kid with people outside of
Speaker 3: people who kept me personally, you know, or like you know,
Speaker 3: immediate family before they could talk words, you know, like
Speaker 3: the power of words is so powerful if they know
Speaker 3: how to communicate with themselves, if they have sovereignty, over
Speaker 3: their bodies. And I think that's important too.
Speaker 1: And I think there's also.
Speaker 3: Like a space for the step parent who are the
Speaker 3: you know, the boyfriend or whatever the partner to have
Speaker 3: tips too, because I think it's hard for them to
Speaker 3: know where to step in. Orlando came and wearing his
Speaker 3: fucking daddy pants and even that sometimes it's frustrating. So
Speaker 3: I'm like, you, I have a kid, me, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, I have a kid, so like, yes,
Speaker 3: this is a you gotta do it first to even
Speaker 3: be yeah, And he's always like, I know because I
Speaker 3: don't have a kid, I don't know. I'm like, shut up,
Speaker 3: it's true and you'll understand. And later you're gonna be
Speaker 3: like you were right because now I get it, you know.
Speaker 3: And that just happens biologically when someone comes through you.
Speaker 3: But I don't know. I think it's been it's been
Speaker 3: a blessing more than it has because I know that
Speaker 3: I'm I know, I'm a pushover.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: My way of parenting is I need to read a book.
Speaker 3: That's another thing. I was thinking, I need to read
Speaker 3: a book. Why haven't I read a book. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: have a book in my living room. And I need
Speaker 3: to read it because I just I think that we
Speaker 3: all could work better on our language how we listen, because.
Speaker 1: Literally, like that's usually the barrier. In twenty twenty five,
Speaker 1: we're like fighting wars across countries. Like you would think
Speaker 1: we'd have evolved past murder, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But it's because we're lacking and understanding. And so when
Speaker 3: you use words like to actually work for you, then
Speaker 3: it could be transformative. And so if we stay like
Speaker 3: even as adults, like we don't continue going to fucking
Speaker 3: English when we.
Speaker 1: Wrote this book, well, well because it's beyond English. It's
Speaker 1: like comprehension.
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, emotional intelligence, Like there's a way that
Speaker 2: like you appeal to someone else's like wherever they're at
Speaker 2: in their in their emotional journey, you know, and the
Speaker 2: lens and listen without ego and exactly and listen without
Speaker 2: ego and respond without ego and respond with care and love.
Speaker 3: And even the vocabulary of how we describe our feelings,
Speaker 3: like the feelings, well, I look at that, I'm like,
Speaker 3: this feels inauthentic because I'm just mad, I'm pissed off,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna fuck you up, Like those are my four emotions.
Speaker 1: I'm stressed, and it's like, bitch, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 3: And so if we were limited and even like if
Speaker 3: if we don't even take the time as adults, you like,
Speaker 3: let me go.
Speaker 1: Look at some other words to describe this shit, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean.
Speaker 3: If we don't evolve even in our language, we're gonna
Speaker 3: be limited in how We're gonna be fucking describing ourselves
Speaker 3: as fucking sixteen year old teenage girls because we haven't
Speaker 3: taken the time too, and then instill that in our
Speaker 3: child to communicate with us.
Speaker 1: Next question, what is your strain of choice?
Speaker 3: I'm a hybrid gally. I really like blue Dream. You know,
Speaker 3: Once I like something, I don't really have to venture
Speaker 3: way off. I took some breaks from just straight Sativa's
Speaker 3: because I think it was contributing to my anxiety.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I like hybrids. I'm not picky.
Speaker 3: Whatever's most like kind of inexpensive mid grade doesn't look
Speaker 3: like it's outdoor at the dispensary.
Speaker 1: I'm with you don't like outdoor.
Speaker 3: I mean I'll take a greenhouse, but no, I don't prefer.
Speaker 3: But you know, as I get older, actually I'm like,
Speaker 3: give me a good old outdoor.
Speaker 1: You know what I like outdoor? I do.
Speaker 2: I did smoke a homegrown weed like a few days ago,
Speaker 2: like from someone's backyard. I did not enjoy it. Why
Speaker 2: maybe it was just they didn't They hadn't figured it out.
Speaker 1: It's Tasted's just so like.
Speaker 3: Well, when you're used when you're in California and you're yeah,
Speaker 3: the sun, when you're used to ing door perfectly curated.
Speaker 1: But I feel like there's some really good outdoor weed.
Speaker 1: You just have to know what you're fucking doing.
Speaker 3: And when you I mean greenhouse. Greenhouse is a good way.
Speaker 3: It's not quite outdoors, not quite indoor.
Speaker 1: Mine is mine is hybrid too. But I do like
Speaker 1: a good sativa.
Speaker 2: I love a green crack. I like Jack Carrere. I
Speaker 2: like Gelatto, which is the Indica. I mean, it just
Speaker 2: depends what I'm doing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. You know, like if I need to
Speaker 3: lay the fuck down, like I love to.
Speaker 2: Smoke an Indica and lay down and watch a movie
Speaker 2: make out.
Speaker 1: And I have to get my slip.
Speaker 3: We're about to get so high in the next two weeks,
Speaker 3: about to go to Jamaica, and just I know this
Speaker 3: is this is so y'all, We're going to Jamaica and
Speaker 3: it's a cannabis It's a cannabis retreat.
Speaker 1: It's our first cannabis retreat.
Speaker 2: And don't worry, We're gonna have more because this is
Speaker 2: very important, as you know, as you can and see,
Speaker 2: we were some four twenty moms for sure.
Speaker 1: How did Erica and Ken meet?
Speaker 2: And what do you love about him?
Speaker 1: I love everything about him.
Speaker 3: I love everything, every single I love everything. I love
Speaker 3: everything about you. We met Actually, you know what, you
Speaker 3: know why I met Chi Kim Jamila. Jamila sent me.
