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Speaker 1: My boyfriend thirty three male and I thirty eight female,

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Speaker 1: have been dating since summer of twenty twenty one, and

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Speaker 1: since then he has stayed at my apartment every day

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Speaker 1: and night.

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Speaker 2: That's a funny way of saying he lives with you.

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Speaker 3: Does he have his own apartment too?

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Speaker 4: I think he does have his That's what I'm guessing.

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Speaker 4: He has his own apartment. Great guests, great guests.

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Speaker 1: He owns his own home less than a mile away,

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Speaker 1: which he said he purchased for his three roommates who

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Speaker 1: were looking for a place to live. So he's like, well,

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Speaker 1: oh he's giving, He's giving, right, check this out. He

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Speaker 1: only charges them three hundred dollars or so a month

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Speaker 1: out of the goodness of his heart each.

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Speaker 4: Each each okay, which is I mean cheap?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean know, depending on where he's living, like Lla,

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Speaker 4: like a room in LA could be like fifteen hundred bucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah month I paid like nine hundred ones.

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Speaker 4: I paid six hundred once. Wooh that I was living

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Speaker 4: with Christian in the same room. Yeah, that's true. That's true,

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Speaker 4: seven to twenty five in LA. That's my love and

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Speaker 4: I had thirty thirty roommates.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not.

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 2: I had six people in my room and then they

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Speaker 2: had a room with like eight people, and it's like, God,

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Speaker 2: I hope you were traveling.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I was living there. I was planted. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I live here. Maybe maybe this guy ends up doing this,

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Speaker 1: but we'll see it. Sounds like he's just a terrible businessman.

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Speaker 1: I have only been there twice for house parties which

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Speaker 1: I essentially invited, which where I essentially invited myself because

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Speaker 1: we were just getting to know each other.

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Speaker 3: Then.

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Speaker 1: I never have asked him for money, not for rent,

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Speaker 1: not for utilities, not for the groceries I always have

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Speaker 1: to buy.

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Speaker 4: He's mooching heavy.

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Speaker 1: He never goes shopping for any food or household supplies

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Speaker 1: that adds up quick.

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Speaker 4: Yikes? Is he like at least taking her out to

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Speaker 4: dinner every once in a while.

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Speaker 1: He's like, Babe, I brought you to two house parties

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Speaker 1: at my amazing house that I don't drink.

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Speaker 2: What are we doing over here?

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Speaker 1: Two separate instances, I asked if he could get toilet paper,

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Speaker 1: just toilet paper. No, he only bought a d S

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Speaker 1: four pack at the gas station that he was already stopping.

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Speaker 1: And it's like single play, which I'm assuming is just

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Speaker 1: to tide us over until I get a more realistic package.

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Speaker 1: He has ibs and goes through a lot, bro.

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Speaker 2: Why not for yourself? Oh no, why not for yourself?

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Speaker 4: This guy doesn't I mean, he doesn't sound like much

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Speaker 2: You know what it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's so dedicated to not spending any money on

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Speaker 1: her that he's like, even though it's gonna like be

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Speaker 1: a terrible experience for me, I'm gonna get this crap

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Speaker 1: toilet paper pun intended so that way I don't have

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Speaker 1: to spend money on it.

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Speaker 2: His goal, his goals, just spend zero dollars on this woman.

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Speaker 4: I feel so bad for her.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: The second time, he brought in a big garbage bag

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Speaker 1: of empty rolls from his bathroom at work, which they save.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so he's like going through his works at like

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Speaker 4: used toilet rolls.

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Speaker 2: It seems like used, but I'm.

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Speaker 4: Guessing not like to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't use another person's.

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Speaker 4: Toilet, yeah, usible toilet yeah yeah, yeah, there.

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Speaker 3: Usable something here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. It's it's gross, it's not good, it's not it

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Speaker 4: but like the eco people really love it.

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you like the toilet roll.

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Speaker 2: It's just like this one. It's just like one long.

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Speaker 4: Son doesn't look like that after you use it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't. Yeah for real, one use done.

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Speaker 4: Usable toilet paper. Red flag or not? Red flag?

