Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to
Speaker 1: talk about. Hey, everybody is tam Bam. Welcome to a
Speaker 1: new episode if we talked back. Thank you so much
Speaker 1: for joining us. We missed you. Hey, hey, Jake, Hey Gil,
Speaker 1: how you doing. No, that's my radio voice. I feel
Speaker 1: like a real radio personality all you know. Now. I
Speaker 1: was listening to our episode one versus now we sound
Speaker 1: so different. Look, I had to tell a Nike over
Speaker 1: the weekend, like, listen, go back and listen to our podcast.
Speaker 1: As we was kind of ratchet in the beginning. We're
Speaker 1: still ratchet, but like a little more a little less ratchet, right,
Speaker 1: We're not as much of a novice as we was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta find your niche and you gotta find like
Speaker 1: who you want to be for the people. Like we're
Speaker 1: always gonna be our self. But yeah, just see how
Speaker 1: you want to be presented to the world. And I
Speaker 1: just want to be presented presented as authentically as possible.
Speaker 1: And I want to be Ratchett and that's authentic. Sis
Speaker 1: the Ratchett. How is your weekend girlfriend? Cool? I just
Speaker 1: hung out a little bit, a lot of tiny bit
Speaker 1: in the city in Charlotte. Y'all, me and Dammy sitting
Speaker 1: next to each other today we record were you right together?
Speaker 1: For the first time in a long time COVID for
Speaker 1: the first time for the How was your weekend? It
Speaker 1: was good, Like I said, I just hung out a
Speaker 1: little bit, um eight a lot for real. I feel
Speaker 1: like I gained ten pounds in a weekend. I'm getting
Speaker 1: some weight here too. January days January was not my
Speaker 1: friend because it was just so cold outside and all
Speaker 1: you do is, you know, you eat and drink. Oh
Speaker 1: I went to Speaking of eating and drinking, I went
Speaker 1: to this new spot in Charlotte called Para. I think,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's Spanish, and it's like whatever,
Speaker 1: where is that. It's in up town and or it
Speaker 1: might be Southing Uptown Southing. I don't know. But the
Speaker 1: food was good. It's top us. So it's not like,
Speaker 1: if you're going to look for a meal, go somewhere
Speaker 1: else a big booty bitches right for you. But if
Speaker 1: you're looking for like some nice, good tap us, I
Speaker 1: had like, um this it was like a peanut butter
Speaker 1: and jelly sandwich, right, But it wasn't a sandwich. It
Speaker 1: was like small bites, right, But it was the bread,
Speaker 1: it was jelly. Then it was a duck liver. What
Speaker 1: with peanut butter? You eat stuff like that. I you know,
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm Mikey. Yeah that's me. You'd be eating ducks.
Speaker 1: You don't feel bad about that? I eat no what well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel bad. Look all your motherfucker's out there,
Speaker 1: who ain't uh converted? Yat top platfors die. Y'all see
Speaker 1: how empty the shelves up. Like at one point you're
Speaker 1: gonna realize y'all can't eat nothing bullshit the more anyway,
Speaker 1: see miles ago ahead and start slowly taking the meat.
Speaker 1: Such a diet because there's not a lot of them
Speaker 1: available right now. Like I had some duck liver that
Speaker 1: was good. I had some lamb chops that was good.
Speaker 1: I had some steak. Everything was. I'm a meat eater.
Speaker 1: I'm a carnivoard. So I hate when y'all listen, I
Speaker 1: don't try to push you to eat meat. Leave me alone. Girl.
Speaker 1: Why the funk was I out with my friends and
Speaker 1: we're sitting at the bar eating brunch Saturday. I turned
Speaker 1: my head for one second. This nigga was trying to
Speaker 1: put a piece of chicken in my mouth. Yeah, nigga,
Speaker 1: what the fuck is happening? People was looking at me
Speaker 1: at the bar like because I caught an attitude like
Speaker 1: why would you be trying to put some chicken in
Speaker 1: my mouth? Help this nigga trying to poison. I had
Speaker 1: chicken it like five years. I don't want to get sick.
Speaker 1: Yeah you will. The only thing I do miss is
Speaker 1: like chicken off the girl, like barbecue chicken off the
Speaker 1: girl that I met, not other people's. But as of lately,
Speaker 1: I have been feeling like I want to like cut
Speaker 1: back on meat sometimes. How of funk are they producing
Speaker 1: all these cows and chickens too? You see what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like a cow only has one calf a year or
Speaker 1: every two years or something. But I listened. I was
Speaker 1: on I was in l A. And I wrote to
Speaker 1: uh San Diego in a car and I wrote, by
Speaker 1: seven hundred cow pastors with a million cows. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was so stinc for at least two hours in the
Speaker 1: South like that. Yeah, So I'm scared of meat, not
Speaker 1: that kind of meat. Guess what, y'all, it's Black History Month.
Speaker 1: We celebrate blackness all year. However, the shortest month of
Speaker 1: the year is the one that was giving us to
Speaker 1: to us to celebrate ourselves. But we're gonna celebrate it
Speaker 1: to the fullest. And we always want to celebrate a
Speaker 1: batty who talks back, and today's batty is Halle Quinn Brown.
