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Speaker 1: What's up y'all is show girl lix peak and it's

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Speaker 1: Sugarl Drea and the call and you are tuned into

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Speaker 1: another episode of poor Mind.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunk mind speaks sober.

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Speaker 1: So, first of all, let me say this. Y'all know

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Speaker 1: Cash is back and she got that real good camera.

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Speaker 1: I know my hair fucked up right now, my hair

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Speaker 1: pointing to starts day. So y'all be in these YouTube

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Speaker 1: comments talking about me.

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Speaker 3: Typical woman. Ain't wrong with your hair. Nobody say nothing

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Speaker 3: until you said.

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Speaker 4: Comment. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: People be me, come to video to c Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She'd be on scream sheet now, so we be his

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Speaker 2: people attacking.

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Speaker 5: They'd be like, where's They'd be like, where's big Fat?

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Speaker 6: I didn't sign channel big banking.

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Speaker 4: Big banking.

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Speaker 2: Free, get these holes out of here. I know I

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Speaker 2: feel ware.

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Speaker 4: They be in a coming their slore. Well, they be

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Speaker 4: saying I'm a slore. They sat on the last one.

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Speaker 2: I was like, blue dress is a floor dress? Had

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Speaker 2: a blue dress on last week.

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Speaker 1: They'd be like that one fine, but the other one

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Speaker 1: she a little questionable. I'll be like, I'm here for

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Speaker 1: the jokes. That then they be like they was what

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Speaker 1: they said last week. At least the one with the

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Speaker 1: orange has a good personality. They be so many the one,

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Speaker 1: the one with the blue one. She's not gonna get

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Speaker 1: very far with that attitude, Like, shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 4: No, the girl who said they're not getting along no more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't like each other. No mo, Drea had

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Speaker 1: an attitude with legs. I had a hangover last week.

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Speaker 4: I'm in a better mood today.

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Speaker 2: I ain't had a long morning, but I'm still in

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Speaker 2: a good mood.

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Speaker 4: Amen. So what's been going on with you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean my week has been good. I've

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Speaker 2: been having a good week.

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Speaker 4: I went shop. You did this weekend? Ring it up

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Speaker 4: to girls? Shut up?

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Speaker 2: So, y'all, I had a good weekend. I mean I

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Speaker 2: went out to eat a few times.

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Speaker 4: I seen Hung with my eggs. Oh yeah, that's and

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Speaker 4: you know that's my dog. I tuck with him. So

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Speaker 4: hung with my eggs, y'all.

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Speaker 5: Recording for the Patriot to record an episode for the Patreon.

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Speaker 5: So it's gonna be coming soon for those of y'all

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Speaker 5: they follow us on Patreon, you want to get the

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Speaker 5: TV and if you not subscribe, our Patreon is so good.

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Speaker 5: Dropped the episode to this past week on Patreon.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, our Patreon is literally so good.

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Speaker 1: Like every time it's an episode, it'd be funny.

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Speaker 5: We be spelling a lot of tea, y'all. My last story,

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Speaker 5: the last story I told the past week, I talked

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Speaker 5: about how I lost my virginity and child. It was

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Speaker 5: some drama you gonna want to tuney. But yeah, So,

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Speaker 5: I mean my weekend was good.

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Speaker 4: I had a long morning.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: I will talk about that at a later later time.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, all around though, I've been having a good,

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Speaker 5: a good week's good. How was your week being? I

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Speaker 5: went to Vegas last week. Uh, Me and Jazz went

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Speaker 5: my roommate. We had a wonderful time. I kind of

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Speaker 5: needed that to like unwind. The gifts have started rolling

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Speaker 5: in for my birthday. Yeah, you know, I'm excited about that.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I gotta go with I gotta come with a little

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Speaker 4: short period. So what are we doing for your birthday? Birthday?

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Speaker 5: Lex's birthday is on Monday, y'all? Yes, I don't make

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Speaker 5: sure y'all tell her happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my birthday is next Monday. It's August seventeenth, So

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Speaker 1: I think I'm just gonna go out like so for

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Speaker 1: the new listeners. I have a character on the show

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Speaker 1: called Throwback Day. This is a guy that I used

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Speaker 1: to like a lot, like way back in the day,

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Speaker 1: but like he never like really.

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Speaker 4: You know, just because I used to be like really shy.

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Speaker 4: I used to be not shy, but I used.

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Speaker 1: like last October kind of like on and off. But

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Speaker 1: we've been doing like really really good. So I definitely

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Speaker 1: want to spend my birthday.

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Speaker 4: With him, you know. Uh yeah, but okay, yeah, I've

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Speaker 5: Like that's my dog, Yeah, that's I can't wait for

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Speaker 5: your birthday. I think I'll be more excited about celebrating

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Speaker 5: your birthday every year.

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Speaker 4: Than you do.

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy, I'm so unleo about my birthday

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Speaker 1: because I'm my birthday birthday. My birthday is one day.

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Speaker 1: It ain't no weekend, it ain't no month, just the

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Speaker 1: day of and dassy. So but I'm excited, Like, uh,

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Speaker 1: he set me up to get a facial on Friday,

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Speaker 4: My last she's done.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: He hooked me up a little bit.

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Speaker 2: And our friends coming in time, the birthday crew.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Ski, shout out to Ski. We actually don't want

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Speaker 1: a Patreon episode.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we want to do a patre Yeah we might

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Speaker 5: do an episode with Skiet to it together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah with us a Ski, that'll be fun. We do

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Speaker 1: this so yeah, shout up to our other friends too, Milvie.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh yeah, I'll probably do a Patreon with Mo. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll do a Patreon with Mo. But yeah, me and

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Speaker 1: Ski actually have the same birthday, So shout out to

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Speaker 1: little Ski. Yea. But yeah, we're gonna be out this weekend,

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Speaker 1: turning up and doing a damn thy Okay, so let's

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Speaker 1: get into these top so as y'all know, I got

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Speaker 1: some wet ass pussy.

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Speaker 4: I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: Now, y'all know.

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Speaker 5: Now y'all know them well, Me and ladies talk about

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Speaker 5: these motherfucking songs. This is my new anthem.

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Speaker 1: It is we finally got everything, you guys. But it's

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Speaker 1: why period. That's not to be my next caption on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Give me everything you got for these wilds. I am

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Speaker 1: dead so yeah, I wanted to talk about WAP today

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Speaker 1: just because it was so much controversy when this song dropped.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you would have thought that she showed her

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Speaker 1: Like, I just can't believe the backlash she's gotten from

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Speaker 1: like politicians is very filthy.

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Speaker 4: But who cares.

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Speaker 6: I can love it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I love it too, but I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: you know, to prove people. But it's not even procacy

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Speaker 1: the backlash. But you know what's crazy to me, The

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Speaker 1: most backlash have been coming from me.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's it's half and half.

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Speaker 5: I would say, I have seen some women saying so

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Speaker 5: it's like I have seen somebody make a tweet and

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I was a politician lady.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she was like, by making this derogatory song and

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Speaker 5: He's just like, girl, it's a fun.

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Speaker 4: But listen, Okay, I got that exactly period. She got

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Speaker 4: that DAP.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got that WIP.

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Speaker 4: Just say that.

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Speaker 7: You got that because I mean, to me, first of all,

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Speaker 7: shout out to Frank Ski. I'm happy that they simple.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if y'all know.

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Speaker 3: Who I'm like, Frank, Oh, he's a guy that was

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Speaker 3: saying that that's sample.

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Speaker 6: So I thought it was Uncle Luke.

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Speaker 3: Shit, I ain't know, But now I mean to me,

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Speaker 3: I really don't understand what the big deal is. Like

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Speaker 3: it's I like weddings, pussy.

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Speaker 6: Exactly, Man, I like pussy.

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Speaker 5: I mean I think the thing that bothers me about

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Speaker 5: all of the backlash that I've been seeing it's just

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Speaker 5: more so like men want you to be nasty and

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Speaker 5: be all these type she but then it's like when

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Speaker 5: it's a song about it and it's empowering women, all

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Speaker 5: of a sudden, it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: But you want me to be this way and me

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Speaker 1: but I like, literally, everybody has sex. Yeah, why are

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Speaker 1: we acting like sex is so taboo? Think I ain't

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Speaker 4: But it's so weird to me.

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Speaker 1: It's like we can't talk about sucking dick or eat

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Speaker 1: my god, poor minds is scandalous. But it's like, is

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Speaker 1: it really everybody has sex? Like, what's the big deal?

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Speaker 1: I think we just pushed the envelope.

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Speaker 5: I feel like, you know, our show, cocktails, horrible decisions.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, yeah, call her daddy, even when

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Speaker 5: it's always been like a stigma attached to talking about

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Speaker 5: she go, people automatically want to label you a hoe

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Speaker 5: like for a lot of women, it's taboo to talk

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Speaker 4: So when you have women who are openly.

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Speaker 5: Talking about things like these all the time, you make

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Speaker 5: a lot of people uncomfortable, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 5: And a lot of people look down there.

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Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy. I want to read this

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Speaker 1: and shout out to him because I actually liked the song.

