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Speaker 1: On on Okay, this is the Benn and Ashley I

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with our radio. Hey guys, it's Ashley.

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Speaker 1: Ben's not here today because he's in Honduras doing really

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Speaker 1: good things with his life. Um. I have very special

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Speaker 1: guests Jade and Tayner Tolbert here in studio with me. Yea, hello, Hello.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny because Jade and Tanner a like probably

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Speaker 1: my better friends from the franchise, and when I have

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Speaker 1: to interview them, it makes me feel weird because like,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it for you guys, but I already know

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Speaker 1: the answers to everything. So let's start with that. You guys,

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Speaker 1: update us on your life. How baby Emmy is? She

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Speaker 1: just turned six months? Six months? And then you guys

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Speaker 1: just celebrate your two year anniversary? Man, two years? Look

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Speaker 1: at how much is Jears married? Or two years years

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Speaker 1: married married? I forget? How you guys met? I'm so sorry, Paradise.

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Speaker 1: How could you forget? There's a lot of Come on,

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Speaker 1: it was love at first sight? Was it? Yeah? We

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Speaker 1: kind of had like the opposite story of Ashley and

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Speaker 1: Jared actually on that season. Yeah, yes, I had love

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Speaker 1: at first sight and he did not. How is it

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Speaker 1: the opposite. Well we ended up together, sad. Okay, how

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Speaker 1: did you like walk down the stairs or what happened? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Jade was the first one down the stairs and I

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Speaker 1: was fourth or fifth something like that. Yeah. I obviously

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Speaker 1: liked her going into the show, but I didn't think

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Speaker 1: she would like me. So I just showed up for

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Speaker 1: the why didn't speeches and the and the drinks and

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Speaker 1: the good time, and you know, one day later we

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Speaker 1: actually liked each other in the rest of the history.

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Speaker 1: So Jane was on with Chris souls, But who were

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Speaker 1: you on with? I was on Caitlin's. They came from

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Speaker 1: the two best seasons. It was the Bachelor heyday. If

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Speaker 1: I may say something myself, we like we might be

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Speaker 1: And did you both make it to hometowns? No? I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not cool enough for hometowns. Jade? Did I got

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Speaker 1: like sevenths or so in my season? Yeah? No, I

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Speaker 1: made it to hometowns, but I got dumbed. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's also funny the parallels Bete Jared, Like, I was

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Speaker 1: seventh on my season and he was fourth on his. Yeah, weird,

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Speaker 1: want to switch a RU parallel universe? Okay, So tell

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Speaker 1: us about life with Emmy. And I know that Tanner

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Speaker 1: is a little bit sad that he doesn't get as

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Speaker 1: much attention anymore. What other dynamics have changed? Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: baby steals all the attention. So I used to get like,

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Speaker 1: you know, backrubs, head rubs, you know, she'd want to

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Speaker 1: cuddle with me, things like that. Now it's just nothing.

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Speaker 1: Tanner loves being touched. That's like a thing. He is

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Speaker 1: the baby, so now he's like having to compete for

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Speaker 1: my attention. But and he's like, babies are so needy.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, Tanner, their babies. Wait, wait, I think

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Speaker 1: we need to address this. Seems like this could be

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Speaker 1: an issue. Oh, it's not an issue. It could be

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Speaker 1: need to put more effort in. And do you need

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Speaker 1: to be less needy? You know, I'll let you say that,

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Speaker 1: but I might shake my head and up and down.

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Speaker 1: I'll let's stick into it. Are you is he too needy?

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Speaker 1: Or are you not giving him enough? It's both. He

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Speaker 1: is so needy. He loves affection. But it's like he's

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Speaker 1: a taker. He's like a little animal. He's like a

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Speaker 1: little puppy. Yeah, I mean he needs that like nurturance,

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Speaker 1: even as a grown man, and but now I have

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Speaker 1: even have time for him. I don't even have time

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Speaker 1: by myself. And so when he's like I want a

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Speaker 1: background background, I'm like me too. I am always impressed

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Speaker 1: by the fact that you still have makeup on the

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Speaker 1: most of your inst the stories, I'm like, how does

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Speaker 1: she do this, because even when I have a day

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Speaker 1: quote off, I don't want to have makeup on. No,

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Speaker 1: that's just because I'm doing stories. Wasn't there some kind

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Speaker 1: of drama? What? Yeah? There was, like I saught in

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Speaker 1: People magazine their marriage Well, no breastfeeding. Yeah, you tell

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Speaker 1: tell the story because people listening don't know to tell

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Speaker 1: the story. I don't know. So it's for that third

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Speaker 1: love bra And so I took a picture of me

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Speaker 1: after I was breastfeeding with Emerson and she was snuggled

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Speaker 1: up to me in the bed and people were telling me,

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Speaker 1: like I got some message that was like, you're not

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Speaker 1: depicting real life. You're putting too much pressure on women

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Speaker 1: sexy mom. Apparently not. No, you can't take care of

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Speaker 1: for it. That's so messed up. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: it should be either way. Like, if you don't want

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Speaker 1: I was like, listen, this is my real life, this

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Speaker 1: is I have such I have just as heart of

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Speaker 1: a time as any other mom out there. And what's

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Speaker 1: wrong with putting a beautiful picture on my Instagram with

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Speaker 1: me and my baby in this moment? That's nuts? Tanner?

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Speaker 1: What do you think? I'm all for the makeup's let's

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Speaker 1: do it, okay. I want to talk to go back

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Speaker 1: to your your love languages, because it seems like maybe

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Speaker 1: you guys do have a different into love languages. What

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Speaker 1: I used to be physical touch, and so now I

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Speaker 1: think mine is quality time and access service. I feel

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Speaker 1: like acts of services becomes that every time a girl

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Speaker 1: gets married and has a kid, especially with the baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, if you want to show that you love me,

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Speaker 1: please go do this with the baby right now. So

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Speaker 1: I'm going to have a moment to breathe, Tanner, what

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Speaker 1: are yours? I still want physical touch, right, nothing's changed.

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Speaker 1: You get to love languages. I want to be touched twice.

