Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
Speaker 2: who talks.
Speaker 3: What's up, y'all?
Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode if
Speaker 1: We Talked Back, the show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.
Speaker 1: This is your co host, AJ Holiday. What's up tam Bam?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Hell, let's be tam Vam. I love y'all. What's up? AJ?
Speaker 2: How you doing?
Speaker 1: We up? We wake you woke?
Speaker 3: Amen? Amen?
Speaker 1: Thank you god?
Speaker 3: Okay, period, how was your weekend?
Speaker 1: It was eventful. I was hanging out with Tam Bam
Speaker 1: this weekend. Child. We uh, we did some much needing,
Speaker 1: catching up on visuals. I want y'all to know how
Speaker 1: expensive it is, Okay. I see the comments on YouTube
Speaker 1: saying we want to see y'all go price some of
Speaker 1: this ship. Go see how much or send us some
Speaker 1: money exactly out your fucking pocket. Yeah, it's expensive, but anyway,
Speaker 1: we got it done and we'll try to produce more
Speaker 1: visuals going forward for y'all. Okay, so y'all can see us,
Speaker 1: We'll just be running out of fucking clothes and shit.
Speaker 3: I'm about to start recirculating some of that shit. I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna.
Speaker 1: I just betch I order a Budet shit out fashion Over,
Speaker 1: and it'd be throwaway clothes. So it just be like
Speaker 1: I hate burn clothes to throw away, though, Like I
Speaker 1: just like even quality to where I can just re
Speaker 1: wear it. Sometimes I put cotton right into on fashion
Speaker 1: Over so I can get one hundred percent. Because most
Speaker 1: of that shit is polyester. It's gonna come apart, so
Speaker 1: I try. Anyway, did you order that body that body
Speaker 1: dress I sent you?
Speaker 3: You didn't send me the link?
Speaker 1: It's back up to twenty nine ninety nine on Amazon.
Speaker 1: I'm like, god, damn, I meant to order two more. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was cute and a couple of different colors. Now
Speaker 1: and the price don't went up. Price don't want today's
Speaker 1: price is not today's What else we did this weekend? Tam,
Speaker 1: We recorded, We got We went to dinner and got drunk. Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't get drunk, y'all. I don't be drinking like
Speaker 1: that no more.
Speaker 3: For real, I was fucked up. I took like six
Speaker 3: shots of Don Julia.
Speaker 1: Maybe every time I hear people say I'm fasten off
Speaker 1: liquor for a month, and so I'm like, y'all drink
Speaker 1: that much to where you just gotta not drink.
Speaker 3: I guess I don't. I don't drink.
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm a social drinker. I don't drink at home, right,
Speaker 1: and I really don't socialize that much.
Speaker 3: So when I do, I do.
Speaker 1: I keep wine at the house, though, but I don't
Speaker 1: drink it. Like I just been a bottle of wine
Speaker 1: last night because I just wanted to get freaky, so
Speaker 1: I drunk a little bit of wine. Is that life, though,
Speaker 1: Like when you get older and cohabitating and shit like that. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know that I can have sex sober, like
Speaker 1: completely sober. Try tonight now that I think about it.
Speaker 1: I haven't had like good sober sex in a long time.
Speaker 1: It's like the weed go with it, the wine go
Speaker 1: with it, like the dick come with drugs, not the
Speaker 1: dick come with when's the last time you had sober sex?
Speaker 1: Like completely? Because you smoke smoke, I only smoke. What
Speaker 1: I'm going to say, Hey, I don't know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. I only smoke when I know I'm about
Speaker 1: to have sex. Okay, that's the.
Speaker 2: Only time I really wanted to hate.
Speaker 3: I'm a paul that you would say such.
Speaker 1: Unless shrew me. Okay, that's I do that by myself
Speaker 1: once in a blue when there's nothing to do and
Speaker 1: the tchi gets too thick for my soulful mind to
Speaker 1: cut through, he said. But I don't know.
Speaker 3: Come on, bro, I don't know that it's j Z
Speaker 3: feeling it.
Speaker 1: Oh that's that shit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I typically do the same, but it's not to have sex.
Speaker 1: It's just I'm already happen to be high and the
Speaker 1: sex is gonna happen. That's what I'm saying. So when
Speaker 1: is the last time you actually had intercourse without being
Speaker 1: under the influence of anything. Well, you know, I've been
Speaker 1: celibate until Marrow, like around my birthday, so I can't
Speaker 1: remember anything in twenty twenty three, that's what you're asking.
Speaker 3: It's too far back, so.
Speaker 1: Yo, control all delete period. Let's get it a stupid news, Okay.
Speaker 1: I wanted to start with this. I saw this on
Speaker 1: the Daily Mail. Destiny's Child star LaToya Luckett's second ex
Speaker 1: husband shaved her after she marries for the third time
Speaker 1: of eight years. So, uh, tamikus, I guess that's how
Speaker 1: you say his name Walker. He posted to his social
Speaker 1: media a picture of Tom Brady wearing three Super Bowl
Speaker 1: rings and he said three and seven years that that dynasty.
Speaker 1: And he shared this with his one hundred and sixty
Speaker 1: eight thousand followers to see, and the fans were quick
Speaker 1: to defend the LaToya Luckett who with t Laya Coles. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they just got married recently on the twenty seventh of July.
Speaker 1: And someone said, obviously she's surprised all three of y'all
Speaker 1: popped the question take the ail my boy period.
Speaker 3: That's how I feel, Corns, Why are you? Why are
Speaker 3: you hating?
Speaker 1: And obviously he's still single because if you weren't a relationship,
Speaker 1: like you can post that, your woman wouldn't feel like
Speaker 1: okay with you posting about your ex being married again.
Speaker 1: And I mean like maybe she wanted some Mariah Gary shit.
Speaker 1: If she's gonna pop that pussy Betty for her husband,
Speaker 1: who knows, But why is that your business? Why are
Speaker 1: you still bothered? He's not okay with them breaking up.
Speaker 1: He's still hurt and you're the reason why they broke up. Okay,
Speaker 1: he was cheating, so yeah, he was cheating and doing
Speaker 1: all types of wild ship to her. She's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 1: She looked beautiful for her third wedding, okay than the
Speaker 1: first in the second. Yes, girl, keep getting married. You're
Speaker 1: looking better every time. You know what I'm saying, Because
Speaker 1: we do glow up outside of bad relationships every time.