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Speaker 1: And he from Houston. Oh be king because nobody said

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Speaker 1: nothing to him. Let me read this, Hey, club godzilla,

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Speaker 1: I ain't tricking. I'm just dicking bitches down, head down,

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Speaker 1: pop that pop that pop, that pussy to the ground.

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Speaker 4: She a free coat.

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Speaker 6: I put her on the team.

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Speaker 1: If you keep your pussy clean, then scream okay, like

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Speaker 1: how can he say that like that?

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Speaker 3: I need people to understand, But I will say that

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Speaker 3: is a checkmate moment. It really is, honest to God,

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Speaker 3: and that's.

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Speaker 4: Like the one of the hottest songs right now.

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Speaker 1: Nobody said nothing to be and shout out to be

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Speaker 1: King because that's my dog.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's like, but nobody said nothing to be King,

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Speaker 4: So it's like, what's the problem.

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Speaker 7: When we talk about our own I'll throw that so

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Speaker 7: for me when it comes to the men that were complaining,

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Speaker 7: there's just one line that a lot of dudes were

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Speaker 3: Cardi B said, I don't cook, I don't clean, but

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Speaker 3: I still.

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Speaker 4: Got a ring period period.

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Speaker 3: How do y'all feel about that line?

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's not what keeps a man, that's

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Speaker 5: not what gets I feel like if a man really

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Speaker 5: fuck with you, none of that shit even matters. And

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's what she was, That's what she

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Speaker 5: was alluding to by saying it, like it's just kind

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Speaker 5: of like my nigga fuck with me, I don't have

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Speaker 5: to do none of this ship and he still put

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Speaker 5: a ring on he Because I feel like a lot

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Speaker 5: of women do think that, like you can cook and

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Speaker 1: People like to devalue things that are going on when

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Speaker 4: No, it's not. It's fun.

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Speaker 1: It's a fun song. We all want to talk about

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Speaker 4: It's a woman empowerment song in my part. That's what

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Speaker 5: Foxy Brown been talking about that Ill n Nosen's out free.

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Speaker 5: She haven't talking about that ill nine. He ain't even

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Speaker 4: Like this ain't nothing new. Like look Kim been talking

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Speaker 1: Song's real good is a fucking bob and it's the anthem.

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Speaker 4: It's the original wop to be honest? Really is it? Really?

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Speaker 3: Period uncut classic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I feel like I don't know. I think

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Speaker 4: Like Megan and Cardi look beautiful. They had a lot

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Speaker 1: I don't know, got the moves like that money. Yes,

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Speaker 5: Cool Kylie, which was that was very controversial for a

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Speaker 4: I feel like it was cool.

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Speaker 5: But I thought it would have you felt about it

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Speaker 4: One, I mean badly not problematic. She just keeps her

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Speaker 1: So I honestly I would have liked to actually see

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Speaker 4: So you know, Lori Harvey got that wop. So I

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Speaker 2: But like I said in that scene, sweet that Yeah,

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Speaker 1: More for Kylie to be in there just for numbers

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Speaker 4: Right, it did what it needed to do.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, shout out to the.

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Speaker 1: Women with the wet ass pussies. I know, Harry girl's

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Period, So let us know

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Speaker 1: Controversy I don't know today. Well, you know, I can't

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Speaker 1: in us or being messy and they talking about their

439
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,560
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend, like, man, that whole is weak, she couldn't

440
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 1: dress put that good or anything like that.

441
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:16,439
Speaker 4: But I won't lie.

442
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,080
Speaker 5: I don't like that, like I don't engage in them

443
00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,359
Speaker 5: type of conversations with niggas when I fuck with niggas

444
00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 5: like you're not about to see here in bad show

445
00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:24,360
Speaker 5: X to me, I don't even want to talk about

446
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:25,919
Speaker 5: the beach. I don't care you say you don't care

447
00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,879
Speaker 5: about the whole no more. We'll guess what we got

448
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,360
Speaker 5: something in common because I don't give a fuck about

449
00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 5: the hell neither. So we're not about to talk about her.

450
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 4: But honestly, that's a good point. That's the first red flag.

451
00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,919
Speaker 1: Why are you still talking about her about your ex right,

452
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,000
Speaker 1: because obviously you still care some way.

453
00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,480
Speaker 4: Because if you don't care, you're never gonna bring them up.

454
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:41,800
Speaker 1: Right.

455
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not even back to talk about that.

456
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 5: I think it's weird when women engage in them type

457
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,000
Speaker 5: of conversations with a man about they X and be

458
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,720
Speaker 5: laught and sitting there like because Bach, when he break

459
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 5: up with you, he gonna do the same thing with

460
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:54,639
Speaker 5: the next Beach talking about show is.

461
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Speaker 1: Exactly we actually just witnessed that happened this past weekend

462
00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 1: with somebody trying to Kiki Ki with a rapper laugh

463
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 1: trying to laugh at somebody.

464
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 5: Oh we did, but it's just like and looking stupid

465
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 5: and look how you got egg on your face, That's.

466
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 4: What I'm saying. So I feel like we should never

467
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,119
Speaker 4: sit around as women and laugh at because these niggas

468
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:20,239
Speaker 4: be lying to all of us.

469
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 5: But I don't know why beaches be thinking, oh he

470
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,360
Speaker 5: lying to her, but he ain't lying to me all

471
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 5: of us, girl, And I think I know that.

472
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 4: That's why I don't do that.

473
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 1: That's why Like I said, I don't engage in that

474
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 1: type of sheep because I know that these niggas be

475
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,120
Speaker 1: lying to all of us we're talking about to take

476
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 1: up for that nigga, he lying to you, he lying

477
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 1: to me, He lying up these other five beaches, lying

478
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 1: to everybody. He tells all of us that we specially

479
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,639
Speaker 1: he loves it right. But that's why I feel like

480
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: I respect the niggas so much, so much when like,

481
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 1: if we having a conversation, he's like, oh, what's your

482
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: when was the last.

483
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 4: Time your relationship?

484
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 1: Now, if we're asking we're talking about that, I'll be like, oh, yeah,

485
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship like two years ago.

486
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,479
Speaker 4: We broke up, but you know, we just don't talk anymore.

487
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 1: Leave it at that. And if he's the same way like, yeah,

488
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,440
Speaker 1: I was in this situation. It didn't work out. We

489
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,359
Speaker 1: just moved our steparate ways. Leave it at that, and

490
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 1: I never hear about it ever again. I can respect

491
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 1: a nigga like that because I'm like, you know what,

492
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 1: he's solid, So I know if we fall out, he's

493
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 1: not gonna be.

494
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Speaker 5: Out of your bad mouthing me. You know what I'm saying, Yeah,

495
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 5: Because I mean you ain't never bad mouth one of

496
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Speaker 5: your eggs.

497
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Speaker 4: Bro.

498
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Speaker 3: Honest to god, Bro, I don't even drop their names

499
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,159
Speaker 3: and nothing on God.

500
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 4: I don't feel I don't get that. I just wanted

501
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,639
Speaker 4: to know if he ever did it, but mature.

502
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 7: I mean, like, of course, like if somebody asked me,

503
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 7: Like if I'm with somebody and they asked me an

504
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 7: honest question, I'm gonna give you an honest answer, like

505
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,120
Speaker 7: how was she if she was trashed, I'm not gonna

506
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 7: but I'm like, hey, she did a lot of trash

507
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,919
Speaker 7: as ship. I ain't like right, I'm just being honest.

508
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 7: I'm not trying to be disrespectful. But at the same time,

509
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 7: I don't even like saying my ex's names.

510
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm the same way.

511
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 7: I don't know what type of dude I'll be messing with,

512
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 7: cause it's just I just feel like a lot of

513
00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 7: the stuff that you'all talk about when it comes to dudes,

514
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 7: it don't lot of.

515
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 4: All du Well, no, I honestly, I haven't dealt with

516
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 4: a dude like that in a long time. But I ain't.

517
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 4: But I have dealt with men like that before, and

518
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 4: I've been that girl, Like, well, what I said the same.

519
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 5: I like, oh yeah, because these one nigga in my life, y'all,

520
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 5: he talk about all the beachies that he sued to me,

521
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 5: So I know he be talking about me to people.

522
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 2: I know he do, because Messy clearly make licks incident.

523
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 4: Funny when we got to talk about your money.

524
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 7: Because I mean, I'm just saying, because all dudes like something,

525
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,439
Speaker 7: there's still codes out here. Believe it, there's still coldes

526
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 7: out here, like some ship some shit just ain't fly.

527
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 4: No, yeah, I get it.

528
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 1: But like I said, that's why, like you know, I

529
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: feel like with me, especially like we have a podcast.

530
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 4: We have a platform.

531
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times when men date

532
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: me or Drea, they probably thinking, like man, y'all on

533
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: this podcast talking shit about me and talking to First

534
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: of all, we tell the listeners what we want them

535
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: to know.

536
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 4: We give nicknames. You don't even know the time. Friend,

537
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 4: this is entertainment. Yeah, this is wop okay and pot

538
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 4: this is wopping podcast form. This is entertainment.

539
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: Like when I got something really going on with my nigga,

540
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: you think I'm about to get on here and talk

541
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: about it and like really be like you know what.

542
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 2: I'm saying or like people that are I agree with that.

543
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 4: I think when I.