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Speaker 1: That seems easy enough. Like I don't want to harp

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Speaker 1: on it, but like that seems like you're not asking

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Speaker 1: what I need. I think he shouldn't have to ask,

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Speaker 1: But then I think she shouldn't have to ask for

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Speaker 1: like things she needs. It's getting easier because Emmerson is

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wait a second, Like you know you need

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Speaker 1: kind of we're getting It gets easier the first we're

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Speaker 1: circling that. Right, if this is your biggest issue, you

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Speaker 1: guys are good. But I'm just saying I think everybody

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Speaker 1: needs to work at it. Oh for sure. I see

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Speaker 1: It's it's it's an interesting dynamic. But we we do work.

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Speaker 1: We try and our works like a regular job. Right,

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Speaker 1: you have like a nine to five. I think we

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Speaker 1: all love the fact that Tanner has kept his nine

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Speaker 1: to five. Um, financially you definitely don't have to, but

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Speaker 1: I love the fact that you love having a schedule

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Speaker 1: Um yeah, I didn't know like you can make money

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Speaker 1: from social media when I got back from the show,

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Speaker 1: so I just went back to work like the next day. Um,

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Speaker 1: but I'm a GM at a Honda dealership back home.

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Speaker 1: All the free car five pilots I want you to know. Oh,

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Speaker 1: the new one, Yes, I highly recommend. It's a game

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Speaker 1: changer on the whole car Amy has that. I didn't

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Speaker 1: think i'd like it but I love it. Had five pilots. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: five pilots. That's a variety in your life. But where

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Speaker 1: do you guys live, Like somewhere weird, right weird? Kansas City,

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Speaker 1: it's really the border. Had no idea. Yeah, our house,

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Speaker 1: we're like a quarter mile from Missouri. So your house

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Speaker 1: it in Bachelor Nation, and it's gorgeous. You guys are

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Speaker 1: two dogs, a baby, and a horse. All of those

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Speaker 1: because you change one diaper day and that's like your duty.

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Speaker 1: just going off my nine pound dog, um whoop poops

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Speaker 1: like twice a day. How much does a baby poop

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Speaker 1: don't know if you could say anything. I learned something

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Speaker 1: from you guys that apparently your kids poop doesn't smell

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Speaker 1: bad in a different texture. When we were in Saint

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Speaker 1: Lucia like a month ago, they showed me what a

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Speaker 1: it was like pretty clear and very shockingly not like poop.

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Speaker 1: It's yellow, it's supposed to be yellow. Interesting, and then

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Speaker 1: it changes real quick and looks like a bean burrito. Okay, Um,

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Speaker 1: moving on. I loved this story that you told him.

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Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast about when you were giving

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Speaker 1: birth and Tanner was eating a big mac. Can you

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Speaker 1: just like the dynamic of the like six hours that

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Speaker 1: funny how Tanner, If you guys don't know, Tanner always

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Speaker 1: has like a glimmer in his eye, like he's always

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Speaker 1: never want to stuff an animal? Blat animal was so gross? Wait, okay,

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Speaker 1: could like chat with her about like my celebrity crushes.

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00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 1: And they happened on her hometown, like I cannot remember,

425
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 1: And I just watched Uncle Gary talked about how her

426
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: dad's no longer around and how they've been the guard

427
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 1: dogs of Becca's heart. And then their mom was there

428
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 1: and she was concerned about Becca leaving Minnesota because she's

429
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: gonna miss her, and she moved to Scottsdale. And then

430
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,800
Speaker 1: there was the whole fact that her sister wasn't there.

431
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: And are the moms given a script? Because something is

432
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: bizarre that every single parent says, Well, if I trust

433
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: my daughter and if this is what my daughter wants,

434
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 1: then I'm going to support her. Like if I were

435
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 1: the parent, I'd be like, this is that bleep crazy.

436
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You just met her and

437
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: you're dating four people at the same time. Like, I'm

438
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 1: fine if they want to do it, but why does

439
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 1: not one parent say what a normal parent would say.

440
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm tired of the canned answers. Yeah, I'm tired.

441
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,479
Speaker 1: I want I want like a villain bachelor or bachelor

442
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 1: at next, someone that just speaks what they really and

443
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: a parent that goes I'm sorry, bro, but that was

444
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: that was JoJo's brothers and they came across really poorly.

445
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: But I guess it wasn't real. Yeah, every parent giving

446
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 1: the same answer was weird. We'll wait a second. We

447
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 1: have two people here who knew each other for only

448
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: twenty something days by the time that they got engaged,

449
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: And I want to know what your parents said. I

450
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: mean they thought we were crazy, right, And I'm fine

451
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 1: that you did it and it's working out, but like

452
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: a parent should still be like or a sister, like

453
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: what the hell are you talking about? Like he's going

454
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: to someone else's house tomorrow to make out with that

455
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: well speaking in the same weird basket of what is

456
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: in that weird like Walmart basket? Oh my god, it's

457
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: so funny. Who brings a picnic basket anywhere in life

458
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: other than the Bachelor. They're always packing a picnic basket,

459
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: and then it always comes to the hometowns. It's so bizarre.

460
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 1: It obviously has a bottle of wine in there and flowers,

461
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: but it's like, yeah, I brought us the same bottle

462
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: of wine and flowers to the other girl's house, which

463
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: is almost as gross, which is almost really uncomfortable, Like

464
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: don't even bring a gift? Do you think you washed

465
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: the glasses? Uh? The one concern that kept coming up,

466
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: especially with lauren Bees family, she's just Lauren now Lauren's

467
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: family was are you saying the same things to us

468
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: as you're saying to the other parents you're visiting this week? Yes,

469
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: it feels that way. It feels like he said the

470
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: same thing to everyone. My mom texted us and she

471
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: was like, he's leading everyone on, And I guess don't

472
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: they all at this point lead them on? Yeah? For sure,

473
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 1: But it's not even this episode. Al He's been saying

474
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 1: like the same ten phrases all season. He's like, I

475
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: love that, I love that about you, you know what

476
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: I mean? He says the same thing over and over

477
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: and over. Yeah, and then swallows their face. Right, He's

478
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: a cool dude, and I get it, like he's sort

479
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 1: of in this weird predicament. But I do think, like

480
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: just lay it out there and they're like, I don't

481
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing it. The funny thing about Ari

482
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: is that I've now met him in person three times, um,

483
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: including the time that we interviewed him via phone here,

484
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: and I love to make fun of him, I really do.

