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Speaker 2: You had a rule growing up in your house.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yes, well, I'm sure you had lots of rules,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it still makes me mad to this day.

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Speaker 4: Kind of the rule was that I couldnot say the

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Speaker 4: or they're telling a story on me. Not they're lying

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Speaker 4: For some reason, I was not allowed to use the

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Speaker 4: word lie. This was your sister, Yes, And like all

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Speaker 4: my whole family, all the kids.

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Speaker 3: We were just not allowed. Helena, Helena, my mom had

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Speaker 2: My aunt lies to you because some things are a lie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I said. I was like, ea, story,

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Speaker 3: I can't say that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just a nicer way of calling someone a liar.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And then you could never say the word hate either,

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Speaker 4: so like I could never be like I hate. I

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Speaker 1: Much with all the effort I can put into my voice,

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I hate is a.

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Speaker 1: Tough one because I don't know, I feel like you

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Speaker 1: don't want to overuse that one. We got to save

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Speaker 1: that one for that's you know, there are other words

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Speaker 1: I say for special occasions. I'm not going to obviously

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Speaker 1: for very special occasions. Only, very very special special storytellers

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Speaker 2: I say that word for them. You know what I'm

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Speaker 5: There's two that I'm thinking of, so I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys know what I'm talking about. This word.

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Speaker 1: I say it for extremely special occasions, like we really

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Speaker 1: My parents are pretty straightforward with me. But like, so

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Speaker 1: Every Sunday, we had to take naps. Now that I'm older,

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Speaker 1: I realized that was so my parents could bang Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess some people are rested, not those

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Speaker 1: Is that we can't say in one textas we can't

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Speaker 3: I think it is. I really think it is.

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Speaker 4: And I think for the C word that you use,

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Speaker 2: But it's like you've been calling all of us that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, A lot of people like when you say their words.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: There's get it, it's PG profanity, there's profanity, and then

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Speaker 3: Where did it start?

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Speaker 1: And you can't over use it in my opinions, again,

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Speaker 1: Yes, Jackie was Jackie. You couldn't say can't in your house.

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Speaker 1: That's how it went.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well why because your parents wanted you to believe

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Speaker 6: But uh, you know, it was very difficult for us

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Speaker 2: Okay, well they can't really tell.

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Speaker 1: One year olds can't really talk yet, but if they could,

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Speaker 7: But I would have rather heard that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really hate I don't really hate that one.

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Speaker 5: there's like a more articulate or better way to say that,

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Speaker 5: or you're smarter than that, but I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like saying you can't say this and you can't

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Speaker 3: That's what I think about every day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder why I could never say lie, Like

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Speaker 4: I don't understand I tell you ever no in a ransom,

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Speaker 4: they were just like, don't say that, you say telling

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Speaker 4: I think there's a different I mean, I almost feel

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's a great storyteller, but she's not always telling

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Speaker 1: a good story. I believe that her stories are based

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: But that there's a difference from me between someone who's

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Speaker 1: But then there's a lie, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Brenda, Brenda, what couldn't.

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Speaker 2: You say.

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Speaker 3: Mart fart?

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Speaker 2: Why couldn't you say fart?

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Speaker 9: My dad would we I don't know if he came

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Speaker 7: Know, somebody parted, you know, we that's what we had

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Speaker 9: Funny because our friends would be like with our friends

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, you parted it, and they would be.

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Speaker 2: Like, why you're saying the same thing like it it

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Speaker 1: I mean, I could see if like your parents didn't

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Speaker 9: I know, I know.

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Speaker 8: And we also couldn't say pots where white is white

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Speaker 2: You know Peeky's call them. I've never heard of that one.

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Speaker 2: I'd be honored.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, thank you, Brenda, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Call them. I must call them now. Yeah, hangs a

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Speaker 1: little ode than the right one. I hate Kathy.

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Speaker 7: Hey, good morning, Fred and everyone.

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Speaker 1: Hi Kathy, good morning. So tell me the rule that

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Speaker 2: Well, you know what, honestly, it's a rule I imposed

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Speaker 7: And I just don't like the word stupid.

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Speaker 3: You can't say.

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Speaker 8: That, will yeah, okay, curing it coming out of the

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Speaker 7: So they all know that's the S word in my house.

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Speaker 2: Give a Kathy, Kathy, I gotta sell you something. Some people,

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Speaker 2: some people are stupid people.

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Speaker 3: Oh you know what, but I see that every day

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Speaker 7: But it's like, oh, they just ain't right.

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Speaker 1: I think it goes back. It goes back to the

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Speaker 1: thing between lie and stories. You just got to, Kathy,

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Speaker 1: you got to teach your kids the difference between the

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Speaker 1: people who are you know, I don't know, having a

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Speaker 1: early on. You're probably good to ban that word from over.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not gonna let them use the sea

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Speaker 7: I gotta tell you, if someone used the seaword in

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Speaker 2: I really wish.

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Speaker 1: And this is a whole topic for another day, maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that word, for some reason has

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Speaker 2: Kathy, thank you so much for listening. Have a great day.

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Speaker 8: It was in my friend's house.

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Speaker 7: But they weren't allowed to say like that sucks. They

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Speaker 8: And my friend had little brothers and they say, oh man,

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Speaker 8: Sometimes it's not though they weren't allowed to They weren't

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Speaker 1: There was a sock attax in someone's house. I guess

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Speaker 2: That's a little weird. My mom wouldn't let me touch

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Speaker 3: Okay that trauma?

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Speaker 2: How about this one? This is what this is off

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Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed to date people darker than I wasn't

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Speaker 1: I think the Potter Jonica Potteronica people, they're probably getting

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Speaker 1: Now, here's what I could stand by. My dad would

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Speaker 2: I'm right there with them. I don't trust people who

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Speaker 3: They're putting it on though. Some people just don't.

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Speaker 1: It is like, and I think it's mostly men doing this,

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Speaker 2: College, put it on, man, get that far in our household.

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Speaker 2: It is the empty rolls. They don't even he doesn't

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Speaker 1: You're gonna do that weird dance like where you he's.

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Speaker 2: This man, go get a roller, toilet paper. You wouldn't

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Speaker 1: Right, And we've talked about sleepovers before, a lot of

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Speaker 2: Strangers every now and again it you know, mistakes happened,

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Speaker 1: It's surging, it's surging, I'll drive you home, pay celest. Yes,

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Speaker 3: British people to use it a lot. Yes, yeah, and

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Speaker 7: And you know, it's like everything is the sea word.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you, if I I would say nine

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you carry so much more weight.

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Speaker 1: So let's thank you. Have a great day, you too.

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