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Speaker 1: Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Guess what the good Moms are coming to your city

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Speaker 2: on April twenty six. We're pulling up at the Black

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Speaker 2: Effect Podcast Festival.

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Speaker 3: That's right, We'll be hitting the stage with other hot

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Speaker 3: podcasts like R and B, Money, Trap Nerds, Naked Sports,

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Speaker 3: and Sarah Jakes.

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Speaker 2: And if you've ever been to a Good Mom's Bad

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Speaker 2: Choices show, you know it gets real, real bad, and

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Speaker 2: we have some special guests. So I'm so excited to

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Speaker 2: meet our Atlanta tribe. Make sure you pull up April

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Speaker 2: twenty six to the Black Effect Podcast Festival and get

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Speaker 2: your tickets at Black Effect dot Com Slash Podcast Festival.

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Speaker 1: See you there.

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Speaker 4: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 4: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 4: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 4: She was both obeed, hint and soft by nature. She

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Speaker 4: was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 1: That shit, we're Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices and.

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Speaker 1: Sound out they were so bad after all.

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Speaker 3: We're experts. Over and your new besties, sit back.

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Speaker 1: And enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 3: Can welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 3: and I'm Jimmy La. Happy for twenty, bitches.

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Speaker 1: Happy motherfucking for twenty.

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Speaker 3: By the time you guys get this, it might not

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Speaker 3: be four twenty yet depending on when you're listening, but.

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Speaker 1: You should start celebrating now.

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Speaker 3: You should light that blunt that joint, hit that pipe,

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Speaker 3: not that kind of pipe, and ha ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: We need to make our own song. I was gonna

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Speaker 1: go to school, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I just if you drop an album, it should just

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Speaker 3: be like Weed. It should be like a feminine snoop album.

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Speaker 1: A feminine snoop snoopa snoop. We're going for what do

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Speaker 1: you sing?

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Speaker 3: We sing feminine feminine cannabis music.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that people are really waiting for

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Speaker 2: this album drop on top of the West Coast Affirmations.

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Speaker 3: I know, maybe could like a sweat and Suit like Nelly,

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Speaker 3: Like it could be a two sided album. It's like

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Speaker 3: the West Coast is the West Coast Sweat and Suit.

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Speaker 1: Remember that sweatsuit it was. It was Nelly's.

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Speaker 3: Countryside and his rap side. So we could do like

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Speaker 3: a West Coast Affirmations and also a feminine cannabis album.

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Speaker 1: I think more.

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Speaker 2: I'm going for more like love below and what's the

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Speaker 2: the one speaker box?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What was that? Nelly's Nelly's canceled. Its kidding. We

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Speaker 1: don't cancel our people, right, I think we're can he

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Speaker 1: can come back.

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Speaker 3: Nelly has already lost me a long time ago. I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna lie he lost me a while back.

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Speaker 1: I loved Nelly.

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Speaker 3: I did too, and that's why I disappointing he was.

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Speaker 3: I cut out people's pictures and put his face in

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Speaker 3: my room too. I was definitely early in life masturbrading

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Speaker 3: to him.

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Speaker 1: My dad actually made it happen.

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Speaker 2: He made not not the master, not the mastimation part,

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Speaker 2: but he got me to He like hooked me up

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Speaker 2: to meet Nelly one time because he was during an

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Speaker 2: event and Nelly was there and he knew how much

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Speaker 2: I love Nelly, and it was this is Nelly When

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Speaker 2: he had like the band aid on his face, which

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you've ever confirmed, was he hiding

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Speaker 2: something or was just a look. Everyone always said he

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Speaker 2: had acting or he was hiding a pimple.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It was a stunt eye. It was

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Speaker 1: ahead of his time, you know, And now everyone's putting

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Speaker 1: those sticker stars all over the face. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I fucking hate those. I thought I thought they're for pimple.

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Speaker 2: Hate when I see people walking around in public with

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Speaker 2: stars on their unless you're under ten, unless it's for

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if they're all for pimple. I

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Speaker 1: saw girls she served, she was she served, she was

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Speaker 3: Her face, and I was like, they let you show

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Speaker 3: up like this all. I mean, it's like, I guess

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Speaker 3: it's new, you know what. I was just thinking when

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Speaker 3: you said that thing about your dad, even though you

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Speaker 3: clarified he didn't do those things.

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Speaker 1: But I just thought about I'm not even high yet. Hi.

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Speaker 3: I thought, you know how men like men normalize their

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Speaker 3: sons like oh yeah, I get some pussy Like oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: you could like hooking their son up with pussy atters

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Speaker 3: moms you start pushing their dolls. Moms did that, Like okay,

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Speaker 3: he's I mean, I know there's probably some moms that

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Speaker 3: do weird shit like this, but like, oh yeah, he's

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Speaker 3: kid hooked you up. I know a mom like this,

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Speaker 3: I know, but I'm just like, what if that was

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Speaker 3: the culture. The fact that that's the culture is so strange.

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Speaker 1: That is very weird.

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Speaker 3: My dad once suggested he should get Mazzie, my little

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Speaker 3: brother with Down syndrome, prostitute. He actually took him to

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Speaker 3: the Las Vegas Strip club.

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Speaker 1: What's he okay? You know into that? He's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we're stimulated. Oh my god, poor baby.

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Speaker 3: I've also been to the Ship Club with my dad.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't pushing anyone. He was pushing someone on me, but.

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Speaker 1: Not sexually, like tell her about your podcast. I was like, Dad,

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Speaker 1: I love your dad. Why are the ship club together?

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Speaker 1: And why are you telling you what willfully I did?

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Speaker 3: I know I'm too close to my parents because last

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Speaker 3: week when I went to a sex party, I told

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Speaker 3: my parents. I said, what are you doing? I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: we're getting tested. So we go this this play party

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Speaker 3: on Saturday. They're like, a playparty is like a sex party.

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Speaker 3: Here goes my mom.

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Speaker 1: You better help. You don't see your dad there.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm hanging up because we already know

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Speaker 2: that story. Okay, okay, well you already shared it on

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Speaker 2: the podcast. It was many moons ago, but I never

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Speaker 2: forgot it.

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Speaker 3: We once had an episode. I think it's like our

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was that one?

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Speaker 3: Have you had any embarrassing moment since then?

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Speaker 1: Of course we have.

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Speaker 3: And there's a very traumatizing there's two traumatizing stories with

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Speaker 3: fuck I have two traumatizing stories.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, if you haven't listened, clearly, you and your

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Speaker 2: dad are very much cut from the same cloth. Could

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Speaker 1: Not really, No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go ahead and say Smiles and Jamila match

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Speaker 2: made in Heaven.

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Speaker 1: No appled on far far from the sex party tree.

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Speaker 1: No God.

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Speaker 3: One time when I was dating this porn start, he

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Speaker 1: I think I seen your parents out. Yeah, you just

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Speaker 1: like your parents. I was like, shut the face. Your

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Speaker 1: parents are lit. I've lived a wild life. You know,

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Speaker 1: my parents are actually like goody fucking two shoes.

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Speaker 3: Well we know that's not true because Rick James introduced them.

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Speaker 3: They were definitely doing some some eighties drugs and doing

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Speaker 1: My mom even the other day was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I just never got into cocaine. She's done it before. Then, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think everyone has in the eighties for sure, live

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Speaker 2: She's like, it just wasn't for me. I didn't like, wait,

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Speaker 2: make you feel and I was like, I'm cut for

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Speaker 1: The others had a short cocaine stint and.

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Speaker 3: Unless you called me last week like, I'm so fun,

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Speaker 3: guess what I did, Like, you know, every now and then,

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Speaker 3: I'm so fun, guess about Dazzle.

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Speaker 1: I'm so fun. I'm doing so much.

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Speaker 3: Fun shit out here.

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Speaker 1: I was like, who are you calling back?

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Speaker 2: Good mom's bad choices? I had to make sure I

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Speaker 2: and I.

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Speaker 1: Was out till four talking to AKA one am in

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Speaker 3: You know, getting older is interesting, I think specifically for

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Speaker 3: a woman, because first of all, if you're new to

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Speaker 3: the show, you need to go back and listen to

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Speaker 3: our many millions of episodes about us acting crazy and

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Speaker 1: We've had very we were.

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Speaker 3: Having very juicy lives, very juicy robust lives. There's just

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Speaker 3: a date, a dick, suck, a travel, a fucking why

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Speaker 3: am I here? A moment Like every five minutes, I

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Speaker 3: Eric has smuggled one.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's nothing like having a partner in crime. I

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Speaker 2: talking about the other day, like a collective yes, we

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Speaker 2: when you're like if you're like defer, if you're alone

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Speaker 2: gotta find a co pilot.

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Speaker 1: You do need to, so you need a fucking co pilot.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of co pilots, if you are a single mom,

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Speaker 2: that just maybe just became single, or you're just you

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Speaker 2: can help you. Join our discord, join Patreon. We have

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Speaker 2: a lot of co pilots in there, and a lot

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Speaker 3: For their for their coport, for their for their co pilot. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know. We did a lot of fun shit. And

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Speaker 3: last night I asked Orlando. He was telling me that

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Speaker 3: or some shit, and I was like, do you desire

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Speaker 3: to fuck prostitutes? And then he confused me, because niggas

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Speaker 3: confused bitches.

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Speaker 1: Let me get some Let me roll up while you

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Speaker 1: tell me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well we have we have a joint here, we're

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Speaker 3: gonna roll up. We're too far and it we haven't

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Speaker 3: even rolled up there. It's for twenty o'clock. And guess

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Speaker 3: what we're you know what we're doing.

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Speaker 1: Put me some mom juice.

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Speaker 3: Too, Okay, here, hold on, I'd like some Savion Blanc

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Speaker 3: because we're day drinking and we're day smoking, because why

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Speaker 3: the fuck not. It's for the week of four to

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Speaker 3: twenty and life is a celebration and shout out to

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Speaker 3: Mom Juice, I'm about to pick up my kid after this,

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Speaker 3: or Orlando's driver.

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Speaker 1: This is a Savion Blanc. It's a daytime line.

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Speaker 3: This is I feel like Savian Blanc is the wine

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Speaker 1: We're actually going to Charlotte on May second to be what.

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Speaker 2: Got the Juice event powered by mom Jews. So make

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Speaker 2: sure if you're in Charlotte and you're listening to this,

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Speaker 1: Tickets are on the bio. Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be fun and I'm really looking forward to

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Speaker 3: I heard Charlotte's pop it this. You know, a part

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Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, like what that And he's like,

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Speaker 1: Blood sucked? Oh, like Orlando. Yeah, I guess I got

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Speaker 1: me my own juicer. I guess I was manifesting you

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Speaker 3: Actually, the first time we did our blood play, I

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Speaker 1: That's why we're stuck.

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Speaker 3: If you ladies want to keep a man that spaghetti

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Speaker 2: But so today we're smoking the standard. This is a

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Speaker 1: You can go north Washington, north or of Californa, California.

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Speaker 2: This is a Srunts times no Runts French times, tangy

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Speaker 3: And it looks deep purple, but it smells like a sativa.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have I have other things to do today,

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Speaker 3: And apparently the little wine tipsy. I feel like such

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Speaker 2: I love a white wine. I love a Sancere, I

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Speaker 3: Love a Pino Grigio, but I really love a red.

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Speaker 3: Oh my prostitute story? Oh thanks, honey.

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Speaker 1: You can't wait for his story to be told.

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Speaker 3: So last night I said, do you desire prostitutes?

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to know, because, you know, once I

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Speaker 3: I don't have a desire in this stage in my

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Speaker 1: What. Yeah, it's like it's an activity.

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Speaker 3: And I said, but there's no real reason I said,

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Speaker 3: I mean if your kid wanted to do something fun,

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Speaker 3: He's like, it's a treat, because he said it's a

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Speaker 1: And he was just like, well.

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Speaker 1: How did we go from I don't from no to

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Speaker 3: Happy that we have this same thought process, because that's

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Speaker 3: I'm not the uh authoritarian in our relationship. It's it's

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Speaker 3: You're a grown ass man. If you think it's important

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Speaker 3: from there. And he's like, I'm not saying it's important

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Speaker 1: Nigga. Call me.

