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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode if

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Speaker 1: We Talked Back, the show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 1: This is your co host, AJ Holiday. What's up tam Bam?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Hell, let's be tam Vam. I love y'all. What's up? AJ?

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Speaker 2: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: We up? We wake you woke?

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Speaker 3: Amen? Amen?

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Speaker 1: Thank you god?

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Speaker 3: Okay, period, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: It was eventful. I was hanging out with Tam Bam

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Speaker 1: this weekend. Child. We uh, we did some much needing,

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Speaker 1: catching up on visuals. I want y'all to know how

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Speaker 1: expensive it is, Okay. I see the comments on YouTube

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Speaker 1: saying we want to see y'all go price some of

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Speaker 1: this ship. Go see how much or send us some

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Speaker 1: money exactly out your fucking pocket. Yeah, it's expensive, but anyway,

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Speaker 1: we got it done and we'll try to produce more

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Speaker 1: visuals going forward for y'all. Okay, so y'all can see us,

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Speaker 1: We'll just be running out of fucking clothes and shit.

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Speaker 3: I'm about to start recirculating some of that shit. I

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna.

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Speaker 1: I just betch I order a Budet shit out fashion Over,

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Speaker 1: and it'd be throwaway clothes. So it just be like

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Speaker 1: I hate burn clothes to throw away, though, Like I

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Speaker 1: just like even quality to where I can just re

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Speaker 1: wear it. Sometimes I put cotton right into on fashion

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Speaker 1: Over so I can get one hundred percent. Because most

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Speaker 1: of that shit is polyester. It's gonna come apart, so

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Speaker 1: I try. Anyway, did you order that body that body

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Speaker 1: dress I sent you?

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Speaker 3: You didn't send me the link?

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Speaker 1: It's back up to twenty nine ninety nine on Amazon.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, god, damn, I meant to order two more. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was cute and a couple of different colors. Now

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Speaker 1: and the price don't went up. Price don't want today's

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Speaker 1: price is not today's What else we did this weekend? Tam,

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Speaker 1: We recorded, We got We went to dinner and got drunk. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't get drunk, y'all. I don't be drinking like

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Speaker 1: that no more.

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Speaker 3: For real, I was fucked up. I took like six

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Speaker 3: shots of Don Julia.

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Speaker 1: Maybe every time I hear people say I'm fasten off

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Speaker 1: liquor for a month, and so I'm like, y'all drink

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Speaker 1: that much to where you just gotta not drink.

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't. I don't drink.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I'm a social drinker. I don't drink at home, right,

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Speaker 1: and I really don't socialize that much.

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Speaker 3: So when I do, I do.

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Speaker 1: I keep wine at the house, though, but I don't

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Speaker 1: drink it. Like I just been a bottle of wine

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Speaker 1: last night because I just wanted to get freaky, so

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Speaker 1: I drunk a little bit of wine. Is that life, though,

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Speaker 1: Like when you get older and cohabitating and shit like that. Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I can have sex sober, like

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Speaker 1: completely sober. Try tonight now that I think about it.

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Speaker 1: I haven't had like good sober sex in a long time.

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Speaker 1: It's like the weed go with it, the wine go

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Speaker 1: with it, like the dick come with drugs, not the

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Speaker 1: dick come with when's the last time you had sober sex?

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Speaker 1: Like completely? Because you smoke smoke, I only smoke. What

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, Hey, I don't know what you're

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Speaker 1: talking about. I only smoke when I know I'm about

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Speaker 1: to have sex. Okay, that's the.

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Speaker 2: Only time I really wanted to hate.

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Speaker 3: I'm a paul that you would say such.

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Speaker 1: Unless shrew me. Okay, that's I do that by myself

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Speaker 1: once in a blue when there's nothing to do and

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Speaker 1: the tchi gets too thick for my soulful mind to

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Speaker 1: cut through, he said. But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Come on, bro, I don't know that it's j Z

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Speaker 3: feeling it.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's that shit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I typically do the same, but it's not to have sex.

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Speaker 1: It's just I'm already happen to be high and the

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Speaker 1: sex is gonna happen. That's what I'm saying. So when

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Speaker 1: is the last time you actually had intercourse without being

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Speaker 1: under the influence of anything. Well, you know, I've been

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Speaker 1: celibate until Marrow, like around my birthday, so I can't

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Speaker 1: remember anything in twenty twenty three, that's what you're asking.

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Speaker 3: It's too far back, so.

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Speaker 1: Yo, control all delete period. Let's get it a stupid news, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to start with this. I saw this on

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Speaker 1: the Daily Mail. Destiny's Child star LaToya Luckett's second ex

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Speaker 1: husband shaved her after she marries for the third time

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Speaker 1: of eight years. So, uh, tamikus, I guess that's how

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Speaker 1: you say his name Walker. He posted to his social

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Speaker 1: media a picture of Tom Brady wearing three Super Bowl

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Speaker 1: rings and he said three and seven years that that dynasty.