544
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 1: When I'm really really fucking with a nigga, like really like,

545
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 1: I'd be like, it'd be fun because.

546
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 4: I don't talk.

547
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say we don't talk about it, but

548
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: I mean we say little stuff like oh when it's

549
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: serious in our life, like we seriously that we protect

550
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 1: it because I feel like that's what you do about

551
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: things that you care about, you know what.

552
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 5: I don't protect these to a certain extent. So everything

553
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 5: that we talk about is always like lightheartening. Its very

554
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 5: usually not something that were going through in.

555
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 4: The moment, you know what I mean.

556
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: And that's why, like going back to the topic of

557
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: like red flags, Like I said, I feel like sometimes

558
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: women like to feel you know, they like their ego stroke.

559
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 4: But I feel like men do as well. You know,

560
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 4: there's some women out.

561
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: There that be like, yeah, my ex was trash, he

562
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: ain't you, he could, he ain't had no money, he

563
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: broke he did he that.

564
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 4: Women do that too.

565
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: Niggas be letting that ship stroke that ego. But girls

566
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: be having a game too when it be working on

567
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: y'all niggas too. Yeah, because a lot of times I'm

568
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 1: not let me. I'm about to.

569
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 4: Give some games.

570
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: It's okay, sorry I am.

571
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 4: I'm about to give a little game right now.

572
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

573
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't tell, but I'm gonna go ahead and

574
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: tell it. A lot of times women would be like, yeah,

575
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: that nigga was cheap, he ain't buy me sheep, and

576
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: that don't try to make that new nigga feel some

577
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: type of way.

578
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 6: So he like, yeah, her old nigga.

579
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: Do this, not just say I said it. Yeah, I

580
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: don't got to do that no more. Now, God damn it.

581
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: I changed and women that do that are weak. How

582
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: are you gonna call me weak in my face?

583
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 4: I've changed it.

584
00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: Gonna sit up there and call your X week and another.

585
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't do that no more.

586
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: When I used to work in the club, though that

587
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: used to work, I noticed it worked because I'm like, yeah,

588
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: this nigga just came in here.

589
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 4: He just about like two bottles, like what you like?

590
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: I know, but I learned I applauded to my personal life,

591
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: and that's when I started getting I remember the first

592
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: time I did that, nigga and I got some Isabel Morons.

593
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 4: Remember Christy was ugly.

594
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 2: I have the for grow, I had the white ones.

595
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: I had the white and tan was bitch. I was like, yeah,

596
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: my ex NICGGA was tho cheap, but he used about

597
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: me nothing. He was like, ship, well I got you baby, Like,

598
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: you ain't have to worry about that.

599
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: I said, aren't you so glad we don't wear this

600
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 2: sheet no more?

601
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 4: Them shoes was a bad.

602
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: Very everybody had, but it was a bad bitch shoe

603
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 1: like you wasn't a bad bitch if you had Isabelle

604
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: Morn's bitch like. So that was like my first time.

605
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, okay, this game worked. But now

606
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: as an adult, like I don't have to do that.

607
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 5: I just be like, oh, this is what I want

608
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 5: and if you don't want to get it, I see

609
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 5: how you moving, And I'm a you know yeah, at

610
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 5: this point in my life, I'm definitely with the directorpproach

611
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 5: to thinks I'm always with a direct No, I've never

612
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 5: been like that. I'm always I've always been the type

613
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 5: of girl that I'll find a roundabout way to get

614
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 5: the things that i want. That's why I always I

615
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 5: think I said on the show, and I always say

616
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 5: like I don't really ask me this for sit but

617
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 5: I gotta way be.

618
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 4: Like, damn, I just broke my five thousand dollar computer. Yeah,

619
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 4: it shit like that.

620
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 5: Like I always find a roundabout way to get the

621
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 5: things that I want from me, and it always works

622
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 5: because I have a formula that works and I know

623
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 5: this is gonna work.

624
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 4: I got these time for choosing no person match. I

625
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: can't even wear them now.

626
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 5: But yeah, So it's like I never was a direct

627
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 5: approach type of girl because I always knew how to

628
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 5: get the things I wanted without asking. But now at

629
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 5: this point in life, I just feel like it's no

630
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 5: point to play games with people. Just ask for what

631
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 5: you want because you you waste so much time not

632
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 5: being direct. Because if you meet direct with people and

633
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 5: you tell them what you want, are you asking for

634
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 5: what you want either they gonna say no, where they

635
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 5: gonna say yes. If they say no, then you know, okay,

636
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 5: nine times out of ten, you ain't the nigga that

637
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 5: you ain't the type of nigga I want to deal with, right, You.

638
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 4: Know what I mean? And that's just what it is.

639
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 2: I just believe you need to be direct with people

640
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: at all time.

641
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: Direct direct, Oh yeah, I'm direct now, I don't care.

642
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: So you saying you feel like you didn't used to

643
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: be No, that's why I said this, like that's what

644
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: I used to do, like when I was younger. I

645
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: definitely used to do that now like I don't have

646
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: If you're gonna get me what, I won't cause I

647
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: don't have time. You know you're gonna give it to me.

648
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: You just want to play give me the ship, nigga.

649
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 4: Why do niggas do that?

650
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 5: Why they mean feel like they gotta be fucking with

651
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 5: you for a certain period of time or you gotta

652
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 5: prove yourselves.

653
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 4: I don't got time.

654
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: I don't want no nigga. They want me to prove

655
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: my stuff. Oh he do something for me?

656
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 4: Do it? Yeah? Not to around me.

657
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm on both sides of that. I'm the same.

658
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: I'm on both sides of this. I'm not gonna lie

659
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: because I'll say this. I think that it's messed up

660
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: when a girl be like, oh I want a bag

661
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: from this nigga, but you know, like you not playing

662
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,080
Speaker 1: it on having any.

663
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 4: Type of relationship with him at all. No, no, no,

664
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 4: no not, I'm not talking about you.

665
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: And that I'm just no because like I feel like

666
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 1: you would hang out with him, like you fuck with him,

667
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: like he cool, like y'all been cool for a long time.

668
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 4: But it's different from a.

669
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: Girl being like, oh, girl, i just met this nigga

670
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: in the club, and I'm about to ask him for

671
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: a bag because that's what I deserve.

672
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 4: Like that's cool, But I.

673
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 5: Think that's the lame. I'm not about to ask a

674
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 5: nigga for a bag the first day that I meet him.

675
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 4: But that's how girl. I think that, Like you're pushing

676
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 4: it is.

677
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: I mean, but you know, and you're messing up the

678
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: game because when niggas, when niggas buy a girl something.

679
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 4: And then she go ghost, he's not gonna do that

680
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 4: shit no more for no other beach.

681
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 7: But he shouldn't though, Like he shouldn't out the gate

682
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 7: no way, Like I do think if this is a girl,

683
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 7: a woman that you're into, she should show that she's

684
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 7: worthy of the bad man. Don't know, dude, one of

685
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 7: the women, that's the only thing you bring it to

686
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 7: the table, your appetite, don't know.

687
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: Man won't that period, But behind.

688
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 4: Is that all you bring it to the table.

689
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 3: Just because you want to beg Why do you just

690
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 3: want to bag?

691
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: What if she.

692
00:28:58,840 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 4: You just keep?

693
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 3: Why do you just want to bad?

694
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 4: If you just want a bad? Oh?

695
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: Well, from the situation, I mean like I'm I'm like

696
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: I said, I'm on both sides because I get what

697
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: you're saying.

698
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,239
Speaker 2: I get what I'm really I get what you're saying too.

699
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: Like we and you had this conversation this morning actually

700
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: before we got here. I said, it's so much better

701
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: to get shipp from a nigga that you fuck with

702
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: that you actually like, because it ain't gotta be no

703
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: type of finesse.

704
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not no finess.

705
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: Like when I go on a vacation with a nigga

706
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: that I like, that should just be so carefully like

707
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: it'd be so fun. Like that's why I said, fucking

708
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: with bdb's that you actually fuck with its different, Like

709
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to finesse nobody or I.

710
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 4: Have to feel like I got to spend time with

711
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 4: you to get that. I'm over that. I've been through that,

712
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 4: done that, been there, done that.

713
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not fun no more. Once you get older.

714
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 5: I almost thirty years old, Like I don't want to

715
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 5: waste time hanging around niggas, being around niggas that I

716
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 5: don't like.

717
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, I'm not about to hang

718
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 4: out with you for for a bag for a bag.

719
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 5: I can't do it if I can't tolerate you, Right,

720
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 5: I'm not a going to fuck you for something if

721
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 5: I can't really tolerate you. I just don't even want

722
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 5: to be in the same space with niggas that I

723
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 5: don't like. I feel like I did that shit in

724
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 5: my early twenties, Like I'm a grown ass woman.

725
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to now for the young girls listening, yeah.

726
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 5: For sure, but once you get older, yeah, like yeah,

727
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 5: Like I agree with you. I don't want to go

728
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 5: on no vacation. I don't want to go out the country.

729
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 5: I don't want to do none of that ship with

730
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 5: a nigga that I don't like.

731
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: And then to me, it feels so much better getting

732
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: like the materialistic things that I want from somebody that

733
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: I care about, You know what I'm saying, Because I

734
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: feel like at this point, you know, I'm not here

735
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: for the ship.

