WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:03.840 One of our most listened to second date updates on 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:07.160 our podcast happened just a few months ago, involving a 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:10.639 girl who used a very unusual strategy to impress a 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:14.440 guide during her first date. Okay, now, Brooke thought it 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:21.400 was quirky and hilarious. Alexis felt it was kind of ick. 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:22.960 Did we not agree? 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:28.080 We always agree on dating, like you were always taking 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.040 my tips and stuff. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:32.520 Sure, I'm not gonna spoil it, But ever since that aired, 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.760 we've had a lot of people texting in wanting to 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:37.839 know what happened to that couple. Well, we finally have 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:40.960 an answer for because we got in touch with them 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:44.320 and all of us were blown away by what's happened 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:49.600 since their original call. We're gonna play the original audio 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:52.000 for you and then find out what's new right after 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:56.480 when we do your second date update update, next second 0:00:56.560 --> 0:01:02.040 date update. Is it possible to be too hot to date? 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:03.520 Asking for a friend? 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:06.720 Nobody in this room could answer you. 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:11.600 Seriously, If you look on TikTok right now, there's all 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.360 these videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.280 approach them because guys are too intimidated. 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.720 Oh my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:19.920 always had that problem. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.560 Yeah, got to talk to them. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.920 It was all part of Poser's hashtag ask a hot 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:29.959 Girl out without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go so 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:31.479 well pants. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:32.960 Sorry. 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:36.120 That might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:38.680 is facing in her love life right now. She's worried 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:42.800 maybe she was too attractive during her first date. Oh 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:43.240 my god. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.200 Okay, well, try not to make fun of you right 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:45.759 out of the gate. 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.600 I don't feel sorry for you already. What we want 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:49.880 to learn more? How you doing? 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:53.080 I'm sorry? Can I just this was a one night phenomenon. 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:57.240 I am not that hotpo like. 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:03.360 A true hot girl. Anyway, we'll hang up on this girl. 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:04.760 What happened? 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:08.440 We're just joking around with you. Tell us about the 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.679 guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name? 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.080 His name is Ben. I don't even know if you 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:15.880 could call it going out last week, I was supposed 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:17.640 to meet up with my friend, just get some drinks 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:20.280 or whatever. Girl of nights. I have this thing where 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.880 I like to wear these one piece outfits now, like 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.720 a jumper, Like a jumper. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:27.320 Yeah oh yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:29.200 zip up from the foot all the way to the neck. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.840 Like I will say, I wish they had a zipper 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.840 down the wall, because going to the bathroom in a 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:34.880 jumper is really. 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.640 Okay, sorry, I keep going. You're looking good. 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:40.680 So I'm saying, it's a bar waiting for my friend 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:43.960 and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:46.560 sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me. 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:47.720 Okay, girl. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.280 And there's this one guy in particular who is just 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:53.480 like absolutely my type from head to toe, Like he 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:55.760 was even wearing like the outfit my high school crushy 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:57.919 sword that was like my favorite outfit with like green 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.160 corduroys and a little black polo show. And he had 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.760 a beard just like he was way taller than me. 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:07.079 It's good. It's good that you got over him. So 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:09.560 did the ban approach you then? 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:10.120 No? 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.040 I mean I thought maybe he was looking my way 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:13.760 a little bit, but like I said, I was really 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.639 feeling myself, so I went up to him. 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:21.800 As you watch all the other boys be jealous, not cool. 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:26.800 In your situation in saying that. 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:33.440 Jealous, I'm all about this. 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:37.360 Well, Okay, here's where it gets a little bit weird 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.720 because I've never had anything like this happened to me before. 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:41.960 So I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:45.200 with him, and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.440 comes over and interrupts because some other guys sent me 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:48.160 a drink. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.600 Nice while you're talking to the guy that you wanted. 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:57.880 And competitive guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:00.480 She walked to you, but I still got her over 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:01.480 here like that. 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.360 Did did he seem to like that, like as like 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:06.880 a challenge or did he seem to be put off 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:07.320 by it? 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:09.880 I mean, he had a beard, so it was pretty 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:10.400 hard to tell. 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:15.720 Was he mostly beard? 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:21.280 No idea like I picturely bore like five o'clock shadow 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.440 Santa Claus. 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.000 That was like a little bit awkward, So I kind 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:29.360 of used that as an opportunity to like show him 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:30.720 that I was into him. So I kind of looked 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.080 at the other guy like, uh, thanks, but what the 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:36.080 heck and just ignored him and went back to talking 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:36.360 to Ben. 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.279 Must have made him feel good. 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:44.080 But here's the thing, guys, Then it happened again. 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:47.560 What whoa wait? Saved dude? Like save dude, kid? 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:50.560 Now different dude, can you send me a link to 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:51.000 your jumps. 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.880 I want that. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:58.720 I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on, 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:02.400 and I just I just I like saluted that guy awkwardly, 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.080 like okay, captain, and. 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:06.280 I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now. 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.320 Yeah, the bar seems like the coolest place. It's got captains, 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:14.039 it's got lumberjacks Brooksilver in the back saying like, how 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:14.559 do you do? 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.400 Do you? Mama? 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.839 Tell because I'm out of your commentation. That the weirdest bar. 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:22.800 How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:23.320 that end? 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:24.200 Well? 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:26.080 I mean eventually my friend let me know that she 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.919 wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.479 I forgot about and. 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:32.800 We hung out for the rest of the night, had 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.360 a fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:36.039 him my number. 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:39.080 Yeah, And I mean that's basically been Did you. 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.000 Ask him if he was single? Like, point blank? 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:42.880 Oh my god, no, I have not. 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.520 Actually, this is mind blowing. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:47.960 Because even if he wasn't interested in you, the fact 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:51.760 that you were like literally swatting other men away in 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.800 front of him and then telling him you were so 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:54.400 interested like. 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:57.200 That alone would make a guy just all you back in. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:00.640 Yeah, any attention, not him. 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:03.760 I've been theorizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:07.240 but since and maybe he like stalked me online and 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:08.520 is like, Okay, she's not. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:13.520 Always that hot, like when they turn the lights on 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:14.880 at the end of the night of the bar and 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:16.800 you're like, you have to understand. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:18.839 Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is, 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.320 I don't have to put an outfit together. 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:23.400 It's like no effort. It's like I don't want to 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:24.800 make up. Yeah, that's true. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.240 I'm with you, Okay, you and your magic Onesie. Hold on, 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.400 We're gonna play a song that we'll call Ben for you, 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.200 and we'll try and get your second date update. 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:34.200 Okay, Okay, I'm suddenly feeling very. 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:37.320 Hold on. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:40.080 Update. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:42.119 You're in the middle of a second date update update, 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:44.119 and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.880 right after you here Part two. 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.919 Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:53.920 Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream Costen and the 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:58.640 Magic Due Attracting Onesie. 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:00.240 Alexis just wants to link. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:04.400 Because she went out and wore the one specific jumper 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:07.479 that made her look real fine that night, so guys 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.000 at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:13.080 good thing, except it was happening while she was sitting 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.520 down with the one dude that she really wanted to 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:19.800 be with, a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:24.080 more beard than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:26.800 that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:28.520 to Ben, and it could have scared him away. 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.920 How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated. 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:34.600 I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out, 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.920 so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.480 Maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.320 just he can't get home to make the call to you. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:56.760 So let's find out. Here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah, 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.680 it sounds right. Hey, is this Ben the beard? 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:01.400 What I mean? Ben? 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:08.160 Ben with a beard? This is Ben? Sorry, he sounded 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:08.920 exactly like I thought. 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.440 I think Ben just flustered everyone in the road. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:12.600 I know Ben. 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:15.160 Sorry. My name is jeff I also have a beard, 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.640 but probably not as nice as yours. I host a 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.600 morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.040 and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit. 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:23.120 Uh. 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.360 You can also hear some podcasts too, if you want 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.400 to look us up on like Spotify any of that. 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:28.119 We're there. 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:32.839 Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say. 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:36.840 Thanks for your time, Den Sometimes. No, we're really calling 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:39.360 because we're doing something called a second date update. We're 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.959 trying to help one of our listeners get ahold of you. Okay, 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:45.000 her name's Kristen, and you met her out at the 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:45.640 bar the other night. 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:47.480 Yeah, it wasn't really a first date. 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:51.600 Yeah. Uh, I don't know. 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.079 Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a 0:08:54.240 --> 0:09:01.840 really cute jumper on. Most guys don't recognize that stuffe language. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.040 No, Oh my gosh, I do know. I know who 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:05.520 that girl is. 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:09.959 Yeah, we got to talk to her. She sounded awesome, 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:11.280 like funny. 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.280 She wasn't like full of herself at all. 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:14.679 Yeah, it's really fun. 