WEBVTT - Ep 290: Not Brain Damage From A Cheater 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:09.880 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision. Hey, guys, 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:16.000 welcome to yet another episode of Horrible The cisy on 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:20.480 I'm your girl, Mandy b a K A Peg, The 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:23.880 Stallion a K A peg and Marco a K A Dad, 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:28.280 motherfucker beach. What's the girl got? It said? I'm hot, 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:33.520 so you will is giving quiet storm mix Beflorida as 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:37.479 someone who's the accent do her you love? That wasn't accent? 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.320 I know, says someone who's the actors accent door every 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:41.960 single day I come in here on well because with 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:44.519 my American asked Florida asked accent. I would love to 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:46.960 like narrate something like I'd be so jealous of the 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:51.040 nigga that narrate first forty eight and then you have 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:54.080 forty eight hours to solve what crime. Otherwise it goes 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:57.280 and it's English. You know what I mean. It's English. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.840 It's straight, no accident. I might put little Florida twaying 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:02.480 on it, but I'd be jealous of the nigga who 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:05.759 narrate first four years playing well, speaking of Florida, I 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:09.720 am too from that God for taking place is easy, 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:13.839 you know, Hey, welcome should have been from Florida. Actually 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:17.560 it births the dumbest niggas. It should have been from there, 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:23.200 both from there. That's not true. And I ain't gonna 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:27.240 hold you fall y'all watching Kanye is actually from Chicago, 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:31.280 and Chicago and Detroit birth some of the best tricks, 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.080 the most generous men. You would think they were from Nigeria. 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:40.520 Them two motherfucking cities have some good as think from Nia. 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:44.640 Don't don't do this edit. We're not gonna start this 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:51.120 ship off Lego Illinois. Um, y'all. We had a we 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:53.720 have solely a solo episode because Mandy foundy guests that 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:56.120 wanted to charge. Oh bitch, let me go ahead and 0:01:56.120 --> 0:02:00.280 talk about that real quick. So we he had a 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:01.760 guest I was supposed to come on. I would not 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.520 give him the name because at this point you did 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:07.280 not get he can't get credit off our show. Rico 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:10.400 Hondo charges people to be their podcast guest. There we 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.280 go and I don't know why he's a part of 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:15.040 a show that's not really a podcast but more of 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:18.880 a a YouTube thing. And we sat and he was 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.880 I was like, you know, you should come on similar content. 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:23.600 Not really, they're a little bit more ignorant on the 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:26.200 platform that he's on, and he was like, yeah, let's 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.560 do it. So he confirmed what two or three weeks ago, 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.480 where did you find this guest? Uh, he's a friend 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:37.600 of a friend. Met him at a dinner party. Um, 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:39.880 and I had already always just been like, I don't 0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:41.560 really like what he says, so I thought it would 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.679 make for great content. It would probably boost his social 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:49.480 visibility to be on our show, of course, and on 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.640 the like, literally five days before we recorded today, I 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.040 was like, hey, can I get your email just so 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:57.240 I could send you the time, the location, let us 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.119 know if you have any questions or if anything arises. 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.280 He was like, yeah, here's my email. Oh we didn't 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:06.720 talk my rate. And I said you're right. I said, 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:09.519 you're right, You're right for what to come on our podcast. 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.720 And I was just like, okay, I wanted to talk 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.520 a little bit to the creatives. I wanted to talk 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:17.320 to people who were coming too, and I actually like Savan. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.760 But remember he did that to Brianda, and I think 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.400 that charging is a very weird thing. I mean, eventually 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:24.720 she went on. I think they talked about it, but 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:27.000 I was gonna say, did here's the thing too, though 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:31.720 he's coming on as a guest for a personality at 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:35.760 the time, was she specifically going on? Because I do 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:42.920 want to break down we have gotten hit up by 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:48.680 the likes of a Doc Johnson above other corporations, companies 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.320 who wanted to come on and specifically do a whole 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:55.240 episode where we talked about their products, their content. We've 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:58.600 had authors only want to come on to promote their books. 