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Speaker 1: Second dat up date. The most successful dating site isn't Tender.
Speaker 1: It isn't Plenty of Fists dot com, even though that's
Speaker 1: a really good one. But it's actually Instagram. A lot
Speaker 1: of people meet on Instagram, and apparently that's how Connor,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone for a second at update today,
Speaker 1: met the girl that he wants to call. What's up, Connor?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Guys? You decided to go with Instagram?
Speaker 1: Said a plenty of Fists? Huh? Yeah, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: Instagram is the is like the new Tender. Basically, I
Speaker 1: don't think you heard what he said. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: think a lot of people did. Yeah. Um, what's the
Speaker 1: girl's name you want to call today? Her name is Kate.
Speaker 1: Kate all right? And how did you meet Kate on Instagram? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, as as it usually goes, you know, you
Speaker 1: kind of rusing around on the Gram and you see
Speaker 1: attractive women and she caught my eye, so I started
Speaker 1: following her. She's absolutely gorgeous and one day, um, she
Speaker 1: posted this, Really you need to check it out for yourself.
Speaker 1: It's like really phenomenal picture. It's a boudoir picture and
Speaker 1: it's it's stunning, Okay, studying, send it along. So are
Speaker 1: you one of the creeps that commented on it and
Speaker 1: like tagged your bro in it, like and not even
Speaker 1: an in description, just tagged your bro in her picture.
Speaker 1: I mean, they're posting photos for you to look at,
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened
Speaker 1: was there was a woman who commented on it. And
Speaker 1: I had no idea who this woman was, and she
Speaker 1: had said, you look like a tramp in this photo. Um,
Speaker 1: it's absolutely disgusting. And you know, now there you post
Speaker 1: something like this on Instagram. Oh my gosh. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I know right, So you came to her defense. Were
Speaker 1: you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you could say that this woman must have
Speaker 1: been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I
Speaker 1: chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it,
Speaker 1: just don't follow her. Simple as that. Oh damn big comeback?
Speaker 1: That was? That was I guess that was my knight
Speaker 1: in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had reached out to
Speaker 1: me and she thanked me. Oh nice? Is that when
Speaker 1: you asked her out on a date? Yep? That's when
Speaker 1: I made some moves. All right? Okay? And what was
Speaker 1: it like the first time you guys met in person?
Speaker 1: It was? It was great. I mean, she looked the
Speaker 1: same way she did on Instagram and she's still wearing
Speaker 1: that boudoir picture that she posted, you know, she had
Speaker 1: clothing on. Yeah, I mean, I think now is the
Speaker 1: time that we can switch to talking about her personality. Guys.
Speaker 1: What I mean, did you guys connect? Would you talk
Speaker 1: about Yeah? No, she was really cool. We talked about
Speaker 1: what she did for a living. We talked about Instagram
Speaker 1: and the pros and cons of Instagram and how it's
Speaker 1: causing problems in society, but there's also benefits to it
Speaker 1: like this, And who would have ever thought? I mean, truly,
Speaker 1: I think Instagram is a way to meet people, whether
Speaker 1: it's friends or business connections or significant others. Why not?
Speaker 1: You know? For sure? So you thought of her as
Speaker 1: girlfriend potential? Then absolute? Absolutely? That was hoba. I mean,
Speaker 1: this was like the first hot girl I've been on
Speaker 1: a date with in a long time, all right, a
Speaker 1: long long time. And we went to a bar for
Speaker 1: the date went really well. But you know, if they
Speaker 1: just took a turn when we were getting ready to
Speaker 1: go to the next bar, why, I don't think it
Speaker 1: was a big deal. She kind she kind of took
Speaker 1: a weird She was wearing these really high heels, and
Speaker 1: she took a weird step and uh she she broke
Speaker 1: her heel. Um, and you started laughing uncontrollably. I mean,
Speaker 1: I like, I chuckle, I would like, I mean I did.
Speaker 1: I mean, at first I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: are you okay? And then I kind of chuckled and
Speaker 1: thought it was kind of comical. But she needed a
Speaker 1: pair of new shoes. Yeah, So did she leave? I mean,
Speaker 1: what do you do the rest of the night. No,
Speaker 1: that wasn't the end of it. I do look, we
Speaker 1: kind of laughed it off. We went to the next bar.