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:18.600 Yeah, she's super fun. She's right. Okay, I'm sorry. She 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:20.800 told you that we hung out or something stiled a 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:22.000 radio station and we hung out. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:23.559 She said that she met you out at the bar 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.480 the other night and was having a really nice time 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.160 and then afterwards. It's been kind of hard getting ahold 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.720 of you and she's curious, why. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.839 Wow, this is this is so crazy? 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.400 Yeah, I know, this isn't a normal thing that happens, 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.400 but we're really hoping to help her out because she's 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:38.920 a listener. 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:42.040 Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:44.679 kind of messed up. 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:46.920 What did she do something to you? 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:50.000 I don't know, I was the situation was like I 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.280 saw her at a bar, and like she came over 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.720 to me and we started chatting, and she was really funny. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:57.360 But I mean like she got like a drink from 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:58.080 another guy. 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.920 I guess, Yeah, she mentioned that to us a little bit. 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:03.800 Is that something that intimidated you? 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.760 I mean not really not at first. I mean I 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.000 thought it was kind of funny that a dude was 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.440 doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.880 like a second time, I was like, oh, hell no, 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:15.040 this is ridiculous. 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:16.880 Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her? 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.280 That's not her fault. So, like the situation that happened 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.720 was like she had to leave for a hot second 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:24.440 and step out to like talk to her friend, I guess, 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:27.320 because I guess the friend wasn't coming. But when she 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.640 was outside, I like walked over to the guy who 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:33.080 had set the drinks. Oh, like, hey, do you mind 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.480 not doing that? Oh, I'm talking to this girl right now, 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.160 and it kind of makes me look a little bad 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.160 or like feels like you're being competitive, which is like 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.640 so childlike that's not bad to go. 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.920 Talk man to man real quick and just say, hey, bro, yeah, 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:45.640 you know, you know you're not causing a scene. 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.200 Right and you want to wrestle Beard's over now. 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.120 If he's like, back off, but if you're like, hey, man, politely, 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:53.520 I'm trying to talk with her, and you know, I 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:54.440 think she's interested in me. 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:56.040 So what did he say? 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:57.280 He said he didn't send it. 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:57.920 What. 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:01.200 Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah, 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:02.240 like it was somebody else. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:03.280 The bartender said. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.680 It wrong, No, because like the bartender pointed to the 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:06.160 guy out. 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:09.079 Oh yeah, because they're across the room. So the bartender was. 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.120 Like, from him, So you went to the bartender. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:13.480 So I walked over to the bartender and I asked 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.600 the bartender and he was like, I can't really disclose 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:17.720 that what I thought. 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:18.839 He just pointed the dude out. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:25.240 Sorry, he didn't want to start or something. 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:27.640 It was just weird that he was being coy and 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:29.520 I called that out. I was like, why do you 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:32.600 carry you literally pointed the guy out before and that's 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:34.640 when he told me, which is that I guess this 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:35.960 is something that she did. 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:37.280 That Kristen does. 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:41.560 She pays the bartender to like send a drink to 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:45.320 herself from some random guy every like that an hour 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:46.440 hour brilliant. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:51.199 Way do you believe that I'm going to start doing this? 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:52.280 You think? 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:57.080 Do you think that's true? 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.960 Yeah? Because the second he like admitted it, he was like, 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.400 don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:04.600 in and does this every. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:08.959 Month or so, spot like he doesn't. He didn't for 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:10.040 like a few months for her though. 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:13.360 That's kind of nice. Yeah, i'mot to keep track of 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:15.360 sneaky trick. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:18.160 Yeah, so you think that's a red flag? You don't 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:19.560 think it's just kind of funny. 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:26.400 That's so it's so weird, Like I feel like it's. 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:28.880 Just trying to pump up her own confidence that some 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.440 people need that, especially if they're going to go approach 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:34.440 another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:35.040 as a woman. 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.760 True, I mean, it sounds so outlandish. You guys are 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:39.880 all believing it I'm still not sure if this is 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:44.760 actually true. Okay, I think you should just ask Kristin directly. Kristin, 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:47.439 did you pay the bartender to send you drinks? 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:48.680 Of course not. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:55.160 That's ridiculous, Ben, I forgot to tell you. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.160 Christen's on the other line listening. She wants to talk 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:57.680 to you. 0:12:59.000 --> 0:12:59.720 So embarrassing. 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.760 I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.120 Okay, first of all, that is not even Drew. That's 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.800 complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:13.760 theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:14.800 I don't believe her. 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.240 I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up, 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:20.240 And I'm like, have you never seen the movie Clueless? 