Speaker 1: So I don't have a problem with LaToya Lucket marrying
Speaker 1: five different men, ten different men. How many ever times
Speaker 1: over do it?
Speaker 3: Write a book for us, because I ain't. I ain't
Speaker 3: here one proposal, not to one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm happy for her, Like how many ever times
Speaker 1: you have to do it? Do it? Shit, fuck it.
Speaker 1: That's what Look, that's what the process is for. That's
Speaker 1: why divorce is available. It's not working on to the
Speaker 1: next one. But I do hope that this one works
Speaker 1: for her though. I hope this one is her for
Speaker 1: ever partner. So is this the third marriage or the
Speaker 1: fourth marriage?
Speaker 3: This is the third?
Speaker 1: Like one was young one midlife, kind of middle well
Speaker 1: not even middle thirties away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thirties, and he wasn't acting right and now.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and they look very happy, nice looking couple.
Speaker 1: I'm happy for them. Oh, Tomacus, whatever your name is,
Speaker 1: you're a hater boom. So apparently Lo Wayne his his
Speaker 1: notebook is on sale. His like rap notebook from the
Speaker 1: nineties is on sale for five million dollars after legal
Speaker 1: saga which I'm just so confused about this. It says
Speaker 1: the rapper's old lyric book notebook from the nineties is
Speaker 1: now officially on the market. The sale comes after a
Speaker 1: dragged out legal dispute over its ownership, which was finally
Speaker 1: resolved earlier this year. Initially listed for two and fifty
Speaker 1: thousand dollars five years ago, the price is now shot
Speaker 1: up to five million due to the rarity and significance
Speaker 1: of the notebook. It said that low Wayne is considered
Speaker 1: to be one of the greatest rappers of all time.
Speaker 1: You think so making making his handwritten knows extremely valuable.
Speaker 1: My thing is, how does somebody else own that if
Speaker 1: he is the author of this book?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like, how are you in the dispute over your ip? Basically?
Speaker 1: Yes, Like I didn't know you have how to copyright notebooks?
Speaker 1: That you know? Just like I got my little so
Speaker 1: I gotta copyright my spell book cause one hundred years
Speaker 1: orm now somebody might get a hold of it.
Speaker 3: Well with that book, your bitch ass might still be.
Speaker 1: Alive, y'all. That's my evil laugh. So Ego is live
Speaker 1: spell backwards? Okay, but this.
Speaker 3: Exactly, Yeah, that's weird his notebook. How can you be
Speaker 3: in a legal battle over a note?
Speaker 1: So do you think the baby owns it? Who owns it?
Speaker 3: Right? Maybe? And not the baby? Baby baby? Because you know,
Speaker 3: because I didn't even know that.
Speaker 1: You think baby owns it? Because does Lowayne own himself?
Speaker 1: Is what I'm thinking?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: Who owns low Wayne?
Speaker 3: A white girl? Now that's who he?
Speaker 1: Helltle Chunky, he like the white girls?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: Like who owns him to where his intellectual property could
Speaker 1: be up for auction? Like that where he no longer
Speaker 1: owns it? And who was a dispute? Who's the disputing
Speaker 1: party like in court? I'd like to know. I guess
Speaker 1: you'll do a little bit more research into that.
Speaker 3: But and what rich white man gonna buy it?
Speaker 1: Because it's gonna be Drake. Drake is gonna be the
Speaker 1: rich white man that buys lo Wings. Obviously he's a
Speaker 1: collector of all things rap, right, so he can show
Speaker 1: off to all the other rappers that he owns all
Speaker 1: the rap. Para familiar from overtime Because I just saw
Speaker 1: another video where he has Cameron's pink jacket and hat.
Speaker 3: Okay, yes, so I guess it would be a good idea.
Speaker 1: He has Tupac's ring. I have a problem with this, Like,
Speaker 1: y'all sit right there, drake a whole fucking warlock. Okay,
Speaker 1: this niggas doing spells with these people. Shit. Listen, you
Speaker 1: remember when Kim K got Marilyn Monroe's dress and they
Speaker 1: gave her a lock of Marilyn Monroau's hair. She's on
Speaker 1: her show going into her little closet like, oh, what
Speaker 1: can I do with this? She had a whole altar
Speaker 1: set up in her closet, a lock of her hair, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: and the dress so no, I know what the fuck
Speaker 1: I'd be looking at.
Speaker 3: It's one thing to dress, but the hair is like
Speaker 3: what you need with.
Speaker 1: Her hair exactly. See when you mentioned hair, people automatically
Speaker 1: think it's on which shit because that's what the fuck
Speaker 1: it is. Right. Anyway, how did y'all get a lock
Speaker 1: of her hair? People don't be owning themselves. They be commodities.
Speaker 1: They might have took it when she died probably mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: It's scary.
Speaker 1: It's weird. And then you give it to Kim K
Speaker 1: for what reason.
Speaker 3: Let's talk about Cardi. Mmm.
Speaker 1: I love Cardi B. She's pregnant. She's pregnant again. Congratulations
Speaker 1: to her. She looks beautiful. Yeah, they say her all set. Well,
Speaker 1: she filed for divorce. They're not saying. They're saying, you know,
Speaker 1: because it's public record. M and he got some financial
Speaker 1: battles with RS I think like Texas, and it's like
Speaker 1: into the tune of a million dollars, which I think
Speaker 1: they have over a million between the two two.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but who want to give it up?
Speaker 1: Right? That part? That part, that part I really think.
Speaker 1: I hope that they're not really splitting up, that they're
Speaker 1: only legally splitting up so he can transfer his assets
Speaker 1: to her and not pay that million dollars. That could
Speaker 1: be it, or she's just tired, she's citing error reconcilable
Speaker 1: differences with no chance of patching things up. So there
Speaker 1: wasn't anything in particular name as to the reason why
Speaker 1: they're getting this divorced. But we've seen it in the
Speaker 1: tabloids over the years, like that Nigga would be fucking okay,
Speaker 1: he'd be cheating. It's an ex home, ex girlfriend, ex homegirl,
Speaker 1: is somebody else pregnant right now? He's saying, ain't his people,
Speaker 1: But I mean, why is the why do people saying
Speaker 1: that's your people?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: And this is like almost the same day that she
Speaker 1: revealed that she filed for divorce, she also, you know,
Speaker 1: showed the world she was pregnant. I knew she was
Speaker 1: pregnant when they did those pictures last month at Disney World.
