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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up date. The most successful dating site isn't Tender.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't Plenty of Fists dot com, even though that's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good one. But it's actually Instagram. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people meet on Instagram, and apparently that's how Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone for a second at update today,

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<v Speaker 1>met the girl that he wants to call. What's up, Connor?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Guys? You decided to go with Instagram?

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<v Speaker 1>Said a plenty of Fists? Huh? Yeah, yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram is the is like the new Tender. Basically, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you heard what he said. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people did. Yeah. Um, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>girl's name you want to call today? Her name is Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>Kate all right? And how did you meet Kate on Instagram? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as as it usually goes, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of rusing around on the Gram and you see

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<v Speaker 1>attractive women and she caught my eye, so I started

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<v Speaker 1>following her. She's absolutely gorgeous and one day, um, she

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<v Speaker 1>posted this, Really you need to check it out for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like really phenomenal picture. It's a boudoir picture and

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's stunning, Okay, studying, send it along. So are

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<v Speaker 1>you one of the creeps that commented on it and

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<v Speaker 1>like tagged your bro in it, like and not even

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<v Speaker 1>an in description, just tagged your bro in her picture.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're posting photos for you to look at,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened

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<v Speaker 1>was there was a woman who commented on it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea who this woman was, and she

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<v Speaker 1>had said, you look like a tramp in this photo. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's absolutely disgusting. And you know, now there you post

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<v Speaker 1>something like this on Instagram. Oh my gosh. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know right, So you came to her defense. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you could say that this woman must have

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<v Speaker 1>been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I

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<v Speaker 1>chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it,

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<v Speaker 1>just don't follow her. Simple as that. Oh damn big comeback?

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<v Speaker 1>That was? That was I guess that was my knight

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<v Speaker 1>in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>me and she thanked me. Oh nice? Is that when

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<v Speaker 1>you asked her out on a date? Yep? That's when

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<v Speaker 1>I made some moves. All right? Okay? And what was

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<v Speaker 1>it like the first time you guys met in person?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? It was great. I mean, she looked the

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<v Speaker 1>same way she did on Instagram and she's still wearing

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<v Speaker 1>that boudoir picture that she posted, you know, she had

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<v Speaker 1>clothing on. Yeah, I mean, I think now is the

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<v Speaker 1>time that we can switch to talking about her personality. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>What I mean, did you guys connect? Would you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Yeah? No, she was really cool. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>what she did for a living. We talked about Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>and the pros and cons of Instagram and how it's

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<v Speaker 1>causing problems in society, but there's also benefits to it

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<v Speaker 1>like this, And who would have ever thought? I mean, truly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Instagram is a way to meet people, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's friends or business connections or significant others. Why not?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? For sure? So you thought of her as

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend potential? Then absolute? Absolutely? That was hoba. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this was like the first hot girl I've been on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with in a long time, all right, a

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<v Speaker 1>long long time. And we went to a bar for

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<v Speaker 1>the date went really well. But you know, if they

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<v Speaker 1>just took a turn when we were getting ready to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the next bar, why, I don't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was a big deal. She kind she kind of took

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<v Speaker 1>a weird She was wearing these really high heels, and

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<v Speaker 1>she took a weird step and uh she she broke

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<v Speaker 1>her heel. Um, and you started laughing uncontrollably. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I chuckle, I would like, I mean I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at first I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>are you okay? And then I kind of chuckled and

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was kind of comical. But she needed a

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<v Speaker 1>pair of new shoes. Yeah, So did she leave? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do the rest of the night. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the end of it. I do look, we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laughed it off. We went to the next bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she just hobble along? No? Well, we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up getting a new pair of shoes for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so you stopped along the way to another

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<v Speaker 1>bar and got a new pair of shoes? Yes, yep, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we got to the next bar and we

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<v Speaker 1>had a drink, and uh, all right, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to get all these cards out on the table and

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<v Speaker 1>say that this is the part where I may have

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<v Speaker 1>screwed up. Okay, um, we you know, we were having