485
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: I love to pokefon on him during the week during

486
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: my recaps. But then whenever I see him, I'm like,

487
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 1: you're so nice and you're very handsome, and then all

488
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm back to critiquing you on the show.

489
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 1: I guess it's just like what you do when you're watching.

490
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: It's so easy. But yeah, being a fan of the show, yeah,

491
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: you gotta earn your stripes a little bit. You have

492
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: to go through all the all the critiques because everyone

493
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: gets it. Yeah, I mean I still get you can't

494
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 1: handle it then, and like Caitlin got it more than anyone,

495
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: And look at her now. She's just like laughing all

496
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 1: the way to the bank and like still in love

497
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: and like whatever. So it doesn't matter, Jade. Let's talk

498
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,719
Speaker 1: a little fashion. Um, we didn't like any of those

499
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: road ceremony dresses last night. They were all kind of

500
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: prompt They just like, I mean, I don't want to say, like,

501
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: go buy expensive dresses, but they just looked kind of cheap.

502
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: You know. I don't know, I'd like, thank you get

503
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: to that point in this season you're like, oh, whoops,

504
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: ran out of dresses. Now I have to do the

505
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: bottom of my suitcase. That happened to me though, when

506
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,719
Speaker 1: we got engaged, I ran out of dresses and I

507
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: had to wear this really awful orange dress that I

508
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: got from Danta. You wore that as your engagement dress

509
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: was one that you got from the hotel. Because because

510
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: other the other girls that were left too, I had

511
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: the handlers go ask if they let me borrow address,

512
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: and nobody would let me borrow a dress. No way.

513
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 1: Who was left at that point, Samantha Samantha, Samantha wouldn't

514
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: let you borrow a dress. They just wouldn't. I mean,

515
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: they just won't let me. I was like, does anyone

516
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: have any leftover addresses I can wear? And nobody would

517
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: let me. Maybe I would have really reworn something really

518
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: weird because like, who cares yea interesting? Um? Well, you know,

519
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 1: it does take a lot of money to wear something

520
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: new on the Bachelor and in your regular day life.

521
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522
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523
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524
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Speaker 1: know what you're looking for when you're headed to the mall,

525
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Speaker 1: but then you can't find anything that works and it

526
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Speaker 1: new to wear. Because you know, not all of us

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Speaker 1: all the time. Okay, before we jump into reader emails,

549
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: which is one of Ben and my favorite segments, we

550
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: need to take a little Bachelor in our games. My

551
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: plan is to do a season long, you know to

552
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: four episode season recap on Thursday with a couple of

553
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: my Bachelor in Bachelor Winner games alums. Um, but I

554
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: need to know what you guys are thinking about the

555
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: season so far. Who's your favorite Besides me, I've actually

556
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: really enjoyed the show. Maybe it's just because it's when

557
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: it brought the fresh air from the Bachelor's season. Um,

558
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: but it's it's been good. We love Yuki. We all

559
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: love Yuki. Yuki is the best let me tell you,

560
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: the girl knew like three expressions going into this season Okay, yay,

561
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: I love you and Dean give me Rose. And it

562
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: was the cutest thing ever. She's I want to shrink

563
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: her and put her in my pocket. I know, I

564
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,959
Speaker 1: want to be friends that there too, just from watching

565
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: her for like fifteen minutes on the screen, I know, yeah,

566
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: But it was amazing the amount of English she picked

567
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: up over a week. And we were like joking the

568
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: entire time, like this girl is probably in her interviews

569
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: speaking fluent English and being like I'm willing everyone. Yeah,

570
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: I know. We always joked about when she walked to

571
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: the car, like her exit, I can say that right

572
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: when she was walking into the car, we were like

573
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: joking that she was gonna be like Sea later suckers

574
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: something like that. But my favorite part was when Claire

575
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: was talking to the German guy and he was just

576
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: giving her major Oh god, it's okay, it's okay. He

577
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: I think he reminds me so much of so much

578
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: of him. He's Sean Low and Wan Pablo together, Oh

579
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: my gosh. Yes. And then he's like, we had an

580
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: appointment for the jacuzzi, and I could just it's totally

581
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: wan Poo over again. It's like she's drawn to him

582
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: because of some sort of traumatic past. She always talks

583
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: about the passion. She's like, I want something passionate, so

584
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: she kee she keeps picking the bad boy who she

585
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: has that like, yeah, that traumatic something that creates the passion.

586
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: Because ben Wah was just like the nice dude who

587
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: just wanted to give her the world, and she was like,

588
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: we're just friends. That was a friendly kiss, Like what

589
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: I know, there's I don't think there's no is there

590
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: any such thing as a friendly kiss on the lips?

591
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: Kiss me Amy kisses all our guy kisser like it's

592
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: not all certain. Yeah, the ones that you actually do

593
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: want to make out with, you peck on the lips. Yeah,

594
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: but that's a peck. It's like it's like a peck. Okay, well,

595
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: just because some people are lip kissers and you're like

596
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: close and it's just like but it doesn't mean anything. Yeah,

597
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not going to do it to some

598
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: like not hot dude, married dude. Yeah really all the

599
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: Easton just looked up and he was like, kiss these people,

600
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: But I lip kiss Bennett all the time. I don't

601
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: know Bennett is our executive producer. Um is Bennett's wife? Okay,

602
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: with that, she's probably there want to kiss? No, no, no,

603
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: that would be a little yeah, it's gonna be in

604
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: less than three seconds or something. You know. It's just like, yeah, Well,

605
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: I have to say shout out to Bennett for really

606
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: creating Jeff. I always lip kiss him. That's because he

607
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: sometimes want to make that. Jeff, First of all, I

608
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: only want to make up with one person, and if

609
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: he didn't like the lip kissing, I wouldn't lip kiss.

610
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: But like whatever, Okay, Well, shout out to Bennett, who

611
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: actually created the most comfortable bachelor environment. He really wanted

612
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: everybody to succeed. Um, it was awesome to see an

613
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: executive producer who just wanted to see love and not drama.

614
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: Where was he when I was on Chrystal season? Yeah?

615
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: I know, well with Chris Soul season. He was Chris's

616
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: main producer, so we didn't get to know him then.

