WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Adventures In Catering

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<v Speaker 1>a guy on the phone for a second date update today.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request is kind of weird,

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<v Speaker 1>okay because normally when people write into the show for help,

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<v Speaker 1>there was an actual date that happened. Yeah, but Kurt

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't really been out with this woman yet. Well then

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<v Speaker 1>why doesn't countess? I'm sorry? Why are we wasting time

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<v Speaker 1>with people that are falling? Well, it's kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know middle school rules, where Kurt wants us to

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<v Speaker 1>ask her friend to go ask her if she likes him,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she'll tell her friend to come back to us,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll report it back to Kurt. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>like like like likeness circle? Yes? No? Or maybe on

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<v Speaker 1>this crumpled up piece of paper? Can no one be

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<v Speaker 1>an adult these days? No? I don't know, Kurt? You

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<v Speaker 1>can you? All right? I have been extremely misrepresented already.

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<v Speaker 1>I am an adult. I've asked her out. We've actually

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<v Speaker 1>shared appetizers and fingerfoods, so we kind of happened on

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<v Speaker 1>a day. Okay, well maybe your email just confused me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you tell us a little bit more about her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll break it down for you so that you can

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<v Speaker 1>understand a little better. Oh, thank you so much. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you obviously listen to the show. You need to talk slow.

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<v Speaker 1>I know how to handle you, guys. So what's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Cassie, and how'd you meet her. I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>a server for a catering company, and so I actually

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<v Speaker 1>get hit on by women a lot of these parties,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're usually much molder than me, and the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like cougars who have had a few too many

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<v Speaker 1>champagne flutes. I was going to comment on how hot

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<v Speaker 1>I think men with food are, but now I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to after you finished that sentencear, No, I am

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<v Speaker 1>very young and hip. Oh yeah, so is Cassie one

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<v Speaker 1>of the cougars. No. I finally met a nice, beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>lady who is in my age range. That's exciting, And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you notice her first, or did she

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<v Speaker 1>notice you. I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know when she noticed me, but she was with her

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<v Speaker 1>little group of friends, and she was wearing this very

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<v Speaker 1>sexy little black dress. And I'm very observant, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>young woman. If I noticed that she liked this particular

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<v Speaker 1>little finger food that we were serving as He's mashed

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potato avocado bites. Yea, women in their avocados, they

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<v Speaker 1>can't resist actually are really good. So I noticed that

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<v Speaker 1>she was like really digging the so a buddy of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, dude, let me get that tray.

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<v Speaker 1>So I switched the trades, and then I was like

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<v Speaker 1>circling back to her little group of friends as much

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<v Speaker 1>as possible, just so I could like interact with her

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<v Speaker 1>and just kind of get a feel for you know

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<v Speaker 1>what she was all about. Yeah, for sure, like sprinting

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<v Speaker 1>all the way around the outside of the party and

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<v Speaker 1>coming right back to her. And now I'm realizing why

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<v Speaker 1>all the ogos at these parties are always carrying the

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<v Speaker 1>crappy ass because the hot guys took the good one.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta trade up for the best food. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys would be surprised. That's really actually very accurate. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love getting this insight into the catering world. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you were talking with Cassie a lot. How did

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<v Speaker 1>that go? It was great? I mean she was really flirty.

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<v Speaker 1>She's really funny, like she's waiting and cool. And then

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<v Speaker 1>at one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into

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<v Speaker 1>me because she's been because sometimes I'm kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>dirty girl. I was like, whoa. I'd be like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't because I'm a dirty boy. She's like, no, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>it's why I'm wearing a black dress. I tend to

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<v Speaker 1>stain everything that I owned. She was definitely just like

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<v Speaker 1>being funny. It was cute. Yeah, well that's a good sign, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>your turn to make a move, would you do? I

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<v Speaker 1>fully put my tray down and I just started having

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<v Speaker 1>a full conversation with her. My boss was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta get back to work. But oh, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>catering bad boy. I se So you told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't go on an official date with her, So

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<v Speaker 1>how did this end? At the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, we should hang out, and she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really fun, and we exchanged numbers and we started texting,

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<v Speaker 1>and after what she was doing on a Friday, and

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<v Speaker 1>that got no response, I texted her again and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, what did you get my text? And

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<v Speaker 1>I never heard anything from her. So it's been like

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<v Speaker 1>almost a week, kind of like maybe she has a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was drunk and like didn't actually like me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe you're not as sexy without a

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<v Speaker 1>tray of avocados in your hand. Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she only likes me when she can get free

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<v Speaker 1>little finger foods. Yeah, you were the gateway of the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potatoes. So what what's you her instinct? What is

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<v Speaker 1>your instinct telling you? Maybe she'd turned off by me

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<v Speaker 1>being a cater waiter. I don't know if she gave

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<v Speaker 1>her number. So it is a good sign though, that

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<v Speaker 1>she like took the time to flirt with you and

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<v Speaker 1>gave you her number. I mean those are all signs

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<v Speaker 1>that she probably is single. Yeah that's or she's a

