WEBVTT - C. J. Sapong Part 1

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<v Speaker 1>This is cut to It with Steve Smith Senior at

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<v Speaker 1>production of The Black Effect and I Heart Radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Smith Senior and I'm John And this is cut

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Good do it, Good do it. That's getting

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<v Speaker 1>down to do it, Good do it. We asked the

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<v Speaker 1>questions you always want to know, but no one ever asked,

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<v Speaker 1>let's cut to it. You ain't heard about it, then

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to let you know. It's all Did you

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<v Speaker 1>just open a drink? What's going on? I'm excited for this.

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<v Speaker 1>One's gonna be a good one. So Dan Campbell, recently

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<v Speaker 1>hired as the Detroit Lions head coach. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>play the audio of his press conference as he got

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<v Speaker 1>introduced as a new head coach, And I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get your reactions to this, all right, And when you

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<v Speaker 1>punch us back, we're gonna smile at you. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you knock us down, we're gonna get up. And on

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<v Speaker 1>the way up, we're gonna buy the knee cap off,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and we're gonna stand up. And then it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take two more shots to knock us down, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And on the way up, we're gonna take your other

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<v Speaker 1>knee cap and we're gonna get up and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take three shots to get us down. And when

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<v Speaker 1>we do, we're gonna take another hunk out of you

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<v Speaker 1>before before long, we're there going to be the last

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<v Speaker 1>one standing. All right, that's gonna be the mentality. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your reaction to that? Man, Let's break it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's show, shall we? Yeah, let's go ahead. You start,

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<v Speaker 1>you go with, you go the line and then I

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, for me number one, I think, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think he's trying to do? You hear so many

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<v Speaker 1>of these coaches, man, so many people are so quick

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<v Speaker 1>to do all the raw roster right, like we want

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<v Speaker 1>to get people, we want to get people fired up.

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<v Speaker 1>And and as someone who's participating in sports, I get that. However, However,

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's participated this the way you said, however, um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is comical. It's funny, right, Like you're talking, You're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about getting punched in the face and biting knee

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<v Speaker 1>caps off. Like for me, this this isn't something where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh man, I can't wait to go and

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<v Speaker 1>play for this guy. Like this is not getting me

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<v Speaker 1>going or making me want to say, oh man, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to run through a wall for for this guy, personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting that well, he stated. The first time

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<v Speaker 1>we get knocked out, we get knocked down, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>know the this team is going to be built on.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna kick you in the teeth. You'll punch us back.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna smile at you. Okay, so berbatim. We get

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<v Speaker 1>hit in the face, we're gonna smile. That was line

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<v Speaker 1>number one, you know. So so you didn't got you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't got hit. We're gonna kick you in the teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that we're gonna hit around house. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>we were playing him. I didn't know this was m

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<v Speaker 1>M A. Connor McGregor. Just got knocked out. Anyone got

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<v Speaker 1>that name Robinson. So now so we're gonna we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kick you in the teeth. You punch us back. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's so, he's already telling you you're gonna you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take that ash up. So we're gonna kick, They're gonna punch,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna smile the hell I just got hit, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm showing a mouthful of didn't push a lot of folks.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never seen a smile come out of one

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<v Speaker 1>of them. So let's let's continue. When you knock us down,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get up, and on the way up, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna buy a knee cap off um street ball and

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<v Speaker 1>the m m A, m m a. That's illegal marks

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<v Speaker 1>and I I get it, and I gotta see your

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<v Speaker 1>technis shot records, because first of all, you got rabies.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, if you bite me, that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But you also smile when you got hit. So that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fresh off a smile. It ain't a lot of upstairs.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's continue to decode after he so bang, I

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<v Speaker 1>hit you in the mouth, I smile, you smile, Then

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<v Speaker 1>you round and I'm knock down by the way you bang.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you got hit. On my way up, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>bite your knee cap off, all right. Then we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to stand up and it's gonna take two more shots

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<v Speaker 1>to knockers dance. So now you hit me twice, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you got hit my full time this round hit yea

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<v Speaker 1>in totality, I've been hit. So's he coach of the

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<v Speaker 1>Detroit Lions. Okay, look is maybe he's trying to play

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<v Speaker 1>into the narrative of Detroit's a tough town city. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think people that need go around. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that getting punched in their face, and they definitely ain't

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<v Speaker 1>I know in Detroit they put you back, they'll rob

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<v Speaker 1>you too. You ain't gonna smile getting wrong. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>get your wallet and then to finish up. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the finish up he said, And on the way up,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna take your other kneecap and then we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get up. And it's gonna take three shots to get

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<v Speaker 1>his down. So now it's got punched in my face

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<v Speaker 1>three times on top of the previous Can I can

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<v Speaker 1>I can I jump in? Can I be honest and

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<v Speaker 1>explain and maybe say why he's trying to emphasize a

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<v Speaker 1>mentality that they have not been for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>Detroit tough. But coach Campbell, h if you are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to tell men, you're recruiting them to become to come

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<v Speaker 1>to the Detroit lines, and you are advertising that we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get our ass kicked, but we're not gonna we're

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<v Speaker 1>to go down fight. It's gonna be the last one standing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I think of that that kind of coaching,

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<v Speaker 1>that that that type of rob Rock speech you big dummy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes coming that? Sorry, Yes, team with that? Come on man,

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<v Speaker 1>coach Dan cam Where you are a recipient of the

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<v Speaker 1>cut to It podcast Big Dummy Awards? Oh yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>know why because he is trying to use words and

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<v Speaker 1>he is everybody knows Detroit of his notorious for not

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<v Speaker 1>really doing what they're supposed to do. That city is

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<v Speaker 1>a that city is a great city. They rally around

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<v Speaker 1>their sports, blue collar city, bue collar. But to come

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<v Speaker 1>in and your you know, fresh off Yo Joseph a

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<v Speaker 1>bank suit. Oh yeah, my chill factors real load to day,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming in hot. There's a fastball right down to centence. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And they go and they got a COVID nineteen sale too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He bought all of them, all six of them, fresh

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<v Speaker 1>off the rack, fresh Taylor just yep. Yeah, his uncle

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<v Speaker 1>head to the time and then right he had some

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<v Speaker 1>busted browns. But then you do that and then he's

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<v Speaker 1>like you could tell he's just gass grasp. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he got in that deep end and he didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to swim back. After He's like, all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta we're gonna get punched in the mouth. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get knocked down, I'm a I'm anna bite. I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>show my tough and so we're gonna bite them back

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<v Speaker 1>to nobody. I'm gonna get back up. So your point,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's gonna happen. You want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>resiliency like I get it. So after that, though, after that,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the next storyline. We're gonna let Matthew Stafford m

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<v Speaker 1>hmm go to a new team. Right, What kind of

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<v Speaker 1>coach was coach Daniel Um? What kind of coach was he?

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<v Speaker 1>What was he coaching prior to looking up? Let's looking up? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you know here's I hate to say it

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<v Speaker 1>this way. I'll probably be at a training camp or

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<v Speaker 1>during a game. Don't set your team up for failure

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<v Speaker 1>before you on your first day at the job. We've

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<v Speaker 1>seen that before, uh four years ago, when somebody got

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<v Speaker 1>a job and they started making outlanded statements on the

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<v Speaker 1>first day of the job. Get your feet wet, coach,

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<v Speaker 1>understand the landscape of the I understand he knows the

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<v Speaker 1>landscape of the city, but understand the landscape of your team.

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<v Speaker 1>You make all those statements, and then your quarterback, who's

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<v Speaker 1>the future, who can drop a dime pretty much anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>on the field with a broken hand to school leading

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<v Speaker 1>in passing any and you come out there. You could

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<v Speaker 1>be tough all you want, but if you don't win,

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<v Speaker 1>the speeches fall on deaf ears. Yep, because Cam, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's I think it's remarkable what you're attempting to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're coaching better. Be better than your weak ass

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<v Speaker 1>speeches because you're gonna catch mold in them. A coke

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<v Speaker 1>and a smile, you're gonna catch. You're gonna be the

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<v Speaker 1>next guy in Detroit and out of Detroit. So coach

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<v Speaker 1>the next press conference you have. I'm not can you

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<v Speaker 1>You're a big dumb just smiling wave, smiling wave. Who

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<v Speaker 1>we got? We got c J Sapong. It's a special

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<v Speaker 1>two part episode. I like c J. I learned, I

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<v Speaker 1>learned a lot. It was a great opportunity to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him because, um, you know, I love to travel.

