WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Match, Mix and Repeat

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<v Speaker 1>Second, lately, we've been asking people on this segment to

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<v Speaker 1>pull up their apps and have them read off the

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<v Speaker 1>other person's dating profile just to get an idea of

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<v Speaker 1>who they are in a different kind of way. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so the US just asking boring questions like who are they?

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<v Speaker 1>Totally And I don't know if my co host really

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<v Speaker 1>like that strategy or not. I do think I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ask whether you did. I'm just saying I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm curious what our audience think. So text into

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five nine, who tell us? Do you like us

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<v Speaker 1>having them read stuff off of the dating bios? And

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<v Speaker 1>today we have Samantha on the line. Samantha, are you

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<v Speaker 1>cool if we did that with you? Because I know

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<v Speaker 1>some people think of it as a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an invasion of privacy. I personally call it getting the

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<v Speaker 1>juicy deets. I think it's a same Yeah, you're down

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<v Speaker 1>to spill some juice on the b and J Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, God, pull up the guy's profile and tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what's his name? Okay? One second, you can't do

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<v Speaker 1>two things at once, Samantha, his name is okay, Ian? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And what app are we on? Can I ask that Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're on hinge. I got it. Okay, now splash some

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<v Speaker 1>fresh squeezed Ian juice on us. Tell us what's on

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<v Speaker 1>his profile? No, no, that's a different app. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get that's okay, I guess read what it says. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So on his bio, his interest say comedy, hip hop,

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<v Speaker 1>and pizza. Okay, he likes to laugh and he likes pizza.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a real rebel. But at least it's not the opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I like not laughing in vegetables, then it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be more boring. That's a good way to look at.

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<v Speaker 1>What else is all there? Okay? So later his profile,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a prompt that says I get ways too excited

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<v Speaker 1>about and he puts birds first? Is he old? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that why he said that you don't need to be alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I am a bird watcher, and I can tell you

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<v Speaker 1>it's a hoot. I think no Brooks laugh on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, Wow, what did you think of that? Did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like that he was into bird watching? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I like animals. So I was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we can do the birth. I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>people like me and he knows how to spot a

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<v Speaker 1>woodpecker or a sap suffer bird. Jokes they're always good.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a joke? Yeah? Okay? Whatever on? What else?

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<v Speaker 1>What else? Okay? So, um, under the worst state idea

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had, he wrote, getting bangs not good. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I thought it was I thought it was a verb,

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<v Speaker 1>and that would have been worse. They went and got

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<v Speaker 1>haircuts together. Okay, really straight, he's a guy with bathing

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<v Speaker 1>like birds. Well, at least he admitted that was a

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<v Speaker 1>bad idea. Yeah, so does he still have bangs in

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<v Speaker 1>his profile picture? No? Yeah, that's good. Yeah. So we

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<v Speaker 1>started messaging and it was just I don't know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like really easy and natural with him. Oh that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been good pictures if you swipe to that. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys end up going to do for your date? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>We met up at a bar for some drinks. Okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think a lot of people like me there though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I kept playing Macaelmor's shot like I'm gonna pop

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic like on the jukebox. Yeah yeah, okay, that could

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<v Speaker 1>just be a troll. I have a friend. They have

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<v Speaker 1>Wi Fi juke boxes now, yeah? Yeah, down the street

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<v Speaker 1>from a bar and he will troll the bar and

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<v Speaker 1>play like it didn't choose singing. It didn't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a troll. Yeah. I literally played it like ten times.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa good song though? It was? Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>love that song. Like Ian thought it was funny. He

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<v Speaker 1>liked the song too. He thought it was funny ten times.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally thirty minutes of that song. Yeah. Everyone else

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was really annoying and was staring. But was

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<v Speaker 1>this a highlight for you or a low left? It

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<v Speaker 1>was a highlight because then he was really sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, well, can you like blame them for

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<v Speaker 1>staring at you when you look as good? And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's nice to have that, like us against the room.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a little bit cheesy, like pizza, I like that

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<v Speaker 1>or like you right now? Did anything else happen? Was

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<v Speaker 1>there some bird watching on this date? No bird watching?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh see, that's why is a comed back. Not even pigeons.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be there's always an opportunity. But what else happened? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I was paid him a compliment back

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you're the only guy I'm interested

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<v Speaker 1>in online. Oh that's a big thing. To say statement.