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<v Speaker 1>a great time making that connection, and my team was

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<v Speaker 1>on the television. I just wanted to check out the

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<v Speaker 1>game and see what was going on, see what the

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<v Speaker 1>score was, see how things were going. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>turned back and she had this like totally pissed look

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<v Speaker 1>on our face. WHOA how long had you turned around

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<v Speaker 1>to watch the game? I mean maybe like a minute

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<v Speaker 1>or two not Are you sure about that? Or did

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<v Speaker 1>you get completely wrapped up in it and forget that

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<v Speaker 1>you were on a date. That's a long tip. And

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<v Speaker 1>did you just turn around while she was in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of telling you something important? I mean, I could multites.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't sound like it at all. It's pretty obvious

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody tunes you out and starts watching a TV

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<v Speaker 1>when you're trying to talk. I wasn't tuning her. I

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<v Speaker 1>was still listening. My ears were still available through her voice. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So when you turned around and she seemed kind of upset,

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how everything ended or did it continue on

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit things got really awkward. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I was sorry, you know, it's just my team, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I apologize, and I thought we would be

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<v Speaker 1>cool and everything would be okay after that, and it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you know what, I'm sorry, I gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>meet up with my friends. And I went in for

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<v Speaker 1>this hug and it was just the most awkward moment

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<v Speaker 1>of my life. Then she left, and I'd try to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to her, you know, because I was totally bummed.

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<v Speaker 1>She was gorgeous, she was cool. She hasn't returned any

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<v Speaker 1>of my text any of my calls, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really think what I did was a big deal. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. Like at the time, I was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did I do. Now that i'm thinking about, I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she got upset that I turned around to look

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<v Speaker 1>at the game for a minute or two, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's me just digging for theories. I really don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a problem. So okay, well play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, yeah, cool, all right, now you hang us

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<v Speaker 1>second right in the middle of a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>and Connor is on the phone and today he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out to a bar, hung out. He says

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<v Speaker 1>he had a good time. But hold on a second,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, Oh WHOA was a big NBA trade we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? We're talking about something again. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm talking to my husband all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, yeah, Connor went out

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<v Speaker 1>with Kate to a bar. He thinks the reason she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling back is because there was a moment where

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<v Speaker 1>there was some sports on TV. He turned around to

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<v Speaker 1>watch it for what he says, like one or two minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when he tuned back into the conversation, she

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<v Speaker 1>just looked upset, and he thinks that's where everything went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're about to get her on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if that is the reason he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. All right, Connor, do you hear about

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<v Speaker 1>the trade? Yeah? Right now? Yeah, no, But I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta check Sports Center tonight. Oh yeah, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even though you said that that old lasted

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<v Speaker 1>a minute or two. I think that's all it takes.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if that was an issue for her in previous relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, red flag, I'm not Yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>getting into that again where I'm dating a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>is so obsessed with sports that he can't pay attention

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<v Speaker 1>during one meal or wondering. Yeah, you're right, maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>past was haunting her. Yeah, find out all right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar fun him right now? Here we go, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Kate? Yes? Here says hey Kate, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Um, okay, are you familiar with the show?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind though? Kind of familiar is what we go for.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's good. Well I'm calling today because actually one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners emailed us about you because you're super

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<v Speaker 1>hot on Instagram. Yeah okay, okay, so he's anybody follow

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<v Speaker 1>your Instagram? So you want to shout out your handle

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<v Speaker 1>or no, where are you? Seriously, what what is this?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want to just promote your Instagram. This dude

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<v Speaker 1>that you went out on a date with named Connor

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<v Speaker 1>actually emailed us. Oh yeah, yeah, what if you want? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on a show called The Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and Connor has been trying to get ahold

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<v Speaker 1>of you. But apparently you don't want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date. No, I don't. Did you just find that

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't the right person for you? Just just like

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<v Speaker 1>well we were talking before we actually met in person.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he's going to be like a nice guy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems like a gentleman, and that we went out

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<v Speaker 1>one time and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No,