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<v Speaker 1>But he he, he gave us a part of his life.

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<v Speaker 1>He gave us some things that are not national geographics.

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<v Speaker 1>They aren't on the Discovery Channel, to Travel channel down

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<v Speaker 1>and books there are. It's about the real life history

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<v Speaker 1>of c J's history. And you may not like what

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<v Speaker 1>you hear. You may not agree with it, but one

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<v Speaker 1>thing you have you can't this credit is that's his

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<v Speaker 1>story and that's his and that's what he experienced that

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<v Speaker 1>his family has experience. And I and I love the

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<v Speaker 1>We had the opportunity to go down c J's story,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope you enjoy it's too part um. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked about a lot of different things, but one thing

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<v Speaker 1>you can't overlook is what c J and who says

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<v Speaker 1>c J is and how his family got here. So

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you enjoy it. Let's go to it. The

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<v Speaker 1>first thing we're gonna get into is our get iced

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<v Speaker 1>up segments. All right, you ready, let's go. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>childish things do you still do as adult? I've continue

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<v Speaker 1>to record myself dancing like TikTok. Will you just do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Just to be just doing it for myself, just random? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well interesting, Yeah, I know I've seen a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>you. You You gotta make sure that flash on me. And huh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I do it in the morning when the

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<v Speaker 1>sun's coming up, just because hey, hey, we got filters

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<v Speaker 1>for that now. I mean, we don't know that we're

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<v Speaker 1>light skins. I mean, we're all right, y'all. Y'all be

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<v Speaker 1>squitting like the flashes on the now you trying to

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<v Speaker 1>go there. Everybody ain't gotta make the drake pace, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Uh do you survive the apocalypse? Uh? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>What would your job be? I would be, uh a

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<v Speaker 1>boxanists because I'm into the agriculture and all that, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I would make sure I know what that

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<v Speaker 1>is to me. So what you said, that's what we'll

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<v Speaker 1>just say. We'll just call it plants science. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go, come up us with the school to

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<v Speaker 1>play sports the school, and then happened to learn and

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<v Speaker 1>happen to play sports school. Yeah yeah, I feel that.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel that plants science. Man, that's my ship and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a skill that I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even in this time, our community, if we if we

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<v Speaker 1>are able to stay you know, true to that, we

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<v Speaker 1>won't be as a lying on you know, all these

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<v Speaker 1>other establishments, if you will. Yeah, I like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that. All right, this is the last one.

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<v Speaker 1>What set of items could you buy that would make

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<v Speaker 1>the cashier the most uncomfortable? You know, I got I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Steve, this is in your wheelhouse, but mostly

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<v Speaker 1>for me. It's so it's some type of foot care products.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, playing soccer, my feet get kind of beat up,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know I'll be having the heel bomb and

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<v Speaker 1>anti fungals. You know, they kind of look at me

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<v Speaker 1>a little little sideways. But you know is what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>always great until when I used to play, until you

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<v Speaker 1>start back playing and then that, yeah, well come back

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<v Speaker 1>in and take your socks off and everybody's looking around.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't wear sandals nowhere? You look like you got ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>Told well, I'm not gonna lie. That's the genetics. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I got. I'm glad of it. My family's on here.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we our feet are just built for terrain,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we we feilt. We built a traverse lands

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<v Speaker 1>and that's not a bad thing. You know, I've embraced it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time in my life first land feet. Yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>so there's so many places I can go right there

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<v Speaker 1>culturally relevant. Give me a trouble, So tell me what's

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<v Speaker 1>your full name and what does it mean? Okay, my

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<v Speaker 1>full name Charles, Nana na Palm and yeah, yeah, so Charles,

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<v Speaker 1>that one Charles, Charles, we wrote down. I got Charles.

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<v Speaker 1>What was after that I got too, because Nana is

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<v Speaker 1>a nickname. Yeah yeah, yeah Nana, Yeah nah, I get

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<v Speaker 1>that one. That ship. But now here's where I get tricked.

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<v Speaker 1>Quab Na quab Now that's k w A b e

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<v Speaker 1>n A and that's um well I have not yet

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<v Speaker 1>and uh and then obviously so Pong at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>um the non clap Na. Those those are my middle

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<v Speaker 1>names um in my culture, my Ghanaian culture, the tribe

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<v Speaker 1>that my family is a part of. You you put

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<v Speaker 1>Nana in front of a name when it's the first born,

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<v Speaker 1>and then quab Na again with my tribe, we have

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<v Speaker 1>a specific set of names dedicated to each day that

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<v Speaker 1>has its own element of the earth that it signifies

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<v Speaker 1>as well. And that's where quap n comes in. Born

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<v Speaker 1>on a Tuesday, child of the earth. Um. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Spong is my my father's last name. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>out of the earth. Yes, you're talking about you a

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<v Speaker 1>study of plants? Is that intertwined with with your tribe

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<v Speaker 1>and what your what your heritage? You know? I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say it's it's more of a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a genetic DNA thing that kind of just manifested itself

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<v Speaker 1>throughout my life because I never was into plants when

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<v Speaker 1>I was younger, I hated vegetables. You know. Um, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>our culture really believes that the name that you're given

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<v Speaker 1>has an effect on who you who you become. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's pretty interesting. I think, well, since you you

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<v Speaker 1>went there in softball, pitch that for a minute, we

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and hit that thing out of the park.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you from in the place you call home?

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<v Speaker 1>That's Ghana in West Africa. I know you guys are familiar,

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<v Speaker 1>might not be, but Africa. I am familiar with Ghana.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my best friends is a guy man and

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<v Speaker 1>he is always bothering something. See that. Yeah, you learned that.

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<v Speaker 1>You learned that early, especially if you about that. I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up. So I took a missions trip, my first

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<v Speaker 1>time ever going out of country UM two thousand and

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<v Speaker 1>eight and I went. I went with a group of

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<v Speaker 1>guys and we went to uh Togo Lo May and

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<v Speaker 1>then we went to um Nigeria. And you know where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going here? Because Togo is a French colony, there

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<v Speaker 1>is an English colony. Where do we have to stop

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<v Speaker 1>to go? Two? Because we're on the budget obviously a

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<v Speaker 1>mission trip, so we had to stop in Ghana. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>and we spent a few hours in Ghana and it

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<v Speaker 1>was really cool, um to see that because I saw

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<v Speaker 1>one you know, I got to see the homeland and

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<v Speaker 1>one of my best friends who we met ninth grade.

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<v Speaker 1>We're still friends to this day, right to this day.

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<v Speaker 1>But one but he also got me a Beckham jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>But it cost me about five of my own jersey

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<v Speaker 1>just for that one Beckham jersey. Because I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>he bawled. He bartered one jersey for me and several

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<v Speaker 1>jerseys for himself and other guys. That's how it works, bro. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I even got messages from cousins left it right to

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<v Speaker 1>this day. Man. You know, it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>My my family, I guess kind of going back to

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<v Speaker 1>um you know the origin story. I have a large,

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<v Speaker 1>large Arte family. My grandfather was the chief of his

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<v Speaker 1>tribe UM and you know, if you go back hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of years Africa rather you know, it wasn't countries, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was ribes and as the Europeans came into Africa infiltrated,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the tribes dispersed. But my my lineage

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<v Speaker 1>is has ties to be a con tribe, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>they believe in you know, expanding or spreading the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>far and wide. Um yeah, exactly exactly. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>what I had thirty three uncles and aunts. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>got many, many, many a cousin's man. I went wild. Story. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I when I went to Ghana when I was twenty one.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I went out there. I'm out out in

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<v Speaker 1>the club with about five of my cousins. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dancing, feeling good out there. You can just carry

0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:57.280
<v Speaker 1>the bottles all around the club. And I see a chick,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm like, oh, talking to my cousin, Like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>who is that? Like, I'm trying to see what's up? Man?

0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:08.600
<v Speaker 1>It's just like, yo, chill, that's your cousin. Damn all right.

