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Speaker 1: with the world most dangerous mornings. You're to Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: and currently we are on vacation. Man, totally disconnected. Yes

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Speaker 1: in the new year. Happy holidays. It's the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. This is your time to get it off

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Jelisa, getting off your chests. Yes, today I

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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Breakfast Club holding everybody

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Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we all

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Speaker 1: the trauma to PTSD, we'll get some health. But I

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Speaker 1: used to talk to Jews. I remember one time we

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Speaker 1: was in London. We had a conversation for like an

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Speaker 1: houris in the hallway our hotel, and I was just

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Speaker 1: telling them how to deal with everything, like his success,

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Speaker 1: how to deal with being in a relationship, how to

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Speaker 1: deal with you know what I'm saying, everything where his

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Speaker 1: family really not having nothing to do with music, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, this dealing with life. We appreciate

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Speaker 1: you for joining us. J Herb always the breakfast club,

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Speaker 1: good morning, taking you back right back with the classic

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Speaker 1: re one. We would It's the Breakfast Club was a podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's topic time. The phone called eight hundred five A

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Speaker 1: five one oh five one to join it to the

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Speaker 1: discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it morning. Everybody's

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Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy, we are the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, Charlomagne gave

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Speaker 1: Donkey data who man This dude from New York City.

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Speaker 1: Man his name is um Edwin Petroza and he actually

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Speaker 1: stabbed a man named jay Neuez the death because Jay

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Speaker 1: new Neez held the door for him and jay Neunez

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Speaker 1: said to him, why don't you say thank you? And

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Speaker 1: Edwin said, I didn't ask you to hold the door

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Speaker 1: for me, and then that led into an altercation that

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Speaker 1: led him to stab jay new Right, so we're asking

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Speaker 1: eight hundred five A five one oh five one, or

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Speaker 1: do you expect to deserve a thank you? By the way,

448
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Speaker 1: that goes with that whole you're welcome thing, y'all keep saying, like,

449
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Speaker 1: if you open the door for somebody and the person

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Speaker 1: doesn't say thank you, and then you say you're welcome,

451
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: that's kind of the same thing as saying, hey, why

452
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Speaker 1: don't you say thank you, which led to this altercation,

453
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Speaker 1: which led to this incident that's never happened to me.

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Speaker 1: I just say you're welcome and keep moving. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: had a whole Hello's welcome. This is from Damp Road

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Speaker 1: Campter Road seven five seven. Yes. Now, now you're walking

457
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Speaker 1: in the store and you and you decide to hold

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Speaker 1: open the one of these doors for somebody and they

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Speaker 1: don't say nothing what you're doing. I'm loving if they

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Speaker 1: don't say thank you, Oh you let the door Sam, Yes,

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Speaker 1: because I say thank you when I'm in trying faking someone.

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Speaker 1: Let you do the little wave like thank you. I

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Speaker 1: do that too, So it's common courtesy. And if people

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Speaker 1: can't say thank you, they don't converge the common courtesy.

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Speaker 1: But you know, you can't expect you from other people, man,

466
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Speaker 1: and and and sometimes when you don't get you from

467
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Speaker 1: other people, you know, like it just is what it is.

468
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Speaker 1: It's common courtesy. So I'm going to let the door go.

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Speaker 1: That's just rude. Thank you? And how do you let

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Speaker 1: the dog go before? Because if you're holding the door

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Speaker 1: and they don't say thank you, they already got to

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Speaker 1: get through those I do that too, though that I

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Speaker 1: know exactly what you was talking about. What you said,

474
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Speaker 1: because I do the same exactly. You just let it go.

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Speaker 1: They hit them baking the back of the back of

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Speaker 1: your back of the ass. Hello, who's this all right?

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Speaker 1: This is Bianca calling from I'm calling from the Bronx

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Speaker 1: right now. Oh oh boy. That somebody walking that door.

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Speaker 1: You hold that door for somebody, they don't say thank you?

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Speaker 1: What is the BX door? Listen, that's a problem. Like

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Speaker 1: if you can't give a person a common curtesy of

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Speaker 1: same thank you when they hold the door for you,

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Speaker 1: that you are a trash from the being out them line.

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Speaker 1: But we know, but we know it is though. That's

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Speaker 1: my point. It's like, if you're if you're a good person,

486
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Speaker 1: you gotta just be cool with being a good person

487
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Speaker 1: because everybody not gonna do do you the way you

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Speaker 1: would do somebody else. I mean walk, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna throw off my whole day by not

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Speaker 1: saying thank you. But I am looking at you and

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Speaker 1: wonder what's wrong with you? Because who sup that? And

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Speaker 1: I mus say and I was saying, this isn't go together.

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Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes people aren't paying attention. They on their phone,

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Speaker 1: they're doing things and you say you're welcome, They're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. Different yeah, and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. It could be just an oversight,

497
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Speaker 1: know when the person is paying attention, you know, and

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Speaker 1: they just walk through the door like you owe them

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Speaker 1: that and they don't say thank you? What you exactly?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? B X. I'm gonna tell you you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how this altercation started. Once again,

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Speaker 1: they held the door. I'll tell you that'll be more

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Speaker 1: of the story. Hello, who's this? Four? Three? Oh boy,

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Speaker 1: I see how this is gonna goes. So you walk

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Speaker 1: somebody walking through the door, you hold the door from

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Speaker 1: they keep people. We don't say nothing. Man. I feel

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Speaker 1: just like, man, my grandma taught me every big further

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Speaker 1: than money, and I think, what if you want to

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Speaker 1: do pretty young li with a night spooky? That's the

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Speaker 1: feet last uh type? I added school where you know,

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Speaker 1: like it feel like I'm do it, but really no,

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Speaker 1: I do feel good. And then hey when that hey,

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Speaker 1: when that girl with your big bunky walked by, you say, boy,

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Speaker 1: that girl fat out many man, I just smile. Man,

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Speaker 1: you know what, so what are you doing? What are

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Speaker 1: you doing with like saying, somebody Charlottagne, you know, thick

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Speaker 1: thighs over there, he comes to it? Shut up, man,

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Speaker 1: you know what I what I do is I'm going

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Speaker 1: firth and I just kind of hold the door and

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Speaker 1: let him coming behind me. But he don't walk in

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Speaker 1: before you. No, no, no, it depends. It depends. I

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Speaker 1: thank you. By what's the ball of the story though,

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Speaker 1: I mean more of the story is. Man. You just

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Speaker 1: can't expect things from people. You can't expect you from

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Speaker 1: from other people. And I'm not gonna take it personal.

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Speaker 1: You know, if if if somebody doesn't say thank you,

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Speaker 1: because I'm not holding the door for them because I

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Speaker 1: want to thank you, I'm holding to doing them because

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Speaker 1: I'm a nice person. It's just the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Morning everybody on DJ m Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlotte and the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We

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Speaker 1: got a special guests in the building. She's got a

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Speaker 1: new book out her Uphill, her memoir. That's right, great

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Speaker 1: picture by the way, thank you. How many of them

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Speaker 1: do you have to pick through before you landed on

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Speaker 1: this one? You know what? Um and this is gonna

537
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Speaker 1: sound far more delicious than I actually mean it. But

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Speaker 1: that was from a Playboy shoot. I did, what Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you Playboy? Yeah, because Playboy, um, reading for the

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Speaker 1: articles is good writing, it's very good writing. And Playboy

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Speaker 1: every let me see what pictures on the back. They

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Speaker 1: did a feature on me um at some point. I

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Speaker 1: think it was earlier this year. And so the photo shoot, Uh,

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Speaker 1: the photographer I think believe his name is Eric Carter.

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Speaker 1: He's based out of la He took some phenomenal photos.

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Speaker 1: So because during covid um, you know, we couldn't really

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Speaker 1: work out how to you know, get new photos taken.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I love these from the Playboy shoot.

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Speaker 1: That's play a joke on the husband be like, hey,

550
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Speaker 1: I'm doing a shoot with Playboy. Oh I totally did.