Speaker 2: This is how I know it's true love, because I said,
Speaker 2: my best friend sent me dams. So she sent me
Speaker 2: a picture of our video of him. I think it
Speaker 2: was him like doing Ninja shit in the park. You're like, girl,
Speaker 2: you have to come to this park workout bach It
Speaker 2: was like COVID right, it was co Yeah, it cover
Speaker 2: you guys come to this work park. Workout is the
Speaker 2: sky Jake and he's so fine. I went to middle
Speaker 2: school with him and he's so fine now. And then
Speaker 2: she sent me the video and I was like, damn, bitch,
Speaker 2: he is fine.
Speaker 1: He's fine.
Speaker 2: She has a girlfriend, but you know, whatever, and I
Speaker 2: was like, okay, well, where where are these workouts? So
Speaker 2: you know, you check a little eye candy while I workout.
Speaker 2: So anyway, you sent me his number. You sent me
Speaker 2: his number four, and so I.
Speaker 1: Met, I could grow up. You joined it, I could
Speaker 1: join the.
Speaker 2: Group, And I said, but I couldn't join the group
Speaker 2: because it was in Sherman Oaks at like eight am.
Speaker 2: That's when I dropped my daughter from school. So I
Speaker 2: messaged him for some personal training services. I wasn't being
Speaker 2: a whore. I promised, like this, there's.
Speaker 1: A personal services.
Speaker 3: I just you know, I hid her for some personal chess.
Speaker 1: A personal training services take something into practice services.
Speaker 3: That's like the new, that's like the new, like jigglow.
Speaker 3: I'm just a personal training service.
Speaker 2: So anyway, we text a few times and I asked
Speaker 2: him if we could like work out, and he said yes.
Speaker 2: Then I texted him again. Then he didn't respond, and
Speaker 2: then I was like, fuck you. Literally, I was like,
Speaker 2: he's just too fine. That's why he's just fuck him.
Speaker 1: He's busy. Maybe he's meditating on the mountain. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I couldn't read it. If he
Speaker 1: was a whore.
Speaker 2: He was like a like a real if he was
Speaker 2: a hotel, what the fuck was going on over there?
Speaker 2: So and also I think I I think I had
Speaker 2: a boyfriend at the time. Maybe I was like in
Speaker 2: between boyfriends.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It was right before we got the boyfriends.
Speaker 2: And it didn't matter because he had a girlfriend. And
Speaker 2: you know, I don't do boyfriend. I don't do boyfriend
Speaker 2: girlfriend married people.
Speaker 1: I didn't hit a girlfriend. At first. I was to
Speaker 1: work his girlfriend because she was an actress. And you
Speaker 1: told me.
Speaker 3: That was after I did some more investigations.
Speaker 2: Okay, So then then we ended up going to Bruna
Speaker 2: as a full moon. It was like lions Gate sound Bath.
Speaker 1: Is that there? Yeah, you were there.
Speaker 2: Anyway, our friend did a sound bath and he they
Speaker 2: did it together. And so that was the first time
Speaker 2: I saw him in person in Bourbank. Yeah, I was
Speaker 2: in Burbank and I remember like seeing I was like, oh, God,
Speaker 2: that's that's the guy. That's the one that didn't text
Speaker 2: me back about my training services.
Speaker 1: That's the ninga.
Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, he looks so like serious about what
Speaker 2: he's doing over there, Like he's just very like he.
Speaker 1: Meditated for two hours before he attended and it was
Speaker 1: very this is who he is. It's not an act.
Speaker 2: And I remember when so I went up. I went
Speaker 2: up and Bruna was saging people. He was saging people.
Speaker 2: I remember hoping that, like in the line, it was
Speaker 2: going to work out, that I was gonna get saged
Speaker 2: by him, did you?
Speaker 1: And I did. I did get staged by him, and
Speaker 1: I just wanted a closer look.
Speaker 2: I wanted a closer look and I help me here, boy,
Speaker 2: I didn't get a little closer look at you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then whatever he saged me and it was great. Whatever.
Speaker 2: We went and enjoyed the sound bath and that was it.
Speaker 2: Like I never heard, we never had to talk to
Speaker 2: at that event, shared any words at all. And then
Speaker 2: I think like the next time that I saw him
Speaker 2: was here. So it was like this was like years
Speaker 2: in the making, like it was like twenty two thousand.
Speaker 2: I think the event the Lionsgate was twenty twenty one.
Speaker 2: I want to say the twenty twenty two. I got
Speaker 2: a boyfriend in New York and so then I was
Speaker 2: like outside with my man's and then literally in twenty
Speaker 2: twenty three, a few days before my birthday, a few
Speaker 2: days before my birthday. I broke up with him, and
Speaker 2: then like a week later, she ken messaged me and
Speaker 2: I remember telling Jamil. I was like, oh my god, Ninja,
Speaker 2: I think DM me it were so random.
Speaker 3: I was like, maybe you put out the set of
Speaker 3: single like he just it was literally days later and
Speaker 3: he saw a single bitch he text me and still
Speaker 3: like Jamila had told me, and I could just tell,
Speaker 3: like he is a man of like where women feel safe,
Speaker 3: so he has a lot of female friends. He's a trainer,
Speaker 3: so he has I just he had a lot.
Speaker 1: I knew he knew a lot of.
Speaker 2: People, So I think that's why I didn't think it
Speaker 2: was like romantic, because I knew, like Bruno was his friend,
Speaker 2: Like he had a lot of female friends. So I
Speaker 2: was like, maybe he just wants to be my friend
Speaker 2: or whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: He did I should do a photo show.
Speaker 2: He asked me, DMed me and said, I really like
Speaker 2: your hair color. I had just like accidentally dyed my
Speaker 2: hair like cherry red. It was like for our show
Speaker 2: in LA And he was like, I've been shooting pictures.