736
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 4: You know I'm here for you.

737
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm not going nowhere Like so, yeah,

738
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: that's all I feel about it.

739
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 4: How do we get on this topic.

740
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, we always go on a

741
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 5: tangent and somehow end up on Okay, but this is

742
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 5: actually good that we got into that because I wanted

743
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 5: to talk about I just want to talk about this

744
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 5: real quick before we get to the bed.

745
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 4: I want to talk about getting a gift for a

746
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 4: BDB brand. This is something that you might like, it's something.

747
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: New on the show talking about.

748
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: But we're talking about giving, you know, giving gift for

749
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: a man that has a lot or a man that

750
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: has everything.

751
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 4: Okay, you're actually good at You're a good gift giver.

752
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: I am.

753
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 5: But I feel like I'll say this, I feel like

754
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 5: when it comes to like your love language or whatever,

755
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: like if you're a person who likes to get gifts,

756
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 5: you like to give them to Like I like to

757
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 5: buy people gifts just as much as I like to

758
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 5: get gives.

759
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not gonna lie when I like a nigga,

760
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: I do be like I want to buy him this,

761
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: I want to buy him that, And I'll be like,

762
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm a little trick. I am a

763
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: little talking about I like to give. I'm a good

764
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: gift giver. You a truth, I do I do, like,

765
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: I'll be going to the store.

766
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 4: Liked it. I think he might like this. I'll just

767
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 4: pick it up real quick, I do. Do you do it?

768
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 5: You were making baskets and she I did make a

769
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 5: little basket for my bag, like the basket you made.

770
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 4: For your bed, because that's that's a good well.

771
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: He drinks a lot of wine and I'm always over

772
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: there drinking his wine.

773
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 4: So I made him like a big like wine basket

774
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 4: of all his wine that he likes.

775
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: And he drinks Dusan lemonade. So I put a little

776
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: person dou Sa in there with a little lemonade. It

777
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: was really cute and I like wrapped it up. Yeah,

778
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: it was like a little thoughtful gift. So I'm definitely

779
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: gonna I don't know, I just like giving it. Like

780
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: he likes candles, so I was like shopping one day

781
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, this candle smells good.

782
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: Let me buy him his candle. So I just like, randomly,

783
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: you know, get little stuff for him. But I like

784
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: doing stuff like that, So I feel like one we'll

785
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: say that little small things for bdbs just to know

786
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: that that you're thinking about them.

787
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 4: I think thought for thoughtful gifts, you thought.

788
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: I think that thoughtful gifts are key when he comes

789
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: to dealing with babbs for sure, like just because they.

790
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 4: Can literally buy anything.

791
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 5: That they want, So I feel like materialistic stuff, Like

792
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 5: I think it's stupid as fuck when b she's go

793
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 5: and buy a rich ass nigga or a nigga who

794
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 5: got a whole bunch of money a Gucci built and.

795
00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 4: She liked that.

796
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 5: He's like that nigga probably already got ten of them Bachies.

797
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 5: If he wanted this bill, he could go buy it.

798
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 5: That's meaningly to people like that. They really like thoughtful gifts.

799
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 5: Like one time I got this nigga a collage maid

800
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 5: of all of his kids for a Christmas bigage.

801
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 4: It was a big, big colagh. What is wrong with this?

802
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 4: A big galagh? Well, I said it was a big

803
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 4: collage because you know.

804
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 5: What anyway, anyway, so yeah, so like I had stole

805
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 5: some pictures from his house.

806
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 4: Not he runs through his house like a tomb raider.

807
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 5: It was the same nigga who house I was running

808
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 5: through like a tomb righter. Indeed, it was so, yes,

809
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 5: I stole some pictures from his house. He didn't well,

810
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 5: he know he ain't gonna say I stole him. He

811
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 5: knew I had. I was supposed to do something with him,

812
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 5: but I decided to get a collage maid or whatever

813
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 5: for him for Christmas, like with all of his kids

814
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 5: on the collage or whatever. And it was really really thoughtful.

815
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 5: And when I gave it to him on Christmas, he

816
00:33:59,160 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 5: damn near ship.

817
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 4: That's actually a good idea I might do that.

818
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: That was really touching, like he was like, he was like,

819
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: and then I had. I got him a card and

820
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: I wrote a hand written message in the card and

821
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm sending him full page letter and not in clothes

822
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: and with.

823
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 4: And when all right down he had up yet that

824
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 4: home time. I liked the little lad you did this.

825
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 4: I did.

826
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 6: To freaky m for the suggestion, but yes, so and.

827
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 5: I wrote him a handwritten little letter, I mean, you know,

828
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 5: inside of the card or whatever. And I gave it

829
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 5: to him and he was just like, I really appreciate these,

830
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 5: Like this was really so thoughtful and so nice. He

831
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 5: was like these some real sheet. He was like, I

832
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 5: don't be liking when people buy me material sheet because

833
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 5: I could buy and he actually told me, because I

834
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 5: could all this myself. He was a backa tell you

835
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 5: really put thought into these and you had to get

836
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 5: it made like a week or so in events, so

837
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 5: you really put.

838
00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 4: Thought into it. That's real. That's real.

839
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,839
Speaker 1: And I also feel like personalized things like I love

840
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: getting like things that can you can get like stuff

841
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 1: engraved on it, like their names, like personalized stuff.

842
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 5: And to get niggas thoughtful she too, because then every

843
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 5: time you look at it, you're gonna think about it, Beach,

844
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 5: even if I don't fuck with you no more, period,

845
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 5: every time you see this shit in his office, I

846
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 5: know he'd be like, damn, I missed that.

847
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 4: Wat.

848
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 7: I do agree with y'all saying, though, like thoughtful gifts

849
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 7: that gas means more, right, I agree, like, you know,

850
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 7: buying shoes and ship that shit cool.

851
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: But I don't know, like but nah, I will say

852
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: this now I've dated somebody like he's a he's a shoehead,

853
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, he's a shoe person.

854
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: So it's like, but I also try to mix in

855
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: stuff that he likes, you know what I'm saying, Like,

856
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: so it's okay to get some materialist sometimes like this

857
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: not a tie, yeah, yeah, something basic, but it's just

858
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: like you know, you can just add this to something

859
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: to like add to his collection, you know, little stuff

860
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: like that, Like that's okay, but you know you're not

861
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: supposed to buy a niggas shoes because it walk out

862
00:35:58,719 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: of your life.

863
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 4: That's the same you bought a nigga some shoes. Why

864
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 4: did you do that? I don't because I think that

865
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 4: he wanted them, so I got them. What did he

866
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 4: using to walk out your life? I kicked him out

867
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 4: of mind?

868
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: So all right, okay, so let us know if y'all

869
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: need help gifting your bd B because we have really

870
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: good suggestions, Like I think we both know we're well

871
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: versed in gifting bad well first.

872
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 4: Okay, so we're gonna get into the b A. You

873
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 4: want it today and you want beat record, I'm always

874
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,760
Speaker 4: on beat. That's questionable. Okay.

875
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 1: So today I wanted to talk about some ass pussy.

876
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh that's just the theme, but today's that's gonna be

877
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: the title episode.

878
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 4: Why Okay? So I wanted to talk about keegels.

879
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: We have never talked about keegels and the importance of

880
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,280
Speaker 1: keegels because.

881
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 4: A demonstration, so basically keel is.

882
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: When you're like you clinch your pussy muscles. So this

883
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: helps keep your pussy tight, keep your pussy right. So

884
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: let me ask you this.

885
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 4: Do you do your kegels like when you're having sex?

886
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 5: Yes, I do them when I'm having sex, and I

887
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 5: do them one I'm not.

888
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 4: Having six and I actually have balls. Okay, so I

889
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 4: don't have there. You got a strong ass pussy, she

890
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 4: got that.

891
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 2: Gorilla group, she got that sap the gap.

892
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 4: How much the balls weigh? About five pound? No, I

893
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 4: would say, like a pound. You got a buff ass pussy.

894
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 4: What the hell a pound?

895
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 5: I think both of them together. Probably I'm probably being dramatic.

896
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 5: It's probably not a pound, Like, how do you like

897
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 5: half that.

898
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:51,919
Speaker 6: Whole?

899
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 4: Got thin?

900
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 6: You be talking about Garfield?

901
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 5: Will everybody be saying that I have a Garfield too?

902
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 5: That motherfucker be bitch?

903
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 4: Press it too?

904
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 6: Fifty?

905
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 4: The fuck would with you? Legs? They good for you?

906
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna buy you something. Oh, I'm gonna buy

907
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 5: you something for your birthday.

908
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: Okay.

909
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 4: Talk to the girls about the waits because they're not waits.

910
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 5: But anyway, so you put them in and put them

911
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 5: inside of your vagina or whatever, everybody look.

912
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,959
Speaker 1: Like they're just balls. They're like this, is there something

913
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: attached to it so you can pull it out?

914
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: No, bitch, you can't just push it out your pussy.

915
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 4: I mean what if it gets.

916
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: No.

917
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 4: No, but like if you put a ball in there.

918
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 6: If you put a.

919
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: Ball in there, what if it just keeps going up,

920
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: legs go up where I don't know, things get lost,

921
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: It's gonna stop it, just like your service stop, dick.

