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Speaker 1: And let's get on with the show. Hey guys, Welcome,

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Speaker 1: Welcome again. We're still here, baby, it's twenty We were

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Speaker 1: playing real nice off the mic. I was shocked. I

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Speaker 1: even invited you over to my home. You guys are

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Speaker 1: gonna hear this a week like, but Mandy invited me

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Speaker 1: in my house on the same day, so real. So right,

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Speaker 1: when y'all think we fight, you no, no, So I

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Speaker 1: want to say welcome. You had another episode of horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: You already know who I am, but I wanted I

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Speaker 1: like that we started that way because I want you

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Speaker 1: all to know a bit. Just gotta eat know, Like yo,

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Speaker 1: I really love the show and y'all are so great

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Speaker 1: and I put so many people onto you. But there's

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Speaker 1: just one thing I tell everyone before they started listening

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Speaker 1: And it's like, bitch, what episode are you on? Dirty?

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Speaker 1: Why do you preface that with introducing people to the show? Right? So,

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Speaker 1: I said you pussy hole. I didn't respond. I didn't

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Speaker 1: was like, I said, responds right now, because it's just like, Bro,

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Speaker 1: we've gone through therapy, we're working together, we're going on tour.

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Speaker 1: We're not sharing the same room. I'll tell you that

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Speaker 1: we still are. We aren't that close where we're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can split a room together. Nope, but we're going

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Speaker 1: the one who's like I don't mind sharing it. I

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Speaker 1: I ain't know, bitch, I've been real nice to you.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't care either way. I

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Speaker 1: don't plan on like kind of like, oh, I don't

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Speaker 1: know maybe Chicago now ho hey um oh but go ahead, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I'll be honest with you. I saw that email

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Speaker 1: and where it bothered me too. I I hone in

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Speaker 1: the evening And honestly, some of the funnest episodes I've

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have seen different. When

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Speaker 1: We talked ship to each other. We banter, Yes, I

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Speaker 1: Y'all think it's fun, good playfool man banter. And when

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Speaker 1: It's just like bitch puts the whole fuck you. I'll

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Speaker 1: It was the same Bitch episode when I told her,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna stop bringing up them ball players because I

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Speaker 1: almost like, oh my god, when Mandy says she doesn't

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Speaker 1: I have known each other since we were like fifteen

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Speaker 1: I never post another thought pick we split our money

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Speaker 1: that when we both post pictures where we're feeling cute,

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Speaker 1: now you want to shoot on me? Yeah, And it's

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Speaker 1: men that do it. There's men right now telling me

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Speaker 1: don't lose anymore. You were, you look better, chunkier. I

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Speaker 1: And I don't know why men do it like that.

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Speaker 1: might be all right? So kicking a week, go ahead

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Speaker 1: and explain what it is doing? You want me to? Okay? So, guys,

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Speaker 1: You're right, you're right. So the gives fireplay? Um, so

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Speaker 1: what does fireplay mean? In the b D s M community?

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Speaker 1: Fireplay the type of sexual play that involves fire near

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Speaker 1: or directly on a person's skin. This can be done

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Speaker 1: by placing candles or other flames near a person skin.

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Speaker 1: Does means blunts? I feel like my use that's only flames.

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Speaker 1: wiping alcohol on the skin and lighting it. Oh hell no,

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Speaker 1: person with a flaming whip, or flogger For obvious reasons.

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Speaker 1: Fireplay is generally considered to be a type of edge play.

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Speaker 1: When engaging in fireplay, safety should come first and certain

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Speaker 1: at hand. Now. Oh, I was about to say this

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Speaker 1: every time we poured candles and ship, but when I

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Speaker 1: went to Japan, I saw some fireplay. But um no,

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Speaker 1: I thought about it because when we were doing the

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Speaker 1: Best of episode, we had to like listen, re listen

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Speaker 1: and go through clips and ship like that. And I

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Speaker 1: was like listening to Rory and we were talking about

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Speaker 1: the candle thing, and I was like, what have you called? Well?

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Speaker 1: Is that not like a wax thing? Because it's the wax,

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Speaker 1: that's is it? Well? The wax? But like you can

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Maybe that candles okay,

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Speaker 1: I just put candles. Can't get then I found videos

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Speaker 1: but litted candles. What are they called it? In candles?

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Speaker 1: Like when the candle is lit, not litted lit. That's

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Speaker 1: what I litted candles lit candles. You litted this. I've

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Speaker 1: been this candle. Shut up, God, you know what I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna just tell you for a second why I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: give you a break. I'm mad because you're about to

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Speaker 1: have a whole episode. We've got to do a whole decision.

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Speaker 1: So I when I was growing up, I was in

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Speaker 1: an A P courses. Right, was so good at English,

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Speaker 1: but like my math, I was like barely fucking making it.

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Speaker 1: And I really feel like when you excel in one

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Speaker 1: thing sometimes holding both, but you definitely don't excel it.

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Speaker 1: Do excel at your numbers. I wrote a whole book.

446
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Speaker 1: I excell in English. Okay, different emails are good and

447
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Speaker 1: which when I was creating email in second place in

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Speaker 1: a spelling B I used to know, Thank gosh, they

449
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Speaker 1: didn't ask you what words meant because anyways, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: I knew the Latin where it came from. What was

451
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Speaker 1: then saying about? So listen, I excel in math and English.

452
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Speaker 1: I don't excel in science and history because I feel

453
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Speaker 1: like it's a lot of bullshit. What was that words?

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Speaker 1: You didn't know? Wh when you get turned on libidoho,

455
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Speaker 1: I know it now, bitch, I thought it smelt like liberto.

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Speaker 1: You know, English is the hardest language of all of

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Speaker 1: the languages. Because such people learning English, I feel for them.

458
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Speaker 1: We have all of these doing you feel for people

459
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Speaker 1: learning English when the ABC alphabet what about something? There

460
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Speaker 1: are different characters like Japanese for other people, which we

461
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Speaker 1: have a lot of rules in our vocaracters. Tell someone,

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Speaker 1: I say, lasagna, How do you not know that there's

463
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Speaker 1: a fucking silent G and bologna belogny like motherfucker blogs

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Speaker 1: into me lasagna? Yeah, I guess yeah, like xylophone. You

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Speaker 1: know that the egg you know. We'll hold on Spanish people,

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Speaker 1: I was supposed to know jo jo as you laughing, No,

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Speaker 1: it's isn't it yah yah yas you ain't never seen

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Speaker 1: wait it's no, it's ha but there it's age like

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Speaker 1: je Juan, I just came back from Mexico. See, so

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Speaker 1: when they say ha ha, they sucked in Spanish because

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Speaker 1: their rules and then they have the feminine and masculine

472
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Speaker 1: bullshit like a ya oh, I'll tell you right now.

