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Speaker 1: Second, lately, we've been asking people on this segment to

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Speaker 1: other person's dating profile just to get an idea of

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Speaker 1: who they are in a different kind of way. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so the US just asking boring questions like who are they?

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Speaker 1: Totally And I don't know if my co host really

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Speaker 1: ask whether you did. I'm just saying I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: But I'm curious what our audience think. So text into

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Speaker 1: seventy five nine, who tell us? Do you like us

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Speaker 1: having them read stuff off of the dating bios? And

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Speaker 1: today we have Samantha on the line. Samantha, are you

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Speaker 1: cool if we did that with you? Because I know

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Speaker 1: some people think of it as a little bit of

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Speaker 1: an invasion of privacy. I personally call it getting the

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Speaker 1: juicy deets. I think it's a same Yeah, you're down

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Speaker 1: to spill some juice on the b and J Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, God, pull up the guy's profile and tell

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Speaker 1: us what's his name? Okay? One second, you can't do

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Speaker 1: two things at once, Samantha, his name is okay, Ian? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And what app are we on? Can I ask that Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're on hinge. I got it. Okay, now splash some

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Speaker 1: fresh squeezed Ian juice on us. Tell us what's on

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Speaker 1: his profile? No, no, that's a different app. I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to get that's okay, I guess read what it says. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So on his bio, his interest say comedy, hip hop,

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Speaker 1: and pizza. Okay, he likes to laugh and he likes pizza.

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Speaker 1: He's a real rebel. But at least it's not the opposite.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I like not laughing in vegetables, then it'd

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Speaker 1: be more boring. That's a good way to look at.

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Speaker 1: What else is all there? Okay? So later his profile,

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Speaker 1: there's a prompt that says I get ways too excited

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Speaker 1: about and he puts birds first? Is he old? Is

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Speaker 1: that why he said that you don't need to be alone.

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Speaker 1: I am a bird watcher, and I can tell you

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Speaker 1: it's a hoot. I think no Brooks laugh on the inside.

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Speaker 1: I'm not, Wow, what did you think of that? Did you?

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Speaker 1: Did you like that he was into bird watching? I

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Speaker 1: mean I like animals. So I was like, all right,

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Speaker 1: I guess we can do the birth. I wonder if

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Speaker 1: people like me and he knows how to spot a

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Speaker 1: woodpecker or a sap suffer bird. Jokes they're always good.

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Speaker 1: Is that a joke? Yeah? Okay? Whatever on? What else?

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Speaker 1: What else? Okay? So, um, under the worst state idea

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Speaker 1: I've ever had, he wrote, getting bangs not good. I

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Speaker 1: haircuts together. Okay, really straight, he's a guy with bathing

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Speaker 1: like birds. Well, at least he admitted that was a

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Speaker 1: bad idea. Yeah, so does he still have bangs in

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Speaker 1: his profile picture? No? Yeah, that's good. Yeah. So we

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Speaker 1: started messaging and it was just I don't know, it

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Speaker 1: It's been good pictures if you swipe to that. What

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Speaker 1: did you guys end up going to do for your date? Um?

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Speaker 1: We met up at a bar for some drinks. Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people like me there though,

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Speaker 1: because I kept playing Macaelmor's shot like I'm gonna pop

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Speaker 1: fantastic like on the jukebox. Yeah yeah, okay, that could

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Speaker 1: just be a troll. I have a friend. They have

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Speaker 1: Whoa good song though? It was? Yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 1: That's literally thirty minutes of that song. Yeah. Everyone else

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Speaker 1: he was like, well, can you like blame them for

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Speaker 1: it's nice to have that, like us against the room.

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Speaker 1: He's a little bit cheesy, like pizza, I like that

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Speaker 1: Oh see, that's why is a comed back. Not even pigeons.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna be there's always an opportunity. But what else happened? So?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was paid him a compliment back

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Speaker 1: How did he respond? Well, he actually ended up kissing

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Speaker 1: out again at your door? He said, Yeah, it was cute,

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Speaker 1: but you've been texting and trying to get a second

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Speaker 1: and he finally said a day later, like, yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 1: Why would he say that he's not answering me anymore.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I reached out to you guys. The

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Speaker 1: with my ex or I met somebody else. Really nothing wrong,

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Speaker 1: there's no red flags at all. See, I think that

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Speaker 1: He wants to be like, I'm rejecting you're Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: think he thought that was just a pity text. Maybe. Well,

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Speaker 1: call him. No guarantee he'll answer, We're gonna do it

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Speaker 1: with your second eight update next Hold On. Except for

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Speaker 1: the fifteen straight Macklemore songs we heard maybe the best

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Speaker 1: guy piggybacks her home, kisses her on the doorstep, and

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Speaker 1: there's usually about forty eight hours after your first date

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Speaker 1: things just kind of fizzle out. She did say she

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Speaker 1: clarified and said, Hey, I'm really sorry. I've been super busy.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to ghost you anything. So maybe that's

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Speaker 1: it is that because that is easy for us to fix.

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Speaker 1: We can refizzle unfizzle situation. Let's just call in now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready, Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey is it seing? Uh?

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Speaker 1: It is? Just want to say, one fellow bird watcher

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Speaker 1: was going to be like a bird. Well okay, it

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Speaker 1: was a dove birdwatchers association. Yeah. Also, you're on the

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Speaker 1: radio with Brooke and Jeffrey right now. What Yeah, not

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Speaker 1: sure if you listen to us, but one show in

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Speaker 1: we're also a show that does something called a second

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Speaker 1: date update. You ever heard of that? I'm not familiar. Well, uh,

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Speaker 1: trying to help out a one of our listeners named Samantha,

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Speaker 1: who you went out on a date with recently. Uh

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Speaker 1: is that ringing about several weeks ago? Ye? And the

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Speaker 1: were just like, nah, I'm done. Yeah, I mean that's true,

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Speaker 1: you went out with. Is this her? Oh no, No,

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Speaker 1: what did they send you? What was the picture of Well,

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Speaker 1: knowing that he's my buddy. And her profile photo on

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Speaker 1: bumble is the photo of the outfit she was wearing

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Speaker 1: the night we went out, in front of the bar

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Speaker 1: we were at. Did you take a picture of her

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Speaker 1: we were at. Oh man, I'm sorry. She must have

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Speaker 1: looked really good that night picture and posted on her

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Speaker 1: back after you guys like benefit of the doubt. What

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Speaker 1: if she just messaged you messaged your buddy after you

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Speaker 1: or remember because she said it wasn't working, you guys

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Speaker 1: couldn't link up on a date like she didn't say

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Speaker 1: she created a new profile picture from the night that

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Speaker 1: they went out. Well, she didn't say I'm your girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: she's still interested. She said I'm the only You're the

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Speaker 1: like do what you want? Okay, So right now you

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Speaker 1: understand that because kind of we've been deceiving you at

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Speaker 1: well this is really awkward. Um, why did you say

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Speaker 1: feel deceived, Jeffrey, you're lying to me. Let's go. I

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