Speaker 1: She looked pregnant. And I mean Cardi always wanted the
Speaker 1: kids like she won. I remember her being in the
Speaker 1: breakfast club and she was telling La Mane like, I
Speaker 1: want to have babes by Tom twenty five, like she
Speaker 1: was younger then, and she did all the things. She
Speaker 1: got a career, popping, she had her kids, and maybe
Speaker 1: they are they are supposed to mate. You know, obviously
Speaker 1: they got three whole babies out this relationship, so they
Speaker 1: are mates. That Nigga's fertile as hell, because remember his
Speaker 1: album was father of father of four. I think, now
Speaker 1: you're a father of seven in a couple of years,
Speaker 1: within just a couple of years. And I love those
Speaker 1: little girls are so sweet, man, They are so precious, beautiful,
Speaker 1: precious beautiful baby seen them at on disney World. At
Speaker 1: Disney World with Cardi b I'm like some cute little girls, man,
Speaker 1: So I don't know, they look like a pretty good
Speaker 1: family to me, and maybe this is all they were
Speaker 1: supposed to do together.
Speaker 3: It's just create life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, some thing's come to an end, man, And why
Speaker 1: force the situation that could be like real crazy in
Speaker 1: fun of children when you guys can probably cohabitate better separately. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hear some kids crying in your background.
Speaker 4: Y'all.
Speaker 3: I'm transitioning starting over.
Speaker 1: So I'm at my friend, my best friend's house, and
Speaker 1: she's the mother of two. So here we are, so listen,
Speaker 1: We're going to get into a conversation about starting over
Speaker 1: as soon as we come back from this commercial break,
Speaker 1: sharing all my bits. All right, y'all, we're back, and
Speaker 1: this we wanted to talk about starting over, okay, because
Speaker 1: as adult, you know in your mind where you're young,
Speaker 1: you think things are going to go a certain way, right,
Speaker 1: But there are the ebbs and flows of life, and
Speaker 1: sometimes things just don't work out how you think you're
Speaker 1: supposed to. So I know me personally, I've started over
Speaker 1: a lot of times.
Speaker 5: I've started over so many times I'm actually tired. I'm
Speaker 5: starting over again right now. You know, I'm starting over
Speaker 5: again right now.
Speaker 1: Hard to reset.
Speaker 2: Hard.
Speaker 5: I'm living out of a suitcase right now. Right now,
Speaker 5: I'm living at my best friend's house with my god kids,
Speaker 5: which has been absolutely great.
Speaker 2: I got the bond with him in a real way.
Speaker 2: But having kids that you're not used to having kids.
Speaker 1: Around, you're a lucome into close and I love them,
Speaker 1: but God, I'm talking as soon as they wake up
Speaker 1: in the morning, is agreement having fun? They living kids,
Speaker 1: lived the best life you. I just seen a post online.
Speaker 1: You spend the post with this this girl somebody's baby
Speaker 1: daddy flew her and her son out at the Disney World.
Speaker 1: But somebody in the comments was like, kids just be
Speaker 1: doing carkwheels in the middle or anything chaos. I'd be
Speaker 1: a sacked. The niggas don't know what be going on?
Speaker 1: Like la la la la. I want to be like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, me too, I want I want to live my
Speaker 5: life like that. All right, So let me get back
Speaker 5: to my starting number. So I just decided I no
Speaker 5: longer felt Charlotte.
Speaker 2: Didn't feel like where I needed to be anymore. And
Speaker 2: then I just.
Speaker 5: Thought about where in the world do I want to go?
Speaker 5: And I just pretty much end the globe and put
Speaker 5: my finger down and now I'm.
Speaker 2: Going to La.
Speaker 5: I'm kind of nervous about it because everybody, like anytime
Speaker 5: I mention it, everybody you know, puts their energy of
Speaker 5: what they feel about LA onto me.
Speaker 2: So I've been trying to I mean now until the
Speaker 2: whole world.
Speaker 5: But I wasn't sharing with a lot of people just
Speaker 5: because of how people were putting their feelings.
Speaker 1: Like, oh LA is expensive, Oh LA is you can you.
Speaker 5: Weren't your jewelry you know, just all kind you got
Speaker 5: your jewelry out there, like just all kind of things
Speaker 5: like that. So it made me, really it added to
Speaker 5: how nervous I was about Meg, Yeah, about making this
Speaker 5: huge change because it is across the country. It's not
Speaker 5: like I can just drive to my mama's house if something.
Speaker 2: Goes wrong, you know. So it is nerve wrecking.
Speaker 1: So I'm excited to see this list of tips that
Speaker 1: you have for us for starting over, because maybe some
Speaker 1: of these kings they're going to help. Well, maybe it
Speaker 1: might just some Google shits, Okay, yeah, well sometimes that
Speaker 1: Google shit. Hell here, I've moved several times, and I've
Speaker 1: always moved by myself. And I remember when I moved
Speaker 1: to Saint Louis. When I got to my place, I
Speaker 1: didn't have none of my stuff because it wasn't coming
Speaker 1: until the next day. So it's just me and my
Speaker 1: two dogs, Bell and Honey, sleeping on a blood mattress
Speaker 1: that my landlord gave me until my stuff got in
Speaker 1: the next day. And I cried all night long. Why
Speaker 1: because I drove there all day long. It took me
Speaker 1: to get to Saint Louis, And I'm like, Yo, what
Speaker 1: the fuck that I did? Why did you choose Saint Louis. Well,
Speaker 1: I was the company I was working for at the time.
Speaker 1: I took a promotion and moved to Saint Woods. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it was a work yeah, work thing, and I
Speaker 1: lived there for about four or five years. But every
Speaker 1: morning I would wake out like, yo, I'm still in prison.
Speaker 1: I'm still here. That's how I think.
Speaker 5: So so so, was that the only place out of
Speaker 5: South Carolina that you, like, let's get out.
Speaker 1: Saying here were you lowing? You left Charleston? When was
Speaker 1: the first you went to Columbia Columbia College? How long
Speaker 1: I might've been in Columbia.
Speaker 2: B you was in college about two years.
Speaker 1: Got the fuck up. But I remember I was not
Speaker 1: in college hotel. I was working, and that's the I
Speaker 1: was chasing fucking money when I should have just been
Speaker 1: a bum ass college student. Instead I was chasing money.
Speaker 2: Oh, college was so poor. I remember.
Speaker 5: I remember who was sharing like wind these chicken niggas
Speaker 5: with somebody like the dollar minue.
