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Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This is from Brianna on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: Brianna says, I'm in my late twenties. I have a

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Speaker 1: good job, make good money, and I still live at

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Speaker 1: home with my parents, and honestly, I love it. We

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Speaker 1: get along great, split responsibilities, and I have my own space.

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Speaker 1: But some of my friends and coworkers act like it's

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Speaker 1: weird and even embarrassing that I haven't moved out yet.

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Speaker 1: I've started looking at apartments, but it feels like I'm

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Speaker 1: only doing it because of pressure from other people, not

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Speaker 1: because I actually want to leave. Is it wrong to

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Speaker 1: just do what makes me happy? Or are societal expectations

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Speaker 1: reason enough to finally get my own place? No?

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Speaker 2: Stay in, stayed in.

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Speaker 3: In some cultures that's very acceptable, right. The daughter stays

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Speaker 3: at the house until they get married. Married, right, and

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Speaker 3: you ain't got nobody on the hook.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: You ain't even hard dating?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so safe and she has her own space. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Wasting money. I couldn't stay at my mom and daddy

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Speaker 2: house in my twenties.

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Speaker 1: Boy, buy because you're a man and you should be

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Speaker 1: out there.

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Speaker 2: We had our standing twenties. O, Lord, phone cameras.

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Speaker 1: No phone cameras, no social media.

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Speaker 3: Want I wasn't famous him white things.

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Speaker 2: I know the things I gotta wait with.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you Lord, grateful, no phone care.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have no record of anything. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but she don't. Don't buckle under the pressure

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Speaker 1: of your coworkers and all of that society.

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Speaker 2: Right, do you girl? Listening to everybody? Right? I like that?

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Speaker 3: And do you Yeah, she's in her late twenty when

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Speaker 3: you wear it out, do you save your money, get

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Speaker 3: your stack, your piper.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 2: All right, listening to everybody else, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Katina, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: Steve Katina on Steve HARVEFM says, I think I've finally

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Speaker 1: found someone I can spend the rest of my life with.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend is kind, open minded, intelligent, everything I've ever wanted.

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Speaker 1: He's met my family once, but it was a quick,

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Speaker 1: surface level visit. Why he doesn't know. What he doesn't

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Speaker 1: know is that they're not great people. They're crass, a

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Speaker 1: little racist, and say crazy things like it's no big deal.

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Speaker 1: I've spent most of my adult life distancing myself from them,

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Speaker 1: and now that this relationship is getting serious, I'm terrified

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Speaker 1: he's going to find out who they really are and

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Speaker 1: decide he wants no part of it or me. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to have to choose between the

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Speaker 1: man I love and the family I was born into.

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Speaker 1: What should I do?

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Speaker 2: It must be I would go with the man you love?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he black? Yeah, No, it ain't. This ain't everything.

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Speaker 3: A little bit, No, this ain't everything. His white girl

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Speaker 3: got her a black.

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Speaker 1: Husband, that's what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Now here's the thing about this, And if it's not,

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Speaker 3: his disadvice applies black or white.

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Speaker 2: It's very simple. You have found the.

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Speaker 3: Man you think it's all of this and all that.

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Speaker 3: You found the man you think you are married with,

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Speaker 3: married with?

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 3: Go now, now, let me ask you a question. Has

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Speaker 3: he said these words to you? Has he told you

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Speaker 3: this that he can't live without you, that you're the

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Speaker 3: woman for him, he won't spend the rest of your

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Speaker 3: life with him? Because right now, just one side I

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Speaker 3: think I found. Well, what has he as he told you?

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Speaker 3: What he found? You need to find that out because

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Speaker 3: you might not have to introduce him to your little

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Speaker 3: racist day, just a little race He might as well

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Speaker 3: just not even go over there and introduce him to

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Speaker 3: your little daddy, little fat archie bunkle.

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Speaker 2: You just leave that alone, ye, daddy. This is the chante.

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Speaker 2: Name is Deshonte. What is that the shirt them Africa's Work. No,

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Speaker 2: that's daddy.

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Speaker 1: Alright, all right, guys, coming up more of the Steve

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