Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in?
Speaker 2: Tis we are?
Speaker 1: That does not work?
Speaker 2: No, I know. I was gonna say tis the season?
Speaker 2: But it's too soon, oh is it?
Speaker 1: I think?
Speaker 2: So I have to Thanksgiving soon.
Speaker 1: I actually wish that I had my tree up already.
Speaker 1: You do, yeah, I do.
Speaker 3: We can get into that debate in a second, because
Speaker 3: I just want to say I wanted to start off
Speaker 3: this podcast by saying that I am in a season
Speaker 3: of loving you so much right now?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Yeah, why you know? I don't know. But you know,
Speaker 2: like every.
Speaker 3: Relationship peaks and valleys, highs and lows, and I'm really
Speaker 3: on a high with you right now.
Speaker 1: Wow. I didn't even know this.
Speaker 3: I find myself thinking about you all the time. Okay,
Speaker 3: that's right, And I just love you so much and
Speaker 3: I hope that you feel that.
Speaker 2: I hope you clearly do not feel that.
Speaker 1: But no, I feel like I always feel that from you.
Speaker 1: But thank you so much for sharing that. I'm happy
Speaker 1: to know. I'm what did I do to What did
Speaker 1: I do to you this to evoke this deep love?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like sometimes you know,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, this is so weird. But I was thinking about
Speaker 3: us doing a holiday card this year, okay, And I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I love that I'm going
Speaker 3: to do a holiday card with my best friend.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 3: And I love that for us and for me and
Speaker 3: for you and and I don't know. There's just something
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We haven't talked about doing a holiday card together. This
Speaker 1: is the first time hearing about all of this.
Speaker 2: I haven't run and by you. But I thought it'd
Speaker 2: be really daydream that Christmas card this year.
Speaker 1: Okay, like sending it out or just like a virtual.
Speaker 3: Virtual one, like like a high quality one. Yeah, like
Speaker 3: a like a like a purposefully purposeful like holiday cards,
Speaker 3: like we get dressed here.
Speaker 2: Yes, take a photo by a tree.
Speaker 1: Well by like next to a tree, not buy a.
Speaker 2: Tree, purchase a tree. Okay, so tree.
Speaker 4: So you have a concept worked out involved?
Speaker 3: Yes, I do have a concept, but I think like
Speaker 3: just making it like actually official.
Speaker 1: Do you have outfit ideas picked up for us some
Speaker 1: of the things you send me on Instagram and via text?
Speaker 3: Nope, no, no, no, there's free range on wardrobe now.
Speaker 1: But we do have to be cohesive. Yes, that is
Speaker 1: a rule.
Speaker 2: That's a rule. Wow, that's where my brain was going.
Speaker 3: And then I think, do we like send them out
Speaker 3: by mail to people the night? This is the debate
Speaker 3: I have every year, like what's the point.
Speaker 1: Are you not doing a Christmas card with Robbie?
Speaker 2: We've never done one? And like or holiday card?
Speaker 3: I think about mailing things and I'm like, why am
Speaker 3: I mailing things?
Speaker 2: Nobody wants my mail? Does anybody want me mail.
Speaker 1: A holiday card?
Speaker 2: You do love?
Speaker 1: Like a photo?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I love them in the mail?
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 4: Oh they're the best.
Speaker 1: Really. Other piece of mail I get is bills, so
Speaker 1: it's nice to open it, just like happy faces. It
Speaker 1: trusts first you're engaged.
Speaker 4: I do, yes, It's I don't want to put too
Speaker 4: much pressure on you, but it is very important, I think,
Speaker 4: especially that first as engaged couple. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: That's and then who do I send it to?
Speaker 1: Like your wedding guest list?
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: Just getting the addresses alone is going to be quite
Speaker 3: the journey.
Speaker 2: But I guess I might as well start.
Speaker 1: You have plenty of time. 'tis this season? She says?
Speaker 2: The season's coming up? Quick to setting out cards.
Speaker 1: This season them it do be approaching, do you have
Speaker 1: and y'all can use one of the photos that you
Speaker 1: from are engage and just put a little little cute
Speaker 1: frame holiday frame around some.
Speaker 2: Like Christmas lights, maybe blue ones for Hanukkah.
Speaker 1: O oh my gosh, two birds, one stone.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah wow? Was this coming together quite nicely? Anyways?
Speaker 1: So so okay, so you were just daydreaming about our
Speaker 1: our holiday card. Oh yes, correct, and you were like, wow,
Speaker 1: I love her so much.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I've just been loving you a lot lately because I
Speaker 3: feel like I went through a little bit of a
Speaker 3: phase about a week where I was just really down
Speaker 3: on myself. I was questioning, I was very not confident,
Speaker 3: I was very not modern woman energy. I was low,
Speaker 3: and I felt like you were there to keep me
Speaker 3: up and pump me up and put air in my tires.
Speaker 2: And it just meant a lot.
Speaker 1: Oh. I felt like we were doing the same thing
Speaker 1: for each other.
Speaker 2: Really Yeah wow.
Speaker 1: I mean I knew there were moments where you were down,
Speaker 1: but I felt like we I felt I felt encouraged
Speaker 1: by you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well I always I always love you so much. So
Speaker 1: welcome to feeling.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, it's nice nice to be here. Happy to
Speaker 2: be here. How was your weekend?
Speaker 1: The weekend was fine. It was so nice because this
Speaker 1: was the first weekend where Haley and I were both
Speaker 1: at home and had nothing to do, so we Friday
Speaker 1: night we went to see Hunger the New Hunger Games,
Speaker 1: which was very dark.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I left kind of being like, I know,
Speaker 1: the Hunger the Hunger Games is dark too. The concept
Speaker 1: is so dark about the Hunger Games. But something about
Speaker 1: this one, because it's basically about why President Snow becomes
Speaker 1: the dark sinister man that he is, felt a little darker.
Speaker 1: There's a little more hopefulness, I guess than the other ones.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know about that.
