WEBVTT - THE PROXY MARRIAGE

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hello, Hi. Who is this.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Gina.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you Gina.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy to be talking to you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to be talking to you too, Gina. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with you?

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to tell my story about how me and

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<v Speaker 2>my husband got married and got together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Sure, how did it happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so we had a mutual friend and I saw

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<v Speaker 2>our mutual friend post him post my now husband on

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram and I was like, oh, he's kind of cute. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>I was dating somebody else whatever, And then.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's a if, that's if that's

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<v Speaker 1>a whatever. So you were dating somebody else at the time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was okay, continue, I save my questions for the end.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay. And by the way, we lived in Hawaiian

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<v Speaker 2>and Hawaii's very like if you live there, you live

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<v Speaker 2>there forever. Basically, it's like a yeah. But I saw

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<v Speaker 2>this guy that I had a mutual friend with just

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<v Speaker 2>pop up and move to Germany, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how does one do that? I am super interested in

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<v Speaker 2>how this person just moved to Germany because I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to travel, right, And yeah, I ended up dming him like,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do what you're doing. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>just never stopped talking. And then so that was November

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty that I first messaged him, and then by

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<v Speaker 2>January twenty twenty one, we got married by proxy with

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<v Speaker 2>a proxy marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So so the story so far. Your friend posts

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of a of a German guy or a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who moved to Germany.

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<v Speaker 2>A guy who moved to Germany.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, an American guy.

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<v Speaker 2>He's originally from Arizona, but he was in Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you just m this guy, this mutual friend

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<v Speaker 1>of yours, and you were like, hey man, you moved

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<v Speaker 1>to Germany. Looks cool. How'd you do that? And then

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<v Speaker 1>you guys started talking. Yeah okay, and then you never

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<v Speaker 1>stopped talking. And then wait, so two months later you

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<v Speaker 1>got married by what is married by proxy? Mean?

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<v Speaker 2>So basically two people stood in for us at our

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<v Speaker 2>to find our marriage document.

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<v Speaker 1>You had two people get married for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically, yeah, you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Like an avante.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So, like it says on our marriage certificate, the

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<v Speaker 2>people that find it for and then our names instead

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<v Speaker 2>of like our signatures.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you find people to get married for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that like a job or their professional brides and groomed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in Montana. If anybody happened to be interested in this,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a you can look up proxy marriage. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's called I can't remember the name. It's like big Sky,

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<v Speaker 2>Blue Sky or something in Montana.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea mm hm, and they do it all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>proxy marriage. So you lived in you were living in Hawaii,

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<v Speaker 1>he was living in Germany, and you got married. But wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so did you get married before you guys even? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you get married before you even met Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, before in person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you married a guy before you even met him

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<v Speaker 1>in person?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that must have been some picture your friend posted.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess so he was like skateboarding. Wow, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I uh, I married him without meeting him. We were

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<v Speaker 2>like just talking over FaceTime mostly, and yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>we decided on getting married, like we were like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna get married so that we can be together.

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<v Speaker 2>We decided I think early December and by January, which

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<v Speaker 2>is funny. January sixth, twenty twenty one is the day

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<v Speaker 2>that we got married. Like it was official. We got

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<v Speaker 2>sent like the congratulations everything and then yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I went to go visit my family they lived in

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<v Speaker 2>a different state, and then in March I think March third,

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty one, I was in Germany living with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, how did your the person you were currently dating

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<v Speaker 1>respond when you told him that you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>get married to a man in Germany that you never met?

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up? We ended up breaking up I think

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<v Speaker 2>very early on when I first started talking to my

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<v Speaker 2>my now husband. My now husband's name is Cody. By

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<v Speaker 2>the way, shout out to Cody, he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Watching Okay, So, uh yeah, how long were you? How

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<v Speaker 1>long were you with How long were you with the

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<v Speaker 1>person you were dating at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>For I think almost two years a year and a

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<v Speaker 2>half I think the two years somewhere in between that

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<v Speaker 2>almost two years.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, listen, like I want to get there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much to get into here. What was it? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you were dating this guy for what a year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half? Two years? You had like a pretty established

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<v Speaker 1>rapport with this guy you were dating. What what made

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<v Speaker 1>you ditch him for the man?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so when COVID first hits, maybe yeah, and COVID

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<v Speaker 2>first hit, my then boyfriend got fired from his job

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<v Speaker 2>and I that same day he got fired, I got

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<v Speaker 2>hired at a new job, so I was making a

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<v Speaker 2>lot more money. So I was like, Okay, I can

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<v Speaker 2>support you through your journey. I'm like trying to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out what you want to do. And in that time,

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<v Speaker 2>he kind of went down this like conspiracy theory, like

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<v Speaker 2>like wormhole and became super like political. He became a

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<v Speaker 2>Trump supporter and got really into it and was just

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<v Speaker 2>always trying to fight me about like women's issues and

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<v Speaker 2>like just the you know, the world. And I was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, to

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<v Speaker 2>be honest. I was trying to you know, maybe he's

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<v Speaker 2>just in a phase. But he just increasingly got more

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<v Speaker 2>and more crazy, not just like politically, but like in

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<v Speaker 2>our relationship, and I was trying. But yeah, that one,

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<v Speaker 2>the day that we broke up is because he thought

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<v Speaker 2>that I was cheating on him with but not in

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<v Speaker 2>the way that I was, but in the way that

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<v Speaker 2>he thought I was going to someone's house but I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so you were so you were so you were

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<v Speaker 1>like you were talking to another guy while you were

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, while I was still dating him, only for like

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<v Speaker 2>a week or so. And then in that second week.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we broke up now.

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<v Speaker 1>This X did he ever like he never like hurt

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<v Speaker 1>you or anything? Did he?

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, he was just kind of something wasn't right

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<v Speaker 2>up there, I think personally. And he's just a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you throughout the time that you knew him,

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<v Speaker 1>like before he had lost his job and gone down

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<v Speaker 1>this conspiracy rabbit hole, did he show any signs of

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<v Speaker 1>anything that might have kind of like, no, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>given up given hints that he was a little a

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<v Speaker 1>little crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he was. We were actually really good. We were

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<v Speaker 2>really good. We worked the same job. I met him

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<v Speaker 2>because he was my boss, and then uh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>ended up getting a better job than him, and he

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<v Speaker 2>really didn't like that. So that kind of started it,

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<v Speaker 2>I think. But other than that, No, we were good

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<v Speaker 2>and then that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's no better way to piss off

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<v Speaker 1>a Patriot than to uh break up with him in

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<v Speaker 1>eloped Germany.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you know we're happy now, like me and

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<v Speaker 2>Cody are doing super good. I think we're planning on

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<v Speaker 2>moving to La So yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so now you and Tody h your face timing

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<v Speaker 1>with him and you got married by Okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>were in Hawaii, he was in Germany. And then where

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<v Speaker 1>did the proxy marriage take place?

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<v Speaker 2>That was in Montana?

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<v Speaker 1>Why? Montana?

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<v Speaker 2>That's just where the place was that that does it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the place with the most amount of people that

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<v Speaker 1>you can convince that's the place where the unemployment rate

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<v Speaker 1>is high enough that people can get jobs marrying each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, it's just that peaceful.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't say anything about the unemployment rate of Montana.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably I don't know. I don't know anything about

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<v Speaker 1>the world. Okay, why did you marry this guy without

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<v Speaker 1>meeting him? I feel like we haven't really dived into that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Honestly, at the time, we were just so similar

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<v Speaker 2>and we were just getting along, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>and we wanted to be together and like at least

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<v Speaker 2>see each other, you know, But the best way for

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<v Speaker 2>us to be seeing each other was for us to

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<v Speaker 2>get married. Really because of COVID and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, how did you come to that conclusion?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know how we were.

