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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with bringing something along with you for

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Speaker 2: a first date, depending on who you are.

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Speaker 1: Could be like a small flask. Oh, could be a taser.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta be safe. I guess it.

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Speaker 2: Could be a blow up Yoda doll for after hours pleasure.

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Speaker 3: I was thinking also for at because anyone would leave

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Speaker 3: you alone if you brought that.

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Speaker 2: Y Or you could also bring along a real life

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Speaker 2: human being, because that's what one of our listeners, Chavon did,

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Speaker 2: she brought a real person on her first date with her.

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Speaker 3: You make it sound like an accessory, Jeffrey, It's possible.

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Speaker 4: Von.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Were they out of inflatable Yoda's that day or what

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Speaker 2: was the thinking there?

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I hadn't even thought about going that route, And

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Speaker 5: I know it's weird, but I'm just getting into online

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Speaker 5: dating and I'm just like trying to be super careful.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so make a note of inflatable Yoda's. What

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Speaker 3: you just did?

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Speaker 6: I see who did you bring?

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Speaker 4: Go? Is it a friend a stranger?

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Speaker 5: It's one of my good friends. In hindsight, maybe she

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Speaker 5: wasn't like the best choice.

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Speaker 3: Definitely gone with a bodyguard instead.

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Speaker 2: So before we get to the friend. Can you tell

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Speaker 2: us about the guy that you went out with.

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Speaker 1: What's his deal?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? He was super cool, like not somebody I would

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Speaker 5: normally go after. His name is Joel.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? What was different about him?

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Speaker 5: Because he's a bald guy and that's but I actually

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Speaker 5: told him that.

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Speaker 2: And oh no, wait, what you told him online that

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Speaker 2: you're not into bald dudes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that I'm usually not. I'm just trying to be

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Speaker 5: like honest, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, that's.

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Speaker 7: Obviously he went.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I swipe right on people just to tell them, no,

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Speaker 2: you're not my tight.

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Speaker 5: Weird.

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Speaker 3: What was his response when you said that to him?

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what was so great is he was like,

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Speaker 5: I make up for it in other areas. He said,

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Speaker 5: my arm hit hair is three times longer.

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Speaker 6: Than That's good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is that a joker?

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Speaker 4: He's funny.

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Speaker 2: It's funny to some people, I guess, like instant rejected.

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Speaker 5: I mean, he made me laugh, and I figured that

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Speaker 5: I would give it a try, so I said yes

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Speaker 5: when he invited me to go get dinner with him. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I was nervous, though, that's the same when you're new

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Speaker 5: to this, like meeting someone and I mean there's all

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Speaker 5: kinds of like scary stories and.

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Speaker 6: As a guy, we're creepy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I like share a location, I don't like bring

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Speaker 3: a friend to the location and a text. Well, and

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Speaker 3: hadn't you chatted with this guy for long enough to

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Speaker 7: I know?

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Speaker 5: But you just hear about like people getting catfished and

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Speaker 5: I was like, I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know, dude, he's bald, he's not gonna catfish.

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Speaker 1: Maybe his under.

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Speaker 2: Arm was a catfish situation. He said, But how did

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Speaker 2: it go when you met up with him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean that's the thing. Like, Okay, so I

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Speaker 5: brought my friend like just as a security measure, and

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Speaker 5: I did not tell him about it beforehand.

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Speaker 3: Why would you not tell him?

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Speaker 6: What was his reaction?

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, so I showed up early and I was

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Speaker 5: like talking with her at the bar, but I didn't

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Speaker 5: see that he was already there. So he came over

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Speaker 5: and he said hi, and I introduced him to my friend, Saltine.

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Speaker 3: Saltine. Did you say Saltine like the Cracker? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 3: that's her real name or is that a nickname?

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Speaker 5: That's her real name?

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Speaker 2: It could if you see an extra woman there.

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Speaker 6: I would have been like, oh, is this some other situations? Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I was curious, like, is Saltine hot?

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Speaker 2: Is it possible that she distractedly?

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Speaker 6: She's very white?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she's really cute. And Joel was really

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Speaker 5: polite about it. I think he was definitely surprised, but

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So you and Joel and Saltine all sat

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Speaker 5: Well, we had a drink at the bar, and then

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Speaker 5: the host came to tell us that our table was ready,

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Speaker 5: and he asked if we could get another chair. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: but I had said no, like I wanted to eat

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Speaker 3: She's gonna sit alone. Why would she just go home?

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Speaker 3: At that point, He's still hovering broke.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she was like really outgoing, you know, I

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Speaker 4: Great.

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Speaker 2: I think most people will be like, sure, I'll just

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Speaker 2: stay here, have another drink, have some food. She'll keep

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Speaker 2: an eye on you from a distance while a good time.

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Speaker 1: How was the one on one time with Joel?

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Speaker 5: So it was really nice, but she came over to

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Speaker 3: I did not host that, So why was that so bad?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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Speaker 3: I mean, like everybody already.