Speaker 3: The first one really was delightful, Well delight was not
Speaker 3: the right word. It's it was dark too. But like
Speaker 3: the first one, I feel like was really good okay
Speaker 3: to me. The second and third ones fell off, so
Speaker 3: I didn't really have any desire to see the prequel.
Speaker 1: It was really good. I mean, I thought it was
Speaker 1: really good. I just left being like, hmmm, I was
Speaker 1: hoping for more of like a romantic.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I had more interest in seeing trolls band
Speaker 3: together than I did the Hunger Games.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you always throw me off with your preferences.
Speaker 1: I never like you literally keep me guessing because you
Speaker 1: love Sonic the Hedgehog. You got into Survivor and there
Speaker 1: you throw me for a loop.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: They gotta keep everybody on your toes. Actually, I have
Speaker 3: a confession to make. What So I've been so excited
Speaker 3: because Love Island has these games and I'm like, this
Speaker 3: is like my two worlds combining into one, Love Island
Speaker 3: and Survivor. Not really Survivor, but like you know, the
Speaker 3: games element, the aspect of it. So I've been so excited.
Speaker 3: I've been counting down the days I got Peacock.
Speaker 2: And I'm not into it.
Speaker 1: Are people into it? Like? Are people loving it? I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 3: Like Fran from Chicks in the Office was posting, She's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: it's so good. So I was like, Okay, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Keep going a little bit like about it.
Speaker 3: I think that it's not enough UK people. It's a
Speaker 3: lot of USA people that I don't care about.
Speaker 1: You are so anti USA Love Island.
Speaker 2: I am, I am, and if you watched you would
Speaker 2: understand why.
Speaker 3: But I think it's just a lot of USA people,
Speaker 3: so I'm not. I'm not pulled. Like there's like one
Speaker 3: guy I remember, Curtis that I'm excited about, but like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, I just don't really know these people
Speaker 3: games are kind of weird and like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just find myself watching it being like word, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's on my phone.
Speaker 2: More.
Speaker 1: That was a vulnerable confession. We appreciate the vulnerability because
Speaker 1: I know that's hard for you to go against Love Island.
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna stick with it. I'm gonna keep going
Speaker 3: a little bit more.
Speaker 1: Is it the same length as a normal Love Island season?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna keep commitment. You're just gonna keep going
Speaker 1: until and.
Speaker 3: If I get really to the point where I just
Speaker 3: can't do it anymore, I'll give up. But I'm not
Speaker 3: the point of giving up yet. Are you caught up
Speaker 3: on a.
Speaker 1: What's the show where they're like competing in the I know,
Speaker 1: like the military training special Forces? Yeah? Are you caught up?
Speaker 2: I'm not caught up?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you watching it?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: You guys, it's such a good show.
Speaker 1: Did you watch the one where how far behind are you?
Speaker 3: I'm where they like battle each other. Oh my god, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think I'm two or three behind.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, spoiler alert because there's this episode where uh,
Speaker 1: Tom Sandoval and Bode body Miller win a challenge and
Speaker 1: so then the others have to carry them back to
Speaker 1: the camp. Yeah, and Nick Viala is having to carry
Speaker 1: Tom Sandoval, and Nick was like, you could tell he
Speaker 1: was just like out of energy, Like you could tell
Speaker 1: he's like depleted. Like on a normal day he would
Speaker 1: have no issue, but you could tell he was just drained.
Speaker 1: And so he's like, I can't, like I can't carry him,
Speaker 1: and Jojo Seawall picks him up and carries him the
Speaker 1: rest of the way, picks up Tom's how long is
Speaker 1: it they had? I mean they were far. They were
Speaker 1: I think a mile or something from the camp.
Speaker 2: I don't think I could carry my dog for a mile.
Speaker 1: But I was like, she is so mentally and physically strong,
Speaker 1: Like it is crazy because watching Tom, also watching.
Speaker 2: Her carrying Tom Sandal so vulnerable.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I posted that I had this vision of
Speaker 1: you being on Special Forces and I was literally giggling
Speaker 1: out loud thinking about you doing these challenges and then
Speaker 1: like yelling at you if you did your excited face
Speaker 1: or a facial expression. I need you to do it.
Speaker 1: I don't do anything. So many people were like, how
Speaker 1: do we make this?
Speaker 2: Robbie was like, I would love seeing you on that.
Speaker 3: He's like, and I'm like, this is probably the worst
Speaker 3: idea on the planet Earth. And he's like, you're physically strong.
Speaker 3: You could do the challenges. I'm not like anybody yelling
Speaker 3: at me. Could you mention somebody getting in my face
Speaker 3: like that?
Speaker 1: I think it'd be good for you.
Speaker 2: You think so?
Speaker 1: In what way it strengthened you? I think you would
Speaker 1: not be scared to be yelled at anymore.
Speaker 2: Girl a little thick skins. Yeah, yeah, it'd be really
Speaker 2: good TV.
Speaker 1: And the thing is people like, what if you'll do
Speaker 1: it together? And I'm like, I would not even be
Speaker 1: able to make eye contact with Tanya because I'd start
Speaker 1: giggling and it would be over for me.
Speaker 3: If I do any type of show like that, it's
Speaker 3: you and me Like, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 2: So loo we come as a package deal? Okay, tomato tomato.
Speaker 1: All right, Well that would incur I would feel like challenged.
Speaker 1: I feel like we could stay the distance because I
Speaker 1: think we'd both be challenged by both of us being there, Right.
Speaker 2: We can't give up. I can't give up before you, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Because you're not competitive, but I know that would kick in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, those things are scary though. They do some pretty
Speaker 2: scary stuff. Yeah, it's all very They had me catch
Speaker 2: on fire, I'd be.
Speaker 1: Out catch on fire.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Did you see the episode where they like, I
Speaker 3: think maybe it was last season where they like lit
Speaker 3: them on fire, They literally lit them on fire and
Speaker 3: then they had to like jump and roll out the fire.
Speaker 1: Well were they wearing like protectives?