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<v Speaker 1>C because you know, the best way for you guys

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<v Speaker 1>to meet, because you know, look, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>get married to visit Germany.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it was COVID, like they weren't Oh so

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<v Speaker 2>you did. Yeah, so, yeah, they weren't letting they weren't

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<v Speaker 2>letting people in during COVID. I think they weren't letting

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<v Speaker 2>us like please or letting people in. So we were like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, let's just get married and just try

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<v Speaker 2>it out and if it doesn't work, then, you know, divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>Fascinating Okay, so so so so you couldn't go to

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<v Speaker 1>Germany because of COVID, but if you married a German guy,

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<v Speaker 1>then the rules said that you could. No.

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<v Speaker 2>So he lives in the military, so he he got

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<v Speaker 2>stationed in Germany, which is what happened. But because so

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<v Speaker 2>if we're married, then then if then if we're married,

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<v Speaker 2>then I can go be with my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Really okay, it was how long ago? How long have

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<v Speaker 1>you guys been married for?

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<v Speaker 2>Now? Two years?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so we beat out.

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<v Speaker 2>We got married January six. Yeah, I mean the first

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<v Speaker 2>year is the hardest.

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<v Speaker 1>They say, so okay, and was that true? Was the

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<v Speaker 1>first year hard?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? We went through some stuff, but I think mostly

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<v Speaker 2>we're a pretty healthy relationship. I mean, we we're good

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<v Speaker 2>at communicating, which is like the key I think to marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>Is communication, and you know, we like each other very much.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I think I think the first year was

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<v Speaker 2>the hardest, but I think we're doing pretty good now.

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<v Speaker 1>When you first met him, did he like, did he

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<v Speaker 1>live up to the expectations of that first juicy picture

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<v Speaker 1>that your Rachel friend posted?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? For sure. When I first hugged him, he was

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<v Speaker 2>a lot skinnier than I thought he would be. But

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<v Speaker 2>he's bulked up now he's pretty bluff now.

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<v Speaker 1>So well that's good. Okay. So you live in Germany now?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, well, right now I'm in Maryland because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>visiting family and he's still in Germany. And then he's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna leave Germany and we're gonna he's gonna meet my parents.

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<v Speaker 2>He hasn't met my parents yet or anything, so he's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna come here after he's done in Germany.

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<v Speaker 1>How did your parents respond to this story? I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>what they thought.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom was like okay, and then my dad was

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<v Speaker 2>actually very excited. He was like, wooho, congratulations. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know that we all kind of all, me and my

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<v Speaker 2>siblings all thought that it was kind of weird that

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<v Speaker 2>he was like so happy for me, But you know whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>My Dad's not the type.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not that type. What do you what do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean by that type?

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<v Speaker 2>He's not like the type to be like wooo, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what he said when I told him. I called him

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, Dad, I got married. He said it,

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<v Speaker 2>He said, woo hoo.

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<v Speaker 1>So four So you so you got married when you're

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty two?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was about to turn twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, how old.

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<v Speaker 2>See he's twenty nine now he's about to be thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, what do you tell me about this job? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you do you still? It's just like a remote gig,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how'd you keep this job while you were in Germany?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I became a housewife for two years, which was

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<v Speaker 2>good and bad. I think good like I got to

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<v Speaker 2>rest because I was like working my asshole in Hawaii

0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:24.800
<v Speaker 2>to trying to live. And then that in the sense

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<v Speaker 2>like I I want to go back to work. So

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<v Speaker 2>when we go to la and want to go back

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<v Speaker 2>to work, I'm actually going to work while I'm here

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<v Speaker 2>in Maryland. But you know, so you two years, God, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You got because I remember you said you got a

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<v Speaker 1>better job than your ex boyfriend. And that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the catalyst to the end of your relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>then you started. Yeah, and then you moved to Germany

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<v Speaker 1>like two months later. So this better job that you had,

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<v Speaker 1>you must have only had it for like a few months, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>so I got.

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<v Speaker 2>The I was. I became a bank teller in February

0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:12.520
<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty, and that's when my ex got fired. We

0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.640
<v Speaker 2>were working at a John bajoos He got fired out

0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:20.040
<v Speaker 2>of John Bajooze and then he that's when he became

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<v Speaker 2>He was unemployed until I think about November, so about

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<v Speaker 2>the time that we broke up. That was supporting him

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<v Speaker 2>the whole time. I almost made a year because I left.

0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:37.320
<v Speaker 2>I left Hawaii in February, but I didn't quite make

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<v Speaker 2>a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so you were a housewife. So the deal.

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<v Speaker 1>So the deal was, okay, let's get married, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to move to Germany and you're going to financially support me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, But that wasn't the plan initially, I think

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<v Speaker 2>for me especially, I was like planning on working that

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<v Speaker 2>first year. I kind of took to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>work by myself, I think a little bit more and travel,

0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:09.960
<v Speaker 2>which was like the main thing. We wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to travel all around Europe and stuff. So I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want my job to get in the way of

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<v Speaker 2>that when I didn't really need to work, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the second year, we were just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>we were trying to start a family and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yes, have kids.

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<v Speaker 2>So it didn't work. Uh yeah, but it didn't. It

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<v Speaker 2>didn't work out A little bit didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is that part of the future plan?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, kind of. So Cody has a daughter already, there's

0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:54.760
<v Speaker 2>another crazy story. But so I'm happy being step mom

0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:58.040
<v Speaker 2>if I don't end up being able to have like

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<v Speaker 2>my own biological kids, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? How old is the kid?

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<v Speaker 2>She is three?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And how is it being a step mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I haven't because we've been in Germany, I haven't

0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.320
<v Speaker 2>mattered yet. So when we get to the States, we

0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:26.159
<v Speaker 2>move officially to the States, then I get to really,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, play into my role as stepmom. I'm super excited,

0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:32.200
<v Speaker 2>super excited.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you So you guys have been living in

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<v Speaker 1>Germany the past two years, right, and where has the

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<v Speaker 1>where has the daughter.

0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:48.800
<v Speaker 2>Been with her mom? I think in on the East coast? Okay,

0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.159
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, on the East coast. I don't think right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now on the East coast. So if you guys moved

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<v Speaker 1>to Los Angeles, is the daughter gonna Are they going

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<v Speaker 1>to trade custody? How's that going to work?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we're gonna figure it out. We're gonna figure it out.

0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:08.440
<v Speaker 2>We're just so hard because of being because we were

0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:13.399
<v Speaker 2>in Germany. It's been so hard to like really figure

0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:17.040
<v Speaker 2>it all out. But this year, specifically this year, once

0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:20.359
<v Speaker 2>we get out of Germany officially, I think everything's gonna

0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:24.800
<v Speaker 2>come together. I'm not really too worried about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is being a mom something you've always wanted?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm uh. So you you say that you were

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<v Speaker 1>a housewife for two years? What I mean, how was

0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that for you? Did you like did you like cooking?

0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you like like what did you what did you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of do?

0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I did a lot of internal healing. I think it

0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:56.320
<v Speaker 2>was super necessary for me. A lot of like inner

0:18:56.400 --> 0:19:01.960
<v Speaker 2>child healing, a lot of meditation, journaling, therapy. I did

0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:06.679
<v Speaker 2>go to school for a while and then yeah, but

0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:12.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm not like the academic type. I was getting my associates,

0:19:12.440 --> 0:19:19.199
<v Speaker 2>my like liberal arts associates degree. M but I'm not

0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:21.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm not that type.

0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:25.679
<v Speaker 1>So how okay? So you were doing a lot of

0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:32.560
<v Speaker 1>journaling and meditating and kind of hanging out and uh

0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:36.800
<v Speaker 1>you and Cody was was supporting you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. About he's in the military right.

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<v Speaker 1>A bunch of times? How does he like being in

0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:48.960
<v Speaker 1>the army?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so before you're answered that, when you guys go

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<v Speaker 1>back to l A, is he still in the military.

0:19:56.640 --> 0:19:58.360
<v Speaker 2>No, he's getting out.

0:19:58.720 --> 0:19:59.760
<v Speaker 1>What's he going to do now?

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<v Speaker 2>He's just going to join the l A p D.

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<v Speaker 2>I think. Okay, because they're hiring, they're going to hire him.

0:20:09.040 --> 0:20:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Is that is that a thing to a lot of

0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:14.760
<v Speaker 1>former former military become police officers? Well?

0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think because the the number of police officers

0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:24.560
<v Speaker 2>needed has gotten up significantly, so I think they they

0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:30.640
<v Speaker 2>want to recruit people who have prior experience I think

0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:33.760
<v Speaker 2>in that kind of area. But really it's just because

0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:37.240
<v Speaker 2>they're hiring him, I think, is why he's going for it?

0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:40.560
<v Speaker 1>And what are you planning on doing when when when

0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:41.359
<v Speaker 1>we go back to l A.

0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, because I want to work. I'm trying to get

0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:49.880
<v Speaker 2>hired at this Starbucks over here just for the time

0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:52.399
<v Speaker 2>while I'm over here, and then I'm probably just gonna

0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:58.400
<v Speaker 2>end up doing Starbucks in LA and then working from

0:20:58.440 --> 0:21:03.440
<v Speaker 2>there to like find, you know, the career I want,

0:21:04.920 --> 0:21:07.000
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. I think there's more opportunity

0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:09.720
<v Speaker 2>in LA to do that, to be able to find

0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:11.080
<v Speaker 2>a career.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wanted to. I wanted to know what is

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<v Speaker 1>your Do you have dreams for the future or things

0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:22.960
<v Speaker 1>that you hope for?

0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:25.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I mean, my my husband's listening, but he's listening to

0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.520
<v Speaker 2>this probably, and I wasn't going to tell him, but

0:21:33.720 --> 0:21:37.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm I think I'm interested in getting into coding and

0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:40.880
<v Speaker 2>getting into web development. So I've been doing a lot

0:21:40.920 --> 0:21:45.760
<v Speaker 2>of courses and stuff and I'm planning on going to

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<v Speaker 2>a boot camp. I think once I kind of get

0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:51.560
<v Speaker 2>the basics down and I think that's what I want

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:54.480
<v Speaker 2>to do. I've been trying it out for since I've

0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:57.720
<v Speaker 2>been in the States, and I actually really like it.

0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:01.440
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't going to tell him. I wanted to surprise him.

0:22:01.440 --> 0:22:05.720
<v Speaker 2>But I guess this is a good surprise for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I like that, a coding boot camp. Okay, do

0:22:10.119 --> 0:22:11.960
<v Speaker 1>you guys know what? Do you guys know anybody in La?

0:22:14.680 --> 0:22:15.760
<v Speaker 3>I think he has a.

0:22:15.600 --> 0:22:20.159
<v Speaker 2>Friend in La. I mean me and then I have

0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:23.320
<v Speaker 2>a friend that lives pretty close to La. But not

0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:25.400
<v Speaker 2>in La. Her name is Damielle.

0:22:27.280 --> 0:22:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you do you feel like you've got a good,

0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:35.080
<v Speaker 1>uh like community around you? You know? M.

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, My my family's pretty supportive of anything I do.

0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:45.560
<v Speaker 2>And then Cody's been my main support in anything. So

0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 2>I do rely on him a lot for like that

0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:53.160
<v Speaker 2>kind of support. But my my family has been very

0:22:53.480 --> 0:22:59.520
<v Speaker 2>My family loved Cody without even like meeting him. M. So, okay,

0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:01.040
<v Speaker 2>they're pretty supportive.

0:23:03.520 --> 0:23:08.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we're married for two years in Germany. We're

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 1>going back to Los Angeles. Cody's gonna become a cop.

0:23:15.480 --> 0:23:21.359
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna work Starbucks. We're gonna hang out with Danielle.

0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:24.800
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna go take some coding classes. We're gonna journal,

0:23:25.600 --> 0:23:33.040
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna meditate, We're gonna try to be a step

0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:37.919
<v Speaker 1>mom of some kind. This sounds very personal, So if

0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to talk about it or answer, we

0:23:39.840 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 1>can totally skip it and move on. But are are

0:23:44.240 --> 0:23:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you kind of are are You're you're hoping to eventually

0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 1>have a child of your own?

0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:59.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure yet because so we we did have

0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:04.199
<v Speaker 2>a child, but she she passed away. Oh I'm really so,

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure. Well, it's Okay, I'm okay. That was

0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:15.560
<v Speaker 2>in May in twenty twenty two, so pretty kind of recent.

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:20.480
<v Speaker 2>But it's okay. I'm not sure exactly, like where where

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:23.280
<v Speaker 2>I feel about trying again, you know what I mean?

0:24:24.600 --> 0:24:27.760
<v Speaker 2>I go back and forth a lot. I don't know.

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.120
<v Speaker 2>We're also thinking about adopting. I think we're gonna actually

0:24:31.840 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 2>adopt for sure.

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:39.000
<v Speaker 1>Hey, you know you should have. You should have hit

0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:42.920
<v Speaker 1>up the two the proxy marriage people and see if

0:24:43.000 --> 0:24:44.399
<v Speaker 1>they'll fucking have a kid for you.

0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 2>You know what, probably there's kids everywhere that need to

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:49.760
<v Speaker 2>be adopted.

0:24:54.080 --> 0:24:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're thinking about adopting. I like that. That

0:24:56.840 --> 0:24:58.880
<v Speaker 1>sounds that sounds nice. It sounds like being a mother

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 1>is something you've you've really wanted to do.

0:25:02.160 --> 0:25:04.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I'd be a pretty good mother. I've

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:08.800
<v Speaker 2>been staying with my brother and his wife and then

0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:11.919
<v Speaker 2>they have a one year old niece, and just like,

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:16.640
<v Speaker 2>being an auntie in itself is so fulfilling, and especially

0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:22.159
<v Speaker 2>after loss too, I can see that I can appreciate

0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:25.920
<v Speaker 2>being an auntie. I can I can appreciate the roles

0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 2>that I have as like wife, auntie, sister, you know,

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:34.240
<v Speaker 2>mom to a child that's not here anymore. You know

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:39.680
<v Speaker 2>what I mean that I can appreciate the those titles

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 2>a lot more now, I think because I get to

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:43.320
<v Speaker 2>hang out with my niece.

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Also, a niece is good because you can hang out

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:50.640
<v Speaker 1>with them and then when you don't want to anymore,

0:25:50.760 --> 0:25:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you send them away.

0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:54.640
<v Speaker 2>I can just do it. I can say bye bye.

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. See if you do that with like your actual kid,

0:25:57.480 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 1>apparently you're an asshole, right.

0:26:01.880 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 2>I can't just like leave them in the room upstairs

0:26:05.520 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 2>by themselves.

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:09.240
<v Speaker 1>So you can do that. You just can't leave them

0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:11.440
<v Speaker 1>like on a dirt road or something like that.

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I want to do that to make me

0:26:14.840 --> 0:26:17.000
<v Speaker 2>see there, that's true.

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:22.479
<v Speaker 1>That's true. Well, listen, I think before we go, I

0:26:22.520 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 1>just have one other Are you Are you happy? Are

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you feeling excited about life and about where where life

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:32.119
<v Speaker 1>has taken you so far and where it plans to

0:26:32.160 --> 0:26:33.000
<v Speaker 1>take you in the future.

0:26:35.080 --> 0:26:39.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, for sure. I think especially after starting learning

0:26:39.480 --> 0:26:44.199
<v Speaker 2>to code, has been really exciting because I'm I'm excited

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 2>to see if I can actually get a career in it.

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:51.000
<v Speaker 2>And then yeah, just it's just a new it's a

0:26:51.040 --> 0:26:55.360
<v Speaker 2>new year. That's how I'm feeling about it. It's it's

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 2>a lot more optimistic than I've been for the last

0:26:58.280 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 2>like six seven months.

0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:09.200
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, well, Gina, thanks for thanks for sharing your stories.

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>This was this is fascinating, very fascinating, obviously non traditional.

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 1>I think you know that. Yeah, but it's good that

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:24.640
<v Speaker 1>it that it worked out for you, because i mean, look,

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:30.120
<v Speaker 1>life is so fucking crazy complicated, and sometimes you make

0:27:30.640 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 1>wild decisions to get married to a guy that you've

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, haven't even met. But then I mean, fuck,

0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes there's those decisions lead you to a

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>place where you're feeling good about life. And that's yeah, that's.

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:49.080
<v Speaker 2>Kind of why is why I'm married him? Too, was

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:54.320
<v Speaker 2>because like my whole thing was like why not? Why not?

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 2>Like what's like the worst that could happen is you

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:01.880
<v Speaker 2>could be a murderer the many times before we met

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:05.200
<v Speaker 2>if he was a murderer, but he he's not. And

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 2>but then also.

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:08.880
<v Speaker 1>You did you did, you did your research?

0:28:10.440 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like why would he like pay first all

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:15.639
<v Speaker 2>this stuff like for me to be able to go

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:18.320
<v Speaker 2>be with him and everything if he was like a murderer,

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:20.879
<v Speaker 2>Like what kind of mo is that? But then also

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 2>it's like.

0:28:22.480 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 1>That wouldn't be a very good r O.

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:28.879
<v Speaker 2>I right, So I was like, why not, Like, let's

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:30.840
<v Speaker 2>take a chance on love.

0:28:33.160 --> 0:28:34.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, Gina, thank you for sharing all this stuff. Is

0:28:34.960 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 1>there anything else you want to say to the people

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:37.720
<v Speaker 1>of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 2>If you're scared to do something, I think like, why not?

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 2>Why not try? You know, and love, love your kids,

0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:55.600
<v Speaker 2>love your family, and shout out to Cody. I love you, dude,

0:28:56.600 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 2>and yet we love your We love your show. We

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:00.120
<v Speaker 2>listened to it on broad.

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Hell. Yeah, I'm honored to be I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>part of the family.

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 2>You are. You definitely are.

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like your pet gecko for real.

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we love you, We love you.

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:17.400
<v Speaker 1>Hey, thank you, Gina. You guys have a good name.

0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 2>Yep, you two buye.

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<v Speaker 1>Fascinating. I feel like I've talked to a lot of

0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 1>callers like that who have like made these wild jumps,

0:29:33.400 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I'm always back. Look because here's

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna be honest. When she told me that

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:42.680
<v Speaker 1>she married this guy in a different country that she

0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 1>had never met before after two months, yeah, of course

0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was insane, of course. But here's the

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 1>thing is, people have told me a lot of this stuff,

0:29:54.200 --> 0:29:57.200
<v Speaker 1>especially with stuff with like relationships and whatnot. You know

0:29:57.360 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>of wild decisions of life, free arrangements and whatnot that

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:08.640
<v Speaker 1>seem crazy, But I don't know. I think the bottom

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>line is whether or not you're happy as a person

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>being alive in the universe. Are you content? Are you

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:25.560
<v Speaker 1>not in constant fucking dread or unhappiness or whatever? Like

0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, these are These are bottom line things. And

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I if I ask someone if

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<v Speaker 1>they're feeling happy and good about their life and they

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:41.640
<v Speaker 1>say that they are, then I don't know how how

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>crazy their decision really was. Right, A lot of life's

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>complex that way. There are no I'm not gonna say

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:55.600
<v Speaker 1>there's no bad decisions. There's plenty of bad decisions. There's

0:30:55.960 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 1>lots and lots an infinite number of bad decisions, but

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>they could all lead you to an infinite number of places.

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<v Speaker 1>Very trippy. Thanks for calling, gen.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, Hello, Hi there, Oh hey hey Lyle.

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<v Speaker 2>How's it going? Man?

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, how's it going?

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 5>Uh?

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm alive for I'm gonna be dead for most of

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 1>all of the time, and I'm in the tiny little

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 1>window where I'm not dead, And that's awesome. I think

0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:34.760
<v Speaker 1>that's so cool, Like I'm gonna be dead for millions.

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:37.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be dead for infinity amount of time, and

0:31:38.040 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I was dead for the amount of time before that.

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:45.320
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like in the microscopic window where I get

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>to breathe and eat nutter butter bites and drink water.

0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:54.160
<v Speaker 1>So I'm actually really stoked about that. How are you doing.

0:31:56.840 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 5>When you when you put things like that, I'm a

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 5>lot better than I'm a lot better than normal, you know.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:04.800
<v Speaker 5>But now that I'm thinking about him, I'm really happy

0:32:04.880 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 5>to be here right now?

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, great, Well, is there anything else you wanted to

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about? Or did we kind of did we kind

0:32:12.040 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 1>of do it?

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 5>I think we did it. Man, It's been an honor

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:19.240
<v Speaker 5>talking to you, and I.

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Love you, Jake. It says here that you told your

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 1>wife that she can have your skull when you die,

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:28.880
<v Speaker 1>and that she was thrown off by that.

0:32:31.240 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, basically, Uh, I don't know how do I start this.

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:42.000
<v Speaker 5>She has like a memorial shadow box for a dog

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:46.480
<v Speaker 5>she used to have that has, you know, like skeletal

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 5>remains in it. And then I told her I want

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:52.640
<v Speaker 5>to do it with the dog we have now, like

0:32:52.720 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 5>we want I want his skull, and uh, she wasn't

0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 5>jazzed up about that, which brought up the skeleton in

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:05.600
<v Speaker 5>my closet, which is that when I die, I wanted

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 5>to give my skull to her. So there seems to

0:33:08.400 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 5>be a disconnection in my understanding of her. I don't know.

0:33:13.000 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 5>Love for the oddities, I guess.

0:33:16.720 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>All right, I have several questions. Yes, Well, first of all,

0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it says here that you're twenty six years old, and

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>so is she. That's right, So I mean, when do

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:30.240
<v Speaker 1>you think you're going to die?

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:36.720
<v Speaker 5>I don't have any reason. I think it's going to

0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 5>be soon. Maybe when I'm like one hundred is the goal?

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 1>You think around me, you're going Do you think that

0:33:45.560 --> 0:33:48.120
<v Speaker 1>you and your wife are going to live to one

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 1>hundred years old and be married?

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 5>That's a good goal, Yes, for sure. I mean I hope, So.

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 1>It's good to have hope.

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah. So I don't know. I mean, it's not

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:11.319
<v Speaker 5>that we're planning for dying soon or anything, but it

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 5>just kind of came up. I don't know's I got

0:34:15.600 --> 0:34:17.799
<v Speaker 5>like a weird I have a weird thing with like

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:23.600
<v Speaker 5>an affinity for skulls. So I just look at as

0:34:23.640 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 5>like a very like personal deep gesture and it's kind

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 5>of how I want to go, and she didn't like it,

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 5>and I don't know. Part of me feels like I

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.240
<v Speaker 5>have a right to be put on my own mantle

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.120
<v Speaker 5>even after I'm gone.