551
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Speaker 1: Like that was just like I'm gonna being Playboy. He

552
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Speaker 1: was like, what anymore? No, I don't think so. I

553
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Speaker 1: think it's like a more of a you know, content

554
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Speaker 1: or they've always had good articles and play I'm serious, listen.

555
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Speaker 1: Alex Hayley wrote for play Boy. Okay, so like, I

556
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Speaker 1: don't think anybody ever went to Playboy for the articles

557
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Speaker 1: you're telling on yourself right now. But that's okay. I

558
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Speaker 1: love the title little Book to uphill. I mean, it's

559
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Speaker 1: a play on your last name, of course, but I

560
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Speaker 1: mean it actually isn't. It's not, And it was not

561
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Speaker 1: my title idea. This was not the original title that

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Speaker 1: I wanted three that came in third. No, the original

563
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Speaker 1: title I wanted was Broken Curses because I talked a

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Speaker 1: lot about my family history, family trauma and all of

565
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Speaker 1: that and my mother and I'm sure you know, you

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Speaker 1: guys have heard this before from elders or from your

567
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Speaker 1: parents or uncles or whatever, but the fact that there

568
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Speaker 1: are generational curses, and my mother used to talk about,

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Speaker 1: you know, breaking those in our family. And so that's

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Speaker 1: why I wanted to name in Broken Curses. But my

571
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Speaker 1: publisher they thought it was a little too negative, that

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Speaker 1: it wasn't uplifting enough. And my book editor, Shannon shout

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Speaker 1: out to you, Shannon, she came up with that title.

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Speaker 1: Up you okay, And I said to you, the chosen

575
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Speaker 1: one because honestly, you talk about your mom and the

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Speaker 1: things that she's been through and your whole family, and

577
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: it's a lot, and so how did she feel about,

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Speaker 1: you know, these stories being told? So I talked to

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Speaker 1: my mother, But we had numerous conversations about what was

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Speaker 1: going to be in this book, and she knew what

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Speaker 1: I was doing in the journey that I was on

582
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Speaker 1: and writing it, and knew that I wanted to write

583
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Speaker 1: it transparently. But honestly, Angel, that was probably the most

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Speaker 1: difficult part, because I was I was. I was in

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Speaker 1: the unfortunate position of asking my mother about the worst

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Speaker 1: moments of her life. And I tried to save those

587
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Speaker 1: conversations for last, if you will, so that we could

588
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Speaker 1: talk about it'd be happier things and fund memories, just

589
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Speaker 1: to kind of not come from a traumatic, you know, perspective.

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Speaker 1: And so it was tough. I mean, my mother told

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Speaker 1: me some stories I did not even know. You know,

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Speaker 1: the story that I tell in the book about her okay,

593
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Speaker 1: but you know, I guess it's an example of a story.

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Speaker 1: But the story I tell them the book about how

595
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Speaker 1: one of her low points during her addiction was being,

596
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Speaker 1: you know, caught in this drug house and having to

597
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Speaker 1: hide out from drug dealers in that house on the floor,

598
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Speaker 1: on a rat infestive floor. I didn't even know that

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Speaker 1: story until she told me, because I happened when I

600
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: was in college. I was so scared with that part.

601
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Speaker 1: It was underneath those dirty clothes, rats running around, yep,

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Speaker 1: and she had to stay and I thought they was

603
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Speaker 1: going to steal her car while she was inside. Uh. Well,

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Speaker 1: her her car as our tail did eventually get stolen,

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Speaker 1: you know. Um, and uh it was nothing she could

606
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Speaker 1: do about it, but it was where she was at

607
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: the time that was stolen. At what she was doing.

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Speaker 1: How did you feel having those conversations with your mom,

609
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: because that had to be emotional. I was reading some

610
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: of that stuff that she went through and I was

611
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: like in tears. Um it was. It was difficult, and

612
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: but I think for her it was cathartic because these

613
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: are traumatic incidents that you know, during the time after

614
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: she was you know, sexually abused, and as I telling

615
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Speaker 1: the book, she was the victim of a violent rape.

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Speaker 1: You know, people weren't going to therapy then, like that

617
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: wasn't suggested and as you know, Charlemagne from your work

618
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: and mental health in our community, that was something we

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Speaker 1: didn't do. So imagine going through all of that with

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Speaker 1: no therapy. And that's why, as I discussed in the book,

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Speaker 1: she was going through very severe PTSD and did not

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Speaker 1: know it because that wasn't a term then that we

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Speaker 1: even were familiar with. And so um, yeah, those are

624
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: those are difficult conversations, but I think um at the

625
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Speaker 1: end of them, it was really healing for both of us,

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Speaker 1: you know, to be honest, like I, I certainly knew

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Speaker 1: about the trauma she experienced, but her going into detail

628
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Speaker 1: it gives me a better and more enriched perspective about

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Speaker 1: who she is. Yelow, I feel like it allowed you

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Speaker 1: to give her more grace. Yeah, and listen, people have

631
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Speaker 1: been asking me about what I want people to take

632
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Speaker 1: away from this book. It's a few things, but one

633
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: of the most important things is that I want I

634
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: want people to know you should talk to your people

635
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: while they're here, right like your mother's, your auntie's, your father,

636
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: whoever in your family, find out about them because usually,

637
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: like especially your relatives and especially your parents, they live

638
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: the whole life before you even got here. And writing

639
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: this book it really made me miss my grandmother who

640
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: died in twenty and ten, because I realized I didn't

641
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: ask her nearly as much about her life as I

642
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: should have. You know, even I know it's hard sometimes

643
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: for parents and grandparents to share, you know, traumatic moments

644
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: or their failures or disappointments, but it helps you see

645
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: them as full of people, and maybe that does allow

646
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: you to give them more grace with some of the

647
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,239
Speaker 1: decisions they made and even in some respects to how

648
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: they've treated you. I was gonna ask, did you understand

649
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 1: more after talking to your mom in writing this book,

650
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: because now, even for myself, I didn't really understand until

651
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: I had kids, And then when I had kids and

652
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm living my own life, I'm like, that's why my

653
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: dad did that, That's why my mom acted that way.

654
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: But you know, during the time, I don't want to

655
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: say I hated them what you hated what they were

656
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: doing right, But now I was like, damn, I understand.

657
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: So did you understand more and were able to? You know,

658
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: what I understood more is why even in present days

659
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: she lives with so much regret. We had an interesting

660
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: conversation recently about that because I forgave my mother for

661
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: this a long time ago. I've let this guy because

662
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: I think as a kid, you know, it was it

663
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: was different because her trauma was something I had to

664
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: navigate around. So it felt like my childhood was being

665
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: stolen from me and so you know, you carry some

666
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: resentment for that, and so I let that go. I

667
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: forgave her, encouraged her as she was turning her life around.

668
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: You know my mother, I mean, she's got her masters now,

669
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: you know, she got her bachelor masters. You know, she

670
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: out educated me, which I'm very very proud that she

671
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: did that, and she went back to school in her fifties. Okay,

672
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: and so um, you know, this has really been a

673
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: remarkable turn amount for her. But yeah, I mean, you know,

674
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: once I let all of that stuff, you know go,

675
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: I think I was good with it. But she I

676
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: think she still struggles to forgive herself because she feels

677
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: like she missed so much. And but the thing isn't

678
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: It's something I wrote in the book. It's like my

679
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: mother was there for everything, Like even though you know

680
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: she had a severe addiction. I didn't I have one

681
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: of those stories where my mom was missing for days,

682
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: like or didn't feed me, or the lights was cut off,

683
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: and she was very protective of you no matter what.

684
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: So like I didn't. That wasn't my story necessarily, because

685
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: I know some people who are the child the child

686
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: of addicts, they do have that story. But she was there,

687
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: but she wasn't always present, you know what I mean.