0:20:09.400 --> 0:20:18.600
<v Speaker 1>It's like that. They got cousins South Carolinas. And we

0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:22.000
<v Speaker 1>have to take a break and morning anything. We gotta

0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:29.800
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0:21:03.720 --> 0:21:05.720
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm here for, a brother cut to a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast dot com. I remember that was one of the

0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:13.680
<v Speaker 1>startling things is getting off the airport. Um, back, this

0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:17.080
<v Speaker 1>is this is back. Then you get off the airport

0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:21.959
<v Speaker 1>and they tell you like sex trafficking, all that stuff.

0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:24.680
<v Speaker 1>They do not play its signs up there. And then

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<v Speaker 1>that was the first time I really realized how dangerous

0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:33.439
<v Speaker 1>it was. Dud's had a K forty seven's And then

0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:35.199
<v Speaker 1>you get off the airport and and this is a

0:21:35.200 --> 0:21:38.000
<v Speaker 1>small airport, so you get off like literally the trmac

0:21:38.160 --> 0:21:41.240
<v Speaker 1>right there. You get off and you walk in and

0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:44.160
<v Speaker 1>they and they also tried to get me to flying out.

0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:47.679
<v Speaker 1>All they tried to get me. They had me go

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<v Speaker 1>through a metal detector, but the metal detector was unplugged,

0:21:54.600 --> 0:21:59.800
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, where's the American money. He was

0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:03.040
<v Speaker 1>olden my passport and he said he wasn't giving me

0:22:03.119 --> 0:22:07.359
<v Speaker 1>my passport. Man. I snatched my passport because I was

0:22:07.359 --> 0:22:09.440
<v Speaker 1>on my way out right, and I was on the

0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:12.160
<v Speaker 1>I was on the road for like almost two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>I was ready to get home. Right. You had we

0:22:15.080 --> 0:22:18.480
<v Speaker 1>had to. This is two thousand seven or eight, so

0:22:18.560 --> 0:22:21.359
<v Speaker 1>you had the constant rolling blackouts at that time. I

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<v Speaker 1>had to. I had a satellite phone because international m

0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:29.520
<v Speaker 1>plans weren't there, and I just was done. I was

0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:33.240
<v Speaker 1>done taking a shower with a bucket. Right. I stayed

0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:39.160
<v Speaker 1>because we was on the mission Star accommodations. I wasn't

0:22:39.160 --> 0:22:42.720
<v Speaker 1>have no Star accommodations. Right. We had one time, what

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<v Speaker 1>we had for breakfast one egg baguettes. This was in Togo,

0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:52.960
<v Speaker 1>and t I had. I didn't even eat my toes.

0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:55.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even eat my egg. I gave you somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just hate a backget and I had unlimited team.

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<v Speaker 1>It was tough. And that's what I really noticed, and

0:23:04.000 --> 0:23:07.480
<v Speaker 1>really realized how big the world is and how small

0:23:07.520 --> 0:23:13.080
<v Speaker 1>we are. But I also noticed that if America didn't

0:23:13.119 --> 0:23:18.680
<v Speaker 1>have as much financial influence, bro, we wouldn't be here

0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:26.240
<v Speaker 1>because there's so many there's so many more established, not

0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:30.320
<v Speaker 1>even well off, but grimeer countries that are just trying

0:23:30.359 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>to stay afloat, and we don't even realize how lucky

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:36.880
<v Speaker 1>we have it here and we got it. We get

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<v Speaker 1>a twisted We complained about being in line at a

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<v Speaker 1>drive through, right, I mean, there's that's a hot button

0:23:44.600 --> 0:23:47.120
<v Speaker 1>take right now. It is privileged on either side. But yeah,

0:23:47.119 --> 0:23:50.439
<v Speaker 1>we we we do our own privileges that that we

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:52.600
<v Speaker 1>live in right now. So that's that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So you talked about your try, what is it? What

0:23:57.720 --> 0:24:01.959
<v Speaker 1>take us through? What a trial? My mentality is for

0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:08.560
<v Speaker 1>family because I hate the stereotype. But watching television, right,

0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and I had to see it for myself, watching television,

0:24:10.680 --> 0:24:14.679
<v Speaker 1>hearing about Africa, hearing about stuff. If you're only understanding

0:24:14.960 --> 0:24:18.639
<v Speaker 1>is when they play Shakazoolu every year in the States.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your perspective of of Africa? Sure? Sure, your dumbass

0:24:25.200 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 1>meter is up there. It's it's it's about on the

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<v Speaker 1>scale of one through five. Yeah, that's not really what

0:24:32.560 --> 0:24:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Africa is about or what stands for. How it even

0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 1>stands on his own two ft um with each country. Yeah, exactly,

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm glad that you said that because it's a

0:24:47.800 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 1>that is a offshoot of the serious programming that we

0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 1>as black people have gone through growing up in this country.

0:24:56.600 --> 0:24:59.879
<v Speaker 1>But I'll save that for maybe later in this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I talk about a tribe, right, it's better

0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:08.400
<v Speaker 1>to envision, uh, your envisioned your neighborhood growing up, right.

0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 1>You had you know, old Uncle Timmy down the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he was drinking a lot, but you know he

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:18.480
<v Speaker 1>always gave you a nice little bit of insight. You

0:25:18.560 --> 0:25:21.200
<v Speaker 1>had your little homies that you know, you knew where

0:25:21.200 --> 0:25:22.919
<v Speaker 1>they live. You rode your bikes there. You know, you

0:25:22.960 --> 0:25:27.120
<v Speaker 1>ain't calling nobody, you ain't texting nobody. It's a tribe.

0:25:27.200 --> 0:25:32.879
<v Speaker 1>A tribe is a communal group that had it dictates

0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 1>its own I won't say laws, but they each have

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:40.960
<v Speaker 1>their roles within that tribe and it's and it's set

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:45.919
<v Speaker 1>up so that that tribe, that tribe's capacity grows with

0:25:46.080 --> 0:25:50.639
<v Speaker 1>every individual. Okay, this person does the sewing, this person

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:55.359
<v Speaker 1>grows the food, this person does the exports with other tribes,

0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:59.399
<v Speaker 1>and you know, dealing with treaties to ensure again that

0:25:59.480 --> 0:26:03.119
<v Speaker 1>the capath city of their community continues to expand with

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:07.760
<v Speaker 1>every individual. Now that the issue with that had happened

0:26:07.800 --> 0:26:10.240
<v Speaker 1>in Africa is that when the white man came in,

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 1>the white man came in, and you know, at first

0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:16.320
<v Speaker 1>obviously it's a land that they didn't know, so they

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:20.959
<v Speaker 1>kind of you know, assimilated into the culture. They acted

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>like they wanted to learn. They brought, you know, the

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:27.439
<v Speaker 1>different things from Europe that Africans didn't have, and slowly

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:31.320
<v Speaker 1>but surely we got away from our own self sufficiency.

0:26:31.640 --> 0:26:35.639
<v Speaker 1>So an interesting story with my particular tribe, with my grandfather,

0:26:36.400 --> 0:26:41.119
<v Speaker 1>he had a situation where the industrial Revolution was taken

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>over Europe and he essentially got exposed to the white man,

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, with industrial parts, and he moved from agriculture

0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:55.720
<v Speaker 1>base with you know, with rice grains and self sufficiency

0:26:55.800 --> 0:27:01.840
<v Speaker 1>to straight car parts, jet engines, like big factory type items.

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>And while that actually helped us um as a tribe,

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:12.160
<v Speaker 1>as a family, uh, grow in our financial potential, like

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:14.159
<v Speaker 1>I said, it ripped us away from the things that

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 1>we had known for generations and down the road, it

0:27:17.840 --> 0:27:22.000
<v Speaker 1>actually ended up causing a lot of risks because you know,

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>as that British pounds started going in circulation as opposed

0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 1>to which you said, the old barter system, now degree

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 1>takes over, you know, and it's it's a it's a

0:27:34.160 --> 0:27:38.560
<v Speaker 1>really crazy story. How um you know, again, the programming

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 1>of the white man kind of infiltrated my family's tribe

0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 1>and to this day we still have to deal with,

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:49.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, people going on land that we own and

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:54.760
<v Speaker 1>just European companies just building like premium homes. And you know,

0:27:54.920 --> 0:27:57.359
<v Speaker 1>it's not like out here where you can you know,

0:27:57.800 --> 0:28:01.880
<v Speaker 1>go to court or you know sense order like out there,

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like, yeah, if you want this, you better come

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:06.239
<v Speaker 1>and take it. And you know that leads to a

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:09.159
<v Speaker 1>lot of a lot of stuff. So do you go back?