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Speaker 1: And he shared this with his one hundred and sixty

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Speaker 1: eight thousand followers to see, and the fans were quick

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Speaker 1: to defend the LaToya Luckett who with t Laya Coles. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they just got married recently on the twenty seventh of July.

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Speaker 1: And someone said, obviously she's surprised all three of y'all

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Speaker 1: popped the question take the ail my boy period.

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Speaker 3: That's how I feel, Corns, Why are you? Why are

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Speaker 3: you hating?

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Speaker 1: And obviously he's still single because if you weren't a relationship,

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Speaker 1: like you can post that, your woman wouldn't feel like

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Speaker 1: okay with you posting about your ex being married again.

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Speaker 1: And I mean like maybe she wanted some Mariah Gary shit.

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Speaker 1: If she's gonna pop that pussy Betty for her husband,

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Speaker 1: who knows, But why is that your business? Why are

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Speaker 1: you still bothered? He's not okay with them breaking up.

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Speaker 1: He's still hurt and you're the reason why they broke up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he was cheating, so yeah, he was cheating and doing

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Speaker 1: all types of wild ship to her. She's a beautiful woman.

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Speaker 1: She looked beautiful for her third wedding, okay than the

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Speaker 1: first in the second. Yes, girl, keep getting married. You're

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Speaker 1: looking better every time. You know what I'm saying, Because

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Speaker 1: we do glow up outside of bad relationships every time.

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Speaker 1: So I don't have a problem with LaToya Lucket marrying

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Speaker 1: five different men, ten different men. How many ever times

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Speaker 1: over do it?

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Speaker 3: Write a book for us, because I ain't. I ain't

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Speaker 3: here one proposal, not to one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm happy for her, Like how many ever times

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Speaker 1: you have to do it? Do it? Shit, fuck it.

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Speaker 1: That's what Look, that's what the process is for. That's

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Speaker 1: why divorce is available. It's not working on to the

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Speaker 1: next one. But I do hope that this one works

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Speaker 1: for her though. I hope this one is her for

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Speaker 1: ever partner. So is this the third marriage or the

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Speaker 1: fourth marriage?

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Speaker 3: This is the third?

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Speaker 1: Like one was young one midlife, kind of middle well

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Speaker 1: not even middle thirties away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thirties, and he wasn't acting right and now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and they look very happy, nice looking couple.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for them. Oh, Tomacus, whatever your name is,

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Speaker 1: you're a hater boom. So apparently Lo Wayne his his

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Speaker 1: notebook is on sale. His like rap notebook from the

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Speaker 1: nineties is on sale for five million dollars after legal

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Speaker 1: saga which I'm just so confused about this. It says

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Speaker 1: the rapper's old lyric book notebook from the nineties is

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Speaker 1: now officially on the market. The sale comes after a

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Speaker 1: dragged out legal dispute over its ownership, which was finally

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Speaker 1: resolved earlier this year. Initially listed for two and fifty

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars five years ago, the price is now shot

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Speaker 1: up to five million due to the rarity and significance

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Speaker 1: of the notebook. It said that low Wayne is considered

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Speaker 1: to be one of the greatest rappers of all time.

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Speaker 1: You think so making making his handwritten knows extremely valuable.

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Speaker 1: My thing is, how does somebody else own that if

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Speaker 1: he is the author of this book?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Like, how are you in the dispute over your ip? Basically?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Like I didn't know you have how to copyright notebooks?

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Speaker 1: That you know? Just like I got my little so

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Speaker 1: I gotta copyright my spell book cause one hundred years

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Speaker 1: orm now somebody might get a hold of it.

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Speaker 3: Well with that book, your bitch ass might still be.

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Speaker 1: Alive, y'all. That's my evil laugh. So Ego is live

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Speaker 1: spell backwards? Okay, but this.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, Yeah, that's weird his notebook. How can you be

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Speaker 3: in a legal battle over a note?

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Speaker 1: So do you think the baby owns it? Who owns it?

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Speaker 3: Right? Maybe? And not the baby? Baby baby? Because you know,

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Speaker 3: because I didn't even know that.

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Speaker 1: You think baby owns it? Because does Lowayne own himself?

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Speaker 1: Is what I'm thinking?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Who owns low Wayne?

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Speaker 3: A white girl? Now that's who he?

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Speaker 1: Helltle Chunky, he like the white girls?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: Like who owns him to where his intellectual property could

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Speaker 1: be up for auction? Like that where he no longer

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Speaker 1: owns it? And who was a dispute? Who's the disputing

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Speaker 1: party like in court? I'd like to know. I guess

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Speaker 1: you'll do a little bit more research into that.

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Speaker 3: But and what rich white man gonna buy it?