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Speaker 3: If your nigga confused you, I'll translate it. I should

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Speaker 3: have put this conversation in chat GPT. Anyway, what do

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 3: I just want to say, I haven't eaten today, so

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Speaker 1: Okay, how do I feel about me fucking prostucts or

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Speaker 1: my man fucking prostute both.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I know my man is not gonnau press. Okay,

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Speaker 2: let's say you have another man that.

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Speaker 3: Likes that that prostitutes were similar to jet skis.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, I think we had this conversation

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Speaker 3: Or like a lot of everyone said that you don't

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Speaker 2: Bachelor and I thought that everybody does. Oh no, I

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Speaker 1: That's what too. Oh Okay, maybe is this this conversation

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm going to fuck out my bachelorette

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Speaker 1: Boots, like I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Rico's kind of fine anyway.

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Speaker 2: I think that it's all about agreements.

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Speaker 1: It's all about what is your agreement with your partner.

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Speaker 1: It's a two person conversation. R Yeah, I mean, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm not shaming the man who wants to do his

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Speaker 2: thing as long as the wife is aware and it's not.

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Speaker 2: I don't I think then, But I do think that

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Speaker 2: like the whole bachelor thing is that it's supposed to

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Speaker 1: Vega, And that's what he said.

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Speaker 3: Then he mentioned a bachelor party and said, it's like

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Speaker 1: It's like your last secret with your friends. It's like

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Speaker 2: That's what the fucking with the prostitute on the bachelor

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Speaker 1: But maybe, I mean maybe I would maybe like it's transactional.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it is a prostitute as long as she's tested,

440
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Speaker 1: and that she's.

441
00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:25,439
Speaker 3: Not gonna be test they're gonna have to wear a condom.

442
00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,320
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to see a world where in

443
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Speaker 3: a foreign country and you're like, hey, let's go get

444
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Speaker 3: an STI test. I mean, I'm just gonna be honest.

445
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Speaker 1: I just am like, tallom, maybe can we just have

446
00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,280
Speaker 1: a threesome with the prostitute or regular? I mean, okay,

447
00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:40,560
Speaker 1: I wanted to know I had just gone.

448
00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,760
Speaker 3: I coined a term last night actually, when I was

449
00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:48,480
Speaker 3: on the phone with Goddess Jesse and Jesus Jones, I said,

450
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Speaker 3: you're just making me out to be a monogamous monster,

451
00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,679
Speaker 3: and I'm not. I'm pretty fluctual, Like I fluctuate, I

452
00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 3: flow for the most part, but.

453
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Speaker 1: Not a monogamous monster. It's made it up. But I

454
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Speaker 1: was just curious.

455
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Speaker 3: I don't know. At first, I was like, I think

456
00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,919
Speaker 3: everyone fucks at the bachelorette party. And now I'm just like,

457
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,879
Speaker 3: do you need to fox the week before?

458
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Speaker 2: I don't think that everybody fucks up their bachelorette party

459
00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:11,920
Speaker 2: because I think there's a lot of shame for women

460
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Speaker 2: that they couldn't even they're already so happy that they've

461
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Speaker 2: been that they're doing this, having this shared act with

462
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Speaker 2: their partner, and that they're that this is happening. That

463
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Speaker 2: I don't think a lot of women are taking advantage

464
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Speaker 2: of this.

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Speaker 1: I think that you should. I want to say, I

466
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Speaker 1: think men are taking advantage of it. Yeah, I don't

467
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Speaker 1: think that women are.

468
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Speaker 2: I think that more women should, though, at least get

469
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Speaker 2: a fucking happy ending.

470
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Speaker 1: At least get a massage happy ending.

471
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Speaker 3: You know what, maybe it would be more reasonable if

472
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Speaker 3: I just meant a hot guy out and but.

473
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Speaker 1: If you got a massage happy ending at your bachelorette.

474
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Speaker 3: I think that's acceptable, right. I wouldn't trip on that.

475
00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 3: I don't think I would trip on.

476
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Speaker 2: Any of it, because there's no guarantee that you're actually

477
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 2: going to enjoy the sex, especially if you already have

478
00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,879
Speaker 2: a really robust sex life with your partner and then

479
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 2: you go fuck some person that you have no there's

480
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 2: no credentials, there's no like, there's no check, there's no

481
00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 2: we don't know where you what you do, we don't

482
00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 2: know how you fuck.

483
00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 3: I would definitely in this, like if I had permission.

484
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,160
Speaker 2: Maybe they need a sense of video, I would say,

485
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 2: pull it out, let me see it does because you

486
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 2: pulled it out doesn't mean shit.

487
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 3: Let me see it hard.

488
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 1: I need I need to see some videos. What are

489
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: you doing? What are you doing with that? I've had

490
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 1: some big dicks with no coordination? What do you mean?

491
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 1: It's just like a it's.

492
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 2: Just like they don't even know, Like it's a waste

493
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 2: of a big dick, like literally a waste. And you

494
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,360
Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about you, That's what I'm saying

495
00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: that don't just pull it out like I need video footages.

496
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Speaker 1: I need to see it. Come, come, come, why because

497
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Speaker 1: some dicks don't.

498
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Speaker 2: Come, But that doesn't matter on your bachelortte, bitch, if

499
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 2: he comes? What the fuck are you talking about? Okay,

500
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:41,360
Speaker 2: now you're gonna get cursed out.

501
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 3: I'm just having a regular conversation.

502
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,199
Speaker 1: I'm just putting things out there. It's just a topic.

503
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm a research journalist anywhere. So you're gonna not.

504
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,120
Speaker 3: Fuck on your bachelor? Would you rather fuck a prostitute

505
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,679
Speaker 3: if there's a male prostitute option or just a regular

506
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 3: guy that's fine and Italian and the South of Italy.

507
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,400
Speaker 1: That's kind of what I did, but it.

508
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 3: Wasn't good because he had a small day in your

509
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 3: butt and that.

510
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:07,639
Speaker 1: Was in Spain.

511
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 2: I think I would prefer a fine man versus a prostitute. Yeah,

512
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 2: it would at least give me like a little extra,

513
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 2: like like one last what if it was our.

514
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Speaker 1: Favorite s I don't want to have sex with him. No,

515
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 1: he's not pretty. He's just not my.

516
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Speaker 3: Tired No, I mean he's Yeah, you know, I think

517
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 3: it is for women. You know, we're town trick. We

518
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Speaker 3: weave like you could be fine and have a nice

519
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 3: body and even a nice stick, but like, is your

520
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:42,879
Speaker 3: personality good to have chemistry? With you like we it

521
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 3: needs to be woven, whereas.

522
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 1: Men are like kit pussy put it in.

523
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Speaker 3: You know.

524
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Speaker 1: It's just like we're doing this right, but I always

525
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: put this up here, you roll this.

526
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 3: Sorry anyway, I didn't mean to go on a deep

527
00:21:53,960 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 3: dive on prostitution. I love sex workers. I just was,

528
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 3: you know, curious. This was a last night. I'm pretty

529
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 3: sure I just rolled over and went to bed because

530
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 3: I was. I was exhausted from this confusing conversation. Because

531
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 3: he wouldn't just straight up say I did. I would

532
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 3: like to fuc some prostitutes internationally. He kept saying he's

533
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 3: already done that.

534
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: Okay, well whatever, okay, but I'm not jealous at all.

535
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm not.

536
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 3: I just like clarity like most women. Anyway, we asked

537
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Speaker 3: their audience. We asked their audience to ask if ask

538
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 3: us anything, and you bitches never ask anything to juicy,

539
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,360
Speaker 3: which is pretty safe for us but pretty boring for you.

540
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,360
Speaker 3: But let's see what we got.

541
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Speaker 2: Okay, let's see I was speaking of which in honor

542
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Speaker 2: of for twenty you guys, have you seen our merch?

543
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Speaker 1: Check out our march? Do you see this is our

544
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Speaker 1: sex that's a hit. We've designed that ourselves. The color

545
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Speaker 1: scheme go sells out pretty pretty often, so it.

546
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Speaker 3: Goes with everything.

547
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Speaker 2: So make sure you click the link appear up here

548
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Speaker 2: somewhere on this screen or in the copy caption, and

549
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 2: get our sex get our sex, Weed and Wellness merch.

550
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: It's actually on sale in honor of four twenty, so

551
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Speaker 2: make sure you go and click the link and type

552
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Speaker 2: in four twenty mom.

553
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,439
Speaker 3: And that was like, that's one of our best selling items.

554
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Speaker 1: This is one of our best selling in that one.

555
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 3: And this one is a Good Mom's Love Flower. This

556
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 3: is for the moms that love flower, this one. I mean,

557
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Speaker 3: they're both bold statements. I wore this pick up my

558
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 3: kid from school. Just let those bitches know if you're

559
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Speaker 3: not about just live, I do do because I'm like,

560
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 3: it's mine. I can't not wear own shit. The colors

561
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Speaker 3: came on that one as beautiful. We designed it ourselves.

562
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Speaker 3: It goes with everything. It's a pop. It starts a conversation.

563
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 3: Who doesn't like sex, weed and Wellness?

564
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Speaker 2: I mean lyn So all of our cannabis centered merch

565
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Speaker 2: is on sale right now on our website, Goodmomspat Choices

566
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Speaker 2: dot com.

567
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Speaker 3: And our website recently got a makeover, so go check

568
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Speaker 3: it out. We are very classy bitches with very high

569
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 3: class pictures and you should go look at our website

570
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 3: because there's a lot of offerings over there and beautiful designs.

571
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Speaker 1: Amen. Okay, let's see what questions do we have here?

572
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 1: Do you have a lighter over there? You have matches?

573
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: I have matches? Okay, so we ask We asked the tribe.

574
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: An Instagram to ask us anything today and we got

575
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Speaker 2: some questions. One in particular, this this is for And

576
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go ahead and say your Instagram, it's

577
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Speaker 2: Matching Dexterity. Matching Dexterity is always in my DMS about

578
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 2: my feet and our feet, and I'm here to tell

579
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 2: you guys, it's coming. Our only fans with our feet

580
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: are coming.

581
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 1: You heard it here. First, Matching Dexterity wanted to know

582
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: what shoe size you are.

583
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 3: I'm a seven sometimes seven and a half and I

584
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 3: can't wait to do huh, lesbian girl on girl footporn.

585
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 3: Let me take our sandals off.

586
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: Let us know.

587
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 3: Do you guys like footporn with he on? Or would

588
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 3: you like it with oils? Or would you just like

589
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 3: get foot to foot? Because we we can get nasty

590
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 3: with our feet crazy. And you know this is a

591
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 3: big deal for Erica because she doesn't like feet, so

592
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 3: she really likes me.

593
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 1: I've actually healed. I'm almost healed. I'm almost I almost

594
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: healed it. Okay, when you touch my feet, I'm gonna

595
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: take my standal off and then we'll see if you

596
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 1: got healed. You ready? This is okay?

597
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 3: Orlando, insert some soft porn and sort some softporn music here.

598
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: Okay, I think I need to hit the blunt first.

599
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 2: Hit light the blind. No no, no, no, light it first.

600
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 2: I mean I'll do it. Just let me smoke a

601
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: little bit. Let me get my nervous system calm how best.

602
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: I already feel myself a little bit getting a little hyperventilating.

603
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 3: You said you're almost healed, and I'm your best friend

604
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 3: in the whole wide world, right right, right, Erica, who's

605
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: your best friend in the whole way world?

606
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: You you irie and shout out to the real tribe

607
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 1: akaur group chat. Okay, let me hit that. Oh wait,

608
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: what's what's your shoe size?

609
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: Oh seven and a half?

610
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so this is the wait what is the backward?

611
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: We're smoking?

612
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: We're smoking Banana Fosters, which is the Nola Edition. Can

613
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 3: we go to Nola again?

614
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: Let's do it the Banana Foster's limited edition Backward?

615
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 3: Can we do dinner like small dinner shows where it's

616
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: only thirty minutes and we don't have to do much?

617
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: Do you have smoking tricks? Do you know how to

618
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: do smoking tricks?

619
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Speaker 2: I don't come on, in all these seven years of podcasting,

620
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 2: you haven't.

621
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Speaker 1: You gotta do this with your tongue. Gotta like go this, look,

622
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: no baby, gott collect this. Maybe I can make a heart. Okay,

623
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: let me try.

624
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: Backwards are the best for trick because they really get

625
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: that smoke. If you haven't already rolled up for this episode,

626
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 2: I want to encourage you to right now smoke with

627
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: us because we're about to take off.

