WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Second Date Update: My Date Did CPR (3/26/2018)

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<v Speaker 1>second date of day. You know you must have really

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<v Speaker 1>screwed up on a date if you actually save somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>life and you still don't get a call back. What Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you could have done, Patrick, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened on Patrick's date. He said he actually

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<v Speaker 1>helped save somebody's life, but he's still not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back. Oh my god, what's up? Man? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you hey? How's it going? Dude? This is good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like an insane date. You know what. It was honestly

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<v Speaker 1>one of the craziest experiences I've ever had. Why you

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<v Speaker 1>said you saved somebody's life. Unless that happens to you

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, I would have to think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>crazy experience. No, No, I don't do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's I figured that you didn't. But thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for clarifying. Before we talk about what happened, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the girl you went out with a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name, Jennifer Jennifer. All right, and where did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Jennifer? We met on an app Actually, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty common. Was there anything that stood out to

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<v Speaker 1>you about her? I mean, she'd actually done a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of triathlons and I used to do some, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of got going back and forth about our

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<v Speaker 1>training routine and we just kind of hit it off

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<v Speaker 1>and we had some common ground. Okay, that's always nice.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives you something to talk about at least to

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<v Speaker 1>get things rolling. Yeah. Yeah, I mean she's actually really accomplished.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just, you know, I kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>impress her, but wanted to not act like I was

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<v Speaker 1>impressing her kind of thing, you know. Okay, so I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to the part where you save somebody's life,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm curious about that. But did you have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time with her? What did you guys do? She

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome. I made restaurant reservations at this super fancy place. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you want to do impress her if you're making

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<v Speaker 1>visions at places like that, I did, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>I had just gotten a promotion at work, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually kind of spoiling myself. I just had a

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<v Speaker 1>good feeling about this girl. So yeah, I popped down

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<v Speaker 1>for this okay, and it was going really well. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I had actually done some training beforehand that day, so

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<v Speaker 1>I had forgotten to eat in between my last training

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<v Speaker 1>and meeting with her because I was kind of running

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<v Speaker 1>over there and uh yeah, so by the time we

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<v Speaker 1>got to the restaurant, I was super hungry. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was doing a lot of the talking for me. Unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you angry? Were you? Were you like hungry and

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<v Speaker 1>upset with her the whole time until you ate? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I get, I get a little more zend out,

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<v Speaker 1>Like before the hungry happens. I was getting to the

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<v Speaker 1>angry okay, But you know when I get food in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me, sometimes that need just kind of takes over.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you do to your food? Well, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a very personal relationship with it. We'll say

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<v Speaker 1>what is right. Maybe that's the reason you're not getting

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<v Speaker 1>to call back. I mean, if you're doing what I

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<v Speaker 1>think it sounds to me like you did with your meal,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't call you back. It sounds like you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be doing that in public spaces. Whatever it is you

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<v Speaker 1>need only in private. I just need to chew my

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<v Speaker 1>food a certain amount of times before I swallow it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was I was taught at a very young age

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to chew your food or you won't

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<v Speaker 1>be savoring it. You count while you're chewing. It's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a rhythmic thing. Interesting. It's more of like a

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<v Speaker 1>like a one two three four one two three four? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where are you able? Are you able to multitask? And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, have conversation while your rhythm chewing is

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Absolutely, I've actually, um, we talked about the triathlons,

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've done it on the bike a few times. Oh, chewing,

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't know talking to There's a little gummies

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<v Speaker 1>that they give you for energy as you're going down

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<v Speaker 1>the like final stretch to run out of energy, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like eat these chewy gummy things. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually a perfect way to rhythmically pump with the

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<v Speaker 1>bike as you're chewing your food. So, okay, rhythmic pump

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<v Speaker 1>was not where I thought this conversation would go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what about the part where you saved somebody's life? How

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<v Speaker 1>did that happen? Right? So we pay the check, we

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<v Speaker 1>leave the restaurant and we see this commotion gathering about

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<v Speaker 1>half a block away from the restaurant on the sidewalk,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just kind of didn't think of anything of

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<v Speaker 1>it at first, but but this commotion started growing. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>was yelling help, so we walked over to see what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on, and there was a man on the

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<v Speaker 1>ground that had collapsed. Oh yeah, it was not breathing. Coincidentally,

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<v Speaker 1>at my work, we had I just got a promotion,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had new responsibilities and they trained me in CPR.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's crazy. I told you, this was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most insane experiences I've ever had. And so did

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<v Speaker 1>you actually do CPR or did you screech and run away?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't forget everything you learned. I did everything that I

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<v Speaker 1>learned the previous day. That's great. And it took a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times. I had to go through it. I

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<v Speaker 1>hate to say it, but I had to give this

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<v Speaker 1>guy mouth to mouth time. Yeah. I think it's all

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<v Speaker 1>right if you're saving somebody, I hope, I hope. So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you if you can't kiss a dude

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<v Speaker 1>when you're saving his life, when can you, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think, Oh my god, are you guys that

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<v Speaker 1>scared of mail on male touch that you consider it kissing?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it work? I was able to revive him and

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<v Speaker 1>when he opened his eyes. I mean, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember a more important thing that I have done

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<v Speaker 1>in my life that is really beautiful, that really is

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<v Speaker 1>I mean timing. I mean, it's just one of those

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<v Speaker 1>once in a lifetime things that I don't know we'll

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<v Speaker 1>ever repeat itself. So okay, and what's your date? Think

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<v Speaker 1>we had had a really great conversation in a really

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<v Speaker 1>great time, but this was a moment where we really

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<v Speaker 1>saw each other. That's deep. Yeah, sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>more of your moment than hers, though, because she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Either that or it was her moment

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<v Speaker 1>and she freaked her out. I wish I knew. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, come back and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update and see if we can figure out why she

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<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back. Okay, sounds good? All right, hang

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<v Speaker 1>onuoking Cuba in the morning. Update around in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update, and if you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick is on the phone and he wants to call Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out for dinner, but he ended up saving

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's life after the date. When they were leaving, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>a man had passed out outside the restaurant, and Patrick

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<v Speaker 1>performed CPR on the dude and then revived him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and Patrick this, you know, I was thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And if we find out that, like you set this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing up to look like a hero on your

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<v Speaker 1>first date, I gotta tell you, I would be so

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<v Speaker 1>proud of you. I'm so proud. I don't know about

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else, but I will be so proud of you

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<v Speaker 1>if you set that up. Yeah. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>can give myself that much credit. Yeah, really, Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>have you talked to her at all since your date? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've tried to reach out to her several times, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not too many, you know. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty crazy that she hasn't called you back, even

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<v Speaker 1>if she didn't like you that much. I mean, you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a pretty intense thing to share. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was a pretty special moment myself. Okay, Okay, that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>not the right way to describe a man almost dying,

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<v Speaker 1>but whatever, when he came back, that was the special moment. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna down her phone number right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can figure it out. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Jennifer. This is Jennifer. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show. Hi. How are you? I'm okay? Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have a good day. No, I'm just confused. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you confuse about? Like? Why are you guys calling? Oh? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can help you with that, Okay, if you want, please,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you today because one of our listeners sent

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<v Speaker 1>us an email about you, about me, m I got

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<v Speaker 1>even more confusing just now, didn't it? Yeah? It did well.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and end up not calling them after,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us and we'll get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and try to find out what happened. So Patrick

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and asked us to call you. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>he told us about your date, even the part where

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<v Speaker 1>you said he saved a dude's life. And he also

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<v Speaker 1>told us that he's trying to reach out to you

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<v Speaker 1>a few times but he's heard nothing. Yeah, this is crazy. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your date sounded crazy. It was crazy to say the least. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the CPR part was was insane. Okay, I guess the

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<v Speaker 1>question we all had is, how do you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and they actually end up

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<v Speaker 1>saving someone's life and then you don't call them back?

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<v Speaker 1>Was he that bad? Yeah? Wow, it makes his sound terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just I guess, like I think Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nice and obviously like him saving that life

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<v Speaker 1>was like really, I don't know what to say, like

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<v Speaker 1>heroic and great, but like I just I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it was because it's a match. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just no chemistry or what I mean. There was chemistry,

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<v Speaker 1>but like honestly, okay, I don't know. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be honest. I guess since we're doing this. Um, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was just driving home, like he ordered, he got

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<v Speaker 1>me an uber and like, you know, at first, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was like really great that he gave CPR

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<v Speaker 1>to the homeless person, and like, I mean, he saved

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<v Speaker 1>the life, so looked amazing. But I just like realized

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<v Speaker 1>that he like gave CPR to a homeless person, and

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<v Speaker 1>you think that they should all die whatever you like

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<v Speaker 1>the way you just said that made you sound totally

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<v Speaker 1>and completely evil, heartless. I'm not sure which Yeah, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Bill, That's not what I meant. He revived

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<v Speaker 1>a homeless person and they're a scourge on our city

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know why he would do that. No, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what I meant was that, like, I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of homeless people probably have like some diseases

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<v Speaker 1>and what. Yeah, And I just kind of felt like

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<v Speaker 1>if he, you know, basically kissed a homeless person, that

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<v Speaker 1>like he probably got something. And I just like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, are you freaking kidding me? So you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he's dirty? Now? What is your problem? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know what to say. Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just being honest. I just feel like you probably have

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<v Speaker 1>something and I didn't want to I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Okay, Okay, okay, you sound like one the

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<v Speaker 1>least medical person ever. Okay. And two how that is?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's are so many like maybes what ifs?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's it's been enough, I guess for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what do you think he has? I

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea. I would start with TV. I would

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<v Speaker 1>start with TV and then I would work back from there.

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<v Speaker 1>At least thetis like a B or C. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>they might even have a new one who knows. Hold up,

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<v Speaker 1>if if he hadn't been there, and you walked out

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<v Speaker 1>and you saw a man unresponsive on the street, and

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<v Speaker 1>you judged him as homeless, even though you'd actually probably

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know that he's technically home or not, you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't save them for fear of getting a disease. I

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<v Speaker 1>I in that situation, I don't think that I would

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<v Speaker 1>like be able to just jump right in and like

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<v Speaker 1>save a light. But so I just think in general

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<v Speaker 1>like I would be too. I don't I wouldn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to do that, and like I so I just

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<v Speaker 1>think that at that point, Okay, the bottom line is

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you didn't call him back is you

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<v Speaker 1>think he might have contracted something from a homeless man. Wow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how many times I've heard that after

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<v Speaker 1>a day, There's been a lot of reasons that I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten a call back, Yeason, Jennifer, I do need

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<v Speaker 1>to let you know that Patrick is on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this conversation wants to talk to you, though, Um, okay, Patrick, Yeah, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I don't think I know what to say. Yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just you know what I mean, I gotta just say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm in I'm in a I'm just I'm in shock.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that that you that you would think

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<v Speaker 1>that are you liking nice shock as I'm in like

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<v Speaker 1>furious shock over here? I don't know, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm actually just kind of confused because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>from your profile and from the conversations we had before

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<v Speaker 1>and during our date, I mean, you seem like a

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<v Speaker 1>really educated young lady, and I wow, I'm just confused.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just confused that you would think that I could

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<v Speaker 1>contracted the leaves from a brief encounter with a man's mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, he splaying like that. Who knows right?

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<v Speaker 1>I had to give him mouth to mouth. He was

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<v Speaker 1>not responding to the initial CPR that I was giving him,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had to do what I did. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get it, and I think that again, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like very heroic and amazing. You should have done it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that I can. I am allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>have my own feelings about it. Afterwards, that guy looked

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<v Speaker 1>like he had a disease, but you can't. You but

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<v Speaker 1>what made him look like he had a disease? Give

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<v Speaker 1>us some details. I'm just like his hair was just

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<v Speaker 1>like so like tangled tangled hair disease. So no, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he pretty much just looked like a hipster to me, Jennifer,

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<v Speaker 1>yeahs and hipster like you're kissing dude you meet on

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<v Speaker 1>apps you think that they don't have disease. They have

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<v Speaker 1>is just as much chance for disease as a homeless

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the street. I mean, now, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like I don't want to debate about this

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<v Speaker 1>for forever. Like I just this is how I feel,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't really want to deal with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm super focused right now and I'm like healthy training,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just don't want to deal with like any

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff. I am still so blown away by

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<v Speaker 1>your reaction to this. But if it makes you feel better,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe I'm saying this. I will, I will

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<v Speaker 1>go and I will get tested. Yeah, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to test you for? How? How do you

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<v Speaker 1>even want to go out with her again? Patrick? I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to prove it to her. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to prove it to her that me saving this man's

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<v Speaker 1>life in no way put in harm's way or possibly

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a disease. I just want to disprove that theory, Okay, Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know. I think it's just still too

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<v Speaker 1>soon and like something still come out. Some of that

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<v Speaker 1>stuff can take months, you know, Jennifer, before it actually

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<v Speaker 1>pops up on a test, because the problem is it's

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<v Speaker 1>her feeling. It's not actual science or actual facts. Now

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<v Speaker 1>that's just an opinion. I don't get that, Jennifer. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think every er doctor an ear nurse in this

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<v Speaker 1>country has a disease because of people that they've helped? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that maybe Patrick dies. Well, Jennifer, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out on a second day with Patrick?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it. We'll even pay for his health screening.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly, I'm sorry. Like Patrick, you seems super nice

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<v Speaker 1>and like I was, like, I can tell you're making

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of effort, even just like with the phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I just don't think I can dumb. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I can't really argue with that. You know, rejection

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<v Speaker 1>is God's protection, so okay, really I thought it was Trojan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm well, I guess I should have used protection when

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<v Speaker 1>I was saving. Yes, from now on for you, PORM CPR,

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<v Speaker 1>always make sure you have some protection on you, Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>In the Morning five nine two says I think you

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<v Speaker 1>guys just spoke with the worst human on the planet,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really saying something because we've talked to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of terrible human beings on the show Broken Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm talking about today is second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>If you missed it, Patrick wanted to call this girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Jennifer. They went out. He actually saved a dude's

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<v Speaker 1>life on their date. He performed CPR on what we

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<v Speaker 1>found out was a homeless man. Well, she didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with him because she's worried about potential

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<v Speaker 1>diseases that could have been transmitted to him from doing

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<v Speaker 1>CPR on a homeless dude. I mean, I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are arguing, like, well, you don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to do mouth to mouth anymore, you know, it's actually compression,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's not the point. He used what tools he

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<v Speaker 1>was taught to save a man's life, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go out with him because of that.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that she would have chosen to do nothing

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<v Speaker 1>if she saw the guy pass out on the street.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, no matter how he did CPR or

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<v Speaker 1>revived the dude, she's just been like, oh, you touched

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<v Speaker 1>a homeless Yes, she was awful and so sad, so

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't want to go out with him again. And

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<v Speaker 1>he actually offered to get tested in order to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again, Like, I'll get tested just to

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<v Speaker 1>prove to you that I don't have any disease is

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<v Speaker 1>from the homeless dude. He still was like willing to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again. Yeah, my god, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So who's more wrong in this situation? I can't figure

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<v Speaker 1>it must be incredibly hot, yea. And everybody texting in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two is talking about what

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<v Speaker 1>a horrible person she is for not wanting to date

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<v Speaker 1>him again after he helped save a homeless man's life,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that he must have some sort of disease. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I keep looking through our text where there's not one

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<v Speaker 1>person that has also say that we still don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that this man was homeless. She just thinks he's homeless

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<v Speaker 1>because he had greasy hair. That was her easy, not

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<v Speaker 1>that it would matter either way. He's a human being,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a person. But she's so judgmental, which means if

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<v Speaker 1>you have a bad hairty around this chick and pass out,

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, I'm gonna tell you a daily basis if

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<v Speaker 1>those are her like bars for being homeless. Remember, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second date update, all you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back. Even if

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<v Speaker 1>they wish homeless people would just die because they're all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dirty, you can just email us and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who we can't call you back.