Speaker 2: I shouldn't known. I shouldn't known, but I was also heartbroken.
Speaker 2: I was like hair and I thought my world was over.
Speaker 2: And so he said, I would love to shoot you
Speaker 2: at the beach. Can I just come pick you up
Speaker 2: one day. I'm doing this like I'm putting together this
Speaker 2: like thing with just different women in their element, and
Speaker 2: I was like sure. And so at that point, I
Speaker 2: literally was like in the midst of heartbreak. I was
Speaker 2: fucking depressed, like very depressed, and I was just like,
Speaker 2: you know what, in a week from today, whenever, this
Speaker 2: nigga is gonna get me, and I know I'm gonna
Speaker 2: need to be at the beach that day, so I'm
Speaker 2: just gonna say yes, a free ride to the beach.
Speaker 1: I was literally my mindset. I was like, this, mine's
Speaker 1: gonna drive me to Malibu.
Speaker 2: I don't know what he talked about, but I need
Speaker 2: to get near the water and I don't want to drive.
Speaker 2: And so he came and picked me up. A week later,
Speaker 2: I totally forgot. He messaged me that day and was like, hey,
Speaker 2: are we still good for it today? And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh shit, And it was true. That day was, like
Speaker 2: I remember, was really stressful for me. I just like
Speaker 2: I was like.
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, I am.
Speaker 2: And so he came and picked me up and I
Speaker 2: remember when he opened the door, I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: he is fine, Yep, he's fine.
Speaker 1: Yes he is.
Speaker 2: And so yeah, we went to the beach and he
Speaker 2: lit a bonfire. I don't know how I didn't know this.
Speaker 2: Nigga was like courting me, but he lit a bond
Speaker 2: He lit a bonfire. But he was like filming stuff,
Speaker 2: and like I think he was nervous.
Speaker 1: He wasn't flirting with me at all, you know, like
Speaker 1: he was just like, yeah, so this is what I do.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm doing.
Speaker 2: I wrote, I write a lot of poetry, and like
Speaker 2: I want to put visuals to the story.
Speaker 1: That I'm writing.
Speaker 2: And so I just really need you to just kind
Speaker 2: of just stand over there and chill. And so I
Speaker 2: was like okay, so I'm like sitting there like all awkward,
Speaker 2: like this is what he needs, Like I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we just had like really good conversation.
Speaker 2: Like after that, we we drove back and I remember
Speaker 2: we just like started passing the ox and like that's
Speaker 2: how I.
Speaker 1: Know if I love you the past ox.
Speaker 2: If our music tastes combined, they don't do the same,
Speaker 2: but they compliment one another, you can handle it. And
Speaker 2: yeah and so so yeah, that was how we met.
Speaker 2: And so after I told like I said it earlier,
Speaker 2: like I told him I was moving cause I was
Speaker 2: in the midst of moving. I was going through. Like now,
Speaker 2: looking back, I realized how much like change I was
Speaker 2: actually going through all at once, like this breakup, this move,
Speaker 2: him coming into my life. There was like transitions happening here,
Speaker 2: like our book coming. There was so much going on
Speaker 2: energetically and like physically happening. And he was like, I'll
Speaker 2: help you move, and so he that's when he actually
Speaker 2: he actually met Iri. The first he came in, he
Speaker 2: walked me to my door and I re opened the
Speaker 2: door when I showed up at the house. After we
Speaker 2: went to the beach, and I was like, oh, this
Speaker 2: is shakem and he was like hey. I was like hi,
Speaker 2: So where was that? No, I'm high Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1: Where am I? We went to the beach.
Speaker 2: Oh, and then before he left, he yeah, he was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: i'll see you. I'll see you tomorrow to help you move.
Speaker 2: And then every day since then, like he's asked me
Speaker 2: for when we're going to see each other again, and.
Speaker 1: Like scheduled it.
Speaker 2: And so that's the story of shakem and he's just
Speaker 2: I think I love his I love his consistency. That
Speaker 2: was like the first thing that I realized, like that
Speaker 2: was the thing he was constant with. Was just like
Speaker 2: the way if he said he's going to do something,
Speaker 2: he was going to do it. And I love his mind.
Speaker 2: He's so intelligent and funny, He's fucking hilarious. And so
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm still like I think, because we've
Speaker 2: all liveing together a year, we're still evolving and learning.
Speaker 2: But I think at his core, like I just I
Speaker 2: love I do, I love everything about him.
Speaker 1: How long did you guys? How long did How long
Speaker 1: was it before you guys started like officially dating after
Speaker 1: the three days after he messaged you from breaking up
Speaker 1: with your ex.
Speaker 2: I think it was like a month and a half December.
Speaker 2: It was around the sex party, it was around he
Speaker 2: made his girlfriend. Oh no, that was February. In February,
Speaker 2: it was after the retreat, so like.
Speaker 1: October after we had that little life changing retreat.
Speaker 3: Life changing and that was like our there are tenth yeah,
Speaker 3: tenth and eleventh yeah or tenth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So it took November December, four month, three and three
Speaker 2: and a half months before three to three and a
Speaker 2: half to four months before we said like we're together together.
Speaker 3: I know, I think as you date and there's so
Speaker 3: many games played and like we've come far from like
Speaker 3: circle yes or no, like hey, I want you to
Speaker 3: be and my girl, Like I'm just it's so interesting,
Speaker 3: you know, And as I'm telling the story, I'm realizing
Speaker 3: how chill it is and how so many of my
Speaker 3: relationships have been like so, and then it was like.
Speaker 2: This is the thing, and it's like I actually, I
Speaker 2: think that's like set the tone for our relationship. I've
Speaker 2: met a lot of men in like very fantastical ways.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, once in a lifetime met you in
Speaker 2: this space and place, and I think that I really
Speaker 2: enjoy like the that's what I'm saying, like the consistency
Speaker 2: and just like the slow burn of our relationship.