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Speaker 1: Because it's gonna be Drake. Drake is gonna be the

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Speaker 1: rich white man that buys lo Wings. Obviously he's a

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Speaker 1: collector of all things rap, right, so he can show

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Speaker 1: off to all the other rappers that he owns all

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Speaker 1: the rap. Para familiar from overtime Because I just saw

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Speaker 1: another video where he has Cameron's pink jacket and hat.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yes, so I guess it would be a good idea.

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Speaker 1: He has Tupac's ring. I have a problem with this, Like,

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Speaker 1: y'all sit right there, drake a whole fucking warlock. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this niggas doing spells with these people. Shit. Listen, you

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Speaker 1: remember when Kim K got Marilyn Monroe's dress and they

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Speaker 1: gave her a lock of Marilyn Monroau's hair. She's on

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Speaker 1: her show going into her little closet like, oh, what

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Speaker 1: can I do with this? She had a whole altar

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Speaker 1: set up in her closet, a lock of her hair, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: and the dress so no, I know what the fuck

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Speaker 1: I'd be looking at.

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Speaker 3: It's one thing to dress, but the hair is like

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Speaker 3: what you need with.

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Speaker 1: Her hair exactly. See when you mentioned hair, people automatically

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Speaker 1: think it's on which shit because that's what the fuck

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Speaker 1: it is. Right. Anyway, how did y'all get a lock

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Speaker 1: of her hair? People don't be owning themselves. They be commodities.

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Speaker 1: They might have took it when she died probably mm hmmm.

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Speaker 3: It's scary.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. And then you give it to Kim K

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Speaker 1: for what reason.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about Cardi. Mmm.

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Speaker 1: I love Cardi B. She's pregnant. She's pregnant again. Congratulations

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Speaker 1: to her. She looks beautiful. Yeah, they say her all set. Well,

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Speaker 1: she filed for divorce. They're not saying. They're saying, you know,

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Speaker 1: because it's public record. M and he got some financial

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Speaker 1: battles with RS I think like Texas, and it's like

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Speaker 1: into the tune of a million dollars, which I think

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Speaker 1: they have over a million between the two two.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but who want to give it up?

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Speaker 1: Right? That part? That part, that part I really think.

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Speaker 1: I hope that they're not really splitting up, that they're

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Speaker 1: only legally splitting up so he can transfer his assets

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Speaker 1: to her and not pay that million dollars. That could

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Speaker 5: Weren't your jewelry you know, just all kind you got

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Speaker 1: So I'm excited to see this list of tips that

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Speaker 1: You're here because I came in twenty fifteen. I came

436
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Speaker 1: in sixteen, so okay, yeah sixteen. I got here February twenty.

437
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Speaker 2: I came.

438
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 1: January twenty sixteen.

439
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, I came in February. And then now here I

440
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 5: am with Ken picking up and moving nervous about it.

441
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: Oh, what makes you want to go to La? What

442
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: you're trying to do right there?

443
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 2: Tamn?

444
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 1: I don't even know.

445
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 3: Man.

446
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 2: It's like I wouldn't maybe audition and.

447
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 1: Down like a mid life prices to me, I'm gonna

448
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Hello, man, get a corvette and

449
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: then in middle life. I'm not in that at all. Okay, yelp,

450
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: So listen, he said, I get a corvette.

451
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: The red carpet.

452
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: La is always somewhere I've wanted to live ever since

453
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: I was a little girl.

454
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 5: My lease was up, My Salon lease is about to

455
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 5: be up. I was like, am I gonna If I'm

456
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 5: gonna do it? Now's the time, right? It would be

457
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 5: good for our podcast networking. You come out there.

458
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: You see y'all had this shit. This is what I

459
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: know is gonna happen, right because Tammy's moving to LA

460
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 1: and she's claiming that she's gonna make her way back

461
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 1: to the East coast so we can continue business. But

462
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna be dragged somewhere and I'm

463
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: not being dragged. I do not like La. It feels

464
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: like Atlanta to me. It sucks the energy. I do

465
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: not like. Literally, I feel sick.

466
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: Well, you know you don't have.

467
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 5: To stay, but you'll have to come sometimes, right Why

468
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 5: because there might be some opportunities for us there.

469
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: Girl By, It was.

470
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 2: A good opportunity.

471
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: You're gonna come though, right, it depends somebody gotta beat

472
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: my ass out there too, your ass. You might have

473
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 1: to stay, Oh La. People like black women in LA.

474
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: So my thing is this do you really want?

475
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 4: Like?

476
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 1: This is this is we're talking about starting over now

477
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: at our big age.

478
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: What do you want?

479
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: Family wise? This might turn to a little therapy session, right, This.

480
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 3: Is not what we bought.

481
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 2: Two Episode big.

482
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: Do you really want a husband? Do you really want children?

483
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: You think, la, you're gonna find that there.

484
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 2: See, this is why I said I don't be telling people.

485
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: This is why I don't tell people, because this is

486
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 1: the energy i'all are getting. No, it's not.