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Speaker 1: When the Mexicans were playing with the prices with me,

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Speaker 1: it was like I went from trying to speak mass

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Speaker 1: that can to Halla. So I was trying to negotiate,

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Speaker 1: right of course he was with you Jewish as of course.

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Speaker 1: So I was trying to buy this poncho, not on

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Speaker 1: some like um steal their culture ship. But like it

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Speaker 1: was dope. It wasn't like Mexican colors, like I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to do anything that was like, you know, is

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Speaker 1: you gonna wear that poncho outside of Mexico? It was dope.

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Speaker 1: It's it's like really like it's like fleece. It's cool.

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Speaker 1: So just telling me it was five, I like, ain't

484
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Speaker 1: that twenty dollars? He's like yeah. I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: you ain't paid for twenty dollars for that, and he

486
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Speaker 1: was like no, comprehend I said, you do no whatever

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Speaker 1: that means, compay me, don't come put on me by Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I said, you'd vante, So I don't pay vante. That's

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Speaker 1: what I was saying. My mom was looking at me

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Speaker 1: like just please, wayles, bitch. My parents were so I

491
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Speaker 1: didn't let them go in their pockets one time. My

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Speaker 1: mom really thinks I'm rich and you really use that

493
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Speaker 1: payout bitch. Well, no, no, no, no, no, Mexico got

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Speaker 1: We're about to lead a studio today. She's gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: so what are we paying ourselves out for? Mexico is cheap?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, you go somewhere. I

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Speaker 1: went to a Texas state Brazil. There it's called Mr.

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Speaker 1: Pompaus and it's twenty dollars a person. Oh yeah, that's cheap.

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Speaker 1: It's super cheap. So you probably they spend all these

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Speaker 1: thousands and patils, which is really fifty dollars. And she's

501
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Speaker 1: just like, I want this, I want this, bitch. I

502
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Speaker 1: looked at my bank account. I spent in ten days.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you play too much. I'm wild, but

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Speaker 1: you know what that was. Oh let me get massaged

505
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: for this many pace? So oh this, you play way

506
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: too much. I really don't wait too much. I don't

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Speaker 1: look at my bank account. Well we're gonna go hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just don't look. If you don't ever draft fune

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Speaker 1: it just don't. We're gonna get into some vanilla ship

510
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna let um we easy talk about this

511
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Speaker 1: because I don't know what it is. Oh this is dope.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and explain um for youall. As

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Speaker 1: y'all know, every episode we do a vanilla segment, which

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Speaker 1: is something based on something going on in the world

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Speaker 1: that has to do with sex somewhat. Yeah. So this

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Speaker 1: Nigerian guy that I fucked basically was telling me how

517
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Speaker 1: like Africa is wild with their like tribe u uh rituals,

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Speaker 1: so to speak. And he talked. He told me about

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Speaker 1: this tribe in Uganda. So I found this link on

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Speaker 1: face to face Africa dot com. It's called Banyancola, the

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Speaker 1: tribe in Uganda that allows That's not how you say Uganda?

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Speaker 1: Is it someone Uganda's right? Someone corrected me recently. Is

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Speaker 1: it not Uganda? Yes, Uganda trying unto that allows the

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Speaker 1: bride's aunt to sleep with the groom before marriage. So wait,

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Speaker 1: the bride's aunt, which is her mother's sister, gets to

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Speaker 1: sleep with her husband before marriage. Yeah, maybe it's Uganda.

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Speaker 1: Here you go, you're annoying somebody like you said you

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Speaker 1: think you and black panther. Let's not let's not get

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Speaker 1: the four at alright. How much influence should aunties have

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Speaker 1: on their nieces and many African cultures aunties provide counseling

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Speaker 1: to the young nieces as they age from adolescence to adulthood.

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Speaker 1: When it comes to real quick pause, because so when

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Speaker 1: I went to Nigeria, everyone was auntie. Like you literally

534
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: call anyone who's your elder, who's a woman auntie, sis auntie?

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00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: So like, is this talking about literally aunties or this

536
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Speaker 1: is aunt This is when it comes to marriage. These

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00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 1: aunties prepare their nieces for the challenges to lie ahead.

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Speaker 1: For the Bianco people in southwestern Uganda, the aunt had

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Speaker 1: more than the above, especially during the marorge. The primary

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00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 1: responsibilities to confirm that the groom is potent and that

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Speaker 1: the bride has defended her virginity before the marriage is consummated.

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00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: As a potency test for the groom, the aunt was

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Speaker 1: sometimes required to have sex with the groom for confirmation

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00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: of his vertue. Virility. Virility is right, was virility almost

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00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: at fertility? This one virility means what like fertility? Like

546
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: maybe these niggas is busting in the auntie hold on.

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00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 1: She had to test if the bride is still a

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00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: virgin before they are allowed to consummate the marriage. In

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00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: other traditions, the aunt is go to said is said

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00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: to go as far as listening or watching them have

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00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: sex in order to prove their potency if it hurts

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00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: her or not. I don't know what that means. As

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00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: this may sound weird. The practice is called in a smudge.

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00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: It shows that the people of bay Uncle, particularly the

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Speaker 1: Bohemia tribe, hold the virginity in high esteem as the

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00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: girls eight. As soon as she's at eight, she goes

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Speaker 1: through a lot of restrictions to prepare her for marriage.

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00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: So at what at what age are they getting married?

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00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 1: And you gotta because maybe the younger age, then I

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00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: might see anything about it, because if they're preparing her

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00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: to get married, I would assume when other children her

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00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: age and other cultures are having fun and playing. She's

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00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 1: basically indoors where she's fed beef and millet porge, forced

564
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: to drink milk in large quantities, so she becomes fat

565
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 1: because it's anonymous with beauty when she is developing breast. Finally,

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00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: she's been asked to abstain from sexual activities from her parents.

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00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: It's the duty of her father to find a find

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00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: a wife for a son. Sorry, as he prays, he

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00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: pays the bride wife wealth. I would love um, so

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00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: not to not to do a humble flex, but we

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Speaker 1: do have a lot of listeners um in the continents

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Speaker 1: of Africa. I don't want to go through each country,

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Speaker 1: but if any of you guys are from Uganda or

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00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: are familiar with this, um, yeah, I would love me

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00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry I'm up these words, but like it's

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Speaker 1: some Africans you don't know. Basically, once they pay the

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Speaker 1: bride to get married on the wedding day, there's a

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Speaker 1: lot of festing at her home or the father slaughters

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Speaker 1: a bull in the home. There's another tale, bitch, when

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00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: the marriage is consummated. This is after the bride's aunt

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00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: has tested the niece just purity. They basically eat this

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00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: meal after she makes sure. So freaky of you guys

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Speaker 1: who are patrons. What we're gonna do is we're gonna

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Speaker 1: can read further into it, because I don't want to

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Speaker 1: keep hearing Wheezy read but I don't want to hear

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Speaker 1: me read. We're gonna give it to you guys so

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Speaker 1: There's too much juice, too much suce whatever? Okay anyways,

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636
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637
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638
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Speaker 1: by women. Oh wait, are we still talking? No? No,

639
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: the next horrible decisions. I want to tell you, guys

640
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: where I pack this is. Enjoyed Mandy so much on

641
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: a flagrant. I thought she was so funny and a

642
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: lot of people went way too hard on you, but

643
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it. First off, I will sit here

644
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: on announce. First off, I ain't even gonna hold you

645
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: fuck the asshole army, and I say that I know

646
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: a lot of them probably listen to here, but I

647
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: will say what it is is that I probably wasn't

648
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: as um. What's what's the people? The dummies, the puppets,

649
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: the muppets. I wasn't that enough for them. I feel

650
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: like they wanted Andrew to toy with me more, and

651
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: I think I staid in my grind, I don't see

652
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: what I had to do with being a puppet more

653
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: than it had to do with you thinking space? Is it? Really?