Speaker 1: She was an abolitionist and educator, writer, a women's rights
Speaker 1: activists in the Civil War era. She was born March temp,
Speaker 1: eighteen forty five in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, to former slaves who
Speaker 1: were both very well educated and actively involved with the
Speaker 1: underground railroad. Shout out to her parents. In eighteen sixty four,
Speaker 1: in the midst of the Civil War, Halley moved with
Speaker 1: her parents and five siblings to Canada and they attended
Speaker 1: local schools there, and then she came back to the
Speaker 1: States in eighteen seventy to Wilberforce, Ohio with her brother,
Speaker 1: where they went to Wilberforce College that which is a
Speaker 1: primarily black institution, and she graduated in eighteen seventy three
Speaker 1: with the Bachelors of Science degree. After graduation, she began
Speaker 1: teaching in Mississippi at the Senora Plantation to help educate
Speaker 1: southern blacks during reconstruction. She taught at plantation schools and
Speaker 1: public schools in Mississippi and South Carolina for twelve years.
Speaker 1: From eighteen eighty five to eighteen eighty seven, Hallie served
Speaker 1: as a dean at all Allen University in Columbia. Side.
Speaker 1: That's crazy because that's the college my parents went to
Speaker 1: in med At So we went to college across the
Speaker 1: street and we went to college right CBC. You know,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, I love ec uh So, Anyway,
Speaker 1: Brown returned to Ohio on talking day in public schools
Speaker 1: from eighteen eighty seven eighteen to eighteen ninety one and
Speaker 1: opened up nice school for migrants from the South. Uh.
Speaker 1: This woman really dedicated her life to public service, you know,
Speaker 1: to being a public servant and educating blacks and lecturing. Uh.
Speaker 1: In eighteen nine four she worked as a lecturer in
Speaker 1: Europe and she remained for five years, spending most of
Speaker 1: her time in the United Kingdom. The Queen Victoria in
Speaker 1: eighteen ninety seven came to listen to her speeches, and
Speaker 1: she spoke for temperance groups and represented the United States
Speaker 1: at the International Congress of Women in London. She came
Speaker 1: back to the States and she started working and the
Speaker 1: women's suffrage and full citizen and trying to get full
Speaker 1: citizenship for women as well as civil rights for Black Americans.
Speaker 1: She lived nine nine years and and spent her whole
Speaker 1: life being a public servant. And she never married, which
Speaker 1: you know, she live years, y'all and never married. We
Speaker 1: know single women be living longer. Single woman be living
Speaker 1: a long time and be looking good, y'all. Do it
Speaker 1: that what you need. But listen, Hatty Quinn Brown, you
Speaker 1: were a batty who talked back, and we celebrate you
Speaker 1: this Black History Month. Thank you for your contribution, your contributions,
Speaker 1: and your accomplishments. We wouldn't be here today without you.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you to having for that batty who
Speaker 1: talked back. You're welcome. I just want to find beautiful
Speaker 1: black women who we didn't hear about in school, who
Speaker 1: really made a contribution to us being who we are today.
Speaker 1: You know, yes, honey, All right, y'all, we're going to commercial.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back. So what we got in dumb
Speaker 1: internet news today? Job, well, this isn't dumb. This is
Speaker 1: kind of exciting. Rihanna's pregnant girl pregnant. She showed us
Speaker 1: some pictures and she looks so cute. I know, she
Speaker 1: looks so cute and happy. They're gonna have a beautiful baby.
Speaker 1: Her and a sapping together or sucking around at least
Speaker 1: for ten years now on and off, right, Yes, because
Speaker 1: you remember she's working with Travis Scott at some point too.
Speaker 1: She just looked Kylie had that nicked. She's been holding
Speaker 1: on the sap. You gotta find your person, right, because
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't assume that he would have been
Speaker 1: her person, right, But he's her person and they're having
Speaker 1: a beautiful baby, and we're all so excited to be
Speaker 1: invited to the baby shower. I love Rihanna Man. Rianna
Speaker 1: say funck y'all. Y'all kept asking for a damn album.
Speaker 1: Rianna say, hey, that's my fucking baby. Right. We didn't
Speaker 1: get no album, y'all. You might as gonna hanging up.
Speaker 1: Hell no, she making all the money with fenty and
Speaker 1: uh Savage fenty. Now she's got a baby. You got
Speaker 1: no time for us, y'all. Right, she's done. She might
Speaker 1: be done with music's okay, you know, yeah, she didn't
Speaker 1: accomplish a lot of ships, and now she gets to
Speaker 1: have something, something nice for her baby. I want one
Speaker 1: of them me too. Girl, I'm gonna buy me one
Speaker 1: this year. Sometimes because what I'm gonna buying me a baby?
Speaker 1: What do you mean like adopt adopt in virtuos someway,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me a baby this year. No. My
Speaker 1: my best friend just had her first child and it's
Speaker 1: my god baby, and I love that baby to the death.
Speaker 1: That's my hardest. I love that little baby and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna spoil her to death. But that baby be there
Speaker 1: every day when I call her. Think the baby is
Speaker 1: supposed to go back. You got a place to be.
Speaker 1: This is a real lifetime moment. You got no dacare
Speaker 1: You've got no place to be? Got every time I
Speaker 1: called my baby right there looking at the FaceTime girl,
Speaker 1: get out of my conference, like all my friends who
Speaker 1: got small kids. Isn't it crazy how they'd be so
Speaker 1: attentive with the phones but they'll be looking directly at
Speaker 1: I'm just seeing like face like it's like it's in
Speaker 1: a d n A. And she starting to recognize me
Speaker 1: because she get hyped. Know's like it's fun time, because
Speaker 1: that's all I get to be. Why is the girl
Speaker 1: down the desk downstairs to the desk calling you tam bad.
Speaker 1: She's like, Oh, you're going to Tam BAM's house because
Speaker 1: I'm a fucking local celebrity in the building. Oh Tam Bam.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, Tamla, oh tam damn part of me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm a celebrity. But how come when I say
Speaker 1: it's a j she know who the funk I was?