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, but still I don't want they have
Speaker 3: like petroleum jelly on their faces.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want any fire on me.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, no, it's not what you want. It's just
Speaker 1: it just is an interesting I mean it's only for
Speaker 1: it's a.
Speaker 2: Week, right, Oh they're going gone for a week.
Speaker 1: Yea, I could do anything.
Speaker 2: For a week.
Speaker 1: But they definitely are ramping up. You can tell there's
Speaker 1: too many. They're like, why are there so many people
Speaker 1: still here? Because there's still six people left, and they're
Speaker 1: like we gotta we can feel like they're like we
Speaker 1: gotta escalate everything. It's so good this season though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree, what else have I been watching we binge? Oh,
Speaker 1: so Saturday we binge watch. It's called Fellow Travelers. It's
Speaker 1: on Showtime. It has Matt is it Boomer Bomber, Boomer Bomber.
Speaker 1: He is so handsome. He has like one of those
Speaker 1: faces where you're just like wow, it's really good.
Speaker 2: Though, what's it called.
Speaker 1: It's called Fellow Travelers.
Speaker 3: Literally never heard of it. Have you heard of Anatomy
Speaker 3: of a scandal? Anatomy Anatomy of a Scandal? No, it's
Speaker 3: this show. There's I think there's six episodes. That's on Netflix.
Speaker 3: We just finished it this weekend. So Paulina tells Robby
Speaker 3: and I, this is the best show.
Speaker 2: You gotta watch it. It's so good. So our expectations
Speaker 2: going in were like very high.
Speaker 3: Obviously, best show, great good, Excited to get out a
Speaker 3: little bit out of the reality TV's. I've been doing
Speaker 3: a lot of reality TV, actually all reality TV.
Speaker 1: Same So we're watching it.
Speaker 3: First of all, the guy that stars in the show
Speaker 3: looks like Tyler Cameron, like a like a dad version
Speaker 3: of Tyler Cameron.
Speaker 2: And it's all I could think about the whole time.
Speaker 2: So that was very distracting. But yeah, what's his name.
Speaker 4: It's a Rupert Friend, Rupert Friend, Rupert Friend, which is cool,
Speaker 4: cute name.
Speaker 2: Uh he looks Does he not look like Tyler Cameron?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: He does even more so in the show. But anyways,
Speaker 3: so I'm like, okay, we're watching him like this. Okay,
Speaker 3: the first episode is pretty good and then I'm like,
Speaker 3: you know when like they play that music where there's
Speaker 3: something that's really big gonna happen.
Speaker 2: And then like nothing happens.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I felt like it was like that for the first like.
Speaker 1: Four episodes, so it's like stressful.
Speaker 2: It was stressful because.
Speaker 3: I kept waiting from like where's the thing, you know,
Speaker 3: and then the thing happened and I was like, that's
Speaker 3: the whole thing, and I left it being kind of confused.
Speaker 1: So not the best show ever.
Speaker 2: No, I think people.
Speaker 3: Should watch it because it's six episodes. It's a quick
Speaker 3: binge and it is interesting. But I would like people
Speaker 3: to watch it and tell me how they feel because
Speaker 3: it came with very high praise.
Speaker 2: Robbie didn't love it so much and I was kind
Speaker 2: of in the middle.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, not a scathing review, but.
Speaker 3: Not a survivor not a survivor review, like not everything
Speaker 3: can be survivor sadus. But I enjoyed it and it
Speaker 3: was a quick binge because it's only six episodes.
Speaker 5: You know what I mean, So, fellow Travelers, is it's
Speaker 5: like about the it's like politics, a politics world like
Speaker 5: back in the I guess like fifties or something, but
Speaker 5: it's it's focused on the like gay men that were
Speaker 5: having to hide their relationships.
Speaker 1: So it's like this really emotional like it's just hard.
Speaker 1: It's like kind of hard because it's flashing back and
Speaker 1: forth to like present time and back. But it's really
Speaker 1: really well done and well written. But we thought it
Speaker 1: was a full series, and we there's only four episodes out,
Speaker 1: so now we have to just keep waiting week by week,
Speaker 1: so our free trial is going to expire before on Showtime.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Showtime is great. I'm watching The Curse on Showtime
Speaker 4: with I love it. I love people being uncomfortable, I
Speaker 4: love people doing crazy things. It's great. I'm loving the Curse.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, because I keep seeing trailers for that and
Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like it looks good.
Speaker 4: It's uh. It's Benny Safti who did uncut Gems.
Speaker 2: Uncut Jams, Jams where are you seeing these? Where are
Speaker 2: you hearing about these?
Speaker 1: Because we're watching Showtime show so it would like come
Speaker 1: up on like the ad or whatever.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I heard this get announced a while ago,
Speaker 4: so I was looking forward to it. But Showtime their
Speaker 4: library is weird. It's like Yellow Jackets Dexter on Showtime.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I have Showtime and I don't use it.
Speaker 1: You should, I think there's Yeah, yellow Jackets is over.
Speaker 4: There's a bundle with Paramount Plus. It's prettyffordable.
Speaker 1: That's what I do. I added it to my Halu plan.
Speaker 1: It's very expensive. Yeah, all of life streaming is expensive.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'm not, like I don't watch anything
Speaker 3: on Disney Plus right now, I'm not watching anything on disc.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why do I have it?
Speaker 1: I told Haley, I know you waited to get engaged,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, let's streamline our services. Like this is crazy,
Speaker 1: it's so silly. Yeah, well, because and who the Hulu
Speaker 1: plan I have. I have an extra amount so I
Speaker 1: can have it on multiple devices. So I'm like, we
Speaker 1: don't even need that at your house, which I think
Speaker 1: we might be logged in there anyway.
Speaker 2: Anyways, It's more complicated than anything to streamline.
Speaker 1: Wait, did you see the thing about uh them promoting
Speaker 1: it and the exact same script is Glenn Palin it's
Speaker 1: my favorite thing?
Speaker 2: Is it a bit?
