WEBVTT - CTRL ALT DEL 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:08.480 and the Black Effect Network. 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:12.080 So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:13.320 who talks. 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:16.640 What's up, y'all? 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:18.599 Thank you for tuning in for a new episode if 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:21.800 We Talked Back, the show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers. 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:26.560 This is your co host, AJ Holiday. What's up tam Bam? 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.080 Yeah? Hell, let's be tam Vam. I love y'all. What's up? AJ? 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:31.160 How you doing? 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.120 We up? We wake you woke? 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:35.920 Amen? Amen? 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:37.360 Thank you god? 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.640 Okay, period, how was your weekend? 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.080 It was eventful. I was hanging out with Tam Bam 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:47.600 this weekend. Child. We uh, we did some much needing, 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:51.520 catching up on visuals. I want y'all to know how 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.400 expensive it is, Okay. I see the comments on YouTube 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:58.240 saying we want to see y'all go price some of 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.760 this ship. Go see how much or send us some 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:07.720 money exactly out your fucking pocket. Yeah, it's expensive, but anyway, 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:11.160 we got it done and we'll try to produce more 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:15.080 visuals going forward for y'all. Okay, so y'all can see us, 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:17.560 We'll just be running out of fucking clothes and shit. 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:20.800 I'm about to start recirculating some of that shit. I 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:21.280 ain't gonna. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.520 I just betch I order a Budet shit out fashion Over, 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.640 and it'd be throwaway clothes. So it just be like 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:32.080 I hate burn clothes to throw away, though, Like I 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.560 just like even quality to where I can just re 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:40.040 wear it. Sometimes I put cotton right into on fashion 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:42.679 Over so I can get one hundred percent. Because most 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:46.320 of that shit is polyester. It's gonna come apart, so 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.760 I try. Anyway, did you order that body that body 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:50.880 dress I sent you? 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:52.000 You didn't send me the link? 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:56.680 It's back up to twenty nine ninety nine on Amazon. 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.920 I'm like, god, damn, I meant to order two more. Yeah, 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:04.160 it was cute and a couple of different colors. Now 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:07.720 and the price don't went up. Price don't want today's 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:13.320 price is not today's What else we did this weekend? Tam, 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:17.040 We recorded, We got We went to dinner and got drunk. Okay, 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:19.080 I didn't get drunk, y'all. I don't be drinking like 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:19.720 that no more. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:25.000 For real, I was fucked up. I took like six 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.160 shots of Don Julia. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:30.919 Maybe every time I hear people say I'm fasten off 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:32.680 liquor for a month, and so I'm like, y'all drink 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:34.799 that much to where you just gotta not drink. 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.120 I guess I don't. I don't drink. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:42.119 Listen, I'm a social drinker. I don't drink at home, right, 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:45.000 and I really don't socialize that much. 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.440 So when I do, I do. 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.600 I keep wine at the house, though, but I don't 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.320 drink it. Like I just been a bottle of wine 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:55.120 last night because I just wanted to get freaky, so 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:59.560 I drunk a little bit of wine. Is that life, though, 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.520 Like when you get older and cohabitating and shit like that. Like, 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.480 I don't know that I can have sex sober, like 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:10.320 completely sober. Try tonight now that I think about it. 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:13.800 I haven't had like good sober sex in a long time. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:17.240 It's like the weed go with it, the wine go 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:24.200 with it, like the dick come with drugs, not the 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:26.760 dick come with when's the last time you had sober sex? 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:31.040 Like completely? Because you smoke smoke, I only smoke. What 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:33.160 I'm going to say, Hey, I don't know what you're 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:36.640 talking about. I only smoke when I know I'm about 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:37.920 to have sex. Okay, that's the. 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:39.240 Only time I really wanted to hate. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.520 I'm a paul that you would say such. 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:46.000 Unless shrew me. Okay, that's I do that by myself 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.080 once in a blue when there's nothing to do and 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.680 the tchi gets too thick for my soulful mind to 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.640 cut through, he said. But I don't know. 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:56.240 Come on, bro, I don't know that it's j Z 0:03:57.560 --> 0:03:58.240 feeling it. 0:03:58.640 --> 0:03:59.600 Oh that's that shit. 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.400 Yeah, I don't know. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:09.160 I typically do the same, but it's not to have sex. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.760 It's just I'm already happen to be high and the 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:16.080 sex is gonna happen. That's what I'm saying. So when 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:19.239 is the last time you actually had intercourse without being 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:25.760 under the influence of anything. Well, you know, I've been 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:31.920 celibate until Marrow, like around my birthday, so I can't 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.480 remember anything in twenty twenty three, that's what you're asking. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:35.840 It's too far back, so. 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:48.400 Yo, control all delete period. Let's get it a stupid news, Okay. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.080 I wanted to start with this. I saw this on 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:54.680 the Daily Mail. Destiny's Child star LaToya Luckett's second ex 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:57.880 husband shaved her after she marries for the third time 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:00.680 of eight years. So, uh, tamikus, I guess that's how 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:04.040 you say his name Walker. He posted to his social 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:07.680 media a picture of Tom Brady wearing three Super Bowl 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:13.280 rings and he said three and seven years that that dynasty. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:15.640 And he shared this with his one hundred and sixty 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:19.719 eight thousand followers to see, and the fans were quick 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:24.840 to defend the LaToya Luckett who with t Laya Coles. Yeah, 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.800 they just got married recently on the twenty seventh of July. 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:33.080 And someone said, obviously she's surprised all three of y'all 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:36.039 popped the question take the ail my boy period. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.400 That's how I feel, Corns, Why are you? Why are 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:39.839 you hating? 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:43.920 And obviously he's still single because if you weren't a relationship, 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:46.919 like you can post that, your woman wouldn't feel like 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:50.039 okay with you posting about your ex being married again. 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:52.719 And I mean like maybe she wanted some Mariah Gary shit. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.960 If she's gonna pop that pussy Betty for her husband, 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:59.280 who knows, But why is that your business? Why are 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:01.680 you still bothered? He's not okay with them breaking up. 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:05.719 He's still hurt and you're the reason why they broke up. Okay, 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:07.800 he was cheating, so yeah, he was cheating and doing 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:10.440 all types of wild ship to her. She's a beautiful woman. 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:16.200 She looked beautiful for her third wedding, okay than the 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.640 first in the second. Yes, girl, keep getting married. You're 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:21.120 looking better every time. You know what I'm saying, Because 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.880 we do glow up outside of bad relationships every time. 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:29.800 So I don't have a problem with LaToya Lucket marrying 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:33.520 five different men, ten different men. How many ever times 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:34.520 over do it? 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:36.479 Write a book for us, because I ain't. I ain't 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:40.839 here one proposal, not to one. 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.520 Yeah, I'm happy for her, Like how many ever times 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.440 you have to do it? Do it? Shit, fuck it. 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:49.360 That's what Look, that's what the process is for. That's 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:53.719 why divorce is available. It's not working on to the 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:57.920 next one. But I do hope that this one works 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.159 for her though. I hope this one is her for 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.880 ever partner. So is this the third marriage or the 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:03.799 fourth marriage? 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:04.920 This is the third? 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:09.120 Like one was young one midlife, kind of middle well 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:10.640 not even middle thirties away. 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:14.160 Yeah, thirties, and he wasn't acting right and now. 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:18.720 Yes, yeah, and they look very happy, nice looking couple. 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:24.440 I'm happy for them. Oh, Tomacus, whatever your name is, 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:34.600 you're a hater boom. So apparently Lo Wayne his his 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:38.040 notebook is on sale. His like rap notebook from the 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:43.559 nineties is on sale for five million dollars after legal 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.520 saga which I'm just so confused about this. It says 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:50.400 the rapper's old lyric book notebook from the nineties is 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:52.720 now officially on the market. The sale comes after a 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:56.520 dragged out legal dispute over its ownership, which was finally 0:07:56.560 --> 0:08:00.400 resolved earlier this year. Initially listed for two and fifty 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.800 thousand dollars five years ago, the price is now shot 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.720 up to five million due to the rarity and significance 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.200 of the notebook. It said that low Wayne is considered 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.760 to be one of the greatest rappers of all time. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:17.760 You think so making making his handwritten knows extremely valuable. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.600 My thing is, how does somebody else own that if 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.520 he is the author of this book? 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.920 Yeah? Like, how are you in the dispute over your ip? Basically? 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:34.440 Yes, Like I didn't know you have how to copyright notebooks? 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:37.040 That you know? Just like I got my little so 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:40.720 I gotta copyright my spell book cause one hundred years 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:42.360 orm now somebody might get a hold of it. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.360 Well with that book, your bitch ass might still be. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:57.760 Alive, y'all. That's my evil laugh. So Ego is live 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:01.640 spell backwards? Okay, but this. 