Speaker 1: You chicken niggas is sharing it. That's how poor dude. Now,
Speaker 1: I kept a boyfriend in college. I remember when I
Speaker 1: asked my mom for some money for toilet trees and
Speaker 1: she was like, I'll see what I can do type
Speaker 1: shitm So then I just I went to Augusta with
Speaker 1: my friends that I met in school, and then she
Speaker 1: popped up in Colombia mad because I wasn't there. I'm like, girl, like,
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me he was coming. You're coming to
Speaker 1: give me cash money. So from that point on, I
Speaker 1: stopped asking people for shit. I just kept the man,
Speaker 1: so fuck, somebody gonna give it to me if you can't, mama.
Speaker 1: So you went to Columbia. Then after Columbia, that's when
Speaker 1: you went to Saint Louis. After Columbia I went to
Speaker 1: Atlanta running from a nigga. Atlanta wasn't far enough, so
Speaker 1: I moved to Saint Louis.
Speaker 2: He was running from a nigga.
Speaker 1: Yes, he was like trying to cut tie.
Speaker 2: Oh man.
Speaker 1: So most of my moves have not been for me, right,
Speaker 1: They haven't been because I wanted to or because I
Speaker 1: want to see this place so bad. I really was
Speaker 1: moving because of relationships, either even either moving from somebody
Speaker 1: or moving to them.
Speaker 2: Oh girl, me too.
Speaker 1: And that's some bullshit, but not ever they show if
Speaker 1: you're doing any changes, it's for you.
Speaker 2: I think this is my very first move in my
Speaker 2: life that did.
Speaker 1: It wasn't with somebody.
Speaker 5: Yeah, centered around some mother somebody else because I left,
Speaker 5: all right. I left Columbia after college because I was
Speaker 5: from Columbia, so I went to school there, and then
Speaker 5: I moved to Atlanta. Everybody from Columbia moved to Atlanta.
Speaker 5: Body or Charlotte or Charlene. So moved to Atlanta. Is
Speaker 5: that all of yours before?
Speaker 1: That's it? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I moved to Atlanta. I lived there. I was
Speaker 2: I was wilding in Atlanta. Boy, good time, good times.
Speaker 5: I stayed there for or what three years, and I
Speaker 5: was just doing too much and I wasn't happy. And
Speaker 5: I moved to Atlanta because my high school sweetheart he.
Speaker 2: Was in California, and I was finding out to California
Speaker 2: to see him.
Speaker 5: And then he got a job in Atlanta to get
Speaker 5: closer to home, and I thought that man get closer
Speaker 5: to me. Oh did so. So I moved out to
Speaker 5: Atlanta to try to get closer to this men. And
Speaker 5: he was like, I'm just getting real money. I don't
Speaker 5: ready to just be a single man. We've been together
Speaker 5: since we were kids. I want to know what it
Speaker 5: is like to be by myself, whichy'all understand. You know,
Speaker 5: we were together since like what seven, sixteen seventeen. It's
Speaker 5: like twenty I was like twenty five, twenty six now, so.
Speaker 2: We have been together a long time.
Speaker 1: And Atlanta's no place to fund in me. Okay. It's
Speaker 1: a lot of single eligible men, a lot, no excuse me,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of single eligible women. Okay, But for
Speaker 1: the men, you might have to share a little bit, yeah,
Speaker 1: because half of them hobos. The other half is cool.
Speaker 1: The other moved and then you got you know him, right,
Speaker 1: that nigga. You got to go to little exactly. So
Speaker 1: that's the three types of men in a land.
Speaker 2: He was definitely one of those. Yeah, doing very very successful,
Speaker 2: you know, getting money, like real money for the first time,
Speaker 2: you know. So he wanted to be outside. I'm not
Speaker 2: even mad at him. So I like, I left Atlanta
Speaker 2: and I moved to Europe. My sister was there military
Speaker 2: and she's like, come out here with me. We need
Speaker 2: someone to do our hair. Anyway, get away from that nigga.
Speaker 5: So I left and I went to Europe and she
Speaker 5: was I was only supposed to be there a year
Speaker 5: with her, and then I stayed two more years after
Speaker 5: she was gone. I was there three years because I
Speaker 5: fell in love with a man. Ain't shamed. Then I
Speaker 5: moved to Florida with him, shame yup, moved to left Europe.
Speaker 5: I still had two more years on my visa. I
Speaker 5: could have stacked um two more years of money, but
Speaker 5: I left to be broke in Florida and depending on
Speaker 5: somebody else. So that's what I did, your dumb ass,
Speaker 5: big dumb bitch story. I left, I moved to destyby'ch floor,
Speaker 5: and then I left him, picked all my shit up
Speaker 5: and moved to Charlotte.
Speaker 2: So yeah.
Speaker 5: That was me getting away from a man, and it
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, I don't want to move back to Columbia.
Speaker 2: Where can I go? I've been to Atlanta. I want
Speaker 2: to be closed, but not the in Columbia. So right, Charlotte.
Speaker 2: And then I've been here for what eighth.
Speaker 1: You're here because I came in twenty fifteen. I came
Speaker 1: in sixteen, so okay, yeah sixteen. I got here February twenty.
Speaker 2: I came.
Speaker 1: January twenty sixteen.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I came in February. And then now here I
Speaker 5: am with Ken picking up and moving nervous about it.
Speaker 1: Oh, what makes you want to go to La? What
Speaker 1: you're trying to do right there?
Speaker 2: Tamn?
Speaker 1: I don't even know.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 2: It's like I wouldn't maybe audition and.
Speaker 1: Down like a mid life prices to me, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Hello, man, get a corvette and
Speaker 1: then in middle life. I'm not in that at all. Okay, yelp,
Speaker 1: So listen, he said, I get a corvette.
Speaker 2: The red carpet.
Speaker 1: La is always somewhere I've wanted to live ever since
Speaker 1: I was a little girl.
Speaker 5: My lease was up, My Salon lease is about to
Speaker 5: be up. I was like, am I gonna If I'm
Speaker 5: gonna do it? Now's the time, right? It would be
Speaker 5: good for our podcast networking. You come out there.
Speaker 1: You see y'all had this shit. This is what I
Speaker 1: know is gonna happen, right because Tammy's moving to LA
Speaker 1: and she's claiming that she's gonna make her way back
Speaker 1: to the East coast so we can continue business. But
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna be dragged somewhere and I'm
Speaker 1: not being dragged. I do not like La. It feels
Speaker 1: like Atlanta to me. It sucks the energy. I do
Speaker 1: not like. Literally, I feel sick.