654
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I love I love the comments

655
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: from that. I was responding back to them on that,

656
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: so I did funk up here. Hold on, there's nobody

657
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 1: in the room said this, and I kind of annoyed

658
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: me them. Was funny, but but there is what's what

659
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: do they say? Please? No, it's not please. What's the

660
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: what's the thing to say? The sun? Some ordered nine

661
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: pizzas or something. Someone ordered nine pizzas. That ship it's

662
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: to where you're the reason when you said that you

663
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: believe there's more planets. I was kind of annoyed that

664
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,479
Speaker 1: You're like, why do we only know nine those are

665
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: in our solar system? Who says how big our solar

666
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: system is? In a galaxy that we don't know how

667
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: fucking big it goes, But there are like hundreds of

668
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: So that's why this is the one that we're in,

669
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: which is why we know about it. Whoever said this

670
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: is our solar system, this little circle right here, bitch,

671
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: it is because only are in here all right now,

672
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't care what you do. How do we know?

673
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: But science then, is what I'm saying. It's dictated on

674
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: what the fucking man said. These manas is going into

675
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 1: our face system? Is only boot suits in the circle

676
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: fund that anyway, get to the horrible decision. We're not

677
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: gonna talk about site space and site because instead, guess what,

678
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: y'all y'all didn't like my Pamda's reference. Now we're about

679
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: to talk about evolution, which I also don't motherfucking agree on.

680
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: So this you don't think evolution is really is really embarrassing. No,

681
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: it's sucking not you right now, Fucking monkeys is insane.

682
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: So instead, guys, guess what she made the outline as

683
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: today we're going to talk about how animals have sex

684
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: because we evolutionized from animals, So we're talking about animals sex, guys,

685
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: So you can watch your fucking cats and dogs hump

686
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: each other and know that they're not into monogamy and

687
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: they may be gay. Your dog, Mr Pupper's going off

688
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: right now. Don't people call the dogs because you low

689
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 1: key making We're gonna have evolutionary talk about animals after

690
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: mother about flavor episode hole, So let's go teach our

691
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: whole something. Okay, because fish gay too. Your whole house

692
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: full of non monogamous, homophobic animals. So this all stems

693
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: from me watching Jesus, go ahead teach these people as

694
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: a whole. So anyway, I watched this movie on Netflix

695
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 1: called Newness, and the girl was you do need friends

696
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: because you'd be watching all this ship that ain't nobody

697
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: else got time to what I'm into the non rated

698
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: movies like basically type in lesbian, and I watched whatever

699
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: comes up that's true. Okay, that's not a lot. I

700
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,959
Speaker 1: think you're really gay, So new Ny gay now because

701
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: I just be thinking about pussy so much now because

702
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm getting it. So anyway, I watched I wanted to

703
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: watch animal pussy guys, let's go. I did not. So

704
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: I watched Newness and the girl's job she was or

705
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 1: she no, I'm sorry. She had a degree involutionary biology,

706
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: and I had no idea what the funk that was,

707
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: And so in in that he's like what his evolutionary biology, Like,

708
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:08,879
Speaker 1: what the fun is that She's like, it's basically about

709
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: like learning about like why your penis is shaped the

710
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: way it is and ship like that. And then the

711
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: next day I watched Explained on Netflix, an episode about monogamy,

712
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: and I just had Mandy said and watched some with me,

713
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: and they basically talked about how chimps and Bonobo's right. Um,

714
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 1: actually never heard of bonobos before. The only chips chimps

715
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: I knew. So we're the We're closer to chimps and

716
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: bonobos than African elephants are to Indian elephants. We're literally

717
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: that close as far as we are brains work and

718
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 1: our your count and I mean it, see you next Tuesday.

719
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: Not pim does. So in this episode they're basically talking

720
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: about like where the fund did we get this concept

721
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: from monogamy? So they started like show this was the

722
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 1: only part that I did like about the little documentary show.

723
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,239
Speaker 1: You only watched six minutes of it, well, this three

724
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: minute part of it, because all that animal part I

725
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: didn't like. But when I started talking about it's the

726
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: main thing though, it's like saying, like how we came

727
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: from a species of people that were sucking anybody and

728
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 1: everybody and now we don't, so where did that come from?

729
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: So I started looking up like monogamy and animals, and

730
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: only three to five percent of five thousand species of

731
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: mammals form monogamous bonds, one of which is called the

732
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: diplo something. It's a tapeworm that literally connects tapeworms. And

733
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: that was a tapeworm. The ones they go in your stomach,

734
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: they have sex her stomach. No, they just like connect

735
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: for life basically. They So there's multiple tap in your stomach.

736
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: I mean maybe it's like love bugs. Remember things for Florida.

737
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: They made those though those were made a bitch at

738
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: the University of Florida. You didn't know that those were created.

739
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: They were supposed to do something I think like keep

740
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: mosquitoes away, and something went wrong at the University of Florida.

741
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: People where Now we have love bug season in Florida.

742
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: Nowhere else has love bugs except for Florida. It's crazy.

743
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: Actually Georgia. It might have got it to Georgia. But yeah,

744
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: it actually stemmed form a mistake. It's a lab. It's

745
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: a lab created inside. I didn't know that. But I

746
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: teach you about animals now, ha ha, see science ship

747
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: going wrong? Because humans did it. Bitch facts like right,

748
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: So in this thing that we watched, basically, right, we're

749
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: watching this documentary about how animals and the traits that

750
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 1: they've had of you know, monogamy, how they work, and

751
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: basically from what I've been reading, this wasn't in the documentary,

752
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: but there it does seem to be one main partner

753
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: that they kind of bounced back and forth to. Possibly

754
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: that's a chance as far as like the woman, they

755
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: might have a primary, but for the main part, they

756
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: bounced around chimp say and benobos whatever they say, used

757
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: sex to say hello goodbye when they're stressed out when

758
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: their anxiety. Wise, they fucked so just like we do.