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Speaker 2: Knows she's probably lonely though sitting over there.

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Speaker 1: At that point?

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Speaker 3: Is that when Joel's like mood changed.

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Speaker 5: I mean she like went back to the bar, but

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Speaker 5: then she was texting me like, hey, we need to

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Speaker 5: leave now. And he handled it well. But then after

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Speaker 5: the date, I sent him a message and I told

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Speaker 5: him that I wanted to hang out again, and I.

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Speaker 4: Got no reply.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I came across as such a weirdo.

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Speaker 4: You know you did well.

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Speaker 3: You brought Saltine with him?

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Speaker 4: Friend reason.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I don't know what the reason is exactly,

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Speaker 5: but like it's been a little while now and I've

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Speaker 5: with different guys, but no one is as cool as

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Speaker 5: he was, and I really.

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Speaker 1: Liked him crawl.

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Speaker 3: Right, So you couldn't find a better option. We're gonna

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Speaker 3: call him.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 6: We can have Saltine on a third line.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think so, we're gonna play a song,

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Speaker 2: we'll come back, We'll call Joel and try and get

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Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Was Saltine on the phone, Oh okay, I'm into it.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Let's do the second date update, next

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Speaker 1: second date update.

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Speaker 2: Some strange names that we've heard on this show before

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Speaker 2: include Lati Gray, who you might remember had more than

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Speaker 1: It was a huge tiger enthusiast.

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Speaker 3: Were like, which game first?

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Speaker 2: The name or We also had a young lady named

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Speaker 2: Elizabeth or not Elizabeth Elizabeth thir.

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Speaker 1: With an e R at the end.

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Speaker 3: It's a difficult one.

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Speaker 2: It was interesting for when Brooke was trying to make

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Speaker 2: a point saying now Elizabeth or.

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Speaker 3: Elizabeth or I stuttered at the end.

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Speaker 2: And now we have a new person on the phone.

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Speaker 2: They're actually not on with us here, but she's a

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Speaker 2: large part of the story. Her name is Saltine.

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Speaker 3: I'll never forget it.

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Speaker 2: Saltine tagged along on the date with our listener Chaven,

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Speaker 2: who was nervous about going on an online date for

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Speaker 2: the very first time, and so while she was over

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Speaker 2: at dinner with her date Joel, Saltine sat over it

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Speaker 2: table and embarrassed Chavn. So now it's been almost a

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Speaker 2: month and Chavon's hoping to get back again with Joel Chavan,

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Speaker 2: Do you have any last words before we reach out

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Speaker 2: to him.

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Speaker 8: I know I messed up when I took Saltine, but

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Speaker 8: I really like this guy, like he is like the

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Speaker 8: best thing, especially to what I've been going out with since.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, awesome, And it was all Saltine's fault. We'll

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Speaker 2: just blame it on her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 2: If you can blame it on her and then you

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Speaker 2: just say you're so awesome, I regret everything I think

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Speaker 2: is the easy piece. Maybe there's a whole different reason though.

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Speaker 2: Let's just called Joel and see what he has to say.

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Speaker 1: You ready, Oh, oh my god? All right, deep breath,

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Joel?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey Joel.

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Speaker 2: My name is jeff from a morning radio show that

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Speaker 2: you may have heard of called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I think I've heard of you, guys. Cool.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for the good review.

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Speaker 6: We've heard it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: The funny thing is we heard of you too.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, good things too about you, Joel.

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Speaker 2: We heard it from somebody that you went out on

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Speaker 2: a date with a little while ago named Chavn.

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Speaker 3: Oh you do remember she said like thirty days, like

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Speaker 3: a month ago, that you guys went out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, getting hints from the tone of

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Speaker 2: but we kind of knew that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, uh no it was not.

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Speaker 3: Was it funny?

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Speaker 4: You laughed? It's just uh So we went out to

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Speaker 4: dinner like a month ago, and when I went out

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Speaker 6: You remember her friend's name.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Saltine. Yeah. I thought it was crazy because when

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Speaker 4: we matched online, I thought her name was beautiful. I

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Speaker 4: love the name Chavon. And then on the date she

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Speaker 4: this is the most absurd thing I've ever heard of

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Speaker 4: my life.

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Speaker 2: Chavanne said that you seem to be really cool with it.

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Speaker 2: You were able to basically roll with the evening, which

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Speaker 2: is awesome.

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Speaker 1: How did it go?

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to be a dick about it. It

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Speaker 4: was weird having another person there, but so I suggested

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Speaker 4: it was get a table for three, and Chavon just

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Speaker 4: said she's going to sit at the bar and watch us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah weird.

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Speaker 4: Immediately red flag. So somebody who's gonna watch us?

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Speaker 6: Okay, you're not into that lifestyle, chaperone?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean I I do enjoy watching sometimes

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Speaker 2: when other couples get in you watch.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's fun for all.