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:12.480 Exactly, Yeah, that's weird his notebook. How can you be 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:14.400 in a legal battle over a note? 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:18.520 So do you think the baby owns it? Who owns it? 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:24.120 Right? Maybe? And not the baby? Baby baby? Because you know, 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:29.800 because I didn't even know that. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.239 You think baby owns it? Because does Lowayne own himself? 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:34.320 Is what I'm thinking? 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:34.520 Like? 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:35.720 Who owns low Wayne? 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.080 A white girl? Now that's who he? 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:42.440 Helltle Chunky, he like the white girls? 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:42.640 Now? 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.480 Like who owns him to where his intellectual property could 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.319 be up for auction? Like that where he no longer 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:52.480 owns it? And who was a dispute? Who's the disputing 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.520 party like in court? I'd like to know. I guess 0:09:54.600 --> 0:09:56.959 you'll do a little bit more research into that. 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:00.640 But and what rich white man gonna buy it? 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.240 Because it's gonna be Drake. Drake is gonna be the 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:07.120 rich white man that buys lo Wings. Obviously he's a 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.000 collector of all things rap, right, so he can show 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:15.040 off to all the other rappers that he owns all 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:19.880 the rap. Para familiar from overtime Because I just saw 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:23.960 another video where he has Cameron's pink jacket and hat. 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.720 Okay, yes, so I guess it would be a good idea. 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:32.840 He has Tupac's ring. I have a problem with this, Like, 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.880 y'all sit right there, drake a whole fucking warlock. Okay, 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:41.080 this niggas doing spells with these people. Shit. Listen, you 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:46.640 remember when Kim K got Marilyn Monroe's dress and they 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:49.760 gave her a lock of Marilyn Monroau's hair. She's on 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.200 her show going into her little closet like, oh, what 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.120 can I do with this? She had a whole altar 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:59.840 set up in her closet, a lock of her hair, yes, yes, 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:04.520 and the dress so no, I know what the fuck 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:05.120 I'd be looking at. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:07.160 It's one thing to dress, but the hair is like 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:07.839 what you need with. 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:10.560 Her hair exactly. See when you mentioned hair, people automatically 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.920 think it's on which shit because that's what the fuck 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:16.559 it is. Right. Anyway, how did y'all get a lock 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:20.920 of her hair? People don't be owning themselves. They be commodities. 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:26.640 They might have took it when she died probably mm hmmm. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:27.520 It's scary. 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.360 It's weird. And then you give it to Kim K 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:30.200 for what reason. 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.120 Let's talk about Cardi. Mmm. 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:42.200 I love Cardi B. She's pregnant. She's pregnant again. Congratulations 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.640 to her. She looks beautiful. Yeah, they say her all set. Well, 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.280 she filed for divorce. They're not saying. They're saying, you know, 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:54.800 because it's public record. M and he got some financial 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:59.840 battles with RS I think like Texas, and it's like 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.959 into the tune of a million dollars, which I think 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.520 they have over a million between the two two. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:07.120 Yeah, but who want to give it up? 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:13.920 Right? That part? That part, that part I really think. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.240 I hope that they're not really splitting up, that they're 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:21.640 only legally splitting up so he can transfer his assets 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:27.480 to her and not pay that million dollars. That could 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:33.679 be it, or she's just tired, she's citing error reconcilable 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:39.400 differences with no chance of patching things up. So there 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.200 wasn't anything in particular name as to the reason why 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.360 they're getting this divorced. But we've seen it in the 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:48.880 tabloids over the years, like that Nigga would be fucking okay, 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:53.000 he'd be cheating. It's an ex home, ex girlfriend, ex homegirl, 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:56.080 is somebody else pregnant right now? He's saying, ain't his people, 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:59.080 But I mean, why is the why do people saying 0:12:59.080 --> 0:12:59.720 that's your people? 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:01.080 Right? 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.480 And this is like almost the same day that she 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:06.320 revealed that she filed for divorce, she also, you know, 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:07.920 showed the world she was pregnant. I knew she was 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.800 pregnant when they did those pictures last month at Disney World. 