Speaker 2: Well, you know you don't have.
Speaker 5: To stay, but you'll have to come sometimes, right Why
Speaker 5: because there might be some opportunities for us there.
Speaker 1: Girl By, It was.
Speaker 2: A good opportunity.
Speaker 1: You're gonna come though, right, it depends somebody gotta beat
Speaker 1: my ass out there too, your ass. You might have
Speaker 1: to stay, Oh La. People like black women in LA.
Speaker 1: So my thing is this do you really want?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 1: This is this is we're talking about starting over now
Speaker 1: at our big age.
Speaker 2: What do you want?
Speaker 1: Family wise? This might turn to a little therapy session, right, This.
Speaker 3: Is not what we bought.
Speaker 2: Two Episode big.
Speaker 1: Do you really want a husband? Do you really want children?
Speaker 1: You think, la, you're gonna find that there.
Speaker 2: See, this is why I said I don't be telling people.
Speaker 1: This is why I don't tell people, because this is
Speaker 1: the energy i'all are getting. No, it's not.
Speaker 2: I mean like I'm in alignment where where my life
Speaker 2: is supposed to go? Right now, That's how I feel.
Speaker 1: Got it?
Speaker 2: You can't.
Speaker 1: That's all I can say. Anything is possible.
Speaker 2: You know what. I do want a husband, I do
Speaker 2: want kid, a kid at least one.
Speaker 1: Why at least gonna get half of one? Gut right
Speaker 1: in a step?
Speaker 2: I take a step? Can you too? At this point?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I would.
Speaker 5: You know, I don't mind that. But I mean, we're
Speaker 5: just gonna see where where this rodeo takes me. I'm
Speaker 5: giving myself so with my moving on, my starting over,
Speaker 5: I'm doing it smart this time. I'm not packing up
Speaker 5: all my shit and just putting it in the place.
Speaker 5: I put my stuff in storage. I got air and
Speaker 5: b Airbnb for sixty days and a rental card just
Speaker 5: to see, like, do I even like it here? If
Speaker 5: I like it, then I'll ship all my shit right.
Speaker 5: If I don't, then I'll come back, you know, so
Speaker 5: we'll see what happens. But I don't think I'm doing that.
Speaker 5: I don't think I'm gonna real lit. We gonna see though,
Speaker 5: and you're gonna come over there. You gonna come over there.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have a good time, and it's gonna be.
Speaker 1: Some great opportunity, a lot of the both, A lot
Speaker 1: of the great opportunities everywhere. You just gotta find them.
Speaker 5: You're gonna see, be optimistic about our our opportunities there.
Speaker 5: And my shit, I might meet my husbands soon as
Speaker 5: I get off the plane. He might be flying the plane.
Speaker 2: Bitch, I hear that. You never know.
Speaker 1: Make she give me that buddy pass. That's all I know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you're gonna need one coming back from La. Well,
Speaker 1: I got shout out to all about nine reb girls.
Speaker 1: I know what tiw it is, No duck, It depends
Speaker 1: on what uh what tier you at? My d three?
Speaker 1: Non rev ain't got me nowhere, duck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not having a spend.
Speaker 1: All right, what's the zips? Okay, So this is listen.
Speaker 1: I just while we were talking, I actually googled and
Speaker 1: how to start over at forty So we got tutors
Speaker 1: that girl, that's probably gonna be the same shit. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's not go over old this diabolical which hard her
Speaker 1: one time, my little niece. This is when she was younger.
Speaker 1: She just graduated from high school and it's going she's
Speaker 1: going to college now. But when I lived in Saint Louis,
Speaker 1: they came to visit me and my two nieces and
Speaker 1: my younger niece. She might have been like nine years
Speaker 1: old at the time, and I was like, girl, you
Speaker 1: a big as hell for a nine year old, just
Speaker 1: fucking with her? Why she done sat there and googled
Speaker 1: how big you support? How much should a twenty seven
Speaker 1: year old wag at the time I was twenty seven
Speaker 1: the hyerbolicle Right, well, actually, according to Google, you pretty
Speaker 1: you pretty big for a twenty seven year old dad,
Speaker 1: and that should have so aligned with who she is
Speaker 1: right now. So today that's allied with you. That is
Speaker 1: your baby, that is your das And she looked just
Speaker 1: like me, girl, shit you would do. All I could
Speaker 1: do was laugh, like that's funny?
Speaker 4: Is fun She can't showed you or yeah I saw
Speaker 4: that and show me like this time that you supposed
Speaker 4: to wait at twenty seven, girl, fuck you to this day.
Speaker 1: I love money anyway. So it says starting over it
Speaker 1: can be, can be a natural part of life, and
Speaker 1: it's never too late to do. So, Okay, here are
Speaker 1: some tips that you may that may help. So it
Speaker 1: says reflect, examine your values and goals, and consider what
Speaker 1: you can change. Okay, So and this you're changing your
Speaker 1: location environment Okay, And sometimes no, you know, I just
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna reinvent myself in a way too, Like
Speaker 1: I think I'm just want to be like more. I
Speaker 1: know I'm going to la where people are more superficial,
Speaker 1: but I think I'm going to be less superficial, more
Speaker 1: like concerned with just like the things that really have
Speaker 1: value to me when they like, you know, recently, people
Speaker 1: broke in my house and stole a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: like designer shit bags and shoes and jewelry, and I
Speaker 1: was like, what is the lesson in getting so all
Speaker 1: of my stuff stolen?
Speaker 5: And it's like that shit don't mean nothing. I know,
Speaker 5: it's nothing at all. Like I maybe God wanted me.
Speaker 1: To let go of those things because I was putting
Speaker 1: too much value on the shit that really didn't matter.
Speaker 2: So now they're gone.
Speaker 5: I had to find a lesson because other than that,
Speaker 5: I was just gonna be fucking mad. And if I
Speaker 5: catch that bitch outside, it's still up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know your answer.
Speaker 5: Yeah we seem to so anyway, girl, So I think
Speaker 5: I just want to have like a more holistic healthy
Speaker 5: I just it is a place of great where people
Speaker 5: are very healthy. So I think I'll be more into
Speaker 5: with that part of myself and just being a just
Speaker 5: a better version of me. That's what I'm looking forward to.
Speaker 5: We hope LA brings that out.