617
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: So it's been really nice for me to do this

618
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: experience with him. Um, you guys looking forward to seeing

619
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: me fall down a mountain today. I'm a little disappointed

620
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: in your skills. You're disappointed my skills I thought you'd

621
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: like that. I was a train wreck water. Don't you

622
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: remember her in Paradise and the way? I mean, what

623
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: are you expecting? I feel like all the guys are

624
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: all the American guys are terrible at everything. No, Ben

625
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: and Dean you'll see tonight kill kis skiing. Yeah. Ben

626
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: couldn't even walk on the ice. No. I know, Ben

627
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: in that suit is so uncomfortable to see. But he's

628
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: not afraid he'll show his junk in that suit. He

629
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: didn't have any shame. There were some other guys walking

630
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: around with their you know, their hands over their junk.

631
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: Not Ben. No, no shrinkage. There's that rumor about Ben. Oh,

632
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: there is that rumor. I'm glad you brought that up.

633
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: I haven't. Oh, it was. It was widespread rumor. It's

634
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: a wide spread ribs and he's quite well endowed. Jade

635
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: is nodding. We've all heard this, adding it's like a rumor.

636
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: David Spade weirdly has the same rumor about him, which

637
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: David Spade I would understand, but everyone says it is no. Well,

638
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: David Spade has that slag where it's like he's not

639
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: that attractive, but like he's sexy because he's funny, he's

640
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: has a great personality and apparently he's packing. Yeah, but

641
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: David Spade is cute. Come on, no, he is cute.

642
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 1: Laura Lauren likes David sits very sexy. Would you friendly

643
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Speaker 1: kiss him or more than a friendly? Oh you friendly kissed? Course? Yes,

644
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: he's like. Yes. What I love about David Spade is

645
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: he drives a land cruiser older than my parents land cruiser.

646
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: It's likeser ten million dollar house. Yeah. Maybe, Okay, there's

647
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: something else about Paradise that I wanted to talk to

648
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: you guys about, but now I forget. Oh but when

649
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: they were on Paradise, Yeah, did you get married there?

650
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: I don't. It's also they got married in real life

651
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: on TV. Yeah, in real life, which is yeah, oh

652
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: that that Bachelor. Did you think it was weird that

653
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Speaker 1: there are people at your wedding you've never met. Yes,

654
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: let's talk about that. Like, so let's talk about that.

655
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want strangers at my wedding. You know when

656
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: we talked to producers about that, but they were kind

657
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: of like, this is the list, Like, but is it

658
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Speaker 1: only because it was a twentieth anniversary specially. I think

659
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Speaker 1: they still get some say they pretty much said, hey,

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Speaker 1: guest list, and then we'll pick the other. Well about

662
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663
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Speaker 1: was that yours? You've never met? Like Justri and Ryan? Yeah,

664
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667
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Speaker 1: say hi to you? He thought it's a wedding gift.

668
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Speaker 1: It's on our coffee table. Really, Yeah, you can't buy me.

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Speaker 1: You gotta you know, you gotta talk to me. You

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671
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Speaker 1: are you so excited for emails? Wait? Wow? Tanner? Thanks? Okay,

708
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: well we all agree on this. Um this girl. Ali

709
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: huge fan of Becca and I know you are too,

710
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: but let's be honest. Short hair, short hair Becca, But

711
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: be honest. She has she really, but to be honest,

712
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: she's been getting on my nerves the past few episodes.

713
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 1: I think she really started to show her younger age,

714
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: especially the way that she and Crystal interacted compared to

715
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: the way that Kendall dealt with her situation with Crystal.

716
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: My husband even made a comment tonight that Becca just

717
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: makes it seem like it's a game to be one.

718
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: I was not sorry to see her go home last week.

719
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: Am I the only one having these feelings about Becca?

720
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: Love the show? Love you both, Ali? Did you ever

721
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: watch her insta story that I told you? Yeah, but

722
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: I talked to her yesterday and FaceTime I was doing that.

723
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: I liked it because I had sister acne, so I

724
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 1: like totally understand when she's coming. Okay, let me just

725
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: say as like a random what I experienced. So I'm

726
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: like clicking on her insta story, which shame me for

727
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: that because I'm embarrassed enough that I did that. And

728
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: she's aggressively like being mad at people. Know, but I

729
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: get at the same, I guess, and so have you

730
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: ever had acne issues? Yeah? Of course really bad. That's

731
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: like being mad at somebody who's just trying to be nice, Like,

732
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: guess what, shut up. So here's what she did. So

733
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: she goes on her Instagram story whatever it's called, and

734
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: she's like, does anybody have a holistic dermatologist or whatever

735
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: she was asking for. So then then so I'm like whatever,

736
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: Then you click on the next one, and she's like

737
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,280
Speaker 1: freaking out because people are like trying to offer suggestions

738
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: like proactive or bioclarity or like whatever it is, and

739
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: she's like pissed about it, and she's like, I'm sorry

740
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: to be pissed, but please do not offer suggestions you

741
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: don't understand. And it's just like girl. She's had stories

742
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: before in the past where she complains about how people

743
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: would try to give her acne advice when people who

744
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: don't suffer from horrible acne the way that she does.

745
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: She's been on accutane three times. They just don't understand

746
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: the pain that it is to go through that. And

747
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: I have gone through that, and like I couldn't leave

748
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:59,919
Speaker 1: the house whatever I was mad. I have to defend

749
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: her in this instance, just because I used to have

750
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,479
Speaker 1: friends be like Ashley, maybe you should stop using all

751
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: like the prescription things you've been put on, and you

752
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: should you see to fill or something more gentle, or

753
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: maybe you should just like stop cleansing in general, like

754
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: I don't even wash my face. I'm like, you don't

755
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: understand what I'm you did you ask them for advice

756
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: because okay, okay, so and also calm down, I don't

757
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: have patience for this, like really and truly there is

758
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: actual stuff in the world, or like people have real problems,

759
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 1: Like I'm fine with her asking for the holistic doctor.

