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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels second date up to date, Jose when's the

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Speaker 1: last date you went on? Oh? Man, it has been

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Speaker 1: at least six seven months at least, so I guess

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Speaker 1: a second date update isn't in order here, not at

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Speaker 1: all for you, Rook and Jewel. In the morning, I'm

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Speaker 1: moving Night two one five your second date update. Today,

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Speaker 1: we've got Ian on the phone. He emailed us about

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Speaker 1: a girl named Sabrina. What's up being, Hey Judel, what

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Speaker 1: are you doing brother? I'm right, man, tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about your email. It's it's pretty simple, man.

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Speaker 1: I think I know why she uh, why she didn't

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Speaker 1: want to go out with me again. But I just

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Speaker 1: need some help getting on the phone. Really really okay.

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Speaker 1: Why isn't Sabrina calling you back? It's so stupid. My

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Speaker 1: credit card got declined, man, and I'm flush, I've got money.

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Speaker 1: I'm I've got great credit. It's cool. You know. It's

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Speaker 1: so bizarre. So was this at like dinner or something? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was a pretty nice restauran Toronto. She might have

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Speaker 1: been a little embarrassed, all right. So did she end

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Speaker 1: up paying the bill for you guys? No, I paid

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Speaker 1: the bill. I took care of it. I had to

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Speaker 1: go to the counter with the waiters. How would you

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Speaker 1: pay for washing dishes? Like I told another card out? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so what was Sabrina's reaction? Did her demeanor change? You

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Speaker 1: could just tell like she's just chance uncomfortable. So when

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Speaker 1: the waiter came up all of a sudden suspicious, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: when the waiter count at your table was like, sir,

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Speaker 1: your credit card has been declined, you kind of noticed

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Speaker 1: that she looked like, um, what's the deal here? I

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Speaker 1: mean you can't help but like hold your breath for

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Speaker 1: a split second. Woman happens since something, even if somebody

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Speaker 1: you like, and so you haven't heard from her since

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Speaker 1: your date? No, man, I had well, I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know I called her one to text her one, but

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Speaker 1: you know I really liked her, and so stupid you

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Speaker 1: didn't explain the circumstances at the time. I mean I

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Speaker 1: started too, but but like you know, the whole woman

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Speaker 1: would have started to over explain it, I would have

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Speaker 1: looked even more. Yeah, Okay, when you're in that situation,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to know, like how much do I because

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Speaker 1: now it looks like I'm over compensating. I'm still in

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Speaker 1: the situation where I don't know if how much to

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Speaker 1: explain other than like, I'm not a deadbeat. I've got

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Speaker 1: great credit. You know that we're gonna pay for the

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Speaker 1: second dinner, don't you. That's why you really called us

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Speaker 1: exactly all right, all right, we're gonna call it right

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Speaker 1: after this song. Now you've paid your cell phone bill,

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Speaker 1: so you can be on hold right for a three

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Speaker 1: we'll call it right over this hang on, all right,

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Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. You know, normally when we

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Speaker 1: call somebody on a second day update, we're curious what

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Speaker 1: the reason is that they didn't get back to somebody

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Speaker 1: we know today exactly why Ian's on the phone. He

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Speaker 1: emailed us about a girl named Sabrina. Um his credit

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Speaker 1: card was declined at dinner, and he could tell that

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Speaker 1: Sabrina didn't really like that very much. And you didn't

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Speaker 1: a good note. I mean we left on a fine note.

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Speaker 1: I mean pach at dinner and you know you went home,

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Speaker 1: I mean didn't go home together. And you want to

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Speaker 1: explain to her that you do have money. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: which I feel like says a lot about Sabrina. I

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Speaker 1: know one thing for me, I have one rule. Don't

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Speaker 1: date broke host, So you know what I mean, Like Ian,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't date you all. Maybe don't call your girlfriend's

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Speaker 1: home might be a good rule. All right, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call it right now. U feel free to jump

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Speaker 1: in whenever you want. Hello. Hey, is Sabrina there? This

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Speaker 1: is Sabrina, Sabrina. How are you? This is Jewel from

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two

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Speaker 1: point five. You got a second? What's sorry? Who is this?