Speaker 4: It's a bit?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 4: That guy Nathan Fielder, he does this kind of stuff
Speaker 4: like all the time, so yeah, he city swinging. Glenn
Speaker 4: Pallall did this like cute little intro for the trailer. Yeah,
Speaker 4: for anyone, but you where it's like it's my movie
Speaker 4: and it's actually my movie. And then yeah, Nathan Fielder
Speaker 4: and Emmistone did the exactly like verbat in, the exact
Speaker 4: same thing for.
Speaker 1: Their background and everything. So people were like what And
Speaker 1: then he released a statement.
Speaker 4: He released a statement Nathan Fielder from the Curse. He
Speaker 4: released the statement saying like we had done this a
Speaker 4: long time ago, that this is unfortunate and I hope
Speaker 4: that the people at anyone but you will see things
Speaker 4: our way and issued an apology or something.
Speaker 1: Wow, it's very fun. But no one knows, like no one.
Speaker 1: We're just like, oh, I guess if people know Nathan Fielder,
Speaker 1: they know that he that's something he would do, so
Speaker 1: they're like, I can't tell if this is a bit
Speaker 1: or not because it's like, word for word, exactly the same.
Speaker 2: When does anything but you come out?
Speaker 4: Look but December twenty second, right before My God, a gift.
Speaker 4: I'm excited for that movie.
Speaker 2: I am too, just I want to see the hype.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be the opening night half of the Chemistry. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I do imagine it's gonna be amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: The Red Carpet Chemistry was juicy.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm gonna maybe check that out.
Speaker 1: You should, you should.
Speaker 2: I had to watch even Romancing the Stone.
Speaker 4: I think it's called you watch Romancing the Stone.
Speaker 2: Have you seen it?
Speaker 4: Yes, I've seen it.
Speaker 1: You like it?
Speaker 4: I loved it?
Speaker 1: Why did you have to watch it?
Speaker 3: Robbie really likes educating me on eighties movies, and I
Speaker 3: feel like he uh tickles my fancy with a lot
Speaker 3: of things I ask of him, So I, you know,
Speaker 3: tickle his fancy for time to time. Yeah, yeah, that movie.
Speaker 3: I fell asleep within fifteen minutes.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's a forest Gump guy made that movie.
Speaker 1: That's not tickling his fancy. But you follow sleep that fast?
Speaker 3: Well, I took you know those Lemmy sleeps, Tanya?
Speaker 1: I thought it put me in like a semi koma.
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding, Okay.
Speaker 3: So we got these let Me the Courtney Kardashian Letty Sleeps.
Speaker 2: We got them at the.
Speaker 3: Lemon's Foundation in the gift bag, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I've been always wanting to try Courtney Kardashians like things
Speaker 3: that I'm never gonna buy it, right, And so I
Speaker 3: took it at because melatonin doesn't really do anything for me.
Speaker 3: So I thought took it at like eight o'clock, thinking
Speaker 3: by like nine it would like put me into like.
Speaker 2: A nice sleep. By eight point fifteen, I was like.
Speaker 1: Punk sho.
Speaker 2: So let me tell you those those Lemmy sleeps work.
Speaker 1: That is the craziest thing because I did the exact
Speaker 1: same thing. I found them in my gift bag from
Speaker 1: the Women's Foundation. I was like, oh, I love trying
Speaker 1: new sleep gummies. I slept till noon. The next day.
Speaker 1: I felt like I was like I had been hit
Speaker 1: by a truck. They put me out so hard.
Speaker 2: You're very sensitive to things. I think I'm.
Speaker 1: Hard, just hard.
Speaker 3: I think I'm just hard because I was up at
Speaker 3: seven o'clock the next day, but I was asleep at
Speaker 3: like eight fifteen.
Speaker 1: I mean I think I probably went to sleep. I
Speaker 1: probably got the same amount of sleep as you. I
Speaker 1: just took it later.
Speaker 2: What is she put in those things?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but my god, if you're taking them,
Speaker 1: be warned.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they work, they work well.
Speaker 4: That sleep stuff freaks me out. I took sugarberry sleep
Speaker 4: one time.
Speaker 1: We used to be a sponsored Delicious.
Speaker 4: They were so good and I was out for I
Speaker 4: felt like Rippman Winkle. I lost like two solid days.
Speaker 3: But I also I didn't feel like hazy the next day.
Speaker 1: Well what I didn't either. I woke up right in noon.
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I woke up, went to a yoga class.
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, I might try one.
Speaker 2: Instead of two, Yeah, instead of the dose the recommended day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the recommended dose is a little much for me.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was wild.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: But we had a very like RESTful weekend, which it
Speaker 1: was so nice because we've been traveling Haley finally and
Speaker 1: then she's back on the road this weekend.
Speaker 3: So this Thanksgiving weekend, actually, let's get into our Thanksgiving plans.
Speaker 2: But let's do when we come back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's take a break. All right, we are back.
Speaker 1: So you're hosting Thanksgiving this year?
Speaker 2: Correct?
Speaker 1: Why do I haven't you hosted before?
Speaker 3: We hosted it two years ago and his whole family
Speaker 3: from New York was in town.
Speaker 2: So it was like thirty five people. Wow, Yeah, that
Speaker 2: was madness.
Speaker 3: This one's going to be it's rounding out to be
Speaker 3: about nineteen Wow yeah, strong, Strong.
Speaker 1: What's the plan? Are you cooking?
Speaker 2: No to pot luck?
Speaker 3: So actually his mom is bringing the turkey and the
Speaker 3: stuffing and the cranberry sauce, and then everybody's kind of
Speaker 3: bringing different things, like his ants bringing rice, and we've
Speaker 3: got mac and cheese and mashed potatoes. I'm gonna make
Speaker 3: a big salad. The kids are gonna make corn bread
Speaker 3: and pumpkin bread. You know, it'll be kind of.
Speaker 2: Like amortgage marsh work.