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<v Speaker 1>so he didn't like open your doors and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>he did that. I don't know, Like it was okay first,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he decided to be like a jerk at

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<v Speaker 1>some point during the nice Was it because he stopped

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<v Speaker 1>listening to you to watch sports for a second? Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you know about that? Well, because we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so did he tell you about how I like broke

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<v Speaker 1>my heel on the date. Yeah, and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed

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<v Speaker 1>at you a little bit. Well it was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't even the fact that he laughed because like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>that part wasn't a big deal. But then like, so

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<v Speaker 1>we went to go get new shoes because like, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I can't walk around like that. So we're at the

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<v Speaker 1>shoe store and I just kept like trying to drop

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<v Speaker 1>hint and be like, yeah, like these are my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>shoes and that, like if this happened on our date,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the hint? Though, I don't get what your hint

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<v Speaker 1>was hint to what? Well, like I keep mentioning like

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<v Speaker 1>over and over like yeah, like it happened on this date,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, we're on a date. He just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to be getting it. I don't get it either.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys don't like how do you not get it?

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<v Speaker 1>What I don't? You're in a shoe store and what

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<v Speaker 1>you like your shoes. What I'm saying is my shoe

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<v Speaker 1>broke on our date. So I feel like that means

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<v Speaker 1>it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes. What Why

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<v Speaker 1>would that be his responsibility? Did he break your shoe?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like he physically broke it, but it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of his fault because if I was sitting at home,

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<v Speaker 1>my shoe would not be broken. No. No, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a stretch. Is such a big stretch. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay, think about

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<v Speaker 1>it this way though. Okay, he invited me out, like

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<v Speaker 1>I expect him to pay for like the meal, drinks

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever, like whatever we do, I would expect him

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for. Okay, so like buy the same logic.

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<v Speaker 1>If my shoe breaks, that doesn't expense of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like saying, if while on your date, your car

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<v Speaker 1>gets stolen, he has to replace your car. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that would never happen because I would never drive myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously he's gonna be picking me up. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a thing for me, like, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>want to date a guy who's going to be like

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<v Speaker 1>consider it. You know, like obviously, if I'm upset that

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<v Speaker 1>my shoe is broken, he should care, like he should

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<v Speaker 1>want to fix that. He should want to make me

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<v Speaker 1>feel better, not make me have to pay for shoes

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Oh my god, you are so high maintenance. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like high maintenance, Like I don't like being

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<v Speaker 1>called high maintenance. I'm just saying I know how I

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<v Speaker 1>deserve to be treated, and I'm not gonna settle for less. Okay, badly, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever standards. I guess this dumb. I do, and if

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<v Speaker 1>he's not going to meet them, like somebody else will. Wow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're just looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a sugar daddy. This is different, looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a daddy like I could have them, dude pay my rent? Yeah? Problem? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on one second, because I think I heard Connor

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<v Speaker 1>try to chime in there, because Connor's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, could you guys like chill out

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<v Speaker 1>and let me listen to what she has to say? What? Who?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Oh yeah, Connor's on the other line,

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<v Speaker 1>Kate and wanted to talk to you. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, Kate. Honestly, I'm just shocked. I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea that you wanted me to pay. It didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>cross my mind for a second. Okay, but that, like

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<v Speaker 1>that should cross your mind, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if we're on a date, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 1>asked me out. My shoes broke as a result of

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<v Speaker 1>me being out with you, And I don't understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't think that you should even offer. Look, you're

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<v Speaker 1>probably right, I just would you would have asked me

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a mind reader. Wow, yeah, okay, but like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I should even have to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's just obvious. And then I'm like dropping

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<v Speaker 1>hints too that you should have picked up on. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then I need to pick up like a copy of

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<v Speaker 1>Dating for Dummies at the bookstore, because clearly I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the rules of dating. I'm so sorry. Yeah, currently

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<v Speaker 1>not like that was just extremely rude. Like it's extremely

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<v Speaker 1>rude that he didn't pay for your shoes. There's actually

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<v Speaker 1>some women who would think could be extremely rude if

