Speaker 1: I think you go to your husband and say, yo,
Speaker 1: these are your parents. Stopp that shit or else you
Speaker 1: and I are going to have a problem.
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Speaker 1: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down pregame ten minutes of fun.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys for submitting your questions, as you do
Speaker 1: every week. Let's jump right into it, Sister, Hanley Riggs,
Speaker 1: how to deal? Well, first of all, let's deal with
Speaker 1: the background that I have here, and forgive the blue
Speaker 1: lighting from this weird tint on this hotel that I'm in.
Speaker 3: But AnyWho, Handley.
Speaker 1: Red Hotel, it's a good hotel. Oh no, it's a
Speaker 1: great hotel. Yes, I'm in the lighting good old Sin City?
Speaker 1: For are we still calling it sin City? I don't
Speaker 1: think we are Las Vegas.
Speaker 3: We get it.
Speaker 1: How to deal with going through a breakup with someone
Speaker 1: you thought was the one?
Speaker 3: Wow? I mean, how much time do you have, Hanley?
Speaker 3: I don't. I've always been about the one, clearly, hence
Speaker 3: my track record. So how to I don't know? Do
Speaker 3: you want to take this one?
Speaker 1: Did you ever date someone that you were like, oh
Speaker 1: this is the one, and oh yeah, I mean, yeah.
Speaker 2: I didn't really date, to be honest with you.
Speaker 3: But I don't know you had some long term sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like I was just like,
Speaker 2: honestly as self centered as it is, more worried about
Speaker 2: my career, and I was like, I'll be fine now.
Speaker 2: I kind of made some bad choices after breaking up
Speaker 2: with certain people, but I feel like you have to
Speaker 2: go through that. It shouldn't be so hard on myself
Speaker 2: about it. Raise your hand if you've done some wrong
Speaker 2: here and there. Sure wrong things. Yeah, so anyways, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know how to deal. I would get involved
Speaker 2: with something else, and I don't mean maybe a guy.
Speaker 2: I mean like, throw yourself into working out, throw yourself
Speaker 2: into a new hobby, throw yourself into I don't know,
Speaker 2: like just anything I think.
Speaker 1: And this is again, perspective is everything, and it's easier
Speaker 1: to say when you're in the moment, but whenever it
Speaker 1: doesn't work out, I'm always like, oh, okay, so that
Speaker 1: that's good. That means I'm getting a step closer to
Speaker 1: what should work out or that wasn't the one, Like
Speaker 1: I truly believe in, like everything happens for a reason,
Speaker 1: Like I adhere to that adage, probably to just help
Speaker 1: myself through stuff. But then go okay, like that's great,
Speaker 1: or maybe it's protecting you. There's a what what's the quote?
Speaker 1: There's some quote like things that don't work out? Somebody else, Well,
Speaker 1: there's that one too, that's the one I was thinking of.
Speaker 2: No, it was it wasn't that, but we'll go with that.
Speaker 2: You could think to yourself along the lines you just
Speaker 2: said what you said. Also, it's just wasn't supposed to happen,
Speaker 2: and thank goodness, you got it done. You're over, You're
Speaker 2: done with it, so you can move on and find
Speaker 2: the person that you were.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: That's just like you'll you know, be getting drunk thinking
Speaker 2: of that and be like, h cheers. That what a
Speaker 2: great saying. But it is true, like you're one step closer,
Speaker 2: like you said, you're You're done with that, all right, Kate,
Speaker 2: Evelyn one one one is anyone really right? Need to
Speaker 2: be a mom? I'm a month out, can't comprehend being
Speaker 2: a mom. No, I'm not ready to be a mom.
Speaker 2: My kid is teething. It's fucking hard. All he does
Speaker 2: is scream. All he does is cry, and I only
Speaker 2: get to see him for a little bit. And it
Speaker 2: is hard. It's really really hard in my house right now,
Speaker 2: and there's nothing you can do. You have to sit
Speaker 2: there and just take it. And when he is like
Speaker 2: on your chest looking at you, and he's like, ah,
Speaker 2: and you just got off a five and a half
Speaker 2: hour flight, you know you need to unpack. Pack, also,
Speaker 2: get back to the Dallas Cowboys, figure out your CD
Speaker 2: LAMB interview. It doesn't matter and you're losing mind. Oh wait,
Speaker 2: let me go get my suit altered. Let me try
Speaker 2: to figure out what I'm worrying for the Yeah. Aha,
Speaker 2: it's great, it's really great. No, I don't think anyone's
Speaker 2: ready for this, and like my mom always says, it's
Speaker 2: never the perfect time, it's not.
Speaker 3: It's so funny. So I have a lot of thoughts
Speaker 3: on this.
Speaker 1: In fact, I'm gonna save this for the Big Show, okay,
Speaker 1: because when I knew that little mac attack was on
Speaker 1: his way, I had a lot of my own thoughts
Speaker 1: about having a babe, and I was like, I wonder
Speaker 1: how going to feel? So we're going to talk about this, okay, babies,
Speaker 1: Big show, stay tuned. I obviously I can't comment on
Speaker 1: Kate Evelyn, but I would like to say congratulations. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was nice of you being a mama mama, because
Speaker 1: again there's so an Aaron. You have spoke at length
Speaker 1: about this, how difficult it was for you to even
Speaker 1: have macaroon, and so we'll just start with how great
Speaker 1: that is.
Speaker 3: But of course it's like anything.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't comprehend being a mother, but responsibilities
Speaker 1: in general. I mean, like I worry about my dogs
Speaker 1: and they're at a dog daycare. I can't imagine like
Speaker 1: having a worry about a human. So congratulations on that.
Speaker 1: And I think that whoever you believe in, if it's
Speaker 1: God or whoever your version of someone is is, I
Speaker 1: think that they give you the skills and the strength
Speaker 1: that you need to get through something. So we can't
Speaker 1: wait to hear more about that little one when he
Speaker 1: or she arrives.
Speaker 2: We found out one thing that helps Mac with the
Speaker 2: teething and stop crying. He's obsessed thanks to Nanny Connie
Speaker 2: with face. He loves the sound. He loves waiting for
Speaker 2: the call. So we facetimed you last night. I went
Speaker 2: down the roll attacks nobody was answering me. I was like,
Speaker 2: I was going to answer. He sits there and he
Speaker 2: just stares at the camera and he loves the noise.
Speaker 2: And like then when they were facetiming me when I
Speaker 2: was on the road this weekend. He also does this
Speaker 2: crazy head tilt. He always goes like stop when.
Speaker 3: You say, like like do you they like tilt their heads.
Speaker 2: Wait, But every time somebody doesn't answer, he starts screaming again.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, God, damn.
Speaker 1: It, Chris, Well, I'm getting a new phone because for
Speaker 1: some reason I don't get your FaceTime calls don't come through.
Speaker 3: So that's why I called you.
Speaker 1: Back last night. But Mac was already sleeping at that point.
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Okay, we are looking at Cameron Blackwood. Any
Speaker 1: tips for inner ear care from my IFB Cameron. First
Speaker 1: of all, this is a great question. Now I don't
Speaker 1: know what IFB stands for, but for those of you
Speaker 1: not in the TV world, Ryan will tell us it
Speaker 1: is something you put in your ears so your producer
Speaker 1: can talk to you, or anybody that's in the control
Speaker 1: room can talk to you. So any oh, God, I
Speaker 1: don't know. But Jillian told me the other day that
Speaker 1: she had that wax thing. None at not recently, but
Speaker 1: she had to go to like a emergency thing or something.
Speaker 1: She was having an ear issue and they cleaned it
Speaker 1: out and they did the wat.
Speaker 3: Shed not tell me this. I don't know how long
Speaker 3: ago it was.
Speaker 1: We were just talking because I have had this lingering
Speaker 1: cold forever until my ears. When I got off the plane,
Speaker 1: my ears didn't pop and it's like the worst feeling.
Speaker 3: And she's like, you should go get your ears like
Speaker 3: cleaned out. And then I was like, well, first of all, you.
Speaker 2: No, I don't want to do it topic in our
Speaker 2: house because do you know how bad it is to
Speaker 2: use certain things to clean your ears now, Like yeah,
Speaker 2: clean the outside with them all that, because I get
Speaker 2: insecure that like maybe like I'm crusty or I picked something,
Speaker 2: So of course Q tips are fine with that, but
Speaker 2: you shouldn't be jabbing in So at Christmas, I gave
Speaker 2: everybody this ear wax cleaner. It's these drops and it's
Speaker 2: supposed to just come out.
Speaker 3: But I think I.
Speaker 2: Want to go to a professional and sure everything is
Speaker 2: good because I sleep with ear plugs every night. I
Speaker 2: wear an IFB once a week, like I I've probably
Speaker 2: jam and shit in my ear.
Speaker 3: I'm out. You sleep with earplugs every single night.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, what in a hotel, because I'll is it
Speaker 2: fixate or fixty eight fixate, I'll fixate.
Speaker 3: Niety eight means you're gonna like suffocate.
Speaker 2: We don't need that too, I'll do that on somebody
Speaker 2: like next door fixate or I'll hear the air conditioner
Speaker 2: like I need absolute silence and weirdness in my house.
Speaker 2: Howie is like licking, Jared is like snorm, Like I
Speaker 2: just need celensially.
Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god, look at her incorporating her Spanish.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: Sure we will have to interrupt this podcast. I'm sure
Speaker 1: multiple times for the construction that's going on next door.
Speaker 1: So I need to be You should have heard me yesterday.
Speaker 1: I was going like this, pounding on the wall, and
Speaker 1: then I called the front desk. I had a moment.
Speaker 1: I said, I am not paying X amount of dollars
Speaker 1: a night.
Speaker 3: It's so true. And they're like, well, we don't have
Speaker 3: any other rooms available.
Speaker 1: I said, well, I'm pretty sure when I put my
Speaker 1: credit card down you didn't say, hey, we're putting you
Speaker 1: next to the construction room.
Speaker 3: Here's a discount.
Speaker 1: Because unless I see a discount on the exit bill,
Speaker 1: I need some Yeah, I need some sort of compensation
Speaker 1: for this. And I don't mean the fruit platter. I've
Speaker 1: never eaten that fruit platter, don't don'ts I like the orange,
Speaker 1: Okay I do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just taking the bite out of the old
Speaker 3: orange or apple? Please? AnyWho ear plugs interesting? Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Side note, there was a waitress the other day when
Speaker 1: I was out wearing ear plugs and I was like.
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is good for you.
Speaker 1: You're the waitress, Like, aren't you supposed to be like
Speaker 1: hearing what's going on around you?
Speaker 3: Because there was a band. Oh look there's the band.
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: Nick to wait, how do you clean your ifb I've
Speaker 2: had an embarrassing thing we did answer for. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, you guys, my sound went out, my
Speaker 2: sound like I don't have program and my audio guy
Speaker 2: was like, no, it's it because there was a earworks.
Speaker 2: I got to clean them out. You gotta clean them
Speaker 2: out or no AXI.
Speaker 1: Goal wax poetics about that girlfriend a waxy gal curR
Speaker 1: Dog twelve My in laws showed up at our house
Speaker 1: with no warning. How do I respectfully stop that shit?
Speaker 1: First of all, current dog twelve, I live for your name.
Speaker 1: I also live for this question. How do I stop
Speaker 1: that shit? I think you go to your husband and say, yo,
Speaker 1: these are your parents. Stop that shit or else you
Speaker 1: and I are going to have a problem. And we
Speaker 1: need to start with the husband first and foremost. And
Speaker 1: if the husband is resistant because he's afraid of his parents,
Speaker 1: well then you need to say, hey, mother and father
Speaker 1: in law. I love when you guys come over, but
Speaker 1: maybe just give us a little heads up next time.
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that the place is ready
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 3: I don't know, this is a.
Speaker 2: Great question coming up. I agree with, by the way,
Speaker 2: what you said. You have to have your husband deal
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's his problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a laid Low returned to gift. But now the
Speaker 2: person wants to see it in my house? What would
Speaker 2: you shit?
Speaker 1: Wait, first of all, we have I need to know
Speaker 1: which friend wants to see proof of this in your house? Like,
Speaker 1: unless it's like a picture or some sort of household.
Speaker 3: I know they're like, oh, how does that look in
Speaker 3: your house? Yeah? Well you just got to be honest.
Speaker 1: You can't we don't say you just say, actually, well,
Speaker 1: see I need more information, ad Low, and then I
Speaker 1: can help you with this because if it is something
Speaker 1: that we can manufacture again, then let's go back out
Speaker 1: by it and then return it again. But if it's
Speaker 1: something that is not something we can manufact I just
Speaker 1: there's more questions in order for me to help you
Speaker 1: answer this. I want to be the solution to your problem,
Speaker 1: but I need more information. Last, but not least, j
Speaker 1: Dur's three sixty five, what type of food is your
Speaker 1: favorite on a first dinner date?
Speaker 3: Great question.
Speaker 1: It depends on how much you like that date. If
Speaker 1: you want to go back and hook up with that person,
Speaker 1: I begin to sell. If you're not interested in hooking
Speaker 1: up with that person, then I get a stake and
Speaker 1: that sends a message right away to that person. If
Speaker 1: we're eating a lot wayne hooking up. If it's light
Speaker 1: and day, you got a chance.
Speaker 2: But then I want to drink, and so I don't
Speaker 2: want to. I'm not you know, I can't be light.
Speaker 3: What's it called eata breadstick?
Speaker 1: Speaking of that, Jennifer Lawrence, by the way, we will
Speaker 1: talk about her podcast. Her In an interview for the
Speaker 1: Golden Globes on the Red Carpet, she was talking about
Speaker 1: how she wasn't drinking because she was like, because I
Speaker 1: was starving myself to fit into this dress.
Speaker 3: I was like, I just love her. I've always loved her.
Speaker 1: But the honesty and her obsession with the salt with
Speaker 1: the Real Housewives is also next level. I probably sent
Speaker 1: you seventy five videos of her. You're like, its great?
Speaker 3: Is real?
Speaker 1: I have questions? Is the hair real and less makeup?
Speaker 1: Is more clearly not? What's going on here.
Speaker 3: With the school play that I.
Speaker 1: Went to this morning for a lunch and breakfast meeting,
Speaker 1: they were like, did you roll.
Speaker 3: In from last night?
Speaker 1: Because these brows are very dark and it's not the
Speaker 1: lighting in here. Anyways, this has been the free game.
Speaker 1: We have a lot to discuss on the big show.
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