Speaker 3: But we've been really wanting to like get the house
Speaker 3: together before we had everybody over, So that was kind
Speaker 3: of what our weekend was like focused on.
Speaker 2: We painted the paint.
Speaker 3: The fireplace, our couches that we got a real pulsarch
Speaker 3: should be coming back any day, our dining room tape
Speaker 3: or chairs should be coming, and so like we're just
Speaker 3: like waiting on everything to like hopefully cross our fingers
Speaker 3: get in in time. But it was like it's so
Speaker 3: funny because people were like why are you trying to
Speaker 3: host Thanksgiving this year? You have a lot on your plate.
Speaker 3: You need to plan a wedding, Like why are you
Speaker 3: like putting this on yourself? But there's something about the
Speaker 3: fact that like we did get engaged this year, and
Speaker 3: like it's like it's almost like we're just celebrating, like
Speaker 3: we want to just like host and like celebrate this year,
Speaker 3: you know, like that we're like combining our families.
Speaker 1: That's so fun. Though, ya y'all are great hosts. Y'all
Speaker 1: do it, y'all make it like y'all are a great host.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: I feel like, uh, everyone bringing dishes to makes it.
Speaker 1: It's just like you're facilitating it by everyone else's we're.
Speaker 2: Hosting, but we're not.
Speaker 3: Like I'm not a cooker, you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: Like chef cook. I'm not a chef.
Speaker 2: I cook to survive.
Speaker 3: I don't enjoy it like I cook because I need
Speaker 3: to eat, you know what I mean. Like I'm not
Speaker 3: one of those people that's like I find it therapeutic
Speaker 3: and amazing, Like no, I do it and to be
Speaker 3: survived to survive.
Speaker 1: Appreciate that honesty.
Speaker 3: So the thought of cooking Thanksgiving does not appeal to me,
Speaker 3: but the thought of having everybody over does, and that
Speaker 3: was something I feel like early days when we were dating,
Speaker 3: we would always talk about Thanksgiving and doing it together
Speaker 3: and like, hmm, having everybody come over and have like
Speaker 3: the kids, you know, roasting marshmallows over the fire pits
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: So, so is your family coming too?
Speaker 3: So it'll be my parents and then and then Robbie's
Speaker 3: side of the family because my sister is going with
Speaker 3: her husband and his family, and then my brother's gonna.
Speaker 2: Be with his fiance and her family.
Speaker 1: Gotcha, Yeah, that's so fun.
Speaker 2: What are you doing for Thanksgiving? You can come over to.
Speaker 1: We're going to Haley's sister. She's hosting Thanksgiving this year
Speaker 1: because Hailey's mom is out of the country working right now,
Speaker 1: so we're all going over to her sister. So we'll
Speaker 1: be with her family, which is fun. We do it
Speaker 1: every year, just have like a chill, cozy day, same thing.
Speaker 1: Everyone's I think I'm gonna make a sweet potato castrole.
Speaker 1: That's my favorite dish, so I load it, I load
Speaker 1: it with marshmallows.
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever had a sweet potato castle role.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know the carrot soup flea at Delilah.
Speaker 3: As it tastes like that, it's like that, Oh my heavens,
Speaker 3: then it's probably best.
Speaker 4: I don't I've never had a cast role of any kind.
Speaker 2: I don't think I have either.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: We've talked about this before and I got a lot
Speaker 4: of ankry messages about it.
Speaker 2: But I don't know how either.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna make you all a Sweepatoto castle
Speaker 1: on a green bean cast role.
Speaker 4: Please please make me think you would You.
Speaker 1: Would love it, Yes, you would secretly love it.
Speaker 2: The green bean one.
Speaker 1: I think you love both the soup potato and the
Speaker 1: green with the sweep patato tastes like the cara. It's
Speaker 1: like dessert. It's so good. Hailey always volunteers to make
Speaker 1: the cranberry sauce, which is like you just pour berries
Speaker 1: in the stove and LETTINGX simmer.
Speaker 3: It's like controversial, but I enjoy the cranberry out of
Speaker 3: a can more than I like a homemade cranberry sauce.
Speaker 4: Do you like when it has the ridges of the castle?
Speaker 2: I do?
Speaker 3: Shocking, I know, Actually I haven't read the labels of
Speaker 3: a cranberry sauce.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's in there.
Speaker 1: Just live, you know, right, once a year, once a year,
Speaker 1: maybe twice if Christmas you'll do. Okay, I have a
Speaker 1: question for y'all. So last night, Hailey goes up and
Speaker 1: gets chips from the counter. Okay, she sits down next
Speaker 1: to me. She's like halfway through the bag and then
Speaker 1: she goes, oh, do you want some? And I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm good. She's kind of giving few to Phoebe here
Speaker 1: and there, and then she like finishes the bag, not
Speaker 1: a single crumb left, and I'm like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you made those look so good. I'm gonna go get
Speaker 1: my bag. And she goes, oh, that was that was
Speaker 1: your That was your bag that I that I was eating.
Speaker 1: And I was like why you like, that's why I
Speaker 1: offered it to you. And I'm like, but you are
Speaker 1: halfway through the bag when you offered it to me,
Speaker 1: like it was my my chip bag of chips, and
Speaker 1: she's like, but I offered it to you. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm going to bring this to the podcast
Speaker 1: because I'm like that should have been like, hey, these
Speaker 1: are these are your chips sitting on the counter. Did
Speaker 1: you want these are you done with these? Are you
Speaker 1: going to eat these? So?
Speaker 2: Like what makes them your chips?
Speaker 1: They were just a small bag. Like we both got
Speaker 1: sandwiches yesterday and we just got a bag of chips.
Speaker 3: So I had like, do you guys have sides of
Speaker 3: the pantry because not.
Speaker 1: Like a big bag of chips, not like the one
Speaker 1: do you hog down.
Speaker 2: To take it down to see it day bag?
Speaker 1: Because where are the corn chips or the chips of
Speaker 1: like Tonya and I devoured those. But anyways, it's just
Speaker 1: an individual bag, is what she was eating. And I
Speaker 1: had saved mine.
Speaker 3: You know, what's yours is mine, what's mine is yours,
Speaker 3: what's ours as ours?
Speaker 1: Wow. So if you had your own thing, your own
Speaker 1: little meal, and then and then you were like going
Speaker 1: to get it, and Robby's like.
Speaker 3: Oh you didn't eat it out of the time we
Speaker 3: were eating our meal and it was just left on
Speaker 3: the counter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would go eat it.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: I see. Like there's times where like Alison will be like, oh,
Speaker 4: can I have a pickle? Because like I like made
Speaker 4: a big thing about buying the jar of pickles or something,
Speaker 4: and I assume everything in the house is everybody's like
Speaker 4: every item but for some reason, when it's an individual
Speaker 4: bag of chips that you got, like with lunch, that
Speaker 4: feels more personal and invasive to just start eating, Like
Speaker 4: if I did that to Allison, that would war starting
Speaker 4: just start eating it without discussing it first.
Speaker 1: Really yeah, she was like, she was like, but I
Speaker 1: offered them to you. I'm like, I didn't know that
Speaker 1: they were my back of chips being offered to me
Speaker 1: that you were.
Speaker 3: You didn't eat them the first place, so you had
Speaker 3: your lunch. Did you say, I'm saving these for later?
Speaker 1: They were folded on the calendar as in, these are mine.
Speaker 1: I saved them. I didn't throw them.
Speaker 3: I don't eat something, it becomes leftovers, and leftovers.
Speaker 2: They're there, they're carbe blanche. Wait is that the right word?
Speaker 2: Why did I use that recently?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means?
Speaker 2: Free range?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, lah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I would like to for everyone to weigh in. I
Speaker 1: think if it's a regular bag of chips, that's different.
Speaker 1: The personal bag makes us all all the difference.
Speaker 2: In my opinion, it was left over from your lunch.
Speaker 2: You didn't eat it, so then it becomes part of the.
Speaker 4: Whole community property in.
Speaker 1: The pantry with the chips, I'd say, yeah, it becomes
Speaker 1: where of the whole one it's separated. That says it.
Speaker 2: Doesn't say special.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It does not.
Speaker 1: That says you ate yours all at lunch, and I didn't.
Speaker 4: Even I love that. Haley thinks it's like because she
Speaker 4: offered it to you, that's so funny to me funny.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, that's not how it works. In my mind,
Speaker 1: it was the appropriate way would be, hey babe, are
Speaker 1: you gonna eat these chips that you had from lunch?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I was going to, but you
Speaker 1: can have them, or or yeah, I'm gonna eat those,
Speaker 1: bring them over, we can share them. But her take
Speaker 1: was I'm just gonna take them, eat half of them,
Speaker 1: offer her one.
Speaker 3: Basically, it's like you made bolz and you have left overs,
Speaker 3: so you put it in a tupperware and you put
Speaker 3: it in the refrigerator.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna ask.
Speaker 3: Haley's not gonna say, hey, Becca, can I have some
Speaker 3: of the bolon yez you didn't have for dinner.
Speaker 2: She's just gonna eat it.
Speaker 1: Right. No, I don't think it's the same it is.
Speaker 1: It's the bag of chips being the personal size. That
Speaker 1: that is the difference here.
Speaker 2: I don't see size, Yeah you don't.
Speaker 1: You just see food and you say what's mine is ours?
Speaker 1: But yours is mine?
Speaker 2: Mine is our?
Speaker 1: Yes, correct, So that's good.
Speaker 4: This is this is like a major cliche, but you know,
Speaker 4: the whole thing about like, oh, I'm not that hungry
Speaker 4: and then someone orders fries and end up eating a
Speaker 4: lot of the like Alison and I, we don't have
Speaker 4: that happen. But something that's been an ongoing issue is
Speaker 4: when we go to in and out Burger. I always
Speaker 4: get a pink lemonade and Allison will get water, and
Speaker 4: then she says, can I can I have a sip
Speaker 4: of your pink lemonade? She takes like half of it,
Speaker 4: and I keep saying I will happily buy you your
Speaker 4: own pink lemonade, and she's like, no, no, no, because no
Speaker 4: I don't want it. I don't want it, and like,
Speaker 4: I could drink two of them, so I will happily
Speaker 4: get them. But if I order too, then she gets
Speaker 4: reugh set.
Speaker 1: So that's you're in a tough position.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I just have to deal with having, you know,
Speaker 4: my lemonade. But I'm in a happy marriage, so I'm
Speaker 4: very happy to do that.
Speaker 2: That's really nice.
Speaker 1: But what I do is I buy the extra drink
Speaker 1: and then I'll drink it because more likely than not,
Speaker 1: Haley will want a sip and suck it down to
Speaker 1: the eyes. And I'm like, I love the I love
Speaker 1: the combination of like a bite of the burger fries
Speaker 1: and a sip of my drink. So it's very it's organized, yes,
Speaker 1: So when she messes up my flow, it's not.
Speaker 2: I feel like I do this to Robbie.
Speaker 3: But I can't put my yeah, because I'm the one
Speaker 3: that doesn't order the stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't want to dessert.
Speaker 3: Yeah, correct, And then somebody will order and I'm like.
Speaker 2: Just will buy that.
Speaker 1: Grant does this too?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Can I just have a few fries? Half of them gone?
Speaker 1: It's a battle. Yeah, Yeah, so that happened.
Speaker 2: I'm on Haley's side.
Speaker 1: Good to know.
Speaker 2: Makes sense.
Speaker 1: The immense love for me went right out the door. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm just agreeing with her, I know. I actually am
Speaker 1: curious to see what people say because this is like
Speaker 1: the great debate, the Great individual chip bag debate, chip
Speaker 1: bag debate. Speaking of nothing, but so I went to
Speaker 1: an event on Thursday night. I went to the Lorel
Speaker 1: Woman of Worth, which is such a cute event. Basically,
Speaker 1: they have this amazing setup, it's so beautiful inside the room,
Speaker 1: and they honor ten people who are doing amazing things
Speaker 1: in their community. Like one lady has.