Speaker 1: Did she just hobble along? No? Well, we ended up
Speaker 1: we ended up getting a new pair of shoes for her.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you stopped along the way to another
Speaker 1: bar and got a new pair of shoes? Yes, yep, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: and then we got to the next bar and we
Speaker 1: had a drink, and uh, all right, I just want
Speaker 1: to get all these cards out on the table and
Speaker 1: say that this is the part where I may have
Speaker 1: screwed up. Okay, um, we you know, we were having
Speaker 1: a great time making that connection, and my team was
Speaker 1: on the television. I just wanted to check out the
Speaker 1: game and see what was going on, see what the
Speaker 1: score was, see how things were going. And then I
Speaker 1: turned back and she had this like totally pissed look
Speaker 1: on our face. WHOA how long had you turned around
Speaker 1: to watch the game? I mean maybe like a minute
Speaker 1: or two not Are you sure about that? Or did
Speaker 1: you get completely wrapped up in it and forget that
Speaker 1: you were on a date. That's a long tip. And
Speaker 1: did you just turn around while she was in the
Speaker 1: middle of telling you something important? I mean, I could multites.
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like it at all. It's pretty obvious
Speaker 1: when somebody tunes you out and starts watching a TV
Speaker 1: when you're trying to talk. I wasn't tuning her. I
Speaker 1: was still listening. My ears were still available through her voice. No, okay,
Speaker 1: So when you turned around and she seemed kind of upset,
Speaker 1: Is that how everything ended or did it continue on
Speaker 1: for a little bit things got really awkward. I said,
Speaker 1: I was sorry, you know, it's just my team, and
Speaker 1: you know, I apologize, and I thought we would be
Speaker 1: cool and everything would be okay after that, and it wasn't.
Speaker 1: She said, you know what, I'm sorry, I gotta go
Speaker 1: meet up with my friends. And I went in for
Speaker 1: this hug and it was just the most awkward moment
Speaker 1: of my life. Then she left, and I'd try to
Speaker 1: reach out to her, you know, because I was totally bummed.
Speaker 1: She was gorgeous, she was cool. She hasn't returned any
Speaker 1: of my text any of my calls, and I don't
Speaker 1: really think what I did was a big deal. That's
Speaker 1: the thing. Like at the time, I was like, what
Speaker 1: did I do. Now that i'm thinking about, I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe she got upset that I turned around to look
Speaker 1: at the game for a minute or two, but like,
Speaker 1: that's me just digging for theories. I really don't think
Speaker 1: that's a problem. So okay, well play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call her and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, cool, all right, now you hang us
Speaker 1: second right in the middle of a second day update,
Speaker 1: and Connor is on the phone and today he wants
Speaker 1: to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram.
Speaker 1: They went out to a bar, hung out. He says
Speaker 1: he had a good time. But hold on a second,
Speaker 1: hang on, Oh WHOA was a big NBA trade we're
Speaker 1: talking about? We're talking about something again. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm talking to my husband all of
Speaker 1: a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, yeah, Connor went out
Speaker 1: with Kate to a bar. He thinks the reason she's
Speaker 1: not calling back is because there was a moment where
Speaker 1: there was some sports on TV. He turned around to
Speaker 1: watch it for what he says, like one or two minutes,
Speaker 1: and then when he tuned back into the conversation, she
Speaker 1: just looked upset, and he thinks that's where everything went wrong.
Speaker 1: So we're about to get her on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if that is the reason he's not getting
Speaker 1: a call back. All right, Connor, do you hear about
Speaker 1: the trade? Yeah? Right now? Yeah, no, But I guess
Speaker 1: I gotta check Sports Center tonight. Oh yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: I mean even though you said that that old lasted
Speaker 1: a minute or two. I think that's all it takes.
Speaker 1: Like if that was an issue for her in previous relationships,
Speaker 1: and she's like, red flag, I'm not Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: getting into that again where I'm dating a guy who
Speaker 1: is so obsessed with sports that he can't pay attention
Speaker 1: during one meal or wondering. Yeah, you're right, maybe her
Speaker 1: past was haunting her. Yeah, find out all right, I'm
Speaker 1: a dollar fun him right now? Here we go, Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is this Kate? Yes? Here says hey Kate, how
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Um, okay, are you familiar with the show?
Speaker 1: Kind though? Kind of familiar is what we go for.
Speaker 1: So that's good. Well I'm calling today because actually one
Speaker 1: of our listeners emailed us about you because you're super
Speaker 1: hot on Instagram. Yeah okay, okay, so he's anybody follow
Speaker 1: your Instagram? So you want to shout out your handle
Speaker 1: or no, where are you? Seriously, what what is this?
Speaker 1: We don't want to just promote your Instagram. This dude
Speaker 1: that you went out on a date with named Connor
Speaker 1: actually emailed us. Oh yeah, yeah, what if you want? Well,
Speaker 1: we do a segment on a show called The Second
Speaker 1: Date Update, and Connor has been trying to get ahold
Speaker 1: of you. But apparently you don't want to go on
Speaker 1: another date. No, I don't. Did you just find that
Speaker 1: he wasn't the right person for you? Just just like
Speaker 1: well we were talking before we actually met in person.
