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Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Nick,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Welcome to the program. Good morning, Wow, Nick,

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Speaker 2: you already sound just trust it's We've said this before,

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Speaker 2: but it's always wild to me that we check in

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Speaker 2: with people and they're I'm like, you know, you think

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Speaker 2: you're being ghosted. So you call the show and I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 2: how you doing it? And they're like, I'm great, but

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Speaker 2: Nick doesn't sound great? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: No? Yeah, I appreciate me on It's uh So I

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Speaker 3: went on a date with this girl that I had

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Speaker 3: been on hinge and I invited out to dinner and

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Speaker 3: she I mean, she was like perfect, and when I

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Speaker 3: met her in person, she was even like way hotter

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Speaker 3: than I had seen online, which was you know, which

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Speaker 3: is she's great, but it made me really nervous and

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Speaker 3: I really want to see her again. I thought, I

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Speaker 3: thought the dinner went great, but uh, she's she's never

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Speaker 3: called me back, okay, and she won't respond to I

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Speaker 3: tax either or anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's exciting when when you're looking forward

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Speaker 2: to meeting someone because you're attracted to them on the app.

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Speaker 1: And let's face it, I said, the.

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Speaker 2: Apps are all about it's all about hot or not

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Speaker 2: until you meet in person and then you got to

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Speaker 2: engage the chemistry. But then you show up to this

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Speaker 2: date and she's hotter than you already thought she was. Yeah, Like,

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Speaker 2: how don't mean to make this worse. I don't mean

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Speaker 2: to reb this. I really you're being ghosted, as I've said,

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Speaker 2: but I don't. I don't mean to, you know, but

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Speaker 2: but I mean, you know, sometimes it goes the other way.

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Speaker 2: We've heard that too, where like the pictures are old

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Speaker 2: or you know they've been additated or whatever. So you

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Speaker 2: show up and she's everything you want her to be

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Speaker 2: and more, and you were excited about where this was going,

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Speaker 2: except you haven't heard from her, and you assume you've

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Speaker 2: reached out since the day tried to plan another one.

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Speaker 1: She's not responding. Oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well look, let's seef we can figure this out.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call Marina, the woman that you met on Hinge,

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Speaker 2: in just a second. We're gonna ask these questions on

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Speaker 2: your behalf, and the hope is always is that we

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Speaker 2: can straighten this out, set you guys up on a

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Speaker 2: second date, and pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, Thank you, I really appreciate it. Hey, Nick, Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: welcome man. Let's call Marina. You met on Hinge. You

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Speaker 1: were really attracted to her.

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Speaker 2: She was better looking in person than you expected her

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Speaker 2: hot based on the picture. She was hotter in person.

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Speaker 2: You had a great night with her, except you haven't

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Speaker 2: heard from her since the date. You've reached out, You've

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Speaker 2: tried to plan something. She's not responding. You want to

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Speaker 2: know why? Yeah, yeah, no, you sound very sad about this.

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Speaker 2: Let's get at the bottom of this and hope for

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Speaker 2: the best. Good luck, Nick, Hello, Hi, is this Marina? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I hey Marina, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show, and

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Speaker 2: I do have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second, would you mind?

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Speaker 4: I guess fine.

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Speaker 2: Well, I know it's kind of strange, but thank you

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Speaker 2: for taking a call. We're calling on me haveing a

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Speaker 2: dude named Nick. He says that he met you on

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Speaker 2: Hinge and you guys recently went out to dinner. I

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Speaker 2: hope you remember this guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, he had nice things to say about you.

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Speaker 2: We just talked to him, except he's kind of sad

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Speaker 1: So what's going on.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we went out to dinner and he said

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Speaker 4: some really bizarre things like, Okay, so when we first

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Speaker 4: that breadstick is huge? Like we thrown like huge breadsticks

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Speaker 2: Stuff because I want to know where they serve the

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Speaker 2: I mean, where could I get me a freaking if?

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, there is no such thing

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Speaker 2: as a breadstick that's too big? In my opinion, I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, give me some butter.

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Speaker 2: Not the point though, so he said to you, He

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, a breadstick, so like and fine, like he

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Speaker 4: he wasn't laughing, which is really weird. But then later

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Speaker 4: Thought, like, first of all, like that's a lot for

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Speaker 4: Like I can't believe I have to say this on

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Speaker 5: I didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 4: It was like the whole it was like a beam

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Speaker 2: A breadstick makes himself gone. I mean, then again, a

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Speaker 2: breadstick oftentimes would make most people self conscious. But then again,

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Speaker 2: I'm really not thinking about that when the breadsticks come

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Speaker 2: So this is obviously something that weighs on him because

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Speaker 2: some sort of yeah did you order a canoli? Got forbidden?

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Speaker 1: Don't you dare? So wow?

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Speaker 2: So you struck a chord with this guy like he

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Speaker 5: I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 4: What I did to make a build subconscious about himself

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Speaker 4: because we were at a restaurant and nothing was happening

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Speaker 1: It was a strange.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is that is a very strange thing. And

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Speaker 2: not you know, not putting your best foot forward. No, no,

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Speaker 2: pun intended, not a foot but Nick, I forgot to

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Speaker 2: mention the nick is here. Marina, I'm sorry, I'm very forgetful.

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Speaker 2: I get caught up in the story and oh, Nick,

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Speaker 2: why why would we go there?