759
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: But we were watching this documentary where it talked about

760
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: how marriage was conceptualized in the Western world for love

761
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: only a few years ago, because it was mainly meant

762
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: to be a family, labor and alliance thing like basically

763
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: getting married to do better. So this was actually I

764
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: kind of touched on it too. When they went to

765
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: mention religion, I feel like that's kind of where monogamy

766
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: sent from two and sure, and that's what I thought.

767
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 1: So seeing the documentary, I thought that too. I didn't

768
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: know that thing about I didn't know. So something that

769
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: was very interesting about the documentary and I might actually

770
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: watch it now, um, was they said that marriage was

771
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: not for solidarity between men and women, it was for laws.

772
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: So they actually married to have kids and to raise

773
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: fucking children to work on their fucking farm. But that's

774
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: why they did it. And they saw it as if

775
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: I have more labor on my farm, I can make

776
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: more money than you. And they didn't want other people

777
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,439
Speaker 1: to be able to come in and take that money

778
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: from them. So it was really crazy. And then it

779
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: says that we transitioned from that marriage um to saying

780
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 1: that marriage should be based on love. And it's funny

781
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 1: because if we look at all of these movies from

782
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: the past, and this is something that just went in

783
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: my head, a lot of marriages in the past were

784
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: set up by parents, were set up by wealth, were

785
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: set up by societal like where you stood in society.

786
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,280
Speaker 1: So out of all of these movies we watched, even Titanic,

787
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: ho Jack was supposed to be a rose and so

788
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: like still to this day, like our parents were kind

789
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: of like trying to get us to do that, right.

790
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: It's to day people, I'm not saying, my parents are

791
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: your parents. But things we watch it's like even think

792
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: about crazy rich Asians. I love my look not ay

793
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: all about to be hating us. No I did. I

794
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: went to the black Zilla party. I thought you were there,

795
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: so like crazy rich Asians just hownd like he had

796
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: to be with a girl from a good family. Um,

797
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 1: I actually got this map, this world map where polygamy

798
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 1: is like dominant in You see what country? Yeah, I'm

799
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 1: sorry what continent? Excuse me? Where polygamy is basically legal,

800
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:50,760
Speaker 1: so it is completely blacked out in the United States, Canada, Canada,

801
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: Mexico and all of South America is black for polygamy

802
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:58,439
Speaker 1: being illegal and the practice is criminalized, which is why

803
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 1: it was crazy because when we had Taoming on and

804
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: we actually featured her in the top moments um asking

805
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: her about her relationship because she says that she was

806
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: married but he could have otherwise. But I'm like, no,

807
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: technically in the US of A, I don't think she

808
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: has wives. But like, but she said that we got

809
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: to bring her back. We do because yeah, you ain't

810
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: even I said, is it for tax purposes? Because of

811
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 1: course I do see marriage as more of a business,

812
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: like for tax cuts and tax breaks, and um, now

813
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: you're forming you know, bank accounts and shipped together, Like

814
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: it's definitely more of a business deal. I mean, I think, Um,

815
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: what I found interesting in the documentary they start to

816
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: talk about the concept of jealousy and like where we

817
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: learned that? And get that far? I gotta watch that,

818
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: And then I got something off the internet that I

819
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: really found interesting. Basically, it conceptualizes the idea that society

820
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: tells us like settling down as adulting. So listen to this.

821
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: In modern day monogamous societies, we've turned dating and marriage

822
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: into free markets where people spend most of their twenties

823
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: trying to multiply partners before they settle down, basically thinking

824
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: like I can't do this once I reached that level.

825
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 1: I gotta do it right now instead of it being

826
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: just okay, because we've got this idea that when you

827
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: are older, you settle down, you get married. Even though

828
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: you would like to have these experiences, you have to

829
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: get them out of your system now. But it's crazy

830
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 1: too that we attach marriage to the value of a woman,

831
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: like there's so many women that shame other women who

832
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: don't have rings or well you've never been proposed to,

833
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: or that view themselves as better than or more than

834
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: a woman who maybe does have multiple partners and has

835
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: sex casually and hasn't been kept by a man. I've

836
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: never shamed women for that in a relationship, but I did,

837
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: and I will just be honest for admitting this. Um

838
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: early two. We sometimes pity my friends that were single,

839
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: but this is the first time in my life where

840
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: I can really own my truth and saying like I

841
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,879
Speaker 1: don't want a relationship and what's crazy is I want

842
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 1: one so bad, But bitch, I don't know one person

843
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: in a happy, healthy, great one. Like they're all getting

844
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: cheated on or they got a broken nigga and they're

845
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: paying all the bills, or like none of my friends

846
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: are even in healthy, happy relationship. I'm sorry to hear

847
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: that my friend not are in good ones. They're just

848
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: seemed very time consuming. Well that's that's that's the that's

849
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 1: the problem that I have now with the show, with work,

850
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: with us going on tour, with me having to spend

851
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: more time with you, jesus, I feel like bitch. So

852
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: it's like right now, it's literally like I don't have

853
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 1: time to date, like and you know when people like

854
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: you'll make time for the people that you So I'm

855
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: not gonna like I do, which I'm already trying. If

856
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: I need a dick appointment of two people dick appointment

857
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: yet before this weekend, I have to catch up. I

858
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: have to figure it. I'll be here with you the

859
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: entire month of descent or the end of November and December,

860
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: like I had no time. I had. One weekend was

861
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: Thoso Talk one weekend with thanks to me. The next

862
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 1: weekend was Thosa Talk. The next week if I was

863
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: been Denver with death. The weekend after that, I was

864
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: in Mexico. Like technically, how was I supposed to? You

865
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: could have got some dick in the Mother Cities because

866
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: that's how I was feeling. Bit I was in Atlanta

867
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: every every weekend for a month straight. Okay, so like

868
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: during the week days when I was here like that

869
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 1: last busy because we were trying to pre records tons

870
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: of episodes to make sure people have them for Christmas.

871
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: Were it's not necessarily you know, and like just to

872
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: be honest, like keeping my health up, like with the gym,

873
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: Like I know it sounds stupid, but like I have

874
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: to legit commit to that ship, like, that's what I'm doing. Happy.

875
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 1: I love spin. I'm about to get back and spin.

876
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to that one. No, I like maybe

877
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: that's like fitness, like fitness on wheels a lot more.