Speaker 1: I thought he's going to be like a nice guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he seems like a gentleman, and that we went out
Speaker 1: one time and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No,
Speaker 1: so he didn't like open your doors and stuff like
Speaker 1: he did that. I don't know, Like it was okay first,
Speaker 1: but then he decided to be like a jerk at
Speaker 1: some point during the nice Was it because he stopped
Speaker 1: listening to you to watch sports for a second? Wait,
Speaker 1: how do you know about that? Well, because we talked
Speaker 1: to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay,
Speaker 1: so did he tell you about how I like broke
Speaker 1: my heel on the date. Yeah, and he said that
Speaker 1: you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed
Speaker 1: at you a little bit. Well it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: it wasn't even the fact that he laughed because like,
Speaker 1: I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like
Speaker 1: that part wasn't a big deal. But then like, so
Speaker 1: we went to go get new shoes because like, obviously
Speaker 1: I can't walk around like that. So we're at the
Speaker 1: shoe store and I just kept like trying to drop
Speaker 1: hint and be like, yeah, like these are my favorite
Speaker 1: shoes and that, like if this happened on our date,
Speaker 1: what's the hint? Though, I don't get what your hint
Speaker 1: was hint to what? Well, like I keep mentioning like
Speaker 1: over and over like yeah, like it happened on this date,
Speaker 1: like you know, we're on a date. He just doesn't
Speaker 1: seem to be getting it. I don't get it either.
Speaker 1: You guys don't like how do you not get it?
Speaker 1: What I don't? You're in a shoe store and what
Speaker 1: you like your shoes. What I'm saying is my shoe
Speaker 1: broke on our date. So I feel like that means
Speaker 1: it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes. What Why
Speaker 1: would that be his responsibility? Did he break your shoe?
Speaker 1: It's not like he physically broke it, but it's kind
Speaker 1: of his fault because if I was sitting at home,
Speaker 1: my shoe would not be broken. No. No, that is
Speaker 1: a stretch. Is such a big stretch. I don't feel
Speaker 1: like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay, think about
Speaker 1: it this way though. Okay, he invited me out, like
Speaker 1: I expect him to pay for like the meal, drinks
Speaker 1: like whatever, like whatever we do, I would expect him
Speaker 1: to pay for. Okay, so like buy the same logic.
Speaker 1: If my shoe breaks, that doesn't expense of the date.
Speaker 1: That's like saying, if while on your date, your car
Speaker 1: gets stolen, he has to replace your car. I think
Speaker 1: that would never happen because I would never drive myself.
Speaker 1: Obviously he's gonna be picking me up. It's just like
Speaker 1: it's a thing for me, like, you know, like I
Speaker 1: want to date a guy who's going to be like
Speaker 1: consider it. You know, like obviously, if I'm upset that
Speaker 1: my shoe is broken, he should care, like he should
Speaker 1: want to fix that. He should want to make me
Speaker 1: feel better, not make me have to pay for shoes
Speaker 1: on a date. Oh my god, you are so high maintenance. Wow.
Speaker 1: I'm not like high maintenance, Like I don't like being
Speaker 1: called high maintenance. I'm just saying I know how I
Speaker 1: deserve to be treated, and I'm not gonna settle for less. Okay, badly, Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever standards. I guess this dumb. I do, and if
Speaker 1: he's not going to meet them, like somebody else will. Wow. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're just looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not
Speaker 1: looking for a sugar daddy. This is different, looking for
Speaker 1: a daddy like I could have them, dude pay my rent? Yeah? Problem? Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on one second, because I think I heard Connor
Speaker 1: try to chime in there, because Connor's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, could you guys like chill out
Speaker 1: and let me listen to what she has to say? What? Who?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Oh yeah, Connor's on the other line,
Speaker 1: Kate and wanted to talk to you. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: of course, Kate. Honestly, I'm just shocked. I had no
Speaker 1: idea that you wanted me to pay. It didn't even
Speaker 1: cross my mind for a second. Okay, but that, like
Speaker 1: that should cross your mind, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like if we're on a date, you know, like you
Speaker 1: asked me out. My shoes broke as a result of
Speaker 1: me being out with you, And I don't understand why
Speaker 1: you wouldn't think that you should even offer. Look, you're
Speaker 1: probably right, I just would you would have asked me
Speaker 1: I'm not a mind reader. Wow, yeah, okay, but like
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I should even have to ask.