Speaker 2: Is this lady like sixty something, Okay.
Speaker 1: She has this foundation where she goes to uh, I
Speaker 1: guess we're homes or nursing homes and gives people like
Speaker 1: their last wish, like gives them so it's almost like
Speaker 1: kind of like make a wish, but for people to
Speaker 1: go back and do one thing like this. One man
Speaker 1: just wanted to be on a used to sail so
Speaker 1: all he wanted was to be on a sailboat. And
Speaker 1: so they like do those things and it was so emotional.
Speaker 1: But always they honor like people who are doing those
Speaker 1: types of things in their community. And I wore this
Speaker 1: red dress. I had a red lip, and I posted
Speaker 1: a photo and I said red dress, said in Nick
Speaker 1: Jonas voice, it's like, you know, you know the red dress.
Speaker 1: And Tanya comments, I don't get the Nick Jonas part of.
Speaker 2: This, because do you know where my head was at?
Speaker 2: Tell me so the Jonas Brothers.
Speaker 3: They have this new song out that's called strong Enough,
Speaker 3: and that's what I've been listening to.
Speaker 2: It's with Bailey Zimmerman. Have you heard it?
Speaker 3: So it's new and my head isn't strong enough. That's
Speaker 3: where my head's at. And I didn't I didn't know
Speaker 3: you were an og Jonas fan, so my head wasn't
Speaker 3: going to.
Speaker 6: High heels, red dress.
Speaker 3: Huh, by yourself, gotta catch my bread.
Speaker 1: Sorry. We used to have given a warning.
Speaker 2: Before the spoiler alert, but people were shook. I know,
Speaker 2: I got the call, I got the angry message.
Speaker 1: I was getting messages. It was like people couldn't even
Speaker 1: believe it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my head did not go there.
Speaker 1: No, would you say you have a one track mind?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I've been in strong enough mode. I thought
Speaker 3: it was like a current reference, Like I was like PEG.
Speaker 3: I was trying to think of, like what has Nick
Speaker 3: said lately about Preanca?
Speaker 2: Like I thought about it for a minute and then
Speaker 2: I just stopped.
Speaker 1: Do you think it's wild that Preanca unfollowed Sophie Turner.
Speaker 2: No, you don't. No, there's obviously drama there.
Speaker 1: You don't think that creates more drama?
Speaker 2: Uh? No?
Speaker 3: Oh, because it's like not in her she doesn't want
Speaker 3: to see it all. It's like probably constantly in her feed.
Speaker 1: Yeah you just mute people though.
Speaker 2: Yeah you're a muter. Why mute when you can unfollow?
Speaker 1: Because nothing stresses me out more than running and potentially
Speaker 1: running into someone i'dress unfollowed. I'm swear it's happened where
Speaker 1: it's like multiple times where I just am scrolling and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I never see this person,
Speaker 1: I don't need to follow them anymore, and I unfollow
Speaker 1: them and then I see that randomly run into them
Speaker 1: and so I just stopped doing that, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: why I'll just mute same thing, same In fact.
Speaker 4: Has anyone ever called you out for it, like said like, hey,
Speaker 4: I notice you don't follow me anymore, what's up with that?
Speaker 1: No, but that's my fear.
Speaker 4: That's happened to me, Like, no one's gonna do that.
Speaker 4: It's psychotic, right, not in person. Someone someone like sent
Speaker 4: me a screenshot of like my following and like their
Speaker 4: name and like their name was searched, like hey, what happened?
Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm glitch. I was like, oh sorry,
Speaker 4: Like I don't know what happened there. But I'm like,
Speaker 4: what on earth do you say to that? That's you know, like,
Speaker 4: because I was looking at like people you least interacted with,
Speaker 4: you know, I didn't think they noticed.
Speaker 1: Yike, people wait list people you least interact.
Speaker 4: You can sort that on Instagram, like, oh.
Speaker 3: My gosh, can you show me that because I need
Speaker 3: to do a little purging's gone.
Speaker 1: Be careful if they're if you could potentially run into
Speaker 1: them at an industry event. I don't recommend unfollowing.
Speaker 3: I think the people that I'm gonna unfollow don't know me,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Oh, Like there's some accounts
Speaker 3: that I just like, don't need to follow anymore.
Speaker 1: I probably have that too.
Speaker 2: Girls in bathing suits, like why am I following that?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like travel bloggers.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why have I don't need to follow this?
Speaker 6: Oh oh yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you feel Fomo not being an f one this weekend?
Speaker 2: Negative bomo was felt? I mean, did you feel pomo
Speaker 2: not being an f one?
Speaker 1: No? I felt negative of a. Haley felt boma because
Speaker 1: she loves f one, but everyone was there. It was
Speaker 1: on those events where you're like, whoa, I didn't know
Speaker 1: anyone cared about.
Speaker 2: That's a lot of people there, Yeah, like the Bieber's
Speaker 2: or just Justin.
Speaker 5: Justin waved the checkered flag at the end of clear
Speaker 5: F one fan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's pretty iconic. If I'm getting asked
Speaker 1: to wave the checkered flag, I'm showing up.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But otherwise, no, it looked like a chaotic acual. He's
Speaker 1: already Cake.
Speaker 2: I actually have.
Speaker 3: Of the game, the Chiefs game tonight, the Chiefs versus
Speaker 3: the Eagles. Yes, because apparently allegedly, but I don't know
Speaker 3: if it's gonna happen anymore.
Speaker 1: If you say apparently, yes, pair.
Speaker 3: Taylor's parents and Travis's parents are parents. Travis's parents and
Speaker 3: Taylor's parents are supposed to supposedly meeting at this game.
Speaker 3: Taylor will not be there because she postponed one of
Speaker 3: her shows to tonight. Yeah, but do you think her parents,
Speaker 3: her parents are her parents gonna.
Speaker 2: Go without her?