922
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't lost the whole nigga in there before.

923
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: Probably Wait, so it's just a ball and nothing's attached

924
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: to the balls? Oh so you leave one out.

925
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: I like to wear both of them, but you can

926
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 2: only wear one if you want to wear one.

927
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 4: But anyways, you put it in. They're called like ben

928
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 4: wallballs or something like that, been wall.

929
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 5: And you put them in and it like strengthens your

930
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 5: pussy muscle. Okay, And you can wear them all day

931
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 5: or you can wear them for a few hours. They

932
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 5: don't hurt, so you really forget they in.

933
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 4: So you just squeeze your pussy while they're in there

934
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 4: because you gotta keep them in. Yes, so you can

935
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 4: just do like the exercise. Okay, So how often do

936
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 4: you do this?

937
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 5: I really don't do it that often anymore. When I

938
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 5: first got them, I used to wear them like every day.

939
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 5: I used to put them in every day. Now I

940
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 5: don't really be putting them in maybe like once a

941
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 5: week or whenever I remember.

942
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 4: But I feel like my pussy real strong now.

943
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 2: No, I don't put it in the word so I

944
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: don't really need to wear them like that.

945
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 4: No, well, I'll say this. I feel like, why you something?

946
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 4: I'm serious?

947
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I mean I thought that I was

948
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 1: doing goods doing my like sometimes when I'm sitting here

949
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,359
Speaker 1: while I'm talking to y'all.

950
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 4: Right now, I'm doing kegels right now. I'm doing them

951
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 4: right now. It doesn't take long to do kegels, like

952
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 4: I feel like ladies just screech. It's very discreet. Now,

953
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 4: don't squeeze too hard. You might slip. Let one slip.

954
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 6: What's what.

955
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 4: A part? I'm kidding up? Geese, I was confused.

956
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, so I do kegos in the morning

957
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: sometimes when I'm just like laying in my bed and

958
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: you don't need to do like a lot a lot

959
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: like you don't want to wear that pussy out.

960
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 4: This is so, so you do your kegos.

961
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,959
Speaker 1: You could do like I probably do like fifteen or twenty.

962
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't really count. I just be doing them sometimes.

963
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like when you do kegels a lot,

964
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: the more that you do them.

965
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 4: Okay, I see that, but they do, but I didn't know.

966
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 4: But they do have the ones. I need ones.

967
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: I need the ones with the stream because it's pussy

968
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: be hungry. Yeah, I'm pussy to be hungry this one.

969
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, I do kegos in the morning. Like if

970
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting there doing something, doing nothing and I

971
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: think about it, I'll do them. I feel like doing

972
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: keigos during sex makes that nigga feel.

973
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,879
Speaker 5: So good, like niggas a look at you too, because

974
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 5: they be feeling this shit grib they be filling that

975
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,320
Speaker 5: gorilla grip. So yes, like keiggles are so important, Like

976
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 5: I agree, I need to do like I can't believe

977
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 5: we've never talked about this, because you can't believe we

978
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 5: ever we never talked about these.

979
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: Like kiggles are so much, so much better. Like if

980
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: you put pull that keggle out on him, he gonna nut.

981
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 4: Very very quick.

982
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: So if you like fucking nigga and he's taking too

983
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: long or nut, pull out them kegels hone. You know

984
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: I love to hit a nigga with a kegel.

985
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 4: I need mind. Oh, I shouldn't talk about that.

986
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: On Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. So we're gonna get

987
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: into the bop up the week. So clearly, clearly the

988
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: bop of the week is and that's both of our.

989
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 4: Give me everything you got pussy.

990
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to chant on my card.

991
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 4: Freak, that's all I know. I ain't learned the lyric ship, I.

992
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,439
Speaker 2: Ain't like the lyrics. And Tiffany said that been trying

993
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 2: to learn the choreography.

994
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 1: I know that part Maconie in the Pot, but it's

995
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: ass pussy. Yeah, so wop is obviously the BAP of

996
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 1: the week. Now I want to say run down for

997
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: I have a nigga running me ooh and that's on period.

998
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 1: We haven't talked about this album. Teianna Taylor's album was

999
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: actually really good. We did talk about it. I remember

1000
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: we talked about it. Oh yeah you did, so we

1001
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: haven't We still haven't really talked. Yeah yeah, yeah, so

1002
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: I actually because I was listening to a few bops

1003
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: off of.

1004
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 5: That over here eating this fucking chicken sandwich and I'm

1005
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 5: hungry here and then she looked good as fud I'm

1006
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 5: fucking dead.

1007
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's I've Honestly, I've been jamming it really,

1008
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: really hard. So shout out to Taiana Taylor again. It's

1009
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: a long album. That's why I didn't finish it.

1010
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 4: It is a long album.

1011
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: It's a very long album. It's twenty three songs. It's

1012
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: an hour. It's like an hour.

1013
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 4: I got you getting thirty minutes out of.

1014
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: Me, honestly, but I finally finished it, and the last

1015
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: song she has with Lauren Hill, I actually really really

1016
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: enjoyed it.

1017
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 4: I like that. Damn. I made it to the end.

1018
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 4: It's called We Got I Love.

1019
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: So I wanted to make that my second bop of

1020
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: the week because yeah, I finished the album finally, and

1021
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: so yeah, shout out to Tayanna Taylor We Got Love

1022
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: featuring Lauren Hill.

1023
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 4: What you been listening to? Marine?

1024
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 3: Are you familiar with Young Blue?

1025
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: No?

1026
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: Urena always putting us on the new news.

1027
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel like he'd be trying to shout

1028
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 2: out he's potting.

1029
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: I never heard he was trying to plug his friend

1030
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,439
Speaker 1: she because I'd be like, hold on, Marine, I ain't never.

1031
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 4: Heard of none of these, motherfucker.

1032
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: I never heard of Young Blue.

1033
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 4: Now, okay he has that your friend.

1034
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 7: Well, I actually had a chance to interview, well, shout

1035
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 7: out to Young Blue. He had the song ice on

1036
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 7: My Baby?

1037
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 4: What kept?

1038
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 3: I just put some ice on y'all?

1039
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 4: Never heard y'all never heard of root?

1040
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: No?

1041
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 4: Oh wow?

1042
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 7: Well he actually has an artist signed to him by

1043
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 7: the name of Baby Bee. She's a female artist and

1044
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 7: she has a song called do You Better?

1045
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 4: And I could say that she's a rapper.

1046
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 3: She's a singer.

1047
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 4: Singer, Okay, she.

1048
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: Girl.

1049
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 4: Hold on now, ain't nobody like me.

1050
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: Marin always coming through with the R and B star

1051
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: with her name is baby Bee.

1052
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 4: Baby Be.

1053
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 3: She has a song called do You Better.

1054
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 7: It's a song it's been out for a minute, but

1055
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 7: it's been slowly growing on me. But if y'all don't

1056
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 7: know who Young Blue is, y'all tripping. He's like one

1057
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 7: of the biggest independent artists.

1058
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 3: Like honestly, oh really, Young Young Blue is like out here.

1059
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 3: If he doesn't show in Atlanta, the most likely.

1060
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 2: Speaking of Far and B, I forgot I do got

1061
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 2: another vibe. So I'm listening to snow allig.

1062
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 6: Like, oh are you late, my girl, that's my girl.

1063
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say I'm late, but I'm just saying I've

1064
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 5: been knowing about her, but I just really started listening.

1065
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 4: You didn't take the time to listen, right, and she

1066
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 4: got this.

1067
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 2: Song dying for Your Love.

1068
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 4: The taste The taste jumped out. I never like your

1069
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 4: of the week? First of all, how do you never

1070
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 4: like we listen to a similar shit? No every week, Dre'

1071
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 4: be like my bop of the week is hot, like

1072
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 4: Bling by Dre.

1073
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 2: Because it's so we do not say that every week,

1074
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 2: because Drake can't even came out.

1075
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 1: With no music since May. But he was like two

1076
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: weeks ago Greece was it was, it was, it was

1077
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: so don't be trying to play me. But it was

1078
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: just because he sounded like the weekend.

1079
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: You'll be liking him with some of my bibs.

1080
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: Okay, but yeah that's a good one. Yeah, So y'all

1081
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: like that shout up to a little snow Allegra. So

1082
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the questions this week. If you

1083
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: want your questions answered on the show, make sure you

1084
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1085
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: That's as K P O you are in my n

1086
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 1: DS dot com. Thank y'all so much for keeping it

1087
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: to a paragraph.

1088
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 4: Lately.

1089
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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna skip this one because I feel like

1090
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: that's something you need to do on Patreon. So I'm

1091
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 1: gonna go to this one. Okay, it says please don't

1092
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: say my name, y'all. Don't be wanting to be saying,

1093
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 1: so it says, okay, y'all. So I see y'all like

1094
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 1: my big sisters, and I need some advice. I'm gonna

1095
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: make it short. I'm twenty two in the Air Force,

1096
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: beginning out soon to start my own businesses. I've been

1097
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: dating this guy for over a year and he is

1098
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: my heart. When we first got together, he cheated and

1099
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: I was in a low place so I stayed.

1100
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 6: Well.

