1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,079 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 2: Only on the Double Show. 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 3: Crystal is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater. 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 3: She's been dating her boyfriend Bryce for over a year now. 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 3: They live together, but now she thinks something might be 6 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 3: going on, so we'll see if we can help her out. Hey, Crystal, 7 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 3: why do you think that Bryce might be cheating? 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, first of all, thanks for having me. Yeah, so, 9 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: my uh my boyfriend Bryce, he goes on a lot 10 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 2: of business trips, right, and every time he comes back, 11 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: he comes with new clothes like that aren't like clothes 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: that seem like he just bought them, you know, like 13 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: they seem worn in, but clothes that don't that we 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: don't have it at our place, And he doesn't want 15 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 2: to be intimate the first few days that he's back, 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: which just seems like really sketchy to me. And ever 17 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: since we started dating, I knew that he would be 18 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: traveling a lot, and it wasn't really a big deal. Like, 19 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: you know, we both take our work pretty seriously, and 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: he travels like every other week, and sometimes it's a 21 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: couple of days and sometimes it's for the whole week. 22 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: He works in sales. I don't know if I if 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: I mentioned that, but yeah, and like he used to 24 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: just be so excited to see me when he got back, 25 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: and like, you know, we would always be intimate, like 26 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 2: he couldn't keep his hands off me, and he used 27 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: to like check in more with me while he was 28 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: on the road. And now it's like way less frequent 29 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 2: and I can't get a hold of him. Like it's 30 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 2: just there's so many seemingly red flags here. 31 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 4: Do you think it's like the evolution of the relationship. 32 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 5: You know, in the beginning, it's always like, oh, I 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 5: can't wait see you, and then it just kind of 34 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 5: is like, Okay, well, I trust you. We don't need 35 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 5: to talk every five minutes. Like is it kind of 36 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 5: that or do you feel like it's more than that. 37 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: I feel like it's more than that. Something in my 38 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 2: gut tells me it's more than just like you know, 39 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: being out of the honeymoon phase. 40 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 3: Like, so, you guys have been together for a year 41 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: over a year. How long has this been going on? 42 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: Well, it's hard to like track exactly. I mean, he's 43 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: been traveling the whole time we've been together. But I 44 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: feel like in the last maybe six months or so, 45 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: it's gotten weirder. 46 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 4: So back to that coming back with new clothes. Is 47 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 4: he a thrifter? Huh No. 48 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 2: I'll even ask him like, oh, I haven't seen that 49 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: shirt before, Like where did you get that? And I'll 50 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: be like, oh, yeah, you know, like he just kind 51 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 2: of brushes it. 52 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: If he's anything like me, he doesn't pack things or 53 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: loses things and then has to buy new stuff on 54 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: the road. 55 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 4: Is he like that het? 56 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, but like again, these don't seem like new clothes. 57 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 5: Okay, he's like Warren stuff. I think we're all in 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 5: agreement that there's a little bit of a flag going 59 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 5: on here. 60 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, it does seem true. 61 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 62 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 4: Do you know where he goes when he goes on 63 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 4: his work trips? 64 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I feel like most of I mean, 65 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: he's in sales, so he's like, you know, doing a 66 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 2: lot of like interfacing with different clients, potential clients and 67 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: things like that. So he's like all over the place. 68 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:03,839 Speaker 4: See. 69 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: Ever, do you know anything about his past relationships? Is 70 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: he ever cheated before or been honest about that? 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 2: To my knowledge, he has not, Like, so that would 72 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: be something that I would really be cautious of going 73 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: into if I knew that someone had a history of cheating. 74 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 5: Sure, everything else in your relationship is fine other than 75 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 5: those first couple of days when he comes back. 76 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I feel like after those few couple of 77 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: days when things are weird, like, yeah, we settle back 78 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 2: into a rhythm, but then he's traveling again. 79 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: Okay, well, you told us what grocery store. 80 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: He's a rewards card member, so we'll do the usual 81 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 3: and call and pretend to be from the grocery store 82 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: and tell him that every single month, we choose one 83 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: rewards card member at random who gets free flowers delivered 84 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: from our flooral department, and we'll see if he sends 85 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 3: those to you or to somebody else. 86 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you, play us. 87 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 3: I'll come back and then call him and see if 88 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: we can catch him with to Ketch a Cheater. Right 89 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 3: after this, right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, 90 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 3: if you're just joining us, Crystal is on the phone 91 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 3: and she thinks that her boyfriend of one year named 92 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 3: Bryce might be cheating. So and just a minute, we're 93 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 3: about to call him and pretend to be from the 94 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 3: grocery store where he's a rewards card member and say 95 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: that every single month we choose one Rewards Card member 96 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: who gets free flowers delivered to anybody that they want. 97 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 3: Will seev sends them to her or to somebody else 98 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: in just a second. But first, Crystal, why don't you 99 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 3: refresh everybody's memory about your situation. 100 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. So, Bryce and I live together. We've been together 101 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: for over a year and living together for the past 102 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: six or so months. And he travels a lot for 103 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: work because he works in sales, and whenever he comes 104 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: back from his trips, like he seems to have like 105 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: new clothes on or like in his bag that I 106 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,239 Speaker 2: haven't seen before, and he doesn't want to be intimate 107 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: with me for like the first few days that he's back, 108 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: and it just feels really really bizarre. 109 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 4: Okay, and it's definite change in behavior. 110 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 2: Absolutely. Yeah. 111 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 4: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him? 112 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? Thank you. 113 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 4: Here we go. 114 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 2: Hello. 115 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 3: Hey, this is Jordan calling from So I was looking 116 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,679 Speaker 3: for a rewards card member named Bryce. 117 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 118 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: Bryce, Please don't hang up this it's not a marketing 119 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: phone call. I'm calling to tell you congratulations here this 120 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: month's big winner. 121 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 122 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, what did I give certificate or what 123 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: what's the deal? 124 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 3: Maybe you aren't aware, but every single month, we choose 125 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 3: one Rewards Card member to say thank you very much 126 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 3: for being such a loyal customer and for shopping with 127 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 3: us by giving them free flowers delivered straight from our 128 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 3: floral department to anybody that they want in the entire 129 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: United States of America. You just want thirty six longstim 130 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 3: red roses, a box of candy, and a card to 131 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 3: be delivered to anybody that you want. 132 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 2: Wow, I assume that comes with a vase. 133 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 4: Yes, it does. 134 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: Okay, if you know who you want to send them 135 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: to right now, I can take the information in just 136 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: a couple of minutes over the phone. 137 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: Actually, good, timer, I got a good I got a 138 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 1: good solid five minutes. 139 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 4: Great, all right, well let's hop to it. 140 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: Then if you just the name of the person you 141 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 3: want to send them to, and then what you would 142 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: want to put on a card, and then I we'll 143 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 3: get the address last all right, yeah, first will be 144 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 3: the first and last name of the person. 145 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: Got you, Meredith? 146 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 4: Anything you want to put in a card for Meredith? 147 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: Uh, let me think, uh uh maybe like to my wife. 148 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm sorry, I have to I have 149 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: to cut you off. I have to cut you off. 150 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 2: This is Crystal. I'm sorry you did you just say wife? 151 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 2: I'm hearing you correctly. You said Meredith is your wife. 152 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 4: This is actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. 153 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 3: We do a thing where we try to catch people 154 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 3: cheating by saying where they'll send flowers, and that is 155 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: your girlfriend, Crystal. 156 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 4: I'm gonna go ahead and back outs. 157 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm having are right now. 158 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 2: Yes, how can you not understand that you have a 159 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 2: wife and I'm your girlfriend? Like? Is it when did 160 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: you get married? Was that not something you thought I 161 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: should know? Crystal? 162 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry this you're I'm like, this is a thousand 163 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: miles an hour. I have no idea. What's happening in 164 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: my head is spinning. I don't understand. 165 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: Okay, don't phone call and you're on the phone here, 166 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: You're you're playing dumb. Okay, you know what our relationship is, 167 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: and clearly you know that you have a wife, and 168 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: I'm asking you to explain to me when you got 169 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: married and why you thought it was okay to keep 170 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: that from me. 171 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: Oh god, Crystal, I didn't want to have to talk 172 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: about this in this way. And I got married five 173 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: years ago. 174 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 2: But five years ago. 175 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 4: But I was. 176 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: Separated when I met you, and I had just and 177 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: I did not know what was going on in life. 178 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: And I did not know I was going to fall 179 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: for you and the relationship with you and I have 180 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: real thing. I just did not know. 181 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: And I'm constantly why are you sending flowers to your wife? 182 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 4: Then? 183 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: Because I have been spending more time in Arizona with 184 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: Meredith and I have been kind of living this this 185 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: double This sucks, dude. 186 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 5: I can't believe this. 187 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, this sucks for you. Hello, I'm the victim here. 188 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: Let's not let's not play the victim. 189 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: I know I did not know what was happening, and 190 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: then I need a distance from her. And then you 191 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: and I started obviously working out, which gave me like 192 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: distance from her, which made me realize that that relationship 193 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: could work. And then in the last few months, I 194 00:08:55,160 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: guess that I have been with her and connection with her. 195 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: Okay, so that's where you've been going to Arizona to 196 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: be with your wife that I didn't know existed, and 197 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 2: that's why when you come back you have new clothes 198 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: and you don't want to have sex at that right, 199 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: Just making sure I have that, right, Yeah, okay, right, Well, 200 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: if this is a situation, then I'm going to send 201 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 2: you a bill for half of our rent for the 202 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 2: last eight months and you're gonna pay it, and honestly, 203 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 2: I'm gonna block your number. I never want to hear 204 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 2: from you again. So yeah, thank you for showing me 205 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: who you really are. Jesus. 206 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Crystal, I'm sorry. 207 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: No, no, I don't want to hear that. That's that's ridiculous. 208 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 4: I hung up on him, Crystal, so he's gone now, 209 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Oh my gosh, that's ridiculous. So sorry, thank you. 210 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 3: Well, I guess you got your questions answered and now 211 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 3: you can move on and remember in your future relationships 212 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 3: somebody being married and having a whole nother life is 213 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 3: pretty rare. So that's true, you know. I mean, obviously, 214 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 3: protect yourself, but try to do your best to make 215 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 3: this situation this situation moving forward. 216 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 4: It'll be hard, but yeah, yeah, and. 217 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 5: I know you don't want to hear this, and I 218 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 5: know you already know, but the internet is your best friend, 219 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 5: is it? Sometimes I wonder why people are always doing 220 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 5: background searches. 221 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 4: Oh hello, that makes more sense. Well, sorry, let us 222 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 4: know if you need anything. Okay, I'm sorry. You have 223 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 4: some peace, all right, Thank you guys. 224 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 5: Good luck The jew will shows to catch a cheater.