Speaker 1: It says take action, stop waiting for the perfect moment,
Speaker 1: and be willing to make a change. You can try
Speaker 1: starting new lobbies like joining a group bike ride to
Speaker 1: help you reach your goals.
Speaker 2: What I don't know.
Speaker 5: I mean here right through cycle, but I don't see
Speaker 5: how that's helpful next to to start.
Speaker 1: That's not like weight loss the fuck that too, But no,
Speaker 1: that's not what we really want. But anyway, it says
Speaker 1: be kind to yourself, practice mindfulness, be gentle with yourself,
Speaker 1: and allow negative emotions to flow. You can also try
Speaker 1: creating a positive mantra mantra to counter painful thoughts.
Speaker 5: That's exciting that you said that, because I just started
Speaker 5: doing this thing on my phone recently. Where how long
Speaker 5: when you go to it in my notes? And I've
Speaker 5: been doing it daily, so I have forgotten a couple
Speaker 5: of days.
Speaker 1: But its stuff I write down daily.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's it says good things are always happening to me.
Speaker 2: That's the top and I always and I write.
Speaker 5: Something down daily that was good, that happened. I ain't
Speaker 5: did shoot today yet, but I got to see it's been.
Speaker 2: With my code.
Speaker 5: We're regarding and we're recording and we're in person. So
Speaker 5: that's my good thing for today, okay, and seeing your
Speaker 5: beautiful smile.
Speaker 1: Yeah, period, y'all. We got some real good teeth on.
Speaker 1: We talked about, dude, and I'd be like, really bragging
Speaker 1: because when you live like in this time that we're
Speaker 1: in right now, where everybody like our fossils are going
Speaker 1: to have veneers on them. If anybody has any skin left,
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a sexy tattooed on the neck of it,
Speaker 1: lips back, fucked up, a baby bird to brae crooked.
Speaker 1: You know what else, a baby fat cat girl fuck you,
Speaker 1: or have Betty boot on my butt?
Speaker 2: You got baby boop tip. Yeah, let's on break this is.
Speaker 1: How long I've been aj holiday? Okay, I got this
Speaker 1: tattoo when I was twenty years old, and on Betty
Speaker 1: Boop's butt it says holiday like the tattoo and then
Speaker 1: on her butt it says holiday. So you got a
Speaker 1: butt a tattoo of a butt on your butt. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's over this big ass birthmark. Did I say be
Speaker 1: kind to yourself? Yep? Okay, all right? Ask for help.
Speaker 1: If you're facing problems in your business, you can consider
Speaker 1: hiring an expert for advice. In a relationship, you can
Speaker 1: try a couple's counseling or working on your own personal growth.
Speaker 5: So asking for help that is a good one. I
Speaker 5: just I found that once I do tell people where
Speaker 5: I'm going, a lot of people like I got a
Speaker 5: friend out there, I can link you. I have had
Speaker 5: so many people just because of what we posted from
Speaker 5: last night, so many people in my dms like, oh,
Speaker 5: I got.
Speaker 2: A cousin out there, I got a sister out there,
Speaker 2: I gotta.
Speaker 5: Friends girl, right, so we need we link me with
Speaker 5: all of that, A lot of meaningful yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 5: If they don't coke, don't send them fruitful.
Speaker 1: I feel like LA A lot of the cocaine users
Speaker 1: a lot of that ship.
Speaker 2: I don't want no parts of that.
Speaker 1: It says reward yourself. Rewarding yourself in the moment can
Speaker 1: help you realize that your efforts are resulting in a
Speaker 1: positive out them. So you celebrated leaving, you should celebrate
Speaker 1: getting there. Yeah, that's something you could possibly do.
Speaker 2: That's a good idea.
Speaker 5: I think my my friends share is gonna come over
Speaker 5: with probably like a bottle of champagne, two classes.
Speaker 1: Then we're gonna clean clean, you know.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: Another part that says this is like it says feeling
Speaker 1: stuck in life. Five tips for how you can start over.
Speaker 1: First one is assess the situation. The first step to
Speaker 1: starting over is to step back and take an honest
Speaker 1: look at your life. So I think people do this
Speaker 1: just annually, but I feel like quarterly, right, you should
Speaker 1: do an assessment of your goals, do an assessment or
Speaker 1: where you are, where you wanna be at like that.
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be an annual thing. Should daily shit. I
Speaker 1: struggle daily just to do the basic shit I say
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do every day. But what I find is
Speaker 1: I'm quicker to do things for other people than I
Speaker 1: am for myself. So every day I'm like, man, let
Speaker 1: me do what I say I'm gonna do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's not a good habit, though. You need
Speaker 5: to break that cause you'll look up and you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I need to do when
Speaker 1: people are trying to figure out how to get things done,
Speaker 1: Just do what you say you're gonna do, and it's done.
Speaker 2: But if it was that easy the world, just think
Speaker 2: about how many.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if somebody else canna call you and you
Speaker 1: jump for them, jump for yourself and every day, right,
Speaker 1: and it's okay to say no to people. No, I
Speaker 1: can't come to this. No, I can't help you with that.
Speaker 1: I got a homegirl right now, I'm kind of avoiding
Speaker 1: because I know you want me to help you with something.
Speaker 1: Damn I didn't need any help, and I can.
Speaker 2: You just say no?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 2: Uh you get no.
Speaker 1: I'm not having trouble with saying no. I just don't
Speaker 1: feel like it because I already know what she wants
Speaker 1: and I'm not about to do it.
Speaker 2: She wants to be.
Speaker 1: People don't want to use your connections that type of shit.
Speaker 1: So yes, I needed right know, Yeah, just like you know,
Speaker 1: like this is my lick, Like, why you think you
Speaker 1: can have like people are so weird? Yeah, okay, but
Speaker 1: I guess you got to use your connections. That everybody
Speaker 1: got six degrees of separation, right right, So I don't
Speaker 1: get mad at people before trying though, because I mean,
Speaker 1: why not. You know, I guess I don't get fit,
Speaker 1: so I just don't do it. I like or connections.
Speaker 1: I like organic relationships. If I happen to be in
Speaker 1: the vicinity of this person or you know, that's just
Speaker 1: how I like. I don't force nothing, ever, I will
Speaker 1: I will force it. Yeah, I know, I know, bitch,
Speaker 1: I will force it. Okay. So number two says to
Speaker 1: start with a new job, your career can be daunting
Speaker 1: to change. I haven't worked for anybody since technically since
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen.