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:01.240 So when we've gotten emails for guests to come on 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:05.640 to promote things that they were doing, we were like, well, 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.360 you can sponsor this episode if this is the narrative 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:12.840 that you want to do. I think that I think books, music, 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:17.560 movie products, TV products is something different to me and 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.560 I actually we let people come on and talk about 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:24.520 their products. But when we reason, I'm saying, when like 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:28.440 and when a company wants to come and promote um 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.880 to me, the point in podcasting, especially when you're at 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:33.760 the point where I mean, right, we've been doing it 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:35.920 for years and we have a lot of audio listens to, 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:40.120 which is generally the audience that purchases right, right, I 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.680 don't think it's fair to charge just the girl that 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.400 made a new pussy steam thing, you know, what I'm saying, like, agreed, 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.000 we're black girls that fucking started podcast. We promote our ship, 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.280 like I think it's only fair to cross promote. When 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:55.120 a major company that does pay for advertisement wants to 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.480 come on, that's when I'm like, hell no, that dating 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.640 app I used to even featured and sex cells and 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:03.760 might save the email for them to come on. I'm like, yeah, 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.839 you already did this, Like you should not be doing 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.080 a podcast. We don't want to interview a CEO about 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:11.720 starting a dating app. I don't care. Yeah, ask dating app, 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:21.440 No City Girls, Freddy Gibbs, Cleopatra, I'm sorry, Bro, Timmy UM. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:25.159 A lot of the celebrities UM or influencers that would 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.880 Carty hit us the timing just didn't want Carty wasn't 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:29.840 going to charge us to even come on the pods. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:33.240 So like the fact that he hit me up like well, 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:34.960 here's my rate, I was like, you know what, why 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.640 would Cardi charge to go on a podcast? We're good, 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:42.160 that's good, but we're good. But that's where it's just like, also, 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:47.520 this isn't like a pod with a hundred listens, Like 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:51.320 you're getting equity and some sort of benefit from coming 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:53.640 on the show. Everyone who has been on this show 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.680 has sent us thanks, have invited us to things, and 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:03.039 they're shown gratitude because uh them coming on the show 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:09.160 has either exalted or or uplifted or grown their personal brand, 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:12.240 whatever products they had, whatever services they had, whether it 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:14.240 be in the sex space, whether it be something. Let 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:16.440 me be clear too, because I'm sure he's thinking this 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.359 or anyone's thinking this. Hey, that the table is a 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:21.160 big not bigger than us. They're not biggeran us, but 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.520 they're a big like clickbait brand right social. But although 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.000 he gets paid his talent, he doesn't own I P 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:26.880 and that he has a town. Well no, no, hear me. 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:31.240 I think that people think when you're seeing clips of 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.040 maybe let's just say a hundred thousand people or a 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.800 million people watched the clip. You know, we've been doing 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.960 this so long because there is a turnover rate. I 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.719 don't know, if you know a lot of people, they 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:44.000 get millions of views, just like we knew from going 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:46.560 to the roots. Picnic can draw out crowds or do 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:49.640 live shore or do fucking movie live tours, or do 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.760 movies and TV and ship like that. Like there is 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:55.680 a different level to one longevity and to having an 0:06:55.680 --> 0:07:00.640 actual cult like following. So I think that sometimes people 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:04.000 get shipped fucked up. Our fans are very dedicated, which 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.719 is why they'll call out an episode about the City Girls, 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.120 because they're like, we come to this show for real 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:12.560 sex talk, right, And I think people probably get that 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:17.400 inflated with like social TikTok that era of like there's 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.920 just we're on content overload, and so people think those 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:24.040 numbers me and something, and in actuality they kind of don't. Right. 