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:16.079 She looked pregnant. And I mean Cardi always wanted the 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.240 kids like she won. I remember her being in the 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.000 breakfast club and she was telling La Mane like, I 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.120 want to have babes by Tom twenty five, like she 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.760 was younger then, and she did all the things. She 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:30.240 got a career, popping, she had her kids, and maybe 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:33.840 they are they are supposed to mate. You know, obviously 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:36.800 they got three whole babies out this relationship, so they 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:39.960 are mates. That Nigga's fertile as hell, because remember his 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.640 album was father of father of four. I think, now 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:47.280 you're a father of seven in a couple of years, 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.880 within just a couple of years. And I love those 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:53.880 little girls are so sweet, man, They are so precious, beautiful, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.319 precious beautiful baby seen them at on disney World. At 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:01.560 Disney World with Cardi b I'm like some cute little girls, man, 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:03.760 So I don't know, they look like a pretty good 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:07.439 family to me, and maybe this is all they were 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:08.360 supposed to do together. 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:11.200 It's just create life. 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.720 Yeah, some thing's come to an end, man, And why 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:18.920 force the situation that could be like real crazy in 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:26.320 fun of children when you guys can probably cohabitate better separately. Yeah, yeah, 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.680 I hear some kids crying in your background. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:33.200 Y'all. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:38.040 I'm transitioning starting over. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.520 So I'm at my friend, my best friend's house, and 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:46.120 she's the mother of two. So here we are, so listen, 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.000 We're going to get into a conversation about starting over 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:51.160 as soon as we come back from this commercial break, 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:59.080 sharing all my bits. All right, y'all, we're back, and 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:04.000 this we wanted to talk about starting over, okay, because 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:08.920 as adult, you know in your mind where you're young, 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:12.960 you think things are going to go a certain way, right, 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:17.040 But there are the ebbs and flows of life, and 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.200 sometimes things just don't work out how you think you're 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:22.240 supposed to. So I know me personally, I've started over 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:23.160 a lot of times. 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:26.680 I've started over so many times I'm actually tired. I'm 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.680 starting over again right now. You know, I'm starting over 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:30.440 again right now. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:31.120 Hard to reset. 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:31.560 Hard. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:37.120 I'm living out of a suitcase right now. Right now, 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.640 I'm living at my best friend's house with my god kids, 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:41.600 which has been absolutely great. 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:43.800 I got the bond with him in a real way. 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:48.080 But having kids that you're not used to having kids. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:52.680 Around, you're a lucome into close and I love them, 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:57.280 but God, I'm talking as soon as they wake up 0:15:57.280 --> 0:16:02.080 in the morning, is agreement having fun? They living kids, 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:05.680 lived the best life you. I just seen a post online. 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:12.280 You spend the post with this this girl somebody's baby 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.480 daddy flew her and her son out at the Disney World. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:17.480 But somebody in the comments was like, kids just be 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:22.320 doing carkwheels in the middle or anything chaos. I'd be 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.520 a sacked. The niggas don't know what be going on? 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:26.680 Like la la la la. I want to be like that. 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:29.000 Yeah, me too, I want I want to live my 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:31.480 life like that. All right, So let me get back 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.880 to my starting number. So I just decided I no 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:38.720 longer felt Charlotte. 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:40.880 Didn't feel like where I needed to be anymore. And 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:41.960 then I just. 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.160 Thought about where in the world do I want to go? 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:47.240 And I just pretty much end the globe and put 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.720 my finger down and now I'm. 0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:50.000 Going to La. 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:54.080 I'm kind of nervous about it because everybody, like anytime 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:57.600 I mention it, everybody you know, puts their energy of 0:16:57.640 --> 0:17:00.320 what they feel about LA onto me. 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:02.680 So I've been trying to I mean now until the 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:03.560 whole world. 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:08.840 But I wasn't sharing with a lot of people just 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:13.880 because of how people were putting their feelings. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:16.960 Like, oh LA is expensive, Oh LA is you can you. 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.360 Weren't your jewelry you know, just all kind you got 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:22.359 your jewelry out there, like just all kind of things 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:26.080 like that. So it made me, really it added to 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:29.560 how nervous I was about Meg, Yeah, about making this 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:32.080 huge change because it is across the country. It's not 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:35.440 like I can just drive to my mama's house if something. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.399 Goes wrong, you know. So it is nerve wrecking. 