760
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: That's fine, but don't don't delete those d m s

761
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 1: or whatever you kids call it stop. Okay really, I

762
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: was like you fired. You can really you can really

763
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: turn me off with your weird tweets and you're like

764
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: instagrams because I liked her fine, and now I'm like boodbye,

765
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: Like you're yeah, that's gray. You don't yell at people

766
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 1: that you put on a public forum like you put

767
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: it on your Instagram asking for help. So these nice

768
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: people are trying to be nice. That's like that sweet

769
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: Jennifer Garner being mad when she's which she wasn't, because

770
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: Jennifer Garner is awesome. She wanted to like Girl Scout

771
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: cookies and then she got like overwhelmed by how many

772
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: people wanted Girls Scout cookie but she wasn't mad. She

773
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: was like, thank you so much for wanting the Girl

774
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: Scout cookies. Okay, yeah, so um in context, um, Jennifer

775
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: Garner said, my daughter is selling girls Cot cookies. If

776
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: you guys want some, like DM me? Is that what

777
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: she said? Oh? I don't know, something like they. I

778
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: don't know who knows. It's beside the point. My thing is,

779
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure re Becca's nice. Save your emails, save your

780
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: mean whatever. That Reddit thread I don't need it. But

781
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if she asked for help and then

782
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: people are trying to be super nice to her, like

783
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 1: just be appreciative. You don't have to yell at them

784
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: because they told you, like to try avocado mask. I

785
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: don't know the story or I miss it, you missed it, Okay,

786
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: Well it is funny. I ended up actually face having

787
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: back about these issues yesterday. But I mean, yeah, sure

788
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: the approach could have been a little more gentle, but

789
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: what is her like, why is she so mad at people?

790
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: Because it is frustrating when people are trying to give

791
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: you advice and you're like, if you don't think I

792
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: haven't been to the dermatologist and tried everything like that. Okay,

793
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: you don't know. Someone I care about a lot is

794
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: sick right now and I just suggested ad villain sleep.

795
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm sure he wants to punch me in the face

796
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 1: because he's like, does captain obvious for the ad villain sleep?

797
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: But guess what, like I care about him, so I'm

798
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,399
Speaker 1: trying to be like that's true whenever and whenever guy

799
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: says like I don't feel well, I'm like, we'll just

800
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: orange shoes, lots of sleep, and um get some chicken noodle, Like,

801
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 1: why do I say that? Right? Because you're nice? Because

802
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: and you're trying, Like because I'm sad. I'm actually super sad.

803
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: He's sick. So what am I supposed to write? Like?

804
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like? I So that's

805
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: how I else about the like her aggressiveness at me.

806
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: So you don't like her anymore? Okay, Well back to

807
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: the email from Ali. What do you guys think about

808
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: Becca m and has your opinion of her change over

809
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: the past few weeks after seeing what went down between

810
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: her and Tia and her and Crystal. Well, now I

811
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: hate her. I used to I used to like Becca

812
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: before this. Um No, but she was actually one of

813
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: my favorites on the show. I felt when she kept

814
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: it real and she keeps it so real and raw.

815
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: I like, I was defending her on Twitter for the

816
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,879
Speaker 1: age thing because so many people were coming at her.

817
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: And then when I found out she got off the

818
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: show and didn't call her mom missing and I was like,

819
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, no, I can't defend you. Well, so

820
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: I was at Women Tell All at the taping last Tuesday. Wow,

821
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe it's been a week. I can't really

822
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: tell you much, but I can tell you this. She

823
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: did call her mom to explain the whole story and

824
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: the fact that she didn't have service up at the

825
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: weed farm. Um, but yeah, she really, she really put

826
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: that story out there. And another really juicy thing that

827
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: I got from women tell all um regarding Becca is

828
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: the way that she took down Crystal and Tia. So

829
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: guys look forward to that on Sunday this week. Alright, guys,

830
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,919
Speaker 1: Unfortunately Jane Tanner have to go. They have other things

831
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: to attend to, including a baby who I think is

832
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 1: getting fussy. Back there, I took up all their time

833
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: with my rant about short Yeah we could have done

834
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: it alone. Name. Okay, So, Jade, you look great post

835
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: post baby body. I do not know what the heck

836
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: you've done, because I think you look prettier now than

837
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 1: you ever have and you look fitter. Oh my gosh,

838
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: that's so nice. But no, I mean I saw you

839
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: in a bathing suit like a month ago, but I

840
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: can't fit into my old jean stone. Really well, you

841
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: look great, and Tannery, you look great too. Um. I

842
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: know that you gained some sympathy weight when Jade was pregnant.

843
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: You gained how many pounds. That's insane. Every time Jade

844
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: eight when she's like craving, like, oh that looks good,

845
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: I'll have that too, And I put on like twenty pounds.

846
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: I went from Yeah, he just kind of pick the

847
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: liberty and I didn't eating. He would just participate. That's fun. Yeah.

848
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: I didn't notice though, because I don't like step on

849
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: the scale daily nothing. But did you notice Jan Yeah,

850
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean little dad bought little little chubs.

851
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: He just got kind of like that tire, you know

852
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: what I mean around the waist. Yeah, that's fair tire. Yeah.

853
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: So anyways, we started neutrous system or I started neutro

854
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: system like day after Christmas. I lost sixteen of those

855
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: pounds back in like six weeks. So what that's impressive

856
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 1: trying to get rid of the dad bod. You know

857
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: how much working I don't have you done on top

858
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: of that? Very little? Actually? Wow, neutrol system for men

859
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: killing it that's awesome. Well what is it just tells

860
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: you what to eat? Yeah, it's like all pre planned stuff.

861
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: There's a full menu, but you can pick like shakes, snacks, meals,

862
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: whatever whatever you need. And did they have a certain

863
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 1: one for men and a certain one for women. There's

864
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: certain Yeah, there's some you know, unisex foods we'll call them,

865
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: but there's any of it. Jin No, I steal his

866
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: stuff all the time. I love the bars and the

867
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: shakes are good, or anything else that he's really had,

868
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: I haven't done. But he takes all that to work

869
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 1: so awesome. Well, that makes packing his You pack his lunch.

