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Speaker 1: Second dat up date. The most successful dating site isn't Tender.

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Speaker 1: It isn't Plenty of Fists dot com, even though that's

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Speaker 1: a really good one. But it's actually Instagram. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people meet on Instagram, and apparently that's how Connor,

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Speaker 1: who's on the phone for a second at update today,

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Speaker 1: met the girl that he wants to call. What's up, Connor?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Guys? You decided to go with Instagram?

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Speaker 1: Said a plenty of Fists? Huh? Yeah, yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: Instagram is the is like the new Tender. Basically, I

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Speaker 1: don't think you heard what he said. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: think a lot of people did. Yeah. Um, what's the

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Speaker 1: girl's name you want to call today? Her name is Kate.

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Speaker 1: Kate all right? And how did you meet Kate on Instagram? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, as as it usually goes, you know, you

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Speaker 1: kind of rusing around on the Gram and you see

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Speaker 1: attractive women and she caught my eye, so I started

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Speaker 1: following her. She's absolutely gorgeous and one day, um, she

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Speaker 1: posted this, Really you need to check it out for yourself.

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Speaker 1: It's like really phenomenal picture. It's a boudoir picture and

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Speaker 1: it's it's stunning, Okay, studying, send it along. So are

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Speaker 1: you one of the creeps that commented on it and

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Speaker 1: like tagged your bro in it, like and not even

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Speaker 1: an in description, just tagged your bro in her picture.

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're posting photos for you to look at,

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Speaker 1: so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened

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Speaker 1: was there was a woman who commented on it. And

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Speaker 1: I had no idea who this woman was, and she

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Speaker 1: had said, you look like a tramp in this photo. Um,

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Speaker 1: it's absolutely disgusting. And you know, now there you post

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Speaker 1: I know right, So you came to her defense. Were

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Speaker 1: you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it,

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Speaker 1: just don't follow her. Simple as that. Oh damn big comeback?

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Speaker 1: That was? That was I guess that was my knight

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Speaker 1: in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had reached out to

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Speaker 1: me and she thanked me. Oh nice? Is that when

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Speaker 1: you asked her out on a date? Yep? That's when

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Speaker 1: I made some moves. All right? Okay? And what was

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Speaker 1: It was? It was great. I mean, she looked the

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Speaker 1: that boudoir picture that she posted, you know, she had

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Speaker 1: What I mean, did you guys connect? Would you talk

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Speaker 1: about Yeah? No, she was really cool. We talked about

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Speaker 1: what she did for a living. We talked about Instagram

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Speaker 1: causing problems in society, but there's also benefits to it

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Speaker 1: like this, And who would have ever thought? I mean, truly,

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Speaker 1: I think Instagram is a way to meet people, whether

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Speaker 1: You know? For sure? So you thought of her as

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Speaker 1: She was gorgeous, she was cool. She hasn't returned any

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Speaker 1: and then call her and get your second date update.

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Speaker 1: second right in the middle of a second day update,

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Speaker 1: They went out to a bar, hung out. He says

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Speaker 1: a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, yeah, Connor went out

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Speaker 1: the trade? Yeah? Right now? Yeah, no, But I guess

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Speaker 1: a dollar fun him right now? Here we go, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Kate? Yes? Here says hey Kate, how

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Um, okay, are you familiar with the show?

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Speaker 1: Kind though? Kind of familiar is what we go for.

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Speaker 1: So that's good. Well I'm calling today because actually one

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Speaker 1: hot on Instagram. Yeah okay, okay, so he's anybody follow

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Speaker 1: We don't want to just promote your Instagram. This dude

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Speaker 1: I thought he's going to be like a nice guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he seems like a gentleman, and that we went out

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Speaker 1: one time and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No,

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Speaker 1: how do you know about that? Well, because we talked

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Speaker 1: to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so did he tell you about how I like broke

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like

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Speaker 1: we went to go get new shoes because like, obviously

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Speaker 1: I can't walk around like that. So we're at the

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Speaker 1: what's the hint? Though, I don't get what your hint

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Speaker 1: was hint to what? Well, like I keep mentioning like

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Speaker 1: You guys don't like how do you not get it?

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Speaker 1: What I don't? You're in a shoe store and what

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Speaker 1: you like your shoes. What I'm saying is my shoe

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Speaker 1: it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes. What Why

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Speaker 1: would that be his responsibility? Did he break your shoe?

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Speaker 1: It's not like he physically broke it, but it's kind

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Speaker 1: like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay, think about

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Speaker 1: Kate and wanted to talk to you. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it's worthy investment. All right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate,

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Speaker 1: dude Connor took a girl named Kate out on a date.

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