0:34:36.960 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Never tell anyone that you will give them something when

0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:44.799
<v Speaker 1>you die, because it makes them want to kill you

0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:46.759
<v Speaker 1>so they can get it.

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:50.000
<v Speaker 5>Oh, it's like a ploy.

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Let me talk to your wife, sorry if she is Hello, Hi, Tiffany, Hi,

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:08.279
<v Speaker 1>what is the plan for what? Uh? Why were you

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>thrown off that your husband offered to give you his skull? Well?

0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:21.680
<v Speaker 3>I think having his skull after he dies is scary

0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:25.040
<v Speaker 3>and creepy and I wouldn't be able to, you know,

0:35:25.200 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 3>live waking up and seeing like his skull somewhere, and

0:35:30.520 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 3>like knowing that his face used to be there, but

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 3>it's not there anymore. It's just his skull.

0:35:36.920 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 5>You know.

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:40.160
<v Speaker 1>It's gnarly is you wake up and see his skull

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:40.759
<v Speaker 1>every day?

0:35:44.480 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 3>I do, But it's you know, he has his eyes

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:51.400
<v Speaker 3>and his teeth and his mom and like all the

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:55.760
<v Speaker 3>card lists and everything there, and it's you know, it's different.

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So apparently you like so, I mean, look, the

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.760
<v Speaker 1>thing behind all of this is that you keep bags

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 1>of dog bones, and so your husband was like, all right,

0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:14.840
<v Speaker 1>this she's in. She's into dead bone stuff because she

0:36:14.600 --> 0:36:16.920
<v Speaker 1>had she hangs out with dead dogs all the time,

0:36:17.360 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 1>so maybe she'd want to hang out with dead me.

0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 1>So apparently, and apparently he felt as though that was

0:36:24.640 --> 0:36:27.799
<v Speaker 1>within your character and that's throwing him off. What's your

0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 1>response to that?

0:36:31.120 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 3>So, yes, I have there you know I had a

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:46.400
<v Speaker 3>dog before or yeah, so I have his romains. But

0:36:47.760 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 3>there was this one time we were talking and and

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:53.879
<v Speaker 3>uh my husband said that he would take our dog

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 3>now our chief head, and I said no. I was like, no,

0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't we do that? I wouldn't want to see

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:04.760
<v Speaker 3>Archie's head like mounted on our wall. So then he said, well,

0:37:05.120 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 3>I want to give you my skull, and I was like, well,

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:10.240
<v Speaker 3>same thing. Why would I want to have your skull

0:37:10.280 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 3>mounted on my wall?

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:13.240
<v Speaker 4>That's it's freaky.

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:14.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't I can't do that.

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:20.439
<v Speaker 1>M M. So okay, so then how are you Why

0:37:20.520 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>is it that you can't do that but you have

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:25.680
<v Speaker 1>you already have a dead dog thing.

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, because the the dog is cremated, I don't see

0:37:35.040 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 3>like his skull.

0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Ah no, wait, wait are you hold on? Jake? If

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:46.759
<v Speaker 1>what she's telling me is true, I don't know where

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>the I don't know what the fuck you're talking about,

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>because a cremated dog.

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:53.439
<v Speaker 5>No, it's not true, it's not true at all. She's

0:37:53.760 --> 0:37:56.279
<v Speaker 5>now she's hiding the truth. She had like she has

0:37:56.320 --> 0:38:00.279
<v Speaker 5>its teeth in there and it's for uh think she

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:01.760
<v Speaker 5>even had some tonail timing.

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:07.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, No, that's not the same.

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 1>That's not the same at all. Jake, that's like saying

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 1>the Jake, Jake, Jake, Jake. That's like if you got

0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:21.280
<v Speaker 1>your grandmother cremated and had like an urn with her ashes,

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 1>and you thought the person that kept that was into oddities.

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:30.560
<v Speaker 5>Hold on, hold on. First of all, you are an addies.

0:38:32.520 --> 0:38:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Having an earn of your grandmother's ashes does not make

0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 1>you into.

0:38:37.480 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but the loud, here's the here's the thing. Do

0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:42.920
<v Speaker 5>you like would you keep the dentures with it? I

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.319
<v Speaker 5>mean she her dogs, her dog's teeth are in there

0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 5>for trying out loud and the fur.

0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 1>Why are you looking inside of this thing?

0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:57.480
<v Speaker 5>It's no, no, no, no, The cremation is in the box.

0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 3>So I have Yeah, I have two separate like components

0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:08.040
<v Speaker 3>to memory, like memorialize my dog. One is the actual

0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 3>box that has his cremated cremated remains, and then the

0:39:12.480 --> 0:39:15.240
<v Speaker 3>other box is a shadow box that has like pictures

0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:17.600
<v Speaker 3>of him. It has a piece of his collar, and

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:21.799
<v Speaker 3>it does have two little jars. One one jar has

0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 3>spur in it and the other jar has a tooth

0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 3>of his no, no toenails.

0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so how about instead of a skull, you take

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>like some clippings of a T shirt and some of

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:39.479
<v Speaker 1>his pubes and put it in a little dixie cup

0:39:39.920 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 1>and that can be the same thing.

0:39:43.680 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I could. I could do that, some some hair

0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 3>and some beard hair shirt.

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:50.160
<v Speaker 2>But not his skull.

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, have we found a good compromise, John, Jake?

0:39:58.440 --> 0:40:01.759
<v Speaker 5>Uh? Yes, you know what? Yeah, I can. I can

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:02.360
<v Speaker 5>sell on that.

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.759
<v Speaker 2>Uh. I don't know.

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:12.320
<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's good, maybe like a cut of his hair,

0:40:12.440 --> 0:40:15.480
<v Speaker 3>but I think that I wouldn't not the pubes.

0:40:16.080 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't do that.

0:40:18.360 --> 0:40:20.920
<v Speaker 1>So you guys think you're gonna be married for seventy

0:40:20.960 --> 0:40:31.759
<v Speaker 1>four years? Oh? Yeah, okay, Well I I I hope

0:40:31.800 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 1>so too.

0:40:35.560 --> 0:40:35.799
<v Speaker 5>Thanks.

0:40:36.280 --> 0:40:36.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 1>What if, now, Tiffany, what if you die first? Does

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>Jake get to keep your leg? What does he get?

0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yeah, he can take my arm? If he wants to.

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:54.919
<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, now i'd be about that. I mounted over

0:40:54.960 --> 0:40:56.239
<v Speaker 5>the over the fireplace.

0:40:57.280 --> 0:41:02.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, genuinely, you know what, Now I see what

0:41:02.400 --> 0:41:03.399
<v Speaker 1>you guys see in each other.

0:41:08.280 --> 0:41:10.799
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's it's a it's a good partnership.

0:41:11.480 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you guys want to say to

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:14.520
<v Speaker 1>the people of the computer before we go?

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:24.239
<v Speaker 5>If it's cold outside, then don't leave the dogs outside.

0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.600
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like that was some reverse psychology on

0:41:28.640 --> 0:41:30.319
<v Speaker 1>your part because you're trying to go and collect more

0:41:30.360 --> 0:41:31.680
<v Speaker 1>dog skulls.

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:38.440
<v Speaker 5>Don't, yeah, don't. We'll tell people thank you.

0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:45.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, bye, guys, Bye, good bye. I don't let i've

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.719
<v Speaker 1>I've I realized I didn't let Tiffany say her thing.

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:50.880
<v Speaker 1>But it's okay. She'll be dead soon, so will I,

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:53.760
<v Speaker 1>so will hear, so will all the dogs in the universe.

0:41:55.080 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 1>When I die, everyone listening to this can have I'm

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 1>going to get cremated, and everyone listening to this can

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:06.600
<v Speaker 1>have one spec.