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Speaker 4: I'm just not into that voyeuristic lifestyle.

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Speaker 3: That's why she was watching.

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Speaker 2: Come on us, Just wait, you're not about But Chavanne

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Speaker 2: told us that Saltine is kind of a like a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she she seemed pretty cool again, like I

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Speaker 3: What is she supposed to do? Twenty minutes anset that.

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Speaker 4: Then she starts coming at me saying how I'm the

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Speaker 4: the fun one that is boring. There, She's totally like, no,

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Speaker 4: Chavon had gone up to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 6: So you're with Saltine now she's the fun one.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not with Saltine. I'm not with any of them.

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Speaker 3: Oh and that sex for Chavon. She thinks she's bringing

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Speaker 3: and she's like to trying to steal her man.

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Speaker 4: Look. Ten minutes later, Saltine is getting like carted out

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Speaker 3: So that's the worry that's gonna be hard for her

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actually she's our kind of heard that, Joel, because

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Speaker 2: I didn't let you know this before. But Chavon has

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Speaker 2: actually been on the other line listening this entire time. Wow,

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Speaker 2: just spying in on the conversation like Saltine did. And

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, did you know that, Cheffon?

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Speaker 7: No, No, I had no idea.

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Speaker 4: I had no idea, Chevon. You know what, I don't

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Speaker 4: have any idea about how did she get my number? What?

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Speaker 1: Who got your number?

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Speaker 4: Saltine?

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Speaker 1: What what do you mean?

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Speaker 4: She's texting me apologizing about that night, saying how sorry

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Speaker 4: she was, like begging me to go back out with

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, she wants to.

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Speaker 3: Say you pamp. Is that what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god?

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Speaker 6: She sounds like she's a stable person.

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Speaker 7: I don't even really know what to say. I mean,

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Speaker 7: I'm imagining that she probably got your number through my phone.

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Speaker 7: I obviously didn't give it to her, And like this

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Speaker 7: is not a representation of.

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Speaker 8: How I am as a person at all. Like I

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Speaker 8: had no idea that she would backstat me like this and.

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Speaker 3: Talking to her about her when she was in the bathroom,

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Speaker 3: that was totally backstading.

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Speaker 2: What about the part where she tried to fix the relationship.

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Speaker 6: It was like, you should go out here?

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Speaker 4: What type?

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Speaker 9: It's not okay that she did that.

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Speaker 7: She should have stayed out of it.

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Speaker 9: Like she made enough of a mess when she came

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Speaker 9: then sling your number out of my phone trying.

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Speaker 7: To pay you to go out with me.

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Speaker 9: Like that's so messed up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know that she asked me out, No.

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Speaker 3: Wait, via text or when when she was drunk at

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Speaker 3: the bar.

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Speaker 4: She texted me like last week asking if i'd be

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Speaker 4: her date to some like dental hygienis ball.

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Speaker 1: Oh she is.

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Speaker 7: I mean she's wild and crazy and.

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Speaker 9: Like I've seen her do some shady stuff, but like,

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Speaker 9: I never thought she would do something like this to me.

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Speaker 3: And I bet you've been talking to her about how

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Speaker 3: much you've been thinking about Joel and about how you

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Speaker 3: wish you could go out with him again. Like that

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Speaker 3: is hard to hear.

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Speaker 2: Let's just yeah, I think to me, it sounds like

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Speaker 2: Chavn is on the brink of cutting Saltine out of

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Speaker 2: her life permanently, which.

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Speaker 3: May not be sad.

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Speaker 2: So with Oh my god, I don't know if that's true, Savon,

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Speaker 2: But if it is, Joel, now that Saltine is out

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Speaker 2: of the picture, would you be willing to go out

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Speaker 6: She's the stable one.

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Speaker 1: The boring one.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a good thing right now. Sorry, a boring

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Speaker 6: luten free date with and.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: Hell no, you know they're best friends. It's hard to

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Speaker 4: just like friends not my best friend.

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Speaker 9: Like I know, I know I messed up. I know

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Speaker 9: that it was super weird and creepy what I did.

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Speaker 9: I was nervous because it was my first time online dating.

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Speaker 9: But I really like you, and I would just appreciate

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Speaker 9: just one more chance. Please. I swear to God, Plutine's

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Speaker 9: not going to be there. She's not going to be

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Speaker 9: anywhere near me ever. Again, Honestly, I'm not crazy like her,

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Speaker 9: and I was just really like, I just lost my

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Speaker 9: best friend. Like, please, let this be some sort of

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Speaker 9: like consolation.

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Speaker 4: Prise, Joel.

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Speaker 2: Really, Saltine will not be anywhere on your date, but

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Speaker 2: she will still be tracking your phone, So just keep

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Speaker 6: But I say, give Chavn one more chance.

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Speaker 3: You got to say yes to that, Joel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, particular relations Chavon.

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Speaker 6: Chavon'ses getting glode.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning,