1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Ready. 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: There's a famous quote that says, in order to get 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 2: something that you've never had, you got to do something 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 2: that you've never done. 5 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 3: You will to prove you have to don't freak about. 6 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: I've been in situations where I freeze when it's paying time. 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 3: I'm toured out. 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 4: I hope that this course will allow me to be 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 4: the old carry. 10 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 3: You have to be hungry, you have to be tough, 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 3: and you must never give up. 12 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 4: The devil on my shoulder is going, you can't do this. 13 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 3: You're not meant to be here to go home. 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 4: I'm just trying to believe in the angel that's telling 15 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 4: me you can do it. 16 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 3: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. 17 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: Almost famous the Ogs Bob and Trista with breaking news. 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: This is crazy, absolutely crazy. I just watched My Lions 19 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: whoop up and go to nine to one nine on one. 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: I'm getting ready for bed, and all of a sudden, 21 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, my phone's blowing up about late 22 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: breaking news starring yours truly, Trista Sutter Nay Wren Trista. 23 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: This is insanity, honestly, Okay, So let's set the stage here. Trista, 24 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: obviously former professional Dancer, the fairy Godmother the Bachelor franchise. 25 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: Trista comes along shocking me all the time, constantly surprising me. 26 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: This one, I would say, is probably the biggest of 27 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: the surprises. May I just come out and say it? 28 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: You were Special Forces Fox? I mean, I don't know. 29 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: Is that is that the official name? 30 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 3: What is it? What is the official name? 31 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 4: Special Forces? World's Toughest Test is what it's called. And 32 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 4: it's season three. I am following in the footsteps of 33 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 4: Hannah Brown, who was on the first season. This is 34 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,639 Speaker 4: Bachelor Nation people obviously who won, and. 35 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 3: Then she. 36 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 4: Won the first season with another woman she's a soccer player. 37 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 4: And then Tyler and uh yeah, duh. I was like, 38 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 4: come to me, brain. Tyler and Nick were on the 39 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 4: second season from Bachelor they won. So I have very 40 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 4: big shoes to fill. But I am on the next 41 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 4: season of Special Forces, and I'm joined by fellow Bachelor 42 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 4: Nation alumni Ali Fedotowski or Ali Mono wo Ali Mano. 43 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 4: So yeah, I it was. We can get into it. 44 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 4: But I'm here in l A to do you press 45 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 4: for the show. With most of the contestants, I think 46 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 4: everybody but one person could be here at least from 47 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 4: what I understand. So I'm really excited to see everybody tomorrow. 48 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 4: It's a big day. But of course wanted to give 49 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 4: you the scoop first because you know it's our podcast. 50 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: So well, man, I'll tell you what. The AFOG podcast 51 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: just keeps on hitting. 52 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: We keep on bringing the hard hitting news. I love this. 53 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 3: I gotta be honest with you. 54 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: When I saw the concept of this show, I was 55 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: always like, Wow, that is that is for some crazy people. 56 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 3: I don't think I would ever do. 57 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: And it was more along the lines of the fact 58 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: that it was just like, you know, having a dude 59 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: from a boot camp and my face barking up my tree, 60 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: carrying boats through swamps and all sorts of craziness. I'm 61 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: sure there's some things you can't tell me, like where 62 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: was it filmed and when and all that kind of stuff. 63 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 3: But you know, I'm so excited to talk about that. 64 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, good, let's talk about it, because I'm. 65 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 4: Sure I can say that, yeah, we do this all 66 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 4: the way to the beginning and tell you yes, how 67 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 4: I go, Yeah, absolutely. 68 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 5: Okay. 69 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 4: So so it's really funny. I actually posted this on 70 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: my store the other day and and it makes me 71 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 4: sad that I'm not talking to her right now, just 72 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 4: because she's part of this story. But Ashley, we were 73 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 4: at the Golden Wedding and I don't know if you 74 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 4: saw my story, but we were at the Golden Wedding 75 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: and Ryan and I and the kids were standing next 76 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 4: to Ashley and Jared and we were just chatting waiting 77 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 4: to go inside, and she said, have you been asked 78 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 4: to do Special Forces yet? And I said no, I mean, 79 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 4: what are you kidding? And I mean, I don't know 80 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 4: exactly what I said, but it was something on that 81 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 4: to that effect. And she was like, I think you're 82 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 4: going to be the next person from Bachelor Nation to 83 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 4: be asked. 