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Speaker 1: a guy on the phone for a second date update today.

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Speaker 1: His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request is kind of weird,

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Speaker 1: okay because normally when people write into the show for help,

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Speaker 1: there was an actual date that happened. Yeah, but Kurt

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Speaker 1: with people that are falling? Well, it's kind of like,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll report it back to Kurt. Do you

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Speaker 1: like like like likeness circle? Yes? No? Or maybe on

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Speaker 1: this crumpled up piece of paper? Can no one be

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Speaker 1: an adult these days? No? I don't know, Kurt? You

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Speaker 1: can you? All right? I have been extremely misrepresented already.

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Speaker 1: I am an adult. I've asked her out. We've actually

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Speaker 1: a day. Okay, well maybe your email just confused me.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us a little bit more about her.

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Speaker 1: right now here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us.

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Speaker 1: What is this about? This is about a segment we

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Speaker 1: don't know. Well. The way it works is if you

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Speaker 1: To be one hundred percent honest, one of my friends

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Speaker 1: Dibbs if he gave her his phone number. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's the same like you you call that

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Speaker 1: follow me on this one. So basically she saw him first.

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Speaker 1: She said, Hey, I called DIBs on him, and everyone

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Speaker 1: just respect it. It's, you know, it's that whole sister's

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Speaker 1: before misters kind of bangs, that is. But I got

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Speaker 1: you pose before bros. Makes sense. I just I mean,

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Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, And he No, I'm serious. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: why don't you give me Rebecca's number. I'll call her up.

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Speaker 1: We can work this out. WHOA, So you're gonna negotiate,

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Speaker 1: Kurt or you're just gonna date her. I'm gonna negotiate.

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Speaker 1: I don't have an interesting dating her. I'm clearly into Kathy,

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Speaker 1: you know what, that's so nice of you to say.

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Speaker 1: Oh that is very vindictive. I mean, but a brother

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Speaker 1: hook up situation is different than this guy doesn't like you,

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Speaker 1: Rebecca and he likes me. Sorry, right, that seems even

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Speaker 1: worse Okay, I don't know. Let me ask Kathy this.

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Speaker 1: I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but

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Speaker 1: Rebecca or whatever her name is, they didn't even need

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Speaker 1: I feel like feel pressured right now? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: girl's code wasn't broken. Come on, if she's a good friend,

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Speaker 1: let you guys know. Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and

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Speaker 1: go for Kurt, Cassie, I'm so excited moving ninety two

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