Speaker 2: That's another thing.
Speaker 5: When I get out there, I'm going to have to
Speaker 5: maybe join the workforce a little bit ill.
Speaker 1: No saying working, but I.
Speaker 5: Just you know, I've always I mean, I'll still work
Speaker 5: for myself, but you know, you know, doing Harry, you
Speaker 5: still got a bill. You gotta start over, So I
Speaker 5: might have to, like you know, I used to work
Speaker 5: for Sophora, I might have to, like gal a part
Speaker 5: time at Sophora or.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine myself door dashing food, but could you
Speaker 1: imagine me pulling me pulling up with your bit y'all?
Speaker 1: Did any cars for work?
Speaker 2: I will, though I'm not above it.
Speaker 1: Like I actually enjoyed grocery shopping already any hustle, right,
Speaker 1: I'm not above it, but I just couldn't. I still
Speaker 1: feels weird with be like here's your cheeburger.
Speaker 2: But you never know, y'all to tell you what you
Speaker 2: gotta do.
Speaker 1: Y'all might be watching We Talk Back podcast in LA
Speaker 1: and order some food, going to bring it to your
Speaker 1: mother from man, Yo, I'm not above it, baby, like
Speaker 1: it's just a grind. So we just go see what
Speaker 1: hand hair up bring to god it do get that
Speaker 1: bad girl.
Speaker 2: I just watched it, man, that's what we all know that.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're talking about LA. We already on the cost
Speaker 1: of living is astronomical, is out the fucking roof. So
Speaker 1: I can imagine you probably get paid a little better
Speaker 1: doing that. You no, see, you're not airpacting. They have
Speaker 1: like old stag up collar, Like girl, what you're doing? Girl?
Speaker 2: I pull it up to.
Speaker 1: And they gonna be yelling at your ass like you
Speaker 1: be yelling at the goddamn ober eats. They got a dog,
Speaker 1: they better come to ink girl. Same Okay, it says
Speaker 1: moved to a new city. That's number three, So relocate
Speaker 1: if I could think of any place i'd want to be.
Speaker 1: This is why I just ended up moving back to
Speaker 1: Charleston because we got palm trees. I don't know if
Speaker 1: y'all know what do people be sleeping?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I want to live in Barbados.
Speaker 2: That all Barnac. That is my.
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like my soul be walls come
Speaker 1: to be at home and Charleston. Never the Barbados and Charleston.
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of research. They have a lot
Speaker 1: of like close history and it's the same niggas, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like even some of the neighborhoods
Speaker 1: I looked at in Barbados, it looks like like the
Speaker 1: hood and my mom grew up in. It's the same shit.
Speaker 2: I So ultimately that's where you're gonna like go home.
Speaker 1: That goals, Like I really want a beach house. I
Speaker 1: could see it, I could see the free I want that.
Speaker 1: So there's really no place else in America. I'd like
Speaker 1: to live like I really am working, actively working on
Speaker 1: getting the second passport. Mm hm, just in case, bitch.
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all seen the fucking stock market drop.
Speaker 1: I don't know how many points today we entered a recession.
Speaker 1: For sure. I feel like we've been in a recession
Speaker 1: since twenty nineteen. But for sure just happening. You couldn't
Speaker 1: even log into your brokerage account this morning. They shut
Speaker 1: shit down. So this is what happened. When there's a
Speaker 1: reset or restart the money. You think you having a bake,
Speaker 1: it's not yours. When shit hit the hand, like, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be lined up outside with everybody trying to get
Speaker 1: that money, and they're gonna be like, nah, we ain't
Speaker 1: got it.
Speaker 5: That's why I like my great grandmother. She was allowed
Speaker 5: for the Great Depression, and uh, I said the great
Speaker 5: because this might be the this might be the greatest.
Speaker 5: But she would not believe in a bank. She did
Speaker 5: not believe in putting no money in no bank.
Speaker 1: And then the cash, the paper of Fiat money have
Speaker 1: zero value. I don't know if people like I mentioned XRP,
Speaker 1: but there's more articles coming out. Think of America is
Speaker 1: now using XRP bitcoin like that shit is already like
Speaker 1: through the roof. If you're trying to get into cryptocurrency,
Speaker 1: that might be the next best thing. If you want
Speaker 1: to wake out one morning and you know you paid
Speaker 1: fifty cent for this for this coin, and now it's
Speaker 1: worth a thousand.
Speaker 5: Like my grandmother all her mother money and a like
Speaker 5: in a tin can, and she put it in the
Speaker 5: ground or under the bed.
Speaker 2: Shame.
Speaker 5: I know she was a booth in the mattress. She
Speaker 5: was born in nineteen oh two, though, So let me, Yeah,
Speaker 5: what do you do?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe you gotta get some gold or
Speaker 1: silver or something that's gonna actually have value because we've
Speaker 1: been off of the gold standard with the US dollar. Okay,
Speaker 1: it says immerse yourself in new activities. That's pretty much
Speaker 1: what the other list said. So maybe instead of cycling,
Speaker 1: you'll get you a ride your bike around.
Speaker 5: I'll ride my bike and I want to do pilates
Speaker 5: I ordered. Have y'all seen this pilates core thing.
Speaker 2: It's like a little matt like a little contraption and
Speaker 2: the lady has her hand on the flooris she's doing like.
Speaker 1: Yes, I keep they keep sending me that ship. I'm
Speaker 1: ordering that thing, man, I want that thing.
Speaker 2: I can't order ship right now.
Speaker 1: I'm moving, so I can't order nothing, but I do
Speaker 1: want to, like, uh, somebody send me, like, hey, my
Speaker 1: my cousin's in LA and she teaches a pilates.
Speaker 2: Class, so they send me her Instagram.
Speaker 1: So yeah, by that, I definitely this gym in Charleston
Speaker 1: is called High Low. I gotta I still have storage
Speaker 1: in Columbias, all carlines. I gotta get that ship out
Speaker 1: of there. But once I do, and I don't have
Speaker 1: that bill anymore, I'm gonna get this membership because they
Speaker 1: have hot pilates, hot yoga, and it's a regular city
Speaker 1: yard gym. But that shit is like two hundred and
Speaker 1: thirty seven dollars a month to see Highest for a
Speaker 1: chap Wes just seem like a bad idea. Why just
Speaker 1: put a band on and keep it moving. Every time
Speaker 1: I even think I haven't had off, she looked like
Speaker 1: a hat. Lied and she looked like a hat.