628
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: Why are you making that sound? Why the fuck are

629
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: you making that sound? Shut upright from trauma, You're like,

630
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: you don't have the shade, butter I said grease and

631
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: that actually I can go grab it. You really don't

632
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: have to do that. Why why do you want to

633
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: have to up the fucking anti. I'm just gonna ask.

634
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna moisturize him for to launch our own

635
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Speaker 3: is this our launch of our only We're gonna launch

636
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Speaker 3: it in Jamaica. Rebrogica's are four twenty launch four OnlyFans launch.

637
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what this is?

638
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 3: Gonna do it?

639
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: Okay to show you how to well, let me first

640
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: show you how to do the oh's with the backwood.

641
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: Get your fucking foot out of the frank bitch, chill out. Okay,

642
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna rub your fucking foot.

643
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 1: St be so thirsty.

644
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 3: I'm just chesting you. It's not thirst it's it's a challenge.

645
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: Don't be so scared. Oh yeah, it's kind of almost

646
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: a fish. There's no sexy waited do ith goddamn Okay, Sorry, guys,

647
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: when you're listening to this and you don't want to

648
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: hear this, damn that shit.

649
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: Okay, standard the standard. Thank you for this cannabis because

650
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: it is strong. Okay, one more and then I'm ready.

651
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: Okay, kind of nice and lotioned up free because you're healed.

652
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 3: I know how to blow it out my nose. No,

653
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 3: it's not trick, it's just feet. It's just an extension

654
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: of the body.

655
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: Give me the loation. I'm basically your wife. I need

656
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: a barrier even.

657
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 3: Basically we're energetically married through Jamerica entity.

658
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: This is the good mom's first.

659
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: Let me take another sip of this mom juice. Okay, So,

660
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: if you don't know, my foot trauma started as a

661
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: child and my mom used to put her feet on

662
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 2: me in the night, usually rub her feet on me

663
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 2: because she was like I thought she thought it was

664
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: cute or something, and she would do it all the time,

665
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: and I fucking hated it. But I didn't know how

666
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 2: to tell her because it's my mom, and like I

667
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 2: wanted to be close to her, but I also wanted

668
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 2: to get the fuck off.

669
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: Never you just move your feet? You never told her? Well, no,

670
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: she knows now, and even actually the other day.

671
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 3: You're creating trauma. Her creating trauma thinking she's being sweet.

672
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: She thought she was being motherly, and actually she was

673
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: causing her to true a wound.

674
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 3: Okay, you ready, Okay? Five four three two one. It's

675
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: just an extension in my hand. It's a funny.

676
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: I kind of look that up. Is this gonna make

677
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: as alliance of dollars?

678
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 5: That?

679
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: I love it?

680
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 3: It's so great love, it's our only fans debut. I

681
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 3: can put a toe ring on Thanklan. It's pretty nice.

682
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I mean, I'm lower my foot

683
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: of it.

684
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: Nine. This is graice.

685
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: I've never actually heard of pod as and podcasting foot

686
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 3: rub with Orlando and love like this, but this is

687
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 3: at a different level.

688
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: I might this might be the next episode. This is

689
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: what you do in Tanda.

690
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: This is a good example of asking you get.

691
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: Up the pressure to about a little bit harder. Thank you.

692
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 3: This is how I used tangent speech.

693
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: I get used to asking for what you want.

694
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: And she asked me what I like and I respond,

695
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 3: so we're not guessing, and I ask for more.

696
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: Pressure or less of pressure. Yeahs at that. Man, what

697
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: you just did which really nice with that plan and

698
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. Thank you.

699
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: I was supposed to say, this is my best friendship.

700
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: This is a distant best friend building. Thank you. Wow,

701
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: Eric is healed. I hailed her. Okay, what do you.

702
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 4: Do?

703
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: You have foot trauma? No?

704
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: Or is this for the only fans? I have to

705
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 2: pay for that? We can't give him too much.

706
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: This is the cheese. You know. There's more where that

707
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: came from. There's so much more. We hailed her foot trauma.

708
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 2: Only fans slash good moms. I don't know if that's

709
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: it yet, but let's go check back in.

710
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: What if someone else has our only fans? No, no, no,

711
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: they don't have it. I'll sue you, bitch. Don't start now,

712
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: it's too late. We already made it. By the time

713
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: this steps comes out, it's up. We already have it.

714
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: So nice. Okay, that was really important. So now I'm

715
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: supposed touch the blunt with your feet on. You've touched

716
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: lots of parts of me, like you've seen I already.

717
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: I already have that.

718
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 2: That's the thing too, Like I realize when I'm cooking

719
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: that I have to wash my hands continuously throughout the process.

720
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 2: I don't like things on, like mixing things. And now

721
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 2: I have your foot juice on my fingers.

722
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I'm clean. I washed my feet every day.

723
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 3: I didn't do nothing before I came here, straight here,

724
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 3: and I barely wear these shoes. Light the blunt up.

725
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: I just ray keep them. They're good.

726
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 3: Okay, nice sanitize with reiki. Actually, you know, I just

727
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 3: remember that we never Me and Orlando never massaged you

728
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 3: like Sylvia.

729
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: Told us too. You didn't.

730
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a massage about my house too.

731
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: Come on over.

732
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 3: Our our Costa Rican healer told us that me and

733
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 3: Orlando should massage Erica, and we just never got around

734
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 3: to it because we're so busy. But and also we're like,

735
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 3: this is gonna be our kids gonna think we're extra weird.

736
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: Now, Like, I don't know what the fuck do Maybe

737
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: they're not there when this is happening.

738
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that weird.

739
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 3: Pretty much, we're pretty much a colony, the good colony,

740
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 3: the good colony.

741
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so back to the questions, sorry that people asked.

742
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: So you are size seven seven and a half.

743
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: Yes, what's your size? Size nine? Which doesn't work in

744
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: friendship because I can never do we have the same

745
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: shoe taste, I kind of and I like those shoes.

746
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, But I used be an eight and half.

747
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: But then my foot grew half sized after I had

748
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: my daughter.

749
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't gain enough weight to for my

750
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: feet to spread.

751
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sending a lot of women's feet get half

752
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 3: the size.

753
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: I just gained thirty five.

754
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 3: I just never understood how when people get pregnant, their

755
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 3: feet get a size bigger, but the feet don't go back.

756
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 3: But I figured maybe it's more weight so it just

757
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 3: flattens that one.

758
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 1: Okay, whatever, I'm kidding.

759
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 2: There's a lot of questions about our kids and integrating

760
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 2: them with our partners. People really want to know how

761
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 2: the fuck that happens. We're gonna make an e book.

762
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 2: I'm really curious for you both, how you integrated your

763
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,919
Speaker 2: partner into your life with child.

764
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Here's some more recent It was I think

765
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: because I didn't really know me and chokem were. We

766
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: weren't dating. He just wanted to take me to the beach.

767
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 2: I had literally just broke up with my boyfriend like

768
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 2: a week before, so, and I was I wasn't going

769
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,240
Speaker 2: with the intention of like date a date, Like that's

770
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 2: not the.

771
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: Vibe that I was even going with.

772
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 2: And so anyway, at that date, I told him I

773
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 2: was moving that I didn't know I was a date.

774
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 2: I told him I was moving, and he was like, oh,

775
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: I can come over and help you, and bitch, who

776
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: is going tony a nigga to help you move?

777
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: Now? Knowing ever never never, and so I said, yes,

778
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: please come and so he came over and helped me move.

779
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: So that was the first time he met Iri, and

780
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: then he kind of just kept coming over, and it

781
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 2: took me like ten times to realize that we were

782
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: like seeing each other.

783
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: So by that time, Jesus, actually it was you. You asked me.

784
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: You were like, are you guys dating? And I was like,

785
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. So I think that it was just

786
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: like a natural progression.

787
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 2: But in the past, I mean, I guess i'd waited,

788
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 2: and like even in those in those situations, it started

789
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 2: off as like this is my friend. It wasn't like

790
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 2: this is mommy's boyfriend, or like this I'm mommy seeing

791
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: this guy. You're about to meet him, Like no, it

792
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: wasn't like that. It was just like we're going to

793
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: the barbecue. Oh, this is whoever?

794
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: You know.

795
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 2: So I think when I first started, I think when

796
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 2: I first began it became single. I had these weird

797
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: rules that around the integration of Iri and me and

798
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 2: my baby daddy's like potential partners.

799
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to meet her the partner, which was crazy,

800
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: like I don't know, no, thank you, Like I was like,

801
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 1: if you're gonna bring a bitch around my daughter, I

802
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: need to meet her. That's usually most I feel like

803
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: that's like the new mom phase one of like I

804
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: just became a baby mama.

805
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 3: No, true, because that's like what you're like, most of

806
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 3: that's me, you know, like.

807
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 2: You still need to like gate keep these things and

808
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 2: have control and feel like you know, I mean, in

809
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 2: the perfect world that would be nice, right, And it's

810
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: just like okay, and if you meet them, then bitch, right,

811
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: you can't.

812
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 3: Like, don't spank my daughter, don't look at her wrong,

813
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 3: not even her. It's just like I guess it's just

814
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 3: about like, hey, I want to see your face or whatever.

815
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I think it was. I think it's

816
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 2: just like the more natural it is, the better. And

817
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, I think that's that's the best policy

818
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: for me. And that's kind of been the journey for me.

819
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: But I know people that, like I know men and

820
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: women that are like, oh, yeah, he's actually someone you know,

821
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: she's had a man for like ten years and he

822
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: never met her kid really yes, And I was like,

823
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 2: and I the last time I saw her, I was like,

824
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 2: actually I need to call her and check in on

825
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 2: her because.

826
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: I said, girl, is time. It's that's your nigga.

827
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 2: You either make a choice or you need to like

828
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 2: leave this nigga alone, or you need to say Okay,

829
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 2: let's move forward with this. So and it sounds like

830
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: you've already made a choice, So I just don't subscribe

831
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: to that. I think that that is I don't know,

832
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 2: like it's like that's such a big part of who

833
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 2: you are. I get the protection, I understand the protection,

834
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: But if you have to really question who you're dating

835
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 2: for an excited amount of time, I'm not saying, like,

836
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 2: do it like how I did, like where you know,

837
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 2: she literally met she Ken like the second time I hung.

838
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: Out with shi Ken. I agree, anyway, I agree.

839
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 3: Compart to mentalizing parts of you is I don't know.

840
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 3: I guess it depends also how old your kid is,

841
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 3: if your kid is older and about to be out

842
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: the house, But also like what are you hiding? What

843
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 3: are you hiding? And if you love two people, I

844
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 3: mean I think sharing that.

845
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 2: I think there's no better litmus test than your kid. Yeah,

846
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 2: to know if this person is actually compatible for the family,

847
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 2: the family that you've that you've already created, and this

848
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 2: person that your child is of you, like I I mean,

849
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 2: and I've and Iri has been that for me, Like

850
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: I've seen her not gravitate towards certain people and then

851
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: I've seen, I've seen how she does, because generally she's

852
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 2: been fucking right.

853
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 3: It's difficult to naviget a relationship if they don't get

854
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 3: along or whatever, or he's not he's not even used

855
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 3: to being around kids. They don't get to see you

856
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 3: as a mom. That's a whole different role. It's a

857
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 3: whole different hat you're wearing, and you don't want to

858
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 3: feel I guess torn to have to like solely give

859
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 3: like energy here and solely here. I think being a

860
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 3: single mom makes that easier, hopefully when you're like drop it,

861
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 3: you know, taking time off with.

862
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: The other parent. But yeah, I don't know.

863
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,399
Speaker 3: I don't believe in like hiding people or keeping them

864
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 3: separate for an extended amount of time just because yeah,

865
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 3: it just it's a part of me. So I love

866
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 3: my kid. I want you to know her too. And

867
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 3: I always start as friends, because usually when you date someone,

868
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 3: you start as friends anyway, you don't have a title,

869
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: and then when it goes to that you can explain

870
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 3: that too.

871
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 1: Not always, I feel like I feel like that's I

872
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: feel like people don't start as friends, that's the fucking problem.

873
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 2: Oh well, I think she will start as fuck buddies

874
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 2: and then they try to like, well, and you don't say,

875
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: this is my house husband a nigga and housewife a bitch,

876
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: and it's not.

877
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: It's not ready. The house is broken from the beginning.

878
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: Tell your kid that's my fuck buddy. You could just say, and.