1101
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: We made it through all that, but now he is broken.

1102
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm kind of over it. Granted, he does do everything

1103
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: else right, but I wish he had more money. The

1104
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: dick is bomb. He treats me good, supports me, motivates me.

1105
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: He has just completely turned around. Should I stick it

1106
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 1: out until he gets his feet or go find gets

1107
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: on his feet or go find me a BDB.

1108
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 4: He just got a job, but he has no car.

1109
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 4: And lives with me.

1110
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: He just kind of hit a rough patch in life.

1111
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 1: Now she's twenty two. Now, I'm not gonna say I'm surprisingly.

1112
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say leave, because people go through shit

1113
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: at life, especially when you're young.

1114
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 4: You're so young.

1115
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: Now, if he was thirty and y'all was thirty, that'd

1116
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: be different. Now he has a job now, so he

1117
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 1: definitely needs to be contributing. He definitely needs to be

1118
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: contributing now.

1119
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 4: He has a job.

1120
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 1: But it's hard to find a man out here that's

1121
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: gonna treat you right and love you and do right

1122
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 1: by you. See it really is, so I would get

1123
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 1: it right, didn't She say he cheated all? But she

1124
00:46:58,040 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: said now he's acting right.

1125
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 4: Sometimes it takes it's a whid for people to get right.

1126
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 5: I agree, but the I feel the opposite of what

1127
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 5: you said. And for the reason that, like you said,

1128
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 5: she's twenty two.

1129
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 4: But she says she loves him.

1130
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 2: But you're twenty two. You gonna love a lot of

1131
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: niggas if you go and date some more.

1132
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 4: That is true.

1133
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 5: It's twenty two. I thought I was in love with

1134
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 5: the nigga. I was fucking weed, and now I don't

1135
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 5: even give a fuck about that nigga. I don't know

1136
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 5: what he even doing with his life right now. It's

1137
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 5: just like, if you keep going on and you date

1138
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 5: more people, I feel like at twenty two, that is

1139
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 5: not the time in your life to settle for anything.

1140
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: Now.

1141
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 5: That's why I said, you are in your prime twenty two.

1142
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,959
Speaker 5: You are in your prime. You grown, but you're still

1143
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 5: young as fucked. If you went to college, you just

1144
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 5: not graduating from college like you probably just not about

1145
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 5: to get your first apartment and shit or you know

1146
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 5: what she said, she in an air force.

1147
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:48,359
Speaker 4: I forgot.

1148
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 5: She said, she was in the air force. But it's

1149
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 5: just like, you young, live your life. You haven't even

1150
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 5: reached your me. But I was like this, but you wouldn't.

1151
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: Like the thing is with that is no, because sometimes

1152
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: if it depends on your happiness, are you happy saying.

1153
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 5: It's from a place of love, because as somebody that

1154
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 5: was twenty two and I feel like I was dating

1155
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 5: a nigga at the time.

1156
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 4: That's why I'm talking about that situation that I thought

1157
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 4: that I was.

1158
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 2: Really in love with.

1159
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 5: I literally used to let sheet that he would do

1160
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 5: slide all the time because I thought he was so

1161
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 5: I was so in love with him and I literally

1162
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 5: wasted like three years of my life only fucking with

1163
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 5: him when I was in my prime.

1164
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 1: Well, this is coming from the cheater. Now, I do say,

1165
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: I don't think you shouldn't necessarily just leave.

1166
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 4: And me bro girl by. But she said he has

1167
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 4: a job now, so he needs to be contributing. But

1168
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 4: like I said, you can still keep your options open.

1169
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 5: And see that's where me and Lex differ because I'm

1170
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 5: a person who I feel like, if you don't, if

1171
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 5: you're not gonna be faithful in a relationship, get out.

1172
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 2: Of the sheet.

1173
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 5: Who said that, that's gonna tell your ass the cheat,

1174
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 5: And that's never gonna be the advice that I give.

1175
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you gonna cheat on somebody, don't

1176
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 2: do no tip for test sheet.

1177
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 4: That's not a tip for test it's just what you want.

1178
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, he cheated, but then it's like, so you don't

1179
00:48:59,440 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: go and cheat.

1180
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm not saying for her to go and cheat, but

1181
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: it's okay to keep your options open. Maybe sometimes you

1182
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: gotta dip your butt in the water, see what other

1183
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: niggas talk about before you jump off.

1184
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: But keeping your options open is cheating. No don't cheat.

1185
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,879
Speaker 5: But I do feel like y'all know, y'all probably knew

1186
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 5: I was gonna say these, y'all say, I always.

1187
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: Say lead then leave. Leave because you're young and you're pretty. Yeah,

1188
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: you are pretty. You sent us a picture like you're

1189
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 1: a pretty girl, and you got that good hair, browns

1190
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: home fleet and looking at him, he don't even got

1191
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: a haircut. Because no, like I said, I say about

1192
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: what I said, don't necessarily leave, but I would give

1193
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: it a time limit, like he can't just be living

1194
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: off for you, like you gotta make something shake like soon,

1195
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: I'll say, like give him.

1196
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 4: Like three four months, like drive gotta get Yeah, I.

1197
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: Like niggas like honestly, I've been in that situation where

1198
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: I was up and the nigga was down, but he

1199
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: wasn't down for long, but I held him down during

1200
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: that time and when he came up, we was good

1201
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 1: and everything was fun and it was lit. So that's

1202
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: why I said, now you if it's been like a year, no,

1203
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: but I'll say, you know, you gotta give a little

1204
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: nigga some time three four months, but.

1205
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 4: After that, you got to go.

1206
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, like I said, sees my advice is

1207
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 2: you young?

1208
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 4: You on your set?

1209
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 5: Obviously leave that nigga ben Lee, and then if he

1210
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 5: get his shit together, then he could try to.

1211
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 4: Come back if you love him that much.

1212
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: This is the one I thought, Okay, yeah, yeah, okay,

1213
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 1: Hey lex Andrea, please keep me anonymous.

1214
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 2: You can call me Amber. So I'm twenty one.

1215
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 5: I have lots of guys trying to get at me

1216
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 5: on Instagram, and I'm very picky and like generous niggas.

1217
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 2: I'm in college.

1218
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 5: I haven't been doing anything too crazy yet, but I

1219
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 5: do feel like I'm missing out on some of these

1220
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 5: dudes that do seem like they got it, but I'm

1221
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 5: too scared to go for it. Before university, I was

1222
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,879
Speaker 5: fucking with this nigga that I want to say I'm over,

1223
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 5: but whenever he slips into town again, I always end

1224
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 5: up fucking with him and keep talking to him. After two,

1225
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 5: I want to start meeting new niggas and be on

1226
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 5: some real sheep. I would love some tips from y'all

1227
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 5: because my friends just always be trying to tell me

1228
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 5: to be in a relationship with him. But this nigga

1229
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 5: lives in Europe and I can't do long distance, and

1230
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 5: he's not what I want for real. I want to

1231
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 5: move the fuck on.

1232
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: It's summer and I'm ready to pussy pop love a

1233
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 2: loyal listener.

1234
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,919
Speaker 1: First of all, girl, Okay, if you got niggas getting

1235
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: at you on Instagram and in real life, see and

1236
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: you're cute.

1237
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 2: We love when y'all seen this. She is really cute

1238
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 2: by skin till you have really nice.

1239
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: So it's crazy because I feel like a lot of

1240
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: women they feel scared of what. You don't have anything

1241
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: to be scared of, especially because you're young.

1242
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 4: You bad.

1243
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: You gotta realize when these niggas be wanting to come

1244
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: and spend money, they want you.

1245
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 4: You're young, You're the bad one. You the one that

1246
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 4: they want to have on they arm. So don't be scared.

1247
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 6: Go out there and just get it.

1248
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 4: It's fun.

1249
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: They gonna take you on trips, they gonna take you

1250
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: the nice whatever you want from a bd B.

1251
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 5: That's what I always say, you should get so and

1252
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say this too. I feel like we get

1253
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,720
Speaker 5: into I guess me and Lex getting the auntie age.

1254
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 5: We all y'all young as fuck.

1255
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 4: Twenty one.

1256
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't been twenty one and eight years A

1257
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 2: long time.

1258
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, it's been a long time, long time.

1259
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 2: So it's like, y'all young as fuck.

1260
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 5: I just really and I get it because now I

1261
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 5: feel like, now that I'm at the age that I'm at,

1262
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 5: I'm realizing what my mama and my aunts Neil used

1263
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 5: to be telling me about just being young and living

1264
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 5: your life and having mon Because it's like now me

1265
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 5: and Lex can look back and be like, Damn, when

1266
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 5: I was twenty one, if I knew what I know now,

1267
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 5: I would have moved so differently, you know what I mean.

1268
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 4: So I just be I just think, y'all'll be thinking to.

1269
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: D and Okay, you're twenty one, take that trip, right,

1270
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: go to that dinner, the money, who he's weighing? You're

1271
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: up whenever he whenever you can see him, see him.

1272
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: But other than that, you are single, live your life

1273
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: and have fun. But it's so many beatb's out here

1274
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: and they coming at you on the ground.