84 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 5: And I was like, you're crazy. There's no way. 85 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 4: First of all, they're gonna want me, and second of 86 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 4: all that. 87 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 5: I would do that. That was a crazy Town show. 88 00:04:54,400 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 4: And just it's just it's so up Ryan's alley, right, yea, 89 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, so up Bryan Sally, so not up 90 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 4: my alley at least, you know, I thought until I 91 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 4: got there, No, I'm just kidding. So I I just 92 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 4: kind of, you know, blew it off. I was like, 93 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 4: that's that's so silly. And then This was months before 94 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 4: I even got approached to be on the show. So 95 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 4: I work with Paul DeSisto, and they contacted him and 96 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 4: said they were interested in having me on the show. 97 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 4: And I was He goes, would you do Special Forces? 98 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 4: I probably have the text would you do Special Forces? 99 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 5: And I said, guess what? 100 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 4: I said? 101 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 3: No? But Ryan would? 102 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 6: It wasn't just that, it was hell, no, God. I 103 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 6: was like, don't you don't you want my husband? 104 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: The wrong ar. 105 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 4: My next Trista. 106 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 5: I'm a woman, I'm fifty to fifty one years old. 107 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 5: And anyway, so I told Ryan. 108 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 4: About it and and Max and my family, and Ryan 109 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 4: was like, why wouldn't you like this would be an 110 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 4: incredible experience for you? And and I'm thinking to myself, oh. 111 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 6: Oh god, really you think this would. 112 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 5: Be a good thing? 113 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 4: And then he did like flip my mind, like he 114 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 4: he just made me really think about it. And so 115 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 4: I wrote Paul back and I said, hold up, let 116 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: me think about this. Let me actually like watch a 117 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 4: couple shows really know what I'm getting into. Because I 118 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 4: had seen I think maybe one or two, but I 119 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 4: hadn't really thought. 120 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 5: About me being on it. You know. 121 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 4: From that perspective, I was just watching as like a viewer, right, 122 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 4: and do. 123 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: They tell you at this point when they call you, 124 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: do they say, and we're also talking to Ali Mano, 125 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: and we think the two of you would be a 126 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: great team or is there none of that yet? 127 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 5: Okay, No, that they don't. 128 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: They don't share with you any other cast members until 129 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 4: you get there. Okay, you you're you're not supposed to 130 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 4: know about anybody else. Yeah, so no, I had no 131 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 4: idea who would be doing it and. 132 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 5: Let's see. 133 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 4: Uh so Ryan and I talked, talked more watch the shows, 134 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 4: and He's like, I really do think that you should 135 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 4: do this. I think that you you you know. At 136 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: this point in time, I was really struggling with what 137 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 4: I'm who I'm going to be when my kids go 138 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 4: off to college, like when we are. 139 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: Empty nesters conversation. 140 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy, Like I'm a stay at home mom, 141 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 4: stay at home and work mom, I say, but I 142 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 4: pour myself into our kids and that's my that's my 143 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 4: primary job is household manager, stay at home mom, you 144 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 4: know all of that stuff. And I'm like, who am 145 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 4: I going to be? 146 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 5: Truly? Who am I going to be? 147 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 4: Who do I want to be when my kids are gone, 148 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 4: and I really was like, you know what, I feel 149 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 4: like this will give me such good perspective on what 150 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 4: I want out of life. Who get back to the 151 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 4: real me, Like, not not that I'm not the real 152 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 4: me with my kids, but get back to who I 153 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 4: am at my core. You know, who trist is, not 154 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 4: just trist as the mom, trist as the wife, Trista 155 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 4: as the friend, whatever. 156 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: Just well, I think there's something to this, like remember, 157 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: and obviously I know it's a different stage in life, 158 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 1: but when we talk with Joan from the Golden Bachelorette 159 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: and she was like, I feel invisible and I got 160 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: to see who I am again, and you know, I 161 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: realized this is a much different stage in life than, 162 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: of course where Joan is. But I think women, you know, 163 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: certainly go through those passages in life because, like you said, 164 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: you've been pouring yourself into your kids for the last 165 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: eighteen years, and you know, now all of a sudden, 166 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: it's going to be one of those things where you know, 167 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: who am I? 168 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: Do I have the gumption I used to have? Do 169 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: I have the you know? I mean, wow, what a 170 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 3: great way to find out. I'm so excited. 171 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 4: Well and It's also like a once in a lifetime opportunity. 172 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 4: You know, people, I actually wanted also to go on 173 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 4: the show because Ryan would have loved to be there. 