0:28:09.720 --> 0:28:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Um any um, Yeah, I was just back in January.

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:16.239
<v Speaker 1>How is your family's tribe and laying and all that

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:20.400
<v Speaker 1>stuff right now? Yeah, so based off of and this

0:28:20.440 --> 0:28:24.119
<v Speaker 1>is interesting how it turned out. So because my grandfather

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:29.360
<v Speaker 1>made that move to industrialize, he actually ensured longevity within

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:33.159
<v Speaker 1>certain aspects of our family. Right, Like I said, he

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:37.960
<v Speaker 1>had thirty three kids, he had five wives. So the order,

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 1>the hierarchical order, yeah right, um. The first you know,

0:28:45.000 --> 0:28:50.920
<v Speaker 1>my my mother's family was lower on the uh in

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 1>terms of the chain of hierarchical order. Especially what happened

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 1>was the first borns, the second borns from the other

0:28:57.560 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>mothers ended up just through green need losing everything. Whereas

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 1>our family, because it was little by little by, little

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 1>by little was very frugal, kind of kept, you know,

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 1>the little bit of land here, the little lot there,

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.240
<v Speaker 1>the little house there. And we're able to slowly but

0:29:14.320 --> 0:29:17.240
<v Speaker 1>surely build up to the point where now, man, when

0:29:17.240 --> 0:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I go back, like we were living good. We're in

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>the parts of Africa that you're not going to see

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>on TV. You know, we we still have family that

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:29.560
<v Speaker 1>chooses to live you know, more simple life, that's you know,

0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 1>more in the village. And you know, it was cool

0:29:32.520 --> 0:29:34.920
<v Speaker 1>for me to be able to just go back and

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:38.280
<v Speaker 1>forth from like literally living better than I live here

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:41.840
<v Speaker 1>in America to having to drive two hours up the mountain.

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:45.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know, uh hear the story is about walking

0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 1>three miles just to get water for the day. You know. So,

0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 1>oh it's real, bro, you know walk in three hours too,

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:03.920
<v Speaker 1>It's real. You know, it is so real. And yeah, man,

0:30:03.960 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's kids too. You know, it's five six year

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>olds that are that are doing this, and but you

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 1>know it's wild to me. It brings perspective because they're

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:14.520
<v Speaker 1>doing it with a smile on their face. Man. You know,

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:17.400
<v Speaker 1>you spend the first five hours of your day just

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 1>to uh go to and from water and then just

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 1>to get water, bros. And I mean that's for that's

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 1>water for bathing, that's water for cooking, that's water to

0:30:29.440 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 1>drink it. And I mean these kids still do it

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>with a smile on their face. And you know, there,

0:30:35.200 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 1>I would argue that there's still happier than people that

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I know. I mean, I play soccer with dudes. I

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:44.120
<v Speaker 1>got money for days. But you know they walk in

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:47.000
<v Speaker 1>in the morning and you sense from their energy like

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 1>damn dog, you're not happy like it. It's it's wild

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:56.720
<v Speaker 1>really growing up and being exposed to your trying. How

0:30:56.760 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>does that How has that impacted you? Package you in shape?

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 1>How you see the world today? That's a great question, bro,

0:31:06.480 --> 0:31:10.280
<v Speaker 1>That's literally the reason I am am. But you just

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 1>got us a real rating. But here's what I love.

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>Like the fact that you are talking about tribal We

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:23.720
<v Speaker 1>do a segment called DP three. I've changed my three

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 1>questions now what you said, because I'm eating up everything

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 1>that you're talking about culture, You're talking about the stuff

0:31:32.880 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 1>just real talking in when I when I'm I'm just

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you, I love to travel and I love

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 1>the world. Right, And this is a story that nobody

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 1>really is her. I remember, I grew up in l A. Um,

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 1>I grew up poor, and my grandma and grandpa built

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>into me, and growing up in in l A, they

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 1>always you know, we grew up. I grew up in

0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>l A where a time where black and brown people

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 1>were very dominant and living in in poverty. Black or

0:32:02.000 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>brown people are neck to next, shoulder to shoulder right

0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>in the in l A. And my grandpa used to

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>always say, if you will come to this country, you

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:15.000
<v Speaker 1>needed to speak our language. That was his stance on

0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>having some of the bilingual literature on buses on billboards

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>in our community. And I never really understood that. And

0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 1>then on the way back to the States, we stopped

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:34.560
<v Speaker 1>in Paris because we went through Togo, and so we

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 1>stopped in Paris, and at that time I didn't really

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:39.440
<v Speaker 1>know travel. I went through like a month process again

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 1>my passport, and I remember sitting there and so I

0:32:43.480 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 1>stopped in Paris and I want to butt in and

0:32:45.840 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>and um, no one speaking English, and bro, my Grandpa's

0:32:50.880 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 1>words rang in my head. If you're gonna be in

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:57.680
<v Speaker 1>our country, you gotta speak our language. And I it

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 1>reminded me how small my I was and how I

0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't go anywhere, and so I was in and being

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 1>a light skin dude, I had a lot of people

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:12.480
<v Speaker 1>talking to me because they thought I was mixed, and

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 1>so they were talking French. Tell me brothers still figuring

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:21.560
<v Speaker 1>out English? Right, I was, and I started to and

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>my wife took French, so she kind of was like, hey, baby,

0:33:24.080 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>she recorded some words just the safe for me and

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I I as soon as they realized, just off the

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:35.960
<v Speaker 1>respect if you attempt to speak their language. Bro, this

0:33:36.040 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 1>is a part of pissed me off anymore. They speak

0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 1>five languages and they busted the English, and I'm looking

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 1>at them with them evil eyes like you right. But

0:33:48.160 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 1>one of the cool things is I was hearing my

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:55.800
<v Speaker 1>grandpa talk about other folks, but he was talking about me. H.

0:33:56.600 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>He gave me that at that time, and it was

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.160
<v Speaker 1>really cool. And that's when I really started to And

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I love traveling now and with this virus. But when

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:10.600
<v Speaker 1>we start back traveling, a buckle up, Buttercup, because I'm

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:16.120
<v Speaker 1>getting my mouths back. I want to see everything because

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know when the next time we will not

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:21.359
<v Speaker 1>be able. And so what I'm trying to say is, bro,

0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:27.799
<v Speaker 1>you're allowing me to travel right now into Africa and

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 1>all these different parts. So for me, I'm about it.

0:34:30.680 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I want to know what the tribe like was? What

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:38.319
<v Speaker 1>is who is c J the soccer player that is

0:34:38.360 --> 0:34:43.440
<v Speaker 1>now infiltrated to cut to a podcast? Give us, give

0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:47.800
<v Speaker 1>us an opportunity, brother, take us on the Discovery Channel

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:53.720
<v Speaker 1>hood version of really what it's like to play soccer?

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 1>But also what this man who's experience and from a

0:34:58.760 --> 0:35:04.200
<v Speaker 1>tribe of thirty three plus? Now, what what what do

0:35:04.280 --> 0:35:07.840
<v Speaker 1>you bring to the table other than a nice jersey

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 1>and a soccer ball and some grass and the net

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>right yellow and yellow and red cars. Man, I don't

0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how many goals you make. I want

0:35:16.120 --> 0:35:17.800
<v Speaker 1>to know about this man. I want to know about

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:22.240
<v Speaker 1>this tribe and what what being from having a parents

0:35:22.360 --> 0:35:24.320
<v Speaker 1>that you had, having a name that you had, and

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:27.879
<v Speaker 1>coming from the tribe that you've come from. You're gonna

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:31.440
<v Speaker 1>give us today that can really speak to these young

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 1>men and women that are sitting here going I'm not

0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>from Ghana, I'm not from Togo, but I'm from here

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 1>and I need to know can I make it? That's

0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:44.680
<v Speaker 1>an amazing question, and I'm very glad that you asked

0:35:44.680 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that because this is the ship that people need to

0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:49.680
<v Speaker 1>hear these days. Man, you know going, I'm gonna I'm

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:57.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna start backwards, right you buck? I put my seatbelt on.

0:35:58.120 --> 0:36:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah. So so you are just talked about, you know,

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:05.600
<v Speaker 1>the indoctrination if you will, that you went through with

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 1>your grandfather, you know, saying hey, if you don't be here,

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you need to speak English. I actually hear that a

0:36:10.560 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 1>lot from people you know from here. Uh, friends, you know, acquaintances,

0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 1>what have you. Um. But what I recognized through my

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>African heritage one, I didn't get to visit Africa. I

0:36:25.480 --> 0:36:28.200
<v Speaker 1>visited Africa when out six, but I didn't remember much.

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:32.080
<v Speaker 1>It felt like it was poor land, right. It just

0:36:32.120 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>seemed it was so different than America, and I I

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>was very resistant to it. Um. But definitely what I

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 1>realized is here, the biggest thing that leads us to success,

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:51.799
<v Speaker 1>I believe is perspective. I got perspective through the tribal

0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:56.719
<v Speaker 1>culture that, even though I didn't grow up in in Ghana,

0:36:57.160 --> 0:37:00.399
<v Speaker 1>was in my household. Right. So out of those three

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 1>kids my mother's mom had a leaven of them, eight

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:06.880
<v Speaker 1>of them ended up within a thirty mile radius in

0:37:07.040 --> 0:37:11.239
<v Speaker 1>fucking Northern Virginia. So I mean whether when my mom

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:13.719
<v Speaker 1>was at work and you know, it's my aunt that's

0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:17.120
<v Speaker 1>that's watching me, or then it's my cousin that's watching me.

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:21.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know an African culture, well Ghandian culture, it

0:37:21.480 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 1>don't matter who that that ken is to you, they

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 1>can beat you, right, So mentality, that's that's South Carolina too.

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>You know you're missing a key part. How did y'all

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:41.399
<v Speaker 1>pick Ghana to Virginia like that? You? I mean, how

0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:43.560
<v Speaker 1>do you pick that? Because I have a friend here

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 1>who does some stuff and you might have heard on

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:50.920
<v Speaker 1>his name, manny a homemade. He does Samaritans uh, Samaritan's

0:37:50.960 --> 0:37:55.239
<v Speaker 1>feet and a wash feet, washed children's feet. They serve God.

0:37:56.080 --> 0:38:00.840
<v Speaker 1>And he got a scholarship two I believe South Dakota

0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>State or North Dakota and South Dakota. South Dakota. He

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>got a basketball scholarship off a freaking brochure. He had

0:38:11.320 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 1>never been to South Dakota. So when he that was

0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>the first time he saw snow. So he got off

0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 1>the plane and I'm trying to figure and now he

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:21.120
<v Speaker 1>lives in North Carolina, so I know his story, but

0:38:21.239 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>how do you how are you guys picking Ghana to

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Virginia because that seems there's a there's a lot of

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:35.560
<v Speaker 1>land between Ghana and Virginia. Oh my my mother one,

0:38:35.640 --> 0:38:38.680
<v Speaker 1>like I was saying, so one of eight, that's all

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:43.839
<v Speaker 1>sisters too. My mother actually came to Virginia because two

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:48.239
<v Speaker 1>of her sisters had come to Virginia simply because it

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>was close to d C. They literally Ghana was looking

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:54.520
<v Speaker 1>at him, Matt and was like, oh, yeah, that's the capital.

0:38:54.760 --> 0:38:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we want to go close to there. So

0:38:57.600 --> 0:39:01.520
<v Speaker 1>but my mom's two older sisters came came to northern

0:39:01.560 --> 0:39:05.479
<v Speaker 1>Virginia about twenty minutes outside d C. Literally sent her

0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:09.920
<v Speaker 1>their passport. Well, they each used one passport, Like my

0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:14.120
<v Speaker 1>aunts looked ridiculously alike, Bro, it's kind of crazy. Um.

0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:18.680
<v Speaker 1>So that's how I know, right, that's how. That's how

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 1>different it was. Though. So my mom got to Virginia,

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:24.560
<v Speaker 1>she decided she wanted to be a nurse. She was

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:28.959
<v Speaker 1>stocking closed at Ross while she was in nursing school. Well,

0:39:29.080 --> 0:39:31.839
<v Speaker 1>we'll leave that right there for a second. All the while,

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 1>my father had gotten a scholarship from his college in

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Ghana to do a master's program in Texas at Baylor

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:47.839
<v Speaker 1>University computer Science. So my dad blessed heart man like

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 1>old scholar. You know, I'm not quite a scholar, but

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:54.320
<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of you know, his qualities and

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:58.759
<v Speaker 1>characteristics that I've taken in my life that I think

0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:01.440
<v Speaker 1>have really helped me to get where I am today.

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 1>So he graduated, boom. First job he gets is at

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 1>the Federal Reserve in Washington, d C. So he moves

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 1>to d C. So my parents met each other here.

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 1>They didn't even meet in God, yeah, because I was

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:18.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna I was going to I was trying to figure

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>that out, you know, and and not step in the

0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, step in the ignorant bucket, right and go,

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:32.000
<v Speaker 1>hey where your parents you know, arranged marriage. Right. So

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:35.480
<v Speaker 1>because like I said, man, this is discovery for me,

0:40:35.560 --> 0:40:38.000
<v Speaker 1>this discovery channel. I want to be able to ask

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:41.760
<v Speaker 1>ask you the dumb question and it'd be okay, that's

0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:44.840
<v Speaker 1>a dumb question. But there's there's not a lot of

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:48.600
<v Speaker 1>people I roll with or I know that's from a

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>tribe that that tribe is in their DNA. That yes,

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:55.360
<v Speaker 1>because he's knowing that history. Even because I would say

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:57.839
<v Speaker 1>on the other end of this table, because his brother

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 1>from Lexing to North Carolina. But it ain't nothing. There's

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of kids and cousins, his cousin in the club.

0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 1>But but but alone, but alone that route. I can't

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>say that we did the whole ancestry dot Com thing.

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe in oh wait. And I didn't know my family's

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:17.400
<v Speaker 1>history at all. My mom did. And what we end

0:41:17.480 --> 0:41:21.719
<v Speaker 1>up finding out is that my great great great grandmother,

0:41:21.760 --> 0:41:25.279
<v Speaker 1>I believe, was a slave named Margaret that came from Africa.

0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 1>That's all I know. That's where my family stops. And

0:41:27.920 --> 0:41:31.440
<v Speaker 1>so to hear this brother c J talked about the

0:41:31.480 --> 0:41:35.799
<v Speaker 1>tribes Ghana, what's it like there? Like all this I

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:39.400
<v Speaker 1>mentioned it before, heritage that he has, I'm damn, they're jealous,

0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:45.360
<v Speaker 1>spous because he knows, he knows his identity, and you

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:49.680
<v Speaker 1>picked Virginia to come from Ghana. Margaret was brought here

0:41:49.800 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 1>through the slave trade, pulled it through Charleston, South Carolina,

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 1>and we make land in Gaffne, South Carolina before coming

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.400
<v Speaker 1>election to North Carolina. But it's through the slave trade.

0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:02.400
<v Speaker 1>So just being able to hear that type of history

0:42:02.560 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 1>and that kind of heritage and that story for me,

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm giddy because he knows the other side. Monster

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:13.719
<v Speaker 1>my family stump starts in Charleston, but he has this

0:42:13.960 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 1>rich heritage, deeply routed, deeply routed. So man, I'm I'm

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting and you've been on our podcast. You're watering

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:27.279
<v Speaker 1>and making your roots even deeper because you know we

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't, I don't know exactly on both sides. My

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:32.600
<v Speaker 1>mom is one of third Day. Well, first, I'll say

0:42:32.880 --> 0:42:34.880
<v Speaker 1>y'all are part of the tribe as well. You know

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>this might be a little caused personal, but the tribal nature,

0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:42.919
<v Speaker 1>the tribal culture is the reason why our people were

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:48.640
<v Speaker 1>pinpointed as you know, profit as profitable. The resilience, the strength,

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:52.880
<v Speaker 1>the courage, the connection that comes from a tribe is

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 1>something that the white man saw and said, Okay, boom,

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna use this for my profit. That's why they

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 1>brought him here. They brought us here. You know, agriculture,

0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:07.640
<v Speaker 1>whether it's cotton, whether it's hemp, whether it's corn, We

0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:10.320
<v Speaker 1>was the right, We was the ones growing it because

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 1>they didn't know how to right. So they had us

0:43:13.520 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>come here, set all the infrastructure up. They sat there,

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:19.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, yes, they threw the whip and they slowly

0:43:19.880 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 1>but surely learn and learn and learn and just oppressed us.