688
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: And so I think because she was trying to, um,

689
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: you know, figure out how to come out of all

690
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: the darkness she was in. I had to figure out

691
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: ways to navigate around her abuse, her drug abuse. You

692
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's like, I don't know what

693
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: mood you're gonna be, and I don't know what person

694
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm getting today. I don't know when I come home

695
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: what dynamic I'm going to find. And so that for

696
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,479
Speaker 1: me was where the resentment was coming from. Its feeling like, man,

697
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: I got to do all this, you know, I'm I'm

698
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: trying to be a kid, and it's all this seriousness

699
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 1: and darkness kind of around us. And so I think

700
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: once I really talk to her about it, and we've

701
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: talked throughout the years, but it definitely helped me to

702
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: understand a lot of the decision she made. Watching what

703
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: she went through. Did it like scale you away from

704
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: drugs and alcohol? Oh? I mean, you know, like I've

705
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: never ever tried hard drugs in my life. I don't

706
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: know anybody who's done any of that. I mean that

707
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: I know, I don't. I'm not on that scene I'm

708
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: not about that. I mean I smoked a little weed

709
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 1: like hearing there, Um they had taken an edible or

710
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: two me like like that's about it. Um. And I

711
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: do like tequila. But knowing the history of addiction in

712
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: my family has definitely maybe more cognizant of somethings. All well,

713
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 1: don't move. We got more with Jamal Hill. She has

714
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: a new book up Hill that's out right now. We'll

715
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: talk to it some more. It's the Breakfast Local Morning Wanting.

716
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we

717
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Jamael Hill.

718
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: Ye did your mom forgive her mother? Did she have

719
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: that opportunity to have those conversations? So they didn't, They

720
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: didn't get to the best place they were. There was

721
00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: always unconditional love. My mother loved my grandmother fierce. But

722
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 1: when my grandmother made the decision not to believe her

723
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 1: about the abuse my mother suffered at the hands of

724
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: her brother, it was a fracture in their relationship that

725
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: never healed. And unfortunately, even when my grandmother died, like

726
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 1: my mother's was her caretaker, you know, like she regardless

727
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: of whatever state their relationship was in in the moment.

728
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: My mother was never going to abandon and stop loving

729
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: my grandmother. And my grandmother definitely loved her, but she

730
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: herself was somebody who you know, we used to have

731
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 1: conversations about this, Like she used to tell me, like

732
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: she didn't really want kids, and she felt she was

733
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: a very smart woman, you know, and she was really

734
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 1: she really wanted a career, like the kind of career

735
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: I had, not necessarily a journalist, but she wanted a career.

736
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: She wanted to travel the world, all these things. And

737
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: she was born in nineteen twenty five, and so education

738
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: for black women was not a thing in terms of

739
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: people thinking that they should be educated or that there

740
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,760
Speaker 1: was value in that. As you know, during those times,

741
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: I mean, everything that a woman wanted to get financially

742
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: or any upper mobility came through marriage. And so she

743
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: was married three times and you know, she she had

744
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: her three kids, but she was just in many ways

745
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: trapped in a life she didn't feel like she chose.

746
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: And UM, I think because of that, she wasn't the

747
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: best parent to um, my mother and to um, you know,

748
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: my uncle that she she could have been. She struggled

749
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: a lot that got avicted a lot. Her grandmother was

750
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: a functional alcoholic. Like they they had some they had

751
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: some trauma, some real issues. And so she was a

752
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: great grandmother to me, and my mother would still call

753
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: her a great mother despite all the all the you know,

754
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: troubles that they went through. But I just think that,

755
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: um my mother never got the grandparent I got right,

756
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: you know. And I was asking, is there anything that

757
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 1: you decided not to put in the book? That she

758
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: was like, you know, let's leave this out or I'm

759
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: gonna take this out. Other family members are not gonna

760
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: like this. I know y'all like to hear the inside,

761
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: y'all know, I know, people keep it real here and

762
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: the tea. There was one thing I cannot tell y'all

763
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: what it was. Me and my mother got into an

764
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: enormous argument about this, and the thing is is that

765
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: it was the only thing in the book. She was

766
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: because she got an early copy, like an advanced reader

767
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: copy where you can still edit and change things, and

768
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 1: she was hot about it and we had it out.

769
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: But the funny thing was, after our argument, she told

770
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 1: you know, some of her friends about it, and they

771
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: told her she was tripping, and I had a time

772
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: to think about it, reflect on it. I talked to

773
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: my husband about it. And you know the thing, when

774
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: you write a memoir, you're writing about people who really exist,

775
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: and so you have to be careful, truthful, but careful,

776
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So that's why when I

777
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: talk about the abortion I had, I did not use

778
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: the person's real name because I don't know if they've

779
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: told that story. I don't know if his people know

780
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 1: or what state that's in, and I didn't want to

781
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: take away that opportunity from him to tell his story

782
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: his own way. So with my mother, I had to

783
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: think about the fact that what is this relationship going

784
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: to look like after this book? And while I didn't

785
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: anticipate my mother but stopped talking to me or that,

786
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: but it could be a wage issue. And this is

787
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: in print, you know what I'm saying, it's forever, right,

788
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 1: So I had to really think about do I really

789
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: want to do this. I can't imagine what it could

790
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: be because there's so much. I'll tell y'all, fair, I

791
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: tell y'all, even look your journal, you discuss that, yeah,

792
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: oh gee man? And for parents, let me ask the

793
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: guys in the room because y'all have kids. Would you

794
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: read your daughter's journal if you saw it laying around?

795
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: I would tell my wife you would, really because you

796
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: don't want to read it. Yeah, yeah, I don't. I

797
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: don't want to read it. What I do think I

798
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: probably would read it only because I just feel like

799
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: there's certain things that we should know his parents, you

800
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I would definitely, you would definitely

801
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: read it because and I would only read I say yes,

802
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: because I've gone through the phone. Oh, I mean that's

803
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: not the same though, Yes, it is exactly. They could

804
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: not beat you some things. It could be just you.

805
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: It could be you just venting something. You know, something's

806
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: bothering you that you don't talk about when you're thinking

807
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: about committing suicide or hurting yourself or hurting somebody. So

808
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: if I can stop that, and maybe you hate me,

809
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: but hopefully you love me less because I was able

810
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 1: to stop that. Now, if it's something else, I mind

811
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: my business and act like I didn't read it. But

812
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: it was something, then you could have, you know, hurt

813
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: yourself for somebody else, hurt a classmate. Well, how do

814
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: you look at that, Jamil? Obviously I disagree, and I

815
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: got my asshoop because of it, okay, and ever, and

816
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: that was the thing, is that because of all the

817
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,800
Speaker 1: you know, tumultuousness in our life, that I needed someplace

818
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: to vent. You know, I couldn't vent to my grandmother

819
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: because my grandmother didn't that causes friction between her and

820
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: my mother. I was too embarrassed to vent to my

821
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: friends and let them in on the issues. Not like

822
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 1: I could pick a teacher because that's a double ass

823
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: whooping coming right. He didn't have the didn't have therapy.

824
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: So my journal was literally that And so I think

825
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: that might be, that might be that's the top three

826
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: frightening moment of my life. Did you come home and

827
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: your mother is sitting there with your journal, opening it,

828
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: reading it exactly? I mean that woman, I was like,

829
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: I was like, you try to kill me straight up?

830
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: When she read the advanced copy of the book. Did

831
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: it bring you back to that moment? Oh? Like it

832
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,760
Speaker 1: was trigger and writing it, I was just like, okay,

833
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: because that's that's the worst assholee But she ever gave

834
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: me in my life, like there's nothing that comes to

835
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: it was and then she you know, years later, she

836
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: was like you know you didn't deserve them. Well, can

837
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: you go back in time and want me? Can you

838
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: do this? But you know it was, but she it was.