487
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: I mean like I'm in alignment where where my life

488
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 2: is supposed to go? Right now, That's how I feel.

489
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: Got it?

490
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 2: You can't.

491
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: That's all I can say. Anything is possible.

492
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 2: You know what. I do want a husband, I do

493
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: want kid, a kid at least one.

494
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: Why at least gonna get half of one? Gut right

495
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Speaker 1: in a step?

496
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: I take a step? Can you too? At this point?

497
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? I would.

498
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 5: You know, I don't mind that. But I mean, we're

499
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 5: just gonna see where where this rodeo takes me. I'm

500
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 5: giving myself so with my moving on, my starting over,

501
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 5: I'm doing it smart this time. I'm not packing up

502
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 5: all my shit and just putting it in the place.

503
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 5: I put my stuff in storage. I got air and

504
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:10,159
Speaker 5: b Airbnb for sixty days and a rental card just

505
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,719
Speaker 5: to see, like, do I even like it here? If

506
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 5: I like it, then I'll ship all my shit right.

507
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 5: If I don't, then I'll come back, you know, so

508
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 5: we'll see what happens. But I don't think I'm doing that.

509
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 5: I don't think I'm gonna real lit. We gonna see though,

510
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 5: and you're gonna come over there. You gonna come over there.

511
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have a good time, and it's gonna be.

512
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: Some great opportunity, a lot of the both, A lot

513
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: of the great opportunities everywhere. You just gotta find them.

514
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 5: You're gonna see, be optimistic about our our opportunities there.

515
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 5: And my shit, I might meet my husbands soon as

516
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 5: I get off the plane. He might be flying the plane.

517
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: Bitch, I hear that. You never know.

518
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: Make she give me that buddy pass. That's all I know. Yeah,

519
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 1: because you're gonna need one coming back from La. Well,

520
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: I got shout out to all about nine reb girls.

521
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: I know what tiw it is, No duck, It depends

522
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: on what uh what tier you at? My d three?

523
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 1: Non rev ain't got me nowhere, duck.

524
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not having a spend.

525
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: All right, what's the zips? Okay, So this is listen.

526
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: I just while we were talking, I actually googled and

527
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: how to start over at forty So we got tutors

528
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: that girl, that's probably gonna be the same shit. Okay,

529
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: let's not go over old this diabolical which hard her

530
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: one time, my little niece. This is when she was younger.

531
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: She just graduated from high school and it's going she's

532
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: going to college now. But when I lived in Saint Louis,

533
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: they came to visit me and my two nieces and

534
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: my younger niece. She might have been like nine years

535
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: old at the time, and I was like, girl, you

536
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 1: a big as hell for a nine year old, just

537
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 1: fucking with her? Why she done sat there and googled

538
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: how big you support? How much should a twenty seven

539
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: year old wag at the time I was twenty seven

540
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: the hyerbolicle Right, well, actually, according to Google, you pretty

541
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: you pretty big for a twenty seven year old dad,

542
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: and that should have so aligned with who she is

543
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: right now. So today that's allied with you. That is

544
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: your baby, that is your das And she looked just

545
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: like me, girl, shit you would do. All I could

546
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 1: do was laugh, like that's funny?

547
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 4: Is fun She can't showed you or yeah I saw

548
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 4: that and show me like this time that you supposed

549
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 4: to wait at twenty seven, girl, fuck you to this day.

550
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: I love money anyway. So it says starting over it

551
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: can be, can be a natural part of life, and

552
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: it's never too late to do. So, Okay, here are

553
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: some tips that you may that may help. So it

554
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: says reflect, examine your values and goals, and consider what

555
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: you can change. Okay, So and this you're changing your

556
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: location environment Okay, And sometimes no, you know, I just

557
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna reinvent myself in a way too, Like

558
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: I think I'm just want to be like more. I

559
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: know I'm going to la where people are more superficial,

560
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: but I think I'm going to be less superficial, more

561
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: like concerned with just like the things that really have

562
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: value to me when they like, you know, recently, people

563
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: broke in my house and stole a whole bunch of

564
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 1: like designer shit bags and shoes and jewelry, and I

565
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: was like, what is the lesson in getting so all

566
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: of my stuff stolen?

567
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 5: And it's like that shit don't mean nothing. I know,

568
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 5: it's nothing at all. Like I maybe God wanted me.

569
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: To let go of those things because I was putting

570
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: too much value on the shit that really didn't matter.

571
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: So now they're gone.

572
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 5: I had to find a lesson because other than that,

573
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 5: I was just gonna be fucking mad. And if I

574
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 5: catch that bitch outside, it's still up.

575
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know your answer.

576
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 5: Yeah we seem to so anyway, girl, So I think

577
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 5: I just want to have like a more holistic healthy

578
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 5: I just it is a place of great where people

579
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 5: are very healthy. So I think I'll be more into

580
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 5: with that part of myself and just being a just

581
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 5: a better version of me. That's what I'm looking forward to.