878
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: The one where we went and they did like all

879
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: the Beyonce songs or something. Oh my god, Tom Hamlet,

880
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: Yeah he was good. They're like, oh my god. I

881
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: love when he's like and what would beyond ladies? That

882
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: ship is mad fun. I've really wanted to do a

883
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: workout with like Patreon listeners because I have so much

884
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: fun to the gym bro, you know, I love me

885
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: a boogie gym class though, Yeah, you'd be going, Yeah,

886
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: that's why I'm like, it's just about to be a

887
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: hundred dollars for five classes. I'm like, why aren't you

888
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: doing class pass because for class paths you can only

889
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 1: go to the same studio twice a month. No, yea,

890
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: I have about Robin on clas Pass for a year

891
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: and a half. This is what you do. They've now

892
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: changed the credit system to basically you can go three

893
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: times a month and if you want to go again,

894
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: they charge you a little more. It's still less than

895
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 1: booking through the site, we see you know, to doing me,

896
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: and you'd be sitting here and saying you in Orlando

897
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 1: getting Florida prices. I can't do that anymore because you

898
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: got to change. And they were like, ma'am, we know

899
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 1: it's the same. First and last night I got a

900
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: full on email. Yeah I'm sure. Oh so something interesting.

901
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: I found that monogamy only happens in animals in response

902
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: to the threat of babies being killed by rival men. Basically, yeah,

903
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: when a man would want I guess, like animals sit

904
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: stuck together for children in and like they basically killed

905
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: the babies so you can go and suck them. They

906
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: found that in chimpanzees. Crazy as fuck, but I also

907
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 1: think it was funny. We ended up um reading or

908
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 1: or in the documentary they were mentioning how sex started

909
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: to become more for pleasure and not for reproduction. Um,

910
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: which I think leads to why casual sex is such

911
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: a thing now. We are having sex more now to

912
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: enjoy sex. The thing that we read that said, um,

913
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 1: only bonobos and humans are the ones that have sex

914
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: face because they have sex to bond. Yeah, so I

915
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: thought that that was really interesting. I also want to

916
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: let you all know, if y'all want to look more

917
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: into this weird ship, like, here's a fun fact um.

918
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: Male seahorses are the ones who carry to term for

919
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 1: the babies. They're the ones who um get pregnant. So

920
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: I wish our niggas could get pregnant, bit, but I

921
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: don't think a baby could come out of a dick hole, right,

922
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: that would kind of hurt, Like that's not y'all. Ain't

923
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: got enough skin for a baby to be pushed out

924
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: of dick hole. What if a baby had to go

925
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: down the canal of a dick? I can't wait. We

926
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: have a mom until walk through child, but like real

927
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: walk through, like shifting a baby out of your pussy, honestly,

928
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 1: and I don't want it. We're gonna. I don't want

929
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: to talk about that. We got to it's like, what

930
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: who are we guys? The next solo episode? We do

931
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: oh found this very interesting. There is not one species

932
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: where homosexual behavior was not existent. It's all been seen,

933
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: even in all gay y'all. So y'all got to stop

934
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: being home moreover, A part of the d minimal kingdom

935
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: is more truly bisexual than humans. They got to just

936
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: go back and forth. And get their horny ship going.

937
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, it holds a whole. But yeah, I

938
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: do find that very interesting, just to show that it

939
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: can be natural to want someone out. Like people say,

940
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: it's so unnatural. It's such a societal thing that we

941
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: think even down to Like you know, I'm reading this

942
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 1: book which is st feminists talking about how a slut

943
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: shaming is even something we've been taught to do. Yeah,

944
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: but I mean, shi, y'all see here and don't want

945
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: to like white people, white people and all the people

946
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: who colonize. The goddamn Us of a is the one

947
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: who taught us monogamy through Christianity. So I will say,

948
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: if you'll don't like the colonizers, we should all just

949
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: be non monogamous. Well, I say, that's let's go against

950
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: the colonizers here. I mean, we're obviously more intelligent of

951
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 1: a species, right. But I will say, I, um, I

952
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: like being monogamous, Like I said, I want to try

953
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: ad and I do get feelings of jealousy, but I

954
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: also like sucking other people. So I really toy with

955
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: that a lot, and I feel like a lot of

956
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: men do. They just don't know how to communicate that,

957
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: Like and we've said that a lot like I don't

958
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: know what exactly what you just said is what a

959
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: lot of men feel like. I want to be in

960
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: a relationship. I like the monogamous aspect of it to

961
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: where I can have these feelings with you, but I

962
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: just want to suck other people sometimes, And unfortunately we're

963
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: just not warranted the respect of a man being honest

964
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: with us up front saying that that's what they want.

965
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: And unfortunately, men, while that may be something that you

966
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 1: think we'll scare someone away, there are women. Look, we're

967
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: two and there. We've had a ton of guests on

968
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: who are into swinging. To mention our guests, you might

969
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: think are want in a million people writing us and oh,

970
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 1: our emails are flooded with bitches like yo, how can

971
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: I bring someone into the bedroom with me? Or I'm

972
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: scared to communicate this to my guy. So as much

973
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: as y'all are out here just sucking, humiliating us, and

974
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: betraying us with cheating, if you're just more upfront and

975
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: to listen, I want to date you, I want to

976
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: be with you, but I probably can't only fuck you,

977
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: but say that. People that say men that are like, oh,

978
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: what dude wouldn't want his girl to girl. Let me

979
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: tell you something. When I was with my ex one

980
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: that left me for Jesus, love with my life, he

981
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,959
Speaker 1: had a reason with me and told me like after

982
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 1: like because I wanted more. He was like, I don't

983
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: know why he wants me to like share you with

984
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: someone else. Like he was truly monogamous but very religious,

985
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: and he was like, I don't want to do this.

986
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 1: I love you and I want you to want me.

987
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I do want you with the side

988
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: of plus, we'll see. And that's my problem. I've I

989
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: have been in threesomes, but I've realized that it's something

990
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 1: that my partner will have to probably I'll probably do

991
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: a threesome more so for him. But when I want pussy,

992
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: I only want pussy. When I want dick, I want dick.

993
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: So I don't really crave threesomes with a woman. I

994
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: might want two dicks. I ain't even gonna hold you know.

995
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: Like when I want to be with a woman, I

996
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: want to be with a woman. When I want to

997
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: be with a man, I want to be with a man.

998
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: So the idea of a threesomeman having both at the

999
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: same time, it's my preference. So when men do know

1000
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 1: that I'm bisexual, know that I deal with women, they

1001
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 1: think it's sucking Jack pop for threesomes, And in real life,

1002
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, I really don't even like threesomes because

1003
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm not penetrated enough because now I gotta share this

1004
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: dick with another pussy and there's just see, I like

1005
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: penetration a whole lot. Well, this male is really interesting.

1006
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: This was a girl that came to Zozo Talk and

1007
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 1: like legit asked this question. I said, you need to

1008
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: write the email, okay, because this is fucking insane what

1009
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: she say. So we have the subject as having a

1010
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 1: baby with my ex. Of My ex and I were

1011
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 1: together for six years. We broke up when I was

1012
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: twenty two, stopped talking for about a year or two,

1013
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: and then he reconnected back again. He and I are

1014
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: now best friends. We're both in separate relationships. I've been

1015
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend for six months. He's been with his

1016
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: girlfriend over a year. Prior to entering my current relationship

1017
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 1: with my ex, I was planning for a baby. We

1018
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: both went to a fertility specialist to ensure that we

1019
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: are both able to have children. Both tested for STDs

1020
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: and genetic disorders. I even had my tubes explored just

1021
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 1: in case. Um, I want to pursue motherhood as planned

1022
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: with my ex, but now that I'm in a relationship,

1023
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 1: some people are calling me selfish and think I should stop.

1024
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts if it matters? I'm thirty, Oh yeah,

1025
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: and we're pushing pursuing IVF. Although my ex wants to

1026
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: go the cheap way and have sex, I'd rather keep

1027
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: it simple without any extras. So basically she has a

1028
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: wage that sounds crazy. So and once I have a

1029
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 1: baby her ex, I told her she was absolutely insane.

1030
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: I told her that I felt like it was, like

1031
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: I said, selfish to its very relationship with someone. And

1032
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: then I hate to say like this, but have the

1033
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: nerve to like be like, I'm not gonna let this grow.

1034
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna suck my ex because I know he's gonna

1035
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: be a great part. Do you want to know what's crazy?

1036
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: So this was brought to me before. So I was

1037
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: talking to a guy. Um, well, so this is a

1038
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: guy who I really really really really liked. Um I'll

1039
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,720
Speaker 1: call him Canada because he's Canadian and we were super

1040
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: into each other. This was Oh god, it had to

1041
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: be maybe three to four years ago now, because it

1042
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: was right before I went to Singapore. So right before

1043
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 1: I went to Singapore, I spent like a week with

1044
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,359
Speaker 1: him in Chicago. Like I was like, okay, Like we're

1045
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: gonna make this happen. He was at the point of

1046
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: his life where he wanted more kids, he was making

1047
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: good money, and I was like, well, bitch, I'm just

1048
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 1: starting school. It was right before I was going to

1049
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 1: study abroad, so I was only in my second year

1050
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 1: of college and we had that talk. And so he

1051
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 1: had one kid already. He had a seven year old

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00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 1: and the relationship with the baby mom was so bad

1053
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: in the beginning that he was a single dad, and

1054
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: while when he went overseas um, the daughter stayed with

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00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:07,280
Speaker 1: his mom. So when we had this conversation about other kids,

1056
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: he let me know that he didn't want to go

1057
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: through the baby mama drama with anyone else in the

1058
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: sense that he did with his first baby mom. So

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00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: he said, if I have another child, I would want

1060
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 1: it with her, but I don't want to be with her.

1061
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, so, I'm just supposed to be okay

1062
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: with you impregnating your ex, even though you're telling me

1063
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: you don't want to be with her. He hated her

1064
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: because she was still terrible, but it was so like

1065
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: traumatic to him at all of the drama that they

1066
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: had for like the first four years of the daughter.

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00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: He's like, I couldn't imagine doing that with another woman,

1068
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: And that's literally what he said. And I was like, no, like,

1069
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,479
Speaker 1: you're really gonna sit here and keep yourself from having

1070
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 1: and growing up family with someone else because of the

1071
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: traumatic experience you had with your first baby mom. Out

1072
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 1: of the normal, she wasn't She didn't seem crazy and

1073
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 1: like people were like right in the audience and she

1074
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: was just like, look, like I'm an adult. Is there

1075
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: an emotional attachment to the X? That's what I would.

1076
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: I think she really believes he would be a great

1077
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: partner to have a like co parent with, Like she

1078
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: believes that I ain't gonna lie. I'm fucking one ding

1079
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 1: it now, and he's so great of a dad. I'm like, Dawn,

1080
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: I would let you probably I have a kid for you.

1081
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: You you're a nice daddy, so like I could get

1082
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 1: I could get that, but I can't get wanting to

1083
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: fucking like you have a way, Ford like, be out

1084
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 1: of it. To me, you need to get out of

1085
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: the relationship. That's exactly what I think. And you're not,

1086
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why don't like, I don't understand. I

1087
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: don't know. Here's my advice to you. I think that

1088
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: you should explore with your current guy you're dating another

1089
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 1: six months. It's only been six months. Maybe maybe give

1090
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: it a year until you decide that you would really

1091
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 1: want to jeopardize your relationship potentially by fucking your ex

1092
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 1: having a baby with you lie, you know what. I think?

1093
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: This is like typical movie ship. So the ex may

1094
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: really be into his new girlfriend, and she has all

1095
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: these emotional attachments to him because they were together for

1096
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 1: six years, which since she was in middle school, I

1097
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: assume she said they broke up at twenty two. They

1098
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: were together for six years. I did the math real quick.

1099
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: It's like sixteen. Okay, so maybe high school. But I

1100
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 1: feel like maybe she's more attached to him than really

1101
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: what he is. So he's not wanting to leave the girlfriend,

1102
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: and she's just like, well, let me have this forever

1103
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: attachment to you, because right now he's not leaving that

1104
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend he's been with for a year, So she's possibly

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00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: just in this other relationship to make it seem like

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00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 1: I've moved on. We're just friends. You don't know if

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00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: that's true, because she ain't sounding like she wanted to

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00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: be with him. I'll be real, I didn't get that

1109
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: energy like she wanted him. I'm gonna tell you a

1110
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 1: lot of people think a baby you'll keep them. A

1111
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,439
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of women are out here thinking

1112
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,439
Speaker 1: that if I have a baby with you, you're gonna

1113
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: want me more. There's a lot of I don't want

1114
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: to call them revenge babies, but women will strategically get

1115
00:55:55,640 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 1: pregnant by a man and keep the baby. Friend my

1116
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: Latina excuse me, Hispanic friends baby acting like that dog.

1117
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: They think they'd be like, well, what's he gonna do

1118
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: when I have another baby? Way him? He's gonna still

1119
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 1: suck up the access with this girl. They had so

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00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: many kids, were her nigga? And I'm like, bitch, you

1121
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: just told me all he doesn't drive uber you keep

1122
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: getting pregnant? Why no, it's and it's it's because I

1123
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: feel like when women don't feel like they have a

1124
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: man all the way, that baby is an attachment. Like, bro,

1125
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: you're stuck with me for at least eighteen years. My nigga, like,

1126
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: you're not going anywhere, even if it's not emotionally. And

1127
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: that's my my issue and dilemma were dealing with men

1128
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: with with with baby moms. They always go back and

1129
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: then it's raw pussy. You really ain't never got to

1130
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: use a kind get her. Have you ever heard a

1131
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 1: mom say something like she's enjoyed like a coffee at

1132
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: a star But like, I got time to myself. I

1133
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:52,320
Speaker 1: had this moment where I got to be by myself.

1134
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: But you think I'm about to have somebody on my

1135
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: fucking nen just to keep a nigga. No, but I

1136
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: smelling ship on subway, let alone babyship with all them

1137
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: nutrients coming out. Bitch. I was with my home girl.

1138
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,799
Speaker 1: I was with my homegirl for the holidays, and I said,

1139
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: you gotta wake up and cook all them breakfast, and

1140
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: she um three and then also her niece was there,

1141
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: so it was just like, bitch, you gotta cook. And

1142
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 1: she got a man and he eats like the amount

1143
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: of all the kids. So I'm like, but you gotta

1144
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: wake up early and cook for all these mothers. Man,

1145
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: there's a lot I'll pass. She works. She don't need

1146
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: a job with all them kids, and that may not

1147
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think she doesn't. You don't need

1148
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: to kids posted a goddamn mean about excited about W

1149
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: two's I said, bitch, you know what a W two is.

1150
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: Don't be out here posting means for the I really

1151
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: believe that when women take care of a home like that,

1152
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: like I, it's such a job. It's a all of

1153
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: the women who do work and take care of the

1154
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: household and still do laundry, do the dishes, clean the

1155
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: house and cook. Bro, i'd be looking at superhero else.

1156
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: I told her that. I said, man, you're a real

1157
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: like superhero. I was in awe, but she was getting

1158
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 1: his clothes ready, had to get the kids ready. We

1159
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: went to like. I was like, Bro, I was with

1160
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,479
Speaker 1: dub in Denver, shout out to you know, I visited

1161
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: every year in Denver and her son JJ, and like

1162
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: we were so fucked up tonight before and I hear

1163
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: her getting up to go through school work with him.

1164
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's my nigger, bro, Like you are really

1165
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: sitting with this nigger. And she she looked me in

1166
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: the face and was like like she was dying. I can't.

1167
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: I can't do it anymore, and like just bouncing into

1168
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: mom mode and I don't get it. And I asked

1169
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: her and she was like, girl, it just comes natural.

1170
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, bitch, doesn't one of my favorite

1171
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: like when she had her baby, she didn't get epidural.

1172
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: She was like the slaves did it, And I wanted

1173
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: to feel him come out of me. I was like, wow,

1174
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: So she was already on some next level mom. He

1175
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: felt it coming, but also a pleasure of pain. I

1176
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: like a little pain when he big as dicks. That's

1177
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: why like baby dicks. I like pain. You think that

1178
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna get turned on my pushing horrible decisions. Thank

1179
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: you so much for listening to our show. Before we leave, though,

1180
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: we do want to say thank you to everyone who

1181
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: are patrons and support us. Because of you guys, we

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00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 1: are able to go on tour. So we will be

1183
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: seeing you in a motherfucking city near you. We're going

1184
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: to d MV. We got two shows sold out. Hole

1185
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: by this time, it might already be passed Saturday, but

1186
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: UM have Toronto coming up. Told y'all hos bottom tickets

1187
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: before I canceled that ship. Uh, then we got Chicago,

1188
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: we got Miami coming up. We will be possibly having

1189
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: a date by then l a New York we come

1190
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: to see yall. To New York is gonna be a

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00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: lot of y'all. Motherfucker's just so y'all know, we're getting

1192
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: a good enough venue to where all of y'all can

1193
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: come see us. So we're sited. We are trying. Okay,

1194
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: so please stop with the I was so annoyed Christmas Day.

1195
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 1: So I'm just like everyone is like, I don't see

1196
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: the tickets for this city yet, which we ain't got

1197
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: a venue yet. It doesn't mean it's necessarily gonna be further.

1198
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 1: It just really means that we're like looking for something.

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Speaker 1: We are, like I said, we're doing all of this

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01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: our own for this tour, guys. So we are booking venues,

1201
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: we're booking staff, we're booking a sales, we're putting um,

1202
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 1: we're actually look, this is how much I gotta see this.

1203
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: So we have in dinner, bitch to plan the outline

1204
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: for this ship I gotta see. Oh um. So just

1205
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 1: to tell you guys a little bit about our patren

1206
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 1: our Patreon account, who's helped us through this. So it's

1207
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: a platform like a community where basically we talk with

1208
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: y'all and people on their pay five bucks a month

1209
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: to have extra bonus episodes of Ours Day drop every Monday.

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Speaker 1: Right after you're listening to this, you can listen to

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Speaker 1: episode twenty two. We're gonna play you a clip from

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Speaker 1: an episode we did with an interracial couple. He's Asian,

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Speaker 1: she's black. I met him at No, I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's going Oh yeah, yeah, is it next week? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Two weeks, I don't know. Don't say what we dropped

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Speaker 1: in because we all know what they're about to hear

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01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: a clip of this this Patreon, they're gonna hear a

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Speaker 1: clip of that episode. What do we have a guest

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Speaker 1: and want to add it to another episode? This is

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Speaker 1: Hatreon the clip we're about to play, Mandy, Oh, we're

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Speaker 1: just gonna play it for this one. Okay. So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna play just like we did with our last episode, Sharonas.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be playing eclips from our Patreon for them

1224
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: to hear. So you guys can have a little sneak

1225
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: peek on what our patron list is here too. So

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Speaker 1: the next episode you're about to hear is episode twenty two,

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Speaker 1: So there are twenty one other episodes you can hear

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Speaker 1: of only five bucks. Not to mention, for five bucks

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Speaker 1: you get early access to tickets or access to sold

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Speaker 1: out shows. We're also gonna have Patreon only events. I've

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Speaker 1: been to the movies with patrons, and for fifteen dollars,

1232
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: have you been asking for merch you can get a

1233
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions T shirt. It's the only place you can

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01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: get March right now. Yeah, is becoming a patron because

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Speaker 1: which I ain't doing inventory and we ain't no motherfucking

1236
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: retail stores, so getting that shipped through page. I'm hiding

1237
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Speaker 1: the shirts, bitch. I basically have this like storage place

1238
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 1: in my office where like when it comes time to mail,

1239
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: I then take the shirts, make them do a mail.

1240
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: That ship is this month. We have to send twelve shirts.

1241
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Speaker 1: Damn y'all rich Well we got you know, we also

1242
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: rich in that tier you get a phone call. Um,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna Also I'm working on getting some maybe some

1244
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 1: stickers and some cool stuff for our patrons who come

1245
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: to our live shows. Don't yeah, just to give them.

1246
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Speaker 1: So I'm excited to meet you guys. Y'all will be

1247
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 1: the only ones who have horrible decisions March for now,

1248
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: so I'm excited. Like we we did sell it at

1249
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: a live show. We never doing it again, but for

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01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: fifteen bucks. Basically, well you know, I'll get on a

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01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: call with you and review some outlines that I have

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01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: for the upcoming show. You give me your feedback, you

1253
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: tell me what you think, UM suggestions, all of that.