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<v Speaker 1>How did he respond? Well, he actually ended up kissing

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<v Speaker 1>me while we were sitting at the bar. Oh my good,

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<v Speaker 1>open mouth kiss or a peck. It was a passionate kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. Was it a passionate kiss? Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a good kiss. Okay, so cute. This is all sounding

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<v Speaker 1>really good. How did you guys end the evening? So

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<v Speaker 1>it started getting late and he offered to walk me home? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he gave me a piggyback ride home and then again

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<v Speaker 1>at my door. Classic. Oh, and then you guys wait

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<v Speaker 1>out again at your door? He said, Yeah, it was cute,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've been texting and trying to get a second

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<v Speaker 1>date on the books, and nothing's really been working with

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<v Speaker 1>my schedule. And I was like, please, don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>blowing you off, because I'm definitely not. Yeah. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're worried that he thinks you're blowing him off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the other way around. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>like that originally, but then it went so long and

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<v Speaker 1>it took him like such a long time to respond,

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<v Speaker 1>and he finally said a day later, like, yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's gonna work. Oh after you said please,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not trying to blow you off. He still

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like never mind. Yeah, So I'm like really confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would he say that he's not answering me anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why I reached out to you guys. The

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<v Speaker 1>its like the telltale sign of like I got back

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<v Speaker 1>with my ex or I met somebody else. Really nothing wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no red flags at all. See, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks you're trying to blow him off, even though

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<v Speaker 1>you said it. Yeah, he wants to get ahead of it.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to be like, I'm rejecting you're Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he thought that was just a pity text. Maybe. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see if he rejects us when we try and

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<v Speaker 1>call him. No guarantee he'll answer, We're gonna do it

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<v Speaker 1>with your second eight update next Hold On. Except for

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<v Speaker 1>the fifteen straight Macklemore songs we heard maybe the best

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<v Speaker 1>first date that we've heard on this show in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, and we normally don't get those where the

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<v Speaker 1>guy piggybacks her home, kisses her on the doorstep, and

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<v Speaker 1>then for the next few days they both try to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out how to hang out again, and for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>they just can't and it dissolves well, and he even says,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's over. I'm not even we could to pursue

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<v Speaker 1>this anymore after trying it for so long. And you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I call that the dating magic window, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's usually about forty eight hours after your first date

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<v Speaker 1>where you need to capitalize on that high feeling and

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<v Speaker 1>see each other again, or the spark goes away and

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<v Speaker 1>things just kind of fizzle out. She did say she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of took a while at first, but then she

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<v Speaker 1>clarified and said, Hey, I'm really sorry. I've been super busy.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to ghost you anything. So maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it comes down to. Maybe things just took too

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<v Speaker 1>long and it fizzled. Is that what you're thinking, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. I hope it's not that because

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked him. See, I think you should hope

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<v Speaker 1>it is that because that is easy for us to fix.

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<v Speaker 1>We can refizzle unfizzle situation. Let's just call in now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready, Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey is it seing? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>It is? Just want to say, one fellow bird watcher

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<v Speaker 1>to another, how's it going? Man? Oh? I thought there

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be like a bird. Well okay, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a dove birdwatchers association. Yeah. Also, you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>radio with Brooke and Jeffrey right now. What Yeah, not

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<v Speaker 1>sure if you listen to us, but one show in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the country that is a verifiable fact. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're also a show that does something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. You ever heard of that? I'm not familiar. Well, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're about to be, because you're on one now. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help out a one of our listeners named Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>who you went out on a date with recently. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>is that ringing about several weeks ago? Ye? And the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, your date is a little bit strange compared

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<v Speaker 1>to most of the ones that we do, because it

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<v Speaker 1>actually sounded like a good time and then afterwards you

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<v Speaker 1>two were trying to set up another hangout. But it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like maybe it took too long or Samantha was

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<v Speaker 1>too busy and the spark may have died off. She

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<v Speaker 1>said you guys were texting after your date and that

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to plan something and then suddenly you

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<v Speaker 1>were just like, nah, I'm done. Yeah, I mean that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>but like she started sending like mixed messages and like,

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<v Speaker 1>online dating pretty tough as it is, So I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>into playing games, And so what do you mean that

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<v Speaker 1>she was sending mixed messages? When you meet somebody, you

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<v Speaker 1>go out into the date, it's cool, and like I

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<v Speaker 1>understand like not checking your profile and like actively like

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of focusing on one person. That's the way

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Yeah, she said she told you that she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to date anybody else, that she was going

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on you. Oh right, and then and then

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<v Speaker 1>right after that you kissed her. That's all true, and

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, I like totally believed it. What happened

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<v Speaker 1>to change? Yeah? That fun. Right after the date, things

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<v Speaker 1>were good, but like we spent like a few days

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<v Speaker 1>texting back and forth trying to figure out when to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out again. Yeah, And like during that time, I