0:42:06.239 --> 0:42:09.719
<v Speaker 4>Of ash Hello, Hello is this Lyle?

0:42:10.560 --> 0:42:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Who is this?

0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 4>This is Elmo?

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Yo?

0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 4>Your your whole music about sending me into psychosis listening

0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 4>to that shit for an hour?

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Man? Okay, Well, whose decision was that.

0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:31.680
<v Speaker 4>That was definitely your decision for going live. What I

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:32.600
<v Speaker 4>don't know? What's up man?

0:42:33.480 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, nothing much. What what is it you wanted to

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about today?

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:43.520
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to tell you about how my father messaged

0:42:43.520 --> 0:42:47.400
<v Speaker 4>me on Facebook like a month ago and told me, like,

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:49.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't know where because he doesn't talk to me

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 4>because you know, he's on like drugs and shit. He

0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:53.480
<v Speaker 4>just messages me and goes. I just want to let

0:42:53.480 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 4>you know that you're the only child that I planned

0:42:55.560 --> 0:42:58.360
<v Speaker 4>to con see that was on magic mushrooms, and I

0:42:58.560 --> 0:43:00.600
<v Speaker 4>just wanted to discuss a little bit.

0:43:04.239 --> 0:43:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did that make you feel when he messaged

0:43:07.000 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to you that, Oh, it made.

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:12.520
<v Speaker 4>Me feel kind of powerful, to be honest, because not

0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:15.480
<v Speaker 4>many people can say that, you know, they were like

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:18.759
<v Speaker 4>trip and balls and now their dad's wiener. You know,

0:43:19.080 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 4>like that's pretty interesting. I think.

0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:26.560
<v Speaker 1>So you feel as though this revelation from your father

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:31.919
<v Speaker 1>that you were conceived while on magic mushrooms has been

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:36.239
<v Speaker 1>this made you feel powerful?

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:42.320
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I feel like it's definitely changed my outlook

0:43:42.320 --> 0:43:43.839
<v Speaker 4>on life since I figured this out.

0:43:44.680 --> 0:43:45.399
<v Speaker 1>Okay, how so.

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:49.960
<v Speaker 4>I feel like I could be like, well, to be honest,

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:55.200
<v Speaker 4>a lot of like crazy incidential stuff happens to me

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:59.040
<v Speaker 4>pretty often, and I used to be really curious why.

0:43:59.120 --> 0:44:01.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I dibbled out in psychedelics myself. I don't

0:44:01.760 --> 0:44:05.320
<v Speaker 4>really love mushrooms, to be honest, I hate magic mushrooms, okay,

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:08.759
<v Speaker 4>but I just felt like, I don't know, I just

0:44:08.800 --> 0:44:11.240
<v Speaker 4>feel like it changed the way I look at life

0:44:11.600 --> 0:44:14.200
<v Speaker 4>once I figured that out, because now it's like the

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:16.840
<v Speaker 4>world is my oyster. If I was conceived on magic mushrooms,

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:17.680
<v Speaker 4>what else can I do?

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Well? You didn't really do that.

0:44:22.840 --> 0:44:26.120
<v Speaker 4>Well, I came out of his leaders, all right.

0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:29.920
<v Speaker 1>I guess that you. That was sort of you. All right.

0:44:30.000 --> 0:44:34.400
<v Speaker 1>So if you could have been conceived on magic mushrooms,

0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 1>what else could you do? I mean, what do you

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 1>want to do? What do I want to do?

0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.120
<v Speaker 4>To be honest, I don't know. I haven't figured that

0:44:43.160 --> 0:44:46.080
<v Speaker 4>out yet. I haven't figured that out yet. Man, I'm

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:48.400
<v Speaker 4>just kind of raw dogging life.

0:44:49.120 --> 0:44:50.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, can I tell you something?

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 4>Go ahead?

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:53.880
<v Speaker 1>The fact that you if you don't know what you

0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:56.320
<v Speaker 1>want to do, the fact that you can do anything

0:44:56.520 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 1>is meaningless, you know. I I feel like, I mean, yeah, well,

0:45:03.239 --> 0:45:05.080
<v Speaker 1>if you yeah, of course you could do anything, but

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>you only really can you could choose from a lot

0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 1>of different things. But you can only really do a

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:15.040
<v Speaker 1>finite amount of things with the amount of time you

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:18.040
<v Speaker 1>have on earth. But with that finite amount of time,

0:45:18.120 --> 0:45:22.239
<v Speaker 1>you can do what you can do a lot, right, right,

0:45:23.840 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, alright, so hold on, you know, just

0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 1>get this one. Give me, Give us one thing, Give

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:30.719
<v Speaker 1>us one thing that you want to do.

0:45:32.719 --> 0:45:34.480
<v Speaker 4>One thing I want to do. I want to see

0:45:34.520 --> 0:45:37.839
<v Speaker 4>the world. I want to see the different cultures and

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:40.400
<v Speaker 4>how everyone lives their life in different countries.

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 1>That is like, okay, it's a great goal, it's a

0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 1>great car. It's narrow it down. Give us the culture,

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:48.359
<v Speaker 1>give us the country, all right.

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:51.319
<v Speaker 4>I want to go to Egypt and see the pyramids

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:58.040
<v Speaker 4>and yeah, experience that. I feel like seeing what the

0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 4>Egyptians built, or the alien or whoever built those freaking

0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:03.840
<v Speaker 4>huge pyramids. I want to see that shit in person,

0:46:03.840 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 4>because in pictures I feel like it just doesn't do

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:07.200
<v Speaker 4>it justice. I need to be there.

0:46:07.960 --> 0:46:10.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Well, so what's stopping you from going

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:11.400
<v Speaker 1>and seeing the pyramids?

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:18.400
<v Speaker 4>I think it's like two grands money, money, you know,

0:46:19.080 --> 0:46:21.319
<v Speaker 4>that's that's the one thing that you can't just have,

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:24.239
<v Speaker 4>you know, That's what stops. A lot of opportunities and

0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:25.400
<v Speaker 4>a lot of things are happening.

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Is money, It's true, It's true.

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:32.839
<v Speaker 4>Imagine if there was just an abundance of that, then

0:46:33.000 --> 0:46:34.440
<v Speaker 4>everyone would be doing everything.

0:46:34.480 --> 0:46:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Though, do you how do you make money? Right now?

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 4>I'm at work right now. Actually, I work with this

0:46:45.360 --> 0:46:47.920
<v Speaker 4>warehouse that makes aerospace parts.

0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:55.719
<v Speaker 1>You you make fucking spaceship parts.

0:46:53.239 --> 0:46:56.040
<v Speaker 4>Like like like parts for the government and stuff. Honestly,

0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:57.880
<v Speaker 4>I don't really know what the fuck I do. I

0:46:58.000 --> 0:46:59.920
<v Speaker 4>just I put tape on ship and the paint or pain

0:47:00.320 --> 0:47:02.560
<v Speaker 4>and then we ship it out to the government.

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:06.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, how do you make good money doing that?

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:10.440
<v Speaker 4>No, I'm trying to find a new job because they

0:47:10.480 --> 0:47:12.719
<v Speaker 4>don't pay very well. But I mean I get to

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:14.719
<v Speaker 4>like sit and talk on the phone, so that's that's

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 4>kind of nice. There's there's no twicers that come with

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:18.120
<v Speaker 4>you know.

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you let's see here? You live in Florida?

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Where in Florida do you live?

0:47:28.400 --> 0:47:28.879
<v Speaker 4>I live here?

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:29.280
<v Speaker 5>Tampa?

0:47:30.600 --> 0:47:31.560
<v Speaker 4>Are you coming to Tampa?

