WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Credit Card Catastrophe

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels second date up to date, Jose when's the

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<v Speaker 1>last date you went on? Oh? Man, it has been

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<v Speaker 1>at least six seven months at least, so I guess

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update isn't in order here, not at

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<v Speaker 1>all for you, Rook and Jewel. In the morning, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>moving Night two one five your second date update. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got Ian on the phone. He emailed us about

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Sabrina. What's up being, Hey Judel, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing brother? I'm right, man, tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your email. It's it's pretty simple, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know why she uh, why she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with me again. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>need some help getting on the phone. Really really okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Why isn't Sabrina calling you back? It's so stupid. My

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<v Speaker 1>credit card got declined, man, and I'm flush, I've got money.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I've got great credit. It's cool. You know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so bizarre. So was this at like dinner or something? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a pretty nice restauran Toronto. She might have

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<v Speaker 1>been a little embarrassed, all right. So did she end

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<v Speaker 1>up paying the bill for you guys? No, I paid

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<v Speaker 1>the bill. I took care of it. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the counter with the waiters. How would you

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<v Speaker 1>pay for washing dishes? Like I told another card out? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what was Sabrina's reaction? Did her demeanor change? You

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<v Speaker 1>could just tell like she's just chance uncomfortable. So when

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter came up all of a sudden suspicious, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when the waiter count at your table was like, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>your credit card has been declined, you kind of noticed

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<v Speaker 1>that she looked like, um, what's the deal here? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you can't help but like hold your breath for

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<v Speaker 1>a split second. Woman happens since something, even if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>you like, and so you haven't heard from her since

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<v Speaker 1>your date? No, man, I had well, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>know I called her one to text her one, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know I really liked her, and so stupid you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't explain the circumstances at the time. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>started too, but but like you know, the whole woman

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<v Speaker 1>that doctor protests too much kind of thing, like I

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<v Speaker 1>would have started to over explain it, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>looked even more. Yeah, Okay, when you're in that situation,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to know, like how much do I because

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<v Speaker 1>now it looks like I'm over compensating. I'm still in

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<v Speaker 1>the situation where I don't know if how much to

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<v Speaker 1>explain other than like, I'm not a deadbeat. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>great credit. You know that we're gonna pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>second dinner, don't you. That's why you really called us

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<v Speaker 1>exactly all right, all right, we're gonna call it right

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<v Speaker 1>after this song. Now you've paid your cell phone bill,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can be on hold right for a three

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<v Speaker 1>and a half minutes or so. Yeah, well set, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call it right over this hang on, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning. You know, normally when we

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<v Speaker 1>call somebody on a second day update, we're curious what

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<v Speaker 1>the reason is that they didn't get back to somebody

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<v Speaker 1>we know today exactly why Ian's on the phone. He

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us about a girl named Sabrina. Um his credit

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<v Speaker 1>card was declined at dinner, and he could tell that

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<v Speaker 1>Sabrina didn't really like that very much. And you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>quite take it up tours. You guys didn't leave on

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<v Speaker 1>a good note. I mean we left on a fine note.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean pach at dinner and you know you went home,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean didn't go home together. And you want to

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<v Speaker 1>explain to her that you do have money. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which I feel like says a lot about Sabrina. I

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<v Speaker 1>know one thing for me, I have one rule. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>date broke host, So you know what I mean, Like Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't date you all. Maybe don't call your girlfriend's

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<v Speaker 1>home might be a good rule. All right, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call it right now. U feel free to jump

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<v Speaker 1>in whenever you want. Hello. Hey, is Sabrina there? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Sabrina, Sabrina. How are you? This is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two

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<v Speaker 1>point five. You got a second? What's sorry? Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>H This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the

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<v Speaker 1>Morning on moving ninety two point five the radio station. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what I know, it's kind of weird us calling, but

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<v Speaker 1>you'll understand why in a second. Did I give him

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<v Speaker 1>my number? You did not? What? I'm sorry, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what this is about. We were given your number

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<v Speaker 1>by a guy named Ian that you went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with. What. Yeah, he told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your date, and he really liked you and wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, but you haven't called him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wanted us to call you and ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you mind telling us the credit card guy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>now he thinks that you didn't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again because his credit card got declined. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that is that the reason why it was just a

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<v Speaker 1>weird experience, Like, gave a credit card, it got declined.

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<v Speaker 1>Gave him other also got declined. Oh, very awkward, and

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<v Speaker 1>he went to touch the waiters. I went to the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and I glanced over and you had just this

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<v Speaker 1>like pile of credit cards really getting declined, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just dumb. So you were spying weirding me out

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<v Speaker 1>a bit, Sabrina, Ilian's on the phone right now. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you were totally spying on me. You had like nine cards.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not nine, it was three. Let let her

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<v Speaker 1>talk a little bit here. Um, So you saw a

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<v Speaker 1>pile of cards, that's what you're saying, Sabrina. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you sure that they were credit cards that like business

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<v Speaker 1>cards mixed in or anything. I mean maybe there were

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<v Speaker 1>some business cards mixed in, but like you go over

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<v Speaker 1>talk to the waitress, you have a handful of Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's stuff. It's just it's awkward and it you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't want to be involved with that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of debt situation. Look, I'm totally embarrassed. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to know that I have money. One of them was

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<v Speaker 1>the security thing. One of them was turned down because

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<v Speaker 1>I actually had gone over my limit because I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>paying attention. But I have a bunch of credit cards

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<v Speaker 1>because I clicked airline miles because I'm a big traveler.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not that guy. Well, but hey, ian Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>were there multiple cards declined? Yes? Three total? Three total? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a lot of credit cards to be declined

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<v Speaker 1>to one gets to clined. Fine, But like after a couple,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it feels like you don't have your life together.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm sorry. I think you're lying and you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to be honest with where you're at. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not being dishonest. And I called because I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>people were supposed to help me. You know, hey, if you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you, if, why aren't you being the one writing

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<v Speaker 1>my butt right now? I'm trying to get a second

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<v Speaker 1>date here. Yeah alone now now you clim to make

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money and everything else. Is that true?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you in debt? There's a difference. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got the normal amount of debt like everybody else does.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to pay off my cards every month, Sabrina.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were sitting with him, did he seem like

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<v Speaker 1>a financial mess? I mean, he seemed to have it

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<v Speaker 1>together until that moment. I just I feel like, if

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<v Speaker 1>if it's hard for you to cover US sixty dollars meal,

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<v Speaker 1>there are probably some financial problems in real life. And

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter how much money he makes. If he's

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<v Speaker 1>spending more than he's making. I mean, he could be

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<v Speaker 1>making eight hundred thousand dollars a year. If he's spending

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<v Speaker 1>nine hundred thousand, he's an idiot. Ye, turn of the

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<v Speaker 1>financial hour and moving ninety two point five. Hey, Ian

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<v Speaker 1>obviously wants to go out with you against Sabrina. If

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<v Speaker 1>we pay for the second date, we'll use Brooks cards

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<v Speaker 1>because they won't be declined. If we pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>second date, would you go out with him again? You

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<v Speaker 1>know it's not really about that, Okay, So no, what

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<v Speaker 1>if he brings along his bank statements and everything else,

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<v Speaker 1>or just like a lot of hundreds that he can

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<v Speaker 1>just shower you in. I will bring cash. I will

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<v Speaker 1>bring cash. Hand rellasant cat, Sabrina. He is kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a likable guy. Yeah, no, it's yeah, come one

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<v Speaker 1>one more date with him, you know, then you can

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<v Speaker 1>see it, like, just see if you really like him

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<v Speaker 1>and get a shot. I mean, it's only a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have been out on one date and you're

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<v Speaker 1>already planning your financial future. Dude, is its red flags? Necessarily?

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<v Speaker 1>Give it a shot, Sabrina. We're not that old. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not that old. You don't have to start red flagging people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not I mean, it's not one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>where my life is ending soon. I need to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out who I'm gonna marry. Let's go have some fun

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<v Speaker 1>and see where it goes, and I'll prove to you

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm not a dead peak. There you go, Sabrina. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a lot of pressure on the radio. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, that's why this way, I'll go on one

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<v Speaker 1>more day. Congratulations and you got your second date, Sabrina.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope everything goes well. And hey about us paying

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<v Speaker 1>for the date. I just remembered I was in Spain

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<v Speaker 1>last week and then I was over in the Utah,

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<v Speaker 1>so our card's not gonna work, you know, two places

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<v Speaker 1>and all that broken chewpl in the morning,