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:27.000 You've got to have people in the game who have 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:29.120 been doing this. We are able to host an interview 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.840 in order to turn money. But that TikTok ship, it 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:34.960 really doesn't mean ship. And that's exactly why you know, 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.400 I have, um some podcasters that will come in here 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:39.960 and ask, like, I got a person coming on that's 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.920 got five million followers. That doesn't necessarily mean that you're 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.640 gonna have five million people listen to their show, especially 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:50.240 um in terms of how it translates to audio. And 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:55.600 while someone may have five thousand or five million followers 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:59.200 for their skits on their social media, doesn't mean anyone 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.640 wants to hear them the interview setting. Right. It's the 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.720 same with um celebrities that are now starting these podcasts, 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:07.920 and all these networks think, oh, let's get a big 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.080 name and it's gonna be a hit off the park. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.880 You know, just because people like this person's music doesn't 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:14.600 mean they want to hear them talk. Doesn't mean they 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.640 want to hear their opinion on things. And we started 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:21.320 this guddamn podcast off with motherfucking Kanye, and y'all know, 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.680 I don't really like her, but yes, Amanda Steals at 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:25.520 a point, y'all are still leaning on it ow a 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:30.640 and and whatever the funk else he had uh graduation 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:34.520 and and whatever the funk else for Kanye where it's 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:40.040 just like, nah, even for what he's transcended in that space, 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.320 it doesn't necessarily mean people want to hear him talk. 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.240 And guess what, now we're hearing him talking. We want 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.280 him to shut the funk up. We don't want him 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:48.360 to wear a TA, we don't even want him to close. 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:51.080 At this point, he annoys us with everything he fucking does. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:56.040 And so in terms of podcasting, you guys really like, 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.200 I don't know, this whole ship didn't change a little bit. 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.240 I didn't have a whole meeting today to the whole 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.400 landscape is changing. But y'all thinking that you have the 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:06.480 wherewithal to charge people to be guests on podcasts if 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.840 you are an upcoming podcast, we then and I have 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.160 never charged for any smaller podcast to be guests on. 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:14.600 We have never given a rate to any guests who 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.440 have come on our pod to be a part of 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.920 our pod. You had someone ask you how much? Like 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.360 I've had people asked me that, and I'm always like 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.360 I would. I feel like, hey, how much is it? 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:25.199 You know, if you want to come on my podcasts, 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:26.520 we want you to come on. We're gonna have you 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.079 come on if we don't know, no, no, I mean 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:31.120 when people ask me to be a guest, I've definitely 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:32.960 had ship. Even when Fresh and Fit hit me up 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:34.880 a minute ago, They're like, okay, we'll do flight this 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.000 and that. I was like, well that's to get you there. 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.960 I've offered for sure, depending on the guests Uber rides, Yeah, 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.480 especially if they're not from New York. Okay, but I 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:45.480 make sure your cars and I ain't gonna hold you. 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.000 That's more so, so need to show up all time. 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.840 I'll be like, well, I'll get your car service. Like no, worries. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.800 It's it maybe four or fifty dollars if they're coming 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.680 from the city to come to us. So we have 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:59.400 offered car rides to people. But that's for me to 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:02.559 make sure you on show. But here's also why a 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.800 CARDI B wouldn't be charging right or and who we 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:09.319 didn't ask for. Uh, it's because this is a new 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.720 form of press. Like it is, we're like radio radio. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:16.760 I mean, it's better than radio because you have a 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.400 place to actually sink and listen and you get something wrong. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:23.800 One of the podcasts we're making at my job. Um, literally, 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:26.360 I asked the dude, like, do you want to be 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.720 laughed up? Like can I am athlete vibe? Or do 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:30.840 you want Mike's in front of your face? And he's like, nah, 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:33.040 Like I can't. I want the Mike in my face. 