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:22.160 Clueless? 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:26.240 Remember she sends herself talkless and flowers, Yeah. 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:29.839 In high school. I don't think they could be at a. 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:32.600 Year to somebody that's denying it. You sure do know 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.520 a lot about how this system wors. 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:38.520 Oh my god, you guys. A magician never reveals their secret. 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:43.280 There we go, Okay, let me get random. Is it 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.439 not even that cute? Then? I'm kind of like, I mean, 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:47.560 here's the thing. 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:48.680 Does it even matter? 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:49.240 Like? 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:50.920 Who cares? She sounds awesome. 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:53.360 I mean, you can kind of hear what she's saying 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.120 right now. She's making it seem like it's not that 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.120 big of a deal, but she's like not owning up 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.079 to it. But she kind of is owning up to it. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.840 And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.120 foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:08.480 maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:09.200 right off the bat. 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:12.719 So you are, like, I feel like you're taking this 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:15.839 really really seriously, considering we were a couple of random 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.800 strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:19.400 and I just wanted to know you. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:21.560 All right, Well, then if you think that I'm taking 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:23.480 it too seriously, then just own up to it. Then 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:24.960 I'll ask you again, did you do it? 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:27.240 Yeah? Of course I did. 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:31.440 Yeah, I love it. 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:36.480 Though she got a flirty and it's like all of 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:39.280 us and so she didn't do it. 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:39.800 It works. 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:43.200 It's what Dane is. It's like, you know, trying to 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:46.280 make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself look the best. 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:47.920 She just used a different method. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.720 Well, I'm I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.120 do need to let Ben know that there's another woman 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.960 who wants to send you a gift card to go 0:14:57.080 --> 0:15:00.240 on a date. Would you like that gift? Hard? 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:04.000 Ben? 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:07.840 Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.240 out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:17.920 Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, why not? But you 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:20.760 have one strike against you right now? You know you 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:21.400 on a warning? 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:24.480 Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:28.680 Yeah, okay. Agree. You know I have never ever cheated 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:30.680 or anything like that any ever in my life. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:38.680 To insist that no one else to worry. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.120 It's brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:42.560 It's been a few months since we did that second date, 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:45.720 and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.320 on with us today to get an update on their situation. 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:49.280 But we don't. 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:53.960 Only Ben agreed. Kristen actually sent us an email calling 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:57.240 Ben a bunch of names. I don't know why, but Ben, 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.640 can you shed some light on the situation. Tell us 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:00.920 what happened? You do? 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:03.200 Maybe they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling you sweetheart 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:04.280 and babe that's the name. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:05.400 I can tell you that. 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:06.280 Man. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:06.840 What happened? 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:07.280 Dude? 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.040 I mean, I absolutely know why she refused to be 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:14.440 on the phone because we went to some sort of bar, 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:16.520 but it was a different one than we went to 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:18.720 on the first aide obviously for obvious reasons. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah, we give you a gift certificate. So 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:23.040 what happened? 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:25.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, no. And I was like, you know, 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:28.400 it would be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:30.480 it was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny, 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:33.000 which is I decided to pull the same joke that 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:33.720 she pulled on me. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:39.360 You had pretend women sending you drinks. 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:43.040 Exactly, that's it. I got there early and I told 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:44.800 the bartender. I was like, hey, I'm going to sit 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.760 over there. Missed my credit card and you'll see when 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:50.360 my day comes in. Yeah, and maybe wait like five minutes, 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.120 and then can you bring me a vodka soda and say, like, 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.440 point to the cutest girl in the bar, like, say 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.440 it's from her. Do you mind? 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:59.480 That's exactly what she did. 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:03.840 Yeah. I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right, 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:07.960 But then when the bartender did it, she was furious. 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:11.199 Why Why was she so mad? Did she think you 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:12.160 were making fun of her? 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:14.560 Or I don't think that she really got the joke 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.240 at first, And I didn't really have much of a 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:20.080 time to kind of explain it because she just marched 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:22.800 right over to the woman. Oh so I had to 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:24.879 kind of play damage control, and I like rushed up 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:26.800 as well, and I was like, hey, I'm so sorry, 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:29.680 like it was a joke, and then she like got 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:31.080 in my face for a hot second. 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.440 Whoa, she was the one that came up with this joke. 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:40.399 It's not as funny when a guy does it. Do 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:40.840 the joke. 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:42.000 You can't do the joke. 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:44.639