870
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: I would, but the man's weird about it. Really, it's

871
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: because it's too it's sitting in the bag too long,

872
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: because it's not a hot meal. Oh I need a

873
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: hot meal to Tanner and I have like a lot

874
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: of the same quarks. He doesn't like staying in a

875
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: hotel or living in a place that is more than

876
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: ten years old. Yeah, he also well this I don't

877
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: agree with. But this is just a Tanner cork that

878
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: I love. Um, he doesn't eat anything that's not a

879
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: chain restaurant because your theory is if it was good,

880
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 1: there'd be more than one. And thirdly, we we consider

881
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 1: actual meal hot food. Yeah, you need nothing cold that's leftovers. Oh,

882
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: no leftovers. God, he is difficult. Oh my gosh, that's

883
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: a that's a lot of women. Let's talk about them. Okay, alright, guys, well,

884
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining me and making this

885
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 1: podcast without Ben as easy as it could be. I

886
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: love you guys so much, my friends. Fine, all right,

887
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,080
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889
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:25,080
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890
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893
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Speaker 1: Enter our code famous. Al Right, we have a couple

924
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: of more Bachelor emails. This one is about hometown dates.

925
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: It's from Janessa Janessa, Hey, Ashley. Without it being with

926
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: it being the hometown episode, I was hoping you could

927
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: give us the behind the scenes details on hometowns. I

928
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 1: probably cannot because I never went to hometowns. But at

929
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: what point to the families know their daughter or son

930
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: is coming home for the hometowns and how many days

931
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:49,439
Speaker 1: do they have to prepare? Also, is it usually their

932
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: parents actual home or is it staged? And finally, is

933
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: it really the first time that the family gets to

934
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: see their son or daughter when they're walking in the

935
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: door with the bachelor of the Bachelor or does the

936
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: contestant get to day home with his or her family

937
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: while they are there for their hometown date. Sorry for

938
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: the loads of questions, Just so intrigued on how your

939
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 1: hometowns really work. Thinks Benn Ashley. I love your podcast.

940
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: Also enjoyed seeing you guys on my TV again for

941
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: the Winter Games. Nothing of the best for both of you.

942
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: Love your fan in Nashville, Tennessee. Originally from Warsaw, Indiana,

943
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: shout out to Ben. All Right, you guys. I didn't

944
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: think I was gonna be able to answer this question,

945
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: but I totally am because very oddly, at the week

946
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: that I was elimited, I was eliminated a week six

947
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: of airing um where there was I got elimited where

948
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: there was nine to six girls. So the next week

949
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: there was six girls left. Um. This is actually the

950
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: week that they start preparing for hometowns. So I was

951
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 1: brought into a room and asked UM for contact info

952
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: and of my family and what I'd want to do

953
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 1: and what we want to eat, and it was just

954
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: like so crazy. I was like, oh, I'm sure my

955
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: parents will order from this Italian restaurant and and I'm

956
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 1: sure that I'll go to Great Falls Falls because um,

957
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: and in my town in Virginia, Great Falls, Virginia, it's

958
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: named after their waterfalls. So that's where I was going

959
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: to bring Chris souls. UM. So I guess the parents

960
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: probably have about ten days to prepare. No, you are

961
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: not allowed to stay with your family. Yes. The first

962
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: time and only time your parents are your parents and

963
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: family are going to see you during that hometown date

964
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,320
Speaker 1: is while the cameras are there filming you and the Bachelor,

965
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 1: Like I could never just say, uh, can I get

966
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: an extra hour with my family to debrief on what

967
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: they actually think of him? Like, you wouldn't get that,

968
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,959
Speaker 1: and it's probably what you crave the very most. Um,

969
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 1: And is it actually the parents home or is it stage?

970
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: I do believe it depends on the person. M Amanda

971
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: Stanton used a friend's house, so I think it just

972
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: depends on if you want your house on camera, where

973
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: your parents live, and um, what's best for filming. I

974
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: have a weird question. I feel this this time. A

975
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: couple of times this season more than ever. Contestants I

976
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: don't know what you call them have made reference to

977
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: talking to their families. Have you noticed that? Yeah, Like

978
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: I think short haired Becca did it once and then

979
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: obviously the girl whose grandma died got to talk to

980
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 1: her family. But I feel like short haired beccas that's

981
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: something this is my sister, and it was because she

982
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: needed to let her mom know where she was or something.

983
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: That was the only reason I thought, because that was

984
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: that was afterwards. Yeah, so I'm still confused as to

985
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: get a one phone call. Okay, so this is interesting.

986
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,479
Speaker 1: During the filming of Winter Games. I think that's okay

987
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: if I say this. Um, I got to call Lauren

988
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: a couple of times, but that's because she was on

989
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise with me, like she already is part

990
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: of my storyline. And um, when I was on the Bachelor,

991
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 1: I was there for twenty eight days, I believe. And

992
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: I did get to call my parents for I'm not

993
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 1: even joking you sixty seconds. It was my dad's birthday,

994
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: which also happens to a pair and anniversary. So let

995
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: me call and just say that really quickly. Um. But no,

996
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: they're as far as regular communication goes with contestants, they

997
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 1: really don't get to call anyone. So I'm unless there's

998
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: a kid at home, and then if you have a

999
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: son or daughter, then normally you're able to call them

1000
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: like every other day and usually they face time him. Um,

1001
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: but some kind of emergency. Rebecca, she said, I was

1002
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: talking to my mom or my dad about Becka k

1003
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: or Becca m Becca yeah, short haired back, shortback. She

1004
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: was talking to Ari and she said, I was talking

1005
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: to my mom the other day and she said this,

1006
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: don't you think that maybe like the other day is

1007
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: like maybe, but it definitely made me feel like she

1008
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: had just called and you got the same vibe. Yeah,

1009
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: she was like, I just let my mom know that

1010
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: I really like you. I'm pulling this out of my ask.

1011
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: It was something like that. Yeah, okay, well very interesting.

1012
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: Maybe it was like some kind of emergency or something.

1013
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: If anyone listening remembers exactly the episode and then we

1014
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: could like make a phone call to try and figure

1015
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: out what was going on. Yeah, email us at Benn

1016
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: and Ashley at iHeartMedia dot com. Alright, moving on to

1017
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: a question about one on ones. This is from Megan,

1018
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: hey Ben and Ashley. Before I begin, I just want

1019
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: to say that I love you both and I'm so

1020
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: excited to see you both on the Winter Games. I'm

1021
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: truly rooting for both of you. Getting to my question,

1022
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: I have been wondering about something that happens during one

1023
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: on one days when they transition from the day portion

1024
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 1: to the night portion. Where do they usually go for dinner?