582
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 5: We hope LA brings that out.

583
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: It says take action, stop waiting for the perfect moment,

584
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: and be willing to make a change. You can try

585
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: starting new lobbies like joining a group bike ride to

586
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: help you reach your goals.

587
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: What I don't know.

588
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 5: I mean here right through cycle, but I don't see

589
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 5: how that's helpful next to to start.

590
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: That's not like weight loss the fuck that too, But no,

591
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: that's not what we really want. But anyway, it says

592
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: be kind to yourself, practice mindfulness, be gentle with yourself,

593
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: and allow negative emotions to flow. You can also try

594
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: creating a positive mantra mantra to counter painful thoughts.

595
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 5: That's exciting that you said that, because I just started

596
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 5: doing this thing on my phone recently. Where how long

597
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 5: when you go to it in my notes? And I've

598
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 5: been doing it daily, so I have forgotten a couple

599
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 5: of days.

600
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: But its stuff I write down daily.

601
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's it says good things are always happening to me.

602
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: That's the top and I always and I write.

603
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 5: Something down daily that was good, that happened. I ain't

604
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 5: did shoot today yet, but I got to see it's been.

605
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: With my code.

606
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 5: We're regarding and we're recording and we're in person. So

607
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 5: that's my good thing for today, okay, and seeing your

608
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 5: beautiful smile.

609
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, period, y'all. We got some real good teeth on.

610
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: We talked about, dude, and I'd be like, really bragging

611
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: because when you live like in this time that we're

612
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: in right now, where everybody like our fossils are going

613
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: to have veneers on them. If anybody has any skin left,

614
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a sexy tattooed on the neck of it,

615
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: lips back, fucked up, a baby bird to brae crooked.

616
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,479
Speaker 1: You know what else, a baby fat cat girl fuck you,

617
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: or have Betty boot on my butt?

618
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: You got baby boop tip. Yeah, let's on break this is.

619
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: How long I've been aj holiday? Okay, I got this

620
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: tattoo when I was twenty years old, and on Betty

621
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: Boop's butt it says holiday like the tattoo and then

622
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: on her butt it says holiday. So you got a

623
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: butt a tattoo of a butt on your butt. Yes,

624
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: it's over this big ass birthmark. Did I say be

625
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: kind to yourself? Yep? Okay, all right? Ask for help.

626
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: If you're facing problems in your business, you can consider

627
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: hiring an expert for advice. In a relationship, you can

628
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: try a couple's counseling or working on your own personal growth.

629
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 5: So asking for help that is a good one. I

630
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 5: just I found that once I do tell people where

631
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 5: I'm going, a lot of people like I got a

632
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 5: friend out there, I can link you. I have had

633
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 5: so many people just because of what we posted from

634
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 5: last night, so many people in my dms like, oh,

635
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 5: I got.

636
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: A cousin out there, I got a sister out there,

637
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 2: I gotta.

638
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 5: Friends girl, right, so we need we link me with

639
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 5: all of that, A lot of meaningful yeah, yeah yeah.

640
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 5: If they don't coke, don't send them fruitful.

641
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: I feel like LA A lot of the cocaine users

642
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: a lot of that ship.

643
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 2: I don't want no parts of that.

644
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: It says reward yourself. Rewarding yourself in the moment can

645
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: help you realize that your efforts are resulting in a

646
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: positive out them. So you celebrated leaving, you should celebrate

647
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 1: getting there. Yeah, that's something you could possibly do.

648
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 2: That's a good idea.

649
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 5: I think my my friends share is gonna come over

650
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 5: with probably like a bottle of champagne, two classes.

651
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: Then we're gonna clean clean, you know.

652
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: Yep.

653
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: Another part that says this is like it says feeling

654
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: stuck in life. Five tips for how you can start over.

655
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Speaker 1: First one is assess the situation. The first step to

656
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: starting over is to step back and take an honest

657
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: look at your life. So I think people do this

658
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,720
Speaker 1: just annually, but I feel like quarterly, right, you should

659
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: do an assessment of your goals, do an assessment or

660
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: where you are, where you wanna be at like that.

661
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be an annual thing. Should daily shit. I

662
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: struggle daily just to do the basic shit I say

663
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do every day. But what I find is

664
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm quicker to do things for other people than I

665
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: am for myself. So every day I'm like, man, let

666
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: me do what I say I'm gonna do.

667
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's not a good habit, though. You need

668
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 5: to break that cause you'll look up and you.

669
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I need to do when

670
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: people are trying to figure out how to get things done,

671
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: Just do what you say you're gonna do, and it's done.

672
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 2: But if it was that easy the world, just think

673
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: about how many.

674
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if somebody else canna call you and you

675
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: jump for them, jump for yourself and every day, right,

676
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: and it's okay to say no to people. No, I

677
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: can't come to this. No, I can't help you with that.