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<v Speaker 1>he insisted on pain, Like I don't need you to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for my things. I am a successful woman with

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<v Speaker 1>my own job, and I could pay for my own damn. Shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>um no, that makes no sense. I'm not asking for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I'm just asking for you to act with

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman like. That's it. I'm so sorry. This just

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<v Speaker 1>has never happened to me before. I've never been in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation. I just really didn't know how to handle it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't really know what more to say. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you just haven't been on a date with girls

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<v Speaker 1>like me before, like quality women's Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of like crash bags you're normally eating over

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<v Speaker 1>like that kind of treatment. But I'm certainly not going

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<v Speaker 1>to right. Oh god, Connor, is that very okay with you?

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<v Speaker 1>All this? Like you're still attracted to Kate? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel bad. I feel like I ruined her night. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry, Kate. I was totally out of line,

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<v Speaker 1>and I promise I will keep an eye out for

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what you need. I just want to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't really know what else to say

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<v Speaker 1>to you at this point unless you're gonna like reimburse

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<v Speaker 1>me for the shoes, don't you dare? Connor? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you want me to, I totally will

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<v Speaker 1>you will. How much did these shoes cost? By the way, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lucky for you. There's some my cheap ones. They

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<v Speaker 1>were like to twenty or something like that. Oh my god, twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're going to continue this, I hope you have

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<v Speaker 1>a big bank account. Connor, are you willing to drop

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred twenty dollars to reimburse her for those shoes

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<v Speaker 1>that she paid for to go on another date? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, I had a great time and to twenty is. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's worthy investment. All right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Connor again on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date? We will pay for the meal. He'll

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<v Speaker 1>buy new shoes. I suppose. Wait, let me just skip

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<v Speaker 1>this out there. I'm not just doing this because I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the right thing to do. I genuinely like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a great time with you, and money isn't everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd rather spend the money and see you again

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<v Speaker 1>than I'm not. Okay, are you going to actually behave

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<v Speaker 1>like a gentleman this time? Yeah? Like I would be

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<v Speaker 1>willing to go out with you one more time, but like, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>if you mess up at all, like that's it, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, and you just wait on your date. Her

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<v Speaker 1>designer bag is gonna break, and oh my god, suddenly

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<v Speaker 1>I need to get at five first. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that my dad did break. He better be

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<v Speaker 1>ready to replace. A promise is a promise. Whatever you need,

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<v Speaker 1>My credit card is ready. All right, You'll go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Connor again as long as he doesn't make any

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<v Speaker 1>mistakes because you have a zero tarlerance policy. Connor, You're

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<v Speaker 1>willing to pay for whatever Kate needs during your date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well all right, sounds like a real love story. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you might want to have to pay for dinner Connor too,

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<v Speaker 1>because all we have at the radio station or like

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<v Speaker 1>gift cards to chain restaurants, and I don't think Kate's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna want to eat it. Jul in the morning text

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<v Speaker 1>message in at seven eight five to nine two just

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<v Speaker 1>says Connor is doomed, and I think I agree. Talking

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second eight update. If you missed it, this

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<v Speaker 1>dude Connor took a girl named Kate out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>They went to a few bars, said there was an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward moment when her shoe broke, and he laughed and

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was funny. She didn't think it was that funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but they had to get a new shoe because her

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<v Speaker 1>high heel broke. And the reason that she wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>back was because he didn't offer to pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>shoe wow and buy her a new pair of shoes

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<v Speaker 1>because technically it was on the date so it's a

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<v Speaker 1>dating expense. Hey, but he was up for it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I'll pay for anything. And someone else texted in,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure her car's going to break down on

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<v Speaker 1>the second date. Yeah yeah, we all thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty unreasonable, but Connor totally understood and said that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, if she went out with him again, he

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<v Speaker 1>would refund the money for the share and then also

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<v Speaker 1>take care of whatever expense has happened on their second date.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're gonna go out again, and it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to be in debt. Remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day up date, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do his email the show, and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back