879
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 2: Then some people do like some people have like I do,

880
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 2: believe there is like you should have discernment and you

881
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 2: have boundaries that you shouldn't just like be everyone is

882
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 2: Uncle Tommy and lollly gagging around who anyone, absolutely, anyone

883
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 2: you bring. I think that includes the women that you

884
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 2: bring around. I think that includes everyone that you bring around,

885
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: because your child is a human sponge that's listening and

886
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 2: watching you and whoever, and assuming that you've already done

887
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,280
Speaker 2: the test, you've already done the litmus test on this person,

888
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: So they're probably someone that I.

889
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: Don't advise you to fuck anybody that you wouldn't.

890
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I've had fuck buddies that.

891
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: I don't introduce to Luna, you know what I mean,

892
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: because why would I do that?

893
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 3: But the hope is that whoever you're giving your body to,

894
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 3: there's some basis of friendship. But I think for me

895
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 3: in Orlando is really easy because the first time I

896
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 3: met Orlando in person, Luna was there briefly and she

897
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 3: was like, why is he wearing that craft top?

898
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: I don't know?

899
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 3: Ask him also stop embarrassing me. And then and then

900
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 3: even in our dating long distance, he would FaceTime. We

901
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 3: would talk all together like it was it was he

902
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 3: was my friend and I was sharing in that, sharing

903
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 3: pictures of my trips and stuff like that. And I

904
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 3: don't remember having like an official conversation with Luna about

905
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,959
Speaker 3: if he was moving in. I think that he left

906
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 3: a big ass bag and I think I was like,

907
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 3: he left his fucking bag here. I think he thinks

908
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 3: he think he's staying. And because I talked to my

909
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 3: kid like I talked to you know, Erica, and he's

910
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 3: integrated really nicely into our into our life, and sometimes

911
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 3: it is difficult, like when he reprimands her.

912
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 1: Well, that's the next question.

913
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 2: The next question is how do you set boundaries with them,

914
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 2: like with any I think.

915
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: It was more difficult in the beginning seeing someone else

916
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: out set boundaries with my kid, even when he was right,

917
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 3: you know. And I think a lot of it is

918
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 3: I really I notice in you know, the evolution of

919
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 3: their relationship. He is I'm the disciplinary because I'm more

920
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 3: like straight at it, but he's stern. If he says something,

921
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 3: you don't do it, then there's consequences. He'll take the

922
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 3: things and I and I know she gets pissed and

923
00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 3: then she's like, it is my dad taking the ede

924
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 3: to our I was like, nah, But I also really

925
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: see how she respects it. I see when she doesn't

926
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 3: push back. I see when she exceeds in like homemark, math,

927
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 3: homework that he spends a lot of time with her on.

928
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: I see when she gets more confident in it, and

929
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 3: I see when she they grow closer because of the

930
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 3: respect that she has for him, And I think sometimes

931
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 3: we fear that. And I'm like, Orlando's not beating, spanking,

932
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 3: you know, yelling at my child, at our child, because

933
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 3: he does consider Luna his And we also go to

934
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 3: parent conference, teacher things together and open houses, and like,

935
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 3: he's integrated into our family because he's serious about it.

936
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 3: And I think that's another thing too, Like if a

937
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 3: man is showing you that they are serious about the

938
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 3: integration of especially if you have smaller children that are

939
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: not moving out anytime soon. I think that is also,

940
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 3: you know, generally a green flag. I'm not suggesting by

941
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 3: any means if you have any intuition that you shouldn't leave,

942
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 3: Like I don't like leaving your kid at home if

943
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: someone you just met, having someone you just met or

944
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 3: have known lesson to your babysit your kid, Like that's

945
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 3: absolutely insane. You know, I think you have have to

946
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 3: watch kids. I mean, you have to watch adults, and

947
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 3: you have to communicate with your kids so they can

948
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 3: communicate with you if there is anything uncomfortable, because I

949
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 3: think single moms get a really bad rep for like

950
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 3: we're damned if we don't damned if we don't as

951
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: if we don't have such high intuition as women, and

952
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 3: you know you always do hear horror stories. But it's

953
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 3: also like a stigma with like that moms are just

954
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 3: careless with their kids, when in fact, I am fucking

955
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 3: watching like a mother fucking hawk, the teacher, every single

956
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 3: thing around this precious thing that I've built and that

957
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 3: I've created, and I'm protecting it more than anyone, like

958
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 3: a fucking eagles eye. And I think people disregard the intelligence,

959
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 3: the emotion intelligence, the fucking intuitive intelligence of a mother

960
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: and how mama bear. Shit can get real quick. And

961
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 3: I think because of that, moms like I've read threads

962
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 3: like I'm never That's why I don't bring no man

963
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: around my kid. That's why I never dated after her daddy.

964
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 3: That's like, that's not a flag to wear, that's not

965
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 3: a bad like you know to be like, I haven't

966
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 3: dated in twenty years because I'm not dating until little

967
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 3: Johnny gets at the house, because I'm not a hope

968
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck You've told yourself is that you

969
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 3: deserve to be loved and your kid deserves to have

970
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 3: a have that male influence and to see you be loved.

971
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: But you just have to have discerned about who you're

972
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: bring on your kid and and let them show you

973
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,439
Speaker 3: that they're ready and prepared, you know, with action and

974
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 3: with words.

975
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 1: Amen. Amen, Sorry, guys, I'm high now. I agree.

976
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 3: And does have you experience shook him having to reprimand

977
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 3: or be stern with Iri and how you feel about that.

978
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 2: I feel like it's still I feel like there's still

979
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: comfortability growing there. I've watched him definitely coarse correct I've

980
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: you know, we've even I've even had real conversations with

981
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 2: him about my parenting, you know what I mean, not

982
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: him bringing it up and me asking him genuinely, what

983
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 2: do you think about this?

984
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: Like am I? Am I driven? Or am I?

985
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 2: And you know, like, and he's told me the honest truth,

986
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 2: and sometimes I haven't liked it about myself even do

987
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 2: you know? So I appreciate and I And then I also,

988
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 2: I mean I was gonna ask you that too, because

989
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 2: there is a sensitivity there anyone telling you about like

990
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 2: your parenting. And I wouldn't say he's told me about

991
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: my parenting, but I've asked him do you think I'm

992
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 2: too like do you think I'm like I follow through

993
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 2: with you know, the the threat essentially to the extent

994
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 2: where it's actually making change.

995
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: Or does she now think that she can just get

996
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: away with shit? And he was like, you could a

997
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: better job, and I was.

998
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 3: Like, I was like, fuck, I asked, It's right.

999
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,439
Speaker 1: I know I'm asking because I know that I yeah

1000
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: that I know that.

1001
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: And as you were speaking, I was thinking about as

1002
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 2: a single mom, I feel like, and this is just

1003
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: speaking for myself and my experience.

1004
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: I think that my intuition became even.

1005
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: More heightened when I became a single mom because I

1006
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,240
Speaker 2: had more responsibility in the guidance of my child.

1007
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 1: And so I feel like single moms.

1008
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to like this respect moms that are

1009
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 2: not single, but I feel like there is like a

1010
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 2: more of a survival that has to occur, especially in

1011
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 2: the beginning where you're like, oh shit, how are we

1012
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 2: managing this? Is this like I'm alone, I'm alonet.

1013
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,479
Speaker 3: Have anyone who bounce ideas off of It's all on me. Yeah,

1014
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 3: I fuck it up.

1015
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 2: So you'll really have to listen to yourself, especially if

1016
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: you don't have that support from the other parent to

1017
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: like as far as like how we're collaborating on this

1018
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: fucking piece of work art that we've created, you know,

1019
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 2: and it's like it requires you to really be able

1020
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: to listen or and lean on the people that you

1021
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 2: are bringing around. Which is why I feel like our

1022
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 2: intuition is so important as a single parent, because we

1023
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 2: don't necessarily have another person that's like, eh, I don't

1024
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 2: really fuck with No, I don't want that man around

1025
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 2: my son. I don't want that woman, you know what

1026
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I just I think that single mothers

1027
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: have this like unique opportunity to really tap into their

1028
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: intuition and such a high level because of because you

1029
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: kind of have.

1030
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 3: To yeah, you do, you do, and it's so tightened

1031
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 3: you're right.

1032
00:46:58,400 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1033
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 2: But then so on the other hand, though, I have

1034
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 2: experienced an ex reprimand irie and was so true, like

1035
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 2: I like I could feel everything inside of me, like

1036
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: wanting to punch him in the face, and it was

1037
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 2: And I've talked about this before, but maybe I should

1038
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: elaborate on it because during that situation, it was the

1039
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 2: first time I really had a boyfriend that IRI had met,

1040
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 2: and so I knew that I felt uncomfortability and I

1041
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 2: was really trying to reason with myself, like am I

1042
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 2: uncomfortable because this is the first time I've ever done this,

1043
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 2: Like this person really does want to be a part

1044
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 2: of her life. But then also realizing I was kind

1045
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 2: of dating like a sociopath a little bit, and he

1046
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 2: manipulative and has mommy issues, and I think that there

1047
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 2: were there there was probably a time or two that

1048
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 2: like he reprimanded her, and I didn't do what I

1049
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: should have done. You know, I didn't say like what

1050
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 2: the fuck, like chill because I was lit, I was

1051
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 2: I myself was processing well, I was shocked, and I

1052
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 2: was also like, is this what I need? Is this

1053
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 2: what I asked for? Like maybe like she is acting

1054
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,280
Speaker 2: like a brat, but like why the fuck are you yelling?

1055
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 2: Like you don't need to yell, know, And so I

1056
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: think it is a journey. I think we need to

1057
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: give moms a lot of grace in that space too,

1058
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 2: because you're not going to get it right every fucking time,

1059
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 2: especially when you're just navigating it. And but we should

1060
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: put out a manual because I think there are some

1061
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: things to look out for.

1062
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 3: And I think we need to have conversations about like

1063
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 3: things to look out for. And I think it's also

1064
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 3: said like some women are in positions where they need

1065
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 3: help so bad that they overlook that, and that's never

1066
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 3: That's never the way. And I think there's also ways

1067
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: you can talk to your child. And I also me personally,

1068
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 3: and I like, I never believed in leaving my I

1069
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 3: never believed in leaving my kid with people outside of

1070
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 3: people who kept me personally, you know, or like you know,

1071
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 3: immediate family before they could talk words, you know, like

1072
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 3: the power of words is so powerful if they know

1073
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 3: how to communicate with themselves, if they have sovereignty, over

1074
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 3: their bodies. And I think that's important too.

1075
00:48:58,440 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: And I think there's also.

1076
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 3: Like a space for the step parent who are the

1077
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 3: you know, the boyfriend or whatever the partner to have

1078
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 3: tips too, because I think it's hard for them to

1079
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 3: know where to step in. Orlando came and wearing his

1080
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 3: fucking daddy pants and even that sometimes it's frustrating. So

1081
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, you, I have a kid, me, you know

1082
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, I have a kid, so like, yes,

1083
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 3: this is a you gotta do it first to even

1084
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: be yeah, And he's always like, I know because I

1085
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 3: don't have a kid, I don't know. I'm like, shut up,

1086
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 3: it's true and you'll understand. And later you're gonna be

1087
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 3: like you were right because now I get it, you know.

1088
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 3: And that just happens biologically when someone comes through you.

1089
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: But I don't know. I think it's been it's been

1090
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 3: a blessing more than it has because I know that

1091
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 3: I'm I know, I'm a pushover.

1092
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: I know.

1093
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 3: My way of parenting is I need to read a book.

1094
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:45,879
Speaker 3: That's another thing. I was thinking, I need to read

1095
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 3: a book. Why haven't I read a book. I'm gonna

1096
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 3: have a book in my living room. And I need

1097
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 3: to read it because I just I think that we

1098
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 3: all could work better on our language how we listen, because.

1099
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: Literally, like that's usually the barrier. In twenty twenty five,

1100
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 1: we're like fighting wars across countries. Like you would think

1101
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: we'd have evolved past murder, you know what I mean.

1102
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 3: But it's because we're lacking and understanding. And so when

1103
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 3: you use words like to actually work for you, then

1104
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 3: it could be transformative. And so if we stay like

1105
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 3: even as adults, like we don't continue going to fucking

1106
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 3: English when we.

1107
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: Wrote this book, well, well because it's beyond English. It's

1108
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: like comprehension.

