WEBVTT - Mr. & Mrs. Unglert

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<v Speaker 1>Hell I Suck at Dating with Dengler and Dared Haben

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<v Speaker 1>I heart radio podcast. Hey, welcome to help I Suck

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<v Speaker 1>at Dating. I am Jared, have been and I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>currently in a hotel in New Jersey right now. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>visiting Ashley's year old grandmother, God bless her. Uh. Dean

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<v Speaker 1>is going to join us in a few minutes. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's having internet troubles right now. He's still in

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<v Speaker 1>Europe traveling the world with his beautiful girlfriend. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you follow Diana and Caitlin, they've actually been posting some

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<v Speaker 1>pretty awesome stuff. I'm pretty jealous. I have some serious fomo,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm glad you're enjoying it over there. Hopefully his

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<v Speaker 1>internet connection will be okay and he'll join here in

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<v Speaker 1>just a few minutes. But we do have some hot

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<v Speaker 1>topics to talk about, specifically about a topic that Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>our producer, is very invested in, and I want her

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<v Speaker 1>to join me on this conversation. Hannah, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? And I was gonna attempt to pronounce

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<v Speaker 1>your name, I'm going to butcher it, but Hannah, Nuke

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<v Speaker 1>and Bomber, Okay, you were close? Are you saying naer

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<v Speaker 1>nuke a bauer Okay, and that's and that's German. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>it's German. No one ever gets it right, so don't

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<v Speaker 1>even worry about it. So when you go on dates,

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<v Speaker 1>is this like a hot topic when people like, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you say your last name? Oh? What is it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Are you German? Is it a conversation starter

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<v Speaker 1>for you sometimes? But fun fact, I've never actually been

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<v Speaker 1>on a date because I've only been dating my first boyfriend. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never dated in my life. You've never dated in

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<v Speaker 1>your life? How long have you guys been together? Over

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<v Speaker 1>four years? Wait? How old are you? Hannah? I just

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<v Speaker 1>turned twenty two. Okay, so you've been together since you

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<v Speaker 1>were eighteen? Yes, so it wasn't a high school romance.

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<v Speaker 1>It was after high school. Yeah, I met him on

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<v Speaker 1>my first day of college. Actually, usually that's the complete opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually you have a high school romance and then you

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<v Speaker 1>go to college and then you guys break up totally.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's backwards. Wait, so did you go to

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<v Speaker 1>college thinking like, Oh, I'm gonna go I'm gonna date guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna meet people, it's gonna be a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And then day one you meet your potential future husband. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't actually want a relationship at all. I was

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<v Speaker 1>very anti and it just happened. Well, that's amazing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like Dean's in the waiting room too, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to join us right now. That's pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've never so you've been on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>obviously because you went on a first date with your

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<v Speaker 1>new boyfriend. Yeah. I think it's just different because we

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<v Speaker 1>started dating in college, so when we were hanging out,

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<v Speaker 1>it was at like parties and it wasn't a super

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<v Speaker 1>official first state, but we definitely had like a first dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you was on because I'm curious what he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks your first date was compared to what you think

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<v Speaker 1>your first date was. But that's a good question. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to ask him that later. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>your first date was? Like? Is it the first time

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys kind of hung out or is it

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<v Speaker 1>like an official Hey, let's get dinner and that's the

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<v Speaker 1>first day. Well, the first time we hung out actually

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<v Speaker 1>was on my birthday four years ago, September four, and

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<v Speaker 1>I went over to his apartment. We just talked forever,

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<v Speaker 1>but then we The first time we got dinner was

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<v Speaker 1>at just this on campus food place, so technically maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's our first date. He took me to dinner, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was so cute. It was just super casual. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>the casual makes the best first date totally. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>happy belated birthday. By the way, Stem four just past.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Did you do anything fun or you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're in l A so it's still a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit quarantinely over there. Yeah, we just hung out and

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<v Speaker 1>went to the beach, got dinner. Oh nice. So now

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<v Speaker 1>you guys can say you went on your first date.

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<v Speaker 1>You finally got dinner together, totally, And so I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to bring you in because this is a topic that

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<v Speaker 1>you said you are very invested in, and it's about

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<v Speaker 1>Scott Disick and listen, I love Lord Dissack. I've become

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<v Speaker 1>a fan of keeping up with the Kardashians through my

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<v Speaker 1>wife Ashley, who obviously is a huge Kardashian fan. I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen episodes. I never really sat down and watched it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have a certain level of respect for all

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<v Speaker 1>the Kardashians, their business savvy nous uh and I also

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<v Speaker 1>have always loved Scott dis sick, but apparently he's calling

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<v Speaker 1>out his ex Courtney Kardashian uh in a private d

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<v Speaker 1>M that got exposed to the public. So Unice apparently

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<v Speaker 1>leaked a d M from Scott Disac calling out Courtney

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<v Speaker 1>Karadashian and Travis Scott kissing having full on p d

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<v Speaker 1>A in Italy. So Unice shared this d M that

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<v Speaker 1>says from Scott Discac supposedly, yo is this chick okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Explanation point question mark question mark qush mark bro Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this in the middle of Italy, to which

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<v Speaker 1>Unite apparently responded, doesn't matter to me as long as

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<v Speaker 1>she happy. Ps, I ain't your bro. So apparently Scott

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<v Speaker 1>Discac is mad that Courty Kardashian in is having full

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<v Speaker 1>on p d A with her now boyfriend Travis Scott

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<v Speaker 1>in Italy. So what do you think about this, Hannah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you so invested in this story? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>just think it's interesting because Courtney's two ex boyfriends are

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<v Speaker 1>talking about her in a d M and it gets leaked.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I had two ex boyfriends in the Scott

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<v Speaker 1>leaked I would feel so strange about it. Yeah, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would Scott disn't care so much, right, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>you jealous? Kind of seems like it. I think he's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely jealous. Dean. Hello, Hey, guys, can you hear me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're joining in the middle of podcast. I'm sorry, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean the middle of the podcast? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>three minutes late. You guys started without me that early.

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<v Speaker 1>You're fifteen minutes late. Oh my gosh. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the first I thought the first fifteen minutes were

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<v Speaker 1>like recording ad and everyone knew that I was already

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a little late, so they really wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to like join it like fifty five after the hour. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>lesson learned on my part. I apologize. We were at

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<v Speaker 1>a nice dinner and then I got to log on

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<v Speaker 1>my computer and I realized I left my microphone in

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<v Speaker 1>the car. No, how was your dinner? Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a beautiful, wonderful dinner. How many more nights

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have there? Oh my gosh. Okay, So we

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<v Speaker 1>got into the Dolomites yesterday afternoon around like eight pm.

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<v Speaker 1>Dolomites in Italy are incredibly beautiful. Were in South Tyrol

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Sorry, I'm a little out of breath. I

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<v Speaker 1>literally was just sprinting to and from the car and

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<v Speaker 1>then parking lot because I forgot my freaking cord for

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<v Speaker 1>this microphone and I wanted to you know, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be late, at least I can give the listeners

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<v Speaker 1>good audio quality out of this. So that's that's really

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<v Speaker 1>kind of where my head is at. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>sound great. Um, yes, it's because I sprinted it freaking

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<v Speaker 1>three miles to get the court. Anyways. Yeah, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>here for two nights. Wed we drive to another place

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow night for two nights, and then we drive down

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<v Speaker 1>to Tuscany. And let me tell you this. We're driving

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<v Speaker 1>a lot around the Italian countryside and it is freaking

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful here. But one thing we like didn't overlook, but

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<v Speaker 1>we would may be like under emphasized, was that renting

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<v Speaker 1>a manual car, like a stick shift automobile. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of kind of bit us in the butt a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Kaitlin gets like the best part of the deal. She

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know how to drive a stick so I'm stuck

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<v Speaker 1>driving us six hours a day. She's just sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>the passenger seat freaking playing a little crossroad puzzles damn

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<v Speaker 1>it out on Spotify, yelling at you anytime you get

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<v Speaker 1>too close to the curb. Yeah, oh my gosh. That

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the most stressing things. The front seat

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<v Speaker 1>driver where she's like, oh my gosh, watch out for

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<v Speaker 1>that car over there, and I'm like, yeah, hello, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>driving this car. Of course I see that car over

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<v Speaker 1>there as she shakes her finger. Ashley does the exact

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<v Speaker 1>same thing anytime a car comes into our lane anywhere nearest,

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<v Speaker 1>like literally within fifty feet. She's like, and I'm like, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it, thank you, I appreciate it. And like

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is I kind of like get angry at

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<v Speaker 1>myself for like being upset about it, but at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time too, like I don't want to say it's

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<v Speaker 1>a manly thing, but it's like, hello, Like I'm obviously

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<v Speaker 1>driving this car. I I see everything that's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>not just in the hun eighty degrees in front of me,

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<v Speaker 1>but they also the hunter a reason behind me. I

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<v Speaker 1>know everything that's going on right now. And you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look up from your phone for two seconds and give

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<v Speaker 1>a little shriek because you think I'm doing something that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little dangerous. When in reality, it's not dangerous at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's there's no place. I mean again, it's

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a good place, but it's just like, just

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<v Speaker 1>let me do my thing. You're gonna get to where

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta get too safely. Don't worry about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have precious card now you're taking care of. So

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<v Speaker 1>I did want to go back to this article that

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about. I don't want to bring Hanna

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<v Speaker 1>back in here too, because she's very invested in this topic.

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<v Speaker 1>So pretty much uh notes on this Dean is Scott

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<v Speaker 1>Disick who used to be married to Courtney kardashi and

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<v Speaker 1>they were not married, not married okay, sorry, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah to feel free to correct me. And my wife

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<v Speaker 1>is yelling at me from the other room telling me

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<v Speaker 1>they weren't married Scott Disick and Courtney Kardashian. Hey, Caitlin

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<v Speaker 1>also yelled at you from across the room here that

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<v Speaker 1>they're not okay. So I just want to let you

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<v Speaker 1>know everyone's yelling at you that they're not marring. Okay, now,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. Not married, not married. Everybody canna hear me?

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<v Speaker 1>They were not married, but they do have kids together.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I right on? That one okay, three kids together,

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<v Speaker 1>telling me okay, So Scott and Courtney have three kids together,

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<v Speaker 1>and she used to apparently date this other guy, Unice.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who he is, but apparently Scott d

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<v Speaker 1>m Unice with a picture of Courtney and Travis Scott,

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<v Speaker 1>her new boyfriend, making out in public and Italy and

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<v Speaker 1>their d m read yo is this chick? Okay? Bro? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What is this in the middle of Italy, to which

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<v Speaker 1>Unice responded to Scott distick saying, doesn't matter to me

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<v Speaker 1>as long as she's happy. Ps I ain't your bro.

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<v Speaker 1>So Hannah is very invest into this because it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>that like two ex boyfriends of Courtney Kardashian are talking

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<v Speaker 1>about her, which is kind of weird. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why Scott disc would like d m Unice this, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I um, I just gotta interjected. Hunter probably knows the

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<v Speaker 1>answer to this question. It's it's weird that they're d

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<v Speaker 1>ming each other. But how do we know that they

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<v Speaker 1>were demming each other? So Unice is the one who

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<v Speaker 1>screenshot at this because apparently Scott d m Unice another

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<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriend of Courtney, and said the message like, yo, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this trying to make fun of Courtney and

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Scott making out in public and then Unite screenshot

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<v Speaker 1>at it and released it to the public. Supposedly this

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<v Speaker 1>is a allegedly Yeah, well, they're all right, they're all

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<v Speaker 1>looking for attention, which you fully understand. You gotta attention

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<v Speaker 1>pays the bills when you're when you're in their realm.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's still whenever someone um screenshots like a message,

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a string of messages and post them

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<v Speaker 1>all over Instagram, especially someone like that, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>someone with a platform or whatever. I said, I pretty hard,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would love to hear Haunta's take on all this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think Scots jobs. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's Scott's definitely jealous Scott super geals. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a red flag that Unite posted it to

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram trying to come off as the nice guy because

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<v Speaker 1>I think he wanted to show off his response. We've

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<v Speaker 1>seen that before, haven't we did? Yeah? I mean, guilty,

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<v Speaker 1>guilty you Oh do you just assumes you know the whole,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole blake thing when he released the d M

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<v Speaker 1>s of Klin and I was messed up, right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>right right. Anyways, Hana, back to your back to your

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<v Speaker 1>side of everything. I mean, I just think it's so

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because then I think this caused some issues in

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<v Speaker 1>Scott Discac and Amelia Hamlin's relationship. So it's just such

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<v Speaker 1>a snowball effect and there's so much to uncover here.

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<v Speaker 1>And just to just to clarify, Amelia Hamlin is the

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen year old girl that he's dating, right, correct, but

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<v Speaker 1>they are no longer dating. They just recently, which we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to get to our next article, which all like

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<v Speaker 1>intertwines everything. Now, this is from e Amelia Hamlin sends

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<v Speaker 1>cryptic message amid Scott Disick turmoil with a quote never settled.

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<v Speaker 1>So Amelia Hamlin is twenty years old. She was dating

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<v Speaker 1>Scott Discac, who is thirty eight years old. She's the daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>What I know, they just broke up. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>what happens. See, this is exactly what was happening to

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<v Speaker 1>you in the car, Dean, where like Ashley barely hears

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<v Speaker 1>anything that we're talking about and immediately interjects with news

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<v Speaker 1>that I've already covered. It's the same thing. Klin, looking

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<v Speaker 1>at her phone, looks out for two seconds and tells

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<v Speaker 1>you something that you already know because you see the

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<v Speaker 1>car in the other lane. I digress. Uh. So Amelia

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<v Speaker 1>Hamlin and Scott disac have broken up. She was twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>he's thirty eight. There's a big age difference. Obviously. She

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<v Speaker 1>is the daughter of Lisa Renna, who is the you

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<v Speaker 1>know who this person is. She's an actress, she's on

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<v Speaker 1>Real Housewife, she's very famous. Uh. And so Amelia throughout

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<v Speaker 1>this entire drama posted a cryptic message on her Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>story that read, never settle for less, not with your job,

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<v Speaker 1>your friends, and especially not with your heart. Continue to

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<v Speaker 1>seek what you are looking for, and do not shrink

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<v Speaker 1>yourself for the sake of other people. You deserve the best.

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<v Speaker 1>So my question is, Hannah, you probably know best. Is

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<v Speaker 1>she talking about Scott Disac here? I mean, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>everybody thinks. That's I think it's just too much of

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<v Speaker 1>a coincidence for it not to be. And then they

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<v Speaker 1>break up. It's Scott. It's totally like, wasn't this whole

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<v Speaker 1>whole storyline? I'm keeping with the Kardashians that Chloe and

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<v Speaker 1>Kendall wanted to try to reignite things between Courtney and

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<v Speaker 1>Scott before the whole Travis thing happened. So, like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>clear that Scott is still wanting to be with Courtney.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I right? Totally? I think if he had it

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<v Speaker 1>his way, he would be back with Courtney two thousand percent,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's just jealous and wishes he was. So can

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<v Speaker 1>we get a little bit more context with their whole uh,

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<v Speaker 1>with Scott ian Courtney's breakup, and then also Scott and

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<v Speaker 1>Amelia's breakup? Like why was this most recent? I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting to the stink eye from Kitlin as if

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<v Speaker 1>I should know this totally, dude, My wife is yelling

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<v Speaker 1>at me in the other room. I know that Scott

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<v Speaker 1>and Corney be broken up for a long time, but

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<v Speaker 1>what's Scott's most recent breakup? What's the story behind that?

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<v Speaker 1>His most recent breakup before Elia? Like? Why are why

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<v Speaker 1>are him and Amelia broken up? I mean, I just well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I do think their breakup may have something

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<v Speaker 1>to do with Lisa, her mom. I don't think she

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<v Speaker 1>really approved of the relationship, which I don't really think

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<v Speaker 1>my mom would approve if I was dating someone that

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<v Speaker 1>much older than me. But I think there were so

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<v Speaker 1>many different factors that went into this breakup, and the

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<v Speaker 1>whole Unice and Courtney Instagram situation was just one of

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<v Speaker 1>the factors. Yeah, Lisa called their relationship between her daughter

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<v Speaker 1>Amelia and Scott toxic, and she actually gave an awesome quote.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, quote, why can't it be Harry Styles? Why

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<v Speaker 1>the f is it's Scott Dissick, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good because obviously every mother wants their daughter to

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<v Speaker 1>date Harry Styles, right, but unfortunately Harry Styles is dating

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<v Speaker 1>Olivia Wildish also just sent out the other day, which

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<v Speaker 1>I also just find out Olivia munt and John Mulaney

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<v Speaker 1>are having a child together. A lot going on in

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<v Speaker 1>the whole celebrity world just does not stop and not

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<v Speaker 1>stop up in you know, that's what keeps our podcast going. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't understand why the whole I don't

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<v Speaker 1>under like Lisa Renna just now decides that it's inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>for her young daughter to be dating this thirty year

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<v Speaker 1>old man. It's like, well, they've always had this huge

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<v Speaker 1>age gap, while all of a sudden thinks she's always

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<v Speaker 1>been against Scott Distick dating for her daughter. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what daughter would want to date? Like, what mom would

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<v Speaker 1>want her daughter to date Scott Disick with his background

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<v Speaker 1>probably not a lot. Yeah, I guess, I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're absolutely right. I just feel like Lisa Renna, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it is Kaylin's like favorite personality on Real Housewives

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<v Speaker 1>of Beverly Hills. I think it really and so so

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<v Speaker 1>she speaks highly over to the point where she like

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<v Speaker 1>is entertained by her thoroughly. Um, It's just yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I guess I don't want to overstep my

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<v Speaker 1>boundaries by saying anything wrong, but I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>family like that kind of like is totally cool with

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone for the sake of like being in the

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<v Speaker 1>spotlight more or less, you know, and her daughter dating

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<v Speaker 1>Scott Disick death only like kind of gets people talking

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<v Speaker 1>about them a lot more. Which for someone like Lisa Renna,

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<v Speaker 1>who has been you know, famous for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of like privy to and likes it and

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<v Speaker 1>wants it for herself, which I imagine she probably wants

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<v Speaker 1>for her kid too. It's just it's a little surprising

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<v Speaker 1>for her to say, like, I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be dating this s guy, but you know, those people

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<v Speaker 1>even more interested than just her daughter dating Scott Distac

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<v Speaker 1>if she disapproves of it. Yeah, it's all a plan,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think it's all. There's all a business side

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<v Speaker 1>to everything that these people do. I kind of respect it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. So I guess the question, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what it really comes down to. And I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask you, because you know the most about

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<v Speaker 1>this subject. Do we want Scott Disac and Courtney Kardashian

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<v Speaker 1>to get back together? I think so? They have three

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<v Speaker 1>kids together. I just don't know if they ever would

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<v Speaker 1>there's too much that has happened. But so you're not

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<v Speaker 1>you're not shipping Travis Scott in Courtney, Travis Barker, Travis Parker.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's Travis Scott? And why do I keep calling him?

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Scott? Is who Kylie Jenner just had a baby

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<v Speaker 1>with and they just announced that they're pregnant their second kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Got it? Yes? Okay makes sense now, So just to clarify, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want Courtney Kardashian to date machine Gun Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>because you think she could do way better machine Gun Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that a joke? Oh wait, Oh my gosh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. Okay, yes, these are all these answer blending

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<v Speaker 1>to making Fox bro I knew that I was just

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<v Speaker 1>that was that was deployed to take a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of the stress off of Jared because he messed up

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<v Speaker 1>so royally, and that's it's It's definitely yeah. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear Han his final thoughts. What are they? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>my final thoughts. I think why I'm so interested in

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<v Speaker 1>this topic is because Lisa Rennet obviously didn't approve of

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<v Speaker 1>a Melian Scott dating. And I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>could ever date someone that someone in my family didn't

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<v Speaker 1>approve of. That would just be a deal breaker for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess Lisa got her way in the end

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<v Speaker 1>they broke up. I just would never be able to

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<v Speaker 1>be with someone that my mom disapproved of. No, I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why Scott just a ont to fit so

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<v Speaker 1>well into the Kardashians, because he gets well, he gets

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<v Speaker 1>along with with them so well. I hope Scott, Disick

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<v Speaker 1>and Courtney get back together too. I've always liked Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's crazy and over the top and obnoxious,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's something very endearing about that human being that

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate, So I hope him and Courtney get back together.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's definitely not over it. He wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>back with Courtney. That I believe. I will say too.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, because I think that both of you,

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<v Speaker 1>Bothna and Jared, you're very much like you would love

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<v Speaker 1>your family's approval for the person you're dating. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, you guys are very honored because they already

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<v Speaker 1>do approve of the person that you're with. I have

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<v Speaker 1>always said that, like, I don't need my family's approval,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will say my brother, like a year ago,

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, Dean, just by the way, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was just me and him talking. He's like, just by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, Like I'm so proud of you finally like

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<v Speaker 1>knocking it out of the park with Kaylin or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And I was like, for someone that's never

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<v Speaker 1>claimed to need his family's approval to get his family's

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<v Speaker 1>approval meant a lot more to me than I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would. And so I fully agree like if your

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<v Speaker 1>your family knows best in a lot of ways, like

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<v Speaker 1>if they don't think this person is right for you,

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<v Speaker 1>they're probably more right than you are because you've got

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<v Speaker 1>blinders on for whatever reason. So those are my final

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on this topic. I wouldn't be surprised if we

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<v Speaker 1>see some more headlines regarding Scott and Amelia, and I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to discuss them with you guys, especially Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you are so invested in this ongoing process with them.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess we just kind of have to wait

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<v Speaker 1>and see. I know I would like to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize, guys. I'm just gonna go ahead and take

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<v Speaker 1>the initiative here and say we're gonna take a quick

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<v Speaker 1>break because I'm a little overworked and I think we

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<v Speaker 1>need to take a little bit of time off, so uh,

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<v Speaker 1>take a quick break. We'll jump right back into it

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<v Speaker 1>after this quick word from our sponsors. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>get lucky. Everybody, welcome back to help I suck at dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Jared is on Cloud nine, not just because he's recording

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<v Speaker 1>his favorite podcast ever, but also because his Tampa Bay Buccaneers,

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<v Speaker 1>which just sounds weird for me to even say one

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<v Speaker 1>the season open against Dallas Cowboys a few days ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I think I can speak for everyone

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<v Speaker 1>when I say football is back and we are stoked.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no there's no reason for me to say these things.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to say those things. So let's jump

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<v Speaker 1>into a Q and A segment. Let me just say,

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<v Speaker 1>it feels great to have Tom Brady back on my

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<v Speaker 1>television screen. God, I love that man. The thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I couldn't go the whole episode without mentioning

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<v Speaker 1>something because I know you're excited, and I'm I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>To people who say you can't root for both the

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<v Speaker 1>Patriots and the Buccaneers, watch me. I've been doing it

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<v Speaker 1>for I say here already. You you're you're slowly bleeding

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<v Speaker 1>into not just being a Ton Brady fan, but to

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<v Speaker 1>being a full Tampa Bay Buccaneers fan. When you have

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<v Speaker 1>you have two Bucks jerseys. Now you've got a Brady jersey,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've got a ground jersey. Well, the Gronk jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>I was at a charity event for a silent auction,

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<v Speaker 1>and I always when it was for a golfing event,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can relate where you go to these golfing

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<v Speaker 1>tournaments and everything is free, and you're like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to donate obviously because it goes to a good cause,

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<v Speaker 1>and they have these silent auctions. So I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna donate. It's nice to do it for the

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<v Speaker 1>silent auction because then I get something really cool. And

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<v Speaker 1>they had this Cronk jersey and it was signed by

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<v Speaker 1>Gronk because they invited him there and you couldn't go,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, holy crap, that is so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've always said, I've only wanted to Tom Brady

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<v Speaker 1>Tampa Bay Buccaneers jersey because that's what I really ultimately

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<v Speaker 1>care about. But I was like, I do love Gronk.

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<v Speaker 1>This jersey is badass. So I ended up getting it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like, all right, whatever, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I love Gronk too, And honestly, I was watching the game.

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<v Speaker 1>Long story short, I fully realized that I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>Tampa Bay Buccaneers fan because like even like the stadium,

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<v Speaker 1>the flag, the emblem, I'm like, this is just it's

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<v Speaker 1>so like Tom Brady is so much better than this.