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<v Speaker 1>terrible girlfriend. I don't know exactly. Yeah, And I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she was with like what seemed like all the best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said if she was married or like had

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<v Speaker 1>a boyfriend, she wouldn't be openly flirting with some guy

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<v Speaker 1>in front of all the song. Yeah, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>this sounds hopeful. I think we can get you a date.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call your sweet Potato princess, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date up there. All right, brother, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we all know there's certain things a woman just can't resist,

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<v Speaker 1>like a man with a guitar, a man in a

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<v Speaker 1>freshly pressed uniform, or a man carrying a tray of

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potato of a auto bites, Big boys, she'll definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be whispering I want you in my mouth, even if

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<v Speaker 1>she's only talking to those avocado bites. You guys need

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<v Speaker 1>to be locked up. He is speaking truth right now,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Kurt. That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us for a second ad update. He was carrying

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<v Speaker 1>a tray of delicious appetizers when he met a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Cassie at a party because he was working the

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<v Speaker 1>event as part of a catering team and actually traded

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<v Speaker 1>dishes with another server because he noticed Cassie like that

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<v Speaker 1>particular food, so much, and she seemed to be flirting

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<v Speaker 1>with him, and at the end of the night she

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<v Speaker 1>even said I'd be down to hang out. But she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't responded to any of his techs since then. That's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much the story, Kurt. I just really hope it's

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<v Speaker 1>not one of those situations where it's like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to date the hired help. You know, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>flirt with them, maybe fool around in a coat closet

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<v Speaker 1>really quick, but not date them. It's below me. I mean, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the truth. I want to know it's I can

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<v Speaker 1>move on, but I don't. I don't think she's like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given

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<v Speaker 1>you her phone number if she thought that way, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and she would. Dude, I'm impressed by her. That Napkin

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<v Speaker 1>line about her being a dirty girl, I'm gonna tuck

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<v Speaker 1>that away. I think that's a really nice line to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously, Kurt, you fell for it totally. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, guys, she's really cool. I know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not as sexy when you're saying it to your

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<v Speaker 1>husband while French onion soup is dripping down onto your movement.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, I'm a dirty girl, honey, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>literally like, what is wrong? Can you not put a

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<v Speaker 1>spoon in your mouth correctly? And where'd you get that French? Well? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>dirty girls get things and dirty girls walt. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>we have listeners tuning away by the thousands or turning

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<v Speaker 1>them on. I'm sure that's what it is. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>let's stop grossing people out and call Cassie. Are you ready, Kurt? Yep?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this all right, I'm gonna die the number

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<v Speaker 1>right now here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Cassie? Please? Do you think Hi? Cassie. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this about? This is about a segment we

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<v Speaker 1>do on our show called a second Date Update. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of that before? I might have, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Well. The way it works is if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with someone and afterwards they're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back, you can email our show and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll reach out to that person for you to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the reason why. Oh okay, yeah, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you recently from a guy you

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<v Speaker 1>met named Kurt. Oh. Yeah, this one's kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>because you guys didn't actually go out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just so weird. I'm not really used to

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call like this and just like, Bam, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me about this guy, like a little strange. Ye, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he sounds so nice and cute though, Like, and he

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<v Speaker 1>said that you guys had a really good connection. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was a cool person, but technically I

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<v Speaker 1>never went on a date with him, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I'm really supposed to be like talking about

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<v Speaker 1>all this. Well, okay, let's let's forget the date stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it was a date or not. Like, did you

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<v Speaker 1>like him, did you feel a connection? Because he definitely

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<v Speaker 1>felt one with you. He said that you even told

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<v Speaker 1>him that you'd be down to hang out with him sometime. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would just maybe like in a group setting,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like nothing romantically. And I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>how to tell him that. Are you not single? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not in a relationship. It's just like he's off limits.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just kind of like, yeah, he exchanged numbers,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like nothing's going to happen. There. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm suggesting a group thing, because I did think

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<v Speaker 1>he was really cool. I don't understand why is he

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<v Speaker 1>off limits? If you're single and you think he's cute

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<v Speaker 1>and you like him, what's the problem your parents not

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<v Speaker 1>letting you date yet? Oh my god, Oh my god. No.

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<v Speaker 1>To be one hundred percent honest, one of my friends

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<v Speaker 1>called DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I yeah, but you can't call DIBs on someone

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not interested in you. Like she could call

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<v Speaker 1>Dibbs if he gave her his phone number. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to call Dibbs if he gave you his phone number. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a big group of friends and it was like, literally

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to that night. And you know, we just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like respect this kind of thing in my group

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<v Speaker 1>of friends. But why can't you talk to Rebecca about

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<v Speaker 1>Dibbs because it doesn't make any sense. Did you hear

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<v Speaker 1>her respect the dib I did talk to her about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, I don't want any drama, guys. I just

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<v Speaker 1>really want to avoid that at all cost. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I spoke to her as, she was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like I called dibbs and that means something. So how