839
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,879
Speaker 1: It was. That was one of our actually most fun

840
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: conversations because there were details of that that I did

841
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: not remember. And I was like, that don't really sound

842
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: like me because she told me that, um well, one

843
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: she was sitting there with my journal and then she

844
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: was like, let's talk about this in the basement. I

845
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm never coming back like this, and

846
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: she said that's when I told her that I wanted

847
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: to go live with my father. I was like, what

848
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: would possess me to say that? You were about to

849
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: get And that's why she bagged up all my shot,

850
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: put it in there and took me right to his

851
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: job and was like she's all yours now. And I

852
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,399
Speaker 1: was like, this was a grave mistake on my part.

853
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: This man, yeah, but you know I was able to

854
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: keep a journal later as an adult and I actually

855
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: had an ex who read my journal too, and who

856
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: I mean, people need to not be nosy, and I

857
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: guess it's your child. I understand what they said as fire,

858
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: but man, all right. We got more with Jamal Hill

859
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club

860
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: the morning morning, everybody's dj V and shove me and

861
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking

862
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: it with Jameel Hill and my sports question, Oh go

863
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: Raymond Green, Jordan Pools, Raymond Green's punches him in the face.

864
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 1: Can Jordan Pools stated and play comfortably there? Well? And

865
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: I think this is this was evident before this incident,

866
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: just because the state that they, you know, go to

867
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: states in in terms of their finances. I mean, that's

868
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: a hell of check that don't have to write in

869
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 1: luxury taxes alone. If they decide to resign Draymond, give

870
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: him a new deal rather, And so I think it

871
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: was probably trending toward him not being there anyway. And

872
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: you know, I know Draymond um good dude. I know

873
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: people have polarizing opinions about him. That was a bad

874
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 1: moment obviously. Now. The only thing I debated with people

875
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: who called it a sucker punch. That was not a

876
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: sucker punch, right, Like, It's just there's an aggressive moment

877
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: that's happening, and I know that's your teammate, and people

878
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: are like, oh, but you know, he should have recognized

879
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: as his teammate and he wasn't expecting to punch. Have

880
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: you seen family members fright? Yes? I certainly have, right, So, Um,

881
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: I just think that was a really bad moment for him.

882
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: I think he recognizes that. I think he is honestly remorseful.

883
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: But I don't see them coexisting. Jordan Bulls should ducked

884
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: because anything, if you push somebody that hard, you gotta

885
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 1: expect something that's coming back, right Yeah, Um, I mean

886
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: this is this is not Jordan's Pull's fault at all,

887
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: but I think because of the finances, he won't be there. Yeah,

888
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 1: you know, I was on the fence at first because

889
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, because this might be

890
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: one of those oh no, because of this incident, because

891
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: this might want to be one of those things that

892
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: like early in the season, there's certainly, you know, some

893
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: momentum that you have now, but the season drags on,

894
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I don't know how they

895
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: respond and are able to play when you have that

896
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: big of a issue. That's kind of right there. But

897
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: these guys are veterans. I think they're hungry. I think

898
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: they kind of know it's their last stand, So I

899
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: do I expect them to repeat as well. Ben Simmons,

900
00:43:50,760 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 1: Russell Westbrook, what's the question? I mean, who's better? What's

901
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: the one word that comes to your mind? Miss? But

902
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I feel really bad for Russell Westbrook because,

903
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, especially no, no, no, I mean Ben Simmons.

904
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: I think he's not as bad as people think, you know,

905
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: And and what you hate to see is when you

906
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: look at an athlete and you could tell psychologically something's

907
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: going on, you know what I'm saying, And it's just

908
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: it feels like criticizing him. And this is not to

909
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: say that he doesn't deserve, you know, some criticism, but

910
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: it just feels like he's mentally worn out. That's what

911
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: he seems like to me. Russell Westbrook's the same thing

912
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: is that because Russell it's clearly frustrated. I don't Russell

913
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: doesn't want to play this ship like he doesn't want

914
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: to do that. But now, and this is the gift

915
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: and curse of playing with Lebron. It's never gonna be

916
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: Lebron's fault. I'm not saying it is, but the people

917
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: that play around Lebron. Remember how the people used to

918
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: be on Chris Bosh all the time, like it's always

919
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: somebody that when they play with him, that becomes the

920
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: target for all the frustration over you know, losing, over

921
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: all of this, and it's Russell Westbrook. They have made

922
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 1: him the villain of the team. And I'm not talking

923
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: about the organization itself, but fans, you know, and he's

924
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: clearly struggling. I kind of agree with what Charles Barkley said.

925
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: I don't really see the joy in his game like

926
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 1: I used to. Like, he's certainly still a great athlete,

927
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: but you'd be crazy not to think it's not mentally

928
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: wearing on him that he's not thinking about this every

929
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: time he takes a shot. The fact that the fans

930
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,879
Speaker 1: are boring him. It reminds me of when Josh Smith

931
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: played in Atlanta and every time it took a three

932
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: point of the crowd be like no, it's like I

933
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: feel like I hear that every time Russell like takes

934
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: a shot, like people are mad, right, And so to

935
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: play like that in your hometown, right, and that's that's

936
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: the vibe. You can't tell me that that mentally that

937
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't break you a little bit. That's interesting because I

938
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: feel like Ben is mental and Russ is just physical.

939
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: The rust still got that energy and confidence if he's

940
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: physically able to play the way he used to. I

941
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 1: mean I sensed the I sense certainly the energy. I

942
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: don't mean to make a sound like he's melod an

943
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: aner like that, but it's like a joy that comes

944
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: to playing with basketball, and it doesn't feel like he's

945
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: playing with a lot of joy. That's all, no cowboy questions.

946
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna get some bolts. I think

947
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: the Giants look good, you know. I mean, I'm sure

948
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: Daniel Jones is thinking about how he got slandered when

949
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 1: they made that pick, and definitely the last couple of years,

950
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: but they didn't have as good of a team. I

951
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: think because they have now love Brian day Ball like

952
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: you know it definitely one of those coaches I've been

953
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: watching for a while, and so he felt he felt

954
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: like he would be a good fit for this team.

955
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: So look New York Football Jet saying Giants. You know

956
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: Roberts Salt like he was. I'm a forty nine Ers fan.

957
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: He was always wonder well as as she's gonna be

958
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: alliance fan. Yeah, I listened. I value my mental health,

959
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 1: and that was that's what you're talking about all the time, right,

960
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: It's like mental health as well for my mental health.

961
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,919
Speaker 1: I was never a Lions fan. And it's crazy because

962
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: my husband's a huge Lions fan. He was at the

963
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:25,479
Speaker 1: Cowboys game. And uh no, I mean so my mother,

964
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: as y'all know from being the book, you know, she

965
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: spent some time in Oakland, um, you know, and that's

966
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,760
Speaker 1: where I was, I think conceived, okay, and so because

967
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: of that, she liked the forty nine ers, and so

968
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: you know, she would root for the Lions and for

969
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: the forty nine ers. She really liked Joe Montana. That

970
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: was like one of her favorite players. And so I

971
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: just you know, they were winning team. Why would you

972
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: not go with the winning team? Right? So it's like, well, greted.

973
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: You grew up in South Carolina, so y'all didn't have

974
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: your own NFL team, and a lot of a lot

975
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: of black fans that were not in um NFL cities

976
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: were Cowboys fan. He was I'm that word like in DC.

977
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of a not so quiet secret.

978
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,800
Speaker 1: There's a lot of Cowboys fans in DC, right, And

979
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: so at any rate, so I just became a fortey

980
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: nine Ers fan. I've been with him, um, you know,

981
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: ever since. But Robert Salt was like a great coach.

982
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: Trust so I when he was going through that last

983
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 1: year with the Jets, I was like, this dude about

984
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: to show. He about to show them because he's got

985
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 1: the He gets players to buy in, certainly from a

986
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: schematic standpoint, like he's a really good coach. What about offense,

987
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: he'll look a little rough shore we do look a

988
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: little rough. But that defense, it's a championship level defense.