678
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 1: I got a homegirl right now, I'm kind of avoiding

679
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: because I know you want me to help you with something.

680
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: Damn I didn't need any help, and I can.

681
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 2: You just say no?

682
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 3: Though?

683
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 2: Uh you get no.

684
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm not having trouble with saying no. I just don't

685
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 1: feel like it because I already know what she wants

686
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: and I'm not about to do it.

687
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 2: She wants to be.

688
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,399
Speaker 1: People don't want to use your connections that type of shit.

689
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 1: So yes, I needed right know, Yeah, just like you know,

690
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: like this is my lick, Like, why you think you

691
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: can have like people are so weird? Yeah, okay, but

692
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: I guess you got to use your connections. That everybody

693
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: got six degrees of separation, right right, So I don't

694
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: get mad at people before trying though, because I mean,

695
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: why not. You know, I guess I don't get fit,

696
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: so I just don't do it. I like or connections.

697
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: I like organic relationships. If I happen to be in

698
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: the vicinity of this person or you know, that's just

699
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: how I like. I don't force nothing, ever, I will

700
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: I will force it. Yeah, I know, I know, bitch,

701
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: I will force it. Okay. So number two says to

702
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: start with a new job, your career can be daunting

703
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: to change. I haven't worked for anybody since technically since

704
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen.

705
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: That's another thing.

706
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 5: When I get out there, I'm going to have to

707
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 5: maybe join the workforce a little bit ill.

708
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 1: No saying working, but I.

709
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 5: Just you know, I've always I mean, I'll still work

710
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 5: for myself, but you know, you know, doing Harry, you

711
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 5: still got a bill. You gotta start over, So I

712
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 5: might have to, like you know, I used to work

713
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 5: for Sophora, I might have to, like gal a part

714
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 5: time at Sophora or.

715
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: I can't imagine myself door dashing food, but could you

716
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: imagine me pulling me pulling up with your bit y'all?

717
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: Did any cars for work?

718
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 2: I will, though I'm not above it.

719
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: Like I actually enjoyed grocery shopping already any hustle, right,

720
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,959
Speaker 1: I'm not above it, but I just couldn't. I still

721
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: feels weird with be like here's your cheeburger.

722
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: But you never know, y'all to tell you what you

723
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: gotta do.

724
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: Y'all might be watching We Talk Back podcast in LA

725
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: and order some food, going to bring it to your

726
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: mother from man, Yo, I'm not above it, baby, like

727
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: it's just a grind. So we just go see what

728
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: hand hair up bring to god it do get that

729
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: bad girl.

730
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 2: I just watched it, man, that's what we all know that.

731
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,479
Speaker 1: Okay, we're talking about LA. We already on the cost

732
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: of living is astronomical, is out the fucking roof. So

733
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,479
Speaker 1: I can imagine you probably get paid a little better

734
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: doing that. You no, see, you're not airpacting. They have

735
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: like old stag up collar, Like girl, what you're doing? Girl?

736
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: I pull it up to.

737
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 1: And they gonna be yelling at your ass like you

738
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: be yelling at the goddamn ober eats. They got a dog,

739
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: they better come to ink girl. Same Okay, it says

740
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: moved to a new city. That's number three, So relocate

741
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: if I could think of any place i'd want to be.

742
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: This is why I just ended up moving back to

743
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: Charleston because we got palm trees. I don't know if

744
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: y'all know what do people be sleeping?

745
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 4: No?

746
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: I want to live in Barbados.

747
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: That all Barnac. That is my.

748
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like my soul be walls come

749
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: to be at home and Charleston. Never the Barbados and Charleston.

750
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of research. They have a lot

751
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: of like close history and it's the same niggas, you

752
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like even some of the neighborhoods

753
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: I looked at in Barbados, it looks like like the

754
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: hood and my mom grew up in. It's the same shit.

755
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: I So ultimately that's where you're gonna like go home.

756
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: That goals, Like I really want a beach house. I

757
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: could see it, I could see the free I want that.

758
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: So there's really no place else in America. I'd like

759
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: to live like I really am working, actively working on

760
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: getting the second passport. Mm hm, just in case, bitch.

761
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all seen the fucking stock market drop.

762
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: I don't know how many points today we entered a recession.

763
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: For sure. I feel like we've been in a recession

764
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: since twenty nineteen. But for sure just happening. You couldn't

765
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: even log into your brokerage account this morning. They shut

766
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: shit down. So this is what happened. When there's a

767
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: reset or restart the money. You think you having a bake,

768
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: it's not yours. When shit hit the hand, like, you're

769
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: gonna be lined up outside with everybody trying to get

770
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: that money, and they're gonna be like, nah, we ain't

771
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: got it.

772
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,720
Speaker 5: That's why I like my great grandmother. She was allowed

773
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 5: for the Great Depression, and uh, I said the great

774
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 5: because this might be the this might be the greatest.