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<v Speaker 1>is Rebecca ever even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have Kurt's phone number, or does she? Maybe Kurt gave

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<v Speaker 1>out his phone number to multiple women. No, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>literally was just gonna like text him and see how

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like hooked them up together. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to be the wing woman there, dude. What

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the same like you you call that

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<v Speaker 1>dude and like nobody else gets to hit on him

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<v Speaker 1>that night so that there's no drama later, right, Cassie

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<v Speaker 1>follow me on this one. So basically she saw him first.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Hey, I called DIBs on him, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else has to just kind of fall back and we

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<v Speaker 1>just respect it. It's, you know, it's that whole sister's

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<v Speaker 1>before misters kind of bangs, that is. But I got

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<v Speaker 1>you pose before bros. Makes sense. I just I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of makes sense, but I wonder if it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense to Kurt. But I forgot to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>as that Kurt's been on the other line listening, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Yeah, And he No, I'm serious. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so uncomfortable. Hey Cassie, Hi boy, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all right. Um um, this is so awkward for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I'm really sorry. You have to like

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<v Speaker 1>care all this this way. No, I mean, don't be awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you seem like such a fun, loving, cool

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<v Speaker 1>girl that I have met you, so I'm surprised to

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<v Speaker 1>hear you feel like awkward about this. Yeah, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like a weird situation and you're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>my type. I just want to put that out there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I don't know how much you heard,

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<v Speaker 1>but like basically, Rebecca, my blonde friend, the one that

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<v Speaker 1>was with us, and like the first dress, Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>called DIBs and there's really nothing I can do. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you give me Rebecca's number. I'll call her up.

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<v Speaker 1>We can work this out. WHOA, So you're gonna negotiate,

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<v Speaker 1>Kurt or you're just gonna date her. I'm gonna negotiate.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have an interesting dating her. I'm clearly into Kathy,

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<v Speaker 1>and if her friend is holding her back from like

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<v Speaker 1>seeing a guy that she's into, you, like that's not

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<v Speaker 1>being a friend. So that's a very good point, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, that's so nice of you to say.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't want that kind of drama. I'll lose

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship over it. And it's really too much, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. I mean. She's a really nice person, but

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<v Speaker 1>like she gets pissed off. She's very vindictive. Wait, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she sounds like a kind of terrible friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a totally sweet girl, but I will effing kill you. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if that girl is that much drama, why do you

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<v Speaker 1>even want her in your life anyway? No, we've just

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<v Speaker 1>been friends for forever, you know. It's just the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of person that kind of like has your back and

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<v Speaker 1>all of that, and it's just like always available. But

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<v Speaker 1>he puts her off in one of these kind of ways,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll just like go nuts. Like we have another friend

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<v Speaker 1>in our group who ended up poking up with our

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<v Speaker 1>brother and Rebecca herself pissed off. She had this girl's cartoon.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that is very vindictive. I mean, but a brother

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<v Speaker 1>hook up situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca and he likes me. Sorry, right, that seems even

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<v Speaker 1>worse Okay, I don't know. Let me ask Kathy this.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I go on one fake date with your

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<v Speaker 1>friend Rebecca. Yeah, I'll be like a total pig. I'll like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have terrible manners, like I won't put on Deo

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<v Speaker 1>rant that night, like, and then afterwards it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>dip has been given up, undipped. I don't think it

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<v Speaker 1>works that way. That's really really speed of you to try.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you afraid of losing true love? Jessie and I

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<v Speaker 1>even am true to the dip. Okay, yes, my heart

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<v Speaker 1>is melting right now from every word that comes out

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<v Speaker 1>of Kurt's mouth. Give me one date, and if it's

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<v Speaker 1>horrible and you don't want to see me again, then

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca or whatever her name is, they didn't even need

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<v Speaker 1>to know about it. Oh my god, what do you say? Ridiculous?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like feel pressured right now? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel pressured. Just go out with him while everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is listening, and we will offer to pay for that date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>question group thing? Would you be open to that? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>hang out like in a group and see, like with Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a dumb idea. Cassie him, Guys, there's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl's code. I just can't do it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>girl's code wasn't broken. Come on, if she's a good friend,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll understand, and if not, she'll make me suffer. Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>is signing off as a female that it's okay to

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<v Speaker 1>break girl code on this one. Yes, well, because her

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<v Speaker 1>girl code is entering into ridiculous code. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can only take it so far and always your

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<v Speaker 1>friend's happiness should be at the forefront of every decision,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is not true for Rebecca. Guys, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry, but my decision is final. Oh my god, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna regret this. Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one

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<v Speaker 1>of my buddies set up with Rebecca, someone hotter than

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<v Speaker 1>me that she can like her energy and not worry

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<v Speaker 1>about what a friend does. Oh. I like that, Cassy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not giving up on you, but I'm just letting

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's going on over here. Oh, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are like cuted. That's brocode right there. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on what happens between you two. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>let you guys know. Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and

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<v Speaker 1>go for Kurt, Cassie, I'm so excited moving ninety two

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<v Speaker 1>point five