Speaker 1: She's like, She's like, floor, bitch, what else happened in
Speaker 1: the world? Um? Shit, Nick Cannon got another fucking baby
Speaker 1: on the way. You know, you fucking lie. This nigga
Speaker 1: is so fertile. The Bible says, be fruit full, multiply.
Speaker 1: I'm taking care of you know. I saw a post
Speaker 1: on one of the blog sites and they basically talked
Speaker 1: about what they said, Nick Cannon is like going out
Speaker 1: of his way not to impregnate black women or some
Speaker 1: dumb ship like that, Like, what worry about your own
Speaker 1: fucking lineage? Wait? Are they any of them black? They
Speaker 1: look ambiguously black, Like they look like, you know, mixed
Speaker 1: mixed women, multiple ethnicities possibly, but so white, just tight whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't care exactly, Like he ain't the only nigga.
Speaker 1: Worry about your worry about you worry about yourself. I
Speaker 1: just really don't give a ship about men who that's
Speaker 1: his preference. Nick Cannon don't get nothing. But we're all
Speaker 1: pussy and I don't never see him talking about black
Speaker 1: women's I really don't give a funk. That's the only
Speaker 1: time I care about when a man is. I really
Speaker 1: even still don't care at that point because that's just
Speaker 1: that person won't exists to me. But I only know
Speaker 1: funk with the men that you know justify their dating
Speaker 1: preference by doubting black women, which he never does. Why
Speaker 1: y'all even care? Anyway? Congratulations to Nick Cannon. He doesn't
Speaker 1: has a new baby, you know, and that's I guess
Speaker 1: this person. He was just at a baby shower, so
Speaker 1: she would have been pregnant when Yeah the twin past. Yeah,
Speaker 1: very interesting. Nick Cannon is not playing out here. Listen,
Speaker 1: this nigga is trying to populate the earth with all
Speaker 1: of his seeds, and I'm at him. Do you long
Speaker 1: as you can take care of them? I don't care
Speaker 1: the niggas who making babies and don't help with them,
Speaker 1: that's the ones I'll be mad exactly. Yeah, what about
Speaker 1: um um big booty Judy, ain't that the real baby?
Speaker 1: And the brad they have, they got a baby on
Speaker 1: the way. Congratulations to them. I wonder who the baby
Speaker 1: daddy is the Brat right as far as I consider
Speaker 1: the Brad, is you all the father? She doesn't ask
Speaker 1: masculine to me. I know she's very androgynous. I would
Speaker 1: like the Brat. Happy for them, and congratulations to them.
Speaker 1: Lots of babies being made, and I'm here for it.
Speaker 1: I want one, but just I just need a nigga first, right, nigger.
Speaker 1: I do not want a baby without a family. I
Speaker 1: just don't just want a baby. I want a family,
Speaker 1: all right, So mother fuck get me pregnant and we
Speaker 1: all got the plans and getting married. If you leave,
Speaker 1: even please take your kid with you. I will call
Speaker 1: you from the corner and tell your child is on
Speaker 1: the porch. What I'm gonna do with two more kids?
Speaker 1: I turn a Roys a family man. Now, I see
Speaker 1: what said that you never seen? What's love got? Yes?
Speaker 1: But who to be remembering? I'm confused. I remember every
Speaker 1: movie I've ever seen in my life, like I can
Speaker 1: quote it at any time when it's relevant to what's
Speaker 1: going on in our conversation. Just get with it. What
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do with? Do more keys? What else happened? Um?
Speaker 1: So we talked about all the life miss Usa. That's
Speaker 1: and she allegedly um jumped from a New York City
Speaker 1: high rise building sixty fours sixty flours. I y'all know,
Speaker 1: I'm a hocux. I'll listen. I'm a truth theorist. I'm
Speaker 1: not a r theorist. I look at the facts, and
Speaker 1: I look at I look at things very objectively. And
Speaker 1: the headlines keep saying that Chelsea Chris fell, But she
Speaker 1: also wrote a note so white. Why not say she
Speaker 1: committed suicide? Did she fallen? She pushed? Did she commit suicide?
Speaker 1: Which one? I I? This girl was so beautiful, her
Speaker 1: mother and father was so together. She's a lawyer. I
Speaker 1: just don't see her just yeah, but off a building?
Speaker 1: But yeah, but do you say Robin Williams. He's so funny,
Speaker 1: he's so successful, he has a beautiful family. People. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter when people are in pain, all right, So
Speaker 1: I got theories about Robert Williams. We won't go there.
Speaker 1: You never You just never know. And that's why it's
Speaker 1: important to give people grace and be kind, be kind
Speaker 1: to people because you just know, never know where people's
Speaker 1: mental state is, and you could be the catalyst that
Speaker 1: could make on one either decide to survive or go.
Speaker 1: So just be kind, man, they said. She wrote a
Speaker 1: note to her mom like leaving everything to her to
Speaker 1: her mom basically, I don't know. That's just real. It's real.
Speaker 1: It's sad at the end of the day. It's just sad,
Speaker 1: and I just you know, if anybody is listening to
Speaker 1: the sounds of our voice and you're feeling down and
Speaker 1: don't want to be here no more, you are loved
Speaker 1: and we want you to be here, and things can
Speaker 1: be better. Things will be better if you just continue
Speaker 1: to give life a chance. Hit me up. I'm your
Speaker 1: fucking friend and I love you if you're hurt, and
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you ship all right. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess sometimes people just feel like it's just no
Speaker 1: ending of this pain. You know, they just be in
Speaker 1: such a state where they think that they just feel
Speaker 1: like it's just this will never stop. But it does
Speaker 1: get better. Do get better. I just pray. I never
Speaker 1: know that type of darkness. Look, and when you don't
Speaker 1: have nothing left, you got your motherfucker self right, you
Speaker 1: got yourself left, Like I really funk with me on
Speaker 1: a big level. Yeah, Like you have to be so
Speaker 1: in love with yourself that nobody else, nothing that's happening
Speaker 1: really fucking matters. But we we live in a society
Speaker 1: where it makes it difficult, especially all these images of
Speaker 1: people who are especially on Instagram, where it's not really
Speaker 1: it's not real, okay, And I do it too. I'll
Speaker 1: be on the club boarder se somebody pull out a camera, ah,
Speaker 1: and then when the camera stop, I'm back to being bored.