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Speaker 1: We love that and I love doing with patrons. I

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Speaker 1: honestly like it because like I just really don't feel

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Speaker 1: like you should come from my neck unless you contribute

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Speaker 1: to the show. Then bitch you earn it, you come

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Speaker 1: for me. Like the therapy comments, didn't really pay attention

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Speaker 1: to them less they were patrons because they were the realist.

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Speaker 1: They don't talk to us like shit, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like yeah, they're they're actual supporters. So uh again,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for supporting UM Weezie and I are

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Speaker 1: looking for different ways to be more interactive with patrons.

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Speaker 1: You guys will also again be helping us do so

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Speaker 1: our show again the only place where you can get

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Speaker 1: merch and for a lot of the cities that do

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Speaker 1: sell out, because which we sold out the first DC

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Speaker 1: show in four days. We are saving seats for just

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Speaker 1: people who are patrons, so we do have seats for

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Speaker 1: you guys in every city. Um again, we want to

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Speaker 1: thank you guys and enjoy the clip of the one

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Speaker 1: of another clips because I don't know he was really

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Speaker 1: doing that at the end of this one, but anyways,

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Speaker 1: all of them are we okay? Um what guys? Thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening. So horridle decisions. This has been Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: another episode of horrible decisions. Go get some dick back.

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Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I want to tell people you're

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Speaker 1: straight when they ask, because you don't date men like

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Speaker 1: Vinny or Christopher or himself. We're calling James queer. But

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Speaker 1: he has told all these stories about sucking women and

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Speaker 1: having an ex wife, Like, yeah, how does that start

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Speaker 1: to happen? How are you like, have you always like

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01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: how did that happen? Um? I mean it's something that

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily like to talk about explicitly, because that's

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Speaker 1: not something I'm even that sure about in some ways,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like it's it's kind of a gray area,

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Speaker 1: like and I've kind of come and it's something that I,

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Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't sure about that's kind of how

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Speaker 1: it came about. I grew up thinking I was straight

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Speaker 1: almost you know, being afraid like in the church culture

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Speaker 1: I grew up on, and people were like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you be afraid, like don't get into sex stuff and

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Speaker 1: looking at porn and all this stuff you could turn

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Speaker 1: out gay. And like that was the thing. They're like,

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Speaker 1: don't masturbate, you'll you'll get used to, you know, touching

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Speaker 1: a dick, and then you'll be attracted to that, and

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Speaker 1: then you'll be gay. And I was like yeah, And

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Speaker 1: that was definitely like messages that you know, we were

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Speaker 1: told as a kid, how long did it take you

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Speaker 1: to masturbate? I don't know. I was I was like

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Speaker 1: very sheltered and raised and homeschooled and not raised around

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Speaker 1: a lot of other kids. So I didn't really even

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Speaker 1: figure out masturbation until I was like sixteen. Wo Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did it like surprising? Yes? It was? It like like

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Speaker 1: you stumbled upon it or someone told you to look. No,

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Speaker 1: I stumbled upon it. I was just like watching like

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Speaker 1: my parents were like out of the house for a second.

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Speaker 1: I was by myself for a second, and so I

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Speaker 1: turned on the TV and it was like entertainment tonight,

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Speaker 1: either some special on Pamela Anderson or like illustrated Wisdom. No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't never had capable We never even had basic cable.

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Speaker 1: I would watch like a limidate. Sometimes it was bad,

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Speaker 1: I would I would watch. I would watch fucking uh.

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Speaker 1: I would watch like soap operas and ship just because

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Speaker 1: like that was a lot to me. My mom was

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Speaker 1: so like strict about like seeing any kind of nudity

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Speaker 1: or anything your mom. My mom she would take the

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Speaker 1: newspapers when they came in and take all of the

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Speaker 1: ads for with like underwear ads even like camart and stuff,

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Speaker 1: and take that ship out. And when she wouldn't, I

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Speaker 1: would find it. I want to stop you for a second,

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Speaker 1: just to give you guys context. James's mom, Um, I

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Speaker 1: would say, has very bohemian hip, be kind of vibe.

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Speaker 1: Look okay right now. So it's hard to hear this

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Speaker 1: because I came over and I was like talking about

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Speaker 1: how I would have had to go to the bathroom,

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Speaker 1: and like she's like, oh my god, I've got a

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Speaker 1: squatty pott. It's great. I'm like, you gotta what. She

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Speaker 1: takes my hand, dragged me up the stairs, sits on

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Speaker 1: the toilet, shows me how to use it. She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can use it. After dinner, she was so dope.

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Speaker 1: I said fuck like a lot. I think I talked

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Speaker 1: about maybe sex a few times, and his mom was

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Speaker 1: so chill. Also Thanksgiving last year, when my mom was

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Speaker 1: mad that your mama made better black beans and rice,

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Speaker 1: she wasn't having it. I mean, you're only cutting up

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Speaker 1: niggas now that she met at a gay bar. So

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Speaker 1: from that, it doesn't really matter. I can literally take

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Speaker 1: tips out of a newspaper and I will still somehow

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Speaker 1: be sucking a girl to split on. So okay, the

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Speaker 1: newspapers were going away, you stumbled upon it, it happened.

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Speaker 1: Did you even know what j was when it came

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Speaker 1: out of your dick? I mean I figured it out

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Speaker 1: at that point. I was like, oh, that's what people

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Speaker 1: were talking about. Because actually my parents have been like

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Speaker 1: trying to talk to me about masturbation, like you don't

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't do it. I was like, oh no, just

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Speaker 1: stop talking to me, and and I was like yeah, yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: and acted like I knew what it was. And but

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Speaker 1: then I figured I was like, oh, and then you

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Speaker 1: know that it was off of the racist. But it

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Speaker 1: was not stop beginning that I mean kind of like

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Speaker 1: it was. It was, but I mean it did suck

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Speaker 1: because there was so much like shame around it, and

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Speaker 1: I would like try to not do it, and I

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Speaker 1: would like feel guilty when I did it, like pray

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Speaker 1: about it and try to get God to stymember praying.

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Speaker 1: And I would like sit awake in my bed like

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Speaker 1: all the time, like Okay, I'm just gonna not do it,

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Speaker 1: not do it, and like sit away for hours until

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Speaker 1: I was gonna suck it and just like jerk off

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Speaker 1: and go to sleep. Me like all right now I

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Speaker 1: feel bad. I feel bad. I guess I'm not I guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be prey to to ask God to

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Speaker 1: stop you from jerking off because it was just I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It's kind of really in vogue. Um. At

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Speaker 1: the Christian high school that I went to for like

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Speaker 1: there to be like accountability groups, like six eighteen year

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Speaker 1: old like guys getting together to talk about how like

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Speaker 1: you know, either they held strong that week or if

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Speaker 1: they stumbled and like found pornography or so like this

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Speaker 1: is such a new world for me. I wasn't ask

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Speaker 1: God for not be pregnant, I was