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Speaker 1: A few months ago, we heard about a first date

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Speaker 1: going to be going to her favorite brunch spot that day. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it turns out they were headed someplace way different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was definitely not dressed for No, not.

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Speaker 1: Nearly as romantic, but still it led to one of

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Speaker 1: the sweetest, most memorable calls that we've had all year.

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Speaker 1: And today we're gonna have both of them back on

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Speaker 1: the show to find out what's happened since their chaotic

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Speaker 1: second date update update right after their original phone call.

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Speaker 1: That's happening next second dat up date. You know, recently,

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Speaker 1: I was on a dating app trying to find matches

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Speaker 1: for Jose. Oh yeah, Honestly it was really difficult. Not

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Speaker 1: because of what Jose wants, you know, because he'll go

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Speaker 1: out with pretty much anything. I'm just saying that as

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Speaker 1: a single it's got to be hard because the apps

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Speaker 1: field was so many odd people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly on like.

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Speaker 1: With photos wearing tons of makeup and filters, or someone

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Speaker 1: that says still single. I don't know is that supposed

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Speaker 1: to be funny or is it meant to make me

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Speaker 1: sad and it make me feel bad enough to go

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Speaker 1: I really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into

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Speaker 1: the show today and said he was just happy that

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Speaker 1: her profile seemed somewhat normal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not looking for a swamp girl to go

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Speaker 3: Boy, No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: OK, tell us about the woman that you matched with.

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Speaker 1: What's her name, Jamie? All right?

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Speaker 2: Is there anything exceptional to say about her? Or was

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Speaker 2: she just normal?

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Speaker 3: She seemed very normal, super cute, and you know, I

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Speaker 3: was raised on a farm, so she didn't necessarily look

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Speaker 2: She could still pick up a bail of hay. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming that that's on your list.

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Speaker 1: What do you do with a normal girl for a

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Well, the date that I kind of pitched to her

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Speaker 3: that she kind of agreed to was, you know, let's

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Speaker 3: just have a date on my family farm, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I can show you what farm life is day to

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Speaker 2: Minute, does that mean that she's like meeting your family

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Speaker 3: I mean it is the family farm, so we pretty

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Speaker 3: much it's just family that works there. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to experience how I grew up and

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Speaker 3: you know, my just kind of day to day living.

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Speaker 2: So are you still working on the farm too?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Part time okay, And I can imagine all the cute

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had the whole nine yards. We got a

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Speaker 3: cow's chickens goat. I will get to mister Harvey in

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Speaker 3: a little bit, but yeah, yes, that is our goat.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is an interesting choice for a first date. Like,

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Speaker 1: what was her reaction when you pitched this idea to him?

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Speaker 3: Well, she seemed kind of excited about it. I mean

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Speaker 3: Picked her up early in the morning. We drove out

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, I like work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to stop here for a second. I

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Speaker 3: No, I did spare her the manure when you know,

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Speaker 1: Brook did the same thing to me on my first

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Speaker 2: I got to say, I'm part goat.

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 2: I could get behind that. Did that scare her?

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Speaker 3: Well? Not at first? I mean at first I think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're describing Brooks to a tea. Here's getting flashbacks

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Speaker 3: I mean, she did laugh about it, so I just

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you've ever tried to milk a goat,

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a mostly Brooke experience room at least, So

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Speaker 1: I mean, how did how did the date end for

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Speaker 3: Well, we had we had lunch with my parents and

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Speaker 1: But everyone knows that I want her.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want it. I wanted to do the kind

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Speaker 3: we agreed to the farm date.

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Speaker 1: Do you bring a lot of women out to the

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Speaker 3: A new thing with now that's honestly, this is the

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Speaker 2: Are you regretting the farm date idea since she isn't

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Speaker 3: I'm beginning to think it might have been a bad idea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I disagree. I think if she's a city girl,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Jamie here in just a second and

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Speaker 1: get your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you?

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on man, update.

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Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 2: right after you here. Part two.

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Speaker 1: You know, old McDonald may have had a farm, but

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Speaker 1: old mcsteve o had a date. Oh yeah, yeah, yoh.

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Speaker 1: And on his date, there was a Jamie yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: yoh with a farm chore. Here in a farm chore. There,

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Speaker 1: here's my mom, here's my dad. Here's a goat. That's bad.

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Speaker 1: But Steve did take Jamie to his family farm. And

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Speaker 1: I think the overwhelming thought in studio right now is

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Speaker 2: I mean, it almost sounds like your family was using

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say that. I thought she was having fun.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, she was having fun. This is like a

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Speaker 1: that for a first date? To a lifetime opportunity? The animals.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you want to go to yeah, yeah, farm.

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Speaker 2: Farmhand, Jamie, farm hand, that's what people who work on

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, Hey Jamie. My name is

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Speaker 1: jeff from the radio Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we need some extra help around the radio station. And

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Speaker 1: we heard you are excellent.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, what is this about?

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Speaker 1: This is about a segment that we're doing called a

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and say we're trying to help one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners named Steve get back in touch with

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that was all big old side there, Jamie.

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Speaker 1: We've already spoken to Steve about your first day with him,

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Speaker 1: and we've heard his side of the story. We're interested

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Speaker 1: you thought about him and his family farm.