Speaker 1: It's fake, it's fake. I'm such a real nigga. I
Speaker 1: can't even pretend for niggas on the internet. Listen, I'll
Speaker 1: be trying so hard. I don't. I got a couple
Speaker 1: of tiktoks that I made that I would never fucking post.
Speaker 1: Let me see all these different things, like let me
Speaker 1: see if I could be a part of this ship,
Speaker 1: and I just fucking can't. I just can't because I
Speaker 1: love living in a real fucking world. Like I love
Speaker 1: moments with my friends and family that's not on camera,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because that's you're going on
Speaker 1: a vacation and the whole time you're just looking for
Speaker 1: a place to do a photo shoot. Like, are you
Speaker 1: really enjoying just being able to breathe right now or what? Well,
Speaker 1: that's that's some people's enjoyment though, that's what brings people enjoyment.
Speaker 1: How are you enjoying what's happening? Flex? That's all you're doing?
Speaker 1: Like you missed, you missed everything during a trip taking
Speaker 1: pictures of it. That's what. Let me tell you, I'm
Speaker 1: that one. I'm gonna be the entertainment and i'mnna be
Speaker 1: the fund and you send me your photo reel, give
Speaker 1: me the pictures you too, always like, did you take
Speaker 1: pictures like I did? I didn't, me neither. But that's
Speaker 1: why our instagram social media sucks. We still need interns,
Speaker 1: you guys, like, how for this is our fucking fault. Bit,
Speaker 1: We just gotta learn to be more social. That ship
Speaker 1: is a job. It is it is, and we need
Speaker 1: an eighteen year old because ye for this no note ye, yes,
Speaker 1: they was definitely born for this social media media. We
Speaker 1: were born in it like we were raised in it.
Speaker 1: But I'm still kind of private. I'm very private of
Speaker 1: my life, like I let it all hang out. I'm
Speaker 1: not as private. I feel like when you live in
Speaker 1: your truth, nobody can hurt you with it absolutely, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's just like, um, I just
Speaker 1: want to keep But you know how celebrities back in
Speaker 1: the day, like they weren't on social media. Look how
Speaker 1: long it took for like will A Will Smith to
Speaker 1: finally get on in there because they realized, like you,
Speaker 1: and now he's depends on it soon as he started
Speaker 1: crying and looking sad. Now he's fucking me for every
Speaker 1: time the cowboys leaving Like that's that's why it's like hard, yo,
Speaker 1: I don't know I would get my life together, doll.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna be social on social media, all right.
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about a topic that might
Speaker 1: be triggering for some of us and a little heavy.
Speaker 1: All right. If you've been listening, looking and watching, a
Speaker 1: lot of men have been brought to the forefront for
Speaker 1: being sexual predators of sorts, rapists, um, and that ship
Speaker 1: is real, right, So, and a lot of them are
Speaker 1: and it's about time that they get um what comes
Speaker 1: to people who behave that way? Right? But then there's
Speaker 1: also this idea that it could be a witch hunt
Speaker 1: and that some people are innocent and a woman can
Speaker 1: make a claim against a man and it would be
Speaker 1: totally false. Like, um, so, how how do you navigate that? What?
Speaker 1: What is a healthy way too? Especially for men like
Speaker 1: you can be potentially ruled for something that you didn't
Speaker 1: do and that's not fair. And what's the repercussions for
Speaker 1: a woman for doing something like that? Really nothing? They
Speaker 1: may get like a countersuit sometimes, but what happens and
Speaker 1: I see a lot of the cases that come up,
Speaker 1: it's not like the woman went to the police. They
Speaker 1: it's just automatic a civil suit. When I see stuff
Speaker 1: like that, like it's like an automatic civil suit, like
Speaker 1: you just want twenty million dollars or whatever the summer
Speaker 1: is for having been violated. You don't really want do
Speaker 1: you want justice? But do you want this person to
Speaker 1: go to prison? Because I wouldn't want your fucking asked
Speaker 1: to be underneath the jail you violate me. I actually
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't tell a police because don'ta make you disappearing
Speaker 1: about two years, I'm gonna lay on you, So that's
Speaker 1: probably what I'm gonna do. But look, so it's just
Speaker 1: a weird it's a weird space, and it's it's even
Speaker 1: hard to talk about. Like, I'm trying to choose my
Speaker 1: words very carefully because I don't want to offend anyone
Speaker 1: or make people feel like I'm not an advocate for
Speaker 1: women and who are victims, because I am, you know
Speaker 1: I am. But I also am an advocate for men
Speaker 1: who are victims. So what was this guy recently? I
Speaker 1: don't really want to speak to anybody's name, but a guy.
Speaker 1: I've seen it, y'all stay seen it, Yeah, y'all saw it.