174 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 4: I actually I'm going to talk to the Fox people 175 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 4: tomorrow and put his name in the ring, and I'm 176 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 4: gonna put his name over and over because he would 177 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 4: thrive in this environment. He wanted to be in the 178 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 4: military and just keep COLORLND like that's crazy, you know, 179 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 4: he just it never happened. 180 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: Hey, you already got me secured for an invitation for 181 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: the Golden Bachelorette wedding, So just let him know. If 182 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 1: Ryan's in, I'll do it with him and we'll be 183 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: roommates again, just like just like when we were both 184 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: buying for your love and attention back in the day. 185 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I would love it. So I just 186 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 4: feel like, you know, I kind of wanted to do 187 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 4: it for him. I wanted to make him and my 188 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 4: kids proud of me. I want to show my kids 189 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 4: that you can do anything that you put your mind to, 190 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 4: that you can do hard things and things that aren't 191 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 4: necessarily in the path of who you think you're going 192 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 4: to be, but be open to all opportunities in your 193 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 4: life and don't just say hell no, hell yeah. 194 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 3: There is there. I mean, obviously it is a reality show. 195 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of eyes on it, so 196 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: I would imagine it's also I mean, I'm not that 197 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: I can tell already that's not the motivator behind you 198 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: doing it, but I'm sure there was a decent payday 199 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: involved as well. So it's like there's got to be 200 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: some of that, you know, circulating like Okay, I could 201 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: do this. 202 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 3: The kids are getting ready to go to college. 203 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: You know, you never know if you're ready for all 204 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: that either, And you know, I mean, was that a 205 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: motivator at all? 206 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 4: No, I feel like I just I really wanted to 207 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 4: be part of this opportunity. And you know what, like 208 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 4: I have a very very strong respect for our military. Yeah, 209 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 4: my dad was in the Army, he was in Vietnam. 210 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 4: My grandfather fought in World War Two, he was a pilot. 211 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 4: My father in law was in the Navy. Like I 212 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 4: have people in my life that I have Navy seals 213 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 4: as friends. You know, I know a lot of people 214 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 4: who are in the military and respect them. And all 215 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: the people that I don't know who have been in 216 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 4: the military, and I really wanted to learn, just get 217 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 4: a little teeny tiny piece of information, knowledge, wisdom of 218 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 4: what they go through, you know, like I being part 219 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 4: of the show is like, you know, squeezed, like basic 220 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 4: training I think is months and months and months. 221 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 5: Right, this was ten days, So. 222 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can ask you this. 223 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: Though, was it the ten physically and mentally hardest days 224 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: of your last couple of decades of your life? I mean, 225 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: because it looks like, oh, it tests you to your core. 226 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: Like when I watch that show, I'm just like I 227 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: am a nervous ball of energy watching it because I 228 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to throw up. I feel like 229 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm so stressed out where you feeling that way? Like 230 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: I would think it's even getting outfitted for the close 231 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: before the whole thing, it would have me ready to 232 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: break down in tears. 233 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 3: I'd be a mess, you know what, Like. 234 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 5: I before, Yes, I was a mess. 235 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 4: I listened to podcasts, I read books like I. I 236 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 4: tried to get myself mentally prepared. I talked to my 237 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 4: friend who is a Navy seal. He is like a 238 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 4: not a he's like in charge. I don't know, I 239 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 4: don't know how what his title is or whatever. But 240 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 4: he's he's very well respected in the Navy Navy Seal community, 241 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 4: and I just wanted to say, like, what, what advice 242 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 4: would you give? I did also talk to gosh, you 243 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 4: do like you go through all of these medical like testing, 244 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 4: psychological testing, whatever. And before we started, I talked to 245 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 4: the doctor on staff. 246 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 5: And he said, he gave me this quote. 247 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 4: That you want to be Oh gosh, what was it? 248 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 4: Uh naive enough to start and stubborn enough to finish. 249 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's awesome, right, And I was. 250 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 4: Like, I am really stubborn, so I'm really hopeful, but no, 251 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 4: I you know. I I ended up telling Paul obviously 252 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 4: that I wanted to do it, and I did have 253 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 4: to get through some medical some medical drama because I 254 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 4: have had I've had back surgery, I had a fusion, 255 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 4: a lumbar fusion, and at first they weren't going to 256 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 4: clear me after hearing about that because of some of 257 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 4: the activities that you saw in the promo that I 258 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 4: got pushed off of a boat, yeah, into like open water, 259 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 4: and they were I think they were worried that that 260 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 4: would cause issues with my back. But like I talked 261 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 4: to doctors who were you know who had worked with 262 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: worked with me on my pain management after my surgery. 263 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 4: I've been great after my fusion. I've been awesome. 264 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 5: Like I feel. 265 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 4: I've always said, like I wish I would have done 266 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 4: my surgery sooner, so it been like ten years ago 267 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 4: or whenever, you know, before my surgery, then yeah, I 268 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 4: would have been like, there's no way I can do 269 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 4: this show. But I was like, please just give me 270 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 4: the chance to, like, you know, try it, and if 271 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 4: I feel at any point that the risk is not 272 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 4: worth it, then I will VW, which is voluntarily withdrawal. 273 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 4: And that's the beauty of this show. It's not a 274 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 4: competition show where you are competing against other people. I 275 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 4: mean kind of you are in a way just because 276 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 4: I wanted to be like, you know, as good as 277 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 4: other people and I didn't want to be a burden 278 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 4: and that kind of thing. But it really is truly 279 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 4: an individually challenging show. You're just it's you against you. 280 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, how you come from day one to 281 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: day ten. Right, It's like I would imagine that's a 282 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: big part of it. 283 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's it. 284 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 4: So I really wanted to challenge myself and to get 285 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 4: out of kind of the rut and not that I'm 286 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 4: in a rut, like I'm really happy, we have a 287 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 4: happy life, the kids are great, Ryan's great, like, we're great, 288 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 4: all of that. It wasn't like a rut in terms 289 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 4: of my relationships. It was more of a rut of 290 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 4: like who am I and who am I going to 291 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 4: be when my kids leave? And what do I want 292 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 4: to teach them at this point in my life and 293 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 4: through this opportunity, hopefully go for it about straight. 294 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: Well, let's let's talk a little about that too, Like, so, 295 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: you know, you we had some drama earlier in the 296 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: year that was kind of stirred up, you know, social 297 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: media style, and it was it was really you know, 298 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: and I'm starting to connect the dots in my head 299 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: right now timeline wise, right, So it was really right 300 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: around that time that I'm sure you were either already 301 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: out the door or whatever you might have been doing. 302 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: Let us know, Like, I mean, I obviously know you 303 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: you and and Ryan are fine, but I remember some 304 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: people were like speculating like, oh my god, it's the 305 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: end of you know, it's the end of Tristan Ryan. 306 00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: This must be what's going on. And it was based 307 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 1: off of a very heartfelt, very emotionally you know, charged. 308 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 3: Post from Ryan. 309 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,479 Speaker 1: He was like, I love you so much and I 310 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: just I don't know what to do without you here 311 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: right now. It's like, you know, and so people were like, 312 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 1: what the hell's going on? 313 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: You know? Yeah, so tell us a little bit about that. 314 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 4: So he posted I went back to it on May seventeenth, 315 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 4: and I was filming. I was filming then, so I 316 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 4: can't see this post when it came through. I was like, 317 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 4: they take your phones away. You know, you're you're invested 318 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 4: in the show. You know you're you're there to filmah 319 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 4: and to you know, do what they need you to do. 320 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 5: You're not on your phone, so. 321 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 4: You know, part of it was he started with I 322 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 4: really wish I could talk to you, ask you how 323 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 4: you're doing, how was your day. 324 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 5: I'd really like to hear your voice just for a minute. 325 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 4: So many times I've called without much to say, not 326 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 4: realizing how lucky I was or how much I'd missed 327 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 4: the opportunity if you were gone. I want you to 328 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 4: I want to know how you're doing. I want to 329 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 4: support and encourage and cheer you want, and I want 330 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 4: to be there for you. But I can't, and that's 331 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 4: okay because I know you need this time time to 332 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 4: discover yourself again. So I'll be here for you instead. 333 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 4: I'll be here for you when you get back. I'll 334 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 4: be here to listen to you, to smile with you, 335 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 4: maybe cry with you. I'll be here to love you. 336 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 4: I'll be here forever. 337 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: Even the dude's Instagram poster, it's just like when we're 338 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: on the show together. It's like Edgar Allan Poe wrote that, like, 339 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 1: I mean, what the hell is It's like poetry, you 340 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 1: know what I mean? 341 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 3: This guy, I mean, he blows my mind all the time. 342 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 3: But yeah, that is a gorgeous test and I you know. 343 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 4: He's a great writer, but you know that gives so 344 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 4: much perspective, right, Like you know now that you know 345 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 4: why he was writing it, it makes total sense. And 346 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 4: he wasn't trying to be dramatic. He was literally just 347 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 4: like I've always said this, screaming it from the rooftops. 