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:35.400 I want the real podcast field. I don't want to 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:37.559 like turn it into you know, Karsia Please is a 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:41.120 YouTube show. But I mean, and while it's great interviews, 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.000 I'm just saying like, it's almost like people are just 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:46.240 calling it a podcast because they know that they're popular, 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.559 and I want to also because they're they're on all 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:54.280 podcast feeds. That's the thing too, like you can call 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:58.120 yourself a podcast when you're available. We're all podcasts lit 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:01.160 and they specifically also have the audio to where at 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:04.640 least it's great to hear audibly. So Revolt actually is 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:06.480 doing a good job where maybe we see it more 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.400 than YouTube show because we want to watch it and 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:11.480 it's shot beautifully like an iron athlete. At least they 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:16.400 pay attention to audio. Um. As far as Presco's uh, 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.480 I think that, you know, people have to understand pr 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:24.520 agents have like literally been out reaching for podcasts because 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.120 it is the place to go. Whereas magazines and different 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:31.040 things and articles are sure cool, more visibility comes from podcasting, 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.520 and we are in a whole new era where if 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:37.400 anyone's listening, that's a podcaster. Like your ship is really 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.520 the key to people getting their ship out there. So 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.959 never feel like for a moment when you reach out, 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.560 even if it's me, reach out to someone that you 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.240 want to be on your podcast, like you're inconveniencing them. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.080 People should be grateful to be on any platform, you know, 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:52.640 I really think that sometimes we get to up our 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.280 own asks with ship um and if you broke just 0:11:55.320 --> 0:12:00.319 say it, why else are you asking me compensate to 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:05.040 go on a platform that can possibly indirectly bring you 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.360 more visit, that could lead to more deals, that could 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:11.240 lead to more monetization you wanted. I don't know what 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:12.640 what then is right is because as soon as he 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:17.040 said we didn't discuss rights, I said, Blessed, Beloved, no worries. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:20.680 Maybe he just we're fine, We're fine, We're fine, don't 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:25.719 even worry about it, blessed under his eye, under his eye, 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:30.839 nigga funk out of here before. Also, and I do 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:32.760 know people pay to be on Joe Rogan. He's the 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:37.040 number one fucking podcasts like I Gotta Eat. There's a 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.680 there's a price that he charged for people. But he 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:42.640 also drops four pieces of content a week. But you 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:45.079 could like it's like fifteen or something like that. It's 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:51.400 it's something, it's something kind of crazy. Yeah, okay, But 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.720 maybe that's the way he monetizes how we got Patrear. 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.000 Maybe that's how he monetizes outside of that Spotify deal, 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.280 you know what I mean? Like the way Black Effect 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.480 allows us to tour, allows us to do marchalized. If 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:04.440 you know somebody on Black Charge and I want to 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:08.400 know Beach oh, I don't know. I don't know. I 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:11.120 don't know if any want black effect is charging Oh not. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:14.080 I think it's the white it's very low brow. I 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.960 think it's just the white. The whites have that. I mean, 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.120 the views that the whites are getting are out of 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:22.280 this world. So maybe that's why, like you know, to me, 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:25.360 if you have a company or a business, that's a 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:28.520 part of your marketing budget. About the Spotify dinner that 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:31.120 we were supposed to go to, like, so it was 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:34.200 really nice. Um, Mandy and I got an email. It 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.520 was in l A, so she wasn't there at the time. Um, 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:38.559 but there was just like Spotify dinner and it was 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:41.000 like all their top podcasters And when I walked in, 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:44.320 I saw a black girl and I just naturally went 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:46.079 to go speak to her. And of course it was 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:49.880 the person who invited us. Uh. But it was a 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:53.280 really nice event. And um, I was the only black 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:56.040 podcaster there. There was a black Asian podcast. I guess 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:59.760 they count, but um, it was nuts, bro because when 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:02.680 I was in the room, you know, we're just really 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.240 like in a different world. People almost didn't believe my 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:08.600 numbers because they've never heard of me. But like white 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:12.880 black shit really be separated, you know, And it's like 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:16.719 crazy because to be honest, I don't sucking me either. 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:20.200 Keep I don't talk to white people. I mean I 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.680 don't listen to you know, I don't do much with 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:24.840 white people, but I do like to make money with them. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:27.000 So you have checks for me, please bring it that away. 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:31.080 But it's like the time I go to another episode 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:35.440 at my ears, they but I mean, white people are 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:37.200 in the majority of this country, right, Okay, they hey 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.560 listening to us and the inn word, they'd like, you 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.640 don't like they don't believe me and not gonna stop. 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:48.760 We don't. But I didn't realize how big white podcasters 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.240 are until they started going to the studio and I 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:55.440 was like it, did you know, dear media, Like they've 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:58.800 got so many white podcasts, right, and so like you know, 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:00.520 like one of the engineers gon like, hey, have you 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:02.720 heard that? And I'm like no, And who was it 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:04.600 you said? Kanye was on being here with one of 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:08.920 the girls. Oh, Tiana, there's some podcaster in here who 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:12.080 has relationship with Kanye's about to interview him. And I'm good, 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:13.840 it doesn't I never had this bitch of my life. 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.560 How what white and of course he would have been 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:20.960 on that one. But like the the access by Lives Matter, 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:26.520 like literally it was there is a whole another world 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.200 of podcasting that we don't know about. And it's funny because, 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:31.280 like Loki, I'm in this bubble and I feel like 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:33.160 I will live and thrive in this bubble forever and 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.080 I don't mind it. Like, you know, when I was 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:38.640 at the Spotify dinner, I remember saying, which is ironic 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:40.880 because Joe Budden was the first podcast to launch, which 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.760 is a black podcast considerably, but you know, I was 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:45.760 sitting there and they were like kind of digging and 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:47.400 know who I was with them bla blah blah, and 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:51.720 I'm like lack effect, like literally the network that came 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:56.120 with a decent bag because y'all weren't like you were. 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:58.320 I wasn't on your radar, right. The fact that there 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:01.360 were other podcasters there's with maybe likeent of the views 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:05.000 we have in deals. It's just interesting because literally fashion 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.440 bloggers were a girl that's like talking about travel, and 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:12.440 with no audience, they'll develop talent, you know, And I 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:16.600 don't even know if it's Spotify's fault more than that's 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:18.440 already their demos so maybe they need to feed it 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.760 like it's weird, and it's really just when you need 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:22.240 to have more black people in the room at the 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.080 end of the day, Like that's literally what it is, 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.320 because how will they ever know about horrible decisions unless 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:30.520 that happens, you know what I'm saying. I think we've 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.880 got to make sure we are applying for them jobs 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:37.840 and be the diversity, not be the token. Well, speaking 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:40.280 of be the token, um, we're gonna get into our 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:45.400 vanilla ship that does stem from a white woman. Um. However, 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:49.040 I did some further research and it's quite interesting. So 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.760 a couple of weeks ago, you guys may have seen 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:58.760 Chloe that the kardashian Um trending because she decided to 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.440 let everyone know um in her attempt to make this 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:06.040 black man because you know, black men don't cheat, y'all right. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:10.399 By the way, sorry, just hate the narrative that she's 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.760 just trying to demise of this black man, as if 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:17.960 this man did not fully show his ass and embarrass her. Yes, oh, bro, 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.560 multiple occasion, the fact that I got a side with 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:25.040 a white woman. It's bad. It's bad. Why are you 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:27.960 making a side with the whites anyway? But we should 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:31.760 remind them why so, like Tristan has already had a 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.879 woman pregnant when Chloe they met out a wedding. Yes, 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:40.000 when Chloe took Jordan's took took him from a black woman. 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:43.840 What do you need Jordan's Jordan is the first baby, mama. 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:47.240 Oh sorry, Jordan is the first baby, not not the 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:51.160 other Jordan that he also uh flirted with. That was Kylie's. Okay, 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:54.760 that's it confused, It's too Jordan's, bitch, Nikka, just Michael Jordan, Jordan. 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.600 I don't know nigga like Jordan's. You know, maybe he 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:00.480 wear him on a speed to once tools twenty is whatever. 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:03.439 The whole line, how hard did the Jordan's go up? 0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:09.679 Because he prob that's how much she likes Jordan's because 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:15.200 nobody wears those. Um But basically, Chloe went to UM. 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:19.119 On the most recent season of The Kardashians, which is 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:25.160 on Hulu. UM, she shares that she uh Tristan cheating 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:30.040 calls her brain trauma. She goes as far as to 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:32.800 say she she has medical Oh that's why I brought 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.680 it up, bitch. That's why I brought it up because 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:38.439 I did the further research because I was like, not 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:41.720 you storing me. So Chlorie Kardashian was torn up over 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:46.480 uh Tristan Thompson's cheating scandal, but has medical proof that 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:50.119 it has messed with her brain. Dr Daniel Amen was 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:53.159 that be ready for was at the ready for a 0:18:53.200 --> 0:18:56.360 scientific stunt for the Kardashians Hulu show to show there's 0:18:56.400 --> 0:19:00.800 medical proof she was experiencing brain trauma, presumably from the scandal. 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:03.400 I did further research, um, and I want to pull 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:08.239 this up. This is from medium dot com um and 0:19:08.280 --> 0:19:13.080 it links actually back to another article. I don't know 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:16.880 who wrote article, but basically it is science says this 0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:19.320 is what cheating does to your brain. And I wanted 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:23.359 to bring up because clearly Uh Wheezy has said that 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.880 old Bay is debt to her, but in what you've 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:28.000 been feeling, even and not even wanting to be friends 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:32.520 with him, cheating pushes your brain into PTSD territory. So 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:37.199 well taught them. So infidelity can unmask pre existing or 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:40.280 non existing problems that have been masked by the relationships, 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:46.480 continued presence justice with PTSD. Cheating contrigger can trigger symptoms 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:50.320 that linger in your life, flashbacks, nightmares, and obsessive thoughts 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:54.400 about the situation are some of the most frequent systems. Uh, 0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:59.280 frequent symptoms. I'm sorry. UM. It says that a study 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:01.960 here we go, this is an opinion based. It's study based, 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:07.520 which is scientifical hypothesis. I don't, um so the study involved. 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:12.199 The study did involve nearly sixty four thousand. This is 0:20:12.240 --> 0:20:15.800 the subject pool men and women of all sexual identities. 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:22.400 Um and pretty much it said, hold on because here 0:20:22.400 --> 0:20:27.720 we go. Consistent with this evolutionary perspective, heterosexual men were 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:31.639 more likely than heterosexual women to be upset by sexual infidelity, 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:35.520 which we know because men have an issue with egos um. 0:20:35.640 --> 0:20:39.720 It also says that it could lead to anxiety, loss 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:42.480 of sleep. Um, hold on, let me. There's like a 0:20:42.520 --> 0:20:45.440 whole list of where it literally affects, like your whole thing. 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:50.199 It also takes away from brain carnage. Cheating is not 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:53.119 just an emotional fair it's a physical one. When you cheat, 0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:56.480 your brain actually lights up in the same regions as 0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.560 when you feel physical pain. The woman who has cheated 0:20:59.600 --> 0:21:03.600 on can sometimes leave the experience with higher mating intelligence, 0:21:04.000 --> 0:21:07.280 which led to you experiencing the trauma of not further 0:21:07.359 --> 0:21:10.760 trusting someone not wanting to be an intimate relationship because 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:16.280 it completely triggers all of those physical aspects. And um, 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:20.760 it also just says it completely affect the brain. There 0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:24.280 we got and where you were even trying to hold 0:21:24.680 --> 0:21:30.359 up platonic relationship. Maybe you didn't know what abuse he 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:35.000 had put in terms of his cheating led to your brain. Signally, 0:21:35.480 --> 0:21:38.680 here's the thing, Like I dated and a good person 0:21:38.800 --> 0:21:42.920 that has a sex addiction, basically right, like old Bay 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:46.560 was not someone to yell get angry. He wasn't really 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.960 even insecure like that. He makes little comments when he 0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:51.040 knew my type walked around the spot, but like he 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:54.040 was a decent boyfriend except for the fact that he 0:21:54.119 --> 0:22:00.520 liked to funk any white person that walked I. UM, 0:22:00.560 --> 0:22:03.760 I think the you know, the brain thing was like 0:22:04.000 --> 0:22:06.720 it was funny to read at first, but at the 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:10.160