0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I thought I heard you say that I'm coming to Tampa.

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:39.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm coming to the Tampa improv I think, baby, Um, yeah,

0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:43.320
<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on, all right, let's see a flight

0:47:43.400 --> 0:47:48.719
<v Speaker 1>from Tampa to Cairo. You're looking up for me, I'm

0:47:48.719 --> 0:47:52.319
<v Speaker 1>looking it up for you. It's it's a thousand bucks.

0:47:52.600 --> 0:47:56.560
<v Speaker 1>And then whatever, your your Airbnb and your trying your

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 1>food and the sea and the thing. Yeah, all right,

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:01.000
<v Speaker 1>two thousand bucks feels appropriate.

0:48:03.000 --> 0:48:05.080
<v Speaker 4>Okay, I have a question for you then, because you've

0:48:05.120 --> 0:48:07.600
<v Speaker 4>done a lot of traveling alone, how is that experience?

0:48:07.719 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 4>Do you enjoy it? Or do you wish you had

0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:10.600
<v Speaker 4>somebody who went with you?

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:13.479
<v Speaker 1>Oh? My god? Go alone? Have you never been alone before?

0:48:13.520 --> 0:48:14.240
<v Speaker 1>It's to a place.

0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:21.480
<v Speaker 4>No, I really haven't traveled much like generally in the US.

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.280
<v Speaker 4>Like I've only been like my home state in Florida,

0:48:24.400 --> 0:48:26.640
<v Speaker 4>and like drove through a couple of states, but I

0:48:26.680 --> 0:48:29.480
<v Speaker 4>haven't haven't really even seen I think. I think it's

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:32.440
<v Speaker 4>like just the fear of being somewhere alone that scares me.

0:48:32.520 --> 0:48:34.319
<v Speaker 4>To be honest, that's probably what's stopping me. It's not

0:48:34.360 --> 0:48:37.319
<v Speaker 4>even the money, because a thousand dollars, that's that's really

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:38.600
<v Speaker 4>nothing if you think about it.

0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you feel like you how long do you

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:48.520
<v Speaker 1>think it would take you to save up two thousand bucks?

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:51.279
<v Speaker 4>Probably a couple months, not too long, all right?

0:48:52.160 --> 0:48:55.200
<v Speaker 1>And then you need, you'd probably want, like, you know,

0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:59.040
<v Speaker 1>at least a week or or five days, however long

0:48:59.080 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 1>you'd probably want it, Like, would you be able to

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:02.319
<v Speaker 1>find the time to do it?

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:06.960
<v Speaker 4>Ooh, the time?

0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:08.120
<v Speaker 1>The time?

0:49:08.160 --> 0:49:11.160
<v Speaker 4>I think I would need a lot of money. Yeah,

0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:14.239
<v Speaker 4>I think time is probably just as close to the

0:49:14.320 --> 0:49:18.439
<v Speaker 4>money thing about then possibilities of life. Really, I think

0:49:18.480 --> 0:49:21.320
<v Speaker 4>I would need enough money to be able to quit

0:49:21.400 --> 0:49:23.920
<v Speaker 4>my job, go to Egypt, and then come back to

0:49:24.000 --> 0:49:26.160
<v Speaker 4>a new job because I don't have any PTO left.

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:29.400
<v Speaker 4>But I feel like that right there would be a

0:49:29.400 --> 0:49:30.439
<v Speaker 4>fresh start that I need.

0:49:31.520 --> 0:49:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the fresh start that you need. Okay, so how

0:49:33.719 --> 0:49:35.040
<v Speaker 1>long you've been working at this job for.

0:49:37.400 --> 0:49:38.759
<v Speaker 4>Only like six months?

0:49:39.000 --> 0:49:41.399
<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll fuck that. Yeah.

0:49:41.440 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I blew through.

0:49:42.120 --> 0:49:44.799
<v Speaker 4>I blew through all my PTO because I thought I

0:49:44.920 --> 0:49:47.120
<v Speaker 4>was actually going to move to South Carolina, and then

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:49.520
<v Speaker 4>I got scammed after I packed my whole life up

0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:51.880
<v Speaker 4>with my grandma and we moved up there, and the

0:49:51.920 --> 0:49:54.440
<v Speaker 4>apartment we were supposed to move into was all fucked up,

0:49:54.480 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 4>and so we had just moved back down to Florida

0:49:57.320 --> 0:49:59.160
<v Speaker 4>and be homeless for a month. So I'm just not

0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:01.680
<v Speaker 4>kind of getting my peep back on the ground. But

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:05.360
<v Speaker 4>I like soft soft ghost in my job because I

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 4>wanted my Christmas bonus, so they didn't even know I quit.

0:50:08.200 --> 0:50:10.200
<v Speaker 4>So I think, see that's another thing with the magic

0:50:10.280 --> 0:50:14.160
<v Speaker 4>mushroom thing. I feel like I predicted my own destiny

0:50:14.560 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 4>to not quit my job so I could come back

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:17.640
<v Speaker 4>and still have a job.

0:50:19.120 --> 0:50:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't ever want to and uh I don't. I

0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:25.799
<v Speaker 1>don't like. I feel like a dick every time I

0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:29.480
<v Speaker 1>do this when I, you know, try to disregard spiritual things.

0:50:30.400 --> 0:50:35.640
<v Speaker 1>But you you don't predict what you do with yourself.

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:36.680
<v Speaker 1>You do it.

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm.

0:50:42.160 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You can just make decision, elaborate. But you're saying that

0:50:48.120 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 1>you predicted yourself quitting your job. That's a good point too.

0:50:52.080 --> 0:50:53.480
<v Speaker 1>This is why I don't like say.

0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:58.719
<v Speaker 4>My no, no, I wouldn't say all.

0:50:58.640 --> 0:50:59.319
<v Speaker 1>Right, I want to help you.

0:50:59.440 --> 0:51:01.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have different opinions.

0:51:01.800 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk for a couple more minutes, because I want

0:51:04.040 --> 0:51:08.520
<v Speaker 1>to try to help you with this, all right, How

0:51:08.560 --> 0:51:11.360
<v Speaker 1>do you get enough money in time to go to

0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:13.200
<v Speaker 1>to go to Egypt? How much money do you have

0:51:13.320 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 1>right now? Like, do you have savings?

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 4>I have a little bit of savings, but you know,

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:21.799
<v Speaker 4>the whole move into South Carolina and then right back

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:23.960
<v Speaker 4>to Florida. Thing kind of blew through that. I mean,

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:26.719
<v Speaker 4>I have close to a grand saved up, but life's expensive,

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:28.640
<v Speaker 4>you know. I feel like i'd have to be like

0:51:28.680 --> 0:51:31.480
<v Speaker 4>a second job to just like put money to the side.

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:33.640
<v Speaker 4>But with that, I need more time.

0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Would you ever move to Egypt? Would you ever like

0:51:38.040 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 1>move out of America?

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 4>See, and I've also thought about that myself. I would

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 4>love to move out of America, but I'm like a

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:49.959
<v Speaker 4>mass presenting lesbian, and so I feel like I would

0:51:49.960 --> 0:51:51.799
<v Speaker 4>have to do like a lot of research on where

0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:55.040
<v Speaker 4>I would be safe. And I don't know, like Egypt

0:51:55.920 --> 0:52:01.200
<v Speaker 4>culture around, you know, homosexual probably you know, get myself.

0:52:01.719 --> 0:52:05.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, sure, oh sure, sure, no, I've heard I

0:52:05.320 --> 0:52:06.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to say anything bad about

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Egypt because I don't really know. But like I wouldn't

0:52:11.680 --> 0:52:12.919
<v Speaker 1>be surprised if they.