Speaker 1: This guy. This woman accused him of molesting her son,
Speaker 1: and she went on the lie detector and then it
Speaker 1: came out that was she was like, my son, he
Speaker 1: made that up. Then she came back and said it
Speaker 1: wasn't made up. She was being forced to say that
Speaker 1: it was a lie. And and that's just a scary
Speaker 1: place to be in, like because now you're your mother
Speaker 1: and you obviously want to protect your child from any
Speaker 1: predator that would ever hurt them. But you're saying it's
Speaker 1: a lot, and he's saying this is the truth and
Speaker 1: it's a lie. It's like a lot, And then you
Speaker 1: don't know who to believe, and you don't know who
Speaker 1: is the real victim? Here is it? This baby, or
Speaker 1: is it this man that's that's that's scary. Oh you
Speaker 1: talking about duty low right, the rapper of associated with
Speaker 1: um um a little dirt and the little girl, the
Speaker 1: young girl, the young mother f T NBA whoever. I
Speaker 1: don't know she raps or whatever it is, or just
Speaker 1: the social social media um um socialite or whatever. But
Speaker 1: it was her saying that he he abused her son.
Speaker 1: And there was a recording that was online the little
Speaker 1: boy crying very very very like devastating, Right, anybody listened
Speaker 1: to that, it was like, what the fuck? Like I
Speaker 1: didn't feel like, I, deep down I don't feel like
Speaker 1: the little boy was lying. And I do feel like
Speaker 1: the video she put out was kind of forced, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, And then for her to come back,
Speaker 1: you know, in a text kind of you know, on
Speaker 1: her Instagram story saying that she's still going to try
Speaker 1: to get justice for her son. And liars passed lie
Speaker 1: detectors all the time. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like they are professional liars, but something like that, something
Speaker 1: so heineous. I just I don't know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: didn't he said the guy was putting nails or something.
Speaker 1: His button and she was saying that she had to
Speaker 1: take him to the doctor. So is it what? What
Speaker 1: the fuck right? I don't know And then he was like,
Speaker 1: I'm innocent, and it's just like you know, girl girl,
Speaker 1: because I'm ready to like as soon as I've seen that,
Speaker 1: I was like, let's find him, because my son would
Speaker 1: not be able to tell me that a man did
Speaker 1: that to him, and I'm not going to believe him.
Speaker 1: And we all we know that oftentimes some predators they
Speaker 1: target single moms. They target women like that who need help,
Speaker 1: who you know, just looking for love, and they get
Speaker 1: in their homes so they just be like some real
Speaker 1: life sheep um and wolf clothing is that wolf and
Speaker 1: they'd be like real live wolves and she folding, and
Speaker 1: they target people they and especially like listen if y'all
Speaker 1: putting y'all kids like on social media and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: The internet, social media, in particular Instagram, it's like a
Speaker 1: fucking catalog if you're looking for some women, like my friend,
Speaker 1: his whole fucking timeline is full of big booty bitches,
Speaker 1: because that's what he's looking at all the fucking day long.
Speaker 1: Like your whole ship is big booty bitches, my explore page.
Speaker 1: Do you know what my ship is? Birds, dogs and
Speaker 1: beauty products. That's type of ship I've been looking at.
Speaker 1: And cats, that's it, hair and fitness. But these guys
Speaker 1: man maybe targeted when it's not just guys though they're
Speaker 1: they're female predators. Absolutely. I always talk about that bitch
Speaker 1: is definitely because a grown woman cannot tell me how
Speaker 1: handsome my son is and how many girls are you
Speaker 1: gonna get? Like girl, but listen, right, but listen. When
Speaker 1: I was younger and not as educated as I am now,
Speaker 1: I'd be like with my friends, I'd be like, they're
Speaker 1: going my little boyfriend. But I did not mean anything sexual.
Speaker 1: I didn't even think of it that way at all
Speaker 1: until I got older and I thought about if a
Speaker 1: man had said my daughter was his little girlfriend, I
Speaker 1: would feel away, and then I stopped doing that. But
Speaker 1: that was behavior that I grew up saying, and it wasn't.
Speaker 1: And then some of those women may have very well
Speaker 1: been sexual predators, you know, I guess because when young
Speaker 1: men get abused by grown women, they don't see it
Speaker 1: as that. They just see like, oh, this grown woman
Speaker 1: want me. They don't see it as them being abused
Speaker 1: by an adult and that's essentially what it is. So
Speaker 1: why do we why do we not look at that
Speaker 1: as a direct correlation of why we see men treat
Speaker 1: women in a certain way. Look at their first sexual
Speaker 1: experiences with women being a fuck abused, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, being taken advantage of. They may they may
Speaker 1: like it, maybe, And I don't even want to say
Speaker 1: that a child likes anything and adult is doing to them.
Speaker 1: But you know, you get to an age when you
Speaker 1: want to have sex, like your body is telling you
Speaker 1: to reproduce, your body is telling you to whatever. Right,
Speaker 1: But this grown person, it's adult. They're supposed to be
Speaker 1: the responsible party. So when they take advantage of their
Speaker 1: authority as an adult, it's a it's a problem for me.
Speaker 1: And I won't be the bitch out about my son,
Speaker 1: right easy, the teacher whoever, I when I was a teenager,
Speaker 1: uh my boyfriend at the time, and I was still
Speaker 1: a virgin and he wasn't. And he lost his virginity
Speaker 1: because his father or his father was like into some
Speaker 1: weird ship, like he had a pep smiry chair in
Speaker 1: his bedroom. All right, let's just say that, right, So
Speaker 1: what right his father paid the girl at the drive
Speaker 1: through window at the kids KFC around the corner to
Speaker 1: come funk both of her his sons, remember, Bousy and
Speaker 1: it was getting on. Boosy asked about that ship because
Speaker 1: he was saying how he was gonna get his son
Speaker 1: some pussy. That's because that's abuse that he went through,
Speaker 1: so they normalize it. That is abuse and any grown
Speaker 1: ass woman, Um, he paid her to have sex with
Speaker 1: them boys, And it was like all excited about it
Speaker 1: and high fiveing and ship and is that men? Is
Speaker 1: that a thing? Is that a thing for y'all? Is
Speaker 1: that how you want your sons to experienced women for
Speaker 1: the first time? Because I feel like paying for pussy
Speaker 1: right out the gate for a child laud and mercy.
Speaker 1: It's definitely not how you want to set the standard
Speaker 1: of how he needs to engage with women. I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's some weird ship, bro. I would never So you
Speaker 1: see how the basketball player Dylan Gonzalez is accusing Trade
Speaker 1: Son Trade Songs of rape. Like the end of last year,
Speaker 1: she was like, basically, I'm not holding this ship anymore.
Speaker 1: He did, Yes, Happy New Year, see you in damn. Now,
Speaker 1: this is not the first time Trade Songs has been
Speaker 1: accused of violating women. It's just real. I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I just feel like, can't we celebrities, people in sports
Speaker 1: like you know, um, just entertainers period. Are they exempt
Speaker 1: from real life ship? Some of them think they are.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like we be like, damn, it's
Speaker 1: no way, there's no way this person could have did that,
Speaker 1: or no way this person why would like you would
Speaker 1: just think why would trade songs have to rape anybody
Speaker 1: he can get, just because it's not about it's not
Speaker 1: about what he can get, it's about what he can take,
Speaker 1: you know. And some people get off from that and
Speaker 1: not saying that he did it. I'm not, you know,
Speaker 1: saying that he did because I don't know. But some
Speaker 1: people really think about think like that I can have
Speaker 1: whatever I want and don't want to take it. But
Speaker 1: even if it was like you might have a woman
Speaker 1: in your presence, like who are you to tell me no?
Speaker 1: Like bitch, I'm such and such, who are you to
Speaker 1: tell me no, I'm not gonna you're not gonna suck
Speaker 1: this dick or you're not gonna sunk with me? Like,
Speaker 1: who are you to tell me no? Of all people
Speaker 1: like you. I have met him, and he has that
Speaker 1: type of attitude, He has that type of uh like
Speaker 1: a super devo mm hmm, like from before before he
Speaker 1: was even like this big ass this is three star
Speaker 1: songs like a super duper superstar. Well when at one
Speaker 1: point definitely, yeah, it was huge, But I don't these
Speaker 1: people are not exempt for real life ship, Like they're
Speaker 1: not exempt from being serial killers. They're not exempt from
Speaker 1: being serial rapists. But then on the flip coin, what
Speaker 1: if he's totally innocent, you know, well, if he's totally innocent,
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, I'm being raped across the crows by
Speaker 1: women all over the world and men for some ship
Speaker 1: I did not it was a man that accused him too. No,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like people speaking about speaking about him,
Speaker 1: like calling him a prenator. You know, that's just that
Speaker 1: part is hard for men more than women. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're definitely not uh, you're not guilty until proven innocent
Speaker 1: with me, Like, I don't even be like going to
Speaker 1: speak on this type of ship because you just never
Speaker 1: fucking know, Like even with the Me Too movement, Like
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm right and I feel like some of those
Speaker 1: women may have putting themselves in and even though, yeah,
Speaker 1: the man's supposed to be responsible, but like say, for instance,
Speaker 1: like me and you drunk, you're a guy, right, we
Speaker 1: both intoxicated, and I'm a guy, I'm a whole woman. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a guy in the stake. Yeah, and we engaged.
Speaker 1: We were both drunk, we both at an influence. Maybe
Speaker 1: we had some we maybe on some shure. Whoever, we
Speaker 1: on some ship, right, and we engage in uh sexual activity.
Speaker 1: The next morning when I come, when I the woman
Speaker 1: comes to, I'm like, you raped me. It's like, how
Speaker 1: how is a man supposed to be in more control
Speaker 1: than the woman is even if both are under the
Speaker 1: influence then under the influence, Like how does that work?
Speaker 1: How do you how do you distinguish like who violated who?
Speaker 1: At that point? Facts? And I feel like that that
Speaker 1: happens in a lot of cases. Women Oftentimes they will
Speaker 1: be regretful about some ship they did when they when
Speaker 1: they sober facts. I didn't have some times where I
Speaker 1: was like, damn my ship him. Yeah, but you're about
Speaker 1: to call rape on the But it wasn't rape, you know,
Speaker 1: I made a conscious decision, you know. But but some
Speaker 1: women do that though, make a conscious decision and the
Speaker 1: next day be like he took it. I wasn't in
Speaker 1: my right mind. Maybe he wasn't either, So I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that's the case with trade songs. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I know Chris Brown got some ship going on down
Speaker 1: to child. Yeah, I know he's being accused of also
Speaker 1: being a predator. This ship is really wicked. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: really fucking wicked. And I feel bad for them if
Speaker 1: they are innocent. Only if they're innocent, feel bad for them, right,
Speaker 1: And look, we learned this in math and school. It's
Speaker 1: and only it's right if, it only if. But you
Speaker 1: just never fucking no. And I mean, I just I
Speaker 1: just feel a way about people doing civil lawsuits though,
Speaker 1: like I would be calling the police and getting you arrested.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just go get a lawyer to sue
Speaker 1: you for raping me. So let me ask you this.
Speaker 1: And this is me being like fully, I'm coming forward
Speaker 1: with some ship right here, right now. When I was
Speaker 1: a young adult, I was working at Applebee's and my
Speaker 1: manager at Applebee's asked me to have sex with the
Speaker 1: story manager and she would pay me what And I
Speaker 1: was like, I was so offended and I quit soon after.