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Speaker 5: Wave that red flag?

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Speaker 2: My God, Riley, save me? Where am I? Oh? Here

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Speaker 2: we go?

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Speaker 1: He doesn't cook and said in the past that it's

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Speaker 1: yet he will certainly eat the food that I buy

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Speaker 3: Doesn't cook, doesn't clean.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds like just like a dead wave. Nothing

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Speaker 4: trying to live red free.

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Speaker 6: Have master slump mate huge.

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Speaker 1: So he's getting away with it so far. For the

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Speaker 1: most part, I was more than happy to provide.

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Speaker 4: He's too nice.

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Speaker 1: But as time goes on, I feel like I'm carrying

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Speaker 1: the mental load of living together by myself. Absolutely, my

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Speaker 1: apartment is in disarray and I can never get it

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Speaker 1: mentioned parts of the above to him over the last year,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes it would result in him sheepishly doing one

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Speaker 3: This sounds like a complaining mom, like every mom like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like, which is exactly what you want in a partner, right,

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you would you mind maybe doing the

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Speaker 5: Like fine.

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Speaker 4: Room because I'm in.

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Speaker 1: Or when I tell him that he has to figure

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Speaker 1: seven because I'm working late, that means he's door dashing

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Speaker 1: us something at eight pm. It's things like that that

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Speaker 4: Yes, of course. I mean if you're having to like

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Speaker 4: imagine that's not a really sexy thing.

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Speaker 3: Not attractive at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the expert here, quick question for everyone watching and

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Speaker 1: for Danny, where do you think, like, like how much

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Speaker 1: time can this go on? Because it's like very normal

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Speaker 1: for oh like your partner comes over like whatever, totally

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Speaker 2: What is the cut off?

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Speaker 3: Oh for how many days just a couple? Like there's

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Speaker 3: no way you can go past a few instances? Right,

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Speaker 3: see you once? I see you twice? But after that,

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Speaker 3: absolutely not. You're not treating me that way?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not like living.

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Speaker 3: In yourself the way you want to treat others. What's

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Speaker 3: what's the golden rule?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? You got it on top of it all right?

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Speaker 4: I feel like, can she just say, like, you're not

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Can't she just kick him out?

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Speaker 1: She can, but maybe maybe she's insecure in the relationship.

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Speaker 4: Do you have any any wait?

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, Danny, I'm going to have to bequeath

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Speaker 1: you no with this. Yes, as the resident expert in

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Speaker 1: being a woman, because none of us are women? Correct,

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Speaker 1: why maybe there's a reason why. Op is kind of like,

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Speaker 1: why would get out of my house?

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Speaker 3: I mean she has to love this guy, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean, and love is like really unexplainable.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: That's the only good thing I got.

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Speaker 2: You can't explain it. That was a great That was

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Speaker 4: That was cute. That was cute. This episode is just

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Speaker 4: turning into a little cute episode. Yes.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, you don't have to wear it

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Speaker 2: the whole time. So there we go.

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Speaker 5: That was exactly what you're supposed to do.

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Speaker 1: It hurts my feelings for such a nice guy, how

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Speaker 1: he can be so thoughtless.

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Speaker 2: It feels thoughtless to me.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, I told him tonight, I feel it would be

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Speaker 1: best if we return to our old living situation. Thank

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Speaker 1: you about time him at his home and me alone here.

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Speaker 1: I express I can't or won't handle all of the

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Speaker 1: responsibilities of our lives co inhabiting. I also said it

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Speaker 1: really hurt my feelings that for Christmas he got me draino.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, doesn't pick up cleaning supplies but does

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Speaker 2: How romantic?

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Speaker 7: Wow, But like he's the one that's like, baby, your

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Speaker 7: drains are kind of clogged, bab Like could you marry?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, merry Christmas? Get to work.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so he bought a house, yeah he Oh, he

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Speaker 4: is a home owner, and the best he can do

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Speaker 4: for Christmas is draino.

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Speaker 1: Sam, He's only getting three hundred dollars a month. How

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Speaker 1: could he possibly afford How can he afford it? He's

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Speaker 2: Charge slightly more, yeah, or work and get some other income.