1275
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1276
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 5: So yeah, I feel like you and you got time,

1277
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 5: Like let said, just live your life, you know what

1278
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 5: I mean. I can honestly say that's one thing that

1279
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 5: I definitely used to move when I was younger. I

1280
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 5: used to live the fuck out of my life, and

1281
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 5: it's probably why I'm not as far along as I

1282
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 5: probably should be in life, because I wasn't taking she serious.

1283
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: Everything happens for a reason. God's timing is always right,

1284
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: because look at us now, who would have thought?

1285
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 3: Who?

1286
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: Who would have thought? Okay, so let me get to

1287
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 1: the next one. Okay, Heydrea and lex you can call

1288
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: me Stephanie. So I'm in the midst of securing a BDB.

1289
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm in my early twenties, recently graduated college, and I'm

1290
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: an engineer. So I used to date regular guys, then

1291
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: I moved up to the petty scammers, and now I

1292
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: found a real BEDB girl.

1293
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 4: You swear you me.

1294
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: And me?

1295
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 4: I love I used to love me a scammer, that's what. No,

1296
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 4: that's I was talking about you. Okay.

1297
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: He's a pretty big music and we met on Instagram

1298
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: and he's fine, fine, y'all, Like I'm fine. But he's

1299
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: up there with me lamao, which makes me hesitant to

1300
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: push it with asking for things because I know he

1301
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: has options. We've been texting for a couple months now

1302
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,479
Speaker 1: and he's begging me to come see him. I said,

1303
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 1: book the flight, and he responded with a heart emoji.

1304
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 4: The fuck.

1305
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: My question is do I wait to be offer the flight,

1306
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 1: wait until we link up to build a bond to

1307
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: get more stuff. And also, if I do fly out

1308
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: to him, would you suggest I get my own hotel

1309
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: or stay with him? Don't know if I want to

1310
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 1: have sex on the first link. Also, this will be

1311
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: my first ever fluid out situation, so throw in some

1312
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: tips if you like.

1313
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 4: Damn, this was a good one. Go ahead, preach to

1314
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,280
Speaker 4: the girl, cause this is crazy.

1315
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: She asked him for a flight and he sent a

1316
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: heart emoji, and he fine, and he's successful.

1317
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 4: He's trying to play you, s.

1318
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 5: I would ask for the flight at these points because

1319
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 5: you already said it, because you already said it, and

1320
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 5: he said the heart emoji. So just to get she

1321
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 5: squared away, I would just directly be like, hey, I

1322
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 5: really want to come see you, or are you gonna

1323
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 5: book my flight? And see what he say, and then

1324
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 5: you will know how to move forward. If he say no, bitch,

1325
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 5: don't fuck with that nigga no more. And then if

1326
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,839
Speaker 5: he do say yes, and you do what you feel

1327
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 5: is comfortable. I mean, it's been times where I done

1328
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 5: flew out to see people and I wanted my own

1329
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 5: room or I didn't want to stay with them, you.

1330
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 4: Know what I mean.

1331
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 2: So if you want a hotel room, get a hotel room,

1332
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 2: but that nigga needs to.

1333
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Speaker 1: Pay for it, you yo don't need to pay one

1334
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 1: red cent because obviously he's slid in your DMS.

1335
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 4: He's trying to talk to you. He's the one with

1336
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 4: the bag, you say, let me tell you something.

1337
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: All in all, this trip would probably maybe cost him

1338
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:50,439
Speaker 1: maybe one thousand dollars if that that's if he gets

1339
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: you a really nice hotel, it's probably for the weekend,

1340
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 1: so it probably ain't even gonna be that much. So

1341
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 1: if a nigga be trying to low ball a bitch,

1342
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: flights is sixty dollars right now, and that's on comfort place.

1343
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 5: But that's what me and Lex we always trying to

1344
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 5: tell y'all and put out there. They're like men gonna

1345
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 5: always try to do the bare minimum if you let them,

1346
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 5: they're gonna try to always do the bare minimum with

1347
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 5: the least amount that they think they gotta do to

1348
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 5: get some pussy.

1349
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 2: That's always what they're gonna do.

1350
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 5: And if they feel like you impressed by little sheet,

1351
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 5: then it's all that they and that's what I was

1352
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 5: about to say too. That's why when she said that,

1353
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 5: I said, I don't like find niggas. I like, well,

1354
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 5: my nigga is super fine, but he's different. Your nigga

1355
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 5: is fine, but it took a while for y'all to

1356
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 5: get took a while. But like I said, that's what

1357
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 5: we're getting at about a different age now and she

1358
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 5: at a different shoe. But it's just like, that's the

1359
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 5: thing about find niggas.

1360
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 2: Understand, when I think about it, it's a word that

1361
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 2: I ever done fucked with.

1362
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 5: I don't always got the most out of niggas that

1363
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 5: were average looking, fine niggas be thinking that they really

1364
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 5: don't need to do she they be fine.

1365
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: It's slang big and it's just like, no, it's not

1366
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 2: a mother.

1367
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:55,399
Speaker 4: For me at least.

1368
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,439
Speaker 1: No, it's definitely not. It's definitely not like I said,

1369
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 1: I everage. They got to pay the play, but you should.

1370
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 1: I My question is, let me read it again. Do

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00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: I wait to be offered the flight?

1372
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 4: Yes?

1373
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 5: No, she needs to ask him about the flight because

1374
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 5: she already said something about it.

1375
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 4: He shits that right, so she already said something about it.

1376
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 2: She needs to ask him, okay, like, Hey, I really

1377
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 2: want to come see you.

1378
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 4: Are you going to book my Okay? Put it like that.

1379
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: You're right, so yeah, you need to make like ask again,

1380
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: just be like, what's up with my flight type shit?

1381
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 4: Wait until we link up to build a bond to

1382
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 4: get more stuff? What's up? What have he got you already?

1383
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 2: Did she say that?

1384
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 4: No she ain't. He ain't.

1385
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 2: He ain't got what you mean, more stuff? You need

1386
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:37,439
Speaker 2: to get one thing first.

1387
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: Niggas is not trying to build no bond. Don't give

1388
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 1: him no pussy either. Don't give him no pussy. I

1389
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: feel like niggas that don't get him no pussy? It sis,

1390
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: would you suggest I get my own hotel or stay

1391
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: with him? If you stay with him, he's gonna press

1392
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: you for the pussy. So it just depends where y'all

1393
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 1: are at in y'all situation. I don't know where y'all

1394
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: are at, But if you stay with him, he gonna

1395
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 1: want that pussy.

1396
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 4: He is like niggas.

1397
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 5: That's one thing about it. When you go on a

1398
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 5: trip with a nigga, he gonna try to get the pussy.

1399
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 5: If y'all staying in the same hotel room.

1400
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 4: It's just like I'm not gonna lie.

1401
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: Like when I went to Legos, like I told him,

1402
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: like Nigerian Bay, I was like, I want my own

1403
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: hotel room.

1404
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 4: But when I got there, I was having so much

1405
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 4: one you wanted to get it pussy.

1406
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: Oh. By the time I got there and I seen

1407
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: how everything was said, I said, oh, baby, I don't want.

1408
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: No hotel room, a freak, a free code, a good time.

1409
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 4: Shout out to Nigerian Bay. Yeah, so let's move on.

1410
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 4: Let's move on.

1411
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: Next question, next question, this one, right, yeah, okay, last one,

1412
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: last one, y'all.

1413
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 5: This is the last question, y'all. She said, my boyfriend

1414
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 5: wants to go celibates. Hey, ladies, love y'all. So, my

1415
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 5: Christian boyfriend of two years, who I'm head over heels

1416
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 5: in love with, is contemplating celibacy. Our sex is bomb

1417
00:58:55,680 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 5: and we're horny. And although he's very considerate and his

1418
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 5: time to decide and talk about it with me and

1419
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 5: how I feel, I can't let him. I can't tell

1420
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 5: him how to follow his faith. At the end of

1421
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 5: the day, it's up to him. I'm not about to

1422
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 5: leave him for it, as I'll never find somebody as fine, thoughtful, loyal,

1423
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 5: smart and ambitious. He is one of a kind, truly.

1424
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 5: But the thought of no more sex until marriage is

1425
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 5: really uncomfortable for me, and nothing I ever expected from

1426
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 5: my life, considering that I'm not that religious. I'm literally nineteen.

1427
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 5: I'm literally nineteen. He's twenty one. So there's so much

1428
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 5: life ahead of me, and I'm worried it will change us.

1429
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 2: We're very stable, and I.

1430
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 5: Want to be with him but for real, for real.

1431
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 5: I mean I want to be with him for real,

1432
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 5: for real and have his babies.

1433
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 4: But what the fuck?

1434
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: How do y'all feel? And how would you approach the situation?

1435
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 4: Keep killing it?

1436
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: Then she said, hey, y'all.

1437
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 5: Hopefully y'all haven't got to my question yet, but I

1438
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 5: just wanted to add the fact that we're still having sex.

1439
00:59:58,200 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 5: He said, for now, we're gonna limit it, but the

1440
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 5: decision is still to be made, so you can imagine

1441
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 5: my confusion.

1442
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 4: I'mn'na let you go first, So this is what I say.