348 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 5: Like we have this. 349 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 4: Opportunity to like share with people while we're sharing it 350 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 4: with the world, you know, share with each other, while 351 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 4: we're sharing it with the world, what we're feeling with 352 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 4: social media, and that's all he was doing, and it 353 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 4: caused this humongous uproar. I just posted again and said. 354 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 3: Holy crap. 355 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 4: Like everyone thought I was either having a nervous breakdown 356 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 4: that we were getting a divorce or trial separation. 357 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 5: I was dead. What were the other things? I don't know, 358 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 5: but everyone was lost. 359 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 3: It was a lot. I remember going, oh my god. 360 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 1: And then I remember you and I talking when you 361 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: first got back, kind of touching on it, and we 362 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,360 Speaker 1: even talked about it on the podcast, and I remember, 363 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what it was, but I 364 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,120 Speaker 1: even felt like. 365 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 3: I needed to. 366 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: Say something, so I think I said something like, well, 367 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: I knew you were going to be you know, I'm 368 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 1: meant unavailable for a podcast for one week or something. 369 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,640 Speaker 1: I forget what I said, and even then I was like, oh, 370 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 1: oh no, I just get her in trouble by saying 371 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: that I knew that she was going to be gone. 372 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: You know, I remember feeling like there was I knew 373 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: there was something going on, you know, just from what. 374 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 4: Else I couldn't do anything. Yeah, yeah, So and I 375 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 4: think I know we talked about it on a podcast, 376 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 4: so I don't know if you guys can pull it up, 377 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:17,479 Speaker 4: but or like see what we said. But essentially I 378 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 4: remember saying, yeah, we're good, everything's good. 379 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 5: I just I just was out of pocket, you know. 380 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were really good. See I'm really bad at that. 381 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 1: I'd be like I was out of pocket for a 382 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: special thing that was forcefully my decisions. 383 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 3: Of course, the worst. 384 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: I can't keep anything to myself and I you know, 385 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: let's just say, I feel like Chuck Norris. 386 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 2: You know. 387 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even know what I would have said, 388 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 1: but I'm sure I'm sure the whole world would have 389 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: figured it out about thirty seconds. 390 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 3: If I would have done the damn thing. I'm so 391 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 3: proud of you. What a what a huge undertaking. 392 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: And I mean, and to a certain degree, I guess 393 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 1: what a what a daring and and very you know, 394 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: knowing how much you respect the military as do. I mean, 395 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: my father was a marine and I and I would 396 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: I would love. 397 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 3: To go through something like that. 398 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 1: But part of me is like almost afraid now because 399 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: of the fact that all the Bachelor Nation folks keep 400 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: winning it. I'd probably be the one that would show 401 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: up and yeah, just like when they asked me to 402 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 1: be the Bachelor, make I probably shouldn't because it shows 403 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 1: going to get canceled. 404 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 3: Well you know that, I know. 405 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 4: But yeah, pressure, the pressure, a lot of pressure. Yeah, yeah, 406 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 4: there was a lot there was, although there wasn't really pressure, 407 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 4: you know what. I feel like it's similar to when 408 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 4: people talk about the pressure of staying together if you're 409 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 4: from the Bachelor. 410 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 5: And you've been successful. 411 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 4: I'm like, really, no, there's no pressure, Like, yeah, these 412 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 4: people were on the show prior to me and Ali 413 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 4: doing it, but it was my it was my pass 414 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 4: my you know, it was me against me. 415 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: So so with you being partnered up, and sure we'll 416 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,959 Speaker 1: we'll talk with her eventually as well about her experience, 417 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: but with them, with the two you partnering up, did 418 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: you find that you had more in common? 419 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 3: Cause, I mean we've we've kind of you know. I 420 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 3: remember when we did our shoot many. 421 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: Years ago together and it was like, you know, the 422 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: Bachelor and Bestrette Favorites or whatever it was Andrew Firestone, 423 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: myself and you and Ali and I can't remember Emily, 424 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: And it was awesome. Yeah and Andrew Firestone of course, 425 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: and and we had such a great day that day. 426 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: But I but I don't really see Ali ever, you know, 427 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: And so I was I was curious did you did 428 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: you guys have like this opportunity to reconnect and like, 429 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: is it? 430 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 2: You know it? 431 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: Was it one of those experiences where you found out 432 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: you have way more in common than just having on 433 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 1: a TV show together. 