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<v Speaker 1>He deserves so much better. I'll give it one more

0:22:18.520 --> 0:22:21.720
<v Speaker 1>super Bowl until you're wearing the Rande Barber Jersey, Awark

0:22:21.880 --> 0:22:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Done Jersey and John Lynch Johnson Jersey. I talked about

0:22:25.520 --> 0:22:28.880
<v Speaker 1>how we wanted Super Bowl two to John Gruden, my hero.

0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have a freaking James Winston Jersey while he's

0:22:32.560 --> 0:22:34.040
<v Speaker 1>still playing for the Sands, because that's how much of

0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:37.159
<v Speaker 1>a bucks. Anyways, all that aside, I'm sorry for the

0:22:37.160 --> 0:22:39.239
<v Speaker 1>tangent everyone. I know you guys don't care about our

0:22:39.280 --> 0:22:42.920
<v Speaker 1>football fandom. Let's get to the Q and A because, um,

0:22:42.560 --> 0:22:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be honest with you guys. It's currently ten

0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 1>pm here in Italy. I've had a lot of glasses

0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:50.639
<v Speaker 1>of wine. I tend to put my foot in my

0:22:50.680 --> 0:22:53.400
<v Speaker 1>mouth when I drink some wine, especially, so let's ask

0:22:53.440 --> 0:22:55.560
<v Speaker 1>you some questions. Baby. The sooner we get to the

0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Q and A, the more likely Jared and I are

0:22:58.200 --> 0:22:59.800
<v Speaker 1>just say something. So I don't want to give d

0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:02.320
<v Speaker 1>any time to sober up, So let's do the first question.

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<v Speaker 1>So these were all asked on Instagram again, follow us

0:23:05.400 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 1>please on help I suck at dating. Uh. And then

0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:10.160
<v Speaker 1>we always post these type of things where we love

0:23:10.200 --> 0:23:14.760
<v Speaker 1>you guys engaging with us, asking us questions that really, uh, well,

0:23:14.800 --> 0:23:17.320
<v Speaker 1>you're just doing our work for us. Dean. First question,

0:23:17.440 --> 0:23:21.000
<v Speaker 1>what is the best place you have traveled to? Well, dude,

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:22.960
<v Speaker 1>you so you've been to Positano before. I bet you.

0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:25.679
<v Speaker 1>Positano and Lake Como are pretty similar. Lake Como was

0:23:25.720 --> 0:23:29.760
<v Speaker 1>like pretty special, Like that's very, very beautiful out there.

0:23:29.760 --> 0:23:31.320
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because a lot of the people that

0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:33.119
<v Speaker 1>ran into like we're just you know, Caitlin and I

0:23:33.119 --> 0:23:34.760
<v Speaker 1>are just a couple on vacation. They're like, oh, are

0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:36.600
<v Speaker 1>you guys like here for your wedding, for your honeymoon?

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:39.400
<v Speaker 1>Like no, like we're just here because we've always wanted

0:23:39.400 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 1>to visit. And they're like, oh, you you got to

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:44.040
<v Speaker 1>come back, like for your wedding. It's like what definitely

0:23:44.119 --> 0:23:48.000
<v Speaker 1>is like a place where a wedding would be spectacular.

0:23:48.000 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>It just is like one of the most beautiful places.

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:51.919
<v Speaker 1>We were visited a little bias just because that was

0:23:51.960 --> 0:23:55.040
<v Speaker 1>like three days ago. So that's probably like front of Mines,

0:23:55.160 --> 0:23:59.800
<v Speaker 1>but the best place I've ever visited. Um, I mean,

0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I've always said Japan, and I probably will stick with

0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:03.800
<v Speaker 1>that for now until I go somewhere now. But what's

0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:05.800
<v Speaker 1>your favorite, Because you've been to quite a few places too.

0:24:05.880 --> 0:24:11.400
<v Speaker 1>I would say Capri, uh was stunning, But yeah, we've

0:24:11.400 --> 0:24:14.880
<v Speaker 1>been to Positano. I mean our honeymoon man was just spectacular.

0:24:15.040 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 1>One of the most breasthtaking places I've ever been doing

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:19.320
<v Speaker 1>my entire life, and one of those times that you

0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:22.120
<v Speaker 1>just experienced if if you're lucky once and I feel

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:23.880
<v Speaker 1>so lucky to been able to see it and go

0:24:23.920 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 1>on there for our honeymoon. So I'm curious, now that

0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:29.560
<v Speaker 1>you're in Italy and you're, you know, immersed in all

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:33.399
<v Speaker 1>this romantic environment and culture, would you do you feel

0:24:33.440 --> 0:24:38.320
<v Speaker 1>more inclined to get married? Like, are you more open

0:24:38.400 --> 0:24:40.960
<v Speaker 1>to the idea of possibly getting married now that you

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:44.920
<v Speaker 1>guys are kind of doing this extravagant adventure together. I Mean,

0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:47.240
<v Speaker 1>it's funny because it's definitely a comba. This trip is

0:24:47.240 --> 0:24:48.960
<v Speaker 1>a comba of like the things that she likes and

0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:50.960
<v Speaker 1>things that like I've never been to these places before,

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:54.679
<v Speaker 1>minus the Dolomites, which I was with her originally, so

0:24:54.720 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like we're experiencing a lot of this for the

0:24:56.520 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 1>first time together. Also, she is like in her comfort zone,

0:24:59.840 --> 0:25:03.719
<v Speaker 1>you great food, great wine, like beautiful little towns with

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like cute little boutique stores. So it's like fun for

0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:09.600
<v Speaker 1>her in that sense, but also really fun for me

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:12.160
<v Speaker 1>for experiencing it for the first time. And there's definitely

0:25:12.200 --> 0:25:15.399
<v Speaker 1>like a romantic aspect to be behind it a thousand percent.

0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:18.760
<v Speaker 1>You can't help but feel it, you know. Yeah, I

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>mean even in like we were so we started in

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Santorini too, and even in Santorini, it's like you're in

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:26.920
<v Speaker 1>these beautiful restaurants, like overlooking the coast, drinking wine, like

0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:29.879
<v Speaker 1>eating delicious food, and like you can't help but be like,

0:25:29.920 --> 0:25:31.919
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, this is amazing. I want this to

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:33.960
<v Speaker 1>be the rest of my life. And since I'm here,

0:25:34.000 --> 0:25:36.440
<v Speaker 1>like I want you to be there in my life

0:25:36.440 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 1>for the rest of my life, which I had always

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I'd always thought those things. Obviously, Caitlin is like fiss

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 1>pumping on the bed. Yeah, she's like, I freaking knew it.

0:25:44.480 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 1>I handcuffed him. Badda bang bada, boom, my job is done. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:52.600
<v Speaker 1>she's trapped on the bed um. But the marriage thing,

0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:55.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like, yeah, I guess, I guess, but

0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I guess you guys are totally getting married. She's gonna win.

0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you'll be winning by marrying her, obviously, but

0:26:03.040 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 1>right she would be losing that one tenfold. We talked

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:07.560
<v Speaker 1>about it too, she because we were like, if we

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:11.639
<v Speaker 1>got married in Lake Como, obviously super major hypothetical. She's like,

0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:13.400
<v Speaker 1>would you who would you invite? Like who would you bring?

0:26:13.440 --> 0:26:15.399
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah, And it's like, I probably wouldn't bring anyone,

0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:18.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, like my family. Maybe that's it. You guys

0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:20.359
<v Speaker 1>have already talked about it, dude. That's why I was asking,

0:26:20.359 --> 0:26:21.919
<v Speaker 1>because I was figuring, if you guys are in this

0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 1>beautiful setting, in this beautiful place, you've been together for

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 1>what two years now? Over two years, like I can't

0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:32.679
<v Speaker 1>many seven months, I cannot imagine the conversation hasn't come up.

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:34.680
<v Speaker 1>And so I was prying a little bit, and I'm

0:26:34.680 --> 0:26:37.120
<v Speaker 1>glad I got an answer. Yeah, I mean, you can't

0:26:37.119 --> 0:26:38.520
<v Speaker 1>help it when you're in these places, you know, when

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:40.720
<v Speaker 1>we're back home in Los Angeles to Las Vegas. Oh yeah,

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:42.240
<v Speaker 1>we don't talk about it at all, but when you're

0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:44.919
<v Speaker 1>on the most romantic vacation in your life, yeah, it's

0:26:44.920 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 1>gonna come up every once in a while. It was

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 1>one of the reasons why I traveled all the way

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:53.360
<v Speaker 1>down to um Oh where did I confess my feelings

0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:56.800
<v Speaker 1>to Ashley? The place is called Sugar Beach St. Bars, No,

0:26:56.880 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 1>not St. Bars uh. St. Lucia, Holy crap. That's why

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:03.399
<v Speaker 1>I went down to St. Lucia because I knew when

0:27:03.480 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>Ashley was dating this other guy. I was like, it's

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 1>not going to be the same if we talk about

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:09.960
<v Speaker 1>it at a cafe in Los Angeles, Like, I gotta

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:14.640
<v Speaker 1>go down there in this beautiful scenic place and express

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:16.720
<v Speaker 1>my feelings to her because it'll be so much more

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:20.320
<v Speaker 1>of a moment than me doing it, you know, in Glendale.

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:23.000
<v Speaker 1>So I totally agree, Like, when you guys talk about

0:27:23.040 --> 0:27:25.400
<v Speaker 1>it in like como, it has a certain more it's

0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>more impactful than if you're talking about it at home. Yeah.

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>And in addition to that too, So I think we've

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:32.560
<v Speaker 1>talked about in the podcast before. Kaitlin and I have

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.560
<v Speaker 1>this pipe dream where we want to live abroad for

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe like a year or two, and we've always known

0:27:36.800 --> 0:27:39.679
<v Speaker 1>Japan was an option. South America like six months in

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 1>each spot, and I think we've had Italy to the

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:43.680
<v Speaker 1>list as well. And I'm not a big fan of

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 1>vacationing places and then deciding to live there because I

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:49.119
<v Speaker 1>think you kind of like get the wrong perception of

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 1>those places. But man, Italy is just so freaking cool.

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 1>Italy is like one of the coolest countries ever. You

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 1>can get like a delicious spaghetti dinner, the best glass

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.359
<v Speaker 1>of one you've ever had for like twelve buck like

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:02.359
<v Speaker 1>every single day for the rest of your life, and

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:05.800
<v Speaker 1>just like walk around these like beautiful cobblestone streets and

0:28:06.400 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>be perfectly happy with how everything is going. It just

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:10.480
<v Speaker 1>is like one of those I don't know. Italy is

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:12.400
<v Speaker 1>definitely one of those places where you can get like

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:14.920
<v Speaker 1>like time just seeps away, you get sucked into it,

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden, it's like ten years

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:19.440
<v Speaker 1>later and you're like, oh my gosh, I guess I'm

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 1>an Italian person now. Totally. I think it is the

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.399
<v Speaker 1>second most beautiful place I've ever been. The first is

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Rhode Island, of course. Uh So, the next question I

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 1>wanted to ask you before we ask me A question

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:33.440
<v Speaker 1>is did Kalin love traveling as much as you did

0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 1>when you first started dating or is this something that

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>has grown over time from being with you. Well, I

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 1>still don't think she enjoys as much as I do.

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 1>She claims too, and I think she does think that

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 1>she does. But she as much of a traveler as

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 1>she is. She's definitely a bit of a homebody. You know.

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 1>She loves her space, she loves her pride like privacy

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:58.240
<v Speaker 1>and seclusion. She's an introvert, which is great. Um, and

0:28:58.280 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 1>she does love traveling, but uh, I mean I like

0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 1>to think that I like it more and she probably

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 1>would beg the different too. She's actually shaking her head

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 1>on the bed right now, um, which is understandable. I

0:29:10.440 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I think that I had the opportunity to travel a

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 1>lot more before we met. You know, you go on

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 1>the show, you start having the opportunity to make money

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>through like social media, and you don't have to work

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>your nine to five jobs. You have more time, you

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:24.480
<v Speaker 1>have more money, Like, what are you gonna do with that?

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna travel? Um? If you're if? You know, some

0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:29.840
<v Speaker 1>people don't, but like obviously like in my case, I

0:29:29.840 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, I gotta travel, so I I had like

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe like a year or two under my belt before

0:29:34.440 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>we even started dating, and she didn't have quite the

0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>same amount of time. So she um loves it, no

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>questions asked. But I would always say that I like

0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>it more. And like I said, I'm sure she would disagree.

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you did live in a van and you

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 1>still do at times, so I'd argue you like traveling more.

0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna, hey, I'm gonna find this Q and A

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 1>section real quick on my rundown and ask you some

0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 1>questions here because I feel a little not blindsided, but

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm an pplies in the conversation right now.

0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:04.760
<v Speaker 1>So Jared, I gotta ask, when it comes to being

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 1>a dad, what are you most terrified about? Um, I'm

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:14.160
<v Speaker 1>most terrified. I think I'm most terrified of not living

0:30:14.280 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 1>up to expectations. Uh. My my dad is uh the greatest.

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 1>You know what he's done for me, for my sister,

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>from my mom. He's not perfect, but I mean the

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 1>level of sacrifice that he's given for us is I

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>mean no words for me, honestly, because the amount of

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:42.160
<v Speaker 1>love that I feel from him and my mom too.

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:43.920
<v Speaker 1>But if we're just speaking as like a dad to

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 1>dad type of thing. Now that I'm becoming a dad,

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what I'm most nervous about, is that

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 1>will I be willing to make those type of sacrifices

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:55.120
<v Speaker 1>that He's made for us for my future son. And

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that makes me most nervous because now it's different.

0:30:58.160 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, I care for Ashley a lot. I do

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:01.840
<v Speaker 1>so much for her, but she does so much for

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:03.440
<v Speaker 1>me as well, and she's a full grown adults, so

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 1>there's only so much that I do for her, you

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 1>know when you talking about a kid, you know, waking

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 1>up every hour on the hour, to make sure that

0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:13.479
<v Speaker 1>they're okay, make sure they're not crying in the early stages,

0:31:13.560 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 1>to see them grow, and make sure they're feeding. Like,

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>am I gonna, Like I'm nervous about you know what

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 1>if I get angry one day, you know, not that

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 1>anything would happen, but like, I don't ever want to

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 1>raise my voice or get frustrated with my son, and

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous about those moments. I think most of all.

0:31:30.720 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Have you talked to your father about being a dad? Yeah,

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. We had a really very special moment

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 1>when I first told him that Ashley was pregnant and

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>we had to go in the house for something, and

0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 1>then he was walking out with me, and like I

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:45.600
<v Speaker 1>could tell that he was kind of choked up a

0:31:45.640 --> 0:31:49.240
<v Speaker 1>little bit. He's such a softie, and he said, uh,

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 1>he's like, you know, I just know that the man

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 1>you are and who you've grown up to be and

0:31:52.880 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>me and he said, I know you're going to be

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>a great dad. And I said, thanks, Dad, So it

0:31:57.000 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>was really nice that you've given you any advice. Yeah,

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure it'll happen obvious you like once

0:32:00.960 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>a little baby Dean pops out, but like anything you know,

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 1>broad Strokes purposes, Uh, Deanie Baby's Haven pops out in February. Um,

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's going to give me a lot more

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:17.160
<v Speaker 1>advice right now. It's more of he you know, he

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:19.600
<v Speaker 1>just tries to help out. He always tells me, you know, hey,

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:21.760
<v Speaker 1>if Ashley needs anything, you need anything, you just let

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>me know. I'll be there. But uh, no, like real

0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>advice just yet. And I'm sure the thing is too

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like, uh, I mean, I can't speak for your

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:32.960
<v Speaker 1>own father, but I'm sure most parents would say, like

0:32:33.200 --> 0:32:36.040
<v Speaker 1>when they have their kids and they're in the same

0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 1>boat as you, Like, they have no idea what the

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 1>heck they're doing, what's going on, what they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like with what And then at the end of the

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:43.160
<v Speaker 1>day too, it's like when you're when you're growing up,

0:32:43.240 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 1>like you think your father and your mom are like

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 1>the best people in the whole world. So it's like,

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I think everyone kind of goes into it with the

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 1>mindset that they have no idea what they're doing, and

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:52.480
<v Speaker 1>then they end up doing a great job because they

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 1>as long as they love them, you know, to the

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<v Speaker 1>best of their ability, that's the most important thing. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>So I agree, that's my advice to you, Jared. You know,

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>thanks and I appreciate. Alright, next question for you, Jared.