1025
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: The couple changes outfits, and then they split up for

1026
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: a while, and then they get ready again and then

1027
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: they meet up. How much time it's spent in between

1028
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: those transitions. This is a great, fantastic question, um, Being

1029
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: that I've only been on one on ones on the

1030
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: on Bachelor in Paradise and Bachelor Winter Games. Um depends

1031
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: on the location. If your daytime portion is far away

1032
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: from your nighttime portion, you're probably going to take separate

1033
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 1: cars there, and then you're gonna probably have like two

1034
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: hotel rooms where you both get ready freshen up, and

1035
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 1: then they'll get room service for you. It's not like

1036
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 1: an area you don't like go out to dinner in

1037
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 1: that time. But if you are on a Bachelor one

1038
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: on one day, I'm going to guess you're at least

1039
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 1: separated for two solid hours between the night and the

1040
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 1: daytime portion of the date, which is kind of nice

1041
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: because you get to gather your thoughts, you get to

1042
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: freshen yourself up, and you can just like, yeah, I

1043
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: just take a break from like all the pressure of

1044
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: carrying a conversation on TV. Yeah. So, but then it

1045
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: depends because normally on a Bachelor in Paradise date or

1046
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: a Winter Games date, you still get breaks. You may

1047
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 1: get like a twenty minute break here or there, and

1048
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: you're interviewing most of that time. Well, one thing I

1049
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:46,399
Speaker 1: wish I had when I was shopping for all these

1050
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: Bachelor dates is thread Up because I always try to

1051
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 1: branch out my style a little, but it's hard to

1052
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00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: the relationship questions, and my sister is gonna help me

1087
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 1: out on this because you know, I'm like kind of

1088
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: new to relationships, so I need help giving advice I

1089
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't be. You know, nothing's really I want to

1090
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 1: hear your advice and I'll fix it. Really okay, um

1091
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: oh I think I like this one. He won't make

1092
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: a move. That is the title of this letter on

1093
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 1: this Yeah, that's because they usually don't want to make

1094
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: a move. So Natalia, he probably doesn't want to make

1095
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: a move. But I haven't read your story yet, so

1096
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: here we go. I met this guy at worked two

1097
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 1: years ago. We met because we are both We both

1098
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 1: worked from a nonprofit that builds houses for extremely poor

1099
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: families in Mexico and we provide education for their kiddos.

1100
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: I am a social worker for the nonprofit and he

1101
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: is the main contractor we use for these builds. The

1102
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: connection was instant when we first met, but he was

1103
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: engaged at the time and I was dating someone, so

1104
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: we just left it there. Flash forward to last year.

1105
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 1: We were both single and we have built a strong

1106
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: friendship since then, but there is still always flirting. I

1107
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: live in San Diego, he lives in Mexico. It's three

1108
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: hours apart. He travels all the time here to spend

1109
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: time with me, my friends, and my family. The chemistry

1110
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:01,439
Speaker 1: between us is undeniable, and everybody around us can tell.

1111
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: He always comes to events that are important for me

1112
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: and supports me in every possible way. With my career.

1113
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: We went to a concert once last May May two seventeen,

1114
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: and we kissed once, and it was an extremely passionate kiss.

1115
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: We have never done anything physical before or after that.

1116
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 1: So my questions are this, Should I risk our friendship

1117
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 1: that we have and go to the next level or

1118
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: just stay front with him. I feel like I'll regret

1119
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 1: it if I don't take a chance with him, But

1120
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: I also don't want to risk this amazing friendship we have.

1121
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: Why hasn't he made a move either, I'm so confused.

1122
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 1: I gave him plenty of green lights and science to

1123
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: show that I'm interested in having something more. He's thirty,

1124
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five. Natalia. Okay, well, I I've been in

1125
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: the situation before. I would recommend using alcohol in this situation.

1126
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that that concert wasn't That's what I'm saying,

1127
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: that that's the only time they made out. I think

1128
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: there was alcohol. I would just ask him to go

1129
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 1: wine tasting or something. Oh, that's actually a great advice.

1130
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: Other concert at work concert? Yeah, do you think that

1131
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: he likes I think he likes her. Yeah, he wouldn't

1132
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: be doing all this effort. Maybe he's nervous, like I

1133
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: want to know is he straight? Do you ever? I

1134
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: always have my red flag, like the work thing, like

1135
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: what if they fall apart and then he doesn't get

1136
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: to be the contract. Maybe that's why he's keeping himself

1137
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 1: under could be totally, could be. I always wonder, like

1138
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: the harm the friendship thing. I want to harm the friendship?

1139
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: Do you believe in that? Like you have enough friends

1140
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: you're trying to I always want to make out and

1141
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: see what he says, like or do it kind of

1142
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: with a little hint of jokey nous, but like seriousness.

1143
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: That's always been my thing. It's like I've always crave

1144
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: to ask, Hey, you want to make out? Did I

1145
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: never do it? Then I'm just like yeah, I find

1146
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: also that the thing that she said, I've given a

1147
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 1: lot of green lights. I have learned this with guys.

1148
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: You think you're giving some serious green lights, They don't

1149
00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: know anything anything. They they are so oblivious because I've

1150
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: literally said things and think that I am being so obvious,

1151
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: so obvious, so obvious. And then I'm like get like,

1152
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: you know, I'll hear something or he'll say something and

1153
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm like wait, seriously, Like I thought I was being

1154
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: so obvious even on Winter Games. Kevin was like, I

1155
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: didn't think that you were into me at all, which

1156
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: is why I asked Bibby, like, you didn't give me

1157
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: any signs. I'm like, I looked at you with like

1158
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: direct and pretty at you, and I went over and

1159
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: I said, Hi, Like, what else do you need? You

1160
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 1: don't look a guy. You're dodging eyes, you're looking away.

1161
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: You know, if you're looking at me and you're not

1162
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: like disconnecting, then you literally have to be like I

1163
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: like you, will you please call me because I want

1164
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: to talk to you on the phone. Like, if you

1165
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: don't do that, they don't get it. As a guy,

1166
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: guys are extremely afraid of rejection. There is they're so

1167
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: afraid of being turned away when they lean in for

1168
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: a kiss or something. You're right, they're oblivious to what

1169
01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 1: you're doing because there's a one present chance you'll saying know,

1170
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: they won't go any further. I know, and especially with

1171
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: a friendship. Whether he's probably like, oh, she just likes

1172
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 1: me as a friend. You know, that was just a

1173
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: drunken make out and I probably she probably didn't like that.