0:52:12.800 --> 0:52:19.120
<v Speaker 4>Weren't cool with that, right right, which is all power

0:52:19.200 --> 0:52:21.319
<v Speaker 4>to them. But I definitely would want to move to

0:52:21.360 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 4>a progressive country. Fuck America, though, I definitely want to

0:52:24.040 --> 0:52:24.640
<v Speaker 4>get out of here.

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm trying to think, I don't know. I listen,

0:52:27.640 --> 0:52:30.320
<v Speaker 1>here's what I'll say. I think if you did research,

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:36.719
<v Speaker 1>you could find a place that you was cooler with

0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:38.680
<v Speaker 1>you being a mass What did you what did you?

0:52:38.719 --> 0:52:48.359
<v Speaker 1>How did you say a mass presenting lesbian? Yeah, okay, yeah,

0:52:48.400 --> 0:52:51.560
<v Speaker 1>well there's Berlin, but that's it's also expensive. I'm trying

0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:54.440
<v Speaker 1>to like cheaper places that you could go to. I

0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:57.200
<v Speaker 1>just can I just say this, Elmo, But just don't

0:52:57.200 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 1>be afraid to do something crazy, you know, hmm?

0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:08.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? How do you just do something crazy though, without

0:53:08.480 --> 0:53:10.439
<v Speaker 4>like overthinking it to the point that it's not even

0:53:10.480 --> 0:53:11.200
<v Speaker 4>crazy anymore?

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:13.759
<v Speaker 1>Though? What I'm trying to think of as sort of

0:53:13.760 --> 0:53:15.799
<v Speaker 1>a crazy thing because you want to travel and go

0:53:15.840 --> 0:53:19.719
<v Speaker 1>do things, but there are the physical limitations of time

0:53:19.760 --> 0:53:25.279
<v Speaker 1>and money, and I don't know, I'm like, where could

0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:28.919
<v Speaker 1>you go? Where? Like you could do one of those

0:53:28.960 --> 0:53:33.440
<v Speaker 1>like volunteer programs where they like take your places and

0:53:33.480 --> 0:53:35.080
<v Speaker 1>you do shit and they give you a bed and

0:53:35.160 --> 0:53:36.840
<v Speaker 1>food and shit. I know those exist.

0:53:39.080 --> 0:53:41.920
<v Speaker 4>Oh you know what I have been considering just joining

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:43.520
<v Speaker 4>the Peace Corps. I don't really know what the fuck

0:53:43.600 --> 0:53:46.360
<v Speaker 4>that is, but I've heard people talk about the Peace

0:53:46.360 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 4>Corps and it seems cool. Don't know what they do, but.

0:53:50.280 --> 0:53:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm with it, you know, I just okay, yeah, I

0:53:53.239 --> 0:53:55.920
<v Speaker 1>just don't be I guess my thing about the massive

0:53:56.120 --> 0:54:02.560
<v Speaker 1>crazy thing is that you're twenty three, right, okay, and

0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't have a kid. No, all right, So do

0:54:09.480 --> 0:54:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you have like any Matt, do you like any massive

0:54:11.640 --> 0:54:13.680
<v Speaker 1>debt like fucking student loans or anything?

0:54:15.880 --> 0:54:19.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I have pretty bad student I'm about a forty

0:54:19.120 --> 0:54:21.560
<v Speaker 4>grand in debt right now. I have like a pain

0:54:21.920 --> 0:54:24.600
<v Speaker 4>and stuff like that. That's also another thing about just

0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:26.440
<v Speaker 4>like dropping everything and going so much.

0:54:26.560 --> 0:54:30.239
<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, of course I'm thinking about that.

0:54:33.040 --> 0:54:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Is it student debt or how much is the car payment?

0:54:38.160 --> 0:54:41.280
<v Speaker 4>I'm still about eighteen grand on my car and about

0:54:41.280 --> 0:54:42.759
<v Speaker 4>twenty grand in student debt.

0:54:43.520 --> 0:54:44.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right.

0:54:45.239 --> 0:54:47.600
<v Speaker 4>You don't how many times I've googled the words how

0:54:47.640 --> 0:54:50.600
<v Speaker 4>to get rich fast? I'd say probably at least weekly.

0:54:51.880 --> 0:54:56.239
<v Speaker 1>Uh what do you would you get your degree in? Oh?

0:54:56.280 --> 0:54:58.160
<v Speaker 4>I never finished. I was I went to school for

0:54:58.320 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 4>art and then I dropped out halfway through. So I

0:55:00.280 --> 0:55:03.359
<v Speaker 4>was like, well, yeah, in order to make a career

0:55:03.360 --> 0:55:05.040
<v Speaker 4>out of this, you got to be either a teacher

0:55:05.520 --> 0:55:07.960
<v Speaker 4>or a therapist. Yeah, And I don't really know if

0:55:08.000 --> 0:55:09.600
<v Speaker 4>I want to do either of those things. I think

0:55:09.600 --> 0:55:12.879
<v Speaker 4>I'm just indecisive. I think that's my problem.

0:55:13.040 --> 0:55:15.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fuck it, I you know what, fun I hate.

0:55:15.360 --> 0:55:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I hate college so much. I really hate it. I

0:55:17.560 --> 0:55:21.560
<v Speaker 1>think it's like a weird predatory thing to like have

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<v Speaker 1>people pay you years of salaries to fucking It's just

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<v Speaker 1>it just sucks. I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree, And especially like after COVID and everyone kind

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<v Speaker 4>of realized that you can learn all the same shit online.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, why are people still attending these massive universities

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<v Speaker 4>when you can get the same shit on the internet,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, I'm gonna think on this for you, Elmo,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to think on this. There's a plan here,

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<v Speaker 1>There's there's something you're not I don't. You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>die before you get to travel the world. It might

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<v Speaker 1>be slow, it might be a long it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a longer process than you'd like it to be, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's well, we can get there. I think we can

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<v Speaker 1>get there.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so, too, Lile. I do. I think it

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<v Speaker 4>requires more patience than I might.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you might have to be patient because you got

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<v Speaker 1>all that debt and you gotta find a fucking thing

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<v Speaker 1>you can pay it all off, but you'll get that

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<v Speaker 1>you have enough time to burn because like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, you could spend the next three years

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get out of that debt and put yourself

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<v Speaker 1>in a position where you do have the money and

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<v Speaker 1>the time and then go do all this ship when

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<v Speaker 1>you're twenty six and then you're still you're still a

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<v Speaker 1>young person travel in the universe, so it's there you

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<v Speaker 1>might have to be.

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<v Speaker 4>So when it comes to debt and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 4>like like who even cares about that? Because everyone dies

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<v Speaker 4>with debt anyway, so I might as well just add

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<v Speaker 4>onto the pile. I guess that's not really a healthy

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<v Speaker 4>way to look at it, but I mean everyone dies

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<v Speaker 4>with Dell and debt. Sure really isn't even that much comparison.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have children, and that way when you die,

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<v Speaker 1>there you they can pay your debt for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I feel like it's what needs to be done.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like that would be like my last wrong,

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<v Speaker 4>just passing my debt onto the next.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, listen, Elmo, is there anything else you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say to the people of the computer before we go? Man?

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<v Speaker 4>So that your podcast has gotten me through hours of

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<v Speaker 4>just work and car rides, and I really appreciate everything

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<v Speaker 4>you do. This this, this podcast is a really good

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<v Speaker 4>platform for people to just speak their mind and I appreciate.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks man. Good luck to you. I hope you achieve

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<v Speaker 1>your dreams.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course, you two stay gack out there.

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<v Speaker 1>God bless you.

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<v Speaker 2>Goes on the line thanking your phone calls every night,

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<v Speaker 2>everything goes to unside, teaching

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<v Speaker 5>You cloud in the of your life.