Speaker 1: Why was she did she want to see y'all do
Speaker 1: it or something? No, she just like, all right, he
Speaker 1: was a really nice man and he was married to
Speaker 1: this woman who was just can advantage of him, and
Speaker 1: he never got no pussy right, and she's just like,
Speaker 1: I just really want to give him, so why she
Speaker 1: couldn't give him the pussy right? She wanted me to
Speaker 1: do it? And these were white people girl, and I
Speaker 1: and I was so offended by it and end up
Speaker 1: quitting soon after. And it wasn't him that said it
Speaker 1: was her right. Okay, That's another part of this ship. Women,
Speaker 1: especially like we all know America is like famous for
Speaker 1: human drafticking and you could just you slay Maxwell case
Speaker 1: with Jeffrey Epstein and all that ship. Women oftentimes be
Speaker 1: the head predator, like recruiting young women, recruiting young girls
Speaker 1: for these men like that whole family isn't in that
Speaker 1: type of business. They get politicians and they get all
Speaker 1: these celebrities, and he's compromising positions because they know what
Speaker 1: their weaknesses are, they know what the vices are. Advices
Speaker 1: as young people, young kids, young boys or whatever. They
Speaker 1: facilitate these situations, they take pictures of them. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, y'all recorded doing ship and now I
Speaker 1: got you, I got you, I can get you to
Speaker 1: do anything I need you to do going forward is
Speaker 1: what they're doing this And it's oftentimes as women like
Speaker 1: I know a couple of people who went to prison
Speaker 1: for and you just would never know, like for trafficking
Speaker 1: young girls. But they always had like an older, older
Speaker 1: girl involved with that ship too, like the older woman
Speaker 1: getting these kids because I was like nineteen, I was
Speaker 1: like a college student. She was much older than women
Speaker 1: are not exempt. Yeah, So I say all of this
Speaker 1: to say, do I have a case against Applebee's right, Sorry, y'all, Look,
Speaker 1: we'll be getting reviews that we we'd be laughing about
Speaker 1: ship and making everything a joke. But you have to
Speaker 1: do y'all see what's going on in the world, Like
Speaker 1: can we not laugh and see that's some of this
Speaker 1: dumb ship. Let me let me just explain something, because
Speaker 1: we do have people like y'all make jokes of everything,
Speaker 1: and I do. And if you're mad about it, don't
Speaker 1: listen no more. Because this is how I cope with life.
Speaker 1: This is how I used laughter and most people who
Speaker 1: do comedy use comedy to coate with real ship. So
Speaker 1: if you're mad, go to church. I don't know what
Speaker 1: to tell you, baby. Yeah, but um damn, what the hell?
Speaker 1: What was we? What was apple? Yes, bitch, you got
Speaker 1: a case against Applebee's. Apple Bees, y'all better give me
Speaker 1: two for twenty for life, Nasty Bees, like I ain't
Speaker 1: there since I worked there, girl, nasty fucking bees, two
Speaker 1: for twenty. They listen. When I was growing up, Applebee's
Speaker 1: was the spot don't play with. I used to get
Speaker 1: those rep tips and chicken strips, that combo. That ship
Speaker 1: was dog food. It was good back then, that dog food. Okay,
Speaker 1: Emery's gonna s our motherucking minute yo, bitness. All right, y'all,
Speaker 1: we'll be right back. We're gonna get into a to
Speaker 1: ask a black friend when we come back. See in
Speaker 1: a minute. Look, so I asked a black friend. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask her if she uh, if she wants
Speaker 1: us to um to say her name, because look, she
Speaker 1: she always sitting up ask a black friend questions, and
Speaker 1: we really appreciate you. Listen. She's one of our one
Speaker 1: of our show listeners, and she's an Instagram friend basically,
Speaker 1: So she says, this is a question from the balcony,
Speaker 1: and she wants to know why are people calling it
Speaker 1: omarion instead of mkron. Is he also a contagious virus?
Speaker 1: Is her question? Well, we would have to ask his
Speaker 1: baby mama that. But the reason why we say are,
Speaker 1: the reason why I said is because I can't say
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a wrong, I'm Aron, I'm Akron. I
Speaker 1: don't know what it is, but it's just makes more
Speaker 1: sense to me to say a marian. That's the most
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a unique name. Do you know any
Speaker 1: other a Marion? And I don't know no other arm cron.
Speaker 1: So it's just it's funny. It's really just funny, Like
Speaker 1: I don't be wanting to say them wordsperience because I'm
Speaker 1: a kron, Like I don't even like saying the where
Speaker 1: I'll be saying, Oh, I'll say a Marion. But just
Speaker 1: think about this, y'all, all our people listening, don't y'all
Speaker 1: find it strange how black people collectively have changed the
Speaker 1: names to every one of these viruses. We changed the
Speaker 1: name of COVID nineteen to the rona. We changed amikron
Speaker 1: to marion, these people need our magic. They need us
Speaker 1: to chant these things. They need us, they need our
Speaker 1: power to make these things come about. And again the
Speaker 1: conspiracy theorists at the mother Fuck's show, somebody said, I
Speaker 1: live on an outer rim. Yep, when uh, what's the
Speaker 1: guy they choked out? Lard forgive me Floyd No, Eric Gardner.
Speaker 1: So from to we have been marching in the streets
Speaker 1: saying I can't breathe. I can't breathe. As you know,
Speaker 1: big large groups around the world, majority black people. Now
Speaker 1: I look at it, look at us. We're wearing fucking masks.