1109
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, emotional intelligence, Like there's a way that

1110
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 2: like you appeal to someone else's like wherever they're at

1111
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 2: in their in their emotional journey, you know, and the

1112
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 2: lens and listen without ego and exactly and listen without

1113
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: ego and respond without ego and respond with care and love.

1114
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 3: And even the vocabulary of how we describe our feelings,

1115
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 3: like the feelings, well, I look at that, I'm like,

1116
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 3: this feels inauthentic because I'm just mad, I'm pissed off,

1117
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna fuck you up, Like those are my four emotions.

1118
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: I'm stressed, and it's like, bitch, what does that mean?

1119
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: You know?

1120
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 3: And so if we were limited and even like if

1121
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 3: if we don't even take the time as adults, you like,

1122
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 3: let me go.

1123
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: Look at some other words to describe this shit, you

1124
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean.

1125
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 3: If we don't evolve even in our language, we're gonna

1126
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 3: be limited in how We're gonna be fucking describing ourselves

1127
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 3: as fucking sixteen year old teenage girls because we haven't

1128
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 3: taken the time too, and then instill that in our

1129
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 3: child to communicate with us.

1130
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,760
Speaker 1: Next question, what is your strain of choice?

1131
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 3: I'm a hybrid gally. I really like blue Dream. You know,

1132
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 3: Once I like something, I don't really have to venture

1133
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 3: way off. I took some breaks from just straight Sativa's

1134
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 3: because I think it was contributing to my anxiety.

1135
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I like hybrids. I'm not picky.

1136
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 3: Whatever's most like kind of inexpensive mid grade doesn't look

1137
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 3: like it's outdoor at the dispensary.

1138
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 1: I'm with you don't like outdoor.

1139
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 3: I mean I'll take a greenhouse, but no, I don't prefer.

1140
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 3: But you know, as I get older, actually I'm like,

1141
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 3: give me a good old outdoor.

1142
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: You know what I like outdoor? I do.

1143
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: I did smoke a homegrown weed like a few days ago,

1144
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 2: like from someone's backyard. I did not enjoy it. Why

1145
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: maybe it was just they didn't They hadn't figured it out.

1146
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: It's Tasted's just so like.

1147
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 3: Well, when you're used when you're in California and you're yeah,

1148
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 3: the sun, when you're used to ing door perfectly curated.

1149
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: But I feel like there's some really good outdoor weed.

1150
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: You just have to know what you're fucking doing.

1151
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 3: And when you I mean greenhouse. Greenhouse is a good way.

1152
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 3: It's not quite outdoors, not quite indoor.

1153
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: Mine is mine is hybrid too. But I do like

1154
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: a good sativa.

1155
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 2: I love a green crack. I like Jack Carrere. I

1156
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 2: like Gelatto, which is the Indica. I mean, it just

1157
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: depends what I'm doing.

1158
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. You know, like if I need to

1159
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 3: lay the fuck down, like I love to.

1160
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 2: Smoke an Indica and lay down and watch a movie

1161
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 2: make out.

1162
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: And I have to get my slip.

1163
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: We're about to get so high in the next two weeks,

1164
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 3: about to go to Jamaica, and just I know this

1165
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 3: is this is so y'all, We're going to Jamaica and

1166
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 3: it's a cannabis It's a cannabis retreat.

1167
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: It's our first cannabis retreat.

1168
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 2: And don't worry, We're gonna have more because this is

1169
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 2: very important, as you know, as you can and see,

1170
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 2: we were some four twenty moms for sure.

1171
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: How did Erica and Ken meet?

1172
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: And what do you love about him?

1173
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: I love everything about him.

1174
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 3: I love everything, every single I love everything. I love

1175
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 3: everything about you. We met Actually, you know what, you

1176
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 3: know why I met Chi Kim Jamila. Jamila sent me.

1177
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 2: This is how I know it's true love, because I said,

1178
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 2: my best friend sent me dams. So she sent me

1179
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 2: a picture of our video of him. I think it

1180
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 2: was him like doing Ninja shit in the park. You're like, girl,

1181
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 2: you have to come to this park workout bach It

1182
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 2: was like COVID right, it was co Yeah, it cover

1183
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 2: you guys come to this work park. Workout is the

1184
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 2: sky Jake and he's so fine. I went to middle

1185
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 2: school with him and he's so fine now. And then

1186
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: she sent me the video and I was like, damn, bitch,

1187
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 2: he is fine.

1188
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: He's fine.

1189
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 2: She has a girlfriend, but you know, whatever, and I

1190
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 2: was like, okay, well, where where are these workouts? So

1191
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 2: you know, you check a little eye candy while I workout.

1192
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: So anyway, you sent me his number. You sent me

1193
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 2: his number four, and so I.

1194
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: Met, I could grow up. You joined it, I could

1195
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: join the.

1196
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 2: Group, And I said, but I couldn't join the group

1197
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: because it was in Sherman Oaks at like eight am.

1198
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 2: That's when I dropped my daughter from school. So I

1199
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,879
Speaker 2: messaged him for some personal training services. I wasn't being

1200
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 2: a whore. I promised, like this, there's.

1201
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,399
Speaker 1: A personal services.

1202
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 3: I just you know, I hid her for some personal chess.

1203
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: A personal training services take something into practice services.

1204
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 3: That's like the new, that's like the new, like jigglow.

1205
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 3: I'm just a personal training service.

1206
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,959
Speaker 2: So anyway, we text a few times and I asked

1207
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 2: him if we could like work out, and he said yes.

1208
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 2: Then I texted him again. Then he didn't respond, and

1209
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 2: then I was like, fuck you. Literally, I was like,

1210
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 2: he's just too fine. That's why he's just fuck him.

1211
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: He's busy. Maybe he's meditating on the mountain. I don't know.

1212
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I couldn't read it. If he

1213
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: was a whore.

1214
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 2: He was like a like a real if he was

1215
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,959
Speaker 2: a hotel, what the fuck was going on over there?

1216
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: So and also I think I I think I had

1217
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 2: a boyfriend at the time. Maybe I was like in

1218
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 2: between boyfriends.

1219
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1220
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 3: It was right before we got the boyfriends.

1221
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 2: And it didn't matter because he had a girlfriend. And

1222
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,720
Speaker 2: you know, I don't do boyfriend. I don't do boyfriend

1223
00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 2: girlfriend married people.

1224
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: I didn't hit a girlfriend. At first. I was to

1225
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: work his girlfriend because she was an actress. And you

1226
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: told me.

1227
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 3: That was after I did some more investigations.

1228
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So then then we ended up going to Bruna

1229
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 2: as a full moon. It was like lions Gate sound Bath.

1230
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 1: Is that there? Yeah, you were there.

1231
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 2: Anyway, our friend did a sound bath and he they

1232
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 2: did it together. And so that was the first time

1233
00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 2: I saw him in person in Bourbank. Yeah, I was

1234
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: in Burbank and I remember like seeing I was like, oh, God,

1235
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: that's that's the guy. That's the one that didn't text

1236
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 2: me back about my training services.

1237
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: That's the ninga.

1238
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, he looks so like serious about what

1239
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 2: he's doing over there, Like he's just very like he.

1240
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: Meditated for two hours before he attended and it was

1241
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 1: very this is who he is. It's not an act.

1242
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 2: And I remember when so I went up. I went

1243
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 2: up and Bruna was saging people. He was saging people.

1244
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 2: I remember hoping that, like in the line, it was

1245
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 2: going to work out, that I was gonna get saged

1246
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 2: by him, did you?

1247
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: And I did. I did get staged by him, and

1248
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: I just wanted a closer look.

1249
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 2: I wanted a closer look and I help me here, boy,

1250
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 2: I didn't get a little closer look at you.

1251
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then whatever he saged me and it was great. Whatever.

1252
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 2: We went and enjoyed the sound bath and that was it.

1253
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: Like I never heard, we never had to talk to

1254
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 2: at that event, shared any words at all. And then

1255
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 2: I think like the next time that I saw him

1256
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 2: was here. So it was like this was like years

1257
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 2: in the making, like it was like twenty two thousand.

1258
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,399
Speaker 2: I think the event the Lionsgate was twenty twenty one.

1259
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 2: I want to say the twenty twenty two. I got

1260
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: a boyfriend in New York and so then I was

1261
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 2: like outside with my man's and then literally in twenty

1262
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 2: twenty three, a few days before my birthday, a few

1263
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: days before my birthday. I broke up with him, and

1264
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 2: then like a week later, she ken messaged me and

1265
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 2: I remember telling Jamil. I was like, oh my god, Ninja,

1266
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 2: I think DM me it were so random.

1267
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 3: I was like, maybe you put out the set of

1268
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 3: single like he just it was literally days later and

1269
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 3: he saw a single bitch he text me and still

1270
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 3: like Jamila had told me, and I could just tell,

1271
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 3: like he is a man of like where women feel safe,

1272
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 3: so he has a lot of female friends. He's a trainer,

1273
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 3: so he has I just he had a lot.

1274
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 1: I knew he knew a lot of.

1275
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 2: People, So I think that's why I didn't think it

1276
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 2: was like romantic, because I knew, like Bruno was his friend,

1277
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 2: Like he had a lot of female friends. So I

1278
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 2: was like, maybe he just wants to be my friend

1279
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 2: or whatever.

1280
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1281
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 3: He did I should do a photo show.

1282
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 2: He asked me, DMed me and said, I really like

1283
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 2: your hair color. I had just like accidentally dyed my

1284
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 2: hair like cherry red. It was like for our show

1285
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 2: in LA And he was like, I've been shooting pictures.

1286
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 2: I shouldn't known. I shouldn't known, but I was also heartbroken.

1287
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 2: I was like hair and I thought my world was over.

1288
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 2: And so he said, I would love to shoot you

1289
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: at the beach. Can I just come pick you up

1290
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 2: one day. I'm doing this like I'm putting together this

1291
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 2: like thing with just different women in their element, and

1292
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 2: I was like sure. And so at that point, I

1293
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 2: literally was like in the midst of heartbreak. I was

1294
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: fucking depressed, like very depressed, and I was just like,

1295
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 2: you know what, in a week from today, whenever, this

1296
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: nigga is gonna get me, and I know I'm gonna

1297
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 2: need to be at the beach that day, so I'm

1298
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 2: just gonna say yes, a free ride to the beach.

1299
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: I was literally my mindset. I was like, this, mine's

1300
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: gonna drive me to Malibu.

1301
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what he talked about, but I need

1302
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 2: to get near the water and I don't want to drive.

1303
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 2: And so he came and picked me up. A week later,

1304
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,439
Speaker 2: I totally forgot. He messaged me that day and was like, hey,

1305
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 2: are we still good for it today? And I was like,

1306
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 2: oh shit, And it was true. That day was, like

1307
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 2: I remember, was really stressful for me. I just like

1308
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 2: I was like.

1309
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:32,959
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, I am.

1310
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 2: And so he came and picked me up and I

1311
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 2: remember when he opened the door, I was like, oh, yeah,

1312
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 2: he is fine, Yep, he's fine.

1313
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: Yes he is.

1314
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 2: And so yeah, we went to the beach and he

1315
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 2: lit a bonfire. I don't know how I didn't know this.

1316
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 2: Nigga was like courting me, but he lit a bond

1317
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 2: He lit a bonfire. But he was like filming stuff,

1318
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 2: and like I think he was nervous.

1319
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: He wasn't flirting with me at all, you know, like

1320
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: he was just like, yeah, so this is what I do.

1321
00:58:58,600 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: This is what I'm doing.

1322
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 2: I wrote, I write a lot of poetry, and like

1323
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 2: I want to put visuals to the story.

1324
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: That I'm writing.

1325
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,439
Speaker 2: And so I just really need you to just kind

1326
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: of just stand over there and chill. And so I

1327
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 2: was like okay, so I'm like sitting there like all awkward,

1328
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 2: like this is what he needs, Like I don't know.

1329
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we just had like really good conversation.

1330
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 2: Like after that, we we drove back and I remember

1331
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: we just like started passing the ox and like that's

1332
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 2: how I.

1333
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: Know if I love you the past ox.

1334
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 2: If our music tastes combined, they don't do the same,

1335
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 2: but they compliment one another, you can handle it. And

1336
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 2: yeah and so so yeah, that was how we met.

1337
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 2: And so after I told like I said it earlier,

1338
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 2: like I told him I was moving cause I was

1339
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 2: in the midst of moving. I was going through. Like now,

1340
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 2: looking back, I realized how much like change I was

1341
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: actually going through all at once, like this breakup, this move,

1342
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:52,479
Speaker 2: him coming into my life. There was like transitions happening here,

1343
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 2: like our book coming. There was so much going on

1344
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 2: energetically and like physically happening. And he was like, I'll

1345
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: help you move, and so he that's when he actually

1346
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 2: he actually met Iri. The first he came in, he

1347
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 2: walked me to my door and I re opened the

1348
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 2: door when I showed up at the house. After we

1349
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 2: went to the beach, and I was like, oh, this

1350
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 2: is shakem and he was like hey. I was like hi,

1351
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 2: So where was that? No, I'm high Jesus Christ.

1352
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: Where am I? We went to the beach.

1353
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 2: Oh, and then before he left, he yeah, he was like, Okay,

1354
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 2: i'll see you. I'll see you tomorrow to help you move.

1355
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 2: And then every day since then, like he's asked me

1356
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 2: for when we're going to see each other again, and.

1357
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: Like scheduled it.

1358
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 2: And so that's the story of shakem and he's just

1359
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 2: I think I love his I love his consistency. That

1360
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 2: was like the first thing that I realized, like that

1361
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 2: was the thing he was constant with. Was just like

1362
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: the way if he said he's going to do something,

1363
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 2: he was going to do it. And I love his mind.

1364
01:00:56,480 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 2: He's so intelligent and funny, He's fucking hilarious. And so

1365
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm still like I think, because we've

1366
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 2: all liveing together a year, we're still evolving and learning.

1367
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: But I think at his core, like I just I

1368
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 2: love I do, I love everything about him.

1369
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 1: How long did you guys? How long did How long

1370
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: was it before you guys started like officially dating after

1371
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: the three days after he messaged you from breaking up

1372
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: with your ex.

1373
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: I think it was like a month and a half December.

1374
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 2: It was around the sex party, it was around he

1375
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: made his girlfriend. Oh no, that was February. In February,

1376
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 2: it was after the retreat, so like.

1377
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: October after we had that little life changing retreat.

1378
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 3: Life changing and that was like our there are tenth yeah,

1379
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 3: tenth and eleventh yeah or tenth.

1380
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.

1381
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 2: So it took November December, four month, three and three

1382
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 2: and a half months before three to three and a

1383
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 2: half to four months before we said like we're together together.

1384
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 3: I know, I think as you date and there's so

1385
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 3: many games played and like we've come far from like

1386
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 3: circle yes or no, like hey, I want you to

1387
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 3: be and my girl, Like I'm just it's so interesting,

1388
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 3: you know, And as I'm telling the story, I'm realizing

1389
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: how chill it is and how so many of my

1390
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 3: relationships have been like so, and then it was like.

1391
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 2: This is the thing, and it's like I actually, I

1392
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: think that's like set the tone for our relationship. I've

1393
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 2: met a lot of men in like very fantastical ways.

1394
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, once in a lifetime met you in

1395
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 2: this space and place, and I think that I really

1396
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 2: enjoy like the that's what I'm saying, like the consistency

1397
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 2: and just like the slow burn of our relationship.

1398
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: It's been like very like we've taken our time. And

1399
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 1: so yeah, I love that's the story.

1400
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: Of my love is she can I'd advocate for this

1401
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 2: slow ver. Oh and also Jamila went to middle school

1402
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 2: with chi Quem. Yeah, so you've I mean he was

1403
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 2: always no, it wasn't I didn't even go to middle

1404
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 2: school with him.

1405
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 3: My two best friends had to middle school with him,

1406
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 3: so like I went to for like summer school, you know, people.

1407
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 1: Like he said he was a mute. That's what he's

1408
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: I mean, he's quite now. He was quiet.

1409
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 3: He's been consistent. He's very like introvert, very kind, always nice.

1410
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 3: Because I also that was sound.

1411
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 2: So funny because like he's an introvert, but he's not quiet,

1412
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 2: like at least I mean maybe around me, like.

1413
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: One on one person.

1414
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not like a group like you know, he's

1415
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 3: just chillis to himself. He I remember, you know, I

1416
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 3: do have like I don't know why I feel like it.

1417
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 3: I also went to school with him around the same time,

1418
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 3: went to school with like that other guy that we

1419
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 3: know who's completely the opposite, was a producer. It was

1420
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 3: a love and hip hop and I remember like when

1421
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 3: that kid came around, I was like, oh God, he's

1422
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 3: gonna be talking shit. Like I was like, God, this

1423
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 3: thing is going to be talking shit, clowning. And I'm

1424
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 3: like I remember him just him just being just so

1425
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 3: like nice, nice but nice, no problem.

1426
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: Because they were friends.

1427
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, how yeah, I mean, the valley is small,

1428
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 3: especially when you're black. But yeah Milliken Junior High.

1429
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so next question and next question, and maybe this

1430
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 2: is our last question. Is there a particular time of

1431
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 2: day that you and your significant other put aside to

1432
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 2: smoke or discuss the day?

1433
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 3: Is there a particular time of the day mind you.

1434
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 3: Usually probably at the end of the night Mi Orlando,

1435
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:26,240
Speaker 3: and we get home. We will sit on the couch,

1436
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 3: sometimes open computers, but like watch a movie or watch

1437
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 3: a show, and generally it's a lifetime will like maybe

1438
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 3: drink wine or we'll smoke, and we'll wind down and

1439
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 3: eat dinner and then go to bed.

1440
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, old.

1441
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 3: Lady, we sit on the cat wind down, We wind

1442
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 3: down from the day. We smoke, the blood we give

1443
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 3: each other, feet, ribs, we eat.

1444
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,919
Speaker 2: We smoke in the morning and the night, like we

1445
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 2: not every morning, but in the morning, like because she

1446
01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 2: usually wakes up super early to go work with his clients,

1447
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 2: and so I'm up at like five thirty or six,

1448
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: and so we'll smoke together, drink our our coffee and yeah,

1449
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 2: and then at night for sure, like we're.

1450
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 3: Just good morning. Sometimes Yeah, I feel like.

1451
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 2: I fight, depends it's not all the time, because sometimes

1452
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 2: I'm like I don't need to smoke right now.

1453
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 3: I'll be fighting for my life in the morning, just

1454
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 3: trying to get a lunch together and a child to

1455
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:16,919
Speaker 3: school every morning.

1456
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's why I need it.

1457
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 2: Seven it actually helps my morning. I just smoke my

1458
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 2: joint or like not. I can't even smoke a whole joint.

1459
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 2: I literally take the cup puff and I'm like, that's it,

1460
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: that's all I got making.

1461
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: Look look at us, are we old? I know? Come on,

1462
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 1: how's a joint light of smoked fucking twenty two percent

1463
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 1: of this blind? Huh? What the fuck? Come on?

1464
01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 3: Come on, get your coons up, come on, light it up,

1465
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 3: come on, get your cold us up. We're young and thriving.

1466
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 1: If you can't smoke a whole backwood, you know what

1467
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 1: you're fucking noon. You forgot to order lunch. I didn't

1468
01:05:56,160 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 1: eat breakfast. If you can't smoke a whole blunt, they're

1469
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: not real. They're not a real smoker. Yeah, a smoker smoker.

1470
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 3: That blunt is blunting. Right now, there's some other questions

1471
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,920
Speaker 3: in discord. Should we keep going or do you have

1472
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 3: any high thoughts? Are you feeling? Take it intermission.

1473
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: I did have a.

1474
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 2: High thought and this is this is so. I was

1475
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 2: having sex to the other night and I was thinking

1476
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 2: to myself, I wonder what it feels like at the back,

1477
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 2: like when you reach the back of the pussy.

1478
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,240
Speaker 3: What does it feel like like the end?

1479
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when it's like you can't go anywhere, Like

1480
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 1: what does it feel like? Is it like is it

1481
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: like a wall that's like kind of like soft and mushy,

1482
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: or is it like just all in like does it

1483
01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 1: get tighter?

1484
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 2: Like what is it? And I was like, I can't

1485
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: ask him this right now, Like tell me what it

1486
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 2: is like in detail, right now?

1487
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: What do you feel right now? It? So she's sc tight?

1488
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: Is it tight? Do you like that?

1489
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 3: Orlando?

1490
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 1: Are those acts of the wall? It's a wall? Okay?

1491
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: Well wow it gets scary like when you hit it, you're.

1492
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 3: Like, oh shit, oh scary.

1493
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: Not squishy?

1494
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 2: Or does it or do you do you ever get

1495
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 2: tempted to be like knock knock, or like trying to

1496
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: push the wall back more like it hurts?

1497
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: Plassy said no, mo wow, okay, thank you. That was

1498
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: a high thought. I was like, I forgot about it.

1499
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 2: I wrote it down to my phone because I thought

1500
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 2: about it later and I was like, I'm gonna remember.

1501
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: That I'm the pussy wall. Literally, ask a man that

1502
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 1: is very high of you, what's the back of the

1503
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 1: pussy feel like?

1504
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 2: Back of the pussy wall feel like? Well, the other

1505
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 2: day my other high thought was do spirits have sex?

1506
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: Our agel was fucking it's true.

1507
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: You know. One time, this white woman I know said

1508
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: that she came into her energetic cock and like feeling

1509
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 1: like she was like she just like it just came

1510
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: over her.

1511
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 3: She just turned around and the other person had felt it.

1512
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: Too, And I was the other person, like there was

1513
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 2: an actual person there, Yeah, like a guy.

1514
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 3: She was in the hot springs and she like turned

1515
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 3: around and said something. He was like, you're just coming

1516
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 3: to your oh interested, she actually came like she no,

1517
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 3: she just felt like her energetic cock, Like, I guess

1518
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 3: you came. I'm gonna say, I kind of this is

1519
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 3: obviously my white friend, because why would I call it

1520
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 3: an energetic cock?

1521
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 1: Well, because because she called it that, the energetic deep

1522
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 1: the energetic dick.

1523
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 3: Me, I just came into my energetic dick this week,

1524
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 3: So don't play with me.

1525
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like he fucked the shit out of me.

1526
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 2: I think I've met my energetic dick before, but it's

1527
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:26,919
Speaker 2: not in the way that I thought you were describing.

1528
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 2: It's like when I'm already masturbating, I can literally feel

1529
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 2: it can start to feel like there is a dick

1530
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,600
Speaker 2: inside of me, like I'm actually I.

1531
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 3: Met more so like you are penetrating something like I

1532
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 3: always wonder what does it feel like for like a

1533
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:41,600
Speaker 3: man in fuck period, Like I'll never understand what I

1534
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 3: feel like in the inside, right, but these niggas do,

1535
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 3: which is crazy.

1536
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:46,520
Speaker 1: Unfortunately.

1537
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like fair, I'm fair, like gues wouldn't have

1538
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 3: a dick for one day just to see.

1539
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:51,680
Speaker 1: Like what's going on?

1540
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 2: I really want to dick for one day me too,

1541
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 2: or like I want to. It's like the other day

1542
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 2: we went on a hike and he just peeped so easily.

1543
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 2: He just like turned over. It was like I was like, what, okay, squat,

1544
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 2: make sure we don't piss on our leg like poke

1545
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 2: our ass out just far enough, yas I have a

1546
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:10,599
Speaker 2: posture hide like yeah, high hiding.

1547
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: He literally just like turned over, like yeah, I see

1548
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 1: her the other way.

1549
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 3: I see me pissing while I'm driving out of the street.

1550
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, motherfucker.

1551
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really want to know what that's and then.

1552
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 3: Also to go into like a tight, little squishy, wet hole.

1553
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't know what that feels like. Yeah, so

1554
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: imagine your klit Like I al always want to feel

1555
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 1: like what it feels like to get hard, Oh, all

1556
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden out of nowhere, like just like like nipples,

1557
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:32,680
Speaker 1: like hard in the middle of the night, hard like

1558
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: weird times we were not even thinking about sexy. Yeah,

1559
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: like why what's going on?

1560
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah that's crazy interesting. Yeah, those are my thoughts. And

1561
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:41,680
Speaker 3: that's what she meant by her internet a cock. She

1562
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 3: came into her internet a cock where she felt like

1563
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 3: she was in her masculine and she could sluingk some dick.

1564
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: Basically, great, we're just chicks with dicks. We want to

1565
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 1: know what to feel like.