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Speaker 4: Now, where's his job? What is his job?

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Speaker 1: And just to destroy his job causing a ruckus which

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Speaker 5: So he's like this one day this, So you're really

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Speaker 1: I boy this on Black Friday, so one spend too

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Speaker 2: Now I gotta make you wait.

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Speaker 4: Good god man, I mean to be fair, like it

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Speaker 4: is a gift that will be used and you know sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Get ready for this, ready for this. He thought you

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Speaker 1: thought he was a one trick pony. He also got

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Speaker 1: her set of ladles. Yeah, lails, ladles like for soup.

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Speaker 4: Oh my, gosh, start cooking, I want soup.

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Speaker 7: Oh my, the picture of a ladle, Oh my god,

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Speaker 7: this is terrible.

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Speaker 1: He didn't say anything. He just sat there and stared

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Speaker 2: Or yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He's like, you're welcome, like I got you a ladle,

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Speaker 1: I got you draino?

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Speaker 4: Like what did she get him?

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Speaker 5: Free living for a year. That's what the freak got him.

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Speaker 1: I asked if he had anything to say, any feelings

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Speaker 2: He said he didn't know what to say.

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Speaker 1: There are far too many women in the same situation.

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Speaker 2: I'm finding this as I'm reading Reddit.

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Speaker 4: I'm yes, we've read many a story about ungrateful partners.

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Speaker 1: Are all men truly one track minded? Do they only

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Speaker 1: think of themselves? Why don't men just take the initiative

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Speaker 1: to help their partners without having to be given lists

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Speaker 1: or told what to do or nagged about it. We

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Speaker 1: have some relevant comments from some relevant commenters, but I'm

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Speaker 1: sensing a juicy breakdown discussion that is about too unfold.

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Speaker 4: At a certain point, someone just shows you that they

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Speaker 4: don't care about you, right, Yeah, Like it just seems

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Speaker 4: that he's consistently shown that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how you stick around for that long?

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Speaker 4: Eh, This guy like he has to have something, there's

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Speaker 4: something there, but there's not enough. There's not enough for sure.

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Speaker 1: Also, something we've seen like a million times on the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, breaks, there's a reality stortes. As Danny said, love,

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 4: Love is blind ding blind? Love is blind blind ding.

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Speaker 2: Please please get away, from this, he came.

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Speaker 3: Out like can't stay at her own her own.

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Speaker 1: House, not at all, I'm a victim. Send him in eviction. Notice,

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Speaker 1: I am so sorry, but like a year that is

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Speaker 2: Last night. Girlfriend came home, she went back. Name is back. Yes, hooray,

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Speaker 1: Anyways, Riley's underhanded remarks aside, she came home and you know,

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Speaker 4: Is the worst present you've gotten from a partner? Mmm?

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Speaker 4: While you're thinking, yes, I do have one, top of mind.

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Speaker 4: But should I wait or should I tell now?

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Speaker 2: Drop it?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So she got me a donation to her favorite charity.

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Speaker 5: No, it's good.

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Speaker 4: But I don't hear about this charity. I don't want

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Speaker 4: to save the polar bears. Well maybe you do, though

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Speaker 3: Though. Maybe we should open that box.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go. Now we're talking.

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Speaker 1: Why does Sam hate polar bears don't want to kill

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Speaker 4: Well, I've never mentioned liking polar bears. She's mentioned liking

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Speaker 4: it a lot. I the worst gift?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Interesting? Yeahh she get you anything else?

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Speaker 4: No? But I got her a So her favorite photographer

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Speaker 1: People, there's only one thing that was thoughtful, as f

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Speaker 1: how many polar bears did you have saved?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Zero.

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Speaker 2: In fact, one could argue you killed polar bears with.

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Speaker 4: Your I did kill polar bears. I did kill that.

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Speaker 4: That was my But yeah, it was more. It was

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Speaker 4: more I feel like the imbalance of.

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Speaker 3: How long did you guys stay together after these exchange.

