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Speaker 1: second date of day. You know you must have really
Speaker 1: screwed up on a date if you actually save somebody's
Speaker 1: life and you still don't get a call back. What Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what you could have done, Patrick, but
Speaker 1: that's what happened on Patrick's date. He said he actually
Speaker 1: helped save somebody's life, but he's still not getting a
Speaker 1: call back. Oh my god, what's up? Man? How are
Speaker 1: you hey? How's it going? Dude? This is good. It's
Speaker 1: like an insane date. You know what. It was honestly
Speaker 1: one of the craziest experiences I've ever had. Why you
Speaker 1: said you saved somebody's life. Unless that happens to you
Speaker 1: all the time, I would have to think it's a
Speaker 1: crazy experience. No, No, I don't do that all the time.
Speaker 1: I know that's I figured that you didn't. But thank
Speaker 1: you for clarifying. Before we talk about what happened, let's
Speaker 1: talk about the girl you went out with a little bit.
Speaker 1: What's her name, Jennifer Jennifer. All right, and where did
Speaker 1: you meet Jennifer? We met on an app Actually, okay,
Speaker 1: that's pretty common. Was there anything that stood out to
Speaker 1: you about her? I mean, she'd actually done a couple
Speaker 1: of triathlons and I used to do some, and we
Speaker 1: just kind of got going back and forth about our
Speaker 1: training routine and we just kind of hit it off
Speaker 1: and we had some common ground. Okay, that's always nice.
Speaker 1: It gives you something to talk about at least to
Speaker 1: get things rolling. Yeah. Yeah, I mean she's actually really accomplished.
Speaker 1: So I just, you know, I kind of wanted to
Speaker 1: impress her, but wanted to not act like I was
Speaker 1: impressing her kind of thing, you know. Okay, so I
Speaker 1: want to get to the part where you save somebody's life,
Speaker 1: because I'm curious about that. But did you have a
Speaker 1: good time with her? What did you guys do? She
Speaker 1: was awesome. I made restaurant reservations at this super fancy place. Oh,
Speaker 1: so you want to do impress her if you're making
Speaker 1: visions at places like that, I did, you know, And
Speaker 1: I had just gotten a promotion at work, so I
Speaker 1: was actually kind of spoiling myself. I just had a
Speaker 1: good feeling about this girl. So yeah, I popped down
Speaker 1: for this okay, and it was going really well. Um.
Speaker 1: I had actually done some training beforehand that day, so
Speaker 1: I had forgotten to eat in between my last training
Speaker 1: and meeting with her because I was kind of running
Speaker 1: over there and uh yeah, so by the time we
Speaker 1: got to the restaurant, I was super hungry. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: it was doing a lot of the talking for me. Unfortunately.
Speaker 1: Were you angry? Were you? Were you like hungry and
Speaker 1: upset with her the whole time until you ate? You
Speaker 1: know what I get, I get a little more zend out,
Speaker 1: Like before the hungry happens. I was getting to the
Speaker 1: angry okay, But you know when I get food in
Speaker 1: front of me, sometimes that need just kind of takes over.
Speaker 1: Would you do to your food? Well, I you know,
Speaker 1: I have a very personal relationship with it. We'll say
Speaker 1: what is right. Maybe that's the reason you're not getting
Speaker 1: to call back. I mean, if you're doing what I
Speaker 1: think it sounds to me like you did with your meal,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call you back. It sounds like you shouldn't
Speaker 1: be doing that in public spaces. Whatever it is you
Speaker 1: need only in private. I just need to chew my
Speaker 1: food a certain amount of times before I swallow it.
Speaker 1: I was I was taught at a very young age
Speaker 1: that you have to chew your food or you won't
Speaker 1: be savoring it. You count while you're chewing. It's sort
Speaker 1: of a rhythmic thing. Interesting. It's more of like a
Speaker 1: like a one two three four one two three four? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: where are you able? Are you able to multitask? And
Speaker 1: I don't know, have conversation while your rhythm chewing is
Speaker 1: going on. Absolutely, I've actually, um, we talked about the triathlons,
Speaker 1: I've I've done it on the bike a few times. Oh, chewing,
Speaker 1: I still don't know talking to There's a little gummies
Speaker 1: that they give you for energy as you're going down
Speaker 1: the like final stretch to run out of energy, and
Speaker 1: you have to like eat these chewy gummy things. And
Speaker 1: it's actually a perfect way to rhythmically pump with the
Speaker 1: bike as you're chewing your food. So, okay, rhythmic pump
Speaker 1: was not where I thought this conversation would go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what about the part where you saved somebody's life? How
Speaker 1: did that happen? Right? So we pay the check, we
Speaker 1: leave the restaurant and we see this commotion gathering about
Speaker 1: half a block away from the restaurant on the sidewalk,
Speaker 1: and we just kind of didn't think of anything of
Speaker 1: it at first, but but this commotion started growing. Somebody
Speaker 1: was yelling help, so we walked over to see what
Speaker 1: was going on, and there was a man on the
Speaker 1: ground that had collapsed. Oh yeah, it was not breathing. Coincidentally,
Speaker 1: at my work, we had I just got a promotion,
Speaker 1: so I had new responsibilities and they trained me in CPR.
Speaker 1: So that's crazy. I told you, this was one of
Speaker 1: the most insane experiences I've ever had. And so did
Speaker 1: you actually do CPR or did you screech and run away?
Speaker 1: Don't forget everything you learned. I did everything that I
Speaker 1: learned the previous day. That's great. And it took a
Speaker 1: couple of times. I had to go through it. I
Speaker 1: hate to say it, but I had to give this
Speaker 1: guy mouth to mouth time. Yeah. I think it's all
Speaker 1: right if you're saving somebody, I hope, I hope. So
Speaker 1: I mean, if you if you can't kiss a dude
Speaker 1: when you're saving his life, when can you, I know,
Speaker 1: I don't think, Oh my god, are you guys that
Speaker 1: scared of mail on male touch that you consider it kissing?
Speaker 1: Did it work? I was able to revive him and
Speaker 1: when he opened his eyes. I mean, I just I
Speaker 1: can't remember a more important thing that I have done
Speaker 1: in my life that is really beautiful, that really is
Speaker 1: I mean timing. I mean, it's just one of those
Speaker 1: once in a lifetime things that I don't know we'll
Speaker 1: ever repeat itself. So okay, and what's your date? Think
Speaker 1: we had had a really great conversation in a really
Speaker 1: great time, but this was a moment where we really
Speaker 1: saw each other. That's deep. Yeah, sounds like it was
Speaker 1: more of your moment than hers, though, because she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. Either that or it was her moment
Speaker 1: and she freaked her out. I wish I knew. We'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back and get your second date
Speaker 1: update and see if we can figure out why she
Speaker 1: isn't calling you back. Okay, sounds good? All right, hang
Speaker 1: onuoking Cuba in the morning. Update around in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update, and if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: Patrick is on the phone and he wants to call Jennifer.
Speaker 1: They went out for dinner, but he ended up saving
Speaker 1: somebody's life after the date. When they were leaving, apparently
Speaker 1: a man had passed out outside the restaurant, and Patrick
Speaker 1: performed CPR on the dude and then revived him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and Patrick this, you know, I was thinking about it.
Speaker 1: And if we find out that, like you set this
Speaker 1: whole thing up to look like a hero on your
Speaker 1: first date, I gotta tell you, I would be so
Speaker 1: proud of you. I'm so proud. I don't know about
Speaker 1: everybody else, but I will be so proud of you
Speaker 1: if you set that up. Yeah. I don't think I
Speaker 1: can give myself that much credit. Yeah, really, Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: have you talked to her at all since your date? No,
Speaker 1: I've tried to reach out to her several times, and
Speaker 1: I mean not too many, you know. I mean, it
Speaker 1: is pretty crazy that she hasn't called you back, even
Speaker 1: if she didn't like you that much. I mean, you, guys,
Speaker 1: that's a pretty intense thing to share. I thought it
Speaker 1: was a pretty special moment myself. Okay, Okay, that's probably
Speaker 1: not the right way to describe a man almost dying,
Speaker 1: but whatever, when he came back, that was the special moment. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna down her phone number right now and see
Speaker 1: if we can figure it out. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is this Jennifer. This is Jennifer. How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning,
Speaker 1: the radio show. Hi. How are you? I'm okay? Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: We'll have a good day. No, I'm just confused. Sorry,
Speaker 1: what do you confuse about? Like? Why are you guys calling? Oh? Okay,
Speaker 1: I can help you with that, Okay, if you want, please,
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because one of our listeners sent
Speaker 1: us an email about you, about me, m I got
Speaker 1: even more confusing just now, didn't it? Yeah? It did well.
Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and end up not calling them after,
Speaker 1: they can email us and we'll get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and try to find out what happened. So Patrick
Speaker 1: emailed us and asked us to call you. Okay, and
Speaker 1: he told us about your date, even the part where
Speaker 1: you said he saved a dude's life. And he also
Speaker 1: told us that he's trying to reach out to you
Speaker 1: a few times but he's heard nothing. Yeah, this is crazy. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: your date sounded crazy. It was crazy to say the least. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: the CPR part was was insane. Okay, I guess the
Speaker 1: question we all had is, how do you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and they actually end up
Speaker 1: saving someone's life and then you don't call them back?
Speaker 1: Was he that bad? Yeah? Wow, it makes his sound terrible.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I guess, like I think Patrick,
Speaker 1: you know, nice and obviously like him saving that life
Speaker 1: was like really, I don't know what to say, like
Speaker 1: heroic and great, but like I just I just didn't
Speaker 1: feel like it was because it's a match. I don't know,
Speaker 1: just no chemistry or what I mean. There was chemistry,
Speaker 1: but like honestly, okay, I don't know. I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: be honest. I guess since we're doing this. Um, like
Speaker 1: I was just driving home, like he ordered, he got
Speaker 1: me an uber and like, you know, at first, I
Speaker 1: thought it was like really great that he gave CPR
Speaker 1: to the homeless person, and like, I mean, he saved
Speaker 1: the life, so looked amazing. But I just like realized
Speaker 1: that he like gave CPR to a homeless person, and
Speaker 1: you think that they should all die whatever you like
Speaker 1: the way you just said that made you sound totally
Speaker 1: and completely evil, heartless. I'm not sure which Yeah, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Bill, That's not what I meant. He revived
Speaker 1: a homeless person and they're a scourge on our city
Speaker 1: and I don't know why he would do that. No, Okay,
Speaker 1: what I meant was that, like, I just feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of homeless people probably have like some diseases
Speaker 1: and what. Yeah, And I just kind of felt like
Speaker 1: if he, you know, basically kissed a homeless person, that
Speaker 1: like he probably got something. And I just like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, are you freaking kidding me? So you feel
Speaker 1: like he's dirty? Now? What is your problem? I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what to say. Like I'm
Speaker 1: just being honest. I just feel like you probably have
Speaker 1: something and I didn't want to I don't want to
Speaker 1: get it. Okay, Okay, okay, you sound like one the
Speaker 1: least medical person ever. Okay. And two how that is?
Speaker 1: I mean there's are so many like maybes what ifs?
Speaker 1: I know, but it's it's been enough, I guess for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you think he has? I
Speaker 1: have no idea. I would start with TV. I would
Speaker 1: start with TV and then I would work back from there.
Speaker 1: At least thetis like a B or C. I don't know,
Speaker 1: they might even have a new one who knows. Hold up,
Speaker 1: if if he hadn't been there, and you walked out
Speaker 1: and you saw a man unresponsive on the street, and
Speaker 1: you judged him as homeless, even though you'd actually probably
Speaker 1: don't even know that he's technically home or not, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't save them for fear of getting a disease. I
Speaker 1: I in that situation, I don't think that I would
Speaker 1: like be able to just jump right in and like
Speaker 1: save a light. But so I just think in general
Speaker 1: like I would be too. I don't I wouldn't know
Speaker 1: how to do that, and like I so I just
Speaker 1: think that at that point, Okay, the bottom line is
Speaker 1: the reason that you didn't call him back is you
Speaker 1: think he might have contracted something from a homeless man. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know how many times I've heard that after
Speaker 1: a day, There's been a lot of reasons that I
Speaker 1: haven't gotten a call back, Yeason, Jennifer, I do need
Speaker 1: to let you know that Patrick is on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation wants to talk to you, though, Um, okay, Patrick, Yeah, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm I don't think I know what to say. Yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm just you know what I mean, I gotta just say,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm in I'm in a I'm just I'm in shock.
Speaker 1: I can't believe that that you that you would think
Speaker 1: that are you liking nice shock as I'm in like
Speaker 1: furious shock over here? I don't know, I mean, I
Speaker 1: just I'm actually just kind of confused because you know,
Speaker 1: from your profile and from the conversations we had before
Speaker 1: and during our date, I mean, you seem like a
Speaker 1: really educated young lady, and I wow, I'm just confused.
Speaker 1: I'm just confused that you would think that I could
Speaker 1: contracted the leaves from a brief encounter with a man's mouth.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, he splaying like that. Who knows right?
Speaker 1: I had to give him mouth to mouth. He was
Speaker 1: not responding to the initial CPR that I was giving him,
Speaker 1: so I had to do what I did. I mean,
Speaker 1: I totally get it, and I think that again, it
Speaker 1: was like very heroic and amazing. You should have done it.
Speaker 1: I just think that I can. I am allowed to
Speaker 1: have my own feelings about it. Afterwards, that guy looked
Speaker 1: like he had a disease, but you can't. You but
Speaker 1: what made him look like he had a disease? Give
Speaker 1: us some details. I'm just like his hair was just
Speaker 1: like so like tangled tangled hair disease. So no, I mean,
Speaker 1: he pretty much just looked like a hipster to me, Jennifer,
Speaker 1: yeahs and hipster like you're kissing dude you meet on
Speaker 1: apps you think that they don't have disease. They have
Speaker 1: is just as much chance for disease as a homeless
Speaker 1: guy on the street. I mean, now, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just like I don't want to debate about this
Speaker 1: for forever. Like I just this is how I feel,
Speaker 1: and I just don't really want to deal with that.
Speaker 1: Like I'm super focused right now and I'm like healthy training,
Speaker 1: so I just don't want to deal with like any
Speaker 1: of that stuff. I am still so blown away by
Speaker 1: your reaction to this. But if it makes you feel better,
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm saying this. I will, I will
Speaker 1: go and I will get tested. Yeah, what are you
Speaker 1: gonna have to test you for? How? How do you
Speaker 1: even want to go out with her again? Patrick? I
Speaker 1: just want to prove it to her. I just want
Speaker 1: to prove it to her that me saving this man's
Speaker 1: life in no way put in harm's way or possibly
Speaker 1: gave me a disease. I just want to disprove that theory, Okay, Honestly,
Speaker 1: like I don't know. I think it's just still too
Speaker 1: soon and like something still come out. Some of that
Speaker 1: stuff can take months, you know, Jennifer, before it actually
Speaker 1: pops up on a test, because the problem is it's
Speaker 1: her feeling. It's not actual science or actual facts. Now
Speaker 1: that's just an opinion. I don't get that, Jennifer. Do
Speaker 1: you think every er doctor an ear nurse in this
Speaker 1: country has a disease because of people that they've helped? No,
Speaker 1: I just think that maybe Patrick dies. Well, Jennifer, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out on a second day with Patrick?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. We'll even pay for his health screening.
Speaker 1: I honestly, I'm sorry. Like Patrick, you seems super nice
Speaker 1: and like I was, like, I can tell you're making
Speaker 1: a lot of effort, even just like with the phone call.
Speaker 1: But like I just don't think I can dumb. I
Speaker 1: guess I can't really argue with that. You know, rejection
Speaker 1: is God's protection, so okay, really I thought it was Trojan,
Speaker 1: I'm well, I guess I should have used protection when
Speaker 1: I was saving. Yes, from now on for you, PORM CPR,
Speaker 1: always make sure you have some protection on you, Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1: In the Morning five nine two says I think you
Speaker 1: guys just spoke with the worst human on the planet,
Speaker 1: which is really saying something because we've talked to a
Speaker 1: lot of terrible human beings on the show Broken Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm talking about today is second date update.
Speaker 1: If you missed it, Patrick wanted to call this girl
Speaker 1: named Jennifer. They went out. He actually saved a dude's
Speaker 1: life on their date. He performed CPR on what we
Speaker 1: found out was a homeless man. Well, she didn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with him because she's worried about potential
Speaker 1: diseases that could have been transmitted to him from doing
Speaker 1: CPR on a homeless dude. I mean, I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people are arguing, like, well, you don't need
Speaker 1: to do mouth to mouth anymore, you know, it's actually compression,
Speaker 1: Like that's not the point. He used what tools he
Speaker 1: was taught to save a man's life, and then she
Speaker 1: didn't want to go out with him because of that.
Speaker 1: She said that she would have chosen to do nothing
Speaker 1: if she saw the guy pass out on the street.
Speaker 1: I feel like, no matter how he did CPR or
Speaker 1: revived the dude, she's just been like, oh, you touched
Speaker 1: a homeless Yes, she was awful and so sad, so
Speaker 1: she didn't want to go out with him again. And
Speaker 1: he actually offered to get tested in order to go
Speaker 1: out with her again, Like, I'll get tested just to
Speaker 1: prove to you that I don't have any disease is
Speaker 1: from the homeless dude. He still was like willing to
Speaker 1: go out with her again. Yeah, my god, I know.
Speaker 1: So who's more wrong in this situation? I can't figure
Speaker 1: it must be incredibly hot, yea. And everybody texting in
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two is talking about what
Speaker 1: a horrible person she is for not wanting to date
Speaker 1: him again after he helped save a homeless man's life,
Speaker 1: thinking that he must have some sort of disease. Now,
Speaker 1: I keep looking through our text where there's not one
Speaker 1: person that has also say that we still don't know
Speaker 1: that this man was homeless. She just thinks he's homeless
Speaker 1: because he had greasy hair. That was her easy, not
Speaker 1: that it would matter either way. He's a human being,
Speaker 1: he's a person. But she's so judgmental, which means if
Speaker 1: you have a bad hairty around this chick and pass out,
Speaker 1: then yeah, I'm gonna tell you a daily basis if
Speaker 1: those are her like bars for being homeless. Remember, if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second date update, all you
Speaker 1: have to do is email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. Even if
Speaker 1: they wish homeless people would just die because they're all
Speaker 1: kind of dirty, you can just email us and we'll
Speaker 1: call the person who we can't call you back.