775
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 5: But she would not believe in a bank. She did

776
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 5: not believe in putting no money in no bank.

777
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: And then the cash, the paper of Fiat money have

778
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: zero value. I don't know if people like I mentioned XRP,

779
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: but there's more articles coming out. Think of America is

780
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: now using XRP bitcoin like that shit is already like

781
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: through the roof. If you're trying to get into cryptocurrency,

782
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: that might be the next best thing. If you want

783
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 1: to wake out one morning and you know you paid

784
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: fifty cent for this for this coin, and now it's

785
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: worth a thousand.

786
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 5: Like my grandmother all her mother money and a like

787
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 5: in a tin can, and she put it in the

788
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 5: ground or under the bed.

789
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 2: Shame.

790
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 5: I know she was a booth in the mattress. She

791
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 5: was born in nineteen oh two, though, So let me, Yeah,

792
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 5: what do you do?

793
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe you gotta get some gold or

794
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: silver or something that's gonna actually have value because we've

795
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: been off of the gold standard with the US dollar. Okay,

796
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: it says immerse yourself in new activities. That's pretty much

797
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: what the other list said. So maybe instead of cycling,

798
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: you'll get you a ride your bike around.

799
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 5: I'll ride my bike and I want to do pilates

800
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 5: I ordered. Have y'all seen this pilates core thing.

801
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 2: It's like a little matt like a little contraption and

802
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: the lady has her hand on the flooris she's doing like.

803
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I keep they keep sending me that ship. I'm

804
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 1: ordering that thing, man, I want that thing.

805
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 2: I can't order ship right now.

806
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm moving, so I can't order nothing, but I do

807
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: want to, like, uh, somebody send me, like, hey, my

808
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 1: my cousin's in LA and she teaches a pilates.

809
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 2: Class, so they send me her Instagram.

810
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:35,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, by that, I definitely this gym in Charleston

811
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 1: is called High Low. I gotta I still have storage

812
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: in Columbias, all carlines. I gotta get that ship out

813
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: of there. But once I do, and I don't have

814
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: that bill anymore, I'm gonna get this membership because they

815
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: have hot pilates, hot yoga, and it's a regular city

816
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: yard gym. But that shit is like two hundred and

817
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: thirty seven dollars a month to see Highest for a

818
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 1: chap Wes just seem like a bad idea. Why just

819
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: put a band on and keep it moving. Every time

820
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: I even think I haven't had off, she looked like

821
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: a hat. Lied and she looked like a hat.

822
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: By the time I leave that.

823
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: Sliding back white, I remember I looked.

824
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 5: I was up the stair cliff, I was on the StairClimber,

825
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 5: I was sweating like perfusely in my hand on the wig.

826
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 5: And I was talking this is a planet fitness, And

827
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 5: I was talking to that white guy at the desk

828
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 5: and he said, you're you're skinned.

829
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 2: Oh thank you baby.

830
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: That ain't just here like I should be looking like

831
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:41,439
Speaker 1: Bookers there, your skin is peeling a little bit. White

832
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: people will be so nice appreciate when they turn out

833
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: to be load. Bro, You know what else to say,

834
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: Like I'm going on, bitch, give me kicked right off?

835
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: That was it?

836
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: That?

837
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: That is it for that little less like tips and

838
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: this this outherless is the starting over at forty No

839
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: fun there later that No fuck that list are ty

840
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: If he said five minutes our time is up, No

841
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 1: it's not, Sarzoda.

842
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 2: At forty you about to be real shady.

843
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: I can never know. It's a good one. Okay. It's

844
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: a self assessment. Take stock of your strengths, weaknesses, passions,

845
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: and aspirations and this can help you make better decisions

846
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: about your next step. Uh huh, Okay, set goals. Okay,

847
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: consider what you want to achieve by reinventing yourself.

848
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I received that one.

849
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: All right, have you done that yet? Have you done

850
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: an assessment, like, what is your actual goal for going

851
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: out there?

852
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:33,399
Speaker 3: Yeah?

853
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 2: I just want to be happy?

854
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: Okay, got it? Take risks, Okay. Reinventing yourself can be difficult,

855
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: but don't be afraid to fail. I ain't never afraid

856
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 1: of That's why I gave myself that sixty days, because

857
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:47,280
Speaker 1: I done had this going away.

858
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 5: And they gonna see me back here your sixty days

859
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 5: if I don't like it. And I just didn't like it,

860
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 5: So I came bad, right, You.

861
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 1: Gave that little disclosure lives that yeah, like, yeah, we're

862
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 1: gonna see what happens to baby girl, all right, and

863
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: brace lifelong learning, consider learning new things continuously planned financially

864
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: starting over my theory might require some financial adjustment. M m.

865
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 2: That's why I said I can't buy nothing new, Okay,

866
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 2: I can't.

867
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 4: So I.

868
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 2: Record another episode in y'all outfit.