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Speaker 4: Of gifts, Like maybe like a couple months. She cheated

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 4: But now that you've thought, what is this was also

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Speaker 3: I mean, all my gifts with my guys have been

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Speaker 4: That's cute though, that's that's one and cute. That's cute.

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Speaker 3: I like that funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's great.

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Speaker 3: This is where I'm going to back out and say,

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Speaker 3: this was like six years ago and it'd been like

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Speaker 3: it was his birthday and we've been dating for.

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Speaker 2: Like a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 6: That's pretty cool though, Yeah your element school LIKEQ but

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Speaker 6: like you still do it now, Like, yo, that's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Gift after a few weeks, a few days that is

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Speaker 2: a little Yeah, that's turkey.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like Valentine's Day if I've only been dating for

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Speaker 4: a couple of weeks, Like, what's I think it? Rose

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Speaker 4: wedding a wedding ring? Yeah, is there an update?

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Speaker 2: There's relevant comments. Let's see what they got to say.

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Speaker 1: You got yourself a garbage tear bro Opie says, it's

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Speaker 1: funny you mentioned that because when we were getting to

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Speaker 4: I feel like the that's just a person saying I'm great. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm not a terrible person.

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Speaker 1: It's the inverse of saying or it's just saying the

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Speaker 1: same thing. As I'm a high value man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: That is non valuing. Ever, Yeah, come on, bro, does

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Speaker 1: he actually own a house?

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Speaker 3: Good question?

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Speaker 2: Opie says he does actually own it.

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Speaker 4: She did go to the parties. Yeah, but I mean

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Speaker 4: you could be just like renting it and like flexing

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Speaker 1: It's way too much work for Allegedly, according to op

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Speaker 1: he does own it. I guess I should be flattered

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Speaker 4: That's how I took it. M you deserve more, op you.

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Speaker 4: You are a highly woman and deserve more.

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Speaker 6: But he loves you just acts of services. Where he

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Speaker 6: lacks it is time.

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Speaker 4: But how he is I don't know. He's lacking everything

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Speaker 4: that ain't quality.

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Speaker 2: Though, Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, quality.

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Speaker 4: That's that quality.

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Speaker 2: That is just time. It's too much time. It's time overload.

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Speaker 1: But y'all, we have an update, not only an update

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Speaker 1: on the same day, on the same unusual and I

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Speaker 4: The comments like, oh maybe I should break up.

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Speaker 2: With this at all. Right, let's hope, so let's pray.

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Speaker 1: Since this happened, he was still in my living room

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Speaker 1: for a few hours. I've been in bed with COVID

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Speaker 1: and laying here. I got miffed. I walked back in

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Speaker 1: and asked twice more. You have nothing to say, no words. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you feel that way. What can I do? Nothing,

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Speaker 1: no emotion. I can't believe it. This was supposed to

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Speaker 1: be my best friend. I told him we're breaking up

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Speaker 1: and he needs to go home now.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh key, this is what we've needed. Yes, you go, girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm honestly really surprised and hurt by his lack of reaction.

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Speaker 1: I should have known. This is a happy ending. This

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Speaker 1: is the kind of story that I want.

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Speaker 2: I want.

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Speaker 4: I want shit to go wrong and op to come

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Speaker 2: Well, guess what's soon?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: The story's not over?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I thought, well this would be a happy I'm hoping

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Speaker 4: it's even happier. There's only or maybe there's maybe fallout

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Speaker 4: going on line. Yeah, like I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I still believe that he owns the house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where's the proof?

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Speaker 4: There's some fish fish?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, well let's dive into the ocean of this

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Speaker 1: next update.

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Speaker 2: Tell him the date of this update.

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Speaker 1: December thirty first, which is New Year's I packed his

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Speaker 1: he went silent. I'm sorry, but I started to cry

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Speaker 1: because it's just so hurtful. Don't apologize. Feel the feelings.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let those tears shed.

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Speaker 1: I said, that's all I get after two and a

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Speaker 2: And he just said by Lauren like he always would.

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Speaker 4: Wow, a man's like a sociopath. Yes, doesn't have emotions.

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Speaker 2: This guy is a dirt stigma.