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, he didn't say his family farm.

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Speaker 2: He didn't.

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Speaker 4: No, he said, hey, do you want to go to

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Speaker 4: the farm for frunch? And I'm like, oh, I love that.

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Speaker 1: You didn't know his family was going to be there.

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Speaker 2: Wait, you love that place, like the farm is in

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Speaker 5: Yet it's really hit. So I thought we were going

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Speaker 4: Oh that's a lot different.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he thought that you understood. He didn't

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Speaker 2: think that you thought bottomless mimosas I was not.

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Speaker 4: I was not against it, but I had a night

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Speaker 5: I was not expecting to be feeling hay and smoking cows.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so wait a minute, though, Like his parents opened

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Speaker 2: the door and they hand you a set of coveralls, Like,

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Speaker 2: why didn't you say something like that? You had no idea.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I was a little out of it, and I

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Speaker 1: Plus that would be really rude to just get out

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Speaker 1: want to do I didn't want to be here.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to say that. She could say, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, I had no idea. You meant a literal

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Speaker 1: That doesn't look good in front of the parents, know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he really liked me.

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Speaker 5: And honestly, it started out like, oh, this is cute,

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Speaker 1: Well I know, like, not only did mister Harvey like you,

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, you're joking.

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Speaker 1: Right, No, I'm serious.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Jamie. I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding. I assumed

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Speaker 4: No, I see, yeah, you you know, and just start talking.

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Speaker 5: You were like the farm, the farm. You never said

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just the sad Yeah, I apologize for that. I'm

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Speaker 5: I mean, you know, I was having as good at

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Speaker 4: Hey, so your family is lovely, and I think you're lovely.

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Speaker 5: We didn't have enough time to actually get to know

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Speaker 1: So Steve, like, how is this sitting with you? Hearing

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jamie, it sounds like you really had a lot

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was getting that same vibe when I was

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Speaker 5: Then I'm not trying to fit into your family. This

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Speaker 2: So yeah, do you understand that, Steve, Because it's like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not what I'm trying to sound like. To

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I did agree to that, but after

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Speaker 1: I could Oh no, now you're going to complain about

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Speaker 3: Well, that was if I could interrupt. I mean, that

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Speaker 5: I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes of.

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Speaker 4: What it would feel like to not be like aware

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he's understanding, and it's just he's being

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Speaker 1: It sounds like a classic example of a guy giving

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Speaker 2: Well, he did kind of attack her for complaining, and.

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Speaker 1: Now he's getting it from the host of the show

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Speaker 2: To I just think everybody needs to take a deep breath.

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Speaker 2: I think this could work.

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Speaker 1: Starting with you would be great because I would like

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Speaker 1: where you have great communication. There's no farm work needed

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Speaker 5: Well, you know what the positive thing is that he

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Speaker 4: I mean it was caring a little bit mess to me.

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Speaker 4: His family so fast. I guess i'd be open to it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Jenny, you're open to it. Steve, what do

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Speaker 3: Sounds great to me? And I apologize about my family.

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Speaker 4: They're lovely. It was just so fast.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, see, this is kid against all odds. We

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Speaker 1: got a successful second date. All right. Now, let's agree

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Speaker 1: second dates work, but that's how it goes in my neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: Frooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's been months since we had them on for

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Speaker 1: how's it going.

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Speaker 4: Hey, guys, it's going well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's shocking. I really didn't think it was going

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Speaker 2: to be you on the phone. Oh really, yes, I

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Speaker 4: Oh, he couldn't make it. He had a meeting. He

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Speaker 2: Year still talking?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, or you him and you know his schedule.

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Speaker 1: So wait after your call, you guys did go out

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Speaker 5: We actually did go out on a second date. I

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Speaker 1: How was that? Was he impressed?

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Speaker 5: I mean there was a little touch in going the

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Speaker 5: unfortunately he got sick.

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Speaker 1: No, whatten got like food poisoning sick.

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Speaker 5: Yes, he after poisoning sick. It was really awkward.

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Speaker 1: Of course that would happen the one time you bring

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Speaker 4: But it was.

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Speaker 5: Actually pretty bonding because he went home.

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Speaker 4: I took Cara him.

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Speaker 5: And then like you know, for the next few days

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Speaker 2: So wait, so you guys are still dating.

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Speaker 4: No, we're like exclusive.

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Speaker 2: Have you been out on the actual farm working again? Then,

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Speaker 2: now that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean we we've met with this family, We've

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Speaker 5: We're basically we're staying away.

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Speaker 4: From all things with the farms.

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Speaker 5: Anything that farm related, we're staying away from.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, learned your lesson. I see, great for you guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're really happy.

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Speaker 5: I'm really grateful to you.

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Speaker 5: Were like offering a second date because after the first

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Speaker 5: And so now it's it's great.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you see a second chance. Yeah, you make out

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Speaker 1: your check five hundred dollars to Jeff. Okay, serious, we're

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Speaker 1: all happy for you, Jamie and U And tell Steve

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Speaker 4: I will, I will. He's back to normal.

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Speaker 1: Just so you know, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning