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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, jebils Dirty Little Secret? Hello

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Speaker 1: one second? One second? Who my Kathy Kirsten is with us?

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Speaker 1: Does that work? Yeah? I guess okay bye bye ye

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Speaker 1: sorry sorry okay, everything cool with Kathy? Yeah? Sorry? So

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Speaker 1: do you have a dirty Little Secret? Huh? I do? Yes,

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Speaker 1: we want to hear it. Um. Okay, So one of

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Speaker 1: my co workers um started copying what I wore, Like

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Speaker 1: I'd wear an outfit and then the next day she's

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Speaker 1: magically have that same outfit on. It happened all the time,

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Speaker 1: but I thought I was just being like sensitive, and

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Speaker 1: then people started commenting it to me, and so I

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Speaker 1: went to our boss and I got her transferred out

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Speaker 1: of my department. You're like, no, nobody can wear the

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Speaker 1: same clothes here. Was it like an exact match what

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Speaker 1: she was doing? Um, not like the exact match. But

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Speaker 1: if I were like a floral top, she'd wear a

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Speaker 1: floral top the next day. Okay. Actually, I have a

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Speaker 1: very similar story. When I was at my old job.

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Speaker 1: There was this girl who came in and she just

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Speaker 1: like hated me because I was just better than her.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, that's that's what it was. But you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm a really nice person, and I don't have a

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Speaker 1: problem with anybody, you know, unless they have a problem

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Speaker 1: with me for whatever reason, and they shouldn't. But I

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Speaker 1: went to my boss because I was getting sick and

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Speaker 1: tired of it because she was bowling me, like she's

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Speaker 1: being really mean. And then I was like yeah, I

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Speaker 1: was like, I don't, like, I can't do this anymore

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Speaker 1: around her, like she's six years younger than me and

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Speaker 1: she's being mean, Like this is ridiculous. We're adults. And

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Speaker 1: he's like he said this to me, which didn't help.

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Speaker 1: By the way, he goes, well, she hates you because

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Speaker 1: she wants to be you, And I'm like, that's not

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Speaker 1: helpful at all. That's not helpful at all. That's like

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Speaker 1: the disconnect between dudes and women, I think, honestly, just

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Speaker 1: the way we communicate. Because both of you guys are like,

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Speaker 1: that's not helpful at all, and yeah, the compliment, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then here I'm like, I'm like, yeah, absolutely, that

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Speaker 1: makes sense. I mean the women on the phone are like, no,

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Speaker 1: don't That didn't help one bit. But I don't want

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Speaker 1: to say her face anymore, like maybe be nice and

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Speaker 1: then maybe we'll share our tips with you, and that

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Speaker 1: is why women feel dismissed in life and in the workplace.

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Speaker 1: I literally just rolled my eyes and I'm always like

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Speaker 1: and they didn't do anything about it, right, No, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean it is it's because they're there to think

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Speaker 1: that you're dope, right, that they want to address and

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Speaker 1: be like you. It even happens here at our office

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Speaker 1: with certain things with Alex. There's something that just hit me.

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Speaker 1: At least you got her transferred out. Yeah, well I

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Speaker 1: still here all the time, and she's always like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I miss you so much. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I know, you know, like that has to be annoying.

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Speaker 1: That would be super weird if it happens to me, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think and put myself in your shoes.

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Speaker 1: If that did actually happen to me, that would probably

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Speaker 1: be really annoying. But where I'm from, where I'm standing

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Speaker 1: right now, I'm like, I never had anybody to show

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Speaker 1: up at work and try to be me. I've never

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Speaker 1: I've never walked down the home been like, dude, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go report that guy to HR four days in

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Speaker 1: the row. He's worth the same outfit as met my

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Speaker 1: outfit I was like, gosh, I'm being so sensitive. And

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Speaker 1: then when people started seeing it, I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you see you too. It would be creepy. Though it

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Speaker 1: would be creepy, I just I just feel insecure about

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Speaker 1: my outfit now. Nobody wants to dress like that man,

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Speaker 1: No one dresses like me. Well, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for telling us that. Of course, just one more question,

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Speaker 1: why did you what department did you send this woman too? Yeah? Um, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm a teacher, story center to a different grade, different teacher.

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Speaker 1: What grade do you teach? Um? I teach first grade.

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Speaker 1: Ah wow, I love the little kid. I do like

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Speaker 1: I missed mine being a little The Jibbil Show on

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