Speaker 1: It's been like very like we've taken our time. And
Speaker 1: so yeah, I love that's the story.
Speaker 2: Of my love is she can I'd advocate for this
Speaker 2: slow ver. Oh and also Jamila went to middle school
Speaker 2: with chi Quem. Yeah, so you've I mean he was
Speaker 2: always no, it wasn't I didn't even go to middle
Speaker 2: school with him.
Speaker 3: My two best friends had to middle school with him,
Speaker 3: so like I went to for like summer school, you know, people.
Speaker 1: Like he said he was a mute. That's what he's
Speaker 1: I mean, he's quite now. He was quiet.
Speaker 3: He's been consistent. He's very like introvert, very kind, always nice.
Speaker 3: Because I also that was sound.
Speaker 2: So funny because like he's an introvert, but he's not quiet,
Speaker 2: like at least I mean maybe around me, like.
Speaker 1: One on one person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not like a group like you know, he's
Speaker 3: just chillis to himself. He I remember, you know, I
Speaker 3: do have like I don't know why I feel like it.
Speaker 3: I also went to school with him around the same time,
Speaker 3: went to school with like that other guy that we
Speaker 3: know who's completely the opposite, was a producer. It was
Speaker 3: a love and hip hop and I remember like when
Speaker 3: that kid came around, I was like, oh God, he's
Speaker 3: gonna be talking shit. Like I was like, God, this
Speaker 3: thing is going to be talking shit, clowning. And I'm
Speaker 3: like I remember him just him just being just so
Speaker 3: like nice, nice but nice, no problem.
Speaker 1: Because they were friends.
Speaker 3: I'm like, how yeah, I mean, the valley is small,
Speaker 3: especially when you're black. But yeah Milliken Junior High.
Speaker 2: Okay, so next question and next question, and maybe this
Speaker 2: is our last question. Is there a particular time of
Speaker 2: day that you and your significant other put aside to
Speaker 2: smoke or discuss the day?
Speaker 3: Is there a particular time of the day mind you.
Speaker 3: Usually probably at the end of the night Mi Orlando,
Speaker 3: and we get home. We will sit on the couch,
Speaker 3: sometimes open computers, but like watch a movie or watch
Speaker 3: a show, and generally it's a lifetime will like maybe
Speaker 3: drink wine or we'll smoke, and we'll wind down and
Speaker 3: eat dinner and then go to bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, old.
Speaker 3: Lady, we sit on the cat wind down, We wind
Speaker 3: down from the day. We smoke, the blood we give
Speaker 3: each other, feet, ribs, we eat.
Speaker 2: We smoke in the morning and the night, like we
Speaker 2: not every morning, but in the morning, like because she
Speaker 2: usually wakes up super early to go work with his clients,
Speaker 2: and so I'm up at like five thirty or six,
Speaker 2: and so we'll smoke together, drink our our coffee and yeah,
Speaker 2: and then at night for sure, like we're.
Speaker 3: Just good morning. Sometimes Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 2: I fight, depends it's not all the time, because sometimes
Speaker 2: I'm like I don't need to smoke right now.
Speaker 3: I'll be fighting for my life in the morning, just
Speaker 3: trying to get a lunch together and a child to
Speaker 3: school every morning.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's why I need it.
Speaker 2: Seven it actually helps my morning. I just smoke my
Speaker 2: joint or like not. I can't even smoke a whole joint.
Speaker 2: I literally take the cup puff and I'm like, that's it,
Speaker 2: that's all I got making.
Speaker 1: Look look at us, are we old? I know? Come on,
Speaker 1: how's a joint light of smoked fucking twenty two percent
Speaker 1: of this blind? Huh? What the fuck? Come on?
Speaker 3: Come on, get your coons up, come on, light it up,
Speaker 3: come on, get your cold us up. We're young and thriving.
Speaker 1: If you can't smoke a whole backwood, you know what
Speaker 1: you're fucking noon. You forgot to order lunch. I didn't
Speaker 1: eat breakfast. If you can't smoke a whole blunt, they're
Speaker 1: not real. They're not a real smoker. Yeah, a smoker smoker.
Speaker 3: That blunt is blunting. Right now, there's some other questions
Speaker 3: in discord. Should we keep going or do you have
Speaker 3: any high thoughts? Are you feeling? Take it intermission.
Speaker 1: I did have a.
Speaker 2: High thought and this is this is so. I was
Speaker 2: having sex to the other night and I was thinking
Speaker 2: to myself, I wonder what it feels like at the back,
Speaker 2: like when you reach the back of the pussy.
Speaker 3: What does it feel like like the end?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when it's like you can't go anywhere, Like
Speaker 1: what does it feel like? Is it like is it
Speaker 1: like a wall that's like kind of like soft and mushy,
Speaker 1: or is it like just all in like does it
Speaker 1: get tighter?
Speaker 2: Like what is it? And I was like, I can't
Speaker 2: ask him this right now, Like tell me what it
Speaker 2: is like in detail, right now?
Speaker 1: What do you feel right now? It? So she's sc tight?
Speaker 1: Is it tight? Do you like that?
Speaker 3: Orlando?
Speaker 1: Are those acts of the wall? It's a wall? Okay?
Speaker 1: Well wow it gets scary like when you hit it, you're.
Speaker 3: Like, oh shit, oh scary.
Speaker 1: Not squishy?
Speaker 2: Or does it or do you do you ever get
Speaker 2: tempted to be like knock knock, or like trying to
Speaker 2: push the wall back more like it hurts?
Speaker 1: Plassy said no, mo wow, okay, thank you. That was
Speaker 1: a high thought. I was like, I forgot about it.
Speaker 2: I wrote it down to my phone because I thought
Speaker 2: about it later and I was like, I'm gonna remember.
Speaker 1: That I'm the pussy wall. Literally, ask a man that
Speaker 1: is very high of you, what's the back of the
Speaker 1: pussy feel like?
Speaker 2: Back of the pussy wall feel like? Well, the other
Speaker 2: day my other high thought was do spirits have sex?
Speaker 2: Our agel was fucking it's true.
Speaker 1: You know. One time, this white woman I know said
Speaker 1: that she came into her energetic cock and like feeling
Speaker 1: like she was like she just like it just came
Speaker 1: over her.
Speaker 3: She just turned around and the other person had felt it.
Speaker 2: Too, And I was the other person, like there was
Speaker 2: an actual person there, Yeah, like a guy.
Speaker 3: She was in the hot springs and she like turned
Speaker 3: around and said something. He was like, you're just coming
Speaker 3: to your oh interested, she actually came like she no,
Speaker 3: she just felt like her energetic cock, Like, I guess
Speaker 3: you came. I'm gonna say, I kind of this is
Speaker 3: obviously my white friend, because why would I call it
Speaker 3: an energetic cock?
Speaker 1: Well, because because she called it that, the energetic deep
Speaker 1: the energetic dick.
Speaker 3: Me, I just came into my energetic dick this week,
Speaker 3: So don't play with me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like he fucked the shit out of me.
Speaker 2: I think I've met my energetic dick before, but it's
Speaker 2: not in the way that I thought you were describing.
Speaker 2: It's like when I'm already masturbating, I can literally feel
Speaker 2: it can start to feel like there is a dick
Speaker 2: inside of me, like I'm actually I.
Speaker 3: Met more so like you are penetrating something like I
Speaker 3: always wonder what does it feel like for like a
Speaker 3: man in fuck period, Like I'll never understand what I
Speaker 3: feel like in the inside, right, but these niggas do,
Speaker 3: which is crazy.
Speaker 1: Unfortunately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like fair, I'm fair, like gues wouldn't have
Speaker 3: a dick for one day just to see.
Speaker 1: Like what's going on?
Speaker 2: I really want to dick for one day me too,
Speaker 2: or like I want to. It's like the other day
Speaker 2: we went on a hike and he just peeped so easily.
Speaker 2: He just like turned over. It was like I was like, what, okay, squat,
Speaker 2: make sure we don't piss on our leg like poke
Speaker 2: our ass out just far enough, yas I have a
Speaker 2: posture hide like yeah, high hiding.
Speaker 1: He literally just like turned over, like yeah, I see
Speaker 1: her the other way.
Speaker 3: I see me pissing while I'm driving out of the street.
Speaker 3: I'm like, motherfucker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really want to know what that's and then.
Speaker 3: Also to go into like a tight, little squishy, wet hole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't know what that feels like. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: imagine your klit Like I al always want to feel
Speaker 1: like what it feels like to get hard, Oh, all
Speaker 1: of a sudden out of nowhere, like just like like nipples,
Speaker 1: like hard in the middle of the night, hard like
Speaker 1: weird times we were not even thinking about sexy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like why what's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah that's crazy interesting. Yeah, those are my thoughts. And
Speaker 3: that's what she meant by her internet a cock. She
Speaker 3: came into her internet a cock where she felt like
Speaker 3: she was in her masculine and she could sluingk some dick.
Speaker 1: Basically, great, we're just chicks with dicks. We want to
Speaker 1: know what to feel like.
Speaker 3: Wait, actually I do. This is how crazy my mind.
Speaker 3: In May thirteenth, twenty twenty four, it's very recent. Why
Speaker 3: can't we fly to the North Pole?
Speaker 1: I've wondered the same thing all the time. I've actually researched.
Speaker 3: It because there's a lot of different theories. When is
Speaker 3: that the world is flat and that it's extra extra
Speaker 3: terrain like extra terra When they say extra terrestrial, extraterrestrial.
Speaker 3: It's like extra terrain. It is on the outliers. There's
Speaker 3: a man with the book and that like, there's different
Speaker 3: types of species that live outside of wherever the fuck
Speaker 3: we're at. Anyway, Should I google it too?
Speaker 1: Oh? I said.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 3: One can agree on shit, including unnecessary murder, but we
Speaker 3: can agree on not flying through the North Pole through
Speaker 3: the poles. That's all I got.
Speaker 2: Apparently it's a hard place to reach because of its
Speaker 2: location in the Arctic Ocean, covered by constantly shifting sea ice,
Speaker 2: making it difficult to establish permanent facilities or sustain long
Speaker 2: term human presence.
Speaker 6: It's just what.
Speaker 1: About the sky that's cracking up? Why can't I just
Speaker 1: fly over it?
Speaker 2: Even there's no land masks. Apparently, unlike the South Pole,
Speaker 2: they're on a content. The North Pole is located in.
Speaker 1: The middle of the Arctic Ocean, surrounded by sea ice,
Speaker 1: sea ice, constantly shifting ice, climate change safety expeditions.
Speaker 2: Why is it sounds like, oh, you could go on
Speaker 2: an expedition to the North Pole. They tip it there's
Speaker 2: short term and require specialized equipment and expertise.
Speaker 1: It's no, they're lying. Should we go? Good? Mom's how far.
Speaker 3: Can you get They only gonna take you so far.
Speaker 1: There was a man.
Speaker 3: Actually, they said, look right here, you can't go that
Speaker 3: far though, there's a man who went past the point
Speaker 3: where you're supposed to go.
Speaker 1: What about the Bermuda Triangle? Oh what about that? Motherfucker?
Speaker 3: You think that's the ancestors who got who jumped off
Speaker 3: their ships.
Speaker 1: That's what they say in Atlantic slave trade. I've heard
Speaker 1: that it's a portal fucking energy.