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:27.279
<v Speaker 1>And and that's the reason why they went to such tactics,

0:43:27.640 --> 0:43:32.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, and the slave slave times to really emasculate

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:35.680
<v Speaker 1>the men and desensus ties of families because they realized

0:43:35.719 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 1>the strength of the tribe. They realized the strength of

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:42.320
<v Speaker 1>the family, you know. Um. And while it's sat in

0:43:42.320 --> 0:43:45.839
<v Speaker 1>interesting enough, this allows me to kind of, uh put

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:47.680
<v Speaker 1>a little point of emphasis on when I first got

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.040
<v Speaker 1>on the call, because you know, I answered and I said, oh,

0:43:50.080 --> 0:43:53.880
<v Speaker 1>living the dream. And Steve was like, man, this is

0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:57.720
<v Speaker 1>a nightmare and it is. I ain't going in front

0:43:57.800 --> 0:44:01.600
<v Speaker 1>it is. However, when I look at that, and yes

0:44:01.719 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 1>it is. It does come from me having, you know,

0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>or being privy to the knowledge of my identity. When

0:44:07.520 --> 0:44:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I hear all the atrocities that have happened to my people,

0:44:11.320 --> 0:44:13.280
<v Speaker 1>When I go to Ghana and I see the castles

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:15.839
<v Speaker 1>that they set up along the coast and move my

0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 1>people across the water just so they could use them,

0:44:19.160 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, I realized why. It's because of the strength

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:25.880
<v Speaker 1>and the beauty within my dna. I think it's about

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:29.680
<v Speaker 1>that time. Just take a little breather. Good do it,

0:44:29.840 --> 0:44:33.279
<v Speaker 1>good do it. Let's getting down to do it. Good,

0:44:34.719 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Hey Gerard, why did you get that T shirt? Oh? Yes,

0:44:38.719 --> 0:44:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I got it from cut to a podcast dot com,

0:44:40.719 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>where we have exclusive merchandise. Shout out to our guys

0:44:43.840 --> 0:44:45.560
<v Speaker 1>at seven or four shot. But yeah, you can go on,

0:44:46.000 --> 0:44:48.319
<v Speaker 1>buy you a T shirt, subscribe to us wherever you

0:44:48.360 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 1>listen to podcasts. When you talk about castles on the

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:57.279
<v Speaker 1>coast holding my people, dump it down and simplify it

0:44:57.360 --> 0:45:01.760
<v Speaker 1>to two people who have you know, who've never been anywhere,

0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:04.600
<v Speaker 1>who who don't know what you're referring to, who who

0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 1>who have been living under a rock? And I have

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:13.480
<v Speaker 1>no idea what you're talking about. Hell yeah, alright, So

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:18.160
<v Speaker 1>picture this. I'm I'm a twenty one year old African Americans,

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 1>fairly successful in America. He's going to his native land

0:45:22.680 --> 0:45:25.960
<v Speaker 1>to to learn and you know, quite frankly, did not

0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:28.680
<v Speaker 1>know what he was getting himself into. So I spent

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:31.040
<v Speaker 1>the first couple of days with the family in the

0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:36.439
<v Speaker 1>city downtown, goodbyes all that. So you've right now, you've

0:45:36.480 --> 0:45:41.120
<v Speaker 1>traveled to Ghana. Traveled to Ghana. I'm in across across

0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:44.239
<v Speaker 1>the capital, so you're living in the You're living the

0:45:44.320 --> 0:45:48.040
<v Speaker 1>fake life of your family history right now on there

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:54.640
<v Speaker 1>on your home exactly. So not some homeland somebody told you.

0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:59.520
<v Speaker 1>But you have many actual homeless and you're living in

0:45:59.600 --> 0:46:05.800
<v Speaker 1>this life based on what you're about to go into. Yep, okay,

0:46:06.000 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't you. I just had to make sure you got it.

0:46:09.600 --> 0:46:13.799
<v Speaker 1>You got it. So one of my cousins, um, while

0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:16.840
<v Speaker 1>I had looked up the name of the cousin, Actually

0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:22.720
<v Speaker 1>his name is un What's what's his American name? Cubby? Okay,

0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 1>blacks always got a nickname, O North Carolinian. You got

0:46:30.160 --> 0:46:34.239
<v Speaker 1>a big name then, right, So I told him, you know,

0:46:34.280 --> 0:46:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I heard of a spot called Cape Coast. I saw

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:41.560
<v Speaker 1>some stuff and on a it was Wikipedia at that time.

0:46:42.160 --> 0:46:44.799
<v Speaker 1>I want to check it out. He said, alright, bet,

0:46:44.800 --> 0:46:47.359
<v Speaker 1>well we'll go. I think two days later. We set

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 1>up because it's a trip. It's like two hours from

0:46:50.200 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 1>the capital, so we set up our supplies. You know.

0:46:53.480 --> 0:46:58.280
<v Speaker 1>We started driving. Within thirty minutes, the asphalt changes to dirt,

0:46:58.600 --> 0:47:03.720
<v Speaker 1>you know. You yeah, everything's getting dusty. There's certain areas

0:47:03.840 --> 0:47:05.919
<v Speaker 1>of the road where you literally have you can't drive

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 1>more than ten miles hour or you will get stuck,

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:14.080
<v Speaker 1>you know. Um, And I'm just on this like pilgrimage.

0:47:14.080 --> 0:47:18.720
<v Speaker 1>If you will Man and uh, you know, two hours

0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:21.840
<v Speaker 1>later you start to see the water, the air starts,

0:47:22.000 --> 0:47:26.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, smelling nice, smelling salty. But then I also

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:29.879
<v Speaker 1>the first thing I noticed is down the Africans here

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:37.560
<v Speaker 1>is hell of light skinned. Didn't didn't think anything, you know,

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think anything of it at the moment at

0:47:39.719 --> 0:47:42.200
<v Speaker 1>the time, bro, Like I just remember, like, look and

0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:45.360
<v Speaker 1>I said, wow, these this cast is light skin. Boy Like,

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:49.880
<v Speaker 1>all right, when would you see someone out there? You know?

0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Not even not either? But I learned later, you know.

0:47:54.680 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 1>So we get to the coast and I think we

0:47:58.040 --> 0:48:02.239
<v Speaker 1>were at the Portuguese castle. Um. You get there and

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:06.439
<v Speaker 1>you're like damn, like, okay, what's going on here? Um?

0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, I had known it was European castle, European castle,

0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:11.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was there for the slave trade, but I

0:48:11.719 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 1>had no idea what was in there. I had no

0:48:14.239 --> 0:48:17.600
<v Speaker 1>idea like the history behind it, the ship that was

0:48:17.640 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 1>going on in there. And so we get out. We

0:48:21.960 --> 0:48:24.719
<v Speaker 1>literally crossed the drawbridge into this ship, and I mean

0:48:24.800 --> 0:48:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I got hit, bro was I I believe it's a

0:48:29.000 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a d n A thing, right. I believe my

0:48:32.640 --> 0:48:38.280
<v Speaker 1>people in my lineage because they had to experience such trauma,

0:48:38.400 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 1>like in a way it has passed out to me

0:48:41.000 --> 0:48:43.759
<v Speaker 1>because I walked in this spot and I feel weak

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 1>in the knees, I feel anxious, you know, and and

0:48:47.840 --> 0:48:51.319
<v Speaker 1>in every corner, you know, there's some bit of information,

0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:55.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, letting you know. Okay, this is where, for instance,

0:48:55.520 --> 0:48:58.160
<v Speaker 1>where they held the slaves, like there's a there was

0:48:58.200 --> 0:49:01.840
<v Speaker 1>a dark line. Literally it was up to around my

0:49:01.960 --> 0:49:06.080
<v Speaker 1>hip and I'm six for tall. That's where the p

0:49:06.520 --> 0:49:10.759
<v Speaker 1>and the secs were stacked in the same room that

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:14.760
<v Speaker 1>they held the slaves. Mind you, this is their land,

0:49:15.000 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>right they came Europeans, came on the boats. They didn't

0:49:18.520 --> 0:49:22.200
<v Speaker 1>even go inland first. They started building right away, built

0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:24.960
<v Speaker 1>the castle. Said oh hey guys, we're here. We just

0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 1>want to learn, like you guys seem so cool, like hey,

0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>look here's this, like it's from where we're from. What

0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:34.040
<v Speaker 1>do you have? You know? And it and it talks

0:49:34.080 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 1>about how slow and methodical they were in learning how

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:40.719
<v Speaker 1>to They didn't know how to make rice, you know,

0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:44.880
<v Speaker 1>they didn't know how to fucking be uh uh covered

0:49:45.000 --> 0:49:47.520
<v Speaker 1>from the sun, like yeah, they could, you know, be

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:50.600
<v Speaker 1>in their dwellings. But whenever they try to leave, like

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:53.760
<v Speaker 1>some burn out the ask. We're giving them different types

0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:58.319
<v Speaker 1>of herbs to help with that. While all along they're

0:49:58.320 --> 0:50:00.799
<v Speaker 1>setting up this castle they got and ends on there

0:50:00.840 --> 0:50:04.239
<v Speaker 1>that are facing the land or facing the water and

0:50:04.320 --> 0:50:08.080
<v Speaker 1>the land just in case, you know, the convoy comes

0:50:08.120 --> 0:50:11.319
<v Speaker 1>for them or some ship. Um you know, I got

0:50:11.320 --> 0:50:15.560
<v Speaker 1>to read the and this is where the light skin

0:50:15.640 --> 0:50:19.759
<v Speaker 1>thing comes in. Uh. They said it was wild how

0:50:19.840 --> 0:50:24.440
<v Speaker 1>the masters, the white men, which has rampidtly raped the women,

0:50:24.800 --> 0:50:30.720
<v Speaker 1>and that they actually had a lot of um anecdotal

0:50:30.880 --> 0:50:34.400
<v Speaker 1>evidence that showed that these white men were lusting so

0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:38.400
<v Speaker 1>much over the African woman, like we're literally had an

0:50:38.440 --> 0:50:42.160
<v Speaker 1>insatiable thirst for them. Where they would go there every

0:50:42.200 --> 0:50:45.399
<v Speaker 1>single day. Yeah, every single day they would go into

0:50:45.440 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 1>the the quarters that they were holding them and they

0:50:47.800 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 1>would just pick out the litter, just pick each one

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:55.000
<v Speaker 1>every day, multiple times a day. Hence why all the

0:50:55.120 --> 0:50:59.640
<v Speaker 1>people in this region are light skinned. I was like, oh,

0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I get it, now, I get it. How are you

0:51:03.280 --> 0:51:09.320
<v Speaker 1>feeling why you're experiencing all of this at the same

0:51:09.360 --> 0:51:14.680
<v Speaker 1>time with that landscape of telling you that one of

0:51:14.719 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>your thirty three was possibly captured and raped. One of

0:51:20.719 --> 0:51:25.200
<v Speaker 1>the thirty three's friends were captured and possibly raped and

0:51:25.200 --> 0:51:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and and held captive against their will on the land

0:51:30.480 --> 0:51:37.239
<v Speaker 1>that's your family fought for, fought other drives for, died for. Hell,

0:51:37.320 --> 0:51:40.280
<v Speaker 1>there are men and women died out in the heat

0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:44.920
<v Speaker 1>on you know, serving and cultivating that land to be

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:50.879
<v Speaker 1>able to provide for their for their children for generations. Yeah. Man,

0:51:50.960 --> 0:51:54.080
<v Speaker 1>that's the hardest part. It's like I said, it was

0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:57.960
<v Speaker 1>super emotional from the chock Um, But I think the

0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 1>biggest one that got me was um, not just the

0:52:02.480 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 1>way that they treated the women um, but also learning

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:11.760
<v Speaker 1>that the tactics right, like they would put tribes against

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:15.560
<v Speaker 1>each other, you know, tribes that were in prosperity for

0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:19.360
<v Speaker 1>hundreds of years, and then you know, I don't know

0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:22.319
<v Speaker 1>if you understand the term false flag, but like you know,

0:52:23.520 --> 0:52:26.759
<v Speaker 1>they'll get four or five of you know, some some

0:52:26.880 --> 0:52:31.799
<v Speaker 1>men from one tribe and give them women, give them alcohol,

0:52:32.080 --> 0:52:34.680
<v Speaker 1>let them shoot a gun, and tell them, hey, now

0:52:34.719 --> 0:52:36.480
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go do that to that tribe that you've

0:52:36.480 --> 0:52:39.600
<v Speaker 1>been chilling with for the last hundred years. And oh yeah,

0:52:39.640 --> 0:52:42.400
<v Speaker 1>if you don't, we're gonna cut your nuts off, or

0:52:42.400 --> 0:52:44.279
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go get your wife where We're gonna go

0:52:44.320 --> 0:52:48.360
<v Speaker 1>get your daughter you know, and like the way they

0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:51.359
<v Speaker 1>because they were scared, like the white man white man

0:52:51.440 --> 0:52:56.839
<v Speaker 1>was still so scared of us that they didn't they

0:52:56.840 --> 0:52:59.879
<v Speaker 1>weren't the ones, uh, you know, pulling the trigger all

0:52:59.880 --> 0:53:07.320
<v Speaker 1>the time. It was literally them brainwashing and and coercing

0:53:07.320 --> 0:53:10.000
<v Speaker 1>our own people to fight against each other. That that one,

0:53:10.080 --> 0:53:13.839
<v Speaker 1>for me, is the biggest one. And the anger and

0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:19.080
<v Speaker 1>the the hatred and obviously the triggers from you know,

0:53:19.200 --> 0:53:22.320
<v Speaker 1>the different type of racist moment I won't say racist,

0:53:22.360 --> 0:53:28.000
<v Speaker 1>but like moments of systemic injustice that I had already

0:53:28.000 --> 0:53:30.520
<v Speaker 1>transpired by the time I was twenty one. It's like

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:32.960
<v Speaker 1>it put me in a dark place for a while,

0:53:33.040 --> 0:53:38.160
<v Speaker 1>for real, um. And I'm fortunate that I was able

0:53:38.239 --> 0:53:42.279
<v Speaker 1>to use that as an opportunity to recognize while you know,

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:45.440
<v Speaker 1>as I did the deep dive into this history and

0:53:45.520 --> 0:53:50.440
<v Speaker 1>this information, it gave me the opportunity to realize, well, hey,

0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:54.839
<v Speaker 1>why else would they have done this? And it was

0:53:55.160 --> 0:53:58.839
<v Speaker 1>for for them. It was such a fear that god damn,

0:53:58.920 --> 0:54:02.760
<v Speaker 1>we're sitting over where we're at, thinking we're running things,

0:54:02.960 --> 0:54:05.960
<v Speaker 1>and then you come here and these they don't have carriages,

0:54:06.440 --> 0:54:09.480
<v Speaker 1>they don't have all the cool things we have, and

0:54:09.560 --> 0:54:13.480
<v Speaker 1>yet they're prosperous. Yeah. If we don't get them right now,

0:54:13.640 --> 0:54:16.840
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna get us. Talking about that dark place, how

0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:21.960
<v Speaker 1>do you after experiencing everything you experienced twenty one years old?

0:54:23.480 --> 0:54:25.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, we skipped a lot, we'll go back to it,

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:31.000
<v Speaker 1>but how do you not become racist based off that

0:54:31.239 --> 0:54:36.040
<v Speaker 1>small information that and I say small because you just

0:54:36.120 --> 0:54:41.600
<v Speaker 1>got a morsel of information, but it hits you like

0:54:41.640 --> 0:54:44.200
<v Speaker 1>an earthquake because it was your it's your family, and

0:54:44.560 --> 0:54:46.439
<v Speaker 1>you get to see your history. How do you not

0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:51.080
<v Speaker 1>walk around that are resentful? Yeah, resentful and kind of

0:54:51.120 --> 0:54:53.680
<v Speaker 1>it's like and the reason I say that is, uh,

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:56.000
<v Speaker 1>you you know I sometimes you go to movies when

0:54:56.040 --> 0:54:59.880
<v Speaker 1>they were open, You see movies about history, and you

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:02.879
<v Speaker 1>walk out of there and sometimes in all ang yes

0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:08.680
<v Speaker 1>to the point cert like you go man, and they're say,

0:55:08.760 --> 0:55:13.080
<v Speaker 1>what based on based on true story, based on historical facts,

0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:16.839
<v Speaker 1>And if you happen to be of that culture, you

0:55:16.920 --> 0:55:19.480
<v Speaker 1>can't just walk out and go that was a great movie.