1174
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: Men alright, moving on. This is from Jen my relationship

1175
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: of seven years just ended about a week ago. I

1176
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: lived with him for two years. He was seen as

1177
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: another child to my parents. My entire family was obsessed

1178
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: with him, and we are a package deal for a

1179
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: very long time. We were best friends for three years

1180
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: before I said yes to going on a date with him.

1181
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: We were so good for almost our whole relationship. We

1182
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: were connected in a way that I can't even put

1183
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: into words. My love for him knows no limits. However,

1184
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: about five months ago, things started to change. This is horrifying,

1185
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: you know, just saying that he stopped coming home at night,

1186
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: he stopped listening to me, and things got really bad.

1187
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 1: I found out that he cheated several times. It was

1188
01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: a nightmare. However, due to our his street in our

1189
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 1: living situation, I chose to stick with him through this

1190
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 1: time where it seemed like he was just losing himself.

1191
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: We're both in our twenties and I'm the only woman

1192
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 1: he's ever been with, so I did do my best

1193
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: to be as understanding as I could. Unfortunately, though, things

1194
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: got only worse and I decided to leave out of

1195
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 1: respect for myself. My question for you guys is, even

1196
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: though I chose to leave, I'm really struggling. I can't

1197
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: stop crying, I can't stop thinking about all the good

1198
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 1: we had, and I can't help but feel as though

1199
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't good enough. The hardest part of it all

1200
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 1: is that it seems that he is perfectly fine. He

1201
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: honestly seems like he is so much happier now, and

1202
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: that makes me question everything about the last seven years.

1203
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: Everyone keeps telling me to focus on me, but it

1204
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: seems impossible these days. I'm still madly in love with him,

1205
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: even though I should probably hate him. At this point,

1206
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 1: we have been small talking. He reaches out to me

1207
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: every now and then. Should I let this continue? I

1208
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: don't want to burn bridges since he was my best

1209
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: friend for ten years. I don't don't know what is

1210
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: wrong or what is right at this point. If any

1211
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: of you have any insight, let me know what I

1212
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: should do. Jin in Massachusetts. First of all, it's only

1213
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: been a week. Oh yeah, Amy, way to bring back

1214
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:15,919
Speaker 1: at the beginning of it. It ended a week ago,

1215
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: and he's been happier ever since a week ago. Guys

1216
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: grieve later on girls grieve first. So he will come

1217
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: back in like three months and she will be perfectly

1218
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: He's really feeling, and she doesn't really know yet what

1219
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: she's really feeling because it's only been a week, Like,

1220
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: you gotta give it a lot longer. Yeah, and I'm

1221
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: sure he will come back eventually, so she needs to

1222
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: cut ties forget him off social media. Lauren is so

1223
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: good at stuff like this because when Lauren says she's

1224
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 1: not going to text the guy first, she doesn't text

1225
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: the guy first, and then the guy always comes back.

1226
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: To larn You've never had an instance where the guy

1227
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: hasn't well, you haven't really had an instance, but the

1228
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: guy hasn't come back. Don't think about him, don't text him.

1229
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: That's the best way to heal. So, Jen, I know

1230
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: that you wrote a long email, but that is simple

1231
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 1: advice that I do think is going to work for you.

1232
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: It will never work. You know, he cheated on you.

1233
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: I really don't know. You don't think it's ever going

1234
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: to work again. Sorry, but he will contact her, Yeah,

1235
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: he'll contact you, but then you want her back, You

1236
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: want her yourr back. But she will always be concerned,

1237
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: and Jen, you should always be concerned that it could

1238
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: happen again. Right, Yeah, sorry, Jen, I don't know she

1239
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: could get past all that. But right now. The focus

1240
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:32,439
Speaker 1: just needs to be like, breathe her best. We don't

1241
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: know that you're young, give him time, you can get

1242
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: past the all kinds of things. She's just right now.

1243
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: She needs to just sort of I kind of wish

1244
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: I knew their ages, because if they're like best friends

1245
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: from fourteen to twenty four, that's different than being best

1246
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: friends from two. I don't think she's old, so she

1247
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,479
Speaker 1: needs to just give it a month and then see

1248
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: how she's feeling. Right, all right, One more email before

1249
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: we go. This is from Brittany. Hey, Ashley and Ben. Actually,

1250
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 1: I love getting to know through this podcast. Seeing you

1251
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: in a completely different light from your previous seasons has

1252
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: been so fun. Thank you so much. That is such

1253
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: a compliment. I am now a fan of yours as well.

1254
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 1: I love that. By the way, I absolutely love The

1255
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: Greatest Showman. I mean it was like high school musical

1256
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 1: on steroids. Yes, it was sensory candy. Two questions for y'all,

1257
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: who is your best friend from the Bachelor family. Obviously

1258
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 1: you get close to so many people in the franchise,

1259
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Speaker 1: but if you had to choose one, who would it be?

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Speaker 1: When watching The Bachelor of the bachelorette during your time

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Speaker 1: on the fun daytime part of the date and then

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Speaker 1: the fancier part of the date. What happens in between

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Speaker 1: the two? Well, Brittany, I already answered that question today.

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Speaker 1: How crazy is that? Um? Thanks for being a light

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Speaker 1: and keep bringing smiles to me week after week. Keep

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Speaker 1: it up. Thanks, Brittany, Well Britney. My closest friends in

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor family. That would be ben Becca, who I

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Speaker 1: would say even if she wasn't standing in front of me.

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Speaker 1: Jade Tanner and Jared the asked for one, Ashley, you

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Speaker 1: can't and Deine. Those are my that's my elite. So

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Speaker 1: no offense. Everybody who's not in there, but you, guys,

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Speaker 1: I do. I love you the very most. All Right, Well, guys,

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Speaker 1: it is it was just me today. So signing off,

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Speaker 1: this is this has been no you say, I've been

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Speaker 1: Ashley signing off, This has been Ashley. I've been Ashley.

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Speaker 1: I've been Ashley. Goodbye. Followed the Benn and Ashley I

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