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Speaker 1: Right? Like it didn't take but a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: The bread comes, like within five minutes, Like why are

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Speaker 2: we already reflecting on our you know, perceived inadequacies, Like oh,

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Speaker 2: like come on, you know, I'm sorry you feel this way,

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Speaker 2: but like if you know, that's not really selling ourselves,

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 6: And Marina A, yeah, I'm just yeah, I guess, but

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Speaker 6: I kind of feel like isn't it normal, like you know,

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Speaker 2: Normal within five minutes in the first date to let

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Speaker 1: Pack right right right? No? No, no no.

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Speaker 2: And I think there are other ways that I think

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Speaker 2: you could have made up for it, like if she

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Speaker 2: liked you, I think there are ways you can make

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Speaker 2: up for these kind of things.

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Speaker 1: So maybe or you know, if it what.

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Speaker 5: I'm just the way know you to tell us the way?

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like I don't know. There's nothing

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Speaker 2: good that's going to come from you immediately telling someone

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Speaker 2: that you feel inadequate about a part of your body,

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Speaker 2: because then it automatically is going to lead to more

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Speaker 2: attention to that thing. Right, So if you are a

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Speaker 2: to it yourself, Like why would you do that?

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Speaker 1: Why would you shoot yourself in the foot in that way?

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Speaker 3: I oh, no, I I figure I address it and

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Speaker 3: not you know, it's just like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: No, that's no. Let her be surprised.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate the openness, what but not right away exactly

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Speaker 7: because if that's something that I really care about, not

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Speaker 2: Okay, But let me see, Mareena, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 2: So let's say you really liked Nick and it did

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Speaker 2: get to the phase where you know that is exposed,

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Speaker 2: you know, contenually, and that's what you wanted. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would imagine that there's a range that's acceptable, right,

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Speaker 2: And it would probably depend we're being honest, it would

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Speaker 2: it's like more of a big picture thing where like

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Speaker 2: let's see what you can do with it kind of thing,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like, am I right? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I just like I don't know. I just I

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Speaker 4: think part of it. And also like I don't think

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Speaker 4: it's like normal, Like I don't think a lot of

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Speaker 2: Just don't know not to compare ourselves to it, to

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Speaker 2: bring it up immediately, you know, within five minutes to

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Speaker 4: A first date. But yes, like if once you like

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Speaker 4: get into that stage, like no, you see where you go.

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Speaker 4: But like I don't know, I just feel like weird.

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Speaker 5: About I feel bad for him, like I actually knew, But.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we can't be crying about our inadequacies within

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Speaker 2: five minutes of a day, Like we just can't.

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Speaker 5: Like that hurt before you could tell like keep okay.

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Speaker 1: But we gotta hold it together. We got we got

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Speaker 1: work before.

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Speaker 2: I don't care if it's your ex or you're whatever,

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Speaker 2: you're Feka lang or whatever it is, like you can't

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Speaker 2: have small hands or I don't know what, you can't

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Speaker 2: just like start crying on a date. And I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: for you, Nick, that you feel this way, and I'm

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Speaker 2: hoping maybe you're just being ultra self critical, but like,

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Speaker 2: I think that just shows weakness off off the top,

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Speaker 2: and I don't think that's always It's not going to

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Speaker 1: Oh God, he about to cry right now?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Nick, don't cry, don't cry. Everything's fine, it's good.

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Speaker 2: No breadsticks are present, everything is good. No one's comparing

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Speaker 1: It's all about the motion.

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Speaker 2: H Well, see, that's kind of what I was saying,

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Speaker 2: kicking you're trying to disagree with me, was that I

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Speaker 2: think I think. I know I said that earlier, you know,

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Speaker 2: and you said to me, you were like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: want to I want to hear the ways. And what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying is I feel like there are people out

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Speaker 2: and I think there are people that have the tools

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Speaker 2: feel like, you know, you could have been okay, Nick,

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Speaker 2: you just we just don't need to be calling attention

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Speaker 2: to it is all I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: I can lead with that, He says. I might not

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Speaker 5: look like the breadstick, but I can do this and this.

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Speaker 1: Who is.

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Speaker 2: The breadsticks alone?

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Speaker 1: They were waiting at the dinner. Let me get mushrooms,

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Speaker 1: Let me get through the salad first.

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Speaker 5: I mean, transparency's keys.

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Speaker 2: No, it's sometimes there is such a thing as too transparent.

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Speaker 1: This man was s through.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Look, Marinea, I'm gonna ask the question.

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Speaker 1: He sounds like a nice guy.

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Speaker 2: He's sad, he's really broken up a body he liked you.

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Speaker 2: Would you consider giving him another chance, maybe seeing what

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Speaker 2: he has to offer. I mean, he's called so much

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Speaker 2: the focus.

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Speaker 1: But maybe we give another shot.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I know he's a nice guy. I

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Speaker 4: just like it was just too much for me on

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Speaker 4: that first date.

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Speaker 1: Not enough.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, I'm sorry it was too much.

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Speaker 2: That's a weird way to end it. Nick, Look, you

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Speaker 2: seem like a nice guy. My advice to you, not

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Speaker 2: that you asked for it, but maybe maybe we within

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Speaker 2: Maybe never do we bring that up. We just sort

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Speaker 2: of let things happen and see what happens from there,

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Speaker 2: because maybe you're a very talented guy, Nick, and this

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Speaker 2: never would.

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Speaker 1: Have been an issue.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, I like, I mean, I like to

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Speaker 3: believe it.

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Speaker 2: There you go, There you go. That's so simple. There perfect, Marina.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for taking a call. Good luck to you, Nick,

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Speaker 2: good luck as well.

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Speaker 4: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: Thanks,