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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Tyler is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named

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Speaker 2: Jessa who he went on a day with. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see I chafell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first let's find out what happened on the date. Tyler,

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Speaker 2: what's up man? How long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Jessa?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's been about a week and have not

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Speaker 3: heard anything from her at all?

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Speaker 4: Have you tried? How many times have you reached out

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Speaker 4: to her?

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Speaker 5: Not too much? You don't want to be like aggressively.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see

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Speaker 4: what you did.

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Speaker 3: A double text is all I did, you know, Okay,

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Speaker 3: texted the night after and then I text a couple

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Speaker 5: That's really all I've done, Okay, I don't want to

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Speaker 5: I don't know for sure. It was fun. We we

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Speaker 5: had a great time, went out to dinner at.

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Speaker 3: And then ended up going to a second location, which

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Speaker 3: is always a good you know, good sign you go

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Speaker 3: to a second location that's a drinks. I went really well.

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Speaker 3: We just wad a lot of great conversation. I was,

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Speaker 3: you know, I paid for everything. I wanted to make

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Speaker 3: sure she never had didn't have to worry about it.

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Speaker 3: But I also made it clear there was no obligations.

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Speaker 3: I was just there enjoying my time with her because

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Speaker 3: we really got along well and I was just really

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Speaker 3: happy with the whole day, Like she was fantastic.

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Speaker 4: So what do you think happened?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 4: Why do you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation

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Speaker 3: never lagged. It never she never felt like it never

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Speaker 3: seemed to me like there's any issue I was.

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Speaker 5: I was a little sweaty, I dressed up and we

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Speaker 5: went out somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know. If I

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Speaker 5: don't feel like I.

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Speaker 3: Hope it wasn't that that seems kind of weird. I

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Speaker 3: didn't pay for everything. It was expensive, so it was

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Speaker 3: like super pricey, So maybe that was too much. I

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Speaker 3: am worried that I put on like too much of

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Speaker 3: an effort, but I really liked her, and I don't

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Speaker 3: have a lot of these free time, so like I

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Speaker 4: That's sweet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really not sure. I like, I know that

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Speaker 3: sometimes if you put too much money into it a

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Speaker 3: first day like it can turn somebody off. And so

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Speaker 3: I am a little worried that might be it. But

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Speaker 3: it's it's so hard to tell because I really and

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Speaker 3: in the night, you know, it went really well. Like

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Speaker 3: I said, we had some drinks and then afterwards, we

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Speaker 3: waiting for her uber and it was really nice out

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Speaker 3: and she looked really beautiful, and I asked her if

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Speaker 3: I could give her a kiss and she said yes.

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Speaker 3: So it was just a very nice, you know, nice kiss,

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Speaker 3: right and nothing like aggressive. And then she ent her

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Speaker 3: I had a great.

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Speaker 5: Time, and then haven't heard four since.

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Speaker 4: So did you guys kiss on the lips?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I was just a little one though, Like what do

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Speaker 5: you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I was proud to be very.

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Speaker 3: Respectful and you know, and I know grandma kiss.

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Speaker 1: Well, did it seem like she was really into you? Like,

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Speaker 1: did you guys talk about seeing each other again at

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Speaker 1: the end, we did.

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Speaker 3: And she seemed amenable to it, and like we talked

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Speaker 3: back and forth, Like I mean, I always didn't want

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Speaker 3: lot of questions about herself, and she was very engaging,

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Speaker 5: We had some you know, kind of just little things

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Speaker 3: You know, you can really tell when you have a

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Speaker 3: bad day, I can see the ghost I mean, you understand,

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Speaker 3: it happens. But this was a really good one, and

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Speaker 3: I was kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm

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Speaker 3: sad that she ghosted because I always really into her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?

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Speaker 3: She seemed to like I said we should do this again,

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Speaker 3: and she seemed yes, of course, let's look, let's do it.

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Speaker 3: She knew there was not any she didn't shut down,

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Speaker 3: and I mean we didn't make actual plans, but you know,

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Speaker 3: she seemed to be like, Okay, yeah, that sounds great.

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Speaker 4: Tyler, when you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like

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Speaker 4: how sweaty?

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Speaker 3: Oh we're not talking like you know, buckets, but I

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Speaker 3: mean it was it was kind of sweaty. It just

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Speaker 3: you know, I think I overdressed a little bit for

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Speaker 3: the weather, and the.

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Speaker 5: Restaurant had her heat on. So yeah, just a little

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Speaker 5: bit of you know, poorhead clip. But I'm not like

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Speaker 2: I was probably more so conscious than all Right, Well,

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Speaker 2: we'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. Okay, fantastic, all right,

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Speaker 2: plus i'll come back get your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: next if you're just joining us for today's first date

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Speaker 2: follow up. Tyler is on the phone and Tyler is

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Jessa. It's been about a week now

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Speaker 2: and he hasn't heard from her. So in a few minutes,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date. But first, Tyler,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation with Jessa?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just when I went out on her first day too.

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Speaker 3: It was a really nice, nice time, really kind of

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Speaker 3: expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards. I paid

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Speaker 3: for everything, and then we really got along. Well, iiss

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Speaker 3: you goodbye, and haven't heard from her since. And I'm

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Speaker 3: kind of worried. Maybe because I paid too much for

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Speaker 5: Or or maybe because I was a little steady during

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Speaker 4: All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 4: All right, here we go. Hello, I may I speak

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Speaker 4: to Jessa? Please?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jessa, how are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 2: I host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Jessa,

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Speaker 2: I'm mean also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, a lot of you. Hi.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what's up? How are you doing today?

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Speaker 7: I'm okay? What what's going on?

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Speaker 4: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 4: first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them? So we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, well, I mean I am on a dating app,

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Speaker 6: so this could be going a couple all.

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Speaker 4: Right, Okay, wait to put yourself out there. Well, I'll

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Speaker 4: tell you who it is. Okay, Okay, his name is Tyler.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, that's a recent one. Okay, because the thing

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Speaker 7: does happen to me where somebody will ghost me months.

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Speaker 7: I just had a guy reach out to me. Went

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Speaker 7: went on one date ten months ago.

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Speaker 6: He stopped talking to me and then was like, you're

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Speaker 6: gonna so okay, no, this is very recent.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I'm with you, Tyler.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a week since he talked to him.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, is it? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing

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Speaker 7: He just I don't know. It kind of feels like

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Speaker 6: Like he did seem really tired on the date, and

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Speaker 6: I think he's just like super busy. He might be

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Speaker 7: So I just kind of was like, I'll just cut

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Speaker 6: It's in one date, so like, you know, it's easier

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Speaker 7: It's just like it's awkward. It just it just didn't

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Speaker 6: Like they feel like you know, I mean, he made

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Speaker 7: Like it's nothing crazy like it was.

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Speaker 6: Wasn't like oh god, he you know didn't tip or

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Speaker 7: Like, okay, it just it just like didn't feel like

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Speaker 6: To work out, like I really I want like I'm

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Speaker 7: Was gonna I was gonna get what I wanted out

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Speaker 4: What's that? Like? What's that saying?

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Speaker 7: Though?

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Speaker 1: People will always make time for what it is that

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It just kind of feels like maybe it was a

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Speaker 1: to just slow down, like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 6: And I get it, like I work a lot too,

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I mean, that's really it, Like maybe that's not a

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Speaker 8: But like when you're on the apps, it's such a

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Speaker 8: like I don't know if we can curse, but it's

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Speaker 8: such like a show. Yeah, you gotta sometimes just get

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Speaker 8: wait ten months and he might hit.

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Speaker 7: You up again anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, who are we to tell you why

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he didn't even wait ten months. He

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Speaker 7: He waited a week. We're still in the statute of limitations.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for being honest with us. Appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I should let you know that he's actually

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Speaker 2: on the phone too. Tyler is on the phone listening

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Oh, Am, I in trouble now.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, No, you know what, Okay, Hi, Hi.

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Speaker 7: Oh hey Tyler, So how's it going.

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 3: You know, I think you said it's more awkward to

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Speaker 3: this is probably more awkward.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is a little awkward now.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I'm sorry about that. But yeah, no, you know,

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 3: I do work a lot, and I was tired, but

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Speaker 3: like when something does matter to me, I do make

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Speaker 5: I do put in the.

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Speaker 3: Effort to make space when things are important to me.

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Speaker 3: And so I want you to know that that is

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Speaker 5: But also I'm already aware of. And I did make

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Speaker 5: a time for our date because it was important to

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Speaker 5: me because I think we got along really well and I

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Speaker 5: could tell we're really go.

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Speaker 3: Well, and I am I'm willing to put some flexibility

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Speaker 3: also like having someone to spend time with and you know.

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Speaker 5: Go do things with and all of that. And then

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Speaker 5: you know, I love that a little bit more than work.

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Speaker 7: Okay, so you think you're going to be able to

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Speaker 5: Somebody who's willing to be like, hey, let's go do.

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Speaker 3: Something, or give me a little encouragement to stop working

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Speaker 3: it's really hard to stop working. You're just constantly working.

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Speaker 3: And so if I had somebody and I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 3: let's go that, I want to spend time with it.

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Speaker 3: And that's a good intentive for me, that to stop working.

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Speaker 3: So I'm one hundred percent willing to work on that

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Speaker 3: and talk about it and everything. But I want to

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Speaker 3: talk about it. I'd like to be able to, you know,

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Speaker 3: for a bit. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess I didn't know you had any

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Speaker 7: But that is good and refreshing to hear.

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Speaker 6: So I guess I'm glad I answered the phone this time.

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Speaker 3: Me too, Me too, And you have all the pressure

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Speaker 3: of the radio behind you. Say yes you want to

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Speaker 3: make you make you say yes to a second date

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Speaker 3: right now. But if you do want to go on

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Speaker 3: a second date, I would love to, but I would

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Speaker 5: Privately later on, which I don't I don't want you

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Speaker 6: You know what, actually this is, this is going well, so.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel good about it. We can we can

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Speaker 7: give it another shot, especially if.

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Speaker 6: You're you know, open about the time issue and willing

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Speaker 4: Then yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler.

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, even better?

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Speaker 4: Sure so Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money.

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Speaker 7: But I love.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much. Okay, great, well, I'm so excited,

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Speaker 5: just so thank you. Man. I probably next time I

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Speaker 5: will be like, so.

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Speaker 6: Sweaty what so sweaty what.

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Speaker 7: I mess them? Okay, all right, okay, I'll let it go.

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Speaker 7: I don't know about its first date follow up