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:03.479
<v Speaker 1>So you asked me tun or out, I'm gonna ask

0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 1>you tune or out. So, yeah, they're like we said

0:33:05.520 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 1>at the top of this segment, there's no no question

0:33:07.680 --> 0:33:09.680
<v Speaker 1>that you're a big football fan. You lose to me

0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:12.040
<v Speaker 1>in fantasy football every single year. First of all, I

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>won the fantasy football league last year, which I was

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:18.640
<v Speaker 1>so excited about. Hell yeah, dude, I had I played

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Tanner and in the championship, and uh, I had Stefan

0:33:21.960 --> 0:33:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Daggs go on Monday Night Football and he went all

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:26.600
<v Speaker 1>for three touchdowns on end up winning, and it was

0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:29.440
<v Speaker 1>that's gotta be so sad, especially being you, being Tanner

0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 1>of all people, has to be the most satisfying. So

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>being as big with a fan of football specifically as

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:38.160
<v Speaker 1>you are, are you gonna let a little baby Dean

0:33:38.240 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>play football when he's older than that if he wants to,

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm in. I know a lot of people are nervous

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:46.120
<v Speaker 1>about having their kids playing contact sports, specifically football and

0:33:46.160 --> 0:33:49.239
<v Speaker 1>all the CT and concussion uh information that has come

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 1>out over the past you know, however many years. But

0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:55.440
<v Speaker 1>the game is also safer now than it's ever been.

0:33:55.640 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 1>It's only gonna get safer because they want kids to

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 1>continue playing football, which means that they're gonna uh, they

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>want to reduce injury, reduce any type of brain injuries,

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 1>which has you know, plagued the game a little bit.

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.760
<v Speaker 1>But I I would absolutely let him play. My goal

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>is for him to be a place kicker, because here's

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the thing, dude. First of all, one of my favorite

0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Newing Patriots of all time is Adam veninary because as

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:22.400
<v Speaker 1>a kicker, you have the opportunity to have the game

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:25.399
<v Speaker 1>rest on your foot and that is so cool. So, like,

0:34:25.600 --> 0:34:29.160
<v Speaker 1>you are such a valuable part of the team. Don't

0:34:29.160 --> 0:34:31.400
<v Speaker 1>get me wrong, punters are a great part of the

0:34:31.400 --> 0:34:34.720
<v Speaker 1>team as well, But like there's no like huge pressure punt,

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>but there are pressure kicks, and I want my son

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 1>to have those pressure kicks. Plus, as a kicker, you know,

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:43.759
<v Speaker 1>you have a long career, you don't get hit. It's

0:34:43.760 --> 0:34:46.720
<v Speaker 1>a really good gig. So that's my goal. I want

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 1>my kid to be a kicker in the NFL. I

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>gotta say that. On the flip side of that, you

0:34:50.080 --> 0:34:51.759
<v Speaker 1>look at someone like Cody Parky, you know you have

0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 1>a couple of misses, your career can tail has been

0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:57.480
<v Speaker 1>real quickly. I mean, if he double donks like Cody Parker,

0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna this own the kid right right right. I mean, hey,

0:35:02.320 --> 0:35:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I I'm kind of in the same boat as you.

0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:06.560
<v Speaker 1>If I ever had a kid, um, I don't know

0:35:06.560 --> 0:35:08.800
<v Speaker 1>if I would like ever push him away from playing football,

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think I'd have an issue with it.

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:14.560
<v Speaker 1>So I mean I agree with where you're coming from.

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like, if he wants to absolutely let him try

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:18.279
<v Speaker 1>it out, get knocked around a little bit, and then

0:35:18.280 --> 0:35:20.439
<v Speaker 1>realized it's not for him. I don't think so I played.

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I played football all through high school. I don't think

0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:24.920
<v Speaker 1>if I was then only child, I don't think I

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 1>would have played football in high school. I was like scrawny.

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really like it all that much. The only

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>reason I really played it was because both my older

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 1>brothers were like all state, like superhuman athletes in high school,

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>and so I felt like I had to like carry

0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:40.360
<v Speaker 1>on the lineage did you did you go through a

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.319
<v Speaker 1>lake girls spurt? Because I mean, you're six too, aren't you.

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:45.800
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but I've always been like pretty scrawny, just

0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:49.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of like wormy and wiry, especially in high school

0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:54.359
<v Speaker 1>like that. And I just my biggest uh and you're

0:35:54.400 --> 0:35:55.719
<v Speaker 1>not going to be shocked to hear this at all,

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 1>My biggest vice in life is just like I just

0:35:58.080 --> 0:36:00.320
<v Speaker 1>don't really ever try super hard, Like I don't. I

0:36:00.360 --> 0:36:04.239
<v Speaker 1>just don't care not to put on I don't put

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a hundred percent effort into like anything I do. And

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I hate that. I hate that I even have to

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:10.879
<v Speaker 1>say that, because it's like that's the most embarrassing trade.

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that I possess is I just don't care

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 1>enough about anything to really try hard. Well, I would

0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:19.000
<v Speaker 1>disagree with you in one aspect because I feel like

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>you try very hard. With Kalen. Oh well, I'm sure

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 1>she would probably say something different. No, the thing that

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:26.719
<v Speaker 1>the great thing about Kalin is I don't have to

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:31.560
<v Speaker 1>try hard. It just comes naturally. Um. I think, yeah, thanks. Um.

0:36:31.640 --> 0:36:33.640
<v Speaker 1>So when it came to football, football is like you know,

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 1>you try shoot, you try a percent effort for ten seconds,

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and then you take a thirty second break, and you

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 1>try a d ten percent for ten seconds, take a

0:36:42.080 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 1>thirty second break, and over those ten second try hard periods.

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.279
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, man, like I don't care, Like

0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:49.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to block you. You can just kind

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:51.480
<v Speaker 1>of go ahead if you want to. Or like I

0:36:51.520 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>was like I was like running around like wide receivers.

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like I would like runn Aro out and

0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like I just like jogging down the side quarterback.

0:36:57.360 --> 0:36:59.800
<v Speaker 1>Must I hated you, oh absolutely. And we were the

0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:01.680
<v Speaker 1>best friends too in high school, which is a funny

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 1>thing too. And I would often be like Dylan, why

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:04.440
<v Speaker 1>don't you ever throw me the ball? Do you like

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>we're boys, and he goes, Dude, you gotta try. I

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:09.919
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, it's probably not gonna have a fair point.

0:37:09.920 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Never mind, don't throw me the ball. Yeah. Well, we're

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0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 1>anonymous our friend Nick Vile. Thank you very much. This

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<v Speaker 1>reads I'm twenty two years old and need advice somehow

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 1>to handle my best friend and her boyfriend, who are

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:36.840
<v Speaker 1>both twenty two as well. They have been off again

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 1>and on again, and every time they break up, she

0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:41.400
<v Speaker 1>comes to me and always ends up saying that she

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:43.520
<v Speaker 1>never loved him and that he means nothing to her.

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Regardless of what she keeps telling me, after they break up,

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 1>they always get back together. I'm frustrated that she keeps

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:52.560
<v Speaker 1>choosing her relationship with her piece of crap boyfriend over me,

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:55.839
<v Speaker 1>but then once they break up, I'm enough again. Why

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.320
<v Speaker 1>would you go back to him after he cheats multiple times?

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:01.399
<v Speaker 1>How do I go about the situation? Please help? This

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:08.680
<v Speaker 1>might be Amelia's best friend undercover like uh falsely giving

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 1>ages to make it seem more you know, throw us

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:14.840
<v Speaker 1>off the set totally. She already knows that her and

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 1>uh dissick are going to get back together exactly exactly,

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:20.880
<v Speaker 1>on again, off again. You know we're not accusing this

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:22.880
<v Speaker 1>sack of cheating obviously. I mean, I don't know, I

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:25.560
<v Speaker 1>personally don't know, but possible. Um, how do I go

0:39:25.600 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 1>about this situation? Is what Anonymous would like to know. So, Jared,

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:31.279
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you probably have the best advice rations.