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Speaker 1: H This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the

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Speaker 1: Morning on moving ninety two point five the radio station. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what I know, it's kind of weird us calling, but

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Speaker 1: you'll understand why in a second. Did I give him

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Speaker 1: and he wanted us to call you and ask you,

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Speaker 1: why do you mind telling us the credit card guy? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now he thinks that you didn't want to go out

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Speaker 1: that is that the reason why it was just a

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Speaker 1: Gave him other also got declined. Oh, very awkward, and

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Speaker 1: he went to touch the waiters. I went to the

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Speaker 1: was just dumb. So you were spying weirding me out

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Speaker 1: a bit, Sabrina, Ilian's on the phone right now. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you were totally spying on me. You had like nine cards.

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Speaker 1: It was not nine, it was three. Let let her

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Speaker 1: pile of cards, that's what you're saying, Sabrina. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: you sure that they were credit cards that like business

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Speaker 1: it's stuff. It's just it's awkward and it you know,

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Speaker 1: I just I don't want to be involved with that

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Speaker 1: kind of debt situation. Look, I'm totally embarrassed. You have

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Speaker 1: to know that I have money. One of them was

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Speaker 1: I actually had gone over my limit because I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: paying attention. But I have a bunch of credit cards

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Speaker 1: because I clicked airline miles because I'm a big traveler.

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not that guy. Well, but hey, ian Ian,

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Speaker 1: were there multiple cards declined? Yes? Three total? Three total? Okay,

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Speaker 1: and that's a lot of credit cards to be declined

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Speaker 1: to one gets to clined. Fine, But like after a couple,

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Speaker 1: it's just it feels like you don't have your life together.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm sorry. I think you're lying and you

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Speaker 1: just need to be honest with where you're at. I'm

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Speaker 1: not being dishonest. And I called because I thought you

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Speaker 1: people were supposed to help me. You know, hey, if you,

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Speaker 1: my butt right now? I'm trying to get a second

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Speaker 1: a lot of money and everything else. Is that true?

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Speaker 1: You got to pay off my cards every month, Sabrina.

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Speaker 1: if it's hard for you to cover US sixty dollars meal,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter how much money he makes. If he's

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Speaker 1: making eight hundred thousand dollars a year. If he's spending

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Speaker 1: nine hundred thousand, he's an idiot. Ye, turn of the

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Speaker 1: financial hour and moving ninety two point five. Hey, Ian

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Speaker 1: obviously wants to go out with you against Sabrina. If

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Speaker 1: we pay for the second date, we'll use Brooks cards

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Speaker 1: because they won't be declined. If we pay for the

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Speaker 1: second date, would you go out with him again? You

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Speaker 1: know it's not really about that, Okay, So no, what

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Speaker 1: if he brings along his bank statements and everything else,

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Speaker 1: just shower you in. I will bring cash. I will

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Speaker 1: bring cash. Hand rellasant cat, Sabrina. He is kind of funny.

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Speaker 1: He's a likable guy. Yeah, no, it's yeah, come one

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Speaker 1: You guys have been out on one date and you're

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Speaker 1: already planning your financial future. Dude, is its red flags? Necessarily?

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Speaker 1: Give it a shot, Sabrina. We're not that old. We're

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Speaker 1: not that old. You don't have to start red flagging people.

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Speaker 1: It's not I mean, it's not one of those things

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Speaker 1: where my life is ending soon. I need to figure

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Speaker 1: out who I'm gonna marry. Let's go have some fun

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Speaker 1: and see where it goes, and I'll prove to you

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Speaker 1: then I'm not a dead peak. There you go, Sabrina. Um,

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Speaker 1: I know, that's why this way, I'll go on one

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Speaker 1: more day. Congratulations and you got your second date, Sabrina.

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Speaker 1: I hope everything goes well. And hey about us paying

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Speaker 1: for the date. I just remembered I was in Spain

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Speaker 1: last week and then I was over in the Utah,

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Speaker 1: so our card's not gonna work, you know, two places

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Speaker 1: and all that broken chewpl in the morning,