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Speaker 4: Showed no emotions.

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Speaker 1: I needed him to hear me or understand where I

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Speaker 1: care to. He's all right with just walking away with

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Speaker 1: This is the most painful thing out of.

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Speaker 2: All of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his talks of getting a house, getting married, I

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Speaker 1: guess getting a house with.

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Speaker 4: Opie, getting another house.

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Speaker 2: Imagine he's like, yeah, I'm gonna get in another.

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Speaker 1: House, so I'm gonna have my roommates move into that

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Speaker 1: one too. Yeah, Yeah, this will be the party house empty.

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Speaker 4: Ready for party houses, one for morning, one for night.

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Speaker 2: That's why I got to sleep in your room.

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Speaker 1: Why bother If you're just gonna throw all of this away,

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Speaker 1: throw the talil in with me supporting us and it

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Speaker 4: For me, He's shown he hasn't cared for a long

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Speaker 4: time though, Like this is like if we were we've

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So.

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Speaker 4: The thing is though he is consistent, switch up.

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Speaker 5: He lets you know who he is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: For those of you who asked why I kept this

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Speaker 1: to have him in my life. It was positive and

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Speaker 1: a breath and a breath of fresh air for my

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Speaker 1: former partners. He was kind, sensitive, thoughtful, caring guy. When

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Speaker 1: I met him, he even on his own volition, promised

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Speaker 1: me he wouldn't be a low tiered dude like the others.

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Speaker 4: But it's like, it's like when someone says like I'm

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Speaker 4: or I'm a nice guy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah of course, Yeah, but you got to believe the actions.

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Speaker 4: Now, what's exactly exactly?

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Speaker 1: And I feel like if you're like telling me, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm a nice guy, I'm like, you're trying to convince me.

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Speaker 1: Because convincing I don't know if he's on the spectrum

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Speaker 1: many of you did ask. He's joked about it in

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Speaker 1: the past. He's not a bad guy. I guess he

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Speaker 1: really just doesn't care. And I've got to accept that

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Speaker 1: and try to learn from where I went wrong in

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Speaker 1: the beginning. And there are some quick relevant comments to

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Speaker 1: close us out. Sounds like he was looking for a

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Speaker 1: reason to believe. That is a good point, the leave.

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Speaker 2: To leave for a reason to believe, to believe in me,

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Speaker 2: living for me.

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Speaker 1: I think that is the case. He was just waiting

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Speaker 1: or looking for a way to end our relationship. I

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Speaker 1: would have preferred just to have known.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, not the best, not the best way

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Speaker 4: to exit a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there's another final updates. Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 1: you know what I painted him in a bad light.

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Speaker 5: Sure, no, I'm not about to do a switch up.

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Speaker 4: Are we sure?

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Speaker 2: These things happened? But ultimately he's a good guy.

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Speaker 4: Oh please don't say you got back together with him.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe we're just not a good fit.

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Speaker 4: Okay, perhaps, thank god I was so worried.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps I went about things in the wrong way by

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Speaker 1: escalating it so quickly.

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Speaker 2: You did not at all. That was not for a year.

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Speaker 2: Come on, girl.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps I'm too quick to blame and not good at

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Speaker 1: communicating in our relationship. Either way, I got the space

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Speaker 1: I so desperately wanted. I appreciate all of your input today.

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Speaker 1: The response was astounding. I guess a takeaway to my

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Speaker 1: failed relationship is to be sure to check in with

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Speaker 1: your partners where they're at, if their needs are being met,

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Speaker 1: if there's anything you can do, if you're both still

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Speaker 1: on the same page, and listen to the flax.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Yeah we need the opposite, y know,

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Speaker 2: show them the green one.

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Speaker 6: They haven't seen that.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Look this has been hiding behind

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Speaker 4: the green screen.

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Speaker 1: But it's not just a ripple and time space of

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Speaker 1: our background. It's the actual It looks like the Wormhole

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Speaker 1: and Interstellar when when we wave it around, it's like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Well, what's the real question here?

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Speaker 4: I feel like the real question is when you, like,

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Speaker 4: when a partner begins to show signs of not caring

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Speaker 4: like how soon do you listen because it seems like

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Speaker 4: she like like obviously every relationship goes to like waxing

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Speaker 4: and waning of interest, affection, acts of service, like all

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Speaker 4: those kinds of things, But like how long do you

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Speaker 4: go with it being it seems like like fairly bad?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and also I think making sure what your partner

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Speaker 3: wants and needs, like like you said before, maybe you

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Speaker 3: only do the dishes, but she does something else and

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Speaker 3: it doesn't sound like they communicate it at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, here's the real question. Here, give me the real question.

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Speaker 6: When do X become a red flag? Like three X

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Speaker 6: equal a red flag? Because it looks like there was

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Speaker 6: a lot of ichy things that did turn into a red.

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Speaker 4: Flat X over time red flags. But what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean one, it can just give you a

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Speaker 3: red flag?

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Speaker 7: Really, Yeah, don't give a guy that's like what if

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Speaker 7: what if he's like six to two drinking out of

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Speaker 7: a straw?

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Speaker 2: You're telling me, tall, buddy, like, drink a straw.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's fine, drink out a straw, like I can.

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Speaker 3: I can deal with that.

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Speaker 4: Oh, but it is a red flag.

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Speaker 3: It's not a red flag. That's like an egg that's

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Speaker 3: like an egg.

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Speaker 5: That total bro.

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Speaker 4: Everyone said Riley was wrong for thinking that drinking out

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Speaker 4: of a straw is an ick, But maybe it is

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Speaker 4: a nick in la.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I I definitely can't say this

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Speaker 3: in the pot. But it's because of the way that

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Speaker 3: you're stuck in the straw.

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Speaker 2: Yep, thank you, she gets it. I will not do it.

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Speaker 4: You almost called me lacking. He was almost gonna just

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Speaker 4: switch back to drinking straws. What is the biggest egg

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Speaker 4: that you've gotten from a guy?

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Speaker 3: That's a good question. Yeah, you're making me think on

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Speaker 3: my feet.

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Speaker 4: I try, I try, I can't try to keep it interesting.

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Speaker 3: This is going to sound really bad. But honestly, when

532
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Speaker 3: they're like too what is it like when they make

533
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Speaker 3: you like suffocate and they're like to.

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Speaker 2: Like love bombing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, you get like overstin So they

536
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Speaker 4: give you too many good presents. They give you too

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Speaker 4: many rocks, Yeah, too.

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Speaker 3: Many rocks time with you at once.

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Speaker 4: M So just like, don't don't respond, like, let's leave.

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Speaker 2: You can't do anything wrong, anything wrong.

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Speaker 4: They still if I don't move my god, only green flags,

542
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Speaker 4: oh my god. But you know what is a total

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Speaker 4: green flag.

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Speaker 2: The next story you're about to read. Let's see, let's

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 4: Did I AfD up by accidentally becoming gay on.

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Speaker 3: New Year's accidentally?

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Speaker 2: Interestingly, how does that happen?

549
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Speaker 4: You kiss? You kiss a couple couple of people?

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Speaker 2: That's me, Sam.

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Speaker 6: How we did it on New Year's?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, kissing beautiful man. That's just sounds like I.

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Speaker 4: Kissed all my bros on the on the lips, very

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Speaker 4: good years.

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Speaker 2: That's how we do it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and when I go to bed and yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: on the forehead after I read him a story. We're

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Speaker 4: reading Aragon right now.

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Speaker 2: Oh, actually, on the forehead. That's adorable.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I say, I say good night, sweet Prince.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sad I don't get to say good night

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Speaker 2: to you. Dude. I'm gonna I'm gonna drive.

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Speaker 1: Over sleep We could do a sleepover.

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Speaker 4: That actually would be fun. We'll streamep over in popcorn.

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Speaker 4: We sleepovers back for adults. Yeah, my parents stopped letting

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Speaker 4: me have sleepovers in high school.

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Speaker 2: Well, guess what, you're a big boy.

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Speaker 4: Now have a big boy. I can sleep over whoever

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Speaker 4: I want to