989
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: And this was the kind of defense I wish Tony

990
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: Robot would have had. You know, that's that that's no,

991
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: in no way a shot at Dak Prescott. But people

992
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: like to as you know, um, they like to hate

993
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: on Tony Robo, but they forget that he had categorically

994
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: some of the worst defenses in NFL history. And I

995
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: was like, damn, if they haven't had this defense with him,

996
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: y'all might have won. Y'all might have won a couple,

997
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 1: but they didn't. Got the second best record in the league.

998
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,439
Speaker 1: You know, we beat them. No, here we go, y'all

999
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: go through this on the Daily Base Show. You know,

1000
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: we beat the Giants right, But I like the Cowboys,

1001
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: but you don't like picking them over the forty. Right.

1002
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 1: You know you're going to Super Bowl, the Ship Championship.

1003
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: We know, we know that in San Francisco. That's why

1004
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: we had to come to Dallas last year. Give y'all

1005
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: a peace, Okay, we appreciate you. Get up hills all

1006
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 1: right now. I appreciate y'all. Oh, and I just want

1007
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: to say one last thing about Jamil Hill. When I

1008
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: announced my show, she called me in the middle of

1009
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: the night from Portugal. You're in Portugal. No, I wasn't

1010
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: in Portugal, but I was. I was somewhere out of

1011
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 1: the country. Was my France. Maybe I was in south

1012
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: of France hanging with this dude said remember, oh, yeah

1013
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: you were here. Okay, so maybe I was, but I

1014
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: was gone. You're gone. No, I went on the night.

1015
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: She was like, I just want to say congratulations. I

1016
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: would say that it's so nice. Yeah, no, Angela, I appreciate.

1017
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you for doing your thing. And

1018
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: as I wrote in the note to you in the

1019
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: in the book, is that you um, you know the agency,

1020
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: you betting on yourself, Like that's very not just admirable,

1021
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,720
Speaker 1: but it's very inspiring for somebody like me who throughout

1022
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: this this season of my career, that's what I've done.

1023
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: It's like that on myself. So I love seeing other

1024
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:23,919
Speaker 1: women do um you know the same thing. Yea, yeah,

1025
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm my girl. Let me tell you something. I was late.

1026
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: They were envy with stressed because he had to do

1027
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: my job. Because what you want me to leave? Thank you?

1028
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: Get up Hill, Jamel Hill her memoirs out right now,

1029
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: that's right. I'm trying to be a bestseller, y'all. That

1030
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 1: devil brekfast Club. Wow, donkey to day us to a

1031
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: thirty one year old man from Connecticut name for Rinds

1032
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: and Murphy. Let let me be the first to admit

1033
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 1: that this young man is the reason your uncle Sharla,

1034
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: no matter how hard he tries, can't stop saying the

1035
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,959
Speaker 1: word nigga. Okay, maybe the adjustment that needed to happen

1036
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 1: is we don't refer to people as the N word,

1037
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: but we just refer to actions as nigga. Tree that way,

1038
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: they can apply to all races, colors, and creeds. But

1039
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying all that to say there's absolutely no way

1040
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: you can listen to this story and not say this nigga. Okay,

1041
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 1: let me hear Uncle Rugg's real quick play for me

1042
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: one time. Rett me set the tone. I wanted to

1043
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: play a game, shut up work. Yes it is now.

1044
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: Forenzo was a fugitive and he was on the run

1045
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: from Connecticut authorities. See Forenzo was serving a four year

1046
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 1: sentence on a robbery charge. Don't get me wrong, one

1047
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: day in prison is one day too long. But a

1048
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: four year bid, people will take that scratching a heartbeat. Okay,

1049
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: that's a high school term. Freshman is senior bomb, four

1050
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: years done. Okay, that's one presidential term, long time, no doubt.

1051
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: But as someone doing ten years, as someone doing twenty,

1052
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: as someone doing life, how did that compare to four years?

1053
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: All right? I bet you didn't snatch that four years

1054
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. But Forenso was serving a four years sentence,

1055
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 1: and clearly he couldn't stay and to be there because

1056
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: he was in a halfway house in Bridgeport when he

1057
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: left without permission. That was confusing to me about this

1058
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: situation is if he was in the halfway house, doesn't

1059
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: that mean he was on the way home. I thought

1060
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: the point of a halfway house. Was that you were

1061
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: halfway home. They send you to the halfway house to

1062
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: get you ready to get back adjusted to society. So

1063
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: just a little more patience, he would have been home,

1064
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: but no, not forenso outside with Colin and when outside

1065
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 1: calls for some reason, niggas pick up on the first ring. Okay,

1066
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 1: So Forends and Murphy left without permission and he got caught.

1067
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: Would you like to know how he got caught. Let's

1068
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: go to News Observer for the report police. According to

1069
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: authorities in Georgia, a man was arrested at his own

1070
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: birthday party weeks after he's accused of escaping a halfway house.

1071
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: In Connecticut, deputies arrested Forendza Rickie Murphy on Saturday October first,

1072
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: a family member's home in McDonough. The thirty one year old,

1073
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: who deputy said was serving time on a robbery charge

1074
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: at a Connecticut Department of Correction halfway house in Bridgeport,

1075
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: was there to celebrate his birthday. Murphy was setting up

1076
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: for his party when deputies arrived after they received a tip.

1077
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: Murphy was accused of leaving the halfway house without permission

1078
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 1: and had been on the run since August eighth. He

1079
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: was booked into the Henry County Jail and faces additional charges. Jesus,

1080
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: I understand, I understand why you don't want to come

1081
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 1: back for what? For what? A party? Man? Not just

1082
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: any party, his own birthday party for friends, escape from

1083
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 1: jail and then got arrested at his own birthday party.

1084
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: Police say they got a tip. But tip do they

1085
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: mean invite? I'm assuming an invite. I can't prove this.

1086
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 1: I have no facts to stand on what I say this.

1087
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: But I know that this party was promoted on Facebook.

1088
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: I just if it wasn't on Facebook, it was on

1089
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: social media somewhere. I just know it was somebody DM

1090
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 1: me to invite. I know they had it. He probably

1091
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: sent it to his close friends. He probably thought he

1092
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 1: could just send it to his close friends on Instagram

1093
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: and nobody would be the wiser. Okay, probably promoted it

1094
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: as a welcome home party. I don't know. All I

1095
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 1: know is he escaped from jail in Connecticut and decided

1096
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: to go to Georgia and have a birthday party at

1097
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 1: the family member's house, and now he's back locked up.

1098
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: Now Forends has been on the run since August eighth.

1099
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: He would have eventually gotten caught, guaranteed, But having a

1100
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: birthday party while you're on the run as a fugitive,

1101
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure probably led to him getting caught faster. Okay,

1102
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 1: friends are all you had to do was that four

1103
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: year big and you could have had all the cake,

1104
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: all the cast of me goals, and all the chicken

1105
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: wings you want. But no, you just had to submit

1106
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: to your lower will, your lower nature, and participate in

1107
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: N word activities. Please let me get friends and Murphy

1108
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: the biggest he are he ha, he ha, you stupid mother?

1109
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: Are you dumb? And I know Jesus not come back.

1110
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure Jeeves regrets dying for okay, so

1111
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: he's not making that mistake again, all right, And I'm

1112
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: really trying not to say the N word anymore. But

1113
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: you have to tell me a word that describes just

1114
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: kind of behavior. Better play playing uncle ruggets for more time,

1115
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: regis and powerful work. That's all you can say in

1116
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 1: regard to a situation like this. But I will start

1117
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: referring to the actions of people as niggatry instead of

1118
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 1: referring to individuals as niggas. That's that's my evolution. What's

1119
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: the N word? M President Connecticut had a party in

1120
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: the all who said to a Now see, all I

1121
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: said was George. Anyone said number eight sounds like they

1122
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: ay to me, George is a big place, could be Savannah.

1123
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: He was going to be making a lot of places

1124
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: to Georgia. You can have a good time after party.