434 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 3: You have the same grit and the same paint life. 435 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just so curious right now. 436 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 4: I mean honestly, like, you think that you're gonna be 437 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 4: with these people like all the time, right you are, 438 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 4: But you're really like when you're in doing a like 439 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 4: a challenge or a task or you know, a drill, 440 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 4: whatever you want to call it, you're not really like bonding. 441 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 5: You're not like. 442 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 4: Chatting about like life, right you're talking about you're looking 443 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 4: up at this bridge and saying, holy shit, right, like 444 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 4: you're like what like and all you're talking about is 445 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 4: how to survive that you know, or what are the 446 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 4: tips from the people who have gone before you or whatever. 447 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 5: So you're not really. 448 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 4: Talking like in depth unless so you do ride. So 449 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 4: you ride from like task to task, like the first 450 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 4: day we were on that boat where I got pitched 451 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 4: off of the boat and everyone you know was on 452 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 4: the boat, and you do the task that you do 453 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 4: once you get off the boat, you swim and you, 454 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 4: you know whatever. Once you're done with that, you run 455 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 4: to the like jeeps or. 456 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 5: The transportation vehicles. 457 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 4: And four of you were in a car, okay, so 458 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 4: or a jeep or whatever, and it's just all random, really, 459 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 4: So who gets to the jeep first, second, third, whatever, 460 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 4: you get in one whatever, It's completely random. 461 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 5: And those were the moments where. 462 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 4: You would bond with people because there would be like 463 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 4: you'd be in the car for an hour two hours 464 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 4: with someone and you're in a little tiny, you know, 465 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 4: the back of a jeep and it is like you're 466 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 4: facing each other, you know. 467 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 5: But those were the moments that you really bonded. And 468 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 5: Ali and I were never in a car together, in 469 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 5: a jeep together, okay, so. 470 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, the people that I ended up being in the 471 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 4: jeeps with, I there were there are some of my 472 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 4: favorite moments that I'll never forget. Like, I mean, I 473 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 4: was like talking to Golden Tate about like gold and 474 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 4: Jim Newton about pickleball, Like it was. 475 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: The fact that they are both on this show and 476 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: they are guys that I actually know personally as well. 477 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: I am so oh yeah, I know, Golden, Golden and 478 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: I played golf together a bunch. 479 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 3: Cam Newton and I have known each other for a 480 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 3: very long time. Yeah, it's crazy, you love it. 481 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 4: I can't wait to tell them. Well, well, for sure 482 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 4: have them on on the podcast to chat. But I 483 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 4: love that you that you know them. 484 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 5: They are. 485 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: I talked to Cam in a long time, but Golden 486 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: I just played with him two years ago, a year 487 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 1: and a half ago in a tournament. 488 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love. 489 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 5: Them, they are. 490 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 4: They were two of my surprises coming out of this. Yeah, 491 00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 4: that two people that I truly just admire look up to, 492 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 4: I mean literally and figuratively. 493 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no doubt. And they're both tall drinks of water. 494 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 3: I think, you know, it's like. 495 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 4: Jim for sure, but but no, I absolutely adore both 496 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 4: of them. So that was a fun surprise, is like 497 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 4: I really was looking forward to. You know, when you 498 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 4: do these shows, you get introduced to people that you 499 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 4: probably will never meet in other ways in your life, 500 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 4: right right, And I don't know that I ever would 501 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 4: have met half all of these people, you know. 502 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Trista, this is this was supposed to be like 503 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: a fifteen minute conversation about the whole thing. 504 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 3: I need more, Okay, I need more from you. 505 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: I know you're you're trying to get some beauty sleep 506 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: before the big press day, but can we can we 507 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 1: keep going on this because I'd like to. I'd like 508 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 1: to have a whole other conversation about how you got 509 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 1: ready for this thing. 510 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 3: You know what you were doing to prepare? Do you 511 00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 3: got time for me? 512 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 4: All right? 513 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna have for you. 514 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 5: I love it. 515 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: Well, We're gonna take up a little break and when 516 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: we return, we're gonna have a whole lot more With 517 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 1: Trista Sutter, Navy Sealed Training Cadet, Special Forces superstar athlete. 518 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 3: We'll be back with more almost famous the Ogs,