Speaker 1: You gotta wear a mask at the grocery store, you
Speaker 1: gotta wear a mask at the gym. Like, can y'all
Speaker 1: fucking breathe? So did we conjure that up? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? So I don't I feel like it's
Speaker 1: just really so, you feel like, yes, they used us
Speaker 1: to manifest it. Yes, I feel that way, And they
Speaker 1: want us to say these words y'all. The word amicron,
Speaker 1: that's not just a word they came up for for
Speaker 1: this particular virus. Amicron actually came up in nineteen sixty
Speaker 1: three and an Italian film. The film was called a Macron.
Speaker 1: It was released in nineteen sixt and it was about
Speaker 1: an alien taking over a person's body to recondim plant
Speaker 1: planet for a future invasion demon possession. The film um
Speaker 1: The film company that produced it name was Lux Films.
Speaker 1: Y'all know, Lux is like a short um word for
Speaker 1: It's like an abbreviation for lucifer. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you'll want to get too deep, but this is what
Speaker 1: it is. So it's just I don't we we I
Speaker 1: don't think that people recognize why they've been changing the
Speaker 1: words of these things, but we we we be getting downloads.
Speaker 1: We just know we shouldn't say those words. I feel like, collectively,
Speaker 1: just subconsciously, we just did that ship. We just changed
Speaker 1: the words. We don't want to say Akron. We don't
Speaker 1: want to say COVID nineteen because I'm googling right now
Speaker 1: and I'm a Kron is from the fifteen centuries part
Speaker 1: of the Greek alphabet. It's part of the Greek alphabet
Speaker 1: delta and letters, derived from Phoenician letter I N, and
Speaker 1: it represents the sound oh or the mega. So the
Speaker 1: word literally means little old our mikron as opposed to
Speaker 1: great old Omega. In the system of Greek numerals, am
Speaker 1: acron has a value of seventy. So so we're looking
Speaker 1: at Jamantrea to like looking at numbers. Mm hmmm, mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: I don't know. We just we don't want to say
Speaker 1: that word to black people. Don't write that is a
Speaker 1: Marian because that's cooler because we know him, We're familiar
Speaker 1: with Marion. But I feel like they need That's why
Speaker 1: they keep coming out with these different variants, because we
Speaker 1: keep changing the names we do. You think that's how
Speaker 1: that's how plausible. You just sound plausible to you Black people.
Speaker 1: We don't even all each other by our real names.
Speaker 1: So I just don't, you know, I don't know. Do
Speaker 1: white people have nicknames in their homes. I'm sure they do.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, Like anytime somebody asked me
Speaker 1: about somebody from home, like you know, someone something like
Speaker 1: what's his real name? Niggas don't use their real name nowadays,
Speaker 1: but they used to. I don't know nig's real names.
Speaker 1: I used tomentary in high school and stuff, you know,
Speaker 1: people names from school. Yeah, So when they'd be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know such and such, they asking you about their nickname,
Speaker 1: I don't know who the hell at a little pistol starter?
Speaker 1: Who oh, Marion, Yeah, I know, Marion. But if your
Speaker 1: nickname little piston starter, you got, you earned. That's the
Speaker 1: name you earned. It is not giving little push shicy bullet.
Speaker 1: Why would you They earned them names. But look, thank
Speaker 1: you for the ask a black friend question. There it is. Listen,
Speaker 1: we believe in witchcraft over here. Don't put that on me.
Speaker 1: I'm covered in the blood of Jesus and the name
Speaker 1: of God. Amen. Listen. Do white people have nicknames? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure, Bob Dick, Yeah, those are nicknames, right because
Speaker 1: Robert and William Right, okay, facts, I learned something new.
Speaker 1: But do they have nicknames that it's not like like
Speaker 1: I'm tam bawm right you aj that's my initials though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so when my mom called me mummy. Sorry, they used
Speaker 1: to call me Tammy Lamb. When Tammy Lamb, the name
Speaker 1: Tammy Lamb and when you pull up in the Lambo
Speaker 1: Tammy Lamb wanna be back. That's back. I'm gonna change
Speaker 1: my name on the show. I'm like, hey, y'all, welcome
Speaker 1: to a new episode. If we talked back, it is
Speaker 1: Tammy Lamb Man when didn't get the funk out out there.
Speaker 1: You're right. Look, so if you guys enjoyed this episode,
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Speaker 1: if you were offended by anything that we said today,
Speaker 1: because I know our topic was kind of heavy today, right,
Speaker 1: and usually yeah, it's just lighthearted, but today was a
Speaker 1: little bit more heavy. And if you're offended, please tell
Speaker 1: us because you know that's the only way we can
Speaker 1: have good conversation and maybe you can enlighten me on
Speaker 1: some things that you understand that maybe I don't. But
Speaker 1: don't don't get mad at me. Just talk to me,
Speaker 1: you know, and then I might tell you to go
Speaker 1: suck a dick, but no, I wouldn't say that. But listen,
Speaker 1: that's really how we get to understand. It's having a
Speaker 1: communication and not being afraid to say what we feel.
Speaker 1: You know, y'all try to censor us. I know. Comprehension
Speaker 1: and perception is a motherfucker boy. You can talk to
Speaker 1: somebody all day long. Boy, they do not perceive things
Speaker 1: the same way you do, or you don't comprehend it
Speaker 1: in the same way, everything is gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: Everything is gonna be offensive, right, And if you're offended,
Speaker 1: that's okay. You know, I want you to I don't
Speaker 1: want you to be offended. But if if we think different,
Speaker 1: that's okay. Just tell me how you feel, all right.
Speaker 1: I love y'all. We gotta go, all right, but I
Speaker 1: want to leave you with one last thing. I want
Speaker 1: you to remember to speak now and never hold your
Speaker 1: motherfucking peace. All right, by y'all, Deuces,