1125
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 1: King of Diamonds. I know diamonds ain't the Miami. Oh,

1126
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

1127
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: It's that time ask Charlemagne and DJ Envy anything pick

1128
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: it up, pick it up up. It's time to ask

1129
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:18,240
Speaker 1: you any morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Ye, Charlemagne,

1130
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for

1131
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: ass C and E. If you need relationship advice or

1132
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 1: any type of advice, we're gonna help you out. We're

1133
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 1: gonna get too as many as we can. Hello, who's this? Well,

1134
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: what's up? Dj V, Charlemagne and Guy may O. Man

1135
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: this guy? How old are you? Brother? I'm forty six.

1136
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: Now you're dating a nineteen year old girl. Lord, have mercy?

1137
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, man, don't play me like that. No, I'm

1138
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: nineteen years older than us. Oh, you're nineteen knew this

1139
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: better than the rumor report. This was a great room.

1140
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 1: You just started on this, poor young man. So you're

1141
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: you're forty nine and you're dating a young lady that's

1142
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 1: nineteen year old. Man, Listen to me, I'm forty six, Okay,

1143
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: she's twenty seven. Okay, that ain't too bad. That that

1144
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: is better than nineteen. You work and stuff. You know

1145
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Over time and I started digging or

1146
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: we've been kicking it for about seven months or whatever.

1147
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: But sometimes like you haven't feeling kind of funny because

1148
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: of the age difference, my age, you know, yeah, because

1149
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: you're cracking jokes. You'd be talking to her and you'd like,

1150
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: you're so smart, you a regular doogie houses. She's like,

1151
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: who the hell is Dugie Houser? But if you feel

1152
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: like who kids? Who? Kids? What people think? Bro? If

1153
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: you're feeling us, she's feeling you. You just taking viagra,

1154
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: You're leavitro, the blue pill, and just do what you

1155
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 1: gotta do. No, I'm ain't one on my end. You

1156
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: got I'm gonna feel like you gotta be yourself. That's

1157
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: your own insecurities because you're old as hell, and she

1158
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 1: young and you're trying to keep up. You know what

1159
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: I mean, that's your own insecurities. You gotta get out

1160
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: your own head if you're gonna be with that young girl.

1161
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: Now I'll feel you on that well, good luck. Remember

1162
00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:00,080
Speaker 1: levit the blue pill Viagra. You gotta you know she

1163
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: gonna leave you because you gotta keep I need that

1164
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: Al Green and that Heney you're riding around with jail

1165
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: like see that Al Green? She had to hear Chris Brown.

1166
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: You listening to the Al Green? I love al Green?

1167
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, y'all arguing about rather to

1168
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: listen to the New Act two or the Savage Mo two.

1169
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I'm talking about this. I'm

1170
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: talking about the treaties. I ain't talking about know al Green?

1171
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: Thank you? Oh that's my whole drink. I'm sorry. I

1172
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: didn't know. I didn't know y'all called we now, Jason,

1173
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called A green, had no

1174
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: idea what they called it back then. Okay, you know

1175
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: who our green is? Yes, you know who al Green is?

1176
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: She should now ain't no should? She thinks our green

1177
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: is a screen of weed, and y'all call it that

1178
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: because weed Agreen. She has no idea that that's an

1179
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: actual singer. Right, good love, brother, Like he said, don't

1180
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: let your insecurities bother you. Man. If you like that

1181
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: girl she liked you, just enjoy all right, Sean Ages

1182
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: is too hard to get over. I know that, you

1183
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: know you can't help when you grow in love with.

1184
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: But when you're damn near fifty and a woman just

1185
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: need seven years old? What the hell are y'all talking about? Seriously? Like,

1186
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 1: what are y'a talking about? She can't name none of

1187
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: the members of wood tain Gland Nope, she don't remember

1188
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: no episodes or coffee show Nope. Like what are y'all

1189
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: talking about? I can't tell you about New Edition? Nothing?

1190
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 1: Don't let show about New Edition? Is the movie she's

1191
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: on BD? Right, that's it? Hello? Who's this? Hey? What's

1192
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 1: up to? Crystal? Hey? Christal? What's your question for? C?

1193
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: And E? All right? So I have a sister with

1194
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: fourteen months apart, really close. So we went on a

1195
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: trip to the Philippines in December. But two weeks before

1196
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: the trip, I got fired for my job. Three jobs,

1197
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 1: didn't it was there for ten years, So I never

1198
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: gave her the money for the trip when we came back,

1199
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: so I didn't be her. I was in my similars

1200
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: about being the preston you know, busk, my job or

1201
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 1: whatever the case was. So fast forward. She told me that,

1202
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 1: you know, I took advantage of her. I'm like, take

1203
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: advantage of you, your money's sister, Like we're a dope nobody,

1204
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: he's one of us to well, she's not crested the

1205
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: twove hundred dollars, and you know, I was just kind

1206
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: of in my simmies. I have two kids, I have

1207
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: a mortgage, I was my job, and we're in the

1208
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: middle of Corona now. So now she just matter about

1209
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: the talk on knowledge and she feels that I took

1210
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 1: advantage of her. I grew with her dollars. Dollars ruined her. No,

1211
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: why do you give her her money back? Because she

1212
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: lost her job, she got two kids. She shouldn't went

1213
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: to the Philippines then, But then she was already paid

1214
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, clearly it wasn't. So he paid for me.

1215
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: Did she tell you that she was paying for you

1216
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: or did she paid for it with the assumption that

1217
01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: you was gonna pay her back? I was gonna take

1218
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: her back exactly, so I don't happen. Job, that's right. Okay,

1219
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 1: your sister gotta take that note for me, because she

1220
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: see you out here still buying stuff. She see you

1221
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: out here still living, you still doing something that make

1222
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 1: her know that you got that twelve hundred dollars the

1223
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: last time you went out. Mama came back to Jamaica.

1224
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 1: I know you know it. You should give her money back.

1225
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: So you went to Jamaica, You should be ashamed of yourself. Oh,

1226
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: you the money back. I gave her her money back,

1227
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: but she feels that I took advantage of her. But

1228
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 1: now we're just one situation overall over our lives. But

1229
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 1: I feel like she just mean and insensitive, and based

1230
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: off the those feelings that I have, I don't really

1231
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 1: want to have a discussion on her anymore. Like I

1232
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: love my sisters, but I don't want to be friends

1233
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 1: with her anymore. Well, if you take advantage of her,

1234
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: she should be mad at you. Well if you if

1235
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 1: you gave her the money back, and she's just being

1236
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: mad at you for being mad, but she probably how

1237
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: long did it take to get the money back? Right

1238
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: before you went to Jamaica. It is kind of slack

1239
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: that you didn't give her her money back. You just

1240
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 1: out here ball and don't you hate when somebody owe

1241
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 1: you money and they just out here? Wrong? Y'all are

1242
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: missing it. I don't have two kids. She has out

1243
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: what you want to Jamaica? I got two kids and

1244
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: she got it out of here at seven. Listen, you're wrong,

1245
01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: you're wrong. That's good. You need to get over true.

1246
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: Are you wrong? She's wrong? We got more coming up

1247
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't go anywhere. It's

1248
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Good morning, mean time ask Charlomagne and

1249
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 1: dj Envy any time, pick it up, pick it up up.

1250
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: It's time to ask you a morning. Everybody in dj Envy,

1251
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club.

1252
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: It's time for ask and e. If you need relationship

1253
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: advice and any type of advice, you get this right now. Hello.

1254
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: Who's this? This Tinny? How y'all doing? How you keen doing?

1255
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? Kenny? Kenny? My bad? So what's your question? Brother?

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01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: My question is I'm trying to spice up my relationship

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01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 1: and it's my girl birthday. I have two trip to

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01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 1: have a trip to del Ray Bs, Florida and have

1259
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 1: a trip to Orlando, Florida. Do you want need to

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01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: do anything more? Yeah? I mean it's more than just

1261
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: a vacation, more than just the trip. What you're gonna

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01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: do when you get there? You got flowers ready, you

1263
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: got the bubble bath ready. You know what I mean?