Speaker 2: By the time I leave that.
Speaker 1: Sliding back white, I remember I looked.
Speaker 5: I was up the stair cliff, I was on the StairClimber,
Speaker 5: I was sweating like perfusely in my hand on the wig.
Speaker 5: And I was talking this is a planet fitness, And
Speaker 5: I was talking to that white guy at the desk
Speaker 5: and he said, you're you're skinned.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you baby.
Speaker 1: That ain't just here like I should be looking like
Speaker 1: Bookers there, your skin is peeling a little bit. White
Speaker 1: people will be so nice appreciate when they turn out
Speaker 1: to be load. Bro, You know what else to say,
Speaker 1: Like I'm going on, bitch, give me kicked right off?
Speaker 1: That was it?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: That is it for that little less like tips and
Speaker 1: this this outherless is the starting over at forty No
Speaker 1: fun there later that No fuck that list are ty
Speaker 1: If he said five minutes our time is up, No
Speaker 1: it's not, Sarzoda.
Speaker 2: At forty you about to be real shady.
Speaker 1: I can never know. It's a good one. Okay. It's
Speaker 1: a self assessment. Take stock of your strengths, weaknesses, passions,
Speaker 1: and aspirations and this can help you make better decisions
Speaker 1: about your next step. Uh huh, Okay, set goals. Okay,
Speaker 1: consider what you want to achieve by reinventing yourself.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I received that one.
Speaker 1: All right, have you done that yet? Have you done
Speaker 1: an assessment, like, what is your actual goal for going
Speaker 1: out there?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I just want to be happy?
Speaker 1: Okay, got it? Take risks, Okay. Reinventing yourself can be difficult,
Speaker 1: but don't be afraid to fail. I ain't never afraid
Speaker 1: of That's why I gave myself that sixty days, because
Speaker 1: I done had this going away.
Speaker 5: And they gonna see me back here your sixty days
Speaker 5: if I don't like it. And I just didn't like it,
Speaker 5: So I came bad, right, You.
Speaker 1: Gave that little disclosure lives that yeah, like, yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna see what happens to baby girl, all right, and
Speaker 1: brace lifelong learning, consider learning new things continuously planned financially
Speaker 1: starting over my theory might require some financial adjustment. M m.
Speaker 2: That's why I said I can't buy nothing new, Okay,
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 4: So I.
Speaker 2: Record another episode in y'all outfit.
Speaker 1: Don't say shit to be I will never feel no
Speaker 1: type of way about rewaring. So should I wish a
Speaker 1: bit you would like in real life? I rewear my clothes? Yeah,
Speaker 1: me too, Okay, So I don't. I mean, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but you ain't never wore.
Speaker 2: The same thing twice to film.
Speaker 1: Yet I actually yes, I will be. I will be network,
Speaker 1: use their existing network and look for ways to expand it. Okay,
Speaker 1: and prioritize, prioritize self care, focus on your physical and
Speaker 1: mental health.
Speaker 2: There is like so where my airbnb is.
Speaker 5: It's a really nice place and there's an Equinox walking
Speaker 5: distance from it, and I google the Equinox price and
Speaker 5: then I just that I will use this fitnessend there.
Speaker 2: Ela stayed.
Speaker 1: Say, unless somebody want to give me an Equinox membership,
Speaker 1: that part then out on away gifts. Yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: great that would be a great gift. So that was
Speaker 1: that was good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was a good list. I think that'll
Speaker 2: be some helpful tools for me. I mean some of
Speaker 2: them was shit had already had in mind. But some
Speaker 2: of those things, well we'll see what happened.
Speaker 1: Because specially having my friends visit No, because I was listen,
Speaker 1: if you don't come to see me, so I be
Speaker 1: mad because you was just in LA when with that
Speaker 1: head piece on looking pretty or a lot was two
Speaker 1: years ago at this point, it was not two year
Speaker 1: That was two years ago. That was a year before
Speaker 1: last time is really speeding up. Damn, that was too
Speaker 1: nine then back to La. Since then I got stuck
Speaker 1: on a buddy pass thing.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 1: I went to the airport like nine o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 1: I get at that bitch till twelve o'clock at night.
Speaker 2: It really is the olypics. When you're flying on rip
Speaker 2: to pivot, you gotta be ready to pivot where you gotta.
Speaker 1: Or you just gotta buy your damn ticket. That's where
Speaker 1: I'm at right now until I find a d one player. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't have a d My cousin works part time
Speaker 1: and I need a Delta person.
Speaker 5: It's on yarney, and I could get a job at
Speaker 5: the airport part time, and then I'll put you on.
Speaker 5: Yeah you be my Yeah, you be my spouse.
Speaker 1: Yeah plus one?
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, you got any last last.
Speaker 1: Enjoy be good, Okay, keep your integrity intact. This is
Speaker 1: for me, yes, okay, Okay, don't be sucking dick what.
Speaker 2: I would never.
Speaker 1: Like. Don't do nothing I wouldn't do. Okay, I'm a
Speaker 1: whole prude. A motherfucking told me I have an elitist attitude. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's that supposed to be an all right? I think
Speaker 1: it was, Yeah, but it's not an insult.
Speaker 2: To me, you know whatever.
Speaker 5: I just feel like I'm not really susceptible to peer
Speaker 5: pressure at whatever age I am.
Speaker 1: We neither.
Speaker 2: It was about to say that.
Speaker 1: I am pressed. I just like I don't like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm way beyond that. I did all the things like
Speaker 1: that I want to do.
Speaker 2: Right, me too, me too.
Speaker 1: So it's just like, no, it's so easy to roll
Speaker 1: off my tongue at this age way and without a
Speaker 1: the explanation.
Speaker 2: You know how sometimes people tell you no and they
Speaker 2: feel like they.
Speaker 1: Need to tell you play why you know, period, just no,
Speaker 1: no complete statement. And that was Nick, and that's it.
Speaker 1: And I love you and be good.
Speaker 2: I don't love you too, and I'll see you soon.
Speaker 1: And don't fuck up our business. I will never, okay,
Speaker 1: we will never.
Speaker 2: I would never. I'll be back in three weeks. I'll
Speaker 2: be back in three weeks. Like I told Jordan, I said,
Speaker 2: we'll see.
Speaker 1: Well you're recording next next month. Well i'll be I
Speaker 1: have to be bad because I heard somebody laught like, bitch,
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