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I have had friends actually lose

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:36.200
<v Speaker 1>friendships over stuff like this. Because we had a friend

0:39:36.239 --> 0:39:39.319
<v Speaker 1>that was dating this guy that we all knew was

0:39:39.560 --> 0:39:41.840
<v Speaker 1>a fine guy, but someone who was not ready to

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:43.720
<v Speaker 1>settle down. We used to see him all the time

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:47.840
<v Speaker 1>at bars by himself, and not just like dive bars,

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:50.160
<v Speaker 1>but like bars where guys go to pick up chicks,

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, and he'd always be dressed nicely and and

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:56.239
<v Speaker 1>look good, and it's like, bro, you're obviously here to

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:58.839
<v Speaker 1>pick up a girl. And then sometimes we catch him

0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:01.919
<v Speaker 1>in a lie. We'd see him out and our friend.

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.319
<v Speaker 1>We text our friend and we'd be like, hey, your

0:40:04.320 --> 0:40:06.839
<v Speaker 1>boys out, and she'd be like, oh, you know, we'd

0:40:06.840 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 1>find out later that he said he was, you know,

0:40:08.640 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>at his grandmother's or whatever. So anyway, so they kept

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.759
<v Speaker 1>going back and forth, and then one time, you know,

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 1>even though we were like, you know, trying to be

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:19.440
<v Speaker 1>supportive but also say that we think he's bad news.

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:22.799
<v Speaker 1>One time, our friend like laid it on the line.

0:40:22.840 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 1>It was like, this guy sucks and you shouldn't be

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.480
<v Speaker 1>with him, and they got into a huge fight over

0:40:27.520 --> 0:40:30.279
<v Speaker 1>it and they ended up not being friends anymore, which

0:40:30.520 --> 0:40:34.799
<v Speaker 1>is so sad. And then fast forward like a couple

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:37.800
<v Speaker 1>of years later, you know, our friend was no longer

0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:40.000
<v Speaker 1>with this guy because of course he cheated and of

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 1>course he was bad news. But it kind of ruined

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:44.200
<v Speaker 1>a friendship a little bit, a friendship that really was

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 1>never rekindled. And so it's hard. This is delicate ground

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you're walking on. I don't know what the right thing

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>is to do. I think the only thing you can

0:40:54.160 --> 0:40:58.840
<v Speaker 1>do is to continue trying to toy that line between

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.839
<v Speaker 1>letting your friend know that you think he's bad news

0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:08.239
<v Speaker 1>and there's red flags while also not you know, like

0:41:10.120 --> 0:41:12.319
<v Speaker 1>being as blunt as my friend was. I don't know.

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:15.800
<v Speaker 1>It's tough. Yeah, that's uh, I mean, that's great advice.

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I totally agree with everything you're saying. I'm trying to

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 1>put myself in the shoes of the boyfriend in this case,

0:41:20.840 --> 0:41:24.000
<v Speaker 1>because I've definitely cheated in the past when I was

0:41:24.360 --> 0:41:27.320
<v Speaker 1>much younger than I am now because I'm an ancient

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>human being at this point. But I kind of think

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:32.400
<v Speaker 1>back to like when I was nineteen and I she

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>did with my girlfriend, and how none of my friends

0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:38.480
<v Speaker 1>ever really like nothing they needed to step up, But

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:40.719
<v Speaker 1>none of them ever like stepped up and was like, Dean,

0:41:40.800 --> 0:41:42.440
<v Speaker 1>what you did was like messed up. You know, no

0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:44.719
<v Speaker 1>one ever like kind of no one help me accountable,

0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:47.359
<v Speaker 1>aside from my girlfriend of course, like she dumped me,

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.000
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah blah. I was pissed, not pissed, but

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:53.120
<v Speaker 1>like sad, you know, despondent whatever. But none of my

0:41:53.200 --> 0:41:56.680
<v Speaker 1>friends ever were like, hey, that wasn't cool of you

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to do, which I in my kindset, I kind of

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:00.839
<v Speaker 1>wish my friends like stepped up and they're like teing,

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:04.720
<v Speaker 1>like get your crap together, you know, stop getting wasted

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:06.719
<v Speaker 1>and going to parties and trying to make out with girls,

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:09.480
<v Speaker 1>Like that's kind of messed up. And I mean if

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:11.799
<v Speaker 1>they I think if that happened, I think that my

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>relationship life would have turned around a little earlier. And

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.279
<v Speaker 1>I it's funny to say, but I don't think this

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:19.279
<v Speaker 1>podcast ever would have sprung up if that were the case.

0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Not to say that, Like, you know, I stuck at

0:42:21.680 --> 0:42:23.440
<v Speaker 1>dating because none of my friends ever stepped up and

0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:25.279
<v Speaker 1>said anything to me. But I do think that they're

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:28.319
<v Speaker 1>especially at the age of twenty two, like you are

0:42:28.360 --> 0:42:31.160
<v Speaker 1>super impressionable. You have a lot to learn. Nobody likes

0:42:31.160 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 1>you when you're twenty two, right, listen to listen to Swift.

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:38.359
<v Speaker 1>I think that's blank one A two, Right, Nobody likes

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:41.960
<v Speaker 1>you when you're twenty three. Yeah, what's the song that

0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:44.360
<v Speaker 1>tell our Swiss things about age? I think it's like fifteen. Anyways,

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:47.560
<v Speaker 1>that's that's beyond the point. My point is twenty two

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:50.040
<v Speaker 1>is a young enough age to where you're allowed to

0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 1>make mistakes, but you're not. You shouldn't be villainized for

0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:55.279
<v Speaker 1>calling your friends out for making those mistakes, especially like

0:42:55.320 --> 0:42:57.120
<v Speaker 1>if you have the maturity to call them out for them.

0:42:57.160 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I think one of the reasons that of my

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 1>friends called me out and nor what I call my

0:43:00.560 --> 0:43:02.880
<v Speaker 1>friends out for it was because we all lacked the maturity.

0:43:02.920 --> 0:43:06.160
<v Speaker 1>So like if we had maybe like a mature friend

0:43:06.239 --> 0:43:09.279
<v Speaker 1>or two would be like, hey, like this isn't right.

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:12.239
<v Speaker 1>We just got word from rally that it was t

0:43:12.400 --> 0:43:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Swift sings fifteen, so I was only seven years off.

0:43:15.120 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>I was just about to say, Dean, is this going

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:19.640
<v Speaker 1>to sound from there? Oh? I don't know about you,

0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:23.000
<v Speaker 1>but I'm feeling in twenty two that was terrible. That's

0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:26.320
<v Speaker 1>what it is. Yes, Okay, thank you, thank you, Jared.

0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:30.399
<v Speaker 1>I knew I wasn't that far off. Okay, I appreciate that. Two.

0:43:31.840 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 1>And hey, I'm a blink. I'm a big blank win

0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:35.239
<v Speaker 1>a too fan, So I am a little bumped. I

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:38.120
<v Speaker 1>missed that reference. But anyways, Um, there's no shame in

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:40.520
<v Speaker 1>calling your friends out for that. I I personally like

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be mad at you for separating yourself from your

0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 1>friends that are making those bad decisions, because at the

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, it's like they're probably gonna make

0:43:48.480 --> 0:43:51.040
<v Speaker 1>those bad decisions towards your friendship at some point earlier.

0:43:51.080 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>So you have every right to say something. And then

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:57.280
<v Speaker 1>if the need to separate yourselves as friends comes about,

0:43:57.440 --> 0:43:59.239
<v Speaker 1>I think that's totally fine. Here's a question I have

0:43:59.360 --> 0:44:02.360
<v Speaker 1>for you. So Anonymous is emailing us about her friend.

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:06.280
<v Speaker 1>Do you think Anonymous should go to the boyfriend and say, listen,

0:44:06.960 --> 0:44:09.879
<v Speaker 1>I love my friend. You can't keep doing this to her. Yeah,

0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:11.680
<v Speaker 1>that's a really good question. I think she should go

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 1>to their friend first, and I mean, gosh, okay. So

0:44:18.080 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 1>so my story with that same situation is when I

0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:25.080
<v Speaker 1>was nineteen, already shared it cheated on my girlfriend. I

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:29.080
<v Speaker 1>regret it obviously deeply to this day. Um. I remember

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:30.879
<v Speaker 1>I was at a house party in college as a

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:34.600
<v Speaker 1>sophomore and my ex girlfriend at the times friend came

0:44:34.680 --> 0:44:37.160
<v Speaker 1>up to me and she was like, Dean, like you

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:39.360
<v Speaker 1>you and I can't be friends. I know what you did,

0:44:39.360 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>Like this is kind of messed up and in my

0:44:41.280 --> 0:44:42.600
<v Speaker 1>in my head, and I said it out loud to her.