1566
01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:57,679
Speaker 3: Wait, actually I do. This is how crazy my mind.

1567
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 3: In May thirteenth, twenty twenty four, it's very recent. Why

1568
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 3: can't we fly to the North Pole?

1569
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 1: I've wondered the same thing all the time. I've actually researched.

1570
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 3: It because there's a lot of different theories. When is

1571
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 3: that the world is flat and that it's extra extra

1572
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 3: terrain like extra terra When they say extra terrestrial, extraterrestrial.

1573
01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 3: It's like extra terrain. It is on the outliers. There's

1574
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 3: a man with the book and that like, there's different

1575
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 3: types of species that live outside of wherever the fuck

1576
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 3: we're at. Anyway, Should I google it too?

1577
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 1: Oh? I said.

1578
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 5: No.

1579
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 3: One can agree on shit, including unnecessary murder, but we

1580
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 3: can agree on not flying through the North Pole through

1581
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 3: the poles. That's all I got.

1582
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 2: Apparently it's a hard place to reach because of its

1583
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 2: location in the Arctic Ocean, covered by constantly shifting sea ice,

1584
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 2: making it difficult to establish permanent facilities or sustain long

1585
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 2: term human presence.

1586
01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 6: It's just what.

1587
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:00,720
Speaker 1: About the sky that's cracking up? Why can't I just

1588
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:01,320
Speaker 1: fly over it?

1589
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,719
Speaker 2: Even there's no land masks. Apparently, unlike the South Pole,

1590
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 2: they're on a content. The North Pole is located in.

1591
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 1: The middle of the Arctic Ocean, surrounded by sea ice,

1592
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 1: sea ice, constantly shifting ice, climate change safety expeditions.

1593
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 2: Why is it sounds like, oh, you could go on

1594
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 2: an expedition to the North Pole. They tip it there's

1595
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:20,520
Speaker 2: short term and require specialized equipment and expertise.

1596
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: It's no, they're lying. Should we go? Good? Mom's how far.

1597
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 3: Can you get They only gonna take you so far.

1598
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 1: There was a man.

1599
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 3: Actually, they said, look right here, you can't go that

1600
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 3: far though, there's a man who went past the point

1601
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 3: where you're supposed to go.

1602
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:36,600
Speaker 1: What about the Bermuda Triangle? Oh what about that? Motherfucker?

1603
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 3: You think that's the ancestors who got who jumped off

1604
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 3: their ships.

1605
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: That's what they say in Atlantic slave trade. I've heard

1606
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 1: that it's a portal fucking energy.

1607
01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 3: So it's a portal because they said, like, planes can't

1608
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 3: fly over that either, right, Also, they can't fly over

1609
01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 3: you know, f fifty one or whatever the fuck it is, Roswell,

1610
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 3: New York.

1611
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mex fifty four.

1612
01:11:58,040 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 4: What is it?

1613
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: Project? Too high?

1614
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 3: You gotta keep smoking? Sorry, sorry, you guess looks like, well,

1615
01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:05,800
Speaker 3: what's sorry?

1616
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:11,720
Speaker 1: It keeps going out? Lit, bitch, come on, keep me lit?

1617
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 2: Going on a dark hole of the Bermuda triangle. I'm

1618
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 2: i'm a I love looking up the sception. The Bermuda

1619
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 2: triangle is a hold on, let me light the pland

1620
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:29,599
Speaker 2: it's a portal. Wow, fire is my element and Walter

1621
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 2: h as a Sagittarius moon myself. The Bermuda triangle is

1622
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 2: a loosely defined region in North Atlantic Ocean roughly bounded

1623
01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 2: by Florida, Bermuda and Puerto Rico, known for stories of

1624
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:47,080
Speaker 2: ships and planes disappearing under mysterious circumstances. However, reputable source,

1625
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 2: I can't trust anything on fucking AI overview.

1626
01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 1: That's what this shit is called. However, reputable sources attribute

1627
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: these disappearances to a natural phenomena, human error and misinterpretations,

1628
01:12:57,439 --> 01:13:02,799
Speaker 1: rather than unusual activity lies human error over one area.

1629
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:07,559
Speaker 1: What is the natural phenomena? Right? What is that legend?

1630
01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 2: No, you can't find this. You gotta on the dark internet.

1631
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:12,400
Speaker 2: We gotta call that guy in Costa Rica.

1632
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 3: He knows what about mermaids?

1633
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: My raids are real, yeah, but they don't look like

1634
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 1: how you know. We portrayed them a homegirl.

1635
01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 3: Cam and she was like, hello, do you remember? Do

1636
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:26,040
Speaker 3: you believe in mermaids?

1637
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta get like.

1638
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:34,840
Speaker 3: Mira, what the fun are you talking about?

1639
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 1: For real?

1640
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 3: Do you believe the mermaids? She saw one apparently saw

1641
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 3: I found a phone in the oh what she what?

1642
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 1: She was like?

1643
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 3: I was on the beach. I just forgot We're all

1644
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 3: the beaches chilling.

1645
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 1: It was dark.

1646
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 3: I literally turned around this bitch came out of the

1647
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:51,240
Speaker 3: water soaking wet with a phone, like what the phone?

1648
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 3: Somebody had dropped her phone? She said, We didn't see

1649
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 3: her all of the suddenly of soaking. My bitch came

1650
01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 3: out of the water and was like, is this your phone?

1651
01:13:57,360 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 1: She talked, She spoke English, said is this your bitch?

1652
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 2: Mirror was on mushrooms something stronger?

1653
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: Do you believe? Hell? Do you believe? With my mates whatever?

1654
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: She gets smoking, I need that we've met a lot.

1655
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 3: I shout out to my college roommate who's from Philly,

1656
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 3: who we've been friends for eighteen years or however old.

1657
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 3: We are nineteen years and we have getting real high

1658
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 3: in our apartment and dorm and talking. She one time

1659
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 3: we had a dog named Kitty, and the dog was

1660
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:30,920
Speaker 3: playing and she was like, you think dogs get tired

1661
01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 3: of playing with the same toy, HI thought, I thought,

1662
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 3: She's like, it's the same toy.

1663
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:41,720
Speaker 1: Is naturally high thoughts. She's cracking me up.

1664
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 2: She's not wrong, though, but they'd be living. No, No,

1665
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 2: they don't mirror, because bitches don't get tired of playing

1666
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 2: with the same niggas. So I would say no, I

1667
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 2: would say that they are really happy with that toy

1668
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 2: as long.

1669
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: As it does what it needs to do. Sort of,

1670
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:53,920
Speaker 1: It's true.

1671
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 2: They don't care how smelly it is, how roughed up

1672
01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:58,840
Speaker 2: it is, how it used to be shiny, and now

1673
01:14:58,880 --> 01:14:59,639
Speaker 2: it's a piece of shit.

1674
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:02,559
Speaker 3: They used to be in the human era and now

1675
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 3: they're just happy with the one simple toy and simple life.

1676
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:09,840
Speaker 1: Maybe they haven't figured out actually simple life. Not those

1677
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:11,640
Speaker 1: being my high thoughts. Why can't we fly with the

1678
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: month ball, I'm not to add to those in this

1679
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,559
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five year Oh my god, I have a

1680
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 1: great idea. What is that? Maybe we need to have a.

1681
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 3: Like a small dinner tour of like like in different

1682
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 3: cities and ladies meet up and share their horries at dinner.

1683
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 3: I guess singles meet up for single moms or single

1684
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 3: women and you don't necessarily have to go meet guys,

1685
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 3: but just like congregate to just join tribes and also

1686
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 3: tell your horse stories and like the best one can

1687
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:43,559
Speaker 3: go on stage and do it. Oh yes, Like it's

1688
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 3: almost like almost like the vagina monologue. Yeah, like a

1689
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: poetry like oh yes, sister yes, and then he went

1690
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:50,760
Speaker 3: down on me.

1691
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh ae night of sexy stories. Yeah, kind

1692
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 2: of like a spoken word but sexy story. Oh my god,

1693
01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 2: Stasha would be there because she has sort of sexy

1694
01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 2: erotic great down. Okay, okay, here's our Hori from the discord.

1695
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 2: Had a fun night out with our friends. They are

1696
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:14,400
Speaker 2: also a couple, So this is a lesbian couple.

1697
01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 1: In our discord.

1698
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 2: One of the one of the one of the good notes.

1699
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 2: Had a fun night with our friends are They are

1700
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 2: also a couple. They had they had wanted to fuck

1701
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 2: us for so long, and years ago we let them.

1702
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 2: And years ago we let them after we took molly

1703
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:26,640
Speaker 2: at PrideFest.

1704
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 6: Ha ha.

1705
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 2: It's been a couple of years since then, and we

1706
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,719
Speaker 2: had a follow up conversation about it potentially happening again.

1707
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 2: Three females and one guy is in this scenario, which

1708
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 2: sounds fun, but the guy does have to deal with

1709
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:40,680
Speaker 2: all of our individual traumas and boundaries around men.

1710
01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: Lol. He does really well though.

1711
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 2: I Mean, at the end of the day, you get

1712
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: to fuck around with three women at once, so it's

1713
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 2: worth it. Anyway, We planned a date and got a

1714
01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:51,760
Speaker 2: babysitter for the night. We took some mushrooms and went

1715
01:16:51,800 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 2: to the techno night haha. Music wasn't the vibe, but

1716
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 2: it was still fun to be outside. After we went

1717
01:16:57,040 --> 01:17:00,160
Speaker 2: to their house and hung out literally talking till five am.

1718
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: Five am, girl, you took a minute to get to it.

1719
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 3: Women. It's women. The pussy women will talk themselves out

1720
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 3: of the three, so I'm so quick. Don't let the

1721
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 3: bitches talk to five am.

1722
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:09,599
Speaker 1: Okay.

1723
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 2: We tried to just fall asleep for a bit because

1724
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,080
Speaker 2: my wife had to work at eleven am.

1725
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 1: Lol.

1726
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:16,519
Speaker 2: Yeah right, she got her shift covered and we got

1727
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 2: right to it. We all had a big cuddle session

1728
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 2: in their bed. We're just laying naked for a while,

1729
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 2: trying to wind down and get back into our bodies

1730
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 2: from the mental mushroom trip.

1731
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 1: You took Molly in mushrooms, bitch, you were on it.

1732
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 2: I've done that. We each started candy flicking, girl, that's

1733
01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:31,800
Speaker 2: what I know. They still call it that.

1734
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't know kids are still called I don't think

1735
01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 1: that's that's what it's called, though, right, you gotta look

1736
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,759
Speaker 1: that up when you like cross fade, I'm sure comment

1737
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:40,519
Speaker 1: on the leave your comment. What do we call this ship?

1738
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 2: We each started kissing on our partners and feeling the

1739
01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 2: build up, slowly touching each other. So many hands everywhere?

1740
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, three, it's six hands.

1741
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,600
Speaker 2: Oh blank didn't get to come the first time we

1742
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,679
Speaker 2: all hooked up, so we made sure to make sure

1743
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 2: she came first.

1744
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: Oh I love this, This is really important, she said.

1745
01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: She said she did come the first. The first time

1746
01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 1: they hooked up years ago, she didn't come, so May

1747
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 1: made sure that she was number one. That's cheering.

1748
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,719
Speaker 2: I like that that she came first and more than once.

1749
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 1: Lol.

1750
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:12,839
Speaker 2: She said she felt like a queen bitch, So whatuld I?

1751
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 2: Her man started to fuck her and suck on her

1752
01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 2: toes while my wife was riding her face. Then they

1753
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 2: switched and my wife gave her head. Yeah that yeah,

1754
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 2: I know that way I mean too. Then they switched

1755
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 2: and my wife gave her head while her man kissed

1756
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 2: and sucked on her nipples. I was massaging her legs

1757
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 2: and her arms were different, and her arms with different

1758
01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:34,920
Speaker 2: pressure and scratches while all this was happening.

1759
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds great.

1760
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,559
Speaker 2: She and I share the need for some rough type

1761
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 2: of love to aid our dark shadow side ha ha ha.

1762
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 2: So a lot of choking her out while she was

1763
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 2: getting pleased. Then I gave her head while she got

1764
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:50,040
Speaker 2: soft while she soft kisses while she got soft kisses

1765
01:18:50,040 --> 01:18:52,639
Speaker 2: from my wife, her man watching and playing with her hair.

1766
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 2: She came at least three times and was so relaxed.