Speaker 1: I think that's just obvious. And then I'm like dropping
Speaker 1: hints too that you should have picked up on. Well,
Speaker 1: then I need to pick up like a copy of
Speaker 1: Dating for Dummies at the bookstore, because clearly I don't
Speaker 1: know the rules of dating. I'm so sorry. Yeah, currently
Speaker 1: not like that was just extremely rude. Like it's extremely
Speaker 1: rude that he didn't pay for your shoes. There's actually
Speaker 1: some women who would think could be extremely rude if
Speaker 1: he insisted on pain, Like I don't need you to
Speaker 1: pay for my things. I am a successful woman with
Speaker 1: my own job, and I could pay for my own damn. Shoot,
Speaker 1: um no, that makes no sense. I'm not asking for
Speaker 1: a lot. I'm just asking for you to act with
Speaker 1: a gentleman like. That's it. I'm so sorry. This just
Speaker 1: has never happened to me before. I've never been in
Speaker 1: this situation. I just really didn't know how to handle it,
Speaker 1: so I don't really know what more to say. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe you just haven't been on a date with girls
Speaker 1: like me before, like quality women's Like I don't know
Speaker 1: what kind of like crash bags you're normally eating over
Speaker 1: like that kind of treatment. But I'm certainly not going
Speaker 1: to right. Oh god, Connor, is that very okay with you?
Speaker 1: All this? Like you're still attracted to Kate? I mean,
Speaker 1: I do feel bad. I feel like I ruined her night. Um.
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, Kate. I was totally out of line,
Speaker 1: and I promise I will keep an eye out for
Speaker 1: exactly what you need. I just want to see you again.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really know what else to say
Speaker 1: to you at this point unless you're gonna like reimburse
Speaker 1: me for the shoes, don't you dare? Connor? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I mean if you want me to, I totally will
Speaker 1: you will. How much did these shoes cost? By the way, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm lucky for you. There's some my cheap ones. They
Speaker 1: were like to twenty or something like that. Oh my god, twenty.
Speaker 1: If you're going to continue this, I hope you have
Speaker 1: a big bank account. Connor, are you willing to drop
Speaker 1: two hundred twenty dollars to reimburse her for those shoes
Speaker 1: that she paid for to go on another date? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Of course, I had a great time and to twenty is. Look,
Speaker 1: it's worthy investment. All right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Connor again on
Speaker 1: a second date? We will pay for the meal. He'll
Speaker 1: buy new shoes. I suppose. Wait, let me just skip
Speaker 1: this out there. I'm not just doing this because I
Speaker 1: think it's the right thing to do. I genuinely like you.
Speaker 1: I had a great time with you, and money isn't everything,
Speaker 1: and I'd rather spend the money and see you again
Speaker 1: than I'm not. Okay, are you going to actually behave
Speaker 1: like a gentleman this time? Yeah? Like I would be
Speaker 1: willing to go out with you one more time, but like, seriously,
Speaker 1: if you mess up at all, like that's it, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, and you just wait on your date. Her
Speaker 1: designer bag is gonna break, and oh my god, suddenly
Speaker 1: I need to get at five first. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that my dad did break. He better be
Speaker 1: ready to replace. A promise is a promise. Whatever you need,
Speaker 1: My credit card is ready. All right, You'll go out
Speaker 1: with Connor again as long as he doesn't make any
Speaker 1: mistakes because you have a zero tarlerance policy. Connor, You're
Speaker 1: willing to pay for whatever Kate needs during your date. Okay,
Speaker 1: well all right, sounds like a real love story. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you might want to have to pay for dinner Connor too,
Speaker 1: because all we have at the radio station or like
Speaker 1: gift cards to chain restaurants, and I don't think Kate's
Speaker 1: gonna want to eat it. Jul in the morning text
Speaker 1: message in at seven eight five to nine two just
Speaker 1: says Connor is doomed, and I think I agree. Talking
Speaker 1: about today's second eight update. If you missed it, this
Speaker 1: dude Connor took a girl named Kate out on a date.
Speaker 1: They went to a few bars, said there was an
Speaker 1: awkward moment when her shoe broke, and he laughed and
Speaker 1: thought it was funny. She didn't think it was that funny,
Speaker 1: but they had to get a new shoe because her
Speaker 1: high heel broke. And the reason that she wasn't calling
Speaker 1: back was because he didn't offer to pay for the
Speaker 1: shoe wow and buy her a new pair of shoes
Speaker 1: because technically it was on the date so it's a
Speaker 1: dating expense. Hey, but he was up for it, man,
Speaker 1: He's like, I'll pay for anything. And someone else texted in,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure her car's going to break down on
Speaker 1: the second date. Yeah yeah, we all thought it was
Speaker 1: pretty unreasonable, but Connor totally understood and said that, you
Speaker 1: know what, if she went out with him again, he
Speaker 1: would refund the money for the share and then also
Speaker 1: take care of whatever expense has happened on their second date.
Speaker 1: So they're gonna go out again, and it sounds like
Speaker 1: he's going to be in debt. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day up date, I have to
Speaker 1: do his email the show, and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back