Speaker 1: I feel like they would, So.
Speaker 2: Her parents they're still gonna meet.
Speaker 1: I feel like they will. What, Oh, because her family,
Speaker 1: her parents live there, is it in Philadelphia. It's just
Speaker 1: they're just going there playing the Eagles and that's her
Speaker 1: family's team.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know why her parents are allegedly going
Speaker 2: to this one.
Speaker 1: But that's Travis's brother's team.
Speaker 2: Correct, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: I think they'll still go.
Speaker 2: You think so well, but you know I'm gonna watching
Speaker 2: that game.
Speaker 1: What's the time difference? Can Taylor make it back on
Speaker 1: her jet in time?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Actually becauld?
Speaker 1: She'd be going back in time, back right. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know either.
Speaker 1: I could see her showing up still, she's a wizard.
Speaker 3: Like making it like in her like Karma outfit finishes,
Speaker 3: the show just gets right on a plane.
Speaker 1: Did you were like a red and gold Karma outfit tonight?
Speaker 1: Just got off the.
Speaker 2: Plane go straight there? That'd be epic.
Speaker 1: I feel bad. I feel like she's had a rough
Speaker 1: leg the Rio shows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks so.
Speaker 1: She looked so hot, like heat temperature hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And the fact that she lost a fan like that
Speaker 3: is devastating. I feel like the mental load she's probably
Speaker 3: experiencing from that is intense.
Speaker 1: I know it's devastating, And I don't know. She was
Speaker 1: like passing out water, throwing out water. Did you see
Speaker 1: that she was performing all time? Too well? And she
Speaker 1: was like walking around surveying making sure like people were Okay,
Speaker 1: she takes on a lot. Yeah, I mean really, I mean,
Speaker 1: I know it's I think I would imagine that's how
Speaker 1: every artist should be.
Speaker 3: So if you think about it, like and I know
Speaker 3: it's the people that come to the show are not
Speaker 3: her responsibility, right right, But I feel like if people
Speaker 3: are coming to see you, you take on that responsibility.
Speaker 3: Like it's like you're hosting totally You're literally hosting a
Speaker 3: gigantic dinner party.
Speaker 1: The fact that there wasn't like assigned seats is crazy
Speaker 1: for her show that size. Yeah, I don't know what
Speaker 1: we were talking about. We didn't know if it was
Speaker 1: a whole stadium was open seating or if it was
Speaker 1: just the floor, but even that is like, yeah, crazy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: swifties are trying to get as close as they can
Speaker 1: to her, and that he so devastating for her and
Speaker 1: her family and friends and what a yeah, heavy thing
Speaker 1: to take on for Taylor. But she played bigger than
Speaker 1: whole sky. So sad, so sad. But yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that she might make it to the game, and I
Speaker 1: think that if she doesn't, her parents will still go.
Speaker 2: Well, we'll see. I'm gonna be watching it intently, intensely.
Speaker 1: Is this the only game? Like, do you only watch
Speaker 1: Chiefs games?
Speaker 2: Correct? And just to see her you fantasy league?
Speaker 1: They know much about the fantasy league.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, when you get engaged, things like that
Speaker 3: don't matter anymore.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm pretty sure. Have y'all did that after
Speaker 1: the engagement? No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think it's all around the same time. But I
Speaker 3: feel like I've just been so giddy and like that.
Speaker 3: I tricking him about my fantasy team was not high
Speaker 3: on my priority list, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I thought you and Paulina did one.
Speaker 2: Though we did actually do one.
Speaker 3: She picked her team from chatchept actually had chat Chepte
Speaker 3: pick her team, and then I had.
Speaker 2: Who picked my team?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my friend picked my TA and Robbie basically
Speaker 3: said like, we can't do that, and so he was
Speaker 3: going to help us, and then we were like, we
Speaker 3: don't have enough people, so we kind of just tabled it.
Speaker 1: And it's been tabled ever since.
Speaker 2: Correct.
Speaker 1: But you are just a Chiefs fan, correct?
Speaker 2: Just watching for the Chiefs.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, waiting for Peacock to do the stream of
Speaker 3: Taylor every show, Just waiting.
Speaker 2: For someone to take that.
Speaker 1: Maybe next year, maybe next year. Yeah, we don't have
Speaker 1: emails today.
Speaker 3: We don't and actually Thanksgiving week, so we just want
Speaker 3: to end the show by saying thank you.
Speaker 2: We love you, Becca.
Speaker 1: We do love you so much. And I also just
Speaker 1: want to say I know that the holidays are a
Speaker 1: really joyful and happy time for so many people. And
Speaker 1: I also know that the holidays can be a very
Speaker 1: complicated and hard time for a lot of people. So
Speaker 1: if you're going through a hard time where things aren't
Speaker 1: happy and joyful, just know that you're loved and that
Speaker 1: there are people who love you, and people are going
Speaker 1: through that, and there is joy ahead, and even if
Speaker 1: it's not happening right now, it will come. And we
Speaker 1: love you so much and we hope that you have
Speaker 1: a wonderful holiday and we'll be back on Monday.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and if you are having a bad holiday, just
Speaker 3: know that the hard times don't last. It will get
Speaker 3: better for sure. Allah was it Christmas twenty twenty one.
Speaker 3: I got dumped, my parents had I was alone. It
Speaker 3: was a dark season.
Speaker 1: But joy comes in the morning.
Speaker 2: Joy comes in the morning.
Speaker 3: So anyways, we are here, reach out to us because
Speaker 3: we're around.
Speaker 2: I'm not going anywhere. Are you going anywhere, No, so
Speaker 2: reach out to us. We're here. We love to talk
Speaker 2: dmah all the things.
Speaker 1: And the scrubber and then the Facebook group and people
Speaker 1: are so kind and there's I read the comment sometimes
Speaker 1: on people's posts and it's just such a beautiful community.
Speaker 1: So if you're having a hard time, there's also support there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we love you so much.
Speaker 2: You love you, my
Speaker 1: H