1264
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do

1265
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: different to be like, damn, my man really loves me. Like,

1266
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: where's the last time you lick the bunkie? Oh? Hello,

1267
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: it's been involved. See, first of all, you don't love

1268
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: that woman because you taking out the Florida. The creativet

1269
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: people in America come from the Bronx Florida. Man, you

1270
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: don't love that girl, Charlotmagne. I'm taking her to the

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01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: Discovery Cold in Orlando and then I'm gonna beach. We're

1272
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: gonna be on the Peak House. Yeah, that's good man,

1273
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: that's good man. But you gotta spice it up. You

1274
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: gotta make sure that you you into her sexy. When

1275
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: the last time you gave her massage, you looked it

1276
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: from head to toe. What's the last time you did

1277
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: it in that I gave a massage of the day

1278
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: hire somebody to do that. You see them guys on Instagram,

1279
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: that that be bad hugging them girls and cracking their backs.

1280
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: You better not. Oh no, I'm not learned nobody. Now

1281
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: I want to give I want to I want to

1282
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 1: give a shout out to the Trap Nerds for coming

1283
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: on my podcast. Man, thank your sleut to my guys,

1284
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: the Trap Nerds. You can listen to the Trap Nerds

1285
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: podcast on The Black Effect. iHeartRadio podcast network. Man and

1286
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: my guys, Now, let me ask you a question. You

1287
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: talked about spicing it up. I'll tell you what you

1288
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: need to do. You make sure you got your flowers.

1289
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: You make sure you got little things that she enjoys.

1290
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: Maybe thinks from a past that she just likes her

1291
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: favorite nail polish, whatever it is, her favorite slippers ain't

1292
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: gotta be expensive. You make sure you take care of

1293
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: her sexually. But you don't even shout her out. Bro,

1294
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,479
Speaker 1: don't shout her out her. I do might be listening. Listen,

1295
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 1: what's um, what's the occasional out to my girl? Jazz

1296
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 1: Jasu Williams, I love you baby? What's the occasion? Birthday?

1297
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: And just up just wasn't showing up lick the bookie.

1298
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: Make sure you go the finger looking when you're in Orlando, too,

1299
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,959
Speaker 1: make sure you go to the finger looking in Orlando. Hello.

1300
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This is Tony. Hey Tony, what's your

1301
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: question for cne? Okay? Um, just a little rundown of

1302
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: what happened yesterday. I just need all advice on what

1303
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:32,919
Speaker 1: to do how to handle this situation. Basically, my five

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01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 1: year old, Um, he's in kindergarten. He was at school

1305
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 1: yesterday and I got a tape from his teacher saying

1306
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 1: that he's coming home with the red face you know,

1307
01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 1: mind you that yet green faces you know when they

1308
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: do good. She said that he's coming home with a

1309
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: red face because he got upset with a little girl

1310
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 1: at school because she didn't want to talk to him,

1311
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: and he told her at lunch that he was going

1312
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,959
Speaker 1: to burn her house out, and she said that these days,

1313
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: you just can't make remarks like that, and he was

1314
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: sensing the principal's office and she just wanted to let

1315
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: me know and all that kind of stuff. But I

1316
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 1: do kind of honestly feel like that that was a

1317
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: bit much like you know, he's only five, for one,

1318
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: like you're not gonna go steal my car and go

1319
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: burn a house. But how would you handle this and

1320
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: this was your child? Well, I think that he's heard

1321
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 1: you talk about them guys. How is you gonna burn

1322
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: down one too many times? That's what it sounds like

1323
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: to me. That's what it sounded like to me. Man, No,

1324
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I would just say, keep keep

1325
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: this in mind. It's protocol. Now with everything going on

1326
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: in the world and all these mass shooting, just protocol.

1327
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 1: Teachers want to make sure they saved their job. So

1328
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: no matter what happens, if they hear this, that's protocol

1329
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 1: of what they have to do. But you just gotta

1330
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: tell your son just look like, hey, you can't make

1331
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: these remarks because people take it serious. I know you're

1332
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: not serious. I know you. This is something you've seen

1333
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: on TV. But you can't say things like that because

1334
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: you can get in trouble. And hopefully he understands that.

1335
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: But you ain't gotta worry that. But the teacher gotta

1336
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: have more grace too. Protocol. The teacher got to have

1337
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: more grace. It's a damn five year old, you know

1338
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: what I mean? A five year old not about to

1339
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 1: go out and commit a actor arson like the teacher

1340
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 1: got to have a little bit more grace. The teacher

1341
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 1: should actually reach out to you and be like, hey,

1342
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: I just want you to know this is what your

1343
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: son said today. You know, I don't want to see

1344
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 1: him getting any more trouble. They can't, you can't, you know.

1345
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: But just this case is like there was a case

1346
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 1: I think a couple of months ago with a five

1347
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: year old boy to school and shot a two year old.

1348
01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 1: So this case is like that where they got they

1349
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 1: gotta follow protocol. Now she might not believe it, but

1350
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 1: she has to do it just in case to make

1351
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: sure everything is all right. So I'm not mad at

1352
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: the school doing that because they got to follow protocol.

1353
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 1: It's not like they took the kid and beat him

1354
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 1: outside in front of everybody. They just went. But now

1355
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: that kid got a stain, like he got a red face,

1356
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 1: and he got a red face, and people in that

1357
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 1: school probably looking at that five year old different, like

1358
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 1: watch that one. That one's there, he's gonna burn the

1359
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: house down, you know. Like actually, and my thing was,

1360
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: um that was in a cafeteria and the little girl

1361
01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: of another color. I'm just I'm saying that white supposedly, Yeah,

1362
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 1: basically I'm black. My son's black um said that she

1363
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: she just went up and sold the teacher and they

1364
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,439
Speaker 1: never like asked him for his side as a story.

1365
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: So basically that's just going by what she's saying. So

1366
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:16,480
Speaker 1: I kind lord have mercy question did he even say that? Exactly?

1367
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 1: That's why I want to know what I'm saying. Now,

1368
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 1: you got to go to school a while. That's what

1369
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't even I'm like, I haven't heard

1370
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: you say that he said that. So that's like, and

1371
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: you know, you know your kids, you know your kids

1372
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 1: or whatever. You know when they're lying, you know, when

1373
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: they're telling the truth. I honestly don't think you said that. Well, mama,

1374
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: if he didn't say if he said it, he didn't

1375
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: say it. If you get my drift, that boy didn't

1376
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 1: say that. Nobody heard him say that. Don't lie on

1377
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: my kid, period period. So you need you need to

1378
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: go to school and have that conversation. Did y'all hear

1379
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: my son say because my son didn't say it, And

1380
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 1: who you're gonna greet you? You're gonna listen to my

1381
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: black son or that white girl. Who are you listening

1382
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: to because now I'm feeling a little racism. They're gonna

1383
01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 1: listen to the white girl. You know that. No, No,

1384
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: not in this day and nation, not in this day.

1385
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: Or do I need to get my lawyer involved? Okay, Eban,

1386
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: you just said report the threat because I thought he

1387
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 1: said it, but because you assumed he said it because

1388
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 1: he's a little black boy. No, I did I assume

1389
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: as he said it because he never said he didn't

1390
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 1: say it. You're lying. No, I'm not lying. He heard

1391
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: you say a little black boy and you just see

1392
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: that nigga did it. I thought they heard him. But

1393
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: if nobody heard him, he ain't say it, you go,

1394
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: you take that to the grave. Nobody heard him, Nobody

1395
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:19,839
Speaker 1: heard him with their own ears, nobody heard him directly.