0:44:42.640 --> 0:44:44.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, it's totally understandable, Like I don't

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:46.080
<v Speaker 1>want to put you in an awkward position, like you

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:48.839
<v Speaker 1>have to back your friend more than anything. I don't

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:50.759
<v Speaker 1>think that that conversation had any effect on me because

0:44:50.760 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I already knew I was in the wrong in that case.

0:44:53.200 --> 0:44:56.200
<v Speaker 1>But I think that what this anonymous person should do,

0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:58.800
<v Speaker 1>let's go to her friend first, and then like maybe

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I guess that she sees the boyfriend out happens stantley

0:45:01.920 --> 0:45:03.239
<v Speaker 1>say something, But I don't think she needs to go

0:45:03.239 --> 0:45:05.080
<v Speaker 1>out her out of her way to say anything like

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 1>a glass of water in this dude's face. No, don't

0:45:07.239 --> 0:45:09.839
<v Speaker 1>do that. Not even that. Just be like you're you're

0:45:09.880 --> 0:45:12.880
<v Speaker 1>a dude, you suck like, get out of our lives.

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 1>We don't need you here. I don't what do you think.

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she should do that because then I

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:19.960
<v Speaker 1>think it will alienate the friend. I agree. I think

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:22.320
<v Speaker 1>he's just talked to the friend and be like, listen,

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:25.280
<v Speaker 1>I just you can date him. Of course, it's your choice.

0:45:25.400 --> 0:45:27.240
<v Speaker 1>I will always support you and always be your friend,

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:29.040
<v Speaker 1>but as your friend, I also have to tell you

0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I see these red flags. You know, I've seen relationships

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:36.560
<v Speaker 1>like this before. They always fail. Um, he's addict to you.

0:45:36.560 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>You deserve so much better. Um. But then also let

0:45:40.200 --> 0:45:42.040
<v Speaker 1>her know that you're her friend and you're going to

0:45:42.120 --> 0:45:44.759
<v Speaker 1>support her. Don't give her like an ultimate him, you

0:45:44.800 --> 0:45:46.920
<v Speaker 1>know where it's like, hey, it's either him or us,

0:45:46.960 --> 0:45:48.840
<v Speaker 1>because then of course she's going to choose him. But

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 1>if you show support and you're there for her, and

0:45:51.080 --> 0:45:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you try to let her know that I think this

0:45:53.200 --> 0:45:55.600
<v Speaker 1>guy is bad news for you. But if you need

0:45:55.640 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>to figure this out, then I'll still be there for you.

0:45:57.560 --> 0:46:00.239
<v Speaker 1>I think that's the best way to go about it. Yeah,

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:02.359
<v Speaker 1>I agree, but also don't be too slow to pull

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:04.720
<v Speaker 1>yourself away from the friendship, you know, like, yeah, definitely,

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:07.760
<v Speaker 1>don't give the ultimatum. But if things continue to escalate

0:46:07.800 --> 0:46:10.359
<v Speaker 1>and stay the same or get worse, like, definitely just

0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 1>pull out of the friendship. Oh that's so tough one,

0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:16.799
<v Speaker 1>and you're losing a friend over this, Like then this

0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:20.880
<v Speaker 1>guy won you know, the jerk one. Yeah, you know,

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:22.879
<v Speaker 1>you actually make a really good point. I guess. Yeah,

0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:24.680
<v Speaker 1>if they if they're really your friends, stick with them,

0:46:25.080 --> 0:46:26.800
<v Speaker 1>be there for him. I don't know, you make a

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:28.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of good points. It's a lot of stuff that

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I've really thought of. I think you should be there

0:46:30.200 --> 0:46:32.120
<v Speaker 1>for them, but you should also be honest with them.

0:46:32.160 --> 0:46:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I think those two things are not mutually exclusive, Like

0:46:34.520 --> 0:46:37.080
<v Speaker 1>you can do both. You can say, hey, I don't

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:39.319
<v Speaker 1>like this guy, but if you are in love with him,

0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:41.839
<v Speaker 1>then I'll go with the program. But I just hope

0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:44.200
<v Speaker 1>that he doesn't, you know, you know, screw you over.

0:46:44.360 --> 0:46:45.960
<v Speaker 1>It's hard because a lot of the stuff that I

0:46:46.000 --> 0:46:47.920
<v Speaker 1>ever can talk about are like things that I can

0:46:48.000 --> 0:46:52.480
<v Speaker 1>draw from experience. I've never had a good friend have

0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:56.080
<v Speaker 1>a crappy partner, So it's like I can't I can't

0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:57.600
<v Speaker 1>put myself in those shoes. So I think that your

0:46:57.600 --> 0:47:01.400
<v Speaker 1>advice is probably better in this case is because you

0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:04.960
<v Speaker 1>can empathize with people better and be it sounds like

0:47:05.000 --> 0:47:06.879
<v Speaker 1>you had an experience similar to kind of what they're

0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>going what they're going on. So, Anonymous, if you're listening

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:10.799
<v Speaker 1>to this, which we hope you are, thank you for

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:14.080
<v Speaker 1>emailing us, take Jared's advice, but also sprinkle a little

0:47:14.080 --> 0:47:15.920
<v Speaker 1>bit of my advice on to it as well, because

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I might be an idiot, but sometimes you throw enough

0:47:18.440 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 1>crap at the wall, eventually something's bound to steak. So

0:47:20.560 --> 0:47:22.800
<v Speaker 1>Dean's advice is like the grated cheese that the surfer

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:24.319
<v Speaker 1>brings over and he's like, would you like more cheese?

0:47:24.360 --> 0:47:25.840
<v Speaker 1>And you're like, of course, just a little sprinkle on

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:27.480
<v Speaker 1>top because I need it right, And then you take

0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:29.200
<v Speaker 1>the handful of cheese that was just sprinkled on and

0:47:29.560 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 1>throw it on the floor because you got way too

0:47:31.040 --> 0:47:34.040
<v Speaker 1>much cheese, way too much. Dean advice can lead to

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:36.759
<v Speaker 1>a stomach ache. We all know that. Um that's gonna

0:47:36.760 --> 0:47:38.439
<v Speaker 1>do it. I think for this week's episode, right, Jared,

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:39.759
<v Speaker 1>you want to answer any more emails or do you

0:47:39.800 --> 0:47:41.319
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about anything else before you get added

0:47:41.360 --> 0:47:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I think we're good. I think that means we're just

0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna have to come back next week and hopefully suck

0:47:45.680 --> 0:47:47.400
<v Speaker 1>a little bit less. That's not our exit, though. I

0:47:47.440 --> 0:47:49.160
<v Speaker 1>just wanted to say it back to you, Dean. That

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:51.120
<v Speaker 1>was a little premature. That's what I love. I was

0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:53.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna say, I'm shocked. I'm shocked. Um yeah, I do

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:55.080
<v Speaker 1>want to say before we leave, I would like to

0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:59.040
<v Speaker 1>apologize for my tardiness. Again. I tried my hardest dinner.

0:47:59.080 --> 0:48:00.640
<v Speaker 1>It was a romantic time and that's what all this

0:48:00.800 --> 0:48:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that's what this podcast is all about. You know, you're

0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:04.920
<v Speaker 1>trying not to suck at dating anymore, and if you

0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:08.160
<v Speaker 1>left the dinner early, you would continue sucking. We're working

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:11.280
<v Speaker 1>on not sucking anymore. You did the right thing. Caitlin

0:48:11.360 --> 0:48:13.399
<v Speaker 1>has really leaned into this whole help I suck thing.

0:48:13.840 --> 0:48:17.439
<v Speaker 1>She goes yesterday, for instance, when I you know, when

0:48:17.480 --> 0:48:19.000
<v Speaker 1>she looked up from her phone and it was like

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:20.799
<v Speaker 1>upset that I was getting too close to the car,

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:24.200
<v Speaker 1>she goes help by suck at driving. And today, right

0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:27.759
<v Speaker 1>before we had dinner, she goes help by suck at

0:48:27.800 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 1>podcasting and I go, hey, that's my thing, Okay, back

0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:35.040
<v Speaker 1>off seal it. But what she doesn't know is maybe

0:48:35.080 --> 0:48:37.399
<v Speaker 1>next week we're gonna suck just a little bit less.

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:40.520
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