Speaker 3: So it's a portal because they said, like, planes can't
Speaker 3: fly over that either, right, Also, they can't fly over
Speaker 3: you know, f fifty one or whatever the fuck it is, Roswell,
Speaker 3: New York.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mex fifty four.
Speaker 4: What is it?
Speaker 1: Project? Too high?
Speaker 3: You gotta keep smoking? Sorry, sorry, you guess looks like, well,
Speaker 3: what's sorry?
Speaker 1: It keeps going out? Lit, bitch, come on, keep me lit?
Speaker 2: Going on a dark hole of the Bermuda triangle. I'm
Speaker 2: i'm a I love looking up the sception. The Bermuda
Speaker 2: triangle is a hold on, let me light the pland
Speaker 2: it's a portal. Wow, fire is my element and Walter
Speaker 2: h as a Sagittarius moon myself. The Bermuda triangle is
Speaker 2: a loosely defined region in North Atlantic Ocean roughly bounded
Speaker 2: by Florida, Bermuda and Puerto Rico, known for stories of
Speaker 2: ships and planes disappearing under mysterious circumstances. However, reputable source,
Speaker 2: I can't trust anything on fucking AI overview.
Speaker 1: That's what this shit is called. However, reputable sources attribute
Speaker 1: these disappearances to a natural phenomena, human error and misinterpretations,
Speaker 1: rather than unusual activity lies human error over one area.
Speaker 1: What is the natural phenomena? Right? What is that legend?
Speaker 2: No, you can't find this. You gotta on the dark internet.
Speaker 2: We gotta call that guy in Costa Rica.
Speaker 3: He knows what about mermaids?
Speaker 1: My raids are real, yeah, but they don't look like
Speaker 1: how you know. We portrayed them a homegirl.
Speaker 3: Cam and she was like, hello, do you remember? Do
Speaker 3: you believe in mermaids?
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta get like.
Speaker 3: Mira, what the fun are you talking about?
Speaker 1: For real?
Speaker 3: Do you believe the mermaids? She saw one apparently saw
Speaker 3: I found a phone in the oh what she what?
Speaker 1: She was like?
Speaker 3: I was on the beach. I just forgot We're all
Speaker 3: the beaches chilling.
Speaker 1: It was dark.
Speaker 3: I literally turned around this bitch came out of the
Speaker 3: water soaking wet with a phone, like what the phone?
Speaker 3: Somebody had dropped her phone? She said, We didn't see
Speaker 3: her all of the suddenly of soaking. My bitch came
Speaker 3: out of the water and was like, is this your phone?
Speaker 1: She talked, She spoke English, said is this your bitch?
Speaker 2: Mirror was on mushrooms something stronger?
Speaker 1: Do you believe? Hell? Do you believe? With my mates whatever?
Speaker 1: She gets smoking, I need that we've met a lot.
Speaker 3: I shout out to my college roommate who's from Philly,
Speaker 3: who we've been friends for eighteen years or however old.
Speaker 3: We are nineteen years and we have getting real high
Speaker 3: in our apartment and dorm and talking. She one time
Speaker 3: we had a dog named Kitty, and the dog was
Speaker 3: playing and she was like, you think dogs get tired
Speaker 3: of playing with the same toy, HI thought, I thought,
Speaker 3: She's like, it's the same toy.
Speaker 1: Is naturally high thoughts. She's cracking me up.
Speaker 2: She's not wrong, though, but they'd be living. No, No,
Speaker 2: they don't mirror, because bitches don't get tired of playing
Speaker 2: with the same niggas. So I would say no, I
Speaker 2: would say that they are really happy with that toy
Speaker 2: as long.
Speaker 1: As it does what it needs to do. Sort of,
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 2: They don't care how smelly it is, how roughed up
Speaker 2: it is, how it used to be shiny, and now
Speaker 2: it's a piece of shit.
Speaker 3: They used to be in the human era and now
Speaker 3: they're just happy with the one simple toy and simple life.
Speaker 1: Maybe they haven't figured out actually simple life. Not those
Speaker 1: being my high thoughts. Why can't we fly with the
Speaker 1: month ball, I'm not to add to those in this
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five year Oh my god, I have a
Speaker 1: great idea. What is that? Maybe we need to have a.
Speaker 3: Like a small dinner tour of like like in different
Speaker 3: cities and ladies meet up and share their horries at dinner.
Speaker 3: I guess singles meet up for single moms or single
Speaker 3: women and you don't necessarily have to go meet guys,
Speaker 3: but just like congregate to just join tribes and also
Speaker 3: tell your horse stories and like the best one can
Speaker 3: go on stage and do it. Oh yes, Like it's
Speaker 3: almost like almost like the vagina monologue. Yeah, like a
Speaker 3: poetry like oh yes, sister yes, and then he went
Speaker 3: down on me.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh ae night of sexy stories. Yeah, kind
Speaker 2: of like a spoken word but sexy story. Oh my god,
Speaker 2: Stasha would be there because she has sort of sexy
Speaker 2: erotic great down. Okay, okay, here's our Hori from the discord.
Speaker 2: Had a fun night out with our friends. They are
Speaker 2: also a couple, So this is a lesbian couple.
Speaker 1: In our discord.
Speaker 2: One of the one of the one of the good notes.
Speaker 2: Had a fun night with our friends are They are
Speaker 2: also a couple. They had they had wanted to fuck
Speaker 2: us for so long, and years ago we let them.
Speaker 2: And years ago we let them after we took molly
Speaker 2: at PrideFest.
Speaker 6: Ha ha.
Speaker 2: It's been a couple of years since then, and we
Speaker 2: had a follow up conversation about it potentially happening again.
Speaker 2: Three females and one guy is in this scenario, which
Speaker 2: sounds fun, but the guy does have to deal with
Speaker 2: all of our individual traumas and boundaries around men.
Speaker 1: Lol. He does really well though.
Speaker 2: I Mean, at the end of the day, you get
Speaker 2: to fuck around with three women at once, so it's
Speaker 2: worth it. Anyway, We planned a date and got a
Speaker 2: babysitter for the night. We took some mushrooms and went
Speaker 2: to the techno night haha. Music wasn't the vibe, but
Speaker 2: it was still fun to be outside. After we went
Speaker 2: to their house and hung out literally talking till five am.
Speaker 1: Five am, girl, you took a minute to get to it.
Speaker 3: Women. It's women. The pussy women will talk themselves out
Speaker 3: of the three, so I'm so quick. Don't let the
Speaker 3: bitches talk to five am.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: We tried to just fall asleep for a bit because
Speaker 2: my wife had to work at eleven am.
Speaker 1: Lol.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, she got her shift covered and we got
Speaker 2: right to it. We all had a big cuddle session
Speaker 2: in their bed. We're just laying naked for a while,
Speaker 2: trying to wind down and get back into our bodies
Speaker 2: from the mental mushroom trip.
Speaker 1: You took Molly in mushrooms, bitch, you were on it.
Speaker 2: I've done that. We each started candy flicking, girl, that's
Speaker 2: what I know. They still call it that.
Speaker 1: I don't know kids are still called I don't think
Speaker 1: that's that's what it's called, though, right, you gotta look
Speaker 1: that up when you like cross fade, I'm sure comment
Speaker 1: on the leave your comment. What do we call this ship?
Speaker 2: We each started kissing on our partners and feeling the
Speaker 2: build up, slowly touching each other. So many hands everywhere?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, three, it's six hands.
Speaker 2: Oh blank didn't get to come the first time we
Speaker 2: all hooked up, so we made sure to make sure
Speaker 2: she came first.
Speaker 1: Oh I love this, This is really important, she said.
Speaker 1: She said she did come the first. The first time
Speaker 1: they hooked up years ago, she didn't come, so May
Speaker 1: made sure that she was number one. That's cheering.
Speaker 2: I like that that she came first and more than once.
Speaker 1: Lol.
Speaker 2: She said she felt like a queen bitch, So whatuld I?
Speaker 2: Her man started to fuck her and suck on her
Speaker 2: toes while my wife was riding her face. Then they
Speaker 2: switched and my wife gave her head. Yeah that yeah,
Speaker 2: I know that way I mean too. Then they switched
Speaker 2: and my wife gave her head while her man kissed
Speaker 2: and sucked on her nipples. I was massaging her legs
Speaker 2: and her arms were different, and her arms with different
Speaker 2: pressure and scratches while all this was happening.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds great.
Speaker 2: She and I share the need for some rough type
Speaker 2: of love to aid our dark shadow side ha ha ha.
Speaker 2: So a lot of choking her out while she was
Speaker 2: getting pleased. Then I gave her head while she got
Speaker 2: soft while she soft kisses while she got soft kisses
Speaker 2: from my wife, her man watching and playing with her hair.
Speaker 2: She came at least three times and was so relaxed.
Speaker 2: We all switched positions again and had the guy on
Speaker 2: his back, my wife riding his face, smothering him with
Speaker 2: ass while Jade sucked his dick and I sucked and
Speaker 2: licked on his balls. You could hear him building in pleasure,
Speaker 2: but he was, but he was in full submission mode.
Speaker 2: Three ladies holding him down and making sure he couldn't
Speaker 2: move anywhere.
Speaker 1: But what was she doing? So she was sucking his balls?
Speaker 2: Whoa yeah, my wife was riding his face and her
Speaker 2: orgasm was building, so all of the rhythm kept was building,
Speaker 2: so all of our rhythm kept with hers.
Speaker 1: Teamwork. Wow synergy, that's tanja. Know that this tunt is
Speaker 1: very tangar.
Speaker 2: They did a three way kiss with the tip of
Speaker 2: his dick while I cupped his balls and kissed my
Speaker 2: wife so deep and took all that spit on his
Speaker 2: ass and allowed my finger to just put some pressure
Speaker 2: on his asshole and tease it. While Jade deep throated
Speaker 2: his dick. My wife started to come and he was
Speaker 2: getting so worked How do you even focus?
Speaker 1: How is everyone? How do you have? I don't even
Speaker 1: know how you have? I'm like, Jesus, how could you
Speaker 1: even focus? I couldn't write this whole story because I'd
Speaker 1: be so I've been lost in the sauce. My wife
Speaker 1: started to come and he was getting so worked up.
Speaker 1: He busted right before her and blank swallowed while while
Speaker 1: while I.
Speaker 2: Sat back and watched all that happen. The energy in
Speaker 2: the room after that build up was so beautiful, so
Speaker 2: many bodies, so much energy, so many different ways to
Speaker 2: give and feel pleasure. Absolutely amazing. Wonder what round three
Speaker 2: will be like?
Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, you came with the sauce. Yeah, dam that's
Speaker 1: a horri for real. That was a good one. Shout
Speaker 1: out to all of four of you. Shout out to y'all,
Speaker 1: Shout out to the discord. Thank you. I know.
Speaker 3: If you ever in a three way situation and you
Speaker 3: get the opportunity to ride some dick while also getting
Speaker 3: your ass a highly recommend, highly recommend, I highly recommend.
Speaker 2: So your your have your riding dick and then someone's
Speaker 2: head is like underneath you.
Speaker 1: How do they like spread? Yeah? They have to spread
Speaker 1: your butt open and.
Speaker 3: You're probably a little bit spiked because you're on the dick.
Speaker 1: I see, Like, so his head is pretty close to
Speaker 1: the guys, or it could be a girl. Oh yeah, true,
Speaker 1: I'm only thinking of what I would want. I'm only
Speaker 1: thinking of the m M mean.
Speaker 3: But yeah, you have to you have to not be
Speaker 3: all like about like, I'm so close to all that.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna be close to for fucking.
Speaker 3: Man or woman.
Speaker 1: You know you're in it, you don't, but you don't
Speaker 1: necessarily have to like the balls if you go a
Speaker 1: little higher than the asshole. No, that's an orgasm. That's
Speaker 1: a specific orgasm, almost as good as in the back. Hell, hell,
Speaker 1: almost as good as what.
Speaker 2: Hit in the back. Or maybe not because apparently it hurts. Okay, well,
Speaker 2: I'm high as hell.
Speaker 1: I am so high. I just I can't even finish
Speaker 1: the rest of this good. I'm proud of us. Better
Speaker 1: than what we were doing. This is.
Speaker 2: You know, backwards are only for real niggas anyway, right,
Speaker 2: you can't be real like we real.
Speaker 1: Real nigga. Okay, backwards are for real niggas. And here
Speaker 1: we are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh we didn't pull a card before we get
Speaker 2: out of here.
Speaker 3: We don't do we have a affirmation?
Speaker 1: What's the card? Pulled? The card in my love? Tell
Speaker 1: me a little bit more.
Speaker 3: One past the mom juice, past the mom juice like pastavasi, Hey,
Speaker 3: you go past the mom, past the mom juice?
Speaker 1: What what.
Speaker 3: If you haven't eaten breakfast? To strint south y'all blong?
Speaker 1: Are you feeling tipsy? A little tipsy? Tipsy? Okay, let
Speaker 1: me broll it. So the affirmation? What is the affirmation?
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Flower moms are good moms. Flower moms are
Speaker 1: good moms. I like that. Flower moms are good moms.
Speaker 1: Trussflow and flower. You know what.
Speaker 3: I have a trick, you guys. I just thought of
Speaker 3: it today, so let's just call and tell me if
Speaker 3: it works. Like miss Cleo called me, I was thinking,
Speaker 3: I know I can control my phone with my thoughts
Speaker 3: because I just told Eric and some shit. And five
Speaker 3: minutes later I had the meme and I said, why
Speaker 3: did I just fucking visually see my bank?
Speaker 1: You said it out loud, though, but it's even crazier you.
Speaker 3: Don't say it out loud. Yeah, but it goes both ways.
Speaker 3: I know it does, because it was very vague what
Speaker 3: I said. Anyway, start visualizing your account with a lot
Speaker 3: more money in it, just start depositing it with your mind.
Speaker 3: Like what if you're AI and you could control all
Speaker 3: the electronics and you just deposited, you transferred some big money,
Speaker 3: you stalked and bond or whatever they do, and you
Speaker 3: just got just imagine it in your account.
Speaker 1: Because I'm looking at my account. Whoa, you should try it?
Speaker 1: Kind of like a white lotus. I mean, I think
Speaker 1: it's worth the experiment, right, it hurt, can't hurt.
Speaker 3: Just deposit itchaching, depositing the enterching.
Speaker 2: I think if we all do this collectively, it'll be
Speaker 2: a lot more powerful and faster.
Speaker 1: So let's just agree just to we're gonna electronically transfer
Speaker 1: the money. Hey, let's do it right now. Hmm okay,
Speaker 1: I see that.
Speaker 2: I'm about to open up my Chase Bank account on
Speaker 2: my phone, put logging in, logging in and putting in name,
Speaker 2: ridiculous password, and you know, I'm waiting.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting it's loading because it always takes a long
Speaker 1: time to load. Oh, oh my god, what's the fuck? What? What?
Speaker 1: I canna ask questions? What the fuck? Yeah? That was
Speaker 1: my mind deposit. Oh wow, I deserve it. I do.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, of course it's there.
Speaker 3: What am I going to do first? I'm so taking
Speaker 3: care of I have nothing to worry about, Thank you God.
Speaker 1: I can rest lest me abundantly with in my finances.
Speaker 1: Thank you giving me the finances to rest while I
Speaker 1: make money. Oh my god, look at that. We even
Speaker 1: have money in our saving.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just looked. Oh my, you're right,
Speaker 3: it's crazy, right, that's wild. I have a saving Wait,
Speaker 3: come on, Luna has the saving ship?
Speaker 1: Okay? Everyone has?
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Speaker 2: well reversed It means exhaustion, giving up and overwhelmed. Upright
Speaker 2: means challenge, competition, protection, and perseverance. After success of the
Speaker 2: Six of Wandes, you are now in an enviable position
Speaker 2: and are being challenged by others who want to take
Speaker 2: your place. You worked hard to get where you are,
Speaker 2: but some people covet what you have and are prepared
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Speaker 2: makes for a tense and competitive environment because you need
Speaker 2: to protect what you earned and must continually prove yourself.
Speaker 2: Sometimes this is a threat or opposition may catch you
Speaker 2: by surprise and you feel inadequally prepared for such a battle.
Speaker 2: Seven of one's can also mean a challenge to the
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Speaker 2: able to pursue your goals and dreams. Now hold your ground,
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Speaker 2: This will require courage and persistence, but you have the
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Speaker 1: Reverse can also mean you think you are perpetually think
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Speaker 3: Yet and let you be leave me alone.
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Speaker 2: And seven of one's reverse serves as a reminder that
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Speaker 2: be there will still be challenges in opposition to your
Speaker 2: point of view, and you cannot keep everyone happy all
Speaker 2: the time. Thus it's time to draw your line in
Speaker 2: the sand and say this is who I am and
Speaker 2: this is what I need right now. The reverse seven
Speaker 2: and ones may affirm that you are overwhelmed by the
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Speaker 2: may have taken on too many commitments and now want
Speaker 2: to focus your attention on only one or two things.
Speaker 2: Rebuild your self esteem and confidence, and have faith that
Speaker 2: you can achieve what you set.
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