1396
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: He shouldn't be punished. He shouldn't be punished. I didn't

1397
01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: want him, I didn't will him or anything. And then

1398
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 1: I taketed her back and I was just like, I

1399
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: do apolog jobs on him making those remarks and it

1400
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 1: will be him things. Well, he shouldn't have wrote that,

1401
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 1: he should have said he didn't say it, but I

1402
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 1: was I would stick with he ain't say it. Nobody

1403
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 1: heard him said he ain't said period period. All right, mom,

1404
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 1: have a good one. All right. We got more coming

1405
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 1: up next with a breakfast club, the breakfast club. Did

1406
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: you know it's that time, asked Charlemagne, and DJ n't

1407
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 1: be anything. Pick it up, pick it up. It's time

1408
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: to ask see any want to get everybody? It's DJ

1409
01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 1: Envy and Ngulu yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the

1410
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 1: breakfast club in time for ass c and E. If

1411
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: you need relationship advice to any type of advice, you

1412
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: can call us allout. Who's this yo? Yo? This nanimous?

1413
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:14,800
Speaker 1: Do not have to be anonymous on the radio. You

1414
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:16,639
Speaker 1: gotta do to say another name. You could have made

1415
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 1: up a name. But what's your question for seeing me? Bro?

1416
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 1: He was still searching names either way. But little I

1417
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:24,640
Speaker 1: was living food right, and I knew the person I

1418
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: was living food too, But it was an old cobor

1419
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: so and the dude, the boyfriend came out and started like,

1420
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 1: what's the just saying with my girl? And he stole

1421
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:37,680
Speaker 1: on me. I'm literally delivering food during that small that

1422
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 1: dude stole on me. You know what I'm saying. I'm

1423
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: trying to figure out did I get straining owners that

1424
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 1: I would talentate the hood way like, man, shut up

1425
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:46,640
Speaker 1: that man punch you in your face right then, and

1426
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 1: then you ain't doing nothing. You ain't gonna do nothing

1427
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 1: after in fact, leave it alone. You go back to

1428
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:52,640
Speaker 1: the house. Bro, you better stay away from that man.

1429
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 1: Hey that point, Hey, that punch hurt everything? Hey did

1430
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: that punch hurt? Nah? Don't lie, I tell the truth,

1431
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 1: tell the troop. So why you ain't hit him back? Then?

1432
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 1: If the punch ain't hurt, because it was like literally

1433
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 1: stole on me. Then literally just put me in a

1434
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 1: joke old and then he put you in the dope

1435
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 1: feet So you ain't he beat you up? Then he

1436
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 1: beat you up. It's okay. So when you got back up,

1437
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 1: what happened? Literally he will go. When you woke up,

1438
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: he was going. Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.

1439
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna stick around. You've been sleep for ten minutes.

1440
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: And the words of Craig's daddy and Friday, Okay, you

1441
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 1: win something, you lose something, but you live to fight

1442
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 1: another day. Huh. No, man, you ain't gonna do nothing.

1443
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: Didn't stop, But why do you want to reach out?

1444
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 1: Leave you exactly on his head. How old are you?

1445
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: How old are you? How old are you? How old

1446
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 1: are you? Well? Listen, I was born in nineteen hundred

1447
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 1: and seventy eight. I turned four. I turned forty four yesterday.

1448
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:52,560
Speaker 1: You come. We come from an era where if you

1449
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 1: lose a fish fight, you just lose a fifth fight,

1450
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: leaving a death. Leave it alone. Brot that I ain't that. Okay, Well,

1451
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: listen this. If you want to retaliate asking for a

1452
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 1: fan one, then oh that's a I don't do that

1453
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: because he bro with me. Trust me, bro he whooped

1454
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 1: your ass one time. It ain't worth it ain't worth

1455
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 1: it because think about it like this, right, think about

1456
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: it like this. You retaliate, you do something, now you

1457
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 1: going to jail. It's if it's a fair one. I'm

1458
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: cool with that though, as long as they ain't. No like, oh,

1459
01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: it's this wouldn't dude put him in to do and

1460
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,120
Speaker 1: he's just gonna get putting the dope feet again. You're

1461
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 1: gonna train, You're gonna train before the next fight. That look,

1462
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 1: it ain't no training for it, ain't no training with it.

1463
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 1: You need training, man, It's okay, man trading. Listen, listen,

1464
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: I didn't got punched on camera. Bro, you know you

1465
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 1: don't seen the Can I get a drip? I ain't

1466
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,639
Speaker 1: got no time for retaliation? Who cans like we're too old?

1467
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:45,760
Speaker 1: Let it go? Let it go, you've already know you

1468
01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 1: that's even worse. Exactly, I got punched in the head

1469
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 1: and got seen by millions of people. You think you

1470
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 1: think I'm sitting around here. You know, all the more

1471
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,640
Speaker 1: reason for you to let it go, sir, all the

1472
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 1: more reason. No. Why, Okay, jail, You're gonna chaliate, You're

1473
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 1: gonna hurt him. You're gonna go to jail. Is it

1474
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 1: worth it? No, we don't know if you're gonna die.

1475
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him now, Okay, So imagine question. If

1476
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 1: you go get a fair one, you and him just

1477
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,680
Speaker 1: fight straight up. If he beat you again, then what

1478
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 1: he gonna go for a third time? I'm gonna call

1479
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:18,640
Speaker 1: him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm gonna call him

1480
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,720
Speaker 1: a fight? Dude? S all right, I'm gonna tell you

1481
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: what to do it then, because you said you either

1482
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 1: want to fight again or you want to press charges. Right, Oh,

1483
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:28,240
Speaker 1: you just said you want to get a rescreened or

1484
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 1: to get restrain or the you got a press charges?

1485
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 1: Oh I want you to press charges? No, no, no, no,

1486
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: I'd rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a

1487
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 1: rescreen in order. You're about to lose your job and

1488
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 1: you're about to go jove with doing something stupid. Man.

1489
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:45,680
Speaker 1: That man, that man then beat you up so bad

1490
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: you want to get a rescreen in order. So I

1491
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 1: don't know. Why are you acting all tough? Now? Let

1492
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,560
Speaker 1: it go? Bro, have a good one, man, But no,

1493
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 1: don't hang up on this. Many don't want to. You're

1494
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 1: gonna let it go. Maybe do you have kids? Bro? Nah? Man,

1495
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: let it your mom and daddy go. We have to

1496
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 1: visit you in jail because you're gonna do something stupid.

1497
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:03,680
Speaker 1: Leave it a little man. When some we lose something,

1498
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 1: let it go. Did your girl? See you did your girl?

1499
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 1: So you get beat up? Nah? All right, then, so

1500
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:11,120
Speaker 1: let it go. Nobody saw nobody even know that's why,

1501
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 1: and you anonymous. Nobody knows this happened. Bro, If it's

1502
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 1: not on video, nobody saw it. Let it go. Chase

1503
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: the narratives tell everybody you beat him up. Nobody seen it.

1504
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 1: He pour it up. You could have called up in line?

1505
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: Does yes? I ain't a will see, don't do nothing,

1506
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 1: stupid bro. God bless you man, goodness G then you're

1507
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 1: healing energy man, he got knocked up out. The man

1508
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:34,560
Speaker 1: then hit you and choked you out, and then you

1509
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: talk about you. The first thing he did when he

1510
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 1: called up, he was saying, should I get a restraining

1511
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: on it all? Retaliate? Then you're not bad. Somebody got

1512
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: to do you. If you want to get your grain orders,

1513
01:13:43,479 --> 01:13:45,640
Speaker 1: just get the restraint. Let's relaxed, man, come on, let

1514
01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: it go. Breakfast Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

1515
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 1: n the guy we are to Breakfast Club. You got

1516
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 1: a positive know for the people? Ain't a positive? Note

1517
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 1: of the day is simply this life is ironic. It

1518
01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:01,880
Speaker 1: takes depression to know happiness. It takes scress to understand calm.

1519
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: It takes absence, the value presence. Breakfast Club is 'all.

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Speaker 1: Finish with y'all dumb