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<v Speaker 1>had told my friends I'd sent a couple of photos saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm going out with this cute girl Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>like wish me luck. Yeah, so you're that excited? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And they were like they couldn't have been like more

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<v Speaker 1>excited for me. However, a couple days later, one of

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<v Speaker 1>my good friends texted me, Hey, what was that girl

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with. Is this her? Oh no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>what did they send you? What was the picture of Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was on a different dating app that she had

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<v Speaker 1>matched with him and had reached out to him, not

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that he's my buddy. And her profile photo on

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<v Speaker 1>bumble is the photo of the outfit she was wearing

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<v Speaker 1>the night we went out, in front of the bar

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<v Speaker 1>we were at. Did you take a picture of her

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<v Speaker 1>that night? It must have been before our date because

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<v Speaker 1>she was by herself, but it was clearly the bar

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<v Speaker 1>we were at. Oh man, I'm sorry. She must have

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<v Speaker 1>looked really good that night picture and posted on her

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<v Speaker 1>back after you guys like benefit of the doubt. What

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<v Speaker 1>if she just messaged you messaged your buddy after you

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<v Speaker 1>had told her, no, I'm good, I'm gonna move on,

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<v Speaker 1>or remember because she said it wasn't working, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't link up on a date like she didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>she created a new profile picture from the night that

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<v Speaker 1>they went out. Well, she didn't say I'm your girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>she's still interested. She said I'm the only You're the

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<v Speaker 1>only guy I'm interested in someone. Well maybe that was

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<v Speaker 1>true in that moment. That's totally fine, but don't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're not interested, that you're only interested in one person,

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<v Speaker 1>like do what you want? Okay, So right now you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you were being deceived by her, and I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that because kind of we've been deceiving you at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time by not telling you. Samantha's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line what she's been listening, because I'm gonna you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I don't what I told you. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell her go ahead. Why would you tell somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>all you wanted to do with date this one person

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<v Speaker 1>and that they were the only one for you and

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<v Speaker 1>then that day start a new dating profile from the

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<v Speaker 1>photo the night we were out. That's a lot, Samantha say, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go. Okay, all right, now answer his twenty questions. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>well this is really awkward. Um, why did you say

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<v Speaker 1>that to him? I mean I really did like him

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<v Speaker 1>and we were talking and I don't know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when you're on those apps, you just keep your

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<v Speaker 1>options open. But like he was the only one I

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<v Speaker 1>was actively talking to like that and going on dates

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<v Speaker 1>with an interest that rich. Yeah, She literally back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth that she then matches with my buddy and then

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<v Speaker 1>tells him it's bumbles. She had to reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>him say that, hey, let's go out. I mean I could, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll send you the screenshot of their conversation. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a butt match or a butt text.

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<v Speaker 1>She accidentally swiped and sent him a message. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, Samantha, Give you a benefit of the doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, to be fair, I wasn't having like any

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<v Speaker 1>serious conversation with him. It was very introductory, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to keep my options open, very light. I

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<v Speaker 1>was not going deep with anyone. I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with him. Yes, And her profile

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<v Speaker 1>picture on hinges, the profile picture she took on the

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<v Speaker 1>dates with those other guys. Come on, you're silt on, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>And like I can see like she's caught up in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. She's really excited about you. She says something

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe isn't one hundred percent true, right, Samantha, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like she's like outright cheating on you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a red flag for me to pay. You're

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<v Speaker 1>dating around, Yes, I like to match for fun. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good point, especially when you're feeling a little bit down,

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<v Speaker 1>you're feeling like you're rejected and the second date isn't happening.

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<v Speaker 1>You want that that confidence boost with one of his

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<v Speaker 1>close friends, and I didn't know was his friend. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's not say that sounds bad. I didn't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>get caught by that. Samantha. Well, in the spirit of

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<v Speaker 1>saying things that might not be one hundred percent true,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on another date? I

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<v Speaker 1>am not at all interested in going out. Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>great and all, but I could never trust you. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean literally the night we went out, you created a

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<v Speaker 1>new profiler. In the next couple of days, yeah, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never be able to trust you again. Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a waste of both of our times. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a new profile, so just dated her photo. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, hail Mary, what if we send you to

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<v Speaker 1>the bird sanctuary together? Birds? That's right, you can't say

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<v Speaker 1>no to birds. But what's the bird thing about? Why

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<v Speaker 1>does that matter? That's right? I thought you. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were into birds. Bro on your profile. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel deceived, Jeffrey, you're lying to me. Let's go. I

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<v Speaker 1>never want to talk to you again. This show every

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<v Speaker 1>screw you in Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,