869
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: Don't say shit to be I will never feel no

870
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: type of way about rewaring. So should I wish a

871
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: bit you would like in real life? I rewear my clothes? Yeah,

872
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Speaker 1: me too, Okay, So I don't. I mean, I don't know,

873
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: but you ain't never wore.

874
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 2: The same thing twice to film.

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00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 1: Yet I actually yes, I will be. I will be network,

876
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: use their existing network and look for ways to expand it. Okay,

877
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: and prioritize, prioritize self care, focus on your physical and

878
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 1: mental health.

879
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 2: There is like so where my airbnb is.

880
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 5: It's a really nice place and there's an Equinox walking

881
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 5: distance from it, and I google the Equinox price and

882
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 5: then I just that I will use this fitnessend there.

883
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: Ela stayed.

884
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: Say, unless somebody want to give me an Equinox membership,

885
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: that part then out on away gifts. Yeah, that's a

886
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: great that would be a great gift. So that was

887
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: that was good.

888
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was a good list. I think that'll

889
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 2: be some helpful tools for me. I mean some of

890
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: them was shit had already had in mind. But some

891
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: of those things, well we'll see what happened.

892
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: Because specially having my friends visit No, because I was listen,

893
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: if you don't come to see me, so I be

894
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: mad because you was just in LA when with that

895
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: head piece on looking pretty or a lot was two

896
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 1: years ago at this point, it was not two year

897
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: That was two years ago. That was a year before

898
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 1: last time is really speeding up. Damn, that was too

899
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 1: nine then back to La. Since then I got stuck

900
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: on a buddy pass thing.

901
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 4: Man.

902
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: I went to the airport like nine o'clock in the morning.

903
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: I get at that bitch till twelve o'clock at night.

904
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 2: It really is the olypics. When you're flying on rip

905
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 2: to pivot, you gotta be ready to pivot where you gotta.

906
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 1: Or you just gotta buy your damn ticket. That's where

907
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm at right now until I find a d one player. Okay,

908
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't have a d My cousin works part time

909
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: and I need a Delta person.

910
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 5: It's on yarney, and I could get a job at

911
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 5: the airport part time, and then I'll put you on.

912
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 5: Yeah you be my Yeah, you be my spouse.

913
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 1: Yeah plus one?

914
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, you got any last last.

915
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: Enjoy be good, Okay, keep your integrity intact. This is

916
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 1: for me, yes, okay, Okay, don't be sucking dick what.

917
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 2: I would never.

918
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: Like. Don't do nothing I wouldn't do. Okay, I'm a

919
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: whole prude. A motherfucking told me I have an elitist attitude. Okay,

920
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: that's that supposed to be an all right? I think

921
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: it was, Yeah, but it's not an insult.

922
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 2: To me, you know whatever.

923
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 5: I just feel like I'm not really susceptible to peer

924
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 5: pressure at whatever age I am.

925
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: We neither.

926
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 2: It was about to say that.

927
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: I am pressed. I just like I don't like, yeah,

928
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: I'm way beyond that. I did all the things like

929
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: that I want to do.

930
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: Right, me too, me too.

931
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: So it's just like, no, it's so easy to roll

932
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: off my tongue at this age way and without a

933
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: the explanation.

934
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: You know how sometimes people tell you no and they

935
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: feel like they.

936
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:35,720
Speaker 1: Need to tell you play why you know, period, just no,

937
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: no complete statement. And that was Nick, and that's it.

938
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: And I love you and be good.

939
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 2: I don't love you too, and I'll see you soon.

940
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: And don't fuck up our business. I will never, okay,

941
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: we will never.

942
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 2: I would never. I'll be back in three weeks. I'll

943
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 2: be back in three weeks. Like I told Jordan, I said,

944
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:53,280
Speaker 2: we'll see.

945
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: Well you're recording next next month. Well i'll be I

946
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: have to be bad because I heard somebody laught like, bitch,

947
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: you bad back my hair in three weeks for.

948
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 5: The way, it's her wedding, So yeah, I'll definitely be

949
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 5: here for sure. And then I have obligation to you

950
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 5: into our show into yeah, her wedding, so you'll see

951
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 5: me no.

952
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: Words, may I don't worry. I'll take your as to court.

953
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 2: She's not lie.

954
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: All right, y'all said you got a last last for yourself.

955
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: Catch me in l a bitches.

956
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: I'll see you there, all right, y'all. That's all we

957
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: got for today. And if you enjoy this episode, y'all

958
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on a Black Effect podcast iHeartRadio,

959
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Speaker 1: Apple Web, But the fuck you get your podcast at?

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Speaker 1: This is your co host aj Holiday two point zero

961
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Speaker 1: on Instagram.

962
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Speaker 2: All this official to your band on Instagram. Remember speak now.

963
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: And never hold your place. Just move around. If that's

964
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: what you feel like you want to do, do it.

965
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: New environments, bring new opportunities, new people. Just fucking do it.

966
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,919
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