0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:24.839
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna some bullcrap. So how could do How did

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:30.960
<v Speaker 1>it not sour your taste about people that were not

0:55:31.080 --> 0:55:34.520
<v Speaker 1>of your descent, that were not that were a lighter

0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:40.240
<v Speaker 1>color skin than you. Yeah, that's the short answer, is it.

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:42.719
<v Speaker 1>It didn't. It may be very bitter, it may be

0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 1>very racist for a little bit there, And I think

0:55:46.440 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a process. That's the thing that even in this

0:55:49.040 --> 0:55:52.319
<v Speaker 1>time now, we got to allow ourselves to heal from

0:55:52.400 --> 0:55:55.240
<v Speaker 1>past trava. Man, we can't be sitting here like, oh,

0:55:55.400 --> 0:55:58.440
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, we're gonna be above and beyond

0:55:59.000 --> 0:56:02.319
<v Speaker 1>you know the trauma that's been that are are people

0:56:02.360 --> 0:56:09.680
<v Speaker 1>have transpired for. Yeah. So what Fortunately for me, I

0:56:09.760 --> 0:56:12.880
<v Speaker 1>was able to find success through the sport I played,

0:56:13.160 --> 0:56:17.400
<v Speaker 1>which allowed me to recognize that even in all the

0:56:17.760 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, systemic issues that are are out here, when

0:56:22.000 --> 0:56:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I ball hard, y'all respect me. Now, that's not a good,

0:56:26.320 --> 0:56:30.560
<v Speaker 1>that's not good by enemies. But through that, through that confidence,

0:56:30.880 --> 0:56:36.680
<v Speaker 1>through that feeling of value, I was able to find Honestly, bro,

0:56:36.920 --> 0:56:40.000
<v Speaker 1>it's swag, Like that's something that black people. We just

0:56:40.160 --> 0:56:43.240
<v Speaker 1>got swag. We got energy, we got spice, we got sauce,

0:56:43.600 --> 0:56:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and these are things that I think I used and

0:56:47.000 --> 0:56:51.240
<v Speaker 1>I and I really engulfed myself and that energy because

0:56:51.280 --> 0:56:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I saw how comfortable it made people that are not

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:57.800
<v Speaker 1>my race. And so that was my subtle f you

0:56:58.320 --> 0:57:01.320
<v Speaker 1>to them, is I would walk down, you know, campus,

0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:04.480
<v Speaker 1>a college with four percent black people. I walk down,

0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:08.840
<v Speaker 1>my headphones is on loud. Yes I'm wrapping little way,

0:57:08.920 --> 0:57:11.360
<v Speaker 1>and yes I'm saying the curse words, and yes my

0:57:11.440 --> 0:57:13.680
<v Speaker 1>head is held high. Yes I'm stopping and dancing. And

0:57:13.680 --> 0:57:17.360
<v Speaker 1>they'll look like, oh is that what is he doing?

0:57:18.080 --> 0:57:21.200
<v Speaker 1>And like the fact that in a place where I'm

0:57:21.280 --> 0:57:28.840
<v Speaker 1>four that y'all the eight to six seventy percent are

0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:32.600
<v Speaker 1>getting uncomfortable or the you know, I'm the one or

0:57:32.640 --> 0:57:35.240
<v Speaker 1>two black guys in the party and y'all uncomfortable that

0:57:35.280 --> 0:57:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Bet hell yeah, because I do have power

0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.280
<v Speaker 1>over you. It's it's it's it's a mind thing at

0:57:40.320 --> 0:57:44.880
<v Speaker 1>that point. And and obviously that was backed with the

0:57:44.920 --> 0:57:47.720
<v Speaker 1>actual knowledge of my people and the identity that I

0:57:47.800 --> 0:57:51.160
<v Speaker 1>had any time I went home, and understandings of self

0:57:51.200 --> 0:57:57.600
<v Speaker 1>sufficiency and knowing that okay, now I can be I

0:57:57.640 --> 0:57:59.880
<v Speaker 1>can't walk around my chest held high and not war

0:58:00.280 --> 0:58:03.160
<v Speaker 1>so much about how I'm mused because I don't need

0:58:03.720 --> 0:58:06.320
<v Speaker 1>that job that only the white man could give me, right,

0:58:06.760 --> 0:58:10.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't need that. Uh. And this goes to if

0:58:10.320 --> 0:58:12.880
<v Speaker 1>I was to have, you know, my own self sufficient

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<v Speaker 1>type of agricultural setup. I don't need UH hit Walmart

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<v Speaker 1>every week to continue to give the white man money.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I know my people have this in my DNA.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I can learn these skills, these reeks,

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<v Speaker 1>get these resources, this knowledge that I can then pass

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<v Speaker 1>on to my family for generations to come. We have

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<v Speaker 1>to stop right there. C J story only gets more interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just so much in there. We had to break

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<v Speaker 1>it up, trying to be respectful of your time. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, Steve, we

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<v Speaker 1>heard about CJ's heritage, and what do you know about yourrs?

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<v Speaker 1>I know a lot, not just quickly. My heritage is

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<v Speaker 1>on my dad's side Smith. Um. We were a family

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<v Speaker 1>born and raised in Louisiana. Uh. They were blacksmiths on

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<v Speaker 1>a we're slaves and we're free, and UH went to

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<v Speaker 1>Texas and UH two in Texas became was forced back

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<v Speaker 1>into slay slavery, UM and had to fight, became a

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<v Speaker 1>buffalo soldier, had to fight and UH in the war

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in civil war, and in that civil war

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<v Speaker 1>we fought became free. UM. And then my family moved

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<v Speaker 1>to Monterey, California, where my UH great great great grandfather

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<v Speaker 1>moved to Monterey, California, started several churches. UH started the

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<v Speaker 1>in double a CP of Monterey UH plan of four

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<v Speaker 1>or five churches. My great great great grandmother UM was

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<v Speaker 1>considered the first lady in UM. And my grandfather great

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<v Speaker 1>great grandfather, who was a Buffalo soldiers, actually in the

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<v Speaker 1>uh Enshrine and the Smithsonian and UM. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>my history on my UH on my dad's side, my

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<v Speaker 1>family at the time and my family some of my

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<v Speaker 1>other family, they went actually to the to the property

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<v Speaker 1>in Louisiana and and and tour the grounds and it

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<v Speaker 1>was really cool UH to see and so we did

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<v Speaker 1>a they got the experience to it. I was in

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<v Speaker 1>trading camp, still playing at the time. But they went

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<v Speaker 1>back and UM went and tour the grounds and and

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<v Speaker 1>saw everything. UM. And we did it. They we did

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<v Speaker 1>it as a UH family reunion. It was pretty cool. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>I got pictures and all that stuff. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>really cool to to get to experience. And I still

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<v Speaker 1>have the pay work in my house and I looked

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<v Speaker 1>back and so that history was pretty awesome. UM. And

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<v Speaker 1>what's really cool about that is UM. Also in my

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<v Speaker 1>family history is my boys my generation, my kids are

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<v Speaker 1>all named after so. My oldest son, Peyton, my first

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<v Speaker 1>name Steven is his one of his middle names, um Boston.

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<v Speaker 1>His middle name is Gene, which is my wife's dad's

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<v Speaker 1>middle name, which is Um, my father in law's dad's

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<v Speaker 1>first name Um, and then obviously deuced his name after me. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have started that. UM every boy in our

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<v Speaker 1>family with you know, my three boys will be named

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<v Speaker 1>not after me, but named after another man in our

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<v Speaker 1>family that holds significance. My wife's father us holding significance

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<v Speaker 1>because he taught me how to tie a tie. He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't my father. UM my dad is in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>but my dad UM taught me some things. UM. My

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<v Speaker 1>dad name is Stephen and my name is Steven. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>So just my boys know when they have boys that

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<v Speaker 1>they are to name it after someone in our family

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<v Speaker 1>or significance. Doesn't have to be me. It doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to be my dad, but somebody else. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's very unique and want to keep that tradition that

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<v Speaker 1>I've started. Dope, it's dope wrought in your DNA A

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, a little bit. You are a unique person.

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<v Speaker 1>You are well worth it. You are competent and most

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<v Speaker 1>of all your lovable I'm Steve Smith Singior, I'm Gerald

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