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:42.159 So I'm excited to see this list of tips that 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:45.040 you have for us for starting over, because maybe some 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:48.000 of these kings they're going to help. Well, maybe it 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:51.280 might just some Google shits, Okay, yeah, well sometimes that 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:55.400 Google shit. Hell here, I've moved several times, and I've 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:58.280 always moved by myself. And I remember when I moved 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.960 to Saint Louis. When I got to my place, I 0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:02.640 didn't have none of my stuff because it wasn't coming 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.960 until the next day. So it's just me and my 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:08.840 two dogs, Bell and Honey, sleeping on a blood mattress 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:11.119 that my landlord gave me until my stuff got in 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:16.040 the next day. And I cried all night long. Why 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:18.520 because I drove there all day long. It took me 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:20.760 to get to Saint Louis, And I'm like, Yo, what 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.480 the fuck that I did? Why did you choose Saint Louis. Well, 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:26.120 I was the company I was working for at the time. 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:28.800 I took a promotion and moved to Saint Woods. Okay, 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:31.679 so it was a work yeah, work thing, and I 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:34.280 lived there for about four or five years. But every 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:36.399 morning I would wake out like, yo, I'm still in prison. 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:38.920 I'm still here. That's how I think. 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:42.000 So so so, was that the only place out of 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.280 South Carolina that you, like, let's get out. 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:47.000 Saying here were you lowing? You left Charleston? When was 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:50.960 the first you went to Columbia Columbia College? How long 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:52.560 I might've been in Columbia. 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:54.320 B you was in college about two years. 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.600 Got the fuck up. But I remember I was not 0:18:56.720 --> 0:19:00.560 in college hotel. I was working, and that's the I 0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:02.560 was chasing fucking money when I should have just been 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:06.439 a bum ass college student. Instead I was chasing money. 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:08.760 Oh, college was so poor. I remember. 0:19:09.200 --> 0:19:12.840 I remember who was sharing like wind these chicken niggas 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:14.240 with somebody like the dollar minue. 0:19:14.280 --> 0:19:17.080 You chicken niggas is sharing it. That's how poor dude. Now, 0:19:17.119 --> 0:19:19.199 I kept a boyfriend in college. I remember when I 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:21.439 asked my mom for some money for toilet trees and 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:24.520 she was like, I'll see what I can do type 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:27.760 shitm So then I just I went to Augusta with 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:30.280 my friends that I met in school, and then she 0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:33.760 popped up in Colombia mad because I wasn't there. I'm like, girl, like, 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:35.480 you didn't tell me he was coming. You're coming to 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:38.240 give me cash money. So from that point on, I 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:40.200 stopped asking people for shit. I just kept the man, 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:46.119 so fuck, somebody gonna give it to me if you can't, mama. 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:48.800 So you went to Columbia. Then after Columbia, that's when 0:19:48.800 --> 0:19:51.439 you went to Saint Louis. After Columbia I went to 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:55.159 Atlanta running from a nigga. Atlanta wasn't far enough, so 0:19:55.200 --> 0:19:56.240 I moved to Saint Louis. 0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:57.639 He was running from a nigga. 0:19:57.800 --> 0:19:59.960 Yes, he was like trying to cut tie. 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:00.880 Oh man. 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:05.840 So most of my moves have not been for me, right, 0:20:07.600 --> 0:20:09.960 They haven't been because I wanted to or because I 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:12.960 want to see this place so bad. I really was 0:20:13.119 --> 0:20:17.080 moving because of relationships, either even either moving from somebody 0:20:17.160 --> 0:20:18.080 or moving to them. 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:19.240 Oh girl, me too. 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:23.000 And that's some bullshit, but not ever they show if 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:25.160 you're doing any changes, it's for you. 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:28.800 I think this is my very first move in my 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:29.480 life that did. 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:31.320 It wasn't with somebody. 0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:35.800 Yeah, centered around some mother somebody else because I left, 0:20:35.800 --> 0:20:38.560 all right. I left Columbia after college because I was 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:40.239 from Columbia, so I went to school there, and then 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:42.959 I moved to Atlanta. Everybody from Columbia moved to Atlanta. 0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:47.199 Body or Charlotte or Charlene. So moved to Atlanta. Is 0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:48.160 that all of yours before? 0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:49.120 That's it? Yeah? 0:20:49.200 --> 0:20:52.479 Yeah, I moved to Atlanta. I lived there. I was 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:58.600 I was wilding in Atlanta. Boy, good time, good times. 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:01.919 I stayed there for or what three years, and I 0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:04.479 was just doing too much and I wasn't happy. And 0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:09.320 I moved to Atlanta because my high school sweetheart he. 0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:11.600 Was in California, and I was finding out to California 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:12.040 to see him. 0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:13.680 And then he got a job in Atlanta to get 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:16.040 closer to home, and I thought that man get closer 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:20.639 to me. Oh did so. So I moved out to 0:21:20.680 --> 0:21:23.119 Atlanta to try to get closer to this men. And 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:25.400 he was like, I'm just getting real money. I don't 0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:28.000 ready to just be a single man. We've been together 0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:29.639 since we were kids. I want to know what it 0:21:29.680 --> 0:21:31.720 is like to be by myself, whichy'all understand. You know, 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:35.000 we were together since like what seven, sixteen seventeen. It's 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:39.440 like twenty I was like twenty five, twenty six now, so. 0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:40.800 We have been together a long time. 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:43.400