1443
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: First of all, Oh, girl, you nineteen, You're probably not

1444
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 1: gonna be with this nigga about five six, I'm gonna

1445
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: I never find somebody, but but but but let me

1446
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 1: say this, so you can't just throw everybody knowing the dumpster.

1447
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: But this is a decision for that he wants to

1448
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: do for himself. Now he wants to wait until marriage.

1449
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: Is he planning on marrying you sometime soon? Because you're

1450
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: talking about marriage? Are we doing this for us? Because

1451
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: at this point, if you want to, if you're talking

1452
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: about marriage, then you must be including me because we

1453
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: are a union at this point. Because you're trying to

1454
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: make a decision for me because you're not having sex

1455
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: means I can't have sex.

1456
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 4: So you're including me in this decision.

1457
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: Of not having sex, you gotta be including me on

1458
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: that decision of getting married.

1459
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 4: As well, because right now it's just the path for

1460
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 4: you exactly.

1461
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: But if you're trying to include me on this path,

1462
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: because if he's not having sex, that means she can't

1463
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: have sex.

1464
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 4: So if you're waiting to get married, that means you're

1465
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 4: marrying me. So when we get married, where where my rien?

1466
01:00:58,840 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 2: While engaged?

1467
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 1: So I feel like if he's asking you for that

1468
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: big of a commitment, that's a big commitment.

1469
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 4: Where's my ring? Hmmm?

1470
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 2: I agree?

1471
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 4: I agree with you.

1472
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 5: I feel like, yeah, like if I had a ring

1473
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 5: on my finger and we was engaged, I would be

1474
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 5: I would feel more obligated to go along with these

1475
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 5: cause it's kind of like, Okay, you want to be

1476
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 5: celling it till we get married.

1477
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: But we engaged, y'all know we're gonna get married, probably

1478
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: in like a year or whatever.

1479
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 4: I could.

1480
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can not have cause I

1481
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 2: like the book.

1482
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like the ride. I can spend around and

1483
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 4: keep it dick still inside same.

1484
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 5: But yeah, I like to have sex, honestly, y'all, I

1485
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 5: really do. So it's just like six years, I mean

1486
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,439
Speaker 5: a year not having sex with somebody, cause y'all trying

1487
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 5: to wait till a marriage.

1488
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 2: We gonna have to go to the courthouse.

1489
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: You put that ring on the See how fast Russell

1490
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: took Sierra to the courthouse. He said, we don't have

1491
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: a sex to marriage, but we get married them all.

1492
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: Right, Like we're gonna have to go to the courthouse tomorrow.

1493
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 4: Like that's fine.

1494
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 5: But I think those are conversations like, let's on some

1495
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 5: adult shit on some real she could y'all know we

1496
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 5: be joking some times about y'all, but I think that

1497
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 5: that's a conversation that y'all really do need to have

1498
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 5: are you?

1499
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 4: Do you plan on marrying me? Do you plan on

1500
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 4: marrying me? Okay?

1501
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 5: If so, win because I'm cool with that and I'm

1502
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 5: cool with you not wanting to have sex to a marriage.

1503
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 5: But are you trying to marry me? Because if not,

1504
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 5: then what the fuck? I'm not about to not have

1505
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 5: sex for six months?

1506
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,439
Speaker 1: When y'all get to Heaven, the Lord gonna be like, well,

1507
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: I've seen you fucked on and then how.

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01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 2: Serious is he really?

1509
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 5: Because you sent us an update because we hadn't read

1510
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 5: y'all message, Ye, so you sent us another messic.

1511
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 4: He's still beating them cakes up right, So how.

1512
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 2: Serious is he really? He ain't really for the Lord? Girl,

1513
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 2: He for the streets.

1514
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 4: Don't say that? Okay.

1515
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: If y'all want y'all questions answer on the show, make

1516
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: sure y'all email us at ask poor Minds at gmail

1517
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: dot com.

1518
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1519
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Speaker 4: all the good times.

1520
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Speaker 1: Let me also say this, we drop bonus content every

1521
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Speaker 1: Friday or Saturday every week. We drop bonus content every week.

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Speaker 1: But on top of that, I've started a new show,

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Speaker 1: So I asked y'all. If y'all wanted to meet to

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Speaker 1: do reviews on Real Housewives of Potomac or Pea Valley, y'all,

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01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: most of y'all said Pea Valley. So I've started watching

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01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: Pea Valley. I'm gonna start from episode one. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: start this after my birthday. So my birthday is August seventeenth,

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01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna probably drop these on like Tuesdays or Wednesdays.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, on the Patreon.

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01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna start doing like little ten fifteen minute

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01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,439
Speaker 1: videos of me talking about each episode of Pea Valley.

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01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: Pea Valley is a series on Stars, so if you

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Speaker 1: watch it, make sure you subscribe to the Patreon because

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01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be doing weekly reviews on this. Y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I used to work in the strip club, and I

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Speaker 1: have so much to say about this show.

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01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 4: Because it's not telling me too.

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01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 5: But I feel like they was coming under our shit

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01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 5: saying we needed to start watching Pea Valley and everybody

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Speaker 5: be talking about how good it is.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna start watching it today. Yeah, maybe we can

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Speaker 4: do the reviews together.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna start watching it today, so everybody keep saying

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01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 5: how good, No, no.

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01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 4: I watched the first episode already. It was very good.

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Speaker 1: And one thing about me, Like I said, I loved

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01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 1: about the Strip Club. It's about the Strip Club. It's

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01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: about the Strip Club. It's about the Shake Life period.

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Speaker 1: And y'all know I used to be in the Shake

1550
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: Life for real, for real. If y'all know you was

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Speaker 1: a Shaker, the Patreon listeners know, they know about Little London.

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01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 4: Hen so if y'all know like I.

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01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: Was jail over Beha, you know what I'm saying.

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01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: So I feel like I really want to talk about

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01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: the Shake Life compared to the show and how realistic

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Speaker 1: it is.

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01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 4: And I love I love.

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Speaker 1: Seeing black shows, whatever, black movies, I love to support it.

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01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: So anybody I can get to watch this. So make

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Speaker 1: sure y'all start watching Pea Valley on stars.

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01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 4: I'm about to do.

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01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 1: We're about to do reviews on our Patreon for that.

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01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get some merch. The lincols in the.

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01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 4: Bio y'all want to fuck, y'all gonna be buying no merch.

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01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 4: I spent a lot of time designing that she did,

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01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 4: and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Really upset that y'all let my girl differences go away.

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01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 4: It's all right, though it's upsetting me and my home girl,

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01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 4: but they're doing the Patreon is doing very well, is

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Speaker 4: doing well.

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Speaker 1: We with y'all.

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Speaker 2: We see y'all.

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01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, we did a live zoom call about two

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, so we're gonna work on another one for y'all.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna do that again soon. We wanted to be.

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Speaker 2: Something that we do consistently.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So thank y'all so much for anything that I

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Speaker 1: was about to ask you about anything to add.

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Speaker 4: I don't got nothing to add, but you don't. I don't.

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Speaker 5: I hope you don't think you're not about to sing

1581
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 5: a song? What am I gonna say about with a song?

1582
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Speaker 5: Because you've been.

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Speaker 2: Doing I have been doing bad and I talked, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I got ya bag.

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Speaker 4: What am I gonna say?

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Speaker 2: You need to sing that song that I don't know

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Speaker 2: that well? You need to go listen to it for

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Speaker 2: next week.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'll listen to it for next week. What singing

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Speaker 4: right now? We think? What do I want you to sing?

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Speaker 4: Hold on, let me find a song real quick. We're

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Speaker 4: trying to.

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Speaker 2: Find a song, y'all. If you if you only listen,

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Speaker 2: I can't I won't be a blow. They want to sing.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Fire and desire.

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Speaker 4: M Okay, hold on, let me get the lyrics. You

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Speaker 4: know that song? Are you gonna help me? I got you.

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Speaker 2: I've seen them, because we ain't gonna see that much because.

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Speaker 4: Why why pull drake?

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Speaker 2: I know you gotta be specific or maybe super free.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's actually a good one.

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Speaker 6: It goes with the theme of the episode.

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Speaker 4: This week, super free. I'm gonna help you the lyrics. Then, okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: so this is what I'm saying this week. Oh they're saying,

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Speaker 4: jez bit, what the fuck? Come on, she's a very

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01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 4: kinky girl. Can't you don't take home to mother? She

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Speaker 4: will never what you get up off the street girl?

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01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 4: Oh wait, she likes the book. I've noticed.

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Speaker 5: She likes the boys and the bad She says that

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Speaker 5: bread when I make my move to get her room

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01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 5: is right. She's neiver hard to please.

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Speaker 4: Then an they go, that girl is pretty wild, now.

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Speaker 6: Girl, you read all.

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01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 4: About in the New Way magazine.

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Speaker 6: That girl is pretty cute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, freak, I love to really taste them every time

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Speaker 4: we meet.

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Speaker 6: She's all right, she's all right.

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Speaker 4: That girl's all right with me. Yeah. Oh, I'm sorry

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Speaker 4: y'all the wait I'm trying to see when you was

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Speaker 4: gonna feeding.

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Speaker 6: Gant got so much for tunity and we'll see y'all

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Speaker 6: next week.

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Speaker 4: I have no longer. I was like, damn, when I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna say yea