1767
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:59,519
Speaker 2: We all switched positions again and had the guy on

1768
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 2: his back, my wife riding his face, smothering him with

1769
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 2: ass while Jade sucked his dick and I sucked and

1770
01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:07,879
Speaker 2: licked on his balls. You could hear him building in pleasure,

1771
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 2: but he was, but he was in full submission mode.

1772
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 2: Three ladies holding him down and making sure he couldn't

1773
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:13,799
Speaker 2: move anywhere.

1774
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 1: But what was she doing? So she was sucking his balls?

1775
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 2: Whoa yeah, my wife was riding his face and her

1776
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 2: orgasm was building, so all of the rhythm kept was building,

1777
01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 2: so all of our rhythm kept with hers.

1778
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 1: Teamwork. Wow synergy, that's tanja. Know that this tunt is

1779
01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:30,880
Speaker 1: very tangar.

1780
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 2: They did a three way kiss with the tip of

1781
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 2: his dick while I cupped his balls and kissed my

1782
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:38,840
Speaker 2: wife so deep and took all that spit on his

1783
01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 2: ass and allowed my finger to just put some pressure

1784
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 2: on his asshole and tease it. While Jade deep throated

1785
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,880
Speaker 2: his dick. My wife started to come and he was

1786
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:48,559
Speaker 2: getting so worked How do you even focus?

1787
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:49,960
Speaker 1: How is everyone? How do you have? I don't even

1788
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 1: know how you have? I'm like, Jesus, how could you

1789
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 1: even focus? I couldn't write this whole story because I'd

1790
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 1: be so I've been lost in the sauce. My wife

1791
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 1: started to come and he was getting so worked up.

1792
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 1: He busted right before her and blank swallowed while while

1793
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 1: while I.

1794
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 2: Sat back and watched all that happen. The energy in

1795
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 2: the room after that build up was so beautiful, so

1796
01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 2: many bodies, so much energy, so many different ways to

1797
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:15,280
Speaker 2: give and feel pleasure. Absolutely amazing. Wonder what round three

1798
01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:15,920
Speaker 2: will be like?

1799
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, you came with the sauce. Yeah, dam that's

1800
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 1: a horri for real. That was a good one. Shout

1801
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 1: out to all of four of you. Shout out to y'all,

1802
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:31,600
Speaker 1: Shout out to the discord. Thank you. I know.

1803
01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 3: If you ever in a three way situation and you

1804
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 3: get the opportunity to ride some dick while also getting

1805
01:20:37,520 --> 01:20:43,600
Speaker 3: your ass a highly recommend, highly recommend, I highly recommend.

1806
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 2: So your your have your riding dick and then someone's

1807
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:48,599
Speaker 2: head is like underneath you.

1808
01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:51,559
Speaker 1: How do they like spread? Yeah? They have to spread

1809
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:52,519
Speaker 1: your butt open and.

1810
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:55,240
Speaker 3: You're probably a little bit spiked because you're on the dick.

1811
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: I see, Like, so his head is pretty close to

1812
01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 1: the guys, or it could be a girl. Oh yeah, true,

1813
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm only thinking of what I would want. I'm only

1814
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 1: thinking of the m M mean.

1815
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 3: But yeah, you have to you have to not be

1816
01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 3: all like about like, I'm so close to all that.

1817
01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:12,360
Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna be close to for fucking.

1818
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 3: Man or woman.

1819
01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:15,200
Speaker 1: You know you're in it, you don't, but you don't

1820
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: necessarily have to like the balls if you go a

1821
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 1: little higher than the asshole. No, that's an orgasm. That's

1822
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 1: a specific orgasm, almost as good as in the back. Hell, hell,

1823
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:28,719
Speaker 1: almost as good as what.

1824
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:34,759
Speaker 2: Hit in the back. Or maybe not because apparently it hurts. Okay, well,

1825
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 2: I'm high as hell.

1826
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 1: I am so high. I just I can't even finish

1827
01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 1: the rest of this good. I'm proud of us. Better

1828
01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 1: than what we were doing. This is.

1829
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 2: You know, backwards are only for real niggas anyway, right,

1830
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:46,759
Speaker 2: you can't be real like we real.

1831
01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,160
Speaker 1: Real nigga. Okay, backwards are for real niggas. And here

1832
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 1: we are.

1833
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh we didn't pull a card before we get

1834
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:54,920
Speaker 2: out of here.

1835
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 3: We don't do we have a affirmation?

1836
01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:03,599
Speaker 1: What's the card? Pulled? The card in my love? Tell

1837
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:04,320
Speaker 1: me a little bit more.

1838
01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:10,120
Speaker 3: One past the mom juice, past the mom juice like pastavasi, Hey,

1839
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 3: you go past the mom, past the mom juice?

1840
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:16,240
Speaker 1: What what.

1841
01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:21,880
Speaker 3: If you haven't eaten breakfast? To strint south y'all blong?

1842
01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 1: Are you feeling tipsy? A little tipsy? Tipsy? Okay, let

1843
01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:31,240
Speaker 1: me broll it. So the affirmation? What is the affirmation?

1844
01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Flower moms are good moms. Flower moms are

1845
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:45,879
Speaker 1: good moms. I like that. Flower moms are good moms.

1846
01:22:48,120 --> 01:23:00,240
Speaker 1: Trussflow and flower. You know what.

1847
01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 3: I have a trick, you guys. I just thought of

1848
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:04,400
Speaker 3: it today, so let's just call and tell me if

1849
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 3: it works. Like miss Cleo called me, I was thinking,

1850
01:23:07,560 --> 01:23:09,160
Speaker 3: I know I can control my phone with my thoughts

1851
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:10,840
Speaker 3: because I just told Eric and some shit. And five

1852
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 3: minutes later I had the meme and I said, why

1853
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:15,519
Speaker 3: did I just fucking visually see my bank?

1854
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:17,519
Speaker 1: You said it out loud, though, but it's even crazier you.

1855
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:19,519
Speaker 3: Don't say it out loud. Yeah, but it goes both ways.

1856
01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 3: I know it does, because it was very vague what

1857
01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 3: I said. Anyway, start visualizing your account with a lot

1858
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:30,080
Speaker 3: more money in it, just start depositing it with your mind.

1859
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 3: Like what if you're AI and you could control all

1860
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:35,719
Speaker 3: the electronics and you just deposited, you transferred some big money,

1861
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 3: you stalked and bond or whatever they do, and you

1862
01:23:38,200 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 3: just got just imagine it in your account.

1863
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,880
Speaker 1: Because I'm looking at my account. Whoa, you should try it?

1864
01:23:42,960 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 1: Kind of like a white lotus. I mean, I think

1865
01:23:45,360 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: it's worth the experiment, right, it hurt, can't hurt.

1866
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 3: Just deposit itchaching, depositing the enterching.

1867
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 2: I think if we all do this collectively, it'll be

1868
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 2: a lot more powerful and faster.

1869
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 1: So let's just agree just to we're gonna electronically transfer

1870
01:23:58,760 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 1: the money. Hey, let's do it right now. Hmm okay,

1871
01:24:06,280 --> 01:24:06,760
Speaker 1: I see that.

1872
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:09,760
Speaker 2: I'm about to open up my Chase Bank account on

1873
01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,000
Speaker 2: my phone, put logging in, logging in and putting in name,

1874
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:18,559
Speaker 2: ridiculous password, and you know, I'm waiting.

1875
01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:20,559
Speaker 1: I'm waiting it's loading because it always takes a long

1876
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 1: time to load. Oh, oh my god, what's the fuck? What? What?

1877
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 1: I canna ask questions? What the fuck? Yeah? That was

1878
01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 1: my mind deposit. Oh wow, I deserve it. I do.

1879
01:24:32,800 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 1: Oh wow, of course it's there.

1880
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 3: What am I going to do first? I'm so taking

1881
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,800
Speaker 3: care of I have nothing to worry about, Thank you God.

1882
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 1: I can rest lest me abundantly with in my finances.

1883
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:48,320
Speaker 1: Thank you giving me the finances to rest while I

1884
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:49,800
Speaker 1: make money. Oh my god, look at that. We even

1885
01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: have money in our saving.

1886
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just looked. Oh my, you're right,

1887
01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:56,160
Speaker 3: it's crazy, right, that's wild. I have a saving Wait,

1888
01:24:56,200 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 3: come on, Luna has the saving ship?

1889
01:24:58,920 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 1: Okay? Everyone has?

1890
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:05,719
Speaker 2: Is that health insurance? Is that another bank account? Okay,

1891
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 2: you get you get the gist.

1892
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 1: Okay, well, but yes, I think that we should try

1893
01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:11,400
Speaker 1: and do this exercise every day.

1894
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:17,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, deposit, make the deposit. Amen, Amen, pick a pick

1895
01:25:17,800 --> 01:25:19,799
Speaker 3: a card and call me when you get your deposit.

1896
01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: Thanks. I just need to know what har has worked.

1897
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:23,479
Speaker 1: That was for the lord.

1898
01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 6: Okay, I don't.

1899
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: Know what was reversed.

1900
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:54,040
Speaker 2: God, I'm suddenly getting allergies, so that good weed. Okay,

1901
01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 2: well reversed It means exhaustion, giving up and overwhelmed. Upright

1902
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 2: means challenge, competition, protection, and perseverance. After success of the

1903
01:26:08,200 --> 01:26:11,759
Speaker 2: Six of Wandes, you are now in an enviable position

1904
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:13,639
Speaker 2: and are being challenged by others who want to take

1905
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,800
Speaker 2: your place. You worked hard to get where you are,

1906
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:17,679
Speaker 2: but some people covet what you have and are prepared

1907
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:20,760
Speaker 2: to fight for it. While it's flattering, they strive. While

1908
01:26:20,760 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 2: it's flattering that they strive for your success, it also

1909
01:26:22,960 --> 01:26:26,000
Speaker 2: makes for a tense and competitive environment because you need

1910
01:26:26,040 --> 01:26:28,679
Speaker 2: to protect what you earned and must continually prove yourself.

1911
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:31,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes this is a threat or opposition may catch you

1912
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 2: by surprise and you feel inadequally prepared for such a battle.

1913
01:26:35,040 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 2: Seven of one's can also mean a challenge to the

1914
01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:41,000
Speaker 2: success of a creative project from an external source. Someone

1915
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,400
Speaker 2: or something may get in the way of you being

1916
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 2: able to pursue your goals and dreams. Now hold your ground,

1917
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 2: take a stand, and defend your position at all costs.

1918
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:51,640
Speaker 2: This will require courage and persistence, but you have the

1919
01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:54,840
Speaker 2: strength and determination to do it. Keep fighting for what

1920
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:57,240
Speaker 2: you believe in and confront those who may oppose or

1921
01:26:57,280 --> 01:27:02,720
Speaker 2: threaten you. That's upright, We did pull it reverse If

1922
01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:07,920
Speaker 2: we want to read it reverse, it's external pressure weighing

1923
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:10,120
Speaker 2: you down. Don't let this get to you.

1924
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 1: Reverse can also mean you think you are perpetually think

1925
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 1: others are perpetually criticizing you, your family. Our friends are

1926
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 1: questioning your choices, such as staying in a challenging relationship

1927
01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:20,720
Speaker 1: or an unfulfilling job, And you would prefer if they

1928
01:27:20,760 --> 01:27:21,960
Speaker 1: could just keep their mouths.

1929
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 3: Yet and let you be leave me alone.

1930
01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:24,840
Speaker 1: Actually, this might be right.

1931
01:27:26,720 --> 01:27:29,280
Speaker 3: I'm fine, Everything's fine.

1932
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 2: And seven of one's reverse serves as a reminder that

1933
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 2: you will not always win everyone over. There will still

1934
01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 2: be there will still be challenges in opposition to your

1935
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:39,120
Speaker 2: point of view, and you cannot keep everyone happy all

1936
01:27:39,160 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 2: the time. Thus it's time to draw your line in

1937
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:44,439
Speaker 2: the sand and say this is who I am and

1938
01:27:44,479 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 2: this is what I need right now. The reverse seven

1939
01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 2: and ones may affirm that you are overwhelmed by the

1940
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:53,000
Speaker 2: challenges and responsibilities in your life, finding yourself quickly snowed

1941
01:27:53,080 --> 01:27:55,200
Speaker 2: under and unable to look at the big picture. You

1942
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:57,519
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1976
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